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Couples Argument, Fortune Cookies, Beastmode, Jay Spot and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know, y'all back
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  Speaker 1: all suit on the down, giving them move like the
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  Speaker 1: milking buck bus things and its cub good it. Steve
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  Speaker 1: har listening to movie together for STU. Please, I don't
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  Speaker 1: join by join me to be doing. Men. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn you are you gotta turn the turnour You
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  Speaker 1: got to turn them out to turn the water the
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  Speaker 1: water go. Come come on your back. Uh huh, I
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  Speaker 1: sure will. Good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice.
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Okay, okay, here's what I want
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  Speaker 1: to share with you. Stop complaining. So I had to
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  Speaker 1: let you see how I let that one sit for
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  Speaker 1: a second. Stop complaining. Do you realize without us even
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  Speaker 1: thinking about it, oftentimes we just complain about stuff and
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  Speaker 1: it comes up in such subtle forms. Man, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know why they're still letting that lady work there. Man,
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  Speaker 1: If they don't fire this woman, man, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. She driving me praise. She always
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  Speaker 1: got something to say. I bet to day though, the
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  Speaker 1: way I'm feeling right now, I bet she'd been not
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  Speaker 1: saying nothing to me today. M yeah, yeah, because day
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  Speaker 1: it today it. I'm sick of her running her mouth.
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  Speaker 1: Last time she said something to me, I should have
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  Speaker 1: said something to it. You know what I'm saying. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just giving you a small example of how it starts
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  Speaker 1: to snowball once you start to complain. It's it just
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  Speaker 1: carries over into so many things. Man, Stop complaining about
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  Speaker 1: your car, Stop complaining about your bus pass, Stop complaining
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  Speaker 1: about your kids. Can't seem to get it together, Stop
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  Speaker 1: complaining about your man can't seem to get it together.
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  Speaker 1: Stop complaining. Stop Have you noticed? I'm just asking, have
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  Speaker 1: you noticed that in all of your complaining, it has
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  Speaker 1: provided not one solution. The reason I'm telling you to
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  Speaker 1: stop complaining because God is able. Because God is capable.
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  Speaker 1: He is capable and able of fixing anything, capable and
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  Speaker 1: able of curing anything, capable and able of allowing you
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  Speaker 1: to get too adjusting to things, and capable and able
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  Speaker 1: to strengthen you to get through and change anything. But
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  Speaker 1: the key here is God is capable, and God is able.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of times I find myself complaining because I
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  Speaker 1: have not used my greatest asset, that's my relationship with God.
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  Speaker 1: You all have one. Now. You may not have nurtured it,
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  Speaker 1: but you have one because God created you as his child.
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  Speaker 1: He's available to you now. The fact that you ain't
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  Speaker 1: went to him. Okay, once again, who faughthers that? Stop
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  Speaker 1: complaining until you strengthen your relationship with God and formulate
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  Speaker 1: this relationship. You don't have enough weapons. You ain't got
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  Speaker 1: a big enough shield to fight this thing called life.
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  Speaker 1: It just keeps coming. Man, And unless you develop a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with God, you need a partner in all of this.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you got another route you're gonna take. But every
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  Speaker 1: successful person I know personally has a relationship with God.
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  Speaker 1: I have some really really some people that's kind of
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  Speaker 1: up there in the success term in terms of business
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  Speaker 1: and money and statute. I'm just talking about that portion
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  Speaker 1: of success. And then I have a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: who are very successful in their spiritual life, who have
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  Speaker 1: become great men of God and women of God. But
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  Speaker 1: look at all of them, and all of them have
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  Speaker 1: substantial amounts of you know, possessions and things like that. Also,
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  Speaker 1: most successful people I know have that even if you
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  Speaker 1: saw them never with a big lot of house and
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  Speaker 1: a lot of money, or stuff like that. They had
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  Speaker 1: so much respect, so much love, so much power was
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  Speaker 1: given them from people that their life was rich in
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  Speaker 1: that area, you know, like a man Nu the King
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  Speaker 1: or something like that, or Gandhi or somebody who lived
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  Speaker 1: their life in service, or Nelson Mandela who came out
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  Speaker 1: and just man, people put stuff at their feet because
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  Speaker 1: of their service. So all successful people I know have that,
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  Speaker 1: Every last one of these people that I know, they
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  Speaker 1: have relationship with God. They used the tool that was
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  Speaker 1: available to them to give them the strength, the bullets,
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  Speaker 1: the arrows, the slings, the shield to fight this thing
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  Speaker 1: called life and have the most valuable partner right there
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  Speaker 1: by their side. They heavily father God because he will
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  Speaker 1: help you get through this thing called life. Man, stop
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  Speaker 1: complaining all the time. It's not fixing anything. Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you do yourself a favor and strengthen your relationship with God? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Why can I never get over? Well you have not
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  Speaker 1: because you asked not. Man, how come I always got problems? Well,
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  Speaker 1: you keep trying to solve them yourself and taking them
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  Speaker 1: to your friends. You keep trying to do them with
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  Speaker 1: your own thought process. Who are you? I keep telling you? Man,
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  Speaker 1: You're going through stuff you ain't got no business going through.
