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877-29-STEVE, The DNC, Omarion Celibacy, Father @ 50 and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know y'all at all at all, So don't
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  Speaker 1: given a.
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  Speaker 3: Black a million bus busy.
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  Speaker 1: Listening too.
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  Speaker 4: I don't.
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  Speaker 5: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you know you love you.
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  Speaker 6: You.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta turn.
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  Speaker 7: To turn the mouth the turn you probably got to
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  Speaker 7: turn mouth to turn out, turn the way up.
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  Speaker 2: Come come on, you think.
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  Speaker 8: I sure will come on to everybody you are listening
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  Speaker 8: to the voice, Come on, dig me now, one and only.
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  Speaker 8: Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man, got a radio show. Do
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  Speaker 8: you understand that? I'm telling you? God been big in
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  Speaker 8: my life. God, God is a gentleman.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 8: I want to I want to point that out to you.
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  Speaker 8: God is an absolute gentleman. He will not come in
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  Speaker 8: unless he's invited. He don't just barge into your life.
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  Speaker 8: He gives us the power of choice.
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  Speaker 6: You know.
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  Speaker 2: If you say you got it, I don't need you.
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  Speaker 2: He lets you have it. If you say I need you,
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  Speaker 2: come see about me. He right there. It's just a
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  Speaker 2: real simple thing, man.
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  Speaker 8: So always say to people this, if you've gotten yourself
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  Speaker 8: into something, and please know I have I.
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  Speaker 2: Man see that.
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  Speaker 8: That's why I'm so adamant about it. Because I've gotten
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  Speaker 8: myself in some circumstances and positions in my life.
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  Speaker 2: But I've been, I've been.
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  Speaker 8: I've had some low moments, man, I've had some moments
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  Speaker 8: where I did not know what to do. I didn't
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  Speaker 8: know what was next, I didn't know how to go
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  Speaker 8: about it. I didn't have no more ideas. I was stuck.
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  Speaker 8: I thought a couple of times, well might not make
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  Speaker 8: it past this one. But then if I don't make
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  Speaker 8: it past it, what's gonna happen? And then I held
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  Speaker 8: on to this little thing that my mother kept talking
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  Speaker 8: to me about. She said, sometimes some when you ain't
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  Speaker 8: got nothing else in you, just hope, she said, just
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  Speaker 8: hope it'll be all right, you know. And what I've
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  Speaker 8: learned in my life is that hope is the beginning
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  Speaker 8: of faith. Hope is just is there a possibility out
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  Speaker 8: there for me? I show hope something happened. See hope
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  Speaker 8: is okay, man, Because like I say, for me, the
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  Speaker 8: way I've lived my life, hope was the beginning of faith.
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  Speaker 2: It was just the idea.
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  Speaker 8: It's just the thought that something could change for me,
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  Speaker 8: that something could be a little bit different from me,
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  Speaker 8: that maybe, man, just maybe for some reason. I could
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  Speaker 8: be saved, I could be rescued, things could turn around,
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  Speaker 8: it could hit any other direction. Maybe I could quit
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  Speaker 8: messing up. Maybe somebody will forgive me, Maybe somebody will
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  Speaker 8: just say all right. I don't know, but I can't
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  Speaker 8: count the times I've been in that position. But then
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  Speaker 8: once I hope a little bit, and then I remember.
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  Speaker 8: Also my mother, because she was a Sunday school teacher,
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  Speaker 8: she taught me the most valuable lesson I've ever learned
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  Speaker 8: in my life. Nothing has been greater in my life
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  Speaker 8: than my faith. She taught me to pray. Mama used
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  Speaker 8: to say, when it get real, dog for your son,
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  Speaker 8: prayer changes things. She said, When you seem like you
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  Speaker 8: lost and you can't find your way, stop and pray,
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  Speaker 8: she said, because prayer change is things. You know, when
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  Speaker 8: you get a point in your life when you've done
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  Speaker 8: all you can do and you can't do no more
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  Speaker 8: and you just don't know what to do next, she said, stop, son,
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  Speaker 8: pray and combine that prayer with that hope that you got.
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  Speaker 8: She said, because that hope is the beginning of faith.
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  Speaker 2: She said.
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  Speaker 8: If you pray just hoping, she said, to God, come
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  Speaker 8: through for you. That'll give you confidence that he can
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  Speaker 8: do it again. And then after a while, you quit hoping,
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  Speaker 8: she saying, you start believing, she said, And that's when
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  Speaker 8: you're on to something. If you can turn that hope
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  Speaker 8: into belief, that hope into Faith's that's the ability to
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  Speaker 8: believe in something that you can't see.
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  Speaker 2: But the key though, the faith is you're believing in
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  Speaker 2: something that you can't see. See. Hoping a little bit
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  Speaker 2: different from me now, I'm pretty sure.
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  Speaker 8: Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot of people
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  Speaker 8: who can explain this thing a lot better than I
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  Speaker 8: can to you, hope is just kind of I don't
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  Speaker 8: know how to I don't know how to say it,
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  Speaker 8: but I'm just telling you, hope is you're just hoping
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  Speaker 8: it work.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 2: You just have a thought in your mind that you know, man.
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  Speaker 8: Whoever you are, or whoever you are, whatever you are,
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  Speaker 8: to me, God, I show hope something change.
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  Speaker 2: Hope helps. Man. If you ain't strong enough to have faith,
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  Speaker 2: have hope.
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  Speaker 8: Hope, and then if you pray with some hope and
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  Speaker 8: God answers your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence,
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  Speaker 8: and after a while that confidence becomes faith. Now the
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  Speaker 8: ain't just hoping, but I'm believing. I'm believing in something
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  Speaker 8: that I cannot see. Faith has been the key to
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  Speaker 8: my entire existence, even when I didn't have any It
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  Speaker 8: was faith, as I look back on it, that has
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  Speaker 8: gotten me here. And not just faith, but my faith. See,
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  Speaker 8: you will only get to where you're going in your
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  Speaker 8: life based on your faith.
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  Speaker 2: See. A lot of people get the word faith confused,
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  Speaker 2: like what's your faith?
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  Speaker 8: And then they start going down this whole list of
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  Speaker 8: all these different religions out here.
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  Speaker 2: But really an essence, man, when.
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  Speaker 8: I talk to people about faith, I'm talking to you
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  Speaker 8: about your your belief.
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  Speaker 2: How much do you believe in the unseen? See? Faith
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  Speaker 2: is the core of all that is happening to me today.
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  Speaker 8: It is the faith that I have in my relationship
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  Speaker 8: with God that enables me to just oftentimes if I
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  Speaker 8: stay on the right course and believe a certain way
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  Speaker 8: and act a certain way, his blessings just poor.
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  Speaker 2: They just come.
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  Speaker 8: And it comes in a lot of little ways too.
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  Speaker 8: I've started to notice. See, it ain't just a lot
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  Speaker 8: of people think blessings is money, Nah, man, that ain't it.
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  Speaker 8: It's coverage. It's every time my plane lands safe, It's
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  Speaker 8: every time they predict bad weather and I get up
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  Speaker 8: in the sky and it don't be no bad weather.
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  Speaker 2: You know this is this is favor. These are blessings
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  Speaker 2: that get poured out to me.
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  Speaker 8: Somebody call me and offer me something, not money, but
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  Speaker 8: an opportunity.
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  Speaker 2: See, blessings come a lot of ways.
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  Speaker 8: But once you tie in to God, Once you tie
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  Speaker 8: in and you start doing the best you can do,
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  Speaker 8: and you start asking for Him to make you a
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  Speaker 8: better person, to help shape and mold you into the
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  Speaker 8: kind of man or person that he wants you to be.
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  Speaker 8: You be amazed what God can do with you. Man,
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  Speaker 8: if you just invite me in and allow him to
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  Speaker 8: be a part of your life. I mean, what you
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  Speaker 8: got to lose out there? Come on, why would you
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  Speaker 8: not change? Why would you not allow God to be
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  Speaker 8: a part of your life? God got some big plans
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  Speaker 8: for you. If he didn't, you wouldn't keep waking up
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  Speaker 8: show Ladies and gentlemen, The time is here, another day,
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  Speaker 8: another opportunity. I can't tell you how glad I am
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  Speaker 8: about it. Man, set up this morning, told God how
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  Speaker 8: grateful I was? You not really want to thank God
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  Speaker 8: for this peace of mind that I have?
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  Speaker 2: Of late?
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  Speaker 8: I've just gotten into a just a real realm of peace.
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  Speaker 8: You know, I don't I don't worry about tomorrow. I
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  Speaker 8: stopped doing that I could. Y'all really don't know how
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  Speaker 8: I feel about my past. I really have left it go.
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  Speaker 8: And uh, why the thing like you were about to say,
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  Speaker 8: I give lixt B because I.
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  Speaker 9: Be wanting to.
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  Speaker 8: Don't fit into praise and worship, you know that don't
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  Speaker 8: tie in together. I had to catch myself sometimes because
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  Speaker 8: I'll be combined the holy in the hood and it's
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  Speaker 8: always right there next to each other because oh, both
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  Speaker 8: of them start.
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  Speaker 2: With h O, and so I get on you know,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and so that's all it is. Beyone.
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  Speaker 8: I'm grateful man, Ladies, gentlemen, Steve A Morning Show, Shelly Strawberry,
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  Speaker 8: Colin Frail, Junior, Mississippi Monica, No Monica, and then Mississippi
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  Speaker 8: Junior ladies first and the legendary is nephew.
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  Speaker 2: Tell me junior. You're looking a little squinty eyed this.
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  Speaker 1: You must did you read my text?
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  Speaker 2: Did you see that?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 2: That's okay. You want to you you want to do
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  Speaker 2: that on that? No, no, do it on that. I
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  Speaker 2: just want to let you know, just just I will
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  Speaker 2: respond on the A if you won't.
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  Speaker 4: The air.
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  Speaker 8: No, No, I mean it wasn't nothing, he said in
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  Speaker 8: a text. I but I knew that was gonna lead
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  Speaker 8: into the destruction.
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  Speaker 2: No, I just got a question. What stow did you
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  Speaker 2: buy your peace of mind?
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  Speaker 6: That?
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  Speaker 2: Because I need to go visit that one today? Is
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  Speaker 2: it at a store? Junior? You're not gonna have peace
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  Speaker 2: of mind? Let's just come to I thought.
