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Roscoe's X-Mas Songs, Meeting Santa, Steve's Voicemail, Sheryl Underwood and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things, and it shoves not me through good
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  Speaker 1: to mother for I don't join me. You gotta turn you,
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  Speaker 1: water go. Come come on your baby now, huh, I
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  Speaker 1: sure will. A good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show man. God is in a blessing business.
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  Speaker 1: I thank God for waking me up in the mornings,
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  Speaker 1: I really really do. I thank God for the spirit
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  Speaker 1: that he wakes me up with because I finally, but
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  Speaker 1: I finally figured it out. Such a blessing that shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be taken for granted. The fact that you are up
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  Speaker 1: to day, the fact that you just got off working,
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  Speaker 1: you driving home, the fact that you got a job
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  Speaker 1: job to wake up too. Whatever it is the fact
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  Speaker 1: that you can see, think, here, smell, walk, talk, rhyme, reason, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: it is. It's a blessing. Man. I was talking to
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  Speaker 1: a partner mine last night and an analogy came to
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  Speaker 1: me last night of what my life has been like,
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  Speaker 1: just going over my story with a friend of mine,
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  Speaker 1: of all some of the things I had gone through,
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  Speaker 1: and he never knew it because he said, man, you
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  Speaker 1: never told me that we were just talking. One of
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  Speaker 1: the things I remember, and it's kind of equated to
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  Speaker 1: my life, was when I was a little boy and
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  Speaker 1: should go to the the store with my mom and she
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  Speaker 1: would let me buy a jigsaw puzzle. Now, for those
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  Speaker 1: of you, a jigsaw puzzle comes in a box that
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  Speaker 1: are no instructions. It just comes in a box and
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  Speaker 1: it's simple. You're gonna dump the pieces out in a
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  Speaker 1: pile and you're gonna try to put the pieces together
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  Speaker 1: until it looks like the picture that's on the cover
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  Speaker 1: of the box. That's as simple as it is. Here
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  Speaker 1: is the deal. I would select a jigsaw puzzle based
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  Speaker 1: on the picture that I liked and if I thought
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  Speaker 1: I could do it. Now, if the picture looked too crazy,
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  Speaker 1: if it looked too intricate, I didn't want that puzzle,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And the thing was back in the day
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  Speaker 1: you got a jigsaw puzzle. You had a hundred piece puzzles.
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  Speaker 1: Four hundred piece puzzles, man, then they say a thousand
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  Speaker 1: piece puzzle. You go, oh. So those were a little
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  Speaker 1: difficult for me when I was a little boy, so
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want that. As I got a little bit older,
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  Speaker 1: I had more challenging puzzles, you know, four fifty five
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  Speaker 1: hundred piece puzzles. But I always picked a picture of
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  Speaker 1: something I liked. So it's very simple. You get the
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  Speaker 1: jigsaw puzzle, you get it home, you open it up,
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  Speaker 1: you dump it out on the table. You flipped all
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  Speaker 1: the pieces over so you can see them, and then
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  Speaker 1: I would try to saw them based on the colors
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  Speaker 1: on the box. If it was like a black section,
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  Speaker 1: I'd take all the black pieces and slide them over there.
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  Speaker 1: If it was some flowers, I'd try to find all
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  Speaker 1: the pictures with little jig saw pieces with the little
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  Speaker 1: floor and I separate them. And then I started putting
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  Speaker 1: it together. And the way I started was I try
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  Speaker 1: to build the border first, because I knew all the
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  Speaker 1: straight edges had to be side by side at one point.
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  Speaker 1: And it was funny, man, because it's related to my life.
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  Speaker 1: I would start putting the pieces together of the picture
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  Speaker 1: I saw that I liked, and that would be my picture.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people didn't like Jig saw puzzles. As
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  Speaker 1: a matter of fact, none of the boys on the
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  Speaker 1: street like Jig Saw puzzles but me, because they just
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to go through the intricate details of figuring
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  Speaker 1: that out. Really go outside and run or something like that.
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  Speaker 1: And so what happened was, as I got older, I
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  Speaker 1: wanted more difficult than challenging puzzles, but I wouldn't go
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  Speaker 1: too far. I wanted some nice stuff to happen. I
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  Speaker 1: had a picture of what I wanted for my life,
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  Speaker 1: but I didn't want to go too far because it
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  Speaker 1: was so challenging and difficult. I couldn't see myself at
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  Speaker 1: all of that, and I didn't have the time, the knowledge,
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  Speaker 1: the expertise to figuring all the intricate details. And I
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  Speaker 1: discovered something when I was talking last night. That's what
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  Speaker 1: happens in life to a lot of people. You get
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  Speaker 1: bogged down with the details of coming up and trying
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  Speaker 1: to create the picture that you want for yourself. You
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  Speaker 1: put it to the side. You said, ah, that puzs
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  Speaker 1: are crazy. Next thing, you know, you crumble it up
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  Speaker 1: and put it back in the box. So you go
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  Speaker 1: halfway and you get stuck, and you get to the
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  Speaker 1: part where it ain't a lot of different colors. It's
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  Speaker 1: all the same. And that's a little bit more challenge.
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  Speaker 1: So that may stop you. But it's somewhere in the
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  Speaker 1: jigsaw puzzle that it gets very difficult and challenging. The
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  Speaker 1: bigger the picture you want, but then what a happened
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  Speaker 1: in your life, It's just like what ha happened in
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  Speaker 1: the jigsaw. Once you get comfortable and you don't mind
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  Speaker 1: a challenge, you could get a bigger picture. But here's
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  Speaker 1: the key to it, though, if you put God in
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  Speaker 1: your mix, see the picture that I saw for myself
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  Speaker 1: as a boy is not the picture that has happened
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  Speaker 1: to me as a man. Because along the way from
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  Speaker 1: boyhood to manhood, from the time I was ten, you
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  Speaker 1: understand what happened along the riding now was I started
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  Speaker 1: putting God in the mix. And so now the picture
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  Speaker 1: that I have now is not the picture I saw,
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  Speaker 1: It's the picture that God saw. So what I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: this analogy is the picture you have may be difficult
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  Speaker 1: to complete, but if you were to include God in
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  Speaker 1: your life, put God in your jigsaw puzzle. God will
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  Speaker 1: not only help you complete the puzzle, and he gonna
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  Speaker 1: add some pieces, he gonna do some favors, he gonna
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  Speaker 1: show some mercy, and you're gonna look up and the
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  Speaker 1: picture that you're able to end up with or be
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  Speaker 1: totally different and much more complete, much more beautiful or
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  Speaker 1: bigger picture than the one you had. Because there's no
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  Speaker 1: way that I could have saw the life that I
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  Speaker 1: have today back when I was a boy. And it
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  Speaker 1: amazes me when I hear people say I always saw
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  Speaker 1: this for myself. I didn't do that. I didn't quite
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  Speaker 1: see this for myself. I don't know how you can
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  Speaker 1: have the ability to see what God really has for you.
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  Speaker 1: But man, he's a masterful jigsaw man. He's an incredible
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  Speaker 1: puzzle complet So if you got a puzzle that's challenging
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  Speaker 1: to you, maybe you need to see what's the picture
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  Speaker 1: that God has for your life. If God were in
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  Speaker 1: your life, if you completed the puzzle, what would it
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  Speaker 1: look like. It'll be a far more extensive puzzle and
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  Speaker 1: it would be a far more beautiful piece of scenery
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  Speaker 1: than you could have ever imagined tears come in my
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  Speaker 1: eyes because I can't believe God bought me this far.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe that when I opened up and accepted
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  Speaker 1: him and started talking to him, that he would add
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  Speaker 1: all these pieceles to my jigsaw puzzle, and my jigsaw
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  Speaker 1: puzzle would look like this. And I could tell you
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got a whole lot to do with with
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  Speaker 1: with what I had and turned into, it's mostly favored
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  Speaker 1: and blessings and grace and mercy of God. And I
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  Speaker 1: looked up and I just got a much bigger jigsaw
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  Speaker 1: puzzle completed. And guess what, He ain't through with me yet.
