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James Ingram, Jussie Smollett, Think Like A Man, B. Smith, Michael Cohen, Bill Cosby, Closing Remarks and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back a
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  Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving the move
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  Speaker 1: like amazing buck bus things and the cubs doing me
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  Speaker 1: true good at Steve ha listen to mother for stay.
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  Speaker 1: I don't join joined me to be doing me. Har
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  Speaker 1: You gotta use turn hur the moment. You gotta turn
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  Speaker 1: to turn, got to turn out, turn the water the water.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your back at it. Uh huh, I
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  Speaker 1: shore will a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, come on, y'all dig me now, one and
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  Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey got a radio show man. Is God
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  Speaker 1: good to me? Unbelievable? Yeah, it is. And I can
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  Speaker 1: only attribute it to one thing. It's just been a
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  Speaker 1: turnaround in my life. It's it's been me finally making
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  Speaker 1: a decision to see what all God has for me,
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  Speaker 1: but at the same time trying to be more God
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  Speaker 1: wants me to be instead of more of what I
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  Speaker 1: want to be. That's the trade off. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta do something now, you know you know you want
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  Speaker 1: God's blessings. You gotta be willing to do something on
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  Speaker 1: his behalf. Now I'm not saying I got it right
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  Speaker 1: right now, because man, I just don't. I'm just being
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  Speaker 1: real with you. I don't. I don't have it all
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  Speaker 1: together by any stretch of imagination. I'm trying to get
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  Speaker 1: better in several areas. I'm praying about it. I'm working
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  Speaker 1: on it. But you know, it's a process, and I've
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  Speaker 1: I've grown to accept the process. But I'm improving in
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  Speaker 1: a lot of areas from day to day. But I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you what, man, my success all is going on
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  Speaker 1: with me I can only attribute to this turnaround. And
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  Speaker 1: the turnaround was simple. I turned around and started looking
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  Speaker 1: at God. That was a simple move, man. I just
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  Speaker 1: turned around and started looking at him, and I was going, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I get it. Now, you created me. You're the creator.
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  Speaker 1: You have a purpose for me. I understand that. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Now let me just walk in that purpose and let
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  Speaker 1: me get to doing that purpose. Now, my purpose and
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  Speaker 1: your purpose and their purpose and anybody's perfect purpose could
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  Speaker 1: be different, and the way you go about the purpose
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  Speaker 1: can be different. And that's the part that I've really
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  Speaker 1: grown up to. I've opened up my mind to understanding
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  Speaker 1: that everybody's different, nobody's quite the same, and that is
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  Speaker 1: not my right or position to judge, but to be
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  Speaker 1: of a forgiving spirit and understand and forgive those as
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  Speaker 1: I ask God to forgive me. See that's the key.
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  Speaker 1: That's the key, y'all. So when you out here and
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  Speaker 1: you stuck on this unforgiveness, understand in the large prayer
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  Speaker 1: as a segment that says, forgive us our trust passes
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  Speaker 1: as we forgive those who trust pass against us. There's
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  Speaker 1: another verges says forgive us our debts, as we forgive
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  Speaker 1: our debt us. It's two different versions, but either one
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  Speaker 1: it means the exact same thing. It means simply this
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  Speaker 1: that you are asking God to forgive yours like you
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  Speaker 1: forgive others. Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive
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  Speaker 1: those who trust pass against us. When I cross the
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  Speaker 1: line with you, God handle me the way I handle
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  Speaker 1: people when they cross the line with me. You feel
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you, See, you understand that. That's
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  Speaker 1: the breakdown of it. Best way I can give it
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  Speaker 1: to you. Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive
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  Speaker 1: those who trust pass against us. Forgive me God for
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  Speaker 1: stepping over the line, like I forgive those that step
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  Speaker 1: over the line on me. That's the hard part. Man.
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  Speaker 1: That's the part man, I've really been working on. I've
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  Speaker 1: been really trying to get that together. And so I've
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  Speaker 1: learned forgiveness a lot better over the past five years
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  Speaker 1: than I have before. And it's paid off. I can't
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  Speaker 1: tell you how it was paid off, because now God's
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  Speaker 1: mercy and grace is all over me, because I've learned
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  Speaker 1: to become more graceful. Now I ain't graceful like him,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't merciful like him, but I've learned to become
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  Speaker 1: more more graceful, more merciful, because man, I can't live
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  Speaker 1: my life like that. I just got sick of me. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you're mad at me now I'm mad at you. You
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  Speaker 1: hate on me, Now I'm gonna hate on you. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't got time for that. Man. Love got you. Look here,
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  Speaker 1: you got somewhere to go. Hate take up time. It's
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  Speaker 1: time consuming. Hating Trying to seek revenge, it's time consuming,
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  Speaker 1: take up way too much of your time to seek
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  Speaker 1: revenge when vengeance ain't really yours. That's another one. Vengeance
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  Speaker 1: is mine, say if the Lord it ain't yours. So
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  Speaker 1: now when you go to seek it to take it out,
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  Speaker 1: guess what you're doing you're doing something now. Man, Now
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  Speaker 1: you off in the area that you've got no business
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  Speaker 1: being in, and instead of steady climbing your ladder like
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  Speaker 1: you're supposed to, you didn't take out time for vengeance
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  Speaker 1: to hate. I'm a hater. I'm gonna be a blogger.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a blog about so and so. When you're blogging
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  Speaker 1: about somebody, and most of these people you don't even
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  Speaker 1: know when you're blogging about somebody what you're doing, what
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  Speaker 1: you're hating. It takes time to hate. Man. I just decided, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta take all my time and instead of have
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  Speaker 1: doing time and being active, I got to be proactive.
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  Speaker 1: See some people get that confused, being active and being proactive.
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  Speaker 1: Pro is positive. Pro means to move forward. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if you put pro in front of most words, it's
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  Speaker 1: a positive influence. You know, does the pros and the cons.
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  Speaker 1: The pros is the good side, the cons is what
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  Speaker 1: can go wrong the bad side. You know, if you're active,
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  Speaker 1: that's one thing, But if you're proactive, you're going forward
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  Speaker 1: in a positive direction. When you become a pro that
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  Speaker 1: means you the best of the best at whatever it
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  Speaker 1: is you chosen to be. I'm a pro so somehow,
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  Speaker 1: And I know English teacher grammatical god, the word pro
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  Speaker 1: a lot of times when you put it in front
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  Speaker 1: of something means positiveness. So now a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: think that if you just active something all to happen. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing something, and that's what happens. Man, We just
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  Speaker 1: find ourselves doing a lot of busy work that really
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  Speaker 1: ain't bout nothing, and it ain't going no where. It
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no direction or no purpose because we haven't
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  Speaker 1: tried to find out the direction or purpose. So you
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  Speaker 1: wake up and you and your wheels are spinning. You
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  Speaker 1: a hamster on a tread meal. You're running real fast,
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  Speaker 1: but you're just going in the same spot. You understand
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  Speaker 1: that's cause you're just out here being active instead of proactive.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you get God in your life. Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you turn and face your creative and find out how
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  Speaker 1: to become more proactive so you can do things to
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  Speaker 1: move yourself forward. How you can get your life off
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  Speaker 1: the ground and get off the tread meal and really
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  Speaker 1: get it rolling in the direction that it need to
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  Speaker 1: be going. Man, I'm telling you God can make that
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  Speaker 1: change for you if he see you making the change
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  Speaker 1: for him. See the whole key man, the whole kids.
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  Speaker 1: You got to be willing to do something. You got
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  Speaker 1: to give God something to bless bless me God, and
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  Speaker 1: then you go sit on your couch and you ain't trying. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: bless me God with what? What? What? What are working with?
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  Speaker 1: He can't have the people hire you if you ain't
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  Speaker 1: put the app in. Come on, man, how you how
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  Speaker 1: you think this works? You know he can't heal your
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  Speaker 1: body if you ain't gonna take the medicine and you
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna do none of the things to counteract. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you can't get lung cancer and then keep smoking and
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  Speaker 1: then expect the blessing to come. Come on, man, the
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  Speaker 1: blessing comes when you make a proactive step, when you
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  Speaker 1: try to do something on the positive side. Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna quit messing around with all these people. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna start going home. I'm gonna leave these women loan
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  Speaker 1: out here. You got to say, all right, man, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't going over that at night. I just ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: get Then God can work with you. God help me
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  Speaker 1: stop seeing all these women. But you steady going over
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  Speaker 1: there calling them setting up stuff. We can't nobody help you,
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  Speaker 1: because once you get over there, you already know. See,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta get proactive. You gotta do something yourself. You
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  Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. That that's the key man.
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  Speaker 1: So come on, y'all. You know, but we can straighten
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  Speaker 1: this thing all the way out for ourselves. You don't
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  Speaker 1: have to be wondering what's going on all the time.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to be confused anymore. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: to have your life in the rut. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: to hate waking up in the morning. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: to feel like your life is going nowhere. That is
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  Speaker 1: an answer for all of this. Turn around and look
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  Speaker 1: at God. Why what you got to lose? Why would
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  Speaker 1: you not try it? Just turn around and face him,
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  Speaker 1: Turn around and try to make yourself a more righteous brother.
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  Speaker 1: Just look, man, I'm gonna do better. You feeling all right,
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  Speaker 1: morning up, morning up. The food in the build, everybody's
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  Speaker 1: CNN last night at all. Don't know what's happening. Just
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  Speaker 1: too tired to see what the hell he did today?
