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Day3, In His Sleep, Age Limit, Famous Last Words and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stubbing me through. Good to mother,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn you
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  Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you got
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out to turn the water. The water
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  Speaker 1: got come Come on your tha uhh, I shall will
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  Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You'll listening to the voice, Come on,
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  Speaker 1: dig me now running only Steve Harvey got a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't got a good man? I mean, really, hey, you
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  Speaker 1: know what to date, I'm gonna try something different, and
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  Speaker 1: it's amazing. I'm gonna try something different because that's kind
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  Speaker 1: of what we're gonna talk about this morning. Do something
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  Speaker 1: different this year. Look, if what you've been doing has
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  Speaker 1: just gotten you to this point and you are not
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  Speaker 1: content with the point you are at, then we need
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  Speaker 1: to make an adjustment. I mean, don't that seem like
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  Speaker 1: the common sense thing to do? It does to me.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just do something different this year. Make a commitment.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do something different. I'm gonna put forth a
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  Speaker 1: little bit more effort. I'm gonna quit trying. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: do it this year. You know sometimes that that simple
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  Speaker 1: change of attitude is enough. Instead of trying, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: do it. And it's just as simple as that. Sometimes,
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  Speaker 1: just remove certain words out the way, stop trying to
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  Speaker 1: do something. You know, I decided this year I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: gonna try to be a better person this year. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just gonna go about the business of being a better
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  Speaker 1: person this year and see how that work. You know,
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  Speaker 1: because like I said a thousand times, or if you
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  Speaker 1: keep doing what you've been doing, you're gonna keep getting
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  Speaker 1: what you've been getting. It, don't change it, don't change
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  Speaker 1: unless you change it. But you have the power to
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  Speaker 1: change it. The power of decision is in your hands.
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  Speaker 1: Decide to do something different, make a commitment, say you
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  Speaker 1: know what, this year, I'm gonna do the right thing. Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me warn you when you decide to do the
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  Speaker 1: right thing, understand here, come to haters. What they're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna let you do is make a conscious decision to
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  Speaker 1: be a better person without something to be said. Come on, now,
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  Speaker 1: you think the devil just gonna let you all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden, you're gonna you're gonna be better When he
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  Speaker 1: needed to keep you on the wrong side of the track,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna go up on the other side. So here
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  Speaker 1: come to hate. Now, Now let me tell you what's
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen, because I'm speaking from experience. This is what
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  Speaker 1: I know, and all of you out there and notice
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  Speaker 1: to be true because all I'm doing right now, we're
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  Speaker 1: just having to remind the conversation. When you decide to
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  Speaker 1: do the right thing, it's going to be unpopular with
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  Speaker 1: some people. Some people ain't gonna like your decision because
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  Speaker 1: now your decision to start getting to work on time,
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  Speaker 1: or your decision to finally go home and be the
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  Speaker 1: man you're supposed to be, or your decision to finally
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  Speaker 1: going to take care of your kids in spite of
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  Speaker 1: it all, or your decision to man, I'm gonna come
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  Speaker 1: in here, man and start loving my girl the way
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  Speaker 1: she deserved to be loved. And all this here, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Now that's gonna put somebody on an outlooking in. You
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  Speaker 1: do understand that when you decide to come to work
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  Speaker 1: on time every day, you're you're you're homie over that
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  Speaker 1: has been coming in late with you. Now all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden, you got you got You don't put a
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  Speaker 1: spotlight on him. Now all of a sudden, Man, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't coming in late women no more. Man. Now they're
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  Speaker 1: looking at me like I'm crazy by myself. Yeah yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: Because when you decide to do the right things, it
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  Speaker 1: becomes unpopular to some people. When you decide to do
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  Speaker 1: the right thing experience, they're gonna talk about you. Look
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  Speaker 1: at him now, and now he gonna go home. Now
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  Speaker 1: he know he'd been out here in the streets. He
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  Speaker 1: gonna try to go home and see his wife. Yeah man, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you just made that decision. But they're gonna talk about you. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Guess what. The girl that you've been going over to sea,
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  Speaker 1: she gonna talk about you. You ain't this, You ain't that.
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  Speaker 1: Because now you're going home. Your boy's gonna talk about you.
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  Speaker 1: Because you're going home, and you're gonna get some flat
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  Speaker 1: when you do the right thing. Here come, somebody ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna like it. Somebody wants you to stay wrong, misery
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  Speaker 1: love company. When you make the decision to do the
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  Speaker 1: right thing, somebody is gonna call you a hypocrite because
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  Speaker 1: you know what they're gonna do. They're gonna point out
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  Speaker 1: the way you were in the past versus the way
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  Speaker 1: you decided to be brand new. How you all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden claiming this one I saw you doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Please understand when you make the decision to do the
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  Speaker 1: right thing, Here they come. You're a hypocrite. You think
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  Speaker 1: they don't call me that? They call me that, Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey fake, I hear. Man. Look on Twitter, you try
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  Speaker 1: to tweet people positive stuff. Here come a tweet you fake.
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  Speaker 1: Your family ain't all that. I ain't say my family was, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to give out some positive encouragement, you know.
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  Speaker 1: But here head come. You're a hypocrite. I remember when
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  Speaker 1: you was out on a tour with the Kings of Comedy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah me too, I remember that too. But I ain't
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  Speaker 1: out on tour with him no more. We didn't all changed. Hello.
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  Speaker 1: So now what you want me to do? You want
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  Speaker 1: to keep living up to what you saw me as
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  Speaker 1: what I was? And I can't get no credit with
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  Speaker 1: you for what I'm trying to be. Now, that's dan.
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  Speaker 1: Now you're gonna be a hypocrite, you fake? No, man,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't fake. You just have made the decision to
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  Speaker 1: be a better person, that's all. And now because you
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  Speaker 1: ain't the person you was the person they knew. Now
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  Speaker 1: they see the new you. Now you're a hypocrite. You
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  Speaker 1: ain't a hypocrite. You just change it. Don't let them
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  Speaker 1: hate to shake you. Man, go on about your business
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  Speaker 1: when they talking about you. Look at him now, gonna
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  Speaker 1: try to go home. He's been with me all this time. Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: just go home. Oh he gonna try to go home now, Man,
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  Speaker 1: he knows Friday nights. Man, we didn't told our girls
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  Speaker 1: that's where we at. Now he's showing up at the
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  Speaker 1: house because he don't want to come on player a man,
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  Speaker 1: Just go home. It's gonna be unpopular. You're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: talked about. They're gonna say you're a hypocrite. But do
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  Speaker 1: the right thing. God will bless you for that. That's
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  Speaker 1: something in Proverbs that says, if you honor God, if
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  Speaker 1: you do the right thing, if you seek him out,
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  Speaker 1: God will cause his blessings to chase you down. Do
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  Speaker 1: you understand me what that means? Can you imagine what
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  Speaker 1: would happen in your life if God were to take
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  Speaker 1: some blessings and chase you down with him. Do you
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  Speaker 1: know that there's no hiding from him in your deepest,
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  Speaker 1: darkest secret He know about the stuff that you didn't
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  Speaker 1: kept out the light from everybody else. He know about
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  Speaker 1: all of that. So now if he has got some
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  Speaker 1: blessings that he gonna chase you down with, you can't
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  Speaker 1: even escape him. You look up and here come another one.
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  Speaker 1: That go another one, Here he go again. Man. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I'm trying to get my life too, because at
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  Speaker 1: the end, man, what I do not want, Man, And
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  Speaker 1: not even at the end, I just don't want now.
