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Sister O'dell, Rickey Smiley, Kanye West, Dating Sickness and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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Speaker 1: million bucks things. And it's tough. Good guy listening to
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Speaker 1: the movie together. Please, I don't join join me. You
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Speaker 1: turn you go. You gotta turn to turn them out.
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Speaker 1: Turn You haven't got to turn them out to turn
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Speaker 1: the water. The water got me? Come come on your
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Speaker 1: fad uh huh, I sure will I come on and
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Speaker 1: everybody you are listening to the voice, come on dig
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Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay,
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Speaker 1: here we go. You know what's important, What's what can
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Speaker 1: be a huge part of your success is if you
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Speaker 1: if you find a balance, if you find a balance
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Speaker 1: in your life. That's that's been very important for me.
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Speaker 1: And I've really never phrased it this way until now,
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Speaker 1: but I was kind of thinking about it after my
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Speaker 1: wife and I mean, we set up one night recently. Man.
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Speaker 1: You know, I often come on here and this is
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Speaker 1: kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I
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Speaker 1: try to remind people about that most important relationship between
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Speaker 1: you and God. And that's that's the apex of it.
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Speaker 1: That's that's the that's the top of the crime. You
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Speaker 1: gott to form the relationship with God. If you don't,
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Speaker 1: everything else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband
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Speaker 1: without God. It's hard to be a good family man
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Speaker 1: without God. It's hard to be successful without God. Man,
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Speaker 1: it's hard to be hard to get through this thing
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Speaker 1: called life without God. So that's clear. But at the
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Speaker 1: same time, you can't talk about God. Twenty four seven.
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Speaker 1: You got to go to work. Come on, man, let's
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Speaker 1: just be real. I ain't I ain't your past, and
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Speaker 1: I ain't at your church. But let's just be real
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Speaker 1: about it. You know, if people tell you got to
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Speaker 1: keep your mind stayed on Him and all like that,
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Speaker 1: that's that's a true statement. Gotta keep your mind stayed
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Speaker 1: in that area. I don't not here to tell you
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Speaker 1: how to live, but you got to keep your mind
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Speaker 1: stayed in that area of God, of doing the right thing,
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Speaker 1: caring about people. That's what I took it as. Now
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Speaker 1: I could be wrong. I apologize if I'm not saying
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Speaker 1: that the way you've been taught. I can only do
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Speaker 1: me now. But after that, you got to go to work.
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Speaker 1: You gotta have some fun. You gotta take care of
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Speaker 1: your business. And that's the balance you have to find.
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Speaker 1: So it once you focus on shooing up your relationship
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Speaker 1: with God, you gotta balance this now. Now, you got
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Speaker 1: to allocate some time I don't care who you are,
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Speaker 1: for your family. If you're gonna have a family, you
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Speaker 1: got to allocate some time for them. See, we can't
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Speaker 1: just marry these women or make these kids and then
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Speaker 1: neglect them and fellas, especially if I'm talking to me
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Speaker 1: about him, ladies, you can listen to, but listen. If
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Speaker 1: you find yourself struggling in your life, man, and you
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Speaker 1: can't seem to get it together, let's just go over
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Speaker 1: a couple of things. The first two things, if you
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Speaker 1: find yourself struggling, you can't seem to pull it together
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Speaker 1: and reach your goals and get to where you want
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Speaker 1: to go. Let's just do a check how is your
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Speaker 1: relationship with God? And then next how much time are
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Speaker 1: you taking to allocate for your family? Now, your family
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Speaker 1: don't always live in your house, but if you made them,
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Speaker 1: they yours and the responsibility to them is never lessing
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Speaker 1: because you don't stay that no more. Because you and
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Speaker 1: the girl broke up, you and the woman don't speak
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Speaker 1: a man that don't ever release you from the obligation.
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Speaker 1: Feel me when I'm telling you this now, because I'm
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Speaker 1: not telling you something I'm wondering about. I've had to
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Speaker 1: live through them years. So two things you can start
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Speaker 1: looking at. If you're not where you want to be,
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Speaker 1: and you ain't, you ain't really solid. You can't figure
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Speaker 1: out why you keep spending your wills. Have you just
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Speaker 1: done a random inventory? Man? Have you just checked on
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Speaker 1: your relationship with God? Have you checked on the time
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Speaker 1: you spending dedicated towards your family, your children that you've created?
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Speaker 1: If them two things is out of saint man, that
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Speaker 1: I can tell you right now, you can go on
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Speaker 1: and get to explain in yourself away just like that.
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Speaker 1: A man, how come you ain't where you want to be?
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Speaker 1: I'm couz man, I really ain't. But if you really ain't,
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Speaker 1: then you really ain't. The third thing is you got
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Speaker 1: to allocate the necessary time for your business. You got
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Speaker 1: to handle your business. All of this, man, it is
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Speaker 1: the way it works. And the order, the order is
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Speaker 1: God first, family second. Then you got to handle all
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Speaker 1: your business but as men, And this is what we do.
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Speaker 1: If I don't handle my business, I can't take care
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Speaker 1: of my family, true statement. But if your business is
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Speaker 1: in front of your family, you out of order. Nah.
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Speaker 1: That's all we're talking about, now, ain't it. See that's
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Speaker 1: that's all we really saying here now, fellas you know,
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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know,
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Speaker 1: let's let's have a real conversation about being better. You know,
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Speaker 1: if you have created these children, you got to handle
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Speaker 1: your business. You may not like the girl no more.
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Speaker 1: You and the woman might have broken up, y'all might
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Speaker 1: go your own way, But what that got to do
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Speaker 1: with the child though? Man, you got to handle your business.
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Speaker 1: They got to know who daddy is. That's your obligation, man,
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Speaker 1: And God ain't letting you off the hook for that.
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Speaker 1: Try it, Go ahead and try it, and thank you.
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Speaker 1: Gonna get off the hook with that, because you're not man,
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Speaker 1: You just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, why are
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Speaker 1: you coming like that? Because I did it like that?
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Speaker 1: I did it, man. I was over here trying to
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Speaker 1: reshape my life, getting myself up on my feet when
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Speaker 1: I was a homeless man and trying to come back. Man,
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Speaker 1: I thought I had to take care of me first
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Speaker 1: and then so I can neglect it. Care about them kids. Man,
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Speaker 1: That ain't high work. Man, God kelp us knee on
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Speaker 1: my neck for a long time for that one right there,
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Speaker 1: until I finally learned the lesson hold up man, put
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Speaker 1: these phone calls in, Go spend some time, do something.
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Speaker 1: And then it started turning around for me. You know,
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Speaker 1: I can't beat there all the time because I am
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Speaker 1: out here on the ground in the hustle. But at
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Speaker 1: the same time, Man, some more phone calls, some more letters, somemohaha,
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Speaker 1: he he's something. Then take care of your business man.
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Speaker 1: You got to work hard to be successful. You know.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't put that in there. I just live
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Speaker 1: in and I expect my sons to emulate that. But
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Speaker 1: I gotta talk to him all the time. How hard
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Speaker 1: you got to work to be something. It's all out
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Speaker 1: of salt on it. Man. If you gotta target in mind,
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Speaker 1: you gotta go. You gotta wake up every day trying
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Speaker 1: to get there. And you can't get tired of it
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Speaker 1: because it's it's it never ends. You're gonna always be
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Speaker 1: this way. That's how life is designed and set up.
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Speaker 1: You got to be a hard worker, man. If you're
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Speaker 1: always looking for some time to chill, and man, I
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Speaker 1: wanta go do what I want to do, you ain't
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Speaker 1: gonna make it. In order to be successful, you have
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Speaker 1: to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing,
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Speaker 1: and work is the thing that most of us are
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Speaker 1: uncomfortable doing. It's so much easier to chill, man. I
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Speaker 1: wish I could kick back with a cigar man all
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Speaker 1: the time, but I can't, man, and I can't because
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Speaker 1: I got to work. Then the last piece of the
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Speaker 1: balance balance piece is you gotta take some time out
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Speaker 1: to enjoy yourself. But if you ain't where you want
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Speaker 1: to be, you ain't got a lot of time to
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Speaker 1: enjoy yourself. Quit thinking, man, that this balance is even.
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Speaker 1: It's a whole lot of God, a whole lot of family,
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Speaker 1: a whole lot of business, and a little bit of chilling.
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Speaker 1: The chilling can't be equal to the family, the business,
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Speaker 1: or your God. If the chilling is equal to any
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Speaker 1: of them, you ain't gonna make it. Quit chilling, man,
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Speaker 1: and go to work like a man. Do what you
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Speaker 1: post to do. Work on your family, work on your relationship,
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Speaker 1: work on your God, work on your business. And then
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Speaker 1: when you chill, you might not Chill is long but
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Speaker 1: your show gonna chill bigger. You're gonna ball bigger. Baby.
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Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, Let me
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Speaker 1: have your undivided attention. This is my very white opening
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Speaker 1: for the morning. Want you to have a great time.
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Speaker 1: Come on to join in with us. Put your hand
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Speaker 1: on somebody's back and say hey, I love you, and
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Speaker 1: allow them to say I love you, and together we
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Speaker 1: can have love and as world and as well with
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Speaker 1: hell my love. Yeah, but that ain't working right now,
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Speaker 1: so welcome to the Stevens. See where you get that from.
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Just came to me. I thought i'd
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Speaker 1: do it and don't need it doing the same thing.
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Speaker 1: It's a new day, new chance, new opportunity. Man, let's
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Speaker 1: make the best of it. God is good, Yeah, he is. Man.
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Speaker 1: Gratitude affect your altitude all the time, but it's brought
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Speaker 1: on by your attitude. You got to get it together, baby,
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Speaker 1: that's the world we live in to day. Sherley Strawberry
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Speaker 1: callin for real Mouth of the South, junior boy and
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Speaker 1: my man myself. Yes, happened to me. I like that, Steve,
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Speaker 1: I like you know what I mean? Sometimes because ain't
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Speaker 1: got no cheer leader, cheer for yourself, clapping up for you.
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Speaker 1: So sometimes you gotta clap it up for yourself. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Like snoop dog, I want to thank me, last, but
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Speaker 1: not least, I want to thank me. Believe in yourself,
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Speaker 1: love yourself. Yeah, So what's on your mind today? I
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Speaker 1: just said, are you feeling pretty good today? Yeah? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I ain't. Yeah, you sound good. I feel good every day?
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Speaker 1: All right? You know, whatever it is, what if it is?
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Speaker 1: You know some days had some humore challenges in it
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Speaker 1: than others, and but I'm I've survived all of them
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Speaker 1: so far. This too show pass, that's for show, and
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Speaker 1: I'm expecting great things that happened in my life man.
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Speaker 1: And gratitude check yesterday. I really did had to do
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Speaker 1: a gratitude check because what I found out was as humans,
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Speaker 1: and I find myself guilty of this often in my
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Speaker 1: quest to do better and be better, in my quest
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Speaker 1: to accomplish the next level and reach for more goals
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Speaker 1: and get higher and higher, I sometimes forget to have
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Speaker 1: the right level of gratitude for where I am. And
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Speaker 1: if you pursue the quest wholeheartedly with everything that's in
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Speaker 1: you and is constantly grind, grind, gold, go go, go go.