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  Speaker 8: Because you're not willing to listen to the rules of marriage.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why you keep trying to change them. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I just got married. You're not finna change this. You
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  Speaker 2: you in two years? What I just asked you? No, No,
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  Speaker 2: quit asking about peace of mind. You ain't finna get none. Well, Tommy,
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  Speaker 2: do you have I got?
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  Speaker 6: Wait? Tell me?
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  Speaker 10: You need to finding else to stay. Are already see this?
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  Speaker 10: I don't have time to play with this kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 10: You need to find somewhere to stay though. Start looking,
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  Speaker 10: Start looking for some apartment or something.
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  Speaker 2: Start looking.
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  Speaker 11: This.
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  Speaker 2: You have seen this movie before time. I haven't seen this.
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  Speaker 2: I've seen the outcome. I know how it go this one.
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  Speaker 10: You start looking for a nice little place that's gonna
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  Speaker 10: hand you together for another year. Man, get you start
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  Speaker 10: looking at your little couch or something, little futon or something.
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  Speaker 2: Get you get yourself together, man.
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  Speaker 12: Listen to them.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't gonna be alright.
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  Speaker 2: What can't be wrong? I told you, I told you,
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  Speaker 2: I asked you yesterday. Can it go right?
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  Speaker 5: This good?
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  Speaker 2: For this loan? Y'all said, yeah, just keep even kill
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  Speaker 2: I did, I'll even kill. That's going for hours. I mean, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's going on twenty four hours. I asked him. In
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  Speaker 2: twenty four hours.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, in the world. No, no, And it's just minimal stuff.
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  Speaker 2: It's minimal. Ain't nothing made minimal.
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  Speaker 10: I just know it's just you know, well, lead him,
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  Speaker 10: lead them minimal stuff alone while we were concerned.
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  Speaker 12: Go hard with the major stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Come he Kate, tell which one is? What y'all? Y'all instead, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: another kind of problem.
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  Speaker 7: We gotta go at thirty two minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 7: we'll hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back.
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  Speaker 7: Right after this you're listening morning show, It is time
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  Speaker 7: now for the nephew to run that prank back. Nephew,
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  Speaker 7: what you got for us?
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  Speaker 4: Huh? What you heard?
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  Speaker 6: What? What? What? What?
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  Speaker 2: Come on on this great getting up on and we
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  Speaker 2: running that prank back, Shirley. That's right.
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  Speaker 10: Here is doctor Petrick. I need some help, Doctor Patrick.
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  Speaker 10: I need some help, cat Dog.
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  Speaker 2: If you would.
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  Speaker 5: Hello, I'm trying to reach doctor Petrie. Please.
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  Speaker 13: This is doctor Petrie, Doctor Petrick.
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  Speaker 5: My name is Jared Jared, and I was hoping you
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  Speaker 5: could help me out. Would have would with a problem
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  Speaker 5: that I have?
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  Speaker 13: Okay, hello Jared, I would love to help you out
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  Speaker 13: with a problem. Unfortunately, the doctor Petri right, I am,
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  Speaker 13: but this is my personal number? How did you get
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  Speaker 13: this number?
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  Speaker 5: If somebody gave me this number so I could call
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  Speaker 5: you and and and and try to get some counseling
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  Speaker 5: from you, because I gotta I mean, I'm I'm, I'm
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  Speaker 5: I'm I'm really in a bad situation right now.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, I can I can recognize that that you're in
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  Speaker 13: a bad situation. But how did you get my number?
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  Speaker 13: This is my personal line? Who gave you my number?
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  Speaker 5: Are you?
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  Speaker 6: You?
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  Speaker 5: You the doctor? You the counselor to help people with
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  Speaker 5: with with with with situations and problems and stuff, right, yes,
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  Speaker 5: I am?
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  Speaker 13: What can I do for you? Jared?
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  Speaker 6: Uh?
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  Speaker 5: I got a problem that just seemed like I'm just
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  Speaker 5: you know, I've been married to my wife for six years.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, wait, wait, wait, Jared, Now this what you're what
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  Speaker 13: you're about to get into. You're about to you want
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  Speaker 13: to go into a counseling session, and so in order
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  Speaker 13: to do that, I do that through making an appointment.
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  Speaker 5: I understand all of that, but you you you don't
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  Speaker 5: understand I'm trying to. What I'm trying to tell you
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  Speaker 5: is that I got to situate and I know it's
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  Speaker 5: gonna happen again the night because it's been having it
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  Speaker 5: all the time. I'm just I just need some if
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  Speaker 5: you could just give me a little bit of help,
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  Speaker 5: and then I'll come in next week. But I mean,
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  Speaker 5: I just need you to tell me how to handle
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  Speaker 5: my problem and then I'll come in next week. I
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  Speaker 5: just I just I need this bad.
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  Speaker 13: Right now, Jarrett, Jared, Jared, I need you to focus. Okay.
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  Speaker 13: I don't do this over the phone, however, it sounds
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  Speaker 13: to me like I need you.
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  Speaker 5: Can you can you be that for me? Just for
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  Speaker 5: who I'm here right now, for calling you and disrupting
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  Speaker 5: your weekend, But can you help me out?
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  Speaker 13: I don't calling that. I don't know what's going on.
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  Speaker 5: Hello him back Hello, I'm here, Jared here, doctor Patrick.
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  Speaker 13: I'm here. Tell me, tell me what's going on. Jared.
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  Speaker 13: I'm here to listen to you.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, listen. I've been I've been married to my wife
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  Speaker 5: for like six years now, and and I don't know
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  Speaker 5: what it is. But whenever, whenever we intimate, you know,
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  Speaker 5: I get scared. And I'm going to the closet and
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  Speaker 5: I got a TV in there and I watched old
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  Speaker 5: TV shows because I'm scared. I'm scared of the intimacy
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  Speaker 5: between me and her.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, Jared, this this sounds like a particular case, and
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  Speaker 13: it's different from anything that I've experienced thus far. And
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  Speaker 13: I want to make sure that I address your.
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  Speaker 5: Mind up in the big league. Get not turn it
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  Speaker 5: back lonely. We live you at need baby. There ain't
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  Speaker 5: nothing wrong with that because we're moving on now.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, Jared. Focus, You called me and you need.
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  Speaker 5: I I'll be going. I'll be going through it to
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  Speaker 5: be part of me.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, Jared. What I need to do is I need
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  Speaker 13: to make sure.
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  Speaker 5: Three o'clock, four o'clock Rock, five, six, seven o'clock, eight
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  Speaker 5: o'clock Rock, eleven o'clock Rock. We're going to rock, rock
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  Speaker 5: the clock tonight when the cock right through wind, the
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  Speaker 5: bands all download, cut.
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  Speaker 13: Breeze, breathe. Oh how did you get my number? How
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  Speaker 13: did you get my personal number?
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  Speaker 5: They gave me your number and said you you would
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  Speaker 5: be the one that would that would that would that
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  Speaker 5: would that would take care of me.
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  Speaker 13: I'm here, okay, let's take a differ.
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  Speaker 5: And you knew where you were then girls were girls
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  Speaker 5: and men women wishing we could use a man like
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  Speaker 5: everybody Hugh. But right again, we're just up together.
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  Speaker 13: I want to help you. I want to help you,
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  Speaker 13: and I want to help your situation. I want to
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  Speaker 13: help you with your wife. But you you called me,
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  Speaker 13: and if you look, you for a lifeline for an anchor.
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  Speaker 13: I'm trying to be that.
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  Speaker 5: I mean to help me. I knew he did help
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  Speaker 5: me with my life, because see, I know my wife
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  Speaker 5: is gonna leave me if I know quit doing this.
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  Speaker 13: There's this story of a lovely lady Jaredirl. Jared, My
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  Speaker 13: technique is a little bit different and maybe a little unorthodox.
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  Speaker 5: If not I gotta feel less crul, the mintal would
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  Speaker 5: be lost, the mood would be lost, the minery.
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  Speaker 13: Look here, look here, I.
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  Speaker 5: Jared, I need you to help me.
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  Speaker 13: I need to get you into my office. I need
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  Speaker 13: to schedule an appointment with you. You need to erase
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  Speaker 13: my personal number from yourself.
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  Speaker 5: Because everybody knows your name.
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  Speaker 1: Jared.
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  Speaker 13: Ocus. Focus, Focus, Jared Focus. There's a lot more going
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  Speaker 13: on here for one making I got of fun now with.
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  Speaker 5: Me and all the game learning from each other while
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  Speaker 5: we do our.
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  Speaker 13: Say a good time, Jared, My patience is said up.
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  Speaker 13: I have no more patience with you now. I need
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  Speaker 13: you to fakefuckers and get it together. Why did you
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  Speaker 13: call me? Why did you? How did you get my number?
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  Speaker 5: You hollering at me? Why you supposed to be a doctor.
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  Speaker 5: You're supposed to be a doctor.
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  Speaker 14: I am a doctor.
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  Speaker 13: Don't question my credentials. Young man, you called me. I
• 19:26
  Speaker 13: want to help you, but this has gone on too far.
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: This is Tommy gave me your number to Steve. You know,
• 19:35
  Speaker 5: don't you? Now?
• 19:36
  Speaker 13: Look, I want to help you, but you are not
• 19:39
  Speaker 13: allowing me to do so. So who is Tommy? Who
• 19:42
  Speaker 13: is Stephen? And how did you get my number?
• 19:45
  Speaker 5: On the radio?
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: On the.
• 19:49
  Speaker 13: Steven on the radio.
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: As in.
• 19:55
  Speaker 13: The radio, as in Tommy, Matthew, Tommy, you know you
• 20:06
  Speaker 13: didn't go Oh, my.
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: God, do you have a colleague named Charles?
• 20:13
  Speaker 13: You know what I'm gonna ki ooh, look that I
• 20:16
  Speaker 13: can't believe Charlie did this to me?
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: My god, do you know what time of war US?
• 20:22
  Speaker 13: You got a warn You got me flustered.
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: I was recording you. You know that. I gotta ask
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: you something though. What is the baddest and I mean
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: the baddest radio show in the land.
• 20:35
  Speaker 13: That's Steve have been learning?
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: Baby?
• 20:39
  Speaker 13: My goodness, Wow, huh what what?