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  Speaker 1: That's what's amazing and exciting about a relationship with God.
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  Speaker 1: God could take your jigsaw puzzle and fix it. Good
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  Speaker 1: morning show, ladies in general, we are here welcome to
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  Speaker 1: the ride. On yesterday it was announced that Roscoe Wallace
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  Speaker 1: was not coming in to do a song, but he
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  Speaker 1: is here today to bring us in on the latest updates.
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  Speaker 1: He'll answer questions about the three trillion dollars lawsuit against
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  Speaker 1: the entire music industry as we close out the new year.
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  Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace is here, ladies and gentlemen. The legend the
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  Speaker 1: Mill the truth, Roscoe Wallace. But everybody on the Lord,
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  Speaker 1: every truth. We're going away right hey, hey call it,
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  Speaker 1: call it. We're going on ro Man, just monk, go
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  Speaker 1: over there, Tommy, We're going over here, top top, Roscoe.
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  Speaker 1: Everything go hey, hold on, hold on. I don't like
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  Speaker 1: that little honding through that time time you know coming,
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  Speaker 1: You like that, you know, little bit more love for you,
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  Speaker 1: Paul out the home you my man, here you go.
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  Speaker 1: You know, man, hey, hey, hey, you know you might
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  Speaker 1: be on top right now, but you know you could
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  Speaker 1: find yourself in the three trillion dollar lawsuit too. How
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  Speaker 1: he spoke to you? Yeah, you know. So I'm here
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  Speaker 1: to answer any question about the lawsuit. I'm there with
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  Speaker 1: my lawyers yesterday or from the great law Firm or
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  Speaker 1: Ernston Winston and old people run down. I got two
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  Speaker 1: law firm. I got Johnny Cochran, the old law firm
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  Speaker 1: he had. I got Arnson Wins because you know, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta have white people. You know you're gonna try to
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  Speaker 1: get till they don't either trying to call crump. If
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to get a trill. You already know that.
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  Speaker 1: I got Johnny cockering people. He got old j Off
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  Speaker 1: I know gonna hear where he can give me some money.
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  Speaker 1: And here I got Arnson, Wins and White In question,
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  Speaker 1: I want to ask Rosa. I mean you say three
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  Speaker 1: tree me, everybody's pump Daddy and the hair. Yeah, pump
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  Speaker 1: Dad isn't take that? Take that mine? Take mine back
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  Speaker 1: of one up? What you take that as yours? Take
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  Speaker 1: that one? Yeah you took that, took that? What you did?
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  Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin, you never mean mentioned any k smile yeah,
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  Speaker 1: smile you hatch Kirk ever said he smiled before that song.
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  Speaker 1: Not quite. He told me everything. Who ell wow, you're
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  Speaker 1: sawing the gospel artists and the r Marvin South gonna
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  Speaker 1: law suit the best in me. He saw the best
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  Speaker 1: in me. Now you finishing the best in me too.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody ever could have made that well yeah, yeah, he
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  Speaker 1: had never seen that before. I'm thinking Motown like Smokey Robinson,
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  Speaker 1: smoke ass gone, you know, smoking old ass gold. What
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  Speaker 1: I love you? When we cruised into Calvil, Yeah, Rody,
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  Speaker 1: what about DeAngelo? He remade that degel rode it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: shooing DeAngelo for all counds of story, taking the clothes
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  Speaker 1: all black Mama. This he stole Marvin gay sound. I'm
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  Speaker 1: shooing Marvin he stole Marvin Son. No there, welling on
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  Speaker 1: me all right, Rosco. I think we're gonna hear from
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  Speaker 1: you later on the show. Hear from you later in
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  Speaker 1: the show, coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. Nephew,
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  Speaker 1: Timmy's run that prank back right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time to start your morning off.
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  Speaker 1: Now we'd run that prank back. What you got, nephew,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna do three minute remarks. Three minute remarks. If
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  Speaker 1: you've ever gone to a black funeral, you know how
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  Speaker 1: it goes. Three minute real, nothing more, nothing less. You
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  Speaker 1: know how it goes. Here it is cat dog. Well, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach your brother Keith. Please. Yeah, this
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  Speaker 1: is Keith, Keith. How are you doing? This is Lawrence
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  Speaker 1: over at il funeral home. Okay. We are the ones
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  Speaker 1: that have the U doing the funeral for sister Dolores.
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  Speaker 1: And that is h your my understanding, right, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And as you know, the funeral is uh this coming Thursday. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be that Thursday. I'm giving you a call because
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  Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention. Uh that you were
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  Speaker 1: going to be giving remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to
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  Speaker 1: print the programs for the few the rule and let
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  Speaker 1: you know that they have taken you off for the remarks. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: because they say that you're not going to be what
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  Speaker 1: do you mean taking me off? Well, what I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: that they say that you're you're not going to abide
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  Speaker 1: by the two three minute rule that they have for remarks,
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  Speaker 1: and they wanted they've they've taken you off. And uh uh? Who? Who?
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  Speaker 1: Who is they? Who? Who come out? Come off? Who? Who?
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  Speaker 1: What's your name is? Launch? I'm Launched, I'm the actual
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  Speaker 1: funeral director lord. And who who told you to take
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  Speaker 1: me off? One of the one of the family members
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming is who who made the adjustment? And an
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  Speaker 1: adjustice that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing the whole program?
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  Speaker 1: Who else is on the list? I mean there's quite
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  Speaker 1: a few family members doing different things, uh throughout the funeral? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So how did you get to my name? Is what
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out that they said, let listen
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  Speaker 1: to me, listen, listen to me Listen to me, brother,
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  Speaker 1: keep listen to me. What they said it is that
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  Speaker 1: you weren't going to abide by the time, you weren't
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  Speaker 1: going to do your remarks in three minutes or less. Listen, Listen, listen, listen.
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  Speaker 1: Monty raised me. He put me through college. And you
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  Speaker 1: think I'm been, I've Beenna goes there in her funeral
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  Speaker 1: and be under two minutes. Well, listen, listen, brother, keep brother,
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  Speaker 1: keep listen to me. Normally, when we have these funerals,
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  Speaker 1: people who give remarks, we have them three minutes or less. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what mister lord
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  Speaker 1: don't list? Is she loan the list? We have a sealer. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: there's a ceiler that's singing your name off the list.
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  Speaker 1: Take her off the list and put me where she
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be. What I can't and her time is
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  Speaker 1: Bobby Joao Bobby, Yes, Bobby Junior is given remarks. That's
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  Speaker 1: that's that's Deloris's, that's mister Lawes's son, right, Yes, every son,
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  Speaker 1: the one that's been locked up. He just got out
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  Speaker 1: of till the truth be told. He the one Dawn
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  Speaker 1: and then put her in the co You needn't take
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  Speaker 1: him off the list too. Give me all that time,
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  Speaker 1: because I mean, if I gonna take nothing that Keith,
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  Speaker 1: let me let me. Let me just say this to you.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot take Sheila or Bobby Junior off. I can't
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  Speaker 1: make any alterations to this program unless they say that, Actually, sir,
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  Speaker 1: you already you already taking you already taking people name off.
