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Friends w/ Ex, Signs U Stay @ Mom's House, Ask Steve, Spicy Food and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stuffing good it sEH to
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  Speaker 1: movie together for stay. I don't join Jo. You gotta turning, you,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. You haven't got
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out to turn water to the water.
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  Speaker 1: Go come come on your thing. Huh. I shall will
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  Speaker 1: a good manding everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on,
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  Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey, I got
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  Speaker 1: a radio show, just trying to give God some back,
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  Speaker 1: just some back of what even gave me, just a portion,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Just I'm just trying, man to to show
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  Speaker 1: some type of gratitude for all his blessings. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: trying to, man, just just get it right sometimes, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. I mean, man, you just can't
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  Speaker 1: do what you want to do and just live wrong
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  Speaker 1: all the time. Man, you got it at one point
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  Speaker 1: in time, Steve, come home. Man, come on, man, you
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  Speaker 1: could do better. I know you can. You know saying,
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  Speaker 1: and you know what I had to do. I had
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  Speaker 1: to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better, and
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  Speaker 1: I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: do better. You know, trying it's just to put forth
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  Speaker 1: in that and then if it don't work, well okay.
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  Speaker 1: But if you make up in your mind that I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting
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  Speaker 1: it done is the only thing that matters. Sin It's
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  Speaker 1: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to
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  Speaker 1: win the game or we're gonna go out here to
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  Speaker 1: win the game. Now, trying to win the game means
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  Speaker 1: that you could lose. But when you got in your
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  Speaker 1: mind made up, most athletes will tell you that they
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  Speaker 1: go out there with the full intent and purpose of
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  Speaker 1: winning and winning. Only see they don't put the second
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  Speaker 1: place finish on the cover Sports Illustrated. Second place don't
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  Speaker 1: get you there. You got to win. And now take
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  Speaker 1: it out of the scope of athletics, but keep it
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  Speaker 1: in that type of type of analogy in life. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you just want to you want to win in life,
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  Speaker 1: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports
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  Speaker 1: Illustrated the life. Don't you want to be recognized for
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  Speaker 1: your hard work? Don't you want, you know, to be
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  Speaker 1: recognized within the bonus structure down at your job. Don't
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  Speaker 1: you want to have your plaque up on the wall
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  Speaker 1: down at your job? I mean most people do. Some
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  Speaker 1: people could care less. Some people don't care about looking
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  Speaker 1: good or being their best. And that's cool. But I
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  Speaker 1: ain't talking to them though. I'm talking to you. I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking to those of you who want to be the
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  Speaker 1: best you can be. You know, people kill me when
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  Speaker 1: they're getting mad at people here and he Brown knows
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  Speaker 1: and he hall up on an employee of them. All. Man,
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  Speaker 1: the dude doing his job to the best of his ability,
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  Speaker 1: and he getting recognized for it. What they got to do?
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  Speaker 1: It all that you're talking about because you ain't up there.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success. He's
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  Speaker 1: so lucky, lucky? Hey man, don't they kind of get
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  Speaker 1: you a little bit when people call you lucky when
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what luck really is, y'all. Luck
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  Speaker 1: is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. Some people
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  Speaker 1: call that luck. But hold on, let's let's think about this.
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  Speaker 1: If you wasn't working hard, an opportunity presented itself, what
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  Speaker 1: would you call that? But see, when you've been working hard,
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity presents itself and it bumps up into each other.
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  Speaker 1: Now people want to call that luck, But hold up here,
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  Speaker 1: go to part though to day, ain't paying no attention
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  Speaker 1: to Yeah, that opportunity came by, But if you had
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  Speaker 1: not been working hard and the hard work had not
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  Speaker 1: ran up in the opportunity, what would you have? No, sir,
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  Speaker 1: it's not luck, it's work. It is work because as
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  Speaker 1: a scripture that says, faith without works is dead. But
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  Speaker 1: my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught me enough. Though.
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  Speaker 1: Now I know different between right and wrong, just like
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  Speaker 1: you do. You ain't gotta you know. Itcused me when
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  Speaker 1: people write a strawberry letter? Am I wrong for this?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Good? Well, look at let's read your letter?
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  Speaker 1: Are you wrong for this? You know you're wrong? What
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  Speaker 1: you don't need that's to be telling, you know? But
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this anyway. Well, see, go ahead, though,
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  Speaker 1: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: here's the best advice I can give you. This is
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  Speaker 1: what I really came to talk about this morning, but
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  Speaker 1: I got sidetrack because I listened get out of your
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  Speaker 1: own way. So many of us are blocking our home blessings.
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  Speaker 1: We just in our own own way. We are in
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  Speaker 1: our own way. And one of the most dangerous ways
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  Speaker 1: you can get in your way is to do it
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  Speaker 1: your way, to get it figured your way, and to
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  Speaker 1: lock in on your way and just the way it's
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  Speaker 1: got to go. Do you know how many people are
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  Speaker 1: blocking a blessing? Do you know how long I blocked
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  Speaker 1: mine with that mindset? Right there? Look, because it's the
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  Speaker 1: way you do it, Do you think that make it
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  Speaker 1: the right way? You think jazz, because you'd have thought
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  Speaker 1: on it long and hard, and that's what you really want.
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  Speaker 1: Do you really think that your way is the right
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  Speaker 1: way or could that be a better way? See? Until
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  Speaker 1: I started listening to God and started paying attention to
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  Speaker 1: his way, man, I was spending my wheels. Man, I
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  Speaker 1: was out here so determined this is how I was
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  Speaker 1: going to do it. But you know I had to
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  Speaker 1: learn how to get out of my own way because
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  Speaker 1: just because I could do it my way didn't mean
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  Speaker 1: it was the right way. I had to get out
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  Speaker 1: of my own way. Just get out your way, man, Now,
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  Speaker 1: what what does that mean? That means, See, set your goals.
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  Speaker 1: That means have your dreams. That I'm saying, set your goals. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't saying don't set goals. Listen to me. Set
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  Speaker 1: your goals. What is it you want to happen? What
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  Speaker 1: is it you like to have? What is it you
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  Speaker 1: like to be? What are you aspire to? Set your
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  Speaker 1: goals and set your dreams. Now, take your goals and
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  Speaker 1: your dreams to God and ask God to show you how. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you can save yourself a lot of pain. Listen to
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  Speaker 1: somebody who did it his way for so long. And
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  Speaker 1: when I finally got out of my way, out of
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  Speaker 1: my own way. When you've heard old people say let
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  Speaker 1: go and let God, you've heard them say that I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't get it, but I got it. Now let
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  Speaker 1: go and let God. And it's amazing little saying. Though
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  Speaker 1: now you know you may not get it now. It
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  Speaker 1: took me a bunch of years to get it too.
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  Speaker 1: But when I took my goals and my dreams and
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  Speaker 1: my vision to God and I said, God, this is
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  Speaker 1: what I hope for, this is what I aspired to,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I want to be, this is why
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  Speaker 1: I would love to get to. Then I said, help
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  Speaker 1: me show me how. Point me in the right direction.
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  Speaker 1: Let me follow your footsteps, guide me and give me
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  Speaker 1: a spirit of discernment. Show me who wrong? Because I
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  Speaker 1: meet people every day. Ain't up to no good with
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  Speaker 1: me every single day. Oh man, Man, I can't believe
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  Speaker 1: I run up into you. Man, the Lord told me
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  Speaker 1: something's gonna happen to me today. Well, see, I talked
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  Speaker 1: to him every day. He did not mention you to me.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't said nothing to me. He didn't tell me
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  Speaker 1: what's gonna happen in mind. Now, I don't mean it
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  Speaker 1: can't happen because I'm open to it. So really, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm and and please no, I'm listening it as well
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  Speaker 1: as I've ever listened before. But but get yourself together, though,
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  Speaker 1: see no, your goals and your dreams, and then let
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  Speaker 1: God show you how to do it. He'll do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It's so important everybody, that you get focused,
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  Speaker 1: that you aim for something, that you dream of something,
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  Speaker 1: that you aspire to something. But it's the most the
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  Speaker 1: best thing you can do. After you do all that, Man,
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  Speaker 1: get God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: why would you not what you got to lose. You
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  Speaker 1: ain't got to go down there and make no big
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  Speaker 1: scene and run laps around the church and run up
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  Speaker 1: there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and
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  Speaker 1: flip over and throw money in the air. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: got to do that. This you and God, man, This
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  Speaker 1: you and God. You know you got to serve and
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  Speaker 1: praise him the way you do it. You gotta let
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  Speaker 1: nobody else tell you high's done. It's a personal relationship.
