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FULL SHOW: Steve Harvey's Voicemail, Strawberry Letter- He's So Good, Yet So Bad - 10.14.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all.
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  Speaker 1: At all at all, So don't given them black a million.
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  Speaker 3: Bus buss boozy.
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  Speaker 4: By listening to.
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  Speaker 5: Show.
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  Speaker 3: I want joy, yah yah joy.
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  Speaker 5: You know you.
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  Speaker 6: Love you.
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  Speaker 4: Gotta turn you to turn the mouth turn you probably
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  Speaker 4: got to turn the mouth, turn out, turn.
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  Speaker 5: The water the money up.
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  Speaker 3: Look me, come.
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  Speaker 5: Come on, you'll think that. Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on,
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  Speaker 5: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey man oh
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  Speaker 5: man got a radio show? Yeah, I do. God so
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  Speaker 5: big to me, man, I just have to tell you
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  Speaker 5: about it. I can't help it. It's rather obvious to
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  Speaker 5: me how big, how good God is. He's absolutely tremendous.
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  Speaker 5: He's off the chain, you know, man, I want to
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  Speaker 5: share something with you today. You know, if you're out there,
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  Speaker 5: start your mission today. Why don't we all decide together
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  Speaker 5: better yet? Let's just kill that cause you don't that
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  Speaker 5: just individually? Look you listening, everybody's got something that's that's
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  Speaker 5: on the table that they haven't yet attacked yet.
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  Speaker 2: What are you waiting for? Start your mission today?
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  Speaker 5: Stop the procrastination now and if you and if you
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  Speaker 5: allow prassic excuse man, if you allow procrastination to set in,
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  Speaker 5: then that that allows then which is a weakness, you know,
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  Speaker 5: but that allows the devil then to just really do
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  Speaker 5: his thing.
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  Speaker 2: Because an idle mind is the devil's playground.
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  Speaker 5: So if you ain't working on your goals, dreams, aspirations
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  Speaker 5: or visions, you just you're just waking up seeing how
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  Speaker 5: today gon go or the devil he got plenty for
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  Speaker 5: it for you to do. See. But if you get
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  Speaker 5: your mind right on your goal and your focus and
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  Speaker 5: your purpose, then you can go on about your business.
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  Speaker 5: Then when the distraction comes, you can catch yourself. Now,
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  Speaker 5: don't mean you ain't gonna fall privy or fall prey
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  Speaker 5: to some of your distractions, because you will, but you
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  Speaker 5: will have a goal in mind and aspiration that makes
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  Speaker 5: you go. Hold on, man, I got to stay focused
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  Speaker 5: here because what I really want while I'm really trying
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  Speaker 5: to go the thing that I'm really after, this new
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  Speaker 5: little thing that's being introduced, this don't fit into the equation. Man,
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  Speaker 5: let me keep it moving. May step off the line
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  Speaker 5: for a little while. You know, like I said yesterday,
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  Speaker 5: thing about God is he's so forgiving that if you
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  Speaker 5: get out of line, he'll hold your place. See that's
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  Speaker 5: the real cool thing. A lot of people do that
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  Speaker 5: for you too. Like I said, if you at the
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  Speaker 5: movie theater or you at the amusement park and you're
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  Speaker 5: in the line and you forget something, if you politely
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  Speaker 5: ask the person behind you, hey, man, I gotta run
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  Speaker 5: to my car, left something, would you hold my place?
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  Speaker 5: Most people say fine, Ye'll go ahead, and when you
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  Speaker 5: come back, they don't have a problem. See your problem
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  Speaker 5: is is you want to get out the line, go
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  Speaker 5: do something, then come back and just get up in
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  Speaker 5: the line further up than you were, or cut somebody.
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  Speaker 5: Now you got a problem because see everybody looking at
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  Speaker 5: you now like hi, woa partner? Where you come from?
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  Speaker 5: You know the line start back here? But see the
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  Speaker 5: thing with God is God don't do that. God don't
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  Speaker 5: say the line start back here. God holds your place.
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  Speaker 5: When you make a mistake and you fall off the line,
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  Speaker 5: God holds your place. But if you ain't got no dreams, aspiration,
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  Speaker 5: if you ain't got no place, what he holding for you? See,
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  Speaker 5: I mean he got a place you, but you got
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  Speaker 5: to come to it. See, some people, if well here's
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  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. If you got a goal of aspiration
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  Speaker 5: to dream and you fall off track momentarily, you can
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  Speaker 5: get back to that because God knows where you left off.
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  Speaker 5: Now you may have to accomplish a few more things
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  Speaker 5: since you stopped for a long period of time, but
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  Speaker 5: God know where you left off, you can get back
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  Speaker 5: on track. I look, man, this dream of being on
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  Speaker 5: TV since I was a kid, and it got off track.
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  Speaker 5: Now it got off track. I just kept it as
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  Speaker 5: one of the dreams. And in some real dog moments
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  Speaker 5: when it looked like it wasn't gonna happen, all I
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  Speaker 5: was hanging on to is just to hope that one
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  Speaker 5: day it could.
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  Speaker 2: But that's what faith is really about. Faith is the
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  Speaker 2: belief in things that you cannot see. But faith gives
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  Speaker 2: you the confidence to keep hoping. Man, Sometimes it just
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  Speaker 2: keep hope alive. Sometimes you heard Jesse Jackson say it
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  Speaker 2: just keep hope alive. Some times, man, it's just the hope.
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  Speaker 2: I was hanging on a hope. And I'm talking about
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  Speaker 2: when it got.
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  Speaker 5: Real ugly and funky out there for me, when it
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  Speaker 5: looked like I wasn't gonna ever make it, and all
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  Speaker 5: of the facts was in and everything pointed in the
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  Speaker 5: direction you not gonna make it. You done really messed
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  Speaker 5: up this time. Then I sat there and I just
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  Speaker 5: hung on to the hope. But man, that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: If you got a dream on aspiration of vision or something,
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  Speaker 5: when you fall off track.
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  Speaker 2: And you wanna go get back in line, God holds
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  Speaker 2: your place.
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  Speaker 5: He knew I was off tracking, out of line, but
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  Speaker 5: he said, okay, here's where we stopped. You wanna be
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  Speaker 5: on TV. Now, when you get it together and you
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  Speaker 5: quit tripping and you come and your turn to me,
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna hold your place, put you back in line.
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  Speaker 5: Then we're gonna finish the journey. That took me a
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  Speaker 5: lot longer to get here than I wanted to, But
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  Speaker 5: then it was necessary because I needed all of the
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  Speaker 5: mishaps to happen to me along the way. So when
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  Speaker 5: I got on the radio one day, which I did
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  Speaker 5: not see coming, Steve Harvey got a radio show, y'all.
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  Speaker 5: That's why I say it every day. See, because of
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  Speaker 5: this radio show that I didn't see coming. Now I
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  Speaker 5: have stories to tell, and I can tell you about
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  Speaker 5: me better than I can tell you about anybody. And
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  Speaker 5: I don't been through enough whereas relatable, where enough people
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  Speaker 5: can go mad that happened to me. Appreciate you saying
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  Speaker 5: that that's what it was for. See, I get it now.
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  Speaker 5: See at the time, though I didn't like what was
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  Speaker 5: happening to me. At the time, I was really in
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  Speaker 5: total disagreement with God on a lot of stuff He
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  Speaker 5: was pulling off on me. But in essence I was
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  Speaker 5: really pulling it off on myself. But through his grace
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  Speaker 5: and mercy, he kept me through all of my mistakes,
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  Speaker 5: all my bad decisions, all my miscalculations, all my misfires,
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  Speaker 5: all the times I knowingly stepped out there and did wrong.
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  Speaker 5: He forgave me, He said, because man, if you ever
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  Speaker 5: come to me, I have a plan for you that
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  Speaker 5: is going to be far and above. It will supersede
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  Speaker 5: everything you've ever dreamed of. That's what I did. I
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  Speaker 5: just got sick of me. Goodn't sick of me? And
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  Speaker 5: I turned it over to God. And then God started
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  Speaker 5: working And here I am today. Now He threw with me.
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  Speaker 5: Yet Nope, Have I arrived yet? Nope? But guess what
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  Speaker 5: the journey is cool? And then you know what I
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  Speaker 5: found out that's kind of what it's like in life.
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  Speaker 5: If you done walked off the cliff in life and
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  Speaker 5: you ain't got no God in your life, it's like
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  Speaker 5: not having a parachute. You step off the cliff and
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  Speaker 5: you just free falling. We all now that fag gets
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  Speaker 5: you closer to the grave, right see, we all heading
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  Speaker 5: to the grave from the moment we're born. But the
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  Speaker 5: cool thing about a relationship with God is when you
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  Speaker 5: step off the cliff and you got God.
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  Speaker 2: Here a parachute. You still going down, but it's a
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  Speaker 2: nice ride.
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  Speaker 1: You guide and you're glide.
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  Speaker 5: And you're softly, You enjoy you look, you're smiling. You're
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  Speaker 5: meeting other people along the way. You're floating over here
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  Speaker 5: to ski a little while. You over there at the
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  Speaker 5: beach for a little while, you mess around over here,
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  Speaker 5: you get to go out the country a little bit
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  Speaker 5: on your parachuting and all that, and God just helps
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  Speaker 5: your descent appear more like a rise and the more
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  Speaker 5: like a euphoric fall. Instead of not having no God
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  Speaker 5: in your life and you just walking off that cliff
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  Speaker 5: every day, free falling. Ain't got no cord, You steady pulling,
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  Speaker 5: you hollering the whole way because you to mess around
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  Speaker 5: with yourself and ain't let God come into your life
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  Speaker 5: and provide a parachute for you. I would rather have
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  Speaker 5: a parachute since I got to jump every day, than
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  Speaker 5: to not have one. God has been like a parachute
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  Speaker 5: for me. Ask me where that came from. I can't
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  Speaker 5: tell you, But like I always say, most good things
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  Speaker 5: that happen in my life that I can't explain is
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  Speaker 5: usually him.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Ladies.
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  Speaker 5: And gentlemen, your undivided attention just for a moment.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, notice please notice he's.
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  Speaker 5: Done it again, created another day as only he can do,
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  Speaker 5: allowed you to be a participant in it, which only
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  Speaker 5: he can do. Stop thinking it's your alarm that wakes
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  Speaker 5: you up in the morning. No, no, no, it's God
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  Speaker 5: that shakes you to allows you to hear your alarm.
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  Speaker 5: Always get this straight. And all of this is given
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  Speaker 5: to us as a gift, and that's why it's called
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  Speaker 5: the present. We are all living in the gift called
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  Speaker 5: the present, and be grateful for that. Man, be ever
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  Speaker 5: grateful for that. This is Steve Harvin Marti Show, Sheirley
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  Speaker 5: Strawberry calling Forrell Misssispi Monica Jr. And the legend that
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  Speaker 5: he is nephew Tommy Junior. What's on your mind?
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  Speaker 7: Man?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I want to ask you about this up man
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  Speaker 8: one role does the accountability playing your success?
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  Speaker 9: About being count How do you feel about being accountable?
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean think about it, man. Your success is
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  Speaker 5: dependent on two things.
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  Speaker 2: God and you.
