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Mickey Fickey Immortal, Lennox Mall, Sheryl Underwood, Carla's Reality Update and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all all looking back to back down, giving
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  Speaker 1: them like theming bu things and it's not me true
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  Speaker 1: good Steve Hartley Joy, you gotta use that turn hur
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  Speaker 1: come on your baby, huh. I show will a good
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  Speaker 1: morning everybody. You'll listening to the voice? Come on dig
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  Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all do took of me what I said? But I
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  Speaker 1: do like I say always. It just is a constant
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  Speaker 1: reminder of how good God has been. So my question
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  Speaker 1: to you is what's stopping you from having the life
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  Speaker 1: that you want? What's stopping you from having the life
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  Speaker 1: that you want? I know a lot of people who
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  Speaker 1: have given up on achieving the life of their dreams,
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  Speaker 1: but I know they'd still want them if they could
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  Speaker 1: get to them. But they just allowed to settle for
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  Speaker 1: so many reasons. So who I'm talking to is you today?
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  Speaker 1: What's really at the core of stopping you? What is that?
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  Speaker 1: Is it your friends or your souls? Is it the
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  Speaker 1: fear of what you think somebody else will think of
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  Speaker 1: you if you decide to change. Is it what I
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  Speaker 1: used to call the call of the while? Is it
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you keep thinking that the thing that
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  Speaker 1: you're doing that's providing you these momentary moments of pleasure
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  Speaker 1: that really ain't really good or healthy for you, You
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  Speaker 1: don't want to stop doing that because you've got just
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more something else you want to do.
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  Speaker 1: I call that the call at a while. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just out there. Them streets is calling you, Them
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  Speaker 1: lights is calling you. You know, them girls is calling you.
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  Speaker 1: Them guys that's on the wrong side keep calling you.
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  Speaker 1: You can't seem to make a decision by the right guy.
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  Speaker 1: You keep picking the wrong guy all the time. What
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  Speaker 1: is it that's stopping you from having the life that
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  Speaker 1: you really want to have? So whatever the reason you're choosing,
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  Speaker 1: that's the reason that's stopping you from having the life
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  Speaker 1: that you want to have. It's no good because at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the date, here's the real ill. See,
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  Speaker 1: God is available, and God is available for all of us,
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  Speaker 1: and God has a plan for all of us, and
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  Speaker 1: God wants to vary best for all of us. That's
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  Speaker 1: the truth of the matter. So now what we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do to get started having that life? First of all,
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  Speaker 1: if it's your friends, I want you to understand something
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  Speaker 1: your friends can't save you. A lot of your friends
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  Speaker 1: offer no real help for you. Most of your friends
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  Speaker 1: don't have the answer themselves. I mean, it's just a
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  Speaker 1: wide range of reasons and misery love company. So usually
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  Speaker 1: when your friends are in a bad position, they kind
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  Speaker 1: of like company in that bad position. Your friends ain't
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  Speaker 1: going to church. You're gonna be their friend. They don't
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  Speaker 1: really want you to go to church. You know your
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  Speaker 1: friends don't pray, so why would they offer up prayer
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  Speaker 1: as a solution to you. You know, your friends don't
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  Speaker 1: really really get the fact that if you treat people better,
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  Speaker 1: people would treat you better or so what's that? So
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  Speaker 1: your friends are a lot of times the reasons, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to peer pressure of what and then the thought in
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  Speaker 1: your mind of what they're gonna think once they find
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  Speaker 1: out I don't do what they do anymore. Who cares
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  Speaker 1: what they think other than you? I mean, really, you
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  Speaker 1: can't let what somebody thinks if you stop you from
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  Speaker 1: having the best life you wanted to have. If I
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  Speaker 1: went by that theory right there, I wouldn't I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: even be on this mic this morning. I would have
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  Speaker 1: never become a stand up I would have had I
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  Speaker 1: listened to the people around me who clearly told me
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  Speaker 1: when I quit my job to pursue this, boy, don't
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  Speaker 1: you quit your job? You got a family, Boy, don't
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  Speaker 1: you do this. You ain't got no bit dad, ain't
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  Speaker 1: ain't no security in that. Get yourself a job, Go
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  Speaker 1: down here and whet your brothers go to work over here.
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  Speaker 1: I heard all of that. I didn't let that stop
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  Speaker 1: me from pursuing this. Why would you allow that to
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  Speaker 1: stop you from pursuing your relationship with God so you
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  Speaker 1: can have the best life you could possibly have. You
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  Speaker 1: gang bang because they've convinced you that this is the
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  Speaker 1: family situation and love that you don't have, and they've
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  Speaker 1: convinced you that this is your only way, your only
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  Speaker 1: source of getting over And then you drum up these
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  Speaker 1: ignorant reasons man for staying with it. But they sound
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  Speaker 1: so good when you're listening to everybody else you're surrounded
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  Speaker 1: by telling you why we gang banging while we're holding
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  Speaker 1: this blockdown? Why we slanging this thing here? Right here.
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  Speaker 1: Why we're letting it go like this here? You keep
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  Speaker 1: listening to them when all in your heart of hearts
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  Speaker 1: you know this ain't right. You already know, but you
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  Speaker 1: allow that form of the call of the wile, that
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  Speaker 1: wanting to be accepted by a group of people who
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  Speaker 1: trying to get you to accept a way so you
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  Speaker 1: can further they progress. To even prove that you worthy
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  Speaker 1: to be around them, you got to commit some type
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  Speaker 1: of crime to even prove that you're worthy to be
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  Speaker 1: around them. Then when you get busted on the crime,
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  Speaker 1: what happens to that where your family had? Now they
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  Speaker 1: don't come down there to see you because guess what,
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  Speaker 1: they can't turn an idea to death at a law
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  Speaker 1: enforcements center. So now your homies can't come visit you.
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  Speaker 1: And then you know your family back out here, they
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  Speaker 1: ain't taking care of your family because it's all about them.
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  Speaker 1: Then you learn that what is it to stopping you
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  Speaker 1: from having a life that you always wanted to have?
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  Speaker 1: What is it? Why are you a repeat offender? Why
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  Speaker 1: do you keep checking yourself back into that institution? Why? Man,
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  Speaker 1: why won't you get it together? Why won't you give
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  Speaker 1: God a try? Why won't you disassociate yourself. Why would
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  Speaker 1: you continue to be a part of a revolving door
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  Speaker 1: system and becoming the farm system for these institutions that
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing for you? But you keep going back
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  Speaker 1: in there. And then every time you go in there,
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  Speaker 1: and then your little homies or your gang banging, little
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  Speaker 1: silly little friends try to make you think that's a
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  Speaker 1: badge of honor. Therein't no badge of honor. Man, that's
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  Speaker 1: one mode. What's one more scratch on that record, That's
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  Speaker 1: one mold, That's one more nail in that coffin. That's
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  Speaker 1: one step closer to that third strike where you ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna ever get out. It's one step closer to that graveyard.
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  Speaker 1: You keep on. Why would you not give God a try?
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  Speaker 1: Why would you not go and see what your life
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  Speaker 1: could really be? What is it that's stopping you? Because see,
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  Speaker 1: I got news for you. There's nothing like waking up free.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care who you are. There's nothing like waking
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  Speaker 1: up with the joy in your heart. Now, if you
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be free, get the joy in your heart,
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  Speaker 1: the satisfaction of knowing that you accomplishing something with your life.
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  Speaker 1: Help somebody behind them bars, get in the program, show
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  Speaker 1: these young cats when they come in a better way.
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  Speaker 1: But don't you dare sit there man and just ride
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  Speaker 1: it out, and man, just go and get the fullest
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  Speaker 1: life that you can have. What you know what it
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  Speaker 1: feels like to wake up and be on your way somewhere,
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  Speaker 1: knowing that you have something to accomplish, that you can
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  Speaker 1: change somebody, that you can stop somebody from going down
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  Speaker 1: the roads you went down. It's a whole lot of
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  Speaker 1: ways to make your life better. But why would you
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  Speaker 1: not go and have the best life you can have?
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  Speaker 1: What is it that's stopping you? Really? Really? So you
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  Speaker 1: think that Satan really has your best interests at heart.
