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FULL SHOW: Grandparents Babysitting, Strawberry Letter: I Love Everything Except That - 6.11.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all, but.
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  Speaker 1: All at all, so.
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  Speaker 3: Given them all.
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  Speaker 4: Black Alli busing booze.
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  Speaker 5: Listening to.
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  Speaker 2: Joy Yeah, Joy.
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  Speaker 5: Show. You know you love you gotta turn well, I.
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  Speaker 3: Got to turn them out, turn.
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  Speaker 2: You probably got to turn the mouth.
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  Speaker 6: Turn out, turn the money up. Looking come me, come
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  Speaker 6: out your thin, I sure will.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning everybody. If y'all listening to the voice, come
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  Speaker 7: on dig me now. One of them is Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 7: got a radio show. Yeah, man boy, God has been
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  Speaker 7: good to me. Man, I can't really count at all.
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  Speaker 7: You can't either, You know, it's all in perspective. You
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  Speaker 7: really can't count all that God has done for you
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  Speaker 7: if you look at every little thing. It's unbelievable the
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  Speaker 7: things He's done for us. How many times, you know,
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  Speaker 7: we got through something without even talking to him about it.
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  Speaker 7: He just he just blessed us with it. How many
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  Speaker 7: you know? It's just it's so much that the fact
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  Speaker 7: that you wake up in the morning, the fact that
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  Speaker 7: you still have a place to stay, the fact that
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  Speaker 7: you know may be struggling out here, but guess what,
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  Speaker 7: you still going to work. You know you live in
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  Speaker 7: check to check. But you're making it all. You got
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  Speaker 7: all the plates spinning. You know, it's hard. You got
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  Speaker 7: a lot of plate spinning, but you keep him up
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  Speaker 7: there somemer every now and there in one break, but
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  Speaker 7: he put two more back up there to look a
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  Speaker 7: little bit better, and you got to get to spending
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  Speaker 7: them so it all works. And then you got a
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  Speaker 7: lot of people who just can't seem to mentally put
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  Speaker 7: it together as to you know, why their life isn't
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  Speaker 7: in a position that they wanted to be. We talk
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  Speaker 7: about this oftentimes, but I don't want to try another
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  Speaker 7: angle with you to day.
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  Speaker 2: You know, maybe it's you. Have you ever thought about that?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's you.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe it's no external force that's at fault, like you
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  Speaker 7: keep making the excuse to be. You know, so many
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  Speaker 7: people out here, Well, if this hadn't ha done this,
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  Speaker 7: if he hadn't have done that, if she hadn't have
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  Speaker 7: done that, I would have been further along. I wasted
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  Speaker 7: all my time, my years with this man, and he
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  Speaker 7: did this, and I could have been here, and I
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  Speaker 7: could have been there, and this woman she did this
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  Speaker 7: to mean, if she hadn't have done that, I could
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  Speaker 7: have been here and I could have been there.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's you.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe it's not really that external force that you keep
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  Speaker 7: making it out to be. See, I've done this to
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  Speaker 7: myself before. Once again, I'm talking to you about something
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  Speaker 7: I know about. I've done this to myself before. I've
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  Speaker 7: had the reason I wasn't where I wanted to be.
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  Speaker 7: I had it figured out as some external force. I
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  Speaker 7: had worked it out in my mind. Clearly it wasn't
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  Speaker 7: me because of so and so, or if this hadn't happen,
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  Speaker 7: and if they hadn't have done this, I would have
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  Speaker 7: been further along up the road.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I was saying. But hold on, man, boy
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  Speaker 2: learned a valuable lesson. Man.
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  Speaker 7: See, if you don't ever let it go, it's gonna
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  Speaker 7: be hard for you to go. If you don't ever
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  Speaker 7: let it go, it's gonna be hard for you to go.
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  Speaker 7: I was listening to Bishop td Jake's one day and
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  Speaker 7: I heard him say, you can't drive your car if
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  Speaker 7: you gonna keep looking in the rear view mirror. You
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  Speaker 7: go outside and try that. Try to drive your car,
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  Speaker 7: but keep your eye in the rear view mirror. All
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  Speaker 7: you looking at is where you're being all you're looking
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  Speaker 7: at in that rear view mirror is where you passed
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  Speaker 7: or should have passed, something you should have moved on from.
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  Speaker 7: All you're doing is looking in that rear view mirror
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  Speaker 7: at what happened back now.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't stop.
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  Speaker 7: Looking in the rear view mirror, you're gonna crash your
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  Speaker 7: car over and over and over again.
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  Speaker 2: All you got to slow it down so bad in
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  Speaker 2: order for you to keep looking in that rear view mirror.
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  Speaker 7: If you don't learn to let it go, it's gonna
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  Speaker 7: be hard for you to go forward because you keep
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  Speaker 7: reviewing the past.
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  Speaker 2: The past is the past, and I know it's hard. Man.
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  Speaker 7: I watched a show and this lady said, well, I
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  Speaker 7: just can't ever forgive them for that, or guess what,
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  Speaker 7: Guess what.
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  Speaker 2: God may have already forgiven that person. That person may be.
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  Speaker 7: Extremely remorseful, could have gone to God and gotten forgiveness
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  Speaker 7: for it years ago. But you you sit here and
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  Speaker 7: you keep hanging on to the back. I can't ever
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  Speaker 7: forgive that. Then I heard Bishop Jakes come on the
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  Speaker 7: show one time and say something that really really struck home.
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  Speaker 7: You keep drinking the poison, waiting on your enemy to die.
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  Speaker 2: He said that.
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  Speaker 7: I just shook my head and went, wow, you drinking
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  Speaker 7: the poison. Waiting on your enemy to die. Revenge is
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  Speaker 7: poisoned to you. You know, if hatred is poison to you. Unforgivingness,
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  Speaker 7: when you won't forgive a person, that person could be
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  Speaker 7: going on with they life made the right with God.
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  Speaker 7: Don't know how you feeling they skipping through life. Now
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  Speaker 7: you make adjustments every time you see them. And it
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  Speaker 7: takes energy. Man, it takes so much energy to hate.
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  Speaker 7: It takes so much energy not to forgive to Now
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  Speaker 7: they come in the room. You got to avoid them.
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  Speaker 7: Stay over here, Oh here they come. Now you got
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  Speaker 7: to make a situation over here. They come into the house,
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  Speaker 7: this family reunion. Oh here they come. Or where they're
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  Speaker 7: gonna be in the basement. I'm going to be on
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  Speaker 7: the third floor. I want to go out here and
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  Speaker 7: get some barbecue. She out there at the barbecue staying,
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  Speaker 7: Oh lord, I don't want a barbecue. I just eat
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  Speaker 7: to take a salad. People man take themselves all out
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  Speaker 7: of position, trying to make adjustments, when if you it
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  Speaker 7: would simplify your life, if you.
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  Speaker 2: Would let just let it go.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe you ain't where you need to be because of
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  Speaker 7: them external forces altogether. Maybe you not where you need
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  Speaker 7: to because of you, cause you won't let it go,
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  Speaker 7: you won't move forward. Look at this, ladies, Let's say
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  Speaker 7: you've been in a situation with a man for years.
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  Speaker 7: It didn't work out. For whatever the reason, it just
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  Speaker 7: didn't work out. I got what you say he did.
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  Speaker 7: I got what he did, I got he all of that, YadA,
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  Speaker 7: YadA YadA. When you get through, did not God get
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  Speaker 7: you through it? Did not he allow you to survive it.
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  Speaker 7: I got you, got some cuts on you, I got
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  Speaker 7: you been a little bit bruised. But did he not
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  Speaker 7: get you through it? So, now that he's freed you
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  Speaker 7: from it, now he done went on. He got a
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  Speaker 7: whole nother family over there somewhere. Now, he trying to
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  Speaker 7: make it right because maybe he learned the mistake he made,
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  Speaker 7: and now he trying to be a better man. He
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  Speaker 7: just trying to get it right now. But you sitting
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  Speaker 7: there holding on to it, you drinking the poison, waiting
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  Speaker 7: on your enemy to die. So now, instead of you
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  Speaker 7: enjoying the blessing of finally being free from a situation
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  Speaker 7: that was not healthy for you, you create an even
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  Speaker 7: more unhealthy situation in your mind, by hating, by having
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  Speaker 7: revengeful thoughts, by hoping he fall on his face. Maybe
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  Speaker 7: you even doing something to the other situation to make
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  Speaker 7: sure they struggle. Oh man, you drinking the poison, waiting
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  Speaker 7: on your enemy to die. Maybe you ain't where you
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  Speaker 7: ought to be in life, not because of your external forces,
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  Speaker 7: but maybe it is you. If you don't let it go,
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  Speaker 7: it's gonna be hard for you to go. You can't
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  Speaker 7: keep driving your car looking in the rear view mirror.
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  Speaker 7: Come on, man, Forgiveness is not for the other person.
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  Speaker 7: Forgiveness is for you.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, everybody within listening.
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  Speaker 2: Rage. If you've ever been a player.
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  Speaker 7: If you've ever considered all bull riding for example, something
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  Speaker 7: like that. Yeah, if you've ever somebody invited you skydiving
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  Speaker 7: and you went in. Please, These are the people I'm
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  Speaker 7: talking to right now. People that I love, People that
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  Speaker 7: don't do ignorance stuff for no reason, Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 7: person I've ever talked to. I'm talking to you today
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  Speaker 7: with common sense. Hey, Steve Harvey on the show Gratitude Man,
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  Speaker 7: Just gratitude today. I am so grateful today because God
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  Speaker 7: keeps me even in spite of myself. Steve harton Martin Show,
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  Speaker 7: Shirley call Real Mississippi Monica Junior to come back kid
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  Speaker 7: and the legend that he is. Nephew, Tommy Junior, what's
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  Speaker 7: happening with you today?
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  Speaker 8: Man?
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  Speaker 3: What's going on? I want to ask you something, man,
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  Speaker 3: and I just want to get a serious take from
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  Speaker 3: you on this.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 10: Have you ever had a pressure to compromise your integrity
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  Speaker 10: for some money? And how'd you handle it?
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  Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, I can answer that.
