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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Y'all know what time.
- 0:05Speaker 1: Y'all don't know y'all ball at all, So.
- 0:12Speaker 3: Don't given them.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Back A busy listening to show to.
- 0:39Speaker 3: Joy?
- 0:50Speaker 2: Yeah, Joy, have.
- 0:59Speaker 4: You got to do that?
- 1:01Speaker 3: I know.
- 1:05Speaker 2: You love you.
- 1:24Speaker 5: Gotta turn.
- 1:41Speaker 2: Got to turn the mouth turn you probably got to
- 1:44Speaker 2: turn mouth turn out a wad.
- 1:47Speaker 1: Then up, come.
- 1:58Speaker 2: Come out.
- 1:59Speaker 6: You think that, Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
- 2:04Speaker 6: You are listening to the voice, come on dig me now.
- 2:08Speaker 6: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Why
- 2:12Speaker 6: Because God, God is in the blessing business. If you
- 2:17Speaker 6: go get in line, he has something for you. God
- 2:22Speaker 6: is amazing.
- 2:24Speaker 2: The plan he actually has for you is so far
- 2:27Speaker 2: greater than you can possibly imagine. It's really mind blowing.
- 2:33Speaker 2: And as I look back on where He's brought me
- 2:36Speaker 2: from and what He's currently doing for me, all I
- 2:41Speaker 2: can do is tell you is God. That's all I
- 2:43Speaker 2: can tell you, Because I tell you right now, I
- 2:46Speaker 2: didn't foresee it. You know. It oftentimes amazes me when
- 2:50Speaker 2: I listen to celebrities when they interview how they say,
- 2:53Speaker 2: you know, I always always thought that this would happen
- 2:55Speaker 2: for me, and I just you know it could be true,
- 2:59Speaker 2: but for me, it's not that way at all. I
- 3:03Speaker 2: didn't imagine it this way. I had a dream of
- 3:10Speaker 2: becoming famous one day, but I had no idea it
- 3:15Speaker 2: would ever get to this. It was a very very
- 3:19Speaker 2: simple desire for fame. There is no way I could
- 3:23Speaker 2: have seen all this. There is no way. I am
- 3:27Speaker 2: telling you this has been nothing for me but the
- 3:31Speaker 2: grace of God, and all the times I failed, every
- 3:36Speaker 2: time I had fallen, he picked me up, He dusted
- 3:41Speaker 2: me off, and he kept me moving. It has been
- 3:45Speaker 2: an amazing thing to watch God do what he do.
- 3:49Speaker 2: As I look back on my history and you sometimes
- 3:51Speaker 2: look back on your history, you've got to see, man, Wow,
- 3:56Speaker 2: what God has done for you and what He's brought
- 3:58Speaker 2: you through to enable you to be where you are.
- 4:01Speaker 2: It is amazing because really, I mean really real talk. Now,
- 4:06Speaker 2: had he allowed all of the decisions I had made
- 4:09Speaker 2: to play all the way out, I can assure you
- 4:12Speaker 2: I wouldn't be here today. But God, through this grace
- 4:16Speaker 2: and mercy, who had a plan for me, who was
- 4:18Speaker 2: just waiting on me to come get in line, and
- 4:22Speaker 2: then he was gonna start emptying. Now he was gonna
- 4:25Speaker 2: start shipping out all the boxes in heaven with my
- 4:28Speaker 2: name on it. And man, what a great god he is,
- 4:32Speaker 2: What a great god he is. And you have boxes
- 4:36Speaker 2: of blessings with your name on it that he is
- 4:39Speaker 2: waiting to ship. But he needs you to go down
- 4:42Speaker 2: there and get in line. That's what it is. It
- 4:46Speaker 2: is not that he has more boxes for other people
- 4:49Speaker 2: than he do you. He got boxes with your name
- 4:52Speaker 2: on it who have never been shipped because you will
- 4:55Speaker 2: not get in line to go get them. You will
- 4:58Speaker 2: not ask God for him, you will not do the
- 5:01Speaker 2: things necessary to attain them. We stop our own blessings. Man,
- 5:05Speaker 2: I have been the biggest stopper of my blessings than
- 5:07Speaker 2: anybody else. I can't really get mad at nobody. I
- 5:11Speaker 2: got nobody to blame for my existence but me. But
- 5:15Speaker 2: then at the same time, I can't take credit for this.
- 5:19Speaker 2: I really really can't. I kid you not. I cannot
- 5:21Speaker 2: take credit for it. And if you ever see me
- 5:24Speaker 2: taking credit for it, tap me on the shoulder, say Steve,
- 5:28Speaker 2: pull up. Remember you said this ain't about you. If
- 5:31Speaker 2: you catch me taking too much credit, you have my
- 5:35Speaker 2: permission to stop me. Now Here is the deal, though,
- 5:40Speaker 2: and this is what I want to get through to
- 5:42Speaker 2: you today, moving forward while under attack, new level, new devil.
- 5:52Speaker 2: You know, every time you go somewhere, every time you
- 5:55Speaker 2: try to progress, every time you make a decision to
- 5:57Speaker 2: be better, to do better, that's going to be a
- 6:00Speaker 2: confrontation you're going to have because it is the enemy's
- 6:03Speaker 2: job to not see you go forward, do better, want more,
- 6:08Speaker 2: behave yourself. There is a force that is operative out
- 6:12Speaker 2: there that has people working on his behalf twenty four
- 6:17Speaker 2: to seven. You got a computer, go read a blog.
- 6:20Speaker 2: Just go read a blog. They busy man not knowing,
- 6:24Speaker 2: but just saying evil stuff constantly. That's a job. Well,
- 6:31Speaker 2: here's what happens I you. We have to always keep
- 6:37Speaker 2: moving forward while we're under attack, because the attack is
- 6:45Speaker 2: going to always come. If you allow the attackers to
- 6:49Speaker 2: stop you, you will lose that particular battle. And you
- 6:53Speaker 2: cannot afford this. You know. My father used to say,
- 6:58Speaker 2: be careful when you're trying to kick body off the ladder,
- 7:01Speaker 2: because you got to take your foot off too, and
- 7:04Speaker 2: you might slip. And so when people are taking their
- 7:07Speaker 2: feet off the ladder, most some of them, most the
- 7:10Speaker 2: majority of them an't even up own a ladder. They
- 7:12Speaker 2: just at the bottom, throwing stuff up at you. They
- 7:15Speaker 2: are just shaking your ladder. They ain't even they ain't
- 7:18Speaker 2: even on your level. Really tell you the truth, they
- 7:20Speaker 2: really not. You have moved on far beyond them, spiritually, physically, everything,
- 7:26Speaker 2: but they are still shaking your ladder and attacking.
- 7:29Speaker 3: You.
- 7:29Speaker 2: Keep moving forward while under attack, because the attacks are
- 7:33Speaker 2: going to come. If you take the time to stop
- 7:36Speaker 2: and address it, you are impeding your own progress. This
- 7:41Speaker 2: is very important to understand. Go on bout your business
- 7:45Speaker 2: and remember Steve Harvey and remember those of you out there.
- 7:49Speaker 2: There is a Bible verse that helps me out every time.
- 7:53Speaker 2: And I don't know why. I got it on six
- 7:55Speaker 2: different plaques sitting all around my offices. Everywhere I go,
- 7:58Speaker 2: I can read it Isaiah fifty seventeen. No weapon formed
- 8:02Speaker 2: against me shall prosper that because this is that he
- 8:06Speaker 2: will put me under his wings or protection. And this
- 8:09Speaker 2: is my inheritance as a servant of the Lord period.
- 8:16Speaker 2: I'm his boy, he my man, so so dig so
- 8:20Speaker 2: when you're coming for me, I have to just rest
- 8:23Speaker 2: on that Lord right there, that he got it that
- 8:27Speaker 2: no weapon formed against me shall prosper. I'm just like
- 8:30Speaker 2: you sometimes, you know, we know better, but sometimes we
- 8:33Speaker 2: don't do better. Man, Let them say what they gonna say.
- 8:36Speaker 2: When they get through saying it, when they get through
- 8:39Speaker 2: writing it, when they get through talking about you, when
- 8:41Speaker 2: they get through lying about you. Guess what they're gonna
- 8:44Speaker 2: have to do. They're gonna have to step back and
- 8:46Speaker 2: watch your rise. They gonna have to kick back and
- 8:49Speaker 2: watch what God got for you, because nothing God got
- 8:52Speaker 2: for you. Can't nobody stop it. I don't care what
- 8:54Speaker 2: they do. Keep moving forward while under attack. Yo, something
- 9:01Speaker 2: I tell you something, man. Minister Lewis fair Cohn taught
- 9:05Speaker 2: me something very important one day, he says, Steve, remember this.
- 9:09Speaker 2: He said. It is a common thing for a dog
- 9:14Speaker 2: to bark up at the moon. But if the moon
- 9:17Speaker 2: barks back at the dog, the dog becomes famous. You
- 9:22Speaker 2: feel me, The moon was talking to you.
- 9:25Speaker 4: What did you?
- 9:26Speaker 2: How did the moon stop and talk to you? Don't
- 9:29Speaker 2: give them that. Let the dog bark up at the moon.
- 9:32Speaker 2: Don't you be up there? You go where God got
- 9:34Speaker 2: you going? Don't bark back at this dog, cause the
- 9:37Speaker 2: dog come famous because they ain't gonna be able to
- 9:38Speaker 2: get to you. But the dog is famous now. They
- 9:40Speaker 2: want to interview the dog now the dog. Guess what
- 9:43Speaker 2: he gonna do? More barking? Guess what about you? Man?
- 9:46Speaker 2: Go on about your business, y'all. God is in the
- 9:48Speaker 2: blessing business all day long. Man, Go get in line,
- 9:52Speaker 2: get you some get them packages and boxes shipped to you.
- 9:55Speaker 2: They got your name on it.
- 9:57Speaker 1: You're listening.
- 9:59Speaker 2: Morning, ladies and gentlemen. Again that God Almighty done, done
- 10:09Speaker 2: it again. Ain't nobody greater? Ain't nobody great her? Boy,
- 10:16Speaker 2: that's my jam I heard that to death. Nobody great hey,
- 10:23Speaker 2: greater than you. It ain't nobody greater than that God.
- 10:27Speaker 2: I said, nobody greater, nobody nothing. You better talk about it.
- 10:33Speaker 2: Talk to talk George. That's my dude too. I can't
- 10:36Speaker 2: think his name, the motivation talk that talk George. Yeah,
- 10:40Speaker 2: that's my dude right now. I love that cat man.
- 10:42Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, this is Steve Hart Morning Show. We're
- 10:44Speaker 2: up this morning. We glad about it, were grateful about it.
- 10:47Speaker 2: If you have gratitude, it'll affect your attitude. Your attitude
- 10:50Speaker 2: determines your altitude. Get your tued in check this morning. Man,
- 10:54Speaker 2: you understand your film. Shelley Strawberry Colin for Real, Mississippi
- 10:58Speaker 2: Monica Junior legend that he is nephew Tommy Jr. Yeah,
- 11:03Speaker 2: I see you, man, Yeah you smiling today, was going heah.
- 11:07Speaker 2: You know what, man, it ain't gonna change nothing. I
- 11:09Speaker 2: can't complain. Complain, it ain't gonna change none. What you said. Yes,
- 11:15Speaker 2: I know, but I had to check myself. I checked myself.
- 11:18Speaker 2: I just want to remind you. So, see what I
- 11:20Speaker 2: do like to do when I ment to a young man,
- 11:23Speaker 2: I like to teach him his own lesson. I like
- 11:25Speaker 2: to let him. You got to you learn from our mistakes.