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  Speaker 1: That Dela thing your mama kept telling you about praying,
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  Speaker 1: you wasn't listening. It was you. But you know, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't ever too late to get back to that. It
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  Speaker 1: ain't ever too late to turn around, It ain't ever
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  Speaker 1: too late to get your life together, it ain't ever
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  Speaker 1: too late to seek God, and it ain't ever too
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  Speaker 1: late to pray. Don't forget to pray, don't be ashamed
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  Speaker 1: to pray, and don't be too proud to pray, because
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  Speaker 1: prayer changes things. Prayer change people too. I'm a witness
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  Speaker 1: to that. Ladies and gentlemen, let me have it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: hell and the other going over there. I want your
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  Speaker 1: undivided attention. Do I have it? Thank you, ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 1: I am committed today to be who God made me
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  Speaker 1: to be, and that is something else at times. Thank you,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Charley Strawberry calling for real that damn
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  Speaker 1: I know stuff, y'all. Y'all think I don't be paying attention. Yeah, Well,
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: Junior kind of hurt me those day because he opened up.
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  Speaker 1: He was doing a live I G Live and he
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  Speaker 1: was deprest and I thought he was having a crisis.
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  Speaker 1: So I cut it off. I was a present. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta look at it all. You know why was
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  Speaker 1: on that back porch on vacation. It wasn't. That was
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  Speaker 1: a bad point. That was a backroom top sack. You
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  Speaker 1: know what. You know what man need right here. Told
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  Speaker 1: me to get the nail, backroom back forward, Get him, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: get him? All right, we got house, Junie. When we
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  Speaker 1: come back, you give your Instagram to coming up at
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  Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the crazy CLO.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to morning show. All right,
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  Speaker 1: it is time now for asked the CLO Chief Love
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  Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey. But before we get into that, um, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: can you give your Instagram your social media information? Please?
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  Speaker 1: At Junior shm miss ju n I man, no, man,
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  Speaker 1: my uncle he told me to go. He always told man,
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  Speaker 1: go out, to leave your best like you work hard,
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  Speaker 1: go enjoy it. Did didn't he do? See me? He
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  Speaker 1: enjoyed my life. I'm on the damn backboard. Can't You're
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  Speaker 1: depressed and I'm depressed. Well, I thought you was at
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  Speaker 1: your honest house. None of that was true. Tops or
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  Speaker 1: some trees look like forgot you forgot right all right
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  Speaker 1: here we go, Celo. This one is from Keyana in Hampton, Virginia.
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  Speaker 1: Keyana writes time in graduate school and for the past year,
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  Speaker 1: I've been having sex with an underclassman. I'm twenty six
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  Speaker 1: and he's nineteen. He wants to be my boyfriend and
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  Speaker 1: said he's going to marry me one day. He's exactly
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  Speaker 1: the type of man I want to marry, but I
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  Speaker 1: can't get past the age difference. I feel like I'm
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  Speaker 1: robbing the cradle. I broke it up, was broke it
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  Speaker 1: off with him earlier this year, and he almost flunked
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  Speaker 1: most of his classes. So I believe him when he
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  Speaker 1: says he loves me. It's age that big of a
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  Speaker 1: deal when you think you love someone, please help Well, uh,
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  Speaker 1: if it's a deal, if you want it to be
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  Speaker 1: a deal, it's also a deal if you make it
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  Speaker 1: a deal. And here's a deal. This is for sure.
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  Speaker 1: If he stays alive, he won't always be nineteen. That's
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  Speaker 1: for shal So. And now with that being said, yeah
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  Speaker 1: you yeah, you rob Craiger. He's down in nineteen. He's
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  Speaker 1: a real freshman everything. You put some of that senior
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  Speaker 1: citizen thing on him and he well, you know, to
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  Speaker 1: hit him. You know, that's an older woman. Now he's
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  Speaker 1: flogging out of school because he either he didn't got
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  Speaker 1: it or ain't getting it no more. But either way,
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  Speaker 1: he'd flogging out of school. So when you know, yeah, union,
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  Speaker 1: but no, I don't think you have to be worried
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  Speaker 1: about that. You know, if he's a good guy, he's
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  Speaker 1: a good guy. You know, go forward, you know, all right,
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  Speaker 1: But when you take him to your daddy, Oh, he
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  Speaker 1: gonna be a little different. All right, We're moving on
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  Speaker 1: Michelle and Tampa, says. My fifty nine year old mother
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  Speaker 1: recently got a citation for indecent exposure because she was
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  Speaker 1: trying to have sex in her car. She told me
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  Speaker 1: that it's my fault she was in the car having
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  Speaker 1: sex because she has no privacy at home. I moved
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  Speaker 1: in with her during the pandemic after I lost my job.
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  Speaker 1: Her apartment is small and the walls are thin, so
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  Speaker 1: I suggested that she'd go have sex at her sorry
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend's house next time. She cursed me out and told
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  Speaker 1: me to be out of her house by next month.
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  Speaker 1: How can I fix this mess? What? Well, First of all,
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  Speaker 1: you told your mother to go have sex at her
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  Speaker 1: sorry boyfriend's house. When you in her house, Come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: you stoopid. You ain't got no help, you know you
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  Speaker 1: you can. You completely out of line. So now she
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  Speaker 1: won't you out because she would be having sex in
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  Speaker 1: her house. But she tried to be decent to you,
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  Speaker 1: so you wouldn't hear the thing. Wall she in the car.
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  Speaker 1: Now she got a ticket, and it is to me
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  Speaker 1: it is your fault. It ain't really your fault because
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  Speaker 1: she still didn't have to be in the car get busted.
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  Speaker 1: But you ain't got no right to tell her go
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  Speaker 1: over your side boyfriend house. The sovereign person is the
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  Speaker 1: one that's living in their mama house. What that ticket? Car?
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  Speaker 1: What is that? I ain't before I've been in the car.
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  Speaker 1: But the police, well I did get busted one time
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  Speaker 1: when I was young in the car, but when the
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  Speaker 1: police came up, I had time to get it together
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  Speaker 1: because I had naema on the windows? What does nick do?
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  Speaker 1: Break that down up? What does that do? You just
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  Speaker 1: can't see any wonder? You got the cold cream on
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  Speaker 1: the Oh okay, oh, I gotta try that. See listen
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  Speaker 1: to and then if you put cold cream on old windows,
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  Speaker 1: the other windows fall up way quicker, m oh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing that. You might not stay, but you should have
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  Speaker 1: got the degree. O you y'all y'all being how y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know these things I ain't never had. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: never heard of a Yeah, well, I know all you
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  Speaker 1: gotta do is all you gotta do it be uneducated.
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  Speaker 1: Here we go, moving on, Veronica, you gotta learn some here.
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  Speaker 1: So I learned everything they didn't teach in school, So
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  Speaker 1: I saince I wasn't picking up nothing in school. I
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  Speaker 1: learned everything else that wasn't taught at the school. Degree. Welcome.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna do a book on little things you
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  Speaker 1: should have learned instead of can your ass down after
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  Speaker 1: that school listening? Yes, please don't say that. All right,
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  Speaker 1: Here we go Veronica, and Augusta says, I'm twenty seven
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  Speaker 1: years old and I live with my twenty five year
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  Speaker 1: old boyfriend. After some trials and tribulations in our relationship,
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  Speaker 1: he said we should have an open relationship. I told
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  Speaker 1: him we should just break up because he can't stand
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  Speaker 1: it when I see other guys or if I stay
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  Speaker 1: out all night. I love him and I would love
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  Speaker 1: to be monogamous with him. But as long as he's
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  Speaker 1: seeing other people, I will too. What is the benefit
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  Speaker 1: of having an open relationship? Should I dump him? Ain't
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  Speaker 1: no benefit. It's to be fit to both of y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all can see what y'all want to see, and you
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  Speaker 1: can see whoever you want to see. That's the benefit
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  Speaker 1: of an open relationship, which ain't much of a relationship
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  Speaker 1: except y'all know each other doing eat other people and
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing each other. That's all it is. That's the benefit.