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Nobody else got stupid old lock like this.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: I don't know nobody got it locked down me.
• 20:50
  Speaker 12: You're the king there you go, all right, nephew, thank you.
• 20:55
  Speaker 7: Coming up next to this, ask the CLO our chief
• 20:58
  Speaker 7: Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.
• 21:03
  Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour.
• 21:04
  Speaker 7: In entertainment News, Carla has Today's music News plus R
• 21:09
  Speaker 7: and B. Singer Omarian opens up about his celibacy journey,
• 21:13
  Speaker 7: and Beyonce launches a whiskey line with Moay Hennessy. And
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: we'll talk about all of these stories at the top
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  Speaker 7: of the hour, but right now it is time to
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  Speaker 7: ask the CLO. This is from Shannon and Athens. Shannon says,
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  Speaker 7: I'm so torn about breaking up with my man. I
• 21:30
  Speaker 7: know I shouldn't leave him when he's down, but he's
• 21:33
  Speaker 7: broke and I don't do broke. He made a bad
• 21:37
  Speaker 7: investment and lost his savings after he said himself that
• 21:40
  Speaker 7: it looked shady. Now he's depressed and leaning heavily on me.
• 21:44
  Speaker 7: I don't think we should get married. Do you agree?
• 21:47
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I agree one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 8: You already fitting to leave and you ain't married, so
• 21:54
  Speaker 8: why would you get married and you trying to leave
• 21:57
  Speaker 8: before you married?
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: You don't even understand the wedding vows.
• 22:03
  Speaker 8: You've already you y'all in violation, you know, for richer
• 22:07
  Speaker 8: off of poor. You are just said you don't do broke.
• 22:12
  Speaker 8: So now your man can't ever fall on hard time,
• 22:15
  Speaker 8: which is why there are some women like you, sister,
• 22:19
  Speaker 8: who wrote this letter, who gonna be by yourself forever.
• 22:23
  Speaker 8: You don't want to stand by a man that's on
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: the come up and the hustle.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Everybody wants a rich.
• 22:31
  Speaker 8: Man, Well get in line, because that line is long,
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  Speaker 8: Or should you find a good man that has come
• 22:40
  Speaker 8: up potential? Get in there and support and build something together.
• 22:43
  Speaker 8: But naw, you don't want to do that because you
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: don't do broke. Well, I'm sorry, most men, we don't
• 22:51
  Speaker 8: do shady, we don't do disloyalty. We don't do one
• 22:56
  Speaker 8: fit in, one foot out. So go on about your business.
• 22:59
  Speaker 8: Leave this man alone, for you wreck his life because
• 23:03
  Speaker 8: that you don't have the qualities. I'm just being real.
• 23:07
  Speaker 8: You don't have the quality. Just be nobody wife. You
• 23:10
  Speaker 8: don't because if you ain't gonna stand by your man
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  Speaker 8: through thick or thin, because when you get married, it's
• 23:16
  Speaker 8: gonna be thick and thin. This ain't just finna be thick.
• 23:22
  Speaker 8: You don't get married and it just be thick. Dog,
• 23:26
  Speaker 8: you don't get married and it all go good?
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: What true?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Every marriage hit them financial pockets and stuff. You don't.
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: You don't do that.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: So just go on bout your business.
• 23:40
  Speaker 8: Need that man alone because you don't have qualities to
• 23:46
  Speaker 8: be in a committed relationship with no man.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: You really don't. You really really don't.
• 23:52
  Speaker 12: Okay, Moving on to Carlos in Houston.
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  Speaker 7: Carlos says, I have an old school car and I
• 23:57
  Speaker 7: let my son take it on campus to stunt. He
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  Speaker 7: brought it back with a stain on the front seat
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  Speaker 7: and the floor mat I made him give me two
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  Speaker 7: hundred dollars to get it cleaned, and my wife got
• 24:06
  Speaker 7: mad when I took his money.
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  Speaker 1: Did I do the right thing?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, because it's called responsibility. Things happened, you know, when
• 24:16
  Speaker 8: you damage stuff, somebody got to get it fixed. See
• 24:19
  Speaker 8: that you went up there to stunt. Now you're stunting.
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: You nestain the man's car. It's two hundred dollars. You
• 24:26
  Speaker 8: took his money.
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  Speaker 2: He took your car. See, and you don't get to
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: drive it no more. You don't get to drive it
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: no more. That's it. But ladies, But ladies. I'm not
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: coming down on ladies today. But let me say so.
• 24:40
  Speaker 8: If you got a man that you married, you obviously
• 24:43
  Speaker 8: married him because you like some qualities about him. If
• 24:46
  Speaker 8: he's trying to impart these qualities on y'all's boy, please
• 24:50
  Speaker 8: allow him to do so. Because I have news for you.
• 24:55
  Speaker 8: You have no idea how to turn this boy into
• 24:58
  Speaker 8: a man. Calls you ain't a man. I have no
• 25:04
  Speaker 8: idea how to turn a little girl into a woman
• 25:08
  Speaker 8: because I have no idea. So now that there is
• 25:14
  Speaker 8: a difference between the two, let the man do his
• 25:17
  Speaker 8: job in raising a responsible, accountable young man.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: It get out the way. He shouldn't have took his money.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: He took his daddy car.
• 25:27
  Speaker 12: And it teaches him a lesson.
• 25:29
  Speaker 7: Yeah, responsibility, all right, Okay, Moving on to and New Rochelle,
• 25:39
  Speaker 7: Delenda writes, I married a man. I met a married
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: man on social media and he DMed me to see
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: if my husband and I were into swinging my husband's down.
• 25:50
  Speaker 7: But I'm skeptical because I don't really know them. Should
• 25:52
  Speaker 7: we meet them out first to see if they're a
• 25:55
  Speaker 7: cool couple?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Over that? Should it start over some starting?
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: You miss that?
• 26:01
  Speaker 7: Okay, one more time? DeLanda and New Rochelle says, I
• 26:06
  Speaker 7: met him. I met a married man on social media
• 26:09
  Speaker 7: and he DMed me to see if my husband and
• 26:12
  Speaker 7: I were into swinging my husband's down.
• 26:15
  Speaker 12: But I'm skeptical because I don't really know them. Should
• 26:18
  Speaker 12: we meet them out first to see if they're a
• 26:21
  Speaker 12: cool couple?
• 26:23
  Speaker 8: Oh no, no, no, don't go out and meet them first.
• 26:25
  Speaker 8: Just go to the swinging spot immediately. It's just go
• 26:29
  Speaker 8: on in cold Turkey. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, he ain't
• 26:34
  Speaker 8: no need of meeting them, ain't no need of meeting them.
• 26:37
  Speaker 8: Go down there, cold Turkey, go to Don't Sight Unseen.
• 26:41
  Speaker 8: They got TV shows on nothing. Now love at first sight?
• 26:44
  Speaker 8: You know blind, love is blind? You know they got
• 26:48
  Speaker 8: all that. Now gone down there, go down there with
• 26:52
  Speaker 8: them other two fat ass ugly people just.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Sitting up in that room. Do you walk here and
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: they already nicked? What's that?
• 27:01
  Speaker 9: Hey?
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: You walk in the room, they already nigga? You don't
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: know who?
• 27:11
  Speaker 12: Oh right, Wow, that's something.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 27:18
  Speaker 12: Moving on, last one, last one. This is from Faith
• 27:22
  Speaker 12: and Gary.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Faith Rights.
• 27:24
  Speaker 12: I modeled some cheap clothes.
• 27:26
  Speaker 7: For a boutique and the owner did not pay me,
• 27:28
  Speaker 7: but she posted my pictures. I wore one of the
• 27:31
  Speaker 7: outfits Saturday because, as far as I'm concerned, these are
• 27:35
  Speaker 7: my clothes.
• 27:35
  Speaker 12: Now, she said, it doesn't work like that.
• 27:38
  Speaker 9: Am I wrong?
• 27:42
  Speaker 8: You took some pictures. She didn't pay you for taking
• 27:46
  Speaker 8: the pictures. I don't know what the agreement was, but
• 27:49
  Speaker 8: you obviously had one. She didn't pay you.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: So now you decided to wear outfit Saturday night because
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: as far as you concerned, they yours. She said, don't
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: work like that. Well, in her mind, it don't work
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 28:08
  Speaker 8: In your mind, it do work like then, did you
• 28:11
  Speaker 8: also tell her that when you took the pictures and
• 28:14
  Speaker 8: you were supposed to get your check and she didn't
• 28:16
  Speaker 8: give it to you, that that don't work like that either, Right,
• 28:20
  Speaker 8: So we got two women in here that don't do.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Nothing at work like that.
• 28:26
  Speaker 12: Miscommunication.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: So I really don't know what to tell you, just
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: I really do. You ain't got your money, but you
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: got them dresses. Now what she gonna do?
• 28:38
  Speaker 14: Ye?
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  Speaker 6: Sorry?
• 28:43
  Speaker 12: All right, that's it. That's the last one, Steve.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do want to go.
• 28:49
  Speaker 7: Back to Linda and new Rochelle when she yes, should
• 28:54
  Speaker 7: we meet them out first to see if they're you.
• 28:56
  Speaker 8: Ain't gotta go going down now, I told you no,
• 28:58
  Speaker 8: you don't need no premid go in that call Turkey.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Just walk into the spot and see.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: What you got.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, since your husband down.
• 29:09
  Speaker 8: Matter of fact, y'all walk in and stripping everybody off
• 29:11
  Speaker 8: for y'all meet each other.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Neckd I'm Davy, you are on your take your shirt off,
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: all right?
• 29:20
  Speaker 12: See, thank you.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Celo.
• 29:22
  Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 29:24
  Speaker 12: some entertainment news for you.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: Right after this.
• 29:27
  Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning show.
• 29:32
  Speaker 12: Well, guys, Carla is here with today's music News.
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: What you got for us, Carla, Well, we were talking
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: about this off air. Let's talk about it on the air.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: The d n C is like a party for Kendrick Lamar.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: They played They Not Like Us for California's Role Call
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: along with California Love Little John.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: He popped out and surprised. Georgia turned down for but.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: I Come on DNC plus. Shout out to Georgia.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Georgia was fired.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: Yep, yep, yep.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: Shout out to Patty LaBelle. She performed Chicago's on Common.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: Anthony Hamilton was there, so again, shout out to the
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: DNZ making the convention like a party. It's a celebration. Also,
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: ladies get ready. Maxwell is set to perform at NPR's
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Tiny Desk Concert Oh Love Tiny Desk Concert Series. Maxwell's
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: gonna perform Yeah, this Saturday, August twenty third, So check
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: it out. Maxwell also did a remake of Simply Beautiful
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Steve by Al Green.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: You know how much you love that song? Who did
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: a remake?