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  Speaker 1: And if it's you going through something over and over
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  Speaker 1: and over and over, and the same problem keep coming
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  Speaker 1: back to bite you again, all that's saying is you
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  Speaker 1: still ain't strengthen your relationship with God. It's your relationship.
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  Speaker 1: He's not gonna make you have one with him. He
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  Speaker 1: is a perfect gentleman. He only comes into your life
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  Speaker 1: when you invite him in. But for those who do
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  Speaker 1: invite him, men, they have a distinct advantage on their
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  Speaker 1: road to success, a distinct advantage. You can do it
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  Speaker 1: without him. Trust me, you can. How far you get.
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  Speaker 1: I can't promise you nothing, how well you handle it
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  Speaker 1: when you arrived there, I can't promise you nothing. How
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  Speaker 1: long you're gonna stay there, I can't promise you nothing.
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  Speaker 1: How difficult it's going to be without him, I can't
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  Speaker 1: give you that. It's going to be far more difficult.
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  Speaker 1: But you can. Something can happen, and you know, receive
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  Speaker 1: a measure of success. And you think you and this
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  Speaker 1: move you made, and you can describe it as I
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  Speaker 1: got lucky. I happened to be in the right place
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  Speaker 1: at the right time. I got lucky. Lucky is usually
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  Speaker 1: how other people describe other people's success. Poor, he was lucky,
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  Speaker 1: he was right there. Well, let me tell you what
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  Speaker 1: luck is. Luck is when hard work bumps up into opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: If you've been working hard as something, an opportunity presents
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  Speaker 1: itself that comes a match. That's not luck. But now,
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  Speaker 1: if you haven't done that on a repetitive enough basis,
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  Speaker 1: that opportunity could present itself one time. You got to reconnect.
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  Speaker 1: Stop complaining, man, come on, listen to me. Stop complaining.
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  Speaker 1: It hasn't fixed a single thing in your life. And
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  Speaker 1: if your chronic complainer, it's because you really really have
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  Speaker 1: not fixed your relationship with God. He'll smooth it out
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  Speaker 1: for you. That I can tell you for a fact.
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  Speaker 1: I know that for a fact. He smoved mine out.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's go, everybody. It's your shooting James around
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  Speaker 1: with the Steve Hobby Morning Show about to come on
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  Speaker 1: right now. And I am so proud of you. You
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  Speaker 1: made it through Monday. You made it through Tuesday. And
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  Speaker 1: look at you all up in a hump day. Put
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  Speaker 1: your hands together for she bad? What's up? Humpy day?
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  Speaker 1: Put the hump in your back? Good morning, Jack morning everyone,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning baby, it's hump day. It's a hump Day.
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  Speaker 1: It's hump day. Call up around hump day, baby, that's right, Jaan.
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  Speaker 1: He turned my Micah yeah, and I'm doing a humpty dance.
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  Speaker 1: Well people, wait, My next humper on the show is Junior?
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  Speaker 1: What up? Humper A humping That's what I'm doing, humping
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  Speaker 1: around morning everybody, King of Franks and a humper himself.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all give it up for time because I'm about to
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  Speaker 1: That was them jam. That was the jam. That was yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and nobody knew Tupac was in that room, Pokahead and
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  Speaker 1: rock Yeah, yeah, yeah, but he could tell he wasn't
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  Speaker 1: gonna be that long. Ye when you see the look
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  Speaker 1: at Tupo, he ain't gonna be he got win none
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  Speaker 1: of that stuff. They knows. I ain't putting these wigs
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  Speaker 1: on and I ain't wearing a low. I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 1: out here shirtless. I'm gonna be late next time y'all
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  Speaker 1: see me. I'll be shirtless. Okay. How you're feeling today? Check?
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, so good today. Yesterday I felt really bad.
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  Speaker 1: But you know when the mic come home, it's time
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  Speaker 1: to go to world really bad. All Yeah, just my
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  Speaker 1: job and just my job, because see, I know y'all,
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  Speaker 1: I know y'all, I know how y'all are. I know
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  Speaker 1: who y'all got in the glass, and y'll break the glass.