- 11:28Speaker 2: That's how we grow, Yes, sir and so. But you
- 11:31Speaker 2: got to point out the mistakes. And the thing you
- 11:33Speaker 2: did was you pointed out your own mistake. That's how
- 11:36Speaker 2: you grow. Most people don't grow because they blame other
- 11:38Speaker 2: people for they shortcoming. It's really, yes, it's us the
- 11:44Speaker 2: whole time. I can't find a good man. I keep
- 11:51Speaker 2: meeting all these dogs. You a dog catcher? See, stop
- 11:55Speaker 2: being dog catching? Go ahead all the time. Well not,
- 12:00Speaker 2: you can't run into someone without being a dog catching.
- 12:03Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 12:05Speaker 2: For the women out of here, not all I mean,
- 12:07Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying all that's the case, but
- 12:09Speaker 2: you know, sometimes they just hop over your trest but
- 12:14Speaker 2: told him me, you just need a taller fence. Most
- 12:17Speaker 2: dogs can't leave dogs, They gonna go over there.
- 12:22Speaker 1: Defriend found about it though.
- 12:29Speaker 2: You find a way to make everything he makes sense
- 12:31Speaker 2: for you. That's what you do. Well, you got to
- 12:34Speaker 2: because if you don't, who is gonna make sense to? Yeah,
- 12:38Speaker 2: I'm what I'm not goin to do is sit up
- 12:40Speaker 2: into a life of confusion. The God I serve is
- 12:42Speaker 2: not a god of confusion. He's a god of answers
- 12:45Speaker 2: and solutions, faith and hope. So if I believe in him,
- 12:50Speaker 2: why am I sitting over here looking hopeless?
- 12:52Speaker 3: Now?
- 12:52Speaker 2: I'm gonna make some judgmental mistakes from time to time,
- 12:55Speaker 2: as we all do. But I'm turning around to admit
- 12:59Speaker 2: my mistake, ask for forgiveness, and get on up and
- 13:01Speaker 2: move home.
- 13:03Speaker 3: Hum.
- 13:03Speaker 2: And I'm staying on that right there. Shout out to
- 13:08Speaker 2: my man Tyler Perry. Yesterday we started taping at the studios.
- 13:12Speaker 2: Yesterday I touched my pride. I was of him over
- 13:16Speaker 2: the studio. Next thing I know, he popped through the door.
- 13:19Speaker 2: We had a long conversation.
- 13:21Speaker 1: Look at that brother, Yeah.
- 13:24Speaker 2: And just upping each other, just upping each other. We
- 13:28Speaker 2: did him talk about one person that was doing better
- 13:31Speaker 2: than us, not now one.
- 13:36Speaker 1: Steve coming up in thirty two minutes as to be ours.
- 13:40Speaker 1: We will hear from the nephew as he runs that
- 13:42Speaker 1: prank back right after this. You're listening hard Morning show.
- 13:47Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that
- 13:49Speaker 1: prank back.
- 13:50Speaker 2: What you got for his neph This right here is
- 13:52Speaker 2: called jingeridis and we know what that is today, y'all,
- 13:58Speaker 2: So please don't be confused like God was ginger gun
- 14:02Speaker 2: disease in the mouth. When I first heard it, I
- 14:04Speaker 2: thought it was.
- 14:08Speaker 3: Come on, Hello, I'm trying to reach Kelvin Kelvin Davis. Yeah,
- 14:14Speaker 3: this is Calvin. Who am I speaking with? How you doing, Kelvin?
- 14:19Speaker 3: Let me make sure I got to write Kelvin Kevin?
- 14:21Speaker 3: You you at the job? You work on the fourth floor, right, Yeah?
- 14:25Speaker 3: I work on the fourth floor. Are you in a
- 14:27Speaker 3: cubicle next to Randy?
- 14:29Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 14:29Speaker 3: Matter of fact, I am. But But who am I?
- 14:32Speaker 3: Who am I speaking with? Well, I'm not at liberty
- 14:34Speaker 3: to give my name right now, but I'm bringing some
- 14:36Speaker 3: news from the job that I think you might want to.
- 14:39Speaker 3: You know, this is some news I think that you
- 14:41Speaker 3: would probably want to know, and uh, I'm just let's
- 14:44Speaker 3: just say, I'm an I'm an employee from another floor
- 14:47Speaker 3: and I got I got wind of what was going
- 14:48Speaker 3: on on the fourth floor, and I wanted to, you know,
- 14:52Speaker 3: I wanted to. I wanted to bring it to your
- 14:53Speaker 3: attention because I think on your floor, nobody's bringing this
- 14:57Speaker 3: to your attention, you know. Okay, So let me get
- 15:00Speaker 3: this straight. You can't tell me your name, but you
- 15:03Speaker 3: work on the floor below me.
- 15:06Speaker 2: Do you know me?
- 15:08Speaker 3: I've seen you before, I've seen you before. Okay, no, no, no, no, no,
- 15:13Speaker 3: do you know me? I mean I don't know you know?
- 15:16Speaker 3: So no? I mean I mean, okay, So how did
- 15:20Speaker 3: how did you get to so called being the spokesperson
- 15:25Speaker 3: for people who work with me? Hey? Man, Like I say,
- 15:29Speaker 3: I just wanted to give you the news because the
- 15:30Speaker 3: whole fourth floor, it is God's has been about you,
- 15:33Speaker 3: and nobody's telling you what's going on. Okay, So obviously
- 15:37Speaker 3: the gossip reason about me has gotten to you on
- 15:39Speaker 3: the third floor, and now you are coming to to
- 15:44Speaker 3: be my deliverer or so to speak. I'm just a guy.
- 15:47Speaker 3: I'm just a guy bringing you some news. Man, I'm
- 15:49Speaker 3: just here. Let me let me ask you this, bro,
- 15:51Speaker 3: are you Are you flossing at night? What business is
- 15:57Speaker 3: that of yours? I'm just I'm just asking you flossing
- 16:00Speaker 3: at night? Will you floss on a regular basis?
- 16:03Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 16:03Speaker 3: I floss on a regular basis? What's that got to
- 16:06Speaker 3: do with the price of tea in time?
- 16:08Speaker 2: Okay?
- 16:08Speaker 3: Where's the last time you've been to the dentist? Man?
- 16:11Speaker 3: Who the hell are you? Let me tell you to
- 16:14Speaker 3: be honest, what you mean? My problem is not really
- 16:16Speaker 3: with you. I'm really upset with the people on the
- 16:18Speaker 3: floor that's not telling you. But you know why, why
- 16:21Speaker 3: ain't you talking to them? What the problem is, man,
- 16:25Speaker 3: is that it is that they talking about you and
- 16:27Speaker 3: they're not telling you what your issue is. So let's
- 16:30Speaker 3: get to the issue at hand. So you are flossing.
- 16:32Speaker 3: You are flossing, that's what you're saying. Damn straight, I flass? Okay?
- 16:36Speaker 3: Are you brushing your tongue? Come on now, you don't
- 16:41Speaker 3: have to. You don't have to question me about my
- 16:44Speaker 3: hygienic makeup. You don't know me, you have never talked
- 16:49Speaker 3: to me. But you're gonna side with a bunch of
- 16:51Speaker 3: folks that think I'm not I'm not siding with them, brother,
- 16:55Speaker 3: I'm not siding with him, but all on your behalf,
- 16:58Speaker 3: you're siding with them, okay, kel kell Man kel Ken Listen,
- 17:03Speaker 3: this is day Really, you don't even know me and
- 17:06Speaker 3: you're gonna approach me like this, So, Kevin, they think
- 17:09Speaker 3: you have ginger vitas? Oh, I mean, are you? Will
- 17:14Speaker 3: you go to your dinners? Are y'all cleaning below your gums?
- 17:18Speaker 3: Will the dentists do what you do? And I'm laying
- 17:20Speaker 3: there with my mouth wide open, and I go more
- 17:23Speaker 3: than every six months, So what the hell are you
- 17:26Speaker 3: talking about? Well, okay, something is wrong, okay, And everybody's
- 17:31Speaker 3: saying that it's you. Is your breath, that's that's just
- 17:34Speaker 3: you know, they saying they were in the fourth floor
- 17:36Speaker 3: to go down to the lobby just to get some
- 17:38Speaker 3: fresh hair. Because that's bullying. Well, this is what I
- 17:41Speaker 3: want you to do, since you speaking on their behalf,
- 17:45Speaker 3: tell every one of them, sorry so and souls, that
- 17:48Speaker 3: if they got a problem with me, they need to
- 17:50Speaker 3: come approach me. And then if it's that bad, I'll
- 17:54Speaker 3: blow my strength as breath in their face. Bring it off,
- 17:58Speaker 3: because this conversation with you is really way off. Face,
- 18:01Speaker 3: because you have no business calling me telling me what
- 18:06Speaker 3: they say. Can I give you some some some items
- 18:10Speaker 3: to mix together for you to gargle with later tonight.
- 18:13Speaker 3: Can so you work, you work in the building, but
- 18:16Speaker 3: now you're a dentist man.
- 18:18Speaker 2: You know what this is?
- 18:20Speaker 3: Bull And we're gonna settle this tomorrow first thing in
- 18:24Speaker 3: the morning, when I matter of fact, I'm gonna go
- 18:26Speaker 3: to the full floor and wait for all these sorry
- 18:28Speaker 3: so and so to come up there. Who's been talking
- 18:31Speaker 3: about me behind my back? And guess what you invited
- 18:35Speaker 3: to the party too, player, since you're gonna be their representative,
- 18:39Speaker 3: each one of them lying back is when they get
- 18:41Speaker 3: in there. As far as I'm concerned, when tomorrow get
- 18:44Speaker 3: here is gonna be whooping. And if you watch some
- 18:47Speaker 3: of it show up since you the representative, but you
- 18:50Speaker 3: can get do you know what I mean?
- 18:51Speaker 6: Tell them?
- 18:52Speaker 3: Do you do you think it could be some cavities
- 18:54Speaker 3: or something? Do you think you get the cavity my
- 18:57Speaker 3: foot in your cabinet? This is what it's gonna be.
- 18:59Speaker 3: And whoever else want to try to take it out,
- 19:02Speaker 3: they gonna get it in there. So guess what it's
- 19:05Speaker 3: on tomorrow. I know I ain't got gingus. Are you
- 19:07Speaker 3: only brushing in the morning when you leave for work?
- 19:10Speaker 3: Are you only bring? Have you not understood me? Don't
- 19:13Speaker 3: keep questioning me. You can question me tomorrow after I
- 19:16Speaker 3: will be and yours. Can you bring? Can you bring
- 19:20Speaker 3: why you try to do? Why'd you do me this way?
- 19:23Speaker 3: Then I tell you? Then I tell you?
- 19:24Speaker 2: Can you bring?
- 19:25Speaker 3: Can you bring your tooth brush? Tomorrow? Can you bring?
- 19:28Speaker 3: You bring your toothbrush? It's five fingers on my tooth brush.
- 19:31Speaker 3: I bring them. They be balled up and you will
- 19:33Speaker 3: get to mister cleaning that you ain't never thought you
- 19:35Speaker 3: would get from a bentist. Okay, just don't know what target. Man. Hey, hey, bruh, broh,
- 19:42Speaker 3: calm calm down, man, just calm down. We're trying to
- 19:45Speaker 3: get to we're trying to fix the problem. This gonna
- 19:48Speaker 3: fix the problem. Kevin, You kicking is not gonna change
- 19:52Speaker 3: your breath. I ain't gonna worry about it. Well, guess what,
- 19:56Speaker 3: no line jokers to come down there and sit in
- 19:58Speaker 3: your cubicle. All right? So do you I mean, do
- 20:01Speaker 3: you want to know who? Who put this out there?
- 20:04Speaker 3: I want you to know me when you see me tomorrow.
- 20:06Speaker 3: Go ahead, and lay it out for me. Tell me.
- 20:08Speaker 2: Okay, so.
- 20:10Speaker 3: This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 20:13Speaker 3: Randy got me the prank phone call you man, you
- 20:16Speaker 3: know what you almost taught me to say something you
- 20:19Speaker 3: is lined into me. Yeah. You wait tilass Brandy in
- 20:29Speaker 3: the morning. You wait till I see him? All right, man,
- 20:33Speaker 3: give it?
