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Holiday Sidepiece Advice, Truth Be Told Funerals, Food Mixing, Sister O'dell and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know, y'all back
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  Speaker 1: all suit on the back down, giving them more like
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  Speaker 1: the milking buck things in its tubbles. Good it Steve
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  Speaker 1: listening to movie together for stun Please Moby, I don't
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  Speaker 1: join ya, join me in doing me. Honey. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: turn you gotta turn the turnow, got to turn them
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  Speaker 1: out to turn the water the water go. Come come
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  Speaker 1: on your back. Uh huh, I shall will oh, good morning, everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now.
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  Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man,
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  Speaker 1: If if I had time enough to tell the whole trip,
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  Speaker 1: the whole journey, and y'all would be sitting up in
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  Speaker 1: there going okay to Steve, are we gonna play the
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  Speaker 1: show this week? But man, it's been a lot of
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  Speaker 1: amazing things has happened to me over the years, and
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  Speaker 1: not all of them good. It's been some amazingly bad
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  Speaker 1: things that have happened too. But I just come on
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  Speaker 1: in the morning as a reminder to everybody of the
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  Speaker 1: actual goodness of God, that you know, man, that these
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  Speaker 1: mistakes that you're making, that these setbacks that you keep having,
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  Speaker 1: that these falls that keep occurring in your life, that
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  Speaker 1: they all are leading you somewhere. If you just don't
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  Speaker 1: ever give up. That's the key. You can never ever
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  Speaker 1: give up because you don't know how the trip has
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  Speaker 1: been laid out for you. You know, if somebody had
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  Speaker 1: told me years ago when I had the dream of
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  Speaker 1: being on TV and then I thought about being a
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  Speaker 1: one of one of the best comedians I could be,
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  Speaker 1: you know, when I when I started, somebody had told
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  Speaker 1: me everything that was gonna have to happen in order
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  Speaker 1: for me to get there, I would have changed it.
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  Speaker 1: I would have I would have said, Okay, well I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be that. How about this? See and no
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  Speaker 1: one can know all of the events of their life
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  Speaker 1: ahead of time. You know, it'd be so nice, wouldn't it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, to prepare for it, see it coming, be
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  Speaker 1: aware of the haters, always knowing when the backstabbing moment
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  Speaker 1: is coming in your life, always knowing when you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get blindsided by the enemy. We are really great to
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  Speaker 1: know that, wouldn't it. Well, that's not how it works.
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  Speaker 1: So since no one knows exactly the challenges and the
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  Speaker 1: pitfalls and the detools that's going to be set them.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's it's imperative that you just don't give up
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  Speaker 1: because see, knowing these things, we as human beings by nature,
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  Speaker 1: would choose another route. But it ain't the route God
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  Speaker 1: God for you, though, See the route God God for you.
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  Speaker 1: If you if you're trying to do the right thing,
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  Speaker 1: if you're doing the best you can, if you ain't
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  Speaker 1: out here just intentionally just messing over, folks. If you
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  Speaker 1: use in faith and that's the belief in things that
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  Speaker 1: you cannot see, If you have something on the inside
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  Speaker 1: of you to keep saying there's got to be more
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  Speaker 1: to life than that, then that's that's you. You, my friend,
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  Speaker 1: have a great chance here. And if you've ever had
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  Speaker 1: that feeling then gave up on it, just get it back,
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  Speaker 1: just ask for it back, Just say, hey man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting back to the way I used to be because
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  Speaker 1: there's a change that's available in your life. But you
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  Speaker 1: gotta take it. You gotta take a shot at it. Folks.
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  Speaker 1: There's a chance for you to get it right, but
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  Speaker 1: you gotta take a shot at it. Folks. There's a
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  Speaker 1: chance for you to turn this whole thing around with
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  Speaker 1: God's help, but you gotta take a shot at it.
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  Speaker 1: You see, this decision is yours. The decision to lay
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  Speaker 1: down and give up, that's yours. It ain't. It just
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  Speaker 1: got too hard for me, life too much, man, life
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  Speaker 1: hard and too much for everybody. What I gotta get
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  Speaker 1: you to See, my father used to always tell me,
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  Speaker 1: He says, son, best lessons in life to burn your
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  Speaker 1: value and learn the most is a balt lesson. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't quite understand that being young, but I showed God
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  Speaker 1: it Now ain't no lesson like a bout lesson, the
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  Speaker 1: one you pay for the old. Those are the ones
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  Speaker 1: that hold to you, that stick to you, that that
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  Speaker 1: that started turning you into who you're gonna be. Those
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  Speaker 1: are the character builders. See, you got to be forged
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  Speaker 1: to get to where you want to go in life.
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  Speaker 1: So that's what the challenges and missteps is for. That's
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  Speaker 1: what the failing is about. Now, I know you don't
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  Speaker 1: like it. I didn't. I know you're not comfortable with
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I know you wish it was over sooner
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  Speaker 1: than later. I always do. I always wanted to be
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  Speaker 1: over sooner than later, because the later manager seems like
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  Speaker 1: it's so much I gotta go through. But let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something, Man, if you can, if you can
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  Speaker 1: forge your way through it and understand that you are
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  Speaker 1: forged in life, I don't know. I was on TBN
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  Speaker 1: one time when I was doing one of my motivational speeches,
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  Speaker 1: and I began to wonder about this experience I had.
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  Speaker 1: It Ford Motor Company and my last job after the
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  Speaker 1: auto industry started going down, my last job was in
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  Speaker 1: the fountry and my job was to stand at the
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  Speaker 1: end almost where the engines first come out of the furnace. See,
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  Speaker 1: the engines are poured into a mold. It's hot, melted
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  Speaker 1: down metal whatever they call it, lava or whatever. They
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  Speaker 1: poured into a mole and it goes into this furnace
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  Speaker 1: that's extremely hot. And my job was after the heat
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  Speaker 1: was applied to the engine block, it would come through
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  Speaker 1: and it would go through a hardening stage. But the
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  Speaker 1: way it was hardening, they would cool it. Suddenly they
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  Speaker 1: would flush it with water. It was just blast water
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  Speaker 1: on it. But the fire and the high temperature is
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  Speaker 1: what made the engine block solidify. It's because it's gotta
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  Speaker 1: get real hot, get melted down first. Then it's got
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  Speaker 1: to get poured into a mole. Then it's gotta be pressure,
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  Speaker 1: hit with water and all of this, and then and
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  Speaker 1: it's real hot. Now it's still hot even though its
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  Speaker 1: water been shutter. But when it comes out the end
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  Speaker 1: of the side, there's a lot of flashing in it.
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  Speaker 1: And flashing is a metal from that didn't dripped through
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  Speaker 1: the cast molding on it, just like flecks of extra
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  Speaker 1: pieces of metal. My job was to hit this engine
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  Speaker 1: block in the front, which is huge, heavy rubber mallet,
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  Speaker 1: knock all the flashing off the front, and when it
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  Speaker 1: came around back to bam, hit it real hard again
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  Speaker 1: on the backside. And that became the core of what
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  Speaker 1: the car is. A car without a great engine is nothing.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a pretty looking vehicle over there. But if
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  Speaker 1: it can't do what it was made to do because
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  Speaker 1: the engine block then cracked. So you can have a
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  Speaker 1: car look real good, but if it freezes an engine
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  Speaker 1: block crack your car, you can it's over man. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta get a new block. The block is the core.