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  Speaker 1: You got earthquake and shell underwood in a glass and
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  Speaker 1: break the glass and then they'll be here. So yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know how you do. And then you can put
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  Speaker 1: earthquake and nobody would know the difference because all you're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna do a girl like that. Yeah, that's the
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  Speaker 1: thing I lack about Shell. Shella do a joke about
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  Speaker 1: Shell before you do a joke and do a better
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  Speaker 1: joke than you. You can't she beat out need Brown.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm feeling good because last night I had my
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  Speaker 1: farewell party at the Jay Spot club on my family
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  Speaker 1: came out. Man, they dogged me out, but we had
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  Speaker 1: a good time. And while I did with this Chemo,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it closed up to like can handle
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  Speaker 1: us because trying to deal with both of us, so
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  Speaker 1: it looks like a little roast j D. It is
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  Speaker 1: beyond a rope. They went in beyond a rope. But Jay,
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  Speaker 1: now you said farewell, there's farewell to the club. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna deal with the chemo, Carla, and then I'll
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  Speaker 1: see where I'm at for a while. But right now
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  Speaker 1: I gotta deal with the chemo. Okay, all right, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Well you strong yet a chemo club? Are you? Are
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  Speaker 1: you for real? Right now? Does that really come out
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  Speaker 1: of your mouth? All right? We got a great show
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  Speaker 1: lined up for you today. Coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, we're gonna talk about what couple's longest
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  Speaker 1: running arguments have been. That's gonna be inside something funny, guys,
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  Speaker 1: who get ready for that? Right after this you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Stow All right, guys, so it's time for something
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  Speaker 1: funny now. You know, no matter what it is you
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  Speaker 1: and your significant other argue about, there's a good chance
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  Speaker 1: the thing you're fighting about is something most long term
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  Speaker 1: couples deal with. Now, this is according to doctor Pepper Schwartz,
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  Speaker 1: who studies love. I like that she studies love, she
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  Speaker 1: studies sexuality, and she studies commitment and works to help
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  Speaker 1: couples in long term relationships. The longest Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so she's she's kind of an expert in that field.
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  Speaker 1: The longest run For the longest running argument, I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to the longest arguments. The longest running arguments are the
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  Speaker 1: ones with the most at stake. Okay, they're the ones
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  Speaker 1: with no conclusion that keep coming up. And she said
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  Speaker 1: they are the most common fights couples have. Here we go, okay,
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  Speaker 1: here we go. Extended family drama. That's it. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let me explain that we get to choose our partner,
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  Speaker 1: but we're stuck with their family, okay, for better or worse.
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  Speaker 1: From the broke brother who always asked for money, to
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  Speaker 1: the father in law who drinks too much. These family
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  Speaker 1: issues lead to fights because there's never an end to it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want your mama over here, but she my mama,
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  Speaker 1: and she can come over here over there and see
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  Speaker 1: yours just much my house and your damn house and mama, mama.
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna see that there and talk about my
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  Speaker 1: damn mama. Now, you're not got your mamma on your
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  Speaker 1: side of the house coming all over the damn How
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  Speaker 1: she can walk in your room in the bathroom outside
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  Speaker 1: of my mama. You ain't gonna talk to your mama
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  Speaker 1: in the garage. If you want to talk to your mom,
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  Speaker 1: that's one of you. That's the one that's one and
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  Speaker 1: that's it's never ending. Right. Here's another one. Ongoing day
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  Speaker 1: to day frustrations, for instance, small but lingering frustrations over
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  Speaker 1: not doing the dishes or taking out the trash. They
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  Speaker 1: can lead to really dish and I'm gonna here buying
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  Speaker 1: all approaches now I'm working. I'm buying approaches. Now I
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  Speaker 1: gotta watch the damn dishes too. Really, where are you
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  Speaker 1: the one I'm not working? I'm tired. I'm tired. I
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  Speaker 1: don't feel you are too tired, you too tardy me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a contractor. I'm a building contractor. I am not
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  Speaker 1: a dishwatching. That's why I got you did the damn
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  Speaker 1: the dish watching. You know what? You know what, Raymond,
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be paper plates tomorrow. We're gonna solve this.
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  Speaker 1: Don't be no plates in here. I eat on the
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  Speaker 1: way here. How about that? I ain't got her plate.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so shad you say. That's that's another argument. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's another one. All right, here we go. This is
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  Speaker 1: a big one right here. Drifting apart, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: when you feel your connection isn't as strong as it
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  Speaker 1: used to be. That could lead to resentment. It could arguments.
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  Speaker 1: I know, you ain't trying to kiss me and my mom?
