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Cheating Blame, Getting Dumped, When Did That Start, NY Resolutions and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in it to me true good it together? Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn you
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  Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you got
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out. Then turn the water the water go.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your thing, I shall will. Good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me
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  Speaker 1: partickling me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show
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  Speaker 1: feel with nothing but joy and hope about it too.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's a great thing to be able to
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  Speaker 1: wake up in the morning with peace in your heart
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  Speaker 1: and joy. Peace and joy is is immeasurable. It has
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  Speaker 1: a value attached to it, and I have no idea
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  Speaker 1: what it is. It's invaluable. It is worth so much
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  Speaker 1: more than any amount of money you can make. Peace
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  Speaker 1: and joy. I have not always had that. I have
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  Speaker 1: not always been a peaceful person or a person who
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  Speaker 1: lived his life in a joy spirit. It took an
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  Speaker 1: arrival at this moment. Some people arrive sooner than others.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but
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  Speaker 1: I think it was necessary for me to learn a
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  Speaker 1: few things too. That's the amazing thing I've learned about
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  Speaker 1: life is that instead of reflecting on your past incidences
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  Speaker 1: and calling them failures, instead of focusing on the negative
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  Speaker 1: and calling them bad times, I look at them now
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  Speaker 1: as experiences. I had to have those experiences that were negative,
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  Speaker 1: that were good, positive, wrong, even I had to have
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  Speaker 1: all those experiences to become to shape who we are today.
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  Speaker 1: We all have to have them. If you look back
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  Speaker 1: at all the negative experiences you've had, all the things
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  Speaker 1: that you called failures, all the businesses I started that
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  Speaker 1: went under, all of the jobs I had that I
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  Speaker 1: was fired from, all the shows that were canceled, all
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  Speaker 1: of the times I thought I was gonna get something
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  Speaker 1: happened in my way and turned out I didn't get
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  Speaker 1: it at all. When you look at all of it,
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  Speaker 1: all of it, hopefully along the way, what you have
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  Speaker 1: done as a person is you've taken those negatives and
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  Speaker 1: those failures and you've used them for what they actually are.
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  Speaker 1: They are experiences, and they've now created in you an
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  Speaker 1: experienced person, and you know that is worth something that's
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  Speaker 1: then it becomes a positive. But what too many people
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  Speaker 1: do is they let the negative things that have happened
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  Speaker 1: in their life. They allow the failures that have happened
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  Speaker 1: in them lives never to manifest themselves as experiences. And
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  Speaker 1: you sit up there and you dwell on it, and
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  Speaker 1: you dwell on it until you have this woe is
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  Speaker 1: me attitude. Stop looking at it like that, y'all. You
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  Speaker 1: go through things in order to to become the person
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  Speaker 1: that you are today. I'll tell you who you sometimes
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  Speaker 1: have to sit down and talk to. Sometimes you are
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  Speaker 1: to sit down to an inmate that really gets it,
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  Speaker 1: an inmate that says, man, I've actually heard inmates say
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  Speaker 1: it to me and write to me, and they've said
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  Speaker 1: things like, man coming to prison, save my life. Now,
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  Speaker 1: those of you have never got how can he say
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  Speaker 1: a thing like that? But some men, no, Man, I
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  Speaker 1: was so far out there that if I had stayed
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  Speaker 1: out there, I wouldn't even be here today. This actually
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  Speaker 1: allowed me to stop, spend some time with myself and
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  Speaker 1: learn some things about me. Now does that happen for
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  Speaker 1: everybody like that? Now? But here's a person who was
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  Speaker 1: taking an experience that could be considered a failure or
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  Speaker 1: a negative and turning it into a positive and using
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  Speaker 1: it to enrich their lives. You can do it no
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  Speaker 1: matter what your set of circumstances is. I recommend to
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  Speaker 1: everybody that you try changing your outlook in order to
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  Speaker 1: change your outcome. Everything that happens to you that's negative,
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  Speaker 1: all you consider failure, their experiences. You've got to go
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  Speaker 1: through these things in order to have the knowledge that
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  Speaker 1: you have today. So I wish that I had come
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  Speaker 1: to this arrival that I mean now, this place of
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  Speaker 1: peace and joy. But then guess what, I would not
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  Speaker 1: know what I know. I could not share some of
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  Speaker 1: the things that I'm able to share if I had
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  Speaker 1: not gone through some of them. And sometimes that's the
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  Speaker 1: purpose of them is to teach you a lesson, because
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  Speaker 1: you know, God has a plan for you. He really
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  Speaker 1: really does, and eventually he can use you no matter
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  Speaker 1: how old you are, and he can use you no
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  Speaker 1: matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine
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  Speaker 1: ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God? What
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  Speaker 1: do you want me to do? That's why I say
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  Speaker 1: every day. Steve Harvey got radio show y'all, because man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I
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  Speaker 1: ain't seen it. Half of the amazing things that are
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  Speaker 1: happened to me, I didn't plan them. I was sitting man,
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  Speaker 1: asking God for some direction. And then I got smart
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  Speaker 1: enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker. Now because faithful,
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  Speaker 1: our works is there and it came. And I'll remind
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  Speaker 1: you of this. God has given all of you a gift.
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  Speaker 1: Every last one of you listening has a gift. God
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  Speaker 1: has never created a soul that he did not provide
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  Speaker 1: a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a
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  Speaker 1: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts
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  Speaker 1: are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who
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  Speaker 1: really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and in that you can become great. You
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  Speaker 1: know a lot of people people think that successful and
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  Speaker 1: greatness is the same thing. Cornell West said it at
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  Speaker 1: my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. He said something
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  Speaker 1: so pointed. He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness.
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  Speaker 1: The two have nothing to do with each other. See
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  Speaker 1: people determine success about money and fame and all this here.
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  Speaker 1: But greatness. Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's
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  Speaker 1: how you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant
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  Speaker 1: you become in your community, at your church, on your job,
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  Speaker 1: to the club scout unit that you run, to the
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  Speaker 1: little girls lives that you change, that that little center
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  Speaker 1: in the hood where you just one place of hope
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  Speaker 1: to so many people and they come back. And I
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  Speaker 1: used the example of lou Danzler who passed away in
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  Speaker 1: La who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club out
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  Speaker 1: in La. And he wasn't a rich man at all,
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  Speaker 1: and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know
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  Speaker 1: who he was. But if you look at all the
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  Speaker 1: people who have gone on to become politicians, who have
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  Speaker 1: gone on to become CEO's, who have gone on to
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  Speaker 1: become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building
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  Speaker 1: in the hood in La, he was great. Trust me, Man,
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  Speaker 1: prad changes things. I said all the time. But you
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  Speaker 1: see people become successful or great that somebody praying somewhere
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  Speaker 1: may not even beat them. Maybe it's day Mama you know,
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  Speaker 1: I think of Tiger Woods and all the greatness he's accomplished.
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  Speaker 1: You know they always talk about as farther than all
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  Speaker 1: this here, somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods. I got
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  Speaker 1: cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama is a
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  Speaker 1: praying woman or something. My mother was. She prayed me
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  Speaker 1: into this place because she ushould call me all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Praying for your boy, and prayer changes things. It really does.
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  Speaker 1: Try it today. It can change you. It has changed
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  Speaker 1: millions of people. Open up yourself to the greatness that's
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  Speaker 1: in you, because God is giving you a gift. Now
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you ain't using it. Who fought you
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  Speaker 1: think that is? I'm just telling you you got one,
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  Speaker 1: and if you start praying about it, it'll manifest itself
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  Speaker 1: and you can become one or two things, successful or
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  Speaker 1: great or both. You can make the decision today show,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. This is how I decided to open
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  Speaker 1: today's show. Ain't ain't really no rhyme, no reason. I
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  Speaker 1: just I'm gonna watchever one of these all lass songs
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  Speaker 1: come to my mid Papa was who rolling Stone, just
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  Speaker 1: like wherever he laid his hat was his home. Awful
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  Speaker 1: he left. This was a loan see it again. Papa
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  Speaker 1: was a rolling stone. Wherever he laid his hat was
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  Speaker 1: his home. And when he died, oh he left. This
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  Speaker 1: was a lone Shirley Straw Happy Friday's team crazy Happy
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  Speaker 1: it is to the one and only car Love for Red.
