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Blue Ivy and Hova, Vocal Cowardice, Steve's Mentoring Camp, Baker Mayfield and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a suit giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: milling bus things in it to be true. Good to mother. Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turning you're going to do?
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn You haven't
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  Speaker 1: got to turn them out to turn the water the
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  Speaker 1: water go. Come come on your fad h I show
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  Speaker 1: well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harley
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show today. I want to just share
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  Speaker 1: something with you along your way to wherever it is
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to get to. You know, everybody has a
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  Speaker 1: different definition for success, and I'm not. I'm not here
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  Speaker 1: to tell you what joy should be. I mean, please
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  Speaker 1: pursue whatever you think success he is aim as high
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  Speaker 1: as you can though, that's for sure. My father used
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  Speaker 1: to say all the time. I'm sure you all have
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  Speaker 1: heard it in different variations, but he used to always say,
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  Speaker 1: aim for the moon. Just in case you miss, you'll
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  Speaker 1: still be amongst the stars. Just say that to me
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  Speaker 1: all the time. So that always was in me to
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  Speaker 1: aim high. Now he was and saying aim with the
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  Speaker 1: intent to miss. He was just saying aim. In case
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  Speaker 1: you miss, you're still a monster starts if you aim
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  Speaker 1: for the moon. But if you just aim for that
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  Speaker 1: first flow winder and you miss it, you know, usually
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  Speaker 1: run into some type of wall and nothing happens. You
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  Speaker 1: slither down. You know. In my book, act like a lady,
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  Speaker 1: think like a man. I told her people that men
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  Speaker 1: love three ways. They profess, they provide, they protect, and
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  Speaker 1: that's the core essence of a man's love. Well, there's
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  Speaker 1: some other peas in life too. The number one thing
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  Speaker 1: you have to understand about trying to be successful, and
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  Speaker 1: I guess I call this the four peas. I may
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  Speaker 1: come up with five along the way. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just talking as is given to me. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna summer start by saying, as these are the four
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  Speaker 1: peas of success that you have to get ready for.
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  Speaker 1: Number one one, it's pressure. A lot of it is
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  Speaker 1: applied by the circumstance of what you're trying to go
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  Speaker 1: for and what you're trying to do, but a lot
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  Speaker 1: of it also is self imposed pressure. It's what you
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  Speaker 1: put on yourself to make it. It's a sense of urgency.
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  Speaker 1: It's a sense of necessity. But pressure is the first
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  Speaker 1: thing I want you to be ready for. And pressure
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  Speaker 1: comes in a lot of different forms, but it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be pressured as an old saying that pressure buster pipe. See,
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  Speaker 1: that's why most people turn around because of the pressure
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  Speaker 1: of trying to be successful. I want you to get
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  Speaker 1: it in your mind that it is going to be
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  Speaker 1: a pressure rized situation on your rise to the top. Pressure,
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  Speaker 1: but understand that that it is what it is, is
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  Speaker 1: not going to change. That's it. Prepare yourself, get ready
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  Speaker 1: for there to be pressure. The second thing I want
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  Speaker 1: you to understand is when you receive this pressure, you
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  Speaker 1: have to persist. You got to stay at it. You
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  Speaker 1: got to develop a dog getness has a There's a
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  Speaker 1: song who says, why must I feel like that? Why
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  Speaker 1: must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog in me?
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  Speaker 1: That's a funny line in that song because really I
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  Speaker 1: was thinking about it one day. I was humming it
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  Speaker 1: and and it, and it occurred to me, said, why
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  Speaker 1: must I feel like that? Why must I chase the cat?
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  Speaker 1: Nothing but the dog get me? And you know, now
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  Speaker 1: you could take it into literal says that the cat
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  Speaker 1: chases the dog because it's innately is in his spirit.
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  Speaker 1: That cats and dogs are a lot of times enemies.
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  Speaker 1: Now people have pets in him, proving that if you
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  Speaker 1: show love on both sides, they can exist. And that
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  Speaker 1: happens too, but naturally innately, when your cat goes by
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  Speaker 1: a dog and your dog don't recognize him, that some
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  Speaker 1: barking going on. I'm talking abo just walking through the
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  Speaker 1: neighborhood or something. So, but the reason that this dog's
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  Speaker 1: so persistent towards this cat is just cause it's in him.
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  Speaker 1: It's innately in him. And what I'm saying to you,
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  Speaker 1: just using that as an analogy, is that you got
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  Speaker 1: to be you got to be persistent in that. You
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  Speaker 1: got to develop some dog in you now because pressure
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  Speaker 1: takes some fighting back. See if you don't fight back
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  Speaker 1: against pressure, pressure buster pipes, So what you think it
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  Speaker 1: will do to you? Pressure, crack walls, pressure calls, explosions.
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  Speaker 1: So if you don't fight back to hold it in,
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  Speaker 1: you understand pressure does most people in the simple thing
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  Speaker 1: called pressure, the weight of what it feels like to
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  Speaker 1: want to be successful every single day, over and over
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  Speaker 1: and over and over and over. It's just too much
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  Speaker 1: pressure people crack. You got to persist. You have to persist.
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  Speaker 1: You can the thought of giving up can come, but
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  Speaker 1: you got to get it out. You gotta persist. The
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  Speaker 1: next thing I want you to think about is another
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  Speaker 1: something that I've been thinking about for years and learn
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  Speaker 1: for years. It's called perseverance. To persist means to insist.
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  Speaker 1: Its keyword in insist and persistence insists you must. You
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  Speaker 1: must insist that this is going to happen. Now, the
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  Speaker 1: persist I'm assuming means it's a pro action. It's some
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  Speaker 1: type of proaction that you go towards it to make it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, persist, You gotta be persistent. You gotta be
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  Speaker 1: constantly at it, insisting that it happens. You gotta be
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  Speaker 1: constantly at it. But the next thing I want you
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  Speaker 1: to remember is perseverance. Perseverance is important. Perseverance means that
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  Speaker 1: when you've done your best, when you've persisted, when you're
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  Speaker 1: fighting back against the pressure. Perseverance simply means I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to hang in here when if a crack come into pipe,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna hang in there. If the pipe bust, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna keep going. If I got to put duct, take mud, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: I got to put on this thing. Man, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: use perseverance. I'm going to stay with it no matter what.
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  Speaker 1: So we're looking at the three things again. You got
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  Speaker 1: to understand that it's gonna be pressure that you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to persist keyword and persistence insist. You have to
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  Speaker 1: insist that no matter what the pressure is, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: stay with it. But then perseverance. If it goes wrong, Man,
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  Speaker 1: you got to get in there and keep fighting. But
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  Speaker 1: then Lord Him Mercy. Nothing helps you handle the three
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  Speaker 1: peas better than the fourth pea. You got to pray.
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  Speaker 1: You got to use prayer. You gotta talk to God.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta use faith. You gotta have some conferences with
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  Speaker 1: him late at night, early in the morning, in the
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  Speaker 1: middle of the afternoon, when you own the train, when
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  Speaker 1: you're driving. You got to talk to God. Man, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta get yourself some help along the way. Nothing is
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  Speaker 1: bigger than prayer. There is nothing bigger than prayer. Prayer
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  Speaker 1: will help you overcome the pressure. Prayer will help you
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  Speaker 1: stay persistent, and Lord Him Mercy, prayer will help you
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  Speaker 1: persevere them is the faux peas. God gave that to me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm passing it on. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, Let's
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  Speaker 1: get to it. Today is the day that the Lord
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  Speaker 1: has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why, because it's the only one
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  Speaker 1: you got. You have no control over any other days, yesterday, gone,
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  Speaker 1: future is not promised. Today is today, right now, get
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  Speaker 1: in it and get your two right. Get the two together, man,
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  Speaker 1: triple teas up in here. Start with gratitude. You have to,
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  Speaker 1: which will immediately affect your attitude, which has a direct
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  Speaker 1: correlation on your altitude. This them two's baby. You get
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  Speaker 1: them together. You can be somebody, man, that's my plan.
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  Speaker 1: I wonna be somebody. I'm gonna mess around somehow, some
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  Speaker 1: way with a little more grace and some mercy and
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  Speaker 1: a whole lot of forgiveness, and I'm gonna mess around
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  Speaker 1: and be somebody. I don't know what y'all doing, I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, but I'm inviting you to get on this
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  Speaker 1: tude train. Gratitude, attitude, altitude, that's Steve Hart More sure,
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  Speaker 1: that's how we're doing it right now. Shirley Strawberry calling
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  Speaker 1: for real junior um smile for the South. Listen Monica.
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  Speaker 1: The legend of nephew Tommy Junior. Sir, what here we go?