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  Speaker 1: But in order for you for the car to do
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  Speaker 1: what it's got to do, it's gotta have a strong
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  Speaker 1: engine in it. In order for the engine to be strong,
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  Speaker 1: it's got to be forged and Steell come through fire,
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  Speaker 1: get poured in a mole, cooled off, heated, knocked around,
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  Speaker 1: beat on the front end, beat on the back end,
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  Speaker 1: in order for it to be what it's gonna be.
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  Speaker 1: The moral of the story, folks, is you got to
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  Speaker 1: get forged in fire to be what you gonna be.
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  Speaker 1: You got to get beat up, you got to get
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  Speaker 1: pressure washed, you got to have heat on you, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta get melted down, you gotta get poured into a mole.
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  Speaker 1: That's how you become who you are. So the tough
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  Speaker 1: things that you're going through, the difficult challenges and the setbacks.
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  Speaker 1: I know a brother who went to prison, man, And
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  Speaker 1: the whole reason he ended up going to prison because
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  Speaker 1: he was looking out the loot window, looking out in
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  Speaker 1: the yard at him working out. And then the next
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  Speaker 1: thing you know, man, this brother decided that he was
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  Speaker 1: gonna go out there and work out. Well, guess what,
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  Speaker 1: he's one of the top trainers in country today. You're listening,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, have your attention, please, this is Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 1: Crew cutting up doing your morning their food, big dog
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  Speaker 1: in the building, got your everbody in la Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: check and make sure Junior has this coffee. I was
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  Speaker 1: just checking because Monica was supposed to put the cream
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  Speaker 1: and sugar in their Steve. I didn't know the relationship
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  Speaker 1: was that way what they just got into a major
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  Speaker 1: argument about creating I was listening. I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 1: I thought they had more of a all you know,
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  Speaker 1: co worker existed. This sound like something would like a
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  Speaker 1: relationship Tennis. Yeah, the hell is your coffee yet? Exactly
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  Speaker 1: your clothes? He shut the room down with that. We're
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  Speaker 1: working on it, all right, work it, But I'm not
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  Speaker 1: playing about my coffee though every morning it's the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: But who you're talking to like that? Yeah? Wait, get
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  Speaker 1: it though? She be over there. Just grinny. You better
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  Speaker 1: take care of you, man. Yeah, she ain't got a problem.
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  Speaker 1: Come getting nail money and stay done. And you know
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  Speaker 1: she is about her now. You know, I've never seen
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  Speaker 1: all these years i've known Monica, missip Monica, she never
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  Speaker 1: them herself. Yeah, she's good. She can doing herself. I
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  Speaker 1: can't do. Really, I can't get down. She's staying in
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  Speaker 1: the line. Oh yeah, that's what I'm saying. She looks
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  Speaker 1: like I did. I ain't don't draw outside the line. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but it's something with those. I don't know what it is,
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  Speaker 1: but it's something. Cough. You gotta know you're good. I'm
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  Speaker 1: good man, I'm here. What we're doing? Well, I show
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  Speaker 1: I did I put something in the microwave? I cooked?
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  Speaker 1: Sup Surely putting something in the microwave to heat it
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  Speaker 1: is not cooking. It's in the kitchen, thank you. It's
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  Speaker 1: here in the studio in a machine that heats stuff up.
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  Speaker 1: As far as I'm concerned cooking at in my world,
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  Speaker 1: that's cooking, thank you, all right. Thirty two after we'll
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right? So, um Jay, you
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  Speaker 1: when Steve came up? What is this all about? This segment?
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  Speaker 1: No better than there's certain things over the holidays when
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  Speaker 1: the holidays happened. You can pretty much bet money that
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  Speaker 1: some of these things are going to happen. Is that right, Steve?
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  Speaker 1: I mean somebody's house. It's somebody's house, all right. Might
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  Speaker 1: not happen at your house? One of these, I promise you,
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  Speaker 1: one of these. It's gonna happen over the holiday at
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  Speaker 1: your house. Okay, let's hear it. Come on, I'm ready
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  Speaker 1: on dinner. Dinner will get interrupted at somebody's house because
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  Speaker 1: we gotta go get somebody out of Jake. Yeah, that's yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Can I finish eating? I just made my place. You
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  Speaker 1: hear somebody in the house that I'll accept? Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: Here's here's something else. The new boyfriend, somebody's new boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: gonna get beat up by the babycause somebody else. You
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  Speaker 1: thought that all this gonna happen, but you can that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna go down. Wow, they shouldn't be in the same room.
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  Speaker 1: She ain't never leaving me. She never leaves me. He
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  Speaker 1: stepped down when she got with you. Here's another a
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  Speaker 1: family secret. He's gonna get told. A real dad freading
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  Speaker 1: them should have been told. There's another that's gonna happen
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  Speaker 1: if somebody's house, Maybe not your, but that will be
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  Speaker 1: a fight over the drumstick going down. Oh yeah, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know I told you I wanted the leg I
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  Speaker 1: call that boy even left the house. You know, we
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  Speaker 1: be somebody who ain't working grabbing. Nobody ain't brought a
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  Speaker 1: damn thing. He ain't got no job. One chick gonna
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  Speaker 1: show up at the house with the new board friend
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  Speaker 1: that's doing way better, got her old when people walk
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  Speaker 1: this gonna happening somebody's house. She's gonna show up pregnant again. Yea,
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  Speaker 1: you make some baby, she can make them little baby
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  Speaker 1: on every black house. Go ahead. Somebody gonna show up
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  Speaker 1: dressed like they going to a qualms apart. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: we'll get man, we don't understand. Ain't you hot? Now?
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  Speaker 1: He got attitude? Yeah? Somebody got show up at your
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  Speaker 1: house that's been eating meat their whole life, not that vegan.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, disgusted with all the dishes. Yeah yeah, me yes,
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  Speaker 1: turkey in the greens because half of we stopped putting park.
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  Speaker 1: We upgraded that Jett happened. Come on, some of the
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  Speaker 1: women gonna have to circle around because he didn't bought
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  Speaker 1: the white girl over. Oh, and they all gonna have
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  Speaker 1: to come to the conclusion, is frying. Yeah you might
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  Speaker 1: be white, she might be white. She fine. And when
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  Speaker 1: you get all that rump fundam a fake m a
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  Speaker 1: fake twit my side. She get it what you say, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that ain't real. You know that ain't real white? She finds.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I'll take a guess it might not happening.
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  Speaker 1: All those things that's gonna happen, It's gonna happen somebody
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  Speaker 1: through And he's thinking right now, I'll tell you something,
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  Speaker 1: milk gonna happen. What somebody Christmas tree gonna catch on
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  Speaker 1: fire to change these lights all on the tree always
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  Speaker 1: herman hair. Somebody somebody gonna put the wrong gift in
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  Speaker 1: the wrong box. You did, man, you ever wrapped up something?