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  Speaker 1: You better say fighting tests his baby, Yes, lud whooo,
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  Speaker 1: just my imagination that damn kill Spate better known as
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  Speaker 1: boy Uncle. I felt that never boy, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: we told about God never had he ain't never not
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  Speaker 1: never had a nas see, never heard no but bad
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  Speaker 1: things about it. Mama, I'm dependent on you. Tell me
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  Speaker 1: the truth. Mama just hung ahead down and said Papa
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  Speaker 1: was a rolling stolen Jay Anthony Brown, give me one,
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  Speaker 1: Jake come, he laid his head was his home, singing
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  Speaker 1: Jack all left. This was low sh mister Harvey boy,
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  Speaker 1: Let's see, let's see, let's see, let's this ain't what
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  Speaker 1: do you do? But let's see. Nephew, Tommy, give me on,
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  Speaker 1: Oh God, no, try on, watch this right here, Julia,
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  Speaker 1: give me any water, littm smoking hits. And when he died,
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  Speaker 1: I thought he was gonna Jean to see us for sure,
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  Speaker 1: that would give me one, joan to see one Joe
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  Speaker 1: take my mom. Hit h you you can't have you
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  Speaker 1: late because me ye ever your time here. His words
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  Speaker 1: then drew around the mic. I'm an addict. Who are
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  Speaker 1: you love me? Grant? All right, listen, I like to wait,
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  Speaker 1: get to the hotel? You got me? Hell? Are you
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  Speaker 1: all right? Kay? Thank you? Things out? You're listening dry
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  Speaker 1: morning show? All right? It is time now to start
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  Speaker 1: your morning off with the nephew and run that break back.
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  Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nest? This right here is church. Callen,
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  Speaker 1: let's go down church, Kelly. Here were you? Hello? Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach uh sister Alison. Alison. Uh Alison,
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  Speaker 1: she's not here, man, she ain't work? Um as you speaking? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: This is this is brother Luster, brother Lust. How you
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  Speaker 1: doing today? All right? Lester? Brother Lester right from the church. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: okay over U right right right right? You're a husband
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  Speaker 1: right with Jared. I'm sure? Yeah? This is Gerald? Yeah, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: I met you a couple of times, Jared. We ain't
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  Speaker 1: seen you in a minute, though. Man. I've been working
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  Speaker 1: on Sundays and I said it. I was gonna try
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  Speaker 1: to make it, but I tell her. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: want to get involved. You know this year it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be a better year. I'm gonna get involved. Man. We'll
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  Speaker 1: come on down. Man. We love to how you, that's
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  Speaker 1: for sure. Man. Can I get you a number where
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  Speaker 1: she can call me back? Well? Okay, yeah sure. Um,
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  Speaker 1: it's just about you know, lessing or something. What's going
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  Speaker 1: on actually the single Ministry. Man, I'm over the Single
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  Speaker 1: Ministry and we're raising some money. So we're actually putting
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  Speaker 1: together a calendar and we wanted her to give us
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  Speaker 1: a call about it. Okay, so let me let me
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  Speaker 1: get you. Let me get you my number real quick.
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  Speaker 1: What women it? Okay, you said Canada? So the church
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  Speaker 1: is doing the Canadar. But is it like the couples
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  Speaker 1: like we come in like how it always be like
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  Speaker 1: the couples come in and be like this is mister
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  Speaker 1: and missus. I mean a calendar down? No, no no, no.
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  Speaker 1: What we're doing to see a lot of the guys
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  Speaker 1: got together. What we're gonna do is the Mount Swimsuit
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  Speaker 1: Caleidar and we're gonna we kind of put that together. Man.
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  Speaker 1: So let me give you my number, man, because I
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  Speaker 1: want to call all the guys were saying, if she
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  Speaker 1: get on the calendar, he'll probably get solid. You know,
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, wait a minute, wold wold war war.
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  Speaker 1: Let's slow down, Slow down, brother Lester, let's slow down. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: A calendar, A swimsuit calendar for the single ministry at
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  Speaker 1: the church. What it is, Gerald, We're gonna be the
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  Speaker 1: first church who have ever done a swimsuit calendar. You
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  Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. No, wait a minute, Wait a minute,
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute, you call it for us. My wife
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  Speaker 1: is to be in it. You sure you got the
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  Speaker 1: right number because we're there, I mean because your wife
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  Speaker 1: is Alison, right, Yes, my wife is Alida. And first
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  Speaker 1: of all, I didn't what's this man about? All the
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  Speaker 1: guys y'all got together, y'all voted for about Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to take this slow man. Oh God, hold my
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  Speaker 1: tongue right now, because I'm trying. I don't understand where
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  Speaker 1: you're going with this. And listen, we're gonna get Sister Gieddre.
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  Speaker 1: She's gonna be Miss March June is like pretty much
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  Speaker 1: in the middle of the year. We want your wife
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  Speaker 1: to be the big centerfold. Please please tell me you're
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  Speaker 1: not tilling my house this morning talking about my wife
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  Speaker 1: to be in a canadar a swimsuit calendar. But dead
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  Speaker 1: on top of that, y'all all got together and y'all
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  Speaker 1: voted that y'all want my wife to be in a
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  Speaker 1: swim to Canada fad church. Okay, well what wait? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking at us on the positive side? Man? What
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  Speaker 1: this is? See? Like I say, we're raising money for
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  Speaker 1: the Singles Ministry and the single Ministry and getting ready
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  Speaker 1: to go on a big trip. Won't do with the
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  Speaker 1: fingers Ministry. She's may I the People's Ministry. Why are
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  Speaker 1: you calling and talking about my wife? Bid is something
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  Speaker 1: like this? You hold up that O Jesus up hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: you you should feel honored man that your wife was
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  Speaker 1: a while y'all looking at my wife like that. Man,
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  Speaker 1: we're coming in there and were trying to get hip
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  Speaker 1: and we're trying to do it. Y'all looking at my
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  Speaker 1: wife time. Y'all want my wife to be a swim
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  Speaker 1: to contest. Man? Do you understand what that is? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Ain't number some panties made? So y'all good that my
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  Speaker 1: wife time? My y'all, when my wife didn't hill a
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  Speaker 1: panties see what you gotta understand girl, This right here, man,
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  Speaker 1: it's for the single ministry, which we got a big
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  Speaker 1: trip coming up, so we're raising money fun. What are
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing? Man? This is not something you do at
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  Speaker 1: the church. Man. You have car watches? Man without man,
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  Speaker 1: no a little we watched cars. Man, y'all talking about Canada? Man?
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  Speaker 1: What are you doing it? Man? What type of churches?
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  Speaker 1: This turning two? Man? See gerald the difference heals on
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  Speaker 1: this whole thing. Man, don't be upset about what it
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  Speaker 1: is that. Man, we don't found something that ain't no
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  Speaker 1: other church done before. You see what I'm saying. The
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  Speaker 1: reason ain't no other church done this? Because this is wrong? Man?
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  Speaker 1: What committee got to get on something like this? Man?
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  Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Hey? Do you gotta understand? Listen,
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  Speaker 1: we got sister Geddrick, We got sister Dicky. Okay, uh no,
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  Speaker 1: you said the thing that's signed out on that you
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  Speaker 1: got these women in the church then that they gonna
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  Speaker 1: put on swim suits with what I'm saying, We got
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  Speaker 1: them on our list, We got them on this to
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  Speaker 1: come say it. Many. Ain't nobody getting with you? Man?
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  Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Man? Hey? Man, listen, just
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  Speaker 1: to help us get started. Do you have a picture
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  Speaker 1: or sister Alison and a swimsuit? Look, man, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: give it, you know, Pitt you my wife and no swimsuit. Man.
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  Speaker 1: This is just something we're trying to do for the minister. Dude,
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  Speaker 1: you know what are you at the church? Did you
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  Speaker 1: work at the church for a turn? Part time? I'm
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  Speaker 1: at the church. Okay, are you there there? No, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not there right now, but I'm gonna beat there for
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  Speaker 1: Crowhurson later on this evening. Okay, what time do quid
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  Speaker 1: rehearsal start left? Seven o'clock? But why you what's lost?