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, man, because it's like the
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  Speaker 1: tele cons to my nephew man. And he just he
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  Speaker 1: wanted now. It's such a microwave socid today. I want
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  Speaker 1: the money now, I want this lifestyle now, I want
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  Speaker 1: everything now. And they don't understand. They're gonta trust. This
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  Speaker 1: a process, a process of figures. Everything that I did
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  Speaker 1: to get to my point, I had to fail to
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  Speaker 1: get here. He just wanted me to do it for him.
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  Speaker 1: That's good, you know. No, I didn't have nobody I
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  Speaker 1: could even want to do it for me. So nephews
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  Speaker 1: blessed to even have somebody. He think he got the
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  Speaker 1: audacity to say, I'd like for you to do it.
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  Speaker 1: It is not the way it goes. It's a it's
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  Speaker 1: a long lesson to learn, and the longer it takes
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  Speaker 1: you to learn it, the longest it's gonna take for
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  Speaker 1: you to get it. It is imperative man, that people
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  Speaker 1: understand what this is. But know this, as long as
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  Speaker 1: it takes to get successful. Must I remind you all
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  Speaker 1: there is joy in the journey. You have got to
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  Speaker 1: stop along the way man, and appreciate where you are.
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  Speaker 1: You may not be where you want to be, but
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  Speaker 1: take inventory and oftentimes you can realize you may not
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  Speaker 1: be where you want to be, but thank god, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't where I was seement steps and sometimes people don't
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  Speaker 1: even get joy in the steps. Man, I ain't where
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  Speaker 1: I want to be yet. Yeah, I got you, bro,
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  Speaker 1: But must I remind you that two years ago the
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  Speaker 1: position you were sitting in, five years ago, eight years ago. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: last summer that started a new year. See, some people
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  Speaker 1: ain't got to look far back, you understand, and there's
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  Speaker 1: joy in the journey, but you got to take inventory.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody want it now, you know. Yeah, people trying to
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  Speaker 1: take advantage of your success because they want it now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that again. People try to take advantage
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  Speaker 1: of your success. All of you out there has to
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  Speaker 1: measure success. Somebody didn't try to capitalize on that. This
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  Speaker 1: is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. Why yes it is,
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  Speaker 1: and thank you guys. Coming up at thirty two minutes
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, the nephew is here to run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back right after this. You're listening, all right, It
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  Speaker 1: is time to start your morning off with the nephew,
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  Speaker 1: and run that prank back. What you got for us?
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  Speaker 1: Naf what you got. We're gonna roll to the cemetery
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  Speaker 1: right quick, gonna looking. It's just like running to the stone.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you run somewhere else, You're right run to
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  Speaker 1: the cemetery right quick, and take a look at the tombstone.
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  Speaker 1: Tombstone is the name of this frank ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: cat dog if you would, tombstone homes. Hey, man, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta we gotta problem with the steer home. Let man's
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  Speaker 1: tro something y'all want to mess around and put the
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  Speaker 1: wrong name on my aunty tombstone and will is to do?
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  Speaker 1: And we gotta problem. We gotta get rectified. Man, y'all
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  Speaker 1: got hold hold on, hold on, man, calm down. And
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  Speaker 1: first of all, what is your name? My name is
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  Speaker 1: Ritchie Man. But yo, I can't understand a funeral home
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  Speaker 1: making these count of mistakes. You know what? That that
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  Speaker 1: don't make no sense. I long to y'all even been
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  Speaker 1: in the business to be doing something like this. So
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  Speaker 1: this is a family business. We've been doing this forty
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  Speaker 1: plus years. I don't making mistakes like this. Man, What's
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  Speaker 1: what's the problem, What's the mistake. What mistake do you
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  Speaker 1: think we made? Okay, look, man, we're being my two
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  Speaker 1: weeks ago. My name is Rosen. Okay, all right, where
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  Speaker 1: you spare, Our name is r O s e t
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  Speaker 1: t A. Y'all got r O z e t t an.
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  Speaker 1: She was born Tuned the eight, nineteen forty eight. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: got August the six, nineteen forty y'all got the dates
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  Speaker 1: mixed up. Then y'all got her name mixed up. And
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  Speaker 1: when we're having to do that's how I ain't are
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  Speaker 1: rifted in peace with the wrong stuff on her thombsaw. First, man,
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  Speaker 1: calm down right, and you can't getting that, men, I
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  Speaker 1: can't use no way I can help you to getting that. Mew.
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  Speaker 1: I mean fix the problem then, man, I could check
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  Speaker 1: the paperwork. I can check the paperwork and see what
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  Speaker 1: the problem is. Now, if you gave me the wrong information,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: your family gave me wrong information, then we just put
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  Speaker 1: down where we would get it. And if we got
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  Speaker 1: to change something, we'll change it. But it's gonna cause
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  Speaker 1: you some more money. No, y'all, we're here. We're not
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  Speaker 1: paying another damn damn to that funeral all, not another
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  Speaker 1: damn damn the stuff gonna get changed from this damn tune,
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  Speaker 1: So then we're not paying for none. It is this
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I'm decided. I'm saying we can help you out.
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  Speaker 1: I can help you. But if you gave me the
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  Speaker 1: wrong information, that's as you. Why didn't do that? That's
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  Speaker 1: on you. We didn't give you the wrong information. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna tell you this here. You what's put it on
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  Speaker 1: the name a wrong? What is your name? My name
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  Speaker 1: is Kendrick. Okay, Kendrick. Let me tell you something. If
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  Speaker 1: this don't get changed, burd and money men and some
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  Speaker 1: of my cousin's gonna come out there and start digging
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  Speaker 1: up about it, all right, y'all not coming over here
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  Speaker 1: and digging up nothing, y'all my player, he would disrespect
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  Speaker 1: my family and come over here, and you're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: up what we're gonna dig up some burdisa, y'a donna
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  Speaker 1: get the direct problem of my hand Toomston. There's not
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  Speaker 1: gonna be none of that. I'm not having you coming
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  Speaker 1: over here. We're gonna six the problem and check the
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  Speaker 1: PaperWorks and I can get back to you. That's why
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  Speaker 1: I can do. But you ain't digging up nothing. If
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  Speaker 1: if if y'all sixty three on my head Toomstone, but
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  Speaker 1: even me and my cousin is coming out there digging
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  Speaker 1: up some of them damn dead body until y'all get
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  Speaker 1: this damn thing. Six, I'm gonna be nobody coming over there,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't say I'm not hold on. See what now,
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting excited to comment. Man, let me just talk
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  Speaker 1: to you like a man. What I'm saying to you
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  Speaker 1: is that the family seals out the paperwork, put the
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  Speaker 1: name in the birth date on there. If it is incorrect,
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  Speaker 1: it has to be fixed. I have to call the
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  Speaker 1: man out here to fix it, and that's gonna call
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  Speaker 1: some money. I have to pay him. All I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: is if that is the case, if the paperwork is incorrect,
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  Speaker 1: it's not on us, and I'm gonna have to charge
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  Speaker 1: you a little extra money just so I can get
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  Speaker 1: it taken care of. To get charge nothing where you
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  Speaker 1: got no more money, man, We ain't got no money.
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  Speaker 1: We ain't got no more I'm gonna I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: you one more time, mister Kendrew. If Fred don't see
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  Speaker 1: a cha, I'm coming after this evening to look at
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  Speaker 1: my handy tom. So I'm coming out there now. If
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  Speaker 1: the date and the name ain't fixed, promise you so
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  Speaker 1: help me. I'm gonna start digging up. But and if
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  Speaker 1: you are answer out there, I'm gonna put you in
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  Speaker 1: one of them home and I'll tell you what vegid.
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna put me in no home? Man, I
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: like I say, I try to. I'm trying to talk
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  Speaker 1: to you and tell you what the deal is and
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  Speaker 1: how we will get this fix. Ain't nobody come out
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  Speaker 1: here and dig it up? Nothing? I I bet you,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: and I'll put you. If you don't fix then we're
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: both were going in the damn hole. That's what's gonna happen.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: We're going in because somebody want to fix me around
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: and put the room. You want to put the ruin everything.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't even answer the damn phone. And my
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  Speaker 1: uncle get existing, Regid Region, fix nothing. Men. You yelling
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  Speaker 1: at each other, we mean, we don't do this. Yelling
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  Speaker 1: at each other is not gonna fix the problems. I
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  Speaker 1: still have to do a step here. I have to
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  Speaker 1: look at this paperwork. But when are you gonna look
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  Speaker 1: at it? REGI? You keep yelling. I don't even have
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  Speaker 1: time to Golden. It's paperwork. Every time I get real
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  Speaker 1: look at something you get in my head. Let me
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  Speaker 1: say this until you one more time. I'm come at mindfucker.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come out there right now. That's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. You know what we're to come on there.