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  Speaker 5: Those are the two factors that's determining your success. If
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  Speaker 5: you allow other factors to come into play, that's on you.
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  Speaker 5: If you allow haters to affect you, that's on You'll
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  Speaker 5: If you allow your association and participation with unlike minded
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  Speaker 5: people to come into your space.
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  Speaker 2: That's on you.
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  Speaker 5: If you choose negativity over positivity, that's on you. You've
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  Speaker 5: got to be accountable for the for the fact that
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  Speaker 5: you want to be happy and successful, and that's totally
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  Speaker 5: dependent on you and God. As as long as you
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  Speaker 5: don't allow some of the other factors to come into play,
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  Speaker 5: there's a great chance that you will be happy and
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  Speaker 5: you will be successful, whatever level of success.
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  Speaker 7: That is.
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  Speaker 2: So accountability is everything.
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  Speaker 5: It's on you.
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  Speaker 2: It's not the other person. Stop what did you do?
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  Speaker 5: You know? Stop? Well, if they hadn't left me, Okay,
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  Speaker 5: but they did though they did. Okay, so now what
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  Speaker 5: now that they left you? They cheated on you, they
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  Speaker 5: broke the valve, they they lied. What does that have
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  Speaker 5: to do with the pack between you and God on
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  Speaker 5: your way to success and happiness? That that happened is
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  Speaker 5: called life. That is a factor of life, but it
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  Speaker 5: should not be a determining factor of your success. Accountability.
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  Speaker 5: Take accountability of yourself. Know that, and and and and
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  Speaker 5: and and and get on with it. Man, it's me
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  Speaker 5: And Plus, here's the other thing about accountability. You can
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  Speaker 5: change you. You can't change anybody else. So the more
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  Speaker 5: accountable you are to yourself, the more you can change you.
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  Speaker 5: That's the fact that that's important. And just keep the
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  Speaker 5: factor between you and God. And there you go.
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  Speaker 2: I don't let nobody else in mind. You better, you
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  Speaker 2: better have an answer.
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  Speaker 9: You better be coming up at thirty two minutes after
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  Speaker 9: the hour, we will hear from the nephew as he
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  Speaker 9: runs that prank back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening hardy morning show. Hey everyone, quick health question.
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  Speaker 9: It's time now to run that prank back with the nephew, nephew,
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  Speaker 9: what you got for us?
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  Speaker 5: Listen? The title is I love your wife more than
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  Speaker 5: you do. I love your wife mo than you do.
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  Speaker 9: Wow, Okay, you ain't no way.
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  Speaker 5: You love her like that. I know your wife way
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  Speaker 5: molding you. Let's go cat.
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  Speaker 10: Hello, Hey, I'm trying to reach track this track? Who
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  Speaker 10: is this? Hey? T How you doing?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 10: This is Milton. How look at your wife to reach Milton? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 10: you probably heard of me before. I've been I've been
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  Speaker 10: at the job probably about five years now, Chad, she
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  Speaker 10: ever mentioned me? No?
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  Speaker 3: Now, I don't have no milking? What's going on? Everything cool?
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  Speaker 5: Everything is there?
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  Speaker 10: Everything is good. Hey, listen, I wanted to have a
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  Speaker 10: conversation with you.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 10: I don't really know how to spring this on you
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  Speaker 10: or whatever. But like I said, I've been working at
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  Speaker 10: this spot for five years and been on to Recha
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  Speaker 10: probably like around three. And I guess what I really
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  Speaker 10: want to say is that I didn't I didn't gain
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  Speaker 10: some feelings for Tasha.
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  Speaker 5: And oh whoa whoa, whoa whoa wah wh whoa whoa. Holo.
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  Speaker 11: Hold on, man, holo, holo.
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  Speaker 3: You calling me and you're telling me right now you
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  Speaker 3: have feelings for my wife who you work with, and
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  Speaker 3: you write Teresa because that is my wife. You have
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  Speaker 3: feelings for my wife?
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  Speaker 5: Is that correct?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah?
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  Speaker 10: You know it took me a while to come forward
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  Speaker 10: and say this, but you know I'm mad enough now
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  Speaker 10: and I feel like me and you need to talk
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  Speaker 10: about it, have you? No? No, I haven't you got
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  Speaker 10: your no?
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  Speaker 5: Listen.
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  Speaker 10: I'm just letting you know. Today is the day that
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  Speaker 10: I decided I'm not carrying this weight on my shoulders
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  Speaker 10: no more. I'm getting it off of me, all right.
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  Speaker 10: And at the end of the day, I love your
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  Speaker 10: wife more.
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  Speaker 12: Than you do.
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  Speaker 3: What I.
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  Speaker 10: I love your wife more than you do.
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  Speaker 3: Bright So you how long you've been loving my wife?
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  Speaker 3: You tell me how long you've been loving my How long?
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  Speaker 3: How long you feel that you have been in love
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  Speaker 3: with my wife.
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  Speaker 10: I mean, I'm looking at I know, I know, I
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  Speaker 10: know at least too.
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  Speaker 3: Does my wife even know this?
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  Speaker 10: I mean, I'm sure she's aware to a certain extent,
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  Speaker 10: to a certain extent.
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  Speaker 9: What what?
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  Speaker 3: How how certain of the extent are we talking?
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  Speaker 10: I mean, you know, when we go to lunch together,
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  Speaker 10: she you know. I mean, I'm sure she know.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all y'all were going to lunch together. How long y'all
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  Speaker 3: been going to lunch together?
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  Speaker 10: Bro, we were going to lunch together at least at
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  Speaker 10: least two and a half years. I mean, we go
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  Speaker 10: to lunch together almost every day. I mean we might
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  Speaker 10: miss the day if she go with the girls, I
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  Speaker 10: go with the fellows, so being, but for the most part,
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  Speaker 10: me and her, Me and her pretty much at lunch,
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  Speaker 10: she kept God, I need a.
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  Speaker 3: Brouha sty hell away from my wife.
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  Speaker 10: Bro.
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  Speaker 3: I needed to back up. Ain't no monro because you
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  Speaker 3: here to talk enough that if you didn't talk enough,
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  Speaker 3: ain't no more in love, ain't no more state. You
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  Speaker 3: need to stay the back, period, stay the back, man.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to hear none of that, nothing, nothing,
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  Speaker 3: nothing at all, because.
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  Speaker 10: Come on, we don't listen, listen, I know all about you,
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  Speaker 10: trade everything about it, all right. I already know how
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  Speaker 10: you treat her.
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  Speaker 7: All right.
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  Speaker 11: I'm hot.
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  Speaker 3: I'm feeling like a strong sense station right now because
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  Speaker 3: I really want to reach through the phone and just
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  Speaker 3: break your neck right now.
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  Speaker 10: That's what I really want to do.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I really want to do. And why my
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  Speaker 3: wife talking about business outside of our house hole.
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  Speaker 10: That's what I'm trying to figure out. Hey. All I'm
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  Speaker 10: saying is when we go to lunch, she let me
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  Speaker 10: know how she's feeling. She let me know what she's
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  Speaker 10: going through.
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  Speaker 3: Let me stop stop with that lunch, bro, want to
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  Speaker 3: hear anohing thing about lunch? Bro, ain't no more lunch
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  Speaker 3: is from here on out, Bro calling me talking about
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  Speaker 3: you and along with my wife people taking work. Here's
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  Speaker 3: a milsing. I'm you at bro?
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  Speaker 5: Where do you?
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  Speaker 10: Hey?
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  Speaker 9: Man?
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  Speaker 10: Man, listen, calm down with all that energy you got
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  Speaker 10: going on like you're gonna do something.
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking You're not time? What you not nothing to work?
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  Speaker 10: You're not You're not finna do nothing.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: Come on you right right now, bro.
• 18:27
  Speaker 11: I'm my teams right now.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Something where you're at right right now?
• 18:29
  Speaker 10: Bro? Right now, so how about how about when you
• 18:32
  Speaker 10: got laid off, when you was off for six months
• 18:34
  Speaker 10: and she was carrying all the all the waiting pan,
• 18:37
  Speaker 10: all the fields. You ain't jump.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: All right that?
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Since you know you know everything, I bet you know
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: I got it too. So all you need to know
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: is all you need to know is brother, get done.
• 18:49
  Speaker 10: Bro, You're done.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Bro, don't keep down it, bro.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 18:54
  Speaker 10: What what the milk is?
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: Folks talk about that? He would my wife saying that
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: he'll love talking about lunch.
• 19:02
  Speaker 12: So the hell up.
• 19:03
  Speaker 10: While we are, you can thank me for the twitter,
• 19:06
  Speaker 10: for the suit that you got for Christmas. You can
• 19:08
  Speaker 10: thank me for that. I picked it out and I
• 19:10
  Speaker 10: paid for it. Okay, a word?
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, cool? Cool, cool, all right, cool and let me
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: go into the project right now, right now?
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: You talking about the great suitster, three peas, that's what
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: you thought about the great boot? Right here? With this boot? Anyway?
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: I like this.
• 19:29
  Speaker 10: Now you don't like the suit. You don't want to suit?
• 19:31
  Speaker 10: Three times now you don't like to me at lunch
• 19:35
  Speaker 10: when you don't want to suit. Dude, for the guys, bro,
• 19:38
  Speaker 10: I swear to god, I need to talk to my wife. Man,
• 19:42
  Speaker 10: I need to talk to my wife.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: I need to talk to my wife because.
• 19:45
  Speaker 10: I man, listen, you know what, I just couldn't hold
• 19:50
  Speaker 10: this back. No more me living behind in the shadows
• 19:53
  Speaker 10: and put I'm over here kicking money out to Teresa
• 19:56
  Speaker 10: when she needed while you was laid off. I'm helping out.
• 19:59
  Speaker 10: I'm going you know I'm doing. I'm doing too much
• 20:01
  Speaker 10: on money, Bretty.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: So you was giving the money. You're kicking the money
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: when I was laid off.
• 20:07
  Speaker 10: You're kicking the money, dude. Somebody had to step up
• 20:11
  Speaker 10: man to me, and Teresa is tight, so you know,
• 20:12
  Speaker 10: I just try to step in and help out.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: So you're giving my wife money.
• 20:17
  Speaker 10: What you're saying, do you want me to make you
• 20:19
  Speaker 10: feel better about the whole time? You want me to
• 20:21
  Speaker 10: make you feel better?
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: You ain't need to make me feel better about. Man
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: is talking about wife. That's all I got to do
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: is talk to my wife.
• 20:31
  Speaker 10: That's that's fine. But can I say something that will
• 20:32
  Speaker 10: make you feel better? What I'm gonna say this to you, Trey,
• 20:37
  Speaker 10: this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:40
  Speaker 10: Your wife, Teresaly gotten me to breakfatone colle You.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Wait, what.
• 20:50
  Speaker 10: Hey, this is Tommy Man. This nephew to Steve Hart
• 20:53
  Speaker 10: Morney showy ste Ha.
• 20:58
  Speaker 9: R r.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: You bruh, don't do that, bro. You gotta stop that.
• 21:09
  Speaker 10: Tommy.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Come on now, come on, you gotta stop. My heart
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: is breaking. I'm sweating.
• 21:15
  Speaker 10: Oh come on now, Hey, I gotta ask you this.
