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Spirit Airlines Brawl, Serena Williams, Racist Police Force, Back 2 School Memories and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things and it's to stop me true good
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  Speaker 1: at listen to the mother. Please, I don't join join me.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn n you go. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: turn to turn them out. Turn. You haven't got to
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  Speaker 1: turn them out to turn the water the water go. Come,
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  Speaker 1: come on your thing, I shore will a good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Oh man,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show because God. Because God
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  Speaker 1: is simply amazing. Because God is off the chain, because
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  Speaker 1: God is over the top, because God is all that
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  Speaker 1: in a bag of chips. God is amazing. Man. God
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  Speaker 1: will take you places that you never ever thought you
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  Speaker 1: would go. Oh you know what. It sometimes it amazes
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  Speaker 1: me when I'm watching all people talk about themselves and
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  Speaker 1: their careers and where they're adding life and things and
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  Speaker 1: they and I hear people say, you know, always dreamed
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  Speaker 1: of being him. You know, I can understand when a
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  Speaker 1: person says that I've always dreamed that of something like
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  Speaker 1: this would happen to me. But I want you to
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  Speaker 1: think about that for a second. Did you really see
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  Speaker 1: it just like that though? Did you really really see
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  Speaker 1: it just like that? Did you really know that God
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  Speaker 1: was gonna bring you through all he bought you through
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  Speaker 1: to get you to this place? Did you know that,
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  Speaker 1: in spite of the losses along the way that would
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  Speaker 1: crumble the average person, that somehow He kept you through
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  Speaker 1: it all and that's how you got here? Did you
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  Speaker 1: think of you know? I mean, you know, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, since you're so busy talking about yourself now,
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  Speaker 1: have you forgotten all the times He was bringing you
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  Speaker 1: through when you didn't see no way that you was
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  Speaker 1: gonna get through? Do you remember that? So when you
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  Speaker 1: sit there and you say, I dreamed of this, this
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  Speaker 1: is what I always saw happening, I don't really think. So,
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  Speaker 1: I don't really think. If you take inventory, or real
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  Speaker 1: close inventory of your life and you look back on
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  Speaker 1: it all, stop at the moment right now, remember where
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  Speaker 1: you come from. See, that's what gets me emotional sometimes,
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  Speaker 1: that's what makes me tear up, because when something is
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  Speaker 1: happening to me in the moment, it ain't the moment
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  Speaker 1: for me, it's the memory of how I got there.
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  Speaker 1: It's the recollection of all the things, all the nights,
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  Speaker 1: all the days in that car, all the times by
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  Speaker 1: myself when I felt like I wasn't gonna make it.
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  Speaker 1: But somehow I'm standing somewhere and somebody passing out an
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  Speaker 1: award to me or somebody calling my name, that's that.
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  Speaker 1: Did you really think you was gonna make it? Then?
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  Speaker 1: So so so, since you're talking about this is what
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  Speaker 1: I always dreamed of, did you really think in those
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  Speaker 1: moments right there that you would even be standing here today?
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  Speaker 1: That's why I try. I try to give people understand
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  Speaker 1: you know, and and and and this is kind of
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  Speaker 1: for young people today what I'm about to say. But
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  Speaker 1: then guess what I sometimes I have to remind myself
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  Speaker 1: of it. So I guess it's still kind of for
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  Speaker 1: every about it, you know, because I work with a
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  Speaker 1: lot of young people, and so many times, man, young
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  Speaker 1: people just don't understand what all it takes. And I know,
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  Speaker 1: and if you're a full grown adult, if you're forty,
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  Speaker 1: you you really understanding where I'm coming from, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's listen to me, young people or anybody that don't
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  Speaker 1: understand this, that you got to do some things that
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to do in order to do what
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  Speaker 1: you want to do. You have to understand this principle
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  Speaker 1: of success or else you are not going to become successful.
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  Speaker 1: I got what you want to do. I got your
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  Speaker 1: ultimate goal? Is this, that, and the other? I got
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  Speaker 1: all of that. But in the meantime, though, there are
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  Speaker 1: some necessary steps that you have to take in order
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  Speaker 1: to become successful, and you cannot skip these steps. You
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  Speaker 1: can't jump over these steps just because you want to
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  Speaker 1: be rich, Friday, I got that. I got that. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: got that. But if you want this whatever you're talking about,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's money or success or fame or climbing the
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  Speaker 1: corporate letter or this is the position or you all,
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  Speaker 1: that's fine, and Danny, please hold on to your dreams.
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  Speaker 1: Dreams come true. But in the meantime, let me remind
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  Speaker 1: you of something that you gotta do some things you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to do in order to do what you
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  Speaker 1: want to do. Let's say you want to be rich
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  Speaker 1: and famous. Let's just say that's it for you. Let's
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  Speaker 1: sit there. It's a lot of other ways of being successful.
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  Speaker 1: Please don't think that's the only one. But I'm just saying,
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  Speaker 1: let's just say yours is rich and famous, and let's
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  Speaker 1: say some miraculous way God made you rich and famous.
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  Speaker 1: Next Friday, you rich and you famous? Next Friday? Can
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  Speaker 1: I share something with you? This is not going to
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  Speaker 1: last for you. You know why because you have not
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  Speaker 1: done the thing it's necessary. You have not done the
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  Speaker 1: things that you have to do in order to do
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  Speaker 1: the things you want. So now you're rich and famous,
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  Speaker 1: how you gonna know how to budget money? How are
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  Speaker 1: you gonna know how to get up and keep clawing
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  Speaker 1: towards the top when you fall off your pedestal. See,
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  Speaker 1: it's so many things you got to know about something,
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  Speaker 1: and you think, because it's what you want right now,
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  Speaker 1: it's supposed to happen just now. It's a process. When
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  Speaker 1: you ask God for something, Please know, God know the process.
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  Speaker 1: He knows the necessary steps to take you through. Don't
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  Speaker 1: lose your patience with God because your dreams ain't coming
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  Speaker 1: true right now? Man? You know you know I think
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  Speaker 1: the best way y'all is for me. I just use
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  Speaker 1: myself as an example. I really do understand why God
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  Speaker 1: has given me the life he's giving me so far.
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  Speaker 1: I understand it. Being homeless part. Now I get the
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  Speaker 1: not being successful when I want it. Two part, Now
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  Speaker 1: I get it. I got the delayed entry into the
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  Speaker 1: field of choice for myself. I got it now. I've
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  Speaker 1: been wanting to be on TV and a little comedian
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  Speaker 1: since I was nine years old. But guess what, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't get there until I was twenty eight. But see
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  Speaker 1: I didn't get it then I was mad at God.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, I won't knop sending them here here
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  Speaker 1: I got exactly what you want, But I got this process.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to go through to get here too,
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  Speaker 1: because see I'm fit to take you somewhere. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know nothing, but one day you're gonna have a radio
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  Speaker 1: show with You're a little stupid behind. You don't know
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  Speaker 1: this yet. I'm gonna bless you with a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: You don't even know it. That's why I said every morning,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Because see I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't see this one coming. But see God had
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  Speaker 1: a plan for me. It was in the blueprint of
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  Speaker 1: my life. So God said, what I'm gonna do is
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make your life a little rough for you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna toss you up a little bit I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna let you make some of these stupid decisions you
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  Speaker 1: wanna make it. I'm gonna make you learn from them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna let you be homeless for a little while.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you not get into your field of
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  Speaker 1: choice until you're twenty eight. I'm gonna have people talking
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  Speaker 1: about if we had only seen him when he was younger.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna let you get your first call your
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  Speaker 1: name till your thirty eight. I'm gonna make you go
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  Speaker 1: through some things because one day I'm gonna put a
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  Speaker 1: microphone in front of your mouth, and I want you
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  Speaker 1: to honor me. I want you to talk about me.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to tell people what I bought you through.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to give people inspirational moments where they
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  Speaker 1: can see that your life was jacked up for a
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  Speaker 1: minute and I turned your life around for you. That's
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  Speaker 1: God dealing with me. See. So now I finally understand
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  Speaker 1: why I went through the life I went through, so
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  Speaker 1: I can have something to say. See, I ain't over
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  Speaker 1: here telling you about what I think are happened. I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you what I know can happen. That God does
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  Speaker 1: make dreams come true. But sometime it take a minute.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you're gonna have to do some things you don't
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  Speaker 1: want to do in order to do what you want
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  Speaker 1: out of Jamaica, y'all. I don't know if I tell y'all,
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  Speaker 1: you know it took a little old little family trip
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  Speaker 1: that y'allttle family on the ground. How was it? Yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 1: it was very good. After I switched hotels, it was
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  Speaker 1: very good. Am I just am? I just too, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, depend on why you switched. When you
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  Speaker 1: walk in Junior and you see the carpet in the hallway,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't looking right. You already know when you get
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  Speaker 1: to your room it's just gonna get worse. The same carpet. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: when you when you see paint peeling off the while,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we made a good decision. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: After switched in George, Jamaica Outstanding Montego Bay, we went
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how I didn't climb the whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: I got me and Sydney got off halfway through. Joan
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  Speaker 1: Jodan and his mama continued on the way up the
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  Speaker 1: fall that you know, it got to a point I
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  Speaker 1: was like, why are we doing this? This is we
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  Speaker 1: all gonna fall? Why do we go on these vacations
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  Speaker 1: and think we're supposed to do these daredevil excursions. Why
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  Speaker 1: Steve told you that about that. If you don't do
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  Speaker 1: it at home, don't do it on vacation. And listen,
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  Speaker 1: they got like they got like ten twelve people holding
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  Speaker 1: hands as you go up dun so everybody got the
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  Speaker 1: whole hands and go up there together. And I just realized,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, Harry Tubman would have left me. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean? You know what I'm saying, she
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  Speaker 1: would have left me. Why the first got to cross?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't want to cross, I didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to climb. I didn't want to go another father that
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  Speaker 1: north star, didn't you I couldn't see the North Star,
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  Speaker 1: but anyway, had a good vacation with my family. I'm
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  Speaker 1: so grateful, grateful. You ain't got the devil excouraion. You
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  Speaker 1: ain't gotta do that team, you gotta put all that
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  Speaker 1: safety equipment. You don't need to go Junior. They went
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  Speaker 1: zip line and I was below the zip line taking pictures.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing all this this time. I'm not I'm
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  Speaker 1: not doing it. Do you know what my husband like
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  Speaker 1: to do on vacation excourasions? He said, yeah, a red
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  Speaker 1: umbrilliant it. Yes, all right, listen, glad you're back safely.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back with the nephew right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, It is time now for the
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  Speaker 1: nephew to run that prank back. What you got for
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  Speaker 1: his na, Let me run it right to you. A
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  Speaker 1: small favor, A small favor, now that ain't much. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't a month favor favor, cat dog, if you who
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  Speaker 1: small favor? Hello, I'm trying to reach Vicky. Vicky, Hey, Vicky,
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  Speaker 1: how are you doing? Are you the m Are you
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  Speaker 1: the niece of of uh uh? I think it's ain't.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't your aunt? Yes? Okay? And you you now your
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  Speaker 1: aren't passed away? I mean I mean years ago, y'all
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  Speaker 1: are passed. It was about five years ago. Okay, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I'm over here at the funeral home. Uh my, my
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  Speaker 1: my sister just passed away, and uh, they gave me
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  Speaker 1: your phone number, did you guys? We're going through a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of a situation here, did you guys? Aren't
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  Speaker 1: you know your aunt was a heavy set woman? Is
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  Speaker 1: that right? Yes? You was? Okay? Now they had to
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  Speaker 1: did they have to put her in a in a
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  Speaker 1: Did they have a bill of a special casket for her? Yeah? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's where we're kind of going through with my sister.