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  Speaker 1: I'll try to talk nice to your way to tell
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  Speaker 1: you what dude, I told you that it is a
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  Speaker 1: fan of business. You just expected men you come out here,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't no, because when we both go the old days,
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  Speaker 1: that's where I'm trying to tell you, right, No, just me,
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  Speaker 1: you're not listen but dead. When your shoes you need
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  Speaker 1: to you need to know them on my way because
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  Speaker 1: they're guarantee you y'all gonna chance. I'm gonna bring you
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  Speaker 1: then bring No, you ain't nor because you as then
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  Speaker 1: call big a bull setting hold. I'll just when they
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: get rid of the sayer Kendrick on the tombs, I
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  Speaker 1: bet they're gonna fan that wrong. Oh will then come
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  Speaker 1: on you You ain't gonna cuss? Why I can't. I
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  Speaker 1: got some miss I need to tell you. Yes, you
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  Speaker 1: got to say. I'm saying you're listening to me, Kendrick,
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  Speaker 1: you wrap the civil resident. I got to play. This
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  Speaker 1: is miss you tell me you just got break by
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  Speaker 1: your secretary. No, your man, you Tommy, I'm damn man
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  Speaker 1: old he was to be here today day. I knew
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  Speaker 1: something was funny. Oh man, you got me, but I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna do the whole for your today sign a gig.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: All right, hey man, I gotta ask you one more thing.
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  Speaker 1: What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, all right, good crazy, thank you nephew. Coming
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  Speaker 1: up next, we'll ask the cello. Chief Love Officer Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey in the building, ready for your love questions. Right
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  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening String show coming up at the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour, and entertainment news. Britney Griner's detention
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  Speaker 1: in Russia is extended again. Jailed rapper Gunna wrote an
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  Speaker 1: open letter from jail, fighting to clear his name. Plus
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  Speaker 1: Missus Michelle Obama are forever first Lady speaks at Culture
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  Speaker 1: of Democracy Summit, a summit I should say in Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
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  Speaker 1: of the hour, but right now the CLO is here.
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  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey ready for your love questions.
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  Speaker 1: Kayla in Maryland writes, I'm a newly married woman and
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: my husband is a slob. Now that we live together,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: he expects me to wash all of our clothes, cook
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  Speaker 1: and clean, do all of the grocery shopping, and keep
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the bathrooms clean. His logic is that I did it
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  Speaker 1: all for myself when I was single, So it's no
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  Speaker 1: big deal. Is he right? Or is marriage a partnership?
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: Marriage is a partnership. Of course, I would be stupid
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  Speaker 1: not to say it's anything else. Your problem. Your husband
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: was a slab before you married him. Your husband has
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  Speaker 1: entered into this marriage with false expectations. He thinks, because
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  Speaker 1: you are the wife, wife, it is your job to
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  Speaker 1: clean up, cook do launch you since you did it
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  Speaker 1: for yourself. Well, the thing that attracted him to you
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: was because you did those things for yourself. That was
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: very attractive about you. That you would clean well, kept groomed,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: all that stylish fly, all like that. Now you married
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: a man who was a slab. You've been over his house.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: You know what it is now, he says, you shouldn't
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: have no problem because you did it before. Y'all got married. Well,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: you did it for yourself, right. You didn't know you
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: were signing up to be the maid down at the Marryott.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: That's the problem, slom So remind him right that this
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  Speaker 1: is a partnership and everything you're doing the marriage is
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: a partnership. And if it doesn't become a partnership, then
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be doing some things by yourself. Okay, yeah,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: and we're moving on before y'all got married. Yeah, all right.
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  Speaker 1: Shorty in Atlanta says, I'm a twenty seven year old
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: single woman and I'm living with a man that is
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: almost thirty years older than I am. His daughter is
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: a year older than I and I enjoy hanging out
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  Speaker 1: with her. He has a problem with us to bring
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  Speaker 1: close and told me that I should act more like
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: a parent than her. Buddy. Is he serious? How do
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I do that? Hard to act like a parent when
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: you just one year older than HIGs, your parents and
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: scales the same deals is my child? Ski? Right? Oh,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of things that come with age difference,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: and you experiencing one, you should start acting more like
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  Speaker 1: a parent instead of a friend. Well that's not how
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  Speaker 1: it works, so sorry, I don't I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: to tell you. I've never been involved in an age
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  Speaker 1: gap that big before years. That's why I had to
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: turn up. And it's thirty years old. You lucky, you
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: twenty seven. Cousin just ten years ago, you but seventeen
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  Speaker 1: and heated at forty seven. That's the case. Yeah, very
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: close to Yeah, that's Cordy entry level. We're moving on
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: to um Jocelyn and Cincinnati says. I am almost fifty
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: and I love to go skating on Friday nights with
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: my girls. My husband doesn't like me going out at
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: night because he's a homebody, but I've always been out going.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: How do I convince him that it's good to get
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  Speaker 1: out sometime? Just keep going skating. You ain't fit to stop.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: And it is good to get good outside sometimes. And
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: yes it's dangerous out there, but it's dangerous summer everywhere.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, look, you can't shut your life down.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna keep going skating. Now, I'm explaining something to you
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  Speaker 1: about just fifty and skating. Can't have you one other thing.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Falling is different. Falling it's different, it's different. Falling is different.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I'mtimeing you right now. If you fall, now you won't
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  Speaker 1: be skating next week. You could be other one, you
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: s could you could be out of skating for three
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: four weeks. But she doesn't want to come home from
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: a great night with her girls skating. And you know
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: he's in there all mad than everything. You know, he's stupid.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know what I don't like.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you something. I'm old enough to make
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: this statement. I don't like old people that act old.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I just don't. I get away from now. I don't, man,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I don't like old people that act old because it
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: just makes me think, Man, is this it for me?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: But I know people that's my age, man, that just
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: act like, whoa ya sitting around? What you doing? The
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: end of the world? Ye, Carla, I was just wondering,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: isn't old age he's scared safety stuffs both. No, it's
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: it's the homebody. Well, I don't, well not in reference
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: to that. It's just people man, that think have bought
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: into the concept that with age comes lack of activity,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: lack of effort, change of attitude and sit around because
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: we old, you're old, you'll need to be at the
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I mean, man, I know couples man that I've met
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: that I went to school with, and it's it's dramatic, man,
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  Speaker 1: And how they sit there and accept it. Yeah, that's it.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: That's it. That's the word walkers in man. Just looking
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: looking slow? You know how you turn your head real
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: slow like you're doing right now, you know, turn your
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: head like it's like it's rusty man. Look over hill. Yeah,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: something about to pop off? What did that behind me?
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Would you turn your ass around and see? I got
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: I got some players makes look a hundred yeah right,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: yeah already, yeah, you got some players made. I saw
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: a girl one time in essence Steve Well. I knew
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: she knew me, Project Roger somebody what any man? I turned?
