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The Rock's Wax, Average US Body Count, SHVM, Steve's Award and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 3: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know what use you turn to
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  Speaker 3: turn the mouth turn You probably got to turn the
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  Speaker 3: Come come out your.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, come
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  Speaker 4: on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 4: a radio show. Man got a radio show because God
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  Speaker 4: is in a blessing business. I just happen to be
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  Speaker 4: a recipient. I just happened to got a couple of
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  Speaker 4: things right, and man, his grace and mercy carries you
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  Speaker 4: the rest of the way. All you got to do
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  Speaker 4: is get a couple of things right, and then his
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  Speaker 4: grace and his mercy will take over his favor, his
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  Speaker 4: love of you.
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  Speaker 2: It's already evident.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, you know, because so many times we go
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  Speaker 4: along without even acknowledging him or conferring with him in
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  Speaker 4: our decisions, and we look up when we find ourselves
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  Speaker 4: in a predicament, and he always comes comes to the rescue.
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  Speaker 4: He always manages to show up. He's never too he's
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  Speaker 4: never one minute too late. And so in light of
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  Speaker 4: this today, I wanted to talk to you about something.
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  Speaker 4: It's another principle of success that I'd like to share
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  Speaker 4: with everybody this morning. And once again, these are not
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  Speaker 4: things that you don't know or you've never heard before.
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  Speaker 4: These are just reminders along the way. And one of
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  Speaker 4: the things you have to be conscious of is don't
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  Speaker 4: be afraid to change. Don't be afraid to change because
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  Speaker 4: change is coming anyway. See I have a theory, don't
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  Speaker 4: be afraid to change because change is coming anyway. You know,
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  Speaker 4: everything changes, nothing remains the same nothing, and change is inevitable. Now,
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  Speaker 4: you could participate in the change, or you can react
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  Speaker 4: to the change. Are you following me? You can participate
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  Speaker 4: in the change or you can react to the change.
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  Speaker 4: But don't be afraid to change because change is coming anyway. Now,
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  Speaker 4: what I mean by that is this, in participating in
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  Speaker 4: the change or reacting in the change, there is a difference.
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  Speaker 2: See, if you react to the.
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  Speaker 4: Change, that means the change has occurred and now you
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  Speaker 4: have to make the necessary adjustments to the change. Example,
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  Speaker 4: the boss walks in, you think your job is good,
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  Speaker 4: the boss walks in and hands you a pink slip.
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  Speaker 2: That right there, that's a change.
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  Speaker 4: Now you didn't participate in this change because you didn't
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  Speaker 4: ask for the pink slip. But now you got to
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  Speaker 4: react to the pink slip. Whenever you have to react
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  Speaker 4: to the change, it's an adjustment period. It almost throws
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  Speaker 4: you off. So change is going to come. It always does.
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  Speaker 4: You could participate or you can react. Or let's say
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  Speaker 4: your boss comes in and has you the pink slip,
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  Speaker 4: and you said, you know what I've been preparing for
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  Speaker 4: this day?
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  Speaker 2: Always knew nothing.
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  Speaker 4: Last forever, I've been working on the sideline, on the
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  Speaker 4: business idea I had, and I had or I had
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  Speaker 4: several other applications in around town. I was just holding
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  Speaker 4: off to see what was going going. So when they
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  Speaker 4: hand you the pink slip, the transition, the adjustment you
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  Speaker 4: make is a lot more smoother transition because now you
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  Speaker 4: just transition into your new business idea that you've been
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  Speaker 4: working on. Are you transitioned into the apps you already
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  Speaker 4: had in or the contacts you made the preparation for
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  Speaker 4: when the day they come in in hand you the
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  Speaker 4: pink slip. Well, Steve, what did they surprise you with it?
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  Speaker 4: This is just one example I'm giving you, So you know,
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  Speaker 4: let's let's not nick pick the message. So what I'm
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  Speaker 4: saying to everybody is, don't be afraid to change because
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  Speaker 4: change is coming anyway. So many people are stuck in
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  Speaker 4: a rut because of our refusal to change. I was
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  Speaker 4: hell bent on a certain thing going a certain way,
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  Speaker 4: and this is how it was gonna go. Well that
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  Speaker 4: I was thinking didn't really fit. Now in my own
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  Speaker 4: personal experience, this may not be yours, but in my
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  Speaker 4: own personal experience, the things that I've had the most
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  Speaker 4: trouble letting go of was something I wanted when I
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  Speaker 4: line myself up with the will of God to ask
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  Speaker 4: God what he wanted from me. You understand, those things
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  Speaker 4: came a lot more easy to me because it was
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  Speaker 4: in the will of God. It was what God wanted
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  Speaker 4: me to do too. Okay, see what you mean by that? Okay,
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  Speaker 4: here we go. When things were going wrong in relationships
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  Speaker 4: for me, what I did was the biggest mistake I've
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  Speaker 4: ever made was I attempted to fix what was wrong
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  Speaker 4: in my relationship outside of the relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Feel me.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm out there working my groove like I
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  Speaker 4: want to. Well, now, guess what, there's the cause and
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  Speaker 4: effect for all of that too. Your house ain't gonna
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  Speaker 4: get better.
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  Speaker 2: It can't.
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  Speaker 4: And then that lays room for some other things. And
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  Speaker 4: so now when the change come, guess what I got
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  Speaker 4: to react to it. Now, I gotta, I gotta, I
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  Speaker 4: gotta have a reaction to it. Had I lined myself
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  Speaker 4: up in the will of God, the transition may have
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  Speaker 4: gone differently. It could have still ended the relationship. But
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  Speaker 4: guess what, some of the pain I was in I
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  Speaker 4: ain't had to go through. I bought a lot on myself.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes you're pursuing a passion of yours, and what God
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  Speaker 4: really wants you to do is pursue your gift. So
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  Speaker 4: now you're pursuing your passion, right, you're passion about golf.
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  Speaker 4: You love golf so much you just determine. But now
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  Speaker 4: you're messed around. You ain't made it on the PGA
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  Speaker 4: too yet, and you forty five still talking about I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna play on the PGA Tour. Really, Okay, Maybe you
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  Speaker 4: ain't as good as this you think, or maybe you're
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  Speaker 4: not as gifted as you think. Maybe you're pursuing a passion. Sometimes, man,
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  Speaker 4: we have to change and we have to ask God
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  Speaker 4: what is his will? His will is much simpler. It's
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  Speaker 4: a simpler rule. Not going to be easier, it's simpler.
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  Speaker 4: See when I wake up. Now, it's simple for me
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  Speaker 4: to wake up because I know that are few things.
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  Speaker 2: That I have to do.
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  Speaker 4: I have to click this mic on. I have to
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  Speaker 4: be positive. I have to be inspirational. I have to
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  Speaker 4: be informative. I have to be uplifting. Got it, That's
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  Speaker 4: what he wants. All I got to do is sit down,
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  Speaker 4: close my eyes, ask God to help me be who
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  Speaker 4: he want me to be. And for the most part,
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  Speaker 4: he tell me what to say. Now, guess what he's
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  Speaker 4: done though, to create this in me. I went through
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  Speaker 4: enough things in my life. I had enough challenges. I
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  Speaker 4: made plenty of mistakes. So now at my age, I
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  Speaker 4: can turn around and tell somebody listening to me, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: this is what I did. This is a mistake I made.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe you see yourself in this story right here. Maybe
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  Speaker 4: you don't have to go this way. Or this is
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  Speaker 4: what I've learned about becoming successful. Here's a principle that
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  Speaker 4: I learned. But then, guess what I had to be
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  Speaker 4: unsuccessful to get it though, didn't I So you can't
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  Speaker 4: have a testimony without a test Change is coming, It's inevitable.
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  Speaker 4: You can participate or you can react. I much prefer
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  Speaker 4: to participate in the change. All right, let's go Morning show,
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  Speaker 4: ladies and gentlemen. I need one thing from you right now,
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  Speaker 4: your undivided attention.
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  Speaker 5: Now.
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  Speaker 4: I know that's gonna be hard because you're getting ready
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  Speaker 4: to go to work, some of y'all driving from work,
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  Speaker 4: some of y'all got to drop them kids off. So
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  Speaker 4: it's a lot right now to get your undivided attention.
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  Speaker 4: But just for a moment, did you say thank you?
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  Speaker 2: This morning?
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  Speaker 4: Did you tell God how much you appreciate the things
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  Speaker 4: He's done for you, the things he's doing for you,
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  Speaker 4: and the things that you're going through.
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  Speaker 2: Thank Him for all of that.
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  Speaker 4: Because at the end of the day, there's a lesson
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  Speaker 4: and a blessing behind everything, and God gonna give it
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  Speaker 4: to you.
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  Speaker 2: So just hold on, Just hold on, man, God is
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  Speaker 2: always on the way. Be grateful. This is Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 2: Morning Show.
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  Speaker 6: This morning.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, anything at all on your mind today?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: Unc you know what, First of all, welcome back to
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  Speaker 7: be glad to have you back.
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  Speaker 3: Man, But.
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you this man.
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  Speaker 7: You know some people don't want to let their nickname
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  Speaker 7: go and they need to.
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  Speaker 8: Why is you fifty? You ain't what you used to be.
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  Speaker 8: I've been a dude over the weekend over in DC. Man,
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  Speaker 8: he said, Yeah, man, you know my name Darrel, but
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  Speaker 8: everybody call me Big Swoen.
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  Speaker 2: But it ain't nothing swollen bout you.
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  Speaker 7: It could be swollen, big swollen.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know that?
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  Speaker 7: Like why people don't let their nicknames go?
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  Speaker 2: Because that ain't you.
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  Speaker 4: Well, as you get older, like you know, your name
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  Speaker 4: should change like Big Swoen. He probably like ought to
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  Speaker 4: be like Inflammation now or something like that. You know
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  Speaker 4: your name has to grow with your age. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 4: can't be Big Swoen when you just really need to
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  Speaker 4: go and be Inflammation. Give me another nickname, junior. Surey
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  Speaker 4: call it anybody and I'll tell you what. It wouldn't
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  Speaker 4: get older, you know, Doc nasty, Doc Nasty When you
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  Speaker 4: get older, it ought to just be just nasty. You know,
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  Speaker 4: you peeing on yourself a little bit, you know, you
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  Speaker 4: just take doc off of it. You're just nasty. Now, next, anybody, what.
