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- 2:02Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversation. I am your host, Sean McDonald.
- 2:05Speaker 1: I always tell people's time to stop reading other people's
- 2:08Speaker 1: success stories and really start writing your own. And I
- 2:10Speaker 1: always tell people to leave with their gifts and don't
- 2:12Speaker 1: let your age friends family or coworkers stop you from
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- 2:21Speaker 1: course you are business owners, access to celebrity CEOs, entrepreneurs
- 2:25Speaker 1: and what I like to call industry decision makers. My
- 2:28Speaker 1: next guest is stephen A. Smith. He is the recognized
- 2:31Speaker 1: face of ESPN Sports because on ESPN he hosts First
- 2:34Speaker 1: Take and Sports Center's NBA Show hosted by stephen A. Smith.
- 2:39Speaker 1: He is a proud graduate of an HBCU, future book, author,
- 2:42Speaker 1: runs his own production company, and the executive producer of
- 2:46Speaker 1: the hit ESPN Plus show stephen A's World. Please working
- 2:49Speaker 1: the money making conversation my man, stephen A Smith? How
- 2:52Speaker 1: you doing, stephen A? What's going on? Man? How you doing?
- 2:55Speaker 1: I want to get this out o the way, real
- 2:57Speaker 1: early statement. You know, everybody knowing based in the Lanta, Georgia.
- 3:00Speaker 1: You know, you traveled between New York and Los Angeles
- 3:03Speaker 1: and I look at my phone and I get a
- 3:05Speaker 1: text and I see this guy, you know, crouching behind
- 3:09Speaker 1: this car, you know, and he looks like he's a
- 3:12Speaker 1: uh police offer ser he looks like he's acting on
- 3:16Speaker 1: a soap proper And I said, that's my man, Brick.
- 3:19Speaker 1: What's what's called on his TV? What do they have
- 3:22Speaker 1: you doing on TV? Now? Man? No, I mean I
- 3:25Speaker 1: got a recurring role on the soap opera General Hospital.
- 3:28Speaker 1: My character's name is Brick. I'm a surveillance expert for
- 3:32Speaker 1: the mob headed by Sonny Corenthos. Uh In real life,
- 3:36Speaker 1: his name is Maurice Bernard's character in General Hospital Sonny Corenthos.
- 3:40Speaker 1: His his henchman is right here. Man is Jason Morgan.
- 3:43Speaker 1: And essentially I worked for and with a really really
- 3:46Speaker 1: pretty much with those guys. And uh, I was a
- 3:49Speaker 1: subillance expert for the mob. But this particular scene, um,
- 3:53Speaker 1: I had to help out the henchman, Jason Morgan. So
- 3:55Speaker 1: we had to break him out of prison, and uh
- 3:58Speaker 1: I was the driver. But also I'll be sleep. I
- 4:00Speaker 1: was an enforce of myself as you saw, because I
- 4:03Speaker 1: had to shoot somebody and kill somebody, you know, in
- 4:05Speaker 1: order to get him out of their safety. Sound that's
- 4:07Speaker 1: how you know, we we play around because just watching
- 4:11Speaker 1: you act, you know, is fun to me. But you
- 4:14Speaker 1: really take your acting. You don't believe you really have
- 4:17Speaker 1: the talent to act. But we all know you have
- 4:19Speaker 1: the talent. Why are you so humble about your acting? Well,
- 4:22Speaker 1: because I've never it's you know, I've got such profound
- 4:25Speaker 1: respect for the Thesbians, the guys and the girls out
- 4:28Speaker 1: there that you know, the ladies out there that have
- 4:30Speaker 1: done such a phenomenal job taking this profession seriously studying it,
- 4:35Speaker 1: uh from a very young age, going to school for
- 4:38Speaker 1: learning the tricks of the trains per se. Me. I've
- 4:42Speaker 1: never done any of that. I'm a guy that's a
- 4:44Speaker 1: sports announcer. I'm a sports commentator and broadcaster. I'm a journalist.
- 4:49Speaker 1: I've been a newspaper journalist and you know, before transitioning
- 4:52Speaker 1: the radio and television for the past twenty eight years
- 4:56Speaker 1: or so. Because I've never put the work into the profession. Essentially,
- 5:00Speaker 1: what I do is go about the business of making
- 5:02Speaker 1: sure that I memorized my lines to the best of
- 5:04Speaker 1: my ability, so I'm not a hindrance or an impediment
- 5:08Speaker 1: to the success of the show. Uh in that regard.
- 5:11Speaker 1: Outside of that, I just followed their lead. I listen
- 5:14Speaker 1: to what Maurice Bernard and and Steve Burton, who plays
- 5:17Speaker 1: those characters that I mentioned earlier. I listened to what
- 5:20Speaker 1: they tell me to do and how they tell me
- 5:22Speaker 1: to do it. Along with executive producer Frank Bellan's team.