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  Speaker 1: In a nutshell, you know, he mad because you he
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  Speaker 1: don't want you going out with nobody and staying out
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  Speaker 1: all night, and you want him all to yourself. Both
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  Speaker 1: of y'all ignorant. So should she dump him? Dum? What
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: you gotta dump before? You're doing what you want to
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: do and he doing what he want to do. When
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: you dump him, what's gonna happen? Maybe she'll find someone
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  Speaker 1: that wants some anogamous relationship, but we gotta go. She
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  Speaker 1: can go do that now, all right? All right? Thanks
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  Speaker 1: thanks Clo. Coming up next to the nephew with run
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  Speaker 1: that prank back right after this you're listening show coming
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, Miss Anne is
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  Speaker 1: here with today's national news. Also an entertainment news fifty
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  Speaker 1: Also another entertainment news, our radio brother big Boy, Big
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  Speaker 1: Boy got a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about stories, yeah, at the top of the hour.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: But right now, the nephew is here to make this laugh.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Would run that frank back? What you got nat all right?
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Turn to your neighbor and say, neighbor, it is pranking time,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: all right. And the title is the preachers Wife. Amen, la, Amen, Amen,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Amen again one more time. Amen, there might be one today.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: If you don't start, let's go care. Hello. Hello, I'm
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: trying to reach a sister Angela, Sister Angela, please, how
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: you doing. My name is Brother Clayton. I'm calling you
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: from our greatest Baptist Church. How are you doing this morning? Oh?
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I'm fine, I'm fine. Yeah, listen, I know that your husband,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Reverend Jonathan, is actually one of the candidates that we
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: may be choosing to be our pastor since our past
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: pastor has stepped down. Yes, yes, yes, I'm very proud
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: of my husband. I think you'll make a very good candidate.
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  Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, here at the church, we've
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: been asking a lot of the deacons and assistant ministers
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: here have been asking different questions, different things that they
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: would be doing once they became pastor, you know, like
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: your first one hundred days. What would you try and
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: change here at the church or try and make better?
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: So to speak? Yet, but but what my husband, he's
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: not here right now. Did you need to speak to him? No,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: not right now. What we decided to do, Uh, sus
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Angela is actually called the wives and ask them a
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: few questions. Oh, okay, that's a little different though, sure,
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  Speaker 1: And we don't we don't want to take up too
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  Speaker 1: much of your time. You know. A lot of times, Uh,
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  Speaker 1: if a pastor is stressed at home, nine times out
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: of ten, he's likely to be stressed at the church.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: So I guess, my, my, My biggest question to you
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: is is your husband stressed at home? Uh? No, not
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: that I know of. He eats regularly, he's on a
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: good diet. You know, he gets goes to the doctor regularly.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: He gets his physical um pretty good at home. I
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: don't have a reason to believe that he's stressed. He
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: certainly hasn't brought anything to my attention. Okay, No, No,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't. I don't, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think you follow me, s sus Angel. What
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I'm saying is he's stressed behind closed doors? Is he
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: stressed in that fashion? Um? I'm not. I'm not too
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: sure I follow you. You say behind closed doors? What
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: exactly did you mean by that? Is he is? He's
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: stressed in y'all's relations Is he stressed? Are you asking
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: me about my personal business? Brother? Well, what I'm saying
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: is if he's stressed at home, he'll be stressed at
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: the church. And if he's stressed at the church, then
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: the members are stressed. Then the congregation is stressed, So
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: the stress start with you. Excuse me. If you are
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: making sure that he's all right at home, he's gonna
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: be all right at the church. I'm sorry, brother. What
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: was your name? Brother Clayton? Brother Clayton. I appreciate you
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: m conducting whatever interviews you guys need to conduct with
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: the candidates. Wise, I do think that's pretty much personal territory,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: and I really don't want to answer those kind of questions.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: It's not personal since the Angela when it's so many
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: other people involved. That's why I'm asking you the question,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: is your man stressed behind? I could assure you, yes,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: that my husband is not stressed at home. If I
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: get your drift, he is not stressed behind closed doors, brother,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: and I would appreciate you if you don't call with
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: these kind of questions. Are you asking other candidates why
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: these kind of questions? Well, I was the one dedicated
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: to call to give you a call, and that's the
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: question that I decided to come up with because I
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: want to know if a man is gonna be stressed,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: because if he's gonna have tension at the church, then
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: then the congregation is going to have tension. The church
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: is gonna have tension, and the church cannot move forward
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: in the direction on withgreaton. My husband and I have
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: been married twenty five years and they've been twenty five
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: good years. If you get my drift, okay, he is
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: not stressed at home, and whatever goes on at home,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: my husband has sense enough not to take it to
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: the church. That is not something he's gonna do. So
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: you don't see about anybody else being stressed at the
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: congregation in the pulpit nowhere. Okay, we ask it together
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: at home, and I appreciate it if you don't ask
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: me those kind of questions, but sometimes ask me, well,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: sometimes a woman does not realize that a husband is stressed.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: You understand that there's a possible way that you don't
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: know that he's stressed. So how can you get let
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: me get your phone. A matter of fact, let me
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: get your full name. What's your first name? Let's just
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: go with brother Clayton right now, could you please answer
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: this question? How can you guarantee that he is fully
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: not stressed? Brother Clayton calling the Lord real quick? Hold on,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Brother Clayton. I'm an honorable woman. I'm a woman who
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: stands by my man. Okay, but you are asking me
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: some questions that very personal, very private, very confidential. You
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: are asking me questions that that a question is the
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: safety of my marriage. Okay, my husband is not stressed,
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: and if I don't send him away from my home stressed? Okay,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: how do you know? But what are you doing to
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: make sure that this is less stress? Clayton? I'm about
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: to end this phone call. Okay, now, if you know,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: we're not gonna end this phone call until that we
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: know we I need to know that Reverend Jonathan is
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: not stressed at home. They put they assigned me to
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: talk to you, and that's what I'm gonna do, and
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave. He is not stressed. I don't know
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: who told you that the man is not stressed. If
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: he had to stress around you, I bet you. I
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: bet you he stress because you're stressing me right now.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: Now we're both stressed out. How can we understand that
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: that man is not stressed. That's the end of this conversation.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Do you understand me? Give me your full name right now,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: give me some intimate details, and then I'll give you
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: my number to cross the line. You wait till my
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: husband gets here. If this is gonna cost him a candacy,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: does this so be it? We'll find another church. I'd
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: have some choice words for you right now, Brother Clayton.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: I will give you my name right now. Do you
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: have a pen? Yes, I'm gonna write it right now.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: The letter N N is in nancy E P. I
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: know how to spare that talk faston N E P
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: h E W got a name? Is that nephew, your
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: name is Nephew Clayton. My name ain't nephew Clayton. My
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: name is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your husband, Reverend Jonathan. Hold on,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: you said, this is nephew Tommy, this is God from
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Mourning's your Your husband got me to
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: prank phone call you. Oh Lord, I'm gonna kill it.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: O Lord that I don't need that. Oh didn't trust me,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: sent me this morning. I can't believe I let him
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: get me, you know, planks before. Oh my God, Tommy,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: I will tell you if this was twenty five years ago. Brother,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I cussed up a storm. I'm so glad. I'm a
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: save woman. Well listen, listen. Can I ask you one
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: more thing? Yes? What is the baddest radio show in
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: the land, The Steve Morning Show? Oh Lord, all right, nephew.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: some entertainment and national news for you right after this.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve. We have to
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: say congratulations to our fellow radio brother. We love this guy.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: He's radio legend. Big Boy, big Boy, Big Boy, yes.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: So yesterday I'm Big boys fifty second birthday. He received
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, presented to
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: him by doctor Dre Cool. Right, Yeah, yeah, congratulate Yeah,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: big Boy it is has been a radio icon for
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: almost thirty years in his morning show is syndicated by
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Premier Radio Networks. I mean he deserves that. He's been
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: around a long time and he does great radio LA Radio.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: He's a legend, Steve. So we just want to show
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Big Boys some love. Love boy. You know, somebody somebody
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: has sent me something, but I would tape so late
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I forgot to do it. Somebody asked me to send
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: a video the Big Boy for his birthday bass or something,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: and I forgot to do it. But if I got
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: a couple of minutes, I would just like to say
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: to a man who we started out as competitors and
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: we ended up becoming friends while we were both on
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: competitive stations in Los Angeles, and the show of force
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: that we did one time was we were doing something
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: to curb violence in schools out in LA and me
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: and Big Boy was on the stage at the same time,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: and everybody knew we were supposed to be competitors. But
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: when men and Big Boy stood up and hugged each
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: other on that stage to show unity amongst us, that
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: a whole auditorum a kid stood up and that changed
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: me and Big boys relationship from then on, and we
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: became instead of competitors friends. You know, we still had
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: to do what we had to do, but that was