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  Speaker 1: We ordered a special casket for for for my sister,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm assuming this is the same thing that you
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  Speaker 1: guys went through. I called several of her, her children,
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  Speaker 1: but I wasn't able to get in touch with anybody
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  Speaker 1: but that the funeral home actually had your name on
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  Speaker 1: file as well, so they gave me your number where
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  Speaker 1: I would be able to talk to you. Is that
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  Speaker 1: is that? Okay? Yeah, that's okay. You can speak to me,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, let's things leave a problem. Well, listen,
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  Speaker 1: the funeral is actually in two days and we ordered
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  Speaker 1: one of those special caskets, but it doesn't look like
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be in for another week. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's almost like we're gonna, we're gonna we're not gonna
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  Speaker 1: have a casket for her, um, you know, for the funeral.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, like I said, the funeral home told
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  Speaker 1: us about you know that you guys were the last
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  Speaker 1: ones that ordered a casket of that size, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: me and the rest of the family has been you know,
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  Speaker 1: we were trying to figure out what to do and
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  Speaker 1: what to do. Do you think it's any way possible
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  Speaker 1: we can borrow the casket that your Ain't is in,
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  Speaker 1: and then when the casket comes in and we ordered,
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  Speaker 1: we can put her in that casket and put her
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  Speaker 1: back down to rest like she's always been. Do you
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  Speaker 1: think that's? Excuse me? Hello, hello, you think could you
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  Speaker 1: repeat yourself? What exactly are you asking me? Well, what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying is, do you think we can borrow your
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  Speaker 1: ain't casket? Because you know, the funel is in two
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  Speaker 1: days and the casket is not gonna be in in
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  Speaker 1: order for us to be able to bury her in
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  Speaker 1: a in a casket for you know, to accommodate her size.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm asking. What kind of that you're talking about?
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  Speaker 1: First of all, who is this? Okay, No, my name
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  Speaker 1: is Larry. Like I said, my name is Larry. I
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  Speaker 1: got you, I got you guys. Like I said, I
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  Speaker 1: tried to call some of her kids, but nobody ever
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  Speaker 1: picked up when I called her niece's number on file too.
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  Speaker 1: You you are her niece, Vicky, right, Yes, I am.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Do you think that maybe you
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  Speaker 1: can talk to the children and see if we can
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  Speaker 1: maybe use that particular casket? Okay, wait a minute, what
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  Speaker 1: the talking about this? Them? First of all, who who
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  Speaker 1: is this? You? You gotta be losing your mind if
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  Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna let you dig up my any
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  Speaker 1: for just to bury your silks. But I understand where
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  Speaker 1: you're coming from. But what I'm trying to say is
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  Speaker 1: that we don't have a casket big enough. And they
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  Speaker 1: were they they let us know that you guys were
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  Speaker 1: the last ones that had a casket that you know,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta do with us? That's your trust to figuring out?
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  Speaker 1: Have you no show? No? No? Well, okay, First of all,
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  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do is this. The family been
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  Speaker 1: grieving pretty hard and I just wanted to make sure
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  Speaker 1: that the funeral will be right. And it ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: be right. Don't don't bring my family gonna feel digging
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  Speaker 1: any of you show they don't call me with this.
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  Speaker 1: Who is the funeral home that gave you my number
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  Speaker 1: to ask me to use the casket so you can
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  Speaker 1: bury your sister? Was the name of that person? I
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  Speaker 1: can't remember, but it was. It was a guy. The
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  Speaker 1: funeral director let me know that you guys had went
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  Speaker 1: through a situation where you had to bury your your
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  Speaker 1: your your art. Like I said, I try to call
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  Speaker 1: what's your name again? My name is Larry. Okay, Larry.
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  Speaker 1: This is a This is a stupid I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what give you my phone number to call me asking
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  Speaker 1: you just don't. Can you believe they call your asking
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  Speaker 1: me so can dig up they can bury. They don't
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  Speaker 1: have a casket. Hello, No, No, what kind of idstands
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  Speaker 1: your fault? No? I understand it's not your fault. What
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is what y'all show some sympathy
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  Speaker 1: and some love for me and my family going through
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  Speaker 1: because we don't have a casket. Like I say, my
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  Speaker 1: truster my was was you know, if the heaviest was
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  Speaker 1: a hestad good? You know. My condulesence go out to
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  Speaker 1: you and your family. You know I'm trying to be
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  Speaker 1: as reserved as I can with this whole situation. But
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  Speaker 1: do you understand what kind of stupid you're asking me
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: right now to actually dig up my own who was armed,
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  Speaker 1: who's been and were out for five years because bury
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: your sister. Let me let me answer this row when
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: you you ain't ain't gonna know. She ain't gonna know
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  Speaker 1: when you because for you to say to me maybe
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  Speaker 1: like what don't know? But you're stupid what you're talking
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: on you smoking crack? What don't know? I don't know more?
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: First of all, you know what I First of all,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I appreciate you trying to work with me, but I
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: want to say it is you. You don't even have
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: the authority to make that decision if you give me
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: one of the numbers to one of your cousins. Because
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I was really trying to be nice and be calm.
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  Speaker 1: But guess what, we're not doing this stupid. I'm trying
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: to be nice to you and tell and trying to
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: help you out. But no, you want me to get
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: ignorant and ask stupid with you. I was trying to
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: be nice and sympathetic, but we're not doing it. I'm
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: not giving you the number. I got the authority to
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: tell you right now. We're not digging up so you
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: can bury your sister. Okay, so so so so so
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: that's just it. I can't talk to now. No, you
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: ain't talking to know, but you're talking to me. Okay,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: I got I got, I got something else I need
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: to tell you though, I need. I need to tell
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: you something else or you live tell me. I want
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: to tell you this. This is nephew Tommy from the
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Steve Harby Morning Yo, Vicky, yr sister Sheila got me
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: the prank phone called you. Huh? Who is this again?