- 5:24Speaker 1: They all think I can act. They all think that
- 5:26Speaker 1: I've done an incredible job. But I give all praise
- 5:29Speaker 1: to them because of how much they've helped me and
- 5:32Speaker 1: how much they've embraced me being a part of the show.
- 5:35Speaker 1: And that's where the humility comes in, because they could
- 5:38Speaker 1: have made it difficult if they wanted to. They never ever,
- 5:41Speaker 1: ever did it, not for one second. They invited me
- 5:43Speaker 1: on the show, they asked me to do it, and
- 5:45Speaker 1: they've been incredibly supportive. And I think that, you know,
- 5:48Speaker 1: being a part of it has really really helped me
- 5:50Speaker 1: appreciate me, you know, actors and actresses even more. It's
- 5:55Speaker 1: allowed me to take that very significantly more seriously and
- 5:59Speaker 1: now I am interest been and learning more and doing
- 6:01Speaker 1: it because it's something to be said about being able
- 6:04Speaker 1: to play a character and that character is allowed to
- 6:07Speaker 1: do whatever they write for the character to do, and
- 6:10Speaker 1: it's not held against you. You know, you could be
- 6:13Speaker 1: you could be a killer, you could be a criminal,
- 6:15Speaker 1: you could be Gandhi for crying, and allow whatever the
- 6:18Speaker 1: role calls for. It's acting and if you do it,
- 6:21Speaker 1: and you do it well, the public tends to appreciate
- 6:24Speaker 1: the role that you're playing and then they leave you
- 6:27Speaker 1: alone on a personal level, and that's a beautiful thing. Well,
- 6:29Speaker 1: it's the funny thing about you is that you're you're
- 6:32Speaker 1: so talented, but you also are I don't want to
- 6:35Speaker 1: admit certain skill sets because I feel you're really funny, okay,
- 6:39Speaker 1: and the opportunities to come away you're funny on your show,
- 6:42Speaker 1: you're I guess we can use the word sarcastic, which
- 6:45Speaker 1: leads you to being funny. Can you Stephen A. Smith
- 6:48Speaker 1: host Saturday Night Live? I think I can hold Saturday
- 6:52Speaker 1: Night Live one night, but I think I would need
- 6:54Speaker 1: the help of Pete david Ston and Chris red And
- 6:58Speaker 1: and all of those guys. I would definitely need their assistance.
- 7:00Speaker 1: The only thing I ever worry about is the opening
- 7:02Speaker 1: monologue in terms of just playing the role or whatever
- 7:05Speaker 1: for a show or whatever the case would be. I
- 7:07Speaker 1: know I can do that. Um. I have aspirations to
- 7:09Speaker 1: host late night television someday because I don't you know,
- 7:12Speaker 1: since our senior Hall has departed, I think there's been
- 7:14Speaker 1: a gap on network television that hasn't been fulfilled, and
- 7:17Speaker 1: I'm confident that I could be able to do that,
- 7:19Speaker 1: but I will still need writers to help me with
- 7:21Speaker 1: the opening monologue because I want to be as funny
- 7:23Speaker 1: as I possibly can be and my confident that I
- 7:25Speaker 1: can do these things shut But I compare myself to
- 7:28Speaker 1: the elite of the elite, the Creme dela creme, because
- 7:31Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be average or just good at
- 7:33Speaker 1: anything that I choose to do as a profession. If
- 7:36Speaker 1: I'm going to do it, my goal is to ultimately
- 7:39Speaker 1: assent to a point where I'm considered one of, if
- 7:42Speaker 1: not the best, at what I do. I strive for
- 7:44Speaker 1: excellence constantly and to meet anything short of it, I'm
- 7:49Speaker 1: just another guy doing the job. And I never want
- 7:52Speaker 1: to be just another guy doing the job. So that's
- 7:55Speaker 1: always my goal to be elite at whatever it is
- 7:57Speaker 1: that I choose to involve myself with and whatever I
- 7:59Speaker 1: choose do, And that's where it comes from, and that's
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- 10:01Speaker 1: Because that sounds like a competitive mindset. What drives that
- 10:04Speaker 1: is is the ability of wanting to be number one
- 10:07Speaker 1: or the fact growing up or in college you didn't
- 10:10Speaker 1: feel you got the right of credit for your accomplishment.
- 10:15Speaker 1: What drives that competitiveness comes from at all? I got
- 10:17Speaker 1: left back in the fourth grade because that at the
- 10:19Speaker 1: first grade reading level, I was called the dummy, and
- 10:21Speaker 1: I was you know, I had guidance counsels and others
- 10:24Speaker 1: laughing at the notion of me ultimately going on to
- 10:26Speaker 1: get a college education. Um, all my life, I've been doubted,
- 10:30Speaker 1: I've been marginalized and minimized to some degree. Um, at
- 10:34Speaker 1: least in the initial process. And I don't recall a
- 10:37Speaker 1: time ever where I've walked into a situation and the
- 10:41Speaker 1: assumption was I was going to be great. I've always
- 10:44Speaker 1: had to prove myself. So I combined that with the
- 10:47Speaker 1: reality that we live in a capitalistic society. To the
- 10:50Speaker 1: victors go the spoils. Uh. If you want something, if
- 10:53Speaker 1: you want something bad, You're gonna have to go get it.