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: never an ill words said on my show towards him,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: and never an ill word on his show towards me.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: And I respected that cat, and he's a bad boy
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: and one of the best I've ever seen. And his
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: studio actually inspired the studio that we built in Atlanta
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: where we had our studio home base in Atlanta, because
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: I went out there saw that, I said, man, that's cold.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: The only thing was he worked the board and I
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: was dedicated to never pushing a button without a check.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: That was the only damned plea. Will not act like
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I know how to do this engineering thing that was lost.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Congratulate somebody telling him I gave him a big shout
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: out this morning. Will do absolutely. In other entertainment news,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: while fans of Michael Kay Williams have been mourning his death,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: fifty Cent has been using it to promote his TV
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: show and his liquor brand. Um. Taking to instam, he
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: posted wide opened emojis along with a screenshot of the
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: breaking news of Michael's death and the caption this is
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: what fifty wrote. Damn. If you didn't see Raising Kine,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: check it out. Fentenol is no joke killing the clientele.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: For those of you who don't know PowerBook three, Raising
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Kanaan is the stars show based on fifties childhood and queens.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: He also added our rip Michael K. Williams and he
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: spelled his name wrong and then followed that with just
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: hashtags promoting his kannak and his wine lines. It was
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: pretty distasteful and he got a lot of He took
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: it down. He took it down, and then he tasted
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: the headline trended again. Come on, yeah, stop it downright,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Ladies and gentlemen, miss a trip. Thank
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: you very much, and good morning everybody. This is entered
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: with the News and ABC. Washington Post poll shows that
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: only forty nine percent of Americans asked think this country
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: is now safer from terrorism than it was before the
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: nine eleven attacks twenty years ago. Of course, of nine
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: eleven anniversaries Saturday. As you would expect, planning is well
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: underway by the New York City Police Department by the
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: World Trade Center in advance of this weekend's twentieth anniversary.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: John Miller is an Depart's Deputy Commissioner of Intelligence and
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: counter Terrorism. We've seen the call to action this year
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: be louder and better organized from terrorist groups than we
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: have seen in prior years, which is why he says,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: even though there are no credible threats out there right now,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: there's plenty of reason to remain vigilant, and that is
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: what we are doing. A new Texas law banning abortions
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: after only six weeks is being criticized by many in
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: the country. One of those, New York Congresswoman Alexandriocazio Cortez,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: or AOC as she's called, who tells CNN that the
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: six week limit just shows Governor Greg Abbott's quote deep
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: ignorance in case no one has informed him before in
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: our life. In his life, six weeks pregnant means two
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: weeks late for your period and two weeks late on
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: your period for any person. Any person with a menstrual
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: cycle can happen if you're stressed, if your diet changes,
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: or for really no reason at all. In other words,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: it's too soon for most women me to even know
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: that they're pregnant. AOC says she's sorry to have to
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: break down biology one on one on National TV. President
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Biden is putting is putting up eight nominees for federal
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: court judge ships. His choices are diverse. For instance, A
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: Lucy Coe would be the first Korean American woman to
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: serve on the US Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Judge Cole was nominated for the same position by foreign
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: President Obama, but Republicans sat on it and did refuse
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: to take a vote on her. Another Biden pick is
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: African American Superior Court Judge Holly Thomas. Early in her career,
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: she worked as an appellet on appellet cases for the
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: Civil Rights Division of the Justice Department, and Bidens also
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: nominated California Court of Appeals Judge Gabriel Sanchez for a
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: federal judge. Of these judges, by the way, are lifetime
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: positions once they gained them. And finally, na NA that's
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: what Black lives and civil rights demonstrate, as sang in Richmond, Virginia.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Yesterday's the stature Robert E. Lee was taken down a
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: remove from a city square that humongous statue erected over
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: one hundred years. Go now back to the Steve Harvey
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Mourning Show.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Trending news out of Atlanta, Lenox Square Mall, with luxury
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: brand stores like Neiman Marcus and Louis Vatan will roll
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: out a youth supervision policy. This means all visitors eighteen
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  Speaker 1: years or under must be accompanied by a parent or
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: adult twenty one twenty one years of age or older
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  Speaker 1: at all times after three p m. Any unsupervised youth
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: under the age of eighteen must leave the property by
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: three pm, and both youth and adults must carry identification.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: This policy comes to just after multiple violent incidents at
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: the mall, including shooting, armed robbery. The mall said this
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: is to the response of the community who want safe
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and a pleasant environment and a family friendly environment to
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: shop in. So you know what, look, look, most of
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: us live in Atlanta. I agree with that policy. Now,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: it's a shame that there are good kids that have
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: to be hurt by this. It is really a shame.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: But I am telling you, man, that mall used to
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: be a great place to go. I can't tell you
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: that how many times me and Margin and went upstairs
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: on the top of that escalator and had done at
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: that steakhouse right up there. We don't go up there
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: no more. We don't go up there no more. I
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: can't tell you how many times we used to go
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: to Neemon Markets to sit down in the cafe and
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: have lunch and stuff like that. We don't go up
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: there no more. And that was in Nemon Markets. Because
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: they shooting in Nemon Markets. It's a damn shame, man.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: So we don't want nothing that bad. I can't run
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: the risk. And it's just a shame, man that a
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: few mess it up for the minute. But the few
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: is a large number though, see that few to where
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: they started having to put metal detectors at the gate
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: the door because just people just carrying, you know, they're
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: carrying and and and that's it's a sad thing, man.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: But that mall, then, Nix's Mall, was such a cool
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: place to go. And they got nice shops in there,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: nice stores, fils, really nice places to go in there.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: And it's it's just a few that have messed it
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: up for many and so I'm okay with the policy, man,
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: And until we get this thing under control, we we
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: gotta protect the innocent. I'm sorry. Yeah, they said that
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: demanded some kind of change. You have to do that,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: but that crime spills over. It's not just in that mall.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: They come into that area to do what they want
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: to do. You know, man, you can't do that, And
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, the riff raff gots to go. Yeah,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: So if you're on it keeps going. Man. Your company
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: by an adult with I D Yeah. All right. Coming
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll tell
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: you about the HBCU week. We'll tell you all about
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: that with our special guests Rashaan McDonald coming up right
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Multi Emmy Award and NAACP Image Award winning TV film
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: radio producer Rashawn McDonald Ladies and Gentlemen, is the host
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: and producer of the HBCU College Day Tour, which stops
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: in three states in September, including the canvases of HBCUs
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: in Alabama, North Carolina, and Georgia and the first event
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: stop is launching in Alabama. Ladies and gentlemen, come on, Steve,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: do it like you do. Ladies and gentlemen with whatever
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: voice I have, put your hands together for the older
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: creative and soul survival money making coversasions, whether you want
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: to have them or not, Da damn U shown them?
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: Mac Donald? Yeah, Man, Man, man or thank because see
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: I emailed Steve he's in DUBI to come on the
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: show to talk about hpc you College Day even when
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: we're back. Immediately Man said, come on the show. Mac.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: Let's do this because I'm trying to change lives, and
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: only way you're gonna change lives with an event like
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: this is to come on the show, like to Steve
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: Harvey Mornings. So I talk to friends and also friends
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: who have also went to HPCUS and understand the value
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: of what I'm trying to do in the month of
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: September at these three stops. Yeah, absolutely, I guess. So
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: like okay, so, so tell us about this college statement
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: what you got called? Well, what happened is I'm doing
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: something that is first of all, it's free, and you
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: know we got COVID happening right now. And so we're
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: providing facial masks to everybody. We also will be testing
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: in certain locations, also providing hand sanitizers. I want to
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: get that out the way first. We have a clear
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: understanding that there will be social distancing we will from
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: finding masks. We're respecting like five thousand people at Alabama State,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: five thousand people that went to Salem State and North Carolina.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Then in Georgia, we're gonna be in Atlanta, Georgia, in
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  Speaker 1: the bed that call it the bed of HBCUs where
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  Speaker 1: you have more halls, Bare Hall College, Clark Atlanta University,
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  Speaker 1: Mars Brown, and Spellman right here in Atlanta, and we're
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  Speaker 1: I want to make people understand that you can start
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  Speaker 1: your dreams at HBCU College Day. Military recruiters, corporate job recruiters,
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  Speaker 1: so let me answer this question. So when you speak
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  Speaker 1: about scholarship opportunities for what do you mean by that
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next the nephew with Today's spraying phone call.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, the
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  Speaker 1: subject my husband likes other women. What all right? We'll
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  Speaker 1: get into that in just a few, but right now
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's spraying phone call. What
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  Speaker 1: you got for us? Now? All right, y'all, y'all gotta
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  Speaker 1: stay wit mean Now, This one right here is dp
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  Speaker 1: C a dp Department a D. This is dead person
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  Speaker 1: could action age and what did it stand? Dead? He writes?