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  Speaker 1: Anything happened I need to know about. Rogerston't run his mouth,
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, let me tell you something, man, rogerston't gonna
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  Speaker 1: flip like a pancakes. Let me tell you something. He
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  Speaker 1: don't even look like he bill in mate, only people
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  Speaker 1: They tell Yeah, ain't nobody in there for a yeah?
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  Speaker 1: They all in that. Man. Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: Roger Stone ain't gonna do no time you're telling about
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  Speaker 1: he love. He'll never do. I testified against the president.
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  Speaker 1: When they tell you how many years you're gonna get,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna you're gonna tell something. See what happened to
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  Speaker 1: Michael Cohen? Boy, Let me tell you something and trump them.
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  Speaker 1: They have been threatening this guy because that statements about
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, like ask his father in law. Oh yeah, no,
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  Speaker 1: be throwing stuff out like out of't know where, and
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  Speaker 1: it is always connected to something. You know what they said, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: when Roger Stone came out that day and said I
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  Speaker 1: will never testify against the president, that was his code
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  Speaker 1: for I'm gonna eat that part. Well, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you something. He fin the same, he's been the president.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna have to part himself in a few years, right, right,
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  Speaker 1: But you know it and the beat goes on, don't it. Guys?
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  Speaker 1: Everything good man, Keep living your life from I still,
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  Speaker 1: even when things go wrong, I just keep expecting that
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  Speaker 1: it's all for a reason. I'm just looking for great things.
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  Speaker 1: That man's twenty nineteen. Man, I got it shaken. You know,
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  Speaker 1: maybe he wants me to take a break. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the plan is. I'm just listening.
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  Speaker 1: But boy, let me tell you something. What are he
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  Speaker 1: gonna do for me? Though, I'm gonna need everybody be
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  Speaker 1: paying attention. That's all. Like he sucks all his teeth.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get everybody's gonna was little. He sucked alway
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  Speaker 1: across too. I can't do well, you got you? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he had all of them. Damn man, he can flow
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  Speaker 1: with his littles. It just sounds right, Yeah, it was funny.
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  Speaker 1: Though you don't think I heard that. I know you've
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  Speaker 1: gone from who had the big lifts the whole time.
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  Speaker 1: You haven't understand y'all can't write the stuff being written
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  Speaker 1: about me. All right, guys, coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, we're gonna switch gears a little bit
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  Speaker 1: to some sad news. We're gonna pay tribute to the
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  Speaker 1: R and B Legend. He was a friend of the
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. James Ingram, Finger Extraordinary passed away
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  Speaker 1: yesterday and uh, we'll talk about that right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show R and B Legend James Ingram,
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  Speaker 1: who hit number one on the charts with Baby Come
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  Speaker 1: to Me, and y'allma be there and one up suit y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there. McDonald y'all, y'all, I'm gonna be there,
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  Speaker 1: compliment what she does, send her roses just because if
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  Speaker 1: it's vially she loves. Let them play man, no songs
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  Speaker 1: like that. James Eglan was a bad boy. What else
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  Speaker 1: was it? From here too? Um? Baby come to me, Baby,
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  Speaker 1: come to me. Let me put my arms around you
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  Speaker 1: like it was made to be. Oh boy, come on
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  Speaker 1: every verse two boy that was a jamboy. Who can
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  Speaker 1: laud made that famous on a boy? Him and Patty
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  Speaker 1: Money with that man. James Ingram was just a good
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  Speaker 1: spirited dude. Man. Yes, I heard Debbie Allenbie and Debbie
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  Speaker 1: him and Debbie was good friends friend. That's how I
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  Speaker 1: found out about it. Yeah, Debbie Allen post. According to TMZ,
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  Speaker 1: the cause of death was brain cancer. James Ingram and
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  Speaker 1: his longtime collaborator Quincy Jones co wrote Michael Jackson smash
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  Speaker 1: pyt and then you just mentioned Debbie Allen Steve. She's
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  Speaker 1: just heartbroken. She broke the news on social media like
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  Speaker 1: you said. She posted, I have lost my dearest friend
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  Speaker 1: and creative partner, James Ingram to the celestial choir. He
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  Speaker 1: will always be cherished, loved, and remembered for his genius,
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  Speaker 1: his love of family, and his humanity. I am blessed
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  Speaker 1: to have been so close. We will forever speak his name. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Great dude, great dude. He had an right about He
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  Speaker 1: did have a few kids. I think about six kids
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  Speaker 1: or something. Six kids. I think he had wrong with no,
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  Speaker 1: not at all. Yeah. Yeah, they haven't said what it
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  Speaker 1: was what he passed from. Yeah, Yeah, Wow, yeah, do
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  Speaker 1: you'll remember just once? Just how can plate that at
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  Speaker 1: our eighth grade graduations? Just what can we figure? What
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  Speaker 1: do we keep doing it wrong? You better sing Harvard
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  Speaker 1: stuff in my soul? Man, right, it's all down in me. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't get it, Junior saying I didn't get it, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: the one put the melody to June. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what you said to do what you did? Again? I said,
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  Speaker 1: just once? He tried. Try. I like the way you
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  Speaker 1: you fade your notes out one more times. That's how
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  Speaker 1: I hid in my head just once. See how see
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  Speaker 1: how all his words just fade out? Throw you, Jack?
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know, Junior, when you throw
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  Speaker 1: you saying the note. What you're supposed to do is
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  Speaker 1: you supposed to take the bre and you're saying the note.
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  Speaker 1: Doubt you don't suck the note in? Jack? See it
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  Speaker 1: pulling that in trying to sing it? Just once? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead, just was just washed, just washed? What maybe
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  Speaker 1: try to Oh that's a compliment. My husband loves what
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  Speaker 1: she does. Send her roses just because if it's vily
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  Speaker 1: she loves. Let them play. Well, you a got to
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  Speaker 1: sing the song, all right, Try a little bit you man.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, that's tough arms tonight. She'll reflect that she
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  Speaker 1: allus you sweet asked of dance fine, hundred ways and
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  Speaker 1: one hundred way. Come on, Junior, may okay, try so
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  Speaker 1: I could just go ahead. I'm gonna do it low
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  Speaker 1: you go on top, no compliment what she doesn't okay,
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  Speaker 1: let me try to do it without looking at you.
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  Speaker 1: I can't look at you because I'm prob. All right,
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  Speaker 1: let's start over you alright, without compliment. What she does
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  Speaker 1: see her roses, just because if it's by you live,
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  Speaker 1: she looks. Okay, let them play. Okay, that was good.
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  Speaker 1: Wait on a minute. Did I just hit something? Get it? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: I just said, don't be laughing at me. Pick your
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  Speaker 1: face up. Maybe man, he just set up his trail
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  Speaker 1: and put his head shave me and Junior, I want
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  Speaker 1: you to hit that note because I was gonna boo.
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  Speaker 1: You like Apollo? Yes? Yes, yes? What about Secret gard?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yes yeah, secre Garden. There he was very white.
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  Speaker 1: He was in there like it was a movie. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: El Debars, el de bars very white. Quincy Jones, Oh
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  Speaker 1: yeahs a little bit. Let me hear you want to read.
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  Speaker 1: I want to reach your mom come on, feelings is
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  Speaker 1: that if this was Joe to see you read? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, we'll get it together during the break.
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  Speaker 1: Here coming up next, it is a nephew with run
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  Speaker 1: that frank back to me. We love you, James Ingram
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  Speaker 1: will miss you. You're listening to show coming up at
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  Speaker 1: the top of the hour entertainment news. But right now
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  Speaker 1: it is the nephew. He is here with today's prank
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  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for his neph Can I
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  Speaker 1: borrow your freezer? Can I borrow your freezer? I need
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  Speaker 1: a freezer or something some here you go? Alied Equipment,
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  Speaker 1: does is tree on? How can I help you? I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to reach Dale. Dale's the manager, right, Yes, Dale
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  Speaker 1: is the manager. How can I help you? Okay? Is
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  Speaker 1: Dale available? Is he there? Keep actually with a customer?
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  Speaker 1: Is there something that I can help you with? Or
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  Speaker 1: pass along the message? Okay? So y'all Allied Equipment? What what? What?