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  Speaker 1: People kill me if you don't do it this way.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't come here to this church and you
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  Speaker 1: don't run around in this circle, and you don't get
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  Speaker 1: flipped in and you don't, Hey, man, you better go
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  Speaker 1: have a relationship with God. See what that's about. You understand?
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  Speaker 1: Nobody throw you off with all that? All right, all right,
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  Speaker 1: y'all talk to him. He loved to hear from you. Today.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening morning ladies and gentlemen. Good morning, boys and girls. Man,
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  Speaker 1: though they don't do four chicken parts. You are in
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  Speaker 1: the paltry distribution. Big congratulations to all of you. Today
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  Speaker 1: we're dedicating today's show to all poultry employees of all kinds.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for the joy that you've given up.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for the motivation, thank you for the way
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  Speaker 1: I feel sometime when I'm driving down the street and
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  Speaker 1: I see that sign put in me, to me, this
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  Speaker 1: is for the chicken lover in you. Yeah, this is
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  Speaker 1: for the wing. This is for the wing and you, dude, dude,
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  Speaker 1: this is for the wing. This is for the wing,
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  Speaker 1: and you will make a song out of it, because
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  Speaker 1: that's that's my soul. Boy. Yeah, we are authentic soul.
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  Speaker 1: Bro song right there, we go right in it. Name it,
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  Speaker 1: sing it, we deeply name first and sing it. Don't
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  Speaker 1: committed love soul. You would never let it die. Have
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  Speaker 1: no reason to buy a new Seaton name it sang it.
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  Speaker 1: That's deep right there. No, no, no, no reason to
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  Speaker 1: buy a new hell playing albums. Dog down loaded nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Now they got turntables, five little singing in the middle
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  Speaker 1: with the little thing with the look. Man, I just
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  Speaker 1: downloaded common Commodores and followed you, Yeah, what's your favorite commodores? Jam?
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  Speaker 1: It may sound funny, man, I just can't man. The pain.
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  Speaker 1: I'm leaving you to my room, seems to me. Girl.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I can't and every damn
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  Speaker 1: you see your big stone that I buy room? Yeah? Yeah, yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Do you know about WAMIs my favorite commodore song? No One?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe just the food dream of Yeah, but I don't care, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because I know my happiness is waiting for me somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: M I'm searching for that seal Lion Cris runs that
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  Speaker 1: I'll never see. Well, I wish the way they called
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  Speaker 1: coming up something funny? They who coming up? Don't you're
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  Speaker 1: listening show? All right? It is time now to start
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  Speaker 1: your morning off with the nephew and run that break back.
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  Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nef but cheeks? What crazy?
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  Speaker 1: That's the name of the prank butt Cheeks. Okay, let's
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  Speaker 1: do it. Hello, I'm trying to reach Carmen. Miss miss
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  Speaker 1: Carmen Uh. This is a natuh my master's call. I'm
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  Speaker 1: the principal at the high school where your daughter goes.
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  Speaker 1: This is mister Porter. Porter. How are you doing today?
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  Speaker 1: I'm fine? Is everything good? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, every
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  Speaker 1: every everything is everything is fine? Now your daughter is
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  Speaker 1: tenth grade Crystal, right, correct, Okay, okay, I want to
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  Speaker 1: make sure I'm you know, we got so many kids
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  Speaker 1: with the same names. I wanted to make sure I
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  Speaker 1: had the right person. Um, so here's the issue. You
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  Speaker 1: say your name was Nate. Yeah, okay, Nate. What were
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  Speaker 1: the problem we're having here at the school is I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if you are aware of it, but when
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  Speaker 1: your your wife drops Crystal off at school, we've got
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  Speaker 1: the parents as well as some of the teachers. They're
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  Speaker 1: they're complaining about what she's uh, what she's wearing. What
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  Speaker 1: your wife is wearing? Yeah, what she's wearing when she
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  Speaker 1: drops the kids off. Evidently her clothes are very skimpy
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  Speaker 1: and her butt checks her but cheeks her out. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's I haven't actually seen her,
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  Speaker 1: but I've been getting these reports from uh, we've been
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  Speaker 1: getting that's a little strange to me. I'm typically at work. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what she's wearing. I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna have to talk to her later on today. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: what I was gonna suggest is, uh, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: actually I thought I was calling her phone. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know I was. I was gonna get you, but what
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to do is get her to come up
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  Speaker 1: here so I can see what she wearing. You know.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, I think I got this handle.
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  Speaker 1: Due I can take care of it. Well well, well,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be better for both of us,
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  Speaker 1: like if I was able to see her uh in
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  Speaker 1: the and let her look look player, look, look I
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  Speaker 1: got it, my daughter. This is not even really concerning
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  Speaker 1: my daughter. This is uh you know, this is this
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  Speaker 1: is above that. Take radelet let me handling. So um.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know my daughter going to Principal's office
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  Speaker 1: is one thing. I'll be on top of that, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm definitely on top of this. So so, like I said,
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  Speaker 1: I think I got this handle right now. What now,
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  Speaker 1: your wife, Carmen, is she there? Uh? Yeah, okay, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: is there anyway I can talk to her? No? Like
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  Speaker 1: I told you, I think I think I got this one.
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  Speaker 1: I could take care of this. Um. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: my thing is, I've already told you that three times.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know we're really going with this. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna talk to her and get the
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  Speaker 1: situation situation rectified soon as I can. Okay, but we
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  Speaker 1: don't don't. You don't need to You don't need to
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  Speaker 1: see her, you know, talk to her or another being
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  Speaker 1: the principle here at the school, sir. Uh Like I said, um,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm just trying to, you know, handle the
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  Speaker 1: school and orderly fashion and make sure that all things
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  Speaker 1: are taking care of around here and we have no
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  Speaker 1: issues and no problems. So what I whatever, play, you're
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  Speaker 1: not talking to my daughter, You're talking to me. I'm
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm I'm a husband, I'm a father. I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling me when I tell you I gotta handle, I
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  Speaker 1: got a handle. I understand it. If I have to
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  Speaker 1: handle my school though, you understand that I have to
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  Speaker 1: have much school, I will drop my door off myself. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I understand that. What No, I mean, do I need
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  Speaker 1: to come up there and talk to you? No? I
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  Speaker 1: need your wife to come talk to me. I need
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  Speaker 1: to see what she'd be wearing. I don't need to
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  Speaker 1: talk to my wife. Little player. Do you have a wife, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I have a wife. Became of my office. But what
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  Speaker 1: what what do you? What do you? What are you?
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? No? What are you talking
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  Speaker 1: about that? My wife needs to come and and and
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  Speaker 1: so you can inspect her outfit. I'm not playing that
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  Speaker 1: game player, I'm not We're not doing that. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: need to see what your wife be wearing when she's
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  Speaker 1: dropping these keys yourself phone, I send your picture. Hey man,
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  Speaker 1: a man, I think we must have gone down the
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  Speaker 1: wrong street. But yeah, no, we do definitely down the
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  Speaker 1: wrong boulevard on this one. Players. Okay, let me let
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  Speaker 1: me just make it very clear to you, my wife
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  Speaker 1: you're seeing in the office and all that. Maybe we
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  Speaker 1: can come up to you to morrow. It's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: me and her. No, he's not coming up to the
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  Speaker 1: principal's office. You don't need to do it. But we
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  Speaker 1: don't have a problem with you. We just need her.
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  Speaker 1: I just need to see you. You're gonna have a
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  Speaker 1: problem with me. We keep going down this role right now, okay. So,
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  Speaker 1: so it's okay for her to have her butt cheeks
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  Speaker 1: out when she dropped the kids off, But as soon
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  Speaker 1: as I want to have her come out of office
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  Speaker 1: for a meeting about this situation right now, right now,
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  Speaker 1: you he said, you claiming her but cheass out like
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  Speaker 1: seass out right now? You out of pockets? Okay, No,
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  Speaker 1: it was out of pocket. When she pulled up and
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  Speaker 1: got out the car and her butt was out of pocket.