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Remember me? Can I tell you something? I thought she
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: was one of my teachers versus last Damn she must
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: have flunked me because she didn't me really well, man.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: When she told me her name, I went home and
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: called my boy. He sent me a picture of her
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: in the year book. It was, it was, it was.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: It was unbelievable, man. So I just say to everybody,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: look aging father, time's undefeated. But there is honor in
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: the fight. You ain't gotta sit there and look like
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: I just don't look like I'm losing every time. Damn again.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Fiello. Coming up at the top
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: of the hour. We'll have some national and entertainment news
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  Speaker 1: for you right after this. You're listening Stave Harvey Morning Show.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Britney Griner's detention in Moscow was extended an additional eighteen days.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Griner is considered wrongfully detained, which signals that, regardless of
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: the status of her legal case, the US government will
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: seek to negotiate her release. Griner's NBA team w NBA team,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: the Phoenix Mercury met Monday with the State Department to
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: discuss the status of her case, and they assured the
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: team they are working hard to being Brittany home. Britney
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Grinner was detained, if you recall, back in February at
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: a Moscow area airport after cannabis oil was allegedly found
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: in her luggage. Yeah, okay, but let me ask you
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: this showy Well, I know you don't know, but what
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: does that mean. It's been extended eighteen days? They're going
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: to release her in eighteen days or it's eighteen days
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: for another Yeah, eighteen days of her staying there, And
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: they said the State Department said, it's part of the process.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: She could be tained, detained again, released. Yeah, painful process,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: just not not that she committed a crime or anything.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: But you know, when I hear stories like this, I
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: just remind people, man, when you are traveling, when you
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: are traveling abroad, all this stuff you use at home
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: and at your house, leave all that stuff. Man. Yeah,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: you ain't got no time over that chewable gummies and
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: all this here edibles, you know, anything and and and
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: that's not even what the woman did. But I'm just
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: saying to people, because I know people who travel, you
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: can't go to these countries. Look, man, everybody ain't open
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: to your lifestyle. And laws are different. You know, everybody
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: is not open to your lifestyle. And when I'm talking
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: about lifestyle, I'm talking about what you do with your
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: recreational time, like drugs, oil, CBD. All countries ain't old
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: putting to that, man, you got to be smart. Yeah. Yeah,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: they're using her the ru I mean, she's been playing
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: for over there for years. Oh it's it's it's horrible
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: what they're doing to this woman. It's horrible. Then, you
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: know we did wartime too. She's not on the front burner.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Of things to do with Russia right now, right Russia
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: in the middle of a horrible ward that they initiated.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: They invaded a country. Yeah, yes they did, and they're
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: still over there. Um, so you know, hopefully they'll get
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: this matter settled and Brittany can come home sing home Yes.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: And other entertainment news. Jailed rapper Gunna, who is fighting
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: RICO charges, is trying to clear his name. He wrote
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: an open letter from jail saying that the America is
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: violating his freedom of speech. He writes, twenty two and
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: two just a bed and shower, no windows, no walls,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: can't see or talk to anyone, and I'm writing and
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: still praying. Gonna went on to say, my country's amendments
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: have failed me protect black art. Gonna refer to twenty
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: two was supposed to be the best year of his career.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Gonna and Thug will remain locked up until next year.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: So yeah, next year. Yeah, Well, Shelley, how do you
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: know all this stuff to the next year. What's going
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: to happen next year? Yeah, I mean, you know, then
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: the proceedings, Yeah, the process all over again. You know,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: they've tried to get out, but to no avail. Yeah. Yeah, finally,
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: and they have attorneys and everything. Finally. In entertainment news,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: as we move on, Former First Lady Michelle Obama spoke
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: at the Culture of Democracy Summit in La. Organizers say
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: the overall goal of the four days summit is to
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: bring together people from various walks of life to discuss
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: the role different industry's play and protecting and strengthening democracy
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: through voter registration, education, mobilization, and culture change. Other celebrities
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: include Tracy Ellis, Ross, NBA superstar Chris Paul and Philadelphia
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: seventy six ers head coach Doc Rivers. So thank you,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Michelle Obama, because this is what we need moving forward,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: you know, absolutely more education on voter registration, all of that,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: culture change, all of this. So thank you to all
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: of them. It was called the Culture of Democracy Summit.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: It was held in La. Hey, can I couble back
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: on the Gunner story? Yes, let me just say this
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: right here. I understand the young brother's letter, But don't
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: y'all be confused. It's saying about freedom of writing lyrics.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: That ain't what he in jail. It's way way more
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: than that. Yeah, it's yeahs charges. Yeah, it's a bunch.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: But it ain't cause you wrote wrote a rap song.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, I wish the young brother rall well. And
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know anything about it. I just hear certain things.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: But you're not in jail because you wrote some lyrics.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: It's a whole lot of stuff they're trying to do
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: to this cat. Yeah, and I don't I don't. I
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: don't understand it or know the particulars of it. But
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: just don't y'all be confused thinking he either wrote a
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: rap song that he in prison. Yeah. As a matter
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: of fact, they were saying that his lyrics in his
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: songs were instructions to do what he was brought in for,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: you know, the sex traffick and all of that. So yeah, yeah,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: So like you said, do not be confused, Steve, why
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: would you, I mean, didn't do it. I mean, this
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: got something to do with murder, sex, trafficking drugs. This
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: is crazy, heavy, serious charges. Yeah, that's why. Yeah, they
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: were denied bill and that's why they're not getting out
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: until twenty twenty three. That has a lot to do
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: with it, for sure. I wish we had more positive
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: things going on with hip hop, more positive music, more
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: positive lyrics. No this is something we've always he talked about,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: but it's just it's just really sad. It just all
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: sounds the same these days. Yeah, I just wish we
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: could just take that turn right and start a nutrient.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Let's do something positive. Yeah, and freedom of speech is important,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: but like you say, Steve, not in this case that
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: that is not the deal for sure. All right, coming
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after the hour, still trending those
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: pictures of jay Z and his daughter, Blue Ivy at
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: the NBA Finals. We'll talk about daddy daughter relationships right
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Father's Day. Is this Sunday, guys,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: And we just love the picture that was trending yesterday
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: of jay Z and Blue Ivy, his daughter, sitting courtside
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: at the Warriors versus Celtics game. Blue looking just just
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: like just like Beyonce. Just thank the Lord, Thank the Lord.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: She's really grown up. Had a little hoop, ear rings,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: her hair, curly hair. Yeah, just looking cute. Jay Z
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: wants to put his arm around her. She was like, Dad,
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: my hair, her hair, my hair. Yes. Anyway, So here's
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: a question for you, Stephen Tommy. You both have daughters,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: So why is it so important for dads. We're talking,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: dad's here to spend quality time with their daughters. I'm
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: gonna let Tommy start. It's important. I mean, I'm I'm
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: who my daughter looks up to as a man. So
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I gotta set a good example. I gotta show her
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: what what to look for, what she's looking for when she,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: you know, gets to the point where she wants to
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: get married. I want my daughter to day to look
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: back and say, my dad treated me this way, that way,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: and this is the way a man is supposed to
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: treat me. And you know, she's getting ready to go
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: off to college now, so I want to want her
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: to have that not here that hey, this is the
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: way you're supposed to treat me at all times, and
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: I will not handle any disrespect. This is the way
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to be a gentleman. That's supposed to what
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to care about me, the way that she
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: sees that I care about her mother. This is the
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: way it's supposed to go. So I'm always trying to
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: be an example so she'll know that's what I'm supposed
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: to have and this is the way I want my
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: relationship or life to go. So that's that's the number
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: one thing that's important that she gets a true example
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: of how a man's love is. It's not physical, it's
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: not abusive. The other thing that it does is it
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: provides a young girl. It's an important man for boys
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: and girls, but I think even more so for girls
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: that they know what it is to feel protected. Yes,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: you know it's my daddy. I'm gonna get my daddy.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I tell my daddy. It's important man that fathers provide
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: a safety net for their children. It's important that a
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: father provide a safety net for his woman, his girlfriend,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: his fiance, say his wife. That level of protection is. Oh, man,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: how calm would your life be if you knew somebody
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: had your back's man, that's a relaxing feeling, man, when
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: you know somebody got me. You know how many times
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: have I heard Marjorie say, I'm just glad you got
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: this because I'd be looking at this socause she said
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: you're bad man, Steve Harmer. And that makes me feel
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: good because I know that she knows that, and all
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: of my children know, and all of my daughters. No
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: push come to show the dude right there, he coming
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: for you, well, said Tommy too coming up at thirty
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour. We'll check your voicemail Steve.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the same Harvey Morning Show.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: All right. Time now to check steve voicemail and if
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: you would like to leave a voicemail for Steve, call
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: him eight seven seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: twenty nine, Steve. All right, Steve. So recently during our
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: asked the clo segment, I'm sure you'll remember this, a
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: woman rode in said her four year old son sleeps
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: in the bed with her and now that she's engaged,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: her fiance said it's time for the boy to sleep
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: in his own bed. Well, you agreed with the fiance.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: You know, we had a problem with that. We wanted
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: the baby to stay in the bed with the mommy.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: But this caller left a message and disagree with you. Listen, Okay,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: you guys aren't taking live calls because you can't take
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: the heat. But Steve, you have never raised a four
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: year old. You've never been around any of your children
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: at the age of nor your wife's children at the
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: age of four. Have no idea how bonded to childhood
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: is a four year ago. Okay, Now, first of all,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: you a damn lie, he called Brandon calling I watched
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: them being born. You don't know nothing about me, and
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: don't worry about Mardrey's kids and all this here. No,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: don't call in myself to do. You can't take no heat.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Your ass don't know what you're talking about. I've been
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: around kids. I've been around Winton since he was born.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: I've been around Broderick. I've been around them between him.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: You the one ain't been around me. Oh, call here
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: no more with this little muck ass statement. You don't
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: know how kids are. I know, I know plenty abound kids.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I ain't never had a child. But your ass gonna
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: get in your bed at folk and sleep by your
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: damn self. That's what you gonna do. And you're not
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: gonna call here no more with show damn wrong ass information,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: because I wish you would call here. Lie. You ain't
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: never been around your own kids. You don't know me,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: You aren't internet person. Now we ain't moving on, we're
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: staying right here. What's what was her name? Oh Howard too?