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Maxwell?
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: He did a remake of and we are currently playing
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: it right here on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Maxwell, you did that, So that's music news real quick.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: You all up to date, There.
• 30:55
  Speaker 7: You go, Shirley Girl, all right, Carolin, thank you, and
• 30:59
  Speaker 7: other entertainment news is R and B singer Omarion recently
• 31:02
  Speaker 7: discussed his celibacy journey on a podcast, Take a Listen
• 31:06
  Speaker 7: This World.
• 31:07
  Speaker 15: Being a sex symbol. In hindsight, it was preparing me
• 31:10
  Speaker 15: for my contribution to music. I just found myself in
• 31:13
  Speaker 15: that position of wanting to understand my energy, give myself
• 31:18
  Speaker 15: time to grow. I knew that if I could control
• 31:21
  Speaker 15: two areas of my life, which is food and the
• 31:24
  Speaker 15: urge of sex, then nothing can stop me.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: And they had come to.
• 31:27
  Speaker 15: Find out that Lenny Kravitz has been celibated for however long.
• 31:31
  Speaker 8: I'm like, wow, yeah, y'all don't know none of this
• 31:36
  Speaker 8: here and just Mario, you know, being a sex symbol
• 31:39
  Speaker 8: and everything. I figured, if I could control my urge
• 31:42
  Speaker 8: for food and for sex, I'd be wild. I'm sixty
• 31:45
  Speaker 8: seven and it can't control it.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: So now I don't know. But I ain't even never
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: been not to No, I can't either.
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: One.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: I have to eat. Yeah, I tried that, even her
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: time went hung trying to be in a vegetarian. Yeah.
• 32:03
  Speaker 8: Now, of course I'm myry aunt. I ain't never been
• 32:05
  Speaker 8: no sex symbol or nothing like that. So you know,
• 32:07
  Speaker 8: I ain't never had to control my sex. I just
• 32:10
  Speaker 8: wasn't getting none, that's all she said. No, I had
• 32:14
  Speaker 8: to shut my ass over there and sit down, you know, yeah,
• 32:18
  Speaker 8: you know, and.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Can't get some neat.
• 32:20
  Speaker 8: I don't you know when people having all these deep
• 32:22
  Speaker 8: ass moments on these podcasts. These podcasts, man, they need
• 32:26
  Speaker 8: to stop this here because people just on there making
• 32:28
  Speaker 8: all types of I found out Lenny Kravitz was celebrated.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: I went, wow, how long you think we all? Long time?
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Lenny Kravits y'all y'all gone somewhere?
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: What y'all talking about?
• 32:42
  Speaker 7: What are you saying?
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: What do you say?
• 32:43
  Speaker 12: You don't believe it? It's not possible. What are you saying?
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Ain't no man doing he, ain't no priests, ain't no
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: man doing that.
• 32:53
  Speaker 8: What are y'all talking about? What are y'all talking about?
• 32:58
  Speaker 8: I got a lot of friends I know people that
• 33:00
  Speaker 8: all y'all.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Do you know Lenny Kravitz?
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: I know Lenny Kravitz took a picture? What have been passed?
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Last year? I love a brother. He ain't said nothing
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: to me boud it and he don't say nothing to
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: you about that. Well, let me tell you something. The
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: reaction that I saw we was in.
• 33:18
  Speaker 8: The YSL store together, we was in YL. The reaction
• 33:22
  Speaker 8: of the women I saw And he's celibate. They don't
• 33:25
  Speaker 8: know it. He's very I'm just telling you right now now.
• 33:30
  Speaker 8: And you know he ain't been listen to y'all talking
• 33:32
  Speaker 8: about can have been celibate for years?
• 33:35
  Speaker 6: For what?
• 33:35
  Speaker 8: Ye Listen, everybody can do that for a short period
• 33:39
  Speaker 8: of time. Ain't been no years, ain't nobody. Ain't no
• 33:42
  Speaker 8: man did that for years? Y'all stopped. He said, ain't
• 33:47
  Speaker 8: no man did that for years. Y'all need to stop
• 33:50
  Speaker 8: this hill. I'm not gonna sit on missionship and allowed this. No,
• 33:54
  Speaker 8: I ain't got his number. Oh, we ain't finish when
• 33:58
  Speaker 8: we finished do all that. I'm just telling you right,
• 34:01
  Speaker 8: ain't no man fin to do all that for what?
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 34:05
  Speaker 6: What he do? What do it?
• 34:07
  Speaker 11: Do?
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: It clears your head like if you're going to wait, wait, yeah,
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: mental clarity, self disciplined.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: Okay, So let me ask you so after you get
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: that mental clarity, now what mind clear?
• 34:26
  Speaker 7: No?
• 34:27
  Speaker 15: What now?
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: Your mind clear?
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: What help me?
• 34:32
  Speaker 8: Y'all sitting up in here telling me about all these
• 34:34
  Speaker 8: men that's been celibate for years, and I'm telling you ain't.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: No, man, I know it's find to be celibate for
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: years lest he's sick.
• 34:45
  Speaker 12: And when you when you hung out with Lenny Kravitz,
• 34:48
  Speaker 12: he didn't mention any of this to you.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: He said a damn thing to me. Shirt was unbuttoned
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: down to his navel. I'm talking. What is y'all talking about?
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: If you celibate, button your shirt.
• 35:01
  Speaker 12: Up, you're just to tease at that point, nipple.
• 35:06
  Speaker 8: Showing and everything. I'm sitting If you're gonna Lenny looks
• 35:10
  Speaker 8: sexy to me, I'm sitting it. Old woman hollering this stuff.
• 35:13
  Speaker 8: I'm going, Oh the boy sexy him tight ass pasts
• 35:17
  Speaker 8: home belt buckles showing he can look down see his
• 35:20
  Speaker 8: belt buckle.
• 35:21
  Speaker 12: Did you see did you see him working out in
• 35:24
  Speaker 12: his leather pants at the gym?
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: Huh?
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: He always wears his leather pants. Lenny, if you celebrate,
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: what is you working out for? What do you say?
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: Some crazy fool you getting fit? Fall see y'all not young? No, No,
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: I'm not seeing I'm nothing. Marie Ann talking about I
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: heard Lenny crowd. I went, wow, you.
• 35:50
  Speaker 8: Ain't Lenny, you ain't Lenny. Y'all don't even know where
• 35:54
  Speaker 8: Lenny live. Lenny cried, Lenny got all kind of stuff
• 35:58
  Speaker 8: going on right here.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: I'm all right years wow.
• 36:03
  Speaker 7: Coming up in twenty minutes after be our Vice President
• 36:06
  Speaker 7: Kamala Harris will formally accept the Democratic Party's nomination for
• 36:09
  Speaker 7: president tonight.
• 36:10
  Speaker 12: We'll talk about it right after this.
• 36:13
  Speaker 9: You're listening, Hardy Morning Show.
• 36:16
  Speaker 7: Vice President Kamala Harris will formally accept the Democratic Party's
• 36:20
  Speaker 7: nomination for president tonight in Chicago.
• 36:23
  Speaker 12: At the DNC.
• 36:24
  Speaker 7: This past Tuesday night, we all saw former President Obama's
• 36:27
  Speaker 7: speech as he returned to the convention stage twenty years
• 36:31
  Speaker 7: after making his first appearance at the DNC in Boston
• 36:34
  Speaker 7: back in twenty four and that propelled him into the
• 36:39
  Speaker 7: national spotlight ahead of his successful two thousand and eight
• 36:41
  Speaker 7: presidential run. Both President Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama
• 36:46
  Speaker 7: told us why VP Harris and Governor Waltz are ready
• 36:50
  Speaker 7: and what the Democrats need to do for the next
• 36:53
  Speaker 7: two months before election day. Vice President Harris will speak tonight,
• 36:57
  Speaker 7: and she's hoping to win over young people, voters of color,
• 37:01
  Speaker 7: working class whites, suburban voters, and anti Trump Republicans.
• 37:05
  Speaker 12: That's her mission. That's because.
• 37:12
  Speaker 10: If you was on the fence, you should have made
• 37:13
  Speaker 10: up your mind the other night. It should have been
• 37:15
  Speaker 10: to be real clear.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I miss I missed those speeches. I didn't get
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: to see.
• 37:21
  Speaker 12: And her husband of VP.
• 37:23
  Speaker 7: Harris's husband gave an impassioned speech too about how they met,
• 37:28
  Speaker 7: how they fell in love. It was very enlightening because
• 37:32
  Speaker 7: I've never heard him speak like that. He gave up
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  Speaker 7: his career, all of that, you know, he's teaching now.
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  Speaker 7: He gave up his law career, very successful lawyer to
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  Speaker 7: be with her and support her.
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  Speaker 12: I mean, just a real cool love story.
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  Speaker 7: And then Michelle Obama hit the stagebe Lord Mercy talking about.
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  Speaker 3: The presidency being a black job. Go first lady, Yes,
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  Speaker 3: forever first Lady.
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  Speaker 12: It was awesome, It was so good.
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  Speaker 3: Former President Obama talked about Trump's weird obsession crowd outside, crowdsize,
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  Speaker 3: and she said, what's up with that?
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  Speaker 2: He was really really good. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: The DNC is just full of energy. It reflects America.
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  Speaker 3: It's a party theirs, it's the verse exactly.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: They're celebrating freedom.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear her speech tonight.
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  Speaker 9: Love and enjoy yeah, yeah, it was really really good.
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  Speaker 12: Excellent, excellent, excellence. Yeah, staying away for her speech tonight.
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  Speaker 8: Say, I was you'd wait on me to fill in,
• 38:39
  Speaker 8: but Shirley was talking. Oh okay, you know, cut off.
• 38:42
  Speaker 8: You don't know, it's a Steve Harvey Morning show. But
• 38:44
  Speaker 8: I try to let somebody else talk, especially Shirley when
• 38:48
  Speaker 8: Shirley want to talk, because you know, when you're talking
• 38:50
  Speaker 8: about this election, you're talking about black votes and everything.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: You gotta let the bullgy people population talk.