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Speaker 1: You will humanly forget to say thank you and be
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Speaker 1: grateful for where you are. And now you've negated your opportunity,
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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey for further advancement. Because God, in his infinite
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Speaker 1: wisdom and supreme judgment, he's thinking, well, if he ain't
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Speaker 1: grateful for this, ain't no need of me overburdening him
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Speaker 1: with more. All if you're complaining about your present condition,
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Speaker 1: could God be also saying, maybe I don't need to
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Speaker 1: putting no more on them because this is causing so
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Speaker 1: much stress and problems. You know, Biggie said, more money,
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Speaker 1: more problems. But if you focus so much on the problems,
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Speaker 1: then maybe God won't give you more because he already
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Speaker 1: know you already complaining about this. M right, okay, all right,
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Speaker 1: dropped that knowledge. Exactly what I was gonna ask, Look
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Speaker 1: at God? All right? Coming up in thirty two minutes
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Speaker 1: after the hour, Junior is in for the nephew to
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Speaker 1: run that prank back. Right after this, you're listening to
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Speaker 1: morning show. It is time now to run that prank
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Speaker 1: back with Junior in for the nephew, which you got
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Speaker 1: Junior paper clips, go, I'm trying to read. I have
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Speaker 1: a ronic. How are you doing? My name is Philip.
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Speaker 1: I'm from CORP. How you doing? I'm good? Thank you?
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Speaker 1: How can I help you today? You were with the
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Speaker 1: company here? Uh see? You just left about what six
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Speaker 1: months ago? That's correct? Okay? And you left with a severance?
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Speaker 1: Am I right? That's right? I'm sorry, Philip. My name
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Speaker 1: is Philip. Philip. I'm actually calling on some security questions
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Speaker 1: and wanted to reach out to you. Now you you
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Speaker 1: own your own travel agency, now that's correct, okay? Um,
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Speaker 1: Now you actually left with the severance when you when
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Speaker 1: you left the company, is that right? That's right? Okay?
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Speaker 1: And how long were you actually with hy? I was
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Speaker 1: in the eight years. I'm sorry whom things are again?
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Speaker 1: My name is Philip. I'm with security and what can
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Speaker 1: I do for you? Philip? Uh? Well, we got we
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Speaker 1: have you. You started this business? Now did you start
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Speaker 1: it before you left? After I left here? One month?
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Speaker 1: So the reason why I'm giving you a call, and
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Speaker 1: I've been you know, we've gone through some security tapes
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Speaker 1: and things of that nature. We're missing so many rims
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Speaker 1: of paper, we're missing thousands of paper clips, We're missing
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Speaker 1: so many office supplies, and it's been brought to the
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Speaker 1: security's attention that it's targeting that you are the person
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Speaker 1: that has taken all of this office. I'm sorry, let
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Speaker 1: me get this right through us. You are calling my
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Speaker 1: place of business asking me if I have used paper
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Speaker 1: clips and paper. I have customers in my establishment right now.
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Speaker 1: I can't talk to you about this, okay, ma'am listen.
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Speaker 1: I know that I'm sorry for calling your place of business,
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Speaker 1: but I want to say this. We're at the point
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Speaker 1: of actually picking you up behind items that have been
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Speaker 1: taken from the company, so I wanted to call and
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Speaker 1: see if we could get it taken care of over
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Speaker 1: the phone. Now, So you gotta go, then I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: have to actually come out to your business, and that's
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Speaker 1: something that I'm trying not to do. You know what,
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Speaker 1: hold on? What that? If you hold that? Who is
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Speaker 1: this on my phone talking about from damn paper clips?
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Speaker 1: I have been gone from there for six months and
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Speaker 1: you calling me now about some paper and someone paper clips? Man,
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Speaker 1: we're missing at least five thousand paper clips. I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: tell you what you can do. I have been out
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Speaker 1: of that company for six months. I worked for y'all
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Speaker 1: for eight years and you won't let me go. I
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Speaker 1: didn't take anything from you. Okay. Have you ever used
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Speaker 1: any paper or any paper clips outside of Have you
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Speaker 1: done that? Of course I used paper every day I
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Speaker 1: run a business. Okay, But you're using our paper for
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Speaker 1: your own personal business, your travel agent or whatever it
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Speaker 1: is that you have. You're using office supplies. That right
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Speaker 1: there is against the law. Oh no, I will go
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Speaker 1: and buy you some damn paper clips. Okay, Well we
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Speaker 1: don't want paper clips. Man. Now we've given you a
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Speaker 1: severance play and for my understanding, it's been a substantial amount.
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Speaker 1: And right now it's gonna be filing charges and taking
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Speaker 1: you to court over these paper clips and paper. I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna tell you what you can do it in five
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Speaker 1: thousand paper clips on paper clips, them together and hang
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Speaker 1: you out for a boy. Your I ain't stealing the
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Speaker 1: damn paper clips. You're gonna call me six months way
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Speaker 1: to talk about some paper and paper clips, ma'am. I
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Speaker 1: don't want to go back to the book, Philip. I'm sorry,
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Speaker 1: this is some Phillip. So are you wanting to return
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Speaker 1: all the merchandise because it looks like I didn't take
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Speaker 1: no merchandise. I don't have to steal nothing from y'all.
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Speaker 1: I work for you for eight years. Something about for
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Speaker 1: eight years you stole paper paper clips, you stole all
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Speaker 1: the supplies, scissors, masking tape. You have taken markers, pens.
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Speaker 1: We got it down to know what video tape you got, Phillip.
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Speaker 1: I ain't steal nothing from y'all. I was an employee
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Speaker 1: of the year. You all gave me at seven packies.
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Speaker 1: How dare you call me six months later? You can
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Speaker 1: take the paper clips and shove them up you're behind
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Speaker 1: Excuse me? Are we done here? No, we're not done here.
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Speaker 1: So take your video tapes and your paper clips and
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Speaker 1: your scissors, and you know what to do with them. No, no,
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Speaker 1: I don't, ma'am. Now listen, what we're gonna have to
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Speaker 1: do is you're gonna get served right there at your
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Speaker 1: travel agency. Where are you located me? So you know what.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you my address because you come over here.
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Speaker 1: I got some scissors for your Philip. I don't have
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Speaker 1: time for this. You want my address, you can come
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Speaker 1: on over here. Look it up. Google me. We want
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Speaker 1: our paper clips back, Google me, come get them then,
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Speaker 1: matter of fact, give me your address, fell if I
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Speaker 1: bring them to you? Feel no damn paper clips. I'm
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Speaker 1: a Christian woman, and you got me on this phone
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Speaker 1: cussing and fighting with you. I'm not fighting to a
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Speaker 1: little paper clips. What's your address? Tellup? We're listening over
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Speaker 1: five thousand paper clips and we need those. Now, what's
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Speaker 1: your address? I'm gonna bring your damn paper and paper
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Speaker 1: clips to you? How about that? So you are tell
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Speaker 1: you are guilty of using a paper aren't you? We
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Speaker 1: all used paper filler? I don't feel, which means guess what.
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Speaker 1: It's against the law, which means you're helping your law something.
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Speaker 1: If you are taking one paper clip, it's against the law.
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Speaker 1: And you got pens in your car? Phillip that but corporation,
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Speaker 1: I bet you do. I work for the company. I'm
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Speaker 1: trying to run a business, so you're stealing too. Give
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Speaker 1: me your voice this number? You calling my damn phone
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Speaker 1: talking about some pens and paper clips? Here, wash your mine.
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Speaker 1: Give me your address. I'll bring the pens and paper clips.
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Speaker 1: You ain't gotta what you do thinking so many pens
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Speaker 1: and so many paper clips, thousands of runs and run
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Speaker 1: up business. Don't call my phone within, I'm talking about something.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play this to you now. I'm gonna go
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Speaker 1: ahead and order to come over. I'm ordering the police
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Speaker 1: to come and pick you up, okay, because I'm trying
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Speaker 1: to get the problem taking care about the phone. Bring
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Speaker 1: the police and you come with them. Come get it.
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Speaker 1: I got something for you when you get here and
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Speaker 1: bring them. You're calling me about some paper and paper clips.
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Speaker 1: I've been going from there for six months. Damn you
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Speaker 1: have stolen paper clips from the company and we want
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Speaker 1: our paper clips back. Bring your over here. You want
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Speaker 1: getting some damn paper clips, and I'm gonna call my
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Speaker 1: man so he can kick your over here if you
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Speaker 1: want to. You want to add dress, you want to
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Speaker 1: address up. Come on, I'm a professional. I'm trying to
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Speaker 1: run a business. I got to walk away from my
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Speaker 1: customers and get up about from pens and papers and
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Speaker 1: paper clipps because you stole over five thousand player, you
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Speaker 1: up faith, and you also you better be ready because
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Speaker 1: you're stowing some stuff with Tommy and he's been over here.
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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Tommy says, you're stowing a bunch of
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Speaker 1: hair stuff. Listen, I don't know no body name, don't
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Speaker 1: you don't know nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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Speaker 1: You don't know him. You gotta be kicking me. Your
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Speaker 1: girlfriend dorth THEA got me to prank fulk call you.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick her. I'm going to get her right now.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick her. Hey, let me ask you something, baby,
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Speaker 1: what is the bad is? I mean, the baddest radio
20:36
Speaker 1: show in the land. Steve Harvey Morning Show is on.
20:44
Speaker 1: All right? Coming up next to this, asked the Chief
20:46
Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey's right after this, you're listening Steve
20:51
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour,
20:55
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about the outrage and the grief that
20:58
Speaker 1: followed the release of the body candage of the brutal
21:01
Speaker 1: beating of twenty nine year old Tyree Nichols in Memphis,
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Speaker 1: Tennessee by five black former Memphis police officers. That's coming
21:10
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. But right now
21:12
Speaker 1: we're going to switch gears here and ask the clo.
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Speaker 1: All right, this one's from Tracy and Raleigh. Tracy right
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Speaker 1: to the CLO. I had two cats that stayed around
21:24
Speaker 1: my front porch since my divorce. My neighbor had animal
21:27
Speaker 1: control come and take them away, and he said he
21:31
Speaker 1: was doing me a favor. How do I nicely let
21:34
Speaker 1: him know that I don't need his help and to
21:37
Speaker 1: mind his own business? Did the way you just tag
21:40
Speaker 1: typed it? You have to say that out live, just
21:46
Speaker 1: ye take your email Steve Harmorshaw and say exactly that
21:55
Speaker 1: he know you single, you recently divorced. So now he
22:00
Speaker 1: trying to be mister healthful and he didn't overstepped his bound.
22:04
Speaker 1: Why is he suddenly so healthful? It's what you need
22:07
Speaker 1: to ask yourself. So he playing the hero. He want
22:11
Speaker 1: to save the damsel in distress. Yeah, man, still do that?
22:16
Speaker 1: Huh okay, all right, yeah, they still do it. It
22:19
Speaker 1: has changed since I wrote my book. I noticed in
22:21
Speaker 1: two thousand and nine the dating scene is completely changed, man,
22:25
Speaker 1: it's it's completely Yeah, you got time to call Adam
22:29
Speaker 1: Control for two cats. We started doing that, car. I
22:36
Speaker 1: see cats all time. I see cats all time. It
22:40
Speaker 1: ain't my house. Oh you didn't see it. Yeah, but
22:44
Speaker 1: it's girls. It ain't the girl to find ship across
22:48
Speaker 1: the streets. Take from me. That's true too. He don't
22:52
Speaker 1: get a damn about cats. Yeah, ok, yeah, that's not
22:57
Speaker 1: the point. Yeah, all right. Moving on to joan Ai
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Speaker 1: and Saint Louis, Janney says, my boyfriend hasn't had sex
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Speaker 1: with me in close to two weeks. We got an
23:08
Speaker 1: automated message on our voicemail from a pharmacy saying his
23:11
Speaker 1: prescription is ready. He said, it's a cream for chafing
23:16
Speaker 1: and chafing, and if so, why can't he show me?