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Oh a coward? Now you're gonna call in tell me
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  Speaker 1: what I ain't But you ain't gonna leave your name
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: made ragging ass calls and me no more. And this
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  Speaker 1: right here? Ain't nobody scared? This is why we don't
• 41:39
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• 41:43
  Speaker 1: All right now, we're moving on to a voice call
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: from a caller who appreciates us. Steve, how about that change,
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: Uncle Steve. I just want to say, God bless you
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: and your whole entire morning, So clue y'all are blessing.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: I appreciate the advice. I appreciate the straight forwardness. It
• 42:03
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• 42:06
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• 42:10
  Speaker 1: My kids love it, even though some of it's not
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  Speaker 1: children um appropriate. But we do appreciate you. North Carolina
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  Speaker 1: represents all day every day in Fort Uncle Seving the Cruiser. Yes,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: thank you very much for that. You're you know you
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  Speaker 1: do not have levels. You have to have levels, and
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to say thank you so much, Sister
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  Speaker 1: h As far as you're getting your chuckle on and
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: loving the showing all the players on the show, we
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: thank you very much. As far as sometimes it's not
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  Speaker 1: children of appropriate. That's because our radio show is adult
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: contemporary AC radio. We are the masses of adult contemporary
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: and sometimes we do say stuff is child appropriate. But
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not here to raise your kids. And based on
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: the or the caller, the reason I am able to
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: raise your kids, it's because I ain't raised my own.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: According to that ignorant ass one talking about you, wasn't
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: around none of your kids when they was fault. You're
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  Speaker 1: just a damn lad. This is what you is. This's
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: what you is. This anonymous chicken coward ass lady. Yeah,
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: called in here talking to me about my damn family.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: You're a bet off. Just been talking to me. But
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: what another call? But you got no call world whatever, sir,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: your rand because Ran rand All, that bad ass. Anybody
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: gave out no badass information on you. You ain't raised,
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  Speaker 1: no fault. You know, you hadn't been around in your
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: kids life. You change no diapers and not very hard.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, thank you. Steve. Coming up next
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: to It's the prank on Call for It today with
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: the Nephew. Right after this, you're listening Morning show coming
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, and the
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: subject is she got one more time? And I mean
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: that we've all heard that right there, all that. We'll
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: find out what that's all about in just a few
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's frank
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Nep what's on
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: the menu? I got something stupid. Fuh this right here
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: gonna be real stupid and ignorant for you. This is
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: called baby chick, baby chick. Okay, yeah, just put that
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: in your head right there. Put that in your head
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: as you look down the menu of stupid baby chick,
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: cat dog, get your food. Thank you. I'm trying to
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: reach one thing, which is so calling help you? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: You are you the manager there? Yes, sir, your name warned? Yes, sir,
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  Speaker 1: this is one Okay, I need to actually file a
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: lawsuit on y'all, and I'm actually calling you first to
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: let you know that I'm getting ready to file a
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: lawsuit on the whole grocery store for what did happened
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  Speaker 1: to me? Sir? Let me let me get hold on
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: a second, so let me do this. Let me let
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: me have what what did you say? Your name was
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: my name is Evans. Evans is my name, So Evans
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: is your last name? Let me let me write this down.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: And you came into my store. Did you have an
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: accident in my store or something? I just have to
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: show what you're calling about. I ain't had no accident.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: What appum was? I came in there yesterday and I
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: bought a bunch of grocers and I bought a card
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: in the eggs right now. When I got home, I
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: was checking to make sure the eggs didn't didn't break
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: on the way home. When I got home, it was
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: a baby chick inside the egg cardon. Man, one of
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: the eggs had it had hatched and got my kids
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: trabais And they don't even want to eat breakfast or
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: nothing around here because it's a baby chick inside caught
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: the eggs. That don't make no man um, I don't
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: mean to uh let me so you tell me it
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: was a chicken, a baby chicken, actual chicken, and the
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: baby chick inside the cart and the eggs. Man, you
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: got my kids traumatized. Man, don't nobody what got eggs
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: if you're just around here, because if you're just calmed
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: down for one second, listen what I told y'all put
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: that chicken down, and then put it down. It might
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: have ray beat Say what, I don't even think that
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: that's possible. First of all, if you had any idea
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: how this thing comes from the farm to the store,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: it is they go over these eggs a countless summertimes,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: and the temperature and the freezer. First of all, wasn't
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: even allow for a chicken to be allied if you
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: had a baby. I don't know I did this one,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: this one. I don't know how this one got passed system. Okay,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: But what I do know is we got a baby
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: chick over here running around because y'all soo ain't doing
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: what y'all's supposed to do. Man, and I got it,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: and now my kids are traumatized behind this. When did
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: you say you were in here? So I was in
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: there yesterday. I bought the eggs yesterday. Man down here
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: am free. Yes, I bought him except the grocery stove.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I sure did. Okay, let's do this. Why don't you
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: bring the eggs into me and the chick? Now you
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: want me to transport a baby chick back to the
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: grocery store. I aught my Look, we already traumatized over here,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: already behind this dog bone baby chick. Man, I'm not
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not exactly sure what you were trying to pull here,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: but I just don't I don't think that. First of all,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: any anyone a common sense will tell you that that's
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: not possible. First of all, you can't have a baby
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: chick living in a dozen eggs. There is no possible
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: way that this. The temperature and life freezers ripe above freezing.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: There's no chickens or fragile creature in the first place.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: You can't have a little bird is not gonna survive
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: the transport from the farm to the factory to my store.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not getting weird. Hey, hey, hey, I'm not gonna
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: go back and forth, but you remember baby bullshit, you boy.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: If you want to bring me a dozen eggs, bring
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: the dazen eggs in. If you can catch the chick,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: catch the chick. Hey man, you came you. You're supposed
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: to be the manager. You're not supposed to talk to
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: me like this. So I mean, I don't tell you,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: as politely as possible, if you want to bring the
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: lemon eggs and a chick, I will gladly refund your money,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: give you another car, and ask whatever you want to do.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: But I'm not I don't even hear anyone can happen.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: But I'm not all a lawsuit because y'all to traumatized
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: me and my chick. So listen, all right, let's just
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: bring this down a lawsuit, sir. It over a dozen eggs,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: A dozen eggs that got a baby chick in it. Man,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: But let me do the phone number and some information,
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: and I will talk to my manager and we will
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: figure this thing out for you, because I just I
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: just don't believe that this would be possible. I just
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: I don't understand how you would have a chick let him,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: let just leave him over that, don't touch the chicken
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: that I just don't believe that this could possibly be happy.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: So this is its unbelievable means that even get this phone,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I don't have time to go back and forth with
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: you about how something happened. All I know is it
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's some fluke accident, Okay, but it happened. My
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: kids are old here putting with a favorite chick, and
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: I'm trauma tad. I don't even want to ever have
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Preckman up again. And I'm gonna to make sho I
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: file a lawsuit on your shoe and your show me.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: I don't suncise anything to do with me. I didn't
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: do anything, uh except come into Ruth today. You understand
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you want to follow lawsus gonna
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: file a lawsuit. I'm throwing up to the older grocery
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: stow and I'm out of the lawsuit on the manager Warren,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: which is your for giving me a hard time about
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: what I'm telling you don't happen. I don't even got
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: a hard time out of needle as you'm saying. I'm
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: saying you are a hard time comes down here day.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I'm bringing the bags down here, and I'm bringing that
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: baby chick that back up down there too. I'm bringing
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: out all of it or poops because I'm like to
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: see it. How much did you pay for those days?