- 10:56Speaker 1: Really is it going to be handed to you? Almost
- 10:59Speaker 1: never if you are of the black man and understanding
- 11:02Speaker 1: that reality and knowing those obstacles that I'm going to face. Ultimately,
- 11:08Speaker 1: somebody has chosen, no matter what profession it is, no
- 11:12Speaker 1: matter what your job description is, no matter what your
- 11:14Speaker 1: job title is. Ultimately something someone is chosen. And if
- 11:19Speaker 1: you're chosen, it's usually at the expense of somebody else,
- 11:22Speaker 1: And if somebody else has chosen, it's usually at the
- 11:24Speaker 1: expense of you. So thereby that reality alone brings into
- 11:28Speaker 1: the equation competition. That's what competition is. And because that's
- 11:32Speaker 1: the situation, I embrace it. I accept it because I
- 11:35Speaker 1: know it's a reality that's never going to escape me
- 11:38Speaker 1: in my lifetime. With the world that we're living in
- 11:40Speaker 1: So since I embrace it, embrace competitive furvor. Understand that
- 11:44Speaker 1: you're competing with other people. Understand that you're not the
- 11:46Speaker 1: only one who wants what you want. Every but everybody
- 11:49Speaker 1: can't get it. So put your best foot forward. And
- 11:52Speaker 1: if you have to put your best foot forward in
- 11:54Speaker 1: order to get what you want, that means you have
- 11:55Speaker 1: to maximize your potential UM, and that means you have
- 11:58Speaker 1: to notice what your potential is and what isn't. So
- 12:00Speaker 1: there's so many different steps that come with it. I
- 12:03Speaker 1: understand it, I recognize it, I accepted um, and more importantly,
- 12:06Speaker 1: I embrace it. I like the competition because if I
- 12:09Speaker 1: do get the things that I want, it means I'm
- 12:12Speaker 1: one of, if not the very best at what I do.
- 12:15Speaker 1: And I will not apologize for liking to be the best.
- 12:19Speaker 1: Well the Well, that's true, I know that for a fact.
- 12:21Speaker 1: But you went to an HBCU and our hbc use, Um,
- 12:26Speaker 1: what would you say the reputation is of an HBCU,
- 12:29Speaker 1: And then what did you get out of going to
- 12:31Speaker 1: an HBCU. Well, I think people outside of the world
- 12:34Speaker 1: of HBCUs view it as black colleges and they stopped
- 12:39Speaker 1: right there it's a place for black people to go
- 12:41Speaker 1: to get their education because they probably weren't qualified to
- 12:45Speaker 1: get into a predominantly white institution. I think that's the
- 12:48Speaker 1: thought process of those outside of HBCUs. For those who
- 12:52Speaker 1: have attended HBCUs, we know it's far more than that. Obviously,
- 12:56Speaker 1: you have professors that are incredibly capable. You have administrative
- 12:59Speaker 1: official you was in a like who are incredibly capable,
- 13:03Speaker 1: from the chancellor on down, and so you have that
- 13:06Speaker 1: going on, and then the student body itself. It's just
- 13:08Speaker 1: a different environment because you're surrounded by people who look
- 13:11Speaker 1: like you, who share your cultural identity. Obviously a lot
- 13:15Speaker 1: of your experiences that you may have ended growing up
- 13:18Speaker 1: and beyond, and so as a result, you have a
- 13:20Speaker 1: support system. You don't feel like you're, you know, a
- 13:23Speaker 1: dot in the ocean of folks that don't look like
- 13:26Speaker 1: you and don't share any kind of identity with you.
- 13:28Speaker 1: You feel like you're a part of a brotherhood, of
- 13:30Speaker 1: the sisterhood, of a family. You have professors who don't
- 13:33Speaker 1: just care about grades, they care about your well being.