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  Speaker 7: I think everybody's been at one point, especially in this
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  Speaker 7: business or in life, somewhere along your way or your
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  Speaker 7: job even somebody has been presented with an opportunity that
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  Speaker 7: didn't fit their character. I guess I think it's better
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  Speaker 7: to put it that way, because you know, some people
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  Speaker 7: haven't been offered money to go do this. Let me
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  Speaker 7: just try to help you, Junior. I've done everything I've
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  Speaker 7: seen everything.
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  Speaker 1: That's your answer.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a answer.
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  Speaker 7: I just thank the Lord that the dollar amount wasn't higher.
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  Speaker 7: That's all I can tell you.
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  Speaker 5: I just.
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  Speaker 7: That's the answer I wanted show glad that dollar amount
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  Speaker 7: was not higher. Oh you know, man, I've managed. The
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  Speaker 7: one thing I'm proud of, and I praise God for it.
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  Speaker 2: I really really do.
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  Speaker 7: Is He's made me a man of character and I
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  Speaker 7: will not I will not change my character for a price.
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  Speaker 7: My character, my word is not for sale, and I
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  Speaker 7: just won't do it, man, because at the end of
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  Speaker 7: the day, when the money is spent, you have to
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  Speaker 7: sit there and live with yourself. And I'm very grateful
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  Speaker 7: to God to be able to say that I've never
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  Speaker 7: sacrificed my character for money, or sacrifice my character and
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  Speaker 7: who I was raised to be by my parents for
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  Speaker 7: a position. I've just never done it. Man, I'm really
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  Speaker 7: really proud of that. But I'm proud of it because
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  Speaker 7: I'm grateful because God has had the mangels sitting on
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  Speaker 7: my shoulders going no, you're not, No, you're not a devil.
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  Speaker 2: Been over there, do it? Do it? Being the mangers
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  Speaker 2: just go your mama is watching. Yeah, So no, I've
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  Speaker 2: been out in hell.
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, good question, good answer. Thank you guys.
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  Speaker 8: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 8: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back
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  Speaker 8: right after this.
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  Speaker 8: It is time now for the nephew to run that
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  Speaker 8: prank back. Nephew, what you got for us today?
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  Speaker 2: What let's run it? Let's run it.
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  Speaker 9: We're going to the retirement home. Yeah, this is what
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  Speaker 9: you call draw draws at the retire I could have
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  Speaker 9: done false teeth at the retirement home. I could have
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  Speaker 9: done wheelchairs and walkers at the retirement I could have
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  Speaker 9: done all that, but it's walkers. But see why I
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  Speaker 9: ain't do it. See what I'm saying, God, dang stick
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  Speaker 9: with stick with what you can pronounce. I went with
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  Speaker 9: draws draws at the retirement Okay, and it works for me.
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  Speaker 9: So don't don't don't knock your teeth fat Okay. If
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  Speaker 9: you ain't never spoke on draws, this ain't the place
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  Speaker 9: for you. I know how to speak on draw draws. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 9: and there's a lot of no draws at the retirement home.
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  Speaker 9: There's a lot of things going on down there. Anyway,
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  Speaker 9: don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna prank them.
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  Speaker 9: Let's get it, cat on. This is draws at the
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  Speaker 9: retirement home. Hello, yo oh yeah, it was just this
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  Speaker 9: is attorney David.
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  Speaker 5: Uh huh, all right, this is Anthony.
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  Speaker 2: I was giving you a call. You used to work
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  Speaker 2: at the uh Senior Center? Am I right?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 9: Okay, we got a bit of a problem here. Uh
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  Speaker 9: are you familiar with miss Yes, yes, older lady. That
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  Speaker 9: that our Caucasian lady that's here at the center. Yes, okay,
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  Speaker 9: Now we got a problem. I know you retired in
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  Speaker 9: uh in December, but uh there's cleaning out her room,
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  Speaker 9: cleaning up her room. There's been some uh men's underwear
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  Speaker 9: found here and she's saying that it's yours.
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  Speaker 12: Well, then you got a problem cause I don't know
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  Speaker 12: where the lady live at.
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  Speaker 2: No here here at the center, sir. They're claiming that
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  Speaker 2: then at.
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  Speaker 12: The center you find the ladies and men underwear city
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  Speaker 12: with man or whoever and whatever and whatever. Now, I
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  Speaker 12: don't waste my time with that. If you're gonna call somebody,
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  Speaker 12: call somebody, jitter state now, but don't waste my time
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  Speaker 12: with you.
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  Speaker 2: Have a nice d Wait just a minute, sir. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to have to I don't want to have
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  Speaker 2: to get officials.
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  Speaker 9: To come down there. Yes, sir, mister, just listen. I
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  Speaker 9: don't want, I want, I want to try to do
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  Speaker 9: this without your wife finding out. But we need I
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  Speaker 9: got a few questions I need to ask.
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  Speaker 12: You tell your wife.
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  Speaker 5: Man, was my time?
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  Speaker 2: Come on call it back though.
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  Speaker 13: Hey, this is sorry. Please enjoy the music until I
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  Speaker 13: answer your.
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  Speaker 2: Hello. Dors is telling poor he didn't cuss up, but
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  Speaker 2: he keeps hanging up. So so I need I need
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  Speaker 2: you to help me out. I want you to call
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  Speaker 2: from your phone uh huh and put us on three
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  Speaker 2: way and say, hey, you need to talk to these people.
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  Speaker 14: Okay, Hello, Hello, this is Tony's right here. I told
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  Speaker 14: him about the situation, and so I just want him
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  Speaker 14: to clear it up so you can stop calling him.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, this is an attorney, David. Is he available?
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  Speaker 2: I can speak with him?
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  Speaker 14: Sure, Hold on the second David.
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  Speaker 9: Hello, Hello, mister uh Tony Anthony. Could you possibly tell
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  Speaker 9: me what's going on? Why we would find your your
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  Speaker 9: underwear and miss is in her room?
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  Speaker 5: On the worst, I'm sorry, sir, actually on the worst.
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  Speaker 2: Sir, I don't I didn't work here. The younger the
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  Speaker 2: lady is saying that it's actually your underwear that's been
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  Speaker 2: in her room here at the retirement home.
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  Speaker 5: You got the room. This is a bad time to
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  Speaker 5: be messing with me. And where is you at anyway, sir?
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  Speaker 2: I'm down here at my office right now. Do you
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  Speaker 2: need to come and see me?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah? I need to come see you.
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  Speaker 2: What seems to be the situation.
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  Speaker 9: Because I'm getting I'm getting a hostile You're signing very
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  Speaker 9: hostile right now, sir.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I'm a hostile individual.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, called me something.
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  Speaker 5: Got some old lady. You gonna call me by somebody?
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  Speaker 5: Call me something about when you see yo.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, sir, you're gonna watch your tone and you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: talk to me like you got something.
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  Speaker 5: Damn, I ain't got to watch nothing. I'm an old man.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't got to do but die. I don't even
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  Speaker 5: pay tax. What you want. You want to do something,
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  Speaker 5: you go ahead and only do it, but don't be
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  Speaker 5: calling my noma no more.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I want to tell you this, sir. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: this is Nephew Timing from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: You have been prank phone call by your girl that's
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  Speaker 2: standing right there with your daughters.
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  Speaker 5: You know what, I would have kicked both of y'alls.
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  Speaker 5: Why you do that?
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  Speaker 3: Tom?
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  Speaker 12: What's wrong with you?
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  Speaker 5: Man? Man? Man? You know this ain't no good time
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  Speaker 5: for me.
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  Speaker 6: Man, Man, I don't have time.
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  Speaker 5: Man, you messing with man? Man.
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  Speaker 2: I'm i'm I'm, I'm in the studio. I'm in New
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  Speaker 2: York City, Man.
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  Speaker 5: Old New York. Well, you get a chance when you're
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  Speaker 5: going back your field and you stop through tripping. Let
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  Speaker 5: me a.
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  Speaker 12: Put your picture on your.
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  Speaker 5: So she wouldn't know what you look like next time
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: I see it. Oh man, you got But you know
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: this woman, you got the wrong one. You should have
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: had somebody else.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: Ain't gonna work.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: You couldn't get that off. She's crazy as hell. Hey,
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: but I got something, Miss Darrs.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Hey, I gotta ask you one more thing, mister Anthony,
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: what is the baddest radio show in the land?
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: Man? You know what it is?
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: All right? Man, come on now and give the prank
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: or something.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, now, play too much?
• 20:46
  Speaker 9: You have no limits. You go as far as you
• 20:49
  Speaker 9: can go. When you see the line, you go as
• 20:51
  Speaker 9: fall with the line as you can What what what
• 20:55
  Speaker 9: was y'all talking about? Land break with with with integrity?
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: I did? I do it with integrity?
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: Do it?
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Steve talked at the last break.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Prank with integrity? You know what I'm saying? And moral, No,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: that's not what us called prank. Not with the integrity.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Definitely, that's the whole point of the prank.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: You've done.
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: Let me pay you a compliment, Tom, It's done. At
• 21:19
  Speaker 7: a level of ignorance that could be matched by no one.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Oh, the King of pranks. All right, all right, thank
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: you guys.
• 21:26
  Speaker 8: Coming coming up next to is ask the clo or
• 21:30
  Speaker 8: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey and the Building.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 8: the Waynes Brother Scary Music. Scary Movie six is a
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  Speaker 8: box office hit. It looks so crazy, the trailers look
• 22:23
  Speaker 8: so crazy. I love it and Lebron James Guys has
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: been named Time Magazine's Athlete of the Century.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Yes, the century.
• 22:36
  Speaker 8: Sure, we'll talk about Yeah, we'll talk about these stories
• 22:40
  Speaker 8: at the top of the hour, But right now it
• 22:43
  Speaker 8: is time to ask the clo our chief Love Officer,
• 22:47
  Speaker 8: Steve Harvey. All right, This one's from Fran and Roanoke.
• 22:50
  Speaker 8: Fran writes, I was getting out of the shower and
• 22:53
  Speaker 8: I heard my husband tell whoever he was on the
• 22:55
  Speaker 8: phone with that I was done with my shower and
• 22:58
  Speaker 8: he'd called them back. He swore he was talking to
• 23:03
  Speaker 8: a personal shopper about my birthday present? Go ahead, boy,
• 23:08
  Speaker 8: does he expect me to believe he was talking to
• 23:10
  Speaker 8: someone at macy Is he lying?