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: I'm paid my two down and it ain't blood. How
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: much I paid for the edge. That's what you have
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: trauma time? Oh yeah, because I'm gonna give you just
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: got much back and out when you get much, you
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I'm a saying I don't give it. My songs. A
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: lot of custs out here and hind legitimate poople are
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: online senses and not something drop from the telephone till
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: about some chicken and a dribbing egg. Okay, well let
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: me let me tell you this too. Do you have
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: a guy that works at the checkout name Tylering? Yeah, okay,
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: Tyan got me to pray phone call you. This is
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: nephew Timmy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. Warren. You
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: just gotta pray what you couldn't move. Hey, look, man,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't even come over with chickens chickens going through eggs. Man. Man,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I say, how people looking at me in
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: this story like I'm craming every one. I gotta ask you, man,
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: what is it the baddest that I mean, the baddest
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: radio show in the land. Man, it's the Steve Harvey
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Warning Show. You check out? Got tyrant? He got you, man. Yeah,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get in too. I'm gonna put him back
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: and playdus. I'm gonna take him off the register. I'm
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: about to get him stacking egg. There you go. Huh.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: He was not having it, Evans, but you're yelling. Yeah.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: But he stayed. He stayed managerial for a while. Yeah,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: and he knew was stuff too. He knew his stuff.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, they have breath. But then after a while
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: it got out of what it always do. Bring that
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: chick down here. I don't give you that. As he
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: was going out right to you told him you was
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: gonna suit him too. What I gotta do it hard
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: I did was come in the working day. Once you
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: tell a black person you're taking them to court, were
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I ain't know how this could go for It's gonna
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: flip for sure. Was stupid enough for y'all. I will
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: be even more stupid onto you live first and Columbias out. Yes,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: that is at the cocad Center, y'all, Coca Performing Arts Center.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: The nephew come to town. Come get it dead in
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: your face and watch me work. I promise you I
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: am the truth. Come see it for yourself. They've been
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: talking about it. Oh lord, they've been talking about it.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: Come see what they're really talking about. All right, nephew,
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next today's Strawberry Letter, the subject
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: She's got one more time? All right, we'll get into
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for Today's Strawberry Letter
• 53:16
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  Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. It could be buckle
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: love and hold on tight. We got it for you here.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subjects. She's
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: got one more time, Okay, Just Stephen Shirley. I've been
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: dating a great man for almost six months. It's been
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: It was a long distance relationship at first, but I
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: moved to a city three weeks ago. I have an
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: aunt that lives in the same city, and I'm living
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: with her temporarily. My boyfriend gave me a key to
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: his apartment and told me to make myself at home,
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: so I stay with him most of the time. His
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: mother has a key to his apartment too, and she
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: comes and goes as she pleases. She usually stops by
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: after work to have a glass of wine and chill
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: while the traffic dies down. If she doesn't see my
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: boyfriend's car. She comes on in and won't even speak
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: to me. If I've cooked, she'll make a plate. If
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: we have leftovers, she'll make a plate. She doesn't talk
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: to me, and she doesn't ask before she eats our food.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: After a few visits from her, I asked my boyfriend
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: why she only comes by when I'm there by myself.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: He laughed and said that his mother doesn't trust me,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: so she comes to keep an eye on me. I
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: guess she thinks I'm a thief and her son has
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: money hidden in the walls of his tiny, one bedroom apartment.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: I decided to ask her if she had a problem
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: with me, and she got up in my face and
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: told me that I was a stranger and did nobody
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: he tell me to move to her city and try
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: to marry her son. While she talked, she was spitting
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: food particles my way from between her spaced out brown's teeth.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: My boyfriend walked in in the nick of time. I
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: told him his mom had one more time to ignore
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: me in his home and eat something I cooked or
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: bought without asking. He agreed with me and asked his
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: mama to give him his house, but she refused to
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: he's been joking about his mom jumping on me, and
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: I don't find that funny at all. Should I break
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: up with him? Well, you didn't say it, but you
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: are aware that you have a mama's boy on your hands, right,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, he's been joking about his mom jumping on you,
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: but it's nothing funny about it at all, like you said,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: and so far you've done nothing wrong, but please keep
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: it that way. What you don't want to do is
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: get into a fight with his crazy, disrespectful, rude, bully
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: of a mama, because I know you want to. I
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: know you do. So the next question is what are
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: your plans with him? Is his mom right? Are you
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: trying to marry her son? Is that the goal? If
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: it is, are you sure? Are you sure? His mom
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: is more than a handful and he's got to He's
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: got to be the one to stop her. Mama's boys
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: usually can't or won't do that. Okay, they won't stop
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: their moms. They won't say anything. At Leasi said something,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: but mama's boys usually don't do that. I am glad
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: he talked to her, though, but it didn't do any good.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: What he needs to do is let her know that
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: you are the woman of the house. Now he needs
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: to get his key back from his mom, change the lots,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: whatever he's got to do. And if that doesn't work,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: why don't you move back with your aunt for a while,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: think about getting your own apartment or moving, you know,
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: back to where you came from, breaking up with this guy,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: just moving on with your life, because mama boys usually
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: don't make good husbands. All right, Steve h. First of all,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: this isn't a case of mama's boy. I want to
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: clarify that the definition of a mama's boy, he doesn't
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: fall into that. In this letter, surely you said something
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: very important and you're saying that mama's boys usually don't
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: say anything to the mother. But he did. Well, it's
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: because he's not a mama's boy. He is not. Now
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: his mama is off the check. And what this letter
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: is about is about clearly you have a problem with mama,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: and Mama got a problem with you, and in your estimation,
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: due to the title of the letter, she got one
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: more time. That's all. Now you're moved into town with
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: this man, and nothing wrong with this. You staying with
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: her aunt, nothing wrong with that. You gotta keep your
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: boyfriend's house. Say nothing wrong with that. You stay over
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: there a lot. The problem is she, the mother in law,
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: has a key to the department too. Now this happened
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: before you got that problem. And she usually stops by
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: after work with her glass of wine and chill while
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: the traffic dies down. If she don't see my boyfriend's car,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: she come on in. It won't even speak to me
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: if I've cooked. Now here we go. This is what
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: we're dealing with. Because this is gonna help you when
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: you get to the last part of this letter. If
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: I've cooked, she'll make a plate. If we have leftovers,
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: she'll make a plate. Now we're dealing with a big
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: girl here now, so you need to wait this into
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: this decision that you're gonna try to making this letter
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: later on. Well you're making place. Oh, she over there
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: to make plays. You know. Big people eat was on
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: the stove. Big people eat what's in the fridge. Big
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: people eat what's in fall. Big people with thought stuff
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: out in your freezing to get it ready. Big people
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: know how to work the defrost button on the microwave.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: You know, I've never done that in my life. I've
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: never put anything in the microwave to defrost. But big
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: people do work from big people know how to do it.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: Big people know how to defrost stuff in no time.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of things, and one more thing big
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: people do not have. Aur fries. I found that our
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: truth truth. All right, we'll have part two of Steve's
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters, Jack, She's got one more Time. We'll
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening hard
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject She's Got one more Time. Well,
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  Speaker 1: this letter one more Time is coming from a woman
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  Speaker 1: who has this boyfriend that she's moved into town to
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  Speaker 1: be closer to. And she's been staying with an aunt
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  Speaker 1: in that time. But he gave a key to his
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  Speaker 1: one bedroom apartment and the problem is she stays over
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  Speaker 1: there a lot, but his mother had a key to
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  Speaker 1: the department too. Now hit the deal. She's been staying
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  Speaker 1: over the often cooking and stuff like that, but the
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  Speaker 1: mama stops by even if she don't see the boardfriend's
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  Speaker 1: car the driveway, and she'll come on in anyway. And
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  Speaker 1: won't even speak to the girl that's in the house.
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  Speaker 1: She will eat and make a plate. And if we
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  Speaker 1: have left over, she'll make a plate. So what I've
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  Speaker 1: come to the conclusion is in my own conclusionary way,
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  Speaker 1: it's just a big girl, because that's what big people do.
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  Speaker 1: They make plates, They make plates, They do things you
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  Speaker 1: don't do. Here's another clue that just a big person.
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  Speaker 1: They can work the defrost button on the microwave. I've
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  Speaker 1: never done that before. I don't even know how to
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  Speaker 1: do it. Everything I do frosts, I put in the
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  Speaker 1: sink in some water. That's you. Well, I'm just telling you.
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  Speaker 1: Big people ain't got time for that process. They got
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  Speaker 1: to get this thought out. Now here's another thing I've noticed.
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  Speaker 1: Here's another I can tell this way. If you dealing
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  Speaker 1: with a big person. Big people do not have a friars.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that again, they do not have have friars.
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  Speaker 1: Here's not thing. I'm just giving you a rundown on
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  Speaker 1: big people because this letter ain't bouy nothing. Listen, here's
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  Speaker 1: something else you'll never find in their cupboard. Nothing that
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  Speaker 1: says vegan or paleo. It ain't in there. They don't
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  Speaker 1: need paleo chips. They don't do none of that. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't talk to me, she don't ask me before
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  Speaker 1: she eat our food. And after a few visit for her,
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  Speaker 1: I asked my boyfriend what she only come by when
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  Speaker 1: I'm there by myself. He laughed and said, his mother
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  Speaker 1: don't trust me, so she comes to keep it out
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  Speaker 1: on me. Well, I guess she thinks I'm a thief.
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  Speaker 1: And her son got money hidden in the walls his
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  Speaker 1: tiny little one bed room pop here. So I decided
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  Speaker 1: to ask her she had a problem with me? Here
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  Speaker 1: we go, just what the letter about? Now? She got
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  Speaker 1: up in my face, told me I was a strange
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  Speaker 1: and didn't nobody tell me to move to her city
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  Speaker 1: and try to marry her son. H baby over protective mama.
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  Speaker 1: Here we go. While she talked, she was spitting food
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  Speaker 1: particles my way from between her spaced out brown teeth.
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  Speaker 1: That's because she had gnawed them down and ate them
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  Speaker 1: to death. I'm telling you, this is a big person.
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  Speaker 1: When your teeth is brown, they got spacing them. You
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  Speaker 1: didn't ate them and gnawed them down. They ain't even
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  Speaker 1: regular teeth no more. This is constituewing constantewing, you'd have
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  Speaker 1: spread them out. You push stuff up in between your
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  Speaker 1: teeth and kept eating anyway, and just eventually to separated
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  Speaker 1: your teeth and brown. Now every time she talked, food
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  Speaker 1: coming tween her teeth. This is a big girl now,
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  Speaker 1: so you got to be careful. And your boyfriend walked in,
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  Speaker 1: and the nick of time, she she he walked in
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  Speaker 1: and nickata for you. I've been to tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: I told his mom she got one more time to
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  Speaker 1: ignore me. I told him his mom got one more
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  Speaker 1: time to ignore me in the house and eat something.