- 13:36Speaker 1: They invest in you because you're one of them, and
- 13:39Speaker 1: it's in their best interest to see you as sin
- 13:41Speaker 1: and to see you succeed, uh to to like that
- 13:44Speaker 1: maybe you didn't even imagine. And so because you walk
- 13:47Speaker 1: into that, this actually add impression. Sometimes it could be
- 13:50Speaker 1: even a bit harder than you imagine, because the interest
- 13:53Speaker 1: in you elevates not just from a professional on an
- 13:56Speaker 1: academic level, but to a personal level. They place a
- 13:59Speaker 1: personal invested interests in you because they consider you an
- 14:02Speaker 1: extension of them and therefore a reflection of them. And
- 14:06Speaker 1: if you if you don't succeed, you're not only letting
- 14:09Speaker 1: yourself down, you're letting those professions down, you're letting down
- 14:12Speaker 1: the institution that that you represent, and you're letting down HBC,
- 14:15Speaker 1: you folks everywhere because you're contributing to a stigma or
- 14:19Speaker 1: a level of skepticism that people outside of HBCUs may
- 14:22Speaker 1: have that is completely inaccurate. But you've attached the level
- 14:26Speaker 1: of legitimacy to their skepticism and their cynicism. And so
- 14:29Speaker 1: when you recognize that challenge, you've got to embrace the
- 14:33Speaker 1: reality that you're supposed to want to debunk those those skeptics,
- 14:37Speaker 1: those cynics at every time. You want to show them
- 14:40Speaker 1: that indeed, this is what you can do. And so
- 14:42Speaker 1: for me. I remember when I was working for the
- 14:44Speaker 1: New York Daily News. Before I worked for the New
- 14:46Speaker 1: York Daily News, it was because I got offered an
- 14:48Speaker 1: internship with the met Pro Internship Program, and that was
- 14:53Speaker 1: a collaboration between New York News Day and Los Angeles
- 14:55Speaker 1: Times Daily newspapers where they were taking interns from all
- 14:58Speaker 1: over the country and employing UH throughout their various papers
- 15:02Speaker 1: throughout the country. And there was twenty four candidates. I'm
- 15:05Speaker 1: sorry it was twenty four people that was chosen, but
- 15:08Speaker 1: over three thousand candidates. I was one of the twenty four.
- 15:11Speaker 1: And you had people that winter, you Columbia University of Columbia,
- 15:15Speaker 1: Missouri UM, you know, Columbia, New York Ivy League Schools,
- 15:20Speaker 1: usc U, c l A, Northwestern, various other journalism programs,
- 15:24Speaker 1: and they had incredible grades. What I had was two
- 15:27Speaker 1: hundred and fifty published clips before I even graduated, because
- 15:30Speaker 1: I had interned at the Winster Salem Journal, the Greensborg News,
- 15:33Speaker 1: a Record, the Atlanta Journal Constitution back at the at
- 15:36Speaker 1: the Winster salim In Journal. Plus I had written for
- 15:38Speaker 1: the newspaper before I ever graduated, because I understood that
- 15:42Speaker 1: coming from an HBCU what I was going up against.
- 15:45Speaker 1: I understood that I had to do a little extra
- 15:48Speaker 1: and I had to be a little bit different in
- 15:50Speaker 1: order to put my foot forward into really stand out
- 15:53Speaker 1: to make sure I wasn't just a name on a
- 15:54Speaker 1: resumeate you knew exactly who the hell I was. And
- 15:57Speaker 1: that's what I went about, the business accomplishment of a opporishing.
- 16:00Speaker 1: I did it, and I beat out those people, and
- 16:03Speaker 1: it was really an indication of what was to come
- 16:06Speaker 1: because I realized throughout my career I would have to
- 16:09Speaker 1: face similar challenges and I would have to overcome similar
- 16:12Speaker 1: similar obstacles in order to get to where I wanted
- 16:15Speaker 1: to be. And that's what I did well. That statement
- 16:17Speaker 1: allows me to transition to I like to call it
- 16:20Speaker 1: the book, the memoir. Why is that important to get
- 16:24Speaker 1: your stories on paper? And then you've been approached by
- 16:27Speaker 1: a major publishing company and giving an opportunity to tell
- 16:31Speaker 1: your story. Why is your story important? And how will
- 16:34Speaker 1: it help people when they read about your story? Because
- 16:39Speaker 1: the people who are closest to me, the people who
- 16:41Speaker 1: love me, uh, the people who have known me for
- 16:44Speaker 1: a very long time, my family, my friends, people like you,
- 16:48Speaker 1: UM y'all insistent on that. I was actually reluctant and
- 16:52Speaker 1: hesitant to write my own book for a very very
- 16:54Speaker 1: long time. I literally said, although I had a national
- 16:57Speaker 1: television show that's been number one in the morning for
- 16:59Speaker 1: nine years and counting. Um, I literally and I was
- 17:03Speaker 1: a I've been an NBA analyst, and obviously my success
- 17:06Speaker 1: of the ESPN speaks for self. I literally was saying,
- 17:09Speaker 1: why would anybody want to read a book for me?