• 21:17
  Speaker 10: You gotta tell me what is the bad?
• 21:19
  Speaker 5: Is that?
• 21:19
  Speaker 10: I mean the bad is radio show in the lane.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: It's a Steve Harvey Morton show. Gotta be.
• 21:27
  Speaker 9: There coming up next to as the CELO, our Chief
• 21:30
  Speaker 9: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
• 21:34
  Speaker 9: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone,
• 21:41
  Speaker 9: quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving,
• 21:45
  Speaker 9: still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age.
• 21:48
  Speaker 9: That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen
• 21:51
  Speaker 9: your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu,
• 21:55
  Speaker 9: new macacle, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen. This fall, I'll
• 22:00
  Speaker 9: ask your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vacxsist
• 22:03
  Speaker 9: dot com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or
• 22:07
  Speaker 9: more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. Coming up at the
• 22:11
  Speaker 9: top of the hour. In entertainment news, Real Housewives of
• 22:15
  Speaker 9: Potomac star Wendyosepho and her husband Eddie. They were arrested
• 22:20
  Speaker 9: and charged with fraud. Some sad news out of Hollywood.
• 22:24
  Speaker 9: Yeah yeah. Legendary actress Diane Keaton has passed away. In
• 22:29
  Speaker 9: trending headline news, President Trump's Department of Education layoffs threatened
• 22:33
  Speaker 9: special education and after school programs. We'll talk about all
• 22:38
  Speaker 9: of these stories at the top of the hour, but
• 22:41
  Speaker 9: right now it is time to ask the CLO our
• 22:45
  Speaker 9: chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: All rightn't you.
• 22:48
  Speaker 9: Ready, Steve, Colo, here we go. Jasmine and Charleston says,
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: I broke off my engagement after I caught my fiancee
• 22:56
  Speaker 9: texting another woman and sending nude pictures to her.
• 23:00
  Speaker 5: Her.
• 23:00
  Speaker 9: It is no evidence of of him cheating, actually cheating
• 23:04
  Speaker 9: with her, but he swears he never and he swears
• 23:07
  Speaker 9: he never touched her. Is he is sex thing enough
• 23:10
  Speaker 9: to call off the wedding? Is that sext thing enough
• 23:13
  Speaker 9: you know that will get your.
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah? I ain't gonna maybe help you here, dog, I'm
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: not gonna be able to help you. Listen, it's the
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: naked pictures. Yes, Yeah, you never touched her, but once
• 23:31
  Speaker 5: you're seeing that naked photo, that's an advertisement to touch. Yes,
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: it is this what it looked like?
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Wow?
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: This this this what it? This what it could be?
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: Where you at?
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I need a decision soon because I'm getting.
• 23:56
  Speaker 9: Married Saday well not anymore.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm not going.
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: Uh look, ma'am. You could forgive him and move on.
• 24:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but no, they're gonna be forever checking that phone down. Yeah,
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: you know how many times she's gonna bring it up?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Get out the shower, bring it up, Steve, Yeah, what
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: was you in there?
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: Taking a shower.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: Every time?
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: Doing another photo? Shoot where your phone that.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: But you change and draws so she ain't like the
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: other pair.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I would never let it die.
• 24:46
  Speaker 9: Yeah, now, Nick Sureley, all right, Aaron and Orlando. Right,
• 24:52
  Speaker 9: I'm forty two years old and I'm dating a woman
• 24:55
  Speaker 9: that's fifty eight. She has a forty year old daughter
• 24:58
  Speaker 9: that has me caught up after she did a hand
• 25:01
  Speaker 9: maneuver on me and the club not too long ago.
• 25:03
  Speaker 9: I've avoided her since.
• 25:05
  Speaker 7: Then.
• 25:05
  Speaker 9: Should I tell her what she did was wrong and
• 25:08
  Speaker 9: it will never happen again, or do I have to
• 25:10
  Speaker 9: keep playing along that's what Aaron in Orlando wants to know.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: What do you have to keep playing alone?
• 25:17
  Speaker 13: Boy?
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: You know good and well, you don't have to. Now,
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: what is the what did you write me really for?
• 25:24
  Speaker 9: Sounds like he's scared though he didn't want that.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: She got a daughter? Forty Yeah, two years? Why y'all
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: in the club?
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: That's your question?
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Hey, no, forty.
• 25:46
  Speaker 9: Two old?
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Forty forty in club age?
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: What's the deadline for club? What's the dead age?
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: What is the surprise for?
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: How we gonna do our line?
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: Dances?
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: CA's at the backyard barbecues? After you forty back?
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: What reception should you stop clubbing at?
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: What?
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: When?
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: I think? Thirty two? Thirty eight? Yes, out of your
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: club and you got to be out? Yeah, that's what
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: I think? Yeah, what do you do? I mean?
• 26:30
  Speaker 9: What replaces the clubs?
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, you gotta get yourself.
• 26:33
  Speaker 5: Decker calls, you gotta start learning your way down to
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: the bingo party. You got stuff like that? You get
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: you got thirty eight at the club. It ain't a
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: good fit. I'm just telling you. And no, man, you
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: don't have to keep playing this game. You know what's
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: up Now you're gonna have to avoid the girl. Just
• 26:58
  Speaker 5: tell the girl, Hey, look, I'm really in love with
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: your mama. This is it, and I don't I don't
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: want no smoke that gone about your business somewhere because
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: I don't want to have to tell your mama, which
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: you know you can't do.
• 27:14
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I who that was wrong on her part.
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: All right, now I'm gonna tell you the problem though.
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: The daughter find that's the problem.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, so that's what it's caught up. Yeah, we thus
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: the letter, all right.
• 27:30
  Speaker 9: Moving Onanda Kwanda in Manhattan. Kuanda writes, I went to
• 27:37
  Speaker 9: spring break this year and had a weekend long fling
• 27:40
  Speaker 9: with a Spanish dude. He found me on TikTok and
• 27:44
  Speaker 9: wants to come see me. I have a boyfriend and
• 27:47
  Speaker 9: a son. I would love to see the Spanish guy again, though,
• 27:51
  Speaker 9: what should I tell him?
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Collie?
• 27:55
  Speaker 14: It's the hot Collie in pay Yeah, rego, solemn man.
• 28:03
  Speaker 14: He called, I'm gone to live on all Yes, Chili's
• 28:10
  Speaker 14: ain't Charlado or Stockhold's you name.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: I was there for you, Poppy.
• 28:16
  Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, yeah, she's gonna see him again, right for sure?
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, he coming to
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: But I just I've been watching the news you can't
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: go to Mexico.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Just mud you say everything.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: I just saw it on the news.
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: I thought he was gonna go worse than that said.
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: Now contail said, don't don't come down here. I heard him,
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: My goodness.
• 28:47
  Speaker 9: Yeah, well she has a boyfriend and a son. She's
• 28:50
  Speaker 9: not like legally bound to anyone as far as a
• 28:53
  Speaker 9: husband or anything, so you never know.
• 28:57
  Speaker 15: Yeah, she's freezing.
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: Her no time.
• 29:01
  Speaker 9: That's you're gonna say, Friday, that's your go to day. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 29:11
  Speaker 9: she had a week long fling with him.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 29:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah, So that means a college student or a teacher, yeah,
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: or educated educated?
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, this was taking a turn for you. Yeah, college,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: what's going on? And get it in?
• 29:41
  Speaker 9: Yes, last one, Steve Veronica and Faydeville writes, my teenager
• 29:46
  Speaker 9: got into a fight over a girl, and the girl
• 29:48
  Speaker 9: ended up dating the boy that beat up my son.
• 29:52
  Speaker 9: Now his ego as is as bruised as his face.
• 29:56
  Speaker 9: I want to go beat up the boy and the
• 29:58
  Speaker 9: girl for hurting him. What do I tell my son
• 30:01
  Speaker 9: to help him move on? She wants her side.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: Yes, just go ahead to get a what you can't do?
• 30:05
  Speaker 5: Go down there? Jump on nobody, No now, your son ego, Bruce.
• 30:10
  Speaker 5: She worked with a strong, most fit boy on to
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: fight the master. The way it works in nature. That's
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: how I work in the animal kingdom and everything.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so all right, all right, Colo, thank you.
• 30:23
  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 30:25
  Speaker 9: some entertainment news for you right after this How to Fight.
• 30:29
  Speaker 9: You're listening Hardy morning show. Well another day, another reality
• 30:39
  Speaker 9: star arrested. Real Housewife of Potomac star Wndiosepho and her
• 30:44
  Speaker 9: husband Eddie were arrested on multiple fraud charges after allegedly
• 30:48
  Speaker 9: lying to police in April about having property stolen from
• 30:52
  Speaker 9: their home during a vacation. The couple filed insurance claims
• 30:56
  Speaker 9: for more than four hundred and fifty thousand dollars in losses,
• 31:00
  Speaker 9: including more than twenty thousand dollars worth of items that
• 31:02
  Speaker 9: the couple had previously returned to the stores for refunds,
• 31:06
  Speaker 9: and when sheriff's deputies searched their home on Thursday, they
• 31:10
  Speaker 9: say they found at least fifteen items, like a Gucci
• 31:13
  Speaker 9: wallet a deer shirt the couple said had been stolen.
• 31:17
  Speaker 9: Wendy and Eddie, who were arrested Thursday in Carroll County,
• 31:21
  Speaker 9: posted bond and were released. A Real Housewives franchise executive
• 31:26
  Speaker 9: producer Andy Cohen.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Spoke about the situation.
• 31:29
  Speaker 9: He said, quote, I'm a Wendy fan, and she has
• 31:31
  Speaker 9: been a great housewife and a great role model. She's
• 31:34
  Speaker 9: always led with education and her solid yeah and her
• 31:38
  Speaker 9: solid family values. And so I'm really thinking about her
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: and her family, and I'm certainly hoping this is all
• 31:44
  Speaker 9: some big nothing. So that's what Andy Cohen said.
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: Well, his problem with these reality stars they get a
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: dose of star dump. Yes, fame is different. It happened
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: with the on the Housewives member when the white couple
• 32:01
  Speaker 5: New Jersey. Yeah, they had to go high Todd Christly
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: and his wife.
• 32:08
  Speaker 12: Yes.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Now, uh, the black people have got to know they
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: can do some time.
• 32:19
  Speaker 9: Idea you were going there usually I know where you're going.
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: Really really need to start getting the affairs in order.
• 32:28
  Speaker 5: And know this because you know all Fadrian's husband he
• 32:32
  Speaker 5: had he had to go back and he had to
• 32:36
  Speaker 5: go back.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: You can't, you can't. You can't get this new fame
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: and do like you want to. And what is your
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: lying for?
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: Ain't they ain't ain't ain't they got good jobs?
• 32:46
  Speaker 9: Yeah, she has like four degrees of pH d. He's
• 32:50
  Speaker 9: an attorney.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so's to teach at John professor.
• 32:57
  Speaker 5: Oh oh, also they got college degrees, they got books since, yes,
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: but they ain't got no common sense.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: But see, what is it about the reality stars that
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: end up in trouble?