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: Or to come through?
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: What?
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: You better come through? You better come through. I'm listening
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: to me a personal shopper. I don't know.
• 23:26
  Speaker 7: If he is lying, right, but I don't know if
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: he's telling the truth. But what I will tell you,
• 23:37
  Speaker 7: you could not have given a better response because guess
• 23:46
  Speaker 7: what what she can't call down there and check on
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: it because it'll ruin the surprise. Wow, where at Macy's
• 23:59
  Speaker 7: do you be? He gave the search of personal shopping
• 24:03
  Speaker 7: they have and this personal shopping could have been somebody
• 24:06
  Speaker 7: that was recommended to him by a friend who does
• 24:09
  Speaker 7: personal shopping and just happened to be.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: In macy but limited you outstanding?
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Who standing?
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Put that in your arsenal? All right?
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Moving on, true, all right?
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Justine and Piscataway.
• 24:32
  Speaker 8: Justine writes, I have cooked maybe ten times in my
• 24:37
  Speaker 8: twelve year marriage.
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: This is you.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Let us from Shirley in it.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 24:48
  Speaker 8: My husband is complaining about spending money on takeout food
• 24:52
  Speaker 8: and fast food and once more home cooked meals.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Do I owe him that? Or should I tell him
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: to learn how to cook? I love you, Justine? Throwing
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: that out there?
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: You know what?
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Sureley? Now now what did he say?
• 25:09
  Speaker 8: Give me his exact He's tired of spending money. He's
• 25:12
  Speaker 8: complaining about spending money and take out fast food. He
• 25:15
  Speaker 8: wants more home cooked meals.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: That's what he said. And owe him that?
• 25:22
  Speaker 7: I mean it would be an act of kindness, you know,
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: I mean, why wouldn't you want to be kind to
• 25:29
  Speaker 7: your mate?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: If if my wife says Steve, I want more.
• 25:37
  Speaker 7: More nice time, no more nice text, more kind words
• 25:42
  Speaker 7: of affirmation of how you feel for me and I go.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Do I owe her that?
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: Mm hmm?
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: She should learn how to cook.
• 25:49
  Speaker 7: Well, yeah, you know, she'll learned how to compliment herself.
• 25:54
  Speaker 7: You know, bruh, I mean, of course you would want
• 25:57
  Speaker 7: to do what would make your mate feel better.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Why would you not.
• 26:02
  Speaker 8: Ten times in twelve years that that is wonderful? Like
• 26:07
  Speaker 8: you like the record number two? That's almost like once
• 26:13
  Speaker 8: you know that is great?
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: You know what's really amazing? Surely?
• 26:19
  Speaker 7: I mean what yet a person with the size of
• 26:23
  Speaker 7: your eyes can't see where we say.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: Really is for you to baghu? Girl?
• 26:34
  Speaker 8: You back the man who was talking to the so
• 26:37
  Speaker 8: called personal shopper at Macy's.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: All right, we all have who was talking to the
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: personal shoper?
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Outstanding?
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Moving on to we'll agree to disagree.
• 26:53
  Speaker 8: Moving on to Trishelle and Southfield, Trichelle writes, my boss
• 26:57
  Speaker 8: brushed up against my butt in the hall and said
• 27:00
  Speaker 8: excuse me and smiled. My bestie said, he's trying me
• 27:05
  Speaker 8: to see if I'll take the bait. Lord knows I
• 27:08
  Speaker 8: need a raise, so should I go for it and
• 27:10
  Speaker 8: flirt back? If he brushes up the girl, you.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Finna get a raise.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Girl, you finna get a raise.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Here?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Are you fit to come up? You gonna get that sofa.
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: Here?
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: You start looking at him. Drake, girl, you finna get raised?
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Was your girlfriend said? He trying me? Trying you?
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: Boy?
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: What age? R? Lord?
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: You said?
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Lord knows I need RaSE.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: She's gonna take the bait.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: But but that goes back to the question that Junior
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: asked me this morning at the Old One. Have you
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: ever sold your integrity for some money?
• 27:57
  Speaker 8: Ow?
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let me say this.
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  Speaker 9: I ain't.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I ain't ever sold my integrity for no money.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: But everybody has a project.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Girl come up to me, I am a jiggalow.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: And she brushes up against your butt and smiles.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: All right, we're going to do something goodness.
• 28:30
  Speaker 8: Well, keep your job though, all right? Last one, clo,
• 28:35
  Speaker 8: Last one. This is from Raj in Memphis. Raj writes,
• 28:39
  Speaker 8: my wife is easily irritated by everything I do, and
• 28:43
  Speaker 8: she's constantly correcting me. I haven't changed since she met me,
• 28:48
  Speaker 8: but all of a sudden, I'm annoying. She talks to
• 28:51
  Speaker 8: me like I'm her son. Sometimes. Should I avoid being
• 28:54
  Speaker 8: around her for a while?
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Wow? No, that's not gonna fix it.
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 28:58
  Speaker 7: Y'all need to talk. Y'all need to sit down and talk.
• 29:00
  Speaker 7: You got a problem every you think you're not changed
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: everything you do.
• 29:06
  Speaker 6: See.
• 29:07
  Speaker 7: You may think you've not changed, and you may have
• 29:09
  Speaker 7: in ways that you don't know, but she has changed.
• 29:13
  Speaker 7: Any time you with somebody over a period of time,
• 29:16
  Speaker 7: the two of you are going to change. That's why
• 29:20
  Speaker 7: you gotta constantly talk because the people that you change
• 29:22
  Speaker 7: into may not like each other anymore.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: And she's there, she don't like you no more. And
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: if y'all don't fix.
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: This, don't get worse ignoring it? Right, Yeah, everything, Tommy,
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: did you say s gets bad?
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Did you?
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: Just?
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: I said it gets bad? It gets worse? Okay, like
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: that and just yeah, but you know that's how you
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: do it at the time you say stuff get mad.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: But you were going to applot him found like Steve.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Man a good show, all.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, all right, thank you, Clo, great advice.
• 30:23
  Speaker 5: Thank you.
• 30:23
  Speaker 8: Coming up at the top of the hour, we will
• 30:26
  Speaker 8: have some entertainment news for you right after this.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: It's a good show. You're listening, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:38
  Speaker 8: We got to do a big shout out to the
• 30:40
  Speaker 8: Wayans Brothers, Keenan Marlin, and Sean Scary movie. Yes, it's
• 30:45
  Speaker 8: shattering box office records, bringing in over one hundred and
• 30:50
  Speaker 8: five million dollars worldwide.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where their opening weekend. Yeah yeah wow uh.
• 30:57
  Speaker 8: According to Yahoo dot com, the movie earned fifty five
• 31:00
  Speaker 8: million domestically and fifty zero point five million overseas. Scary
• 31:05
  Speaker 8: Movie six is a parody horror film, of course. It
• 31:07
  Speaker 8: stars Marlon and Sean Wayans. It stars our Girl, Regina Hall,
• 31:12
  Speaker 8: Keenan Thompson, Tanna Taylor Shack, and Anthony Anderson. Marlon Wayan
• 31:18
  Speaker 8: said that they asked Cardi b To be in the movie,
• 31:21
  Speaker 8: but she turned it down.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Woo wow, yeah she did.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 31:27
  Speaker 8: So here's a question, and Steve, you have been watching
• 31:31
  Speaker 8: a lot of movies lately, Tommy, you're a movie guy.
• 31:34
  Speaker 8: Which movie would you guys like to see rebooted or
• 31:38
  Speaker 8: a sequel.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Of which ones? Which movie.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: You've been watching a lot of movies? Braveheart too, Steve?
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: Or not a kill my man?
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: So the movie.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: What about this?
• 32:00
  Speaker 9: Was the uh Apocketlypto with Jaguar Paul Remember that show?
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: We love this movie? Yes?
• 32:11
  Speaker 7: Hell yeah, man, I'm finn to watch that again because
• 32:15
  Speaker 7: I have completely forgot.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: I can watch that movie right now, be like I
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: never was.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, what movie?
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: That was directed by Mail Gibbs a good show, Junior.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: How they how they thought about a color purple too?
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Anything like they did do they redid.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: It, reimagined what they called it.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a musical, not catch up. Yeah I
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: already did that.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah it was reimagined. Yeah, I ain't no two, Junior.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: They're gonna do the Joey reunion to it. That is
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: a movie.
• 32:52
  Speaker 8: That's not a movie, that's a musical. All right, all right,
• 33:01
  Speaker 8: you all think about that for a little bit. And
• 33:04
  Speaker 8: the other news Lebron James. Congratulations to him. He has
• 33:08
  Speaker 8: been named Times Athlete of the Century, not the year,
• 33:13
  Speaker 8: the century. I love, that's one hundred years.
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: You know what.
• 33:16
  Speaker 7: That's what I was that you remember earlier this year,
• 33:19
  Speaker 7: I said, I finally figured out how I must squashed
• 33:22
  Speaker 7: the debate, and I said that if I was Lebron,
• 33:27
  Speaker 7: I would have my I would let Michael have that
• 33:29
  Speaker 7: the greatest basketball player of all time, because he was.
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: Time.
• 33:35
  Speaker 7: Lebron James is the greatest athlete of any professional sports
• 33:41
  Speaker 7: I've ever seen. Nobody has done this which this man
• 33:45
  Speaker 7: has done for this length of time. I think this
• 33:47
  Speaker 7: is great.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would really get this.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: The greatest basketball player ever me personally. Yeah.
• 33:54
  Speaker 8: It was in the list of one hundred most Influential
• 33:57
  Speaker 8: people in Sports Now. In the article, Lebron reed on
• 34:00
  Speaker 8: his career, steed, his longevity, and the debate over the goat.
• 34:05
  Speaker 8: He said, in part quote, I'm not taking nobody over me.
• 34:10
  Speaker 8: That Lebron's words. Yes, he also said that, yeah, and
• 34:22
  Speaker 8: people are you know, are saying is he going to retire?