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  Speaker 1: You're taking my name off. But but they they orchestrated
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  Speaker 1: this though, who is they? Who is they? Theys for
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  Speaker 1: having my problem? They try to take me off my
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  Speaker 1: hockey program? Who is state? Sir? I'm not gonna get
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  Speaker 1: into a family matter. But until they say that, you
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  Speaker 1: can't matter. Sure, I'm not gonna. I don't want to.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to have this turn out to be bad,
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  Speaker 1: and we want to have a great homegoing for sister
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  Speaker 1: Deloyd's okay, damn right. And if I don't get to
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  Speaker 1: say nothing, I guaranteese, I guarantee you it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: a truthful one in there. Somebody else is gonna get
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  Speaker 1: things and a call for tooth. I guarantees that if
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  Speaker 1: I don't get to say nothing that my monkey funeral,
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  Speaker 1: monkey didn't pay for the college, I didn't put six
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  Speaker 1: thousand in the funeral. I bet you I tell you this.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you this, mister lord. I bet you whether
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  Speaker 1: I don't want the program, I'm not. I bet you
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  Speaker 1: I say it with the I want to. I'll bet
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  Speaker 1: you that much. You tell Bay that I didn't. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't put me through college. I can put money on
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  Speaker 1: the funeral. I called around a few who ain't putting
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  Speaker 1: no money on the funeral. Fell in, they can't be
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  Speaker 1: on the program, man, Keep they when they decide who
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  Speaker 1: who Who's owning? If they changed the format, then I
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  Speaker 1: will call you back. Who who the is thegue? That's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to get. Get you understand who is back?
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  Speaker 1: Can I can? I tell you something and I don't
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  Speaker 1: want you to get to I raped okay, go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, man, I just want to say this.
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  Speaker 1: Keep with them. This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Mornin Show. You just got breakd just gotten breaked
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  Speaker 1: by your cousin, Bobby Junior. You boom, I'm Bobby Junior up.
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  Speaker 1: I'm kicking Bobby. I know that my pressure is all up.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got time to be playing man taking me
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  Speaker 1: on damn program. I'm h baby said, y'all grew up
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  Speaker 1: like brothers man, and you was. You was basically another
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  Speaker 1: son of mister Lord's. That's right, Yes, yes, I was. Man.
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  Speaker 1: That's a long three minutes to talk. People don't know,
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  Speaker 1: what you say at three minutes? If you ain't got
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  Speaker 1: no jokes, it's a few yeah, if you're not a professional, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next,
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  Speaker 1: If she's looking at those men, it motivates me to
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  Speaker 1: keep myself up, and vice versa. Why is this bad cloth? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, dog, I mean, you could do like you
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: want to do, you know, but I just I mean,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: you can't tell me you ain't having thoughts? Why are
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: you looking at these pictures? And if you're having thoughts,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you're building up a reservoir these thoughts in your head,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: and that's leading to temptation and then after while the
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: opportunity to act on it could become greater. Hey man,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what do like you want to do,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: go ahead, but that that an't trying to fake me
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: and fool me with it. If my woman is looking
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: at all up me and body, that makes me moding.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: That's not true. You can stop that. If she looking
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: at all up men's body all day, you know your
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: ass don't look like that. Don't shoot. I know, I
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: ain't even got no. Oh, I don't even so you
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: can say that pardon and trying to trick me with it.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: She looking at I don't mind because you do mind.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: That's not true. That's not true. Ain't no man comfortable
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: with a woman look at a whole bunch of all
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: of me? And is it not? Gim stop none of
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: his faith? And you man because you rode in. Yeah,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Sherry and Brooklyn, Sherry writes,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I'm going through a divorce right now, and my ex
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: has moved on to an old friend that I introduced
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: him to. I don't care about what he's doing, but
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: I do hold her accountable for her actions. Oh wait,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: she introduced who Shirley? I mean, she introduced her act.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: She's going through a divorce right now and her exes
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: moved on to a friend that she his ex wife's
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: introduced him to. She says she doesn't care what he's doing,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: but she holds her friend accountable for her actions. She's
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: sleeping with him and I'm still married to him. Why
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: do women think it's okay to get your sloppy seconds?
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: They're all men like this? Or is a certain type
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: of lowdown man that would do this? Wait a minute,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: what man are you talking about? This is a woman
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: d's sleeping with her girlfriend that shed to her husband
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: her You introduced this woman to your husband. Now y'all
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: getting a divorce. Your husband is sleeping with her. H he.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Now you're mad about her because she's doing sloppy seconds? Yeah?
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: But for he? Well, I mean you could be mad
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: at her if you want to. I understand that. But
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: what double back and got the girlfriend and she wants
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: the girlfriend to stop sleeping with her ex husband. Well,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: first of all, this ain't your husband, no mo, and
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: she not your friend, no mo. So where we at?
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Let it go? If she stopped, you ain't gonna steal,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna like her because every time you see her,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: you're gonna see her sleeping with your husband. So what
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: what what do you want with either one of them?
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: You want them to stop, but you're not gonna You're
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: not gonna deal with either one of them. Girls stop.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Here's the question. Are all men like this or is
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: it a certain type of lowdown man that would do this?
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: The man ain't being lowdown. Excuse me. You introduced her
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: to him. She your girlfriend? Heyo asks for a reason.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Now he dating your girlfriend that you introduced him for.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: The trifling one in this bunch is your girlfriend and
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: what you're already divorcing him for a reason. Probably got something, dude,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: something like that. Anyway, now he doing what he'd been doing,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: what you mad at him for. Now, all men ain't
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: like that? But yeah, this is moving on. Pauline in Southfield, Michigan.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Pauline says, yesterday was myself Stee's birthday, and I didn't
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: get a call from my boyfriend until around six pm.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: He lives over an hour away from me and does
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  Speaker 1: not drive anymore because he's legally blind. I told him
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  Speaker 1: I expected to hear from him or get flowers or
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: something from him, and he told me that I can't
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: tell him how to love me. We've been dating for
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: two years and he doesn't make me feel special anymore.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Is this a sign that he's no longer interested? Well,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: you know, he probably didn't see it on the calendar.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: He did something. You know. It ain't like he could
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: look at his phone and then know you did say
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: he would legally blind. That whole day could have got
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: back without him realizing it was your damn birthday. He
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: legally blind. He'd have fell over four chairs going to
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: the bathroom, he said, worried about why you ain't heard it.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Might have been knocked out running up into that day
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: and refrigerated yesterday. His ass might have been unconscious on
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: the But you being all here considered Tom, he ain't
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: called you to sixty till till six p year. He's sixty.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: He can't see and you because he didn't call that.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: You don't tell me how to love you. Everybody don't
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: know what dead is. I got an iPhone without the eye.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Close your eyes and pick up your iPhone and tell
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: me how good it is. Pick up your phone, now,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: tell me how good your phone is? All right? Danita
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: and Roano says, I've been dating a guy that has
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: overweighted and he said we're going to work out together
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: for the past two years. I cook healthy food and
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: we've tried intimate fasting. But I think he eats bad
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: when he's away from me, and it's actually when he's
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: stressed at work. If I lose any more weight and
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: get any sexier, I can't promise that I will still
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: look at him the same way. How can I motivate
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: him to stick to a diet and shed some pounds
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: from me? Leave? Leaving is all you've got because listen
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: to me, there's no consequences. If he doesn't lose weight,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: there's no consequences. Did he stick to the meal plan,
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: there's no consequences. If he cheats on intimittent fasting, there's
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: no consequences. So now he looking at you getting fine,
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: but he gets to stay right where he had and
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: get worse with no consequences. I have told you, ladies,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: men respond to three things. Pain, consequence, reward. Once you
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: put any of those three things in front of a man,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: you get a response. Pain, we respond, consequence, we respond, reward,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: we respond. Other than that, If you're not gonna do