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  Speaker 5: About what about our boy in l a big pe wee,
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  Speaker 5: big pee wee, see like that and pee wee too
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  Speaker 5: old to be called pee wee.
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  Speaker 4: Just gonna have to start calling him, No, he's older.
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  Speaker 4: It's okay, okay, okay, now, okay, I tell you what.
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  Speaker 4: Let's soften it then, okay, big pee wee. Let's just
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  Speaker 4: call him yearie because they got older. Now, anybody makes
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  Speaker 4: it skill it, skill it, skill it. Well, that's that's
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  Speaker 4: kind of that's an old name anyway, skill it. But
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  Speaker 4: you know, when you get older, what are you going
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  Speaker 4: to be?
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  Speaker 8: What?
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  Speaker 2: Ye just have to call him fry? It's over dog fry.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right?
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  Speaker 2: Now, has your wife ever snapped on you in public?
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  Speaker 10: And snapped on me? I mean what I mean she
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  Speaker 10: My wife ain't crazy. She don't just snap on me.
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  Speaker 10: She might, you know, try to check me, say something.
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  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying. She ain't just gonna snap.
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  Speaker 2: On me in public. So your wife your So your
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  Speaker 2: wife has tried to check you, is what you're saying.
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  Speaker 10: May not check me per se.
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  Speaker 6: I mean she might.
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  Speaker 10: She might not like something I'm doing and might say
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  Speaker 10: something about it.
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  Speaker 2: But we don't. Just basically, your wife is not in
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  Speaker 2: her place where she needs to be cold.
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  Speaker 10: I mean what you mean in her play? I mean
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  Speaker 10: she might say something, you know, I mean I might
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  Speaker 10: be doing something or you know, might be with my
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  Speaker 10: boys and might get out of control a little bit.
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  Speaker 10: She might just say something at the time, but she
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  Speaker 10: don't just try to all out check nobody. You know
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  Speaker 10: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I'll tell you what. Let me ask
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  Speaker 2: you this one.
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  Speaker 5: Have you ever just had some plans with your guys,
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  Speaker 5: We're gonna go out, and had to change your plans
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  Speaker 5: because your wife.
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  Speaker 10: Well, I mean, if if like I'm just talking about
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  Speaker 10: hanging out and I ain't let her know or something,
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  Speaker 10: she might you know, be like, well, baby already had plans,
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  Speaker 10: you know, can't you stay home with the boys or something?
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  Speaker 10: But I mean nothing on the regular, you know, I
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  Speaker 10: usually do what I want to do.
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  Speaker 5: It seems like janial. Okay, here's another one, sir, Well,
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  Speaker 5: no listen, hear me out. Now, let me ask you
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  Speaker 5: this has your wife. Let's say, back when Michael Jordan
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  Speaker 5: was playing basketball, did you ever miss a playoff game
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  Speaker 5: on television because your wife wanted to watch something else?
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  Speaker 11: Nah?
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  Speaker 10: I man, we got two TVs in my house. Man,
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  Speaker 10: I wish now, I don't even get down. I mean
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  Speaker 10: I might have to watch the little TV, but I
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  Speaker 10: mean I usually watch it on the Big show.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but but you doing You've been pushed to watching
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  Speaker 5: the smaller television.
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  Speaker 10: No, I wouldn't push to do nothing. Man. What I'm
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  Speaker 10: trying to tell you is, I mean we compromised. We
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  Speaker 10: do fifty fifty in my house. I mean she might
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  Speaker 10: get the big TV to watch her stories or something,
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  Speaker 10: and I just had to go watch the little TV.
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  Speaker 10: A little TV, dude, go out of every once and
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  Speaker 10: see there we go. So that I'm cool with that.
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  Speaker 2: You're with that. So you're with that. You're actually the
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  Speaker 2: one that's programmed, and you sa.
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  Speaker 10: Ain't nothing wrong with my wife, ain't nothing wrong with
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  Speaker 10: my family?
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  Speaker 5: You know what I'm undertand well, let me the reason
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  Speaker 5: why I'm asking you these particular questions is because someone
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  Speaker 5: has actually let me know the problems that are at
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  Speaker 5: hand in your household.
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  Speaker 2: Let me ask you. I got one question for you.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what I want to ask you. Has your wife
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  Speaker 2: ever cussed you out at a family cookout?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 10: Hold on, man, you know what you're getting a little
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  Speaker 10: personal man.
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  Speaker 5: Man, I'm here, I'm here to this company.
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  Speaker 1: Man, I'm up.
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  Speaker 10: I've never heard of you.
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  Speaker 2: This is something new.
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  Speaker 10: Is definitely saying something new. I mean, what don't make
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  Speaker 10: me be your guinea pig. Don't don't start calling me
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  Speaker 10: trying to get you know, referrals or clientele or whatever
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  Speaker 10: it is you're trying to do. Man, don't call me
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  Speaker 10: with this nonsense.
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  Speaker 2: Partner, and I completely understand that w C S.
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  Speaker 10: Sir is here to benefit you, no benefit to me, man,
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  Speaker 10: getting I'll look at my personal business oneer, what's going
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  Speaker 10: on in my household?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? Well, last thing I want to ask you, and
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  Speaker 2: this is the last question I have for you.
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  Speaker 10: Make this the last straight up.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, have you do you do you buy your own
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  Speaker 2: clothes or does she buy the.
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  Speaker 6: To you know what?
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  Speaker 10: Man? This man, you, whatever company this is, don't call
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  Speaker 10: me now no more. And whatever put you up to this.
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  Speaker 10: Whoever give you my number talking about my wife? Checked
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  Speaker 10: me or got me under control? Got me on lock man?
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  Speaker 10: You telling him too? Don't call me no more?
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  Speaker 2: What are you are?
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  Speaker 11: You?
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  Speaker 2: Are you in denying?
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  Speaker 10: Now? Don't call him no more. I'm gonna tell you what,
• 19:01
  Speaker 10: George Foreman or whatever Marcus for whoever you are, George Foreman, Marcus, Hey,
• 19:09
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna find out
• 19:11
  Speaker 10: what located dog I'm coming down there and I'm gonna
• 19:13
  Speaker 10: push him as you're in my personal.
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: So you're ready to retaliate on me, but you don't
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: want to retaliate on the problems you have with your wife.
• 19:22
  Speaker 10: Retaliation. Man, what I'm saying you you're calling my house.
• 19:25
  Speaker 10: I'm minding my own and you're worrying about who are
• 19:28
  Speaker 10: watching what TV? In my house? And my wife taking
• 19:31
  Speaker 10: me in public? I want this man, Hey, don look,
• 19:33
  Speaker 10: I'm telling you, sir.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: Don't you want to watch the big television?
• 19:37
  Speaker 10: Big TV? Man? I'm comfortable with the TV I got.
• 19:40
  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying. It's in my room. I
• 19:42
  Speaker 10: come here across the bed, watch whatever I want to
• 19:44
  Speaker 10: whatever I want to be with my partner's dog. Matter
• 19:50
  Speaker 10: of fact, you don't need to get parts you call it.
• 19:52
  Speaker 10: Ask me.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: You know, dumb, what you want to do to me
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: and your wife is already done to you.
• 19:58
  Speaker 10: I say you got to damn, I'm a block. What's
• 19:59
  Speaker 10: your phone number? Man, give me something, tell me where
• 20:02
  Speaker 10: to find you.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Why are you in denial?
• 20:06
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna tell you what you need.
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: To get your wife checked in to White Correctional Services
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: so that you can live a better life.
• 20:13
  Speaker 10: Whoever, Man, I need to get a life. Man, Can
• 20:17
  Speaker 10: I get a life? Man? Stup calling me? Don for real?
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: I understand that. Can I say one more thing that
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: you say.
• 20:22
  Speaker 10: You can't say to me? Man?
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Straight up listen to me, sir?
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah? What what? What's his?
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Nephew?
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: Tirey from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: You just got right by your boy.
• 20:33
  Speaker 10: Justin you know what? Oh no, hey, hey, hey, okay,
• 20:44
  Speaker 10: y'all got me? Man?
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: What is the baddest radio show in the land. You
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: already know?
• 20:50
  Speaker 10: Is you my boy Steve Harvey doing in the morning
• 20:53
  Speaker 10: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show partner, thank.
• 20:55
  Speaker 9: You nephew coming up next to his ask the clo
• 20:58
  Speaker 9: or chief Love Officers, you're listening hard morning show coming
• 21:03
  Speaker 9: up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news,
• 21:06
  Speaker 9: Steve Harvey and family attended the Grio.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Awards over the weekend.
• 21:11
  Speaker 9: Jay Z responded to the online debate of having lunch
• 21:14
  Speaker 9: with him or taking half a million dollars plus. We'll
• 21:18
  Speaker 9: talk about this year's trendy Halloween costumes. That's all coming up,
• 21:22
  Speaker 9: but right now it is time to ask the clo.
• 21:27
  Speaker 9: This one's from Joy in Chicago. Joy says I was
• 21:30
  Speaker 9: picking out new cologne for my husband because I don't
• 21:34
  Speaker 9: like what he wears. The girl behind the counter saw
• 21:36
  Speaker 9: my husband's name on the amex and asked to see
• 21:39
  Speaker 9: my ID. She said she didn't know Ted was married.
• 21:42
  Speaker 9: And I told Ted what she said, and he said,
• 21:45
  Speaker 9: it's no big deal.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Am I reading too much into it?
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: Why is she saying to you, I didn't know Ted
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: was married. She might not even know Ted. This could
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: be a totally different tad. I mean, I don't even
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: understand why she would say that I didn't know Ted
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: was mad.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: She's acting like she knows him though, like he buys
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: cologne from her. Oh what I want to see? What
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: would you just said, Carl, don't worry about it. I
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: can't say it on the radio.