• 34:24
  Speaker 8: When is he going to retire? All that, He said
• 34:26
  Speaker 8: that his decision to retire will depend on whether he
• 34:30
  Speaker 8: still loves the grind of training and competing.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, so you know you got to do that every year,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 34:36
  Speaker 8: And all that Time Magazine said they selected Lebron James's
• 34:40
  Speaker 8: Athlete of the twenty first century based on his record
• 34:43
  Speaker 8: breaking career, longevity and excellence, his global impact, his influence
• 34:49
  Speaker 8: beyond basketball, philanthropy, activism, and entrepreneurship.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: So, I mean he's all of those things. Athlete of
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: the century.
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: Absolutely he deserves that.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I love that. I'm not taking nobody over
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: me over me.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: Not one. I can dig that. But I'm gonna pick
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Jordan as.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Far as basta.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Playing the game.
• 35:23
  Speaker 7: But this brother's career man has been phenomenal. Man, I'm
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: to play at this level of expertise for this long.
• 35:32
  Speaker 7: How does he he played long enough to get his
• 35:35
  Speaker 7: son in the league?
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 35:41
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 35:41
  Speaker 7: And there's a little internet thing going around that his
• 35:44
  Speaker 7: other son is gonna declare for the draft and Lebron
• 35:48
  Speaker 7: is trying to figure out a way to get him
• 35:50
  Speaker 7: all three of them on the floor. But it's just
• 35:54
  Speaker 7: some internet stuff.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: James, Boys, Rice and Brannie.
• 36:04
  Speaker 8: Yeah, that that is phenomenal, all right, Yeah, I mean philanthropy,
• 36:09
  Speaker 8: I mean he gives, he's you know, an activist, he's
• 36:13
  Speaker 8: an entrepreneur.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: You know, you can go on and on.
• 36:16
  Speaker 8: He's had TV shows, he's you know, yeah, that's right.
• 36:23
  Speaker 8: I mean, this guy is amazing.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: He really is.
• 36:25
  Speaker 8: You can't take anything away from him. So Athlete of
• 36:29
  Speaker 8: the Century, we all agree, we.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: All the whole school.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: He got a whole school.
• 36:35
  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I mean the list goes on and on.
• 36:38
  Speaker 8: You're absolutely right, the list goes on and on.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: So well, let let's wrap this up.
• 36:43
  Speaker 7: Because you have a tendency of as your praise and
• 36:47
  Speaker 7: worship goes on, you slipped into the next thing.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: You know, He's gonna be the past in a minute.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: So why are we just I'm not going to say that.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: So do you do that?
• 36:58
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: All the time, all the time. All right, he's not
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: with us, He's.
• 37:09
  Speaker 5: Still here.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: I know he's still here.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Coming up in.
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  Speaker 8: they say they can't count on their parents to babysit
• 38:05
  Speaker 8: their grandkids. Many families live far apart, and even when
• 38:09
  Speaker 8: grandparents are nearby, they may be less available, either by
• 38:13
  Speaker 8: choice or necessity. Some older adults want to enjoy retirement,
• 38:18
  Speaker 8: while others simply can't afford to stop working and don't
• 38:21
  Speaker 8: have enough savings to help out. That lack of support
• 38:24
  Speaker 8: can make raising kids even more expensive and stressful, especially
• 38:28
  Speaker 8: when childcare costs are already high.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: Why are you sighing already, Steve?
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: I mean.
• 38:37
  Speaker 7: Generation man, dish your baby. Why are you trying to
• 38:42
  Speaker 7: put this off on your grandparents?
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 38:46
  Speaker 7: It's just it is indicative of what this generation is now.
• 38:53
  Speaker 7: They are just different, man, Yeah, yeah they are.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: We'd have blamed a little bit.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Too, because we want them to have a better life
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: than way too much.
• 39:04
  Speaker 7: Okay, when you when you create a life for children
• 39:10
  Speaker 7: like we have a life of convenience, it causes them
• 39:16
  Speaker 7: to be this way. But you know, every generation has
• 39:21
  Speaker 7: got a little bit soft, Like I ain't. I ain't
• 39:23
  Speaker 7: as hard as my daddy. I just ain't think none
• 39:27
  Speaker 7: of us and we grow up, I mean, you know,
• 39:32
  Speaker 7: just as tough a man. I mean, we grew up
• 39:34
  Speaker 7: in hard times because we were poor growing up. But
• 39:38
  Speaker 7: I'm still my whole goal. I was still trying to
• 39:42
  Speaker 7: be more and more like my father.
• 39:44
  Speaker 8: Man.
• 39:44
  Speaker 7: This dude was worst dude with something else. Man, yeah,
• 39:48
  Speaker 7: it just work. He was a dog right here, and
• 39:53
  Speaker 7: now this generation man because of us. Tommy said it right.
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: We gave him a better life than the one we had,
• 40:00
  Speaker 7: and they took advantage of it, and now here they are.
• 40:02
  Speaker 7: So can't complain.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: I mean, in my case, I couldn't. I couldn't run
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: to my daddy when I needed money, right.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Exactly exactly.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: I was saying.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: No, let me say this.
• 40:19
  Speaker 8: In my case, it was a little different. My mom
• 40:21
  Speaker 8: did help me tremendously raise Sheridan. I was a single
• 40:25
  Speaker 8: parent at the time. You know, Sheridan spent most of
• 40:28
  Speaker 8: her formative years with my mom. You know, I have
• 40:32
  Speaker 8: tremendous guilt about that. But I'm grateful to my mom
• 40:35
  Speaker 8: because she was able to help me. She was retired,
• 40:38
  Speaker 8: you know, I had to work. I was a single parent,
• 40:41
  Speaker 8: so she helped me and I'm forever grateful to her
• 40:44
  Speaker 8: for that. So, but this is different. I'm not the
• 40:47
  Speaker 8: same grandmother my mother was either with Sheridan's kids, with
• 40:50
  Speaker 8: my daughter's kids.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
• 40:53
  Speaker 9: You got you got twenty eight and thirty year olds
• 40:56
  Speaker 9: that I ain't left the house.
• 40:57
  Speaker 5: This is this is.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: Well, Shirley, I don't know no gran, I don't know
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: no grand mama that can't cook.
• 41:05
  Speaker 8: So coming up at thirty four minutes after we'll have
• 41:12
  Speaker 8: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: Whatever, Rannie we want do, Granny we want join?
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:27
  Speaker 5: Well.
• 41:27
  Speaker 8: According to the Black Information Network, a Texas teen named
• 41:31
  Speaker 8: Carmelo Anthony, who is now nineteen years old, was found
• 41:35
  Speaker 8: guilty of murder in in April of twenty twenty five
• 41:39
  Speaker 8: in the stabbing death of seventeen year old Austin Medcalf
• 41:42
  Speaker 8: during a high school track meet. Now this happened in Frisco, Texas.
• 41:46
  Speaker 8: The confrontation began when Anthony, who attended a different school,
• 41:50
  Speaker 8: was seated under a tent belonging to the victims Memorial
• 41:54
  Speaker 8: High School team during a rainy track meet. Multiple students
• 41:57
  Speaker 8: reportedly asked him to leave. When Metcalf told him to move,
• 42:02
  Speaker 8: Anthony reportedly reached into a bag and said, touch me
• 42:06
  Speaker 8: and see what happens. The defense argued that Anthony was
• 42:10
  Speaker 8: acting in self defense after Metcalf initiated physical contact. Anthony
• 42:15
  Speaker 8: fatally stabbed Metcalf once in the chest. The case has
• 42:19
  Speaker 8: sparked a debate about self defense, about race and justice.
• 42:23
  Speaker 8: Anthony was found guilty of murder and has been sentenced
• 42:27
  Speaker 8: to thirty five years in prison. He's nineteen. He's been
• 42:30
  Speaker 8: sentenced to thirty five years. The Next Generation Action Network
• 42:34
  Speaker 8: denounced the racial composition of the jury, noting that not
• 42:38
  Speaker 8: one juror is black. Carmelo Anthony, nineteen year olds years
• 42:43
  Speaker 8: old is black, and Ann the other guy.
• 42:47
  Speaker 7: You know, it's so many levels to this man that
• 42:51
  Speaker 7: I was discussing with a group of friends yesterday. Number one,
• 42:57
  Speaker 7: you know you feel for both of the parents. Yeah,
• 43:04
  Speaker 7: both of them are losing sons. Yes, one of the
• 43:08
  Speaker 7: sons the people will never ever be able to speak
• 43:10
  Speaker 7: to again. That's tragic. I understand the defense attempt to
• 43:20
  Speaker 7: go with self defense. I understand that. I'm not arguing
• 43:24
  Speaker 7: that one way or the other. What I wish man
• 43:29
  Speaker 7: was this generation goes to violence so quickly, but they
• 43:33
  Speaker 7: go to the violence that's end all in violence. They
• 43:36
  Speaker 7: stabbing and shooting right now. I would have loved to
• 43:40
  Speaker 7: this have benefits fighting yep, and be done. You know
• 43:44
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna bust you in your job. Put your hand
• 43:47
  Speaker 7: on me and see what happened, but it didn't. And
• 43:50
  Speaker 7: this is a tragedy all across the board. My god,
• 43:55
  Speaker 7: this little boy seventeen years old is dead, overstanding under
• 44:01
  Speaker 7: a tent in rainy conditions.
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: That attract me.
• 44:07
  Speaker 7: The black boy has to feel some kind of way,
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: because I'm pretty sure he felt threatened. I'm pretty sure
• 44:14
  Speaker 7: some kind of way, or at least that's what the
• 44:17
  Speaker 7: defense said.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: But that reaction.
• 44:20
  Speaker 7: Man, young people, if I could say to young people,
• 44:24
  Speaker 7: please take a moment of pause before you commit a
• 44:29
  Speaker 7: violent act, because I'm pretty sure his intent was not
• 44:34
  Speaker 7: to kill him.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: No, no, but man, man, walk away, walk away?
• 44:51
  Speaker 7: Man, you young people, we have to think, man, about
• 44:57
  Speaker 7: the consequences and repercussions.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: This caught down. This cost a young man his life.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: He's this boy dead, man, And isn't that the issue?
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: They do?
• 45:07
  Speaker 8: Don't think about the consequences, Steve, You.
• 45:10
  Speaker 7: Know, they just act too fast. I mentor these boys.
• 45:13
  Speaker 7: They're coming next this one, next week, they'll be here
• 45:16
  Speaker 7: next week.
• 45:17
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: This generation different, man, Yeah, this generation is different.