23:21
Speaker 1: Is it something else? Ye think it's something else that yo,
23:26
Speaker 1: you ain't got. You don't need no prescription for chafing.
23:29
Speaker 1: Uh huh until you get caught his own. You caught
23:33
Speaker 1: his own. Ten you get anti edge, You can get
23:38
Speaker 1: a whole lot of stuff. They got a drill, got
23:42
Speaker 1: a cream. Yeah, you know, they got all that. You
23:44
Speaker 1: can put corn starch on you. You ain't got to
23:47
Speaker 1: do that. He wiiting on that prescription. Now, a couple
23:51
Speaker 1: of things could have happened. Maybe your boyfriend has an
23:56
Speaker 1: issue that you don't know about, and you sometimes do
24:00
Speaker 1: you have to wait for them pills to come through
24:02
Speaker 1: on the prescription because they're very popular right now. All
24:06
Speaker 1: The only other thing to consider is he's saving you
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Speaker 1: for some sexually transmitted disease that he acquired while being
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Speaker 1: out in the streets, and he's waiting on the medicine
24:17
Speaker 1: to come in. And he's already got the medicine, but
24:19
Speaker 1: he got to wait till the run out of his system.
24:22
Speaker 1: That cadesto or ding ding ding ding ding. Two more weeks.
24:27
Speaker 1: It is two more weeks. Yeah, yeah, yellow, all right.
24:34
Speaker 1: Moving on to Fabian and Huntsville. Fabian says, hey, Steve,
24:38
Speaker 1: I'm dating a younger man and he is proud to
24:40
Speaker 1: call me his lady, but I'm not ready to give
24:43
Speaker 1: him a title. He got mad when I introduced him
24:46
Speaker 1: as my assistant when we ran into my pastor and
24:49
Speaker 1: as the man. Why is he stuck on having a
24:52
Speaker 1: title because he's not about because he's doing the same
24:57
Speaker 1: thing y'all do. Don't y'all want titles? Oh now you
25:01
Speaker 1: just set up here and put it on. A little
25:03
Speaker 1: young boy got his head all messed up. Now he
25:05
Speaker 1: won't a title. Now you ain't show you want to
25:07
Speaker 1: give it to her. But you're introducing until your past
25:11
Speaker 1: m was my assistant. This little boy, this in him,
25:19
Speaker 1: very take care of he. Uh, this is a do Davis.
25:26
Speaker 1: This is Davis. What's his name? Dog? Davis? Dog? Davis.
25:31
Speaker 1: He got he got a young ass name to her
25:34
Speaker 1: name Carolyn, Carolyn, her name Carolyn, His name, Doc Davis.
25:41
Speaker 1: You already could tell by the name. Her girlfriend named Gwen.
25:45
Speaker 1: And the other one Bob. Yeah, no, he didn't show
25:51
Speaker 1: it up at the house, Dog Davis. He'd about one
25:53
Speaker 1: of his friends over. John Vantire, he got him names.
26:03
Speaker 1: What was your moment? This is j J Vantia and
26:08
Speaker 1: Davis going out with Gwenn and Bob. There's sisters. Hey,
26:16
Speaker 1: y'all got anybody want to date my friend? What's your
26:19
Speaker 1: friend's name? Oh, Patricia? Oh? Okay? And what's your friend's name?
26:28
Speaker 1: Sean Delicious? We just call him Shawnnie Day. So he
26:42
Speaker 1: wants the title he wants to. He's proud of the
26:45
Speaker 1: woman that he's dating right now, even though she is older.
26:48
Speaker 1: All right, Moving on last one, Steve, This runs from
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Speaker 1: Gloria Gloria. Here we go Gloria and Queen's. Gloria writes,
26:56
Speaker 1: my husband of almost twenty five years had a few
26:59
Speaker 1: new moves, was in bed and I loved it. So
27:03
Speaker 1: I did a few new moves on him too, but
27:05
Speaker 1: he couldn't handle it. He immediately thought I was cheating.
27:10
Speaker 1: I don't even think like that. Why can't he be
27:13
Speaker 1: open minded like me? What you got for, glorious fellow,
27:17
Speaker 1: well open minded? Your husband is thinking where you being
27:22
Speaker 1: to get this new stuff? Because he got some new stuff. Uh,
27:28
Speaker 1: and she didn't think that. She didn't accuse him of
27:31
Speaker 1: cheating when he did. She just yeah, she just see.
27:35
Speaker 1: She ain't stupid though he's stupid. Stupid, yeah, because the
27:41
Speaker 1: change means something that's right, that's right. See, it's it's
27:47
Speaker 1: two different kinds of stupid in this. He's stupid for
27:53
Speaker 1: exposing what he didn't learned somewhere. She's stupid for not
27:59
Speaker 1: recognized and the new learn lesson. So it's two stupids
28:04
Speaker 1: him right then he dumb up accusing her cheating. Where
28:12
Speaker 1: you get the new move from? I know where I
28:14
Speaker 1: got mine from? Where you get your from? That's the stupidity.
28:21
Speaker 1: So I'm not saying any of this is happening to
28:23
Speaker 1: the lady that wrote the letter, But I'm saying there's
28:25
Speaker 1: a lot of stupid. Gloria Loia and Gloria old because
28:32
Speaker 1: don't nobody name the kid Gloria no moment? What if?
28:36
Speaker 1: What would her name be today? Gloria? Uh? Huh oh,
28:43
Speaker 1: come on, glow, Keisha Rush. It's hard to say what
28:51
Speaker 1: is low? Keisha Rushing, thank you for alone. Coming up
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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. A special news update
29:03
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening. Okay, So some sad news.
29:11
Speaker 1: On yesterday afternoon, comedian and our Friend radio show host
29:15
Speaker 1: Ricky Smiley announced the passing of his oldest son, Brandon Smiley.
29:20
Speaker 1: This was done in a video that was posted on Instagram.
29:24
Speaker 1: Ricky said, I lost my oldest son, Brandon this morning.
29:28
Speaker 1: I'm okay, but please pray for my son's mother, Brenda,
29:31
Speaker 1: his siblings, and his daughter Storm. And a separate post,
29:35
Speaker 1: Ricky pointed he posted, May your battles keep you near
29:39
Speaker 1: the cross, May your struggles show you that you need God.
29:42
Speaker 1: May your battles end the way it should, and may
29:45
Speaker 1: your bad days prove that God is good. Our prayers,
29:49
Speaker 1: of course, go out to Ricky and the entire family
29:54
Speaker 1: on behalf of Steve Harvey. Wow. Very smartbreaking, Yeah, very
30:01
Speaker 1: very sad and shocking. Surprising. Yeah, yeah, no, we've been texting,
30:09
Speaker 1: but I'll just keep that private. Um, you know, it's
30:14
Speaker 1: just and what can you say? Yeah, yeah, condolences, thoughts
30:22
Speaker 1: of prayers because I don't know if they want the
30:24
Speaker 1: reason out there or nothing like that, but you know
30:30
Speaker 1: we're praying for the absolutely Ricky. You know you're in
30:35
Speaker 1: our hearts and we love you. And to another horrific story. UM,
30:41
Speaker 1: all weekend we've been following the news from Memphis, Memphis, Tennessee.
30:45
Speaker 1: Of course, we are outraged over the body cam video
30:49
Speaker 1: footage of five Memphis police officers who brutally and savagely
30:54
Speaker 1: beat twenty nine year old Tyree Nichols after a traffic stop.
30:59
Speaker 1: The footage was released on Friday and came from a
31:02
Speaker 1: sky cop camera and police officers body cameras. Police can
31:06
Speaker 1: be heard yelling at Nichols to get out of his car.
31:09
Speaker 1: Then you see the officers forcibly removing Nichols from his car.
31:13
Speaker 1: The officers kick Nichols in the face and his abdomen,
31:17
Speaker 1: struck him with a baton, and the upper body punched
31:20
Speaker 1: him in the face and upper body area. Nichols was
31:24
Speaker 1: heard screaming mom mom as he was being held down,
31:27
Speaker 1: and pepper sprayed repeatedly mom as he was being held down.
31:33
Speaker 1: Nichols died three days later in a Memphis hospital. The
31:36
Speaker 1: five former Memphis police officers to Darius Bean, Demetrius Hayley,
31:42
Speaker 1: Emmett Martin the Third, Desmond Mills Junior, and Justin Smith,
31:45
Speaker 1: who are all black, have been arrested and charged with murder,
31:51
Speaker 1: with kidnapping, assault, and misconduct to Memphis firefighters involved in
31:55
Speaker 1: nichols initial medical care were also terminated. Protest that's were
32:00
Speaker 1: held all over the country this weekend, and Nichol's mother
32:03
Speaker 1: pleaded with everyone to please remain peaceful and protesting out
32:07
Speaker 1: of respect for her fixed story. Horrific video footage. You know, Um,
32:15
Speaker 1: I'm just it's alarming to me. Two things. First of all,
32:26
Speaker 1: I just I'm at a loss. This has been happening
32:31
Speaker 1: to us by the police for so long, for so
32:36
Speaker 1: many incidents, over and over and over. It's hard to
32:41
Speaker 1: frame this. But when I look at this video and
32:46
Speaker 1: I see these black thugs killing this black boy, I mean,
32:54
Speaker 1: the punchous this dude was throwing on this innocent soul.
33:04
Speaker 1: It looked like street fighting. It looked like they were
33:06
Speaker 1: just beating, like just ganging up on the handcuff. But
33:14
Speaker 1: you low down, coward, yes, yes, coward, yeah, but you
33:22
Speaker 1: know these dudes man horrible. Now, I tell you what
33:26
Speaker 1: I do, command the police chief, the woman that's the
33:31
Speaker 1: head of the Memphis Police Department. She didn't waste no time. No,
33:36
Speaker 1: that's right, But that's right. These are black dudes, man. Yeah,
33:41
Speaker 1: killing a black boy younger than all of the heartbreaking.
33:46
Speaker 1: I have so many feelings about that that I can't
33:49
Speaker 1: say on the radio because what I really want to say,
33:53
Speaker 1: I know it's gonna cost me something, and I don't
33:56
Speaker 1: want to make insight anybody or make especially his family
34:02
Speaker 1: and stuff. They own their radio. We big on the
34:05
Speaker 1: radio and Memphish, you know. Yeah, but that's what Steve.
34:11
Speaker 1: It seems like too the police department. You know, we
34:13
Speaker 1: saw what happened, uh with George Floyd. You know this
34:17
Speaker 1: goes on all around the country white black officers. Now
34:20
Speaker 1: that we're seeing this with black officers, it's the corrupt
34:24
Speaker 1: thing that's going on in the police departments, and they
34:28
Speaker 1: they have to change. It has to be a change
34:32
Speaker 1: for justice and for you to not five of y'all
34:36
Speaker 1: stood around and beat this man to death for what
34:41
Speaker 1: never told him. How has the culture changed to where
34:49
Speaker 1: now the black police, yes, that's what I'm saying, are
34:54
Speaker 1: as bad as the bad white police. See when when
35:00
Speaker 1: did that shift happen because and it was recently too.