- 17:12Speaker 1: And so many people came forward, like, what the hell
- 17:14Speaker 1: are you talking about? Was wrong with you? Everybody needs
- 17:16Speaker 1: to hear your story. Everybody needs to hear what you endured,
- 17:19Speaker 1: what you had to experience, what you had to go
- 17:21Speaker 1: through to get to this place that you're here now,
- 17:25Speaker 1: what you succeeded, has been some unprecedented stuff to once
- 17:28Speaker 1: be let go by ESPN just a decade ago into return,
- 17:32Speaker 1: and to be their number one guy at the network,
- 17:35Speaker 1: the face of the network, just ten years removed from
- 17:38Speaker 1: them letting you go and saying goodbye. This is some
- 17:41Speaker 1: unprecedented stuff for you to get left back because you
- 17:44Speaker 1: couldn't read, you could accomprehend what you were reading as
- 17:47Speaker 1: a fourth grader with a first grade reading level and
- 17:49Speaker 1: to excel in the field of journalism and broadcasting. That's
- 17:53Speaker 1: some unprecedented stuff. To be the figure that you are,
- 17:56Speaker 1: where you walk into arenas and you're more popular than
- 17:59Speaker 1: most of the athlete This is unbelievable. You've got a
- 18:02Speaker 1: story to tell, and it took a lot of convincing
- 18:05Speaker 1: over the years. But I do think at this particular juncture,
- 18:08Speaker 1: this particular moment of time, now is the time. Now
- 18:11Speaker 1: is the time to just sit back and to tell
- 18:14Speaker 1: the world who I am, what I've endured, what where
- 18:18Speaker 1: I've come from, and how I got here. You know,
- 18:21Speaker 1: when people look at me and I used to say,
- 18:23Speaker 1: I'm angry and I take myself too seriously, I was like,
- 18:27Speaker 1: first of all, they don't know me because I know
- 18:28Speaker 1: how to laugh and smile and tell jokes. It just
- 18:30Speaker 1: like the best of them. But in the same breath,
- 18:33Speaker 1: you know, what would you feel like if you were
- 18:35Speaker 1: conquering one obstacle after another and you were called an
- 18:38Speaker 1: affirmative action higher that the only reason why you got
- 18:41Speaker 1: this job is because you're black. That if you are
- 18:43Speaker 1: a white guy, you know what, it wouldn't have happened
- 18:46Speaker 1: for you like that. You know, it's just that we're
- 18:48Speaker 1: living in a different age and stuff like that where
- 18:50Speaker 1: people are catering and capitulated the African Americans and stuff
- 18:53Speaker 1: like that. This is what I've been told, This is
- 18:55Speaker 1: what has been written to me, death threats that have
- 18:58Speaker 1: come my way, this stuff like that. I've gone through
- 19:01Speaker 1: a lot because I've succeeded because people didn't want me
- 19:05Speaker 1: to be in a position that I'm in. And a
- 19:07Speaker 1: lot of times what I'm saying, it's not that people
- 19:10Speaker 1: have a problem with what I'm saying. They have a
- 19:12Speaker 1: problem that my black behind is in the position that
- 19:15Speaker 1: I'm in to say it and to disseminate and have
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- 19:44Speaker 1: you're not an actor and actress. No, this is what
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- 19:49Speaker 1: there's a story to be told there. I finally was
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- 21:59Speaker 1: and the ad count Phone. Stephen Age World. That's what
- 22:02Speaker 1: we're talking about right now. ESPN plus the number one
- 22:07Speaker 1: new show ratings are on fire right now. And it's
- 22:10Speaker 1: about you. Is that pressure because it's about you? Or
- 22:14Speaker 1: it's the fun of that it is about you and
- 22:16Speaker 1: your vision on a daily basis talk about Stephen Age World.
- 22:20Speaker 1: It's both. Uh, it's it's definitely fun because I don't
- 22:23Speaker 1: run from the responsibility of controlling my own destiny. A
- 22:28Speaker 1: matter of fact, the challenge for me is to have
- 22:30Speaker 1: to lean on others to control my destiny. Uh, to
- 22:34Speaker 1: to make sure that what I produce is top notch
- 22:38Speaker 1: and it's a quality it's a quality programming and what
- 22:40Speaker 1: have you. To be the executive producer, to be the
- 22:43Speaker 1: production company co producing in a concert with ESPN is
- 22:46Speaker 1: an incredibly, incredibly big deal because I think it's gonna
- 22:49Speaker 1: open doors for myself, for you as my partner, as
- 22:52Speaker 1: my business manager. Uh, you know, for my family that
- 22:56Speaker 1: I never never would a dream could have been open.
- 22:59Speaker 1: So in that God, it's definitely fun. It's about me
- 23:02Speaker 1: and I got that part. But it's an immense amount
- 23:05Speaker 1: of pressure, There's no question about it. But if pressure
- 23:08Speaker 1: phases you, then I'm in the wrong business. Um is
- 23:12Speaker 1: what I live for. I don't I don't have a problem.
- 23:15Speaker 1: I'm not scared to fail. I'm scared if I didn't
- 23:18Speaker 1: do all it took to succeed. I'm scared if I
- 23:21Speaker 1: took shortcuts. I'm scared of of not making sure that
- 23:25Speaker 1: I prepare myself for the opportunities that are going to
- 23:28Speaker 1: come my way. But I believe that if I'm at
- 23:31Speaker 1: my best with anything that I'm doing, no one can
- 23:35Speaker 1: stop me. No one in in in a meritocracy environment.