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  Speaker 1: That's when it was out of pocket. So so what
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  Speaker 1: you can't do, Nate, be mad at me by what
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  Speaker 1: your wife then put on and wall up into the school. Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, I'm I'm gonna do what I gotta
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  Speaker 1: do on this on this end, your end is to
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  Speaker 1: handle what's going on in your school. Wellever Denny, You're
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  Speaker 1: not handling that end over there. So that's why I'm
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  Speaker 1: stepping up as the principal of the school saying I
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  Speaker 1: need to have a meeting, a private meeting with your
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  Speaker 1: wife so when her and I can talk about what
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  Speaker 1: she's wearing. Look, man, I haven't told you several times
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  Speaker 1: her coming up there on her own, it's not gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: So this is where we at right now. You know
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  Speaker 1: what you're gonna happen. So what So what you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: you what's gonna happen tomorrow? I'm gonna come up there
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  Speaker 1: drop my daughter to come see you. So you're coming
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  Speaker 1: here tomorrow, absolutely, Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. So are
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: you bringing miss Carmen? Which don't worry about who's Whitty.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I'm not a telephone tuckcot money. I'm coming up there
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: to handle this right now, because you out of that.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: This is how it's going down. There will be no
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: butt cheeks coming out out tomorrow. It's just gonna be
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: coming out the car or some real you una stand.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: What's your name again? My name? I'm ported the principal here.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: All right, There'll be no butt cheeks tomorrow. You will
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: see me coming out the car. Okay, okay, okay, Uh, well,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: there is there is another issue we got here on
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: the table, and what is that? So so miss krmen
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: as she told you about, uh, the conversation she's been
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: having with Tommy. Who it is Tommy? So that once again?
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: So your wife ain't telling you nothing? So she she
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: hadn't told you nothing about her talking to Tommy. No, dude,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I don't want to play games man. Who's Tommy? Okay? So? So, okay, okay,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: do you know? Okay? Okay? Cool? Do you know who
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy is from the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Do
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: you know him? Yeah? I know? May you just got
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: pranked by your wife, Carmen. Baby, Hey, at least he
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: knows the lover. Oh, my god. Wow, oh man, I
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: gotta ask you something before we go, Baby. What is
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: the land, Steve Harvey Born and Show? Thank you? Coming
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, I'm
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: now guys for asked the CLO. The Chief Love Officer,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey is in the building. Are you ready, sir,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Let's go. Let's go at ready? I thought you were
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: getting ready to say that. Okay. Davis in Mesquite, Texas says,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I'm thirty nine and I just broke up with a
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: woman I dated for six years. We talked about marriage
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: a lot, but she wasn't willing to grow up and
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: stop drinking and hanging out so much in the past.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: It was fun and I did it too, but it
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: got old and I settled down and got a great job.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: She had three jobs in the past three years. Because
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: if it interferes when partying or a girl's trip, she quits.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: I love her, I love her and I want to
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: be with her, but she let me go very easily.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Does that mean she doesn't really love me? At all,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: should I go on with my life, clo, let's go
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: over this. You said, so you let her go. Then
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: you turn around and said she let you go too easily.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: So okay, so you was gonna say, and if you
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: don't straighten up, I'm leaving. And then she went leave.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Now you tripping, y'all not compatible? Better to find out
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: now than later. Yeah, and so now she told you
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: how she gonna be. I'm doing I'm parting it, girl
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: tripping the job, said, I can't go on the girl trip.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: I quick, quick girl trip. I remember. Yeah, that ain't
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: a good Uh. I'm just telling you, man, that just
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: ain't a good that ain't that ain't good business? Man.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: I think it's good riddance man. I know you probably
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: love them, but you know he did the right Probably
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: get over that. Yeah, all right, Ron and Newark, New Jersey,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: as we move on, says My wife and I lived
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: with her parents because we had a small fire in
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: our house. My wife's parents are both hard of hearing
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: and love watching TV. Their bedroom is delected directly below ours,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: so all night we them yelling to talk to each
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: other over the TV that is blaring loudly. I suggested
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: to my father in law that they get hearing tests.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: He got very mad and put me out, but my
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: wife stayed. I'm at my brother's house now, and I'm
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: mad that my wife didn't stand up for me. Was
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: she wrong for taking his side? Wow? This his house, bro,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: What didn't your father tell you? You can't tell a
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: man what to do in his house these old school cats. Man,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: you're telling him he can't talk loud in his house.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: You staying in his house because your little ragged ass
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: house caught on five. Now you staying at his house.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Now you're mad because you don't want to out stay
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: and told him he got to tone it down in
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: his damn house and go get ahead and aide. He's
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: a man. You can get the hell out of my house.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Your wife ain't going to stay at your brother's house,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: and so now you want her to do? What make
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: her father let you stay in his house? That's unthinkable, man,
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, get serious, bro. You can't dump that
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: on your girl. You shouldn't have said nothing to this
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: man in his own house. I don't even know how
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you thought that was fitting the fly man, you got
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: real comfortable. I don't see how you thought that y'all
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: talking too loud down there. We're trying to get some sleep.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Hold on lens, my damn house. Come get some hairy tests.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: You need to go get some damn fine shoes, right,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: some some damn here. Then you need some fine shoes,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: all right. Sophia and Orange County and R in South
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Carolina says, I'm a forty year old single female and
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: I've been dating online for a while, but I finally
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: met a guy that I clicked with and we went
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: on a few dates. I live in a small town,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: so luck would have it. I ran into the guy
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: at home Goods. I gave him a quick hug, and
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: his body language was off. A woman was with him
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: and I didn't see her. He told her I was
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: a new coworker, and I just went with it. I
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: researched to social media and found out he's married. I
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: think she should know about me? Should I slide into her? Dms, Huh,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: you think she should know about you? Why? I think
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: you found out all the information I think you need
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: to know about her? Now? Y'all only went on one date?
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Is that what she's saying? Sherley, Huh, Well, she's been
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: dating online, but yeah, they went on a few dates. Actually, okay,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: they went on a few dates. Now I think she
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: should know about you. No, I think you should know
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: about her and go on about your business. See, I
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: don't know why people think that it's your job to report.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Don't you know you ain't got to do that. Well,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: you know, they're hurt so that they want to lash out.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: That's what that is. Hurt people, hurt people. Yeah, she
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: wants to lash out. What she gonna know about me? No? No, no,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: she doesn't need to do don't go there. Yeah. But
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: but but sister, when she finds out about you, guess
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: what it changes nothing. You have already decided you're not
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: gonna see him no more. You've already decided he's a dog, right,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: So not guess what you telling her that you're not
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: gonna see him anymore? And he's still a dog. Right.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: But the point is, she does want to continue seeing him,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: and she wants to get him back. Yeah, she does
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: want to continue seeing him, and she wants to get
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: him back for not telling her he was married. She
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: wants revenge. Wait a minute, that's why, what do you
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: mean she wants to continue to see him. She does
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: want to Yeah, she doesn't want to break up with
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: this guy. I mean, I know he's married, but she
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to break up with them. I don't believe
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: she does. And I believe she also wants to hurt him,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: you know, and get revenge. Okay, Well, let me explain
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: something to you. She's not once you seek the revenge,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: you can forget that. We're gonna see each other. I've
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: never seen that. I've never ever seen that workout system.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the movie you're watching that's why
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: she's gonna get there. I've never seen that workout. This
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: is they're very important. Who has more fake hair? Who
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: has more fake hair? White women, black women or NFL
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: football players? Explain all three? Serve you can break that
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: down for me. Wow, First of all, I think I
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: think it's white women because it was a surprise to
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: me when my wife showed me how to detect it.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: And they call it hot hair, and they they've been
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: doing it for years. I've found out long before weaves
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: got fake. Okay, and so NFL players, go ahead, we're
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: talking about lady. Yeah, all right, coming out more of
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening show.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Can you be friends with your ex? And what does
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: it take to be friends with you? I don't give
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: a damn what they do. I don't give mine. No, no,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: he said, I've been the court way too many times.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: O hell that my answer can't even be said on
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: the ass. All right, Junior, we're not gonna be friends? Okay, Junior?
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Can you be friends with an ex? I would like
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: to have been. They just don't want me. He keep
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: leaving me. I still be there. You're the sweetest guy ever. Yeah,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: but I'll still be there. Quit acting like no one
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: wants you. You're you're so sweet, you're Come on now, nick,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I know what do anybody want him? Come on, Junior?
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Tell the truth now, don't Jude? Junior, don't you let
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: them make you cute? What? Stop? Stop? Don't I know
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I ain't make you ugly? Don't let him? Can you say,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: my daddy? You all look just like, Yeah, I love
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: your nice looking man? No, not according to you? To
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: your bank account? Get the cute? Do you get? Thank you?