• 38:57
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: It can't just leave me and Tommy, you know, yeah.
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  Speaker 6: You know me me.
• 39:03
  Speaker 8: You you gotta hear from busy black because some dud
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  Speaker 8: ones out there now ye are called I'm gonna take you.
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  Speaker 2: Up, man.
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  Speaker 8: You remember when of that little podunk food that worked
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  Speaker 14: My name is I can call it from Detroit and
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  Speaker 14: I was just listening to the Project twenty five and
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  Speaker 14: I just want to let everyone know every black person
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  Speaker 14: have a minority. If you let him get in an office,
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  Speaker 8: Doing okay, spoke yet, hey, and I appreciate you Erica
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  Speaker 8: for putting your name out there. Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 8: That's very brave. Most people call it make a statement.
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  Speaker 8: Don't want to lead?
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  Speaker 2: Ain't there?
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  Speaker 8: Erica say, if you black, a person coloring, you let
• 40:28
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  Speaker 2: And Trump?
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  Speaker 8: Has Trump been on the private jet with the boy
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  Speaker 8: that wrote that thing? You trying to act like he
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  Speaker 8: don't know him. He know exactly what they did. Trump
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  Speaker 8: is for anybody that's for him, red boot skinheads, clan,
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  Speaker 8: malicious white supremacy, anybody, anybody that's for him.
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  Speaker 2: He with them. Know that that's a narcissist. If you
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: like me, I like you. That's all it is.
• 41:01
  Speaker 8: And it don't matter what they stand for. That that's
• 41:04
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  Speaker 2: Statement, man, that we're anywhere. Go ahead, if you got
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  Speaker 12: This is from Marlin who left a message about voting.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, good morning. It's to Steve Harvey. My name is
• 41:18
  Speaker 6: Marlin or Brother. I love you, man, I love what
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• 41:29
  Speaker 6: the DNC and us moving forward and use the strategy. Brother.
• 41:34
  Speaker 6: I love you for the way you're utilizing your platform
• 41:39
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  Speaker 6: we need to have a point of dogs at colleges
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  Speaker 2: We will adhere to that. And I'm a part of
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  Speaker 8: So there's a huge movement in the fraternity sorority thing
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  Speaker 8: to get that young vote out. They are working feverishly
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  Speaker 8: vote out.
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  Speaker 2: And moan.
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  Speaker 7: nephew is here with today prank phone call.
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  Speaker 12: Nephew, Well we're going work.
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  Speaker 10: Oh sure, I got it for you. You know, you know,
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  Speaker 10: everybody gonna have one and if somebody has to plan it.
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  Speaker 10: But this right here is your funeral arrangements. Your funeral arrangements.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh. Yeah, a lot of people don't know that.
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  Speaker 10: You know, these things need to take place, but you
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  Speaker 10: know some people might want to get it taken pare
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  Speaker 10: before they leave here. You know what I'm saying before
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  Speaker 10: they leave, like like I want my I want my
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  Speaker 10: stuff in alle you understand, Like I'm gonna have I
• 45:36
  Speaker 10: told y'all before I'm gonna have a funeral rehearsal. That's
• 45:38
  Speaker 10: what I'm gonna have rehearsal because you're not gonna show
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  Speaker 10: up at my funeral.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: And I know we wouldn't that you're not gonna do that.
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  Speaker 2: You're not gonna do that. You be dead. That's why
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  Speaker 2: you have to have a funeral so we know how
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  Speaker 2: it's supposed to go.
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  Speaker 1: The rehearsal.
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  Speaker 2: The rehearsal, yes for Carlo.
• 45:56
  Speaker 10: While we have rehearsal, I'll be laying there and when
• 45:59
  Speaker 10: I see somebody come pop up and say, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, Dann will we ain't like that?
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  Speaker 6: Dog?
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  Speaker 2: Come on dog dog?
• 46:04
  Speaker 6: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Pp up, We're gonna pop out.
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  Speaker 12: Exactly.
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  Speaker 10: Put all these calls crying, call that you ain't little
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  Speaker 10: me like that. That's the come on, all right, this
• 46:21
  Speaker 10: is your funeral arrangement. Let's go care doc.
• 46:24
  Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to retall you miss Diana. Please,
• 46:29
  Speaker 4: she's not in at the moment. I take a message flee.
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: My name is John John. I'm actually the funeral director
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: here a funeral home, because Diane came in earlier today
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  Speaker 4: and tried to get the arrangements. First of all, I
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: want to say my condolences to you all and your
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: entire family for what you're going through. She filled out
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: some paperwork here and I wanted to make sure I
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: got everything actually correct. I'm a little not sure on
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: what she wants on the actual toombstone. I don't know
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: what she wants. Rob job or Robert are you are
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: you one of the members that may be able to
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: tell me exactly what she would want on? I am
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: I'm Roberts. What's all about it? She gave me this morning?
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: What you're talking about?
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: Hold on?
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  Speaker 6: Certain?
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  Speaker 5: Sorry?
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  Speaker 4: You you who I am?
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  Speaker 5: Robert? Rob Robert?
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  Speaker 14: That's me?
• 47:20
  Speaker 5: Okay?
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: And is there senior or well Junior.
• 47:26
  Speaker 5: Is just a child.
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  Speaker 4: I'm Robino. That's who I am. Junior is a child
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  Speaker 4: either one of us? Did we're health? Okay? Okay, okay,
• 47:34
  Speaker 4: okay hang on? Oh my god, all right, I don't okay,
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: hang on second, sir? Yeah yeah, miss Diane? Ms sir,
• 47:43
  Speaker 4: Miss Diane is your wife?
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah? That is my wife.
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: You sure you got the right dance?
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: You sure?
• 47:49
  Speaker 6: She came in?
• 47:51
  Speaker 4: Uh this morning? Uh maybe five five h what saltn pepper, hair,
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  Speaker 4: shoulder ling, uhb a medium brown complex?
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  Speaker 13: Mmm?
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  Speaker 4: What kind of costUS?
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  Speaker 8: What is having?
• 48:05
  Speaker 6: You?
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: See the posits and seeing the car something? Uh it
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: seemed like it was a some type of was it
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: a camry?
• 48:12
  Speaker 5: I think?
• 48:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I mean.
• 48:16
  Speaker 5: What happened?
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: Tell me, actually, tell me what happened this moment she
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: came in and said what to you? She came in
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: and mister, why why why?
• 48:24
  Speaker 5: Why? Why do I call back?
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: When Miss Diane is there and we can go call down.
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: You know, tell me that right now. I need to
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: know what is going on. You my wife want to
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: tell me she would have a fuel for me, and
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: you tell me you would call me. Let me know,
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: tell me that, sir. All I know is is Miss
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: Diane came in. The paperwork was a little I was
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: just coming to reevaluate you know what.
• 48:45
  Speaker 6: I what?
• 48:46
  Speaker 5: I what?
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: I what was written here?
• 48:47
  Speaker 5: It wasn't right.
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: I mean, she came in, she she picked out the casket,
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: she did everything that she was supposed to casket casket,
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: bro bro right. But I don't understand. I don't really
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: understand what's going on. But I'm gonna find out later on.
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna fine. I don't understand. I've never been in
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: a I've never been in a situation like this. Okay,
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: so we're about to get in the situation. Maybe I
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: need to call back when this Diane gets there. I said,
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: I need to talk to you now. She had six o'clock.
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: Don't worry about that. Where you at anyway? What's your
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: name again?
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: Where you at?
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm John, sir, I'm I'm the funeral homes
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: by Round I'm sorry, y'all. You might be you might
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: be making some souler raby for her too. I might
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: need to switch things for her team on there. Okay, sir,
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: I'm guess what sixt o'clock is. Six o'clock, sir, six o'clock.
• 49:36
  Speaker 6: You be there, sir.
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: A funeral is a very serious thing, sir. So you're
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: you're so serious. Bro, Look, my wife is becoming she's
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: trying to marry me.
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: Me.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: I'm Rob wouldn't even be get other people. Robert, it's
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: it's Rob or Robert, whichever one.
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: I mean.
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: I don't, I don't. I mean I won't.
• 49:57
  Speaker 5: I don't want to.
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: I don't, I don't. I don't know even the peas
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: it you know what I'm saying. We didn't even argue.
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: We had a little last argument last week by little
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: light Buil something a little black man. But you canna
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: having funerals of me? Okay, man, I tell you, let
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: this up. They got the right now, you got the
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: right one. I tell you, man, I'm not watch I
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: have hurt mister. I mean, since I have you on
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: the phone, is can I ask you?
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: What is it all right? If I asked you something?
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: Sir, maybe you want to ask me, brother, I mean,
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: since since it is your funeral, would you would you
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: like the light blue lining or the white lining in
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: the inside on the inside. Imbut that you cleaned on
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: me right now? You now you're trying me. Now, if
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: I come down there and swing, you won't like it.
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: They's gonna be two funerals. You ah keep on last.
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: You're gonna put your own plannet. Man, I'm not here
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: brushing my like here twelve hour shift. All I said,
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: come a little bit lights up around here. It's gonna
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: keep the bill out. But she wouna say, huh around
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: here all o dirt, sir, be light so light, so
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: light a funeral? Come on, man, boy, I swear to God,
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: just i'na tell you.
• 51:07
  Speaker 5: I'm telling Can I can? I? Can? I tell you?
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: What else?
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: Your wife told me when she was here?
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: What what else to do? Actually?
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: I need to know anywhere I need to know tell
• 51:15
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• 51:27
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• 51:31
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• 51:40
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  Speaker 7: going to read this one right here, right now.
• 54:23
  Speaker 12: And you never know, it could be yours.
• 54:25
  Speaker 10: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type
• 54:27
  Speaker 10: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry letter.
• 54:30
  Speaker 7: All right, thank you, nephew. The subject is everything is
• 54:33
  Speaker 7: a minor inconvenience, Dear Stephen Shirley, Everything is a minor
• 54:37
  Speaker 7: inconvenience for my husband, and I need to see if
• 54:40
  Speaker 7: something is going on with him outside of our household.