- 20:33Speaker 9: Tell me.
- 20:33Speaker 3: Tell me what is the baddest and I mean the
- 20:35Speaker 3: baddest radio show in the land without a doubt. Man,
- 20:39Speaker 3: they gotta be Nephew Timmy and the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 20:45Speaker 1: All right, Nephew. Coming up next, it is time to
- 20:48Speaker 1: ask the CLO. You're listening hard morning show. Coming up
- 20:54Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we will talk with
- 20:56Speaker 1: Egypt and Mike from the hit TV show HDV, a
- 21:00Speaker 1: GTV's hit show that is not easy to say. Married
- 21:04Speaker 1: to real Estate. They're dishing about the new season and
- 21:07Speaker 1: what it's like to work with your spouse. We love, love,
- 21:10Speaker 1: love their family dynamic on screen. That's coming up at
- 21:14Speaker 1: the top of the hour, But right now it is
- 21:16Speaker 1: time to ask the CLO, our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
- 21:20Speaker 1: This runs from Gladys in East Point Gladys writes, my
- 21:24Speaker 1: friend posted a picture of her so called famous peach
- 21:27Speaker 1: cobbler on Facebook, and my husband commented with the praise
- 21:31Speaker 1: hands emoji. He said, nothing's wrong with giving her a compliment.
- 21:35Speaker 1: Now she's gloating. How should I handle her?
- 21:38Speaker 2: What's the room? Your husband put a praise hands emote.
- 21:42Speaker 2: Now she's gloating. What's the problem. I don't understand the
- 21:46Speaker 2: problem now. Obviously that peach cob that is hitting. That's
- 21:50Speaker 2: for sure, on point, on point. Anytime you put the
- 21:53Speaker 2: Lawd's hand, the prayer hands hand, Yeah, it's delious much yeah,
- 22:01Speaker 2: and he didn't have some of it. Now now she gloats.
- 22:06Speaker 2: What you mad about? Well, prayer hands?
- 22:15Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, yes, yes, Lord.
- 22:22Speaker 2: Listen to me. If a woman posted a picture herself
- 22:25Speaker 2: in a bukin and your emoji is prayer hands, you
- 22:30Speaker 2: are now asking the Lord to grant this wish. That's
- 22:34Speaker 2: what they need. When you put it next to some
- 22:38Speaker 2: peach cobbler, it's a whole different thing. That is not flirting.
- 22:44Speaker 1: He come on, y'all, come on, well yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 22:50Speaker 1: she didn't like it. Well she rightly, and Denver says,
- 22:56Speaker 1: I have three friends and I'm the center of the group,
- 22:59Speaker 1: the one that got us all together. They branch off
- 23:02Speaker 1: and hang out without inviting me, And they said, it's
- 23:05Speaker 1: because I have a boyfriend and they're single. Is that
- 23:08Speaker 1: an excuse because they don't like me.
- 23:10Speaker 2: No, it's because you have a boyfriend and they single.
- 23:14Speaker 2: If what they're going out to do is single women,
- 23:17Speaker 2: they don't want to ask you to come because they
- 23:19Speaker 2: already know you got a boyfriend. Would be reading deeper
- 23:24Speaker 2: this boy they don't like me emotion. Yeah, well let's
- 23:30Speaker 2: move on there because we have this. Yeah, what's the problem.
- 23:39Speaker 1: You guys suck? All right?
- 23:40Speaker 3: Here we go.
- 23:41Speaker 1: Chloe in Southfield says, my boyfriend took a selfie while
- 23:45Speaker 1: we were on a date and he posted with the
- 23:47Speaker 1: caption in these streets tonight. All of his comments were
- 23:51Speaker 1: from girls asking, wya where are you at? I know
- 23:56Speaker 1: we don't post each other on social media? But is
- 23:59Speaker 1: this crossing a line?
- 24:01Speaker 2: God? Hmmm, God, I mean it's what crosses the line?
- 24:08Speaker 10: You know?
- 24:09Speaker 1: He posted in these streets tonight.
- 24:11Speaker 2: I think she just said they don't post each other
- 24:16Speaker 2: on some post yourself mm hmm.
- 24:21Speaker 1: She didn't like the fact that the women responded.
- 24:23Speaker 10: You know that it makes it look like he was
- 24:26Speaker 10: out alone in these streets, and she's yeah, and.
- 24:30Speaker 2: They like you, And I say, okay, okay, but can
- 24:33Speaker 2: I say tell you what else? That way you had
- 24:35Speaker 2: to apply. He could eat, he could be at a
- 24:39Speaker 2: church and help post a selfie. Y'll say, all up
- 24:42Speaker 2: in this lodge house where you at, well, where you at?
- 24:48Speaker 2: Women looking for men?
- 24:50Speaker 5: Right, that's why they said that were you? No, he
- 24:55Speaker 5: did it by himself a selfie. He didn't say she
- 24:57Speaker 5: posted a picture. He took a selfie.
- 25:01Speaker 2: In these streets.
- 25:03Speaker 1: He didn't posted with him and her saying we outside.
- 25:07Speaker 3: Him.
- 25:08Speaker 1: It was yeah, it was just a selfie.
- 25:11Speaker 8: She wasn't on and the women can't see.
- 25:13Speaker 2: How that's crossing the line. But I can see what
- 25:15Speaker 2: she wants to take it there.
- 25:18Speaker 1: Her feelings are hurt.
- 25:20Speaker 2: I don't know why feelings would be hurt. When he
- 25:22Speaker 2: posted I'm out in New Street d Yeah, what did
- 25:30Speaker 2: an outdo date.
- 25:33Speaker 1: In these streets?
- 25:37Speaker 2: They weren't It made you feel better? He said, I'm
- 25:39Speaker 2: up in this hotel lobby restaurant, trying to sound cool.
- 25:46Speaker 2: Look young young street. That's social media.
- 25:52Speaker 1: Man is wow, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, but you can't.
- 25:57Speaker 2: Even have a relationship no more. They read everything in it.
- 25:59Speaker 2: You got likes? Who is this girl like in your picture?
- 26:02Speaker 2: How the hell I know?
- 26:04Speaker 10: But he Okay, my fans is old. Not all of them, yeah,
- 26:12Speaker 10: not all, not all of them. I am not just
- 26:17Speaker 10: saying her feelings are hurt.
- 26:18Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she's gonna see.
- 26:21Speaker 2: What I do is with social media. I don't I
- 26:23Speaker 2: don't let my ego get in that social media because
- 26:25Speaker 2: you read a comment. So let's come all right now, No, don't, don't,
- 26:29Speaker 2: don't go down that dog.
- 26:30Speaker 1: Huh, don't do nothing risk now that you have on
- 26:33Speaker 1: the scrolling Yes, stop reading the comments, all right? Last one, Steve,
- 26:40Speaker 1: This is from k one in Saint Louis. Kawan writes,
- 26:44Speaker 1: I had a one night stand with a girl and
- 26:46Speaker 1: uh and about a month ago, she told me she
- 26:49Speaker 1: was pregnant. The night I had sex with her, I
- 26:51Speaker 1: wore a condom and I was so drunk I couldn't
- 26:54Speaker 1: finish the task. She told my mom, And my mom
- 26:57Speaker 1: wants me to do what's right. I want to wait
- 26:59Speaker 1: seven for a DNA test. What's so bad about that?
- 27:03Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta get DNA though, ain't no doubt about that.
- 27:06Speaker 2: I was watching the judge show the other day, yours no,
- 27:10Speaker 2: And it was like this. It was a paternity to
- 27:14Speaker 2: court and the man was in there and the white
- 27:17Speaker 2: guy had been sent to prison for five years for
- 27:22Speaker 2: not paying child support. The woman brings the son to court.
- 27:26Speaker 2: He over eighteen now and they did a DNA. The
- 27:30Speaker 2: man said they wouldn't give him a DNA. He begged
- 27:33Speaker 2: for death. He served five years in prison. They read
- 27:36Speaker 2: the report of the DNA and said, you are not
- 27:39Speaker 2: the father. That dude dropped down and said, oh god,
- 27:43Speaker 2: five years. He spent five years in prison. You can't
- 27:47Speaker 2: get that back. And he can't get that back. And
- 27:50Speaker 2: then she asked the lady do you know who the
- 27:53Speaker 2: real father is? She said, yes, I do. I'm in
- 27:57Speaker 2: contact with him all the time. He looked she needed
- 28:00Speaker 2: to go to jail. Are you kidding me? And then
- 28:04Speaker 2: he looked at his son. He said, see daling, that's
- 28:05Speaker 2: why he said, mane, I still love you. Man, got
- 28:09Speaker 2: it now? The boy sitting over there. He crushed the
- 28:13Speaker 2: woman and I thought, now, how this woman don't go
- 28:15Speaker 2: to jail. That's so crazy to me. All that hard, Yes,
- 28:19Speaker 2: that's hard. You have to get a DNA. That's man.
- 28:22Speaker 2: That woman sent this man to prison for five years
- 28:25Speaker 2: and knew he wouldn't. The dad is that's horrible, boy,
- 28:29Speaker 2: that right there, she ruined his life. That's hard, right,
- 28:34Speaker 2: get it back. No, I felt so bad for that dude.
- 28:37Speaker 2: He said. Oh god, fuck. He was just and the
- 28:41Speaker 2: court was just. They were and she was sitting Bam.
- 28:44Speaker 2: Do you know who the real father is? Yeah, we're
- 28:46Speaker 2: in contact. Oh my boy, that George was eating her
- 28:51Speaker 2: ass alive. So yeah, get a DNA test.
- 28:53Speaker 3: Brother.
- 28:53Speaker 2: See, I'm going back to jail man. Are you all right? Smart?
- 29:00Speaker 11: You up?
- 29:00Speaker 1: Next, we have Egypt and Mike from HGTV's hit show
- 29:04Speaker 1: Married to Real Estate. Right after this, you're listening Steve
- 29:08Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.
- 29:11Speaker 2: All right, everybody, as promised, today we got two special guests.
- 29:16Speaker 2: They are the stars of HGTV's hit show Married to
- 29:20Speaker 2: Real Estate. Now that the show is currently in this
- 29:23Speaker 2: third season got over nineteen million viewers. Wow, it's Egypt
- 29:29Speaker 2: Sharad and Mike Jackson. They are the most down the
- 29:34Speaker 2: earth married couple that renovates houses together. They also do
- 29:40Speaker 2: a marriage and money podcast together, and they run a
- 29:43Speaker 2: real estate renovation and designed business. They got a lot
- 29:47Speaker 2: to tell us about, so we gonna get to it.
- 29:50Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, please put your hands together on the
- 29:53Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show for Mike and Egypt.
- 30:00Speaker 3: Get up there and get the crust them on the eyes.
- 30:05Speaker 2: Come on now, y'all better bring that energy. That's how
- 30:15Speaker 2: you stay on TV for three seasons. Nobody tuning in
- 30:19Speaker 2: to dead people.
- 30:23Speaker 1: They're fun and they're real. They have a beautiful family,
- 30:26Speaker 1: all of that, Steve, and you know, Egypt, I'm so
- 30:30Speaker 1: so proud of you.
- 30:31Speaker 2: You know what, Egypt. When we were on in New
- 30:34Speaker 2: York and New York, when we were presently working in
- 30:37Speaker 2: New York, Egypt came on after us. I used to
- 30:40Speaker 2: stop viving now and then just to talk to you.
- 30:43Speaker 4: Yeah, and I used to to ask for a minute
- 30:46Speaker 4: by right, yeah, all questions I.
- 30:50Speaker 2: Was, you know, I answered the questions and stuff. She's
- 30:53Speaker 2: just really a cool, cool person. I'm so happy you
- 30:56Speaker 2: he found you though, thank you.
- 30:59Speaker 4: He's finally wa job finally.