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: I mean because they're always trying to live up to
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: the height that they've created on TV. Okay, example, Housewives
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: of Atlanta, they was written houses to shoot some of
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: these scenes in that wasn't their real house. Yeah, I
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: didn't know that.
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: Wow, this Candy Birr's got money.
• 33:37
  Speaker 9: Yes, shout out to Meani the greatest housewife who ever lived,
• 33:41
  Speaker 9: shout out.
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: But you know, I mean some of them got to
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: try to live up to the height that's created on
• 33:53
  Speaker 5: TV to present the lifestyle that they portrayed on TV,
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: because oftentimes that's not a fair portrayal.
• 34:01
  Speaker 9: Okay, it is something that happens because friendships break up.
• 34:05
  Speaker 9: I mean, your best friends, like sisters before you start
• 34:09
  Speaker 9: getting on these reality shows. Reality show, you break up,
• 34:12
  Speaker 9: marriages break up.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I guess it is.
• 34:14
  Speaker 9: Fame is a drug.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: I guess it is.
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: And I'm happy for the people once they get out,
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: you know, Yeah, of course I talked to Todd Christly
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: Christly because we was cool. He used to do my show.
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: He's a really really cool dude. And I think they
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: got of got, you know, off into something crazy. Anyway,
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: I'm glad they got out. You know, is Apollo out yet?
• 34:34
  Speaker 9: Yes, he's been out, He's remarried and everything.
• 34:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, so you know it's gonna happen. You know,
• 34:43
  Speaker 5: everybody gonna get out evention.
• 34:44
  Speaker 9: Aaron Huger from the Real Housewives of Potomac just got
• 34:49
  Speaker 9: d ui.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah shaw, he.
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: Ain't Reality, but Puffy is still there. Just really real
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: get out eventually. Eventually they gonna let our Kelly out.
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: Eventually they gonna let our out.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh well, shoot shoo okay.
• 35:10
  Speaker 9: And other news, sad news out of Hollywood. We're gonna
• 35:13
  Speaker 9: switch gears here. Seventy nine year old Diane Keaton. Legendary
• 35:17
  Speaker 9: actors who starred in iconic films like Annie Hall, The Godfather,
• 35:21
  Speaker 9: and Something's Got to Give has passed away. Diane Keaton
• 35:24
  Speaker 9: has she was romantically linked to big names in Hollywood
• 35:28
  Speaker 9: like Woody Allen, Warren Beatty, and al Pacino, but she
• 35:32
  Speaker 9: never married them. Al Pacino said that she was the
• 35:35
  Speaker 9: one that got away and basically he wishes he had
• 35:39
  Speaker 9: married her. Diane Keaton adopted two children. They survive her fans,
• 35:44
  Speaker 9: reactions and tributes from celebrities are still pouring in on
• 35:47
  Speaker 9: social media. So to that, we say rest in peace.
• 35:50
  Speaker 9: Diane Keaton. Yeah, loved her, and she had just a
• 35:58
  Speaker 9: distinctive style her dressed. Her personality was a little quirky.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she was cool lady.
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: H Finally, rock and Turtle Nick Flash, uh huh and
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: hats and the whole thing.
• 36:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 36:12
  Speaker 9: She I loved her the way her style yeh finally.
• 36:16
  Speaker 9: In trending headline news, uh, the Trump administration has issued
• 36:21
  Speaker 9: more layoffs than firings to the US Department of Education,
• 36:24
  Speaker 9: specifically to the office responsible for overseeing special education.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: This is according to NPR.
• 36:31
  Speaker 9: One employee said, quote, this is disseminating the office responsible
• 36:35
  Speaker 9: for safeguarding the rights of infants, toddler's children, and youths
• 36:40
  Speaker 9: with disabilities end quote. Employees who received a notice Friday
• 36:44
  Speaker 9: were told they will remain unemployed until December ninth. Wow,
• 36:51
  Speaker 9: you did special education for a while when you were younger.
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: I got accident class an accident for about six weeks
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: over my report. Car we're not got.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Off the roll.
• 37:11
  Speaker 5: Five.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: There's a sexual recession. We'll talk about that right after this.
• 37:16
  Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question.
• 37:26
  Speaker 9: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did
• 37:29
  Speaker 9: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where
• 37:32
  Speaker 9: vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune
• 37:35
  Speaker 9: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV,
• 37:41
  Speaker 9: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines
• 37:45
  Speaker 9: you need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot
• 37:49
  Speaker 9: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer.
• 37:54
  Speaker 9: According to Newsweek Guys, a number of Americans having sex
• 37:57
  Speaker 9: has dropped to record lows, signaling a potential sex recession,
• 38:03
  Speaker 9: according to a recent study. This study was from the
• 38:06
  Speaker 9: Institute for Family Studies. They surveyed one thousand students from
• 38:10
  Speaker 9: eighteen to sixty four and found that only thirty seven
• 38:13
  Speaker 9: percent reported having sex weekly. Some relationship experts say smartphones, tables,
• 38:19
  Speaker 9: computers could be the reason.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a tablets co of like the tables it he said, tables.
• 38:31
  Speaker 9: Sorry, well, and that's okay, but anyway, it could be
• 38:35
  Speaker 9: reasons that couples are not being more intimate due to
• 38:39
  Speaker 9: the digital age. This leads to bedtime procrastination because everybody's
• 38:43
  Speaker 9: on their tablets and their phones and their computers. So
• 38:46
  Speaker 9: here's a question for you, guys. Do you have any suggestions?
• 38:51
  Speaker 9: Do you having any solutions to improve sexual relations?
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: We've been over here trying to fix it. We've been
• 38:58
  Speaker 5: going through this hole. Rest I help my.
• 39:03
  Speaker 9: You're a sexual sexual recession.
• 39:07
  Speaker 8: Would you say I'm not helping no one till I
• 39:10
  Speaker 8: help myself? First kind of advice I got. I can't
• 39:17
  Speaker 8: get man, what I'm gonna help you? Get into bed?
• 39:22
  Speaker 8: And I'm still out?
• 39:25
  Speaker 7: That married? What three years?
• 39:30
  Speaker 5: It's almost three he married. I told him this was
• 39:33
  Speaker 5: gonna happen.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: He didn't believe me.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: He did tell me this.
• 39:38
  Speaker 9: He did a sexual recession. Steve, what do you have
• 39:42
  Speaker 9: to say? You have any solutions, any suggestions?
• 39:44
  Speaker 5: Yet? The only solution I could do is just get
• 39:46
  Speaker 5: in here when I asked you to get in here,
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: That's all that's all I got. I just just do
• 39:51
  Speaker 5: like I asked you to do. If you could just
• 39:53
  Speaker 5: do that, then we could fix this. Get in here
• 39:56
  Speaker 5: when I asked you to come in here, So you
• 39:59
  Speaker 5: say it like that, no matter how said, she ain't
• 40:02
  Speaker 5: going So what the hell?
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: What? What?
• 40:04
  Speaker 10: What?
• 40:06
  Speaker 9: Try to say it? You know, more romantic.
• 40:11
  Speaker 5: It's hard to be hard to be It's hard when
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: you beg It's hard to be romantic when you begging.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: And you know the answer probably gonna be no anyway.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: So how how you want to to say it?
• 40:24
  Speaker 9: So you go in with a defeat attitude.
• 40:28
  Speaker 5: You're gonna get defeated. This ain't boxing. I ain't got
• 40:33
  Speaker 5: a chance.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: If you make the eight ball on this shot, you
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: get it?
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: Can you just.
• 40:41
  Speaker 7: I just need a scheduled date. You can just give
• 40:44
  Speaker 7: me air WinCE. I just need to I just need
• 40:46
  Speaker 7: no so I can take my pill. You know what
• 40:47
  Speaker 7: I'm saying.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: I just need We have to feel it right there.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: We emotional creatures and we win. We supost know that
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: is theday.
• 41:00
  Speaker 5: Get y'all emotional.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: That's what Tom.
• 41:04
  Speaker 5: After the hour, ain't any emotional creature coming up?
• 41:07
  Speaker 9: At thirty four minutes after the hour, We're going to
• 41:10
  Speaker 9: check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,
• 41:13
  Speaker 9: that comes up right after this.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:22
  Speaker 9: All right, Steve, it's time to check your voicemail at
• 41:25
  Speaker 9: eight seven seven twenty nine.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Steve, you ready, yeah, all right. This one's from Tremaine.
• 41:30
  Speaker 9: Tremaine left a voicemail about your forty year stand up
• 41:33
  Speaker 9: career anniversary.
• 41:34
  Speaker 16: Take a listen, Hey, mister Harvey, this is Tremaine, a
• 41:38
  Speaker 16: living townple, Florida. Happy fortieth anniversary to all the work
• 41:42
  Speaker 16: you've done. And when I found out about it a
• 41:45
  Speaker 16: little bit earlier, I went on my YouTube and when
• 41:49
  Speaker 16: you was on Deaf Comedy Jam Apollo, your show with
• 41:53
  Speaker 16: SASA Entertainer, when you were the music Teacher.
• 41:57
  Speaker 10: Man, we was watching all that, Me and some of
• 41:59
  Speaker 10: my friends.
• 42:00
  Speaker 15: We smoked a couple of little, you know, blunts or whatever,
• 42:02
  Speaker 15: and I was like, man, Steve already been funny all
• 42:06
  Speaker 15: the time. And man, you're a legend, and we really
• 42:09
  Speaker 15: appreciate your comedy.
• 42:10
  Speaker 16: Because this pulled us through a lot of hard times.
• 42:13
  Speaker 15: We loved you out here and time for Florida. Man,
• 42:15
  Speaker 15: We love you and we want you to continue doing
• 42:18
  Speaker 15: what you're doing. Thank you so much, God bless you
• 42:22
  Speaker 15: and the whole morning crew. Goodbye.
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: Man. Appreciate that. Man, that's good. I read it at today.
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: Thank you, man, Appreciate you. I appreciate appreciation sitting up
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: watching me smoking weed? Just go ahead.
• 42:39
  Speaker 9: Or whatever.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Appreciate it though smoking weed? You got us through? Was
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: it me or the weed?
• 42:49
  Speaker 7: All right?
• 42:49
  Speaker 9: This collar left a message about pimping and his NFL picks, Steve.
• 42:54
  Speaker 10: This message for pimping.
• 42:56
  Speaker 12: There is an APB out for you pimping for your
• 42:59
  Speaker 12: week six such the NFL.
• 43:01
  Speaker 9: You lost three weekly games with your.
• 43:04
  Speaker 6: Cleveland Brown and I pimping. I won three with my
• 43:08
  Speaker 6: tenn City chief pimping. That the a p b out
• 43:11
  Speaker 6: for you.
• 43:12
  Speaker 12: Okay, you always contact me at your early convenience. Hey Strawberry,
• 43:17
  Speaker 12: Hey Carler, what our juniors with our new and Ms Monica? Hey,
• 43:22
  Speaker 12: pampam bang a p b out boy, be aware now
• 43:27
  Speaker 12: you're cute, all right, it's be aware.
• 43:31
  Speaker 17: Listen, listen, listen. Never heard you understand something I don't
• 43:36
  Speaker 17: care about.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: No a p b CD.
• 43:41
  Speaker 5: Element on me. Do you know how many times I
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: did look for.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: Somebody always looking for me?