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  Speaker 1: God to have all these boxes up in heaven, these
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  Speaker 1: blessings with my name on them, and I don't get
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  Speaker 1: them sent to me because I'm down here clowning so hard.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't He can't even ship blessings to me because
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  Speaker 1: I'm just so dead wrong that I'm blocking the blessings man,
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  Speaker 1: that God got for me. I would rather do the
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  Speaker 1: best I can do and be the best I can be,
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  Speaker 1: make some mistakes, ask for forgiveness, and get on up
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  Speaker 1: and see what God got for me. And remember, Donnie
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  Speaker 1: mclarkin got a song out. Man. We ain't got time
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  Speaker 1: to play it now because I didn't talk too long.
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  Speaker 1: But you know that's why I am right now. The
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  Speaker 1: song it is one of my favorite guys, when Donnie
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  Speaker 1: wrote We Fall Down, do you know I knew him
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  Speaker 1: when he wrote the song. I thought he had wrote
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  Speaker 1: the song for me. I really did, because it came
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  Speaker 1: out after a conversation we were having, and I thought
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  Speaker 1: he had wrote the song for me because it's so
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  Speaker 1: appropriate to my life. And I bet you it's appropriate
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  Speaker 1: to your life, because you see, guess what, We fall down,
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  Speaker 1: but we get up. He has a line in the
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  Speaker 1: song that says, a saint, it's just a sinner who
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  Speaker 1: fell down, but he didn't stay there. That's the deal, y'all. Look,
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  Speaker 1: you gonna make some mistakes. Just don't stay there. Just
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  Speaker 1: get up, man, and walk straight again. Then while you're
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  Speaker 1: walking straight and right and trying to be righteous, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna fall. Get up. Don't stay there and get back
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  Speaker 1: on the straight and the righteous. You're gonna fall a
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  Speaker 1: bunch of times. Just don't stay there, Just get up, man.
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  Speaker 1: That's the only difference between the saint and the sinner.
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  Speaker 1: They're the same people, man. Actually, that's what's the revealing news,
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  Speaker 1: is saints is really sinners. They're the same people. They
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  Speaker 1: just keep getting up, that's all man. You're listening, ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Undivided attention is all that's required here, nothing more. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: just not necessary to have good sense. Uh, it's not
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  Speaker 1: necessary to have common sense. Uh. Degrees are not needed. Um,
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  Speaker 1: anything of any value. You just don't need it. Just
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  Speaker 1: just need your listening. Because this is the Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. We need you to be open minded and
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  Speaker 1: receptive to the foolishness that's about to go down. Ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen. This is thus Steve Harvey Morning Show. Make
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  Speaker 1: no mistake about it. Ain't no other one batter than
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  Speaker 1: this hill was. Let's get the stake. Start surely strong.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve. Kick it on over the caller for Red.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve, Hey, Chris, bring it on ind to
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  Speaker 1: the impressionable care Junior spaces morning. I'm here and the
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  Speaker 1: king of foolishness. Ladies and gentlemen. Nephew, Tommy, I love it.
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  Speaker 1: I love it, but no, that's how you started. I
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  Speaker 1: love it. Let's go. Let kick this morning off. Yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 1: everything good? Yeah, how about with you? How are you selling?
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  Speaker 1: I feel pretty good? Man, feel pretty good? Um Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like really really fine. You know. No, I
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  Speaker 1: was just trying to think of how to describe it.
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, man, how often you count
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  Speaker 1: your money? Though? Like once a week, once they're a
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  Speaker 1: two weeks, you go look at it and look at
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  Speaker 1: your zero? Did you hear what he said to me?
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  Speaker 1: I don't ever do that. You don't never go look
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  Speaker 1: at it like when you first okay, when when you
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  Speaker 1: first got I go look at it. When is it
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  Speaker 1: that it will be where you can go see it
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  Speaker 1: a viewing at least online? You know, you go pull
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  Speaker 1: up your bank account. Oh, I thought you meant like
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  Speaker 1: look at the actual money. Yeah, just put it up
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  Speaker 1: to say okay, you know I look at my bank accounts.
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  Speaker 1: You know. Well, do you ever call down and say
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  Speaker 1: I want all out this bank right now and then
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  Speaker 1: say I'm just playing. Well, if you do, if you
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  Speaker 1: threaten me, I've done that before. If you threate, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: if you talk to me crazy, yeah, yeah, I throw
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  Speaker 1: you're into something. Oh I won't get too How many
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  Speaker 1: brinks trucks is that take all that? I ain't never
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  Speaker 1: really had to do it. It set once and I
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  Speaker 1: ain't had that much, but I had enough down there
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  Speaker 1: to be effective. So bank talk to me crazy one time? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just said all right, no problem. Just let me
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  Speaker 1: have my money. You gotta have talk to your manager.
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  Speaker 1: Let me talk to him. So I'll be down in
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  Speaker 1: my two thirty needed all in cash. There's about six
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  Speaker 1: people in my house that evening. I kind of get
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  Speaker 1: this together. Who said something to him? We're gonna straighten
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  Speaker 1: this out right now? Who the hell? It's the former
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  Speaker 1: employee here who made this mistake? I said it correctly, dame,
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  Speaker 1: former employee here. Because you're done, you're listening. All right,
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  Speaker 1: we're back. Let's go. Come on, y'all. I want to inspire.
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  Speaker 1: I want to help. I want to uplift. I want
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  Speaker 1: to share. It's not so much teaching as it is
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  Speaker 1: for me with just share it. Your are the gift
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  Speaker 1: that just keeps on giving. I try to be. I
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  Speaker 1: want to ask a question. Go ahead, when you get
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  Speaker 1: to a certain dollar amount, is there a dollar that
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  Speaker 1: you don't lose anymore? Let's say you got a half
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  Speaker 1: million dollars. Do you never go below something? Do you
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  Speaker 1: never go do you pick? Do you pick a number
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  Speaker 1: and say, okay, I can never be below three hundred thousand. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean you should try to do that. You should
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  Speaker 1: always have a breakpoint, a breakpoint. It's like your weight.
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  Speaker 1: It's like I can only get so big, and then
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  Speaker 1: I got to going back to the gym. Right now,
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  Speaker 1: I'm on the top dollars. Okay, I just said stream
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  Speaker 1: every day. So now it's like that with your finances.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep yourself because you gotta understand something.
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  Speaker 1: If God blesses you to get to a certain point,
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  Speaker 1: why would you go back? Right? Yeah, why would you
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  Speaker 1: go back? You know, and you gotta understand it. You go, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: while I've been there, done that, I know what it's
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  Speaker 1: like to live mouth to mouth, check to check and
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  Speaker 1: not say it takes a long time to stop living
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  Speaker 1: check to check. I want you to understand it, so
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  Speaker 1: don't feel bad if you do, because it takes a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Even after you make a lot of money, you still
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  Speaker 1: be living check to check a lot of times because
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  Speaker 1: you still you're trying to get a lot of things,
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  Speaker 1: acquire a lot of things. It's hard, but you want
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  Speaker 1: to try to get Once you cross a certain threshold,
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  Speaker 1: you want to try to stay on that side of
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  Speaker 1: Kevin nine. And then you may dip it low, but
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  Speaker 1: you want to try to get back, so fight as
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  Speaker 1: hard as you can that's a good question. Okay, here's
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  Speaker 1: my question, Um, how much and what should you invest in?
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  Speaker 1: What's a good investment right now? Well, land is always
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  Speaker 1: land and property it's always a good investment because it's
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  Speaker 1: always an appreciable asset. Cars are not an appreciable asset.