• 22:22
  Speaker 8: Yeah, asking about my MX, my husband's MX didn't know
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: he was married.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you just need to ring this up idea to
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Ted when I get to that.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Ted, who is this.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Hell of down here at this cologne?
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: Kind of talked about she didn't know you was mad? Baby,
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: I don't even know who you're talking about.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, come on here comes to help, not for.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Real, but really, I mean, how does he I mean,
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: that's weird though for her to bring that up, and
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: how often can he go in there to buy damn cologne?
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: And what's the purpose of her saying really right? And
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: how she knows trying to start something I didn't.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Know tell it was man, well you do now? Yeah, yeah, blanket,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: and I didn't know you can all right?
• 23:16
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Talia and Nassau or Teliah and Nasau,
• 23:20
  Speaker 9: she says, I'm having a birthday party for my four
• 23:22
  Speaker 9: year old, but my child's father isn't coming because his
• 23:25
  Speaker 9: wife does not want to come. I told him I
• 23:28
  Speaker 9: don't care what his wife does, but he should be
• 23:30
  Speaker 9: there for his child. His wife told me I'm out
• 23:33
  Speaker 9: of line?
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Am I out of line?
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: Well, I don't know why to win mad because the
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: ex this is his ex wife wanting his man to
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: come to his son's birthday party?
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah or baby?
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah? And now okay, surey.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Why did he say he couldn't come because his wife
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to come?
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Ain't nobody invited? Huh do with the birth that they
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: are the party?
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 24:07
  Speaker 9: So yeah, but then the ex set I don't care
• 24:10
  Speaker 9: what your wife does, but you should be here for
• 24:13
  Speaker 9: your child, which is true, I mean true.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: It's your child's birthday. If your wife don't want to come,
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: she don't come. But you should go for your son.
• 24:21
  Speaker 12: Man.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, you know she got every right not to want
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: to come.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: I can understand the wife not wanting to go to
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: his son's birthday party and his exes throw it.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: I got that, okay, But I think I still think
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: the guy should go. Yeah, yep.
• 24:38
  Speaker 9: Well, the guy's wife told her that she was out
• 24:41
  Speaker 9: of line for asking, I guess, and she wants to know.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Is she out of line?
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: No, she ain't asking. She ain't out of line for
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: asking him. Why would he come to see his son?
• 24:52
  Speaker 10: Oh?
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Man, it's important to show up for your kids for
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: stuff like that.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, it shapes them, Okay.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: To show him how to be a daddy, though, I mean,
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: damn man, hey, but let me tell you something though, Man,
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: I'm still paying for Winton. I didn't know Winton. One
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: time he had a show and tell and they had
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: made a chair at his school, a gold chair for
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: the king to come and sit in, and it was
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: for me that day, and I didn't know, and for
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: some reason I was I had to get on the
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: plane and leave went and bring that up once.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: A year.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Yeah, matter what, the conversation.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: Is made that gold chair at the school for you,
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: and you had to get on a plane and go somewhere.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: I was so hurt. Go in there and drive a
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: car bought you? How about man? All right?
• 25:47
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Felix and golf Court, Felix says, I
• 25:50
  Speaker 9: have a big problem with my girlfriend, and I'm beginning
• 25:52
  Speaker 9: to think that she's more advanced in the bedroom than
• 25:55
  Speaker 9: I am. She's twenty seven and I'm thirty four. But
• 25:58
  Speaker 9: she knows all the tricks. What did be wrong to
• 26:00
  Speaker 9: ask her how many men she's been with?
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Is that rude?
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Hey? Brother, let me tell you something. You don't want that.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: You don't want to know this. You don't want that dog.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: You don't want that, you said, do it now?
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: The maximum number any woman should say is three three, Yeah,
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: the first one, your last X and this current. That's
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: all you should say. Now here, bruh, let me tell
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: you what. Let's just say she say one?
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: You go get your feelings hurt either way? How many
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: you been with?
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: With?
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Just one? Well? How you know all this? You need
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: to ask him now? Because he knew everything.
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: I mean, we was just Lord, have mercy he was
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: just he the best I've ever had see either way, Dog,
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: you need to go sit your ass down.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: So, yeah, he's feeling a little insecure in the bedroom.
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: And he is.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: He's inadequate. He's not doing Every time he thinks he
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: doing something, she say, Okay, we'll watch this. How about
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: this here? Nice try? Oh okay, okay, okay, but let
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: me show you this stuff.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: It's a competition.
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And Dog, would it be
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: wrong of you? I don't think that's a smart thing
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: to do. Man, enjoy your relationship, make it work, and
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: thank god you got it, because Lord have mercy. But
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: some people just don't know how to shut up and
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: enjoy theirself.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: He's got bigger problems anyway, trying to please her.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: You know, well, you need to get your game up.
• 27:41
  Speaker 9: Yeah, that's what he should be worried about, all right,
• 27:44
  Speaker 9: Steve last One, Angelique and Jacksonville Rights. My boyfriend and
• 27:49
  Speaker 9: I slept together for the first time and he didn't
• 27:52
  Speaker 9: kiss me one time. We've been dating for four months
• 27:55
  Speaker 9: and I expected passionate love making, but he didn't look
• 27:58
  Speaker 9: me in the eyes or kiss Does that mean he
• 28:00
  Speaker 9: doesn't care?
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Well? It's a lot going to that first time. You're
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: trying to hang on.
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: You're trying to make an impression, you know, all that kissing,
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: an eye looking, all that takes. So that take moments
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: away and then we get caught up in it. Next
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: thing you know, it's over. So what you try to
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: do is put your mind, get focused on what you're doing,
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: so you can stick around a little bit longer.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: You know, it's just you just all that looking in
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: your eyes and all that.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?
• 28:34
  Speaker 7: What's wrong?
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: Had to bring about the conclusion a little bit too quick,
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: all that eye looking, kissing.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: He don't need no extra stimulation. He just try to
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: hold on. Yeah yeah, he'll have to add that later on,
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: like round two.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: You can do that. First round though, you got to
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: try to sustain.
• 28:58
  Speaker 9: So you ain't just you know, because they waited for
• 29:01
  Speaker 9: four months and she was really expecting, you know something.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: You can't do to be like that if you don't.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: All right, he's just trying to hold on. All right,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Cela. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: For you right after this.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Hold on. You're listening morning show.
• 29:30
  Speaker 9: All right, So, Steve, you were honored at the Grio
• 29:32
  Speaker 9: Awards this past Saturday night in Los Angeles. Your beautiful
• 29:36
  Speaker 9: wife Marjorie, your daughter uh and your son Wynton, your
• 29:40
  Speaker 9: daughter Laurie, they were also there supporting you, and the
• 29:44
  Speaker 9: Harveys were dressed fly all over the gram. So just
• 29:48
  Speaker 9: tell us about it, Steve, tell us about it.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: See, you know, good dresses though, so I can't really
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: you know, if you stand next to Marjorie. That's why
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: I had up my game because I kept I got
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: tired of looking like the pole person next.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: Who this lotchys dude next to that?
• 30:10
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: Marjorie styles herself and of course Lloyd got that from
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: her mama. Winton he got that from his daddy.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: So Winton hat they broke some winton ate boy.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: He was so fly. His swag gone. Winton tell them
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: all time him. Do any of your shirts have buttons
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: on him?
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: You don't.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: Black tie tied? He tied key wording tie. I don't
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: say nothing, no, man, but it's a lot of people.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: It's people.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Look anyway, it was a great night. It doesn't air
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: into next November twenty.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Five Thanksgiving weekend, doesn't.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Yep, Okay, see you now and I want to see it. Yeah. Hey,
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: the game on at our house.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: You're watch You're gonna.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: Cut this game on Detroit right Detroit.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Well, you guys look like looked good? How was How
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: were the Grio words? What can you tell us?
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: It was dope?
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: The room was the room was.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: A start studying, really really good man.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: You know, I hugged some people man, I hadn't seen
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: in a long time, Smokey Robinson al Sharped and Jeff
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: Clanigan from Cold Black, Kevin uh.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Ken Heart, Yeah, Denzel lit Man. That room was lit.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I sat next to Tom in Hall nice. It was
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: just the room.
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: The room was lit, man, it was really really great, great,
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: and you know it was. It wasn't any jealousy. You know,
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: it's like you know some award shows, because you know
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: you got to sit there and the nominees are no
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: just just you win.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: They're honoring you that.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: The Icon award, right, Stee, you got the TV Icon Award.
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: I didn't realize it. Man, over three decades you didn't
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: realize it. You know that's crazy, man. I mean I've
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: had my head down so long, grind and I looked up.
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: I didn't even realize. Man, they was they was announcing stuff.
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: I was going, now, yeah, damn, you know. It just
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: gave me a lot of love.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Man. It was just it's amazing to when you look
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: at Wow.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's nice and everything. Congratulations. So how was Denzel what?
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah?
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: And he asked about you too? Yeah? Yeah? He said, Hey, Steve,
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: Shirley doing I said, what's she doing? Fine?
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Tell her? I said, you know, give me a car sometime.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: And I said, I'll tell her that. L Yeah, give
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: him a call.
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: Sheiry, No, no, Sheley. He said, tell Shirley, give me
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: and I'll be looking. He said, hey, Steve, give give
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: her my number and have her called me. So I'm
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: gonna give you his number. He said, car and he
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: said keep it on the load though.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Anyway, all right.
• 33:35
  Speaker 9: In other entertainment news, remember not too long ago, there
• 33:38
  Speaker 9: was a question, oh.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Let's not blow by that last statement. I may he said,
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: keep it on the load.
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: She didn't say I can't do that. Now, I'm like,
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: you don't say nothing.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to respond to that. No, no you will, Okay,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: we're talking about bleak. Don't like blues, right, not like
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: and other entertainment news.
• 34:12
  Speaker 9: Remember not too long ago, guys, there was a question
• 34:15
  Speaker 9: or debate on social media about would you take half
• 34:18
  Speaker 9: a million dollars five hundred thousand dollars or have lunch
• 34:21
  Speaker 9: with a billionaire hip hop mogul himself Jay Z.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Remember that when that was going around.