• 45:22
  Speaker 7: I'm talking to them about some basics, but a lot
• 45:25
  Speaker 7: of them don't have fathers, so they missed all the basics.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: Now, some of these kids coming's just great kids. Man.
• 45:32
  Speaker 7: Some of these single mothers have done a great job
• 45:34
  Speaker 7: turning them into good citizens, sens law abiding people for God, fearing,
• 45:39
  Speaker 7: respectful of women. All that that's God, Thank you, thank
• 45:42
  Speaker 7: you Lord for them. Some of them, man is just
• 45:45
  Speaker 7: missing all of what a man do. And they think
• 45:48
  Speaker 7: manhood is wrapped up in a hand carrying a handgun,
• 45:51
  Speaker 7: defending yourself. Well, i'll put you down, boy. This ain't
• 45:55
  Speaker 7: no video game. No, when you put him down, he
• 45:58
  Speaker 7: don't get back up because you got to gold Kelly
• 46:01
  Speaker 7: and you go somewhere.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: When you put him down, you don't get to keep playing.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, or a rap song video game. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: this is a horrible story. Yeah, all right.
• 46:13
  Speaker 8: Coming up next, we'll switch gears here and we'll hear
• 46:16
  Speaker 8: from the nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this,
• 46:20
  Speaker 8: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up
• 46:27
  Speaker 8: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.
• 46:29
  Speaker 8: It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is
• 46:32
  Speaker 8: I love everything except that.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear this or that.
• 46:40
  Speaker 8: We'll get into it and find out what it's all
• 46:42
  Speaker 8: about in just a few but right now, the nephew is.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: Here with today's prank phone call, nephew, what you got?
• 46:48
  Speaker 9: You know, everybody cannot conceive very easily. Sometimes you need
• 46:52
  Speaker 9: a little help. You know what I'm saying. You guys
• 46:54
  Speaker 9: know that, you know sometimes in fertility, Yeah.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: Till the issues?
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Are you talking about this subject? I don't know, but
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: we got a couple that need a little help.
• 47:11
  Speaker 9: I feel like, you know, why don't I call and
• 47:14
  Speaker 9: off of my service that I can help the man
• 47:17
  Speaker 9: and his wife get pregnant.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: A doctor? How can you help qualify?
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: All I need to do is be with the lady
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: for a weekend and by monday.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: What are you saying right now?
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to help them.
• 47:32
  Speaker 9: See how if I'm gonna tell you again, if me
• 47:35
  Speaker 9: and Hunt get together for a weekend by monday, absolutely
• 47:40
  Speaker 9: by Monday. Listen, if you drop off on Thursday, I'm
• 47:45
  Speaker 9: telling you, by monday, there's gonna be a baby on.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: The way something.
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: You hear him.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: Having all the wrong places. Sometimes you got to look
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: in the area where you know. That's a that's a suggestion, Okay,
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: have a suggestion. That's all it is.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Come on, you would be the baby's father. You know
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: that right, So look at it like that, look at
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: the well.
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: You can look at it, But do you want a
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: baby or not?
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: He can't make one.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: It ain't happening, Steve, come on.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: You at one point doing the in school, Tommy, at
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: one point in the health class, you just stopped listening.
• 48:33
  Speaker 9: Wow, I went from help to help. I'm trying to help.
• 48:36
  Speaker 9: That's what I'm trying to get. But just take a listen.
• 48:39
  Speaker 9: Here's all orthodox methods. This ain't you all method my method?
• 48:43
  Speaker 9: Let's go care.
• 48:46
  Speaker 5: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach trying to reach brother
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: Roberts speaking. Hey, how you doing. I'm calling you from
• 48:52
  Speaker 5: the church. How you doing, brother man? I'm doing super fantastic.
• 48:55
  Speaker 5: Every day above ground is a good day. That's good.
• 48:59
  Speaker 5: That's good. Good. Hey Hey, listen, man, we wanted to hu,
• 49:04
  Speaker 5: being one of the brothers of the church, I wanted
• 49:05
  Speaker 5: to give you a call. Man. You didn't make it today,
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: but you well, you know, your wife stood up to
• 49:09
  Speaker 5: date and ask us to keep you all in our
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: prayers because y'all definitely trying to bring a new child
• 49:15
  Speaker 5: into the world. And she let us know that. You know,
• 49:19
  Speaker 5: she's being a little older now forty one forty two.
• 49:23
  Speaker 5: You know, she said it takes a little longer to
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: try and conceive a child than you know in your
• 49:28
  Speaker 5: earlier years. So we we definitely wanted to let you know,
• 49:30
  Speaker 5: man that we we got y'all in our prayers. Man. Man,
• 49:34
  Speaker 5: you just don't know how much we appreciate that. Man. Yeah,
• 49:36
  Speaker 5: we've been trying, but I know, with prayers, all things
• 49:39
  Speaker 5: all possible. Yeah. Well, we definitely want to definitely want
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: to keep you out in our prayers, man, and I
• 49:44
  Speaker 5: hope that you all able to conceive this child and
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: bring you know, bring, bring, bring, bring a new a
• 49:49
  Speaker 5: new child into this world. You know, the books be
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: fruitful and multiplies. Definitely definitely. Now who's this again? Brother, brother, Brother.
• 49:56
  Speaker 5: I don't know if you know me directly, but I'm
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: brother all, one of the brothers at the church. Okay, okay,
• 50:02
  Speaker 5: but thank you not not not not not not Brother Robbert.
• 50:05
  Speaker 5: What I want to ask you, man, was have you
• 50:07
  Speaker 5: considered any any alternatives methods as far as you know, uh,
• 50:13
  Speaker 5: maybe helping this situation. Uh, we've looked at a few
• 50:17
  Speaker 5: what what what what are you referring to as an alternative? Well,
• 50:20
  Speaker 5: I mean I think I have a good thing then
• 50:24
  Speaker 5: that might be able to help this thing speed up
• 50:27
  Speaker 5: the process, and and and and you guys to be
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: expecting in no time. Man, Man, we're for some things
• 50:34
  Speaker 5: like that. What what what what you got in mind?
• 50:37
  Speaker 5: I mean, uh, well, what I have is a little
• 50:39
  Speaker 5: a little unorthodox, man, But I think if you allow
• 50:43
  Speaker 5: me to help you on this, man, I think that
• 50:45
  Speaker 5: you'll be definitely satisfied. And you know, man, if nine
• 50:49
  Speaker 5: months or not, you got to be at the hospital
• 50:51
  Speaker 5: wait looking for you your baby, for your baby girl,
• 50:53
  Speaker 5: you know who'll clarify an orthodox? Okay, See what I
• 50:58
  Speaker 5: have in mind, man, is is have you considered maybe
• 51:02
  Speaker 5: like a surrogate father classy clasified sairey Because I'm thinking
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: the wrong thing. I don't want I want to make
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: shit will on the same page. What do you mean
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: by Sarah the fuck? Well? What it is man is
• 51:14
  Speaker 5: you know you know, of course a mother is someone
• 51:17
  Speaker 5: that will carry a child for those that cannot carry one.
• 51:21
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, right right? So what what?
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: What?
• 51:24
  Speaker 5: What? I've gone to the doctor and got myself checked out, man,
• 51:28
  Speaker 5: good physical and everything. I'm physically sitting everything. And you know,
• 51:32
  Speaker 5: maybe I guess the complications are coming from uh you
• 51:35
  Speaker 5: as far as the child not being you know, you're
• 51:37
  Speaker 5: not being able to conceive right now now now, I
• 51:40
  Speaker 5: ain't ain't nothing wrong with me man, Okay, Now what
• 51:43
  Speaker 5: you mean by you physically fit? I mean what year
• 51:45
  Speaker 5: they got to do with shared? But see what I'm
• 51:47
  Speaker 5: saying is if if well you know, if you if
• 51:50
  Speaker 5: you allow me to come over and and supply my services.
• 51:55
  Speaker 5: I mean, let's say, if you left for a weekend man,
• 51:57
  Speaker 5: and I stayed over there by the time you get
• 51:59
  Speaker 5: back there, what time with you? Is this what's going
• 52:02
  Speaker 5: on at this church? Man? Am I at the renal church?
• 52:05
  Speaker 5: You're telling me? You try? Help me understand you saying
• 52:08
  Speaker 5: you want to come over and have sex with my wife. Well,
• 52:12
  Speaker 5: I mean, I mean, don't don't look at it like that.
• 52:14
  Speaker 5: Don't look at it like that. Look at it there.
• 52:16
  Speaker 5: I'm helping you. You're telling me is directly you just
• 52:19
  Speaker 5: ain't usal what excuse me? Okay, you want to come
• 52:23
  Speaker 5: out of sex with my wa No, no, no, I
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: want to come over and just apply my services man
• 52:27
  Speaker 5: and put you guys in a better position that you
• 52:30
  Speaker 5: will be there your family life. You understand what I'm
• 52:33
  Speaker 5: saying you understand where'm coming from now. I don't sound
• 52:36
  Speaker 5: like you tell me you want to have sex with
• 52:37
  Speaker 5: my life? Man? What the is wrong with you? Man?
• 52:39
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on, No, this just this brother, awesome, man,
• 52:42
  Speaker 5: listen see what I'm what I'm trying to do. Man,
• 52:44
  Speaker 5: I don't give.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Up to you.
• 52:46
  Speaker 5: Brother? Whose brother? Man? I don't know you? And then
• 52:50
  Speaker 5: you talking about the church. What kind of is this
• 52:52
  Speaker 5: thousand down at this church? No? Really, the church don't
• 52:55
  Speaker 5: have nothing to do with this. It's me calling you
• 52:57
  Speaker 5: to lend. Will you come with me, saying I'm trying
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: to be if you allow me to be the surrogand father.
• 53:02
  Speaker 5: I don't have a pregnant bout the end of the week. Man,
• 53:04
  Speaker 5: you got me. As soon as I say I'm coming
• 53:07
  Speaker 5: to bother study Tuesday to see you, you show up
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: that boble study. So you okay, Garante? You want to
• 53:13
  Speaker 5: have brothers brothers? Wife said, what amount of man? You
• 53:17
  Speaker 5: keep looking at that like that? How're we gonna get this?
• 53:19
  Speaker 5: Are we gonna get past this so we can get
• 53:21
  Speaker 5: you to this child? Man, we are gonna get pasted it.