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  Speaker 1: Don't think you've invested in a car, there's nothing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: land and property always appreciates because somebody's gonna always want
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  Speaker 1: that land, or somebody will always need a house. Now,
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  Speaker 1: does that include like a condo, things like just yes, condos, apartments,
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  Speaker 1: a home, a piece of land. If you buy a
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  Speaker 1: piece of land with the intent to build on it
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  Speaker 1: one day, just having that land, I promise you in
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  Speaker 1: a couple of years that land gonna be worth more
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  Speaker 1: than you pay for and somebody will be willing to
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  Speaker 1: give you more. That is the guaranteed. Now, there are
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  Speaker 1: some more things that you can invest in, stocks and things. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but that's always a little bit more risky. Yeah, risky,
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  Speaker 1: always a little bit more risky. But there are safe stocks,
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  Speaker 1: you know, there are stocks that ain't going nowhere. You know,
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  Speaker 1: that's expensive. Apple ain't going too many places. Facebook ain't
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  Speaker 1: goings ain't nowhere, you know, general electric ain't nowhere before
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  Speaker 1: we were here? Yeah, certain things, okay, all right, yes, okay.
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  Speaker 1: See what's your best advice, you know for keeping focused
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  Speaker 1: on important things? You know, when distractions in our lives
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  Speaker 1: are kind of constant and kind of throws you off
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  Speaker 1: a little bit, what's your best advice to keep us focused? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I learned this from Eric Thomas, to be honest with Oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's one of the greatest motivation speakers I've ever heard.
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  Speaker 1: Eric Thomas is a guy that I listened to it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I have some great speakers out there, but
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  Speaker 1: Eric Thomas nails it for me because he talked like
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  Speaker 1: I talked. Yeah, you know, he mad most of the time.
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  Speaker 1: I love the intensity what you talked. When you have
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  Speaker 1: your visions and you have your motivation, your dream, boyd,
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  Speaker 1: the why you got it, write down the why, the
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  Speaker 1: why you want it to happen. Because Eric Thomas said
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  Speaker 1: that the why eliminates that I quit, that I can't
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  Speaker 1: make it because the high come is too big? The
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  Speaker 1: why are you doing it? Like I have to do
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  Speaker 1: this for my family? Well, it's it's harder to quit
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  Speaker 1: when it's more than just you on the line. You
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  Speaker 1: have to create a why. These big dreams you have,
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  Speaker 1: they have to have a why behind me that will
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  Speaker 1: help you stay to it and fight through the discouragement. Also,
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  Speaker 1: your dreams have to be bigger than the consequences are
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  Speaker 1: the problems? Oh no, explain that, hey man. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: want something so big that no matter what it takes
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  Speaker 1: to get there, or what it costs, or what the
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  Speaker 1: factor is, this dream so big I got to go
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  Speaker 1: on to go for it. Okay, Okay, Okay, cool. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose time with my friends, but I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be a millionaire Okay, cool. So I won't be able
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  Speaker 1: to go to happy hour no more because I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to go on a vacation of a dream of a lifetime. Okay, cool? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Dream has to be so
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  Speaker 1: big that it outweighs the problems or the consequence. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, that keeps you motivated like that? Okay, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: here's one more. I want to ask you this, because
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  Speaker 1: you live this, do you ever feel guilty or have
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  Speaker 1: you ever been made to feel guilty because of your success?
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  Speaker 1: Because you're so successful? Lutely one hun you will go
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  Speaker 1: through that period of feeling guilty about your success, mainly
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  Speaker 1: because the people closest to you are usually not experiencing
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  Speaker 1: your success, and they make you feel obligated to them
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  Speaker 1: because of your success because I knew you when. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: well I got you knew me when? But do you
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: know me now? And what does do you knew me when?
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Got to do? It's where I am now, And my
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: obligation is not to you. My obligation is to my
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: wife and my children. Yeah, it's really not to my
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters and my cousins and my homies that
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: I grew up with. It's really not. And then what
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: you try to do when you're successful, you want to
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: share your success and they know it, so they call
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: you it a and I know you got it, and
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: so you go yeah, yeah, yeah, what you need. That's
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: where I am. I know because they all got you.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Oh man, I know you got it. And now here
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: you go being a good brother, You going, yeah, man,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: let me try to help you out. But that ain't
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: your job. That ain't your job. Okay. And if you're
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: getting the loaning money business, you're gonna lose a lot
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: of friends and you're gonna create a lot of drama.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: In your own life loaning money, so you don't loan money.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Do you get I'm gonna give it to you? Or
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: that's it now? If y'all want to continue this conversation,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: we can, Okay, I want you want to continue the
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: conversation when we come back most Steve harm Mota show
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: right after that. You're listening, we're back. Wow, what an
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: interesting conversation. I think it's important for people to hear
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: directly from somebody who doesn't have an agenda with their life,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Like I don't want y'all do this because I get
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: a piece all this here, you don't. I genuinely want
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: to share this information because I know it's important to people.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: The average person out that really does want to know
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: how to make it. And unless somebody who has made
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: it gets down off the horse to share the information,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: where you're gonna get the information from it? This information
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: and marriage didn't have this. I was just gonna say
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: that we as a as a race, we don't share
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: this type of information. We're starting to, maybe more now,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: but growing up, the only thing we knew about money
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: was money doesn't grow on trees? Or do you think
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I'm made of money? Things like that that our parents
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: told us. So now we're getting real information. Jay Z
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: is doing it in Yeah, he's doing it. Let's go,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: let's go back to where we were for tell us
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: how we deal How do you deal with the guilt
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: that because I'm constantly I'm I loan a lot of money.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: And let me ask you something. Loaning money does it
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: not create tension? Yes it does, Yes it does. Loaning
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: money creates more problem problems then it's solved, and it's
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: creating issues not only what the person that is loaned
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: to two, but then in your own home, because now
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: you have loaned some money that beloans in your home
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: and now somebody in your home may have to do
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: without because we didn't gave what we had over here.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: And usually money you loan, but they don't understand about
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: people that's climbing up. Money they loan is money they need.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Then we don't have no extra free money. And then
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you about Let me explain
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: something to you about loaning you money or giving you money.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Whenever I give you money, I'm actually giving you that
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: plus forty percent. If you ask me for a thousand
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: dollars and I give you a thousand dollars. What I'm
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: actually giving you, it's one thousand, four hundred dollars. Because
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Uncle Sam is taxing me in the tax breath. He
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: don't give a damn what you do with the money.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: So now I didn't give you a thousand of mile dollars,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: plus I got sent in the government four hundred of
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: that thousand, I sent you the whole partner. Oh so
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: now I really ain't that simple. So when you don't
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: pay me back, you really didn't jam me. Now, well,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: in your case, people don't think you need it, you know. Oh,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: he'll be all right, count that money money, he's got money.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: He doesn't need that money. I'll get it. I'll get
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: it to him when I get Here's the thing, while
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: you are coming up, people think that you have a
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: reservoir of money. But that reservoir of money you had
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: to work for. The only reason you have a reservoir
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: a little bit of extra money or more than them,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: is because you usually work more than them. So now
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: you are asking me to take not only my money,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: but my time that I've given to make this money
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: and just let you have that right because you know
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I got it. Well, that's foul. And you should not
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: suffer from guilt because let me explain something to you
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I've learned about guilt. Guilt is the most useless human
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: emotion that there is because guilt serves nothing. Guilt is
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: the most devoid, the worst human emotion there is because
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: it serves no purpose. What does guilt serves when you
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: feel guilty? What? It don't help you, It don't benefit you.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: It does nothing for you to feel guilt. But people
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: take advantage of the guilt for their own self entitlement
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and self selfish needs. That's what they use. They use
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: guilt for that. So guilt serves no purpose. So stop
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: feeling guilty because you're blessed. Stop feeling guilty because God
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: has given you grace. Stop feeling guilty because you go
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: to work. When you talk about that guilt, because Tommy,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I think we've all kind of been in that boat.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: When you're loaning money and the whole guilt thing. You