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: none of those three things, we're talking to your man, Okay,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: all right, I thank You're going Anita, thank you Clo
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment and
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: National news. Right after this, you're listening to morning show
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: still trending. The seventy ninth annual Golden Globe Awards were
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: announced in Los Angeles by none other than Snoop Dog.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: The other day, Snoop was rocking a red cap and
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: a pair of shades indoors. He read off the names
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: with a couple of mispronunciations. Take a listen, being a fleck,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: being an affleck my fault? Sorry about that? Being a
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: fleck of fleck, SNOOPID, you know a couple more blunders.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Who cares? It's Portugal so you can relate to Snoop.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: The Golden Globes have been criticized because of their diversity
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: or lack thereof, and ethics concerns. NBC will not air
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: the twenty twenty two Golden Globe, but there is a
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: date of January ninth set but no word on the
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: details of the ceremony. So what do you what do
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: you mean they won't er it? Do you remember it
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: was a lot of drama with the Golden Globes last year,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: and so NBC said that they weren't going to air
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: it next year. But man, whatever, you know what, Man,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: it's try I'll tell you something. It's to me, it
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: seems like America's eating itself. That's what it seems like
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: to me. We're eating ourself alive into nothing. This political
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: correctness is killing us. This if you don't include everybody,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: that's killing us. Then if you don't agree with everybody,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: it's killing us. You know, the politics in this country
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with people any more. It only
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: has to do with party position, power and money, has
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with what's best for the people. I'm
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: sick of all of it. Man, America is eating itself now.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: You can't have the Golden Globe Awards because it's not
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: all inclusive, all inclusive of who y'all ain't been stopping
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: stuff because we're no black people in it. You've been
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: having everything without us in it. Now, all of a sudden,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: everybody else want to get included. All of sud We've
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: been feeling this way forever. Welcome to the club. Get
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: your own damn network. We had to go get b et. Y'all,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: go get whatever network you want to do and get
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: your group set up on it so y'all can see
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: how it feels. That's what I suggest you do. If
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: you want to have the Red Ribbon group, then everybody
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: just little red ribbons. Go get the Red Ribbon network.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: You want to get blond hair, blue eyes only network
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: and everybody only got blind hair blue. I go get
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: your own damn network and put everybody on it you want.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: That's my suggestion and solution for the whole thing we
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: had to get b et. You go get your own
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: damn network that blag can be on every day talk
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: about everything you want to talk about. Yeah, yeah, well
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I think that's what happened. Golden Globes came under fire
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: for not including us US as African Americans. We ain't
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: ever been including oscars went by for years, by for years. Yes,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: you're right, see absolute Grammas went by fore. MTV didn't
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: even let us on that until Michael Jackson got on that. Man. Stop.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Just ain't nothing new. This inclusion is nothing new. This
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: is America. America been excluding all of us the entire time,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: has been here from day one. Ye care, right, fans,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: we know what it feels like for sure. All right, Steve,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Let's move on now. Time for today's headlines, Ladies and gentlemen,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: miss Anne trip, thank you, thank you. This is a
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: trip with the news. Let's go. President Biden flew to
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Kentucky yesterday to see for himself the damage done by
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: last weekend's multi state killer tornadoes. The Commander in chief
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: saw what was left of towns of like Dawson Springs
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: in Mayfield, where at least seventy four people have died.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Keep the faith. We're gonna get this done. I promise you.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: The Governor's not walking away. Your kind of judge is
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: not walking away, Your Congress is not walking away. No
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: one's walking away. We're in this for the long haul.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Mister Biden says he's promising that the federal government will
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: cover one hundred percent of the cost of the first
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: thirty days of emergency work, and that FEMA does not
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: yet need any additional funding to do that. More than
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: thirty twisters thirty landed at various spots in the South
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: and the Midwest, and an additional fortune people died in
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: four other states. Yesterday, the National Archives released nearly fifteen
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: hundred documents concerned the assassination of President John F. Kennedy
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: in nineteen sixty three. However, the documents they say not
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: expected to contain any new information as to whether Lee
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Harvey Oswald was the lone killer Far Minneapolis killer cop
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Derek Chauvin has played guilty to federal charges of violating
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: George Floyd's civil rights. Chauvin's plea means he will not
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: have to go on trial next month with three other
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: now fired Minneapolis cops who watched him grind his knee
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: into mister Floyd's neck for over nine minutes and did
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: absolutely nothing to stop it. Derek Chauvin will still most
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: likely be given an even lengthy or jail term. A
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: judge in Iowa has sentenced a white man named Steve
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Vogel to spend the rest of his life in jail
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: without the possibility of parole for horrific murder of an
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: innocent black man named Michael Williams, whom authorities say he
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: hanged and then displayed before he burned mister Williams's body
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: in a ditch. Was angry because his wife. He saw
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: his girlfriend just talking to mister Williams, so that's what
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: he did to Michael Williams. Perhaps the only positive thing
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: about this case is that the jury took less than
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: four hours to convict this guy on first degree murder
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: and abuse of a corpse. Horrible. San Francisco Mayor London
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Breed is asking her city's new budget to contain more
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: than rather less funding for the police due to what's
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: perceived as a new crime wave in her city. And finally,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: sad news, influential black feminist writer Bell Hooks has died.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Her book Ain't I A Woman is considered one of
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: the most important studies on the historic and continual marginalization
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: of Black women. Just ask Megan Markle. Belle. Hooks was
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: sixty nine and also singer Joe Simon has died at
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: age eighty five. And one of the members of Tavares,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Ralph Tavares, has died. He was seventy nine years old. Yes,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: heaven is Missian Angel. Now back to the Steve Harvey
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening she Stry Morning Show. Here's a
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: quick question for you, guys. Um, do you have a
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: memory or a vivid recollection of the first time you
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: met Santa Claus? First time I met Santa Ci No, no,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: they I've seen the picture, but I don't remember the man.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: I Hi met the mall, but he never came to
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: my house. I never saw him. My mom would always
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: tell me he had been there though the five and
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: they sat out and talked for a minute. Oh really, always, Steve,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: You remember meeting Santa Claus when I first met him, Yeah,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: but I already knew who he was. What happened I
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: had been told by my brothers and stuff didnt go
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: out here's quite man if so when I met him,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: it didn't have a joy that you think you would
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: have as a child. But still I liked Santa Claus.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I always liked him. I thought his intentions were well. Plus,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: I'm a big Christmas guy. So and why is that?
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I just I just think it's the dopest holiday of
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: all time. I loved Christmas from day one. The gifts,
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: the giving. You know, see my father and mother face man,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: when they opened up this little worthless ass gift out
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: of bottom. You know, I knew the gift wasn't worth it, damn.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: But the way they faked it and act like they
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: kid it meant a lot to me, you know. And
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: so I became a big giver of Christmas gifts. I've
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: always kind of liked that, you know, nice gifts and stuff.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: But then as I grew older, realized what Christmas was
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: really about. So it wasn't about the gift giving no more,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: and so it just became all I just want to treat.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: That's all I want. It's a treat, you know, I know,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: I know the real meaning of Christmas? Right for getting
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: home so I could see my tree. Haven't seen no,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: haven't seen him came from? Again, I'm not sure where
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: this one came in from. I haven't. I have a
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: disgusted chat with my wife, but this coming in from
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: something you didn't get it at wall? Are you mad?
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: From the tree? And where your treat came from? Tom nameless?