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Biggy Bicky? This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your sister Sheila got me to prank phone
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: call you. Oh oh, y'all you got me over, y'all
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: worked up. I'm I'm gonna keep she played any much
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: she ain't got. I got oneman thing to ask you, baby,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: what is the baddest And I mean the baddest radio
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  Speaker 1: graz All right, we'll be back with more of the
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour. In
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: entertainment news, Deshaun Watson issued a public apology to all
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: of his accusers. And we'll tell you who's getting a
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame as well. They
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: haven't got my stall top. But right now, no, this
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: is your part right here, it's time for as the
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: riddle low. That's the rtlow. Excuse me, we're not gonna
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: skip over that. You said, no they got my start. No,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: we're gonna ask shade of it. All right, I'm gonna
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: put one of my driveway. There was no shade on that.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: Now what is the ridd low? What is d is
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: the ready to love Officer? Oh yeah, and that's hogger
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: than the cheap low, cheap love. That's hide in it
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: the cloth, higher than the clow. Yeah, and junior, I
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: would say you j low, but then now you renge
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: it's already won. It's alway to run the junior love Officer. Yeah,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: there's already a j she fan. You could be Julo.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: All right, here we go for you, guys. Shelley and
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Cleiborne says, I've been in a common law marriage for
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: sixteen for seventeen years, so when I heard my man
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: cheated on me, I did something I regret. I got
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: drunk and had sex with an ex boyfriend and he
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: is still very much in love with me. I only
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: wanted revenge sex, but now he is threatening to tell
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: my man what happened. What should I do? You're gonna
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: have to keep doing it with it, that's what I
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: gotta keep. You got to keep doing it. You didn't
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: got yourself into that. You're gonna have to keep doing it, Okay,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: you got to do it. You keep doing it until
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: he don't want it no more, in order to save
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: your common law marriage. First of all, that sound crazy
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: way to say your common law marriage, but you know
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: you had when you asked the riddle load the riddle
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: load keep it real with you. So i'thing letting, you know,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: keep having sex with the other person until he gets
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: tired of it. It's just it's just that simple. You
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: just you in it. Now, you got what you say,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: gotta lie in it. Absolutely true. I said the same.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I don't think the same thing. You got to keep going.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Are you in this now? You gotta do this for
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: your family. That what you got to do. You got
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: to do this for your marriage. Even though it's common law.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: You got to go through with it. Every time you
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: see that man start taking clothes off, because depending on
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: take it off like a black woman. You know, you
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: take your bra off and they pull it through that
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: and pull it all the way through. They they can
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: take a bra off through the shirt. They cold with
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: that thing. Yeah, you have to all right, you're in
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: the middle of all women can do that. That's all art. Yeah.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I didn't see take that off with a whole sweatshirt
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: on and it didn't move. How did you see that? Yeah?
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Watch trying to take our draws off through our pains
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: for Rights Levon from Philly Rights. I had a game
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: night at my house and my boyfriend chose my best
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: friend as his spade partner. I got jealous at how
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: my boyfriend vibed with her. He hugged her and pulled
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: her onto his lap. After they won. I made a
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: scene and he said he didn't do anything wrong. I
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: said it was inappropriate. What do you think? See when
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: you run a Boston on somebody, that kind of love
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: comes together. You know what I'm saying. When y'all get
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: ten books, you deserve a hook and a lap. It's
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: just you're looking at this wrong. You're looking at this wrong.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I see maybe the possibility to you not no good
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: space partner. And see he didn't find out something about hooded.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: He like, I'm just sorry. You got to get your
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: spade game up, baby and learn how the big joke
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: of a little joke. Yeah, yeah, See I don't want
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to reniggle. I
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: don't tell you. That's exactly what it mean you about
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: you worried about this hug. You just can't play space
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: with this ten me. Oh you're a good girlfriend, but
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: space on it now. Your best friend can play that
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: what you want? You want somebody who throwing these cars
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: out here? You over there with you? Over there with
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: the Ace King Queen a heart and live with the
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: deuce a heart? What's wrong with you? Shoot? He had that?
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: You know I ain't got no hearts? What did you do?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: People are serious about their card. Let me tell you
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: when black people get mad at space when when you
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: lead and we lose three books in a row. Okay,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: now you're the first. Okay, now that's the first. Okay.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: One question, one question. This is a little sidebar. What
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: does it mean when you put the card on your forehead?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Get ready? What does that mean? Get ready? You're ready
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: because it ain't nobody going to beat this book. This
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: last book is out. This is the victory. Okay, you
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: pick that card and stick it on your foehead. Oh yeah, baby,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: this is it. I thought it just been she had
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: a greasy forehead. All right, Carmen and Merman and Denver says,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I'm a forty two year old divorced woman. The man
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: i'm dating told me had told me that he likes
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: to swing occasionally, but he wants to do it every weekend. Um, first,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: he said occasionally, Um, he loves watching me with others.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: And do you think he's capable of having monogamous monogamous relationship? Wait?
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait, he liked watching you with others,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: So yeah, swing occasionally, but now he's doing it every
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: weekend and he likes watching her with others. Okay, so
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: we're not swing, We swing in. That's what we're doing.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: We swing in every weekend, we're doing. It's over. I
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: ain't no, yes, yeah, no turning back. If you're looking
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: for us to one on one with him, that's a rap.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: It's over with. It's been gone, y'all. Once you start
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: to swing, it's over. It's a huh. So to answer
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: her question, do you think he's capable of monogamous relationship?
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: You're saying no, he's capable of a nag? Ladies? Was
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: he capable of? Okay? Three fold five six people? The
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: numbers just keep going up. The number is not gonna
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: get back down to two. Now. That's bored to him.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: It's just you and him, that's it. That's we gotta
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: get some people up in him. We gotta get some
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: niket people in him fast. This is not happy at all.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: You are messing up the entire weekend, just me and you.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: This is it? You think that's turning me on? You
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: walking through him naked? That ain't doing. And you need
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: to get some more people up in him. All walked
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: through here naked? Ye, some drinks, some alders. I need
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: a lot of naked people and some food and stuff.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: What are we doing this? Ain't you got you? Yeah?
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: Because I tell you right now, if he loved watching
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: you with other people, that's it. You need other people
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: for him to love you. He can't love you by
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: your thank you. Yeah, I'm telling you right now. Try
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: to Netflix and you started it. Yeah, watch when you
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: get them, Watch when you get them. Eight nine people
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: in the room. But he look across the room. I
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: love yo. Yeah, that's what he gonna tell you when
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: you make this for me? All right? Last one, guys,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Last one. Moving on to Parker in Maryland. Parker says,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: I'm a thirty four year old kept man and my
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: woman gives me money and plane tickets to meet her
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: in various cities. She's a single woman, but I've never
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I've never been to her house, and I don't even
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: know where she works. Why is she being so mysterious
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: with me? You can't say nothing. You kept. You can
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: tell you not to keep. You use you kept, So
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: you got to keep your damn mouth shut. You do
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: what you're told. You can't you kept. You can't say nothing.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: You don't answer where I work at, where I do
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: for money? What's wrong with you? I meet you here,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: we do here. You skelt and I keep and ju
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Loo coming up on the top of the r We'll
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  Speaker 1: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: In an interview with Cleveland News five on Friday, Cleveland
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Brown's quarterback Deshaun Watson issued a public apology and an
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: effort to make amends to all of the women who
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: have accused him of sexual misconduct during massage sessions. Take
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: a listen. Look, I want to say that I'm truly
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: sorry to all the women that I've impacted in this situation.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: My decisions that I made in my life that put
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: me in this position. Um, you know, I would definitely
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: like to have back, but I want to continue to
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: move forward and grow and learn and and show that
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: you know, I am a true person of Charatherine. I
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: want to keep pushing forward. Well, yeah, that's the zoology.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: What's the status on that now, Well, Watson's suspension doesn't
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: count the preseason. He was eligible to play in the
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: preseason game on Friday against the Jacksonville Jacksonvillears. But but
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: now he was booed by the fans as he walked
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: into the field. I think that was to be expected, though,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: you know, her stands are, Yeah, they're gonna Yeah, that's
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: what they do. And you know, they felt that he
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: deserved it, so that's what they did. The Browns went
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: on to beat the Jaguars twenty four to thirteen. Okay, okay,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: I'll wait for sports. I'm sorry. Yeah, yeah, all right,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: moving on to ohoh this story right here? Uh? In
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: an update on the horrific crash last week in the
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Los Angeles area. Nicole L. Lenton, the traveling nurse who
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: kills six people in that one hundred mile per hour
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: fiery accident, is jailed in Lynnwood, California, and has been
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: charged with six counts of murder five counts of gross
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: vehicular manslaughter. She faces up to ninety years in prison
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: if she is convicted. According to her warrior, she had
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: previously been involved in thirteen car accidents and she has
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: profound history of mental health issues. Yes, why yeah, why
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: are you nursing on people while that? Did you do
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: a background check on her and her license should have
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: been suspended? You involved in thirteen cards thirteen? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: that's terrific. Yeah yeah. Having a job, you shouldn't be
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: able to catch the bus. I mean, this is this
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: is bad. Yeah, it really really is bad. Yeah, and
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: and our prayers and condolences go out to the families
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: of those six people who were mowed down in that accident.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: You know, you can't be really, I can't be sad
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: about it ninety years. I'm sorry. I can't because if
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: you kill I think about you kill six people. Man. Yeah, yeah,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: oh my God, for the rest of your life. Yeah.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: Justice for these victims and they'll never come back. Yeah.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: You ain't doing no driving in jail. You got to
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: walk everywhere get rid. Yeah. Shooting yeah serious, Yeah, that's
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: what we do. You know, people just out driving, going somewhere,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: having fun, and all of a sudden, here you come
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: flying down the street on home. I mean yeah, horrible, horrible.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: I know that exact intersection too, all right. Moving on
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: to Nipsey Hustle um uh. Posthumously. He is set to
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: receive the star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame today
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: on what would have been his thirty seventh birthday. So happened.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Happy heavenly birthday to Nipsey Hustle, whose life ended tragically
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: back in twenty nineteen. Other stars in the twenty two
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty two Walk of Fame class and George Clinton,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Michael b. Jordan, Martha Reeves, and Michael strahand A SNL's
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Keenan Thompson received his star on Friday. So my name
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: ain't no way in there. You don't see my name
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: on the list nowhere. I saw himself, I saw George Clinton,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I saw Michael B. Jordan, Martha Reeves. I didn't see
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Tom Michael straighthand he's from Houston. I ain't got nothing
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: to do with me. Maybe you have a connection there, tu,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Come on, my mama went to TSU. I didn't get
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: my mom and daddy went to TSU. But that's got
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with me and my star go here.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: But you could connect in straighthand that's the connection. No,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: you know what, I'd have made him my mind. I'm
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: gonna put mine in my driveway. I'm not gonna got
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: nothing to wait on everybody that no. Yeah, some more
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: sad news out of Hollywood. UM actress Anne hash Uh
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: has died from injuries that she suffered Friday, August Smith
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: after driving her card through at Los Angeles home. Has
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: suffered a severe brain injury. It was kept alive on
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: life support for a week before she passed away. She
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: was fifty three. If you recall. Um, some people don't
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: remember her, but um back in the day, I guess
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: she and Ellen dated for a while Ellen degenerous and
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: a lot of people remember her from that. Yeah. So yeah,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: our condolence is going out to her family for sure. Um. Yeah,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: very sad, very very sad. She had children and yeah
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: she did touching tribute, yes, that her son did, and
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: you know, and just heartbroken. Yeah, just really sad. Yeah, yeah, yes,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: it is absolutely it's very very short. Um. Wow, yeah
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: that story. Because wasn't she on wasn't she on a
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: soap opera? Two? Um? Was it Another World? I think
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: she played twins on the Yeah, watching her. It was
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: a movie she did with Harrison Ford. Harrison Ford, I
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: remember that movie. That was a great movie. Uh huh
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: and hash uhh. Yeah, she did a great movie with
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Harris seven. It was six Days, seven Days. Yes, I
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: knew I had a number in it, but I could. Yeah.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: That was really good. Yeah, she was a wonderful, wonderful actress.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: That happened. Wow. And the reason they kept her on
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: life support is so they could figure out what to
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: do with her organs. They wanted to you know, you know,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: people need organs, so that's what they do sometimes to
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: decide to donate. Absolutely. Yeah, all right, coming up at
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, here's a question, would you
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: ever sure share your location with your partner, allowing them
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: to track you? Think about that you're listening to show.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: To share or not to share your location is the
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: subject of this story. How would you feel if your
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: partner asks you to share your location with them? Okay,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: that's the question. You know, that's very easy to do
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: on your smartphone. Clinical psychologist doctor Jasmine Sad says it's
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: a decision that's giving a lot of people anxiety, and
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: it's an issue that comes up a lot with her patients.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: She tells her patients that the decision to share your
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: location with your partner should be a solution to a problem,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: like if there's a legitimate reason for why you both
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: need to know where the other one is. If it's
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: just to keep tabs on each other because you don't
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: trust each other, then that's not healthy. So here's a
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: question for you. Would you ever share your location or
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: even ask your partner to share his location with you?