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: And did he say it was a new?
• 43:52
  Speaker 12: Yeah?
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well you know king's up.
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: Baby. You don't do what you gotta do.
• 43:59
  Speaker 12: You know.
• 44:01
  Speaker 17: I'm kidding about nobody looking for me. Man, I look skinned.
• 44:05
  Speaker 17: When you find me, you need to be looking for
• 44:08
  Speaker 17: what I got on. That's what you need to be doing.
• 44:12
  Speaker 10: What do you have on.
• 44:15
  Speaker 5: Today?
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: Or when he find me.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: A boat?
• 44:22
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Today, this is all.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: This is a This is a blue gill jacket.
• 44:30
  Speaker 5: Blue deal.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: The fish.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why shining.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: You know how they had shark skin.
• 44:37
  Speaker 5: This is blue gill.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is blue gill.
• 44:41
  Speaker 17: I'm not used to but I had you know, I
• 44:47
  Speaker 17: had it hanging out her dried it first.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: You know, I dried it in the sun. Damn, my
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: sister washed it and duve.
• 44:59
  Speaker 10: I'll do it.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So don't worry about the bills.
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: The pigs.
• 45:05
  Speaker 9: Go ahead, Charley, all right, this caller is from Charleston.
• 45:08
  Speaker 9: Left the message for Junior.
• 45:10
  Speaker 6: What's up morning, crew, guys. This mission is for Junior
• 45:14
  Speaker 6: and JUNR. I'm telling you, but you can know Charleston
• 45:16
  Speaker 6: over the weekend. I'm telling you, but you did your thing.
• 45:18
  Speaker 6: I bought a ticket just because you. I'm a big
• 45:21
  Speaker 6: family show. I listen to the show every single morning.
• 45:24
  Speaker 6: If I miss it, I go to the Alheart Radio app. Junior, Man,
• 45:28
  Speaker 6: you did your thing on stage. I'm telling you soon
• 45:30
  Speaker 6: to come on stage. He was killing from the time
• 45:33
  Speaker 6: he got on stage to the comic got off. I'm
• 45:35
  Speaker 6: not lying to you. I'm not saying this.
• 45:36
  Speaker 11: Because he's on your show.
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: Speed.
• 45:38
  Speaker 6: This man here is doing his thing out here, he's
• 45:41
  Speaker 6: doing his thing.
• 45:42
  Speaker 12: I love y'all.
• 45:42
  Speaker 6: Keeping your thing, guys, Blessings, peace, he knows.
• 45:46
  Speaker 9: The family.
• 45:48
  Speaker 5: Etulations.
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 45:50
  Speaker 12: Yeah, you are for real.
• 45:53
  Speaker 5: We know it.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: What you gotta say, Junior, I said thank you.
• 45:58
  Speaker 5: I told thank you, man, I appreciate. I love Charleston. Man.
• 46:00
  Speaker 5: It was man, it was our standing man.
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: Great audience.
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: Boy, I'm great the whole time.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Look they were just being fool just like Uncle Toby.
• 46:09
  Speaker 9: All right, Junior, congratulations. Coming up next to is a
• 46:11
  Speaker 9: nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're
• 46:16
  Speaker 9: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at
• 46:23
  Speaker 9: the top of the hour, about four minutes after. It's
• 46:25
  Speaker 9: my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is He's
• 46:29
  Speaker 9: so good yet so bad. We'll get into that find
• 46:32
  Speaker 9: out what that's all about. And just a few because
• 46:35
  Speaker 9: right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: Nephew, what you got.
• 46:40
  Speaker 5: I'm trying I'm trying to decide how stupid I want
• 46:42
  Speaker 5: to be on this, y'all. I'm just trying to gauge it,
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: and I'm not.
• 46:45
  Speaker 7: I'm looking at my archives and trying to figure out
• 46:48
  Speaker 7: what I'm gonna pull out.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: And just give you all that that high ignorance. So
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: this is what we're gonna do.
• 46:53
  Speaker 7: We're gonna file, We're gonna find everybody on a conference call.
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: How about that? Just gonna fight everybody.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: So tacky.
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: It's sad, it's sad, but it is involveable, and I'm
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: taking it. Okay. So this right here is the conference call.
• 47:12
  Speaker 5: Let's go catch.
• 47:15
  Speaker 6: Hello.
• 47:16
  Speaker 10: This is Hannah Hither.
• 47:19
  Speaker 11: This is Frank checking in. Hey, dove it here on
• 47:24
  Speaker 11: the line.
• 47:24
  Speaker 9: Hey guys, how's it going Fine's I think?
• 47:29
  Speaker 16: Uh?
• 47:30
  Speaker 10: I think we're waiting for for one other person? This
• 47:34
  Speaker 10: was that one in a second?
• 47:38
  Speaker 5: Hello Sherman.
• 47:40
  Speaker 7: Sherman Davis, general manager's assistant. How you guys doing everybody here?
• 47:44
  Speaker 11: Heyman?
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I ain't doing fine?
• 47:46
  Speaker 11: Hello Sherman.
• 47:47
  Speaker 5: All right, all right, guys, we got let me make
• 47:49
  Speaker 5: sure we got everybody here.
• 47:50
  Speaker 11: Is Hannah here, yep, Hannah's here.
• 47:52
  Speaker 5: How's it going? All right?
• 47:53
  Speaker 11: Frank yep, I'm on the line.
• 47:55
  Speaker 5: Thank you, all right, good good good and David, I'm
• 47:59
  Speaker 5: here all right, my man.
• 48:00
  Speaker 7: Good deal, good deal. All right, got some news for
• 48:02
  Speaker 7: you guys. I need you guys to just bear with
• 48:04
  Speaker 7: me for a second. I'm getting all the paperwork in.
• 48:06
  Speaker 7: My assistant Cynthia is here, so you guys just give
• 48:09
  Speaker 7: me a second. I'm gonna put you guys on hold
• 48:11
  Speaker 7: for a second and I'll be back probably less than
• 48:13
  Speaker 7: thirty seconds.
• 48:14
  Speaker 11: Okay, all right, okay, we'll do Thank.
• 48:17
  Speaker 5: You, Cynthia. Can you bring me all of the stuff
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: on these three guys.
• 48:22
  Speaker 7: I mean, today is supposed to be they're on hole
• 48:25
  Speaker 7: right now, but today's day that we're giving them their
• 48:27
  Speaker 7: severance packages and letting them go, and they'll be out
• 48:30
  Speaker 7: of here probably by tomorrow morning. They're clearing their things out.
• 48:33
  Speaker 7: They don't know it yet, but we're gonna at least
• 48:35
  Speaker 7: give them their SEVENCE packages today.
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 48:38
  Speaker 7: You know, they put it on my shoulders to break
• 48:40
  Speaker 7: the bad news, and somebody's got to do it. So
• 48:41
  Speaker 7: it's my job today, all right, So bring it to
• 48:44
  Speaker 7: me and get it here here as soon as possible
• 48:46
  Speaker 7: so I can hurt and get past this conference call.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: All right, Hello, all right, guys.
• 48:56
  Speaker 11: Sherman.
• 48:56
  Speaker 5: Hello, yeah, I'm here, guys.
• 48:59
  Speaker 11: Yeah, uh, you never put us on hold?
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: No, so are you about to fighters right now?
• 49:07
  Speaker 11: What are you talking?
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: Wait a minute? Okay, hang on, hang on, hang on, guys,
• 49:10
  Speaker 5: what what?
• 49:11
  Speaker 10: What?
• 49:11
  Speaker 5: What's going on? What are you guys talking about?
• 49:13
  Speaker 11: We're asking you what's going on? We just heard you
• 49:16
  Speaker 11: didn't put us on hold. We just heard all that. Yes,
• 49:18
  Speaker 11: Shepherd's packages what I heard. I heard you're letting us go.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Oh Sherman, Uh, maybe you were talking about some other people.
• 49:28
  Speaker 7: But hey, guys, hang on, everybody just calm down. Just
• 49:34
  Speaker 7: give me, give me a second here, hang on, just
• 49:36
  Speaker 7: let me let me. I'll be right back.
• 49:38
  Speaker 5: Hang on.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: What is going on?
• 49:44
  Speaker 10: Did you we heard that?
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: Okay, you all heard the same thing.
• 49:47
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 49:48
  Speaker 5: I heard that I was talking about Cynthia. How do
• 49:50
  Speaker 5: I up?
• 49:52
  Speaker 13: Is this?
• 49:52
  Speaker 5: Is this the whole button?
• 49:53
  Speaker 10: Here?
• 49:54
  Speaker 5: This is it? There we go?
• 49:56
  Speaker 7: They can hurt everything. No, they just they say, you
• 50:00
  Speaker 7: can asking me right now. I'm doing what he's telling
• 50:04
  Speaker 7: me to do this. These three are supposed to be
• 50:06
  Speaker 7: let go by the end of the day. I mean,
• 50:09
  Speaker 7: I gotta do it. But it looks like the severances.
• 50:13
  Speaker 7: Nobody can live off of this for even three freaking months.
• 50:16
  Speaker 7: I already know that this this is really dune. Oh
• 50:22
  Speaker 7: all right, so look, bring me everybody's stuff. Let me
• 50:25
  Speaker 7: at least after lunch. They all come in here and
• 50:28
  Speaker 7: pick up their things. That's all I can do.
• 50:31
  Speaker 5: Okay, is this the right button here?
• 50:33
  Speaker 9: Okay, hello, it's not the right button.
• 50:36
  Speaker 12: We keep.
• 50:39
  Speaker 11: What I'm hearing have to be kidding me.
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: I've been with us.
• 50:42
  Speaker 11: I've been with us for five years, all right, I'm
• 50:44
  Speaker 11: not I'm not let you down for a quarter, the
• 50:46
  Speaker 11: company down for a quarter. This is this is ridiculous.
• 50:48
  Speaker 11: I cannot believe this.
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: And I'm on travel right now, So how am I
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: going to come and get my things by?
• 50:55
  Speaker 11: This is ridiculous? This is how you're gonna let us know?
• 50:57
  Speaker 6: This is unprofessional, This is try I cannot believe you.
• 51:01
  Speaker 11: If you don't need a lawyer, I have someone, I
• 51:03
  Speaker 11: have contact, we can talk. But honestly, sureman, this is
• 51:06
  Speaker 11: this is.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: This is unaccessible.
• 51:10
  Speaker 7: Let's not do the whole lawyer thing, guys. Okay, let's
• 51:12
  Speaker 7: not do that, all right now? People get let go
• 51:16
  Speaker 7: from companies, People get let go all the time, and
• 51:18
  Speaker 7: you guys know this.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: Let go on a conference call with other people. What
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: are you This is ridiculous.
• 51:24
  Speaker 11: You're giving a personal business. Yes, yes, that's true. You're
• 51:27
  Speaker 11: giving a personal business to another.
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: Uh exactly, it's not a whole yet.
• 51:31
  Speaker 11: You cannot be doing this.
• 51:33
  Speaker 10: Yeah, email me that lawyer's number for sure, Yes, I will.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: I guess you want to to David, thank you.
• 51:39
  Speaker 5: I didn't.