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: You don't name? Excuse what? Excuse me? The market name
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: market as in predecorated, Yeah, precorated, Julian Yeah yeah, wow.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, well, uh Mary, Christmas, everybody coming up.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: In thirty four minutes after the hour, we're to check
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail. Right after this you're listening to show. All right, Steven,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: it's time to check your voicemail. If you want to
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: leave Steve a message or just give a holiday greeting
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: to your loved one, call us right now at eight
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve and leave a message. Okay, Steve,
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: this one is a call from a fan of comedy,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is Danny. Look, I don't I hope
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: I don't come off as racist, and I do apologize
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: if I do. But I don't know if you thought
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: about this. I'm sure you probably get this all the time.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: If you would consider playing Richard Pryor in a movie
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: about Richard Pryor, that would be amazing because you look
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: like Richard Pryor. Well, Danny, I look like you've been
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: my younger days. I think I did, especially when I
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: had Hair's a lot of side by side comparisons dons
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: in terms of look. Yeah, but like right now, I'd
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: have to play Richard as an older man, you know,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I could play Richard Pryde oh in the after or
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: something like that. You know, I have to play, like,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: play like Richard Prye after he's passed and going to
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: heaven and he's sitting around heaven. That's Richard Prye. But
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: you know I've heard the comparison to my whole career. Yeah,
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's Danni Bill at this point. Richard
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: played himself, Yeah, in his own movie, Yeah, and it
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: did it, didn't. I didn't take it as racist. Yeah,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Joejoe Danson was a movie he did, yeo yeah yeah,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Danny. Here's a voicemail from a man, Steve,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: who needs your help to talk to his wife about
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: her appearance. Good morning, Steve Harvey in the morning crew.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: This is my courageous I'm forty nine year old father
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: of a ten year old. We both praised this together.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Loof y'all to check out our praises own YouTube brother
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: x praising Uh Steve, I have a beautiful wife. Were
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: about to reach y'all a one year anniversary. She is beautiful.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: But every time we get ready to go, as she
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: put this makeup on her face, and I told already
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: I hate makeup. She's naturally beautiful. I told she's natural beautiful.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Every time she put that makeup on, man, it kicks
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: me off. What else can I say to my wife
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: or hush? And I take that when my wife puts
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: on that makeup every time we get ready to go,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: as you want to put on makeup. She's trying to
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: improve a little bit, but I was telling her, you
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: do not need makeup, sweetie. I love your natural beauty.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: What do I need to do? Steve, y'all keep us laughing, man,
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: and y'all keep us entertaining. We love y'all. God bless y'all.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: Y'all have a blessing productive day. Well. I appreciate your dog,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: but you got a problem him. You've only been married
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: one year. You fought in nine. You just filed this girl.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Don't mess it up because your ass talking about you. You
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: You hate makeup. That ain't what you said when you
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: first got married. Now all of a sudden, this ain't
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: the first time she trying makeup, So now you got her,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: you can stop all this. Ain't nobody forty nine trying
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: make up for the first time she like makeup. Your
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  Speaker 1: ass needs to get the starts to like and make up.
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  Speaker 1: What you needs to do? You needs to get too
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  Speaker 1: starts to like in makeup and shut your mouth, happy wife,
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  Speaker 1: happy life. I can't stand that. Now. As far as
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: you forty nine years old praise dancing, we're not fitting
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: to look at that either. I'm not tuning in for
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: no fifty year old praise. Let your boy praise dance, jumping,
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  Speaker 1: splash water people in turn real fast without falling. You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna spend one time in your old ass, gonna wipe
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  Speaker 1: out that whole front row, knocking the podium over the
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  Speaker 1: Christmas treat and fail you do, knock the cross off
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  Speaker 1: the wall and broke the back off a p He's
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  Speaker 1: too old to be praised. Dan, don't even like going
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  Speaker 1: to churches where they had that. We're now gonna have
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  Speaker 1: a word from our praise dances. You say a word.
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  Speaker 1: I love praise, but I don't want to see all
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  Speaker 1: your hand motions. I love it. I don't take all
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  Speaker 1: these roads off. Ain't nobody in trees dancing never fit? Yeah?
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: And why is your face white? What did you paint
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: your mind that? Jesus know that you take that off?
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: We know that's you. Come on, man, all right, listen.
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  Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
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  Speaker 1: the subject she means the world to me. It's brought
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  Speaker 1: today's frank phone call. What you got for us? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Can you breastfeed my baby? What? Can you breastfeed my baby?
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  Speaker 1: All a man cat dog? If you would? Hello? Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Uh yeah this amen, amen, this this this this dog
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  Speaker 1: and uh uh this who manh yeah, it gave me
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  Speaker 1: your phone number. I know you don't. No member gave
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: me your number. He's talking about on the south side.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, on the south side. He uh,
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  Speaker 1: he gave me your number. Man. I'm going through something.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you might bear to help me out, man,
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  Speaker 1: because uh we'll see then my girl and I don't know, man,
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  Speaker 1: I think just in left, you know. And uh she
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  Speaker 1: had left me here with the kids, you know, and
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to I don't think coming back. My man,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: my man, I feel for you. But but why are
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: you why are you? Why are you telling me this?
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: See I'm trying to um see man here, I haven't
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: got to get kids by myself. You know. My little
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: boy he three, but my little girl, man, she just
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: she's just two months old. Man, you know, and I
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  Speaker 1: the reason why I got your number because I think
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  Speaker 1: you might get to help me, because I I I'm
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  Speaker 1: just going through this. It's just hard right now. Bro, dog,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: how imm to help you? Dog? I got kids of
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  Speaker 1: my own dog? Howmmy help you? Let's see that's that's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Nah, ain't you ain't you married to? Yes?
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: My wife? How you know my wife's dog? And see
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I mean I kind of know y'all
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  Speaker 1: through I gotta see y'all fote through him and uh,
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  Speaker 1: let's see here the deal man. Like Like I said,
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  Speaker 1: I got my kids, man, My my my little boy three,
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  Speaker 1: but my little girl ain't but two months. Man, how
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  Speaker 1: me the kids y'all got? Man? We got three kids, man,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I got a ten year old, eight year old and
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: a six month old. I'm trying to I really don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you're asking asking me. Man, I got my
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: own family. I got to take care of you. Ask
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: me for help? I mean, what is it you need? Man?
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: And and and what I'm trying to do with this here,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my little my little girl taking
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  Speaker 1: care of man. Like IM said that ran off man
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  Speaker 1: and then left. But I don't think. I don't I
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  Speaker 1: don't think coming back. I don't think she's coming back.
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  Speaker 1: But I need some go I need some help from
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: from from your white man. I need her to come
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: by the house today. Case do you think? What do
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: you need to come at your house? Because the baby,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: the baby, the baby needs some milk. Man, we got
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: a couple of cans, and we got a couple of
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: cans of some formula some something in here we could
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: drop off to you man, but ain't coming to your house. Dog,
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I can't moaning. You want them happy to have these
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: You have these cans, but we can't be having my
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: wife at your house. Dog got all kids. I understand that,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: but I the baby needs some milk. That's some side
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I need. I need to come by and feed the
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: bay dog. I just told you to come by drop
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  Speaker 1: off a couple of cans and milk. But I mean,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I don't even know you like that player. I ain't
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: about to just have my wife coming to your damn house.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know you, but I need going to come
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  Speaker 1: by and see the baby. Man, dog, why the hell
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: you can't feed you do baby? Come by and brush
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: basy what you want to want to come out of
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: your house and do what I want. I told you
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: you're a lot of shop mine. I don't know you
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: to be talking about my wife coming to your house
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: breasting your baby. Matter fact, you give my number? Who
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: the hell is anyway? I don't stop thinking about say, dog,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: don't call me with this dog because you're talking about
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: breasting your baby. Why would you do this? Now? Why
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: would you? Why would you like? Why would you come
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: between a baby yourself? What are you doing here? Dog?
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Dog, Bring your baby over here,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: you and the baby come over here. Bring your baby
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: baby over here. And when and when you get here,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: as soon as she put out it, I'm gonna knock
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: your keep down your throat. Now, come on over. We're
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: gonna be here. She's gonna be all day. Don't do that.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't let you eat go and stuff,
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: come between yourself. I'm just trying to get out. How
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: are you gonna call me talking about my wife breastfeed
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: your baby? I'm still you know what? Hold on, hold on,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, what's hold hold on? Hold on?