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Big deal? That's see, that's why I don't want those
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: smartphone I got a dumb ass phone. I don't want
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: those smartphone. That's a smartphone tell you all these different
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: things we need to tell you the temperature and going
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: on everything. I don't need all that. I need a
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: dumb head phone. I could just make a call and
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: and that's it. But all this pinpoint me where you at?
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I'm in the back room. Why you need no where
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I'm at? I'm not. I'm not when I when I
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: pull out this driveway, I'm on my own. Let me be.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: I don't need all that. You don't share your location
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: in the house. It's when you're out. But what do
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: you want though? When I leave? What do you want?
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: If you want me to bring some bread home? Text
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: me you want me bring some bread home? But you
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: don't even know where I'm getting the bread from. You
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: just tell me you what you need? Jesus, your pinpoint me?
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Why what are you doing over there? I'm doing what
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: I want to do over here. I'm at the park,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: I'm running three miles. What do you want? What if
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: you don't want nothing? Yeah, I'm sorry. We've been married
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: twenty one years. You what do you want? Why I
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: just left you? I don't see your problem with just
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: sharing your location. I don't see your problem with that. Huh,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? You've been married twenty one years.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: You can't share your location? Huh? Right? She know where
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: I be? Calor the same damn cigar ball on Thursday?
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: If you pass by the six thirty and you know
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: him right there? What do you want? What? Okay? Well,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: since you want to share it, I'm just gonna come
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: up there, since that's where you are. And what none,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: we got a problem coming up there embarrassing me in
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: front of my friends. What do you want? Junior? What
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: do you say? Oh? What? Say you? Absolutely? We'll share
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: my location? Yea? I damn sure, we'll share my location.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I won't be nowhere. That phone
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: don't be in Philadelphia and I'm in New Mexico. I
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: share it. I promise you get a location. I better
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: the fact when you take my baby down isn't fill it? Yeah? Down,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: my ass is somewhere else. I share it, though, I
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: get you. I sure will. I have no problem, y'all.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: You asked the question. I said, yeah, live in my
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: best life. I'm a saying I had to keep it
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: to be with me. Leave it at the church all
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: week I've been praying. All right, coming up, we'll talk
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: about this big fight that happened at Spirit Airlines right
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: after this You're listening show. A big debate was sparked
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: online over the weekend after video footage of a physical
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: alter tate altercation between a Spirit Airlines employee and a
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: female passenger went viral. Did you guys see the video? Everybody?
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: It was crazy. The black male Spirit Airlines employee was pushed,
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: yelled at, cursed at, and called defamatory names by a
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: female passenger. Now was this female passenger white? She looked white?
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: Well she did. She looked white. She was white. Every
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: angle I looked at it, every angle I looked, she
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: was white. On the ground, every angle I looked, she
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: was white. Spirit employee continuously asked the woman to back up,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: but she continues to turn him and eventually hit him
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: in his face as another passenger tried to separate them.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: The Spirit employee then hit the woman several times before
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: another black male got in the Spirit employee's space. Set
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: and you're not going to fight that woman, bro. The
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: Spirit employee has been suspended. Okay, so how did you
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: get what did you guy? What was your take? On
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: this situation. At the end of the day, you cannot
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: hit the lady. You got to walk away. You you
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: you're a man, you way strong, good, it's just you
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: know where I come from. You just don't hit no lady.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: So you got to walk away, bro, what regardless of
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: what she's saying. If you walk away long far enough,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: guess what, you can't hear what she's saying. Get away
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: from him? Yeah, get away from her now. She especially
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: if someone representing the area, probably was wrong. I'm sure
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: it was wrong. She was in space. She called the
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: N word, she was nword. Yeah, she should have walked away.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: He should have walked away. So now it all escalate.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: You just got learning. Yeah, you know those kind of
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: ignorant people. You gotta can not put your hands on
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: You can't do it. I will find another female to
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: come over there and how let you though, I will
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: find that. That's I will find that if I get
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: to cooking, if I get to Junior's sister, oh, it's
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: got that she'll be should take it. The whole situation
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: wet me. Did you got to walk away? I was
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: surprised that he was just suspended though the employee and
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: and not fired. Ye, well, I mean you gotta look
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: at she did. She did hit the guy in his face. Yeah,
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: he was provoked, for sure, he was provoked, yes, but
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: he just got He just didn't handle hands on her
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: though that seemed to be a problem. It's a basic
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: principle not to put your hands on a woman. Man.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I just I don't care you did. What What can't
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: she really do to me? How hard was slap? How hard?
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: But junior, I don't know how old he was. But
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: you know, it's different now, it's different now, it's really different.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: It's different. You guys were raised a certain way. It's
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: not like that, um now isn't. But couldn't he have
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: called security? If she called and she put her hands
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: on him? Then she should band from flying because you
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: hit a federal employer, I mean a person that works
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: at an airline in a federal building. What I'm saying, so, yeah,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely, then she should be something should happen to
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: her as well as Oh for sure assault? How about
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: that for starters? Yea, when you at work, when you
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: at work, period, man, you got to have a certain
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: type of temperament, you know what I mean from temperament now,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: but at the same time, no one has a right
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: to put their hands on you while you're right right.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: That might be why he's only suspended. That might be
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: only Yeah, you shouldn't have to put up with that either.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: He went one thing, my man went off, I know
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: one thing called going that dough. Y'all all go in
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: with that code. When y'all come out that doughe, it
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: ain't never good. Y'all come back. You did that dough
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: with the code on it. You pressed up six digits.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: You come out of that doughe. Somebody coming and throwing
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: you out this apple. That's all he has to do,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: throwing that doughe and get your help. You know. Yeah,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: ain't got to fight. I ain't never been in that
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: dough either is dough. But when they come out that dough,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: everything in that dope, out of the security officers back
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: there in that doughe gate attendance in that doughe, it's
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: a beating in that dope. Y'all feel about the two
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: brothers at the end of the video on that a
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: was about to fight. Yeah, people were mad at them,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: saying what he had jumped in if it had been
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: a black woman, you know, that's what a lot of
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: people were saying online as well. Yeah, hopefully you just
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: jump in and stop any fight. Anybody an shut it down? Yeah,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: all right, guys, coming up next to nephew and the
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: prank phone call right after this, you're listening to show
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is can
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: I change his mindset? Here we go again, can I
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: change its mindset? Always trying to change somebody? All right,
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that in just a bit, but right now,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: the nephew is here for the prank phone call? What
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: you got for us? Now? Surely I'm coming off vacation.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: I've been playing dad, I've been playing hohos. But I've
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: been doing I have not had time to be stupid.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: It has just it dawned on me. I said, I've
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: not been stupid. And about a week this has really
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: bothered me. So, you know, back in the saddle and
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: just you know, trying to just regroup and get my
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: stupid back up because it's really been put on again. Yeah,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: get my stupid back up because it's been low. My
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: stupid been running low. So let's get it back up
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: right here, this is bad. Bugs. We're gonna be as
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: stupid as possible. Bed bugs. Let's go cat dog. Hello, Hello,
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: trying to speak to Nieuh, she's out here right now
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: because I think a message. Uh do you know when
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: she's coming back? Nah? Is this a business? Calls him? No? No,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: this personal. I need to talk to her immediately. No,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: you need to talk to me. It's just a man.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Who is this? This is? This is Brandon? Who? Who?