- 23:40Speaker 1: Um if in the environment based on merit, If you
- 23:43Speaker 1: want to get political, and there's the figurative proverbial glass
- 23:46Speaker 1: ceiling that's hovering over me, where I can't see where
- 23:49Speaker 1: the darts and arrows are coming from, and people are
- 23:51Speaker 1: back during and and and and cheating and being shady
- 23:55Speaker 1: in their mission to keep me down or to precipitate
- 23:59Speaker 1: my eyes, that would be different. But in terms of
- 24:03Speaker 1: the merit where you show me what the obstacles are,
- 24:07Speaker 1: you give me a fair opportunity to excel. I believe
- 24:11Speaker 1: that my a game is just as good, if not better,
- 24:15Speaker 1: than anybody on this planet. And I saw how I
- 24:18Speaker 1: approached things when I'm in front of that camera, you know,
- 24:21Speaker 1: I believe I'm the Michael Jordan's of television. I truly do.
- 24:25Speaker 1: And I'm talking about you know, sports television. To be exact,
- 24:28Speaker 1: I believe I'm the Michael Jordan of television, and I'll
- 24:31Speaker 1: show you how literal I am with it. I just
- 24:34Speaker 1: spoke to Michael Jordan yesterday and I told him yesterday
- 24:37Speaker 1: I'm the Michael Jordan's of television, of sports television. I
- 24:41Speaker 1: really feel that way. I think I'm better per se.
- 24:49Speaker 1: It's just I feel I can't be stopped cool. Uh So,
- 24:52Speaker 1: what did Michael Jordans say when you said you're the
- 24:53Speaker 1: Michael Jordan You started laughing, You started laughing. He said,
- 24:57Speaker 1: you're crazy or you Chris. But he was on the
- 25:00Speaker 1: golf course. He say, had to go, but you know
- 25:02Speaker 1: I knew he had to go. But that that's the
- 25:05Speaker 1: kind of conversations um that you know, you know I've had,
- 25:09Speaker 1: because you know, I don't think you know I over
- 25:12Speaker 1: when I give speeches. Rather I tell people this all
- 25:15Speaker 1: the time, I'm brilliant, because I know I'm not. I
- 25:18Speaker 1: steal from people who are brilliant. I learned from them,
- 25:22Speaker 1: and I learned successful habits. I learned what to eradicate
- 25:26Speaker 1: and dismiss and then I move forward. That's what and
- 25:29Speaker 1: so for me, Um, that's where it's at. That's where
- 25:32Speaker 1: I'm coming from. And uh, you know that's the approach
- 25:35Speaker 1: that I have with everything that I do. I'm gonna
- 25:37Speaker 1: ask two questions of I ask you, is the same
- 25:39Speaker 1: subject matters about being able to um dominate and become
- 25:45Speaker 1: a force in social media, that's one. And then the
- 25:49Speaker 1: popularity of Baby stephen A. Yeah, those two things tend
- 25:54Speaker 1: to intertwine, but they've they've taken you to another level
- 25:58Speaker 1: on the social media side and then on the Baby
- 26:01Speaker 1: stephen A side. Talk about those two brands. Well, for me, uh,
- 26:06Speaker 1: Baby Baby stephen A, I take I give all the
- 26:09Speaker 1: credit to the folks and social media because about a
- 26:12Speaker 1: year or so ago, you know, they attached the baby
- 26:16Speaker 1: face me to my face and it was kind of funny,
- 26:20Speaker 1: you know, it was hilarious actually, and I said, you
- 26:23Speaker 1: know what, that's something that I want to do so
- 26:25Speaker 1: periodically on social media. Um. I threw that out there, um,
- 26:29Speaker 1: and folks loved it. And because they loved it, you know,
- 26:33Speaker 1: once I started to my show, I said, you know
- 26:35Speaker 1: what it has to be. You know, it has to
- 26:37Speaker 1: be on the show like an alter ego of mine
- 26:39Speaker 1: or whatever. Because baby stephen A is arguing with stephen
- 26:42Speaker 1: A all the time. You know, he challenges me even
- 26:45Speaker 1: though he's a baby, you know. Indicative of today's generation
- 26:48Speaker 1: of youth where they come at you and they think
- 26:50Speaker 1: they know everything. Breath smelling like simularc wet behind it is.
- 26:53Speaker 1: They don't know a damn thing yet because they're too young,
- 26:56Speaker 1: but they think they know everything, just like I thought
- 26:58Speaker 1: I knew everything when I was younger. You all of
- 27:00Speaker 1: those kind of things, and so I just incorporate some
- 27:02Speaker 1: of those things into it and it's just taken off
- 27:04Speaker 1: and it's really really funny the way they digitize everything.