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: What's up? Baby? You know and our husband? You don't
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: know them? My wife don't know you and I don't
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: know you. Eating change? Do you know a name? Supposedly
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: he lives on the south Side, he knows us, you
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  Speaker 1: don't know him. Hold on, I don't know you. I
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: don't know what this is. On other line talking about
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  Speaker 1: his wife left him with the two kids. He wants
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: you to come to his crib it breast feed his baby.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Don't baby, don't baby, don't trip. I got this. I'm
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: gonna holy let you in a minute. We don't dog,
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• 50:28
  Speaker 1: call me? Fuck your address? One more thing I want
• 50:32
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  Speaker 1: was just saying, is I need more? Yes? I Oh,
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• 55:13
  Speaker 1: subject she means the world to me. Dear Stephen Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a twenty eight year old single man and I'm
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: in love with the most beautiful girl. In the world.
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  Speaker 1: I need your advice on how to love her properly.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: My father has not been active in my life because
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: he's incarcerated. I can't go to my mother with the
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: kind of questions I have on how to be a
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: man and to love a woman. I've never seen a
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: positive love relationship, so I don't want to mess it
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: up with my girl. When I visited my dad at
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: a young age, I knew that I would never end
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: up in his situation, so I was teased a lot
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: for not running with the boys in my school. Instead,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: I joined the debate club and the tennis team. Those
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: were two of the most uncool activities at the school,
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: but it was great for me because that's how I
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: met this girl. She still has her parents together in
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: the home, and her grandmother lives with them. It feels
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: good to visit her home and have dinner as a
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: family with them. Her father pulled me aside one day
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: and offered to get me a sports coat to wear
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: when he noticed mine was too small. I was ashamed,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: but grateful that he never mentioned it to his daughter.
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: I feel he trusts me with her life, so I
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: don't want to mess this up. I look to you
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: for guidance, and I need some words from you on
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: how to keep my cool. I have a great job
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: and my own home that she's helping me decorate. I'm
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: appreciative of any advice you and Miss Shirley can offer me. Well.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: I mean, first off, right here, pay close attention, boy,
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: Yes that's right. First of all, I have to say,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: this is a beautiful, beautiful letter. I love this letter.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: It makes me proud. It fills me with hope because
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: I know that there's still a lot of great guys
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: out there, and you sound like one of them. Um,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: we've never had a letter like this, So I just
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: appreciate you wanting to do the right thing by your girl,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: and you ask how do you love her properly? Well,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: it sounds like you're off to a good start because
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: first you want to do this, this is something you
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: want to do. How do you love a woman properly?
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: You protect her, You make her feel safe, you make
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: her feel secure. You you treat her well, You take
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: care of her, You make her happiness a priority. You
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: be a gentleman. You treat her like a lady. You
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: stay stay close to her dad too, because he seems
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: to really like you and he seems to want you
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: to win. That's important. He could be your your father
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: role model. Um, you know you're motivated, highly motivated, young man.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: I say, stay motivated, don't cheat on her, communicate with her,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: listen to her, keep your word, show her you mean
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: what you say. I mean. These are just some of
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: the things that you can do to love her property
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: properly from a woman's perspective. And here's Steve, and I
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: know you have a lot more Steve ahead. Well, it's
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: a deal, young man. I appreciate the letter. She means
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: the world to me. Well, that's something that's not mentioned
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: a lot today. If you look at ig and you
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: look at all these stories, you know you don't very
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: rarely hear men saying that a woman means the world
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: to her. Not often, especially in young people. So it's
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: a great thing that you have that aspect going for
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: yourself and that type of level of commitment. You only
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: twenty eight years old, you're single, You're in love with
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: the most beautiful girl in the world, and to love
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: her properly, it's very simple. The key word to loving
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: somebody properly is respect, young man. It all starts with respect.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: One of the best pieces of his advice I ever
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: got was do unto others as you would have them
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: do unto you. That's so important. But can I tell
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: you something, man, that is so hard to do as
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: a man, That is so so hard to do. Do
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: unto others as you would have them do unto you.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: And if you start with respect, that's going to cover
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: a lot of ground. You know. Would you want her
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: to be loyal to you, then you in turn have
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: to be loyal to her. And we can't continue to
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: use excuse Well, I'm a man, you know, I trip
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: every nine and in, but I still love my girl.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: I got all that. But you're gonna lose a dog
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: if you do that. So when I come back, I
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: go a little bit more in depth with it to
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: help you out. All right, Steven, We'll have part two
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject she means the world
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: to Me. We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is she means the world
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: to me? All right, I got a twenty eight year
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: old young man whose father has been incarcerated, not active
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: in his life. He can't go to his mother with
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: the kinds of questions that he has on how to
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: be a man and love a woman. He's never seen
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: a positive relationship, and he don't want to mess it
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: up with this girl. And when he visited his dad
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: at a young age, he knew that he would never
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: end up in that situation. So he got teased a
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: lot for not running with the boys in the school,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: and Steady joined the debate club and the tennis team,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: and those are the two of the most uncool activities
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: at school. True, But it's okay though, because tennis can
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: get you a long way, and so will debating skill.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: And but it was great for you because that's how
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: I met this girl, either at the tennis school or
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: at the debate club. So jack potty worked out for you.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: And her parents are together at home with their grandmother,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: and it feels good to visit at home and have
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: a deal as a family with them. Now here's the
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: upside to this, because we were talking about how do
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: you love a woman properly? And I started at the
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: bottom of the letter by explaining to this young man,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: that it all starts with respect. If you respect a
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: woman her wishes, respect her needs, You respect her thoughts,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: you respect her feelings, you respect everything about her. That's
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: how you keep a woman. Weren't even talking about love yet,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: We're just talking about a basic thing that everybody has
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: the capability of doing. Respecting. Now the fact that you
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: in love with this girl is added because you now
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: you have feelings for her, and like you said at
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: the top of the letter, she means the world to me.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: So now that means you in love. So here's an
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: upside to this. After respect, when you go by a house,
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  Speaker 1: you kind of like that. You know they have a family,
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  Speaker 1: and you all had dinner. You love that her father
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  Speaker 1: pulled you aside one day and offered to get me
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  Speaker 1: a sport coach where when he noticed mine was too small.
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  Speaker 1: I was ashamed, but grateful that he never mentioned it
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  Speaker 1: to his daughter. I feel that he trusts me with
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  Speaker 1: her life. Okay, now you're going too far. Now. He
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  Speaker 1: don't trust you with her life yet. He don't, but
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  Speaker 1: he watching you, and he likes some things about you.
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  Speaker 1: Because he likes he likes some things about you. But
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  Speaker 1: and he's willing to help you. If the father is
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  Speaker 1: willing to help you, that means that Steve and so
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  Speaker 1: he'd poured you to the side and got you a
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  Speaker 1: sport coat to wear when he noticed yours was too small.
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  Speaker 1: So he liked you. He think that's put potentially me
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  Speaker 1: and he did it away from his daughter. So you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to mess this up. So you look to
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  Speaker 1: me for guidance and some words on how to keep
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  Speaker 1: my cool. But listen to me. Man, you have somebody
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  Speaker 1: who likes you, that's an older man, and that's her father.
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  Speaker 1: Now you gotta be careful here because you're gonna come
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: to him for advice. But the advice you're coming for
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: you have to remember that this is his daughter. I've
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  Speaker 1: had this conversation before with young men. It's hard. I
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  Speaker 1: want to do the right thing. I'm trying to do
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  Speaker 1: this with your daughter. Blah blahlah. Now I want him
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  Speaker 1: to understand how to be successful. But at the same time,
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: I'm team daughter all the time. I'm team Morgan, team Brandy,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: team Carley, team lawyer. So I'm gonna help you, but
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be to her advantage, and you just got
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  Speaker 1: to understand that part of it. Man, he's going to
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  Speaker 1: help you, but it will be to her advantage, and
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: it might not be a bad thing because you should
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: want it to be to her advantage, which is the
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: other thing. So it you're in a good position with
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  Speaker 1: the guy. Now you don't want to mess this up.