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: But wait a minute. Even even besides that, Junior, why
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: do you go to the gym every day? Then? If
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: why do you go to the Junie? I got to
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: sit the sales shout. I guess to be in shapeful something.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, but you's got to fight. You say
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: for nobody, this is this is for me, started slimming down.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: You got your gun. He's the tax is getting stronger.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: Say for nobody for me? All right, Jay, let me
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: ask you can be friends with your eggs? All the
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: stuff I've lost in every divorce, all of them, every
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: last one of them. I got that back and more
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: so I'm cool now. I'm cool friends with them. Yeah,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: we're cool. You know, I ain't gonna go out of
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: my wage not to speak. Well, that's that's not a friend.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I know. I know one that you cool with. No,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I'm cool with up. No, you number about to throw
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: excuse me what I'm about? Number? You got caught out? Jay.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I can tell you this. I can tell you this.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: You listen to this. The very first divorce, which had
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: was a long time ago, has not spoken to me
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: since then. Really I'm talking. My mama died that you know,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: not a word, not a word. Have y'all seen each other? No,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: she saw you, Jay, because I know him. She saw him.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: She just missed he threw something out him. Yeah, she
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: had his ass lyned up. She just missed. I'm a
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: nice guy. I'm a very nice until you marry me. Wow,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: that is you in a nutshell? Is that the truth? See?
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: That sounds like the truth right there? Did you hear
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: what he said? Jay is a nice guy all the
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: way around. He really is. He just you know all
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: it is. And I'm gonna tell you about my friend.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: The only thing is he just doesn't He never developed
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: conflict resolution skills. He just walked out. He don't. He
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: don't the conflict resolution. He just look at you and
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: you just keep talking. Crazy. He just look at you.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Why I And then one day, then one day he
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: just drive off. Yeah, gone, he doesn't come back. Steve
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: ain't man ain't. I ain't ain't he I an't even
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: do all that. Yeah, I don't like to argue, though,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I don't. All right now, let's get to the name
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: on the job. Long than I've ever been married. That's crazy,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: all right, nephew, you're the newest to marry in the group.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Can you be friends with an X if we're still
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: doing it? You know? I mean that makes sense right? No,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: only to you? I think I mean we should doing it?
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: Then you we might well still be friends. If we're
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: still doing it, but we're not, then you're still involved.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: That's not really the Yeah yeah, doing it involved is
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: not the same thing, Carlin, you're what else is left
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: after that? What are we doing it? We ain't talking
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: after you do it. That's what's next. The only friends
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: you have are friends with benefits? Was the purpose of
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: a friend? Wow? I want to do over? Yeah? Sure
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you want me to do it? No? No, No, I mean,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: just you get your nephew, Steve. No, he's saying, listen
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: to me. I listened to me. It's times when he
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: not my nephew. Would this be one of those times?
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: I gotta see? I know when to disown. It's times
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: where disowning him is just the best way to handle it,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: you know. I look, when he says something so damn stupid,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Why do I have to stop him? I'll do nothing
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: but be stopping him all damn day. Though. Okay, but
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: you say some some of it, you gotta go. I
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: say stuff that makes sense, it's just you don't want
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: to digest it. Well, the thing that's really got me
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: is that, out of all of you guys, Jay is
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: the only one that can remain friends with his ax
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: the bitter man of the But that is crazy, and
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: there's only one Shirley, and I know exactly who. I
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: could say her name right now, could I ja? Okay?
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: That that is if I say the wrong name. No,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: you're not, No, you're not? Wow? How many ex's a lot?
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: We don't even talk about it? Okay? Mary? Lot up? Junior?
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: What well you went all the way back there? All right?
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show journey
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: right after then you're listening time for Would you rather?
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Would you rather talk on the phone or send a text?
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Tex I rather text? Really? Yeah? I don't like talking
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: to people sons something, because didn't they asked us something?
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: You lead into too much, Texas. Everybody I'll talk to
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I talk to face to face, all right? Would you
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: rather a pretty woman with median income or wealthy woman
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: and not so cute? I? Would you rather have a
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: pretty woman with median income or a wealthy woman and
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: she's not that cute? Don't give me a no, I'm
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: taking the uncles. You got money, my ug lads, hug lad.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be together to hear we won't can say
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: what you want to say about it. Who dating the pirate?
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I'm dating the party. Shut up, baby, I got it.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Shut up at your bar, I got it all right.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Would you rather would you rather sew all your own clothes?
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather grow all your own food? So
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: all your clothes, to grow all your food? Oh, grow
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: my food. I like to grow my food. That's been
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: always been a dream of mine. To give me a
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: big greenhouse. I'm working on that right now. Really. Oh yeah, man,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna grow my own would fool man? I would
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: think since you like clothes so much, you would like
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: to sew your own clothes if you're wearing that ragged
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: ass man clothes my sister used to make me. I'm not.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Oh you've had that experience. Yeah, yeah, my sister ud
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: make my capes when I went to the count. Yeah, man,
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: you'd wait at one time? Did you throw that damn thing?
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Because it was not built to last? All right? Feathers
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: coming off, beads all in the floor, feathers falling off,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: all of that. Would you rather noisy neighbors or would
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: you rather noisy neighbors? I'm gonna go with beat. Yeah,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I'd rather have noisy neighbors. Just going over there and
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: make some noise. I can deal with that, but quick yeah,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: looking all through anything, stand question. I can't stand that
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: that healthless day next to me was both noisy and old,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: asked German woman just a hateful assa. Oh I remember her? Yeah,
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: she's so trifling. I couldn't stand this woman. Man Man.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: Margine was over at the other house. She forgot she
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: hate hi guys hate off? Wow, yeah, she got the mention.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Now she forgot she to hate us. Thank you guys,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: you're listening. Show All right, Jay, it is time for
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: comedy roulette. Got it up quickly. It's just the insults.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Every week you test out comedy ability. Tell you what
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: you do? Take five stup? Put them on a wheel,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: spending a wheel? Which stop? We'll do the damn thing
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: with you guys. All right, here we go. I have
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: the categories. Let's spend the wheel, I mean, let's get ready.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: All right? She she hasn't she has an invisible boyfriend.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: Oh everybody knows somebody like that. All right, that's number
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: one numbers Stop lying you're staying at your mama's house.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Number three? When are you gonna get that back? Too? Thick?
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: You know, people like this is right back number four.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: You know they repo that car at number five. I
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: don't know how to tell you this, but she singing, somebody,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: all of these are good, A cat, I'm on that two.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: Come on too, Come on, I'm a si a number two.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: Stop lying. You staying at your mama's house. You know
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: how I know you standing at your mama house. Yeah,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: the club. I hear you on the phone say hey,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I'll be there in a minute. Mama, lead a key
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: under the door, and your mama your mama's out. I
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: know you stand at your mama house. How I know
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: you'd be trying to hide. But all your clothes got creasing.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: You know that well, you know that good. Your clothes
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: gotta even creep back on both you stand at your
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: staying at your mama house. When you got a lunch
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: bag with your name on it in the car, Mama
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: made that for you. Boy. When you when when you
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: on your cell phone talking, uh, and we can hear
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: the washing machine in the bathroom mama house. You know
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: you know, I know you stand at your mama house.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: You ain't got your own key, and the key you
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: got is around your neck. Fooling fool you You ain't fooling, No,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: damn bad Keep growing ass man. I know you stand
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: at your mama house when I come to your mama
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: house on family functions. You first one? Now? How you
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: the first one here? Right? We know you staying at
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: your mama house when you you only invite us over
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: doing prayer, meeting mamma, going to church tonight we can
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: come through. Yeah, I know you at your mama This
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: is how I know you live at your mama's house.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: You always smell damn smell you know how I know
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: you're just smell everything. How I know you stand at
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: your mama house every day? You coming in talking about
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: a gospel show? You watching this when you start watching
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: old steam for I have experience in this area. That's
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: why I know you stand at your mama house when
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: you always into it with her boyfriend. How came you?
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: You're like nothing else? You know? You staying at to
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: your mama hawk, You're lotion. You will smell like a va. Yeah,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: what are you coming to? Smelling like white diamond? What
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: is that about? Come on, Steve, closing out? This is
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: how you know you love your mama's house. Called the
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: car you driving got a Bible on the dashboard and
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: the Bible head Jesus. All right, we'll be back with you.
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  Speaker 1: We do it or did we not do it? You
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: get We'll be back with Nevhew, tell me sprank phone
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: call after this. You're listening morning show coming up at
• 43:10
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• 43:12
  Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today's subjects. I'm doing wify
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: things without a ring. That is the subject. Okay, but
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: right now, nephew, here with today's prank phone call. Check
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: out for us nav. Can we use your cask? What
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: can we you your cask? Get you? I've never heard Hey, hey,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: we're going through a little sum. We're going through a
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: list sum. All right, man, can you loan me a cask?