35:05
Speaker 1: It was recently, you know. You know, look, we've always
35:10
Speaker 1: had tough black cops in the black neighborhood. We knew
35:12
Speaker 1: who they were. You know, you couldn't go downtown to
35:16
Speaker 1: certain cops jails. We knew who they were. But it
35:21
Speaker 1: was limited. This this been but but but once again,
35:26
Speaker 1: you thank God for social media, and you thank God
35:29
Speaker 1: for technology and cameras because if they'd have used in
35:32
Speaker 1: body cams, this would have been a distorted view. But
35:35
Speaker 1: when you see it from that camera, that parking lot,
35:37
Speaker 1: it's very different. Many people, Yes, all right, coming up
35:42
Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of
35:44
Speaker 1: a Steve Harvey Morning Show as we switched gears and
35:46
Speaker 1: bring in Sister Odell right after this. You're listening to,
35:53
Speaker 1: all right, Sister O'Dell is here, ladies and gentlemen, Oh
35:58
Speaker 1: if she is lost and na man Jesus in my lord,
36:08
Speaker 1: my lord went on. Need to waste in time because
36:10
Speaker 1: my sign miss is getting shouted and shouting, so I
36:14
Speaker 1: man needs to come on it. I just told you
36:16
Speaker 1: what it was. Okay, all right, but we love you
36:19
Speaker 1: just the same though, uh And good morning, Good morning, Sherley,
36:25
Speaker 1: Good morning Collie. Hey sister out there, Good morning Mississippi
36:30
Speaker 1: junior boy. Where's time it this morning? What is he doing?
36:34
Speaker 1: He's all today? It's Monday, Okay, he gets on Mondays,
36:38
Speaker 1: he's on Monday. Oh okay. What is he performing somewhere
36:42
Speaker 1: in now? I don't Usually that's the case. Usually that's
36:47
Speaker 1: the case. I like that show he got Wanting to Love,
36:50
Speaker 1: you know, it's just ready to yes, man, Well, if
36:54
Speaker 1: you're ready, ain't you wanting to this man? This man,
37:00
Speaker 1: Sister Odell, Since you say you don't have a lot
37:02
Speaker 1: of time, I wanted to, um, just bring you up
37:06
Speaker 1: to speed on a couple of things. Uh. You know.
37:08
Speaker 1: ABC News has officially parted ways with GMA three anchors
37:12
Speaker 1: t J. Holmes and Ab Robot. On Friday. They were
37:15
Speaker 1: both fired, and an ABC spokesperson stated that quote, we
37:20
Speaker 1: all agreed it's best for everybody involved that they move
37:23
Speaker 1: on from ABC News. We recognize their talent and commitment
37:26
Speaker 1: over the years. We're thankful for their contributions. So, Sister Roville,
37:30
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you what do you think about that?
37:33
Speaker 1: Should they be Well, first of all, that's a read,
37:35
Speaker 1: that's a very white statement, We want to thank you
37:38
Speaker 1: for your contribution, but we don't buy you. That's a
37:42
Speaker 1: that's a mnor white statement. Rocket say it's the same thing,
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Speaker 1: and don't say a damn thing. But I don't know
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Speaker 1: who J who are? Who are t K thought it was?
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Speaker 1: It's TJ's t TK t J. Were you in union
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Speaker 1: and you want to that's his name? T K, t
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Speaker 1: P t D. You know he out of work, ain't he? Oh?
38:14
Speaker 1: And all of it because he was went to WG back.
38:20
Speaker 1: You know, black ass, thank you. That's gonna saw day
38:23
Speaker 1: these white women on on national TV, and the white
38:26
Speaker 1: folks ain't gonna say nothing about it. It ain't this
38:29
Speaker 1: ain't nothing. But twenty twenty three is a whole look
38:35
Speaker 1: a whole lot to me, like nineteen thirty three, I
38:39
Speaker 1: would got enough change, Like stick around for another segment.
38:44
Speaker 1: Y'all didn't ask me now, well, I wanted to ask
38:47
Speaker 1: you back in the day, did you date any of
38:49
Speaker 1: your co workers? Did you and Frederick Douglas hang out?
38:52
Speaker 1: What what happened? But Frederick was black, That Turner was black,
38:59
Speaker 1: Ralph abbing at they were you know, markush Govy was black. Alright,
39:08
Speaker 1: all right, sister, Odell coming up next. Kanye let the
39:12
Speaker 1: paparazzi push him to the limit over the weekend. We'll
39:15
Speaker 1: talk about that right after this. You're listening to the
39:19
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well he's back in the news, Steve.
39:23
Speaker 1: Kanye West is now facing a battery charge after he
39:27
Speaker 1: confronted a woman that was filming him while she was
39:30
Speaker 1: just sitting in her car. Kanye asked the woman to
39:34
Speaker 1: stop filming him, and she responded, hey, you're a celebrity.
39:38
Speaker 1: Kanye then reached into her car, grabbed her phone, and
39:42
Speaker 1: threw it over her car. This was after he pleaded
39:48
Speaker 1: with other paparazzi to please stop filming him while he
39:51
Speaker 1: was trying to go see his child's basketball game. Kanye
39:55
Speaker 1: said he just wanted to see his children, and one
39:57
Speaker 1: paparazzi rudely asked, well, can't you see you children at home?
40:01
Speaker 1: Kanye said it's his right not to be filmed. He
40:05
Speaker 1: said it's human rights. Later that same day, Kim was
40:08
Speaker 1: spighted leaving her child's basketball game and paparazzi asked her
40:13
Speaker 1: about Kanye snatching and throwing the woman's phone, and Kim
40:16
Speaker 1: told the paparazzi not to ask her about that in
40:19
Speaker 1: front of her children as she got in the car. So, Steve,
40:22
Speaker 1: I got to ask you, how bad is the paparazzi.
40:24
Speaker 1: I mean, you're a star, you get filmed all the time.
40:27
Speaker 1: They follow you everywhere. Can it be dangerous when they're
40:30
Speaker 1: fighting to get the best picture or the best video
40:33
Speaker 1: of a celebrity. Yeah. I don't get the uproar clamor
40:37
Speaker 1: type stuff. I'm in front of paparazzi. Paparazzi, But what
40:42
Speaker 1: I try to do, First of all, I try to
40:43
Speaker 1: avoid going places where they are when they are. I've
40:49
Speaker 1: known a lot of them for years. We have a
40:51
Speaker 1: really cool relationship. Secondly, they gonna take your picture. It's
40:59
Speaker 1: what they do. It's how they earn a living. There
41:02
Speaker 1: are no laws in the United States about it. I
41:05
Speaker 1: wish there were. Kanye is right, it's a violation of
41:09
Speaker 1: your space and your privacy, but they have no laws
41:12
Speaker 1: in place with the United States to do that. Kanye
41:15
Speaker 1: is right about that, And you don't want to be
41:18
Speaker 1: filmed everywhere. I get filmed eating, I get filmed standing
41:21
Speaker 1: talking to another person. I get film getting in and
41:24
Speaker 1: out of the car. Stuff like that. You don't want it,
41:27
Speaker 1: you don't like it. The problem Kanye has is you
41:32
Speaker 1: cannot and I know how he feels, but you can't
41:36
Speaker 1: grab nobody's phone and throw it. No, you grab this
41:40
Speaker 1: white lady phone. Dog. This different touching her property. You
41:44
Speaker 1: to grab kill phone. We wouldn't even be talking about this,
41:51
Speaker 1: but you to grab this woman's phone and throw it.
41:53
Speaker 1: And I understand where he coming from, but he's not
42:00
Speaker 1: thinking that. He you know, Look, you want to have
42:05
Speaker 1: a private moment. You want to just go see your
42:07
Speaker 1: kids at a basketball game. I got that you you
42:11
Speaker 1: asked her to stop feeling she said, But you're a celebrity,
42:14
Speaker 1: see people soon. That's what they're saying. It comes to territory.
42:19
Speaker 1: If you don't want the territory, get out of it.
42:22
Speaker 1: But that's unfair. That's unfair for you to make this
42:25
Speaker 1: moment the territory that you decided for him to be in.
42:30
Speaker 1: It's unfair when you, as an individual, take another person's
42:35
Speaker 1: moment and decide, now, this is our moment, not just
42:38
Speaker 1: your moment. That's not fair. And if people did it
42:41
Speaker 1: to you constantly, I'm telling you, it wears on you
42:44
Speaker 1: after a while, and you would get sick of it.
42:46
Speaker 1: Yourself if you were sitting there eating and you just
42:49
Speaker 1: looked over people were filming you. Hey man, me and
42:53
Speaker 1: Marjorie go to dinner. Even out of the country, people
42:57
Speaker 1: will hold their phone up at another table and act
43:00
Speaker 1: like they're doing a selfie and have to have you
43:03
Speaker 1: in the picture. They do it all the time, you know.
43:09
Speaker 1: But yeah, but from go ahead. No, some people like
43:13
Speaker 1: you say, think that because you're a celebrity, that's the
43:15
Speaker 1: price you pay, that's part of and they think it's
43:18
Speaker 1: their right. But it's not your right to determine for me. Like,
43:24
Speaker 1: for example, can I have a picture? No? Not today?
43:27
Speaker 1: Why I had? I had? No? White dude asked me
43:31
Speaker 1: that seventeen year olds, Hey, Steve Harvey, I want a video?
43:34
Speaker 1: I said no, not today. Why, Both of my sons said,
43:37
Speaker 1: because he said so. Because hold man, that's my daddy.
43:42
Speaker 1: He does. He tell us something. It's it's just like
43:45
Speaker 1: absolute law. But and then he gotta finish. Why what
43:49
Speaker 1: you need to get your little puck ass out of
43:51
Speaker 1: here for? I don't thank you very much? Right, Yeah, okay,
43:58
Speaker 1: I'm moving on. Kanye needs to stop doing stupid stuff though,
44:07
Speaker 1: please leave people's stuff alone, all right? Coming up, next,
44:11
Speaker 1: Junior's in for the nephew with today's prank phone call.
44:14
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Morning Show,
44:19
Speaker 1: coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's
44:22
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is get
44:25
Speaker 1: a load of this subject. Guys, how did he know
44:27
Speaker 1: where to put it? Okay, that's the subject. How did
44:32
Speaker 1: he know where to put it? Okay, we'll get into
44:35
Speaker 1: that in just a few because right now, Junior is
44:38
Speaker 1: in for the nephew with today's prank phone call. Junior,
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Speaker 1: what you got for us today? Okay? Charlotte, you know
44:45
Speaker 1: sometimes I get I get upset mouthing these pranks because
44:48
Speaker 1: the titles because I'm stupid, he is, because when you
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Speaker 1: hit titles, you know it's gonna be crazy. Today's tyler
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Speaker 1: is give me my aunt back. I don't know what
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Speaker 1: your are. I don't know what this is about, what
45:03
Speaker 1: the title is? Give me my own back? Okay, let's
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Speaker 1: go catch Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Philip. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's this is Philip. Hey, how you doing? What? Who
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Speaker 1: is this? Are you? Philip? Up? Is that who you are? Yes?