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  Speaker 1: Don't stay respectful. These are my words of guidance to you.
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  Speaker 1: Respect and love is the key to the whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: Now here's what you do. Have You say you have
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  Speaker 1: a great job, you got your own home that she's
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  Speaker 1: helping you decorate. I'm apprecier of any advice that you
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  Speaker 1: and Miss Shirley can offer. You got your own home,
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  Speaker 1: you twenty eight, or you're strong, You've got a good job,
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  Speaker 1: You're strong. She helping you decorate it because she see
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  Speaker 1: herself in that house. You win it, you winning dog.
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  Speaker 1: Stay respectful, don't blow it, don't mess this up. The
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  Speaker 1: problem with us as men sometimes is once we get
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  Speaker 1: things together and once we start learning a little bit more,
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  Speaker 1: we have a tendency to want to show people what
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  Speaker 1: we got and what we know. And that's when you
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  Speaker 1: want to show it to somebody else so you can
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  Speaker 1: get that same cheering that you got initially from your girl.
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  Speaker 1: When she found out you was at homeowner all this here,
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  Speaker 1: so now you want to show it off, and then
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  Speaker 1: that makes you want to invite somebody else over so
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  Speaker 1: she can see the house, so forth and so on.
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  Speaker 1: YadA YadA, YadA, YadA YadA. You gotta be aware because
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  Speaker 1: that's called temptation, and that's coming. Try to avoid the temptation.
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  Speaker 1: Remember the Lord's bread. Give us this day our daily bread,
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  Speaker 1: and forgive us our temptations. We've forgive us our trust. Pass.
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  Speaker 1: We've given those will trust pass against us, and lead
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  Speaker 1: us not into temptation, but deliver us from all that
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  Speaker 1: is he. Oh try, young man, that's my daily prayer.
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  Speaker 1: I just try. I try. Don't get right all the time,
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  Speaker 1: and neither will you. And you're gonna make some mistakes
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  Speaker 1: and she's gonna get mad at you. I thank you
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  Speaker 1: on track. You're gonna be fine. Just remember respect. Thank
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• 1:06:36
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve Harvey. And you know, to the Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Family and everybody listens to Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You know, we celebrating the holidays, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We you know, wish everybody married Christman.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have corns. You know, we ain't got there yet,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: but you know we look out for the you know,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: happy New Year. But Steve, I want to ask you personally,
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: do you remember when you and I were backstage with
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  Speaker 1: the Daytime Emmys and we both looked at each other
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  Speaker 1: and you said to me, we did it right. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't think people are as grateful as they. I
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: don't know, I shouldn't say should be with everything that's
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: going on, COVID, inclement weather and everything. Just that little
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: thing of you and I having that backstage connection, that's
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  Speaker 1: appreciation of a blessing. Do you guys think that people
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  Speaker 1: nowadays appreciate the blessing? Absolutely not. I think this world
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  Speaker 1: is in such a state of lack of gratitude because
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: we're in too much of an old look at me society.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: It's Instagram, it's igs, Facebook watch is posted like and dislike,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: and it's trolling. It's too much of that. It's too
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: much of that. I think it's very missing. That's right.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think Schy describe berries? You know, you
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  Speaker 1: got that spirituality going. I just don't think people engage
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: each other the way they should. I feel sorry for
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: the kids now they didn't even date. They hook up
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: and what like, and then even a holiday each other.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah back then, but back then, even the holidays, it
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  Speaker 1: had a spiritual component. But listen, it ain't Christma until
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  Speaker 1: I hit Temptations and oj Crisma. Just ain't christ the
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  Speaker 1: one you love what you lonely do for Christmas? You know,
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: social describe berries. Back in the day, we appreciate it stuff.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: Even when you got one gift, you appreciated it. I
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: just don't feel like people appreciate at the blessed times, right.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: I mean we're raised so differently, you know, and we
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: didn't have you know, Steve mentioned social media. We didn't
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: have social media growing up, so it forced us to
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  Speaker 1: talk to each other and be in groups with each
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: other and deal with families and stuff like that. Now
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: we don't have to. We can sit in front of
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  Speaker 1: our computer and be nameless and face and you know
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: you hate and definitely not appreciate. People are entitled today.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: They think you owe them something. You know you mustn't care.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: Williams face then go on and on. But that's for now.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: But you know what, I just want to say this
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  Speaker 1: to everybody that's listening show. First of all, be be
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: thankful for what you got. Y'all know that song, Thankful
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: what you got, Merry Christmas, the Happy New Year. That's right,
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  Speaker 1: and just accepted. Blessing Steve, you're gonna hit it. Go ahead,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: thankful for what you got. You may not add saga.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: See coming up at the top of the hour, Roscoe
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  Speaker 1: is coming up to sing a few Christmas songs. Right
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: after this to Rosco said, Hi, you're listening all right?
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: So guys, you know we always hear from Roscoe. This
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: is Christmas Holidays, everybody spirit, uh, So we always hear
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: from him at the start of the show. But right now,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: like we're all in a Christmas spirit, So Ruscoe is back.
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  Speaker 1: I need a better here, Joan, who are you? The
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  Speaker 1: right way? I got it? You ladies and gentlemen, get
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  Speaker 1: yourself together. He is the legend. He's going through a
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: law suit, but he is still the man. But you
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: and together the baddest in the land. So many different music,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: very different genres. The one and only Ross go as
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  Speaker 1: you dro that there, you boy, you gotta do better
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: than anyway we're going on. Now, what's going on? What
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: y'all need from it? Christmas songs? Ros Christmas songs? Man?
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: What about what you want to do? That's what I
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: was trying to tell you, Roscoe Christmas Okay, I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know. Where's the whole Crimson? What you what you
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  Speaker 1: want me to do? You ain't some of your greatest
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  Speaker 1: Christmas hits? Oh some of my greatest Christmas Yeah, wrote
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: to everything knows his greatest hits. I thought he was
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: just singing Christmas songs. Oh, he Bay the snow Man, boss,
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  Speaker 1: I wrote, I wrote, I wrote the song Boston Snowman.
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  Speaker 1: White people got hold to it. They called it frosty. Hell,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I want to write a song called Frosty. It was bossible.
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  Speaker 1: I go ro Bay the snow Man. What a bad
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  Speaker 1: old dude, was he? That's how I wrote the song
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  Speaker 1: white vol Change at the Frosty the snow Man. That
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: part of lawsuit, warter of lawsuit? What else? Oh this Christmas?
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  Speaker 1: You gotta sing that one? Do do Dode Hey, old missiletool.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to know your better. The last creem
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  Speaker 1: and as we look around your eye out shine the time,
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  Speaker 1: what deeds creems, Mill Hills, my fire side, blazing bride,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: come on and we're blowing these jams, oh through the night,
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  Speaker 1: and the crisma will will be a very special crismer
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  Speaker 1: from me. Yeah, that's really high wind. You know Donny
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  Speaker 1: got hold to it. Didn't wonderful y'all. I want to
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  Speaker 1: thank Donny half Away. You're the only bardon that did
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  Speaker 1: a soul that I wrote and did it better. Only one, okay,
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  Speaker 1: But I gotta get my money though, he said, I'm
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: shore Donna halfaway, Layla halfaway, pathaway. Anybody that's trying to
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  Speaker 1: come my way, and it's Jane half away, Jane half away.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure with everybody. What is your favorite Christmas song though, Rosco?