- 31:02Speaker 3: But ye, and the first day I saw her, see listen,
- 31:06Speaker 3: I said, that's my wife right there. I knew what
- 31:09Speaker 3: was what's.
- 31:10Speaker 4: Crazy as he did, guys, And so you already know
- 31:13Speaker 4: when a man tells you on the first date you're
- 31:15Speaker 4: my wife. What do we think?
- 31:16Speaker 1: Oh, wait a minute, Wait a minute. And you guys
- 31:23Speaker 1: have a real marriage. That's what's so beautiful about it.
- 31:26Speaker 1: It's real, you see, the real and I love that.
- 31:29Speaker 4: I'll be honest with you. We're still working on that, right,
- 31:32Speaker 4: we'll let's all know what. We got to perfectly figure
- 31:33Speaker 4: it out. But I think you know, Mike every now
- 31:38Speaker 4: and again, you know, on the job, will say, babe,
- 31:41Speaker 4: come meet me in a car into the pantry. You know,
- 31:47Speaker 4: he put me into the pantry or something like that. Bro,
- 31:49Speaker 4: we're prow folks, right, you know, we have our little
- 31:52Speaker 4: day date every now and again to keep it alive
- 31:55Speaker 4: and keep it sexy. And and Mike always says, I
- 31:59Speaker 4: say too, If we don't work, nothing's gonna work. The
- 32:01Speaker 4: business won't, the kids won't, nothing won't. So you know,
- 32:04Speaker 4: we got to keep pouring into the relationship as well.
- 32:07Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not just about being parents and partners. Listen,
- 32:11Speaker 3: you still sexty to me. I'm still sexty to you.
- 32:14Speaker 3: Keep it sexy, keep the spontaneous, all right. We gonna
- 32:17Speaker 3: keep this thing hot. We're gonna keep dating. There you go.
- 32:19Speaker 2: Yeah, I could I could grow, I could do that. Yeah,
- 32:22Speaker 2: I could do the parentry, I can't do the car
- 32:24Speaker 2: no more. I'm going in there and knock them can
- 32:31Speaker 2: goods off that shelf. We should get the beans in
- 32:33Speaker 2: the slow and I ain't gonna be able to get
- 32:35Speaker 2: out in their car no more. I'm telling you that
- 32:36Speaker 2: right now. Yeah, but that's what it is. They're they're
- 32:39Speaker 2: they're real.
- 32:40Speaker 1: You see the realness and you see the love of
- 32:44Speaker 1: between them on the show. And that's what I love
- 32:46Speaker 1: about the show. I love the real estate all that
- 32:49Speaker 1: me too.
- 32:49Speaker 5: And they flirt with each other on the show. Surely
- 32:52Speaker 5: they're so cute.
- 32:53Speaker 8: They're so cute.
- 32:54Speaker 5: And I love the fact that you know. It was
- 32:56Speaker 5: one episode. I want to say this, Egypt and Mike.
- 32:58Speaker 5: There was one episode where the woman she broke off
- 33:02Speaker 5: her engagement and you guys did a renovation of her
- 33:06Speaker 5: basement because she didn't really want to leave her house.
- 33:08Speaker 2: Do you remember that?
- 33:10Speaker 9: And you love.
- 33:13Speaker 5: Yeah, that was Jasmine, And I felt at the end
- 33:15Speaker 5: of the episode I was about to cry because you
- 33:18Speaker 5: empowered her.
- 33:19Speaker 1: You empowered her to with that design that she wanted.
- 33:23Speaker 5: You guys, listen to her. She didn't have a lot
- 33:25Speaker 5: of money, but you empowered her to keep her home,
- 33:28Speaker 5: to start over, to give her that girl power that
- 33:31Speaker 5: she could do this. You did the backyard, it was
- 33:34Speaker 5: just fly and I just love that. So it's leyers
- 33:37Speaker 5: to what you guys do. We're just remodeling.
- 33:40Speaker 1: It's deeper than that.
- 33:41Speaker 2: So I love that.
- 33:42Speaker 4: Yeah, I consider myself blessed. We do every day to
- 33:45Speaker 4: be able to legitimately do something that we love with
- 33:49Speaker 4: each other and bring our family along for it, like
- 33:51Speaker 4: you know, our uncle Mark's on the show, you our
- 33:54Speaker 4: cousins and the business. Yeah, and we've come a long way,
- 33:59Speaker 4: you know, hopefully from you know, our lists of God's
- 34:02Speaker 4: Ears will be on for ten more seasons.
- 34:03Speaker 7: So hey, it is a nephew time. Can y'all help
- 34:09Speaker 7: me out? I need a closet or hot flashes? Can
- 34:13Speaker 7: y'all do something for my way to do that? A
- 34:16Speaker 7: nice cold closet, just something for hot flash.
- 34:20Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't know.
- 34:21Speaker 4: I didn't know men had hot flashes. I just started
- 34:23Speaker 4: to trade men.
- 34:26Speaker 3: Men go through too.
- 34:29Speaker 7: No, No, I'm going through the fact that my wife
- 34:31Speaker 7: goes through that. She got to AIRN fifty. I'm just
- 34:33Speaker 7: trying to get some.
- 34:34Speaker 3: Help over here. We're gonna work that out on season four.
- 34:39Speaker 3: Make sure you sign up and we got you brothers.
- 34:42Speaker 4: We fight over the Sermos set over here too.
- 34:48Speaker 1: I love the fact that you guys are building an
- 34:51Speaker 1: empire and Egypt. We're gonna talk about that, your your store,
- 34:55Speaker 1: your your furniture store, all of that, because you guys
- 34:58Speaker 1: do so much and the time that you have on
- 35:01Speaker 1: TV and we love it so much. I mean, you
- 35:05Speaker 1: have a story called Indigo Home. You do home renovations,
- 35:10Speaker 1: you do home decorps. We have to talk about all
- 35:12Speaker 1: of that. We got to take a short break, but
- 35:14Speaker 1: when we come back, we're going to talk about that
- 35:17Speaker 1: and your Money and Marriage podcast. Okay, all right, all right,
- 35:22Speaker 1: all right, we're with Egypt and Mike from HGTV's Married
- 35:26Speaker 1: to Real Estate. We'll be back right after this. You're
- 35:29Speaker 1: listening Hard Morning Show, Steve Harvey Morning Show. We are
- 35:33Speaker 1: back with Egypt and Mike from HGTV's hit show Mary
- 35:39Speaker 1: to Real Estate. We love the show. We're so happy
- 35:42Speaker 1: you guys could join us. You're in your third season,
- 35:45Speaker 1: nineteen million viewers. You got so much going on.
- 35:49Speaker 2: Yeah, and when we left we were talking about all
- 35:52Speaker 2: the things they were doing. But let's talk about this
- 35:54Speaker 2: for a minute, man, because you all have a home
- 35:57Speaker 2: furnishing line called Indigo Road.
- 36:00Speaker 4: Yes, so you guys actually see the culmination of that.
- 36:04Speaker 4: This season. You'll get to see the development, or at
- 36:07Speaker 4: least the very beginning of the Indigo Road. You know,
- 36:09Speaker 4: TV is always like the year behind, so so you'll.
- 36:12Speaker 3: See the beginning of it.
- 36:13Speaker 4: But Indigo Road is actually our real estate company. We've
- 36:17Speaker 4: got Indigo Road Realty design groups and home furnishings now
- 36:23Speaker 4: so you can find us at Indigo Road dot com.
- 36:25Speaker 4: We're on ways there. We're working on a deal with
- 36:28Speaker 4: Home Goods right now. Y'all want to do it?
- 36:32Speaker 2: Yes, an empire, I love it, but that's what happens though.
- 36:37Speaker 2: When you get a team, you got to get teammate.
- 36:40Speaker 3: Man.
- 36:40Speaker 2: I tell men all the time, you can be successful
- 36:45Speaker 2: by yourself. Well, you'll never be great without a woman.
- 36:48Speaker 2: There is a long great men. You can't sign up
- 36:51Speaker 2: for greatness without a woman because they are too detailed,
- 36:54Speaker 2: they know too much. Hey, you all got a lot
- 36:57Speaker 2: of stuff. Let's talk about one of the special projects
- 36:59Speaker 2: y'all work on the show this year or something with
- 37:02Speaker 2: some HBCUs.
- 37:03Speaker 3: Yes, Steve, let me tell you, we are so happy
- 37:06Speaker 3: and excited and humbled to be a part of the clerk.
- 37:10Speaker 3: Atlanta University CAU, you know, the historically black college in
- 37:14Speaker 3: the South here, and they called us and said, listen,
- 37:17Speaker 3: the men's basketball team, we're getting ready to renovate the
- 37:21Speaker 3: lounge and the locker room area. Can you guys come
- 37:24Speaker 3: on over and help us out? And what I tell you,
- 37:27Speaker 3: it's gonna be something talk about.
- 37:30Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was, I'll be honest, y'all, that was
- 37:32Speaker 4: a lot of pressure.
- 37:33Speaker 3: I was nervous.
- 37:34Speaker 4: My first instinct was no, Mike, we can't do it.
- 37:37Speaker 4: But I'm so glad we did. It came out absolutely amazing.
- 37:41Speaker 4: So we're looking forward to you guys seeing that this season.
- 37:44Speaker 2: Yeah, this couple is doing a lot of great things, man,
- 37:47Speaker 2: a lot of great things in a total scheme of things,
- 37:50Speaker 2: which is a testament to marriage and partnerships and finding
- 37:54Speaker 2: the right one and dream building when two people get
- 37:57Speaker 2: together in his name, man, Hard Hard Tomester, we happy
- 38:04Speaker 2: for y'all you doing it. We're gonna be watching Married
- 38:07Speaker 2: to Real Estate with Egypt and Mike tomorrow night, Thursday night,
- 38:10Speaker 2: nine pm Eastern Time on hg TV. Egypt, Mike, thank y'all.
- 38:15Speaker 3: So much than we appreciate y'all.
- 38:18Speaker 1: Love congratulations, Hot Flash closet.
- 38:21Speaker 2: Don't forgive him Tommy, but real thought that make a
- 38:28Speaker 2: lot of money because I get a hot Flayer company.
- 38:30Speaker 2: All you can just double down and just put you
- 38:32Speaker 2: a stand up meat locker in your house.
- 38:35Speaker 1: Thank you, Egypt and Mike. We will be watching coming
- 38:39Speaker 1: up in thirty four minutes after the hour. Steve Junior
- 38:41Speaker 1: is upset that you don't take his music choices seriously
- 38:45Speaker 1: and he wants to talk about it with you right
- 38:47Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Hard Morning Show. All right, So Junior,
- 38:54Speaker 1: are you okay?
- 38:55Speaker 2: Steve? Oh, he's great, don't worry about him.
- 38:58Speaker 1: He's your name. Did I miss something you missed? A ye,
- 39:07Speaker 1: a whole book. So Junior, you and Steve really, I
- 39:13Speaker 1: mean you guys have had this beef going on for
- 39:15Speaker 1: the last couple of days about this music and who
- 39:18Speaker 1: you like and who he likes and Jodasy and all
- 39:20Speaker 1: of this. So can you please settle your beef over
- 39:23Speaker 1: your music preference?
- 39:25Speaker 12: No, I just won't understand that we ap group, you know, yeah,
- 39:31Speaker 12: and he just don't have no love for our music.
- 39:35Speaker 2: And no, he don't say that I have I don't
- 39:39Speaker 2: have love for your music. What you told me was
- 39:43Speaker 2: just two days in a row. You said Jodasy was
- 39:47Speaker 2: better than Marvin Kay and then you told me that's
- 39:52Speaker 2: what you said. Then you said Jodasy was was was
- 39:56Speaker 2: better than the Brothers.
- 40:00Speaker 3: Stop.
- 40:00Speaker 2: I can't feel that way as in front of me.
- 40:06Speaker 1: Yes you can, you can.