45:19
Speaker 1: This is Philip? Okay, there is there is There is
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Speaker 1: your son. Dude, dude, you know what there is? Okay,
45:26
Speaker 1: calm down, yes, okay, who is my son? Calmed down?
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Speaker 1: First of all, is your son? Is he there at
45:33
Speaker 1: the house right now? Okay? That okay, that's not the issue.
45:36
Speaker 1: What the issue is? What do you what do you need? Sir?
45:40
Speaker 1: My name is Burns, okay, and I live two streets
45:43
Speaker 1: over from y'all. Do your son play with a boy
45:46
Speaker 1: named tim My Timmith? Yes, they grew up together. They
45:49
Speaker 1: play ball together. That that's where they are now. They
45:51
Speaker 1: playing ball right now? What they playing balling right now?
45:55
Speaker 1: The down there at the park. The play ball. That's
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Speaker 1: what they always at the park. That's what I need
45:59
Speaker 1: to know. I need to know where they are. Let
46:01
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Hold, I saying, Hold, I'm saying
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Speaker 1: what you need to know where they are for? And
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Speaker 1: what and what you're gonna do? What is the problem?
46:08
Speaker 1: My de boys? There is and pim come they They
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Speaker 1: was walking up my street to day and came over here.
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Speaker 1: I have a prosthetic arm. My right arm is prosthetic,
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Speaker 1: and they know what. Hold Hold hold on saying hold
46:21
Speaker 1: you say you got a prosthetic arm, Yes, I do.
46:24
Speaker 1: My right arm is a prosthetic arm, and the boys
46:27
Speaker 1: came over. They got to do with my son. Your
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Speaker 1: boy and that boy Tim came over here and pulled
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Speaker 1: my arm off of me and ran down the street
46:34
Speaker 1: with it. The hold on, saying hold on, I'm saying, hold,
46:37
Speaker 1: I'm saying you try to tell me that that that
46:40
Speaker 1: you lost your arm to my son and his friend
46:43
Speaker 1: and they ran off with your arm. They played basketball?
46:46
Speaker 1: Is that what you're telling me? So I'm telling you
46:49
Speaker 1: that I don't know what. I didn't know nothing about
46:51
Speaker 1: no basketball. They didn't came and took my prosthetic arm
46:54
Speaker 1: off of me. And I'm saying, hold, I'm saying me,
46:57
Speaker 1: tell you something that don't sound like what something my
46:59
Speaker 1: son do. Okay, exactly what they do where they're going
47:03
Speaker 1: at all times, and that's not something that they would do.
47:06
Speaker 1: I'm sick a player talking about what they kid, we'll
47:09
Speaker 1: do it, won't do. You don't know what they do
47:11
Speaker 1: when they with y'all. I'm glad you told me they
47:13
Speaker 1: say at the park, because I'm gonna go right over
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Speaker 1: here to this far now and when I found him,
47:17
Speaker 1: I'm a woman. Can't get my hold back, Okay, hold on,
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Speaker 1: hold on, Hold on, say hold on, just hold everything. Okay,
47:24
Speaker 1: hold on sagon now, because you don't say that you
47:27
Speaker 1: gonna go do something that I know you don't really mean.
47:30
Speaker 1: All right, say what I mean exactly what I'm saying.
47:33
Speaker 1: They got my all? How you thinking feels somebody trying sir? Okay, look,
47:38
Speaker 1: let's try to keep disrespectful. All right. All right, you
47:41
Speaker 1: say they got your arm, right, how about this, You're
47:45
Speaker 1: going to go get my boys? Okay, First of all,
47:48
Speaker 1: I will meet you at the park. I will meet
47:50
Speaker 1: you at the park, and we're gonna talk to talk
47:53
Speaker 1: about the situation like like gentlemen. Okay, they't No, they
47:56
Speaker 1: don't need for you to go down there and start
47:57
Speaker 1: mental with youngsters. Okay, all right, that's what we're gonna do.
48:00
Speaker 1: Tell me, you know, I'm still a good guy. They've
48:03
Speaker 1: got my all. Third, with all due respect, okay, you're
48:07
Speaker 1: talking about my son, and I know what he is
48:11
Speaker 1: capable of doing and what he's not gonna do, and
48:13
Speaker 1: he don't disrespect older people like that, especially with somebody
48:16
Speaker 1: with it with an impairment of disablement or whatever you got.
48:19
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about your arms. I'm I'm on the hill.
48:23
Speaker 1: I'm I'm trying. I'm man. If you, of course, do
48:25
Speaker 1: you not think taking somebody all is disrespectful, that's disrespectful
48:29
Speaker 1: to take off the old man all and run down
48:32
Speaker 1: the street with sir, disrespectful? But what it? What it is? Not?
48:35
Speaker 1: What it is not disrespectful. Also as you telling me,
48:38
Speaker 1: you're gonna go up there and what my son, and
48:40
Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen. Okay, that's what I'm gonna do.
48:45
Speaker 1: I'm hung up as soon as I get away the
48:47
Speaker 1: heads off, Okay, all second, sir, he's gonna do what
48:50
Speaker 1: to my sons. I'm anna son up as soon as
48:53
Speaker 1: I get to this part. And the ain't pitment that's
48:56
Speaker 1: with it because they took my arm and they know
48:58
Speaker 1: they did. I'm gonnakay. Let me tell you something. You
49:01
Speaker 1: don't call me up disrespecting me and threatening my son.
49:04
Speaker 1: Do you know what you're talking to I'll tell you
49:06
Speaker 1: what you do. Say you would you com wait to
49:08
Speaker 1: that party and just read on my son wrong? Okay,
49:11
Speaker 1: say his name wrong? Okay, say it, and then I'll
49:14
Speaker 1: tell you what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna take your
49:16
Speaker 1: other arm and I'm gonna beat here. Let me tell
49:19
Speaker 1: you something. Let me tell you something. I don't think.
49:21
Speaker 1: Don't think? Okay, who who's this? Who? Wing on? Because
49:24
Speaker 1: I'm there? I whoop? You ain't your song? Because going on,
49:26
Speaker 1: I'll punish you. Okay, Come on, family, you ain't gonna
49:31
Speaker 1: know what to do with your life because you can't
49:32
Speaker 1: find your arm. You ain't got no sense, and you're
49:35
Speaker 1: over here with the wrong people's family. All right. You
49:37
Speaker 1: don't know, you don't know what happened? Are you don't know?
49:41
Speaker 1: I lost my don't know what happened? You quiet? You know?
49:47
Speaker 1: You know? I know what happened? My aar? Why is
49:51
Speaker 1: you quiet? Let me ask you something, mister sensidents? What
49:55
Speaker 1: the problem? You know? You know what? You know? It's
50:00
Speaker 1: the arm. You don't know how I lost it. I
50:02
Speaker 1: don't know how you've lost your arm. I really I
50:04
Speaker 1: don't give it. You just I don't know who got
50:10
Speaker 1: your arm? My son and got your arm? No, you're so,
50:12
Speaker 1: he don't he don't he don't have my arm. Tommy
50:16
Speaker 1: Tommy got my arm? Who got your arm? Tommy got it?
50:22
Speaker 1: Tommy Tommy got it? Tell me the one got the arm?
50:26
Speaker 1: Joe who Tommy man? Tommy man nephew Tommy from the
50:30
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, your son Darius, fifteen year old,
50:35
Speaker 1: got me the frank phone call you. Oh yo, man,
50:48
Speaker 1: yo yo. He called you and told me that he
50:55
Speaker 1: don't punishment. I knew he wasn't gonna do No, it's
51:00
Speaker 1: been double time now. Oh man, you are y'all something else?
51:13
Speaker 1: Oh man a man, I gotta ask you, man, what's
51:16
Speaker 1: the what's the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
51:20
Speaker 1: show in the lands, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
51:25
Speaker 1: already know that? See that? Why you were right? Jun?
51:30
Speaker 1: Why right play? You're prosthetic? All? Why would you call?
51:36
Speaker 1: How is he still stupid? And he's not even here?
51:41
Speaker 1: It's just built in on him. That just just like,
51:45
Speaker 1: can't you imagine if if if I could just say
51:49
Speaker 1: one thing, how many proud moments have you had of him?
51:52
Speaker 1: It can't be a whole lot of them when you
51:57
Speaker 1: can count you mean birth? Yeah, oh, probably one of
52:05
Speaker 1: the ah, we're all we're definitely talking fingers now, hand
52:15
Speaker 1: one of my hands down. Yeah. I think when he
52:18
Speaker 1: graduated from Texas A and M as the first black
52:21
Speaker 1: ever with a theater arts major, that was pretty bad.
52:28
Speaker 1: I think that one of the other proud moments was
52:34
Speaker 1: when I was like, I wasn't really proud most tune
52:37
Speaker 1: somebody had a baby with him. That was another I didn't.
52:45
Speaker 1: I didn't understand that at all. I was I thought
52:49
Speaker 1: process struggling to me where that was her mind that
52:56
Speaker 1: she thought having an offspring with this ignorant as oh,
53:03
Speaker 1: let's see one more, one more to give? Oh no, no,
53:11
Speaker 1: no no, having a TV show fast in this loan.
53:15
Speaker 1: That's pretty okay, all right, big moment, Yeah sure, all right,
53:25
Speaker 1: Thank you child, Thank you Junior, and thank you nephew
53:33
Speaker 1: for those moments. Coming up next, Strawberry letter subject how
53:36
Speaker 1: did he know where to put it? All right, we'll
53:38
Speaker 1: get into that. We'll find out what that's all about.
53:41
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. It
53:47
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53:49
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54:14
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54:17
Speaker 1: straving the Strawberry letter. But my good friend, Shirley Strawpie,
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Speaker 1: thank you, my good friend junior subject? How did he
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Speaker 1: know where to put it? Okay, Dear Stephen Shirley. I've
54:28
Speaker 1: been married for six years and all was well in
54:31
Speaker 1: my marriage until one of my closest friends moved to
54:34
Speaker 1: my side of town. She's divorced, and she bought a
54:38
Speaker 1: new home closer to where we live. When she and
54:41
Speaker 1: her husband started to have problems, my husband stopped talking
54:45
Speaker 1: to him because he didn't like the way her husband
54:47
Speaker 1: treated her. My granny lives with us, and she didn't
54:52
Speaker 1: understand why my husband cared so much. I don't get
54:56
Speaker 1: into discussions about my husband and marriage with my grandmother
54:59
Speaker 1: because she find fault with everything. When my close friend
55:03
Speaker 1: would stop by our house, my Grannie would keep an
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Speaker 1: eye on her. She didn't like my husband having kind
55:09
Speaker 1: words for my friend at all. I took it with
55:11
Speaker 1: a grain of salt because Granny is so negative most
55:14
Speaker 1: of the time. But I did stop my friend from
55:17
Speaker 1: popping up at our house before she went out so
55:20
Speaker 1: I could see her dressed up nicely. Granny said it
55:23
Speaker 1: was more for my husband than for me. It did
55:27
Speaker 1: raise a red flag, but I didn't let Granny know. Then,
55:31
Speaker 1: my friend had a housewarming party and she needed wood
55:34
Speaker 1: for her fireplace, so I told her we'd bring some.
55:38
Speaker 1: My husband came in a few minutes after us, and
55:40
Speaker 1: I asked him if he was going to get the wood.