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  Speaker 1: My drunk as uncle did this. He wrapped up his
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  Speaker 1: shirt and gave it to my daddy. And when my
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  Speaker 1: daddy opened the box, my daddy said, oh man, this night,
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  Speaker 1: Oh hell no, hold on, I didn't get you the
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  Speaker 1: wrong sh that's must shirt my daddy said when you
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  Speaker 1: gave it to me. Now it's gonna go down like
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  Speaker 1: happy holiday. Ready, something else gonna happen to somebody. Tooth
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  Speaker 1: gonna fall into food that's nasty, y'all. Each slow, each slow, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: don't take these teeth out there like that americ. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Things that will definitely happen over the holiday. Somebody gonna
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  Speaker 1: knock the dressing on the floor. Hell gonna. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to show. It's time to run that frank back, trimper casket,
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  Speaker 1: trimper cast. Look around the room. When it's well, I
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  Speaker 1: need confirmation from somebody to triple cast, run that cat,
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  Speaker 1: triple casts mortuary. Help you are you cap? How you doing?
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: My name is Brandon Man, Brandon Giles. Um. I'm calling.
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  Speaker 1: We've got somebody that has passed actually three people passed away.
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  Speaker 1: I thank you for that, man. It was kind of expected,
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  Speaker 1: so you know, it wasn't something that caught us off guard.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, but all in all, you know, we're
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  Speaker 1: still grieving about losing our loved ones. But but I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to give you all a call. We're trying to
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  Speaker 1: um pick a particular funeral home on who we want
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  Speaker 1: to take care of the services? Yes, yes, sir, yes, sir, okay,
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  Speaker 1: we can definitely help you with that. And uh, once again,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to to you know, just let you
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  Speaker 1: know that we can pretty much do the whole game
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  Speaker 1: that we can make sure that you're need to take
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  Speaker 1: them from you know, from from now on. Um, we're
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  Speaker 1: here for you showing to get that out. What is
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  Speaker 1: your main need? You said three people? Sir? Yes, yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to bring attention to you. Do you guys
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  Speaker 1: customize casks? Yes, we do, goal plating, uh, engraving. We
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  Speaker 1: even have a new thing where we can put the
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  Speaker 1: picture of the person on the outside like a semigloss coating.
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  Speaker 1: We have a couple of ours. Yeah, I don't I
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  Speaker 1: don't need that all. No goal or nothing like that. Listen, listen,
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  Speaker 1: what I want to do. Is it any way that
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  Speaker 1: you could maybe customize a asket that can accommodate three people? Um?
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  Speaker 1: Uh yes, like we we can. We can customize each
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  Speaker 1: individual casket for each individual. No, no, no, no, Calvin,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to ask. What I'm saying is if
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  Speaker 1: I want to like like I like I said, deep,
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  Speaker 1: my could they was all close? You know, I don't
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  Speaker 1: have a problem with all three of them being in
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  Speaker 1: the same casket. I get you, um uh to you know,
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  Speaker 1: to my knowledge is as far as I've been in
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  Speaker 1: this business, I've never uh, I'm not really sure we
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  Speaker 1: can actually do that. I mean, I mean, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: but what's the problem if we can get them all
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  Speaker 1: in there and well serve I mean, I think that's
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  Speaker 1: a I don't even think if for one, it's legal
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  Speaker 1: in this state or any state, three people in one casket,
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  Speaker 1: um and ethics wise, I uh, that's not really something
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  Speaker 1: that how can I say that we actually you know,
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  Speaker 1: but if you customizing a casket, Calvin, then you ought
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  Speaker 1: to be able to put as many people in there,
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  Speaker 1: if you make it deep enough and wide enough. I
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  Speaker 1: ought to be able to get three people in there, right. Well,
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  Speaker 1: the customization is is the outer side of the casket
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  Speaker 1: and maybe you know, some people even put TV screens
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  Speaker 1: on the inside or some of their is they're they're
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  Speaker 1: loved ones, memorable mementos. We customize it for that, you know. Colorwise,
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  Speaker 1: So what about when when is a person real big
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  Speaker 1: h you know, a heavy said person. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: got to have a casket that can accommodate them, right, yes,
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  Speaker 1: But okay, so so you ought to be able to
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  Speaker 1: put you ought to be able to put three people
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  Speaker 1: in one casket if they can fit, if you put
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  Speaker 1: two one way in one the other other way, then
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  Speaker 1: you ought to be able to have all three of
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  Speaker 1: them in there at one time. Um, is there anybody
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: else around you and your family that can help talk
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  Speaker 1: with me about this? I'm talking right now. I'm trying
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: to get I'm trying to accommodate my cousins and get
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: them straight. And I'm asking you can we get them
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: in a casket, that one casket that can accommodate three people.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: If you put two pillars on money in one pillars,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: that's not something we're really that ain't just used to doing, Calvin.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: But I'm calling you telling you that's the way I
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: want this customize. Man. All right, brother, look brother, brother,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: just just chill out with customs, all right. So we're
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: trying to get three people, Yea, I have a standard plan,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: It'll be a low end standard plan for three individual caskets.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: We ain't gotta we all have enough money for three
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: individual caskets. I keep telling you that we got room
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: for one casket. We just need to big enough, man,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: so you could get everybody in. Then close the dope.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I'm not, I'm not. I don't want to go back
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: and forth with you, sir. I know this is a time.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Then go. You ain't gotta go back and forth with me.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: Building to our knees. I can bear my fami. It's
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I don't really know what to tell you, sir, but
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I'm just really trying to help. I'm trying. Won't you
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: tell me you're gonna get three people in the casket
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: looking good. We cannot do that. You houling that. Man,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I'm the one going through bereathing. I understand that. But
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: you are you're you're you use the foul language. We
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: can't do it, brother, you hear me, not not. That's
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: no hold on my cousin. Them said they wanted to
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: be No, sir, No okay. Look, I'm look may man,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: y'all gonna bury these three people, and you're gonna put
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: all three of them in the same damn casket. Man,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: two two on, one on one end and one on
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: the other. One. Man, sir, if you're drinking, just ain't nobody.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, man, Let me say this
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: to you. Your name Calvin, right, yes, yes, okay, so Calvin, Calvin,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: let me say this to you. Either y'all gonna bury
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: my cousin is the way I want it, or Calvin,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you're gonna get your who you're talking to. That's what's
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: going now. Now, now that's it, right there, sir. I've
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: been trying to be as professional as I can. This
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: whole conversation. It's as crazy as it is. But now
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: it ain't nothing crazy about. No, no, no, no no.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I told you I want you to bury my cousin.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Come on down here. I got some places to put
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: your body and your cousin's body. How about that? Huh yeah?
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Because you you know you don't. You don't sound too
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: damn confident. You don't sound too confident, Calvin, I'm gonna
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: tell you right now. I'm gonna tell you right now,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: this ain't the place and I'm not the one you
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: will be in the ground messing with us. Matter fact.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: If you come here, I'm go you up. How about that? Okay, Calvin? Okay, Calvin,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: let me tell you something, Calvin, me and Tommy gonna
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: be down there to day. Then I'm bringing Tommy with me.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Who it's Tommy? Huh, This is nephew Timmy from the
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Martin Show. Baby, you just got prank Calvin's yo,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: all have me ready to whip hell? Y'all. I just
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: want to know, Reginald, that works at you. Yes, I'm
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I'm Reggie. You bet watch with you drink, you bet
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: watch with your tea. I'm on your to revenge. N Hey,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: cal for give me this man. What's the baddest and
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land? Man?