• 51:39
  Speaker 7: I didn't try to for you guys to learn it
• 51:41
  Speaker 7: this way? All right, I'm okay. Let's just say I'm
• 51:45
  Speaker 7: not good at the conference button.
• 51:46
  Speaker 5: I don't know how to put any call you.
• 51:51
  Speaker 11: This is not a good message. It's not this is
• 51:52
  Speaker 11: not a perfect professional messaging. In fact, this is I'm mortified.
• 51:58
  Speaker 11: I cannot believe this. I put in my life how
• 52:00
  Speaker 11: this company is eyes So it is?
• 52:05
  Speaker 12: It is.
• 52:05
  Speaker 11: It's absolutely right. It is illegal. This is illegal. Yep, yep,
• 52:08
  Speaker 11: I will write Wait wait, wait, come on.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: What do you mean you're recording it?
• 52:14
  Speaker 5: What did you record a recording for?
• 52:16
  Speaker 10: What?
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 52:19
  Speaker 5: This call?
• 52:19
  Speaker 11: Can you tell me that recording, David, I will do it.
• 52:22
  Speaker 5: Listen. I don't consent on being recorded. I want that
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: known man.
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 52:28
  Speaker 7: Okay, okay, can I can I ask you guys something
• 52:31
  Speaker 7: do you guys? Are you familiar with your coworker named
• 52:34
  Speaker 7: Barry Dillard?
• 52:36
  Speaker 11: Yes, you don't have to answer this very fired too.
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: How are you gonna tell him?
• 52:40
  Speaker 7: Let me tell you what's going on. Barry told me
• 52:43
  Speaker 7: to call you. This is nephew Timmy from the Steve
• 52:46
  Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. All three of y'all just got praying
• 52:49
  Speaker 7: by your co worker Barry Dylan.
• 52:57
  Speaker 11: Oh my god, much to have a heart attack.
• 53:05
  Speaker 18: Worker recorded that this, Oh my god, hey y'all, nobody
• 53:11
  Speaker 18: has lost their job, Hannah, Frank, David, nobody has lost
• 53:15
  Speaker 18: their job.
• 53:16
  Speaker 7: But your co worker Barry Dylan got me the prank
• 53:20
  Speaker 7: phone call. All right, so everybody's got the job we could.
• 53:23
  Speaker 6: Oh, we're gonna have to get very bad.
• 53:28
  Speaker 10: Wow.
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I'm good. I'm good.
• 53:31
  Speaker 7: Now, y'all got to tell me this. What is the
• 53:34
  Speaker 7: baddest radio show in the land?
• 53:36
  Speaker 11: Let me hear it clearly?
• 53:44
  Speaker 10: Man, we're on the Steve Barby Show.
• 53:49
  Speaker 5: Should I make you proud and go?
• 53:53
  Speaker 15: There?
• 53:55
  Speaker 7: You were?
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: I had them people here, I'm here, I'm here. Yes,
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: soon as they get on calling in.
• 54:04
  Speaker 5: The that was really come on, really, honestly, that was genius.
• 54:09
  Speaker 5: Really think about it one.
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: Time like that?
• 54:12
  Speaker 5: You see that? What what?
• 54:14
  Speaker 9: Thank god?
• 54:14
  Speaker 5: It was? Can I call the White House and pranks
• 54:18
  Speaker 5: some that work. Boy, you're gonna lose your job.
• 54:21
  Speaker 19: Everything they don't have, tomor you know they know, well
• 54:32
  Speaker 19: that's you're gonna get it dited everything.
• 54:37
  Speaker 7: I don't catching, nephew. That would be Halloween weekend, Addison
• 54:42
  Speaker 7: m Priv. Halloween Weekend Friday, Saturday, Sunday. Tickets on sale
• 54:46
  Speaker 7: right now. It is a Halloween affair, all right. Best
• 54:50
  Speaker 7: costume wins the prize. Best costume winning Pride. We're gonna
• 54:53
  Speaker 7: have fun in Dallas, Texas. Get your tickets and come
• 54:56
  Speaker 7: out and see the fool in action.
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: That would be me. Thank you, thank you.
• 55:01
  Speaker 9: You can't have a costume.
• 55:05
  Speaker 5: Jokes in the costume. Anybody else can.
• 55:08
  Speaker 9: Halloween?
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  Speaker 9: Nephew, thank you. Subject He's so good, yet so bad.
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  Speaker 9: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in my mid thirties and I've
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  Speaker 9: been with my man for five years, married for two years.
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  Speaker 9: I love my man greatly and he treats me like
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  Speaker 9: a queen and has accepted my child as his own.
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  Speaker 9: The only issue I have is that he does not
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  Speaker 9: listen when we have disagreements. It's mostly because of the
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  Speaker 9: way he says things to me. I have to bring
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  Speaker 9: it to his attention and tell him how it makes
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  Speaker 9: me feel. He usually says, well, you did this or
• 57:19
  Speaker 9: that to make me say things like.
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  Speaker 5: That to you.
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  Speaker 9: This that's not the way to communicate to anyone, and
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  Speaker 9: he doesn't get it. To keep the peace, I have
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  Speaker 9: to shift into I'm sorry mode and focus on his
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  Speaker 9: feelings because I don't want to crush his ego. If
• 57:34
  Speaker 9: I ever do anything to offend him, I quickly apologize,
• 57:38
  Speaker 9: but he won't do the same for me. I tell
• 57:40
  Speaker 9: him all the time if I don't have a safe
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  Speaker 9: space to express my feelings, then I shut down, and
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  Speaker 9: he doesn't seem to understand that or want to understand it.
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  Speaker 9: He told me that most men don't understand how women think,
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  Speaker 9: and he's no exception. I don't care about most men.
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  Speaker 9: I need for him to listen when I tell him
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  Speaker 9: about my feelings and to a knowledge that he hurts
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  Speaker 9: my feelings, then correct the behavior and stop doing it.
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  Speaker 9: I feel like I'm slowly shutting down emotionally because I
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  Speaker 9: always try to take care of his feelings and he
• 58:11
  Speaker 9: doesn't care how I feel. He tells me to get
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  Speaker 9: over it because I'm always complaining about little stuff. It's
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  Speaker 9: like I'm one of his homies and I'm not supposed
• 58:20
  Speaker 9: to get hurt by him snapping at me or yelling
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  Speaker 9: at me for small things I do. I think if
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  Speaker 9: he's irritated, we should talk it through. How can he
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  Speaker 9: be so good and so bad at the same time.
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  Speaker 9: Am I fighting a losing battle here? Well, I say this,
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  Speaker 9: I'll say this. I'll put it like that. What you
• 58:42
  Speaker 9: are fighting is a battle of wanting this man to
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  Speaker 9: change and trying to get him to change it. He's
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  Speaker 9: not going to do it because he doesn't want to change.
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  Speaker 5: This is who he is.
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  Speaker 9: He's a stubborn man. He has old school values about women.
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  Speaker 9: He has a mean streak. If he's talking to you
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  Speaker 9: crazy anything, he's doing the right thing. You are doing
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  Speaker 9: nothing wrong. It's perfectly natural to want to be heard
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  Speaker 9: by your husband seen by your husband, but you always
• 59:08
  Speaker 9: give in you say you don't want to crush his ego,
• 59:12
  Speaker 9: but you've got to figure out how to get what
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  Speaker 9: you want out of this man. I think he's always
• 59:17
  Speaker 9: been like this, and you thought you could change him,
• 59:20
  Speaker 9: like most women think they can change their men. It
• 59:23
  Speaker 9: was one of those red flags that you ignored because
• 59:26
  Speaker 9: he took in you and your child, and you say
• 59:29
  Speaker 9: he treats you like a queen. Although I don't see
• 59:31
  Speaker 9: how you can say that when you wrote this letter,
• 59:34
  Speaker 9: but you still got to stand up for yourself and
• 59:37
  Speaker 9: use your voice. You're not making him do anything like
• 59:40
  Speaker 9: he says. He talks to you that way because that's
• 59:43
  Speaker 9: who he is. He doesn't hear you because he's not
• 59:46
  Speaker 9: trying to hear you.
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  Speaker 1: You can't go on like this.
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  Speaker 9: You don't really tell us what your disagreements and arguments
• 59:52
  Speaker 9: are about. So it's really hard to offer any type
• 59:55
  Speaker 9: of solution other than marriage counseling to learn how to
• 59:58
  Speaker 9: better communicate with each other.
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  Speaker 5: Steve, I know exactly what's going on here. I'm not
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 5: even just no brainer for me. I know exactly what's
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 5: going on. He's so good yet so bad. She's in
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 5: a mid thirties, she been with her husband five years,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 5: married for two, treats her like a queen. He's accepted
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 5: her child as his own. That means he's a good dad,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 5: a good father, good husband, a good provider. That's what
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 5: that means. And that's how you make a woman feel
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  Speaker 5: like a queen. The problem is he doesn't know how
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 5: to communicate. Listen to me, This man communicates this way
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 5: to you because he has been allowed to. He's done
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 5: it before. He's always done it this way, and before you,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 5: somebody didn't tolerate it.
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  Speaker 2: That's why they broke up, because you ain't the first.
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  Speaker 5: And now you're trying to tolerate this person who doesn't
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 5: have communication skills.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm just gonna tell it to you like this.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 5: He usually says, well, if you do this or that
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 5: to make me say things to you like that, Ah, okay,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 5: that's always the case. And then he told you he
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  Speaker 5: said most men don't understand how women think, and he's
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 5: no exception.
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  Speaker 2: That's the truest statement.
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  Speaker 5: In this letter.
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  Speaker 2: Most men do not know how women think.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: That's a fact.
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  Speaker 5: That's an impossible thing to figure out. The man who
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 5: could write a book this is how women think, would
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 5: be a billionaire. But you can't write this book because
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: you don't know how they think, and you can think.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: You know, if you want to, they're change it. I
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 5: promise you they will change it. So this excuse that
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 5: he gave you is it. It's the ongoing thing for
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 5: all men. Here is your problem, and we'll get into
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 5: it when we come back. The reason this man talks
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 5: to you this way over and over and does has
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: no disregard for your feelings at all, is because he
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: has been allowed to and he suffers no consequences. You
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 5: always say I'm sorry. If you say, he gets irritated,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 5: So he has suffered no consequences. So therefore the behavior continues.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 5: That's it, in a nutshell. I have solved it. When
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 5: we come back, we'll go over some consequences.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Steve.
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  Speaker 9: I will have part two of your response coming up
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  Speaker 9: at twenty three minutes to after the hour. Today's Strawberry
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  Speaker 9: Letters subject He's so good yet so bad. We'll get
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  Speaker 9: back into it right after this.
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  Speaker 9: that bending and lifting and pretending I'm still twenty five
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  Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 9: The subject is He's so good yet so bad?