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: don't want to be the bad guy or whatever. It's
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: different when you loan friends money and then when you're
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: taking care of family. You understand what I'm saying. I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: think there's a different level of guilt with that. When
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: you got to look out for mom and them, and
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Grandmama and them, And it grows when you get to
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: a certain level. Do you say I do, because when
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: it gets to a certain level, here's what you can do.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: You have to wait till you get to a certain level.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: I got so sick of my family, Nickel and diamond, me,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: the phone calls, that having to duck them, the phone call,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: to trying to tell them no, to making it happen,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: that constole phone calls. Now, you gotta wait till you
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: get to a certain level. And I've talked to a
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: lot of people like this. I put all of them
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: on salarly. Okay, here's your monthly cipher and you can
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: make it whatever you want to make it. Here's your
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: five hundred a month. Here's your two fifty for the month.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm off on another bracket with mine. They're
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: getting off the thousands. But here's your money for the month.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I love you. I am successful. I know y'all older
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: than me, y'all being struggled. This hard to help. Guess
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: what it alleviates the phone calls. It alleviates that, oh
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: you ain't nothing, you forgot about us, But you gotta
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: wait until you at a certain level. But if you
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: want to help your family out, your mama, your sister,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: your brother's constantly nickeling. Diamond man, let me get a
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: hundred fifty here, Let me hold two fitty. Put them
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: on salary to two hundred a month. He go your
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: two hundred. Guess what that that really does? Slow down there?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I need foe hunt. Hold up, partner, I sent you. You
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: You need, say two hundred from my mama been on
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: salary loan? Yeah, she has, because Steve, I mean, while
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: we're talking, there are people out there that do need help.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, legitimate help. There's some people they
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: do need help. I mean we all have been there,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: and thank god there was something heard every story at all. Yeah.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm just saying there are some people
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: you know that need need help. I mean, how do
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: you determine. I'm not saying you don't help nobody. I
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: know what I'm telling you right now. Listen to me.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Get out of the loaning money business. Okay, all right,
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: got it? Now? If you're not gonna give it to them,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: so you ain't gonna worry about it no more. My
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: philosophy is I'm not gonna give it to you. Then
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I ain't got it, bro, I ain't got it. I
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: don't have it. I don't loan, I don't loan, don't
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: don't come to me, So just say no and don't
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: feel guilt about it. I had I had a wealthy
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: friend who got in a real jam. It kind of
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: got publicized with his bills, and he came to me
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: for a loan. But he's and he's been wealthy. I
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: knew he was gonna come back. I loaned him a
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: healthy amount of money, substantial amount. He came right back
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: to me when he said he was with the check. Okay,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: So that kind of situation. He had done things for
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: me in the past, not so much money, but it's
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: phone calls put me in touch with this guy. That guy,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: so we had it a little bit going on. So
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: when he came for that substantial amount of money, you know,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I had to go now because Marge and I have
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: a relationship where she has some of her money from
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: her allowance and I had my money from my allowance.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: But this money he came to me, I had to
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: go to my wife and go ahead, baby, can we
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: do this right here? That's a lot because it's kind
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: on the stepping outside of what I have the power
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: to do without confiding in you, so forth and so on.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: You know, she's had family members that's needed help and
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: she comes to me and then yeah, but but she'll
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: tell them for any amount of money, y'all, you gotta
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: go to my hud. That takes her off the hood.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: She go, no, you gotta Marjorie just tell you know,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: y'all can't come to me with that, you have to
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: go ask my hus Now speaking, since you brought Marjorie up, well,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: talk talk quickly if you can. We have about thirty
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: more seconds left. You always say you need four bank accounts.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Four bank accounts. We have the bank account where all
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: the money goes in that pays for bills and everything necessity, house,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: electric car, know anything. We have another account that requires
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: both of our signatures. It's a savings account. We cannot
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: have touched that unless Marjorie and I both signed, and
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: then Marjorie has an account. I have an account, that
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: money go to her, That money go to me. I
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: can't tell her what to do. She can't say nothing
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: of that. She wanted to buy jewry. She brought Jerry
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I bout Cuba. Sigar, I bout Cuba. Cigar. Can't say
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: nothing and we'll be that will be bad. You're listening.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Steve Jay is here with things that have a cutoff age.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Jay explained, well, well, Steve actually has it these things,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Shelly and everybody. There's a cutoff age to everything and
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: everything you do. Some people some people just ignore it
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: and just keep doing it. But down like, come on,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: this should have a cutoff point. The name name your
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: over fed. We don't need to look out there and
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: see you doing the name name the whip are the
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: name name and you fart it? Really? Thirty five? Thirty three?
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Thirty three, yeah, thirty three you asked stop doing the
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: whip and the name name. Here's what you can't do
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: if you over thirty five, you cannot go see the
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: me goals to four man can so you can listen
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: to them? You can't, but you gotta take your keys.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Somebody with you just went way too old. Too old
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: people sitting next to whom here's something that has a
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: cut off age, and we don't have to cut off age,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: but just listen to this. You cannot wear crop tops
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: if you have a muffin top. Man, woman, that's cut
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: off too short, like you exec your Elliott. Well you're not.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: That's a good one. I like it. I just love
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: the muffin. Yeah you can't do it, now you do it.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: I don't mind a little muffin on a woman, but
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: on the man. Man, dude, yeah, dude. If you over
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: twenty five, you got to stop using the word lit.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: You over twenty five, Yes, sirley, you got to stop
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: using the word lit out of the day sthetic. If
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: you all fifty five, you're still using the word cop asthetics.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Everything that's cop asthetic, man, man, that's cop asthetic. You
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: need to come on out, Come on. If you four
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: years old and you're in a stroller with your legs
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: crossed and you can pull yourself along in the stroller,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: who ass needs to be walking? Something for the baby?
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: His one? If you're over eighty would a walker, and
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: it's got to come hold a fanny pack or place
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: a hole of newspaper tennis balls for a grip. Dam
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: you gotta take something off just too much. If you
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: over farty and people are still considering you ratchet, you're
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: not ratchet. You actually stupid. A man over farty with
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: two change his name is not too changed, probably actually
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: on the outside, the outside and still wearing any form
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: of nuggets, jewel nuggets. What about the set nuggets set
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: on Monica Sherley. If you're all the far five h huh,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: each finger nail can't be a different company. They've been
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: doing it polish whatever. You all don't know. We might
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: not know. We know that. But let me tell you
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: this though, Don who's in charge of all of our
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: social media are digital programming and all of that. When
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: you mentioned nuggets, he looked over like all she could
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: think of was like chicken McNuggets. What you were talking about? Yeah, nugget.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Watch it's like nuggets. Yeah, nuggets are still she thought
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: you were talking about it mc donald. Oh, no, nugget
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the nugget set. Let me see which one was my favorite?
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: It was between the Migo's party and Muffin Top the crop. Yeah,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I like four years old, still in the stroller. Yeah,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: you got your leg crossed. You don't get the walking.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: So Steve, I got a question, So I can't say.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Let what's the cut off age? Cut off? Ages? Thirty
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: five over thirty five? You know what? You can't say,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Jane what Trump? Oh, you can't say Trump, remember Trump,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: or that's up there with Turkey. We couldn't n't say
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: monk with I couldn't say what monk with? Don't be
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: monking with me. Don't be around. Oh you can't say that.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: I'm going to see the mego see the You ain't
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: gonna see to me? Taking junior, me, take some junior.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: What am I gonna doing? Watching? What was doing? You're
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: sitting in there looking over your glass old lady, watching
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: the mein't go don't don't go down in bass, don't
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: do that? Y'all ever seen Monica look over glass lady
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: looking at the met But but but with a foam
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: dress on and some pumps with an ankle strap. Yeah,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: but with a low kitty kitty here on. You cannot
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: go see to me. We got cut off age. All right,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right? So Jay, yes, yes, yes?