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  Speaker 1: What I want you to do is for me before
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  Speaker 1: you go to rehearsal, Can you just be right in
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  Speaker 1: the front right quick. I just want to we need
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  Speaker 1: to meet personally right quick, blessing me and you. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come to the rehearsal and then let's talk
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  Speaker 1: about this face to face because it's over the phone
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  Speaker 1: and all that. This is not worth it right now
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  Speaker 1: and I need to meet the person that's called and
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  Speaker 1: my howl talking about my wife during our all this
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  Speaker 1: idiotic type. So let's meet Lake in the front. Brother,
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  Speaker 1: fo you go to sing. I got something for you
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  Speaker 1: to see, gay thought, so me in the front man,
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  Speaker 1: Please before you go in luster because we ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: talk about this no more over the phone. Let's talk
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  Speaker 1: about this in person, okay, per I mean you gotta
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  Speaker 1: calm down. Man, I don't even understand why you already
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  Speaker 1: like you know what. Yeah, I'm gonna come down Lester seven.
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  Speaker 1: So it started at seven. Let's do six fifty five, Lefter,
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  Speaker 1: I think this is gonna worst for us. This is
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  Speaker 1: gonna help your callad to get out the way that
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  Speaker 1: you really really needed to get out. Man, I got
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  Speaker 1: something for you that's gonna help just calls. Please be
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  Speaker 1: outside at six fifty five. Please don't go on there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be outside. Can you bring a picture with you?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got a picture for you. I got
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  Speaker 1: a nice picture for you. I'll tell you what. Me
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: or Timmy will be outside waiting on you when you
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  Speaker 1: get there. You didn't who me and nephew Timmy from
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  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We're gonna be right outside
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  Speaker 1: in front of the church. Oh man, Man, who did this? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, your brother Jason told me to prank phone
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  Speaker 1: call you man, god, Man, you know you know what
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  Speaker 1: you said? Tell him, I said, if that food came
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  Speaker 1: to church more often, he would know that this is
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  Speaker 1: a prank phone call. Oh Dad, I'm glad it is. Man.
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  Speaker 1: Can you just imagine how to draw up to that
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: church at the food man, jar I got I gotta
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: ask you this here. Man, what is the baddest and
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land? Man
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning show Man, can I see someone
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: in this last ten seconds? Hurry all right, thank you,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Tommy coming up next, asked the Cello Chief Love Officer
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're listening
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show Time. Now for Steve's favorite segment, asked
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: the Cello Chief Love Officer. And if you want advice
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: from the Cello, please submit your questions to Steve Harvey
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: FM dot com. Okay, now, Steve. This one is from
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Camille and Laurel, Mississippi. She says, I'm a thirty nine
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: year old female and I've had the same best friend
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: for twenty years. Recently, I made a terrible mistake in
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: judgment and had sex with one of our male friends.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I shared all the details with my best friend. The
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: guy has a girlfriend and we're all friends. So I
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: felt really bad about it. Two days ago, he called
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: me and was angry because his girlfriend found out. I
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: asked my best friend if she told her, and she
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: said that the girlfriend had a right to know. I'm
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: not speaking to my best friend now because her loyalty
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: was with the wrong person. Am I wrong for ending
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: the friendship? Well, no, you're not, thank you, but your
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: loyalty was misplaced. Also, see if you all were all
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: in a group, and you all were friends, and then
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: you slept with one of the girls in your group, man,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: and then you told your best friend, and then she
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: turned around and said, I think the girl had the
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: right to know. That's y'all's little girl cold y'all be
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: doing all the time. But so you should have thought
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: about that if the girl was in your group and
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: then your girl told. But ain't that what y'all do?
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Y'all always say, I would want to know. Well that
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: it is, so you kind of died by your own
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: little theory, I think, Ladies in the opinion, well, I
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: don't think that the best friends should have told. I
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: don't think that, and I agree with you, Steve. I
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: definitely agree with you. I think with the best friend
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: if the best friend code, I would want to know
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: if my best friend knew. So it's levels to the
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: code is you're kind of agreeving it all together. I
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: don't know how close, dude, y'all don't know the code exact.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I have to loop it all in. I don't know
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: why she had to run a damn mouth. Yea, some
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: of them were best friends and then the other ones
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: were friends. But she specifically said that one girl who
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: told was her best friend. Yeah, well, she told her
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: best friend, and then she would have over there and
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: told the other girl. Because you don't know the relationship
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: she had with the other the other girl, right, the
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: other girl might think she helped bed friend too. I
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: just felt she should know. Yeah, Okay. This one's from
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Shawanna and Louisville, Kentucky. She says, I am five months
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: pregnant by a lying man. We dated for a year
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: and everything was great until he told me that he
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: was married when I told him. When I told him
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I was pregnant, he told me he's been married for
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: six years. He also said he's got another baby on
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: the way by a girl named Tanisha. He said that
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: he felt better after he came clean about everything, and
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: now we could move on from here. What. I'm not
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: trying to raise my child in this ghetto mess, but
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I need help and support. What should I do now? Wow?
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I mean what else can you do? You know? He
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: you need help with support. He's gonna have to pay
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: child support. But I don't think you. I don't know
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna have an ongoing relationship with him unless
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: you just get okay with being the other woman because
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: he'd been married for six years and you just found out.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: But he not only been married, he got another girl pregnant. Yeah,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: that's why are you pregnant? And now y'all don't even
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: know the wife and the wife don't nobody either want
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: of y'all? He didn't know he was married after five months? Wow?
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: And no protection? Who? Yeah, you can hide it for
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: five months, you can your wife, But sure the girl
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: you're cheating with two okay? Yeah, y'all have been tricked
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: by that. I don't want to run him off. Equasion
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: that a lot of women use, yea, And so you
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: end up going along with a lot of stuff trying
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: to see where a gold and then you like caller say,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: you end up settling, but why aren't you using protection? Steve? Still,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know why? Five months? Okay, we're moving on.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Why are people wearing mask? Yeah, they don't think they
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: can get it, so yeah, yeah, that is a general consensus. Um,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: please get your child support though, lady Henry, mask and
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: a condom. I'm sorry, that's good advice. Together, Yeah, yeah,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: together during the during the DW Yeah, condom. You're gonna
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: have a hard time pining his baby on me, all right, Steve,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: here's one from Henry. Yeah, Henry and Fairfax, Virginia says Hello, Steve,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: I guess you can say that I'm an old fool.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I'm a single father and a one hundred percent disabled veteran.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: I've been dating a thirty nine year old woman for
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: two years and doing my best to keep her happy,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: and she has very expensive taste. I recently found out
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: that she's been cheating on me and going on trips
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: with another man with the money that I give her.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I feel hurt and used, and I just want an explanation.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I can move on, but I need closure. Should I
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: keep trying to get answers or just let her go
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: for listen to me. First, wait, wait, wait, hold on,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Steve on, what did you say? Tommy? I just said,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: thank you for your service? Okay, yeah, thank you. Okay,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: well you know that ain't what I'm Okay, let's take
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: into consideration what Timmy just said, thank you for your serve.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: But here, come to Joe. I don't know how you are,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: but your name Henry didn't say. Yeah, come on, Ash
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: was born before nineteen six, somewhere before nineteen seventy. So Henry,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: now you are one hundred percent disabled Vestia. So now
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: she's getting all your disability check that check, and she traveling.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming here you can't go nowhere. Hey, hey, hey care,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I'm just no, no, no, Steve, nothing you wrote in
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: am My old food A hundred percent disable. I'm assuming
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: your ass can't go nowhere, you and your fifties and sixties.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: She thirty nine, she's spending all your money. She going
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: with somebody a walk he ski, No, he won hundred
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: percent disable. What you want me to say, it's just
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: the way. Well, I'm just trying to tell you thank
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: you for your service. So you're listening, all right. So
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: here's the question, guys, should we really ever blame the
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: other woman or the other man. Now, every time we
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: hear that someone was left they were cheated on with
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: another man or woman, folks, always we always blame the person. Uh,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: we always blame that person first. Then they blame the
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: significant other, the spouse. We always blame the woman first.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, and that's down down through history. So the
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: question is who really should get the blame. I think
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: there's enough blame to go around, quite frank, Yeah, but
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: you know this is crazy, but normally the woman is
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: always the blame. I mean, when you think about it,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: down through history, people mostly blame the woman. Yeah, yeah,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: so the So then the question is like, okay, so
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship and you leave that relationship
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: to get with someone else, whole's fault is it? Is
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: it the new person's fault, you know, the woman's fault,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: or is it the man's fault for leaving and hurting
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: his significant other? You mean, but what I mean, but
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: he had to have had your saying, a relationship with
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: this other person before he left his significant other, right
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, so he was cheating yeah yeah, person.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Well you know, look, whoever is in the supposed committed
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: relationship is to blame for breaking the commitment. That's you know, Look,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: you're not You're not. Look, you can't blame the other person.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: The other person ain't promised you nothing. The other other
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: person didn't take no vows, the other person didn't promise
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: you nothing. Your directed anger should be at the person
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: who broke the commitment to you, who broke your trust.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: That's your problem. Now you can feel now if you
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: see her, you're gonna have problem with her. Because she
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: knew that you were in a relationship. Why didn't she
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: leave you alone? That that's the other argument, you know
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that's the argument on the other side, Well,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: she knew we were in a relationship, why was she
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: in it? And she already knew he had a girl?