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: Who are you? I'm earnest man. But why do you know? Shenie?
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: I got a bit of a situation here man. Uh.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: And it's basically a financial situation that I'm owed some
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: money from her. So I kind of need to talk
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: to her about about getting this money. Uh. Is totally
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: disrupted my whole apartment. And I need to actually see
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: about talking to her about getting this whole problem taking
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: care of what what's the what's the situation, What's what's
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: the what's going on? I mean, I'm basically right now,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: I'm twenty five hundred dollars in the rears due to
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: due to Sharnie and and I you know, I need
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: to see if she's gonna be able to pay me
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: for the situation or what you know. My girl owe
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: you money. She owes me twenty five hundred dollars, twenty
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: five hundred dollars for what. I don't even know who
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: you are, first of all, So what's up with the
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: twenty five hundred dollars? A man? First of all, my
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: name is Brandon, okay, and I've been I know, I've
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: been knowing Shani's probably for the last three or four
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: months now, Okay, So here you want to know it
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: all in a nutshell? Is it's like this, Sharnie's been
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: coming through okay for the last three or four months,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: been coming over here to my spot, to my apartment,
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: hanging out. I'm just now finding out within the last
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: two weeks. It's I had to get rid of my couch.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: I had to get rid of my mattresses because mattress,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: because it's been a mattress women do it. Wait a minute,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: So you're trying to tell me she was in your bid. Yeah,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: she's been in my bed, dude, she's been in your
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: big Are you crazy? Dude? You know they know the
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: serious where twenty five hundred dollars. Problem is you took
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: about twenty five hundred dollars. You told my my girl
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: was in your bad now. Were not even gonna get
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: into that. You understand what I'm saying, But that's twenty
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: five hundred dollars. You can forget about it. No, no, no, no, no,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: hold our prost of all, you're calling here, you calling here,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: you calling here, and here, dude, answer the phone, and
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: you still got to to ad for her, and then
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: gonna tell me about some twenty five hundred dollars about
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: some mattress. Dude, I'm my my mattresses man or a
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: thousand bucks full of bad bucks. I had to throw
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: that away about worry about no damn mattress dude. You
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: talking about my girl. We've been together for four years.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I'm about to pop the question on her, and you
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: want to sit there talk about she'd been hanging with
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: you or take it with you for the last four months.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: It's about to be over in a minute. Now. What
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: if you want to marriage? And he's cool. I don't
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: care nothing about I don't even worry about that now.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: But you talking about some bad mattress man. That's that's
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: a problem. Dude. Ain't wonder if I know damn mattress.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: We don't wonder if I ain't got no mattress right
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: now my house? You calling the mind telling that stud
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: I do not call them answers right now, Nor do
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: I have a couch. Do you understand that I can't
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: about some mattress who cowers? Dude, I don't care nothing
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: about that. Your name you say it ain't Brandon, I'm Brandon.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah here Brandon. Okay, don't worry about it right because
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: you're gonna find me a real fool. Don't let me
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: find you before you find me. Do you understand what
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: I'm saying? Don't you do, dud? Dude? No, you can
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: have you can have them bit of bugs and the
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: mattress or whatever. Answering these fall. I tell what I'm
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: saying is you talk about something bit but then event
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: bus over here? Okay, So what she did see the
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: problem over here in my place? I don't can't out
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: of the poblic She ain't bring nothing over there, first
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: of all, but I don't need any even a problem
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: right now. You've been over here, man, nobody else over here.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: The one about who you hand over there? But you're
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: gonna call here're talking about no money. You ain't getting
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: nothing from here? Okay. First of all due. Check this out.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with you, okay, Me and
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: you cool you coolroblem. We already got a problem. You're
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: calling me something about you can sleeping one my brother, Hey, dog,
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: dodge the one. I'm gonna say it again. Me and
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: you cool dog, we cool. We're not cool. We're not
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: cool for the my all on water. I don't handle
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Sannie myself. I'm hard when you. I'm gonna handling you later.
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: What you're doing, what you're talking about you, you're gonna
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: handle me. I'm gonna handle you later. You want a mattress, right,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: they do? Dude, want the mattress right? Head and marriage Shenise,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to do with that. My wife
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: about my money back man, for the proper of mind
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: that she has ruined. Man, don't worry about that. I'm
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: gonna get you a masxress. Don't worry about that. It's
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: gonna be a casket wrapt around now, so they do. Dude,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Why are you sitting here creating the drama with me
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: when me, me and you, we ain't even the problem.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: The problem is, Shani. The problem is you picked up
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: your phone and you call here. That's the problem. What
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: you guys, who'll do because you ain't got no couch,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you ain't got no masttress. Now you gotta do that.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. You know what I see.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: I can't talk to you. When do Shenise get home? Man,
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: don't worry about when Shanis get home. I wish you
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: need to worry about was when I find you? Okay?
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: So so when when I when you're gonna have my money?
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Didn't when you find me? Because I need my money
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: day I don't have your money? How your mattress too?
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: Please understand you're gonna be resting real way. Okay, okay,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: So so let me ask you this here, Man senis
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: bringing bad bugs over to my house. Leave them all
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: in my mattress, Leave him all over my couch. Where
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I gotta throw my stuff away? Where I'm wrong? At man,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: where I'm wrong? I'm gonna ask you straight up? Did
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: you know she had a man? Say? What? Did you
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: know she had a man? But I mean kind of
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: kind of thought of, but not really though I know
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: kind of saught the man. Even you know she got
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: a man? Know she don't got a man? You know
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: she had a man, right, and you still win, dy
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: right they do. I ain't got nothing to do with y'all. Man,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I'm dealing with these bad bugs. You understand I'm saying. Dude,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: do you understand you messing up a full year relationship?
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm a time I put in with this
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: woman full years. We're about to get we's about to
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: get married, and you're calling here with this. What are
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: y'all supposed to get married? Don't worry about what we're
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: supposed to get married, man, you messed that all up.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: What I'm trying to explain to you is, dude, you
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: calling here on some bad bugs, which I know she
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with it. But the fact
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: that you told me that she was over your house
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: and your bed, that's over. It's over now, you understand
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now we see getting home, I'm gonna
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: deal with that. You understand what I'm saying. That's gonna
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: get dune with. I'm walking up out of here. But
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: when I leave here, please believe my next cop is
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: to come find your First of all, how did you
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: get the number to this apartment? That's what I want
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: to know. Hey, dude, she gave me both numbers, the
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: cell phone number in the house number told me, you know,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: if it's an emergency, call the house. Okay, and this
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: is an emergency. Yeah, that's an emergency. I got bad.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: Learn another emergency number, learning nine one one because when
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: I come down because on your dog, did you come
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: out on you handle it or you better call the cops.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: You understand what I'm trying to tell you. Hey, man,
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: do you think Tommy will pay for the bad bugs?
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: Who is Tommy? I'm just saying, do you think Tommy
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: will pay for the bad bug? Who? It's Tommy? Tommy
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: dog nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Ernest,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: you just got brained by your girl shot niece. Man,
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: y'all y'all who ya? Hey, Well, it was over. It
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: was over. You understand what I'm telling you, and then
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: you have it. That's that met few for your baby
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: getting back into sad A little stupid to tear, all right.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: I missed a lot of but I want to make
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: sure y'all get my swag back. I want to make
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: sure y'all didn't miss nothing. Did you did you catch
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: your boy on the two Friday Night Ready to Love? Yeah? Yeah,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: huh what Okay, I don't look too fat, do it?
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: That's why I don't want to watch myself. I look fat.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: M Why do Monica have both her jaws? Blow it
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: out like I looked like? Just well, I bit all sausage.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: You look you ready to love on Friday night on
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: the old Network. You don't want to miss it? Come
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: check me out. And hey, it's Ready to Love Miami.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: It's it's it's it's starting to get steamens. So I
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: want y'all to keep tuning in because it's getting crazy.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: People are already picking their favorites and who's not their favorite?
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Everybody's watching it. Tommy, I'm begin to stop in the supermarket.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Please get that one off the show I want. But
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: they're good TV. They get on my nerves, they get
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: on your nerves, but they're such good TV. Oh, the
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: crazy contestants. We got Ready to Love Miami. All right, nephew,
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: congratulations again. We'll be watching you know that? Coming up
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters subject can I change his mindset? We'll
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening to the
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: String Show, all right, It is time now for today's
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex,
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  Speaker 1: it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter thanking a
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  Speaker 1: you subject. Can I change his mindset? Dear Stephen Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: I've been dating a man for six years and we
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  Speaker 1: live with his parents in a two bedroom house. We
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  Speaker 1: had to move in with them in twenty twenty after
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  Speaker 1: he lost his job. I don't have any family in
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  Speaker 1: this town, so I agreed to stay there temporarily. But
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  Speaker 1: he just started working four months ago. He couldn't find
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  Speaker 1: a job in his field for a long time, so
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  Speaker 1: I was relieved when he started working full time because
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  Speaker 1: I thought he would finally get our own place. Their
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  Speaker 1: house is small and our bedroom is directly across from
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  Speaker 1: his parents' bedroom. His mom uses the dining chair as
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  Speaker 1: the dining room excuse me as her sewing room, and
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  Speaker 1: that's where she smokes her cigarettes, and you can smell
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  Speaker 1: the smoke all over the house. It's a madhouse. They're
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  Speaker 1: in their room having sex and we're in our room
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  Speaker 1: having sex in our full sized bed. There is one
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  Speaker 1: bathroom and the shower or does not work, so we
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  Speaker 1: all have to take bath. This is sheer torture for me.