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: What is this famous last word? She wrote? Last words
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: has to do it a lot of people get hurt
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: by stupidity, or sometimes they don't make it because they
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: say something or do something stupid, and all we have
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: is their last words, for instance, last words like this,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: that gun ain't loaded. Those were the last word, right,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: that last the last words they said was that dog
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: don't bite. That's the last words they said, faust. The
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: famous last words, Like he said before he left, I'm
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: going this where, I'm going this way because all the
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: bells are hibernated at this time. Right. So that's the
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: last thing we heard from him. The last thing he said.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: He was in the living room and he said to
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: the little boy, punch me in the stomach as hard
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: as you can. I can take it. That was the
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: last thing you got one goad last word, I bet
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: you better get out of my face. I bet you
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: better get out of my face. Famous last words. Famous
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: last word he said to the group was these ain't
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: poisoned mushrooms. I know poison mushrooms, and I see poison mushrooms. Okay,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: that's yeah. I ain't going nowhere. Famous last word. You
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: got one? You got one, Steve, you got another one? Good? Oh?
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I can jump over there right there, I
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: can jump over there. My famous as words, he said.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: When he went to bed, I'll go to sleep and
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: it'll be all gone in the morning. I'll feel much better. Wow. No,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: not this time. He shocks on it like warm water. Wow. Okay,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: famous last word. Don't worry about it, girl. My wife sleeps.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: She can't hear damn thing. Worry. Take it out, man,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: take it out. Yes, somebody drops something in the water
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: and then somebody say I get it. Thank you. Guys,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, It is time now for comedy roulette.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Steve Jay, please please quickly set this. Every week our
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: comedy ability is tested in the way we prove how
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: good we are. Put five subjects on the wheel, spending
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: the wheel were stop. We got it. That's all it is.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: That's all it is, comedy roulette. All right, Here are
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: the five subjects. Number one fish grease. Number two, she
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: wasn't that big in high school. I don't appreciate that one, okay.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Number three taste like chicken. Number four. Now that I
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: have a little money, you know who I am? Yeah?
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: And number five, I don't know how you could eat that.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Give me that, Give me that right ahead, right ahead,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: all right, let's go spend the wheel. Cat come on free.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Oh h. Now that I have a little money, you
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: know who I am, Let me have that. Let me
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: start that see back in the day, my nickname was fish.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Didn't nobody no, fish didn't speak the fish. You was
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: too fine to speak to fish. But now that fishes
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: on evy hay fish? How you doing? Fish? And I
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: can't remember who you are? What you got time? I
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: was out of my league. I was way out of
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: my league. You would drop dead fine to me. I
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: beg forward, won'ted it. I used to ask for a
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: day and night. You never gave me the time of day.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: But nah, nah, got a little money. I'm on the
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvard motiho. You're texting me. Naw, I can't have it.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: If I want it, I don't want it now. I
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: don't want it. Yeah anytime, Come on, Joey. You know whatnot?
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: I got a little money. You know who know my name?
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Being a collected they know exactly who they talking to now.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: But if they don't even call me by my real name,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: that's how I know they know I got money. Let's
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: excuse me as Junior and Junior that ain't my govern name.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Everybody know now real it's right up my alley. Nah,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I got a little money. Yeah, you know who I
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: am now? Yeah? This goes out to Ike back in Cleveland,
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: and mister Albert's mean. Yeah, I used to call me
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: el kate Leo wait ken Nah, but and I I
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: buy your whole damn stone. Next time I walk in,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: I ain't coming in layway, feel me. Yeah, I might
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: just br damning Let me put an initial out there
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: with the last name, just the initial and the last name.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: You know who you are, the last name white. Ah,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: you were so fine, Oh my god, you were fine.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: Did not even speak to me in the hall way.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: I walked past you. I act like a slave because
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna look you. Now. He was that damn fine.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: But oh it is changed, nause. He's got a little money. Yeah, yeah,
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: he's got a little money. Cold. I'll tell you where
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: everybody know my name that now I'm a lot more
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: a million and welcome. When I walk into though bank
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: account you used to sit on six dollars. But when
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't notice though. When I go in the bank,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: now there's a whole nother room. It's got vegetables hit it. Wow,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: she's Oh. When I'm going to Vegas, mister space, this
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: a way you stand in Lyne, Come on around this way.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Do you have your access card? Never mind. I have mad.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: You know, I used to couldn't go to you that
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: I didn't get invited to the big Christmas party because
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: I just you know what I'm saying. I wasn't big enough,
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I didn't have a name enough. But now that i'm
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: violing and I'm I'm on the show and I'm the nip.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: You got a little money in doing this stand up.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: I don't want to go to your fucking Christmas party. Now.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: I told my old damn Christmas party and my shot
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: token ya. All right, all right, we'll be back with
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy's prank phone call right after this. You're listening
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: to Day Morning show coming up at the top of
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: the hour. Right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: letter for today, the subject living with another man's wife.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: But right now Nephew Tommy is here with today's brank
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: phone call. What's you guy for his nef Queen in
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: the church rain, Jesus queen in the church man? One
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: more time? Who in the church rain? And is what
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: I got? That's it, let's run it Weed in the
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: church man? Come on, Hello, I'm trying to read dare
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: brother Dan, Hello, Hello, because let's see that I'm trying
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: to read Brother Dare. Oh okay, yeah, this brother out
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: from the church from Belt the Baptist. Hello, bro, yeah,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: I call you. I'm trying to get a little information
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: about the church band. What's what's your schedule? Uh? Will
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: you drive the church red? What's what's your schedule? I
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: drive it Wednesday, Fridays and Sundays. Okay, Wednesday, Friday, Sunday,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: last Sunday. What what is that schedule? O? Sunday. I
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: usually start about eight o'clock in the morning, probably a
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: little earlier, depending on some of the elderly people that
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I had to go pick up and bring to the church.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Make sure they get there okay, and get situated and
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: make sure they are on time for the service and whatnot. Okay,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: and then you take them back home after service is over. Yes,
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: I try to get all of them back home, unless
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: they got family members or something that come up there
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: and meet them up there and want to take them
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: to Jena or sun afterwards. But I usually get about
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: it back home okay, Okay, law this class Sunday, which
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: is part of the reason why I'm calling you. Uh.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: They saying that, um, some of the church Uh numbers
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: that was on the band this Sunday. Uh they are
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: complaining saying that, um that the church Vand was smelling
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: like weed when they got on there. Excuse me, they
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: say the church Vand was spending like weed when they
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: got on there. And you are the person that was
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: driving them. No, no no, no, no, no no not not
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: not the van that that I'm driving. I'm I don't No,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: I don't. I ain't smoke weed and no van, do
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: you smoke weed? No? I don't smoke weed. I mean
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: not carry I mean I have before, but I don't
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: smoke weed now and I wouldn't smoke weed before. Picking
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: some people love to go to. Now where you from?
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Who told you this? Well? All I knew is what what?
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: What's come down? The pipeline? Is? They saying that that
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: a couple of the nimbers came complaining. I see see nae,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: this just happened last week about this pipeline. I want
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: to know who the pipeline is because just last week
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: they came and me talking about that I was using
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: the van to go places that I wanted to go
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: to all my personal time. Now I don't do that.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: I don't do stuff like that. And now I hadn't
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: had a path, I don't had a history, but I
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: don't do stuff like that, and I wouldn't smoking no
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: church van. So are you seriously talking? What? What? What?
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: We're trying to We're trying to get to the bottom
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: of it and see what's going on with you. Elderly
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: person said, do you know which one? I don't? They
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: loved me Every Sunday, didn't people tell me they loved me? U?