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Why did he pursue it? Is the bigger question. But
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: because see, if it wasn't her, it would have been
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: somebody else, right, Because if he's in to pursue other
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: women business, it doesn't matter that it's her. If it's
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: not her, it's gonna be somebody else pursued, right, Yeah,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: because he in the pursue game. But the women so
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: most of the time, gets blamed, get blamed for that
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: women do. She knew we were in a relationship that
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: women don't usually blame the men if the men cheat,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I mean after the fact. Yeah, but and and they
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: go so far as to take the man back that
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: is cheated on. Yeah, yeah, but the woman is outcast. Yeah,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: they threw with her. Yeah, they're done. So you said,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: blame the person that with the commitment. I agree with. Yeah,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: I do too. That's how it should pursue. That's how
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: it should go. But it doesn't often go that way.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: You're right though, Yeah, Well, I blame my best friend
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: for breaking up what relationship I had. He dated, he
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: ended up messing around with my girlfriend long long time ago.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: But I blamed his ass I did. Junior, Well, don't
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: don't say that, Timmy. You go is everything gets so
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: personal on this show. I'm trying, but he knows who
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: it is to see. We comedian, that's how we we.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: We The jokes come from this therapy, jokes that come
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: from that highway. Junior. Yeah, I come back and then
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I catched them kissing on the couch, like, oh dog,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: But they looked at me like you're gonna put that
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: in the kitchen. No, I'm not gonna put that in
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: the kitchen. Timing, you know, you know, he looking like
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: tim looking like, are you gonna put that down right there? No?
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I just caught you kissing my girl. Yeah, you went
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: to the store and something. Yeah, and you left them
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: alone in the house. Yeah, and you come but this
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: is your boy. Yeah, you come back, you dog? You know,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: iver say, oh man, you got to be kidding me.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: But he looked at me and always up, man, what's up? Man?
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: You're gonna put that in the kitchen like you're living
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: like you're gonna put that in the kitchen like the
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: drace is going in the kitchen right now, cocacoa. If
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: you whip the ass back there, Like I said, we
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be even talking about. Everything gets violence. That's how
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: you get paid. If I walk in to my house
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: and my partner kissing my girl on the couch, yeah,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be some hell up in him. It's gonna
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: be some real hell up in him, because dog, my
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: house dog, and you think less of me. You don't
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: even have enough respect for me. You already disrespect for
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: me with my girl, and so is she disrespecting me
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: with you. But you're gonna come in my house like
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I ain't nothing. Oh gnaw dog, I promise you me
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: and your asses at walk. But see, and that's normally
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: what happens, Steve, that's normally what happens. That's that's normally
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: what happens. What you just said. But earlier you said
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: it's the responsibility of the one who's in the commitment. Yeah,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: but see now if here you see it and see
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: it's a double standard. No I get it, but I'm
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: saying it ain't no double standardship. This is what. Okay,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: go ahead, finish your thought. Now I'm listening to me.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Now we're in this here. But now if you might
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: do yeah, and I know you see now we got
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: to go into man code. Man code is you don't
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: do your boys. Girl. It's too many women out here
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: that's available. So now you over here in mind, then
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: you in my house. Yeah, that's what happened to care
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: same thing. Why wasn't that my house house? Yeah? Well,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: oh I was a comedian, you know, I just I
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: hand over. I was hug just for Shelton. But it
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: was your friend though. The don't you understand we had
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: to stay a plate with fush. That's this is treat. Yeah,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: were you you girl? I love four places. When I
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: was homeless, man, I probably told about six girls and
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: they believed you because I had to let me stay
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: that I love you, So they come home. While I'll
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: be cooking everything, you'll be doing everything. Hell yeah, and
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: just just just not that Junior. We can still his age.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: He's still around you. Side a right, all right in Houston,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: we gotta go. You're listening time for would you rather?
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Would you rather eat rotten eggs or drink sour milk? Yeah?
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: You can all let up. Man, gonna go with that
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: sour milk. That's that's close to butter milk. Yeah, okay,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: my sister would take that. That Roden's head. You got
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: problem though, Come on, Junior, what you got? Yeah, I'm
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: gonna go with the sour milk. I can't. I've had
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: bad milk before. I poured it on seal before and
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: knew it was solid. But that's all that's all you
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: had ye had, And I'd be damn if I was
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: gonna let my crazy heads daddy see me rank that
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: in the train. Whoa oh, you're throwing away food now?
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: Whoa oh, you're buying groceries? You got money. Okay, did
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: we hear from the nephew? Wait? No, no you didn't,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: and move on. No, pick one gets that trash with
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: that seal. I'll tell you what. I guess something. I
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: gotta follow them because I don't want the egg. I
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: gotta go with the milk. Anyway it is, I'm gonna
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: throw up on you dad, all right? Would you rather
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: date someone with their ex's name tattooed on their chest
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: or date someone who's ex lives next door? Would you
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: rather date someone that has their ex's name tattooed on
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: their chest? Or would you rather date someone who's ex
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: lives next door? I'm going with the chest. I'm gonna
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: see you from behind more than I am going from
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: the front. Anyway. Wow, wow, Wow, are you sleepy because
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: you just off? Wow? Flying off? You asked me ste
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: think about your answers. Yeah, I'm just I'm not pulling
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: up every day and he right there. That turn into
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: a fight. Come on, tell my Lawrence next door? Lawrence, Ye, Floyd,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Floyd stay right next door. No, you can have that tattoo.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I just I just I just missed you. I probably
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: misread it anyway, you know, I get names anyway. All right,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: one more? One more? Would you rather get stuck in
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: an elevator with your ex or with your partner and
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: their ex? H No, I don't go with the partner.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I'd rather get stuck in there with my partner and
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: her X. I can hook his as. We can do
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: that at least what you say, Junior say, I'm going on.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I'd rather do that. Okay, okay, all right, nephew, the
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: elevator or with your partner in their X. Come on,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: don't be difficult elevator with your ex? You scared? All right,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Show right after you're listening to show. All right, guys,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: it is time for comedy roulette. Jay, please do the
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: honors and explain. Go ahead and look on its feet.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: You'll be all right, priceless. I know right. You gotta
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: do it, though, go ahead, anything, do you take four subjects?
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Because we're all comedians, we can do this. You put
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: those four subjects, one at a time on a wheel
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: that goes around and around. When that wheel spins round
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: and around and around, where that wheel stops. Because we're
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: all comedians, will do the damn thing. All right here
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: we go with the topics. Things you hide in the
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: fridge from other people? All right, Lies you tell yourself
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: when you're running out of gas, what you say to
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: yourself when you get dumped, and what you say when
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: you oversleep. Spind the wheel, cat spun it, spun the wheel.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: I like what you're saying yourself in your open week,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: but it's what you say to yourself when you get dumped.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: I want to this one. Let's go, guys, let me
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: start it off. Come on, hey, I was gonna go
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: into service anyway, so this relationship wasn't gonna work at anyway.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I don't really like I didn't really want her, no way.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: It was her best friend. I really want it to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: be honest with you. Work it out for yourself. Yes,
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get jumped, Steve,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: you don't want crazy? I ain't crazy? What say you?