- 40:08Speaker 2: You can feel that way if you want to. Yeah, okay,
- 40:12Speaker 2: you can't feel that way on the Steve Harvey Morning. Well,
- 40:18Speaker 2: well so I'm gonna feel that way. Okay, what else
- 40:22Speaker 2: you got, Junior?
- 40:22Speaker 12: Because because you know it, because it's gonna make you
- 40:24Speaker 12: upset again, because I feel this way, you know, now
- 40:26Speaker 12: you know I was listening to some other music. I
- 40:29Speaker 12: think Josie is just as replable as I think. That's
- 40:33Speaker 12: probably good.
- 40:36Speaker 2: Why is y'all laughing? What is so funny?
- 40:40Speaker 1: Can I just say one thing? This argument would sound
- 40:43Speaker 1: better if your voice was just a little deeper, just like, Yes,
- 40:49Speaker 1: I think jas is Josie better than what?
- 40:53Speaker 2: Deep?
- 40:54Speaker 1: Does it matter?
- 40:54Speaker 2: I just said it? Going down?
- 40:58Speaker 1: I think I think Joe Jonas better than Jay that was.
- 41:05Speaker 2: I think square playing Bob is better than Sixth Street
- 41:12Speaker 2: because that's what it sounds like. I'm here you know JR.
- 41:14Speaker 2: Junior JUNR Okay, I don't. I don't know. And man,
- 41:18Speaker 2: maybe you should use like some different comparisons, like here's
- 41:21Speaker 2: here's some groups that was out at the same time.
- 41:24Speaker 2: Do you prefer Jo Tosy over New Edition.
- 41:32Speaker 1: Boys to Men? That was their biggest rival during that
- 41:36Speaker 1: Boys to move on up? Yes, yes, that was the
- 41:40Speaker 1: biggest rival.
- 41:41Speaker 2: Doing it again, you're doing it again. You're doing it again.
- 41:45Speaker 1: See how you did that again?
- 41:47Speaker 3: Say?
- 41:50Speaker 2: Ain't nobody saying yeah, j have you have you heard?
- 41:55Speaker 2: Have you heard it? Yeah? Probably not as much as
- 41:59Speaker 2: you can you. Stephen emails his cousin Casey Hayley. He
- 42:03Speaker 2: can sing, ain't nobody saying it ain't no doubt them
- 42:07Speaker 2: boys can say when when though you get killed on
- 42:14Speaker 2: the day and condition? What do you mean? I mean
- 42:19Speaker 2: that the old Jays and Marvin Gaye and and and
- 42:23Speaker 2: and and and and I sing and sound the same
- 42:29Speaker 2: all the time. They not better than none of them
- 42:32Speaker 2: people you just said, not now one. They ain't even
- 42:35Speaker 2: the same conversation. I don't even why they're good, but
- 42:38Speaker 2: they and they damn good. Jo look at me? Yeah
- 42:44Speaker 2: all that? Who's your next favorite group?
- 42:47Speaker 1: JR? I don't think there's another one is your Jo
- 42:51Speaker 1: because he's in that group.
- 42:52Speaker 2: Yeah, hey man, let me just just just for kicks
- 42:57Speaker 2: and giggle, because I already think that you think Jodasy
- 43:00Speaker 2: is better than Earth win it five.
- 43:04Speaker 1: If you better than they just as good.
- 43:07Speaker 2: They bought equal, they bought even, they about even.
- 43:14Speaker 11: They bought crazy. If you bought grave Jo, you're not
- 43:19Speaker 11: your opinion that you ever got your opinion.
- 43:24Speaker 2: How y'all don't see this me. I'll see how y'all
- 43:27Speaker 2: figure out how you see it. That's what you're trying
- 43:28Speaker 2: to figure out equal, all right.
- 43:35Speaker 1: I don't know if this argument will ever end. Coming
- 43:37Speaker 1: up next, it is the Nephew with today's prank phone call.
- 43:40Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening morning show coming up at
- 43:47Speaker 1: about four minutes after the hour. It is my Strawberry
- 43:50Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject is line them all up
- 43:53Speaker 1: and I still win. But right now it is time
- 43:56Speaker 1: for the Nephew and today's prank phone call.
- 44:00Speaker 2: Uh this right here is that ain't that's bad grammar?
- 44:06Speaker 2: Right there? But that ain't my baby's That ain't my
- 44:09Speaker 2: brother's baby. That ain't When when did you start caring
- 44:14Speaker 2: about bad grandma? Where was that meeting at that. Ain't
- 44:20Speaker 2: that ain't my brother's baby. So if you start talking
- 44:24Speaker 2: good Grandma, m huh boy, we're gonna put your heads
- 44:28Speaker 2: out of the family. Yeah, you're gonna go over there.
- 44:31Speaker 2: You're gonna be a strawberriers. What you're gonna be? What
- 44:37Speaker 2: is that supposed to mean? What you.
- 44:41Speaker 1: Supposed to mean?
- 44:42Speaker 2: Sir Bougie always concerned about grammar.
- 44:47Speaker 1: Yes, it's important, like the truth.
- 44:53Speaker 7: Well again, so are you not like, let me real quick,
- 44:59Speaker 7: You're not supposed to say in opposed to that's not good?
- 45:03Speaker 2: Not supposed to say what as opposed as what you're
- 45:07Speaker 2: supposed to say? What time? I rather do this and
- 45:10Speaker 2: opposed to doing that. I'd rather do this in opposed
- 45:15Speaker 2: to doing that. That's wrong. What's wrong with it? Though?
- 45:28Speaker 2: What is supposed to I rather do this inposed as
- 45:31Speaker 2: opposed to that?
- 45:32Speaker 1: I'd rather do this as opposed to that.
- 45:35Speaker 2: As what.
- 45:42Speaker 3: I like that?
- 45:43Speaker 2: That's just a waste of ass were proper, that's like.
- 45:51Speaker 2: That's like Roscoe Wallace when he wrote that song for
- 45:54Speaker 2: Stevie Wonder, which which one we wanted he over for
- 46:00Speaker 2: Stevie Wonder, and he did not tell Stevie he blind
- 46:04Speaker 2: he missing the s now. Now we all, Now we
- 46:06Speaker 2: got to deal with that. I don't know who wrote
- 46:11Speaker 2: this song in Bray off on him, but they left
- 46:12Speaker 2: that others off because when Roscoe wrote the song, the
- 46:15Speaker 2: song was ass. Steven got his hands on it. He's blind,
- 46:19Speaker 2: he can't read that. He ain't seen one of us.
- 46:21Speaker 2: Now we all got to figure out what he's talking about.
- 46:24Speaker 2: Now that's around the sun. That earth knows he's revolving.
- 46:27Speaker 1: What beautiful lyrics?
- 46:31Speaker 2: Beautiful? Oh man? When the ass clearly says your ass
- 46:35Speaker 2: is big and a round, that's the song. That's the earth.
- 46:43Speaker 2: All right, boy, here we go. That ain't We're going
- 46:46Speaker 2: back to it. Shutley, That ain't my brother's baby. Ain't
- 46:48Speaker 2: my brother's babe. That I ain't. Let's go catch up.
- 46:54Speaker 2: Don't worry about this song. I need to take care.
- 46:56Speaker 7: I talked to man, I speak to Terry Mamaame is
- 47:00Speaker 7: Daryl Damen is my brother. I don't live in Dallas
- 47:02Speaker 7: where y'all live at. I'm the one that live out
- 47:05Speaker 7: of town. But we didn't have a family meeting and
- 47:07Speaker 7: talked about it. And uh, I know Travis is your son.
- 47:11Speaker 7: He eight years old. But the problem is the reason
- 47:14Speaker 7: why I'm calling you, uh, Tiry, is cause we didn't
- 47:17Speaker 7: find out that Travis.
- 47:20Speaker 2: Ain't none of Damon's child.
- 47:21Speaker 7: Excuse me, Travis ain't none a Damon child. He been
- 47:25Speaker 7: paying you child support here for the last old on
- 47:28Speaker 7: and you said your name, I'm Darren, I'm Damon brother.
- 47:31Speaker 9: And who gave you this information?
- 47:34Speaker 2: We are to have found the information out.
- 47:35Speaker 7: We actually gonna go down there to the courthouse and
- 47:37Speaker 7: get all this stuff rectified. But we didn't find out
- 47:40Speaker 7: that Travis ain't no, ain't none of Damon's child. And
- 47:43Speaker 7: you've been sitting up here sending you money seven eight
- 47:46Speaker 7: hundred dollars a month and this child ain't even here.
- 47:48Speaker 2: Now, I hate for Travis to find this out, and
- 47:50Speaker 2: he gonna have to find it out.
- 47:53Speaker 10: He ain't for.
- 47:55Speaker 9: Why you calling me?
- 47:56Speaker 7: Look, the family didn't had a meeting, and I'm the
- 47:58Speaker 7: one that they decided to make the phone call and
- 48:00Speaker 7: tell you what's.
- 48:01Speaker 9: Going on now, don't you you You don't have a
- 48:04Speaker 9: damn thing to do with this. You You ain't nobody
- 48:06Speaker 9: daddy over here. So I'm not sure what you're calling for.
- 48:09Speaker 9: Who God made you king or wanted you to be
- 48:12Speaker 9: head in charge to call, but that's not gonna work out.
- 48:15Speaker 2: Well, let me, why are you doing this to my brother?
- 48:18Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. For eight years, the man been
- 48:20Speaker 2: sending you seven hundred some dollars a month and this ain't.
- 48:23Speaker 8: Even his child.
- 48:25Speaker 4: You know, I'm.
- 48:27Speaker 2: Why am I even talking to you?
- 48:29Speaker 9: I'm not really sure. Your brother need to call me
- 48:31Speaker 9: if he has any problems to questions. You have a
- 48:33Speaker 9: good day.
- 48:37Speaker 2: Hell, you don't hang no damn phone up on me.
- 48:39Speaker 2: Damon told me you lit last was hard headed anyway.
- 48:42Speaker 9: Now, look you know what you got the wrong one baby,
- 48:46Speaker 9: Like I'm trying to not lose all my religion today,
- 48:48Speaker 9: but you about to make me lose it on your Well,
- 48:51Speaker 9: you don't know who you over here. So like I
- 48:53Speaker 9: said before, h my son, your nephew that you trying
- 48:57Speaker 9: not to claim over there. I don't know why you
- 48:59Speaker 9: came from wherever they are. You said you came from
- 49:01Speaker 9: the Dallads to try to I came.
- 49:03Speaker 7: I came from California down here to Dalla and I'm
- 49:05Speaker 7: telling you need to.
- 49:06Speaker 9: Take your back come back to California because down here
- 49:09Speaker 9: you don't.
- 49:09Speaker 3: Know me like that.
- 49:10Speaker 7: No, I don't know you, but I'm finna know you
- 49:12Speaker 7: and Travis find to know that my brother ain't his daddy.
- 49:15Speaker 3: No, I don't know.
- 49:17Speaker 9: You know what, you need to talk to your brother again.
- 49:19Speaker 9: That's what you need to do. And you don't need
- 49:20Speaker 9: to be talking to me.
- 49:20Speaker 2: You finnah send us all the money my brother didn't send, y'all.
- 49:24Speaker 9: I and when I do, Look but I said, when
- 49:29Speaker 9: I sent all that eight years worth of money back,
- 49:31Speaker 9: you gonna.
- 49:32Speaker 7: Send every dime back because it belonged to my brother
- 49:34Speaker 7: that ain't my brother.
- 49:35Speaker 2: Child.
- 49:36Speaker 7: Now we ain't got time to be going on. No
- 49:38Speaker 7: MARVEI polvish showing nothing to find out who is right?
- 49:40Speaker 2: You know what?
- 49:41Speaker 9: Like I said, you kicked the wrong one to it
- 49:44Speaker 9: be your best bet not to call me anymore. You
- 49:46Speaker 9: actually it is a good thing that you call, because
- 49:48Speaker 9: if you can't knocking on my baugh, you got job
- 49:50Speaker 9: with today.