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: They say I'm one of the most respectful young gentlemen
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: they've ever met in their life. And so I really
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: find it hard to believe that you you you getting
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: these type of complaints about me. Okay, what I'm saying
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: spe like, oh we I don't know what that means
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: or nothing like that. Look, brothers, I don't know you
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: too well, and I know you don't know me. But
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: I've been driving this van as as as a point
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: to try to change my life and where I come from.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: So this was was something that I wanted to volunteer
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: even though I'm getting paid to give my time to
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: do this for the church. And now this is like
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: the second instance where y'all and came at me on
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: some stuff about like I'm trying to do something with
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: this van. Now, why I would I disrespect the church
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: van by smoking weed in it and then letting the
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: weeds stay in there so other people could smell it. Okay,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: so let me tell you what we're gonna do. We're
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: gonna go out here to the church man to say,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: we're gonna go out here today and open it up. Now,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: if we see any seeds or anything around the driver's seat,
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: then then then we're gonna We're gonna definitely, uh point,
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: gonna open the van up. And I was raised in
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: that church, man, My mamma, go to that church, my grandma, see,
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: go to that church. See the reason we even all
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: left that church. And you think I'm gonna mess up?
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: They ain't by driving around in the band full of
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: elderly people smoking and we need blood. Dad, I don't
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: know how to the bad smell like weed, man, Now
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't got the answer to these questions.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you that it wasn't me.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Did you have some weed in your part? I can't
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: admit it with just smell it. I ain't had no
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: weed on me. Stop trying to say like I had
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: weed on me, and you ain't gonna get me nothing
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: that I ain't. No, and we ain't had no weed
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: on me. Okay, Now you ain't gonna mess up my
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: name or my family's name in this church and disrespect
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: us like this. Now, We've been helping this church for years,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: and I'm trying to tell you that I ain't riding
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: around and no fans smoking no weed with no elderly people.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Did you ask any of the elderly people if they
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: had any weed on them? Uh? No, we didn't. No, No,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I didn't think about it, no elderly people having no weed.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: So you just assume it's me what one of them?
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: Guy got coma or something? What? What? What? You know? What?
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: You know? Who? I think? What? Did you know? Who
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I think the weed belonged to? Oh? Oh, I think
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: I think the weed belong and nephew Till from the
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Show. What man, damn you prank? Oh my god,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: you just got to put his name is brother brother Lawrence,
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Lawrence Ross Lawrence. Oh my Larry called Larry, But tell Larry,
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: tell Larry in trouble with me? Van Man, I got
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: one more thing that I got one more thing to
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: ask you, man, what is the baddest and I mean
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. Man, Steve Harvey Morning,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: so man going on risch Man, going on the chill
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: out the rest of the day. I'm try, man. I
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: know I ain't gonna smoke no weed. Queen and Church
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: brand you by too much. People. It's just for your
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Uh it's weed, said Jay. He said weed, it's weed.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: He's absolutely right. A team Tommy, I'm gonna change team. No,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna happen. No, they ain't. They ain't got gonna
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: do with him doing the team Tommy. That's dude to
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: heavy usage. That's what friends. He ain't got a damn
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: thing do with being a team. Tim after this long weekend,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: that's how he says it. Show right here man, yep,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I bought him over here, and for a week he
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: didn't know it. Oh, catch your nephew, Jackson, Mississippi MLK weekend,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Jackson the nephew finally coming to Jackson, baby, get your
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: tickets and having some fish fried up when I get
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: down there. I just don't just throw it. I throw
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: that out there like little catfish or something. Be nice
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: for the nephew. Okay, catfish cole Slaw. Throw some fries
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: in there, throw some seasoning on that. That's all. That's all.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Tommy looking for Jackson the Nephew coming email Ka Weekend,
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: Chuckle's Comedy Club. Tickets on sal Red Nah you go
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: Whorld Why sir on World Why? All right? Those will
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: be great shows coming up. The Strawberry Letters subjects living
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: with another Man's wife will get into it right after this.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for today's
• 52:51
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• 52:55
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• 53:02
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• 53:05
  Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now today. Yeah,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: you here. It is a Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Nephew.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Subjects living with another Man's wife to Stephen Shirley. I've
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: been married a little over a year now, and this
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: is my second marriage. Since the wedding, my husband and
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: I have been searching for a new church home that
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: we mutually agreed on We visited churches and settled at
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: a church close to our home with a good, stern pastor.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: We loved his preaching style and felt really welcome there
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: until one Sunday when the pastor's message was so crazy
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: that it sent my husband into a frenzy. The pastor
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: preached about marriage and stated that anyone that has been
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: married more than once is going straight to hell if
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: the person gets and if the person gets remarried, the
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: new spouse is going to hell too. Pastor said that
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: God only recognizes one marriage and there is no such
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: thing as divorce. Ever, my husband took the message literally,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: and on the way home, he said the pastor was
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: speaking directly from the Bible. I showed my husband the
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: exact scripture in the Bible, and it didn't say anything
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: about anyone burning in hell. Even still, my husband believed
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: what the pastor said, and he told me he had
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: a bad feeling about me on our wedding day. So
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: that must have been why I was blindsided, because I
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: thought our marriage was great and he was happy with me.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: My husband's distanced himself from me and we stopped having
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: any type of intimacy. I refused to go back to
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: the church, but my husband loves it. The final straw
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: was last week when he came home and said the
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: pastor asked him if he was still living with another
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: man's wife. I gave my husband an ultimatum to either
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: leave the church or leave our home. Because of this
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: wacky pastor, my marriage is in shambles. I want to
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: get my marriage back on track, but I don't know
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: how Is this worth fighting for or is my husband
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: losing his mind like the pastor. Please help well, I
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: mean this is only worth huh. Yeah, this is a
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: good letter. This is a really good letter. You ask
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: you if this is worth fighting for it, I say
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: it's worth fighting for if you want to save your marriage.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: You said you want to to to set your marriage
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: back on track. The problem is you can't be the
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: only one fighting in a two person marriage. You just can't.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: Your husband doesn't seem to want anything like that. He
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: has distanced himself from you. You've stopped having any type
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: of intimacy. Your husband loves this church with this crazy pastor,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: and the pastor is all up in your marriage too. Uh.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: You were right to give your husband an ultimatum in
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: this case, either leave the church or or leave your
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: home and your marriage is in shambles because your husband
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: is following this pastor and not following God as he
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: should and as the Bible states. So is this worth
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: fighting for? I would say no at this point because
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: your husband even said he had a bad feeling about
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: you on his wedding day. All right, this is not good,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: Okay for any marriage that's trying to survive. This is
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: not good. Your husband needs to be with this pastor
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: apparently in this church, because that sounds like he wants
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: where he wants to be and not with you in
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: this marriage and fighting for this marriage. I don't think
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: you have anything to fight for here, Steve, Wow, this
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: letter right here, this is just not good. You've been
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: married a little over a year now. Uh, this is
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: your your husband's second marriage, and this is my husband's
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: second marriage. We've been searching for a new church home
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: we mutually agreed upon. I guess so y'all both met
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: the pastor here and thought it was cool to the sermon.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: We love just preaching style felt really good to one Sunday,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: the pastor's message through your husband into something The pastor
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: told about marriage and stated that anybody that's been married
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: more than once is going straight to hell. This part
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: of the letter affected me deeply. Yeah, part of the
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: letter affected me deeply. And I can't go on right
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: now because this man, this pass to sid and stated