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  Speaker 1: I cooked a ball without asking. He agreed with me
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  Speaker 1: and asked his mama to give him the key, but
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  Speaker 1: she refused to. He's been joking about his mom jumping
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  Speaker 1: on me, and I don't find it fun at all.
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  Speaker 1: Should I break up with him? Well, this is the
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  Speaker 1: part you want to avoid, young sister. Do not get
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  Speaker 1: in the fight with the mom. Now, listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: She ain't in good shape because of her way. But
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  Speaker 1: the first twenty seconds though, who she gonna hurt you,
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  Speaker 1: big girl, gonna hurt you with the brown teeth. Put
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  Speaker 1: them spaces. Now, the ain't gonna be a fight. She
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  Speaker 1: gonna whooped this young girl asking this letter. They eventually
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  Speaker 1: young girl can get the best of it. She's wrong
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  Speaker 1: and determine. But for twenty seconds though, she's gonna wish
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  Speaker 1: she had never met his mama because she's gonna put
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  Speaker 1: it on. She got one more time, so she started
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  Speaker 1: whipping your asses with this feather. Looked like to me. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to say that to you, you know,
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  Speaker 1: because I try to be helpful with these Not that's
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  Speaker 1: I've been to save yourself from getting your ass beat
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  Speaker 1: by this old, ragging and mouth, brown tooth woman with
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  Speaker 1: wait issue and loving her son like you fin to
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  Speaker 1: take her baby away from her. You moved to this
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  Speaker 1: town and you're doing your thing. Now your question you have,
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  Speaker 1: and should I break up with him? I don't think
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  Speaker 1: this is worth breaking up. I think you got to
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  Speaker 1: break up with the mama. Now. If he's not gonna
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  Speaker 1: help you break up with the mama, then you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to let break up with not him, You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to break up with them. Start staying over yonds
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  Speaker 1: house until he get it together. Don't come back, you
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  Speaker 1: might you're gonna end up moving back to the city
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  Speaker 1: you came from. Yes, she is all right. Post your
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at forty six minutes after. It's Sports Talk
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  Speaker 1: with Junior. Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time now for Junior and
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  Speaker 1: Sports Talk. What you got Junior? Al right off? How
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  Speaker 1: to go yesterday? I tell on the green on the course. Man, Well,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: you know, we took third place yesterday the second golf tournament. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: this is the big one with the most players in it.
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  Speaker 1: And yesterday we took third place, which was big, man.
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  Speaker 1: But I forgot to put on suntan lotion on my arm.
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  Speaker 1: My moms is itching this morning. I didn't burned my
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  Speaker 1: skin out, that stupid ass. Just like I'm standing out
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: there like I'm quite man, standing out here like white
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: like you him. Yeah, that's too late now, man, By
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: the time said, by the time Sunday get here, is
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: gonna look like a lizard. Yeah. N Also, NFL news
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  Speaker 1: man Deshaun Watson spoke out the other day apologized for
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: bringing native attention to the city of Cleveland and the
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: Cleveland Browns and his family. And he also ended with
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: he is innocent of all charges. Also, the next thing,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: you know, Baker Mayfield and the Browns is agreed to
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: excuse Baker from training camp Bakery. He doesn't want to
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  Speaker 1: play in Cleveland, and this is yeah, I mean, he
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: may don't want to play, but HiT's the thing. But
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: they mutually agreed to spip. But hit the thing. With
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: everything going up with the Seaun watch, you would think
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: that Baker Will could be the backup. Says he knows
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: the team. I don't know why, little girl, but they
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: did so they don't even want that. You say they
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: released the Baker. No, no, no, they excuse him from Kim.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: He's still in the roster. Oh he's just boy. Yeah,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: he's still he wants to be traded. Yeah, well, and
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: that's gonna happen. They don't want him, right yeah, and
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: while and why would he go somewhere to be the
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: backup on the team that don't want him. That's not
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  Speaker 1: good for the locker room. And we don't give a
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: damn what Baker talking about. You know, we wouldn't got
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: to Sean Watson. Now, I'm just sorry, but I happened
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: to I think something's going on with this trial with
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: him and I and I am in the innocent to
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: prove and guilty mode, and it is just too much
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: garbage in him. How you get go to grand jury
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: and now are no nothing, no evidence at all to
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: bring about a charge of this man. Something else that's
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: going on him? Man, all right, game six to night?
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  Speaker 1: Do we have a champion or we got a game seven? No,
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: you're gonna game seth oh man. But I'll know it is.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: They've beat them boards without Steph Curry last time, Steph
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: Finnihad two games like that. No, I can't see it.
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  Speaker 1: Half Tatum got to have a good game. Oh Tatum
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  Speaker 1: better be explosive. Yea, all right, junior, thank you. Coming
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  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, a lady on
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  Speaker 1: Facebook has a social dilemma. She's being told what to
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: bring to the barbecue and she doesn't like that. We'll
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: talk about it right after this. You're listening show. All right,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: here's a question from Facebook guys. Michelle wrote, Juneteenth and
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: Father's Day are both this weekend. There will be plenty
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  Speaker 1: of celebrations, and I'm invited to a few barbecues and
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: I'm always happy to bring something for the party, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm sick of hosts giving me specific instructions on what
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  Speaker 1: to bring. I guess that they don't want a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of overlap with what guests bring, but I also think
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  Speaker 1: it should be my choice on what I want to contribute.
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  Speaker 1: They always ask me to bring the potato salad, and
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: sometimes I'm just not in the mood to make potato salad.
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot of work. I would rather just pick
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  Speaker 1: up something simple from the store instead of spending time cooking.
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  Speaker 1: Steve in the Morning Crew, Am I wrong for feeling
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: this way? Guests have a say and what they contribute. No,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: that's a privilege, ain't well. I'm just saying, if you,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: if you potato salad on if we really don't like
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: everybody acting about the potato salad, that's true. But here's
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: the other side of the two. They don't like the
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: other stuff you've been baking that they didn't work it
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: out over the years. Hey, just put her put her
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  Speaker 1: own potato salad. Come on now, because she know how
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: to do that. Because I wash y'all here when she
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: made the baked being cast on anybody saying baked meat
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: and catch bro see did you see, how was that?
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  Speaker 1: Did you like that? No? No, did you like did
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: you did you like her real bomelet? Did you like that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: When she bought the other year that brisket pipe, did
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: everybody like the brisket pipe? Let her ass, braines potato salad?
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  Speaker 1: Don't let her do nothing else? And what about? What about?
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  Speaker 1: What about when she was vegan? Did you remember that?
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  Speaker 1: And she and she bought everybody them slow sandwiches? Remember that?
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  Speaker 1: Did ya? Did? Y'all? Okay, No, get her ass the
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  Speaker 1: brainy potato salad, damn slow sandwich in here with all
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: this barbecue sauce. I kept biting into it, thinking I
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  Speaker 1: was missing the meat. Purpose I thought the straw bed
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  Speaker 1: letter Mama was here and she was biting through and
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: just missing meat with them spaces and her teeth. It
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  Speaker 1: just wasn't no damn meat on that at all. This
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: is when that, This is when you know they don't
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  Speaker 1: want you around the food. Just bring some ice dogs,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: just bring some plates and yeah, fine with that, go ahead. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So what don't you want to see coming to the barbecue? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Who who don't you want to see? Who? Who don't
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: you want to see? Man? Cousin who junior. I love
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: your family, your husins man. I mean you know, you
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: know he got out of jail, but every time he
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: talked to me, he's over in the shade. It's always
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: dog herey come on, let me, I let you bring
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  Speaker 1: your family have been in jail. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: talk to nobody in the corner and the dog talk out.
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  Speaker 1: Head to the light where everybody can hear potential over stage.
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, Hey man, I gotta lead on this keylough
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  Speaker 1: man dog, what did you say? I got a deal
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: on this keylo You think about a little key low
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  Speaker 1: dog dog? That ain't what I do? Hey man, do
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: you know actually asked somebody ask me something like that phone?
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: Hey man, Look, I know you don't get down like this,
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  Speaker 1: but man, I'm gonna get your money back. I said, bro,
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  Speaker 1: what you need? Look, man, I'm gonna get your money
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: by said brother, How are you gonna get my money
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: back by Friday? I'm this dope, I said, I can't
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: give you no money on that hold on dog dog.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: So you just said if I need some comty, damn
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: you come to me with this. Ain't nobody got to
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: know what you give me? The money fault I know,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm not gonna get tired into this. No
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  Speaker 1: kind of way, sir. Where did you get the money
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: for these key loads? Key Harvey Man, No, you did right.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be in this. No cards away. Oh
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  Speaker 1: damn dog, I thought you was down. You don't even
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: help a brother out. I'm trying to help you stay
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: out of prison. You're stupid ass. You just got out
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: two years ago. I can't find oh man. All right,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, congratulations, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: This Father's Day weekend is the Stephen Marjorie Harvey Mentoring
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  Speaker 1: camp for young men at the Harvey Legacy Ranch later today,
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  Speaker 1: later today. Well, no, it won't no, no, it's at
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  Speaker 1: Camp Grace this year. Okay, all right, I don't have
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  Speaker 1: the ranch in shape yet. You know the ranch I bought,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: it's been closed for three years because of that ranch? Though?