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Trust me? Your breath was gonna break us up. You know.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: I didn't really care for you making me wear all
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: that leather in the bedroom anyway, So I'm glad we
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: ain't doing this. No mother, listen, I'm chap nine. Come on, Steve,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get dumbed. I
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: was just about to text her anyway, right after breakfast.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: You say to yourself when you bring up, I don't
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: know how to tell you this, but I never did
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: like your dog. How about you know? Truth be told,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Truth be told. My baby mama won't me back anyway.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Ain't worry about this right here? What you say to
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: yourself when you get dumbed? I bet you I can
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: find somebody else. Love. You say to yourself you're done,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: And just in case you get ready to call me,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: I have blocked all your know he's hurt, he's hurt,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: he's hurt. You know what, you know what? What? You
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: know what, Tommy, she'll be back because don't nobody to
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  Speaker 1: do that little thing that I do. Don't nobody else
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: do that. She'll be back. The third person, Tommy, right there,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: he's hurt. Yeah. What you say to yourself when you
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: get jumpsie, You ain't the first person to leave me.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: You think you're doing something? Thank you doing something that
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  Speaker 1: ain't nothing. I don't like you doing something. You say something.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you, but the white
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: girl was checking me out anyway. You know what? What
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: you know what, Timmy, I'm gonna we're gonna get our
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: life together. We're gonna go in the church. We're gonna
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: let the Lord as we let the Lord ask about it.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah, she got him one more, Steve,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: close it out. Okay, huh hey, hey, my lips. That
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: be I'm next the next custom I don't know what
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: right after the great job. Guys, you're listening to show
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: four minutes after today's Strawberry letter. My subject for today
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: is my wife, an undercover gold digger. Right now, the
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's Frank phone call. What you
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: got for his nap? Y'a already? What's that? Last? Ice
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  Speaker 1: Man Productions, Let's go cat Dog. Hello, Hello, I'm trying
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: to reach Jay career. That is Yes, how are you doing? You? Good? Good? Good? Listen.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: My name is Ice Man with Ice Man Productions. Uh,
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I got my own record label. I've stumbled up on
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: a CD here. I'm assuming this is your demo. You
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: have a demo that's out right now? Yes, all right,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: with a couple of songs on it. Right. Okay, hey, listen,
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I am actually putting together a female group. One of
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: my employees gave me your stuff and I've been listening
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: to it. I liked it soon. I like the vibe
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: and wanted to see if if there's something of interest
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: to you, if you'd like maybe being a in a
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: female group, what kind of female group for females in
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: one group? How do you feel about that? I think
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: that could be workable. Okay, okay, um, hold on, I
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: want to say, Okay, who is that? That's Diddy Diddy.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I'll call him back, tell him I'm working on this
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: group I talked him about. Okay, sorry about that. Hello. Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you listening to him? Yes? Are you okay? Good deal?
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: So listen if you don't mind, could you? Uh? And
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: I know I'm catching you off gods like this here,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: you know, ice man, Really, I really don't normally get
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: on the phone and call people, but I'm heavy about
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: this group and getting it out. I got puffed Ady
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: on my butt about it. And uh, you know, he's
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: one of the producers on this thing, and I'm trying
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: to really bring this thing to a head. So why
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: don't you too me in favor if you can, If
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: you don't mind, I take right, yes, could you? Could
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: you possibly maybe, uh, seeing something for me real quick,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: so I can just you know, I just want to
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  Speaker 1: hear it straight from the straight from you your mouth
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  Speaker 1: to my ear. If you don't mind just anything, Okay,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: there's a hero. If you're look inside your heart, you
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: don't have to be a free Oh what do you
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: there isn't nay if you're reading through your soul and
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: the songs that you know. Okay, Okay, hang on, hay on,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: hay on, hay don't want to say who is that? Think?
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: Don't think I got his solo? Tell them I'm gonna
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: listen to it. Tell them I'm working on a female
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: group right now. Tell them I good, God got it. Hello,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I apologize for all interruptions. That was good. That was good.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Can you give me maybe give me a little something
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: else real quick? Okay, Uh, I'm trying to real quick.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: How old are you Donald? I'm twenty nine, twenty nine okay, okay,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: good deal? And uh what what if you don't mind?
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: What size are y'all? I don't have a a picture
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: on the on the demo about size three? Oh yeah,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh yeah, that'll work, that'll work. Okay, give me,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: give me, give me, give me, if you can maybe
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: maybe do something else for me? Okay, you got you
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: got anything? Like maybe you can marry j Blige. It
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: up for me a little bit. You know, I always
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: see what about kiss callis? I'm good with tell let's
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: do that. Let me get it now. You can wait
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: to a whole life time and change what the feeling
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: from what has been. You may have got hard booken
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: a few times in the past. Never left a strong
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: as Acus too. Don't feel it's good as acus too
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: before and everything I used to say than I used
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: to do went right out. Oh that's what you tell
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: everyone abound you, and you know they've heard it all before.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Why nor can you say? Yeah, yeah, I sman like that.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: Iceman like that. Ice man likes that. All right, that's
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Okay, listen, um, how do you
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: feel about flying up to h to New York maybe
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks so I can put all you
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: guys together. You like that? Yes? All right? All right,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: you're excited about it? Yes, I you Okay, okay, listen, Uh,
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: let me let you know this. The name of the
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: group is the Lingeris, and I think you guys are
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: gonna work out well. Once we get you locked down,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: that'll be four. So we have four girls that make
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: up the Lingerais. You know, okay, they're real pretty girls
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: you got I mean, you know, they're great. I need
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: you to send me some pictures as well. Can you
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: do that? I gotta head shot? Yeah? I got Okay,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: Well listen, I'm gonna need a head shot. But like
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I say, the name of the group is the Lingerais.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: So is that a way you can send me something
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: of you in some lingerie? What is that a way
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: if you can send me you know? Wait? Wait, wait, wait,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: you want me to picture of me linger exactly? Because
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: see this is what you guys actually perform. You're actually
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: gonna be going out on stage and you lingerai. Oh no,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: wait what you're talking about? I'm trying to get you
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: to send me a pitch in your lingeris you to
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: be a part of your school you've gotten to watch for.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: Ain't no damn lingerie? You know what how to he?
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna call me telling me to say is
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: in my largerae and get on stage? That's what we're doing, baby,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: That's what the Laingerais do. Now damn? Now, what kind
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: of you you're a crazy who you Where you get
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: my number and name? From? Where you get my CD?
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: Frond I told you one of my people that work
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: for me gave me your demo check on like, I like,
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: I like what you was doing, and hey, I'm giving
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: you a shot. You Let me tell you something. You
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: will never be a star. Yes, you will never be
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: a star. You're gonna have all these obstacles in your way.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: You excuse me? You who you think you're talking to? You?
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Percipe out? You need to send me a picture in
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: your lagerai is what your neighbor said. You don't be
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: tilling me with this. You'll send me a picture in
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: your lingerais I'm sending you? I want to picture you
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: in your draw one get I got a problem with that.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: You don't you long to be a star. You don't
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: know what to take to be a star. Yes, I
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: do know you don't you gonta do? If you do
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: that way, I'm going to be a start. How are
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: you gonna do it? If you ain't part of Because
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: I'm not a protographic star, idiot. I got one more
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: thing I need to say to you. Don't what is
• 49:09
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• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait till you get home. Oh Michael,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: I have never been pumped in my life. I try
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: to watch my language, but you know you made me mad.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: I bet you he won't see me and no Lingerai
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: for about four or five months. I got one more
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: thing to ask you, baby, tell me this. What is
• 49:53
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  Speaker 1: I'm very much appreciated. I think listen. Coming up next,
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  Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry Letters. Subject is my wife an undercover
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  Speaker 1: gold Digger. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening.
• 51:27
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Subject is my wife an
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: undercover gold digger. Just Stephen Shirley. My wife and I
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: have been married for over fifteen years, and we've come
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  Speaker 1: close to getting a divorce a few times in the
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  Speaker 1: past few years over our finances. My wife has had
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: issues with managing money, so I don't trust her when
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: it comes to keeping up with our money. We have
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: always had separate accounts. I have a personal savings account
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  Speaker 1: and I've been able to save a great deal of
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  Speaker 1: money for our retirement. My wife does not have access
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: to this account. We have one shared account that I
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: put money into each month for household expenses. I am
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: able to track it, but I've never had a problem
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: with her using the money for personal needs. We both work,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: but I am the main breadwinner and I pay all
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: of the bills in the house. That's the house note,
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: both car notes, and all of the utilities. She pays
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: her cell phone and American Express bills. In the past
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: two years, she has constantly nagged me to see bank
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  Speaker 1: statements and a breakdown of our finances. It makes me easy,
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: and she gets upset when I tell her is not
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: necessary for me to share that with her. She told
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: me I'm too secretive, and she loves to threaten me
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: with divorce. I'm not being secretive. It's a trust thing.
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  Speaker 1: And why does she need to know all of a sudden,
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: I am planning to retire with her and I want
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: to keep her in the same lifestyle she's used to.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: But I don't know if we're going to make it.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: She has been sleeping in the guest room and she
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: refuses to have sex with me. I'm a father, great provider,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: and god fearing man, but this situation has me angry
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: as heck. My wife won't sleep with me unless I
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: show her my bank statements. It seems like after fifteen
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: years of marriage, my wife has turned into a gold digger.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: Please help me figure this out. Am I doing something wrong?