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  Speaker 1: But what you wanted to how's we gonna talk about
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  Speaker 1: it if I don't see it now? So it's a
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  Speaker 1: prank and it start with D. Yeah, okay, but it's
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  Speaker 1: really live though. You're gonna love its Dead Person Collection
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  Speaker 1: Agency d d C. Hey, let's go cat diggity. Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Darrel police z Darrel. This is
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: uh Tony with DPCA. We wanted to give you a call.
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  Speaker 1: How are you doing today? Uh? Well, what what's what's
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: the company? Uh? DPC? Aight? What what that mean? Uh?
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: DPCA is a dead Person Collection agency. We actually collect
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: uh money from those that have been that have that
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: are deceased, but people still old them. Are you familiar
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: with um Carlton who passed away six months ago? I
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: know him? Yes, he could do. But what do you
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  Speaker 1: want from me? Though? Okay, it's been brought to understanding
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  Speaker 1: that you actually owed mister Carlton Fisher twelve hundred dollars?
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: Is that correct? Nah? Nah? We're talking about nah? Okay,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: So how how though, as mister okay, let me let
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: me get this, let me get a clear understanding here.
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  Speaker 1: You actually worked with mister Carlton Fisher, correct fact? Yeah?
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Is that right? Yes? Okay? So have you borrowed money
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: from mister Carlton Fisher before? Why are you asking though?
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I'm asking you a clear question, sir, have you borrowed
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: money from mister Carlton Fisher before? I don't feel like
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: I should an though today? Your business though? Oh no,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: it is my business because I'm with the collection agency
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: and it's been brought to right attention that you owe
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: twelve hundred dollars to him. I don't know what you
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: talk about any even send me no letter, so I
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: don't even know what's going on. I'll repeat myself again, Sir,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: my name is Tony. You send me a letter through
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: you send me a letter, Send me a letter though
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: I haven't sent you a letter. I'm telling I don't
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: know why you call me that if you don't send
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: me no letter though. Okay, sir, you owe this money
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: to mister Fisher. See, I'll understand. I don't understand. You
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: didn't send me no letter though, and then you're gonna
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: call me though definitely don't send Okay. So here's the deal, sir.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: If you don't play the twel liner, we will come
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: and take something. We will confiscate something of the same value.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: So I'm letting you know send me no you you
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: even even send me no letter though. If you do that,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I'll call the police because he didn't send me no
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: letter though. You not saying what I'm saying makes no
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: sending No. I'm hearing what you're saying, sir, But at
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, you're not hearing what I'm
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: saying though. You shouldn't even be talking to me right now.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: You gotta send me a letter though. That's how it is.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: A bills. He did not inform you anything, right sir.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: You owe you owe the twelve hundred dollars shirt. We
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: both know that you're saying you're skipping a step right
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: now though that's what I'm saying. Friends, it doesn't matter
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: about the step, sir. You know what you owe, and
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know. I'm not gonna go
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: back and forth with you. I'm gonna let you know this.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: We will come and compensate something of the same value. Well,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: let you know, but I'll let you know first though.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: You cannot do anything without sending a letter. You did
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: not send me no letter and send me no nothing
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: though you call me. You're harassing me right about now
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: without even send me no letter. That I was saying, like,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: this is the deal, this is what happened, This is
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: when it's due. YadA YadA, even do that, Okay, So
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: let me let me say this to you. We do
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: know if you have a two thousand and seventeen pick
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: up truck, we do you threaten me. I'm just letting.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know we're picking up something of the
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: same value or more. Okay, you turn me now, that's
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: not that's bull threatened me now. Didn't even send me
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: no letter. You just called me up staying like I
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: owe you now, didn't even give me no date like.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: Its make no sense though, sir, this is DPCA, this
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: is what we do one pass. I don't care if
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: you got your government agency. You should be sending me
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: a letter. Sorry, you owe mister Fisher twelve hundred dollars.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: He's now deceased. We are going to collect this money.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: All we're gonna collect. What I'm saying is you skip
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: the step. You skip the step. You did not. You
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: did not inform me that I owe mine to him.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: You just tell me right now on the phone. You
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: should wants to send a letter though, sorry, do you
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: want to send us to send us the money or
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: do you want me to pick up even know what
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: you're talking about though? Are you talking about my truck?
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: You're talking about my truck. No, no no, no, no, no
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: no no, we're not doing that. No we're not You're
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: not touching my truck right about now. You know what
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now, that's it. We're done. We're done. If
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: you come on my truck, I want to with you.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: Hear what I'm saying. I don't care what dollars it's
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: twel dude, I'm telling you right now, you can't send
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: me the letter. Now I'm angry. I'm gonna tell me
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: your truck come at me. I will come at you hard.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, baseball bats all that. Don't with me, don't
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: with me. You'll get jump. I'll jump you. I'll jump
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: y'all take your truck. Hear me? You'll stay a boy
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: from me? Sorry, not all, man, I'm not I'm not
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: playing either. So are you doing? Yo? Yo? Yo? Yo?
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: Are you listening though I'm listening to you? Are you
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: listening to me? You're the person you don't know the
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: type of dude I am? Man? I you know, yo?
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: You sound man comfortable right about now? Good? Don't be uncomfortable.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Okay, I'm I'm gonna let
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: you know this. If I don't get this money by today,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: then then you might as well start not sleeping the
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: night because there's a strong possibility what your car, your
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: car not be there? In your car, I'm I'm playing
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: it as clear as possible, sir. Twelve hundred dollars are
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: your car. Your truck may not be there in the morning.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: This is your car? Do you want to be there
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: after the next one? Though? What are you trying to say?
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: What are you trying to tell me? What you're trying
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: to say? What are you hit? We heard, we heard,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: we heard from me exactly, dude? When can we expect?
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: When can we expect the twelve hundred dollars I'm telling
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: you right about now. Don't cockle my car. I'm doing that,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: all right, I'm doing with you. Don't cou my car.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Don't fut my card. Don't okay, card, So you don't
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: call me back? All right, I'm done, mother hung up?
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Call him back? Call him back, man, call him back.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: Who you think? Who you think you hanging up? Pall man?
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: Who you think you hanging up? Call me again? You
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: call me again? You damn right on me again again.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting on the twelve hundred dollars. Okay, Now I
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: told you this. I told you. I told you that.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: Now now you're getting me angry though. Now you're getting
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: me angry though I told you this. Don't call me
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: all right, send me the letter. You don't send me
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: the letter They telling about taking my truck. I'll you up. Okay,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: you up? Okay, you know what I'm gonna doing. I'll
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: tell you what ware you gonna way gonna do, though,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: wa gonna. I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: tell you right nod ware you gonna. I'm gonna let
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go hang me, come get the truck. I'm
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: gonna let timm me come get the truck. Who I'm
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: gonna let Timmy come get the truck. I don't know
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: who Tommy is? Which Tommy Tommy who? Tom Me? Tell
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: me baby, not you Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Baby,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: your boy Trevor at your job got me the prank
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  Speaker 1: phone call you man, he always be listening to y'all
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  Speaker 1: here right now. Man, you want paro, I'm no comment. Okay,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: all right, there you go. I'll tell you what this
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  Speaker 1: This has only comment. I want to tell me this
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  Speaker 1: who isn't it the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all bunch
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  Speaker 1: of crazy mon BP were dead first agents A good
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  Speaker 1: idea to do that, huh yeah yeah, I mean get
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  Speaker 1: your attention right away time. It's like this caller, there
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  Speaker 1: are a lot of people. There are a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people who have passed away, and people old those people.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. People old those people. And
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: just because someone has passed don't mean you don't steal
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  Speaker 1: owe them. If they loaned your money, you still owe
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: them this collection though. Yeah, that's all right. We gotta go,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: nephew with this foolish final Coming up next, my Strawberry letter,
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  Speaker 1: likes other women. All right, Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm married
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  Speaker 1: to one of the finest men in my whole town.