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: that anyone that has been married more than once, it's
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: going straight to hell. That's messed up past him. Yeah,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: that's messed up because right now, three of us on
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: this show is gone. Yeah, that's why I thought it
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: was just three of us to be married more than once, Me,
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: you and Jake. So we're gone. That's disheartening. I'm trying
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: to be a better person and a better Christian. Now
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: you just told me I don't care what I do.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: I'm going to hell. So there is no forgiveness, there's
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: no mercy, there's more, there's no grace, there is no
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: he died for sins. It ain't none of that. All
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: of y'all has been married more than one, going straight
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: to hell? Hell? Hell? Oh well, I want to say
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: that's all I got for this letter, but I gotta
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: do some more. Straight to him, Pastor said that God
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: only recognizes one marriage and there's no such thing as divorced. Okay, cool,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: let's say God only recognize one man. Can I pick
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: the one he look at? I'm with you on that one, Steve.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: When you're right yeah, let's go all right, listen, we'll
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: have just hold it right there, Steve. We'll have part
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: after the hour, subject living with another man's wife coming
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: up right after this you're listening to, all right, Steve,
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. Who I guess
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: we're in hell right now? Subjects living with another man's wife,
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: living with another man's wife. Here's this woman been married
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: this man a little over a year, and they struggle
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: trying to find themself a nice little church home. So
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: they finally found one that they agreed on and settle
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: that church close to their house. A good stern pastor,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: we love just preaching style, and said it felt really welcome. Now,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: well to one sunday the pastor metch up, was so crazy,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: sent your husband into a frenzy. The pastor preacher about
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: married and stated that anybody that has been married more
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: than once is going to hell. And the person gets remarried,
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: the new spouse is going to hell too, or we'll Damn,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: you can't get faster still. Yeah, man, I'm just sitting there,
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: you know, I let him into my life, my heart,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: you know, feeling pretty strong myself, getting myself together spiritually,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: and you just told me I'm going to hell anyway. Well, Pastor,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: that's where you're wrong, because you don't know about God's mercy,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: his acts of forgiveness, and you don't think that he
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: puts into a counter effect that we maybe we make mistakes,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: that people have a chance to get over their mistakes. Well,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: your husband took the message literally, and on the way home,
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: he said the past was speaking directly from the Bible.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: I showed my husband the exact scripture in the Bible.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: It didn't say anything about anybody burning in hell. Even still,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: my husband leave that. The pastor said. He told me
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: he had a bad feeling about me on our wedding day.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Ain't been married over a year, he told his wife,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: after going to this crazy church, I had a bad
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: feeling about us on that wedding day, follow man, and
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  Speaker 1: then saying, so that must have been why I was blindsided,
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  Speaker 1: because I thought our marriage was great. He was happy
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  Speaker 1: with me. My husband distances himself for me and we
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  Speaker 1: stopped having any type of intimacy. I refused to go
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  Speaker 1: back to the church, but my husband loves it. Final strong.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell I gotta tell you something. You don't
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  Speaker 1: the relationship you would just do it don't seem real. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: healthy ain't the word for it. I just think he can.
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  Speaker 1: I tell you what I think. Yes, I think your
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  Speaker 1: husband was just looking for out, man. I think he
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  Speaker 1: was just looking for an out. I think he was
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  Speaker 1: unhappy and found a way. She he listened to the
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  Speaker 1: path and that said, if you've been in one argument
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  Speaker 1: and you've remarried, you going to hell. Now that's alarming. So,
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  Speaker 1: but that you have it, that's it. I can't I
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  Speaker 1: can't really, I can't really say anything because it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: make any sense what churches did out. Yeah, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what it's the wrong church man. God is a
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  Speaker 1: forgiving god, even with his commandments, He's still a forgiving God. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: and we're underground. I just don't believe that a person
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  Speaker 1: can make a mistake, ask for forgiveness, recovering, and now
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  Speaker 1: you can't go to heaven because you've been mad more
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  Speaker 1: than wolf in hell a long time since two seven
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  Speaker 1: question if you if you get mad more than once
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  Speaker 1: and you're going to hell, does your exes go to
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  Speaker 1: hell too? Because I told him to go to hell?
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  Speaker 1: We got divorce. When you get that, you meet them
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  Speaker 1: seat Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, I'm just cleaning it up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, any ideal with this new breaking news? I
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  Speaker 1: crowded hellfici. Okay, it's gonna be some pastors, but it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of pastors down there. I know
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: a lot of pastors has gotten divorces. Yeah, that's want
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  Speaker 1: to hear this. Damn let him pastor. Yeah yeah, And
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: the Bible clearly states don't don't follow me in. You know,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: you gotta for God's power, you know, not man's wisdom.
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  Speaker 1: Come on. But it does explain why Jesus never got married.
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  Speaker 1: He was single Jesus. Wow. Yeah, yeah, he found it
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  Speaker 1: when the pastor came up with it's a bad mutch.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: He found it out. That was it. He found out.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: But he saw the most sex and all that stuff. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: he's still but he found it out and he gonna
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: ride that out. Now they ain't having sex. He having
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: sex somewhere. He had a bad feeling about me on
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: our wedding day. All right, thank you guys. Post your
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Okay, Jay, quickly you are here with what
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: toughen in the boat? I wrote another blook. My latest
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: book is called you might be tuughing it out. If
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: chapter one, you might be tuughing it out. If you've
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: been riding on your sped tile for six months, you
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: might be tuugh in out. Chapter four, it is a
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: good chapter. You might be toughing out. If you make
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  Speaker 1: dishwashing liquid, when you put it in water and let
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: it dissolve, you might be toughening out. You just put
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: you put soap, put soap in the dishwashing liquid and
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: you dissolve. You never had that done? Okay, you might
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: be toughing it out. If if, if your debit card
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: gets turned down at the dollar store, you might be
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: toughing out. Yeah, yeah, that's pretty tough, you man, Yeah,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: you he is a good one dollars chapter this, chapter eight,
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  Speaker 1: you might be toughening it out. If you got one
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: light bulb and you got to take it from room
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: to room. I'm talking about light bub in hill. Hey,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: heyy I'm trying to see the toilet tissue. Got a
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: chapter on that. You don't have tilt paper. You got
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: napkins from Wendy's mc dunn. Chapter fourteen is a good chapter.
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  Speaker 1: If your pillar, your pillar that you sleep on, is
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: a rolled up towel in a sheet, man, Now you talk, man,
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: that's I got. If you might be toughing it out,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: if your glass sister broke in so many places, you're
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: just picking up the lands, looking through what you one
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: most see, y'all you closing out, you might be telling
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  Speaker 1: it out. If you can only put all in sixty
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: cents and you escalade, you touched it out. Man, let
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: me get one sixty on pump two. Please one sixty
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: one escalade though you're listening. Show all right, Stephen, Jay,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: you guys go back, We go back, so far, so far.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, crazy story I never cable we had on TV.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: Stephen always tell me about how he's sold insurance, and
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna let you finish it. But the
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: story he told about how he was going to sell
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: insurance to these people. Drove way out somewhere times late
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: it now way out and wat couple ahead. They was old.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, they were old, and I dried Wayne
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: was dog where they lived. I'm sleeping and I get
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: out there and the lady was real nice man, and
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: she wind't got me some tea, and I'll take a
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: couple of SIPs to the tea. And they were sitting
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: there and I, you know, the one don't had to
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: hear the age, so I had to speak a little loud.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: And you know, when you tied, that takes more energy.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: And I'm just talking about this policy. The guy got
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: up and went somewhere and came back, and that stopped
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: my momentum. So when he came back and he sat down,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: I was damned near gold. And I looked at him
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: and I was sitting there, man, and I said, yeah,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: coming wealth. The couple was just sick o. That baby
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: was fired. I don't know, man, I have no idea
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: how long I was sleeping. But the old white people
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: was just sitting there looking at me. And when I
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: owed my eyes, I did not know who them to
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: white people? Oh my god, I didn't know, I said,
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: it's just a hot situation. Do they have me? Oh?