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  Speaker 1: What exactly do y'all have there? I'm gonna make sure
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  Speaker 1: I'm calling the right place. Oh yes, of course. Um
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  Speaker 1: it's a restaurant supply company. Um. So we have you know,
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  Speaker 1: everything from freezers, refrigerators to your basic restaurant supplies. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: do y'all do have freezings, because that's what I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to do. What I'm trying to do is, uh, I've
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  Speaker 1: run out of freezer space, and I'm trying to see
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  Speaker 1: if possibly, you know, my back is up against the
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  Speaker 1: wall right now. I'm trying to see if I can
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  Speaker 1: possibly uh put something in one of you as freezes
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: for a couple of days until I get freed up
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: on this end. So that's why I wanted to see
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: if you guys would allow me to do something like that.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Is that possible? Um, sir, Sorry, I'm a little confused.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I don't want to buy a freezer. You just want
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: to put something in one of our freezers. I just
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: want to put something there for a couple of days
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: because I have a freezer, but mine is completely full,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: and I'm trying to see if I can put something
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: you as freezer until, you know, for a couple of days,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: and then I'll come back and get it. Um. I'm
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: so sorry. We don't do that. Um Uh. If you
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: wanted to come by and purchase a freezer, I'm having
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: to help you, but we don't allow outside vendors to
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: put things in our freezers. That's that's yeah, that's I'm sorry. Okay,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: well I was sold. If Bale would hear what was
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: going on, he might he might be able to help
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: me though. Okay, Um, you said your name was Kevin. Okay, Kevin,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: if you just hold him and I will see if
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Dell can take your call. That's that's what the hell
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I asked it in the first place. Is speaks death. Okay,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: then please, Hey, this is Della. I can't help you. Hey, Dale,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: how you doing this? Is uh? Kevin Kevin, And I've
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: been on the phone with with uh the salespersons. But
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: let me tell you what I'm trying to do. Man.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I'm um, I'm trying to use your You have a
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: lot of walk in freezers that you all sell, right right,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: we do? Yeah? Okay, So what what I got is
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: my freezer is completely full, man, and I'm I'm my
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: back is against the wall. You can't highly recommended to
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: give you a call? Is it possible for me to? Um,
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I need to keep something frozen for a few days. Uh,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: it's only gonna be like two days. My my freezer
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: will be uh you know, half empty. In a couple
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: of days. I just want to just need some somebody
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: to just kind of help me out here. Is it
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: possible for me to bring something over there to keep
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: keep it frozen for a couple of the days. You
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: know what? We got into show room, you know, with
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: different displays so you can see what different kind of
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: refrigerators look in your restaurants. But I mean, if you
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: want to come and take a look at one, I
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: could have yet if you're interested in buying one. But no, no,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: you're just there for show, you know, right right? No, No,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I have a cooler, I have a freeze already, but
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: like I say, mine is just full. In a couple
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: of days it won't be And I really got to
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: get this this stuff on frozen. Man, I'm gonna be
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: in trouble. Like I said, I'm I'm my back against
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: the wall over here. Man. And um, I can't remember
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: who recommended you, but you can't highly recommended that you
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: might be able to show me a little love on
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: this look. I guess it comes back depends on what
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: do you need? How much? How much do you have
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: do you need frozen? I mean I don't even know
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: what you well, well, I got um three bodies that
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I need to get um to keep, you know, to
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: keep frozen. Man. You know we run the mortuary over here.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: This is bose body. Yeah we got three people bodies. Yeah, yeah,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: we got three bodies that and like I said, my
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: my freezers full. Man. But in a couple of days,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: you know, these bodies, you know, the funerals would have happened,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: so we'll be freed up, you know. But right now
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I got I got three bodies coming in the day
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: that I got to get in the freezer. Are you crazy?
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Are you damn mind? No? No, no, I'm dead serious.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: I'm dead sis. Bro. So I'm like I said, you
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: can't highly recommend it. You know, I'm just trying to
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: get somebody to show me a little love. Man. You
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: got those freezes, you don't have nothing in them, you know,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I just needed for a couple of days. You gotta
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: be out of your mind. We're not talking about ice.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: This is a chicken wings or reports shoulder. He's a people.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: You are out of your mind, man, But but listen
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: to me down, then listen to what I'm gonna you
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: understand how serious is is I have to keep them frozen.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: That's the reason why I'm calling. I'm needing your help, man. Yeah,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I understand that. Look, if you want to, I'll have
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: you come in to buy your own freezer. You can
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: put your own bodies in your own freezer. How much
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: fun to show off my shoulder room with frozen bodies
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: and the freezing. But just just don't just don't show
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: that one for a couple of days, you know what
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, don't just don't show it all wall just
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: come you know what? You know what here? What we
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: could do. We could put the bodies in there, just
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: cover them up and people don't want to know what
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, and then I get a buyer that
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: comes in and the cover falls off it and I
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: got a frozen dead body and my freezer. Is that
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: even legal? I don't know. Man. All I'm saying is
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: there's a deal. Man, you can't highly recommended. They told
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: me that you would probably show me so love. I'm actually,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: you know, getting ready to load up and come your way. Dude,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: you can't those dead bodies away from my store. I'm
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: telling you right now, I can't hook you up on
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: this one, all right. I just can't do it. Okay,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: But we're shouldn't load up and come that weight though. Man,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying, it's I mean, what
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: am I supposed to do? I have no you know what?
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: You want to come talk to me. You want to
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: buy a freezer for yourself and you want to freeze
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: your dead bodies on your own. I don't care. I'll
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: tell you a freezer. I got no problem with selling
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: you a freezer. But you're not bringing the bodies here.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: It's just not happening. So if Alonzo, if Alonzo calls
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: you and green lights it is it, okay, then I
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: highly down. Alonzo's gonna call me and tell me to
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: put freak a body and wait on our showroom for freezers.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I made out that. Okay, okay, but but but guess
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: what Alonzo told me? What did alons I'm telling you,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Alonzo told me to give you a call. He told
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: me to give you a plank phone call. This is
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: not from the Steve Hoping moment. Come on, are you serious? Yes? Yes,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I'm having my chatter. Oh oh jeez, that guy, Well
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: you just you just got franked by your GM baby.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: That's why happening right here? All right? Man, give me
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: one more thing you gotta tell me this is right
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: here Dale, what is the bad? And I'm talking about
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. It is the
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show, my friend. You know, sometimes you
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: need a freezer, you know, you know, you know montrearies
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: need freezers too, and sometimes they get a little overloaded.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: You understand that. Yeah, I mean, it made sense, didn't
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: it that I call a man on a bar a
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: free nothing you do make sense? Three bodies, It was
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: just three bodies. Quit trying to act putting normalacy to this.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: You just like my damn president, that that was low.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: That was the something that was so tious. You actually
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: gotta take that back. This is playground talk. You gotta
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: take that back. That was dis all right. Coming up
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we'll get into some
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: entertainment news that's coming up right after this. You're listening
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Some sad news and entertainment. This
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: is according to TMZ. Grammy winning r and b Legend
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: singer songwriter James Ingram has died from a battle with
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: brain cancer. James had been fighting the cancer for an
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: extended period of time. Actress and choreographer Debbie Allen reacted
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: to the news on Tuesday, saying, quote, I have lost
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: my dearest friend. James Ingram recorded several chart toppers eight
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: in the eighties, including his number one duet with Patty
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Austin baby come to Me, Oh Lord, such great music. Yeah,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: one hundred ways and just once. He also won a
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Grammy for Yama Be There, his duet with Michael McDonald,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: and another four one hundred ways. He couldn't be denied
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: with that one. James Ingram, of course, worked closely with
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Quincy Jones over the years, recording and writing hits. For instance,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: he and Q co wrote Michael Jackson's pyt Yeah, Young Thing, Yeah, Legend, Steve,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: We're losing all the great ones, man. You know, man,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: it's like it's it's really sad because music. Um, you know,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: I had Shaka Khan on the show the other day
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: and I asked Shaka Khan. I said, Shaka, what's the
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: big difference between artists of yesterday in your era and
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: artists today? And she, without hesitation, she said, it's talent.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Oh wow. And it's and I think, because you know
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: what she's saying is she's saying it from this standpoint.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: It's not to saying that these artists today aren't talent,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: because there are something I can go down the list
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: of some bad people out there. Beyonce is the Michael
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Jackson of She's a queen of partner. Yeah, she's She's
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: the best female performer I've ever seen in my life.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I've seen all of them. Wow, I've seen them all.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: You know. I never saw Ella Fitzgerald perform. I heard her,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: but and I've heard Whitney's voice. Whitney's voice is the
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: best I've ever heard. But total performance, it's Beyonce. I've
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: never seen that. There are some voices out there, you know,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: or some stylis you know, but of yesterday, what she
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: was saying was it was so many it was nothing
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: for you to do. But saying you know it was
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: no you know, rap wing out then, you know, you
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: had to be you had to be able to sing though.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: And even when rap first called on, it was still
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: R and B out there. We still had adult contemporary
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: music and the talent level was just outstanding. And that's
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: what it is today. Man, It's just you've got to
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: go every so often. Today they produced a single where
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: you go, Wow, there's Beyonce Okay, that girl a Dale
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: can say, oh my god. You know, you look around,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: you know, and you go, okay, Now, wait a minute.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Christina Aguilara can flat out blow you know what I'm saying.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Vivian Green can say, Lettuce can blow Leicia Keys give
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: it to a jail Scott. You know, but Jill Scott
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: came out in two thousands. That was eighteen nineteen years.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. Yeah, so Shako was back in the seventies. Yeah, yeah,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: you understand different. That era of singers you will never
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: get again. I'm telling you you'll never get them again.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Well the problem yeah, yeah, well anyway, yes, please rest
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: in peace. James Ingram. All right, Steve, time for today's headlines,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne trip, Thanks everybody. Yes, this
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: is an trip with the news. The weather is still
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the big story in many parts of the country this morning.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: In fact, more than seventy five percent of the US
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: population is going to face subzero temperatures subzero this week
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: due to something called a polar vortex, which is pushing