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  Speaker 1: Did you? But we don't do that now? Kissing that mouth?
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  Speaker 1: What is your kissing? Me? Disgusted? Oh, I can't get you.
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  Speaker 1: I can't slip you some tongue and that would you?
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  Speaker 1: I wish you were You didn't change, You didn't change. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now. You put ting my mam.
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  Speaker 1: But I swear I want a divorce. Don't you do that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: We were working on trying to pick on the cheek
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  Speaker 1: on the backs. Can a patch you on the backside?
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  Speaker 1: How about that? No backs, but on the backside. I
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  Speaker 1: can't do that either. You were like that they're heading? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: here here's another big one. Conflicting parenting philosophies, So couples
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  Speaker 1: won't always agree about the right thing to do when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to their kids, and this can lead to
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  Speaker 1: long standing fights. You know, the boy need his ass beat. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: he needs his ass beat. Look listen the boy. What
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  Speaker 1: did he do? What did he do? I'm sitting there
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  Speaker 1: watching TV. He changed the damn challenge. I need you
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  Speaker 1: to go in there and beat this behind, just to
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  Speaker 1: be the child for changing theme, for changing the channel.
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  Speaker 1: What around with you if you let if you let
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  Speaker 1: this go, you let other stuff. We next thing, you know,
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  Speaker 1: he'll be cussing you out. Let Let's let's let's start
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  Speaker 1: with it. You watch too much TV anyway to do
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  Speaker 1: with it. But you don't even need to be Why
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  Speaker 1: don't you go to bed and get ready for work
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  Speaker 1: in the morning. I know, said, oh, I'm a grown
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  Speaker 1: ass woman and woman the woman. But he said he
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  Speaker 1: wanted him to go in there and beat the ball. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I thought he was a woman woman about to fight
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  Speaker 1: about who the man. We're so used to being a woman.
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  Speaker 1: That is an argument, always the woman. Let's that's I'm
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  Speaker 1: always the woman? All right, that's another yeah, jealousy. All right,
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  Speaker 1: we was at the party. I need to know. You
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  Speaker 1: need to tell me what was so funny because I
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  Speaker 1: like laughing too, Jennifer saying something, I mean, Jennifer jok
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  Speaker 1: and I know, Jennifer, Jennifer, ain't that damn funny? My laughing?
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  Speaker 1: You were not only when you laugh you have your
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  Speaker 1: head back laughing. Just two kids, just here you kids
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  Speaker 1: and you sholder grabbing laughing. I'm saying, yeah, show the jicken.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know I can go to bed, I
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  Speaker 1: can go to bed. Tell me what the joke was.
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  Speaker 1: You tell me Jennifer joke, and then I'm gonna see
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  Speaker 1: about Hey, I'm gonna wait for the punch laugh ahead ahead,
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  Speaker 1: Jennifer talking about Jennifer was talking about somebody. Hell, get
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  Speaker 1: to the joke joke Joe to the funny about she said,
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  Speaker 1: not not said, I haven't known this. I haven't known
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  Speaker 1: this girl almost thirty as men. I went to school together.
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  Speaker 1: She ain't never told me a knock knock, knock knack
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  Speaker 1: what I needed to do, almost him, knock knock, knock
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  Speaker 1: your answer, knock knock both of y'all out. And that
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  Speaker 1: was another argument. Okay, but last last one. We don't
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  Speaker 1: have but a little bit of ton uh financial stress.
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  Speaker 1: That's huge, Yeah, you take it. So you want to
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  Speaker 1: tell me exactly we're fifteen hun dollar win? Can you
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  Speaker 1: explain that to me? I don't I don't know what.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what. Well you you got you got phone,
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  Speaker 1: new bags and shoes in there. Yeah, but I don't
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  Speaker 1: I don't really look yeah, yeah, all right, we gotta go.
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  Speaker 1: Well I don't like that, Carla, Now we gotta go
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  Speaker 1: all right, Look coming up next nephew would run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harpy Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, entertainment news,
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  Speaker 1: some really sad news to report to famed author Tony
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  Speaker 1: Morrison has passed away. Yes, that's a that's a big
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: loss right there, and other entertainment news. Tyrese throws shade
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  Speaker 1: at the rock again again. Yea, let it go, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let it go with your candid asses, let it go.
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  Speaker 1: But right now it is time for the nephew would
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back. What you got for us? Nest
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  Speaker 1: church parking lot, church parking lot? See it women church?
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  Speaker 1: Got it parking all right? When you pull your car
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  Speaker 1: in the parking come on? Hello, oh yeah, Brendan, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: how to reach you? How you doing? Uh, Brita. I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to make sure I got the right person.