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: What's up with her? Well, you know what, I don't
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: think you're doing anything wrong necessarily because you got to
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: save money. You want to have money for your retirement.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: Your money your Your wife is reckless with her money
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: and with the money, so she is not a good
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: person to entrust your life savings and your retirement funds with.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: And if she doesn't understand that, that's on her, uh
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: not you. I think that it's good that you guys
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: have separate accounts. I think it's good that you guys
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: share an account where and I think it's great that
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: you put money in it and pay all of the bills.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: All those are pluses. What your wife is up to
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: is anybody's guests. You know, if she wants to see
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: bank statements because I don't know, does she think or
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: suspect that you're you're hiding money from her or something?
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: But I think you know, in this instance, it might be.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: I think it's okay for you to sit her down
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: and tell her this is what's going on. You guys
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: have been married for fifteen years. That should garner some
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: kind of trust in a relationship. I mean money is
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: still like if not that still the number one is
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: definitely in the top two of why relationships and marriages
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: break up because of finances, because you know, people are
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: reckless when it comes to money. She has her own job.
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: What does she need to see it for? If you know,
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: if you're saving and everything, but if you guys are
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: in a good marriage. I think there does need to
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: be some trust. Why don't you want to show it
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: to her? That that is my question. I don't think
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: it's necessarily because you're being secretive or trying to hide something.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: You just don't want her nagging you to get that money.
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: You've got to know that. You know, a lot of
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: times wives do go over spend, you know. That's why
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: if you open up the trunk right now, you'll probably
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: find some shoe boxes of brand new shoes that she
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: hasn't snuck in the house yet. You know. It's kind
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: of you know, it's kind of just what we do,
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: some of us, some of us, I mean, we do,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: you know. But as is her not sleeping with you,
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: that's a bit far because you won't show her the
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: bank statements and all of that unless she has something
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: else planned. I think it's really really immature of her
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: to threaten you with divorce because of this situation. That's
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: not cool. I don't think that's something you should play with.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: But I think there is a communication situation going on
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: here too. You may not want to do it, but
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: just show her, you know, maybe that'll calm her down
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: and settle her down and tell her the reasons you're
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: doing this. You know you want to continue her lifestyle.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: You're really doing it out of love and stuff. But
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: she's selfish more than being a gold digger. Steve, is
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: my wife an UNDERCOVID gold digger. Well, y'all been married
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: fifteen years, y'all and came close to divorce in a
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: couple of times. Then you say that your wife got
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: issues with managing money, so I don't trust her when
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: it comes to keeping up without money. There's a little
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: confusion here. We've always had supparate so that over the
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: fifteen years you've had that. I have a personal savings account,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: and you've said you've been able to save a great
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: deal of money for our retirement and your wife ain't
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: got access to it. Y'all got to share the account
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: that I put money into for households that I'm able
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: to track, but I've never had And then you said,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: but I've never had a problem with her using the
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: money for her personal needs. Well, if you've never had
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: a problem with her using the money for your personal needs,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: what was the several divorces about them? See, there's a
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: little confusion going on here. Brother, you all have come
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: closer getting a divorce over finances. You don't have a
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: problem with her using the money for personal needs? Did
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: you say? Ten seconds? They we both work. I'm the
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: main brandwinner, and I pay all the bills in the
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: house house called, all its utilities, and all she paying
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: herself on the manage. Well, when you make a lot
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: of money, though, if you're paying all that and still
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: saved a lot of money for y'all's retirement, and you
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: don't have a problem with her spending for her personal needs,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what the damn problem is.
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: I love him all right, and hold that thought, Steve.
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after be our subject is my wife
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: an undercovered gold digger? We'll be back to find out
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve,
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject is my
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: wife an undercover gold digger? This is kind of a
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: confusing letter, y'all. Couse, you've been closer getting divorce a
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: couple of times because you don't trust it with the
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: money y'all in hand separate accounts, but you got just
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: one account where you say a great deal of money
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: for y'all's retirement. Your wife don't have access to it.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: Y'all got to share account. Y'all put money into and
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: you ain't never had a problem with her using the
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: money for her personal needs. If you've never had a
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: problem with that, why have you all been getting a divorce?
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: I'm confused. We both work. You the main breadwinner. You
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: pay all the bills in the house. She paying her
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: cell phone in Americans press. Now, in the past two years,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: here we go, she has constantly nagged me to see
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: bank statements and a breakdown of our finances. Okay, most
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: women want to know what's going on in their life.
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: Since you have this separate account, she's asked you to
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: see it now, then you are uneasy with it, and
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: she get upset because this is what you've been told
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  Speaker 1: a grown woman. Now, it's not necessary for me to
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  Speaker 1: share that with you. Wow, wayman, hold a partner. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta tell you some real, honest man. You talking to
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  Speaker 1: a grown woman who's married to you, and you have
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  Speaker 1: a separate account that she has found out about, and
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: you've saved a great deal of money for retirement, for
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: you all, and she asked to see the bank statement
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: of the finances of y'all's life, of which you all
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: contribute y'all's money into this account, but you pay the bills,
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  Speaker 1: and then you tell her it ain't necessary for you
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  Speaker 1: to share that with her. Dog reverse this for a second.
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  Speaker 1: This is what this is how Margie wins all arguments
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  Speaker 1: with us. She says, reverse this. D Suppose I said
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  Speaker 1: that to you, and then that's how she win all
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: our arguments. Yeah, that's whenever. But she only do that
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: when I'm dead wrong. She don't do that when she wrong.
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  Speaker 1: When I reverse it, she reverse it back. She really
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  Speaker 1: tricky though. She told me that I'm too secretive and
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  Speaker 1: she loves to threaten me with divorce. Well, dog, see,
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  Speaker 1: you say that there's all this money over here, but
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: the money ain't in her house. She trying to figure
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  Speaker 1: out what is it going somewhere else? And you telling
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  Speaker 1: her it's in an account. She says, show me the account,
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  Speaker 1: and you tell her she don't need to know, and
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  Speaker 1: then she say you're being secret Then you say, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not being secretive. Okay, Doc, what you want to call
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  Speaker 1: he said, it's a trust thing. But dog you're keeping
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  Speaker 1: a secret from your wife, so she is right about that.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: You are being so secretive. But I know what you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: because you don't trust it with the money. And why
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  Speaker 1: does she need to know all of a sudden Wait
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: a minute, hold up, dog, what woman don't have a
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  Speaker 1: right to know what's going on in her life? You
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  Speaker 1: think if she finds out the money, that's she gonna
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  Speaker 1: spend it. But you already got it protected because she
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: don't have access to it. So now the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you won't show it to her ever, has created a
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  Speaker 1: huge problem. I'm planning to retire with her. She don't
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  Speaker 1: know that. See now we got an insecurity issue going
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: on because you got all his money stacked off to
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  Speaker 1: the side. She don't know about if she don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you're gonna take it off with another woman. She
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  Speaker 1: don't know if you're gonna keep it for yourself. She
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  Speaker 1: don't know what it is. I'm planning to retire with her,
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  Speaker 1: and I want to keep her in the same lifestyle
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  Speaker 1: she's used to. Damn bro, I mean, I hear what
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: you're saying. You got a good heart. I think you're
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: phrasing it wrong to the woman, though but I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if we're gonna make it. Hold dog, So you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna risch your marriage of a person you want to
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  Speaker 1: retire with because she think you got a secret. You
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  Speaker 1: don't trust her spending. You ain't gonna show her that account.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: And now she she threatened you with divorce. And now
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: she had moved into the guest room. And we ain't
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: having sex. We're not having sex. You can read all
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: these papers. Hold on, hold on, We're not having sex.
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  Speaker 1: Tell you know what I mean. You know what what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: received you from the sea. This is statements. I'm a father,
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  Speaker 1: great profather, and a god fearing man. Stop stop bringing
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  Speaker 1: the Lord in this. This ain't got nothing through the Lord. Doc.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: Why did the Lord tell you to keep the secret?
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: So let's not dragged the Lord in this. But this
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: situation makes me angry as heck. My wife won't sleep
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: with me unless how I show her my bank statements.