- 49:50Speaker 2: No you go, that's my second thing I'm finn to do.
- 49:53Speaker 7: If we can't rectified over the fount, I don't have
- 49:56Speaker 7: a problem coming over there knocking down some dose and
- 49:58Speaker 7: getting some questions answered, because damn, this ain't Damon's baby, obviously.
- 50:02Speaker 9: You must wish it was yours. So she's taking so
- 50:04Speaker 9: much interest.
- 50:05Speaker 7: No, it ain't mine but but and it ain't Damon's either,
- 50:08Speaker 7: and we got nothing money, must not have any and
- 50:11Speaker 7: looking for a song.
- 50:11Speaker 9: But I'm sorry this was taken over here and Damon
- 50:14Speaker 9: where we continue to play what he owed?
- 50:16Speaker 2: Damon don't open.
- 50:18Speaker 9: That's what's wrong with your brothers now you don't wanna play.
- 50:20Speaker 9: I'm sorry. He's gonna continue to play. And you can
- 50:23Speaker 9: call whoever you.
- 50:23Speaker 3: Wanna come, do whatever you wanna do.
- 50:25Speaker 9: So go back and tell your mama and everybody else
- 50:27Speaker 9: who who waiting for this meeting, to let them know
- 50:30Speaker 9: it ain't happening.
- 50:31Speaker 2: Look, my mama ain't got nothing to do with it,
- 50:33Speaker 2: Mama business.
- 50:34Speaker 9: But your mama, you say, sir, Mamma and a y'all
- 50:36Speaker 9: got together. She the same way. I'll see where you
- 50:38Speaker 9: get it from. You're just like her, knows it, y'all
- 50:41Speaker 9: from nosing people, mam y'all, damn business. That's a grown man.
- 50:45Speaker 2: That ain't.
- 50:45Speaker 7: My mama said it from the get go that it
- 50:47Speaker 7: wasn't Hunt, That it wasn't Damon John.
- 50:49Speaker 9: No, I mean your mama. The two face lock because
- 50:51Speaker 9: you ain't what your mama said.
- 50:52Speaker 2: You ain't finna sit here. And bring my mama up
- 50:55Speaker 2: in this well.
- 50:56Speaker 9: If you know so much, then you back. Come knock
- 50:58Speaker 9: on my back, Come knock on my bell.
- 50:59Speaker 2: If you want to we done done.
- 51:00Speaker 7: The man seven hundred and fifty dollars times twelve times
- 51:05Speaker 7: eight is seventy two thousand dollars. That's how much money
- 51:09Speaker 7: my brother didn't send you, and that's how much we
- 51:12Speaker 7: want back.
- 51:12Speaker 2: And I need you to get to working on this money.
- 51:15Speaker 9: Naw, okay, why don't you come over here and get it?
- 51:18Speaker 2: Don't get your today, Terry.
- 51:20Speaker 9: Come on over here. You don't see him to think?
- 51:22Speaker 4: Who you in Dallas?
- 51:23Speaker 2: When is? I don't care nothing about it, but I'm
- 51:26Speaker 2: in no Dallas.
- 51:27Speaker 9: We ain't dying to fail you. So what I don't
- 51:29Speaker 9: even know what they hear is don't I don't even
- 51:31Speaker 9: know why I'm wasting my time talking to you. Like
- 51:33Speaker 9: I said, your brother is a week if he got
- 51:36Speaker 9: to have you. Y'all had a meeting and you got
- 51:38Speaker 9: to be the one to call. I'm not really understanding.
- 51:40Speaker 2: Look, I got one more thing I need to say
- 51:42Speaker 2: to you. Is you listening to me?
- 51:44Speaker 4: You know you do?
- 51:44Speaker 9: No mo damn nerves, that's what you're doing.
- 51:46Speaker 2: You respect me. Are you listening to me?
- 51:49Speaker 3: You what this is?
- 51:50Speaker 2: Nephew time me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 51:54Speaker 3: You just got right?
- 51:57Speaker 2: Oh my, you'll just God, pray by your sister Tanya baby.
- 52:03Speaker 3: Know what.
- 52:05Speaker 2: She said? Talk to her about her baby daddy and
- 52:08Speaker 2: that baby.
- 52:09Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't play with the Oh my god, I'm
- 52:14Speaker 9: so bad.
- 52:15Speaker 7: All right, let me ask you this, what is the
- 52:16Speaker 7: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the.
- 52:20Speaker 3: Land to Steve Warby Morning Show.
- 52:25Speaker 2: That ain't my brother's baby, Keep it stupid?
- 52:29Speaker 7: New York City. The Nephew is on his way to town.
- 52:32Speaker 7: Two shows Saturday night at the New York City Winery.
- 52:35Speaker 7: The first show is completely sold. I've got a few
- 52:37Speaker 7: tickets left for the second show. New York City. Been
- 52:41Speaker 7: a minute, Been a minute? Boy, Oh my way back?
- 52:43Speaker 7: Can't wait? Ben they eat a little bit, have a
- 52:46Speaker 7: little fun. Walk to New York City to sleep the
- 52:48Speaker 7: city that don't sleep. Into a slice of piece and
- 52:51Speaker 7: walk down the street. It's gonna be real nice and
- 52:53Speaker 7: it ain't too cold. Check the temperature, all right?
- 52:56Speaker 1: Thinking of you coming up next to this the strawberry letter.
- 52:59Speaker 1: The subject is line them all up and I still win.
- 53:04Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening Harvey
- 53:08Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter,
- 53:12Speaker 1: and if you need advice on relationships, works, sex, parenting,
- 53:15Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
- 53:20Speaker 1: dot com by clicking submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
- 53:23Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
- 53:26Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and
- 53:28Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours.
- 53:30Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
- 53:32Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is draw bavery letter.
- 53:36Speaker 1: Thanking if you subject, line them up, line them all up,
- 53:39Speaker 1: and I still win. You're Stephen Shirley. I've been in
- 53:43Speaker 1: a relationship for twelve years and my girlfriend confessed that
- 53:46Speaker 1: she cheated on me seven years ago. She blurted it
- 53:49Speaker 1: out during an argument and it cut like a knife.
- 53:53Speaker 1: I have never cheated on her when I could have,
- 53:56Speaker 1: I remained faithful. The worst part for me is that
- 54:00Speaker 1: but she won't tell me who she cheated with. She
- 54:02Speaker 1: thinks that clearing her conscience is enough and I should
- 54:05Speaker 1: be able to deal with it and move on. But
- 54:08Speaker 1: I can't. How can she halfway confess It could be
- 54:12Speaker 1: one of my friends, co workers, a guy at the gym,
- 54:15Speaker 1: or even a family member. I have been going crazy
- 54:18Speaker 1: imagining her with another man and then trying to figure
- 54:21Speaker 1: out if he was taller than me, if he was
- 54:23Speaker 1: more in shape than I am, is he ball headed?
- 54:26Speaker 1: Does he have a beard? I'm driving myself crazy thinking
- 54:30Speaker 1: it might be someone in our inner circle. I went
- 54:33Speaker 1: to her again this morning and asked her to tell
- 54:35Speaker 1: me who it is. She had the audacity to tell
- 54:39Speaker 1: me that she didn't have to tell me that she
- 54:41Speaker 1: cheated in the first place, so I need to stop
- 54:44Speaker 1: asking her who she cheated with. I asked her if
- 54:47Speaker 1: it was more than one guy, and she smirked and
- 54:49Speaker 1: said maybe. I told her to line them all up
- 54:53Speaker 1: and I still win, she said, sarcastically, Oh really, So
- 54:58Speaker 1: now I'm even more confused. In order for me to
- 55:01Speaker 1: move forward in this relationship, I need to know who
- 55:04Speaker 1: she slept with and all of the details of her affair.
- 55:08Speaker 1: Are these unreasonable requests? Wow? What were you guys arguing about?
- 55:14Speaker 1: I mean, you don't say, but it must have been
- 55:16Speaker 1: pretty bad for her to let that slip out. I mean,
- 55:18Speaker 1: who does that? She did it on purpose? Nobody really
- 55:21Speaker 1: slips out with that kind of information. Anyway, you're asking
- 55:27Speaker 1: for something you're not going to get. Who she slept with,
- 55:30Speaker 1: how many was it a co work? You're not going
- 55:32Speaker 1: to get that. She's taunting you with that information. She's
- 55:35Speaker 1: holding onto it. Who knows why she cheated But since
- 55:39Speaker 1: you never knew about it and it was seven years ago,
- 55:43Speaker 1: she just shouldn't have blurted it out. It was better
- 55:45Speaker 1: when you were clueless. Now you feel betrayed, you feel
- 55:48Speaker 1: suspicious of her, you're mad, you're hurt, and I'm sure
- 55:52Speaker 1: you feel like a fool. You feel foolish, you don't
- 55:54Speaker 1: trust her anymore. And I'm only saying all of that
- 55:57Speaker 1: because that's how most people feel when when they've been
- 56:01Speaker 1: cheated on, when they find that out. You're no different
- 56:03Speaker 1: in that regard. So these answers you want, the answers
- 56:06Speaker 1: you say you need to move on, who where, when
- 56:09Speaker 1: and all that, You're not gonna get that. It's just
- 56:12Speaker 1: not gonna happen, unless unless you have another big argument,
- 56:17Speaker 1: then maybe she'll blurt some more stuff out. But until then,
- 56:20Speaker 1: I guess after twelve years, this relationship looks like like
- 56:25Speaker 1: it's at a standstill. Or either it's over because she's
- 56:28Speaker 1: not gonna say anything.
- 56:29Speaker 2: Steve man man or man or Man, I ain't never
- 56:34Speaker 2: heard this will be fun?
- 56:35Speaker 3: Uh Uh.
- 56:35Speaker 2: This is a new one to me, because, Bro, I'm
- 56:37Speaker 2: just gonna have to be real with you when I
- 56:39Speaker 2: read this letter right here, and I don't know how
- 56:41Speaker 2: you're gonna take this, doll, but just this, uncle Steve,
- 56:44Speaker 2: just talking now from a real from a real perspective man,
- 56:47Speaker 2: because I don't I don't even understand the whole thought
- 56:51Speaker 2: process behind the letter. And I just want you to,
- 56:55Speaker 2: just as a man, look at this thing. Maybe in
- 56:58Speaker 2: a way you're not looking at it. I've been in
- 57:00Speaker 2: a relationship for twelve years. My girlfriend confessed that she
- 57:04Speaker 2: cheated on me seven years ago. Okay, first of all,
- 57:07Speaker 2: where y'all going? If y'all been together twelve years? She
- 57:11Speaker 2: decided to tell you that she cheated on you seven
- 57:15Speaker 2: years ago? Where y'all going?
- 57:17Speaker 5: Man?
- 57:18Speaker 2: Twelve years? Boyfriend and girlfriend? And when this gonna dog?
- 57:23Speaker 2: I ain't here no talk of nothing else, marriage, family, nothing,
- 57:27Speaker 2: what y'all doing? She blurted it out, doing an argument,
- 57:30Speaker 2: and it cut like a knife. I'm with Shirley on this.
- 57:33Speaker 2: You don't blurt that out. She deliberately said that to
- 57:37Speaker 2: cut you, and you said it cut like a knife.
- 57:40Speaker 2: I ain't never cheated on her when I could have,
- 57:43Speaker 2: I remained favorite. Then you say, the worst part for
- 57:46Speaker 2: me is she won't tell me who she cheated with.
- 57:48Speaker 2: That's the worst part. Sure, that's the worst part, bro,
- 57:53Speaker 2: for real? Man, Come on, hold up, man, listen how
- 57:57Speaker 2: that's the worst part is she won't tell me who
- 57:59Speaker 2: she cheated. No, no, dog, The worst part was it's
- 58:03Speaker 2: two worst parts. The worst part is she keeated. The
- 58:07Speaker 2: real worst part was she had the gumption to tell
- 58:10Speaker 2: you she did and look you, dead in your face
- 58:13Speaker 2: and still standing. No, this woman got a lot of nerve.