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  Speaker 1: Which one the one you just bought at? Remember? Any
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: more questions? After? What? Mmm? So Steve tell us about
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: the camp? I mean there maybe some people who don't
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: know about your mentoring camp. What is it all about?
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  Speaker 1: Though it's a camp, the boys camp is for fathers.
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  Speaker 1: Boys they're not fatherless, but they don't have fathers in
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: their lives, and they're being raised by single mothers or
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: single women or women in their family, single mothers that
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  Speaker 1: need help or raising these boys. And so you give
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: them to me for four or five days and we
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: instill certain values in them, and we talk to them
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: about manhood and dreams. This year's focus is the dream.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: We have a theme this year, the dream. That's so important.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: When you're dealing with boys. You have to find out
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  Speaker 1: what their ultimate dream is. Because the dream cannot be
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: to be a gang banger. The dream cannot be to
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  Speaker 1: set it out for your sets today. Yeah, up at
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll do a round
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: off would you rather? Right after this you're listening, all right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: time now for another round of would you rather? Would
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  Speaker 1: you rather never ever have to get tired or never
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: ever have to go to the bathroom? Which one never
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: get tired? I got ain't, yeah, I got I enjoy
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: going to the bath I got TV computer in my
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: bath room. I enjoyed I to do People don't know
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: who I am. I enjoyed. I enjoyed the feeling of
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: going to the bathroom. I gotta built in water sprayed,
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: but day I got yeah, you know no, it's enjoyable
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: for me. And now I like the feeling of being
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: in the bathroom. Didn't there naked, ain't got no toes on,
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: I see got a heat on it? What you know?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Well, thank you, junior. No, I just I
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: never want to never get tired man going to bathrooms.
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  Speaker 1: I'd just setting that bathroom to my legs and went
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  Speaker 1: to sleep. And how long were you in there? I'm
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: talking got up and just fell into the dough so long?
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: Got him? Just ain't had no leg All right? Moving on?
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have no one show up to your
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: wedding or no one show up to your funeral? To
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: the I was funeral pack. I need I need someone.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: I need some acknowledgement, remarked, building shut down, you know yeah,
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about the funeral procession. Any minutes shut down
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: on the car sold out? All right? Would you would
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: you rather have your own private jet or your own
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: private island? Well, we're gonna get to the island if
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: we ain't got the damn gent you can't land it, gentlemen. Yeah,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: no island. I'm gonna get Alan. I'm gonna get a
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: big island, all right. Last one, Would you rather sit
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: near the printer or sitting near the water cooler? Sitting
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: near the printer? Yeah, either way, I'm doing bad. I
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: don't like the water cooler and I'm working in world.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Remember cool work out of an officer. Hear all of
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: the video. They ain't got no bottle water? All right,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: that's today's rounded. Would you I ain't have an assistant?
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: Go get this prison that's coming up in forty nine
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll close out the show with
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: our last break, and of course Steve will have some
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: closing remarks that you don't want to miss right after this.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, guys. Here we are, last break
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  Speaker 1: of the day on this Thursday, last break of the
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  Speaker 1: day as we head into Father's Day weekend, June tenth weekend. Steve,
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  Speaker 1: you know what my clothes remarks that day. I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to all talk about, oh what this thing call fatherhood
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  Speaker 1: and manhood has been for a lot of men out
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  Speaker 1: there listening. And I don't claim to be the spokesperson
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  Speaker 1: for fatherhood and man who But I have mastered manhood.
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  Speaker 1: I have a PhD in manhood. You can't get any
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  Speaker 1: more degreed or thorough into manhood as me. I don't
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  Speaker 1: care who you are. There's not a man living who
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  Speaker 1: can tell me anything about manhood, not manhood. I'm sorry. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you can tell me about some situations in manhood. You can,
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  Speaker 1: I can, I'm always capable of learning. But ain't nothing
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  Speaker 1: else about manhood you can tell me. And most men
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  Speaker 1: that have been around this long will tell you the
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  Speaker 1: same thing. I have a master's PhD. I'm magnum coom lotty,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm, I'm all of that. I'm the what's that word?
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  Speaker 1: I don't never get right to Valdevik? What is that dictorian? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was a valor Victorian like victory. I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was a valid victory in the whole time.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was that the whole time, because I
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  Speaker 1: wasn't gonna get it. So anyway, when it comes to manhood,
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  Speaker 1: I'm that, I really am. It has been an honor
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  Speaker 1: to be a man for many of us. It has
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  Speaker 1: been an honor and a privilege to be a father.
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  Speaker 1: It has been an honor to be a husband. See,
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  Speaker 1: I'm involved in all three aspects of manhood, husband, father,
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  Speaker 1: and man. I'm in all three, and I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: you something. Being a man is hard. Now, ladies, when
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  Speaker 1: I say this is not to say that womanhood isn't
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  Speaker 1: because I know nothing about being a woman, and from
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  Speaker 1: my very bird point view, it looks hard to me.
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  Speaker 1: It looks, Oh my God. And I'm not just saying
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  Speaker 1: it because we got a lot of women listening. Being
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  Speaker 1: a woman looks really, really hard to me. I really
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  Speaker 1: don't know how you're doing. Childbirth is unthinkable. How you
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  Speaker 1: deal with men and all that come with us, that's
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  Speaker 1: a whole nother level. And then you put a baby
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  Speaker 1: in the mix, and motherhood were a womanhood looks extremely difficult.
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  Speaker 1: So please know when I talk about the difficulties of
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  Speaker 1: manhood is not comparing the two. But manhood is hard
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  Speaker 1: and it comes with some things, and even though it
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  Speaker 1: has been an honor and the privilege for being a man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something right here, you. I was
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  Speaker 1: talking to Charlemagne to God the other day and I
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  Speaker 1: met his wife for the first time twenty four years,
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  Speaker 1: and I looked at him, and she was standing there.
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  Speaker 1: We have been talking. But then later on that night
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  Speaker 1: I saw him again and we were talking and I said, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: I see why you are who you are, and she
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  Speaker 1: started smiling. I said, the success comes from you, my brother,
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  Speaker 1: but you're great comes from her. See I've discovered this.
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  Speaker 1: You can be a successful man, you really can. And
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  Speaker 1: you can sign a contract, you can get a career,
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  Speaker 1: you can get your degrees. You can become a successful man.
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  Speaker 1: But you will never be a great man without a woman.
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  Speaker 1: There all know great men without women. I don't know any.
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  Speaker 1: And if you can come up with the one that
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  Speaker 1: you think is great without a woman, you know, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but there was a woman somewhere involved in his existence.
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  Speaker 1: You cannot become a great man without a woman. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something about this thing called manhood.
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  Speaker 1: You can't really know what manhood entails until you attach
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  Speaker 1: yourself and all that comes with it to a family.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, if you want to come see what
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  Speaker 1: manhood really is, attach yourself to a family, brother, And
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  Speaker 1: I mean, do it the right way. Attach yourself to
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  Speaker 1: a woman and some children, and do it the right
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  Speaker 1: way and watch and see what happens. If you think
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  Speaker 1: manhood is hard, and it is. If you think manhood
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  Speaker 1: is challenging and has a bunch of difficulties in it
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  Speaker 1: and some bunch of tests that's hard to pass, you're
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  Speaker 1: absolutely right. But if you think that's what it is,
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  Speaker 1: I got some more news for you. If you really
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  Speaker 1: want to experience real manhood and see what manhood is
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  Speaker 1: all about, attach it to a family. Be responsible for
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  Speaker 1: the welfare of a wife and some children, or just
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  Speaker 1: be responsible for the welfare of a woman and children.
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  Speaker 1: She ain't even got to be your wife. But take
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  Speaker 1: on the real manhood responsibility of caring for somebody more
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  Speaker 1: than you care for yourself. That's the true measure of man,
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  Speaker 1: when you love someone more than you love yourself. Now
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  Speaker 1: you messing around with what manhood really is. You got
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  Speaker 1: to have a baby that you would die for, a
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  Speaker 1: baby somewhere that you would kill somebody about. Now you
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  Speaker 1: understand what manhood is. So as we approach Father's Day
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  Speaker 1: and manhood being all that it is, is important this
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  Speaker 1: Father's Day as a whole nother thing. If you all
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  Speaker 1: father get to doing your job, there are no excuses allowed.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Get to doing your job as a father,
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  Speaker 1: no matter what that means or what it takes, by
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  Speaker 1: any means necessary. Y'all have a great one. Hey, listen,
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  Speaker 1: talk to God, y'all. He would absolutely love to hear
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