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: frigid air south from the North Pole. Now in the
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Midwest they're really getting at The frozen air is being
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: blamed for the deaths of at least three people so
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: far in Chicago. Later today, the high is expected to
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: be only fifteen degrees below zero. That's the high temperature
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: ats believe it or not, more cold than it is
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: in Antarctica right now. Heavy snow is in certain parts,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: so it has caused highway up pile ups and closures.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Of course, thousands of airline flights have been canceled all
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: over the country. It's so cold that mail delivery has
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: been canceled in at least six states. Chicago police say
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: they're investigating what looks like to have been a hate
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: crime committed against Empire star Jesse Smollett. Authorities say that Smalllett,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: who is gay, was attacked by two men yelling rachel
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: and homophobic slurs at him. They wrapped a rope around
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: his neck, he says. The sixty thirty six year old
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: actor also says they threw some unknown substance on him
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: and then started beating him. Jesse small is reportedly in
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: good condition, thank good, and they're looking for those guys.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: California Democratic Senator Kamala Harris was in Ohio earlier this
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: week after announcing her intention run for president. The senator
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: laid out her positions on the issues. For instance, Harris
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: says she will not vote for a southern border wall
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: even though the Republicans are in charge of the Senate,
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: and she addressed the Dream Act or DACA recipients, we
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: should not be trading on your life for the sake
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: of the political games that this president is playing and
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: trying to vilify young people like you who are doing
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: nothing except being productive and believing in and living the
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: American dream. Harris is the daughter of a Jamaican father
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: and an East Indian mother, and she says she supports
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: medicare for all and dealing effectively with climate change. Her
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: critics claimed it as a prosecutor, her record was not
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: that progressive. Well, you see that stuff working out on
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: the campaign trail. Top officials in the nation's intelligence community
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: strongly disagree with President Trump's boasts about what he's been
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: able to accomplish with the North Koreans despite ongoing negotiations.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: The Director of National Intelligence says that Kim John Ill
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: does not appear willing to completely dismantle its nuclear program,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: which is something that Donald Trump has been saying. Oh yes,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: he's been successful in getting the folks at Apples say
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: they've disabled the group of chat and malfunction problems on FaceTime.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: It was a software glitch that allowed calls to activate
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: other person's microphones remotely, even if they didn't answer the calls.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: And ending today, unfortune was said. And shocking news. Yes
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: you heard Shirley and Steven, I'm talking about a Grammy
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Award winning singer James Ingram has died at age sixty six,
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: reportedly of brain cancer. James Ingram was nominated for several
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Grammys and Oscars. He won two Grammys, one for Yamo
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: Be There with Michael Donald McDonald and for this one Again.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Singer James Ingram did at age sixty six. He will
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: be missed. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: You're listening, Jesse, Smalalette and the rest of the Empire
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: cast will have armed security as production of the show continues. Jesse,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: as we all heard on yesterday, was hospitalized after he
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: suffered a horrific homophobic and racist attack. This is also
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: according to TMZ. Jesse was brutally attacked by two men
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: who beat him up, put his head in a noose
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: and screamed, this is maga country. You know what magastands
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: for Make America great again. This according to reports, Jesse
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: arrived in Chicago from New York late on Monday and
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: around two am, he said he was hungry and he
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: went to a subway to get something to eat, to
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: get a sandwich, when shortly after that he walked out
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: and on his way home, someone yelled, aren't you that
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: F word? Empire? N word. The two men, both white
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: and wearing ski masks, viciously attacked Jesse as he fought back,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: but they beat him badly and fractured a rib. They
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: put a rope around his neck, poured bleach on him,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: and as they left, they yelled, this is Maga country again.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Make America great again. They're looking for him. Yeah, the
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: President needs to say something, denounce what happened. Does yeh,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: he's not, but he should. I don't expect him to
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: breathe a word about this. And the reason I don't
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: think he's gonna breathe a word about it is because
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: he created those hats. Yeah, there are people who put
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: on those hats because make America great Again symbols symbolizers
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: to them make They want to go back to a
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: period when they identify America as great again. That's why
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: when I see a black person with that hat on,
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: I'm completely shocked because I'm trying to look at your
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: black ass and try to figure out what period in
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: the past you thought is we are to go back
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: to it again? Where what you what sixties, seventies, fifties, eighties,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: where you're trying to get back to that was so
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: great for us. That startles me when I see black
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: people with that hat on. But the white groups that
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: wear the hat that are racist. Now, everybody that has
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: the hat on is not a racist. It's not a
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: white supremacist hate group. Some people wear the hat because
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: they interpreted make America great again something else. I don't
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: see what that is, but they do. So you can't
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: lump people together because they got a red hat on
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: and call them a racist or a hate group. I
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: don't believe that to be true. But when you put
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: it on in the name of hat, then you're wearing
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: the hat because that's what it does for you. And
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: you got to look at the source where they had
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: come from. It came from the dude that's in the
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: white up. Real Talk coming up at thirty four after
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: the hour, asked Steve, as we celebrate the tenth anniversary
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: of Acts Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. Oh,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: show you that you're listening to show? All right, we're
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: celebrating the tenth anniversary of your book, Steve, Act Like
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: a Lady, Think Like a Man. I cannot believe it's
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: been ten years. I can't. Okay, God, yeah, yea. So
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: we're taking time now to ask Steve relationship questions from
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: um from Steve HARVEYFM dot com. Now here's a question.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: It's rather long, so get ready. Here's a question submitted
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: from one of your loyal fans. Her name is Monica S.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: She says, Hi, Steve, you were great with women and
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: how to understand how men really think and are. Here's
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: the new dilemma. Now that women are stronger, more successful,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: and have a voice, many men feel less than or
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: not good enough to quote, get her or ask her out.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: And I'm talking about many men. Can you do a
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: show or start a movement for men on how to
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: move with the cycle and not be intimidated. For today's
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: woman to up their game as we women are to
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: rise to the occasion. I have this conversation with my
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: twenty two year old often So this is from Monica
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: s Steve Well. I think let me let me let
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: me start it by saying this, first of all, ladies.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: The the intimidation that men are feeling today, it's because
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: when you, as women, raise your standards, when you raise
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: the bar, that's a higher jump than we have to make.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: And it's not that it's men are intimidated to jump
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: that high. It's just that they've never been required to
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: in the past. So you've created a new dilemma. And
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: you're absolutely correct, that is a new dilemma that's created.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: But it's a great new dilemma because men will respond accordingly.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: It'll take them a minute, but they're gonna find out okay,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: oh okay, So they didn't pull it together, Oh they
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: got their self esteem together. Oh, they ain't falling for
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: this trick no more. And then a man just has
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: to make the adjustment that, okay, cool, this one's not
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: for games. And what you've actually done is that you've
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: you've eliminated the pretenders, so to speak. So the men
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: that aren't about to rise up to climb over your bar,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: they've been knocked out. And it's not by intimidation. They
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: really just wouldn't go. They're not at your level? So
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: what you want? I'm not gonna ask you to dumb
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: it down. But if a guy's not willing to step
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: over the bar you've created, it's not that he's intimidated.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: He just don't qualify. Every man can't qualify for you.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, And you shouldn't give every man a chance
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: with you. It ain't no damn you know. This ain't
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: no time to be man. I give everybody this shot
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: to be fair to say what this is that nice?
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: So what should she do? Should she move in different
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: circles getting well? You know, as you elevate your game,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: you know, the game got to be exposed to different places.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: You know. It's other dating sites other than swipe right,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: swipe left. It's things going on other than bumble. It's
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: stuff out there that you know, elite datas you know.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: You know, it's it's a lot of stuff out there
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: that cost a little bit more to get one, and
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know them all. But there's other places to meet.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: There's places you can go and associate that brings on
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: a different client tale of people. But if you keep
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: hanging around the same people, you go the same church,
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: the same dude coming in every s They a whole
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: lot of new dudes coming in. So you're saying she's
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: got to change her surroundings, do some different things. Yeah,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: of course that's who she wants to attract. If you've elevated,
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: you got to get where at. But for the time being,
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: thought he wants to just don't nobody the one she
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: don't want to go below down there where you are.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: I ain't down there. I'm just I'm down there. You
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: woke up. Some women want to come down here. No
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: they don't. There's bottom feeders, top feeders type. Someone's bottom feeders.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: I mean, you may end up with it, but you
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: don't want to know. You're not Katherine. She's good Tommy
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: until you don't head turbot? What is turbo? Maybe you
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: need to get yourself some turbot? What what? What lake is? Daddy?
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: And what is turbot? All right, we gotta move on, guys.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is a nephew with the pranking
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: phone call for today. Right after this when you called
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: a turbot's too fast? Shut up? You're listening Morning show,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: all right, guys coming up at the top of the
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: hour right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: for today. Subject wait till you hear this one. You
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: have to take the good with the bad. But right
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: now the nephew is here. What is that marriage? Oh
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you'll see this is this is a crazy one, Steve.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: But right now, nephew Tommy is here with today's praying
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: phone called neph What you get drug test? Time to
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: take a drug test? Yeah? Yeah, people job, Yeah at
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: the job drug test? That's right, baby? Yeah? Pass man? Yeah? Okay,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: what they want? I ain't get none. Well, listen to
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: this later. Right here here it is hello. Hello, I'm
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: trying to reach a Fay. Please, this is hello. This
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: is Officer Rodgers from the Probation Department. Yes, sir, listen
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: now you have been on probation for a little over
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: a year now, all right, faith, Yes you correct. Now
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to be serving two years probation too. All
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: right now, I'm giving you a call. Actually I'm bringing
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: you a bit of bad news. And I hate to
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: do this, but you you came in for a couple, um,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago and did did a drug test?