• 34:27
  Speaker 9: Well, recently jay Z sat down with Gail King and
• 34:30
  Speaker 9: take a listen to his response to that question.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: If you had a choice between getting paid five hundred
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: thousand dollars in cash or lunch with jay Z, which
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: would you choose?
• 34:41
  Speaker 6: You gotta have got to take the money. What I'm
• 34:43
  Speaker 6: gonna say, yep, everything Now I'm gonna.
• 34:46
  Speaker 9: Say only because people say, of course you take you
• 34:49
  Speaker 9: take lunch with jay Z because the wisdom that you
• 34:51
  Speaker 9: would get from him would would be so beneficial to you.
• 34:56
  Speaker 7: They would only be a matter you would take the money.
• 34:58
  Speaker 6: Yeah, because you got them. You got all that in
• 35:00
  Speaker 6: the music for ten ninety nine.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: That's that's a bad deal.
• 35:04
  Speaker 6: I would say, I wouldn't tell you to cut a
• 35:05
  Speaker 6: bad deal, Like I don't take the five hundred thousand.
• 35:08
  Speaker 6: Go buy some albums and listen to the albums.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: It's all there.
• 35:12
  Speaker 6: If you if you piece it together and really listen
• 35:14
  Speaker 6: to the music for the words, but what it is,
• 35:17
  Speaker 6: it's all there yield Jack Wow.
• 35:24
  Speaker 9: So Junior and Tommy, would you, guys take five hundred
• 35:28
  Speaker 9: thousand dollars half a million dollars in cash or would
• 35:32
  Speaker 9: you take a private one on one mentoring dinner with
• 35:34
  Speaker 9: Uncle Steve.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna eat with no damn Steve until I
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: got five I can get. He already got half of me.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna take the money mich for free. So you're
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: not gonnay no wow. I'm not gonna podcast five hundred thousand.
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 35:57
  Speaker 9: That coming up in twenty minutes to the hour. How
• 36:00
  Speaker 9: many people has the average American had sex with? We'll
• 36:05
  Speaker 9: talk about it right after this.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: We feel the live about it.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: You're listening morning show.
• 36:14
  Speaker 9: Well, guys, there's some spicy new research revealing where in
• 36:17
  Speaker 9: the world people are having sex having the most sex,
• 36:20
  Speaker 9: and it's not here in the United States. The Global
• 36:24
  Speaker 9: Promiscuity Index from nap Lab shares which countries residents are
• 36:29
  Speaker 9: the most sexually liberated. To come up with their list,
• 36:33
  Speaker 9: nap laborted countries on the age people lost their virginity,
• 36:37
  Speaker 9: the average number of sexual partners, residents have rates of
• 36:41
  Speaker 9: sexually transmitted diseases, percentage of people who think sex before
• 36:45
  Speaker 9: marriage is morally acceptable. So the average American has sex
• 36:49
  Speaker 9: with about ten people during their lifetime, Steve.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: I know you say we should say three.
• 36:55
  Speaker 9: But the average American has sex with about ten people
• 36:58
  Speaker 9: during their lifetime. And the US has been named the
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  Speaker 9: fifteenth most promiscuous country in the world. Brazil, Turkey, and
• 37:06
  Speaker 9: Australia topped the list as the most promiscuous countries.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, and the most sexual partners.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: So most most.
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  Speaker 1: You thought you would think it.
• 37:17
  Speaker 9: Would be the US, maybe in the top five or
• 37:20
  Speaker 9: the top ten, but no, they came in the number fifteen.
• 37:23
  Speaker 8: Did you say, did you say, surely the average America
• 37:26
  Speaker 8: has ten partners?
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, ten partners during their lifetime.
• 37:30
  Speaker 7: Just seven people owe me.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: You want to do them here?
• 37:36
  Speaker 8: Well, I need to just hear from you who only
• 37:41
  Speaker 8: send me. I'm married now, but it's seven people that
• 37:44
  Speaker 8: owe me.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: So you stuck to Steve's rule of three.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not sticking to it.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: That's so wait so step.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's just cos.
• 38:01
  Speaker 8: Y'all think Steve was telling y'all that's it. I need
• 38:06
  Speaker 8: to see the other seven.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's.
• 38:13
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: So what what is the rule?
• 38:15
  Speaker 9: I mean, who knew that Americans were so prudish? Were
• 38:18
  Speaker 9: such prudes? What is the rule on sharing your body count?
• 38:21
  Speaker 9: And is it higher than the average on this survey?
• 38:25
  Speaker 9: You're awfully quiet, sir.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: Tommy completed fifth, I've been in court? Is it more
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: than three? More than ten?
• 38:33
  Speaker 10: Three?
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: Is three?
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: Three?
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: They say the average American?
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: I'm a lower average. It's three.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey he with me.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: Three?
• 38:47
  Speaker 7: Why are you so quiet?
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Listen to a bad line?
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: And we can't ask y'all these questions? Okay, all the answer?
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sure you can.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: What's the answer, Steve blowing out, breathing all in your life?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Yes, the average American? Tim Martiners in a lifetime.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: All right, well, thanks for having Well, I get to heaven.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: We're not discussing this. I'm coming up in.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: Thirty four minutes after the hour.
• 39:28
  Speaker 9: We're gonna check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven
• 39:30
  Speaker 9: twenty nine.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: Steve, if we said we're talking about heaven, right.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: You're listening Hardy Morning Show. It is time now to
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: check Steve's voicemail.
• 39:45
  Speaker 9: And if you would like to leave a message for Steve,
• 39:46
  Speaker 9: all you have to do is call eight seven seven
• 39:49
  Speaker 9: twenty nine.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Steve. Can I just hear your call on the air?
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: You ready, Steve?
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 39:54
  Speaker 9: Yes, this one is from a guy who needs some
• 39:56
  Speaker 9: relationship advice.
• 39:58
  Speaker 11: Good morning, mister Harvey, Morning morning crew. If someone who
• 40:02
  Speaker 11: you were in relationship with the relationship ends, you constantly
• 40:06
  Speaker 11: watching them getting blessed and it just infuriates you how
• 40:09
  Speaker 11: no matter what they do, they're always blessed. But mister Harvey,
• 40:13
  Speaker 11: you have shared in times past that your father would
• 40:16
  Speaker 11: say to you you either get over or thy mad?
• 40:19
  Speaker 11: Is it some in between stots between? I can't believe
• 40:22
  Speaker 11: they're always getting blessed and getting over to avoid dying? Man,
• 40:27
  Speaker 11: thanks so much.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Well, that's a good question.
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: You're suffering from a couple of things, envy, resentment, and
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: then it's obviously somebody that broke up with you all
• 40:41
  Speaker 4: and you are it wasn't what you call it mutual,
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: and so what you're dealing with is now okay, So
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: how this person over here something always good? The real
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: reason that a lot of good stuff is happening to
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: them is because they ain't with you no more.
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: Uh, that's the real reader.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: You were blocking the blessings of this person or that
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: person was blocking the blessings of you, and now you're
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: getting it. And now there's a resentment. And people do
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: it to themselves all the time in relationships, break up
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: with somebody else, like an old saying, is the finest
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: woman in the world? Is your ex on the arms
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: of another man? That's an old folks saying. And so
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: you have that resentment. But then you gotta also look
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: at it was may If this is a person who
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: left you who's doing extremely well, then you was to
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: hold up. And if it's you that's doing well and
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: they sitting on their resentment, then she was to hold up.
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: And you just got to get over the hold up, man,
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: because if you keep looking back at the hold up
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: and all of that, you never look forward and get
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: what your blessing could be. Because you got a blessing
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: and the breakup too. All breakups has a blessing for
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: both parties. But you got to get your eyes on
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: the windshield and get your eyes out the rearview mirror.
• 42:01
  Speaker 4: I say that all the time. You can't drive your
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: car looking in the real view mill. Stop worrying about
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: what she got, don what she got. She gonna get
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: and she probably got it because you ain't with her
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: no more. Hum.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: That's a hard one to face here, it is, yeah, yeah, but.
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: Somebody doing better in a new relationship than they was
• 42:23
  Speaker 4: doing in the old relationship. It is because the new
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: relationship is better than the old relationship. Ain't no need
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: of you now. You're gonna get over that because it
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: was you. Dog just gone all right, Steve.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Another call.
• 42:37
  Speaker 9: This is from a longtime loyal listener of the show,
• 42:40
  Speaker 9: left a message about yesterday's show.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Take a listen, good.
• 42:43
  Speaker 12: Morning, see time at Junior Shirley and miss alleged herself
• 42:49
  Speaker 12: miss caller for real. List See, I've been listening to
• 42:51
  Speaker 12: y'all for a long time, so many years that I
• 42:54
  Speaker 12: can't even remember when I first saw thisten to y'all.
• 42:57
  Speaker 12: Let me tell you this, Yeah, for a long time.
• 42:59
  Speaker 12: The funniest thing I ever heard on your show. What
• 43:02
  Speaker 12: the story you tell about when you was at that
• 43:04
  Speaker 12: guy house in the bathroom and you messed up on
• 43:07
  Speaker 12: her house. But boy, that damn nephew and y'all, boy,
• 43:11
  Speaker 12: let me tell you this is him when there's fool
• 43:14
  Speaker 12: told the story about how you used to see him
• 43:17
  Speaker 12: hot Dog water and caught his soup from the time
• 43:20
  Speaker 12: he was fined to the time he was twelve, and
• 43:23
  Speaker 12: when he found out at twelve that it wasn't when
• 43:26
  Speaker 12: this fool, say, he went to the party with the
• 43:29
  Speaker 12: kids and they was eating hot dogs, and he asked
• 43:32
  Speaker 12: that little white boy, what y'all gonna do with the soup? Boy,
• 43:36
  Speaker 12: I like to wreck my truck, this big tea. How
• 43:39
  Speaker 12: to come up in South Carolina? Drive these something up
• 43:41
  Speaker 12: and down this highway. Boy time they almost called a
• 43:43
  Speaker 12: major accident in Tennessee when he told that story right there.
• 43:47
  Speaker 10: But hey, I love what y'all do.