- 58:17Speaker 3: Man.
- 58:18Speaker 2: It ain't a lot of women can look they man
- 58:21Speaker 2: and I and tell her that and no, that's gonna go. Well,
- 58:25Speaker 2: you have got to expect this to turn out disastrous
- 58:29Speaker 2: for you to say this to your man, and you
- 58:31Speaker 2: know that. So she ain't accidentally blurted nothing out. She
- 58:35Speaker 2: did that to cut you, and she did. She thinks
- 58:38Speaker 2: that clearing her conscious is enough and I should be
- 58:41Speaker 2: able to deal with it and move on. But I
- 58:43Speaker 2: can't you sure that was to clear her communess bru
- 58:47Speaker 2: or something else. Me personally, I think it's something else.
- 58:51Speaker 2: I ain't got to clear my counstries for nothing happening
- 58:53Speaker 2: seven years ago. I promise you I been ain't nothing, nothing, nothing,
- 58:58Speaker 2: nothing and sol.
- 59:02Speaker 1: Nothing.
- 59:03Speaker 2: I need to clear my conscience that then got away
- 59:04Speaker 2: for seven years. I clear. Now, I'm clear. I'm out
- 59:09Speaker 2: the woods. That statute of limitation and everything. How can
- 59:15Speaker 2: she half way confession from I'm stuck? Oh? How she
- 59:20Speaker 2: can confess period? You're talking about a half a confession?
- 59:24Speaker 3: Bro?
- 59:24Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Man? What difference do that make?
- 59:29Speaker 2: It could be one of my friends, co workers, a
- 59:31Speaker 2: guy at the gym, or even a family member. I've
- 59:33Speaker 2: been going crazy imagining her with another man and trying
- 59:35Speaker 2: to figure it out. If he's taller, well he probably
- 59:39Speaker 2: is high? Is he taller? Came out here at everything?
- 59:45Speaker 1: That's more in shape?
- 59:47Speaker 2: And get all right?
- 59:50Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response
- 59:53Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's
- 59:56Speaker 1: Strawberry letter subject line them all up and I still win.
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: hard Morning show? All right, Steve, come on, let's recap
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is line them all up
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: and I still win.
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: Broh. I just don't know where we're going with this relationship.
- 1:00:16Speaker 2: This is a bad leader. Man. What I'm gonna tell
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: you at the end, I don't think you're gonna do
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: it anyway, But here we go. You and your wife,
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: you and your girlfriend of twelve years had an argument.
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: She tells she cheated on you seven years. So that
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: stung you because you've never cheated on her, and you
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: say you could. But then you say, the worst part
- 1:00:36Speaker 2: of that is she won't tell you who she cheated with.
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: That's the worst part. No, don't. The worst part was
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: she cheated. The real worst part was she had the
- 1:00:44Speaker 2: guts to say it to you in your face and
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: be standing at Most women know if you go to
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: your man with that information, you pretty much know it's
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: gonna go three any really bad. She didn't care. So
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: she thinks that clearing her conscience is enough and it
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: should be able to deal with it, and I should
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: be able to deal with it and move on. But
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: I can't. How can she half? When confess I'm gonna
- 1:01:06Speaker 2: trun half with him? I shot somebody, Okay that that
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: ain't enough for you? Wow? Who you see what I'm saying?
- 1:01:18Speaker 3: Boy?
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: We knew what the hell you mean? You shot somebody?
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: We knew we right down. We ain't got to move on.
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: Who will win? What you mean? What happened? Okay? So
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: here we go. It could be one of my friends,
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: co workers, a guy at the gym, or even a
- 1:01:31Speaker 2: family member. I've been going crazy imagining her with another
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: man and then trying to figure out if he was
- 1:01:36Speaker 2: taller than me, if he was more in shape than
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: I am, if he bad headed? Does he have a beer? Yo? Bro,
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: you got some You got some self esteem that you
- 1:01:46Speaker 2: that you're dealing with, and she know it, and she
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: has played on your low self esteem. And I'm approving
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: in this letter. What differs do it make if he tall,
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: if he allow you? What difference do it make up
- 1:01:56Speaker 2: he a most shape? You ain't you supposed to be on?
- 1:02:00Speaker 2: Why you cheated on me? See, you ain't found that
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: out yet. You ain't asked one time? Why did you
- 1:02:06Speaker 2: cheat on me? That's your problem though, If you don't
- 1:02:10Speaker 2: address that. This half confession for confession, that don't mean nothing.
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: I went to her again this morning. Lord, her message,
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: I'm well y'all still together. I went, I'm so this
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: is got a tripping me off. I went to her
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: again this morning and asked her to tell me who
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: it is. She had the audacity to tell me she
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: didn't have to tell me she cheated in the first place.
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: Why we're still on him? She told you, wait a minute,
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: I ain't gotta tell you nothing. I ain't even have
- 1:02:46Speaker 2: to tell y'all cheated in the first place. But she did, though,
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: And what gets the audacity of her was to tell
- 1:02:53Speaker 2: it to you in the first place. Bro, you got
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: to get to the why. She decided why she cheat it?
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: So I need to stop asking her. So she said,
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: you need to stop asking her who she's cheated with.
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: I asked her if it was more than one guy.
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: She smirked and said, maybe who are you're playing with?
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: You lady? Bruh, bruh. Bro, you ain't couldn't slapped me.
- 1:03:20Speaker 2: You're not going to keep slapping me. Maybe so now
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: you could have been more than one. I told her
- 1:03:27Speaker 2: to line them all up, and I still win line
- 1:03:30Speaker 2: them up. It's a lineup, dog, you need. So now
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: she ain't just cheat on you something you Joe, you
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: think it's more than one, and you can line them
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: up and I still win. No, you're not winning. You're
- 1:03:43Speaker 2: not you're winning what she sarcastically said, Oh, I told
- 1:03:49Speaker 2: him line them up and I still win it. She
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: wouldn't she sarcastically said, Oh really, So now I'm even
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: more confused. In order for me to move forward in
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: this relationship, I need to know who she slept with
- 1:04:00Speaker 2: and all the details of her affair. Are these unreasonable requests? Bruh?
- 1:04:05Speaker 2: They stupid request. I'm just gonna be real with you,
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: as a man. Man, this woman don't really care about
- 1:04:12Speaker 2: you because every chance she gets to slap you with
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: a zinger till she come. I had to found you
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: seven years ago.
- 1:04:21Speaker 3: Who was it with?
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: I ain't got to tell you none of that? Well,
- 1:04:25Speaker 2: who is it?
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: I asked her?
- 1:04:28Speaker 2: Was it more than one guy? She said? Maybe?
- 1:04:30Speaker 3: What?
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: What?
- 1:04:31Speaker 2: Bro While we still talking to this chip, are you
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: out your mind? Why are you fighting for this right here?
- 1:04:40Speaker 2: Because you don't have nothing. Y'all been together twelve years.
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: You ain't mad, You ain't engaged. What y'all got, You
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: ain't got nothing. She don't care how you feel. She
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: ain't trying to protect your feelings. And she don't respect you.
- 1:04:52Speaker 2: This woman is so damn disrespectful. Who was it?
- 1:04:56Speaker 3: It?
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: Mortal?
- 1:04:57Speaker 3: It?
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: Maybe? Man, let me tell you this. We don't have
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: this talk station.
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: Now.
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: I'll take your ragged ass. You can get that line
- 1:05:06Speaker 2: up and go right on back to him. Or what
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: you not gonna do is sit in my face and
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: tell me maybe is more than one. I ain't got
- 1:05:12Speaker 2: to tell you nothing to deal with it. And you
- 1:05:14Speaker 2: know why she doing this, man, because she know you
- 1:05:17Speaker 2: ain't going no way. And you know why she don't
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: think you going nowhere? Because she know you week.
- 1:05:26Speaker 3: That's all to it.
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: She know you weak, she knows she can slap you around,
- 1:05:31Speaker 2: and you're gonna stay there. You're the perfect Christian. You
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: the person that could get slapped and turn the other
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: cheeks here talking why he want to know who it is?
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: Like that's gonna make a difference. It's not gonna make
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: a damn bit of difference, man, a matter of fact,
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: it's gonna make it worse. And know her to make
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: it worse, bro, But listen to me, It don't get
- 1:05:50Speaker 2: no worse than it is right now. She don't care
- 1:05:53Speaker 2: about you, man, This ain't no reasonable something. Why you
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: begging for this chick right here. You know how many
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: women to do to relate relationship the right way. You
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: ain't low with somebody todayy lo with you.
- 1:06:05Speaker 1: Leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram.
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- 1:09:30Speaker 1: All right, that's a debate coming up. At the top
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: of the hour. A wife and her man on the
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: side are about to be exposed, So Steve, she needs
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: some advice from you. We'll get into that right after this.
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show, all right, Steve. This is from
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: s W and Coral Gables. S W says, I have
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: a male friend that I've been openly spending time with
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: and sleeping with. My husband doesn't suspect anything because my
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: boyfriend lives with another man, his cousin. My husband assumes
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: they're lovers, but they're not. And this has been going
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: on for almost two years without any problems, but his
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: ex wife found out about us, and she threatened to
- 1:10:14Speaker 1: tell my husband about us. What if she is in bluffing?
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: Should I tell my husband that my friend likes women?
- 1:10:20Speaker 1: Or will that be a dead giveaway that we've been
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: messing around?
- 1:10:24Speaker 3: What do I do.
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: Myself?
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: Why would you tell your hood that he liked that
- 1:10:32Speaker 2: he liked women? Why would you do that? And listen
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: to me? Stop it dealing with problems that you don't
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: have yet. His ex found out about it and has
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: threatened to tell your until she tell your husband. You
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: don't have the problem yet, But if you do have
- 1:10:55Speaker 2: a problem, because you said I have been openly seeing
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: another man. Now you this has to be a complete
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: covert operation. All this open stuff. What the hell is
- 1:11:11Speaker 2: wrong with y'all? All these phone cameras and and and
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: and and cameras and everything. You can't do nothing open.
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: It's all got to be covert, and you just you
- 1:11:20Speaker 2: and lady, there's nothing you could do, see if you
- 1:11:24Speaker 2: wasn't so open. First of all, let me ask you this,
- 1:11:27Speaker 2: how his ex find out?
- 1:11:30Speaker 3: Do you know?
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: The mistakes have to be made for the ex to
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: even have to be concerned about? So this this openly
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: seeing him. That came back to bite you. Now if
- 1:11:42Speaker 2: she does go to your husband immediately unequivocally.
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: Live, what's the lie?
- 1:11:57Speaker 3: What are you.
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: Shop? That is what he is so uninterested in me?
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: And oh, by the way, I found out that him
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: and the man he's staying with ain't e because.
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: So flipping it right away.
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: See, I'm gonna turn this whole thing and then just
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: to juice it up. And the reason I have been
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: talking to him is because he has been considering getting
- 1:12:36Speaker 2: an operation, and he was discussing with me how I
- 1:12:39Speaker 2: felt about the operation.
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: Whoa you are committed to that line?
- 1:12:49Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:12:52Speaker 2: You love all this off? Well, I don't know why
- 1:12:59Speaker 2: this old bit of betty right here I want to
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: try to drag me in it. That's the reason. That's
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: the reason he is her ex because he started seeing him.
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: Oh looking at you with squint eye?
- 1:13:14Speaker 4: What happened?
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: All right, Well, we have to we have time for
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: another one, Steve. This one's from Dimitria and Milwaukee. Demitria says,
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: I've been married for nineteen years and my husband turned
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: our son's bedroom into his lounge. He bought a new
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: TV on Saturday. He had a sleeper sofa delivered.
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: He gave the.
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: Bedroom furniture to his sister so he can create his
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: private sanctuary. He didn't ask me or mention it to me,
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: nor did he get my input on the stuff he bought.