55:43
Speaker 1: He said he already put it out back. My friend
55:47
Speaker 1: thanked him, and Grannie asked how he knew where to
55:51
Speaker 1: put it. A hush fell over the room. He said
55:55
Speaker 1: he assumed it went on the patio. Granny then asked
55:59
Speaker 1: how he knew where the patio was. Come on, Granny,
56:02
Speaker 1: he said, he assumed it was out back. My friend
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Speaker 1: and my husband looked uncomfortable, and Granny looked at me
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Speaker 1: and whispered, don't be stupid, tam. Is she just being Granny?
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Speaker 1: Or am I being stupid? What is going on? All right?
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Speaker 1: It's it's a little bit of both, meaning that Granny
56:23
Speaker 1: was right, and yes, you were stupid for ignoring that
56:26
Speaker 1: feeling you had in your gut or the red flags
56:30
Speaker 1: as you call them. Red flags pop up for a reason, Okay,
56:34
Speaker 1: that's why they're called red flags. And when you know,
56:38
Speaker 1: and when has anyone's granny been wrong about this kind
56:42
Speaker 1: of stuff? Okay, it's called wisdom. It is called wisdom.
56:46
Speaker 1: It's called they've lived long enough to have seen just
56:50
Speaker 1: about everything in life, and they certainly know when a
56:52
Speaker 1: woman is trying to get at another woman's man. It's
56:55
Speaker 1: just something that grannies have, Okay, older women. But the
56:59
Speaker 1: really stupid here is your husband, Your husband who couldn't
57:03
Speaker 1: even play off the fact that he knew exactly where
57:06
Speaker 1: everything was at your friend's house because why because could
57:12
Speaker 1: it be that he's been there before? Sounds like it.
57:15
Speaker 1: It looked very suspicious when you when all you guys
57:19
Speaker 1: were inside, and he took the firewood and put it
57:21
Speaker 1: in the very place it was supposed to go. He
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Speaker 1: didn't come in and ask your friend any questions about
57:27
Speaker 1: where it should go. He didn't bring it inside and
57:29
Speaker 1: put it down somewhere anywhere. Nope, he put it where
57:33
Speaker 1: he always puts it when he comes over. And that's
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Speaker 1: when granny knew for sure, and she put him on
57:39
Speaker 1: blast with her questions. And Granny's right, you know that.
57:43
Speaker 1: Don't be stupid, Tim no, you didn't catch them together,
57:46
Speaker 1: and you don't have any facts or anything, but you
57:49
Speaker 1: got your granny on the case, and clearly something is
57:52
Speaker 1: going on. So thank you to the granny in this
57:54
Speaker 1: letter and for all the grannies out there. Steve. It's
58:00
Speaker 1: so hard to follow this one because who wants to
58:04
Speaker 1: respond after that eloquent display of respect for the elder
58:11
Speaker 1: I usually want to be respectful of elderly people, but damn,
58:18
Speaker 1: she gave this woman all the respect at a relation
58:23
Speaker 1: admiration critic just gave it up, you know, Sherley trying
58:30
Speaker 1: to go Christian on this one. Honored our mother and
58:33
Speaker 1: their father and our days on this earth. She'll be long,
58:36
Speaker 1: you know. I'm I'm really been to run the risk
58:39
Speaker 1: and getting cut off early because I don't really I
58:43
Speaker 1: see some other stuff in this letter, So here I go.
58:47
Speaker 1: How did he know where to put it? You've been
58:50
Speaker 1: married for six years and everything was going good until
58:53
Speaker 1: you One of your closest friends moved on your side
58:56
Speaker 1: of town. She got divorce and she bought a new
58:59
Speaker 1: house closer where y'all live. And when she and her
59:02
Speaker 1: husband started to have problems, your husband stop talking to
59:06
Speaker 1: him because he ain't like the way her husband treated her. Well,
59:10
Speaker 1: obviously he had some information y'all didn't have because they
59:13
Speaker 1: was boys, and he kind of went, you old dog,
59:17
Speaker 1: that's like real stink. Damn he didn't stop, So that's natural.
59:22
Speaker 1: My grannie lives with us. See right down, right down,
59:27
Speaker 1: My grannie lives with us. Let's talk about the decisions
59:34
Speaker 1: your ass can make to make. You have to live
59:37
Speaker 1: with your grandkids, not your children, Oh damn grandkids. Your
59:47
Speaker 1: mama and your daddy didn't want her staying with you,
59:53
Speaker 1: so now staying with you? WHOA. Some people know some
1:00:01
Speaker 1: stuff about granny that you don't know. And she didn't
1:00:06
Speaker 1: understand why your husband cared so much. I don't get
1:00:09
Speaker 1: into discussions about my husband and marriage with my grandmom
1:00:12
Speaker 1: because she finds fault with everything. And why she at
1:00:16
Speaker 1: your house. That's why she ain't at your mama's house
1:00:20
Speaker 1: or your daddy's house. She didn't broke up a lot
1:00:23
Speaker 1: of families. I bet you hold that thought, Steve, hold
1:00:26
Speaker 1: that thought. We'll have part two of your response coming
1:00:28
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour today's Strawberry
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Speaker 1: Letters subject how did he know where to put it?
1:00:34
Speaker 1: We'll come back with part two of Steve's response. Right
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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
1:00:41
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject
1:00:46
Speaker 1: how did he know where to put it? Yeah, you've
1:00:48
Speaker 1: been married for while, your closest friend got divorce, bought
1:00:51
Speaker 1: a house over there by you and your husband. Your
1:00:54
Speaker 1: husband started having problems, and when they started having problems,
1:00:59
Speaker 1: your husband stopped talking to her husband because he said
1:01:02
Speaker 1: he didn't like the way he treated her. Your grandmama
1:01:05
Speaker 1: live with y'all, and she didn't understand why my husband
1:01:08
Speaker 1: kids so much because your grandmama knows it. I don't
1:01:12
Speaker 1: get into discussions about my husband and marriage with my
1:01:15
Speaker 1: grandmother because she finds fault with everything. Why is your
1:01:20
Speaker 1: grandmama staying with y'all? Why is your grandmama not staying
1:01:24
Speaker 1: with her daughter or her son? Why she got to
1:01:28
Speaker 1: skip over and stay with her grandkids? Because she didn't
1:01:32
Speaker 1: already broke up your mom and daddy's home, so they
1:01:36
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna have it. So now she over here, and
1:01:38
Speaker 1: now guess what she fit to break yours up? Because
1:01:41
Speaker 1: she find fault with everything. Everybody don't the one little
1:01:45
Speaker 1: negative ass granted living with them, but you don't know
1:01:48
Speaker 1: no better. When my close friend would stop by a house,
1:01:52
Speaker 1: your grandmama would keep a eye on her. She didn't
1:01:55
Speaker 1: like my husband having kind words for my friend at all.
1:01:59
Speaker 1: I took it with a grand and the sault. Your
1:02:00
Speaker 1: grandmama don't like nothing, this old bitter ass old lady
1:02:06
Speaker 1: by herself. That's what she is. Old bitter ass, old
1:02:09
Speaker 1: woman by herself staying with her grandkids. Can't stay with
1:02:12
Speaker 1: her own kids, got to stay with her kids kids.
1:02:15
Speaker 1: She got a skipper generation because she broke up too
1:02:17
Speaker 1: many houses. And everybody know about your grandmama, said, y'all
1:02:21
Speaker 1: because you still remember her giving you candy, But she
1:02:23
Speaker 1: got different kind of candy. Now it's called poising. What, Yeah,
1:02:28
Speaker 1: she got a different kind of candy. Nine, it's called
1:02:30
Speaker 1: poising because my granny is so negative most of the time.
1:02:37
Speaker 1: That's all the time. What is your old ass done
1:02:41
Speaker 1: that has caused you to have to live with your
1:02:43
Speaker 1: grandkids because she negative? Granted, don't like no damn body.
1:02:49
Speaker 1: And I got news for you. Don't nobody like granny
1:02:55
Speaker 1: but I but I did stop my friend from popping
1:02:58
Speaker 1: up at our house because when she would out so
1:03:00
Speaker 1: I could see her all dressed up nicely. Granny said
1:03:03
Speaker 1: that was more for my husband, that's for me. Granny
1:03:08
Speaker 1: just keeps staying the pot up. See, Granny ain't got
1:03:10
Speaker 1: no man. Granny had a man in a long time.
1:03:14
Speaker 1: Granny man left pull. Now she mad about everybody. Man.
1:03:18
Speaker 1: Now now, ain't nobody got a good man? Because so
1:03:20
Speaker 1: Granny all me and his dogs, yours, your mama's, your
1:03:23
Speaker 1: dad is everybody? Granny are walking ass home record love Granny.
1:03:30
Speaker 1: Then my friend had a housewoman party. Now this was
1:03:33
Speaker 1: through me. Then my friend had a housewoman party and
1:03:37
Speaker 1: she needed wood for her five place. What who throw
1:03:42
Speaker 1: a party and say, hey, man, brank some wood? They man,
1:03:48
Speaker 1: bring some drake, bring some tayta salad, bringing cups, bring play,
1:03:54
Speaker 1: bring a little meat with you, bring some Who throw
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Speaker 1: a party and asked some damn firewood? That was just
1:04:04
Speaker 1: odd to me. I ain't out there with a lot
1:04:07
Speaker 1: of parties. I had a lot of stuff under my arm.
1:04:10
Speaker 1: I ain't ever walked in with some logs on the barm.
1:04:13
Speaker 1: I never had them bought one alcohol, cheese trays. I
1:04:20
Speaker 1: just showed up with some stuff, gifts bags, ye, not
1:04:24
Speaker 1: no wood, though, so I told him we bring something.
1:04:27
Speaker 1: My husband came in a few minutes after us, and
1:04:31
Speaker 1: I asked him if he was going to get the wood.
1:04:34
Speaker 1: He said, he already put it out back. Now my
1:04:37
Speaker 1: friend thanked him, and Granny asked, let's see right here,
1:04:40
Speaker 1: why's Granny at the damn pot? Gramma knows the ass
1:04:46
Speaker 1: over to the party, Grammar asked, my friend thanked him
1:04:51
Speaker 1: in Granted asked how he knew where to put it?
1:04:54
Speaker 1: A hush fell over the room? How he know where
1:04:59
Speaker 1: to put the wood because wood has a double meaning
1:05:02
Speaker 1: and where to put literally, So now that's why the
1:05:05
Speaker 1: hush fell over the room because he liked this double
1:05:08
Speaker 1: connotation statement. Well, how you know where to put it? Now,
1:05:12
Speaker 1: everybody got to figure out what is her old ass
1:05:14
Speaker 1: talking about? Put what? Where? Put the wood where? Because
1:05:18
Speaker 1: we're talking two things now. So then the hush fellow rule,
1:05:22
Speaker 1: he said, he assumed it went on the patio. Granted
1:05:26
Speaker 1: then asked how he knew where the patio was? Were
1:05:29
Speaker 1: all health All patioles is in the back. If it
1:05:34
Speaker 1: if it ain't in the back, it ain't a patio.
1:05:38
Speaker 1: If it's in the front, it's a poach, right, See
1:05:42
Speaker 1: that old ass statement right there. How he knows where
1:05:46
Speaker 1: the patio is because all patioles is in the damn back? Man?
1:05:53
Speaker 1: Kind of ignorant? As is that? Because she a home record?