• 43:49
  Speaker 11: Keep on doing what y'all do. But y'all make my morning.
• 43:52
  Speaker 12: God bless y'all, and I love you.
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was two favorite story. That's good, man, Yeah,
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: that's good. That's like them prank phone calls. That damn
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: uh lester sitting on the head of that bed Raymond
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: in the closet.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah classic.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: But Tommy talked about the hot dogs yesterday. He still
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: kind of traumatized about.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: The hot dog.
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's all right, though, you know, he didn't
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: need to know how I needed all both of them
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: hot dogs.
• 44:24
  Speaker 9: So taking of the nephews coming up next, the prank
• 44:33
  Speaker 9: phone call right after this.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show.
• 44:40
  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 44:42
  Speaker 9: four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today, and
• 44:45
  Speaker 9: the subject is get on in here and work.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: Yes, you heard her, all right, get on in here
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: and work is the subject.
• 44:55
  Speaker 9: We'll get into that in just a little bit, because
• 44:57
  Speaker 9: right now it is time for the nephew and today's
• 45:00
  Speaker 9: Frank phone call.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: What you got for us?
• 45:02
  Speaker 10: Nat?
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: That's right here, Shirley, is conference call. Conference calls. We're
• 45:09
  Speaker 5: find to get quite a few people on the line.
• 45:12
  Speaker 5: And guess what I'm find the fire.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: Everybody conference everybody? Hey, hey, hey, ain't something else keeping
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: nobody conference?
• 45:20
  Speaker 6: What?
• 45:23
  Speaker 11: Hello?
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: This is Hannah.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Hither.
• 45:26
  Speaker 11: This is Frank checking in. Hey, Dove it here on
• 45:31
  Speaker 11: the line.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: Hey, guys, how's it going? All fine?
• 45:35
  Speaker 10: What's that?
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I think?
• 45:37
  Speaker 6: I think we're waiting for one other person?
• 45:42
  Speaker 10: This was that one in a second?
• 45:45
  Speaker 5: Hello Sherman Sherman Davis, general manager's assistant. How you guys
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: doing everybody here?
• 45:51
  Speaker 11: Hey Sherman, Yeah, I ain't doing fine? Hello Sherman.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: All right, all right, guys, we got let me make
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: sure we got everybody here? Is Hannah here?
• 45:58
  Speaker 6: Yep, Hannah's here. How's it going?
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 46:00
  Speaker 12: Frank yep, I'm on the line.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Thank you all right?
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: Good good good And David yep, I'm here all right,
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: but man, good deal, good deal. All right.
• 46:09
  Speaker 5: Got some news for you guys. I need you guys
• 46:11
  Speaker 5: to just bear with me for a second. I'm getting
• 46:12
  Speaker 5: all the paperwork in. My assistant Cynthia is here, so
• 46:16
  Speaker 5: you guys just give me a second. I'm gonna put
• 46:17
  Speaker 5: you guys on hold for a second and I'll be
• 46:20
  Speaker 5: back probably less than thirty seconds. Okay, all right, okay,
• 46:23
  Speaker 5: we'll do.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Thank you, Cynthia. Can you bring me all of the
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: stuff on these three guys.
• 46:29
  Speaker 5: I mean, today is supposed to be they're on hole
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: right now, but today's day that we're giving them their
• 46:34
  Speaker 5: severance packages and letting them go, and they'll be out
• 46:37
  Speaker 5: of here probably by tomorrow morning. They're clearing their things out.
• 46:41
  Speaker 5: They don't know it yet, but we're gonna at least
• 46:42
  Speaker 5: give them their SEVENCE packages today.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: You know, they put it on my shoulders to break
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: the bad news, and somebody's got to do it. So
• 46:49
  Speaker 5: it's my job today, all right, so bring it to
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: me and get it here here as soon as possible
• 46:54
  Speaker 5: so I can hurt him, get past this conference call?
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: All right? Hello?
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: Did all right?
• 47:01
  Speaker 10: Guys?
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: Sherman? Yeah, I'm here. Guys.
• 47:06
  Speaker 12: Yeah, you never put us on hold?
• 47:10
  Speaker 10: No, so are you about to fires right now?
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: What are you talking? Wait a minute? Okay, hang on,
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: hang on, hang on, guys? What what? What? What's going on?
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: What are you guys talking about?
• 47:21
  Speaker 11: We're asking you what's going on? We just you didn't
• 47:24
  Speaker 11: put us on hold?
• 47:24
  Speaker 9: We just heard all that.
• 47:25
  Speaker 11: Yes, separate packages.
• 47:27
  Speaker 10: What I heard.
• 47:27
  Speaker 11: I heard you're letting us go.
• 47:29
  Speaker 10: Oh, Sherman, maybe you were talking about some other people.
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: We hey, guys, hang on, everybody, just calm down. Just
• 47:42
  Speaker 5: give me, give me a second here, hang on, just
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: let me let me. I'll be right back.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: Hang on.
• 47:49
  Speaker 10: What is going on?
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: Did you we hear that?
• 47:54
  Speaker 11: Okay? You all heard the same thing. I don't know
• 47:56
  Speaker 11: what I heard that.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: I was talking about, Cynthia. How do I it up?
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Is this is this the whole button? Here? This is it?
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: Right there? We go?
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: They can hurt everything. No, they just they said, you
• 48:08
  Speaker 5: can't asking me right now. I'm doing what he's telling
• 48:13
  Speaker 5: me to do. This. These three are supposed to be
• 48:15
  Speaker 5: let go by the end of the day. I mean,
• 48:18
  Speaker 5: I gotta do it, but it looks like the severances
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: nobody can live off of this for even three freaking months.
• 48:24
  Speaker 5: I already know that this this is really yeh oh,
• 48:30
  Speaker 5: all right, so look, bring me everybody's stuff. Let me
• 48:34
  Speaker 5: at least after lunch they all come in here and
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: pick up their things.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: That's all I can do. Okay, is this the right
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: button here? Okay, hello, it's not.
• 48:45
  Speaker 11: The right button. We what I'm hearing. I've been with us.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: I've been with us for five years.
• 48:54
  Speaker 12: All right, I'm not I'm not let you down for
• 48:55
  Speaker 12: a quarter, the company down for a quarter.
• 48:57
  Speaker 9: This is this is ridiculous.
• 48:58
  Speaker 11: I cannot believe this.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: And I'm on travel right now, so how am I
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: going to come and get my things?
• 49:03
  Speaker 12: But it's nothing.
• 49:05
  Speaker 9: This is ridiculous.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: This is how you're gonna let us know.
• 49:07
  Speaker 11: This is unprofessional, this is trash.
• 49:10
  Speaker 10: I cannot believe you.
• 49:11
  Speaker 11: If you don't need a lawyer, I have someone, I
• 49:13
  Speaker 11: have contact.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: We can talk.
• 49:15
  Speaker 5: But honestly, Shrevin, this is this is this is unaccessible.
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: Let's not do the whole lawyer thing. Guys, Okay, let's
• 49:22
  Speaker 5: not do that, all right. Now, people get let go
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: from companies. People get let go all the time.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: And you guys know this is let go on a conference.
• 49:31
  Speaker 11: Call with other people. What are you This is ridiculous.
• 49:34
  Speaker 10: You're giving a personal business.
• 49:36
  Speaker 11: Yes, yes, that's true.
• 49:37
  Speaker 9: You're giving a personal business to another.
• 49:39
  Speaker 11: Exactly.
• 49:40
  Speaker 10: It's not a hole yet.
• 49:41
  Speaker 11: You cannot be doing this.
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, email me that lawyer's number for sure. Yes, I will.
• 49:47
  Speaker 11: I catch you on a two David. Thank you.
• 49:49
  Speaker 5: I didn't I didn't try to for you guys to
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: learn it this way, all right. I'm okay, let's just
• 49:54
  Speaker 5: say I'm not good at the conference.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: But I don't know how to put any call.
• 50:00
  Speaker 11: This is not a good message.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: It's not This is not a perfect professional messaging. In fact,
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: this is.
• 50:07
  Speaker 11: I'm mortified.
• 50:08
  Speaker 12: I cannot believe this. My lifelo, this company, this is
• 50:11
  Speaker 12: decided employees.
• 50:14
  Speaker 5: So it is. It is.
• 50:15
  Speaker 12: It's absolutely right.
• 50:16
  Speaker 11: It is illegal. This is illegal. Yep, yep, I will.
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: I'm writing this story.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, come on, what do you mean you're
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: recording it? What did you what are you recording for?
• 50:26
  Speaker 9: What?
• 50:26
  Speaker 11: Yes, I'm recording this call.
• 50:29
  Speaker 12: Can you'll tell me that recording, David, I will do it.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Listen, I don't consent on being recorded. I want that
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: known man.
• 50:37
  Speaker 12: Exactly.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, can I can I ask you guys something?
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: Do you? Guys? Are you familiar with your coworker named
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: Barry Dillard?
• 50:45
  Speaker 11: Yes, you don't have to answer this very fired too.
• 50:48
  Speaker 12: How are you gonna tell him?
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: Let me tell you what's going on. Barry told me
• 50:53
  Speaker 5: to call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve
• 50:56
  Speaker 5: Harvey Morty Show. All three of y'all just got praying
• 50:59
  Speaker 5: by your co worker Barry Dylan.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm going to have a heart attack
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: recorded that this.
• 51:19
  Speaker 9: Oh my god.
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: Here y'all.
• 51:22
  Speaker 5: Nobody has lost their job, Hannah, Frank, David. Nobody has
• 51:26
  Speaker 5: lost their job. But your co worker Barry Dylan got
• 51:30
  Speaker 5: me the prank phone call. All right, so everybody's got
• 51:32
  Speaker 5: the job.
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: We good.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: Oh we're gonna have to get very back.
• 51:39
  Speaker 6: Wow.
• 51:39
  Speaker 11: Okay, okay, I'm good. I'm good.
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: Now, y'all got to tell me this. What is the
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: baddest radio show in the land.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: Let me hear it clearly.
• 51:55
  Speaker 10: Man, we're on the Steve Barber Show.