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Am I right? All right now, Fay, I don't I
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: hate to bring you some bad news, but the actual
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: drug test that you took has come back positive. Last.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a last. Wait
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: a minute, Wait a minute. Now, you came in a
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, you took a drug test. This
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: drug test has actually come in positive. Now, what I
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: want to say to you is this, you're gonna have
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: to Actually my test wasn't positive. You got hold on
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: a second. I either need you to come in to
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: me or I don't, and I don't want to save
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: the embarrassment of having to send a car out to
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: pick you up. Now, embarrassment you're talking about stuff. I
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: gave you some and my was good, ma'am. Right now,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: I got you have a positive drug Tell you have
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: you you you come up positive? Man? Now you gotta
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: if they use man, we use the one that you
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: brought us now must have been the wrong one. Couldn't
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: have been, man, sir. I'm sorry, sir, but I wouldn't
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: have gave you no bad YearIn it just wouldn't me. Man,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I don't want to have it back to jab. I
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: don't even know how you would call me with this nonsense.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: I got children I'm trying to do right. I don't
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: know why you would call me. I wouldn't have gave
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: you no bad That's not me, said fly ma'am. Listen,
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: you have to come in and do another three months now,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Oh sir, y'all can come pick me up. I can
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: tell you right now. I can ple in your hand
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: if you want me to. Ma'am, your yearine has come
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: back positive of drugs. Now, I don't I don't know
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: any other way to explain it to you. You've been
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: actually evidently using drugs again. First, I'm trying to tell you,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: I don't you know drugs. I've been clean for a
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: year and some months. Now. You got the rum that's
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: not my How do you telling you that? How do
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: you know it's not yours? Ma'am? It's got your name
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: on the lid. Everything you have come back positives, whatever
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: dinner you put your name on it, because that ain't
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: came back, would have came back good. You can't tell
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: me and tell me I gave you some man. Can't
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: call me and tell me that that's a negative, sir,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: that's a double negative. It's not a double negative, it's
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: a double positive. You've actually come back positive, say he
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: has written here on the actual cup. Maybe yeah, I'm
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: more than one fake. No, No, we don't have more
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: than one. Faith. You're the only thing I've actually double
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: checked out myself. You need to either come in or
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: we got to come out and hal you're behind in here. Well,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I need you to come right now, because I got
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: the right now right now? Are you trying to tell
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: me that if I come and pick you up and
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: take your year and now your YearIn is gonna come
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: up negative? Is that what you're saying. Yeah, I'm telling
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: you that you're a terrible positive. With that, my urine
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: is gonna come up negative. Man, I hate to I
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: don't want to come out all you're in in front
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: of your family, But you're actually gonna be coming in
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna do three months. That's all I can
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: tell you. You're gonna confident, Sir. You got the wrong,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: say hell no, you got the wrong. It's one of
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: the two. Might be both you got the wrong, you
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: got the wrong, fake. I'm letting you positive, no positive.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you I got kids, man, I
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: ain't had no positive. Listen, ma'am, I'm telling you one
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: more time. You either want to come in or want
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: me to come and get you. Which one? Let me
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: tell you what I want you to do. I want
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: you to find out who you have because that ain't money.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Don't put no. I'm gonna tell me nothing about you.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Got some some that that is not good. I gave
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: you some good at times. I got to for you
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: out y'all. Keep picking up people, software kiddles and folks, y'all.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I had, miss says time. Miss now, I've been giving
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: your sad. I want to me I'm dad. I ain't
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: getting a bad I'm calling a more like that. And
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: where is my probation officer? You say your name is?
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: What my name is? Officer Rogers? I don't know, Officer Roger.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Like I said, you might be the reason why it
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: came back past. You might be the reason I need
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: to speak with, mister w that's my probation officers. Officer. Now,
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I have clean at all time. Mister you shouldn't be
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: calling me. I should be calling you because I'm gonna
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: ever DELI. I'm gonna have to come down the hall.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: You're behind him myself where you can bring your soul.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: And when you come here to bring mister with you here.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: Let you know, I'll have no positive you can come
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: to my job. I got you got Let me know what.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: There's one more There's one more thing that I need
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: to bring. Come on right now, come on, I got
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say to you. Are
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: you listening to me? What is it? Sir? This is
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: Nephew Timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: got pranked by your sister Alan. I know one thing,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: y'all played too much. I'll play too much, but I'm
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: coming to give mister rogers. She gonna get positive hell
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: out of met me thinking I was doing to us
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: and didn't know about it. To play with people like that,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: okay for you? All right? He No, I'm nervously. It's
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: your sister. She putting me up to it. Baby. Well,
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: when you ever see her, you see what she looked like.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat the hell out of her. I got
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: one more question for you, baby. You got to tell
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: me this. What is the baddest I'm talking about the
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: You I got cut down? Oh yeah, thank you? Think
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: real hard. I think she was not having it. Hey,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: let me let me thank Tampa, Tama y'all, y'all sol
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: out six shows from me in Tampa, Floyd. I want
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: to say thank you at the IMPROBM. I appreciate that
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: we had a good time. I appreciate y'all coming to
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: see the Nephew. The next stop is Colleen, Texas, brand
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: new comedy club in Colleen, uh twice as Funny Comedy Club.
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: I will be there fourteen, fifteen sixteen. That's Valentine's Night, Baby,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: bringing your baby, bring your single ladies, however you want
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: to do it. Y'all come on out. The Nephew will
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: be in Colleen, Texas February fourteen, fifteen sixteen. Take us
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: on sale right now. All right, thank you Nephew. Up
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: next it is the Strawberry Letter for today. The subject
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: you have to take the good with the bad. We'll
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening Day Morning Show.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
• 52:57
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• 53:00
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• 53:05
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• 53:09
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• 53:11
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• 53:14
  Speaker 1: little disclaimer at the beginning, so if you're around kids,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: you might not want them to hear this letter. Okay,
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: please don't buggle up, hold on tight. We got it
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject you
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: have to take the good with the bad. Dear Stephen Shirley,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: I need some advice on a different kind of double
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: standard with men and women. Mike's boyfriend has a lot
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: of flaws, and I overlooked them in the beginning because
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: I was really into him and wanted things to work out.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: For example, when we met, he told me he lived
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: downtown in a brownstone, So a few weeks later I
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: went over to his place. I pulled up and he
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: escorted me in through the basement door and told me
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: he hangs out down there most of the time. So
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: we started kissing and may came out on the couch
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: and he had managed to take off all my clothes
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: and most of his. When someone knocked on the door.
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: He threw a blanket over me and went to answer
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: the door. It was a woman at the door. He
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: said it was his ex wife and she just stopped
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: in to say hi. Then he asked me if I
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: wanted to meet her. I was sitting there naked, mind you.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: She went away, and he told me that he rents
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: a room in the basement from her, but she rarely
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: comes down there. I know I should have left him
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: alone then, but I didn't. Fast forward to when we
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: finally had sex for the first time, this man had
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: the nerve to joke about me having a squishy stomach,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: and he told me that I could have done a
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: better job at trimming the hedges. Wow, if you know
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: what I mean, that was it. I cursed him out
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: and told him he's a borderline bum that lived with
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: his ex and he has a big stomach and a
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: little bitty everything else. Since then, he has not spoken
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: to me. I did not mean to hurt him. I
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: just wanted him to understand that he's not perfect either.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: Why do women always have to take the good with
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: the bad, but men want us to be perfect and flawless.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: What can I do to get this man back? Please?
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Help girl get him back. You gotta run away and
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: keep running. Okay, Why would you want to get back
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: with a man who lives in the basement of his
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: ex wife's brownstone. I don't understand. And what is she
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: just stopping by to say hi for? Is this making
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: sense to anyone? Anybody out of here? Go? Okay, I
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: mean my answer is gonna be really short. I'm almost done. Okay,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: not only that, I mean the man insulted you twice. Okay,
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: you don't have to take this from anyone. He said
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: you had a squishy stomach and all of that. Girl.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: Please get yourself esteem up and listen to your gut
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: when it tells you to leave and leave him alone. Please. Yeah,
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: you already cursed and listen to your gut. Literally, somebody said,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: come on, you already cursed him out and called him
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: a bum. Okay, level up, leave him alone? Okay, you
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: could do better. You could do better, Steve Hell Yeah,
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: just probably gonna be my favorite letter. How many minutes
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: I got before we go to break? Just give me
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: an ideal? You got about five? Good? Yeah? Good money?
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: Here we go. Your ex boyfriend has a lot of flaws,
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: and you overlooked him in the beginning because you was
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: into him and you won't step to work. So first
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: of all, he told you he lived downtown in a brownstone.