• 54:44
  Speaker 7: He used to love doing everything with me. He used
• 54:47
  Speaker 7: to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up
• 54:52
  Speaker 7: and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or
• 54:55
  Speaker 7: night it was. That was our little fun time. He
• 54:58
  Speaker 7: wanted to have a lot of kids before we got married,
• 55:00
  Speaker 7: but now he's saying that he doesn't know if we
• 55:03
  Speaker 7: can afford to start a family. He said that babies
• 55:05
  Speaker 7: take up a lot of time and are inconvenient most
• 55:09
  Speaker 7: of the time. That broke my heart, because how can
• 55:12
  Speaker 7: a child be inconvenient. He's been saying crazy stuff like this,
• 55:16
  Speaker 7: and I've been taking mental notes. I've asked him to
• 55:19
  Speaker 7: go look at TV's with me at his favorite electronics store.
• 55:22
  Speaker 12: He said he'd already put on this lounge on his
• 55:25
  Speaker 12: lounging clothes, so my timing was inconvenient for him.
• 55:28
  Speaker 7: Same thing with sex. The other night, I mentioned that
• 55:31
  Speaker 7: we haven't had sex in a week. He said that
• 55:34
  Speaker 7: I come to bed too late, and it's a minor
• 55:36
  Speaker 7: inconvenience to get himself in the mood that late. We
• 55:39
  Speaker 7: never had this problem before. We finally did have sex
• 55:43
  Speaker 7: two nights ago, and he went to sleep. I woke
• 55:46
  Speaker 7: him up and asked why he didn't go cook for us,
• 55:48
  Speaker 7: and he said that we need to get new ways
• 55:50
  Speaker 7: of doing things because cooking all hours of the night
• 55:53
  Speaker 7: is inconvenient.
• 55:54
  Speaker 12: This is his new thing.
• 55:56
  Speaker 7: Everything is a minor inconvenience. Does this include me and
• 56:00
  Speaker 7: our marriage? I want to ask him, but I'm afraid
• 56:03
  Speaker 7: of the answer. Seems to me like he's focused on
• 56:06
  Speaker 7: something outside of our marriage that's more convenient for him.
• 56:09
  Speaker 7: What's going on, Well, you left the timeline out of
• 56:13
  Speaker 7: this letter, but it does sound like you might have
• 56:17
  Speaker 7: something here. You might be onto something. He's no longer
• 56:20
  Speaker 7: into you. It sounds like he's checked out of this marriage.
• 56:23
  Speaker 7: He's done everything to show you that he doesn't want
• 56:26
  Speaker 7: to be with you, he doesn't want to have children
• 56:28
  Speaker 7: with you, he doesn't want to talk to you, or
• 56:30
  Speaker 7: he doesn't even he's not even thinking about you. I mean,
• 56:33
  Speaker 7: everything is an inconvenience, Like he's saying, I hate this
• 56:37
  Speaker 7: for you, because this sudden change in his behavior, it
• 56:39
  Speaker 7: has to hurt. But you can't just sit back and
• 56:42
  Speaker 7: allow him to treat you this way, for you to
• 56:45
  Speaker 7: become a minor inconvenience to him. You say you don't
• 56:48
  Speaker 7: want to talk to him because you don't want to
• 56:49
  Speaker 7: hear the answer, but you've got to face the truth.
• 56:52
  Speaker 7: You've got to hear it. You've got to face this
• 56:54
  Speaker 7: fear that you have. You've got to prepare yourself if
• 56:57
  Speaker 7: he's cheating or if he wants out. It does sound
• 57:01
  Speaker 7: like something is going on outside of your marriage. It
• 57:03
  Speaker 7: might be cheating, that's what it sounds like. He will
• 57:05
  Speaker 7: probably lie if you confront him about that, but you
• 57:08
  Speaker 7: need to know what's going on so you can take
• 57:10
  Speaker 7: care of yourself. And you should be doing that of
• 57:13
  Speaker 7: course anyway, because no matter what, you don't deserve this
• 57:17
  Speaker 7: being a minor inconvenience to your husband in this marriage, Steve.
• 57:22
  Speaker 8: Whenever something is wrong in a marriage, why is the
• 57:27
  Speaker 8: go to answer? It sounds like he's cheating, because I don't.
• 57:33
  Speaker 8: I don't hear cheating in this letter anywhere. She didn't
• 57:38
  Speaker 8: find no number. He ain't hanging up, He ain't she
• 57:42
  Speaker 8: ain't changed, He ain't changed his cold, He ain't having
• 57:46
  Speaker 8: no quiet conversations on the side nowhere. He ain't missing
• 57:50
  Speaker 8: at night. He don't stay away for hours and come
• 57:54
  Speaker 8: come home. I don't hear in this letter anywhere. Sounds
• 57:59
  Speaker 8: like he cheating to me, So ladies help me? Or
• 58:03
  Speaker 8: I don't want to say Shirley because she's had her
• 58:05
  Speaker 8: turn with the letter and I don't want her to
• 58:07
  Speaker 8: interrupt me.
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: So just ladies help me slash Shirley. Why is it dad?
• 58:15
  Speaker 8: As soon as something is wrong in a marriage, it
• 58:19
  Speaker 8: sounds like cheating to me. I'll give you an example.
• 58:23
  Speaker 8: I was watching this young guy on Instagram. I love
• 58:26
  Speaker 8: this dude. I don't even know his name. He's got
• 58:29
  Speaker 8: a beard, wireframed glasses, he wear a knit skull cap
• 58:32
  Speaker 8: all the time. He was had this dude on stage,
• 58:36
  Speaker 8: and the dude said, women, how many of you all
• 58:38
  Speaker 8: believe in women's intuition. They all raised their hand. They said, well,
• 58:44
  Speaker 8: then if y'all's intuition, if y'all can tell when a
• 58:48
  Speaker 8: man is cheating, yep, yep, they all raise their hand.
• 58:51
  Speaker 8: He said, Okay, then why can't you tell if he's
• 58:54
  Speaker 8: not happy? Because this letter could be just a man
• 59:00
  Speaker 8: that has grown discontent and unhappy with something. And that's
• 59:06
  Speaker 8: where I think the focus should be, because it don't
• 59:08
  Speaker 8: sound to me like he's cheating. But let's go through
• 59:12
  Speaker 8: the letter and see if I feel the same way.
• 59:15
  Speaker 8: After I analyze the letter. Everything is a minor inconvenience
• 59:20
  Speaker 8: for my husband. I need to see if there's something
• 59:23
  Speaker 8: going on with him outside our household.
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: He used to love doing everything with me.
• 59:29
  Speaker 8: He used to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always
• 59:32
  Speaker 8: get up and cook breakfast, no matter what time of
• 59:34
  Speaker 8: day or that way.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: It was our little fun time.
• 59:37
  Speaker 8: He wanted to have a lot of kids before we
• 59:39
  Speaker 8: got married, but now he's saying he don't know if
• 59:42
  Speaker 8: we can afford to start a family. Okay, now, on
• 59:46
  Speaker 8: a serious note, you know what that sounds like to me?
• 59:49
  Speaker 8: Sounds like the reality of what life really is. Is
• 59:54
  Speaker 8: starting to sit in. See, I've seen a lot of
• 59:57
  Speaker 8: men lose their dreams lie along the way. You gotta
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 8: be careful, ladies, because maybe your man is losing his
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 8: dream along the way from disappointments or something. So he
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 8: used to look up though everything with me, used to
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 8: initiate into me seeing all like this. She wasn't saying,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 8: And surely's right. There's some timeline missing in here. She
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 8: wasn't saying if this was before they got married, after
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 8: they got married, and he wanted to have a lot
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 8: of kids before we got married. Now he's saying he
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 8: don't know if he can afford to start of him.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 8: He said, the babies take up a lot of time
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 8: and on inconvenient most of the time.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: That broke my heart. How can a child be inconvenient? Now,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: wait a minute, I'm just gonna tell you something that
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: is a true statement.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 12: Hang on, see, well, let me.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: Just put that out there. The ass is very inconvenient.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 7: At twenty three minutes after the hour, today's Strawberry letter
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 7: subject is everything.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 12: Is a minor inconvenience. We'll get back into it right
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 12: after this.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 9: You're listening Morning show, all right, Come on, Steve.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 7: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is everything is
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 7: a minor inconvenience.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: Well, like I said at the top of the show,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. At the top of this letter.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: You know, Shirley was saying, it sounds like he's cheating me.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 8: But I want to warn ladies, every time a man
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 8: changes or and is unhappy, it doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 8: It could be this man has become despondent, broken a bit.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 8: He could be, you know, going through some mental stuff.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 8: You know, he got nowhere to channel his stuff. So
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 8: I'm just trying to read the letter and see if
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 8: that's what I see cheating or do I see something else.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 8: He used to love doing everything with me. He used
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 8: to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 8: and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 8: night it was. That was our little fun time.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 8: He wanted to have a lot of kids before we
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 8: got married. But now he's saying he don't know if
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 8: we can afford to start a family. Something could be
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 8: going on with this guy in his mindset that's making
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 8: him think he ain't got his money and order yet
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 8: he ain't accomplishing his dreams yet, he ain't where he
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 8: want to be yet. That could be I just want
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 8: to throw that out there. He said, babies take up
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 8: a lot of time on inconvenience most of the time.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 8: That broke my heart, because how can the child be inconvenient.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 8: I'm just gonna say something for him on this one.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 8: Right here, They ass is very inconvenient. I'm just gonna
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 8: tell you that right now. They ass is always blocking,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 8: They in the way. I'm just gonna keep it one
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 8: hundred with you. Them babies is an inconvenience. You believe
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 8: that he just said it out loud. You just didn't
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 8: like the use of the terminology. He's been saying crazy
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 8: stuff like this, and I've been taking mental notes. I
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 8: asked him to go to look at TV's with me
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 8: at his favorite electronics store. He said he'd already put
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 8: on his lounge and clothes, so my timing was inconvenient.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: Okay, that could be true.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 8: But if my wife tell me she gonna cat me
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 8: down somewhere to buy me a new car or something
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 8: like that, I'm gonna put my damn clothes on. I'm
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 8: going ahead and put something on I'm going down to
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 8: the damn stoke were going shopping for me. I'm going
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 8: down there, person, So I'll put some damn clothes on. Anyway,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 8: same thing with sex. The other night, I mentioned that
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 8: we haven't had sex in a week.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 6: A week.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 8: You ain't had sex in a week. Here, y'all doing
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 8: up in there, y'all, y'all gotta go. There's on and crackit.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 8: Y'all must be in your twenties, right, Yeah, I can
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 8: type this damn letter. Damn there once a month, you know,
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 8: and sex in a week, And.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: And I had this let out every damn month. That's
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: what you want. We ain't have sex in a week.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 8: He said that I come to bed too late, and
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 8: it's a minor inconvenience to get himself in the mood
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 8: that late. Yeah, and now hear it, Nah, this is
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 8: the part of the letter that well got love. Yeah,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 8: I can't save you on this one.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 6: Dog.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: You know, I was with you with everything else.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 8: But he said it's a minor inconvenience to get himself
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 8: in the mood that late. It's an inconvenience to get
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 8: in the mood. Now, let me say if I can
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 8: put this so I'm not being graphic for morning radio.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: You're trying to tell me that.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 8: To get in the mood, I must get excited. You're
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 8: telling me that's an inconvenience. Boy, Bye, excite me, do
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 8: something to me.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: Watch this.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 8: Matter of fact, I got a surprise for you. You
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 8: ain't gonna be how excited. You ain't gonna be how
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 8: excited I am. So that was the only one that
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 8: threw me. We never had this problem before. We finally
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 8: did have sex two nights ago, and he went to sleep.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 8: I woke come up and ask him why he ain't
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 8: gonna cook?