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: I know you have no need for any praising worship.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: I don't need it today.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: I don't need you're taking the day off from that.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't need it today. You know need something.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: I'm on them on Mondays. I kind of needed to
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: get myself going, you know. But I'm alright. I'm alright,
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: And you know why I'm alright because guess what.
• 52:15
  Speaker 5: I'm damn near soul out Birmingham, Alabama, Baby start don
• 52:19
  Speaker 5: nephew there this weekend Magic City Classic Friday, Saturday Sunday.
• 52:24
  Speaker 5: Got a few tickets left. But that boy doing real good,
• 52:26
  Speaker 5: Yes he is, Yes he is, and laying in the cut. Well,
• 52:29
  Speaker 5: I got laid in the cut. I got Syracuse, New
• 52:31
  Speaker 5: York Funny Bowe. That's Friday and Saturday, November tenth and eleven.
• 52:34
  Speaker 5: That's what's laying in the cut. Also in the cut
• 52:37
  Speaker 5: seventeenth and eighteenth of November, I will be in Virginia
• 52:41
  Speaker 5: Beach Baby, Virginia beach Man, Yes, sir.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: Syracuse, New York Funny Bone. My very first traveling gig.
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: I was in the car with six comedians from Cleveland
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: to Syracuse, New York. Wise guy, yoah, something money man
• 52:59
  Speaker 4: about it wasn't that far self, kiss me Rise gots
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: how far I need?
• 53:06
  Speaker 9: VI?
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: It was six of a cent of car? What kind
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: of car? Y'alls in at the here'll see ye had
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: I had to have put bags there right? Well you
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: look at it. Yeah, we're going up and do this
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: show and come back. What you're talking about bags? Oh,
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: same day? No hotel or nothing, No nineteen eighty five hotel.
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: The car was their hotel. You mean I need, I
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: need all kinds of stuff. Six people. By the time
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: everybody drive a little bit, we'd be back.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: This car got to keep moving. Yes, yeah, you can
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  Speaker 4: sleep when it ain't your turn, right, Wow.
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  Speaker 9: All right, thinking of you. Coming up next. Strawberry Letter
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  Speaker 9: for today. The subject is get on in here and work.
• 53:57
  Speaker 9: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening Steve
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  Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
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  Speaker 9: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
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  Speaker 5: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
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  Speaker 5: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letters.
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  Speaker 9: Thank you ne for you subject. Get on in here
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  Speaker 9: and work. Dear Stephen Shirley. I recently moved to the
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  Speaker 9: big city and I was hired on the spot by
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  Speaker 9: this dirty old man that I ended up having sex with.
• 54:40
  Speaker 9: He's married and he has a girlfriend on the side,
• 54:44
  Speaker 9: and then he has me. I've been working under him
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  Speaker 9: for only three months and I have already been promoted,
• 54:51
  Speaker 9: so my co workers are wondering if.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I am sleeping with this man.
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  Speaker 9: I mention it to him, so now he treats me
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  Speaker 9: like crap in front of everyone. He yells to get
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  Speaker 9: on in here and work while I'm out having a
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  Speaker 9: cigarette behind the building. If I am at someone else's desk,
• 55:06
  Speaker 9: he tells me to stop chit chatting and get back
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  Speaker 9: to work.
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  Speaker 1: I told him that I hate the.
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  Speaker 9: Harsh treatment, and he thinks is okay to joke about
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  Speaker 9: it when we're intimate. Last night, he walked into my
• 55:16
  Speaker 9: bedroom and yelled for me to get on in the
• 55:18
  Speaker 9: room and get to work.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: He thinks this is sexy talk, and I told him
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: that it's not cute.
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  Speaker 9: I'm afraid he will fire me or treat me even
• 55:26
  Speaker 9: worse than he does now in front of my coworkers
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  Speaker 9: if I stop sleeping with him. He's a white man,
• 55:33
  Speaker 9: so the black men at my job try to defend
• 55:36
  Speaker 9: me against him. And this man is not only giving
• 55:39
  Speaker 9: me lots of money to get my house together, he's
• 55:41
  Speaker 9: given me lots of mind boggling sex. This old man
• 55:46
  Speaker 9: is putting it down and he's keeping me entertained for now.
• 55:49
  Speaker 9: I was in a bad relationship before before I moved,
• 55:53
  Speaker 9: and my new boss has made me forget about that guy.
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  Speaker 9: But how long can we keep this up?
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: I should not have.
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  Speaker 9: Started sleep with him. How do I break away without
• 56:02
  Speaker 9: him being really mean to me? Do you think I
• 56:04
  Speaker 9: can reason with him?
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  Speaker 1: All right?
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  Speaker 9: The first line, the first thing in your letter you
• 56:10
  Speaker 9: should listen to. You should not have started sleeping with him.
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  Speaker 9: But it's too late now, of course. And what you
• 56:16
  Speaker 9: got to do is start looking, and you know what
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  Speaker 9: I mean, start looking for another job today.
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  Speaker 1: You got to get out of there, and that's it.
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  Speaker 9: You created this situation for yourself, and now you got
• 56:29
  Speaker 9: to get yourself out of it because this is going nowhere.
• 56:33
  Speaker 9: I mean, yeah, Okay, he's giving you promotions and money,
• 56:36
  Speaker 9: but look.
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  Speaker 1: At what you have to go through to get it.
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  Speaker 1: You're scared all the time.
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  Speaker 9: He wants to laugh about it later while you guys
• 56:43
  Speaker 9: are having sex, but it's not funny to you and
• 56:45
  Speaker 9: he doesn't get that. So clearly you know you've made
• 56:49
  Speaker 9: a mistake because now you're worried about getting fired and
• 56:52
  Speaker 9: you don't like the hurtful things he says to you
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  Speaker 9: in front of your co workers.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: The brothers in the job could lose their jobs too.
• 57:00
  Speaker 9: Were get in trouble because they don't like how he
• 57:02
  Speaker 9: talks to you, and they're standing up to him in
• 57:05
  Speaker 9: your defense. So this is just a big old mess
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  Speaker 9: at the job, and before it gets really out of hand,
• 57:10
  Speaker 9: you need to put an end to it, get out
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  Speaker 9: of it and leave. Now you could gamble and threaten
• 57:15
  Speaker 9: to tell his wife and his girlfriend and all that,
• 57:18
  Speaker 9: but you could still get fired or worse, So I
• 57:21
  Speaker 9: would say leave, Steve.
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: Well, well, well, you know it's so much to unpacking
• 57:29
  Speaker 4: this letter that I want to say to this girl.
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna say it all, and I know y'all gonna
• 57:35
  Speaker 4: feel some kind of way about what I'm saying, and
• 57:38
  Speaker 4: all this here but sometimes you just got to say
• 57:40
  Speaker 4: what it is.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 4: This whole thing, first of all, is your damn fault.
• 57:45
  Speaker 4: So now you know, I mean, I don't know what
• 57:48
  Speaker 4: to tell you. You said, did Steven Shirley? I moved
• 57:52
  Speaker 4: to the big city. Now right here, little country ass girl,
• 57:56
  Speaker 4: until I asked where you go? Oh you don't want
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: up to Charlotte? Now, oh oh oh, you was down
• 58:02
  Speaker 4: there white sofa. Now you have moved on up to Charlotte.
• 58:06
  Speaker 4: Or you was down there and you're old. You was
• 58:08
  Speaker 4: down there in Apple Creek. Now you'd have moved up
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: to Richmond. Woo oooh that big city now, oh yeah,
• 58:15
  Speaker 4: oh here, Oh, your ass was down in the Peach
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: Street corners. Now you have moved all the way up
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  Speaker 4: to Lanta. Oh Lord Jesus, the deal is so tall uphill. Okay,
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: I was hired on the spot by this dirty old
• 58:29
  Speaker 4: man that I ended up having sex with. Wait a minute,
• 58:32
  Speaker 4: what yeah, wait a minute, you're rushing through this letter.
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: What was you left out so much?
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: You moved from this big city, you met this dirty
• 58:45
  Speaker 4: old man that you ended up having sex with. Okay,
• 58:52
  Speaker 4: your self esteem is low. He's married, he got a
• 58:57
  Speaker 4: girlfriend on the side, and he got me.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: Damn he signed up for that. Huh.
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: All right, I've been working under him for only three
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: months and I've already been promoted. So my coworkers are
• 59:15
  Speaker 4: wondering if I'm sleeping with this man. I mentioned it
• 59:17
  Speaker 4: to him, so now he treats me like crap. In
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: front of everybody. He yells up like, get on to
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: him and get to work. No, wait, hold up, wrong, due.
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: Hey, get it here, get to work.
• 59:37
  Speaker 4: While I'm out having a cigarette behind the building. If
• 59:39
  Speaker 4: I'm at somebody else's desk here yelling me to stop
• 59:43
  Speaker 4: chit chatting and get back to work.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Hey, stop all of that chitter chatting.
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: Hey, we're here to work, guys.
• 59:53
  Speaker 4: I've told him that I hate the hardest treatment, and
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: he thinks it's okay to joke about it when we're intimate.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: Last night he walked into my bedroom and yelled for
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: me to get on in this room and get to work. Damn, sister,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: with the white man, you don't you don't. You don't
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: feel no kind of way about that. You done forgot
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: about the history.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: Oh so you just oh.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: Okay, what damn? So, why don't you just put on
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: the long apron? Put some dirt on your feet and
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 4: go on in there. Why don't you wrap your head?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: Why don't you just why aren't you going there and
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: look like you're on a syrup bottle. Why don't you
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: just do that? Because that's where we're at right now
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: with me, all right, I want to say that I
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: will continue some more, that we're going down the dog path.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: When we come back, y'all, we'll be right back with
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: more ignorance right after this.
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  Speaker 12: Show.
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  Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 9: The subject is get on in here and work.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 4: Now. I didn't know all this, but this woman right
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: here moved up to a big city. She met this
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 4: dirty old man that hired her, and she ended up
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: having sex with him. That's how the letter started it.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: She just jumped too many steps. But she got low
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 4: self esteem all through this letter. And so then she
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: told him that they having sex together.