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: He said he didn't need my permission. Why would he
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: respond like that? Shouldn't we be communicating about big things
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: like that?
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: Well, see what has happened there? See you've done it
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: to himself.
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: Otis Well, it is a woman's domain.
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: But a man should have a space. Now you ain't
- 1:14:04Speaker 2: tried to give him no space and more to mood out.
- 1:14:07Speaker 2: He just took us. Well, we had our other house
- 1:14:10Speaker 2: and went and went to college. Winton's rooms with just
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: became a cigar lounge. You what you may, Yeah, I
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: turned Winton room into a cigar lounge.
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: All right, coming up to twenty minutes after the hour,
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
- 1:14:27Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys.
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: According to a new survey of people aged fifty and older,
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: sex might get better as you get older. Forty five
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: percent of those surveyed said they have had the best
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: sex of their lives as they've aged and one in
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: eight of those surveys still have sex at least five
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: times a week, and it gets better. One in four
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: people admitted to having sex and weird places around the house,
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: like in the laundry room them or in the staircase
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: on the staircase. Are are any of you in that percentage?
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: I have to ask if you heard the story room, staircase, staircase.
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: I see that's not yet, that's staircase. That's a back injury.
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: Yeah, back injury.
- 1:15:21Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna mess up your back end, knees.
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, it's a laundry room for you.
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: Nobody doing it in there.
- 1:15:32Speaker 7: I'm excited about the people that's doing it five days
- 1:15:35Speaker 7: a week. That's a new ass news to me.
- 1:15:41Speaker 2: I don't I don't really know that sex is better
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: at this age. I just think you'd be happy to
- 1:15:45Speaker 2: get it. I think you're happier.
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: Okay, So it may not be better, but you're happier
- 1:15:51Speaker 1: at that age when you do get it.
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I'll tell you what the what in case
- 1:16:00Speaker 2: when you filter filter myself.
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: Yeah, good morning radio. You start that sentence, all right,
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: thanks guys. Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour,
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: we'll play around it. Would you rather right after this,
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: you're listening morning show time for a rounded? Would you rather?
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: Would you rather respond to your wife's text in all
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: caps or would you respond? Would you rather respond with
- 1:16:28Speaker 1: emojis only and all caps? You know that means you're
- 1:16:31Speaker 1: shouting at her?
- 1:16:33Speaker 2: I respond, I didn't know that's what that meant.
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: Though, Yeah, your shouting shouting?
- 1:16:39Speaker 2: Yeah, like if I start typing and they come out
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: of all camps?
- 1:16:42Speaker 1: What if I'm switching but you're shouting. You don't want
- 1:16:45Speaker 1: to shout at her.
- 1:16:47Speaker 2: I ain't here a damn thing.
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: That's what it means.
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: Read the words. Feel I need what I said in
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: the text to happen.
- 1:17:01Speaker 1: Okay, All caps are emojis, though, but I don't.
- 1:17:07Speaker 2: I'm gonna mess up all them little yellow people with
- 1:17:11Speaker 2: all the different expression you don't know what mean? Yeah,
- 1:17:19Speaker 2: they smile a different ways? What hell are you? Granted?
- 1:17:25Speaker 2: All right?
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: Would you rather flush the toilet with the lid up
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: or flush the toilet with the lid down?
- 1:17:32Speaker 13: Well, depend on what just happened. That's true, that's true.
- 1:17:45Speaker 1: All right, We're moving on. Would you rather your stomach
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: to be bubbling on an airplane? Or would you rather
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: your stomach be bubbling while you're on steak? Both of those,
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: especially what's been happening on planes lately.
- 1:18:05Speaker 2: Well, Adrenaline on stage will keep you, like I've I've
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: performed with under some dire conditions. Once I get on stage,
- 1:18:16Speaker 2: adrenaline keeps me through it. The moment I get off,
- 1:18:18Speaker 2: the symptoms come like that. But I've done that, So
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: I'm not gonna have no food on my stomach on
- 1:18:27Speaker 2: stage at all. But I'm not gonna be up in
- 1:18:33Speaker 2: that plane up there either though. For your flight, can
- 1:18:38Speaker 2: you I'm just saying it be my luck. Somebody in
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: the bathroom is a line into it. I mean, Oh,
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: I was on a commercial flight recently. Man, I had
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: to the bathroom. I button my seatbelt, got im went
- 1:18:54Speaker 2: to that door and the haad and occupied on and
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: I went over there to the other one it was,
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: and you know, I pressed the dough you kind of
- 1:19:03Speaker 2: let go because you think you fin to go in here.
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: And I pressed that door and it didn't open. I
- 1:19:07Speaker 2: went away, pressed over while I was standing there with
- 1:19:09Speaker 2: a real situation going sixties. Well, you gotta go to
- 1:19:18Speaker 2: the bathroom. You gotta go. Now, give me a water bottle. Somebody,
- 1:19:23Speaker 2: bro listen to me, Listen to me.
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: All right, that's today's round. Would you rather we know
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: you guys a little better now? Coming up at forty
- 1:19:36Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour, it's our last break of
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: the day and we'll close out the show with the
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are last
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: break of the day on this Wednesday. It's been a
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: good day. Yes, Egypt and Mike from Mary to Real
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: Estate on HTV check them out.
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: All night at.
- 1:20:06Speaker 1: Night show.
- 1:20:08Speaker 2: Hey, you know something, I got some clothes remarks I
- 1:20:10Speaker 2: want to remind people of today. You know, there's a
- 1:20:16Speaker 2: saying that says association brings on participation. I've also read
- 1:20:22Speaker 2: that this is the stuff I picked up along the
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: way right. Somebody asked me one time to describe my
- 1:20:29Speaker 2: five closest friends, and I described them and he said,
- 1:20:37Speaker 2: that's good, Steve, you realize you just described yourself. I said, wow, really,
- 1:20:43Speaker 2: And that's a true statement. Because friends, you pick your friends.
- 1:20:47Speaker 2: They're not your family. You inherit your family. You pick
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: your friends. But whether you realize it or not, you
- 1:20:54Speaker 2: pick people who you can get along with, and most
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: people that you can get along with are similar to
- 1:21:01Speaker 2: you in a lot of ways. So when you pick
- 1:21:05Speaker 2: your friends and you able to list their characteristics, understand
- 1:21:10Speaker 2: that you have now described who you are you know what,
- 1:21:18Speaker 2: and that's a very telling thing. But it's also something
- 1:21:22Speaker 2: you have to be very conscious and careful of. Folks
- 1:21:26Speaker 2: in twenty twenty four, Take inventory of your associates. Take
- 1:21:32Speaker 2: inventory of your friends, because there's only two people in
- 1:21:37Speaker 2: your life. They are associates and friends. I'm not talking
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: about your enemy. You should completely separate yourself from an
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: enemy and don't even worry about them because you don't
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: need that energy in your life. But take inventory of
- 1:21:53Speaker 2: your friends and associates. Make sure the people that you
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: are associating with are the ones you call your friend,
- 1:21:59Speaker 2: are adding value to your life. Now that's also a
- 1:22:04Speaker 2: give and take here. You should be adding value to theirs.
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: But if you take this inventory and you realize that
- 1:22:10Speaker 2: you're the only one that's adding value, you got you
- 1:22:14Speaker 2: got to reassess that situation. Man, you got you gotta
- 1:22:18Speaker 2: look at these people differently.
- 1:22:20Speaker 3: Now.
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: The reason you have people in your life who are
- 1:22:23Speaker 2: not good for you and you continue to hold on
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: to them is because you are loyal. But if God
- 1:22:30Speaker 2: that used to work for me taught me a valuable
- 1:22:33Speaker 2: lesson and I ended up using it on him. He
- 1:22:36Speaker 2: came to me one time and he says, Steve, do
- 1:22:39Speaker 2: you know that loyalty has an expiration date? And I went, no, man, no, no, man.
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: I ain't like that. I'm loyal to the end. He said. No, man,
- 1:22:48Speaker 2: he said, but that's your problem. He say, You're loyal
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: to the end, and you stay loyal to people who
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: stop being loyal to you. He say, So, that's what
- 1:22:59Speaker 2: the saying means is that loyalty has an expiration date,
- 1:23:03Speaker 2: and you need to start checking the expiration date on
- 1:23:05Speaker 2: some of these friendships and associates that you got because
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: they just like milk. Some of them just go bad.
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: I'm telling you, man. And so, as this guy worked
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: for me, I remember this quote, and I was loyal
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: to him. But then I realized one time his loyal
- 1:23:24Speaker 2: to me had his loyalty to me had expired. He
- 1:23:27Speaker 2: had become bad milk. And on the day I released him,
- 1:23:31Speaker 2: I released him with his own quote. I said, you
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: know why I'm letting you go? Brother, He said, Man,
- 1:23:36Speaker 2: I don't understand this. I said, I'm letting you go
- 1:23:39Speaker 2: because what you taught me was loyalty has an expiration date,
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: and I just realized that your date being loyal to
- 1:23:47Speaker 2: me expired some time ago. But I stayed loyal to you,
- 1:23:51Speaker 2: and I overlooked a lot of things that was going on,
- 1:23:53Speaker 2: not realizing that you was in it for yourself. You
- 1:23:56Speaker 2: start being in it with me and for me a
- 1:23:58Speaker 2: long time ago. He said, Damn, man, I ain't mean
- 1:24:01Speaker 2: for you to take it that way. I said, no,
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: you didn't mean for me to apply it that way.
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: You wanted me to take it. You wanted me to
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: keep on taking it. But I took inventory and I
- 1:24:12Speaker 2: found out and in twenty twenty four, let me tell
- 1:24:15Speaker 2: you something, man, I take serious inventory in my life.
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: If you are not with me and for me, you
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: ain't got to be against me. But if you ain't
- 1:24:25Speaker 2: with me or for me, I ain't got no room
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: for you, because what's the benefit to the relationship. Every
- 1:24:33Speaker 2: time I talk to you, it end up me doing
- 1:24:36Speaker 2: something and being something for you, but you're on call
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: and you don't check for me at all. Hey, Steve,
- 1:24:42Speaker 2: how you doing man? How you holding out? There man,
- 1:24:45Speaker 2: you all right? How your family never never, it's just
- 1:24:49Speaker 2: me checking with you. That ain't a friendship, that's really
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: not an association. You need surround yourself with light minded people,
- 1:25:00Speaker 2: on yourself with people who offer a benefit to you
- 1:25:03Speaker 2: and that you can offer a benefit to them. And
- 1:25:06Speaker 2: if they don't do that, stop wasting your valuable time
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: on relationships that don't deserve your time. Do you know
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: how much free time you would create if you would
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: stop giving time to nonsense, to non well wishes, to
- 1:25:27Speaker 2: people that don't really mean you. Well, listen, man, you
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: can't fix everybody. Stop putting that on your plate. You
- 1:25:36Speaker 2: always gotta fix somebody. Man, Stop, you are wasting your
- 1:25:41Speaker 2: time and you keep if you notice it, you keep
- 1:25:43Speaker 2: fixing the same people over and over. And if you
- 1:25:45Speaker 2: take real close inventory, you might be having to fix
- 1:25:48Speaker 2: the same problem over and over because they ain't learned nothing,
- 1:25:50Speaker 2: because their solution to the problem has been you. And
- 1:25:53Speaker 2: every time they run into them, every time they need money,
- 1:25:56Speaker 2: they call you. Every time they need a ride, they
- 1:25:59Speaker 2: call you, every time they need some help, they call you. Well,
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: it takes time. Just take inventory. Everybody, think about what
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: I just said today. Man, Rid yourself of those types
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: of people, and you would be surprised how much light
- 1:26:14Speaker 2: are your load and how much further you will go.
- 1:26:16Speaker 2: Those are my clothes and remarks today. Talk to God
- 1:26:21Speaker 2: today because he would absolutely love to hear from see
- 1:26:26Speaker 2: them all. He was God's will.
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