• 53:24
  Speaker 5: You talked about having sex with my wife. Where are
• 53:26
  Speaker 5: your wife? Said, brother, you ain't got no way. So
• 53:29
  Speaker 5: I have a wife, Brother Robert, what I'm trying to
• 53:31
  Speaker 5: do is help you along with yours and getting this
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: child conceived. That's what I'm trying to help. You can't
• 53:36
  Speaker 5: help me talking about having sex with my wife, you said,
• 53:39
  Speaker 5: on unsaid, I don't think you was going out far
• 53:42
  Speaker 5: with it. You're getting my phone number? Well, you know
• 53:45
  Speaker 5: we we have people listened at the church. We have
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: all phone numbers listened. He's this mine And when I
• 53:50
  Speaker 5: get that to you, I hope to see you because
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna punch you. Ad asked, Hey, look, man, why
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: don't I Why don't I speak to your wife when
• 53:57
  Speaker 5: she comes to church this week? And I'll see how
• 54:00
  Speaker 5: don't say a thing of my wife? Hold on, I'm
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: just gonna talk to her, see how she feels about
• 54:05
  Speaker 5: maybe maybe you know using this now you can't say, man,
• 54:09
  Speaker 5: don't even look in direction? Brother? What man? Who wanted you?
• 54:12
  Speaker 5: I need to see you myself? Okay? What?
• 54:14
  Speaker 11: What?
• 54:15
  Speaker 5: What? What is all the anger? Though? Brother? What? What? What?
• 54:17
  Speaker 16: What do you mean?
• 54:18
  Speaker 5: Your just sitting here telling me that's the script. I'm
• 54:22
  Speaker 5: gonna come half sick with your wife. Get a't Okay, brother,
• 54:26
  Speaker 5: I got one more thing I need to tell you.
• 54:28
  Speaker 5: Are you ready for? Can I say this? Hey? You
• 54:30
  Speaker 5: better hundred before I hang up and you say, okay,
• 54:33
  Speaker 5: are you listening, brother Roberson? I didn't listen. I'm tired
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: of listen. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: Morning Show. You just got praked by your wife. Man,
• 54:45
  Speaker 5: what you say? Hey, man? Tell me who can't be doing?
• 54:52
  Speaker 5: Take that? Man, I'm about to have a rest. Come
• 54:55
  Speaker 5: to checking. What about it? Then your husband goes straight
• 54:59
  Speaker 5: plast it's in the mouth. Look for you that one man?
• 55:09
  Speaker 5: All right, Hey, one more thing, man? What is what
• 55:12
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• 55:15
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• 55:25
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• 55:26
  Speaker 2: There, man, y'all better ask somebody up in here.
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Tommy. I'm coming up next my Strawberry letter.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: The subject I love everything except that. We'll get into
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: and find out what that is.
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• 56:49
  Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject.
• 56:51
  Speaker 8: I love everything except that, Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty
• 56:57
  Speaker 8: six and married to my soulmate. Grew up together and
• 57:01
  Speaker 8: dated in high school, but he got one of my
• 57:03
  Speaker 8: friends pregnant when we were high school seniors. We were young,
• 57:07
  Speaker 8: so I never held it against him, and we remained
• 57:10
  Speaker 8: friends for many years. He decided to spend the block
• 57:13
  Speaker 8: and date me again. Fifteen years ago. We got married
• 57:17
  Speaker 8: after dating for only three months because we already knew
• 57:20
  Speaker 8: each other very well.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: Big mistake.
• 57:23
  Speaker 8: I have found out recently that this man has two
• 57:26
  Speaker 8: other kids, and they too, are by another one of
• 57:29
  Speaker 8: my high school friends. I also found out that he's
• 57:32
  Speaker 8: got a son that's sixteen years old, so he had
• 57:35
  Speaker 8: a woman pregnant while he was trying to get back
• 57:37
  Speaker 8: with me. All of this is troubling to me, so
• 57:40
  Speaker 8: I moved out temporarily to sort things out. My husband
• 57:43
  Speaker 8: thinks that he has everything under control and doesn't see
• 57:47
  Speaker 8: why I'm shocked to learn to just learn about his
• 57:51
  Speaker 8: other kids. He told me that all I should worry
• 57:54
  Speaker 8: about is our marriage and how well he treats me.
• 57:58
  Speaker 8: But it's not cool for him to send money monthly
• 58:00
  Speaker 8: to his younger children and not be present in their lives.
• 58:03
  Speaker 8: That doesn't sit well with me, and when I talk
• 58:05
  Speaker 8: about it, he gets angry. I have only I have
• 58:09
  Speaker 8: only met one of his stepchildren because he shuts me
• 58:12
  Speaker 8: down when I ask him to invite them over so
• 58:14
  Speaker 8: I can meet them. I love everything about my husband
• 58:18
  Speaker 8: except that what else has he left out about his past?
• 58:23
  Speaker 8: Is it a deal breaker after fifteen years of marriage?
• 58:26
  Speaker 8: Or should I work through this with him?
• 58:29
  Speaker 5: Well?
• 58:30
  Speaker 8: I do think you guys should try and work through this.
• 58:32
  Speaker 8: I mean, you've been there. You just found this out,
• 58:34
  Speaker 8: but you know, if he treats you well. But if
• 58:38
  Speaker 8: this is your choice, you don't have to. But if
• 58:40
  Speaker 8: this is your choice to stay in this marriage, the
• 58:43
  Speaker 8: question is does he want to? I mean, you said
• 58:45
  Speaker 8: he shuts you down and gets angry when you bring
• 58:48
  Speaker 8: it up, but you're just trying to do the right
• 58:50
  Speaker 8: thing here. At least he's paying child support, he's got
• 58:53
  Speaker 8: that going. He should want to have a relationship with
• 58:56
  Speaker 8: his kids, and he would be doing it with your blessing.
• 58:59
  Speaker 8: I mean that you know you want to meet them,
• 59:02
  Speaker 8: You want the kids to come over. You may have
• 59:05
  Speaker 8: been hurt to find out about the kids the way
• 59:07
  Speaker 8: you did, but you don't hold a grudge. And that's
• 59:09
  Speaker 8: okay because these things happened so long ago. I don't
• 59:13
  Speaker 8: like his attitude about it at all. He caused all
• 59:18
  Speaker 8: this and these were your friends, So what did he
• 59:22
  Speaker 8: think was going to happen when you found out you
• 59:24
  Speaker 8: were going to be upset. I mean, I think he
• 59:26
  Speaker 8: needs to try to understand you. He needs to stop
• 59:30
  Speaker 8: dismissing your feelings. Your feelings are valid. You're his wife.
• 59:33
  Speaker 8: He needs to fix this situation, make you feel good
• 59:36
  Speaker 8: about this situation, and to see if you want to
• 59:39
  Speaker 8: stay married to him.
• 59:40
  Speaker 7: Steve, Well, you know this letter has several things in
• 59:46
  Speaker 7: it that kind of throws me a bit, but I
• 59:50
  Speaker 7: asked everybody to kind of sometimes you can. Sometimes you
• 59:55
  Speaker 7: can use these letters of examples for yourselves, you know.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 7: You know, like as we were growing up, some people
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 7: would explain stuff to us to try to help us
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 7: avoid that particular pitfall. And it worked in some cases,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 7: and then some kind we went on walk in it. Anyway,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 7: that's life. But this lady right here said she's fifty six,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 7: married to my soul mate. Grew up together, dated in
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 7: high school. He got one of my friends pregnant when
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 7: he was in high school.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: We were so young. I never held it against him.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 7: Then they say, we remain friends for many years, and
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 7: then he decided to spend the block. And here's the
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 7: part right here, I want you to listen to this.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 7: He decided to spend the block and date me again
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 7: fifteen years ago. Here's the part. We got married after
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 7: dating for only three months because we already knew each
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 7: other very well.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: Oh did you?
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 9: Oh?
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: Did you? So you knew him very well?
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 7: Right right after that? Guess what you said? Big mistake,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 7: because you found out you didn't know him at all.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 7: I found out recently this man got two other kids
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 7: and they are also by another one of my high
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 7: school friends. Your boy had a hell of a high
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 7: school year, and.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: He was in high school.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 7: He hadn't been in that been out of that sex
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 7: education class that long. If you're still in school, you
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 7: ain't listening condoms they talked in in In in elementary school,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 7: we had sex education. One of the big topics in
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 7: there was a condom and what it did. Curious, But
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 7: inactive went to junior high became even more curious. I
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 7: didn't even have sex in high school. Very troubling years.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: For sharing. O.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 7: Lord, I was troubled. I was a proud and ashamed
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 7: to say, then they get this. I was proud and
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 7: ashamed to say, uh huh that. Since then, I.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: Have made up for all the those in my head. Yeah.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 7: But lady, so you found out that you didn't really
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 7: know him after all, and all this is troubling to you.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 7: So you say you moved out to sort things out.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 7: Your husband said he got everything under control, and he
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 7: don't see why you shocked to learn about these other kids.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: Why would we not be? Of course she's shocked. She
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: thought she knew you.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 7: She thought after y'all got together fifteen years later, y'all
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 7: only needed to date three months because you're her soul mate,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 7: and she knew you, and she found out she ain't
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 7: know nothing. He said, don't worry about none of this
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 7: except how I treat you. And then when we come back,
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna give you how feel about this man not
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 7: having a relationship with his kids.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Steve.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 8: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 8: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter, subject
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 8: I love everything except that. We'll get back into it
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 8: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 3: Everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: We need to talk.