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  Speaker 2: Now, get a load of this. He's married, he got
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: a girlfriend on the side, and he got me.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: I've been working under him for three months already, and Ben,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: you've got a promotion. So the coworkers are wondering if
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: I'm sleeping with this man. I mentioned it to him.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 4: So now he treats me like crap in front of everybody.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 4: He yells out stuff like, you do in here and
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 4: get to work. See that's where I've That's how I
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 4: imagined him saying, get on in here and get to work.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 4: If I'm out a cigarette and having a cigarette behind
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 4: the building, if I'm at somebody else's desk, he hear me,
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  Speaker 4: stop all.
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  Speaker 2: That chit chat and get on back and work.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 4: I told him I hate the hardest treatment, and he
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: thinks it's okay to joke about it when we're intomate.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: Last night he walked into my bedroom and yelled for
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 4: me to get on in this room and get to work.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 4: He thinks this is sexy talk, and I told him
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 4: it's not cute. I'm afraid that he will fire me
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 4: or treat me even worse than he does now in
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 4: front of my coworkers if I stopped sleeping with him.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: Then she dropped this jewel. He's a white man.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 4: See, so now they get on in here and get
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 4: to work. That take on the whole new meaning. And
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 4: now don't it.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: Ah, Chad that all that and hand got to walk now?
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: Oh oh okay, so we do oh oh, we don't.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 4: Oh we done went that far back. So you done
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: moved up to the big city then and took this
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 4: slave ass mentalne you got on up to the big
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 4: city with you. Now he talking to you like like
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: they used to happen in the past, and you still
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: doing it. And now you're afraid of him. He thinks
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 4: it's sexyy because now that's what he want to do.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: Oh see, he got you, so now he in it.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 4: Oh you want to be talk harsh too. Oh, now
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 4: it's funny to him. Get on in hand and get
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 4: to work. That's right up his alley. That's right up
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: his alley. He doing it just like his great grandfather did.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh oh oh, oh, oh oh oh oh.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 4: He right up your alley, this man. And then you
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: said he's a white man, so the black man at
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: the job, try to defend me against him. This man
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 4: is not only giving me lots of money to get
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: my house together, he gives me lots of mind boggling sex.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: You know what I think. I think you don't know
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: what a good man is. You don't know who the
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: big city is. You don't know what side piece is,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 4: and you don't know what good sex is, That's what
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 4: I think. I just think you've been struggling with low
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: self esteem in every area of your life, But now
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 4: this old man is putting it down and he keeps
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 4: me entertained for now. I was in a bad relationship
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 4: before I moved. See right there, he was in a
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 4: bad relationship. Now you done got in this relationship and
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: it appears to be cool.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: How bad was the relationship you was in?
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 9: And now?
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: But how long can we keep this up? My new
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: boss has made me forget about that guy? Wait?
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 5: Wait?
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: Whoa wah woh? Your new boss who treats you this way?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: That made you forget about that guy? Man? What the
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: hell did that? Dude?
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 5: Do?
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: See?
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 4: You done went from a bad relationship to a badder relationship.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 4: But it looks better to you somehow, Lady, you need,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 4: you need, you need to pump the brakes. But how
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 4: long can we keep this up? I should never have
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: started sleep with him. How do I break away without
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 4: him being really mean to me? Do you think I
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 4: can reason with him?
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 8: Hell?
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Wait a minute. You just said he was married.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 4: You just said he's your boss. You just said he
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 4: got a girlfriend and he got you do you think
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 4: I can reason with him? Nah, you can't reason with him.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 4: But Chad can eeoc can Facebook can see all this
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 4: stuff right here? You got way too much? How you
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 4: letting him married?
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 5: Dude?
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 4: Buffalo you around mistreat you and talk crazy? You do
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 4: you think I could reason with him? No, but his
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: wife can. You got too many bullets in your gun
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 4: and you act like you ain't got no bullets. You
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: got bullets in your gun. Matter of fact, your revolver
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 4: is loaded. H y'all equal opportunity, Facebook, your new lawyer,
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 4: your wife, your cell phone, a picture, Take a picture
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: of your furniture when it give you money, lay it
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 4: on the bed, take a picture of it, lay next
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: to the picture, and men take a picture of him.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 4: What you're talking about? You ain't got to take none
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 4: of this, carol. You can get treated any kind of
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: way you want to right now. You got leverage. But
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 4: stop acting like a damn victim and stop doing stuff
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 4: to get yourself in a victim position because you pay
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 4: the role of victim and too well, you got too
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 4: much advantage.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: Now wish somebody would.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: H y'all eeoc, his wife, Facebook, your new lawyer, and
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 4: your cell phone and He'll be able to treat you
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 4: any treat you any kind of way you want to.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve.
• 1:06:48
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• 1:07:00
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  Speaker 9: Now coming up next to his junior with Sports Talk
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 9: right after this, you're listening.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. Junior is here with Sports Talk. What
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: you got, Junior?
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 7: Pip in Week six recap nfailing man.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: I don't know you're gonna call me. Hold up, Junia,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 2: I'm ready.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying now, pipp this was not
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 8: the worst week, Pimp. You said it was gonna be
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 8: your worst week. It wasn't, Pipin.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 7: It was not the worst week.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: No, we're going ahead and its fine.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 3: Here we go, man.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 7: The Jaguars over the Saints, man thirty one to twenty four.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: I told Joe, listen to me.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 7: The Browns over the Colts thirty nine to thirty eight.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: To Joe, here we go.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 8: Patriots lose to the b I mean the Bills lose
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 8: to the Patriots.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: Man, you picked the Bills.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, I know, Pippin.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: Here we go.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 7: The Commanders man fall.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 8: To the Giants man fourteen to seven. Man, come man,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 8: the Ravens just destroyed the Ravens. Man just destroyed the Lions.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: Man, come on, that hurt me.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: That one hurt me.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 8: This week Detroit, we Pepper, look at this man the
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 8: Bass over the Raiders thirty to twelve.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 4: Come on, Chicago making the comeback. Justin Fields didn't play.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 4: He looking saying right, come on, Justin.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: Here we go.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 7: Man, Pippy, you come back again. Falcons over the Buccaneers
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 7: sixteen to thirteen.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: Told you that Baker Mayfield and had his run.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 7: Man, the Rams fall to the Steelers twenty four to seventeen.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 8: I be damn, but Peppy, you come back though. Seahawks
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 8: over the Cardinals twenty to ten.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was easy.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 7: The Broncos over the Packers nine. You ain't seventeen come through, Russell,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 7: come through, oh man.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 8: The Chiefs over the Charges thirty one to seventeen, real simple, easy.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 7: And man, the Eagles man over the Dolphins.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: You already had that pipping Now.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: I told you ain't no when the well the Eagles
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 4: gonna lose and they made the Dolphins look late.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: They made Dolphins look like regular football team.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 8: The Vikings beat the forty nine ers twenty two to seventeen, pipping.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know how that happened.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 7: I don't know either, Pippy. But you picked seven and
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 7: you only lost five.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: That's a win for your pipping. That ain't good for
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: there ain't good numbers. Nah, they made good pimp numbers.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: Two won't leave you and you right back to when
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: you was at you know, get your numbers down.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. Pimping.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, a guy
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 9: on social media, Steve needs advice about a new coworker
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 9: who is a notorious tease.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Harvey
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, Ryan, I'm Steve Harvey FM.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 9: Steve writes, I'm wondering if I should give a new
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 9: coworker the heads up before he gets embarrassed or heartbroken.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 9: The guy has been with the company for two weeks
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 9: and he's gotten the attention of Mashan. It's not the
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 9: first time Mashan has caught the eye of someone she
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 9: works with. In fact, at some point every guy in
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 9: the office is either made out with physically dated or
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 9: been led on by the woman.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: It's become a running joke.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 9: The guy has no clue that everyone and I do mean,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 9: everyone is talking about him and in some cases laughing
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 9: at him, mainly because most of us have been there
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 9: at some point. So here's the question. Do I pull
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 9: homie to the side and let him know what's going
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 9: on and about her need for attention, or do I
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 9: let him learn the hard way like everybody else?
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 4: Had you all, y'all did it? Appreciate the love and
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 4: concern for him, but all yeah, seemed like all y'all
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 4: don't been down that path of embarrassment, miss Lee thinking
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 4: you was it MA seaned and worked y'all, So it
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 4: don't really make no difference if you pull him to
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: the side or you let him go down that road.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 4: I don't know what y'all laughing at him, folk, because hell,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 4: y'all did the same thing this thing about me, And
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 4: you know, once we dumb, we pretty much and we
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 4: get dumb. We when we're dumb collectively, it's because we
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 4: were all thinking the same thing. So he's just doing
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 4: he's just thinking the same thing all of us y'all
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 4: was thinking. Leave a dode alone.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 2: All you gonna pull his coat. He gonna he gonna.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 4: Finish the job, even if oh, dog dog, he's still
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 4: going over. Hey man, I just want you to know
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 4: that she do this to her somewhere in his day.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 4: He gonna go cool.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: Somewhere his date. Oh so this is a guarantee.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let him be appreciate it.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 9: All right, all right, here's another one. I think we
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 9: have time for this from Steve. This is from Gabe
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 9: on Facebook. Gabe says, my female best friend from college
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 9: to hit me with a crazy request, and I'm not
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 9: sure how to handle it. She's been married for ten
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 9: years and has decided to try for kids. The problem, however,
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 9: is that her husband is apparently shooting blanks. They're going
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 9: for treatment, but in case that doesn't work, she wants
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 9: me to offer up my donation as a contingency plan.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 9: My wife is less than thrilled with the idea, but
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 9: understands why I'm thinking about it.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: Is this a good move to make? Do I need
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: legal protection?
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 11: Well?
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: My wife end up resenting me. I'm kind of stuck
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: on this one.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 4: Bro, bro, bro, have you lost your dad? Bru bruh,
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 4: don't interject this into your house. Don't bring this into
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 4: your house. Man, I don't even know why you told
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: your wife this part. He's stupid man, dog dog. She
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 4: gotta get somebody else for this. Hell, I'm not I'm
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 4: not getting hooked up with this child's support. No, No,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 4: I ain't finna do that.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: A lot comes with that.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 4: You see that, I'm to go half on a baby.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 4: But why is she talking to you about this? But
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 4: why are you listening to it?