- 27:07Speaker 1: It makes it look like the baby face and all
- 27:09Speaker 1: of that stuff. So that's great, um, But in terms
- 27:12Speaker 1: of everything else, like I said, you know, I'm from
- 27:15Speaker 1: Holly queens Man, New York City, and I went to
- 27:18Speaker 1: an HBCU wins the Salem State. I grew up in
- 27:20Speaker 1: the streets of New York City. I have four older sisters.
- 27:23Speaker 1: I got thirteen niems I'm sorry, fifteen nieces and nephews.
- 27:26Speaker 1: You know. The greatest mom in the world, God rested.
- 27:29Speaker 1: Solo passed away in seventeen and you know my dad
- 27:32Speaker 1: had passed away, you know, sixteen months later. Stuff like that.
- 27:36Speaker 1: There's a lot of family stories that I could tell.
- 27:39Speaker 1: A lot of us can do that where I can
- 27:41Speaker 1: imitate my mother, I can imitate my sisters, or I
- 27:44Speaker 1: peel a lot of ideas from my personal experiences growing up,
- 27:48Speaker 1: not just in terms of voices, diction, cadence, how people
- 27:53Speaker 1: talk to you, how they deliver certain things, stuff like that,
- 27:56Speaker 1: um in terms of speaking to you. All of those
- 27:59Speaker 1: things contribute you. Two characters that I try to bring
- 28:03Speaker 1: and incorporate on my show because I think those I
- 28:07Speaker 1: think there's a lot of fun memories and stuff like that. Like,
- 28:10Speaker 1: for example, I got one of my boys literally literally
- 28:12Speaker 1: Rashanda is the absolute truth. One of my boys literally
- 28:17Speaker 1: was sucking his thumb until he was forty two years old.
- 28:22Speaker 1: I mean I didn't even bring him to the screen yet.
- 28:25Speaker 1: I mean he was one of those and he was
- 28:27Speaker 1: like Steve Yo, Steve, Joe, you're tripping. It was stuff
- 28:37Speaker 1: like that, and so you know, I'm like, just imagine
- 28:40Speaker 1: if somebody like that was on TV, people would be crying.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Levin he had grown man, but he he just stopped
- 28:45Speaker 1: sucking his thumb a decade ago, literally a decade ago.
- 28:49Speaker 1: He was sucking his dumb through college. He never stopped.
- 28:53Speaker 1: And it's just I like, they have no idea, you know,
- 28:56Speaker 1: the kind of guys that I grew up with, the
- 28:59Speaker 1: kind of people that I've been around, the personalities. So
- 29:02Speaker 1: it's always it's always easy for me the peel compelling stories,
- 29:07Speaker 1: and you've been around me, they'll just pop into my head.
- 29:09Speaker 1: Something up on me is something, and I'll tell a
- 29:11Speaker 1: story of what I experienced and what I endured, and
- 29:14Speaker 1: all of those experiences contribute to me putting forth the
- 29:17Speaker 1: product on the screen that everybody can see that I
- 29:20Speaker 1: think will make people laugh and a little bit of
- 29:22Speaker 1: levity to the situation. Uh, and just let people know
- 29:25Speaker 1: I'm trying to make them laugh, trying to make them
- 29:27Speaker 1: have a good time and enjoy watching me. Even though
- 29:30Speaker 1: I do have a serious personality, I do like to laugh.
- 29:32Speaker 1: I do like to have fun. I do like to
- 29:35Speaker 1: make other people smile when I can. And so that's
- 29:38Speaker 1: just the kind of things that I try to bring
- 29:40Speaker 1: to my show. The ultimate goal late night Talk and
- 29:43Speaker 1: seeing you do interviews on Stephen Age World and seeing
- 29:47Speaker 1: I've seen you know first of all, you're talented at it,
- 29:49Speaker 1: Let's get that out of the way. But seeing the
- 29:52Speaker 1: people that you don't know and going into genres that
- 29:55Speaker 1: you're not familiar with, and then familiarizing yourself with their
- 29:59Speaker 1: their work, an interview and them, and then seeing people
- 30:01Speaker 1: come back on your show. What pride do you take
- 30:04Speaker 1: in watching that growth of your show and seeing these
- 30:07Speaker 1: major stars come on your show which is on the
- 30:10Speaker 1: ESPN Plus flat platform, which is sports are driven, but
- 30:13Speaker 1: they're ignoring that. Coming to talk to stephen A. Smith,
- 30:16Speaker 1: I'm proud of it, but I'm even killed. And the
- 30:18Speaker 1: reason why I'm even killed, Like you know, they're sometimes
- 30:21Speaker 1: you My sisters and others would be like, man, you
- 30:24Speaker 1: should be far more excited. I mean, my god, the
- 30:27Speaker 1: numbers that you're bringing in, uh to ESPN Plus. Now,
- 30:31Speaker 1: what you've contributed to subscriptions, what you know, what you're
- 30:34Speaker 1: doing on linear television with first Take and sports and
- 30:37Speaker 1: the sports and it was stephen A and blah blah
- 30:40Speaker 1: blah blah blah. What people don't realize is that, you know,
- 30:44Speaker 1: I peel it from what Denzel Washington once told me.