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Get to get on my feet? Okay, let's go cat. Hello,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: I'll try to reach Vicky. This is Vicky. Hey, Vicky,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: how are you doing? Are you the Are you the
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: niece of uh? I think it's ain't your aunt? Yes? Okay,
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: and you you now you aren't passed away? I man,
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: iw many years ago, y'allre passed. It was about five
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, listen, I'm over here at the funeral home. U.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: My sister just passed away, and U they gave me
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: your phone number? Did you guys? We're going through a
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: little bit of a situation here, did you guys? Aren't
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: have you know? Your aunt was a heavy set woman?
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Is that right? Okay? Now they had to did they
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: have to put her in a in a? Did they
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: have a bill of a special casket for her? Yeah? Okay,
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: that's what we're kind of going through with my sister.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: We ordered a special casket for for for my sister,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: and I'm assuming this is the same thing that you
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: guys went through. I called several of her, her children,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: but I wasn't able to get in touch with anybody.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: But the funeral home actually had your name on file
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: as well, so they gave me your number where I
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: will be able to talk to you. Is that is that? Okay? Yeah,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: that's okay. You can speak to me. But you know,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: let's seeks to leave a problem. Well, listen, the funeral
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: is actually in two days and we ordered one of
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: those special caskets, but it doesn't look like it's gonna
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: be in for another week, so you know, it's almost
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: like we're gonna we're gonna we're not gonna have a
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: casket for her um, you know, for the funeral, and
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: you know, like I said, the funeral home told us
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: about you know that you guys, who are the last
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: ones that ordered a casket of that size? And you know,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: me and the rest of the family has been you know,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: we've been trying to figure out what to do and
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: what to do. Do you think it's any way possible
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: we can borrow the casket that your Ain't is in,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: and then when the casket comes in that we ordered,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: we can put her in that casket and put her
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: back down to rest like she's always been. Do you
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: think that's excuse me? Hello? Hello, you think you repeat yourself?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: What exactly are you asking me? Well, what I'm saying is,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: do you think we can bar your ain't casket because
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: you know, the fuel is in two days and the
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: casket is not gonna be in in order for us
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: to be able to bury her in a in a
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: casket for you know, to accommodate her size. That's what
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: I'm asking. What kind of that you're talking about? First
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: of all, who is this? Okay, No, my name is Larry,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: Like I said, my name is Larry I got you.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: I got you guys. Like I said, I tried to
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: call some of her kids, but nobody ever picked up
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: when I called. Yet her niece's number a file too.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: You you are her niece, Vicky, right, Yes, I am. Okay,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Do you think that maybe you
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: can talk to the children and see if we can
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: maybe used that particular casket? Okay, wait a minute, what
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: the talking about this? The first of all, who who
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: is this? You? You gotta be losing your mind if
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna let you dig up my any
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: so just to bury your snufts. But I understand where
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: you're coming from. But what I'm trying to say is
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: that we don't have a casket big enough and they were.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: They let us know that you guys were the last
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: ones that had a casket that you know I'm gonna
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: do with us? That's you don't true stuff figuring out
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: have you show no? No? Well, okay, first of all,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do is this the family been
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: grieving pretty hard, and I just wanted to make sure
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: that the funeral will be right, and it ain't gonna
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: be right, and we don't have that We don't think
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: my family gonna feel digging any up. I'll show they
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: don't call me with this. Who is the funeral home
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: that gave you my number to ask me to use
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: the casket so you can bury your sister. Who is
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: the name of that person? I can't remember, but it
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: was it was It was a guy. The funeral director
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: let me know that you guys had went through a
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: situation where you had to bury your your your your art.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Like I said, I tried to call what's your name again?
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: My name is Larry, Okay, Larry. This is this is
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: a stupid I don't know what give you my phone
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: number to call me asking you just dun't. Can't you
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: believe her? They call here asking me so can dig
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: up so they can bury the faster Here's don't have
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: a casket? Hello, No, no, whatstand that's your fault? No,
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: I understand, it's not your fault. What I'm trying to
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: say is what y'all show some sympathy and some love
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: for me and my family going through because we don't
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: have a casket. Like I say, my tuster my sister
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: was was you know? Was it? If the heavens was
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: a hell time? You know, my condoleses go out to
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: you and your family. You know I'm trying to be
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: as reserved as I can with this whole situation. But
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: do you understand what kind of stupid you're asking me
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: right now to actually dig up my unt whose armed,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: who's been and what out for fun years? To bury
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: your sister? Because let me let me ask you this,
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: if like this with you that you ain't ain't gonna know,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: she ain't gonna know with you, for you to say
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: to me what don't know? But you're stupid? What you're
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: talking on you smoking crack? What don't know? I don't know? More?
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: First of all, you know what I First of all,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I appreciate you trying to work with me, but I
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: want to say this is you. You don't even have
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: the authority to make that decision if you give me
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: one of the numbers to one of your cousins. Because
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: I was really trying to be nice and be calm.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: But guess what, we're not doing this stupid. I'm trying
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: to be nice to you and tell and trying to
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: help you out, but no, you want me to get
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: ignorant and ask stupid with you. I was trying to
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: be nice and sympathetic. But we're not doing it. I'm
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: not giving you the number. I got the authority to
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: tell you right now. No, we're not digging up, so
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: you can bury yourselufs to fair. Okay, so so so
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: so so, that's just it. I can't talk to now,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: that's it. No, you ain't talking to know, but you're
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: talking to me. Okay, I got I got, I got
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: something else I need to tell you though, I need.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I need to tell you something else or you listen
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: tell me. I want to tell you this. This is
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Vicky yr
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: sister Sheila got me to prank phone called you. Huh.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Who is this again? Biggy Bicky? This is a nephew
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Sheila
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: got me to prank phone call you. Oh oh, y'all
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: you got me over y'all worked up? I because I'm
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: gonna keep she played at much. She ain't got. I
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: got woman thing to ask you, baby, what is the
• 50:44
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• 50:47
  Speaker 1: land Steve Harvey Morning Show for y'all Crater you know
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: there's some people that they killed me. You just you know,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: where's the love? You know? Your brother just want to
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: casket for a couple of days. You know what I'm saying.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Not willing to share. I mean, I just I just
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: don't understand that that woman already has been laid the rest,
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: so it's not like we're messing up her funeral. Yeah,
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: where's the love? O? Man? Somebody got it bad? What
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: you're listening to? Somebody go whip you really bad. You're
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: talking about digging on black people. See that's that line
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: step Yeah. See you did that with that other brother
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: one time, when you something about digging up. He's a man.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: I just got to people to stop crying. Last I'm
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: just trying casket for a few days, man, And you
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: loan me a casket to I get on my feet.
• 51:48
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• 51:57
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• 52:00
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• 52:05
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• 52:27
  Speaker 1: It is rob every letter subject. I'm doing wifey things
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: without a ring. Dear Stephen Shirley, My boyfriend and I
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: have been dating for three years and we moved in
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: together with a plan to get married and start a family.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: I'm thirty years old and he is twenty five. After
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: a year and a half of living together, he bought
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: me an engagement ring, and I've found out because he
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: was dropping hints about it. Then one day in November,
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: he admitted to me that he had bought the ring,
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: but he's not as happy in this relationship as he
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: should be. He told me that he's having doubts about
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: marrying me. I asked him what made him feel that way.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: He told me that a minor things, but I needed
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: to work on them before we got engaged. He told
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: me that he would like for his dinner to be
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: ready when he gets home on the days that I'm
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: off work. He says he does not want me to
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: wait until he gets home to ask what he would
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: like to eat. He also said that I don't send
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: him as many nudes as I used to. I told
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: him I could work on the cooking thing, but I
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: stopped sending new picks to him because I had gained
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: a few pounds and wasn't feeling very sexy most days.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: He said, other than that everything was fine with us.
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: I couldn't help but think there was something more that
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: is bothering him. He has made a few other suggestions
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: to me about things I should do to make him
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: feel like the man of the house, and each time
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: he says they will make me a better wife. While
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: I'm not playing the role of wife without a ring
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: on my finger, and he does not understand that I've
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: been walking on eggshells to keep him happy because I
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: want my ring and I want to marry him. As
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: time goes by, I'm starting to have a change of heart.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: I'm doing wifey things without a ring. I feel like
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: he's up to something and he's playing games because he's
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: not ready to commit. Should I give him an ultimatum
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: or should I be patient and let things progress? Well,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, it depends on, really, really what you want
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: you say you want your ring and you do want
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: to marry him, So I say, do what you feel,
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: and you feel something. You say he's having doubts and
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: you think he's playing games and he's not ready to commit.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: That could be what it is. I mean, he could be,
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: you know, getting cold feet, or deciding since you guys
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: are living together, that he doesn't have to marry you.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: He can get you to do all these things without
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: you know, the benefit of marriage or whatever. I mean.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I agree with you. You shouldn't be doing wifey things
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: without the benefits. So how about this, Why don't you stop?