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  Speaker 1: But I love this man. I often asked myself, why
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  Speaker 1: do I put up with this. I'm twenty nine and
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  Speaker 1: can do better. I can find a man with his
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  Speaker 1: own place, a great job, and sane parents. I have
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  Speaker 1: invested six years into this and I want him to
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  Speaker 1: stop being complacent and get us out of here. He's
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  Speaker 1: happy with the home cooked meals, watching movies with his parents,
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  Speaker 1: holidays with them, etc. But I want out. My mother
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  Speaker 1: came to visit me and she got a hotel room.
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  Speaker 1: I stayed with her for two nights and it was
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  Speaker 1: nice to take a shower, have a bed to myself,
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  Speaker 1: and not have to talk to his mother. My mother
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  Speaker 1: told me to be patient with him and things will
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  Speaker 1: work out. Should I move out and break up with him?
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  Speaker 1: Or should I follow my mother's advice? Can I change
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  Speaker 1: his mindset? Or is he too far gone. Please advise
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  Speaker 1: you guys have been living with his parents are long enough?
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  Speaker 1: And do you want to die from secondhand smoke? I mean, really,
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of what this is coming down to. There's
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  Speaker 1: so many things wrong with this letter that we don't
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  Speaker 1: really have the time to go into it. We really
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  Speaker 1: really don't. The thing about it is is I don't
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  Speaker 1: know why you have him. Figured this out on your own.
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  Speaker 1: You can't continue to stay here. This was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: be a temporary situation until he got a new job.
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  Speaker 1: Thank god he's working again. Now after six years with him,
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  Speaker 1: you're going backwards. He's becoming very comfortable, too comfortable with
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  Speaker 1: mom and dad watching movies and the home cooked meals
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  Speaker 1: and all that. You've been with him six years. He
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  Speaker 1: hasn't even proposed to you, and you know you can't
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  Speaker 1: change him. You can't change his mindset. He'll only change
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  Speaker 1: if he wants to change for you, and so far
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  Speaker 1: that hasn't happened. When I finished reading this letter, initially
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  Speaker 1: I had to go back up to the top line
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  Speaker 1: because I wanted to make sure you said that you
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  Speaker 1: know you were not married and you were just dating him.
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  Speaker 1: You're just dating him, You've just been dating him for
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  Speaker 1: six years? Any plans for the future, do you guys
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  Speaker 1: talk about it? Are you just content being with him
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  Speaker 1: for another ten years? Six years? I think you should
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  Speaker 1: get your own apartment by yourself. Let him stay with
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  Speaker 1: his parents, since he's loving it there so much. If
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  Speaker 1: there's any hope of you, guys ever being together, you
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  Speaker 1: being gone should help him make up his mind. If
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  Speaker 1: this is not what you want, why are you putting
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  Speaker 1: up with it? You even ask yourself that again, you
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  Speaker 1: need to find an apartment and move out today, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: what you got? Can I change his mindset? That's the question? Now,
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  Speaker 1: my question to you is the problem is change your
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  Speaker 1: own mindset? That seemed to be the problem. So you're
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  Speaker 1: worried about his mindset. I'm worried. I'm concerned with your
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  Speaker 1: mindset because you're the one and set your mind on
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  Speaker 1: doing this, this, this and that and here's what I
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  Speaker 1: what I really don't like that I'm here? What I'm
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  Speaker 1: not here? Where's your job? Why are you not working?
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  Speaker 1: Why are you not taking care of at least yourself?
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  Speaker 1: And so you dependent on him? Now you up in
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  Speaker 1: his ragged ass house with his mom and his dadd
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  Speaker 1: All this this, this got to be the worst sex
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  Speaker 1: in the world across the hall from somebody to mom
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  Speaker 1: and dadd and this got to be straight ignorant. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's who want to do that? I can't. I can't
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  Speaker 1: hill to be here my mama. That's my mama over
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  Speaker 1: there hill like that. I can't. I'm sorry. I just
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  Speaker 1: can't hand that kind of sex my mama over that
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  Speaker 1: highland while I mean you over here, Holland, that just
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  Speaker 1: don't work for me. Let's change your mindset. So basically,
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  Speaker 1: you went about your relationship completely wrong. You moved in
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  Speaker 1: and moved in with him, all right, that didn't work.
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  Speaker 1: Uh so y'all lost different thing. Now you didn't moved
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  Speaker 1: in with him and his mom. Y'all not married. Everything
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  Speaker 1: you've done is completely out of order. So you need
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  Speaker 1: to get yourself together, won't you, Like Shirley saying, get
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  Speaker 1: your own apartment. But let's get you a job. I
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  Speaker 1: don't hear that you have a job. You need a job.
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  Speaker 1: Get you a job so you can take care of you.
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  Speaker 1: You're twenty something years old, so anybody in there twenties,
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  Speaker 1: I'm big on this. Be able to take care of
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  Speaker 1: yourself first. Then we can figure out what we're doing
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  Speaker 1: and how we move forward. But right now I'm dealing
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  Speaker 1: with your mindset. I think it's your mind that we
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  Speaker 1: need to be talking about. If he is who the
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  Speaker 1: way he is, and he's like the way he is,
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  Speaker 1: so be it. Get your mindset together, and then you'll
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  Speaker 1: find you a man that's good and got the mindset
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  Speaker 1: that you want him to have. That's right, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: Why are we all always trying to change these men?
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  Speaker 1: Why are we doing it? It's not gonna happen. They
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  Speaker 1: do it on their own. Six years. Oh here, mama,
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  Speaker 1: holla and go at it with Daddy, and then mama
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  Speaker 1: now smoking and making cloe? What kind of closes you?
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  Speaker 1: What did you sew in? What is you making in
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  Speaker 1: this damn room? And everything you make it? This? Here?
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: I may a jumpsuit? Oh damn, Thank smell like Ben's
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: in the head mentor like one hundred in the soft pack.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want that. That's a salt pack. All right?
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  Speaker 1: All right, hold on, we're gonna hear from Junior coming
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  Speaker 1: up with part two of the Strawberry Letter for Today
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  Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: can I change his mindsets. We'll get back. Oh, mama, daddy,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, we got a
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is can I change
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  Speaker 1: his mindset? Twenty nine year old woman wrote this letter.
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  Speaker 1: She is in a relationship with a man that she's
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  Speaker 1: been dating. They've been together for six years. He lost
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  Speaker 1: his job. They had to move in with his parents
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  Speaker 1: in their two bedroom house. This happened back in twenty twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Her boyfriend lost his job. He's back working now, so
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  Speaker 1: she's thinking that, you know, since he's back working, they're
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  Speaker 1: getting ready to move out and move into their own place.
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  Speaker 1: Not the situation, Not the case here at all. The
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend is loving living with his parents. Why because he's
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  Speaker 1: getting home cooked meals, he gets to watch movies with
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  Speaker 1: his parents. It's been holidays with them. But she wants out.
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  Speaker 1: She's depending on this man to get them a house,
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  Speaker 1: to move them out, to do all these things. They
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  Speaker 1: live in this house. The shower is broken in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: They have one bathroom. They all have to take baths
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  Speaker 1: and this one bath The mom is a seamstress. She
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  Speaker 1: sews in the dining room. She smokes all over the house.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a mess. She's miserable in this place. But
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  Speaker 1: she's looking to her man, trying to change his mind
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  Speaker 1: to get him out of there, and that's not happening.
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  Speaker 1: She says she can do better, but she's not. That's
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  Speaker 1: basically the gist of the letter. Her mom came to
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  Speaker 1: visit her. She stayed with her mom in a hotel,
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  Speaker 1: got her own shower, her own bed. She liked that,
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  Speaker 1: but her mother told her not to break up with
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  Speaker 1: the man and to give it a little more time,
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  Speaker 1: be patient, and things will work out. What she wants
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  Speaker 1: to know is can she change his mindset or is
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  Speaker 1: he too far gone? Junior? What say you? What you got? Junior?
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  Speaker 1: I've seen these houses with these two bedrooms, wasn't bathroom?
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  Speaker 1: I know what this house set up looks like. I've
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  Speaker 1: been in there. I know what this is. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't they have a sex and they house. That's fine.
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  Speaker 1: But the problem I see how you took a shower.
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  Speaker 1: It over two years, your crazy look sitting your ass
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  Speaker 1: and that little last tub and that bath room, put
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: your knees in your chests, trying to wipe yourself down.
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  Speaker 1: It's all y'all in here bathing. I know what this
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  Speaker 1: looks like. You in here crying because you know that
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: shower head is rusted and it ain't working. I know
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  Speaker 1: you tired of this. You ought to be tired of
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  Speaker 1: a lot of things, changing mindsets. You need to change locations.
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  Speaker 1: It's what you don't care. What you need to do.
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  Speaker 1: If you get you a better man with his own place,
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  Speaker 1: go out there, get here them because you don't have
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  Speaker 1: to hit this. Aren't you tired of these old lass
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  Speaker 1: conversations with his mama without a cigarette, hanging out on
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  Speaker 1: sitting up there? Man about this? You know? And I
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  Speaker 1: when I first met Clidis Johnson it was nineteen forty five. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta be tired of these old lass conversations. Do
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  Speaker 1: you just stat that window that's over that kitchen's sake
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  Speaker 1: and just hold for a better future with that Curtin
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  Speaker 1: rod All? It ain't you tired of looking up there
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  Speaker 1: on that wall and seeing King and Kennedy just hanging
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: up there because he wouldn't the little lass house. I
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  Speaker 1: know you got to be tired of this. How many
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: times you're watching good times and you living in good times?