- 30:47Speaker 1: You know, I asked him what was the best film
- 30:50Speaker 1: he ever made. His answer was the next one. He said.
- 30:56Speaker 1: The work that I do, he said, is the work
- 30:59Speaker 1: that I do. The finished product, and all the accolades
- 31:03Speaker 1: and adulation and celebration and everything else that comes with
- 31:06Speaker 1: it is for all of you all to do. He said.
- 31:09Speaker 1: This is my profession, and so what I do is
- 31:12Speaker 1: I'm about the business of doing the best work I
- 31:15Speaker 1: can possibly do. That's where he's at. For me, where
- 31:19Speaker 1: that elevates to another level is that he's a supreme
- 31:23Speaker 1: movie star. I'm in television. I'm not doing a show
- 31:29Speaker 1: twice a month, once a week. I'm doing it every day.
- 31:33Speaker 1: So I don't have the in my mind, I don't
- 31:36Speaker 1: have the luxury of sitting back and just enjoying. You
- 31:42Speaker 1: know what, everybody else is celebrating. Wow, it's a great show.
- 31:46Speaker 1: It's this is that All that says to me is
- 31:48Speaker 1: I gotta give it to them tomorrow too. I gotta
- 31:51Speaker 1: give it to them Friday, and then I gotta give
- 31:54Speaker 1: it to them next week Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.
- 31:57Speaker 1: In the week after that and the week after that
- 31:58Speaker 1: and the week after that. I focus on the task
- 32:01Speaker 1: at hand because I'm the one that has to perform.
- 32:04Speaker 1: You know I could sit up there. Rashan McDonald is
- 32:07Speaker 1: a brilliant business manager, incredible with ideas, very focused, you know,
- 32:13Speaker 1: meticulous with scheduling and the light. There's so many things
- 32:17Speaker 1: that you handle that make my life easier. My assistant
- 32:20Speaker 1: Samatra Hawkins does a sensational job of that as well
- 32:24Speaker 1: as well as as you well know, my sister is
- 32:27Speaker 1: like my sister. Calmen is like my ace. Even though
- 32:30Speaker 1: Linda and all And and Abigail were close to you know,
- 32:34Speaker 1: but I have I have all of these people around
- 32:36Speaker 1: me along with my boys that I grew up with,
- 32:38Speaker 1: my boys from college. I got an incredible inner circle.
- 32:41Speaker 1: Not to mention the people that I know in the
- 32:43Speaker 1: world of supports that I've learned to cultivate relationships with
- 32:46Speaker 1: and they become dear friends of mine that loved ones.
- 32:49Speaker 1: I'm surrounded by a lot of people and it's a great,
- 32:52Speaker 1: great thing to see. But in the end, I'm the
- 32:55Speaker 1: one that has to step in front of that camera
- 32:57Speaker 1: and that microphone and do the job. And I can't
- 33:00Speaker 1: let everybody else down and myself down by being caught
- 33:04Speaker 1: up and what I've done that I forget what I
- 33:08Speaker 1: have to do, and I think that. That's the reason
- 33:11Speaker 1: that my bosses support me so much, because they have
- 33:15Speaker 1: to think that way too. ESPN is the world wide leader.
- 33:19Speaker 1: They they're they're the behemoth. They can't walk around saying
- 33:22Speaker 1: we're the behemans, we're the world wide leader, so we
- 33:25Speaker 1: don't have to do anything. They have to come to
- 33:27Speaker 1: work every day striving to live up to a standard
- 33:31Speaker 1: that they've set, and the people that they in trust
- 33:34Speaker 1: has to have the same mentality as well. And so
- 33:37Speaker 1: what I try to do is to make sure that
- 33:40Speaker 1: I'm I prove that I'm trustworthy when they pay me
- 33:43Speaker 1: this latest contract and we agree to it. That contract
- 33:47Speaker 1: is through June of five. They have they essentially said,
- 33:53Speaker 1: we trust that what you gave us to earn this
- 33:57Speaker 1: contract here, you're going to continue to get of us
- 34:00Speaker 1: for years to come. And it's my job to make
- 34:03Speaker 1: sure I don't let them down by making them out
- 34:06Speaker 1: to be lives. That's the approach that I have. That's
- 34:09Speaker 1: how I focus um and that's how I go about
- 34:12Speaker 1: doing my job all the time. Stavin A thank you
- 34:15Speaker 1: for coming on Money Making Conversation. I appreciate you. Thank you,
- 34:18Speaker 1: bro Cool. If you want to hear or see any
- 34:20Speaker 1: of my interviews, please go to Money Making Conversation dot
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