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: For Hell, it's hard to cook when you sleep.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 8: You walk the damn man up and saying, why are
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 8: you gonna get cooked? Why don't you cook for because
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 8: he sleep? That's what most men do when they get through.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 8: I ain't never got up wood and cooked. I go
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 8: to sleep, but he does.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: Not no more.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 8: And now he said that he needed to get new
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 8: ways of doing things because cooking all hours of night
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 8: is inconvenient. This is his new thing. See I think
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 8: what didn't happen here? You know how some women change
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 8: after they get married. Sometimes dudes change after they get married.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 8: This dude could be going through some male menopause, or
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 8: he could be going through some male hormonal disorders.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have none of that. You know,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: he could if he's sick well, but if he's six though,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 2: he But if he's sick though, the cure all for
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: sickness is sex. So every time I got some bad
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: news from the doctor.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 8: If you tap me and straighten me out, I'll be fine.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 8: Everything is a mind inconvenience. Does this include me and
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 8: our marriage? I want to ask him, but I'm afraid
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 8: of the answer. It seems to me like he's focused
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 8: on something outside.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: Of our marriage. It's more convenient for him. What's going on?
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 8: All I think you need to do is ask that
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 8: question that you are afraid of, because ain't no need
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 8: of you living behind that curtain and the veil of secrecy.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: So go on and ask him. It can't get no worse.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 8: If he tell you he got something down the street,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 8: then let him cares ass down the street. But set
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 8: his Car'll find all the clumbes.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: You ain't got the window, all right.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 7: Poster comings on Today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you Steve and
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 7: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. And check out
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 7: the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app for
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 7: it never sounded so good. Coming up at forty six
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 7: minutes after the our Junior Sports Talk.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 12: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 12: time now for junior and sports talk. What you got junior?
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 11: Okay, sure you know yesterday I told you all the
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 11: rules for my wife and you know how I wanted
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 11: to watch football.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: Well, today is pre season, was pre practicing.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 11: So now if you single and you're coming over here,
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 11: let me just talk to the single people because you're
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 11: gonna have to have some rules as well. First of all,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 11: the price of entry into this house to watch football
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 11: is food and beverage. You got to bring one of
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 11: the two. You're gonna have to have some to drink,
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 11: or you're gonna have to have some food, like pick
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 11: up some wings or something, bring some water whatever.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: That's the first way you're getting in here.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 9: Okay, I'm not mad.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: R Number two, Well not for ease. Now you're talking
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: to this to other people. This ain't to your wife, right, No, No,
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: I'm talking to other people. That's coming.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: That's a single pick's clarity.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's just won't be clear. Bro, you're talking
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 2: about get in there and cook some damn chicken wing.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, pick up something, bring some food and better.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 11: First thing a true Now number two, there's only one
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 11: dedicated restaurant. One yeah, one bathroom. I mean, hey, if
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 11: it's five people gotta go stand in line.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: You do it at the club.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: Hey, you do it anyway.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: Just wait your turn.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: You you jumping the gun on this junior.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: Just all this for preseason, preseason rules. We practicing for
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: the season.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: We gotta pee before we go to his house.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: Just yeah, I saw how.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: It's one dedicated restaurant.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 2: That's all you need to know.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 11: Okay, too, now here, now here we go. Whoever you
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 11: start the season with is who you stay with. In
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 11: other words, whoever you bring over here, that's your girl
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 11: for the rest of the season.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: Don't bring no new wind over here. My woman, my
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: wife gonna have time to learn names.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: We're not doing that in here now.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 11: If you with Bronco Betty, stay with Bronco Betty, Bronco. Man,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 11: you with Tennessee Trina, stay with Trines. I'm telling we're
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 11: not finna do all these new people over there. My
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 11: house is not the hook up house. My wife's single
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 11: friends them not for you. You're not You're nothing to
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 11: mess my house up. It's already got probably.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: We've have no new one.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 11: Now you got you got Cincinnati sending stay with Cincinnati, Cindy.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: For the whole season.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: I like to I'd like to see Bronco Betty Anna.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 11: Well, well that's what I'm about to tell you, Tommy,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 11: because we're not gonna talk about it now, make sure
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 11: she find an attractive Come tell you right now.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: We're not gonna talk about it. We respectful.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 11: We're not gonna talk about it while she's here. We're
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 11: gonna wait to y'all leave. Then we're gonna tell you.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 11: Bronco Betty like she could play for the Broncos.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: You can see that.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: Did you see them back on her?
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: The back on her.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: Wow, I'm talking about.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 11: Three points stays. She played left tackle, right tackle. Clip
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 11: when she sat down.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: Her knees was in a chance. We saw that. Okay,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: just tell me, ain't gonna talk about you in your face.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: Just didn't let you know. Now you ain't got the light.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: People don't don't come over here with don't do chick.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: We don't let you in. You guys stayed with that one.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: That's did you see Cincinnati?
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: Sindy's edges Oh my God, missus oh my.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 12: Coming over the top of the hour.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 9: Thank you for her.
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  Speaker 7: A woman on social media needs your advice, Steve. She says,
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 7: should we even bother getting married? We'll talk about it
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 7: right after this you're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: Stee.
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  Speaker 7: This is from Ashley on Facebook. Ashley says, my boyfriend
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 7: and I have been together for over ten years and
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 7: have two children together. We're totally committed to one another
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 7: and have talked about getting married one day, But now
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 7: that we're so far along.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 12: In our relationship, I wonder if it's even worth it.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 7: Neither of us are very religious or very conventional, and
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 7: we both feel like we don't necessarily need a piece
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 7: of paper or title to legitimize legitimize our relationship.
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  Speaker 12: Are we missing anything? Is there any benefit to us
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 12: getting married?
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  Speaker 8: Well, the last name of the children is one of
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 8: the things I would think of, and I don't want
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 8: you to be so selfish that you don't think about
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 8: the children, because children, really it's really nice if you
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 8: can provide them with the family structure, with the family dynamics.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 8: This is your mommy, I'm married to mom. Mom is
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 8: married to dad, because that kind of sets an example
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 8: of what your children will see. And so, but what
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 8: a lot of women do is you all go along
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 8: with these We don't need a piece of paper because
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 8: you ain't getting no ring anyway, you know. So they
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 8: all sit up here and settle for this. We don't
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 8: seem to need it. Where'd you get that from him?
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 2: See? You know, stop stop letting people put in your space.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 8: They little shortcomings and beliefs, and then and then you
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 8: gotta adapt to it if you want to be with them. No,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 8: you always wanted to be married since you were a
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 8: little girl. Now you have met this man and set
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 8: up here and convinced you that you don't need a
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 8: piece of paper. It ain't gonna make a difference. Well,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 8: if it ain't gonna make a difference, then let's get.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: One right, let's see yeah you know you know?
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 8: Or or is it really that he don't want to
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 8: do that? See, don't don't get this thing twisted?
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 8: So is there an advantage to being Well, most people
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 8: get married get divorced. That's because you're married for the
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 8: wrong reasons. You know what I've been trying to explain
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 8: to people. Stop looking for a man that's dying to
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 8: get you. Find you a man that's willing to die
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 8: to keep you. That's what your ass is looking for.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 8: Everybody one, Quit looking for a man that's dying to
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 8: get you, and find a man that.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: Had died you.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 8: Y'all in be looking, y'all ain't going deep enough in
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 8: these relationship hunts. You know everybody won't you you fine,
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 8: you're cute, you're single. Oh okay, yeah, we dying to
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 8: get you. But will he die to keep you?
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 15: Man?
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  Speaker 2: You know what my mother in law told told me
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: one time.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 8: She said, me and Bubba decided that divorce just was
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 8: never an option, and it caused us to sit there
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 8: and work through some stuff, and you to stay married.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: You got to work through some stuff. This ain't easy, man.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 8: I don't care what you see on Instagram. Ain't nobody
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 8: got no perfect levee w relationship with just all of it. No,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 8: they at the house going through some things. Believe that
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 8: I don't care who they are. You have bishop in
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 8: front of your name, a CEO, you can have a billionaire,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 8: you all that doctor? You have all I don't care
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 8: what you got in your name. You can have a
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 8: star your as a stall the sidewalk out there. Trust me,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 8: it's something in that marriage that's the challenge and you
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 8: gotta work through it.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 12: Yeah, here's another one.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: Steve B.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 7: Says, I've been seeing this woman for about six months,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 7: and I think she's amazing. Because of our work schedules,
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 7: we don't get to spend as much time as i'd
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 7: like together, but we see each other once or twice
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 7: every couple of weeks. She's quite impressive and I really
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 7: think I'm falling for her. So when we get together,
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 7: I find myself being overly nervous, and when we have sex,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 7: I'm sometimes so nervous that I worry I'm not going
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 7: to be able to perform my best.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 12: So here's a question.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 7: How can I learn to relax a bit so I
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 7: can enjoy bedroom time with my girlfriend more.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 8: I ain't got no answer for you gonna be nervous
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 8: just going there till you get used to it, you' bi,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 8: but you need some supplements you need well.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: The first two times in I'll give Dann what you take.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 8: The first few times it's snap, crackle, pop baby Rice
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 8: Christmas and you don't even need milk on rice Christmas
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 8: to hear the noise. You can put tap water on
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 8: the same thing. We just you know, it's just like that.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 8: You know, sometimes they'd be so fine. Dog, ain't that
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 8: you could do? It just happened for it supposed to happen.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 7: That's all Allo, all right, we'll have more Steve Harvey
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• 1:15:19
  Speaker 12: Right after now, I'm.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: Gonna tell you off what he needed to do.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 9: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 7: All right, let's talk about fatherhood at fifty. According to
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 7: a new study, more men are waiting until their fifties
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 7: to start families. Researchers at Stanford University found that the
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 7: guys getting a later start as fathers aren't all rich
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 7: or famous. Instead, they're diverse group with different racial backgrounds
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 7: and education levels, ranging from college professors to blue collar workers.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 12: And so here's the question, how old is too old?