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  Speaker 1: It seems like I got fifteen years of manage when
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: my wife has turned into a gold digger. Dog. See,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: you're attaching terms to this woman. I understand the problem
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: you have. It you're saying you can't trust her with money,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: but you gotta fixed where she can't move the money,
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: But now you don't want to show his that because
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: what's she gonna do? You think she's gonna spend more?
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: And you think she had turned into a gold digger dog.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: Just's been the same woman for fifteen years. That's why
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: y'all didn't had a several divorces, but her threatening you
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: with divorces because you won't show her the paperwork, which
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: makes her think as a woman, something else is happening.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: Please help me figure this out. Am I doing something wrong? Yes?
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: What's up with her? The question is who's up with y'all?
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: You don't trust her and she don't trust you. What
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: y'all manage? We are and this ain't gonna work, partner,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: and this really ain't got a damn thing to do
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: with money. Fifteen years. You don't trust her, You can't
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: count on her, and she thinks she don't trust you,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: and she can't count on you. Unless y'all get real transparent,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: real quick, y'all ain't gonna make it, homie. Yeah all right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: thank you post your comments on all this paperwork this
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: evening at Steve Harley, you over here this evening in
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: this bed. Also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast. We
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: can read coming up to forty six after the hours
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: s I'm gonna be looking for a deposit. You're listening
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: to show? All right, So Junior is here today with
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: this is a comedy segment. You call Junior when dead?
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: What's that about? When did you know? We've been seeing
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: a lot of things that have been happening, but you
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: just don't know when it started? Like, for example, when
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: did kids get lucky? You go in front of you,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: all my drawls was in the same luggage with my grandmother,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: all my draws up against the Brazil. When the kids
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: getting luck? I don't know when it started. When did
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: people start wearing house shoes everywhere? I had church, somebody
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: stepped out their house shoes to get to the altar.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: And now when you leave your shoes out here in
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: church like that? When when did it happen? Like when
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: did vegans get so outspoken? What do you mean you
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: ain't never know who the hell wasn't vegan? That he
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: upsetting by everything you can't eat? That it had a mother?
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: I don't can't vegans? Is I mean? When did all
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: this stuff starts? They speaking up? When did we just
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: never mind just wearing ripped jeans. Maybe used to get
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: your ass one for your jeans being damned by the jeans? Told?
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Why am I looking at the range draws? Just? When
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: did that start? We just don't know when it happened.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: When people used to borrow money? Now, ain't cash h happen? Yeah,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: but dinner? He didn't the ass Remember I can our
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: borrow was important? Yes, they don't do that. No more,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: they don't do none of that. When did big guys
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: just start showing their stomach with no results? You know
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: they don't. They don't care, no remorse. They just the
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: stomach just out matter of fact? When did women just
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: start wearing their stomach so hot? When did all of
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: this happened? When? When did white kids get comfortable with
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: saying the N words the black kids? When did that start?
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: When did we start knocking our kids? When did that stop?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Because my nephew is sitting up here making fls at school.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: We ain't been school a week. When did this start?
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: Just when did it happen? We just don't know. We
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: have to figure out when did that happened? That's when
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: we start thinking about it. Stuff stuff changed? M hm, No, No,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: when did it happen? Wow, I'll tell you another profile. Okay,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: here's one that that everybody knows. This is something we
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: don't even know when they started. But remember when when
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: did when a jogging suit? Member? When when it meant
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: you was going jogging? Oh? Yeah, not people wearing jockon
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: sus a jogging? No, damn what you're talking about me?
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: That used to mean something you got on the jogging suit.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: I can assume your ask was going jock na, na, na,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: you're asking drive throughs. You You ain't doing nothing. We're
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: walking in it, sleeping right now. I'm just at work now,
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: I'm in one right now. You're listening. All right, guys,
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Is it possible to be
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: too tired to go to sleep? Uh? It's perfectly possible
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: to feel tired and at the same time have trouble
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: dozing off. Certain life stress, us and health problems can
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: leave us feeling exhausted, but at the same time make
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: it difficult to relax and go to sleep. Also, missing
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: out on sleep can just erupt our natural rhythms, which
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: can make us feel wide awake when we'd usually be sleeping.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: So here's the question. Have you ever been too tired
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  Speaker 1: to sleep. I've heard people say that before. I'm I
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: was so tired I couldn't even sleep. What do you
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: think cause that? Well, I know for a fact you
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: can be tired and not be sleepy. And then sometimes man,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: you can. You I've done myself like that many times.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: I just pushed myself to the edge and then it's
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: so much adrenaline that it takes a while for the
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: adrenaline to go because you've just been exerting yourself. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: you know, and then that adrenaline is flowing and you
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: up in your hype because man, it's sometimes, like Tommy
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: Junior tell you, after the show is kind of hard.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: It's kind of hard to set excited. Yeah you're tired. Yeah,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: just yeah, done a show, is right? So you just
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: sitting in the morning, yeah, just looking around? So what
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: do you do in that case when you know you
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: have to get some rest? Passed the bags all missed
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: this flight? Is what I do? And you sleep on
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: the plane. Yeah, I try to get to sleep on
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: the plane. I love sleeping on the plane. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: But Steve, when you're not too tired and you're getting
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: and you look forward to that sleep, And how do
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: you boy? Good sleep? You know you about tom I'm
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about when I know I'm sleeping like you know,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: like I'll be talking to somebody and be looking dead
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: at their ass. But don't but don't be listening, right,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: but be rocking back and forth just a little bit,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: you know, but not side to side, back and forth
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  Speaker 1: like closer to him, fall away, close to him, fall away,
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: and just be walking like that so it don't look
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: because you don't want to rock side to side because
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: that throw people off. But when you rock towards them,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: that just lures them in. And be just talking and
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: I don't be hearing nothing. They say, I've shut my
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: eyes completely. While somebody was talking at lady one time
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: at this meeting, she was talking and I was just
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: looking at how rocking I fell asleep. She said, are
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: you okay? I'm fine? You right? What's wrong with you? See?
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: I really think you hold the record of getting on
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: the plane and falling asleep the fastest. Yeah, don't give it,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: put that belt on. Yeah, but I go to sleep
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: on the plane and the heartbeat, I don't guess you
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: will on the plane. Oh no, no, no, no, no no,
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  Speaker 1: no no, no, said the entertainer's boy KB kp KB.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: KB snorts. We just on the plane with time king
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: to him. KB was snoring so loud. The white dude
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: next to him said, hey, are you serious? Are you
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: really serious? So k KB said, hey, man, my bad,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: but I do snore. So KABY went back in again.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: Now we crossed the aisle, KB snowing so loud. We're
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: on the other side of the aisle me and said,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: just holly. The white dude said, oh my god, for
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: crying out loud, mister, can you please sit up KB?
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: Tell me KB sayd hey man, I just told you
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: I snore, So listen to this right here. If you
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: wake me up one moment, you ain't gonna believe what
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: else I do really loud too, causin my ass whip
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: the skills is just as loud as my soul source
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: back over there, and ten minutes later, k B, we're
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: ripping you went in again. That dude got up out
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: of first class and went back in coach and set down. Wow.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up more of today's trending stories on
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back you're listening to show. So scientists
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: say it takes about twenty one days or twenty one
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: days exactly to build a habit. So if you're planning
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: to to make a New Year's resolution for next year
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: and stick to it, you should start your resolution now,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: that's what the scientists are saying. Then by the beginning
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: of the new year, you will already be in the
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: new habit. You know, have that new habit, It'll be underway,
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: and you'll be more likely to keep it. That's why
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: I guess that's why a lot of people drop off
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: after they make those resolutions. They don't keep them because
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: they're not in the habit of doing it. So start now,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: according to scientists. So, Steve, have you thought about your
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions? Are you making any for next year?
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: I stopped doing over years ago because you didn't. You
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: didn't stick to him. Is that why you stopped? No,
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: I just decided whenever I'm gonna do something, I'm gonna
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: do it now. I went to New York Knew Year
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: to do nothing. Okay, I gotta get healthy. I gotta
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: get healthy now. I ain't got no. Yeah, so you
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: kind of ain't keeping with what the scientists are saying, Man, well,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know he scientists. I know he's not a
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: scientist telling it real scientists though, sci E n T
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: I s T. Yeah, Steve very good. Don't don't ask me,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: just spell nothing that's got to do with science. You
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: just got the subject. I'm good. Yeah, I don't worry
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: about symbols and stuff they got or the periodic table.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: Ask me to coming up, we'll play around. If would
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: you rather? In thirty three minutes after the hour, that's
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show time for would you rather?