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  Speaker 5: All right, now, I could recap this letter and take
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  Speaker 5: a bunch of time, but let me just get to
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  Speaker 5: the main part of this. Ladies, if you're in a
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  Speaker 5: relationship with a man who repeatedly does something to you
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 5: that irritates you, and he's not fixing it, and he
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 5: does it over and over and over, and in order
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 5: for you to keep the peace, you usually have to
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 5: apologize to him to keep it moving. And you don't
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 5: feel as though you have a safe space to go
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 5: to in your relationship to discuss your feelings, because when
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 5: you bring up your feelings, he then turns around and
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 5: tells you, well, you did this or that which made
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 5: me do this, that's your man. And then he turns
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 5: around and tells you that most men don't understand how
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 5: women think, and he's no exception. All right, that's the
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  Speaker 5: letter in a nutshell. Now, ladies, let me give you
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 5: the cure for this. Your man performs and acts out
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 5: bad behavior over and over and over because there is
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 5: no consequence to his actions. Period. I have said this
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 5: on this show before. Men respond to a few things. Pain, reward,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: and consequence. That's are the only things we respond to.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 5: Because we are men, we are simple. We respond to pain,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: we respond to reward, and we respond to consequences. If
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 5: there is no pain, no reward, no consequences, we're gonna
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 5: do like we want to. And that's every man walking,
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 5: living and breathing.
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  Speaker 2: This is facts. This ain't no aw Steve, you just
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  Speaker 2: said no. I'm telling you the truth.
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  Speaker 5: So now in this letter, this man who will not
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  Speaker 5: consider your feelings, who snaps at you when he wants to,
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 5: who says what he wants to say to you, blames
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 5: you for everything. The reason I said this to you
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 5: is because you said this or you did that, and
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: never apologize to you and constantly does this to you.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 5: It's because he suffers no pain, he gets no reward,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 5: or there are no consequences. So now he is the fix.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm telling you, ladies, and you can. You can
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 5: sit there if you want to, until you issue consequences.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 5: It will continue. Let me give you an example. Let's
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  Speaker 5: say every time your man snaps at you in public,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 5: you walk away and just walk off in public? Just
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 5: what leave him standing there in front of whoever he
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 5: snapped in front of? That's it. You maybe even go
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 5: get in the car maybe, or just go over there
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 5: and start talking to somebody else at through in the
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 5: room or something like that.
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  Speaker 2: That consequence. Hey, what happened to you? We were standing
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: there talking?
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  Speaker 5: No no, no, no no. I have asked you repeatedly
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  Speaker 5: not to go off in front of me in front
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  Speaker 5: of nobody else. That's one way all. And I don't
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  Speaker 5: recommend this, but I've seen this work really efficiently. He snaps,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 5: he goes off on you in front of somebody else.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I heard the woman say, who you
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  Speaker 5: think you're talking to. Yes, that one right there. That work.
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  Speaker 15: Now.
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  Speaker 5: A lot of women won't do that because they don't
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 5: want to embarrass their husband in front of nobody. But
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 5: if it continues, who do you think you talking to?
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  Speaker 5: Is a question directly directed to him that creates a
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 5: moment of pause, and I promise you the next time
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  Speaker 5: he will think about it. Here's another one. On the
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  Speaker 5: way home.
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  Speaker 2: Ain't nobody talking?
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  Speaker 1: The quiet car ride.
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  Speaker 2: Is a painful experience.
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  Speaker 5: That work.
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  Speaker 2: All you hear is breathing.
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  Speaker 5: In the car kind.
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  Speaker 2: Breath in the car?
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  Speaker 5: Sudden say he reach over and touch it with his
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 5: finger on your hand, snatch your hand right quick? I
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: got don't okay? We know so long when you go home?
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  Speaker 5: Slamming doors, ooh, slamming doors, dose, slamming cupboard, slamming toilet seat, slamming.
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  Speaker 2: All that.
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  Speaker 3: We hit.
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  Speaker 5: We just came in and cut sports and on. We're
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 5: trying to forget about all of a sudden doors is slamming,
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  Speaker 5: We hid dishes, clanging extra loud, no good, and well
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  Speaker 5: she don't make that much noise. These are called consequences,
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  Speaker 5: which creates pain. What gets a result. So, ladies, if
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  Speaker 5: you are not going to issue one of three things, pain, reward,
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  Speaker 5: or consequence. Your man will continue to do. Now, reward
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  Speaker 5: is very big. Now, when your man does something, it positive.
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  Speaker 5: Reinforcement works. Baby, Thank you so much. I know how
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 5: hard you're working for this family. Thank you so much.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 5: Most men will leave this world and die from lack
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 5: of appreciation. I have said that, but I don't think
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  Speaker 5: people understand it. Being a man is hard. I'm not
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: saying being a woman ate. I'm not. That's not what
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 5: I'm saying. But reward is important too. But if so,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: if you're gonna issue pain and consequences, you're gonna have
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 5: to balance it with some reward.
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  Speaker 1: All right, All right?
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  Speaker 5: Now, see how Monica made that face over there? See
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 5: that's why I should see that that I ain't giving
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 5: over reward.
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• 1:10:18
  Speaker 9: couldn't have come at a better time. I'm move some
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 9: furniture around last weekend in my new place. It turns
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 9: out that was a really bad idea because all that
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 9: bending and lifting and pretending I'm still twenty five didn't
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 9: agree with my knees. So I grabbed a leave because
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 9: when my body pain shows up, I need something that lasts.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 9: With just one pill, a leave lasts up to twelve hours.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 9: Don't let those aches and pain hold you back from
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 9: doing what's important to you. Use as directed. It is
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  Speaker 9: time now for junior and sports talk. Which you got junior?
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  Speaker 8: All right, Shirley, listen how I'll do it? On Week
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  Speaker 8: six picks. The Week six picks, Here we go. The
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  Speaker 8: Broncos pull out one over the Jets thirteen to eleven.
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  Speaker 5: Picked the Browns.
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  Speaker 1: What happened with the Browns?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 1: They got robbed by the Steeves twenty three to nine.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not okay, let me go, man.
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  Speaker 8: The Chargers edge out the Dolphins twenty nine to twenty seven.
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  Speaker 5: Picked it, Yes, you did.
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  Speaker 8: The Patriots over the Saints. Come on, tosh Man twenty
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  Speaker 8: five to nineteen two. M p the Rams over the
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 8: Ravens seventeen to three.
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  Speaker 2: Did I pick that one?
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 5: You picked that one? Yes?
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 7: You did?
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because of course I knew Lamar wasn't playing the Seahawks.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 8: The Seahawks beat the Jaguars man twenty to twelve.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 5: And ain't get that.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: Wow, I ain't get that one.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 8: The Cowboys fall to the Panthers thirty to twenty seven.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know how they did that, but God thog,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 5: it ain't looking good in Dallas again.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: Dallas ought to just come on over here with Cleveland.
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  Speaker 5: Come on, all right.
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  Speaker 1: The Raiders beat the Titans twenty to ten.
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  Speaker 5: God, who beat the Titans? Raiders? The Raiders, Oh, Raiders? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Or everybody beat the Titans. They defied that coach though, Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: All right, you go a good one.
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  Speaker 10: Man.
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  Speaker 5: This boy here, Baker Mayfield ain't playing man.
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  Speaker 8: Thirty to nineteen over the forty nine ers, and they
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 8: chatting the MVP for Baker Mayfield.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 5: Man, they gonna make it. Hey, hey, we had him too.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: Put you there one, Hell, Baker, No.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: Because I knew we should have picked Josh Allen.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: Oh from Buffalo.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, Yeah, that's all.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 5: We should have picked sat Kawan Barkley at number one,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 5: and we had the number three pick, both of them
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 5: would have been available. We could have got Josh Allen
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 5: had sat Kwan Barkley, we being Super Bowl by now, man,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 5: if you did pick that, So that's all good.
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  Speaker 8: The Packers, Man, the Packers beat the Bankers twenty seven
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 8: to eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: Picked that, Yes you did, man.
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  Speaker 8: Then the Chiefs. The Chiefs beat the Lions. Man, You're
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 8: Detroit Lions thirty to seventeen.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that hurt me.
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  Speaker 7: Damn.
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  Speaker 5: Detroit ain't going number one. Ain't going number one. The Falcons.
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  Speaker 1: The Falcons beat the Bills twenty four to fourteen.
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  Speaker 5: On how to hell that hell? I don't remember what's
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 5: going on in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 8: Penny Joseph and man John Robinson had about one hundred
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 8: and sixty yard Russian.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that boy ran all over the Bill.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to go and be a Falcon fan
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 2: in a minute. You wasn't a Brown fan, what team
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: would you gonna be a family.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I'm Detroit and Eagles all day, Jesi, I'm Detroit
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 5: and Eagles all day.
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  Speaker 9: Shirley, all right, Junior, Thank you. Coming up at the
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 9: top of the hour, A man on social media needs
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 9: some advice Steve. He says, it went down in the
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 9: laundry room. Apartment laundry room showdown. We'll talk about it
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  Speaker 9: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: Devin on Steve Harvey FM writes, I left a load
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 9: of laundry and our apartment building washer too long, and
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 9: today a huge guy cornered me in the laundry room,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 9: talking about quote people like you, then said, if it
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 9: happens again, he'll toss my stuff in the trash. I
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 9: apologized and he didn't respond, but as he left, he
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 9: mumbled something about my appearance and slammed the door on
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 9: his way out. Now I'm anxious about doing the laundry.
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  Speaker 1: There at all.
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  Speaker 9: Do I report him, try to avoid him, or stand
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  Speaker 9: on my ground and risk turning this into a full
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  Speaker 9: blown neighbor hued.
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  Speaker 5: What do you think? Yeah, that's a woman that wrote
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  Speaker 5: that because he says something about her appears that you
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 5: could say somebody do was appear at him?
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 5: Really, your regular tennis shoe wearing I've got some more
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 5: Jordan's up there.
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  Speaker 1: Tommy wouldn't like it. Somebody called him ugly or something.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't like that. That's a huge guy.
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  Speaker 5: Big huge behind that guy. See that's all because somebody
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: told him he was up truth anyway, But anyway, Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: that's what that is. And uh, you know a big guy.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 5: Next time he's gonna throw it in the trash and
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 5: all that. You know, you're gonna have to get you
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 5: an apartment that's got to wash and dry inside all this.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to move.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: They because I know they got apartments out there with
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 5: the washing dry in the hallway or your own apartment.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 5: That's gotta be your next requirement because going down all
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 5: that community washing your pant is in the.
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  Speaker 2: Same same is his drawls. And you know he's big
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  Speaker 2: and nasty.
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  Speaker 5: Now you got all this, No, you have got to
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 5: move and get you in a place that's got a
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 5: washing drive a little minute up, washing dry in your
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 5: Parmit stackable. That's why I never liked none of that
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 5: community stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Man, I can't stand sometimes it can't be helped.
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  Speaker 5: That's where you live, you got, Yeah, well that's who
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: you ain't had to live at.
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  Speaker 9: Oh, it is a big guy. Cornering of Woman thirty.
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  Speaker 5: Five extra dollars. You had a Washington dry thirty five.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 5: You're trying to save money now you downstairs?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, well it's mean. Yeah that was awful. Yeah, all right,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 9: we have time for another one, Steve. This is from
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 9: Sean on Steve Harvey FM. Sean says, about a month ago,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 9: my neighbor had a garage sale. That garage sale has
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 9: never ended. In fact, now she's advertising on social media
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 9: that is becoming her own quote hometown store. Normally I
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 9: mind my own business, but we live on a dead
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 9: and street and my house is at the end of it.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 9: That means people are sometimes using my driveway as a
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 9: turnaround spot. I've hung up signs and even parked my
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 9: car at the top of my driveway to put a
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 9: stop to that. I can't find anything illegal about it,
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 9: but it sure is annoying. Am I just being a
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 9: nosy neighbor? Or is this complaint valid?