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: You know it's nothing but the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Y'all got got me got feeling me antybody feeling? You
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: know I am Tommy antybody feeling. I'm not feeling. Trust me.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: It's some people right now. Mis they could have a
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: trip cask okay each other? I like that too, Tommy
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: hidden hidden shelter all the way up. All right, more
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: here we go. The holidays are coming around, and you
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: know gonna have folks over to the house. So what
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do is set up the game, tell a
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: little bit about it. Steve and Junior're gonna jump in
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: and explain how the games get worse. Start off good,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: sound like a good idea, but then as the game progresses,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: problems arrived. Let's simple game stage. We're gonna play some spade.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: We're gonna set up the table. We're gonna play some spade.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: And then everything happened. Somebody started cheap. You know, you
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: got that problem. The first time somebody renegued. You swear
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: it was a dead body in the room. So you
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: can't play that. You know, people don't know how to
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: lose and just take it, you know, they take it personal,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? All Right, So you're gonna
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: go outside play some touch football. You get vaminate everybody.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Just play some touch football. You got a grown ass
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: man think it's cool to run over a third grader?
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Just run over funish, Yeah, just just punish it. Damn.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Man with playing football is a kid. You han't been
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: putting them on me? You know how you put him
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: to check me? What I'm gonna do? Man, want you
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: out here for you play? You a little eight is
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: all I got to shake. You know, if you can't,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: you can't to handle the heat. Get out this kid.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I don't care if your eight. I don't care if
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: your eight. I don't let him cry. Let him cry.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: He got the line. Man, it's a man's game. It is.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: It's another game you can't play. Okay, you want to
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: play dominoes. But you got that you that been you've
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: been He've been away for a while, and he takes
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: this game a little bit too Sioux. You know what
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I mean. He'd been in, he's been away. You know,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: he's been in the system. He even locked. Dominoes is
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: a different game than him. Yeah. Yeah, you shouldn't have
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: been here. Man. Now you want to play old old way. Man,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Hold up dog, holddle dog. I just sent you to
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: the yard on the trail. Man, Hold on dog. You
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: just went to the yard on the trail. You ain't
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: had no trade minute goal. What you're talking about? What
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about, I'm talking about your ass is up.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: All you're trying to Oh you get shite? What's happening
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: to you? Pard? You're out now, You're out? Now? No, no, no, okay, okay,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need two packs of cigarettes for that the
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: holiday party. That's all I'm saying. And I'm gonna need
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: the two packs next time you under shake. We can't
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: play that. We gotta play another game, all right now,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: we're gonna We're gonna go back outside and try to
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: play just a simple game, family game of dodgeball. It's
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: the same guy. We'll think it's a lot of fun
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: to hit the third grader nine in my whole ball.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: He ain't fa w he out here playing for cat game.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: It's called dodgeball. It ain't called standing there and get
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: hit him. Why you gotta hit him so hard? Ain't
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: what he up? I bet he nah' gonna cock back
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: with that little weekend throw like I ain't seen that coming.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I get him in the face, in the face, that's
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: why he needs to pay attention. Oh, we go back
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: in the hospital, decide to play chess. But here's what happens.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: The man who think he knew everything about chess get
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: his ass dusted by that eighth grader. Now he really
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: upset the little boy than told his ass up. He
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: can't take it. That's where all the pieces gonna be
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: on the floor. Yeah, he picked them up. Hold, hold, dog,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: you can't say, checkmate, we just got started. How are
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: you gonna how are you going to do? Don't don't? No?
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: We even number four, five, six move? What did you
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: talk about? Checkmate? No, that ain't our chess? Go thinking mad?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Game right at You ain't had time to think, David,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: he won the game, man game. He just said, checkmate. Yeah,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: he beat you the game. How show me? How held
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: you showed you? That? Ain't you can't do that? See
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: you gotta do Look, man, in chess, you have to
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: make a minimum of twenty moves each. He didn't have
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: to do that for you. Dog. That's how it's done. Dog.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Now you ain't post say unless it's been twenty moves.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Maybe try to something else. I don't know, man, See
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: y'all need to play chess with white folks. Everything is
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: racial with you. Last game, last game. We can't play checkers.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: It's the same guy with the dodgeball really enjoyed beating
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: a third Ready he gets such bam bam, brown king
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: me yours crying for the white your ass out? No no, no, no, no,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: no no man, you can't jump bad because you got
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the red pizza. Red red pizza. Can't jump bad man.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: End of this game. Okay, you're listening. You know, people
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: think that if you don't speak with them, then there
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: has to be a problem. Yeah, you know they think
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: that they really do believe you. Yeah, what's wrong with you?
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: You know? So I get a text message from a
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: family member that red. When family and friends go through
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: life not speaking, there will come a day to regret it.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: It's called the funeral. Well, I want to respond to
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: that family member, real civil truth be told. If I
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: go first, what I'm trying to hope to do. If
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: I go first and I don't have it, I read
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: it to regret it. I mean really, the fact that
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: you sit it over there and you still haven't got
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: a response, what I mean. I'm not mad. I just
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: don't speak to you like this. No, I don't have
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: time like like this is This is people to understand.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: If you text somebody and you look at your text
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: law and all the text messages, yea off from you?
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Dave responded, can't you a message back if the last
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: message you got from me was married Christmas, that we
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: just don't talk. That's not my fault. If you keep
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: telling people to tell me that you said call you
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: guess what I ain't call. Just won't you understand that
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not mad at you. I just don't have to
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: talk to you. So you can be mad if you
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: won't do Yeah, okay, it is called the funeral. But then,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: knowing you and why I'm not talking to you, I
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: won't even be mad when I shouldn't get I get
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: up with confidence and lie like everybody else, he lies
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: a great individual, someone beyond aman, a life changes. I
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: can get up the line with the best. That's all
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I got to say. All Right, thank you. You got
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: to get it for you figure out I'm not talking talking.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: If you send a bunch of I'm not talking, just talking.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Sometimes it's good to people out again. You know I
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: haven't said everybody should not be in your life. Hello,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I'm doing it. All right. We'll be back with more
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Jay, time for
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: comedy Roulette? Do you brew? Can I explain it? Can?