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Why don't you stop doing those things? That means a
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: lot of things. It could mean moving out, It could mean,
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: you know, you guys separate for a while. It could
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: mean putting him out. But if you truly want to
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: marry him and you want your ring, do you want
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: just want the ring and the marriage or do you
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: I mean the wedding or do you really know what
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: it takes to be a you know, to be married
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: to him? Him telling you wait a minute, is this
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: the nineteen fifties? I want my dinner ready when I
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: get home, girl, Please, I want my dinner. Who are
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: you talking to Yeah, you know, uh anyway, you know
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: you're you're thirty, he's twenty five. It sounds like, um,
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: you know, he's a little more old school and older
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: than his years allowed than his twenty five years. So
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: I just say this, if you really, if that's really
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: what you want from this man, sounds like he's starting
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: to take this whole living together arrangement for granted. So
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to make a move. You're gonna have
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: to make a move if that means giving him him
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: an ultimatum, look, marry me or I'm out or getting
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: you know, let's get engaged. You probably never should have
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: moved in with him without becoming engaged and having a
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: date and all of that. So now you got a
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: backtrack and do that to make to let him know
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: that you're serious about what you want, and then after
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: that you'll see how it goes. But yeah, you're probably
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: gonna have to make a major move like leave to
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: get what you want. Steve, you know what, I feel
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: sorry for this lady because this is so atypical. I
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: know exactly what this is. So let me put you
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: on game. Glad you called uncle Steve. I know exactly
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: what's happening your boyfriend y'all been dating for three years,
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: moved in together with the plan and getting marriage to
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: the I'm thirty twenty five. Pumped a brakes. That's part
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: of the problem right there. You're a little bit older.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: You have a biological clock ticking. A man has no
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: biological clock. He has a financial clock, and at twenty five,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: neither one of those have gone off yet. This is truth.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: His financial clock hasn't gone off yet, and he doesn't
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: have a biological clock. Your biological clock is going crazy.
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: So now you've moved in a man, moving in with
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: a man that has different ideals than you do. You've
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: heard that he was gonna he bought you an engagement ring.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: You find out because he was dropping hits. One day
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: in November, he admitted to me that he had bought
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: the ring, but he wasn't happy with the relationship as
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: he should be. He told me that he's having doubts
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: about married me. That Shirley has absolutely correct. It's called
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: cold feat. I asked him what made him feel that way.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: He told me that there were minor things, but I
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: needed to work on them before we got engaged. He
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: told me that he would like for his dinner to
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: be ready when he gets home on days that I'm
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: off from work. He says, he doesn't want me to
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: wait till he gets home to ask him what he
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: would like to eat. Let me show you exactly how
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: minor that is. Here's a guy that expects you to
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: have dinner ready when he gets home on the days
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: that you're off work, which means you have a job. Also,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want to wait until he gets home to
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: ask him what he would like to eat. So he
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: thinks he proposed to walk in the house at twenty five,
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: slide his ass up on the table and jest STARTI, well,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: what are you supposed to do? Guess what he wants?
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: So you did a very decent thing to ask him
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: what he wants. He also said that you don't send
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: as many nudes as I want as you two used to.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: I could work on the cooking, but I'll stopped sending
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: new picture to him because I gained weight. No, you
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: stop sending new picture to him because y'all lay together. Heir,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: he every night he seen him the hair. You need
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: a picture off? This is stupid. Hey, I'll be back.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: I got the rest of him. Okay, hang right there, Steve.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: Part two of your responses coming up at twenty three
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Subjects of today's Strawberry Letter, I'm
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: doing wifey things without a ring. We'll be back right
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, Come on,
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  Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I'm doing wifey things
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  Speaker 1: without a ring. Oh, this is such an easy letter
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  Speaker 1: for me, because boy, lady, I feel for you. Thirty
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  Speaker 1: years old, he twenty five bought the engagement ring. Then
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  Speaker 1: he admitted that he had bought the ring, but he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't happy in the relationship. He was having doubt. Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: nailed on the head as called cold feet, asked him
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  Speaker 1: what made him feel that way. He told me some
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  Speaker 1: minor things I needed to work on before we got engaged.
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  Speaker 1: So he told us he wants his dinner to be
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  Speaker 1: ready when he get home on days that I'm off work,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: and like I said earlier, which means that she works too.
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  Speaker 1: But he says he don't want to wait till he
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  Speaker 1: getting home for you to ask him what he want
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  Speaker 1: to eat? Well, what is she supposed to do? Dog?
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  Speaker 1: Guess what you want? That's the cool thing to do.
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  Speaker 1: Then he said, you don't send as many new pictures
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  Speaker 1: as I used to. I told him I could work
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  Speaker 1: on the cooking, but I stopped sending the new picture
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  Speaker 1: to him because I gained a few pounds of one
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  Speaker 1: feeling sexy most of the days. Hold on, lady, you
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  Speaker 1: live with him. It's why you're not sending as many nudes.
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  Speaker 1: He dare every night. Take your own. Damn, you're tripping
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  Speaker 1: with me. Fon, doc See, lady, he has turned this
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  Speaker 1: thing around on you. And what he's done is the
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  Speaker 1: reason he doesn't understand what you're saying to him is
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  Speaker 1: because you're not helping him understand. You so desperately want
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  Speaker 1: this ring that you've allowed this man to turn this
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  Speaker 1: into all one sided request. Everything is what he won't
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  Speaker 1: you to do. What he won't pitchers, he won't cook it,
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  Speaker 1: he won't fool he said. Other than that, everything was fine.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't think, But that was he said that I
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  Speaker 1: couldn't think, But that was something more than that bothered him.
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  Speaker 1: He made a few others, suggesting me about things I
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  Speaker 1: could do to make him feel more like the man
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  Speaker 1: at the house. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. First
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  Speaker 1: of all. The dude is not understanding this because you're
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  Speaker 1: not helping him understand all this is is a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of one sided requests. You can't be totally one completely
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  Speaker 1: or during this boy. It's something wrong with him, but
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  Speaker 1: you ain't making no request of him. Your desperation for
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  Speaker 1: this ring is allowing you to let this man make
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  Speaker 1: all what's wrong with you ain't nothing wrong with him.
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  Speaker 1: He perfect. So you are trying to be engaged to Christ.
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  Speaker 1: That's the only thing I can think of, because that's
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  Speaker 1: the only perfect person out there ever lived on this earth,
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  Speaker 1: and he's not here yet. So now why you got
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  Speaker 1: this boy propped up like he all of that? Wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: think now? Now you walk around on eggshells to keep
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: him happy? What keep him happy? Here's the line in there.
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  Speaker 1: You got to do some things to make him feel
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  Speaker 1: like the man at the house. That's not your job.
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  Speaker 1: If he is the only man in the house and
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: he don't feel like the man of the house, then
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: what inadequacy does he have? If he don't feel like
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  Speaker 1: the man at the house. It's because you must be
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  Speaker 1: doing a lot of stuff that he no he should
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: be doing. But he got all these requests heaped on you, lady.
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  Speaker 1: As time goes by, I'm starting to have a change
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  Speaker 1: of heart, and you should. I'm doing wifey things without
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  Speaker 1: a ring. I feel like he's up to something and
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  Speaker 1: he's playing games because he's not ready to commit. He
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: ain't ready to commit. He's not going to commit. And
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: he got you thinking that the reason he's not gonna
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  Speaker 1: commit because it's all your fault. He the one don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like the man at the house. What they got
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: to do with you? So here we go. Start cooking
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: what he wants him, Cyril beca, have a bowl of
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: lucky charms. Wain't on his ass when he comes in
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  Speaker 1: the house. I tell you what, cook old ass food
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: for it, real old ass food. Make him feel like,
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: you know, a man's man. Have some chicken feet and
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: just and just crock pot with none but beans and
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: rice in it, corne bread, old ass meals coming to
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  Speaker 1: the house, having some fried spam sitting there with some
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  Speaker 1: tripe and some scrambled eggs. Cooking some real old ass
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  Speaker 1: grown man near like it's coming there with some hot water,
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  Speaker 1: corn bread and and just some red eye graving, no
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  Speaker 1: damn meat. Let's make a pot of gravy, Give him
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  Speaker 1: a straw tell him that what we're eating today, tell
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  Speaker 1: him gravy, old country ass meal, Come home, ain't number
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  Speaker 1: damn just a bowl of slough a, yeah, just come in.