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: There you go, Thank you man.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: Y'all have to head friends, Steve, they're best friends.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 10: No, they' not.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: That's what he said.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 4: Okay, I told y'all about these best friends. Opposite, I
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 4: have told y'all about these best friends. This attraction thing
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 4: gonna come into play. I'm telling y'all it happened every time.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 4: I don't see why nobody see it. Go ahead, come
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 4: but dumb, you're the only one br go down there
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 4: with your stupid behind.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: Watch what happened.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Henny's got a wife too.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 2: Come on, bro, how you tell this to your wife?
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 4: Hey, I was talking to, you know, my best friend,
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 4: and she's trying to have a baby, but her and
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: her husband can't. And she kind of wants me to
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 4: make a donation. First thing a wife is supposed to
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 4: say is wait a minute, what's she come to you
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 4: with this?
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: Fall?
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because you got a wife? Hello, And do y'all
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 4: have kids? Br you brother, don't go down and have
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 4: a baby. And you and your wife ain't got no kids.
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 2: Don't go.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: If you do?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: More Today Steve Harvey Morning Show for Today. Right after this,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: you're listening Morning Show.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 9: So, Dwayne the Rock Johnson says he plans to work
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 9: with the Mussy Grayveon French Wax Museum in Paris to
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 9: darken the skin tone of his newly unveiled wax figure.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 9: The Rock's father is black Nova Scotian and his mother
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 9: is Samoan and he said on Instagram on Monday that
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 9: he barely laughed at his wax figure, but did intend
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 9: to reach out to the museum so we can work
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 9: at updating my wax figure here with some important details
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 9: and improvement, starting with my skin color. The Rocks wax
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 9: figure isn't the first person of color that was slammed
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 9: by onlookers for skin tone inaccuracies. Madame Tussode's Beyonce statue
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 9: had to be adjusted as well.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: So, yeah, have you seen it? It was nothing like him?
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 4: Really no, but they've asked me. But it's but it's
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 4: four hours though, it's four to six hours. You actually
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 4: we have to stand there for the posy, uh huh, so.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: They can get the details right, the nose, the lips.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: Hey, I got plenty pictures.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: How long do you take to do the lips?
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: Will be in there for a while.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I ain't. Yeah, the rock looks like mister clean.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah he really does, he really really does. Yeah, he's
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: not dark. If I think you should do it though, Yeah.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: I ain't got time for the posy.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 9: All right, coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 9: we'll play a round of would you rather? Right after
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 9: this you're listening.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: Morning show? All right, it is time for a round,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: and would you rather?
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  Speaker 9: Would you guys rather balance on a tight rope like
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 9: ten feet high with no net? Or would you rather
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 9: jump off the side of a rocky cliff with a parachute?
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: I'm spin yeah, no net? Will it just falls out
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 2: failed ten feet before? Okay? Okay, all right, we can
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 2: jump off that rope. We're good.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 9: Would you rather spend Halloween night in a creepy cabin
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 9: in the woods, or in a haunted hotel in the city.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: Cabin in the woods or haunted hotel in the city.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: Alright, you're going in the woods, though, You're gonna go
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: to the woods, cabin in the woods. Wi't nobody ever
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: make it out of there?
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 9: Nobody ever gets out of the movies.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 4: I don't know what you'all talking about. You All you
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 4: gotta do is just not take your ass outside. It
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 4: looks like the cabin waitside for collecting firewood, going to
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 4: get creep water in stuff like that.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go out here and pick some of these
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: walnuts up off the ground.
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  Speaker 11: What do you.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: Stay in the house?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not fit to be in this haunted house. No,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 4: we're not finnna do that. No hell, all right, keep
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 4: with the haunted thing.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 9: Would you rather explore a haunted graveyard at midnight? Or
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 9: would you rather wander through a haunted forest at dawn?
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: I see, I want to be with the sun coming up.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: That's why I want to see all this stuff. You
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: asked that sure to involve too much running. I can't.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 7: I ain't even shaped like that.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: No more ghost that game I.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 4: Got to be full blast that forest. I'd be killed
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 4: myself running up into one.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: Of them trees.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 9: All right, if you play it in the NFL, would
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 9: you rather only play in the first three quarters?
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: Or would you only play in the fourth quarter?
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: First three?
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 5: I don't need to be on that full They actually
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 5: making up of what I did in the first three.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 2: And they tell me.
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  Speaker 4: That's the reason we ain't in the fall is the
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 4: first three. Chill on this bench, Harvey, Harvey, where you
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 4: think you're going to pay? Fourth quarter?
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 2: Coach? You the reason were losing about about thirty Wow,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 2: NFL is a special.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 9: Would you rather have sex with one person for the
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 9: rest of your life or multiple people?
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: But in only one position?
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 4: Father, just one person the rest of my one person
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 4: for the rest absolutely, absolutely.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: The rest of okay, you know you know.
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: I won't have sex with no guys.
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  Speaker 12: All right, thank you.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: That's today's round, and would you.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: Ask us every week?
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  Speaker 9: Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, it's
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 9: our last break of the day and will close out
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 9: the show with the one and only Steve Harvey right
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 9: after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 9: here we are our last break of the day on
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 9: this Tuesday.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: It's been a good day, real good day. Welcome back, Steve, Yes.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: Yes, good to be back.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 4: A lot of flying, man, Wow, that's the most flying
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 4: I've done over a three day period ever.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 2: Ever.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, I've had But you made it back to back.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: But I mean the time difference I flew was eleven
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 2: hour time difference.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: So your jet lagged a little.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 4: Bit between where I went to LA I don't even
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 4: know because I can't even but being on a plane
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 4: with that much cabin pressure, man, that's not that's not
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 4: very healthy.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: I don't think. I just don't.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 4: And it was like tough because I had to fly
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 4: sixteen hours to Los Angeles and then I had to
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: fly seventeen hours back and it was all in one
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 4: and then we had a delayed flight going back.
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 5: Oh you was commercial then, yeah, yeah, Oh welcome to
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 5: the real world, Pardoner.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's why that's not a really good deed
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: time because he do it once every.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 5: Well.
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: They have this thing out called private suitees and you
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 2: can go you never go into the airport.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: So you're not waiting at the gate for three hours.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: Is that what you're telling us?
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: They have a thing called private suites where you get
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 4: your own suite, has your own bathroom, everything, and it
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: is free. The food, the service is chargers. I don't
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 4: care what you need, full bath, televisions, sofas, chairs, food, everything,
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 4: and you wait and then you go through customs and
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 4: then you go on the other side of customs. You say,
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 4: that's your own custom in the building. So it's just
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 4: you really, And then they put you in a car
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 4: and they drive you on the tarmac and then you
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 4: take you to the foot of the plane and then
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 4: they take your passports and then they go inside, come back,
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 4: tell you ready, put you on the elevator, take you upstairs.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 4: You go right onto the plane from the gateway. You
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 4: never go past the gate you know, you're never in
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 4: the lounge anything.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: So you're telling us you're not in Boarding Group one,
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: not Southwest. Yeah, that's Boarding Group A.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 4: Can I share something with you all close the remarks today? Yes,
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 4: I want to remind you all something about success. I
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 4: was thinking about it the other day and somebody asked me.
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 4: I was with one of my sons and were with
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 4: a group of people and somebody said, Steve, what's one
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 4: of the things that we don't know about success that
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 4: you've learned about yourself. And you know what I said.
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 4: I said, I've learned how to suffer. I've learned how
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 4: to suffer. I suffer extremely well. And they went, I
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 4: don't understand that. What you mean you like suffering?
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: No, I don't.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 4: Nobody likes to suffer, but I've learned how to suffer
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 4: better than most people. Now, if a suffering might be
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 4: too harsh of a word for some people, but I've
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 4: been in some situation where I was actually suffering. But
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 4: if you want to soften it a little bit so
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 4: you can make it a little bit more relatable and
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 4: make you think it's easier to do, it's going to
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 4: be the same thing.
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 2: Though.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 4: I've gotten okay with being uncomfortable. I have really mastered
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 4: the art of being uncomfortable, and I've also accepted it
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 4: as a part of the process. And I think that's
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 4: something that everybody has to come to. If you have
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 4: any aspirations of being successful, you've got to be okay
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 4: with being uncomfortable, because that's a part of the process.
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 4: You are going to be required to be uncomfortable. There
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 4: are times when you are going to be required to
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 4: be ungodly uncomfortable, and there are going to be times
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 4: where this discomfort is going to last way longer than
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 4: you thought it should last. But you will learn some
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 4: things about yourself on the way to success. And a
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 4: couple of things I've picked up, or a few things
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 4: I've picked up that success is hard, that success is
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 4: going to require everything that you have to accomplish it.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 4: And here's the third thing. Success is going to require
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 4: some things you didn't know you had within you, So
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 4: it's going to take everything you have. And then it's
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 4: also going to require some things that you didn't know
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 4: you had. See, success is going to force you. The
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 4: quest for success is going to force you to dig
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 4: deeper than you've ever dug before, and it's going to
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 4: require some.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 2: Things of you that you didn't know you had.
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 4: But in that process, you will and uncover the things
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 4: that's needed to complete the journey. And being uncomfortable is
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 4: one of those things. I've said it before. Everything you
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 4: want in life is on the other side of uncomfortable.
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 4: Everything you want in life is on the other side
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 4: of fear. Everything you want want in life is on
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 4: the other side of doubt. Everything you want in life
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 4: you're going to have to go through something to get
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 4: to it. Ain't nothing in life laying on the ground
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 4: right next to you, or you just bend over and
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 4: pick it up.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, think about everything.
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 4: You really want. You got to go through something to
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 4: get it. And the thing that you have to go
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 4: through is going to be extremely uncomfortable. So you got
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 4: to get comfortable being uncomfortable.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 2: Those are my close remarks. Thank God for my life,
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 2: Thank God for your life. Have a great day. Talk
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 2: to God everybody. He'd love to hear from you today.
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