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: Would you rather eat rotten eggs or drink sour milk? Yeah?
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: You can all that up. Man, I'm gonna go with
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: that sour milk. That's that's close to butter milk. Yeah, okay, yeah,
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: my sister would take that. That rotten egg you got
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: problem thought? Ye come on, junior, what you got Yeah,
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the sour milk. I can't. I've
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: had bad milk before. I poured it on sealed before
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: and knew it was sour. But that's all that's all
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: you had had it, And I'd be damn if I
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: was gonna my crazy daddy see me rank that in
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: the train. Who oh you're throwing away food now? Who
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: oh you're buying groceries? You got money? Okay, all right,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: moving on? Do we hear from the nephew? No? No,
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: you did, and move on? No pick one. I tell you,
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: I guess something. I gotta follow them because I don't
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: want the egg. I gotta go with the milk. Anyway
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: it is, I'm going to throw up on you, all right.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: Would you rather date someone with their ex's name tattooed
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: on their chest or date someone who's ex lives next door?
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: Would you rather date someone that has their ex's name
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: tattooed on their chest? Or would you rather date someone
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: who who X lives next door? I'm going with the chest.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna see you from behind more than I am
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: going from the front. Anyway. Wow, wow, Wow, are you
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: sleepy because you just off wowing off? You asked me,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: think about your answers. Yeah, I'm just going I'm not
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: pulling up every day and he right there into a fight.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: Tell my Lawrence, Net Lawrence, Yeah, Floyd, Floyd, stay right
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: next door. No, you can have that tattoo. I just
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: I just I just missed you. I probably missread it anyway,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: you know, I getting a wrong anyway? All right? One more?
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: One more? Would you rather get stuck in an elevator
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: with your ex or with your partner and their X? No,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: I don't go with the partner. Get I'd rather get
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: stuck in there with my partner and her. I will
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: hook We can do that at least we get some
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: of what you say, Junior say, I'm went on. I'd
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: rather do that, okay, okay, all right, nephew in the
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: elevator or with your partner in their EX. Come on,
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: don't be difficult elevator? What's your ex? You're scared? Really?
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: Coming up? Forty nine minutes after the last break of
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: the day and some closing remarks from the one and
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: a least Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are, last break
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: of the day. It's been a good day as usual. Yeah,
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: it's been fun. Yeah, you're all right, Steve? Did you
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: because we started the show off talking about attention? Well,
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: you know, it's in one of those days for me.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: I will admit that so far, but it's gonna get better.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: I always keep my head up, you know, which could
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: lead into these closing remark because I might as well
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: talk about something that I was dealing with. Every morning,
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  Speaker 1: I have a little meditation that I do with daily
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  Speaker 1: inspiration that I read my Bible and a journal that
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  Speaker 1: I take notes in, and I started it doing this
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  Speaker 1: taking these notes to first and I have notes for
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  Speaker 1: practically every single day. I've only missed like three days
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  Speaker 1: from taking notes, just three. And so it's something I've
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  Speaker 1: learned to do, and it starts my day off a really,
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  Speaker 1: really well because it gives me a weaponry till God
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  Speaker 1: against the evil principalities of the world. You know, there's
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  Speaker 1: so much stimulation out here with social media and technology
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  Speaker 1: and cyberspace and own calls and messages and texts that
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  Speaker 1: you know, even if you're having a great day of
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  Speaker 1: so much stuff out there that can throw you off
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  Speaker 1: if you're not, if you haven't stabilized yourself spiritually. And Sunday,
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  Speaker 1: when I woke up, I was I was just about
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  Speaker 1: to open up my journal and my daily inspiration, but
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  Speaker 1: I had left the TV on the night four in
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  Speaker 1: the living room, and so I went into the living
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  Speaker 1: room and I was about to sit out with my
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  Speaker 1: books and I said, man, let me, let me cut
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  Speaker 1: this TV off. And I went over there and I
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  Speaker 1: hit it. It didn't go off for some reason, and
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  Speaker 1: I said, man, what's the deal? And I tried to
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  Speaker 1: hit it and didn't go off, and I just hit
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  Speaker 1: the channel and I hit the channel one time. I
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  Speaker 1: hit the channel one time and up pops Joel Oldstein.
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  Speaker 1: And so I was instead of me opening up my
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  Speaker 1: journal in my daily inspiration, I sat down and cut
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  Speaker 1: cut the volume up. I went, Okay, this must be
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  Speaker 1: for me. Maybe he wants me to get this, And
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my goodness, was he correct. Now
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell you exactly what he said, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: a paraphrase it a bit. He was talking about people
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  Speaker 1: who were have given up on their dreams. Now that
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  Speaker 1: didn't apply to me, but he said, this is for
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  Speaker 1: people who've given up on your dreams. This is for
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  Speaker 1: people who've been waiting on something for God for a
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  Speaker 1: while and it hasn't gotten there yet, and you're starting
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  Speaker 1: to feel like maybe it ain't for you all you're
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  Speaker 1: thinking about giving up on it. I wasn't quite in
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  Speaker 1: that part of it, but I've been a little discouraged
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  Speaker 1: about the fact that something I had been wanting for
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  Speaker 1: a while, hadn't happened. A lot of people fall into
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  Speaker 1: that bracket. But a lot of people have falling into
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  Speaker 1: the they waited so long, they just decided it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: for them, and they stopped, or they gave up on
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  Speaker 1: their dreams and their visions. And he was talking about
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  Speaker 1: He said, what you don't realize is that when you
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  Speaker 1: ask God for something, that God is working on it
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  Speaker 1: behind the scenes. He's doing some stuff in orchestrating some stuff,
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  Speaker 1: and putting some stuff into play for you that you
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  Speaker 1: may very well not even be aware of. But if
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  Speaker 1: you give up hope, if you stop looking for it,
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  Speaker 1: if you lose the faith, you then stop the process.
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  Speaker 1: Because God don't give you what you want all the time.
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  Speaker 1: He gives you what you believe all the time. See,
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  Speaker 1: you don't always get what you want because what you
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  Speaker 1: want may not be best for you or something like that.
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  Speaker 1: But if you believe God to give you something and
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  Speaker 1: He has it for you, he's going to give it
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  Speaker 1: to you. But some people just give up hoping for
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  Speaker 1: it looking for it. He said, if you've gotten at
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  Speaker 1: the point in your life where you've given up on
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  Speaker 1: your dreams, or you think it ain't coming and you're
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  Speaker 1: starting to fade. He said, I want you to do something.
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  Speaker 1: He said, I want you to look again. And that
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  Speaker 1: caught my attention. He said, I want you to look again.
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  Speaker 1: He said. If you look again and you don't see
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  Speaker 1: the blessing coming, or you don't see the blessing right there,
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  Speaker 1: he said, I want you to look again, he said
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  Speaker 1: in it. If you still don't see it, he said,
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  Speaker 1: listen to me real close. I want you to look again.
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  Speaker 1: And that was the thing that I needed to hear yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes, y'all, when you ask God for something that
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  Speaker 1: it don't come in the time frame that you want
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  Speaker 1: it to come in, you got to stay patient, You
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  Speaker 1: got to stay watchful, and you got to do like
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  Speaker 1: Joel Olstein said, you got to look again. And if
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  Speaker 1: you look over there and you still don't see it,
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  Speaker 1: stay patient, but look again. And man on, man on, man,
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell you how I needed that yesterday. I
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  Speaker 1: can't tell you how I need it today. I can't
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  Speaker 1: tell you how often I need that because so many times, man,
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  Speaker 1: so many things go counter to the way you wanted
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  Speaker 1: to go or what you thought it was gonna be.
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  Speaker 1: That you end up and you start feeling just a
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  Speaker 1: little bit discouraged. Sometimes you just flat out I can't
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  Speaker 1: take it no more and I quit. But I very
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  Speaker 1: rarely get that way, but I do get I'm human,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so I get moments when I'm man, this
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  Speaker 1: is exhausting because what I'm attempting to do is exhausting.
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  Speaker 1: What you're attempting to do or become, or the point
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to get to, it's exhausting. But if you
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  Speaker 1: exhausted and you don't feel like it's happening fast enough,
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  Speaker 1: do like Joel Oldstein said, y'all, look again, just look again.
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  Speaker 1: He's probably doing something on your behalf that you're not
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  Speaker 1: aware of. Those are my closing remarks that really helped me.
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  Speaker 1: So you know what I'm doing right now, I'm looking
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