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: That's what? Do you brew? Me? No? Do you take
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: two damn long explain? Then we ain't got time to
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: do the segment. Hey, this comedy role, we're gonna spend
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: the wheel for them, and we're gonna decide what are
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: we gonna do? And we've already to be determined what
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: it is we do this all right? Number one things
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: you let's day in the fridge too long? Number yeah,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I like that one. Number two the TV show you
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: can watch over and over and over. Number three the
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: one dance you'd like for them to bring back that
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: one dance. And number four food you like to mix
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: together that nobody else like. Let's spin the wheel, spun it.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Oh it stop to number four food you like to
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: mix together that no one else likes. Guys, Yeah, let's
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: tell it. You get yourself an egg, put it in
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: a frying pan, crumble up some old cornbread, salt and pepper.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is delicious. Eggs. Don't know about
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: about dance that don't know about it about that? You
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: got what you get? Now you're saying corn bread, But
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I had that too, like the night before, leftover, Get
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: some corn bread right this morningful breakfast, put up with
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: them grits. Corn bread and grits is where it said
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: y'all missing. That's now y'all missing it as well. Follow
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: y'all with this other trifling thing to do. Corn bread,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: corn bread and buttermilk. Oh, my goodness, boy, you put
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: some butter milk. Girl, No, you're not right up there
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: with that corn bread, the mags and that corn bread.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: I'd rather have corn bread and buttermelk. You rather had
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: gritzy corn. No, man, you take yourself some van camp
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: porking beans, okay, got it, and some chicken gravy and
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: some rice in pain it up, little gravy on top
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: of that. Old my goodness, and set down somewhere. I
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: have a weak's stomach. No, that's c oh my god.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: All right, this is food you like to mix together.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: But I tell you what I like to do. This
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: is me first. I do this all the time. Mac
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: and cheese and bacon. Ain't nobody women, ain't nobody withmen
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: make mac and cheese and the crunch and the crunch.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I can see that. I'm ok. Come on, this is
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: one that the lady used to bring to the house.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: I used to run lima beans with spam in it. Yes,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Lord Fanny Maide, Miss Fanny Maide, lima beans with spam,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: and it big chunks a spam too. All right, all right,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: this is probably why I'm a diabetic right now, you
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: take yourself some vanilla age cream. Yeah, get your big
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: scoop of peanut butter and drop that up in there.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Old don't nobody wanted that? Boys put but don't know
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: about it like that. I hate all of Jay's foods.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: You like to mix together that no one else likes. Ahead, Okay,
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: I got a cousin. I can't understand. It wasn't me.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I just saw it. They look they're look different, okay,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: but they they they put They took Swish cheese and
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: melted his own doughnuts. I don't know what that is.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I swear to God, I don't know what that do.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: But David, when he bit it, he was heavy body
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: to be checked. You need to be checked. You need
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: to be checked. Now you're gonna talk one of my favorites.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Ras just gizzarts, rolls and egg gnawed every damn holiday
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: boys fried ratshit gizzarts, rolls and egg nab. Shut up
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: about yourself, Miss Schuberts. Put him in the heath. Girl.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Oh it's just gives it what and egg and corn
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: bread and somebody crack a window please, I'm Swiss cheese
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: on top of that with a scoop of edut butter.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: All right, thanks guys. All right, we'll be back with
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after you're
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Nephew is here with
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: today's praying phone call. What you got for his nephew?
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: This is for uh, you know what, Shirley, this is
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: for you? Huh, Carla? Why don't get into the bright
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: mississipping Monica? Neighborhood Watch. Neighborhood Watch. Okay, that sounds all right, right, Okay,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: what a not? Let's run it though. God, Hello, I'm
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: trying to reach Johnny. Yeah, it's Johnny. Okay, you're the
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: one that'll be doing the neighborhood Watch. You'll be walking
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: your dog doing the neighborhood Watch? Is that you? Who's
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: this is this? Johnny? Who is this? Man? This is PJ?
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Answer my question? Are you Johnny on your road on
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: your rod? I'm Johnny and I do the neighborhood Watch?
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: Who is the damn PJ? I go on, man, don't
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: call my phone, yell at me, charging me up? Hey man?
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: Really the two streets over from you, okay, And you're
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: supposed to be the neighborhood watchman. But that ain't what
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: you're doing now. I didn't caught you looking in the
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: window at my wife when I came outside. You halfway
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: down the street, you and your damn dog. So you
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: ain't watching the neighborhood. And you're looking trying to see
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: some in the window. That's what you're doing, picking some Please,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I don't look, man. I'm doing my job. Man, I
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: do my name, I do my job, do the neighborhood watch.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: I make sure people ain't breaking over the houses. I
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: gotta white. What the hell I want to look at
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: somebody else's wife. I got a pizza at home. I
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: want you need. Then you need to stay out looking
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: people to looking through people. Wonder Man, you're supposed to
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: be watching the neighborhood, not watching my wife. When you
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: say you live again because we went, I live two street.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna tell you what though, I'll
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: tell you what damn people Tom. I'm gonna show you
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: what a damn people Tom is. Now I'm gonna show
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: you what. No, I'm gonna start looking through your window
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: looking at your wife. See what you serve? But nothing, pete,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: mister John. But but putting your over here. I want
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: you to look. I want you to look at my
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: damn window. This. Who the hell is this? I ain't
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: got time for this. Man. I got a job, I
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: got a mortgage, I got kids. I ain't got time
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: for this. Man. Don't look at a job. Man, don't
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: don't find a job. I got a job. I got
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: a job for when I'm at work. You gotta job. Yeah,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: you got a job. Crying like a damn talking by
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: somebody looking at your Why I donna body look at you,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: white man, got a job. But when I'm at home,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: the rob I'm wondering if the back of the looking
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: through the window at my wife. Please come to my
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: damn house. Please, I'm coming later than to look through
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: the window. Fine, Remember the hell are you talking about?
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: Calling me? Tell my people? And it's just damn white
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: you nobody, that's what you've been doing. Man, no wife.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: You probably ain't got no wife. You're probably married to
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: him damn midget or something. You're talking about, man, tell
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: about not people at your wife. You got wattle wife,
• 44:29
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• 44:33
  Speaker 1: watching the neighborhood. But that ain't what I'm doing. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta take come over here now because you're rhynd neighborhood.
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• 44:48
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• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you talking about? Bro? I got two damn jobs. I
• 45:17
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• 45:19
  Speaker 1: and in between I do the neighborhood watch. I'm doing
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  Speaker 1: your service. I'm holping your lazy Do you stop your
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: watching people looking to see if they're looking at your
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: damn wife? Why don't you get you a second job
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: or something? Man? Why don't you google? Whyn't you look
• 45:35
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• 45:38
  Speaker 1: wrong with you calling me Tim? I'm peeping at your
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: day on watch man, don't you ever call me with
• 45:42
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• 45:47
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• 46:08
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• 46:14
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• 46:16
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• 46:21
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• 47:39
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• 48:00
  Speaker 1: for ye hiberties the Strawberry Letter. We could be reading yours,
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  Speaker 1: just like we're reading this one subject. You can't hide
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: a beautiful body. Dear Stephen Shirley, i am a thirty
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: year old single woman without any children, and I've been
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: dating a forty one year old man that has three
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: young daughters. We've been together for five months, and all
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: of a sudden, he does not approve of how I dress.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: He told me that I dress as if I want
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: attention from other men, and not like a wholesome woman.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: I am a full time legal assistant at a popular
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: law firm, and I take law classes at night. At work,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I'm in heels and pencil skirts, and on the weekend,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: I dress for whatever the occasion is, and it's my
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: own personal style. I have a beautiful curvy body, and
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: at my age, I don't see the problem with me
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: wearing a top that shows a little stomach or a
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: dress that shows off my curves. He didn't have a
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: problem with how I dress when he met me, but
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: now he has been talking about it NonStop. I recently
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: met his daughters and I was dressed appropriately in jeans
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: and a sweatshirt. He still said that I need to
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: do a better I need to do better at presenting
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: myself in a more wholesome manner when he met. When
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: he and I met, it was not wholesome, So why
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: does he want me to seem wholesome now? I never
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: intended to be a role model for his children. He
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: says he wants me to be more like his friend's wife.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: And that's all fine and good. If I were an older,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: stay at home mom, but I'm not. Why is he
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: bringing this up now and trying to change me. I'm
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: at the point where I want to settle down and
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: he could be the one, but obviously I'm not the
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: woman he really wants. Could this be a deal breaker?