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  Speaker 1: How you watching this going them? How is you doing this.
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  Speaker 1: How is you in here with his parents? How long
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  Speaker 1: is you was sitting there with his mama watching Lady
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: Sings the Blue, watching Lady Sings the Blue with him
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  Speaker 1: mama and daddy, and they just rubbing their feet together
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  Speaker 1: on end of that couch. And these cigarettes won't stop.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't you tiling that that ass tray with twenty two
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  Speaker 1: butts in it? Just sitting up there on the town.
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  Speaker 1: You got to be tired of this? Can you change
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: your location? It's what I'm saying. Can you just change
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: your location? Do you have any money for a studio
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: with a working shower, just a studio? Just can you
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: just give it? At even heard the word astray as
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: the scene one. But she's slowing and stacking them up,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: and then they got the nerve to be over there
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: just across the hall. Give it it all, Give it
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: it all across the hall, and you just got the dirt.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: You couldn't touch me, so were across the hall, having
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: six You couldn't touch me in this house. Ain't you
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: tired of that quilp that she saw that you sleep on. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that quill that you're sleeping on. You got to be
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: tired of that quill? Oh, now, change that stell like smoke,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: like time, and said everything she's slowing smelling like smoke.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: You gotta be tired of talking to the postman every
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: day because they're coming right up to the bell box
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: and you're everybody saying, how you doing? Mister Williams? You
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: know you know, mister Williams, why don't you just get
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: out here? Forget mindset change your location shirt? That's all
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: I got. Fuck, you ain't got to take this. I
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: didn't like my mama the town every weekend so I
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: could shower up show. But you know what, you know
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: what Mama told her to stay m something? What's so
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: crazy about this? Ain't you tired of pulling them tires out?
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: That candy in that bathroom with them broken shelves and
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: the dish rag you bathing with it? How you do this?
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: How could you do that? All the holes in the rag,
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: the tiles got rag. You ought to be tired loo
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: at the hot water about on the back of that door,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: and that bad y'all tired looking That moon moves, thee
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: moon moving everywhere every day she got a brand new
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: moon moved. You ought to be tired of seeing. No,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: just don't make no sense. I can't do this. No, no,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: don't call ask us. You're too grown. You're twenty nine,
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: you're twenty four people using one tallet. People go, oh, man,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: I know walked everybody. Don't lock that doing it bath
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: from I know you've walked in and then seeing his
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: mama was sitting on that toilet. I know you've seen that.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: I know what you need. Now, baby girl, don't baby
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: girl me put your clothes off. She's she's twenty nine
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: and she can do better. So do better, better, do better? Yeah? Leave,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: Do we get your own apartment suspenders and white shirts?
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: Se me patting it? All right? Listen, man Wall that's
• 1:06:41
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• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this. You're listening Steve
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it is time now
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got junior? All right, Shirley,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: But let me tell everybody. Huntsville, Alabama, September first, Man,
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: I'm coming to town. We're gonna have us a good time.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Come on out, there and hang out with your favorite
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: play cousin for Labor Day weekend. I got time to
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: do one show. I'm gonna come in. I'm gonna come
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: out and gonna get your tickets right now and Huntsville
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  Speaker 1: Stand Up Live dot Com. All right, man, you know
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: I got one day because I gotta go get prepared
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: for some other things. But I'm while junior. You got
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: to go to the cigar boar while you there. Okay, man,
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: that's at the part that I have at the party
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: over there. So that's that's gonna do. Ye ask for
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: Marssa telling my sin Marsa, oh Marsa. Okay, I do
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: that man. All right, man, let's get to it. Let's
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: talk about the Serena Williams is on her fairwheel tool.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: She is gonna hang it up. Man. I am not
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: mad at her career. She did a great job. We're
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: gonna miss her though, because she brought so much to
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: the sport. I mean, looking at all the people that
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: she's influenced, all these young black tennis. She's still baby,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: She's still grand slams girl. Is not mad at you.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: Gonna sit down and do something. Mess coach be a
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: commentator makes some more money elsewhere. You still got it?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: Dream she is? She is a legend. Yeah, I give it.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: I give you the eight to ten years. That little
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: girl gonna be playing. You're watching sex her daughter by Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: her daughter. I think her daughter will be out there
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: also last week, man, we gotta talk about it. Did
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: y'all see Marshawn Lynch? You get a d U? Did
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: y'all's hear? Man? Yeah? Man? But beast mold the only
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: skittles in bananas? No, man, but but but my whole
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: thing is why you don't have a drive dollar? Yah? Yeah,
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: you know, why are you gonna drive? I don't like
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: seeing Marshawn. Marshawn got some great commercials. I know that.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: Every time I see a commercial, I go get it.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Whatever he said, yeah, somebody whatever whatever he's in. And
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: also we did talk about this earlier to Shaun Watson
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: didn't make an apology Friday about to all the women
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: who were involved in the sex scandal, miss Coompany. He
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: did make an apology. Let me ask all this about
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: their apology. Did you feel it was authentic or were
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: just like he's saying it to save face. How do
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: you look at this did we view this as this
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: was genuine? Well, I mean, how can you judge someone
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: within their heart? You know, I mean, because you had
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: all this other time to apologize. Yeah, I'm looking at
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: all the time that went by and you had time
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: to apologize, and then all Friday, all of a sudden
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: after the ruling, now you want to apologize. I thought
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: you should have just apologized when you got in Trump
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: in the first place. You think in the timing of
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: the apologize, I mean he apologized maybe, and um, I
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: don't know. We'll see what the NFL what the commissioner.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: The commissioners suspended for the entire Sea High season, So
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: for size, maybe he thought it would have meant guilt
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: if he apologized initially or something, you know, just to
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: be fair. He's suspended for six games and he can
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: play in the preseason. He just can't play in the
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: season open for six games. So we see gonna turn out. Man,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: I just had a question back. That's all all right, junior,
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  Speaker 1: thank you coming up at the top of the hour.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: What are some of your fondest memories of school. We'll
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  Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening to show,
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  Speaker 1: all right, So school is already back in session for
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: a lot of students and parents are happy and very
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: very relieved. Think back to your first day of school,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: and I think back now, was it stressful for you
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  Speaker 1: or were you always ready to go back to school
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  Speaker 1: after a nice summer break? What was your favorite subject
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: in school? All of these things. I mean, it makes
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: you think about that when when when August and September
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  Speaker 1: get here. How old were you when you had your
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  Speaker 1: first crush on someone? That's another good question. And what
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: sports or activities did you participate in? Were you excited
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: about the first day? I always was, you know what?
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: The first day to me was always about it. Depending
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: on what grade we talk like that ninth grade that
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: is grueling. I didn't like that ninth grade being a freshman,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: because you're a freshman at the high school. All of
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: this is new. Yeah, you're a freshman, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: just you just left eighth grade where you was the bomb,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the man, the man. Now you're starting at
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  Speaker 1: the bottom of the totem pole. And here we are
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  Speaker 1: ninth grade all the way to twelve. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: And back when I was in school upper classman, I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't say hayes, but they would give a freshman a
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  Speaker 1: hard time. Oh yeah, fish, what's happening? Yeah, they go
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  Speaker 1: give it to you. They gonna give it to you.
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  Speaker 1: If that's the same case. My daughter's gonna be a
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  Speaker 1: freshman this year, so oh is she? Huh? Josha can
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  Speaker 1: handle herself. I'm pretty sure. Yeah, don't forget who her
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  Speaker 1: mama is. Okay, and my daddy's girl right there and
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: then defend. And Carlin Junior can attest it. Man. The
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  Speaker 1: first day of college, you know, just going off to school,
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  Speaker 1: that was like, whoa, I don't know what. I'm scared
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  Speaker 1: as all get out, man on your own, waving you
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  Speaker 1: away from home? This is yeah, what about your first
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  Speaker 1: crush at school? What? What? How were you when you
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: had your first crush? Five? Five? So as I walk,
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  Speaker 1: I said, our backpacking last she got it all together, like, huh,
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  Speaker 1: you started way too color with you. I'm coloring with you.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: You canna help me stay in the line. But film
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  Speaker 1: sixth grade? Oh my god, yeah, sixth grade Regina Pringle, God,
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  Speaker 1: Regina Regina Pringle called guy. You couldn't tell me nothingbody
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  Speaker 1: Springle like the chips spring Yeah. I couldn't even make
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  Speaker 1: eye contact with I also scared. Look at that girl.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, same way I am with Haighlet today.
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  Speaker 1: That's the same level, same same level. Boy, that's Regina
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  Speaker 1: Pringle on that level. Boy, you got the high school
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: you had to crush on the girl Rember. Remember used
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  Speaker 1: to carry her books. Yeah, that was big dog. If
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  Speaker 1: everybody knew if you was carrying her books, they knew
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: what that meant. Yeah yeah, huh oh yeah, no, you
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  Speaker 1: knew you with somebody when you when you and your
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: girl shared a locker together. Oh my god. And then
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: y'all break up. Get your stuff out my locker, right, yeah,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: I'm friend to get I'm friend to get the janitor
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  Speaker 1: to change my damn called because I want you in
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  Speaker 1: my locker. Man, is that what you were trying? Yeah?