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  Speaker 1: We've been together twenty four years and married for eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: He was my high school sweetheart and we married young
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  Speaker 1: and had two children early. We started having sex when
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: we were sixteen, so he was the only man I'd
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: been with until recently. He has cheated on me, and
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I forgave him because I had checked out of our
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: marriage and was going through a little depression. We didn't
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: go to counseling because he refused to go. Instead, he
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: offered me a hall pass to make up for what
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: he did. I may have been depressed, but I'm not crazy,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: so I told him no thanks, and I went out
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: and had an affair on my own discreetly. There's no
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: way he'll ever figure out what I'm doing on the side,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: because he's now checked out of our crazy marriage. It's
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: nothing for me to find him on the couch with
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: his feet up, talking to another female and gossiping with
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: her like their girlfriends. He goes shopping with his sister
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: and his mother all the time, and they have even
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: stayed out of town to go shopping at an outlet mall.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: My sister loves to come to me with a bunch
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: of rumors about my husband, and she tries to stir
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: up mess. But I'm not that concerned about what my
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: husband is doing. She suggested I call his mom and
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: sister and ask about the shopping trips and see how
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: long my husband is really with them, or if he
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: ducks off to go see a female. I don't have
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: the energy for any of that, so what if he
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: likes other women, I'm cheating because I wanted something different,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: So I see why he might be interested in other women.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: My husband and I have been best friends for almost
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: twenty five years, and that's what's most important to me.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: Am I wrong for not caring what he's up? Tom?
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know what this is, but it's certainly not
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: a marriage. I mean, this is a joke right here.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: Why don't you guys just put yourself out of your misery.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: You're cheating, He's cheating. This marriage, unfortunately, sounds like it
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: is run its course. And you ask, is it wrong
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: that you don't care anymore? Well, I'll only say yes
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: if you plan on staying married to him. But this
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: is why people get divorced because they don't care anymore.
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: They don't give a darn. What good is it being
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: married if you don't care about each other? Okay, your
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: marriage is just pathetic at this point. I mean, what
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: are you holding onto? Is it the memories from back
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: in the day, the habits, what's comfortable? Is it just
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: familiar to you, you say, your best friend? Or are
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: you waiting for a miracle or for something to change?
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, what is it that you want. You're tired
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: and bored with you know, with each other, because you
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: guys simply neglected to do the work that it takes
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: to keep your marriage strong. I mean, the two of
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: you have given up on yourselves, You've given up on
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: the marriage, You've given up on each other. What do
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: you what do you want? And what does he want?
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: Do you guys even have any idea? I bet you
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: both know what your side pieces need and want. I
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: bet you do. And yes, his mom and sister are
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: definitely covering for him. I think when he hangs out
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: with them, if he won't go to counseling, why don't
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: you just go on your own? You know, if you
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: feel like there's something salvageable about this marriage, as long
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: as you're still married, there is a chance. It's not
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: too late. Marriages have come back from all kinds of
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: bad things. I mean, you say you don't care, but
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: I kind of think you do. Otherwise, why are you
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: writing us steve this marriage, oval dis marriage or I
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: ain't no saving this. This is not salvageable. And the
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: reason I'm saying that it is because it's too back
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: and forth, and there's more folthing back so I don't
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: really know where we're going with this, but let's just
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: give you my take because I'm anna the little bit
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: of hate shade in the early beginning, because I don't
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: like when that a start like this, Dear Steven Shirley,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I'm married to one of the finest men in the
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: whole town. Oh that's how you're gonna. You're gonna, you're gonna,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: You're gonna come to me with that. I'm married to
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: one of the finest men in my whole town. Well,
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: let me knock you down a little bit, because town
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: means small populated area. So now, if you was married
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: to the finest man in the city, you might have
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: something right now, but you're married to the to the
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: finest man in our town. Once again, town small populated area.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: My ranch was in Little Elm, population six hundred and
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: thirty people. Hard to find a fine person out of
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: six hundred and thirty, you got to give just somebody
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: got ahead of title because out of the six hundred
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: and thirty people that lived in the township, all of
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: them weren't adults all. I'm one young and a lot
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: of them probably used to be fine. So I just
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: wanted to say that and get that out the way.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: That's a little bit of shade and hate and been
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  Speaker 1: together twenty four years man eighteen high school sweetheart, started
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: having sex when y'all was sixteen. Y'all tied each other
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: by now, it's the only man you ever been with.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: And until recently, oh later took a tourney. He has
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: cheated on me and I forgave him because he's the
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: first time I had checked out of our match and
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: was going through a little depression. I'm not really sure
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: how to read that. I don't know what a little
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: depression is up next to a lot of depression most
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: people I noticed the depress is just sad ass people.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know how you be a little sad if
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: your ass is just saying hold on, Steve, hold on,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response. Just say about this.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: Let coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: My husband likes other women is the subject. We'll get
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to show,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: The subject my husband likes other women. Yeah, okay, here
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: we go once again. Let me I'm gonna just read
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: let it tear apart. I go to Steven Sherlon. I
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: mad to find his men in my whole town. Once again,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: I'm told you about the little town. Still you know?
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: So what you know? How many y'all stayed? At two hundred?
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: It's easy to get the title when it are two
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: hundred people. Okay, So you married to the little finest
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: man and atal been together twenty four years, married eighteen.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: He was your high school sweetheart. You got married, you
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: had kids earlier. You've only had sex with him. You
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: started having sex at sixteen. You checked out the marriage.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: He started cheating on you, and you forgave him because
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: you had checked out of your marriage. That's the first
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: time somebody checked out the marriage. So while you checked out,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: he checked out two. So y'all been checked out, y'all
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: got married early. All this is understandable because you was
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: going through a little depression. That ain't really why he
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: checked out. You know that ain't really why. But you
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: always trying to give a man an excuse for why
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: he messed up, So I guess you can let him
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: have that, all right. We didn't go to counseling because
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: he or he didn't want to because see here, don't
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: see nothing wrong. I told you you checked out. He
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: been checked out. He cheated because he wanted to. Instead,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: he offered me a Hall pass. Now, ain't that a
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: guilt trip? So since I cheated, you can go out
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: and cheat to make up for what he did. Now,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: you might have been depressed, but you ain't crazy, So
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: I told him no thanks. And then right after you
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: told him no things. See that's another thing. You checked
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: out the marriage. Then he cheated on you. Then he
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: turned around gave you a hall pass. Then you told
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: him no thanks because you ain't crazy. But you went
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: out and had an affair on your own, very discreetly.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: So now you didn't check back out the marriage again.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: There's no way he'll ever figure out what I'm doing
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: on the side, because now he's checked out of our
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: crazy marriage. Okay, now you checked out, you cheating. He's
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: been checked out, but you think he ain't. So now
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: he didn't checked out again. Then you say it's nothing
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: for me to find him on the couch with his
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: feet up talking to another female gossip we win her
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: like their girlfriend. Then here's the part where it got
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: all unbelievable. He goes shopping with his sister and mama
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: all the time, and they stayed out of town to
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: go shopping at an outlet mall. Who go with their
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: mama and their sister to a damn outlet mall at
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: the time? What black dude, you know, go out of
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: town with his mama and his sister go shopping at
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: an outlet mall? Who do that? And you know, once
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: again we're back to how small your town is. How
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: the hell you got to go out of town to
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: find a damn mall? That's really a small town. If
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: you got to go out of town to find an
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: outlet mall, do y'all stay in the village. Yeah, My
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: sister loves to come to me with a bunch of
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: rumors about my husband. She tries to stare up mess
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: and here's another telltale sign. But I'm not that concerned
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: about what my husband is doing. This is a woman
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: who's completely checked out. See is all these check out
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: red flags in this marriage? She suggests that I call
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: his mom and sister asked about the shopping trips. See
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: how long my husband's really with them? Or if he
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: ducks out to see a female. Here's the next line. Now,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: all these lines sum up the letter. I don't have
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: the energy for any of that. Red flag checked out?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: Next line? So what if he likes other women? What fla? What? What? Oh?