• 1:03:28
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  Speaker 8: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 8: The subject is I love everything except that.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 7: Yeah, this lady David, this man in high school. They
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 7: were high school sweethearts. She's saying, she's claimed that she's
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 7: married her soulmate, or while they was in school, got
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 7: one of her girlfriends pregnant.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: They was young. She ain't think nothing of it.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 7: Later on, fifteen years later, they reconnected and after three
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 7: months of talking, they got married because she said, we
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 7: already knew each other. This is my soulmate, so we
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 7: already knew each other. We got married right after that.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 7: She said, big mistake, because then she found out that
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 7: he had two other children that he had while he
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 7: was in high school with two of her other friends.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 7: I said, boy had a hell of high school. And
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 7: then one thing led to another. She confronted him about it.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 7: He can't believe she's shocked about this having these other kids,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 7: and wants her to just chill out and just think
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 7: about how I treat you, But she said it doesn't
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 7: sit well with him with her because he sends monthly
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 7: money to his younger children and not be present in
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 7: their lives.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: That don't sit well with me. When I talk about it,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: he gets angry.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 7: Let me say this to the men out there, and
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 7: I'm not coming down at you because I've been in
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 7: this situation. Brothers, if you're not in your child's life,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 7: you're hurting two people. You're hurting the child, and you're
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 7: hurting yourself. And I'm just telling you, man, it ain't
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 7: worth it. I know that sometimes these women can use
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 7: children as pawns.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: Then they thought if you ain't paid no money, you
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 7: be hind on your child support. All of that that
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 7: the children don't know any of this information. All the
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 7: child is sitting there is wondering why don't my daddy
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 7: call me? Because they see it on TV, they see
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 7: it in the movies. And all he wants to know,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 7: or she wants to know, is why won't my daddy
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 7: call me? Why don't he love me? Why don't he
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 7: talk to me? Why don't he like me? And it
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 7: is really hurting your child, fellas. But I'm gonna tell
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 7: you something, brother, it's hurting you. I know, man, I
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 7: know how that is. I did it for a while.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 7: You've got to get yourself together and make the concerted
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 7: effort to get in your child's life. It would mean
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 7: the world to them. Because I'm gonna let you know
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 7: this now. God is not going to let you off
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 7: the hook from your responsibility. He's just not gonna do it. So, fellas,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 7: we got to do better. If you have a child,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 7: make a move, try to spend some time with them.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 7: They don't know you behind on your child payments. They
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 7: don't know that the mom is using him as a pond.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 7: They don't know you can't stand her, she can't stand you.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 7: All they know is they got a daddy somewhere and
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 7: they don't have a daddy. So, brothers, I'm telling you, man,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 7: whatever you got to do. Get in contact with your
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 7: children and start sending them texts, Start asking them questions,
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 7: start encouraging them.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: It will mean the world to them. Show up at
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: their games.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 7: Man, I can't tell you how many boys I come
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 7: to the camp, sitting there crying, crying. Man, my dad
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 7: ain't never came to my game, mister Harvey. My dadd
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 7: ain't never gave me a Christmas gift, mister Harvey. He
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 7: ain't in prison or nothing. My dad ain't never came
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 7: to see me. He didn't talk to me. I sat
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 7: there waiting, look it out the window.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: He never came.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 7: I can't tell you the pain I deal whatever you
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 7: these boys, we got an opportunity to stop there now.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 7: I just took this letter to say something like that,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 7: because this young man in this letter is not having
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 7: an open relationship with his kids. You gotta do that.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 7: And he gave me an opportunity to get on the
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 7: soapbox and say this. I know it's hard, brothers, but
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 7: we got to do better, man, Okay.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 8: And yes, I wanted to ask you, it's commendable that
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 8: his wife wants to meet the children and wants him
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 8: to be a part of their lives.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 7: That's crazy, man, because for your new wife to say, hey, look,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 7: and she said in the letter, she said, I've only
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 7: met one of my step children because he shuts me
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 7: down when I ask him to invite them over so
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 7: I can meet them. See, he's thinking it's another confrontation coming. No, man,
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 7: you married a woman, man that's trying to make it
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 7: easier for you to have relationship with your kids because
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 7: she said it don't sit well with her. You send
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 7: the money to your younger kids, but you ain't got
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 7: no relations with him because brothers, I'm gonna tell you
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 7: right now, not only do they not know that they're
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 7: being used as a pawd, not only do they not
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 7: know you ain't up on child support. I got some
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 7: more news for you. They don't even know you sending
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 7: child support. They don't even know what that means, and
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 7: they don't care. They just won't they.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: Daddy. This woman has gone out of her way to make.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 7: Advanced and now she's worried. I love everything about my
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 7: husband except that. Well that's a big dat not to love. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 7: what what else has he left out? I've got some
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 7: most stuff. Is this a deal breaker after fifteen years?
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 11: No?
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: If he treats you good and all like this, you
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: might be just a catalyst. He needs to work through
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: this thing and get back in them kids' lives. So
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 2: fight for it.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 7: Try to help him, get him to understand, sit him
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 7: down talk calmly, change your tone.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: Maybe that a tricky you know?
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, great advice?
• 1:09:58
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• 1:10:12
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• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: Got Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: Everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior, we need to talk.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 10: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again,
• 1:10:28
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk, which
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: you got Junior?
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 10: All right, Well, everybody you know Serena Williams is a
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 10: did y'all see Serena Serena is back, and she came
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 10: back and won her double's debut with her good partner there, Victoria.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: I want to say in Boco.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 10: In Boco is how you said Victoria and Boco is
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 10: ms K M b okay.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: Oh I think that Hey, hey, hey, hey hey yeah.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: Don't ask us.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: Then, but that sounds good.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 10: But I want to make sure I have her name
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 10: right now. She played with Serena, that's all. I just
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 10: wanted to make sure I had her name right too.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 10: That's what forecasting you care.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 2: That's what sports and nog You ain't no sportscasting.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: Doing the sports on art.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: I'm doing it for you right now.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 7: Did you hear what Tommy just said. You supposed to
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 7: get these names together before you come on the air.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 7: That's what sportscasters do.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 3: That's not okay, moving.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 7: On now your whole segment about what you said and
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 7: how you can't speak on.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 10: Serena had been going from tennis for one thousand, three
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 10: hundred and seventy five days. She is probably the grade
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 10: and the greatest and I mean the greatest tennis player
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 10: up all time. I don't see anybody else taking that
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 10: the goat. Also, Angel Reeves made her come back in Chicago.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 10: Did y'all see Angel Reeves ball out and she at
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 10: the letter dream took on the Chicago Sky and her
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 10: return back to Chicago.
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  Speaker 3: Girl had a double double.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 2: All that talking.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 10: She came ball seventeen points, seventeen rebounds. I think seventeen
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 10: is her numb Yeah, go ahead, So I am proud
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 10: of that.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 3: Now did I do that right? Since you criticized and
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 3: did I do that?
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: Stee, you're gonna show you want to go there route right?
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: Nerves?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 3: Why didn't you say he getting on my nerves?
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 5: Tommy?
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 3: I just asked, God, Yeah, he just be instigating.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: You know, you can't play that one.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: He's with Tommy, it ain't with me.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he really can't. He can't play tennis. You can't
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 3: play basketball.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: You can't do neither tennis.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 3: You know, you can't run. You can't do a lot
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 3: of things.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: You can't run.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 10: Show well, you can catch Serena again today she will
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 10: be back on the court and nobody.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 3: He can't catch nothing, he can't catch. He just catch.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 10: How is Jordan even playing baseball with you? Every time
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 10: he throws you? You just dropping brought my child into.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: He did Who's taller than you, by the way, my son.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 3: And because he's not Fats, you mad?
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: These is Fats.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: Walk like, no, all these hair jokes, you don't like.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 6: Your hair.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: He just got them, got some kids. Now you have
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: to stand up.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: It's Jordan taller than Tommy though.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 3: That's absolutely yeah, Mike.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: The last name, thank you Junior.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 8: Coming up at the top of the hour, a woman
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 8: on social media needs some advice. She says, I know
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 8: something is wrong. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 8: from Felicia on Steve Harvey FM. Valicia says, my husband
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 8: has been acting different for the last couple of months,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 8: and I know something is bothering him. He's more distracted,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 8: less talkative, and seems like he's weighed down by something.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 8: But whenever I ask what's going on, he insists he's
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 8: just under a lot of stress at work. A friend
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 8: of mine works at the same company and says she's
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 8: not aware of anything unusual happening there that would explain
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 8: that would explain his behavior. I want to support him,
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 8: but I can't help with the problem he won't share.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 8: Should I push him harder? For answers or just let
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 8: him be.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: Well, let me explain something to you.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 7: Number one, your little girlfriend out at your job, ain't
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  Speaker 7: got no clue what's going on with this. It could
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 7: be the pressure of everything. He has no one to
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 7: talk to about it. And what you need to do
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 7: is offer to be more of an assistance to it
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 7: instead of trying to find out what's wrong. Just find
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 7: a way, find a way to approach your man and
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 7: make it just a more easier entry point for him,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 7: because most men don't like talking about what they're going through.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, give us an example of how she should approach
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  Speaker 1: him as his wife.
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  Speaker 7: She could say, hey, baby, how you doing? How you
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  Speaker 7: feeling the day? Can I get you anything? I'm having
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 7: a problem have you Have you ever had anything like this?
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: Darling?
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 7: It because I was having a problem. I just what
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 7: are your opinions on it? Try to try to ease
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 7: a different way into it. I don't know your husband,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 7: so it's a lot of ways, just depending on how
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: the person is. It's really troubling me because I just
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  Speaker 7: I just I want to be there for you and
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  Speaker 7: you won't let me, and I'm just.
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  Speaker 2: Everything I can't wife.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, tears work girl, tears work, and you cry in
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 7: front of your man. He got to fix that.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: Immediately, she's saying, he's not.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling me right now.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, because like I tell people all the time,
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  Speaker 7: you know this lady at my job was crying and
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 7: everybody was trying to gather around Miss Harvick. Can you
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 7: say something motivational her? That ain't my wife. I ain't
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 7: got nothing for her. I can't fix no woman. No really,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 7: I can't fix nobody, no woman crying but mine. I
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 7: ain't got nothing else. I got four daughters and a wife.
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 2: I ain't all.
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  Speaker 1: I'm out, but it's crying, tears work. Maybe if she
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: cried it well.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 7: Her husband, let her husband call her and fix it.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 7: I ain't got no room. But you know you got
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 7: you gotta gotta find an entry.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: Point to the gay m okay, all right, all right,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: So we have time for another one. This is from PJ.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 8: PJ says, every year for Mother's Day, the whole family
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 8: asked my wife what she wants, and she gets it.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: Food, gives jewelry, alone time. It's all there for her
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: and she loves it.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 8: Uh huh huh.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: Every year, every year for Father's.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 8: Day, I'm rarely asked, and when I am, I always
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 8: give the same answer. I want a substantial amount of
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 8: a loane time with absolutely nothing to do.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: Instead, I get tools.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 7: Wow, so you can take your thurday in their garage
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 7: and work on something by yourself.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Father's Day. Over, have we passed father? What
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: is Father's next Sunday? Not this Sunday?