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Well you can complain, but there ain't nothing you
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 5: can do about it. Like you said, she ain't broke
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 5: no law. They can just have an ongoing of gra
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 5: sale for help. Yeah, ain't nobody buying this stuff? You
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 5: just can't keep replenishing your own garage. See you gotta
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 5: be out of supply one minute. So ain't nobody buying
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 5: this stuff? Yeah, but she just trying to get all
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 5: of it sold. Don't nobody want that? I'm betting there
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 5: since she starts, what a couple of items been there
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 5: since she started? Don't nobody wote that mattress? Then she
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 5: got up against that wall. Nobody look at them stains.
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  Speaker 7: Over there, and just buy the lady out. You just
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 7: buy everything that might shut it off. Yeah, here I
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 7: go with another suggestion. Move, you're gonna have to move.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 7: You thought a good idea of being down at the end.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 5: Of that call.
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  Speaker 10: De sack.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 5: Now they using your driveway as a U turn. You
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 5: park your call up at the front. Get ready?
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, thank you, Steve. We'll have more
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: Coming up twenty minutes after.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, So, Carlo, yesterday, October thirteenth was your birthday.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: But yes, what else it was, Carla?
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  Speaker 9: A happy birthday again to you.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: Happy belated birthday. Yeah, thank you, I did, I did.
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  Speaker 1: I had a great birthday. It was also National No
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  Speaker 1: broad Day.
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  Speaker 5: Day.
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  Speaker 16: Shut up.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 9: Dang it, it's the baby, also known as the moment
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 9: we get home from work day. National No broad Day,
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 9: which falls right in the middle of Breast Cancer Awareness Month,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 9: is a time for women and men to learn about
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 9: breast health. It helps remind people that breast cancer is
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 9: a potentially fatal disease, but also highly detectable and treatable.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 9: National No broad Day is all about learning to spot
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 9: early warning signs and get an edge in fight against cancer.
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  Speaker 9: So if you missed it yesterday, you can celebrate. You
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 9: guys were right. You can celebrate No broad Day today.
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  Speaker 10: There you go.
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait till we get out.
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  Speaker 15: All the time?
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 5: Do what all the bad? Yeah, my unt Actnes stayed
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 5: with us for three weeks. She popped that brawl. She
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 5: came through that back. Don't feel that whole kitchen up,
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 5: that whole that show like like a life raft had
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 5: opened up.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 9: A nice little play around him, would you rather?
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 2: Right after.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Hey it's
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 9: Carla Farroll.
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  Speaker 4: Kick that old mop and bucket aside? Are you ready
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 4: for a mop and bucket clean? And half the time
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 4: make the swap to Swifer power mop. The only one
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  Speaker 4: Plus, it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning.
• 1:21:08
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• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: It's time now to play around it. Would you rather, guys?
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  Speaker 9: Would you rather only watch cartoons with your grandkids for
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 9: three weeks straight?
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather never watch television again?
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 5: Oh? No, I can't not TV.
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  Speaker 1: For three weeks straight?
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Now hold up, Tommy, Tommy, they got some They
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 5: cartoon is different now Annimal Bugs, Bunny Yosemity Sam, Ain't.
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  Speaker 9: No Red flint Stone.
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  Speaker 5: No No, they looking pepper Pig. They look cartoons and
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 5: characters on that.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: You be going, well, so what's your decision?
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  Speaker 5: Now? I'm gonna watch it. I'm gonna watch it with.
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  Speaker 9: Them for three weeks straight, okay.
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and then then we'll never watch TV again.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 9: Ever, Like, yeah, would you would you rather play flag
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 9: football with Jalen Hurts or would you rather play it
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 9: with Josh Allen?
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 5: I cain't do nothing. I can't help them do nothing.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 5: For what. I ain't gonna be able to get that flag?
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 5: What different I'm playing with? I can't catch no more?
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 9: Oh yeah, did invite us?
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, I like it?
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 5: That's what ye give me? A age limit?
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: Age limited, not worth where is concerned? All right?
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 5: Would you another and brawler's day at the same time.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 9: Work? That's not gonna work, all right? Would you rather
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 9: have another twenty years with your wife or just one
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 9: night with your celebrity crush?
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 5: Twenty years with my wife man, m there you go see?
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, good job Tom Cards.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah she's listening.
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  Speaker 9: Hey baby, I'm doing even if she wasn't listening.
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 5: To school right now? Twenty years one night gotte with
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 5: crushed twenty years?
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 8: Surely of course you can't. You think I'm so glad
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 8: I can't have no One name with k me alone
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 8: twenty years with my wife.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: kN alone junior, twenty years with.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: My wife calling.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: That's where I need to be.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 5: I have to be there. That's what I want to be.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: That's what I need to be.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: Saying, make yourself baby, talking to it. That's what I
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: love to be.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 9: I'm convinced. I'm convinced, all right. Would you rather eat it?
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 12: Enter?
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: A pie eating contest or a chili eating concent us.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 5: Hot is hot. I'm gonna tell.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 19: Y'all either way you believed you ain't gonna make it.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 9: It's so hot, stay hot.
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 5: It's written on the box that is hot.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: Caution.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 9: I'm that's today's round. Would you rather coming up next?
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  Speaker 9: It is our last break of the day, and we'll
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 9: close out the show with the one and only Steve
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 9: Harvey right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 9: Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. Even though you're
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 9: still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you know your
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 9: immune system weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 9: They help train and strengthen your immune response to fight
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 9: off certain respiratory illnesses like flu new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV,
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  Speaker 9: and COVID nineteen This fall, ask your doctor which vaccines
• 1:25:02
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  Speaker 9: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 9: the day on this Tuesday. It's been a great day.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 9: Thank you all for listening, and Steve, before you get
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 9: to your closing we do have a phone call for
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 9: you from a pastor who actually left comments about your closing.
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 10: God bless you, Steve Harvey.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 13: I'm kind of running late, but this reverend will again.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 13: I just want to say one thing that closing remarks
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 13: on October.
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  Speaker 11: To six, how you say your pass and you talked
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 11: about that past.
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  Speaker 5: God love you, Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 10: Let God be with you.
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  Speaker 13: That was so wonderful what you said.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 10: You said your past.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 5: Lead that alone.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 10: God bless it. I need that could trust and believe
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 10: I got a pass. But that word read there to
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 10: encourage me.
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  Speaker 13: Thank you Steve Harvey for that strong word.
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 3: To talk about that past, to leave it alone.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 10: God bless you, Steve Harvey. That was so much of
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 10: the information that you gave me. I'm gonna keep looking
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 10: at your family few.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 5: Thank you brother, you know, thank you.
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 10: Let God keep using you to tell.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 13: Folks and wake folks up on situations that they're going through.
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 13: Trust and believe I got a pass, but I'm gonna
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 13: leave it alone.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 10: Thank you Steve Harvey for that.
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  Speaker 2: Bye bye.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, thank you Uncle ru Yeah, that's good
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 5: on preaking. That's my uncle Rufus that have called in well,
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 5: thank him. For calling there. Hey, you know what, I
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 5: appreciate him saying that I've been trying to really do
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 5: better with my clothing remarks because I found out so
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 5: many people were listening in to him. I was getting
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 5: a lot of message from people. So I have another
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 5: one today. Two and the counter pertains what Junior asked
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 5: me this morning. It was about accountability. He said, how
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 5: important is accountability to you? Well, y'all listen what I
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 5: was explaining to Junior this morning when he asked me
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 5: how important is accountability? Accountability is everything, especially when you
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 5: understand one practice that it took me years to understand.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 5: My journey to happiness and success is dependent on two factors,
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 5: God Almighty and myself. Those are the two determining factors
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 5: about my happiness and about my success. And as long
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 5: as you keep it between the two of you. Now,
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 5: if you married and you've become one, and that you
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 5: and your wife are in agreement, that's the only other source.
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 5: But outside of that, as long as you keep those
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  Speaker 5: two factors in the forefront, God Almighty and yourself, that's it.
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 5: I don't allow any other factors into it, or I
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 5: used to, but I learned to stop doing that because See,
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 5: as long as you know that your success and happiness
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 5: is just between you and God, you can get along
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 5: with it and you can make all the necessary corrections. See,
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 5: if it's just between you and God, when something goes wrong,
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 5: you can fix it between you and God. If you
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 5: allow other factors into the mix, you now have to
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 5: incorporate them, and they may not be willing to go
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 5: along with it. I give you an example. Somebody leaves you,
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 5: your relationship break up. Okay, Now you won't closeure in that.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 5: You want them to come back and tell you they sorry.
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 5: You will you waiting on them to call you and
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 5: give you the reason why you waiting on them to
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 5: call you and make you feel better about it?
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 2: They might just be gone.
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 5: So now guess what if you keep the accountability between
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 5: you and God. Okay, listen, maybe this person leaving me
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 5: was a good thing for me. Be kind, Bill glaass.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 5: Like I always say, behind every moment of adversity, the
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 5: two things happen, there's a lesson and a blessing. So
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 5: sometimes this lead this person leaving you could be a
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 5: good thing. But if you go to God immediately and
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 5: ask God to give you the understanding and the knowledge
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 5: to cope with this loss. You may find out that
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 5: that loss was necessary. You may find out that that
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 5: loss was actually a good thing. Maybe God let that
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 5: door close because he got another one. He wants you
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 5: to walk up the hall and walk through. Stop standing
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 5: at these doors that close in your face. Stand there
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 5: beating on that door, Walk up the hall. There's always
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 5: more doors. But the accountability is on you. If you
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 5: allow someone else to be the determining factor between your
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 5: for your happy, this in your success, you're in trouble. Man,
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 5: You're in a lot of trouble because suppose they don't. Oh,
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 5: I know what they said, but suppose they don't. I
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 5: know what they said they was gonna do. But suppose
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 5: they don't. I know the promises they made, but supposed
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 5: they don't. Accountability. You and God Almighty. Those two things
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 5: you can control. Number One, God he has never failed
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 5: me yet ever ever. He has never ever let me down. Never,
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 5: God Almighty has never ever broken a promise. Never ever.
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 5: God Almighty has never not come through when I needed
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 5: him most. Never Ever. These are factors that you can
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 5: count on. So if you keep the accountability between you
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 5: and God Almighty, there's your chance for happiness or success.
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 5: Stop letting these other people affect you. Stop giving everybody
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 5: else some accountability in your life. They did me wrong,
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 5: they let me down. They didn't come when they said.
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 5: He said he was gonna give me this money. He
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 5: didn't give me this money. He didn't pay me my
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 5: money back. Man By that don't matter. It only matters
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 5: between you and God. If you keep it between you
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 5: and God, that's all the accountability you need, and you'll
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 5: be a much happier, much successful person. Stop relying on
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 5: people because they ain't always gonna They are people now,
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 5: they are all human. Those are my closing remarks. Y'all
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 5: have yourself a great day to day. Talk to God today.
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 5: He would absolutely love to hear from you. And it
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  Speaker 5: don't matter if it's been a while. A right, y'all
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