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: Wife says? So what if he likes other women? All
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: these sentences right here is to tell tale in this
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: whole letter. Next sentence? You ready for this. I'm cheating
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: because I wanted something different. What listen to the sentences?
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: All of these is back to back. You're ready for
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: the next sentence. I see why he might be interested
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: in other women? What any of these sentences by their self?
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: It's damaging evidence, but she put them all in the
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: same paragraph. Ain't back to back to back? You're ready
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: for the next one. This is the one that's absurdd.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: My husband and I have been best friends for twenty
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: five years, and that's what's most important to me. Are
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: you nuts? Y'all friend? Y'all best friends that don't give
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: a damn about each other? Am I wrong for not
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: caring what he's up to? Now? You ain't wrong with you?
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: You don't care? How you wrong for not kid? You
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: don't care? I told you at the top of this letter.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: This marriage is over. It's been over. You're not in
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: a marriage, y'all is some mess y'all sitting up somewhere,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: y'all roommates. He got his feet up on a coffee table,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: talk coffee table, talking to other girl. You in the house,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: ain't no consequence, Ain't nobody busting, no ass, trail over
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: nobody head you know, or nobody at all. Y'all got
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: all the windows in the house. Yeah, I can drive off.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Ain't none of his times flat, Ain't no sugar, any
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: gas thing? Post your comments on today. Well when you
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: need I'm right here. That's right. You're listening to show
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: all right, coming up at the top of the hour.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: It's Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve, please introduce
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: our girl from the Talk Girl, the Talk Star. Undo.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. Now that's an introduction, Steve Hobby. That's
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: why we are best friends. In my mind for real,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: were tight. We brothers were to gather. Okay, listen, Steve
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: so clarose, Well, you know me and Steve. You know
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: we we we're brothers. I mean we're sisters and brothers,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: but we just like that. We don't like that short describe.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: Stop trying to get in the middle of my relationship
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: with Steve, Steve, since you're my best friend in my mind, right,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: I need love advice by me and Junior, so we
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: keep firing going at Junior. Hello Junior, Okay, there it
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: is right there. Okay, now to keep our relationships strong, hot, passionate.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: What advice would you give me to keep my relationship
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: with Junior strong, hot, and passionate? What avice think? A
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: lot of things that you are when you come on
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: the show, shrill? I think you know, like you and
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: I are friends. We've been friends for a long time,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: so you don't have to say your best friend. In
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: my mind, I'm not your best friend, but we are friends.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm pretty sure in my mind you are
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: my best friend. Well I know, but you know you
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: can't call me with just anything. You know, ain'tthing to
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: talk about all that. So, you know, best friends talk
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: about anything. You can call me if you got a
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: real problem. But if you got a little problem, I
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: probably you know I ain't gonna answer. But you know
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: we are friends because we've been together for a long time. Yeah,
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: the relationship between you and Junior, I think I'm gonna
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: have to intervene here and do some counseling. I'm not
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: sure if the two of you are on the same
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: page at all. You're incompatible. Don't know. I didn't know. Hey, hey, wait,
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: they ain't not see right there? Tommy command and got
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: in here and made the ultimate statement, y'all ready you
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: are not ready to love between the two of y'all
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: slash age difference, slash direction. I know Junior is too
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: young for me. I know that it takes a lot
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: of vinaments, it takes a lot of exercise. I've been
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: eating through some vessels and nutrients and things because he's very,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: very young for me. You know, cereal, I have over
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: here in the house right down, because he's very young
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: and the sex is amazing. I will tell you that
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: he didn't knock my wig out about three full times,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: and I had an anchor down like RuPaul drag Race.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: I had an anchor down stair. Knock that out. Share
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: we gotta go for real. Coming up to the top
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: of the hour, Carla's reality update. Thank you, Cheryl, Bye bye.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: Tommy introduced her. She's here. I got it, I got it,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: watched me work and Shirley, I don't need no help.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: I'm just letting me know that early. Okay, ladies and gentlemen,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: getting ready, buckle up and hold on tight. She is here,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: Carla Farrell with what reality update coming in? Hot. I
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: didn't need no help. Go ahead, Carla, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: She took her from your nephew. She took her right back,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: right back. Thank you, Shirley, thank you. Here we go,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: We're Housewives of Atlanta. I just want to start off
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: and say that some of the cast members from the
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: past and present season paid their respects at the Celebration
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: of Life ceremony for Greg Leeks and Ninie thanked everyone
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: for their love and support, including you know, the fans
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: and the viewers. So Nini posted pictures from the repass
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: or the Celebration of Life ceremony. So there you go,
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac. So Candice, she went too far
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: where she blamed Ashley for all the drama that popped
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: off on the trip to Williamsburg, Virginia between Wendy and
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: Giselle because she went too far, and then she kind
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: of told Wendy with the rumors about Eddie and the cheating.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: So we all know about this from that long trip. Anyway,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: they had a dinner and Candice just had it with Ashley,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: so she just popped off at the dinner, called her
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: forehead wide body just fehead Ashley on the cool, got
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: a big old forehead on the table. Oh my gosh,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: it's all all forehead. Yes, yes, yes, yes. But Kansas
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: is getting a little backlash on social media because they said,
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: you know, Ashley is saying that she body shamed her,
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: and you know she did. She went too far with
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: that one beforehead you was on it. You was right, right, Junior, Yes,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: just hollering. All right. So Robin and Giselle they have
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: a podcast and Robin said that she was not surprised
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: to see that Giselle and Reverend Jamal Bryant are not together,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: and that she said she never saw that, she never
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: saw them together and they just really have too much
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: drama from their past. So it was kind of you know, Robin,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: you think Robin always, you know, that's her girl. But
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: when she said that, I was like, all right there, Robin.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: So there you go with that. Real Housewives of Potomac.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: All right, let's move on to I am ready, Shirley.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: I am counting down for the Real Housewives of Salt
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: Lake City. I cannot wait, but listen to this, Tommy,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: listen to this. They are going to start this season off.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: This is just season two with your girl gen. While
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: they were taping, she gets a phone call from her
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: husband telling her that the Feds are about to come
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: to the set and arrest her. Yes, sir, yes, sir,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: And they do just that. The Fens show up. Yes
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: a girl. Yes. While they are taping the show, they
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: are charging her with She targeted elderly victims throughout the
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: US and generated they call them lead lists, so they
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: were sold to other participants. So it's basically a federal
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: telemarketing fraud case. And so we will see what happens
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: this season on the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: But I like on one part of the promo, I
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: guess Jim was arguing with one of the housewives and
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: she said, fraud and I love this housewife she married us.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: She was like, fraud. I know you ain't calling That's
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: what they ain't. That looks like, I know you're not
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: calling nobody or fraud and quickly get ready. Thirtieth season
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars. Kenya Moore from the Real Housewives
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: of Alanta. Yes, we'll be on. Yeah, your your boot
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: will be on their Junior. Also check this out Becky
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: from Full House her daughter college admission scandal. Like uess,
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: she gets to be on Dancing with the Stars. So
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: we'll be watching hit me up. That looks by Carla
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: And what's you guys, Shirley? All right, thank you. More
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. A twenty
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: the Stave Morning Show. All right, did you guys see
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: the viral video of this sixty one year old man.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: He was on an American Airlines flight to LA from LA,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: I should say, to Salt Lake City. He was growling
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: like a dog. Yeah yeah. He was pulling his mask
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: off and on his face, on and off his face.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: He also gave flight attendants to the middle finger. He
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: cursed at them and in addition to screaming God, bless America.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: The man was arrested and American Airlines thank the flight
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: attendants and the other passengers for being so professional. Thank God.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: So here's the question. I know you want to jump
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: in here, Tommy junior, what would you have done. If
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: you were on this flight, you fly a lot. What
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: passenger on here? Yeah, if you were on the flight,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: well carry Ever, since I saw the lads that jumped off,
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: I care duct tape now, so I am prepared for
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: my flight. I will duct tape your butt to that
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: seat now, and I know how to do it. And
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: I duct tape that mask on his face too. We
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: can fly on up out here. Yeah. Absolutely, I'm with
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: timmy out because what I do is I put mad
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: dogs down. That's what I did. You want to put
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: like you crat your asses on the ground down? Boy,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: I got him. I'll go ahead and fight a plane.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: I got him. I'm saying, okay, how do we go?