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 5: Next?
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: Oh, next Sunday?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, he says, you heard.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: None of us say nothing about it.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 8: Didn't cancel, he says, this year, I'm serious about getting
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 8: some time to myself. But I don't want to come
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 8: across mean and ungrateful. So any suggestions for PJ. Steve,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 8: we all guys.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 7: Give us all those. I can't help you, PJ. I
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 7: don't know what to tell you. Listen, man, it's Father's Day.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 7: It means nothing compared to Mother's Day. It never has,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 7: it never will stop all these expectations on Father's Day
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 7: because they don't live up to the hype, which is
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 7: none existent anyway.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: I don't even know why we have Father's Day. Y'all
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: need to stop playing.
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: We appreciate it. We appreciate dads and Father's out there
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: with you.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: We can't tell.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. A dad was shocked. Wow, this story right here, guys.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 8: A dad was shocked to discover his three year old
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 8: had cut up eighteen hundred dollars in one hundred dollars
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 8: bills while no one was looking, and this money was
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 8: to be used for a Nigerian family celebration. Anthony Kalajayi
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 8: walked in to find his little girl, Amelia, turning the
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 8: stack of cash into an arts and crafts project.
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: Look, daddy, it left him speechless.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 8: The dad was shocked and angry, but thankfully, after showing
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 8: the bank of video of the money massacred, they reimbursed
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 8: the cash.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: So that's a good news. But his three year old
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: baby cut it up.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 2: She needed it.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: Dollars you know, and scissors.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 2: You can take lord as a baby girl, I'll tell
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 2: you that right now. Yeah.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: Why if it was a baby boy, what could be different?
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 5: You would need.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: These three?
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: He gonna get a not snatched in him?
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: Ah, not at three, Steve.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: When do you start disciplining a child? You start spanking
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: in hand at two or three, don't you.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's very early. But snatching a not
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: not beat down.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: We're gonna spank that hand eighteen times.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 7: Okay, okay, okay, snatch a loose knock?
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 8: Oh no, no, all right, at least they got that
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 8: money back, all right, Thank you, guys? Or not coming
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 8: up next to another round?
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: Would you rather? Right after this? You're listening to the
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 3: Everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior, we need to talk.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 10: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again,
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 10: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 10: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years
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• 1:21:07
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• 1:21:08
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• 1:21:11
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• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: Time out for a round of would you rather?
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 8: Guys, So while you're outdoors, would you rather hear an
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 8: owl at night?
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: Or forget your bugspray?
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, i'd be scared. I don't care. I don't attack people.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: Are they don't they're scared when you see them. Yeah,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: they're scared.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: When you see them. It's a different kind of thing
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 2: going on.
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: What what do you mean, Tommy does he turned.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: His head all the wheel around?
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: It's just weird like the exercise.
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 8: Would you rather play a one round against Victor wimbin
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 8: Yama or Jalen Brunson one on one?
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 7: You ain't gonna want to hang out with.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 8: See, we kind of clowned you yesterday about you saying wimbley.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 8: We were saying me, yeah, when you were saying when
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 8: you called him wimbley, and we were like, that's a stadium,
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 8: what do you mean? But they actually call him wimby.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 8: So you were close. You were really close. I'm not
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 8: trying to be exact. I don't know, I know, but you.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: Said wimbley and we clowned you about that. But but
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: he wited though you could. You were kind of right,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: you could when he I'm just saying you were close.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: You were kind of right, right?
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 8: Would you rather wear only flip flops the entire summer
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 8: or would you rather wear a suit to bid every
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 8: night in the summer?
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: Flip flops? Every day, or a suit to bid every night.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: I'm going with the flip flops.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the entire summer.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm not in time. I'd have done it
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 2: a hundred times. A hundred times.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 7: I'd have crawled in from the club and the Kings
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 7: and comedy scene, got up and went to the airport
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 7: in the exact.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 16: Same well we was living, living roughing good sauce, said
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 16: Ed Berdie.
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 2: We was all at the airport in the same.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 8: Wrinkled All right, would you rather speak with only a
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 8: megaphone for a day or only write things down?
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 9: I don't mind writing things down, Okay, all right, So
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 9: I come from a generation and know how to write.
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, cursive, all of that. Right, Yeah, what's wrong
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: with the megaphone?
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: Why is I'm hollering at these people? Keep being the
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: I have one?
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 5: Do you use it?
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 10: Uh?
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 13: Huh?
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 7: On the ranch all the time, especially doing my fishing
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 7: tournament and his breakfast time when it's lunchtime, when it's
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 7: fish time.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: What are you saying, Steve, You're just saying anything.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: Come eat what you're saying, brothers?
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 7: Five more minutes of fishing mandatory breakfast, Five more minutes
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 7: of fishing.
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 2: Mandatory breakfast.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 7: You've got the tournament has to stop at breakfast time
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 7: so everybody can go eat.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 8: Okay, all right, all right, guys, thank you, coming up,
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 8: last break of the day, and we'll close out the
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 8: show with the one and only Steve Harvey.
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 3: Everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior, we need to talk.
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 10: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again,
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 10: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 10: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 10: helping drivers save millions. Plus, you can earn points in
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 10: the app for an extra ten cents a gallon off
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 10: just for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying
• 1:25:12
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• 1:25:15
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• 1:25:20
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• 1:25:22
  Speaker 8: All right, guys, here we are. This is our last
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 8: break of the day. The show is almost done. Thank
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 8: you for listening. We appreciate it. Steve, give us some
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 8: closing remarks please, Hey, you know what.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 7: This is for young people, oh grown men too. I
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 7: want you all to think about this. You know in
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 7: light of the recent tragedy that happened at the track
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 7: meet in Texas between this young African American boys young
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 7: white kid. Whether whatever happened, how it happened to what
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 7: ended up happening was this young black boy reached in
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 7: his book bag and got a knife out and stabbed
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 7: this white kid. Now, the tragedy in this is that
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 7: this one young man is dead. He's gone man.
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 2: And and over what? Over what?
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 7: The other tragedy is this black boy who was seventeen
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 7: years old, just got thirty five years. He's ruined a
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 7: great portion of his life, and over what. You know, Look,
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 7: I know we have this Second Amendment in this country
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 7: that allows everybody to bear arms.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 2: I got that.
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 7: And you know the gun laws in this country are loose.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 7: This wasn't even a gun law. This was a knife incident.
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 7: But what I want to say to young people is
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 7: if you carry a weapon of any kind, I want
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 7: you to understand that now that weapon becomes an option.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 7: So if you run up into any conflict, your cot
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 7: resolution skills are up only up to a certain point.
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 7: I've always used my mouth to resolve matters. Even growing up,
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 7: I never carried a weapon because you know at one
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 7: point in time, it's gonna come down to it, but
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 7: we're gonna throw these hands. If we couldn't resolve it,
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 7: we was gonna throw these hands. That's not the world
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 7: we live in today. So what I want you young
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 7: people out there is considered this. The option that you're
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 7: carrying comes with consequences, dire results. If this young man
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 7: didn't have a knife in his book bag, we wouldn't
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 7: even be having this conversation because this incident would have
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 7: resolved itself some other way. Look, man, this is a
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 7: tragedy on so many levels. But if you didn't have
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 7: this knife, none of this happened. This stand your ground,
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 7: It don't matter when you got to do time, this
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 7: self defense. It don't matter when you lose thirty five
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 7: years of your life. It don't matter when a young
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 7: boy loses his life over what. I cannot think of
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 7: anything that I've ever argued about with anybody, any conflict
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 7: I've had with anybody, where the best results would be
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 7: one of us to lose our life. But you know what,
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 7: I removed the gun and the knife as an option,
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 7: because then, guess what when you don't have a knife
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 7: or a gun. Here's what the options become. All right, man,
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 7: my bad, I bet you bet not? I bet you
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 7: bet not? Push me again? Did he push you again?
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 7: Then you swing on him? Eventually all fights get broken
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 7: up or stop for some reason. That would have been it.
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 7: Oh hey man, how about this one? All right, my bad,
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 7: I'm out and just walk away.
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 5: Man.
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  Speaker 7: Any one of them options would have been better a
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 7: fistfight and embarrassment they calling you chicken you walked away.
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 7: Any of them options would have been better, man than
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 7: this young boy losing his life and now you, Finnah
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 7: sit at seventeen in a prison cell for thirty five
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 7: years in the Texas Department of Corrections. This is heartbreaking
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 7: all the way around the board. So what I'm saying
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 7: to you as this, whatever decision you make, I want
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 7: you all to remember that all these decisions come with
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 7: a consequence. These young boys that carry guns everywhere. It's
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 7: a fourteen year old had a gun on him. What
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 7: at fourteen? Man, let me tell y'all something. The hood
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 7: ain't that hard. You can say it is, and you
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 7: can make it up if you want to. Now, if
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 7: you're living in one of these gang bang of cultures,
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 7: which is complete ignorance again. If you cripping in blood
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 7: and then you out here, man, I got news for you, partner,
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 7: You out here cripping in blood for no cryps and
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 7: bloods don't even know why they banging.
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 2: Ask them.
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 7: They don't even know this territory you fighting in. You
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 7: ain't even homeowners in it. Yup, man, this is so
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 7: crazy what we're doing.
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 7: Now, listen, all this happened to this young man who
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 7: lost his life, and all this happened to this young
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 7: man who's on trial, and now he's faced with what
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 7: we got to deal with all our lives and all
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 7: white jewelry. How you think that's gonna work out? All
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 7: white jewelry. A seventeen black person kills a white person
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 7: Twelve jury members of his peers they picked all white.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 7: You don't stand a chance. Keep yourself out these situations.
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 2: Young people.
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 7: Stop carrying guns and knives and find another way to
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 7: resolve confluence. It is always good to walk away, live
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 7: to see another day.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 7: It's what a tragic situation. Let's make better choicees. Y'all
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 7: get in these kids' heads, fathers, tell them you don't
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 7: need that, all right, God, have a great day to day,
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 7: Talk to God, he loved He Front.
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