1:05:58
Speaker 1: He said, He assumed it was out back. I have
1:06:01
Speaker 1: told her, hey, old hell, for all patio's is in
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Speaker 1: the back. I like my friend and my husband looked uncomfortable,
1:06:08
Speaker 1: and Granny looked at me and whisper, don't be stupid
1:06:11
Speaker 1: stupid yo, man, just like all of my means is dead. Mean,
1:06:17
Speaker 1: I ain't been able to keep a man no, how
1:06:20
Speaker 1: so why would I want to see you one? I
1:06:22
Speaker 1: don't got rid of your mommy and daddy's relationship. That's
1:06:24
Speaker 1: why I'm staying in your house. She just being granny?
1:06:29
Speaker 1: Or am I being stupid? What's going on your Grammys?
1:06:32
Speaker 1: A hater background? She got wisdom? Okay? At Steve Harvey
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Speaker 1: FM to comment on today's Strawberry Letter. You can also
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1:06:47
Speaker 1: it is Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this you're
1:06:50
Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
1:06:54
Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior? Alright? Shirley
1:06:58
Speaker 1: Championships Sunday is over and this looks like it's gonna
1:07:01
Speaker 1: be the Philadelphia Eagles and the Kansas City Chiefs in
1:07:04
Speaker 1: the Super Bowl. Mann Jalen hurts, it is man, you there,
1:07:11
Speaker 1: look up. Phillip made short work of San Francisco. You know,
1:07:15
Speaker 1: score that game was just a man, it was over
1:07:20
Speaker 1: and midway through the first quarter. His thirty one and
1:07:23
Speaker 1: seven wasn't final score, but San Francisco lost. They started
1:07:26
Speaker 1: quarterback Rock Purty and second player of the first drive,
1:07:29
Speaker 1: so he was out. They brought in Josh Johnson, who
1:07:32
Speaker 1: clearly has not played a play or down in many years.
1:07:36
Speaker 1: Because he didn't even know he was leading the huddle.
1:07:39
Speaker 1: He didn't get no plays in delay a game. He
1:07:42
Speaker 1: throwing the ball everywhere, he couldn't find receivers. It just
1:07:46
Speaker 1: was just shame, man, to see San Francisco go out
1:07:48
Speaker 1: like that. It was just it was just horrible. Well,
1:07:50
Speaker 1: injuries is a part of the game. I felt bad
1:07:52
Speaker 1: for him, but yeah, it was gonna lose anywhere. If
1:07:55
Speaker 1: they had Purty, they got it. Sofa, I'm proud to
1:07:57
Speaker 1: congratulated to the Philadelphia Eagles. They going to the Super Bowl.
1:08:01
Speaker 1: Man that this other game, Man, somebody please Karsas City
1:08:04
Speaker 1: over censing that in twenty three to twenty and man,
1:08:08
Speaker 1: if you see Joseph Osay somewhere in Cincin, that is
1:08:11
Speaker 1: somebody please check on. Because this boy made a late
1:08:15
Speaker 1: hit personal file on Patrick Mahole at the fifty with
1:08:20
Speaker 1: eight seconds left in the game. Move the ball up
1:08:23
Speaker 1: to the thirty five and that's it. You gave him
1:08:26
Speaker 1: the game. It could have went to overtime. Let him go.
1:08:28
Speaker 1: He won't'ta get the first down. He sat on that
1:08:31
Speaker 1: bench and cried by himself. He couldn't even go in
1:08:33
Speaker 1: that locker room. That he still let this morning, right
1:08:39
Speaker 1: right now, he's still ye. Yeah, he can't go back
1:08:44
Speaker 1: in there. That's old. That's old. Better fact, baby, he
1:08:47
Speaker 1: got breaking news. He just got released as I was
1:08:50
Speaker 1: speaking everything. Hey, hey, hey, hey, I promise you can't
1:08:56
Speaker 1: come back in that locker room. Down you go find
1:08:58
Speaker 1: new home. We was going to the super Bowl. If
1:09:00
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have made that mistake, please could have played
1:09:03
Speaker 1: an old time. Why would you do that? Man? That
1:09:06
Speaker 1: is just just you can't even make you can't make
1:09:09
Speaker 1: that up. Dog. It was my last seas if in
1:09:11
Speaker 1: to retire on a play like that. He can't come
1:09:13
Speaker 1: back in here, so congratulations. Oh and we need to
1:09:16
Speaker 1: give a shout out to Anita Baker. She sung at
1:09:21
Speaker 1: the Phillies game. Jalen Hurst said that's his favorite singer,
1:09:26
Speaker 1: Da Baker. Yeah, she's my favorite female singer of all time.
1:09:32
Speaker 1: Oh Manna call, Yeah, I need a boom. Yeah. And
1:09:36
Speaker 1: the Baker is my favorite all time. I've gotten more
1:09:39
Speaker 1: joy from her music than any other female artists. Oh man, Wow,
1:09:44
Speaker 1: that's all right, Junior. Thank you. Coming up at the
1:09:48
Speaker 1: top of the hour, we'll have more of the Steve
1:09:50
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. Hang' getting that job.
1:09:54
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this
1:09:59
Speaker 1: is a question from Steve HARVEYFM dot com. This woman says,
1:10:03
Speaker 1: I'm a fifty eight year old female and my name
1:10:06
Speaker 1: is Mattie. I've been with my significant other for eight
1:10:10
Speaker 1: years and when we started dating, he said his love
1:10:13
Speaker 1: life was complicated and he did not want to rush
1:10:15
Speaker 1: into a marriage. Over the years, I teased him about
1:10:18
Speaker 1: marrying me and he would tell me it's too complicated.
1:10:22
Speaker 1: He's been in the hospital for a few days with
1:10:24
Speaker 1: an infection, and his mother and sister have been at
1:10:28
Speaker 1: his bedside. I felt like he didn't need me. Then
1:10:31
Speaker 1: he said he would love me, love for me to
1:10:34
Speaker 1: move in with him when he gets out of the hospital.
1:10:36
Speaker 1: Do I move in and play wifie with him or
1:10:39
Speaker 1: tell him it's complicated? Well, you know when you think
1:10:44
Speaker 1: you about the dad, you know you have a lot
1:10:48
Speaker 1: of I love you, I will live with you. You
1:10:53
Speaker 1: got to see how I feel when you get out
1:10:54
Speaker 1: the hospital, and you need to find out really what
1:10:59
Speaker 1: he in there? Four and then you never need real
1:11:03
Speaker 1: clarity on it's complicated. Is he's still married married? Yeah,
1:11:09
Speaker 1: legally and so forth and so on, and you deserve
1:11:13
Speaker 1: the right to know. Stop all this kidding around with him,
1:11:16
Speaker 1: with all this here mess, get some fast Google search
1:11:21
Speaker 1: and get busy. You know, he might be the right
1:11:25
Speaker 1: dude for you, might be able to uncomplicate his situation,
1:11:29
Speaker 1: but you need all the information to be able to
1:11:31
Speaker 1: do that. That's all I'm saying. I hope you man
1:11:33
Speaker 1: get out of the hospital. I'll tell you what I know,
1:11:38
Speaker 1: But you're not gonna come over here and stay in
1:11:40
Speaker 1: this house if you need Washington all that, that's not
1:11:42
Speaker 1: what you I'm not going to be turning your flipping,
1:11:48
Speaker 1: your Washington, eating up lags and going to clean and
1:11:51
Speaker 1: them all that's hitting that you and draws on it.
1:11:54
Speaker 1: They're bad puts it. They just loaded up every two days.
1:11:57
Speaker 1: I'm not fitting find out what this sickness is. Why
1:12:01
Speaker 1: he is assing that? What do he need a wife
1:12:03
Speaker 1: or nurse. It's an infection, she said, it's an infection.
1:12:07
Speaker 1: She didn't say what. Yeah, yeah, that sounds like Washington
1:12:11
Speaker 1: out And while while you're staying that long enough where
1:12:14
Speaker 1: he go to sleep, then when you go to sleep,
1:12:16
Speaker 1: go down at the foot of that bed and get
1:12:18
Speaker 1: that chart some information. Take pictures of the chart so
1:12:22
Speaker 1: you can study it at home, term or electronic. Now
1:12:28
Speaker 1: the digital. They got no clipboard at the end of
1:12:31
Speaker 1: the bed. No more. Well, last time I was in
1:12:33
Speaker 1: the hospital that they've been together eight years? Eight years? Yeah,
1:12:43
Speaker 1: because she would know he was sick. If they've been
1:12:45
Speaker 1: dating for eight years, right years, that's a long time.
1:12:48
Speaker 1: You don't know nothing, she said. The mom and his
1:12:50
Speaker 1: sister down now, she ain't been down there. I wonder
1:12:55
Speaker 1: how old he is. She's fifty eight. Oh, you got
1:12:59
Speaker 1: at what he probably move in He wanted to move
1:13:03
Speaker 1: in there. So, yeah, he's in the seventies. He about
1:13:07
Speaker 1: damn this said, you know everybody the flies me at
1:13:09
Speaker 1: sixty six, he could be just a regular ass sixty
1:13:16
Speaker 1: six and ass over that, just over that, just win it.
1:13:19
Speaker 1: You gotta if you got the infection. So if you
1:13:23
Speaker 1: got the infection, that sound like Washington, you gotta keep
1:13:25
Speaker 1: that area clean. You know, you gotta go well, you know,
1:13:27
Speaker 1: he probably stepped on the nail and something. He didn't
1:13:29
Speaker 1: get it technic left respeculating. He just did thing about
1:13:43
Speaker 1: talking about taking his left foot. Yeah, that's how bad
1:13:47
Speaker 1: the infection is because he stepped on the foot on
1:13:49
Speaker 1: the wood on with the right shoe. Yeah, but the
1:13:53
Speaker 1: right right gonna be a bad operage. Then they're gonna
1:13:56
Speaker 1: have to go take the right one. So now he
1:13:58
Speaker 1: ain't got no feet. So it's so nice see it
1:14:02
Speaker 1: going all bad. But if he's seventies something like you say,
1:14:07
Speaker 1: his mother and his sister have been at his bedside.
1:14:11
Speaker 1: How old are they? How do they? Yeah? Oh well
1:14:14
Speaker 1: mama probably nineties, sitting by most of the time. She
1:14:26
Speaker 1: ain't seen the doctor yet. Good time they come in,
1:14:30
Speaker 1: she sleeps well. Thank you for clearing all of that up, sir.