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  Speaker 1: Your absolute all time favorite? Oh? This one? I wrote
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: that the change cold as hell, cold ass hell cold
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  Speaker 1: outside I'm here. Ain't no fun when you knows on
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  Speaker 1: the run. Everybody knows it's cold out here. Hey and
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  Speaker 1: I changed out with the cold. Song was about being
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: cold out here. Wife folk like cold, so they named
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: it jingle Bell, jingle Bell, jingle Bell. The song was
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: whole ass hell, whole ast hell, cold as your damn wife,
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  Speaker 1: Like all right, we'll get in from the snow. That
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: was another line, thank you hit through the snow out
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  Speaker 1: I know one thing I don't care well, nobody say
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Jayalen didn't write that. I talked to Jayden like that. No,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: we decided. I'm like, I like both of them. Now
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying I like them. I'm saying I know
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: Jeley didn't write there. He didn't write that. I don't know.
• 1:15:38
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• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: I was rooting for them. I'm I'm sad to hear
• 1:15:45
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• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: have to think they have any children. I'm really really sad.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: But you know both of them, right, Yeah, I know
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: both of them. Man, I was really I think they
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: cool people. So man, that's sad. Oh well, well, hopefully
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  Speaker 1: halle Berry, Tommy, we know that, or someone that you
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: had a crush on in high school. Celebrity, they don't
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• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: to a couple of reunions, and I went to a reunion.
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  Speaker 1: your naughty search history, let's put it like that, or
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  Speaker 1: would you rather work as an exotic dancer for one day?
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: Say it again? Would you rather reveal your naughty search history?
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather work as an exotic dancer for
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: one day? You've been looking up looking I can't go
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  Speaker 1: in my cookies look holloway away. I misunderstood the question
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: was like going in your search like whatever you've done
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  Speaker 1: whatever you you looked at up. I can't be no damn.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh I thought you were saying it. Would
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  Speaker 1: I go back and have to reveal what I've done? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: That's that is. Would you rather reveal your naughty search
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: history or work as an exotic dancer for a day.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: What you've been looking at your device? Yeah? Your answer? Now,
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: I'm coming out with glitter all over me here. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to I'm had to come out as up.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm had to come out as like
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  Speaker 1: a matter. I'm gonna have to come out as a
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: the day on this Thursday. Been a good day. Yeah,
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: it's been a great deal. We're getting ready to wrap
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: up for holiday season. You know, hey, y'all listen, it's
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: been a it's been a great year for us. It's
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: been a great year of radio. It's been a great
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: year of learning. We came out of the shale a
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: little bit from COVID, we started the recovery from COVID.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: God kept us all safe. I know a lot of
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: people out there lost some people that was dear to
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: them because of this pandemic and for other reasons also.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: But the fact remains that we're still here. That's a blessing.
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: That's truly, truly a blessing. Um. It's a good thing
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: to be grateful, man, It really really is that I
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: look back on this year and all God does has
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: done for me. I can't help but be grateful. I
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: know it's been some challenges over the past year, the
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: past two years. I know people have lost jobs, positions, homes, careers, businesses. Uh,
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: but everything is a lesson. Every single thing I've discovered
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: in my life is a lesson. Every mistake that gets
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: made is a lesson, every every everything. Man. Just listen, y'all.
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: As we go into this holiday, be grateful, Be thankful
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: that you're here. Man. Spend some time loving on people.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: Spend some time calling some people that you haven't spoken
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: to in a while. Tell them you love them, given
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: their flowers while they live farm. Keep your friendships alive.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: Just put in some phone calls. Hey, look, I may
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: not have much this year, but I just wanted to
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: call and tell ya I was thinking about you and
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: I love you this year. I just want you to know, Man,
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: if you ever need me, I'm now. I ain't got
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: a lot, but you got my loyalty, my love, and
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: my friendship. I think that's very valuable. Don't forget that.
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: Try not to be disappointed this year. Don't expect people
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: to do exactly what you want them to do, because
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: people are the humans, and they make mistakes. I'm going
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: into this new year ready more connected to my higher
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: power than ever before. I'll be led more, I follow more,
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: I listen more. I worry a lot less than I
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: used to because I just gave the wheel over. I
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: just told God, you drive, I'm gonna follow wherever you lead. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it has taken me places I never thought I would go. Now, listen,
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  Speaker 1: your life is not my life, and my life is
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  Speaker 1: not your life. But my life ain't Michael Jordan's life.
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  Speaker 1: My life ain't Tiger woods life. My life ain't Being
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  Speaker 1: Crump's life. My life ain't nobody else's. It's just mine.
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  Speaker 1: Stop looking at the path that other people are on
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  Speaker 1: and focus on your path, because your path is very
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  Speaker 1: uniquely designed for the life God has for you. The
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  Speaker 1: problem you have is when you start looking at other
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  Speaker 1: paths and you want that path. That path has nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with you. Stop looking at what other people have.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know how they got it, You don't know
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  Speaker 1: what it cost him, and you don't even know if
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  Speaker 1: it's really there. Stop following people. I tell my, look
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  Speaker 1: at all they likes. You don't know what's behind them looks.
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  Speaker 1: Take them eyelashes off, in that makeup and turn that
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  Speaker 1: bag the right way where you can really see everything,
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  Speaker 1: and you would be surprised. Get content with your own self,
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  Speaker 1: be happy, Learn to be happy with you. Where you are,
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  Speaker 1: who you are, what you doing, where you going, what
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  Speaker 1: you praying about what you're hoping for, what you're living for.
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  Speaker 1: Get excited about you. Stop worrying about other people. Stop
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  Speaker 1: looking at what they do. It ain't got nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with you. Listen, listen, focus on yourself. Put your
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  Speaker 1: awareness on yourself, God and what He has for you.
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  Speaker 1: It serves you no purpose to look over there as
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  Speaker 1: somebody else running their race. All it does is slow
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  Speaker 1: you down from yours. Keep the pace, keep the faith,
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  Speaker 1: and keep your eyes on the prize. That's how you
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  Speaker 1: should run this race. Do not get do not get
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  Speaker 1: caught up in things that are not for you. I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, one of the things that helped me most
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  Speaker 1: was when I stopped worried about the path somebody else
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  Speaker 1: was on, and when I started focusing purely on the
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  Speaker 1: path I was on, My life got a lot cleaner. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, I don't care who you look at.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody gonna always have more than you. Somebody gonna always
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  Speaker 1: appear to be doing more than you. Somebody gonna always
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  Speaker 1: appear to get more recognized. Listen to me. All of
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  Speaker 1: your blessings have your name on it. Do you understand
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you? All of your blessings got
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  Speaker 1: your name on it. Ain't nobody else's name on none
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  Speaker 1: of your blessings. God don't make them kind of mistakes.
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  Speaker 1: All of your blessings have your name on it. Everything
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  Speaker 1: that's intended for you you will get and receive. Everything
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  Speaker 1: that's not yours, you will not get. You didn't get
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  Speaker 1: that award that wasn't yours, You didn't get recognized by
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  Speaker 1: this group of that group wasn't for you. Stop, it's
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  Speaker 1: all good. All I want from God is to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that I stay open to receive all the blessings
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  Speaker 1: that have my name on it. That will be good
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  Speaker 1: enough for me. I don't want nobody else's If I
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  Speaker 1: just stay clean and live a good enough life where
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  Speaker 1: He give me all the blessings with my name on it,
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  Speaker 1: that will be good for me. Remember, all your blessings
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  Speaker 1: got your name on it. Quit looking at everybody else
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  Speaker 1: boxes that's not your box. Y'all have great wold Man.
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  Speaker 1: I want to thank the crew, Shirley Carler, Monica, Tommy Junior, Jay, Anthony, everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all have a great holiday. We'll see y'all. God is
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  Speaker 1: good man all the time, and all the time. God
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