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: All right? Thanks guys, I feel safer. Now. More of
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're listening Steve
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now for
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. But before
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: we get into that, um, Junior, can you give your
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: Instagram your social media information? Please? At Junior shms j
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: u n hms man. No, man, my uncle he told
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: me to go. He always told man, go out to
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: leave your best like you work hard, go enjoy it.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: Then didn't he do? See me? He enjoyed my life.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: I'm on the damn backboard and you're depressed, and I'll depressed.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: But I thought you was at your honest house. I
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: didn't know none of that was true tops or some trees.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: I don't look like you forgot right. All right, here
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: we go CEO. This one is from Keyana and Hampton, Virginia.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: Keana writes time in graduate school and for the past year,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: I've been having sex with an underclassman. I'm twenty six
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: and he's nineteen. He wants to be my boyfriend and
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: said he's going to marry me one day. He's exactly
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: the type of man I want to marry. But I
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: can't get past the age difference. I feel like I'm
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: robbing the cradle. Is age that big of a deal
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: when you think you love someone, please help. If it's
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: a deal, if you want it to be a deal,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: it's also a deal if you make it a deal.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: This is for sure. If he stays alive, he won't
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: always be nineteen. That's what sean. And now with that
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: being said, yeah you, yeah, you Rob Craig. He's down
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: in nineteen. He's no freshman everything. You put some of
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: that senior citizen thing on him, and he well, you know,
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: to him, you know, that's an old woman. Now he's
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: flunking out of school because he either he didn't got
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: it or ain't getting in no modi. But either way,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: he's flunking out of school. So you know, no, I
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: don't think you have to be worried about that. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if he's a good guy, he's a good guy, you know,
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  Speaker 1: go forward. But when you take him to your daddy, though,
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  Speaker 1: he's gonna be a little difficult. All Right, We're moving
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  Speaker 1: on Michelle and Tampa. Says. My fifty nine year old
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  Speaker 1: mother recently got a citation for indecent exposure because she
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  Speaker 1: was trying to have sex in her car. She told
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  Speaker 1: me that it's my fault she was in the car
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  Speaker 1: having sex because she has no privacy at home. I
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  Speaker 1: moved in with her during the pandemic after I lost
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  Speaker 1: my job. Her apartment is small and the walls are thin,
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  Speaker 1: so I suggested that she go have sex at her
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  Speaker 1: sorry boyfriend's house next time. She cursed me out and
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  Speaker 1: told me to be out of her house by next month.
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  Speaker 1: How can I fix this mess? What? Well? First of all,
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  Speaker 1: you told your mother to go have sex at her
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  Speaker 1: sorry boyfriend's house. When you in her house, you stoop?
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  Speaker 1: All right, John, When we come back, last break of
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  Speaker 1: the day and Steve's closing remarks, you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: miss them. We'll be back at forty nine after you're listening.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Here we are our last break of the
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  Speaker 1: day and Steve, yeah, you can take it away. Here
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  Speaker 1: it is. You know, I was thinking something that's helped
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  Speaker 1: me in my lifetime, and it was a difficult lesson
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  Speaker 1: to learn for me, but I finally got it together
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  Speaker 1: years ago, but it took me some time. I must
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  Speaker 1: admit I spent all of my twenties and thirties not
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  Speaker 1: understanding this, and even a little bit now, just mostly
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  Speaker 1: twenties and thirties. So I'm gonna share it with you,
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  Speaker 1: and I want you to understand that I'm saying. I'm
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  Speaker 1: saying all this in love. You can't share everything with everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You know that that that really seems so simple. But
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many times you inadvertly damage yourself,
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  Speaker 1: your opportunity, and your journey by not understanding this real
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  Speaker 1: simple rule, you cannot You cannot share everything with everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You can't. You can't share your visions with everybody because
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  Speaker 1: they don't really care. Then everybody's not genuinely interested in
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: your career, goals, your visions, your hopes for tomorrow. A
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  Speaker 1: lot of people you share stuff with don't even understand
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  Speaker 1: the thing that you're telling this in your imagination. They
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  Speaker 1: don't even get it. And I understand they don't get
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  Speaker 1: what's in your imagination because it's something they could never
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  Speaker 1: ever possibly imagine. And basically, the number one reason you
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  Speaker 1: can't share everything with everybody is just real simple. Most
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  Speaker 1: people don't care, you know that. Just sit up and
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  Speaker 1: listen to you and look just as concerned as soon
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  Speaker 1: as you walk away. Don't give you the idea, the
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  Speaker 1: thought you had another another moment of consideration. They don't care.
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  Speaker 1: But do you understand something they don't have to. It's
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  Speaker 1: perfectly okay that they don't see your vision, share your
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  Speaker 1: vision that it's okay that they're not genuinely interested. It's
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  Speaker 1: okay that they don't understand what's coming out of your imagination.
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  Speaker 1: It's perfectly fine that they don't care because there is
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  Speaker 1: really no one else more critical to your journey or
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  Speaker 1: your success than God. Nobody. There is no one living
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  Speaker 1: that's more critical to your journey or your success than God. Period. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you're blessed and you got a supportive spouse Jack Pott,
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  Speaker 1: that's bonus. Or you found someone in your life that
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: you'll ride or die, that's bonus. Or you got one
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  Speaker 1: of your friends that's that's what you through thick and thin,
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: and it's hard to find them, but they exist, then
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  Speaker 1: that's a bonus. The rest of the people really listen
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  Speaker 1: to me, they don't matter. They don't matter because they
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: don't matter. It doesn't matter what they think, say, feel,
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  Speaker 1: or give you back because it's irrelevant, non important, significant
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  Speaker 1: to your journey or your success. You've got to get
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  Speaker 1: this through your head because I spent too much time
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  Speaker 1: sharing everything with everybody, thinking I was sharing it in
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  Speaker 1: hopes that they might have a piece of information from me.
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  Speaker 1: The majority of people I shared it with didn't have
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  Speaker 1: nothing from me. I wasted time sitting up there, and
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  Speaker 1: then I'll tell you something else that happened. You can
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  Speaker 1: tell your big dreams to small minded people if you
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  Speaker 1: want to. And now you've given one of the devil's
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  Speaker 1: imps the information that he needs to provide obstruction. That's
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  Speaker 1: a sad thing, man, But I want you all to
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  Speaker 1: be aware because sometimes we seek the wrong people's approval
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  Speaker 1: and you end up wasting time. Why does it matter
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  Speaker 1: matter to you what they think of you when they
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  Speaker 1: don't even care about you? What does it matter what
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 1: they think of you and they don't even know you?
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  Speaker 1: Do you know? Some people post stuff on social media
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: and be just as happy what they picture, their little caption,
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  Speaker 1: and you put it online and you're just saying, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm having a great day, or man, I just want
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  Speaker 1: to show y'all something that God has blessed me to
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  Speaker 1: share with you all. And if you mess around and
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  Speaker 1: read your comments, here comes somebody on your comment page
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  Speaker 1: that then took your perfectly well intentioned caption and your
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: picture that you meant no harm to anybody post it,
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: and here they come with a bunch of negativity. And
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, your day is off course
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: because somebody says something about you that don't even know you.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: People's opinion of you is none of your business, nor
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: should you make it yours. That negative comment that they
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: put on your timeline in your comments section. If you
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: had never read that, do you know you would have
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: went right on about your married day? Do you know
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: that that blessing you posted would have still been your blessing?
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  Speaker 1: Do you know the intent that you posted it with
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: all good will to share something with somebody, to put
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: a positive spin on their day. It would have still
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: been there. But oh no, no, no no, you allowed
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: somebody to matter who don't even matter. Stop telling everybody
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  Speaker 1: everything because everybody don't care. Get that through your head.
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