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: What a sad Jo live downtown in a brown stough.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: So you go over to his place. You pull up.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: This didn't get shaken to you. He escorts you in
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: through the basement. Dough told you he hang out down
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: there most of the time. So right after you get
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: on there called this grain hang out, y'all star kissing
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: here what the letter took a turn and making out
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: on the couch and hit the line in my favorite line.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: And he hadn't managed to take off all my clothes
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: and most of his. He managed that and more. Damn
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: they're all in his so y'all almost completely naked. Then
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: somebody knocks on the door. He threw a blanket over
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: me and went to answer the dough. This ain't the
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: time to go to the dough if I'm almost naked.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: I never stopped for that. Yeah, even in my old house,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: the kid joy from the dough. Time, get your assay.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not fit to throw no blanket over and go
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: to this dough. Yeah this, I don't need no blanket.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: I'm busy. Go to the door, answer the dough and
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: it's a woman at the dough. Now he threw a
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: blanket over you. He almost naked. I don't know if
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: he went to the door with a sock on and
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: a hoodie, so he had to do with a sock
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: and a hoodie, just naked from the waist down, with
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: just one sock and a hood It was a woman
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: at the dough. He came back and told you it
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: was his ex wife, and she stopped by to say hi.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: Then he asked me if I wanted to meet him. Hey,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: you won't meet him. She right outside the dough. She
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: know you ain't him. I know you naked, but you're
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: sitting under this blanket. I was sitting there naked. She
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: went away, and he told me that he rents a
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: room in the basement from her, but she rarely comes
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: down there. I know I should have left him alone then,
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: but I didn't. Fast forward, we finally had sex for
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: the first time. Well, I know you couldn't at that time. No,
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: not with that hoodie on in that one socket and
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: his wife to him. It's kind of hard to be
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: in the mood after that, ain't it. This man had
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: the nerve to joke about me having a squashy stomach,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: and he told me I could have done him on
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: a better job trimming the head and if you know
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: what I mean. Well, well, that's was it. You cussed
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: him out and told him he's borderline bum that live
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: with his ex, and he got a big stomach and
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: a little bit of everything else. Since then, he ain't
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: spoken to me. Well, when we come back, we're gonna
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: find out why you ain't saying nothing left to you.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why he ain't said a damn
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: thing to you. All right, Well, Steve, we're gonna have
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  Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up at twenty three
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: after the hour. Subject of the Strawberry letter. You have
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: to take the good with the bad. We'll talk about
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Let's
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter, and you have to take the
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: good with the bad. That is the subject. Let's go dating.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: His man had a lot of flaws. I told you
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: live downstairs downtown in the brownstone. Go down there, you
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: go through the basement though you don't even see the
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: living room. And then you did down to the basement.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: You down at the furnishing water heater. That's where you
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: ask you downstairs with the furnace of the water heating,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: and how your ass at the negative. I've done a
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: lot of stuff in mind, yeah, but getting naked over
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: that by that furnace, that's that's touching gold. I try
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: not to have my ass out when I'm about the
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: hot water heater, that flame with that pilot on it.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: It's a hard place to beat naked on them dust
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: balls down never, it ain't side of whales. It ain't
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: sexy down there. That little light you see that ain't
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: no cock. That don't count the that's the pilots man. Man,
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: you get naked somehow, you wind up you naked. He
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: almost niked. Somebody knock on the though. He go to through.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: It's a damn woman. He come out and tell you
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: his wife. Ain't she over here? You want to meet him?
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: You butt out neked. He asked you you want to
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: meet his wife? Of course you told him no. She
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: went away. He told me he rent the rooms rarely
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: come down and fast forward. We finally had sex for
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: the first time. I'm assuming you was back down there
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: in the back capt Brownstone, Downtown, Brownstone. You you even
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: moting downtown? You downstairs? You ain't just downstairs, you're in
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: the basement. We cain't getting no lower in the house.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: Now you ain't downstairs, you're in the damn basement. You
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: have sex down now. The man had the nerve to
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: joke about me having a squishy stomach. Then he told
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: me I could have done a better job trimming the
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: head just down there, if you know what I mean.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: That was it. I cust him out. I told him
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: he's a borderline bomb that lived with his ex wife.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: He got a big stomach and a little bitty everything else.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: That Since then, he ain't spoken to me. I ain't
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: mean to hurt him. But let's let's go with what
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: you said to him that you didn't mean to hurt him.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: You cussed him out. You didn't think that would hurt him,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: all right? Man? That maybe maybe not told him he
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: was borderline bomb. Heard worse than that before. That ain't
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: gonna hurt me. You live with your ex wife. That
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: would have hurt me, because once you might ex I'm out,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: you're damn he got a big stomach. That would have
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: bothered me a little bit. But you know, ain't nobody
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: said that told me about I know it's there. They
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: really bothered me. I don't even call it a stomach
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: no more. I you know, I refer to it as income.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: You say what you called you can said I gotta,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: but if you want to, I call it income. Yeah,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: I'm doing well, so I can get past the stomach
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: hit apart where you tried to take him to his knees.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: You got a big stomach and a little bit of
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: everything that hurt that. That's where the pain come in.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: I know my stomach, I know where it ain't flat
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: like it wll. But we all know what's under this
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: and know why you didn't chose to call it a
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: little bitty. It was the same size it was years.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: It's just the stomach them downside and got it looking at.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: That's what hurt his ass. That's the pain here. That's
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: why he ain't called you pack. It's that little bitty
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: everything else. And then I just wanted him understand. You know,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: he ain't spoken to me. I ain't mean to hurt him.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: I just want him to understand that he not perfect either.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: Well he know now why the women always have to
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: take the good with the bad. But didn't want us
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: to be perfect? Mean, what what what are you talking about?
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: He ain't perfect. He stayed downstairs, under the downstairs, he
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: in the damn basement that he renting from his ex
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: wife who she don't want him, found out you was
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: in there and didn't even want to come in there
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: because she went, Good luck, baby. If this is who
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: you want, he down here in this damn basement, you
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: can have him. He got to shoot shots at you
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: because he ain't nothing. You don't see what he did.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: He tried to bring you down to make himself look better.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: He got a big stomach any in the house that
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: ain't here? What can I do to get this man back? What?
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: That's the part of even I walked back with him,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: I think, what did he do? M He ain't said
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: nothing you like, He don't live where you like, He
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: ain't got the stomach your light. And now we didn't
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: find out all of them little eaty bitty party that
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: you don't like. His Jack Johnson can't even be called
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: Jack Johnson? What Jay just say? James? He got he
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: got another nickname like t t sweet pea, little mate,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: little mate, mighty mountain, tiny tots, no theater to come
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: over here with your tater top looking at it. You
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: take that big tater tops on, you look like three
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: little tater topes looking at me. All the Stuffy said
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: about her hies. Your tater is the same size as
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: your top his. Your two little tat is the same
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: size as your tie. You just follow here with three
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: tater toes. He's in a bit too much. She got
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: a squishy stumba. Yeah, yeah, he started it. Yeah, lady,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't see what you want with him.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: I really don't want him back with his ex wife
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: at his ex wife's house. He stops by to say, Hi,
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: all right, listen, we gotta get out of here. Please
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: email us or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: Letter at Steve Harvey f M. Now coming up in
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: ten minutes. Lifestyle guru B Smith has Alzheimer's disease and
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: her husband has a girl friend, and her fans are
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: not happy about it. We'll talk about that right after this.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve. We all know B Smith,
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: the lifestyle guru, former restaurantur. Well, she's now sixty nine
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: years old. She's battling Alzheimer's. Okay, oh yeah, they used
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: to call her the black Martha Stewart. Her husband Dan
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: has a girlfriend, and B Smith's fans are not happy
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: about this. Her husband revealed his relationship with his white
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: girlfriend on social media, and now B Smith's fans are
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: upset about it. So, um, people are like, what happened
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: to your vows? You know, when you take your vows
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: your marriage vows in sickness and in help. Some people
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: feel like the husband is being disrespectful. But before you judge,
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: please take a listen to be Smith's husband explanation. This
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: courtesy of The Washington Post. Yeah, listen to this talking listen.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: I believe in the sanctity of marriage, but I don't
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: believe death. Do you part means that because you've made
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: a commitment, if the person is not there, that you
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: should sit there and watch your life shrivel up. And
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: that's why I am where I am today, taking care
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: of me and having someone else in my in my life.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah that was what. Yeah, it's um. People are really
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: torn with this one. Yeah yeah, yeah. And I think
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: the woman comes in, she she spends a night there
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: at their home on the night, A couple of time
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: in the house, yeah, a couple of nights a week. Yeah,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: that's yeah. People are really torn though. Down at the door.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: What did you just say? That was stupid? Wait? What
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: about her about the woman staying at the house sometimes. Yeah,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: she stays there. She helps. Yeah, she helps the husband out,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: helping the husband out. She didn't caregiver for who for?
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: She helps out. She helps take care of b Smith
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: she does, and his daughter who they both raised. She
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: also helps. And she seems to be fine with it
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, she supported her. Yeah, they're all there. Okay,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: that's this is a tough one. Oh, it's very tough. Yeah,
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are. I don't know, man, I
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't First of all, I don't know
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: why he talked. This ain't the time to come out
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: and make statement. He said he didn't want to hide
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: it anymore. Okay, Yeah, he was the one to reveal
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: the relationship on social media for media. What did you do?