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: What about sports? I know you guys were into sports.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was that was the fun part. That
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: was easy. Yeah, that was easy. Going to practice to
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: foll school and you going to practice school. The problem
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: I ran track? My problem my head was I had
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: was we we we had like he said, we had
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: track crackers before school started, But it was that shower
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: shower after. I didn't like that part. It's just what Yeah,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: but I wanted to be clean, but it was I
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: wasn't used to taking no shower with no thirty part people,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: and there I was like, I'm gonna wait late. I'm
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: gonna be late every morning from my first class. I
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: gotta wait for y'all to clear out of here. All right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: coming up next to about twenty minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: we'll have more of a seed privatly morning show right
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening too well. The city of Vincent, Alabama,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: voted to disband its police department following racist texts between officers.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: The police chief and assistant police chief allegedly texted jokes
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  Speaker 1: about a pregnant slave to other officers. Here's a joke.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Get this. What do you call a pregnant slave? This
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: is what they were texting. What do you call a
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: pregnant slave? An unidentified officer responded, bogo bogo, bogo, buy one,
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  Speaker 1: get one free. Wow what? The text surfaced on social media,
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  Speaker 1: and the mayor of the city issued a statement that
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: appropriate action has been taken, meaning that the entire I
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: mean the entire police department has been fired. The Alabama
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: Sheriff's Office will now respond to emergency calls in that area.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Love it. I love it. Thank you.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: They fired everybody. Okay, but we've been talking about and
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: the police officers and police departments forever for a very
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: very long time. Finally someone's doing something. Yeah. It's just
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: sad that we don't know which ones we can trust.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: That's sad part about it. Man. We have no earthly
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: idea which was trust. Yeah, I'm glad you said that,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: because there are good police. There's a lot of good ones.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: They really are very much relatives of the police officers. Yeah. Man,
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: when you don't know who's good and who's not good,
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: many a police officers. Yeah, so when you get pulled
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  Speaker 1: over it's fifty fifty, you don't know what's going to happen.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm moving on. We'll have more of a
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll play around would you rather? Right
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  Speaker 1: after this you're listening to all right, guys, it is
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  Speaker 1: time for would you rather? For today? Would you rather
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  Speaker 1: win a million dollars and lose all your friends? Or
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: would you rather win fifty k and keep your friends?
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: I'm meant to hell with them? Damn friends, give me
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: this million dollars, I get some new friends, because because
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: when I get this million, I don't want them old
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  Speaker 1: friends asking me for nothing. No, damn way, I rather
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: picking two who I rode with? I want the million
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  Speaker 1: into hell. Well, I ain't got the phone noway, So
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: what we're doing? Okay? I think we're all in agreement
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: with that. What's a little fifty and is still over
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: here with the ragged Why am I doing that? Fifty? K?
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  Speaker 1: That's it? Good? Good now? But yeah, junior millions, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a million. I'm losing all my friend, matter of fact,
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: starting I'm gonna stop knowing as soon as I get
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  Speaker 1: to check, I'm right away. I thought you're gonna say,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna start with us now, y'all family that don't count,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: That don't count? All right? Would you rather have varied
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  Speaker 1: to think about this? Think about this before you answer.
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather have very skinny legs or a very
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: long neck? I'm gonna take the ones. When the Williams
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: gat oh the leg, long leg, he got some long
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: skinny legs, I'm taking me. I can't, no, I can't,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: but they are long. No, No, I don't want no
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: long nick. Though, that's not that's that's not good. I
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: don't look good with the nick I got now. I
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: don't know why I want a long one. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: a long neck then my turtle nick don't really look
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: like a turtle nick. You know what I'm saying. It's
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: like a regular, regular shirt right here? All right? Moving on?
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have a pet hamster or a pet tarantula?
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: One of them? The man, I don't want to rodent.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: I want hamster. Sorry, hems ain't number a cute ass
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  Speaker 1: name for a red I hate that. That's at that
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: gives me the creeps right there. Yah, I don't like
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: bugs because if you look over there in that tank
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: and you don't see that tarantula in the hen't we out?
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: We out? It's some stuff that'll make you leave your house.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: You out? Yeah, So you're taking a cute rat over
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: the over the better. He better enjoy that wheel because
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: he ain't gonna get out of there. He ain't never
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: coming out of there, all right. Would you rather have
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: the ability to read your mate's mind or would you
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: rather have the ability or would you rather your mate
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: have the ability to read yours? So you want to
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: read hers? You want her to read. You don't want
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: to read this line a whole lot. You don't want
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: to know what you got in there that she can't read.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: What everything ever? Over there? Just time? He don't like
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: me today? All right, coming up, it is our last
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: break of the day and we'll close out the show
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening all right? Here we are
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: last break of the day. Uh, thank you all for
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: listening as always. Steve, come on and take us home
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  Speaker 1: with your closing remarks to day. I have some really
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: really good information. I'm really really pleased with this line
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: of thinking because everybody has them, everybody has to deal
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: with them, everybody faces it. It's just so many people
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: lose the point of it. You know, the thing about
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: going through something, I think you can go through something
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: better if you know there's a point to it, you
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. People go to the gym to
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: work out if they're trying to get to a certain point.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: The moment you don't see the point of it, going
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: to the gym becomes ridiculous to you. It becomes harder
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: to you because all of a sudden it doesn't make sense.
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: So what I want to show you is how to
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: look at the point of something. And the thing that
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to you about is something that
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: everybody faces when they're trying to be successful, because everybody
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: is going to go through some difficult times. Everybody, I
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: don't care who you are, You're going to have some
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: difficult times. Everybody is going to have some challenges, challenges, difficulties, setbacks.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: You're going to have this. But listen to me, all
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: of this is part of the process to succeed. When
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: you are presented with these setbacks, these difficulties, and these challenges,
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: I want you to understand what they actually are. They
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: are actually test. Everybody gets tested. The reason you have
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  Speaker 1: to have the test is because tests are presented to
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: you to see if you're willing to go through the process.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: It's merely just to see if you're willing to go
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: through what it takes. The challenges, the setbacks, the difficulties.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: The test are just there to see if you are
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: willing to go through the process. Now, in being willing
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: to go through the process, it assures you something that
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  Speaker 1: when you pass the test and you reach your goal,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: that you will have a level of appreciation for it.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: I'll give you an example. Somebody use your card. I
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: don't recommend that they're not gonna take care of your
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: card or where you do, because they didn't pay for it.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: They're not making a note on it. They didn't have
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: to struggle to get the down payment. They didn't have
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: to make sure their credit was right. They didn't walk
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: in the bank and get turned down a couple of times,
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: then go back and fix their credit. Now they got up.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: That's why if you rent out your room to somebody,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: they're not gonna take care of your room like you
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: take care of your house, because they didn't go through
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: the process to get it. All they wanted was the
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: room because they didn't have to fill out the credit report.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: They didn't go down here. They don't have the mortgage.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: They don't know what it took to have to own
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: this house. That's why they didn't take care of their yard,
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: because they've written some people who writ don't take care
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: of the property because it ain't theirs. Now that's not
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: all renters. I'm just talking about the case of something.
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  Speaker 1: Because when you go through the test, it causes you
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  Speaker 1: to have an appreciation for now the test are necessary.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: The test teaches you things. The test provides you with
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: a lesson. Tests are merely lessons. You're gonna see these
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: tests again, and when you see them again, they won't appear.
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  Speaker 1: Is it nearly as difficult because you've already taken the
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: tests before and you've already passed it. The test also
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: strengthens you. All these tests you haven't. It's strengthens you.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: It's like lifting weights. Oh it's heavy right now. If
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: you put them fifties in your hand, that's heavy weight.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: But if you keep lifting fifties after a while, you
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: can lift seventies, but them fifties. But guess what them
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: fifties did. That was so hard that you felt like
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: dropping and you needed a spotter. They made you stronger.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: Though the tests make you stronger, the next thing that
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: the test does for you is it makes you experienced.
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: Because now that you have these tests under your belt,
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: you know something you can turn around and share with
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: people how to get past the tests because you've seen
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: them before. This is the reason that you have challenges, setbacks,
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: and difficult because you are being tested. So when God
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: gives you the thing that you're asking for, you will
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: have a level of appreciation for it. You will have
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: learned the lessons that it takes to maintain it. You
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: will have been strengthened by the process, and you will
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: become experienced by the process. Here is the last and
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: main thing that the test does for you, These tests
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: that they're presented to you. Old people have said it
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: a thousand times. You cannot have a testimony without the test.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: How can you share this experience with anybody? How do
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: you tell a young person what to do if you
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: ain't been through nothing. How can you teach me how
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: to play golf and you don't play golf? It's impossible.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: You can't be the swim coach and you can't swim.
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry you can't. You got to have gone through
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: the process. It's the process and the test that gets
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: you to the point. But you can't have a testimony
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: without a test. You'll have nothing to say in your life.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: If you've never passed any tests, you will have no
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: story to tell. So all of you that are being tested,
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 1: you're working on your story. Now. What story will you
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: tell your children? What story will you tell your grandchildren?
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 1: What story will you tell young people who need minering?
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: What story will you tell people who may look up
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 1: to you and they think you got something. What story
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: will you tell. You've got to be tested to make
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: it happen. Pass the test, Deal with them and you'll
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  Speaker 1: be fine. Those are my closing contests. No purchase necessary,
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• 1:26:42
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