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: They got a crazy sun with an app somewhere. Man.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: I got to look around and lady said, you sure
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: are tired, mister. Oh my gosh, man, I said the man.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: The only thing that clude me was I looked back
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: down at my paperwork and it said Commonwealth Insurance. Let
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: me know you an insurance agent? Because I thought it
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: was a hostite situation. Hasn't many white photes and got
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: me out woods, man, I ain't got no cell phone,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: you know, were no cell phones or nothing? No? Man, wow, man,
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  Speaker 1: job man. And they look just like the white people
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: on that on that cornflict box, remember oh Ma and Paul. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they had to pitch fark head and wy flame glass
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: and look like he'll kill you. Oh my god. But
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: he's weak in people. But they looked like they were
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: real strong too, though. Man. Man, I woke up. Man,
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I swear to god, I woke up.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: I did not know who them two people was. So
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: how'd you get out for? How was time to go?
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: Now you've time? I'm assuming they didn't buy No, no,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: didn't dude, come tell me where you need to come back?
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: When you can stay awake, young man. Abou driving back
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: out here, y'all gonna be unsure. Damn man, anybody gonna
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: have y'all died in im. You were destined to do
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: what you do? Him. Yeah, you show, I show ain't
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: gonna bring out no policy. Check out him. You're listening
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• 1:12:24
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• 1:12:30
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• 1:12:34
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  Speaker 1: New Year to all, and thank for all that a
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• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: that's all over the world, and everybody be safe. Let's
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• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: God bless you're listening all right? So Jay, yes, yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: what is this famous last word you wrote? The last
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  Speaker 1: words has to do it. A lot of people get
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: hurt by stupidity or sometimes they don't make it because
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: they say something or do something stupid, and all we
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: have is their last words. For instance, last words like this,
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: that gun ain't loaded. Those were the last words, right
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: that the last The last words they said was that
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: dog don't bite. That's the last words they said. Famous
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: last the famous last words. Like he said before he left,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: I'm going this way. I'm going this way because all
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: the bells are hibernated at this time. Right. So that's
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: the last thing we heard from him, the last thing
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: he's said. He was in the living room and he
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: said to the little boy, punched me in the stomach
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: as hard as you can. I can take it. That
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: was the last you got one go ahead, last word.
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  Speaker 1: I bet you better get out of my face. I
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: bet you better get out of my face. Famous last words.
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  Speaker 1: Famous last word he said to the group was these
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: ain't poisoned mushrooms. I know poison mushrooms, and I see
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: poisoned mushrooms. Okay, that's tams. Yeah, I ain't going nowhere.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: Famous last words. You got what you got one sleeve?
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  Speaker 1: You got another one? Oh? Hell yeah, I jump over
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: there right now, I jump over there. My famous as words,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: he said when he went to bed. I'll go to
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: sleep and it'll be all gone in the morning. I
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: feel much better. Word one word, No, not this time.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: He shocks on it like warm water. Wow, okay, famous
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  Speaker 1: last word. Don't worry about it, girl. My wife sleeps,
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  Speaker 1: she can't hear damn thing. Take it out, man, take
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: it out. Yes, somebody drops something in the water and
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: then somebody say I get it. Thank you guys. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, hang on, we're coming up the last break
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: of the day and some closing remarks from Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: that's coming up at forty nine after right after this
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to. All right Steve, here we are last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day and um please uh let us
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  Speaker 1: leave out of here with some inspiring words, some closing
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: remarks from you. Thank you. You know, Um I was
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: I was talking earlier in the year to everybody about oh,
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: having the best year of your life, and it's it's
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: still possible, and um, you can still have the best
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: year of your life. You really can. You just have
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: to change the way you think. It's it's nothing more
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: and nothing less. You know when people when I say
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: that to people, go, well, Steve, it's just more to it.
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  Speaker 1: Than that. No, it's not. No, it's not the beginning
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: of changing your life. It starts with changing your attitude.
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  Speaker 1: It starts with changing your outlook. It starts with changing
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: your mental disposition. That's the start of it. Man. The
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: beauty of it is you don't need anybody's permission to
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: do that. You don't have to get a loan to
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  Speaker 1: do it. You don't have to be accepted by the
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  Speaker 1: college to do it. You don't have to get a
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  Speaker 1: promotion to do it. You don't need your friends to
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: sign off on it. That is no one that can
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: take a vote on it. You have the power, starting
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  Speaker 1: right now, to change your mental disposition. That is the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of greatness for you. That's the beginning of making
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: your dreams come true. That's the beginning of starting to
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: get the life that you so desperately want. That's how
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: it works, man, it doesn't work any other way. So
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: two nineteen is a great year. I'm not talking about
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: because of the numbers. I'm just talking about because if
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  Speaker 1: you expect it to be, then so shall it be.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: If you expect twenty nineteen to be better than eighteen,
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: there's nothing that says it can't. Now It's not saying
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: that something wrong won't happen along the way, because I
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: promise you it can. I've already had some bad news
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: this year, but that is not stopping two nineteen from
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: being the best year of my life just because I've
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: gotten some bad news already. Because you've gotten some bad news,
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: can I share something with you. It's gonna be some
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: bad news in twenty twenty. It's gonna be some bad
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: news in twenty twenty one, and it's gonna be more
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: than one piece of bad news too. But as I
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  Speaker 1: think of two thousand nineteen, I look at this as
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: a year of transformation. I look, if you are believer,
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  Speaker 1: do you know that in two thousand nineteen that God
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: could actually restore what was stolen from you? Do you
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: understand that in two thousand nineteen you could be expanding
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: your circle, that in two thousand nineteen God could be
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: giving you new opportunities. Do you know that in two
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: thousand nineteen, man, God could actually be put in favor
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  Speaker 1: on some of your options that you're looking at. Do
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: you know that in two nineteen, man, that God can
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: be subtracting your problems and multiplying your resources. Do you
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: understand that that can actually happen if you go to
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  Speaker 1: God and ask him for it. That's what I've asked
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  Speaker 1: for in two thousand nineteen. Let me talk to you
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  Speaker 1: for a second about these dark moments that you have
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: from time to time, as all of us do. We
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: all have dark moments. We all go through periods of
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: darkness where you don't know how the outcome is gonna be.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 1: It's okay, because let me tell you something about darkness.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: Stars can't shine without darkness. Ain't no star. You don't
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: see the stars in the daytime. You see the stars
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: when they get dark. You got to have darkness in
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: order to be a star. Stars can't shine without darkness.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all see all this darkness that you're complaining about. Quick
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: complaining about it. It's necessary. Quick complaining about it. When
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: people start throwing dirt on you. Stop complaining about that. Man,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: It's happening to everybody everywhere, all around the world. It
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: ain't just happening to you. It get dark for everybody.
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  Speaker 1: But say it to yourself when you get dark. Stars
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: can't shine without darkness. Some of the most beautiful scenery
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: I've ever seen has been at night, gazing up at
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: the stars. But it was dark outside. It was some
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: danger lurking outside. But if you get your head up,
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  Speaker 1: if you get your eyes up towards heaven, if you
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  Speaker 1: can keep what upward gaze in all this darkness, some
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: stars up there, man. The real beauty of it is
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: you want of them? Man. Stars ain't just made in Hollywood.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Stars has made all throughout life in this world. Some
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: of the biggest stars in the world. Ain't got nothing
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: to do with Hollywood. Ain't got nothing to do with
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: TV movies, none of that. You can be one of
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: the brightest stars in the middle of some darkest nights.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: You probably are one of them. Just gotta realize it, man,
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: Because stars shine only when it's dog That's why I
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: deal with the darkness. That's it. Y'all have a great day,
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  Speaker 1: feel me. Yeah, while Steve, did you drop it? I
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: just did wild through it down. That really was man.
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  Speaker 1: This is my year. I claim this as my year.
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  Speaker 1: Why would it not be with the god we serve.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, y'all have a great weekend him for all. Steve.
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