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: That fault? That's what he did. Yeah. Now, but let
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: me say, because I know both of them met him before,
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: I didn't notice about being I feel horrible about that.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: Alzheimer's is horrible, horrible affliction. It really is. It robs
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: you of your mental capacity to remember, to think. I mean,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: it just takes the person that you are completely awake. Oh. Man,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: and this is his life now with his girlfriend Yep,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: his wife and his daughter and they are all taking
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: care of Miss Belt with her. Fans are upset. They
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: feel like maybe this woman is living off the lifestyle
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: that you know, b Smith, this empire, that you know
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: that's just right, and that he's being disrespectful for having
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: this woman in the home with his wife. What about
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: your vows in sickness and in health, they're saying, he
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: seems to ignore the part about in sickness and in health.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: You know. Um, yeah, people are, they're very much torn
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: with this situation. Look, he just didn't want to be
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: He wanted to bring it out in the open. Well, look,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: I can't judge. Yeah, it's not fair for me to
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: sit in judgment of another person's situation when I haven't
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: been faced with that exact member. Man, I haven't. The
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: last time I talked to There's nothing wrong. She was
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: so healthy, full of life. Matter fact, we were at
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: a restaurant. We were at her restaurant. That was a
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: long time ago, but I remember that, and I saw
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: at a place somewhere, and so she's always been this
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: really beautiful and vibrant person. So to see her suffer
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: from this and to hear about it is shocking. Now.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: To his credit, he did come out with an explanation
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: and said it, Uh if now here's depart If Bee's
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: daughter is okay, well his daughter together step his daughter.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: It's not her daughter, no, not her biological daughter. Now,
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: so I'm assuming he met her while she was a
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: caregiver for Bee. No, No, I'm not saying this woman
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: as a healthcare provider, caregiver. She he has a relationship
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: with this woman and she now is a part of
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: take helping the family take care of her. She that's
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: not her job. I'm saying that's what she's doing. Yeah,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: that's not her I'm not gonna say that's her profession.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: She was married to your part of it, to this
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: really rich guy, um who owned a lot of parking
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: space parking structures in New York where they live. But
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: they're they're no longer together, obviously. But she stays over
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: the girlfriend stays over a couple of nights and yeah,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: sometimes she stays over there. Yeah, and in their home
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: y but and but his his thing is she's not
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: really there. He can't reach her, you know anymore like
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: that mentally, because she's been afflicted with I've seen the
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: first hand the men. Yeah, my father had dementia. It's tough.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: Some days you know who I was. Some days he didn't. Yeah,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: and and didn't They write a book together before her
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: this Alzheimer's took on, you know, such severity as it
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: is now. They wrote a book called Before I Forget Wow. Yeah. Yeah.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: And he's been with her a long time, so he
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: feels like he helped build that empire. Yeah, long time. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: they've been together over twenty something. Yeah, it's an interesting story.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: It's a sad situation. I can see both sides of
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: what people are saying. It's not for me to judge.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: For him to come forward, he must have really resolved
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: this in his mind. It's tough when your wife is
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: in the house and your girlfriend staying over there. That Yeah,
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna I ain't gonna be running that by
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: my family, all right, Steve, Uh, we gotta move on here.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. It is
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: record cold in some parts of the country. And President
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: Donald Trump jokes that we need global warming, but he
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: said global whamming, and when he tweeted, you know, he's
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: challenged in certain areas. Yeah, in certain areas. Sorry, we'll
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: talk about it when we come back right after this.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show, and our
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: deep freeze is blanketing the Midwest and Northeast this week,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: sending temperatures plummeting below zero in many areas. President Donald
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: Trump is using it as an opportunity to poke fun
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: at the claims of global warning. Warming displaced polar vortex
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: is dropping temperatures in the Midwest down to as low
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: as minus thirty degrees, with wind chills making it feel
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: like it's minus sixty. Oh jeez, I do not miss home.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: I do not miss home, President Trump tweeted last night,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: in the beautiful Midwest, wind chilled temperatures are reaching minus
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: sixty degrees, the coldest ever recorded. In coming days, expect
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: to get even colder. People can't last outside even for minutes.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: What the hell is going on with global warming? Please
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: come back fast, We need you. His tweet was immediately
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: slammed by science and climate experts, who reminded the president
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: that global warming is what's causing extreme weather conditions. Also
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: FYI in the tweet, the President actually misspelled warming like
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: I said, he typed whaming of global whamming or whatever. No, No,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: are so job a m engines? Yeah? No, are just
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: president having the same troubles as your nephew. Were all
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: the troubles global yeah warming, global warming types. Our president
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: is just like my nephew. Y'all, go, do the mater
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: think than the president. I'm sorry to hear that, I
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: really am. You want a cookie for that? All right?
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: Another related Donald Trump news he has accepted rescheduling his
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: speaking dates. Trump will now give the State of his
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: Union on February fifth, after House Speaker Nancy Pelosi canceled
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: the original date that was set for January twenty ninth
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: due to the government shutdown. Of course, Pelosi invited Trump
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: on the rescheduled date on Monday, and he accepted the offer. Meanwhile,
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: Trump's former attorney Michael Cohen has agreed to speak in
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: private um to the House Permanent Select Committee on Intelligence
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: on February eighth. He was originally set to testify in
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: an open session, but canceled last Wednesday after claiming that
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: his family was being threatened by mister Trump. Well, if
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: you listen to what Trump was saying about his father
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: in law. And then Juliani came on on Cuomo and
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: said some more stuff about maybe we need to look
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: into his father in law. That was like connection. So
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: now once they got that out, so now if anything
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: happens to the father in law, they can tie it
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: back to ye what Trump said, and Giuliano said, So
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: now he going up there to testify on the aide
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: in a close session. Yeah. And I mean, I'm telling you, man,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: this ain't gonna go good. See. You can say what
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: you want to say, but too many people that were
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: brought in by this president are now indicted, all the
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: President's men. What you're saying, this is who you've been
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: running with. He's a liar, he's a crook. You you
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: they worked for you. One of his aids wrote a book. Um, uh,
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: what's the name of it by something about vipers. I
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: can't think of the title right right now. He every
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: picture you saw of the two of them, they were
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: right together. He was one of the President's eight. He's
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: been going around on his book tour talking about his book,
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: and President Trump tweeted he was a low level assistant
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: boy Papadopolis. Um I'll get his name, um, but anyway, yeah,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: he wrote he wrote it's a new book that's out
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: it's something vipers. His name is Cliff Sims. Yeah, Cliff Sims.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: And the book is called the Team, Team of Vipers. Yeah.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: And so he's been all over the TV. He's been
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: on CNN, he's been on the View, he's been everywhere
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: and talking about you know, what has gone on in
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: the White House and all of that. And every picture
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: they show it's of him in close par Yeah. They're
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: right together. And he was a low level employee. I'm like, what,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: he's right here with you every venture. Yeah, Team of Vipers,
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: they're together. It's crazy. He just my five hundred extraordinary
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: days in the Trump White House. Yeah. Team of Vipers,
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: that's the name of the boy. Yeah, it's just gonna
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: have you. Have you all noticed Sarah Huckabee. What about her, Steve,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, keep her close after she's still there,
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  Speaker 1: though she has not, I can see it. You see
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  Speaker 1: something they send to me off. I'm gonna tell y'all
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  Speaker 1: what I saw, But I'm telling you I saw it
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  Speaker 1: when she was talking the other day. I can't say
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  Speaker 1: it on the air, but I'll tell you, but please
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  Speaker 1: keep a close, said Huckabe. Ain't got loan for this.
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  Speaker 1: She looks a little weary because Kelly Conway. Kelly Conway
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  Speaker 1: is actually good. She threw with this. She just she
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  Speaker 1: just hanging on because people that told her she gonna quick.
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  Speaker 1: Oh they talk about Kelly and Conway. She just gonna
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: be spiteful. They hanging there. She wants to leave now.
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  Speaker 1: Her husband leaker. Yeah, they say she's a leaker to her.
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  Speaker 1: And you know her husband a big Trump opponent. He
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: does not like Donald Trumpe. They live in the same house. Yeah, right, right,
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: come on, now, that's sex. Ain't being good for the
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  Speaker 1: last two years the election. That ain't no good since
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  Speaker 1: he won. Oh, that's aggressive, It's not good. He don't
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  Speaker 1: even want you. All right, coming up, we'll have more
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  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this you're
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: listening to. All right, There was an eye in the
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: sky over Bill Cosby last week, and prison officials are
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: not too happy about this. Someone flew a drone over
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  Speaker 1: the Pennsylvania prison. Bill Cosby was being escorted through the
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  Speaker 1: yard at the time. You know, he does get an
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: escort because of his blindness. The prison was immediately put
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: on lockdown for an entire your day. Officials believe someone
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: in the media was trying to get a shot of Cosby,
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  Speaker 1: but no pictures or videos have shown up online yet. Cosby,
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  Speaker 1: of course, is joined three to ten years for sexual assault.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know when he walking through the yard. The
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  Speaker 1: probably someone they're telling because if they get that picture,
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna split it with the god. Yeah, doc. The contraband.
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  Speaker 1: The majority of contraband is brought into prisons by gods. Right. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they got a lot of other ways. But guards are
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  Speaker 1: they're none of the most highest paid people in the world,
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  Speaker 1: and you get caught, get caught in situation like if
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  Speaker 1: something that makes you just be cool with them. There's
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  Speaker 1: some cool people in prison, man. People don't understand that.
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  Speaker 1: And when I say that, how can you say they're
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  Speaker 1: cool people? With their criminals? They are really some good
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  Speaker 1: people made bad judgment call and wind up in prison.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not talking about people who murdering and raping people.
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  Speaker 1: You just the evil person. But this is a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people that the committed non violent crimes. It just
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  Speaker 1: got busted doing something they shouldn't have been doing. And
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  Speaker 1: they some really really cool people, man, who deserve another chance.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: That victims have rights too, now, so yeah, you know,
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: and another news, Steve, did you guys hear about this one?
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  Speaker 1: The FaceTime software flaw? Flaw that allows iPhone spying, a
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  Speaker 1: security flaw in the face I've been talking about sothern
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  Speaker 1: called me and showed me hot work. Oh he did? Really?
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  Speaker 1: Did you get it? What you mean? I mean? Did
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  Speaker 1: you understand what he was saying? Work? Well, it allows
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  Speaker 1: you to secretly listen to an iPhone owner's conversations without
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  Speaker 1: their knowledge, and Apple has confirmed the bug. You better
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  Speaker 1: believe they're working around the clock if you correct it
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  Speaker 1: old y'all, Sam Song androids Androids. They expect a software
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  Speaker 1: update sometimes before Friday of this week. The trick to
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  Speaker 1: spying on your iPhone friend is to make a FaceTime
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  Speaker 1: video call. Okay, and while it's still ringing, you can
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  Speaker 1: swipe up from the bottom of the screen and click
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  Speaker 1: ad person, select your own phone number. You will be
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: able to hear the microphone on the phone of the
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  Speaker 1: person you called, whether they take your FaceTime call or not.