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  Speaker 1: There ain't nothing but some greens. Jess Greene, all that
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  Speaker 1: on smoked turkey. Damn that ham hawk, Yeah Greene with
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: a big ass hawk in it, bowler limeal beans, my
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  Speaker 1: feet in his ass like an old ass, mats blood pressure, lady,
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  Speaker 1: that's all. There's nothing wrong with you. It's something wrong
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: with him. Yeah, it's not you. And the second thought
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: you're starting to half is because you're starting to realize
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: you're walking on eggshells in your own house. That little
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: boy ready to get married, and you're gonna marry somebody
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: that think he ain't a man because he's messed up
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: about your age anyway, because his mama has said a
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: couple of things about it. Gonna send him on pack
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: a lunch next time you go, got buy him a
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: lunch box with superhero. All right, come home, have a
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: happy meal waiting on his ass. But your comments today
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• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: it is time for ask Steve. We have a question. Yeah,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: now listen to this. Yeah a a one question one?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. This from well, this is from a
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: twenty two year old. This is from a millennial. So
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: um and his name is also Steve, your namesake, he says, Hi,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: mister Harvey, I work full time and I'm currently in
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: school to become a psychiatric mental health nurse. My faith
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: is strong and I know that with God, anything is possible.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: So my question to you is, on your path to
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: become an entertainer, did you ever doubt yourself, think your
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: dream was too big, or think about giving up? And
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: how did you strengthen your connection to God and never
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: lose hope that your prayers and hard work would pay off.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: That's a great question, well from no matter who you are,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: we're human, and you're gonna have moments of doubt because
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: it's so difficult to make a success of yourself. So
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: there's gonna be times, man, what you're gonna be faced
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: with the man that I make the right move Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's this working man. Ever is it gonna change. Is
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: it gonna get better? I mean, you know I'm living
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  Speaker 1: in that calm going Man. Is it gonna get better?
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  Speaker 1: Man that I make the right move? Man? Should I
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: go back home? Man? I mean, you know you're gonna
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: have doubts along the way. Sometimes you're gonna doubting, or
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: let me say it to you this way, it's gonna
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: be so daunting at times that you're gonna be faced
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: with some things that appear to be insurmountable. But here's
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: what I always had to do. Whenever I got to
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: moments like that, I thought of the ultimate dream that
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  Speaker 1: I had for myself and my family. What am I
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: really shooting for? And I think what people have to
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  Speaker 1: do is you have to be conscious of the size
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: of your dreams. You have to have dreams so big
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: that not getting your dream is unacceptable because the consequence,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: the alternative, the alternative to not receiving your dreams is unacceptable.
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  Speaker 1: And you've just got to dreams so big that your
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: dreams are bigger than whatever problem you're having. So dreaming
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  Speaker 1: big is not the problem, because God is all out
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  Speaker 1: there in them big dreams. God is going to make
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  Speaker 1: your dream come true. Business So I want you to
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  Speaker 1: just stay. You have to stay prayerful man. Throughout the journal.
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  Speaker 1: Prayer changes things, and prayer gives you a relationship with
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  Speaker 1: your creator that allows you to have the strength that
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: you don't have in your weakest moments, allows you to
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: be your strongest because it connects you closer to him.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: Your weakness is where he gives you the strength. Hey, man,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: go ahead, all right, Steve, you're listening. So um, I
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: gotta ask you, guys, because we've all done this, what
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: was your most embarrassing text that you've ever sent to
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: someone by accident? We've all done this. Uh, you know
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: there's nothing right worse than you're writing a private text
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  Speaker 1: to someone personal text and sending it to the wrong person.
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  Speaker 1: That is why I do not do group texts. Yeah,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: so if you don't, you would not respond on at
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: all because I'll forget to turn it off and fairly's
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: response comes back single it is nobody else on it,
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: And I know what a good text. But so so, Junior,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: have you ever asked, Oh, yeah, you need to understand
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: last names. If the two people got the same last name,
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  Speaker 1: pick the right one. Because I sent a text to
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  Speaker 1: my sister said my MoMA, get on my damn nerve,
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  Speaker 1: send it right to my mom. Oh, I get so
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: your damn nerves. That's what I do. That's what I do.
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  Speaker 1: I should have known that it was really really a
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: rough week. Yeah, yeah, yeah it was. Yeah. Yeah. Telicia's
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: space and Alicia's space is really close. Yeah that's close. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I spent Celicia. I should have. Man, i's going
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: for Tell me, I know you sent some necking pictures
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: to somebody before you were married. I know you did, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: how do I paint this? Okay, let me try to
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: walk this thing Lando. Okay. Jack went on whole way
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  Speaker 1: home and said, find us something to eat, you know,
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  Speaker 1: find you know, can't. Let's see if we got something
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: there to cook to eat? You know this one this
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: you just got your phone to take pictures and all that,
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: so you know you're just trying stuff. I put myself
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: in a hot dog bun with relish and mustard and
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: took the picture and called myself sinning as saying wait
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: till you get home and get this foot loan. And
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: I hit sin and did not know man I hit
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  Speaker 1: the wrong damn Jackie, and he oh that was Jack.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: You heard what he said, Steve, uncle jacket, get your nephew.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: You can give us the response back. He's still alive.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: That's a good that's a good sign. But what did
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: the wrong Jackie say? Yeah, you got the wrong jacket
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: and you know it was a friend of the family
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: jacket Like when you get home, you're gonna get this
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: foot loan. You got the wrong jacket. God, but where
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: did you Where did you find Where did you find
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: the baby? Hot dog? Bummers? Shut up? Don't go along
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: with him. No, I've seen him at Wedd's but I
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: just didn't never know where to get him. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: know from Vienna Sausages. The worst text ever said all
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: about five six years ago. And we're in this group
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: text me Rashawn, a couple other people and the executive
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: producer of the show. So the last text had came
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: from Rashawn. So my executive producer is talking to me,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: and she's a woman, and she's right in my face
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: and she just talking to me and she was so
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: close to my face. I picked my phone up and
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: just text back to Rashawn a man, come get her out, yo.
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  Speaker 1: In words face she too damn close. Seeing I'm thinking
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: I'm just sending it right back to Rashawn. It's in
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  Speaker 1: the group text. He got it too. She two inches
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: from my face. Her phone dings. She looks at it.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: It says, oh really. Sean is running from the back
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: of the bus trying to stop her from looking at
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell happened. It's too late, dog.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: I said that about her. It was right, she was
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  Speaker 1: right there. I heard her phone go ding, I went
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: she getting a text too, coming out more. I'm Today's
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  Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, So do you guys love
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: spicy food? I don't like hot. I don't like hot
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  Speaker 1: hot hot, yeah, yeah yeah. According to a survey by
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  Speaker 1: Frank's Red Hot Sauce, people who like things hot see
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  Speaker 1: themselves as hot and more attractive than others. Is that true? See?
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  Speaker 1: I see myself as spicy. I don't see. I think
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  Speaker 1: I'm spicy. I don't know I'm really necessarily hot. I
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: don't think it's hot, but I think I'm very spicy. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like my food where I can't enjoy it.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: You know, if it's too hot. Yeah, no, it's too spicy.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm married to a man from New Orleans, so
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: everything has to be spicy. I mean spicy ice cream,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: I mean everything. You never know what New Orleans. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, well that's what I say. Everything has to
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  Speaker 1: be spicy. Yeah. So does he think he's hot? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: well he just he does. He just proved our point.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: Then the point of the story. He just proved it.
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  Speaker 1: The survey also showed that the hot people see themselves
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: as adventurous, creative, and confident too. So does that describe
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Tash absolutely Junior? Hot or spicy? Oh no, I'm I'm spicy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm spicy. You know. I can't do like that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I like spicy foods, you know, but because you gotta
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: have flavored in the spicy. Yes, that's the thing. I
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: like that hot with my my phone. Fine, give me
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: some water. I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: But you're supposed to drink milk. They say, not even whatever.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, jun You're coming up more of
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• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: we'll play a round of would you rather? Right after
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  Speaker 1: this you're listening show time for Would you rather? Would
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  Speaker 1: you rather talk on the phone or send a text?