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: Please advise? Well, you know what, It depends on how
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: you look at it. It could be a deal breaker
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: if he's like this controlling dude you know that wants
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: to tell you how to dress, and you know, compare
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: you to other women, and like he's doing in this
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: letter all of that. It could be that, or it
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: could be he's considering you for a little more serious
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: role in his life, because I don't understand why he
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: would even be concerned about how you're dressing if you're
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: not dressing like, you know, a stripper or something in
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: front of his friends and daughters. Dressing for him in
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: private is one thing, but there is something to be
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: said about appropriate dress in front of others, especially young
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: impressionable girls. I'll give him that. Although you said you
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: were dressed properly when you met his daughters in jeans
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: and a sweatshirt, you didn't say that your tummy was out.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: You didn't say any of that. I mean, this guy
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: does sound controlling, he does sound bossy after only five
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: months in. And remember what he's doing now, how he's
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: talking to you. Now, you guys haven't even made the
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: six month mark. That's how it's going to be in
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: a relationship and into a marriage. So you're gonna have
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: to decide if that's what you want. I mean, you
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: have your own personal style, and you said you don't
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: see anything wrong. I mean that's what's fashionable. Top tops
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: are fashionable, Uh, you know, as long as you're surely
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: had on one in the in the d at all
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: at all. I mean, you could do things tastefully. But
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: we were at the beach. Can we just say that, Steve,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: we were. We were. It was a swim party and everything.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: We weren't that no beach. We was on the inside
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: in the auditorium. But I saw you. I don't know
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: where you came from from the beach. Didn't look like
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: bel didn't have on that anyway, back to the letter,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: you can't hide a beautiful body as the subject. So
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: you know, even though you never intended to be a
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: role model for his children, sometimes we're thrust in those positions.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: You know, you're dating this guy, and he does have daughters,
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: so you have to consider that when you are around them,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: you're you're You're not there um their mom or anything,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: but they are. If you're around their dad, they are
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: looking to you for certain things. So you know, I'm
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: not telling you to cover up and dress like a
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: nun from heagetor or anything like that, but be mindful,
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: especially around the daughters, of how you're presenting yourself. You know,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: just do that for their sake. Okay, come out of
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: yourself for a little bit and just do that for
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: their sake. As far as you and this guy goes,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: time will only tell if he continues to be controlling.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: He sounds like a nagger and all that already. But
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: you got to decide if you want to deal with that,
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: because it's not gonna get any better. And yeah, when
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: you're fine and beautiful, you can't hide it. You cannot
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: steve let it out. Well, this is a real simple
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: fix right here. Appreciate everything you said, Sherley. Here's the
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: other side of the coin than See. The way you dress,
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: that's how you got him. The way you look, that's
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: how you got him. See he liked all that when
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: he saw you. That's what got his attention. You had
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: what he wanted. That's why y'all together now, the little
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: pencil skirts, the tight fit, the crop tops to cleave
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: it showing, the wrap skirts, the fitted sweater. Y'all go
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: out on weekends, you dress how you wan't bam. That's
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: what got him. But now he want to change. Well,
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: see the problem he got now is he probably need
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: a nun. He needed to date somebody that's a little
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: bit different than you. Here's I'm first, I'm gonna get
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: into this right here. You thirty and he forty one.
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: That's eleven years. That's a gap. That's a gap, and
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: it's a real gap. When it's more than an eleven
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: year distance, eleven year difference, it's probably more because he's
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: probably an older forty one, if you know what I mean,
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: he probably an old stuck up forty one. Then you
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: might just be a little be younger thirty. But you
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: a lawyer, you work at a law firm, You got
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: a career. You gotta go to work appropriate. You can't
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: go in there looking like anything. You know, you can't
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: go to work looking like you a case. So I
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: think what's really happening here is this eleven year age
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: difference is bigger than eleven years because in his mind
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: he wants something else. All right, we'll come back with
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: part two of your response at twenty three after the hour.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to show. Let's recap today's
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: strawberry letters, Steve. Let's get to part two of your response,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: subject you can't hide a beautiful body. Well, this thirty
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: year old lady married this old as for the one
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: year old man with these three damned daughters that she
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: ain't got no kids. They've been together five months and
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: he don't approve now how she dressed. You know, he
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: says you dressed like he want attention from other men.
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: See that's crazy because see you dressed got attention from him.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Now that he got you, he don't want nobody else
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: paying attention to you. This is the beginning of something greater. Now,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: I really do believe that this dressing is the beginning
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: of something greater. And like Shirley said, he could be
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: very controlling. Next thing, you know, you can't where it is.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: Next thing, you know why you're going over there, and
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: next thing, you know why you're spending that. Next thing,
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: you know, I don't want you driving that colon. No
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: mo next thing. You know you ain't gonna hand no friends.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: I don't see a problem with me man or top
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: to show a little stomach, or a dress that shows
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: off my courage. He didn't have a problem with you
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: dress how he met me. You don't gonna write he
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: didn't he But now you've been talking about a NonStop
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: that's called some of his damn friends is looking at you.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: See now he's starting to notice some of the other
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: men looking at you. Now he's feeling sort of inadequate.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't want you to do this, so
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: I don't want you to. He's feeling some little little
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: bit of insecurity too. I think I recently met his
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: daughters and I was dressed appropriately in jeans and a sweatshirt.
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: He still said, I need to do a better presenting
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: myself in a more wholesome matter. What the hell and
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: wholesome that's what I'm saying to cover it up from
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: head to tell. So why you want me to seem wholesome? Now?
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: I never tend to be a role model for his children. Okay,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: now let me explain something you can't say that I
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: can't say that to him, Man, I ain't trying to
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: be no damn role model for your damn kids. Uh,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: I can't say that. Don't say that, lady. He ain't
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: gonna handle that good, all right, He says, he wants
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: me to be more like his friend's wife, and that's
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: all finding good. Well, he should marry his friends. He
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: should just go dates one of his one have, have
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: his friend's wife introduce him to some of her friends.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: They all three keys. It's stay at home mom, Yeah,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: drive a minute van. It all, it's all good. Ain't
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. But you're gonna get out, this
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: little fan says, call you guy. You're gonna get yourself
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: a minute van, get down here to this damn save
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: a lot and get you damn grocery. Wow, that's what
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: you're gonna do. Why is he bringing us up now
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: and trying to change mem I'm at the point why
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: I want to settle down, and he could be the one,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: but obviously I'm not the woman he really wants. Well, now,
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: hold on, let's just take these last two statements. I'm
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: at the point where I'm ready to settle down and
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: he could be the one, could be the one, and
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: but obviously I'm not the woman he really wants. Okay,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: he could be the one, but obviously I'm not the
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: woman he really wants. Could this be a deal breaker?
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: It could be a deal I think what you should do, though,
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: is wait a little while and just see how it goes.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: You know, don't make a commitment. Just stay in this
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: relationship and see how I go, See how heavy he
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: gets with them, what he wants. You know, you know,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: some of the little changes you can make in your
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: dress might be good for you, but then some of
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: it might not be what you want to do. You
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: can't just totally flip the script for this man, and
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: he ain't flipping the script for you. I will flip
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: the script for a woman if she flipped the script
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: for me. This as long as I get flip, that's
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: me stupid. You got to get flippy. That's what j J.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: The woman he used to date big slid. It ain't
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: gonna go like you, man, Wi No, no, no, no, no, Jay,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: that's how he liked it. Then you ain't been flipped. No,
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: I don't either. How come I'm facing the head bo.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: That's not a good feel. I don't know what you're
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: doing when you flip me first day coming out, when
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: it is going, whoa, what were you doing here? Calling?
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: Calling sexual time out? It's too hard. Can't flip me?