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  Speaker 1: That will break up a happy right. Yeah, that's deep though,
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  Speaker 1: big brothers. Yeah you can, Yeah, you can turn it
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  Speaker 1: off and then they can't do it up home. Get
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  Speaker 1: that software over right now, quit using it? You're awfully quiet, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: Are you scared now? I don't even know how to
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  Speaker 1: pick him? Wait before it was a book. He didn't
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  Speaker 1: answer our phone call, right, goodness, he didn't FaceTime. I
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: really can't answer. You'll call now' gonna get me on
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: this booth text me back. That's crazy though, you know
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: that loring on evening? Yeah, think of the crazy stuff.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't say it though anybody all the time. Yeah,
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: that's not what you want. You get home. Who's Sandra? Huh?
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: Why you FaceTime? That's like Taragi's movie What Men Want?
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: You can read their minds now? Yeah, all right, more
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  Speaker 1: of Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show some sad news and entertainment. This
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: is according to TMZ. Grammy winning R and B Legend
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  Speaker 1: singer songwriter James Ingram has died from a battle with
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  Speaker 1: brain cancer. James had been fighting the cancer for an
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: extended period of time. Actress and choreographer DeBie Allen reacted
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  Speaker 1: to the news on Tuesday, saying, quote, I have lost
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  Speaker 1: my dearest friend. James Ingram recorded several chart toppers in
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  Speaker 1: the eight in the eighties, including his number one duet
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  Speaker 1: with Patti Austin baby come to Me, Oh Lord, such
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  Speaker 1: great music. Yeah, one hundred ways and just once. He
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  Speaker 1: also won a Grammy for Yama Be There, his duet
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  Speaker 1: with Michael McDonald, and another four one hundred ways. He
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  Speaker 1: couldn't be denied with that one. James Ingram, of course,
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  Speaker 1: worked closely with Quincy Jones over the years, recording and
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  Speaker 1: writing hits. For instance, he and q co wrote Michael
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  Speaker 1: Jackson's pyt Yeah, pretty young thing, legend, Steve, We're losing
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  Speaker 1: all the great ones. Man. It's really sad because you know,
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: I had Shaka Khan on the show the other day,
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: and I, as Shaka Khan, I said, Shaka, what's the
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  Speaker 1: big difference between artists of yesterday in your era and
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: artists today? And she, without hesitation, she said, it's talent.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow. And it's because you know what she's saying
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  Speaker 1: is she's saying it from this standpoint. It's not to
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  Speaker 1: saying that these artists today aren't talented, because there are
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: something I can go down the list of some bad
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: people out there. Beyonce is the Michael Jackson of She's
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 1: the Queen of Party. She's the best female performer I've
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: ever seen in my life. I've seen all of them.
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: I've seen them all, you know. I never saw Ella
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: Fitzgerald perform. I heard her, but and I've heard Whitney's voice.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: Whitney's voice is the best I've ever heard. But total performance,
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  Speaker 1: it's Beyonce. I've never seen that. There's some voices out there,
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  Speaker 1: you know, or some stylish you know, but of yesterday,
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: what she was saying was it was so many it
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: was nothing for you to do. But saying, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it was no you know, rap wing out then you know,
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  Speaker 1: you had to be you had to be able to
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  Speaker 1: sing Dolly. And even when rap first called on, it
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: was still R and B out there. We still had
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  Speaker 1: adult contemporary music and the talent level was just outstanding.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what it is today. Man, It's just you've
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 1: got to go every so often. Today they produced a
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: single where you go, wow, there's Beyonce. Okay that girl
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: A Dale can say, oh you know you look around,
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: you know and you go okay, Now wait a minute.
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: Christina Aguilara came flat out blow you know what I'm saying.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: Vivian Green can say, let se can Blowsia Keys give
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: it to a Jil Scott. You know, but Jill Scott
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  Speaker 1: came out in two thousands. That was eighteen nineteen years.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. Yeah, so Shackle was back in the seventies. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: you understand that era of singers you will never get again.
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you you'll never get them again. Well the problem, yeah,
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: the great ones. Yeah, all right, Steve, coming up our
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 1: last break of the day closing remarks. Okay, get ready people,
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  Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening. All right here we are
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: last break of the day, Steve. I know you have
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: some closing remarks for us today. What you got I mean, man, um,
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  Speaker 1: I've read some good books, man, Bishop Jake's books are
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: basic instincts. Great book, man, just a great book. I really,
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  Speaker 1: for the most part, only have the time to read
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: certain types of books, and the types of books I
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 1: usually choose to read the self help books, you know,
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: books where I can improve myself. You know, that would
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: include the Bible. But there are some books out there
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  Speaker 1: that I've written spiritually based that are very very helpful. Also.
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  Speaker 1: And Joel Osteen has a book. I think I told
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  Speaker 1: you a little bit about it earlier this week. The
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  Speaker 1: name of the book is next level thinking. Next level
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  Speaker 1: thinking says it all. Because let me explain something. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care who you are. If you want to get
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  Speaker 1: to the next level, if you don't want to stay
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  Speaker 1: where you are, if you want to elevate yourself and
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  Speaker 1: get to the next level, you're going to have to
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  Speaker 1: change your current thinking. See listen to me, y'all. All
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  Speaker 1: of us have thought ourselves to where we are now.
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  Speaker 1: We ain't got nobody else to blame. Oh, you can
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  Speaker 1: choose to do it that way. Well, if they hadn't
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  Speaker 1: done me wrong, if I hadn't lost my job, I
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  Speaker 1: got all that. Things do happen in life. Admittedly, things
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  Speaker 1: come along that we have no control over that can
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 1: set us back at times. I am fully aware of that.
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  Speaker 1: But in order to grow, you've got to pick up
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  Speaker 1: the slack and take the blame. Because you can't change
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: another person. You can't make another person be something you
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 1: want them to be. You can't stop everybody from hating
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  Speaker 1: on you. You can't stop the plant from closing. You
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: might not be able to stop foreclosure on your home.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: You might not be able to get that child of
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: yours to graduate. For nothing in the world. So there
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  Speaker 1: are things that are going to happen that you have
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  Speaker 1: no control over. The one thing you can really control
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  Speaker 1: is you. You can do something about you. So here's
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  Speaker 1: the deal. If you are somewhere in life and you
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  Speaker 1: desire to go to the next level. In order to
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  Speaker 1: get to the next level, I don't care who you are,
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  Speaker 1: you have to change some thinking. If I want to
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  Speaker 1: get to the next level that I'm trying to accomplish,
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: I have to change some of my current thinking. Because
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  Speaker 1: we've all thought ourselves to where we are right now.
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  Speaker 1: We are all a product of our thoughts and actions,
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  Speaker 1: all of us, all of us, every last one of us.
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  Speaker 1: We are partly responsible and greatly responsible for where we
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  Speaker 1: are now. Thank you for the grace of God that
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: many of us are in places that we couldn't have
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: possibly worked ourselves into. And I want to volunteer my
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  Speaker 1: hand and stick it up in the air because I
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  Speaker 1: am one of those people. My life is covered with
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  Speaker 1: God's grace. I'll give him that. But let me explain
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: something to you. If I don't put the work in,
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  Speaker 1: what can God? What does God put his finger on
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 1: to bless? So what I'm saying is, we've all thought
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  Speaker 1: ourselves to where we are, and thank God for his
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  Speaker 1: grace that we are all. Some of us are further
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: along than we even should be. I'm included. But if
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  Speaker 1: you have any intention of growing, expanding, developing, being more successful,
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  Speaker 1: being happier, more well liked, being more meaningful, more impactful
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: of a person, you want to be effective in more
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: people's lives. You want to be a catalyst for change,
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 1: you are going to have to change your thinking. It
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: will not happen unless you change your thinking. So as
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  Speaker 1: well as you might think I've been I'm doing, I
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  Speaker 1: want you to know something. The plan that I have
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: for myself, the one that I'm confiding in God with
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: on a daily basis, has required. As Joelo's Teams book says,
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 1: that you're gonna have to develop some next level thinking.
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: I met with a billionaire one time, and I'm feeling
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 1: okay about myself, and I'm at this house and I'm realizing, Man,
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: this dude right here is on some whole a nother
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: And as we got to talking after hours and hours,
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: he says, Steve, Steve, you're gonna have to elevate your things.
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 1: I said, man, I'm a really positive person. He said, yeah, well,
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to let me see the phrase he
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: used to me. He's I can't think of the exact
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: phrase he said to me, but I got the message.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna have to big up, meaning you're gonna have
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: to supersize everything. If you want to change ten thousand
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: boys lives a year, you gotta start thinking of how
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: you can change a million of them a year. I
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: went wow. He said, if you want to send ten
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: thousand kids to school, he said, you should change your thinking.
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 1: How do you send a million of them to school?
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: He said, Man, if your goal is to make a
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: thousand millionnaires, how do you make a million millionnaires? He said?
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 1: That's how billionaires think. They just they level everything up.
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: Everything goes up with them. They think up, therefore they
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: act up. Therefore they become up, therefore they come up.
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 1: It's crazy, man, You've got to develop next level thinking.
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: I recommend Joel olds Teen's book. I kid you not, man,
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: It's just a great book. But you gotta change the
• 1:36:21
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