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: Rather text? Really? Yeah, I don't like talking to people,
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: so something as us, something as you lead into too
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  Speaker 1: much texas everybody I'll talk to I talk to face
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  Speaker 1: to face, all right? Would you rather a pretty woman
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: with median income or wealthy woman and not so cute? I?
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have a pretty woman with median income
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: or a wealthy woman and she's not that cute? Give
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  Speaker 1: me a no. I'm taking the uncles. You got money,
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  Speaker 1: My ug lads and hug lad. We're gonna be together
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  Speaker 1: over to hear we won't. Y'all can say what you
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: want to say about me. Say who dating the pirates?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: I'm dating the pirate? Fire? Shut up, baby, I got it.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: Fire shot at your bar? I got it, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather? Would you rather so all your own
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: clothes or would you rather grow all your own food?
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: So all your clothes or grow all your food? Oh?
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: Grow my food. I like to grow my food. That's
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: been always been a dream of mine. To give me
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: a big greenhouse. I'm working on that right now. Really,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, I'm gonna grow my own would fool man.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: I would think since you like clothes so much, you
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: would like to sew your own clothes if you kind
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: of wearing that ragged ass man clothes my sister used
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: to make me. I'm not Oh you've had that experience. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: my sister to make my cape from I went to
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: the contract. Yeah, man, you'd weight at one time. Do
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: you throw that damn thingcause it was not built to land?
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll just coming off, beads all in the floor,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: feathers falling off, all of that. Would you rather nosy
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: neighbors or would you rather noisy neighbors? M I'm gonna
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: go with beat up Yeah, I'd rather have noisy neighbors
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: just going over there and make some noise. I can
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: deal with that quick yeahing all through asking question. I
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: can't stand that that health was day next to me
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: was both noisy and old, asked German woman. Just a
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: hateful ass Oh I remember her? Yeah, she's so trifling.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: I couldn't stand this woman. Man, man, Marge was over
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: at the other house. She forgot she hated us. Hi
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: guys off, Yeah, she got to mention now she forgot
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: she hated us. Thank you guys coming up. It is
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and we'll close out
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: the show with the one and only Steve Harvey right
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, right, Steve. Here we are
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: last break of the day. Boy, oh boy, what a
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: day it has been. Oh my goodness, Um, but a
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: great day. A great day, all of been good. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, you can take us home with some
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: closing remarks. Well, here's here's something I want to share.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: I've really gotten into this mode of sharing some of
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: the things I've learned this year when I was when
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  Speaker 1: I've started doing these morning meditations. And I just started
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  Speaker 1: it this year, everybody, So I'm not like now, I've
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  Speaker 1: been doing this for years anything. I just started it
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  Speaker 1: this year and it's probably been one of the best
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  Speaker 1: changes that I've bought about myself mentally spiritually for just
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  Speaker 1: to have the right state of mind to continue up
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  Speaker 1: the road. And I just want to talk to you
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  Speaker 1: all about about your relationship with God. And once again,
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  Speaker 1: this is not that I'm an expert that just because
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  Speaker 1: trust and believe I'm not. I'm growing every day with this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm learning, but I'm in a sharing mode of trying
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  Speaker 1: to share you what I've learned, so you don't feel
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  Speaker 1: like you don't want out there tripping on this thing,
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  Speaker 1: because I have too. And so I just want to
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  Speaker 1: talk to you about what happened to me when I
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  Speaker 1: just started to give God a bigger presence in my life.
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  Speaker 1: And I want you all to listen to this. If
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  Speaker 1: you're on the outside like I was, or you borderline
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  Speaker 1: like me, if you gave God a bigger presence in
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  Speaker 1: your life, what could happen if you just gave him
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  Speaker 1: a chance. I just want to throw this out there,
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  Speaker 1: just what could happen if you would just give him
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  Speaker 1: a chance to have just a bigger presence in your life.
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  Speaker 1: Because what it did for me, man, it just it
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  Speaker 1: brightened up some of the dullness of my great days.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I have some days man, while felt overworked, overstressed,
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  Speaker 1: the monotony, it over it all. You know, when you
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  Speaker 1: when you give God a chance, God can put a
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  Speaker 1: sparkle in the routine of your daily life. Because see
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  Speaker 1: what happens is and I found this to be true
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  Speaker 1: in my situation and maybe some of you can relate
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  Speaker 1: to this. You gotta repeat so many tasks day after day,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it just gets monotonous. You got it. You
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  Speaker 1: go to work at the same time, you drive the
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  Speaker 1: same route. You got the same task at your job.
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  Speaker 1: You work around the same people, you said, at the
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  Speaker 1: same cubicle or the same station. You work in the
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  Speaker 1: same route. You know, you drive the same way to
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  Speaker 1: work and take the same amount of time. You listen
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  Speaker 1: to the same music. This monotony, this monotony can oftentime
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  Speaker 1: dull your thinking and when you're when when you get
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  Speaker 1: monotonous in your thinking, it does it and in your
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  Speaker 1: mind and slips into neutral. So you know, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, when your mind isn't stimulated, when your
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  Speaker 1: mind slips into neutral because the monotony, you can do
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  Speaker 1: it with your ass sleep. You don't need to even
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  Speaker 1: think about it. You know your way to work, you
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  Speaker 1: know the way home. You ever noticed you'd be driving
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you just know that this is
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  Speaker 1: your exiting just monotonous. Your mind can slip into neutral. Well,
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  Speaker 1: when your mind isn't neutral, it becomes unfocused, and then
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  Speaker 1: it's vulnerable to the world. It's vulnerable to the devil.
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  Speaker 1: You remember, old people used to say the idle mind
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  Speaker 1: is a devil's playground. This is what it's talking about.
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  Speaker 1: And when your day to day task become monotonous, your
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  Speaker 1: mind can slip into neutral and all of a sudden
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  Speaker 1: and idle mind is the devil playground. And then that
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  Speaker 1: just pulls your thoughts downward. And as your thinking process
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  Speaker 1: start to deteriorate because it is monotony has become so mundane,
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  Speaker 1: you become confused about a lot of stuff and you
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  Speaker 1: feel like you ain't got no direction. But the best way,
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  Speaker 1: the best remedy to refocus your mind is that relationship
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  Speaker 1: with God. You need God, man, you really do. And
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  Speaker 1: I ain't. I ain't talking like I've had him my
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  Speaker 1: whole life, even though he's been around me. My Mama
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  Speaker 1: raised me in the church. I sleep it off, I
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  Speaker 1: was doing my thing. But man, in the total realization
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  Speaker 1: of it, on the real, just on the low low,
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  Speaker 1: you need God, man, you really do. He offers you
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  Speaker 1: guide and saying companionship, and it can clear up a
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  Speaker 1: lot of stuff for you. Man. And look, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: trying to tell you, man that you got to become
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  Speaker 1: Bible thumping off or you know, or what to have
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  Speaker 1: people thinking of you as a holy role or something
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  Speaker 1: like that. And I've noticed what you're running from because
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  Speaker 1: I try to duct the terminology myself and that labels
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  Speaker 1: that people put on you. But man, don't trip on that.
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  Speaker 1: Don't trip on that. I'm telling you, man, go farm
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  Speaker 1: yourself in relationship with God, it becomes so helpful to you.
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  Speaker 1: What would happen if you just gave God a chance?
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  Speaker 1: Let me just think about it, man, if you made
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  Speaker 1: more room in your heart for God, what could possibly happen?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, look, you got so much that's going on
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  Speaker 1: in your life, so many challenges and barriers and things
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  Speaker 1: that you up against, and so much indecision and confusion
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  Speaker 1: and wanting to know your beck, your next move. Well,
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  Speaker 1: why don't you try this? Man? Why don't you sit
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  Speaker 1: down and just tell God that you really need it,
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  Speaker 1: that you really need some help, and you really need
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  Speaker 1: a companion, and you would love to have his advice
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  Speaker 1: and his counseling. You ain't got to go nowhere to
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  Speaker 1: do that. Man, You could just do that today, But
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  Speaker 1: it would slow down some of this tripping. I'm telling you, man,
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  Speaker 1: God performs miracles all the time. God make dreams come true.
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  Speaker 1: What would happen if you just gave him a chance,
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  Speaker 1: Open up your heart a little bit, man, Make God
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  Speaker 1: a greater presence in your life. Man, and he could
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  Speaker 1: do some miraculous things. From All you got to do
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  Speaker 1: is ask he don't ever walk away from people are
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  Speaker 1: seeking him. Okay, talk to God, He'd love to hear
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