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: Usually when you get flipp is followed by shut up,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: but yeah, we mean about say so you can your
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: respect is taken. No, man, you're not gonna talk to
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: me like that. No, no, no no. If you keep
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: getting flipped, it follows up with a slap. Oh oh man,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: this is this is scary. This is yeah, you know
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: now that you look at it, Tommy. As I was
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: doing light flipping, this is aggressive flipping. Nat. Also, once
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: you get flipping, once you get flipped, you get this baby,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: fix my play, fix your damn. I don't say a place.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: I can't get a sandwich, I can't get the same.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: You're gonna lead the covers on me like that. This
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: is going to look ugly, right, yeah, yeah, you don't
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: want to get flip. Yeah, take your flip back, Tommy. Yeah,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: all right, Look, we gotta go email us your Instagram
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• 1:00:54
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  Speaker 1: All right, sister Odell is here to wish us happy
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: holidays and to tell us about some of her holiday traditions,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: and maybe she will even bless us with some Christmas
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: caroling of her own ladies and gentlemen. Sister Odell, Oh
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  Speaker 1: me rap, I'm going rabba well well, well, good morne
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  Speaker 1: is everywhere, Lord Jesus, Such a blessed holiday. You know
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: it's my favorite holiday. You just pushed me in such
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: good hill with everyone and everything. Hey Cally, Hey, sister Odell,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: Happy holidays. How you doing today, Shirley? I am doing well,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: Sister Odell. I love the holidays. Merry Christmas to you
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: me too. And that's real sweet ages. Hey boy with
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: that high boys, how monst there? Steal up there? Yeah,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: stealing up there, Matt, real high boys, you got there. Well,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: might as well say hi to the happiest one on
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: the show. Funk Christmas. Hey, look hello there, good morning,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: good morning, morning, morning morning to everyone. So what can
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: I do for y'all to day? What did you want?
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: Any special requests? I mean giving holiday spirit to move? Well? Um,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: you wanna bless us with the song since you're here?
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: I mean I know you love Christmas songs. You can
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: finish na, I see it all How jeez, did you
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: like jingle bells? It's your dell? Well, you know the
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: original version. They change it when white people started singing,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: what what do you mean? What you mean like jingle bells?
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Jingle bells? That's not original when used to this used
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: to be jingle bears. Used to go like this, jangle
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: or jangle or jangle Oh, jangle, jangle lord, jangle bell,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: jangle bells, jangle bells, jangle all away. I said, jangle bears,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: jangle bells, jangle all the way. Then you know, white
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: folks couldn't do it, so they had to sing would yeah, yeah,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: what's your version of? All right? More of this crazy
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• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: for the lateies. Okay, fifty nine percent of couples say
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  Speaker 1: that if they suspected their partner of cheating, they would
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  Speaker 1: discuss the matter with them rather than jumping to conclusions. Okay, cool,
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you a questions, Shirley and Colum, Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Just listen to this question.
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  Speaker 1: If you suspected your husband of cheating and it was
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  Speaker 1: not on the internet, nobody knew, none of your co workers,
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  Speaker 1: it was not it wasn't made public. If you suspected
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  Speaker 1: your husband of cheating, would you bring it up calmly?
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  Speaker 1: Would you bring it up with anger? How would you
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  Speaker 1: do it? Probably? All of the above for me without
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  Speaker 1: the calm though you're already nowhere, bigger, all of it.
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  Speaker 1: All of the above for me, without the calm anger.
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  Speaker 1: If I suspected that not yet? No, well, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: if you had suspicious you ain't have no proof. You ain't,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't heard nothing, you ain't got no pictures, ain't no,
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  Speaker 1: ain't on internet, and none of that. But Steve, you
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  Speaker 1: know we have intuition. You know we have intuition. You
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  Speaker 1: disappointing to you, mister Harvey. I don't know. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: trying to see what y'all would do. I don't really
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  Speaker 1: And the word discussion I have a problem with. There
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  Speaker 1: will be no discussion. Well, are you gonna just find
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  Speaker 1: out on your own first? Like you see us? I
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Suppose you discovered that
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  Speaker 1: you were wrong about him and that he wasn't cheating.
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  Speaker 1: What happens at that point? Oh, then I'm apologizing and
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  Speaker 1: begging to his forgiveness, begging for his forgiveness and threatening
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  Speaker 1: him he better not do it. You see what happens? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: God in the tart, you gotta do that. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: apologize for your wrong doing, but you know, make it
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  Speaker 1: up to him. You know that. Wow, that's amazing. Any
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  Speaker 1: more questions, We're here for it. No, y'all's answers short,
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  Speaker 1: yeah and truthful, and there's no one. There's no one
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  Speaker 1: in between, ain't no? You know that's I don't like
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  Speaker 1: talking to y'all. Were you expect I think something else?
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know what I expected, but that wasn't it.
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  Speaker 1: You've obviously been through this before. I'll tell you what
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  Speaker 1: I found out though us I'm fine out. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: fired up to have a discussion. Once they fired out,
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  Speaker 1: I'll cheating. It's old. You're uglass sitting up here. Got
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  Speaker 1: the lyric cheat? No, you get but Junior. Don't you
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  Speaker 1: know that money changes things? Yeah? How you get the
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  Speaker 1: nerve that was before? Look at you now see Tommy
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  Speaker 1: saying dang Junior like you can't believe Junior called itself.
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  Speaker 1: U Tommy, you're ugly. No, I am not. Am not
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  Speaker 1: gonna let you stop doing that. You go listen twenty eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna do this. I'm not. I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: the truth in two thousand natures? Are you finem? No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not no fine and I'm not out, but I
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  Speaker 1: ain't just been to be uglyttle. No, I'm not doing that. Dog,
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  Speaker 1: You're not fine and I'm not. But listen to me.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: If you're not fine, then by a long ship what
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: you think that is? Why do you do that to him? Steve?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why Tommy keep thinking he cute, but
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: you're not cute. I didn't say I was cute. I'm
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: just saying I'm not Listen to me. Listen to me.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: You look strang. I'm decent. I don't you do. I
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: do not looks grang. To just get a mirror and
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: look at yourself from the side. You're strange looking. I'm
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: not strange. Don't tell me. You are you look strange
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  Speaker 1: all everybody, all the men in our family, we're strange
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  Speaker 1: looking from the side. Look't have fun with the time
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  Speaker 1: when you accept it. Tommy, he's never going to accept that.
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  Speaker 1: You guys know that I'm not I'm not doing it
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  Speaker 1: speaking of times to break with strange. Look, you're listening
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: to show. I think it's time for Tommy and I,
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  Speaker 1: Tommy and I together. It's to talk to the side
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  Speaker 1: pieces over the holidays, because we stopped that call and
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: now they stops. They need a Christmas. What changes. It's
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: thirty days. Do you know what? There are a lot
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: of people who didn't hear what we did for Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 1: So now we're speaking to a new batch of people.
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  Speaker 1: Some people became side pieces, you see. Say Christmas, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: let me talk to y'all. What all right? The twenty
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  Speaker 1: four Christmas? That's your Christmas? Okay, And let me tell
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: you something. You your twenty four is really from about
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  Speaker 1: eight a m. To about one to two pm right
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  Speaker 1: in there, that's your Christmas. Yeah. Yeah, whatever you vision
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: y'all doing on Christmas, that's your time right there. So
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: if y'all want to walk into living room like y'all
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  Speaker 1: just woke up. Go ahead, walk in there like y'all
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  Speaker 1: just woke up. Gifts under the tree, pajamas on everything.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go on. Okay, have some lunch. Okay, but now
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: when one o'clock strikes hello, we have to go. Okay,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: he's got to leave. Now, you gotta go in the afternoon,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: and afternoon he's gotta go. Your Christmas is over? What
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: is she supposed to do for the rest of the day.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: What did she playing on doing? Yeah? Good part about it?