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: I mean, what sounds more challenging being a father and
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 7: chasing a baby around at the age of fifty something
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 7: or attend your kids high school graduation while you're in
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 7: your seventies.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 6: Mo for me?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: Tall, Because when you're taking the graduation picture. Everybody going
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: to want to meet your granddaddy. That's live. When they
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: find out that's your damn daddy, that's a whole enough conversation.
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 8: Oh sorry, then y'all got to stop all this Me
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 8: and me and y'all gotta stop all this waiting to
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 8: have these kids late in life.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: Now, they ain't got.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 8: Nobody walk them down the hill, ain't got nobody take
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 8: them to the football game. Cause your answers that sitting
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 8: up in here talking about you will never hear him
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 8: say one day I want to meet your children.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: Boy, you better hope you see his ass get out
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: of kindergard.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 8: Robert Mayrow and all the people that put but Michael
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 8: Doug listen, Robert, they ain't finish see nothing.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: They may not even teach this boy how to drive.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 2: They so fifteen sixteen. They're not gonna make it to
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: that age. Not if you had to make. When you
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 2: ate a hell number one, you've probably forgot how to try.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 7: Come up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 7: play another round.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 12: And would you rather right after this.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 9: You're listening Morning show, it is time now.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 12: For a rounded? Would you rather guys? Would you rather
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 12: pay or get paid every time you have sex?
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: Play that again?
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 7: What would you rather pay or would you rather get
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 7: paid every time you had sex?
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 6: Oh?
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: No, I better pay.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 11: I better pay the stake because if I'm getting paid,
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 11: you're gonna have some refunds in here.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: I don't want any money back.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 11: Dissatisfied customer after dissatisfied customer.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 12: Up, Lord, don't sit up, Tommy, pay or get paid.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: I think I'll better pay. I ain't gonna get paid.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 12: I ain't, no hope, not one nothing, All right, Steve?
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 2: Pay well? Hell, I've been paying, So.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 12: We're moving on.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 2: We're moving on. Would you falls out and.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 8: Bought moves, all this and helping your children out and
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 8: all through college all.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: This you don't know, but pay for it and watched out?
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 2: Now here? Can't teach your old dog new tricks.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 14: You heard that?
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 12: Would you rather be friends with?
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: Pay one for what?
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 6: Hell?
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: I'm the happiest one to be in here anyway, I
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: just continue to pay.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 12: I'm trying to move on.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 7: I am Would you rather be friends with someone you
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 7: love or would you rather be friends with someone you hate?
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: That makes no sense? That don't make no sense. If
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: I hate you, how we friends.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 7: You still have to be their friend. Would you rather
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 7: would you rather be friends someone you hate friends with?
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 10: Before you asked these, I don't make this and you
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 10: don't want it just didn't make sense.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 12: But okay, okay, so you'd rather be friends with someone
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 12: you love? It sounds like all right.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 7: Would you rather get rich in a way that disappoints
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 7: your family or would you rather just make enough money
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 7: to get by?
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 6: Now?
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 2: What could I be doing that's gonna disappoint them? I
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 2: started that twenty five years ago.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 12: Disappointed all your family?
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: They't They don't want me to do stand up.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: They want to be something else.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, if I'm rich, to hell with everybody?
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: You don't care what you're doing. You don't care.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 8: I'm gonna tell you right now. We can have disappointment
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 8: dinners every Sunday.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 9: That's what you want.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 8: We rich, y'all can all come by the house and
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 8: we can have disappointed dinners own sunday. I don't give
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 8: a damn how you feel about me, man, Please, you
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 8: think I ain't already experienced that.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 2: When you get through hating me, what do you want?
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: I can't stand you. I guess we can't get no
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 2: money to you that he's sitting over there, no big
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 2: old house. He always going on vacation. Don't never take us. Okay,
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 2: what you want? Can I hold four hundred dollars?
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 12: That's today's rounded, would you rather?
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: Thanks?
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 12: Guys?
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 7: Coming up at forty nine minutes after it's our last
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  Speaker 7: break of the day, and we'll close out the show
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 7: with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 9: You're listening Hary Morning Show.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 7: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 7: the day on this Thursday, and Steve, I know you
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 7: have some.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 12: Words of wisdom to take us out.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, oh.
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 8: Just said you know, we've been talking about the voting,
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 8: and that's him important. That's one of the most important
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 8: things we could do in twenty twenty four. And in
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 8: terms of vote politics, it's not more important than your family,
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 8: It's not more important than your relationships.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: I got that.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 8: I'm just talking about for politically, it's the most important
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 8: thing we could do. But I want to remind people
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 8: about something. You know so many times, you know, I
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 8: learned that the what am I trying to say? Just
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 8: saying that I learn Oh, the biggest thief of joy
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 8: is comparison. The biggest thief of joy is comparison. If
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 8: you want to steal your joy, compare yourself to other people.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 8: If you want to really mess your day up, look
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 8: at somebody doing better than you and start one and
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 8: why you ain't doing that well. Comparison is the number
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 8: one thief of joy because you know what, people don't
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 8: understand what you really have to do. Look, your competition
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 8: ain't other people. Your competition is you. You know what
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 8: your competition is. Your competition is your procrastination. It's it's
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 8: got you got to overcome delaying stuff all the time.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 8: That's your competition. Your competition is your negative thoughts. You've
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 8: got to eradicate negative thoughts from your mind. You've got
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 8: to replace that constantly with positive thoughts. All of us
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 8: have to work on that. That's what your competition is.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 8: Your competition is your comfort zone. You got to stop
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 8: getting comfortable in the comfort zone. You've got to challenge
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 8: yourself to get out of the comfort zone. Now, you
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 8: want to compete against something, competed competing against that, Compete
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 8: against your procrastination, Compete against your negative thoughts, compete against
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 8: your being and your comfort zone. If you compete against that,
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 8: you can win. The obstacles that you are facing are
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 8: not external, y'all. They are the doubts and fears that
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 8: hold you back from achieving your full potential.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: That's what it is.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 8: Man. You got to deal with that stuff. You got
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 8: to grapple with that quick worrying about other people. You
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 8: gotta enough.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: Look listen to me. You got twenty four to seven job.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: Take care of you.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 8: It take everything you got to get you where you're
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 8: trying to be. And if you're stopping to take time
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 8: to address other people, all you doing is delaying your gratification.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 8: You are delaying it because you don't have time. God
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 8: didn't design you for all them other people's opinions. You
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 8: need to worry about one thing, you and your relationship
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 8: with God, and that will help you with your relationship
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 8: with your wife, your spouse, your partner, your children, your job,
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 8: your coworkers, your dreams, your visions, your aspirations. The obstacles
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 8: that you're facing, y'all, is not external. Quit letting other
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 8: people trip you up because they not there to trip
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 8: you up. Your competition again, is your procrastination. Your competition
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 8: is fighting against your negative thoughts. Your competition is keeping
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 8: yourself out your comfort zone, because convenience is built through
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 8: a life of inconvenience. The only person you need to
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 8: beat is the person you was yesterday. Uh oh, did
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 8: I say something right there? I think I did. The
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 8: only person you need to beat is the person that
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 8: you were yesterday. If you do that, if you beat
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 8: who you were yesterday, success is undeniable.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 2: Yours.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 8: Compete against yourself. Stop worrying about what everybody else got.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 8: Comparison is the biggest thief of joy, comparing yourself. Do
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 8: you know, man, if you quit looking on the other
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 8: side of the fence, you might discover that you got
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 8: plenty on your side of the fence. Or if you
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 8: quit looking on the other side of the fence, you
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 8: could tend better to your side of the fence. While
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 8: my neighbor yard got all them pretty flowers over there,
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 8: put the flowers in your yard. You driving down the
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 8: block at the homeowners association looking at everybody house look.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 2: Better than yours. Now you go back home, you unhappy.
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 8: But oh okay, but you forgot the joy you had
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 8: the day you signed for the house. You forgot the
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 8: celebration you had when you bought your first house. Now
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 8: you done, drove down the street and somebody bought a
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 8: bigger house. Now you down there looking at they big house.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 8: Now you're going home? Now you mad pulling up in
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 8: your faux bedroom. What women, excuse me? You mad pulling
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 8: up in your What you mad pulling up in your
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 8: three bedroom home that you own?
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: Women? You mad pulling up in front of your full
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: bedroom home that you own? Whoa wha, whoa?
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 8: You mad pulling up in your condo that you owned,
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 8: the two bedroom condo that you own. Do you not
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 8: remember when you didn't have that? Do you not remember
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 8: when there was no rooms, when you didn't own nothing,
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 8: Remember when you had that apartment and you was renting?
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 7: Man?
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 8: Y'all, sometimes we trip our own self out. Quit competing
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 8: against other people. Compete against yourself. The only person you
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 8: need to beat is the person that you was yesterday.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 8: That's what keeps me focused. I know a lot of
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 8: people got way more money than me, But you know what,
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 8: I am so content with where I am because let
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 8: me tell you something. You can know somebody with more
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 8: money than you, and they be missing. I know that
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 8: for a fact too. The only person you need to
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 8: compete against is the person you was yesterday. Y'all have
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 8: a nice day, all right. Be grateful for where you
• 1:27:10
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• 1:27:14
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