1:14:36
Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes. We'll have more of this
1:14:39
Speaker 1: ignorant show right after this you're listening to show. Listen
1:14:47
Speaker 1: if Jay Leno doesn't get somewhere and sit his butt down,
1:14:51
Speaker 1: what is going on? You heard about this. He recently
1:14:54
Speaker 1: broke his collarbone, two ribs, and both kneecaps in a
1:14:58
Speaker 1: motorcycle accident. This happened January seventeenth. Steve your birthday, Jay
1:15:03
Speaker 1: told the Los Angeles The Las Vegas Review. He goes, So,
1:15:08
Speaker 1: I turned down a street and cut through a parking lot,
1:15:10
Speaker 1: and unbeknownst to me, some guy had a wire strung
1:15:14
Speaker 1: across the parking lot, but with no flag hanging from it,
1:15:19
Speaker 1: So you know, I didn't see it until it was
1:15:21
Speaker 1: too late. It just was a clothesline me and boom
1:15:26
Speaker 1: knocked me off my bike, he said. The bike kept going,
1:15:28
Speaker 1: and you know how that works out. Just two months ago,
1:15:31
Speaker 1: of course, we all know that Leno was hospitalized for
1:15:34
Speaker 1: second and third degree burns following a garage car fire. Now, Jay,
1:15:39
Speaker 1: maybe it's time for you to hire a driver or
1:15:41
Speaker 1: something and just sit back and just chill. Yeah, in
1:15:45
Speaker 1: the back seat. Yeah, so he can clothesline so yeah, yeah,
1:15:53
Speaker 1: knocked him off his bike. The bike kept going and
1:15:57
Speaker 1: both meek both kneecap Steve a collar bone two real
1:16:03
Speaker 1: like you said, June, don't need them. You need a
1:16:06
Speaker 1: big wheel, you need a Yeah it's James garage. What
1:16:12
Speaker 1: Jay need? Do Jay need to get into gardening? Grow
1:16:15
Speaker 1: you some herbs and stuff in your backyard? Fresh deal
1:16:19
Speaker 1: in time? All right? Coming up at thirty three minutes
1:16:25
Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll play around. If would you rather
1:16:28
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to Steve Morning Show. It's
1:16:32
Speaker 1: time now for would you rather? Would you rather eat
1:16:36
Speaker 1: out in public wearing a bib? Or would you rather
1:16:39
Speaker 1: drink from a baby bottle? I do know? Give me
1:16:42
Speaker 1: the bib, breaking the bib? Yeah, yeah, if you go
1:16:45
Speaker 1: to the crab house, they're gonna get that to you
1:16:47
Speaker 1: anyway and give it. Yeah. Even if you go to
1:16:51
Speaker 1: crush stations out in the la if you get that
1:16:53
Speaker 1: dungeon the crab and you got to crab I stopped
1:16:56
Speaker 1: doing that, though. You bring me mine with the meat
1:16:58
Speaker 1: out ship a lot of a lot of Yeah, that's
1:17:05
Speaker 1: not fun, all right, I'm telling you to crack it.
1:17:09
Speaker 1: Bring the meat in the ship. That's right, Steve. Would
1:17:15
Speaker 1: you rather give up traveling forever, or give up using
1:17:18
Speaker 1: profanity forever? Which one? But then we just ain't going
1:17:22
Speaker 1: nowhere because you can't give up Kurt just cursing. You
1:17:26
Speaker 1: can't do it. Well, I'm asa say somebody custing me,
1:17:30
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna say, have a nice day. Yeah, so
1:17:36
Speaker 1: you can continue to travel? Who would you doing? That's
1:17:40
Speaker 1: the first one I've ever because you love them both,
1:17:44
Speaker 1: So yeah, very dear to your heart. Traveling or profanity.
1:17:52
Speaker 1: Come on, you can't go. No, I give up the
1:17:55
Speaker 1: custom to what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna higher,
1:17:59
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hire somebody cuss bucking, and I'm gonna have
1:18:04
Speaker 1: a button like one, two, three, And that's the level
1:18:08
Speaker 1: that I want you to respond. Like somebody say something
1:18:10
Speaker 1: to me. I head one and then you met and
1:18:13
Speaker 1: then it would be something like, man, you get your
1:18:15
Speaker 1: ass out about place. Yeah, that's a one. Then I
1:18:18
Speaker 1: press a two. Yeah you know, yeah, I don't give
1:18:25
Speaker 1: a blanket a blank about what you're talking about. You
1:18:28
Speaker 1: need to step the blank on to get the blank blank.
1:18:32
Speaker 1: That's that's wow. That's a lot of Number three is
1:18:39
Speaker 1: number three is just blasted all of the Let let
1:18:44
Speaker 1: the guns go feel free. Freestyle. All right, but I'm
1:18:50
Speaker 1: gonna need a steadic cluss. Yeah, all right, here's another one.
1:18:56
Speaker 1: Would you rather not be able to scratch an itch?
1:19:00
Speaker 1: Or not be able to wear deodorant? You're itching but
1:19:03
Speaker 1: you can't scratch it. Well, let me tell you something.
1:19:06
Speaker 1: You're gonna be itching your ass. You don't get that
1:19:14
Speaker 1: deer for about three days, your hand or hand, You're gonead,
1:19:24
Speaker 1: it's gonna be bleeding under your I'm telling three four
1:19:29
Speaker 1: days without theodor, and I'm telling you right now. Oh man.
1:19:34
Speaker 1: All right, guys, that's the day's roundup. Would you rather
1:19:37
Speaker 1: coming up? At forty nine minutes after the hour, it's
1:19:39
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and of course we'll
1:19:41
Speaker 1: have some closing remarks from the one and only Steve
1:19:45
Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
1:19:49
Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
1:19:52
Speaker 1: the day on this Monday. Yeah yeah, yes, yeah, wow.
1:20:04
Speaker 1: January moving ye, Christmas and the thing I don't have.
1:20:10
Speaker 1: You know, you know how people celebrate their birthday month?
1:20:13
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I don't do that. I do today
1:20:16
Speaker 1: and I'm gone, yeah, y'all do today. So I have
1:20:23
Speaker 1: some children who like to drag it out, Like I
1:20:27
Speaker 1: told him, You'll be dragging it out by yourself. Hey,
1:20:32
Speaker 1: you know, listen, man, I want to make a comment
1:20:35
Speaker 1: that I'm not really sure I won't even make about
1:20:38
Speaker 1: this thing, this tragedy that keeps happening. These are my
1:20:42
Speaker 1: closing remarks about it. And as I'm doing these closing remarks,
1:20:47
Speaker 1: you know, I want to say something. I don't really
1:20:49
Speaker 1: know what I'm going to say right now. I really
1:20:53
Speaker 1: really don't because I'm so confused internally in my mind
1:20:57
Speaker 1: about how to even put this thing into words. With
1:21:00
Speaker 1: the latest act of police brutality towards another black person,
1:21:05
Speaker 1: I think what makes this one, I can't say more disturbing,
1:21:11
Speaker 1: because they're all disturbing to me. These acts of brutality
1:21:16
Speaker 1: against our youth man, our young black men are are
1:21:22
Speaker 1: going to be extinct at this rate. We are losing
1:21:28
Speaker 1: lives at an alarming rate. I'm pretty sure it's at
1:21:31
Speaker 1: a higher rate than any other race of people. I
1:21:33
Speaker 1: don't know this is happening to anybody like it's happening
1:21:37
Speaker 1: to us. I don't see this happening in any other
1:21:39
Speaker 1: part of the world like it is here. And as
1:21:44
Speaker 1: we parade around and talk about the greatness of America.
1:21:47
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed, man, because I travel a lot, and I
1:21:52
Speaker 1: have news for us, For all of us who travel
1:21:57
Speaker 1: as Americans, you ain't as well received as you Thank
1:22:01
Speaker 1: you all. You ain't as highly thought of and regarded
1:22:05
Speaker 1: as you think you are. Before I get onto this thing,
1:22:10
Speaker 1: I was playing golf the other day out the country
1:22:13
Speaker 1: and I was with a group of friends and a
1:22:16
Speaker 1: guy came up out of nowhere, white guy, and one
1:22:21
Speaker 1: of my buddies stopped him and said, hey man, we're
1:22:23
Speaker 1: just getting ready to go out. Man, can you give
1:22:25
Speaker 1: him a minute. You know what the guy's response was,
1:22:28
Speaker 1: I'm American. Now. The guy he told it to wasn't
1:22:32
Speaker 1: American at all. So the guy says to him, excuse me,
1:22:38
Speaker 1: He said, yeah, but I'm American. The dude said, what
1:22:43
Speaker 1: did that have to do with anything? And he just
1:22:47
Speaker 1: walked away from the guy. So the guy came up,
1:22:49
Speaker 1: I shook his head and all this here. But you know,
1:22:51
Speaker 1: as we were out on the golf course, he said, hey, man,
1:22:53
Speaker 1: what is it that gives y'all over there the right
1:22:57
Speaker 1: to think that you have the entitlement that it makes
1:22:59
Speaker 1: every thing okay? If you just say I'm American, and
1:23:03
Speaker 1: I just I just wanted to share that with you,
1:23:05
Speaker 1: to say, listen, man, as you travel around this world, man,
1:23:09
Speaker 1: check that ego at the door, lead that ego on
1:23:12
Speaker 1: your passport, because it ain't what you think it is
1:23:15
Speaker 1: around the world, because the rest of the world knows
1:23:18
Speaker 1: the truth because they see it and they're not jaded
1:23:21
Speaker 1: by the political party, because they don't vote right or left.
1:23:24
Speaker 1: All they see us is what we really are. And
1:23:28
Speaker 1: do you know that the world thinks that we are
1:23:30
Speaker 1: racist in America? Somebody got it right. So just so
1:23:36
Speaker 1: you know, somebody got it right. Somebody feels that way
1:23:40
Speaker 1: about us, and it's all over the world. I get
1:23:43
Speaker 1: questioned all the time because I speak in places around
1:23:46
Speaker 1: the globe, Steve, why are they doing this? Hey man?
1:23:50
Speaker 1: Why don't y'all have some gun laws? Hey man? Why
1:23:53
Speaker 1: why do policemen beat and kill black people? I'll just
1:23:57
Speaker 1: be sitting there with the same unanswered ask questions that
1:24:02
Speaker 1: I have all the time. I've been asking these questions
1:24:06
Speaker 1: for years. I got no answers for them. Now, this
1:24:09
Speaker 1: latest incident of police brutality in Memphis, what sickens me
1:24:14
Speaker 1: even more about this? These officers were black. They were black.
1:24:21
Speaker 1: So now I'm going to assume, and I don't know this,
1:24:24
Speaker 1: but I'm thinking that these officers get into this blue
1:24:28
Speaker 1: uniform and develop the culture of the blue uniform which
1:24:34
Speaker 1: they see happening on a regular basis, and to them,
1:24:38
Speaker 1: that black boy, they took it out on him, just
1:24:42
Speaker 1: like you see white officers do because it's a part
1:24:47
Speaker 1: of the culture. All police officers, men and women, are
1:24:51
Speaker 1: not bad people. As a matter of fact, the majority
1:24:54
Speaker 1: of the police departments are absolutely filled with really good
1:24:58
Speaker 1: people who took the job with the right intent. But
1:25:02
Speaker 1: something happens even to them. Something happens in that room. Man.
1:25:08
Speaker 1: I've watched things about different police departments. Man, And when
1:25:12
Speaker 1: you get in at and you find out that the
1:25:13
Speaker 1: culture is this, that will take some money from the
1:25:16
Speaker 1: drug dealers if we do this, and all of a sudden,
1:25:19
Speaker 1: they just find theirselves going along with it. We write
1:25:22
Speaker 1: up police reports like this because we don't turn our
1:25:24
Speaker 1: brothers on blue end, and you find yourself going along
1:25:28
Speaker 1: with it, or else you get ostracized by your brothers
1:25:30
Speaker 1: in blue, who are the very same people that you
1:25:33
Speaker 1: need to ride or die with because y'all out there
1:25:35
Speaker 1: fighting crime together. But then in fighting the crime, you
1:25:38
Speaker 1: commit the crime. I don't know what I'm saying in
1:25:41
Speaker 1: my closing remarks, but once again, as a community, here
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Speaker 1: we go. Another one of ours have been devoured by
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