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: You know when it starts and you know when it ends.
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  Speaker 1: This is what we're he you're listening show. You know,
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  Speaker 1: people think that if you don't speak with them, then
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  Speaker 1: there has to be a problem. Yeah, you know they
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  Speaker 1: think that they really do believe. What wrong with you? Yeah,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? You know? So I get a
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  Speaker 1: text message from a family member that read, when family
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: and friends go through life not speaking, there will come
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  Speaker 1: a day to regret it. It's called the funeral. Well,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: I want to respond to that family member, real civil
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  Speaker 1: truth be told. If I go first, what I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to hope to do. If I go first and I
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  Speaker 1: don't have I read it to regret it, really the
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: fact that you sit it over there and you still
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: haven't got a response. What that means. I'm not mad.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: I just don't speak to you like this. No, I
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: don't have time like this is This is people to understand.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: If you text somebody and you look at your text
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: law and all other text messages, yea off from you
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: day responded you a message back. If the last message
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: you got for me was married rispons, we just don't talk.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: That's that's not my fault. If you keep telling people
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: to tell me that you said call you, guess what
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: I ain't called. I just won't you understand that I'm
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: not mad at you. I just don't have to talk
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  Speaker 1: to you. So you can be mad if you won't
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: do Yeah, okay, it is called the funeral. But then,
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: knowing you and why I'm not talking you, I won't
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: even be mad when I shouldn't get up there with
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: confidence and lie like everybody here lies a great individual,
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: someone who lived beyond a mean a life changes. I
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: can get up that lot with the best thing. That's
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: all I got to say. You gotta get before you
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: figure out I'm not talking talking you send a bunch
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: of I'm not talking. I just ain't talking. Sometimes it's
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: good to cut people outgain know, I ever said everybody
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: should not be in your life? Right? Hello? All right,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: coming up, it's Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. You
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: don't want to miss it. At forty nine after the hour,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, Here we are at the final
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  Speaker 1: break of the day with just one more thing. Steve's
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks, What do you have for us? Say? What
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: do you have for us today? Sir? Your wisdom? Drop it? Okay? Uh? Today,
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: I thought i'd talked to you about something with a
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  Speaker 1: with a little bit different angle to it. It's gonna
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: be positive, But I want to talk to you about
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: something that many people consider negative. I want to talk
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: to you today about disappointment because I think that we
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: all have to grapple with disappointment from time to time.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: The problem with disappointment is that disappointment also if you
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: don't understand it, disappointment can turn so ugly so fast.
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  Speaker 1: Too many people allow disappointment to turn into resentment. Too
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  Speaker 1: many people allow disappointment to turn into a final verdict,
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  Speaker 1: so to speak. In other words, you know, so many
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  Speaker 1: people think that this disappointment for them, symbolizes the end.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: When you allow for disappointment to turn into resentment, and
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: you allow disappointment to turn into the final verdict, you're
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  Speaker 1: losing what disappointment actually can become for you. And I
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  Speaker 1: want you all to start looking at disappointment as motivation.
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  Speaker 1: How many times have you been faced with something that
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  Speaker 1: was disappointing. Let's say you go in to get a
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: job and you're on your last interview, and I have
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: been in this position. Man. I was trying to get
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: an insurance job one time years ago, and I went
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: in and I had gotten gone through about three or
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: four interviews. I was at my final interview and I said, man,
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: I'm about to get this job. Man, get my little
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: family together. I'll be all right. And got to that
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: interview and they told me no. And the reason they
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: gave me for not hiring me was I had moved
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: too many times over the past seven years and that
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: represented it to their company, a sign of unstableness. That
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: disappointment for me was gut wrenching. I actually got in
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: my car, my little seventy two Chevy, and I was
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: driving off Man and tears was in my eyes. When
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: I got up on the freeway and I drove back
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: and I looked back over at that big building with
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: that big powerful name on it, and I had gone
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: through four interviews and I and all of a sudden,
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: I was so disappointed and not got getting hired. But
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: you know what I learned to do though, from that
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: moment on, I turned all my disappointment into motivation. I said, Okay, now,
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  Speaker 1: this might not be right for everybody, but I use
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  Speaker 1: it as a challenge. I use all my disappointments as okay,
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: I'll show you. I use them all this motivation. From
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: the time my teacher told me that you ain't gonna
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: never be nothing, that there's no way they'll put somebody
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: like you on TV because you have a stuttering problem
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: and you can't even talk. I said, okay, but who
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  Speaker 1: are you who is issuing out this disappointment? Because you're
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: not gonna make me resent you and you're not gonna
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: cause me to think that you're denying me this opportunity.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: Are you handing me this bad news of disappointment. I'm
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: not going to allow you to be my final verdict.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: You will not be the truth teller in my life.
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  Speaker 1: You are not going to be the person who who
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: is the author of my destiny. You are not in
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: that belongs to God, not you, and I will not
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: give that to anyone. So when you're facing disappointment, do
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  Speaker 1: not hand that disappointment over to the person who gave
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: it to you in the form of empowerment. Do not
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: allow them to control your destiny with this one piece
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: of disappointment that causes you to go into sexual resentment,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: that you become bitter that all of a sudden, now
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: all you think about is that, and you be getting
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: you developed this nasty attitude. You don't have to do that,
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: and you also don't have to let them become the
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  Speaker 1: final verdict. They are not the author of your destiny.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: They are not the author of your future. They are
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: not that belongs to God and only God. Don't let
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  Speaker 1: them trip you up. And I'm saying this because I've
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: had many, many, many disappointments. You ain't this. You ain't that.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: I've had shows canceled, gigs taken, I've been fired from radio,
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: I've been all in all, I've had some disappointing setbacks.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: But let me tell you something I've learned to do.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: I've learned to take all those setbacks and use them
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  Speaker 1: as motivation. And I just quietly say to myself, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't my God, You ain't the author of my destiny.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: You didn't create me, you don't know me, you have
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  Speaker 1: no say so in the real outcome of who I'm
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: going to be and what I'm going to turn myself into.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: It's not you, And I'll not give you the power
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  Speaker 1: to do that to me. You who think you have
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: the power by telling me no, by turning me down,
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: by refusing me, by voting against me, by saying that
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not the right one for the part, that's saying
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: that your company don't need a person like me, by
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: telling me that I represent an unstable person, by telling
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: me that I don't have what it takes. No, no, no, no, noll.
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  Speaker 1: It's just because you don't know, because you don't know
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  Speaker 1: what God really has for me, And that ain't your fault.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: So why bear resentment for these people who are causing
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: this disappointment in your life? You don't have to do
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: that because they are not the author of your destiny.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: And don't you dare give them that. You take that
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: disappointment and you use it as the motivation. I feel
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: sorry for people who tell me no, because you know
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: what I know. I know. They just don't know what
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: God has for me. And I end up somehow through
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: God's grace and mercy showing them all. Keep the right attitude, y'all.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: God got something for you through all your disappointment. Y'all
• 1:20:03
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