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  Speaker 1: You're the person that you work at. The First of all,
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  Speaker 1: I go to uh, my name, my name Calvin, brother Calvin.
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  Speaker 1: But I go to Saint Missionary Baptist Church where you Ok? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, so everything everything's fine up. Well, I got
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  Speaker 1: a little issue and I'm trying to get to the
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  Speaker 1: bottom of it. Now. You work in the before service start.
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  Speaker 1: You work in the parking lot on yeh yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: you tell people where the parking stuff right right right?
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: What are you looking for? Some employment? You want to
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  Speaker 1: you want to join us? Nah? Nah nah to see
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  Speaker 1: the issue I got, man, I've been dealing with this
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  Speaker 1: probably about the last two months. Nine Okay, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to take So the problem is when I
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  Speaker 1: come to the church last couple of months, man, I've
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  Speaker 1: been I've been coming like my my my, my regular
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: card and broke down on me. So I had a
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I got an old van that I've been to hear
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, yeah, you know, I got old van
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: and I've been using to get around in so nah
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: for the last two months, I've been riding in it
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: when I come to the church. You know you and
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I find out who you were, but you keep sending
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: me to the back of the parking lot. And then
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: but you know I noticed now nah bro no on
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: the reel. So you're sending me to the back, and
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I'm noticing when I see cars as like two thousand
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: and ten, two thousand and fifteen cars. We'll listen. We
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: don't have new uh set place where we put model car.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: You know, I just I just direct the traffic. Brother. Okay,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: So so you're trying to tell me for the last
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: two months you just direct traffic. But you got but
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: you directed me to the back every time, but a
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: car behind me or car in front of me, it'll
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: be going to the front. NA. Where you getting this
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: information from me? I I didn't seen you man or
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: send people to the front to park. I haven't seen
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: you do No. I just I just put you know,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: the bigger vig who's in the in the back and
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: um uh certain you know it's really no scatter if
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: if you come in, I just I just direct you
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: to the right the left. It's really nothing to it. Really,
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: So you're not trying to say so so my my
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: band being a ragged it ain't the reason why I'm
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: being Noah brot no brot no, no, no, I know
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: that's not what we're about. Na, Okay, I'm sorry you
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: feel that way. I mean, so I guess this Sunday, Yuh,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this Sunday,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: make sure, no, no, let me tell you right now
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: when my van pull up there Sunday, I'm gonna tell
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: you right now, if I get sent to the back,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna be gonna No,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem if I get sent to
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: the back. You know now, you don't have to cust
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: to just just calm down. It's it's not it's not
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: that serious. No, it is that serious. Cause see what
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: already know. I know I got a ragged ass, man,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I know that. I know that, but I see that's
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: the reason why I'm getting sent to the back. And
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: I know it because the car I had been fol
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: y'all were sending me up front, so I already No,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm telling you right now, Brendan, I'm telling
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: you right now, it's gonna be a problem if I
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: get sent to the back. Brother, you just singled me out,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: and no, no, did you know I didn't single you out?
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: You you are the person that has been sending me
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: to the back, Dude, No, No, I haven't. Hey, man,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: why are you keep Why why are you sending why
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: why are you accusing me? I ain't got because I
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: hadn't seen it. No, you are, You're calling me. You're
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: calling me out of the blue, and you're accused me
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: of something that I'm not doing. No, No, you just
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: sent my ragged ass band into the back. You didn't
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: you have done it, Yes, yes you haven't. You sent
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: all the pretty cards up front. That's what you're doing.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: But I tell you what comes suddenly gonna be a problem.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Threaten me? I mean now, now, listen, we can meet
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: up at it, we can meet up in before any
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: cards get there. How about that. I don't care how
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: you want to do it, Brenda, but you actually do
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: know how you want to do so bring it then. Okay,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know my card. Yea, my van gonna
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: be up, rock comes, give give band. It's me and you.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: How about that? You want you want? You want to
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: talk tough tony stuff. Oh oh okay, so you are.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: You're sweating all up now you're all right? So good
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: now like you already did, so, I guess I'm matching you. Okay, Well, no,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna call listen, brother, brother, listen, You're not gonna
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: call my phone and threaten me and tell me what
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: you what you think I did when I didn't do it.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I've told you, man, you've been sending me to the
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: damn bad man as we passed. What you thought? Okay,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: what it is? No, it's what I know. It's what
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I know, Brendan, it's what I know. Okay, you didn't
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: you didn't see you at right now? Okay, you know
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: you know where you got working. You know what, I'll
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: tell you what you come Sunday. That's you. That's damn Brenda. No, no, no, no, no,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: no no. How about what you're doing right now? What
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: you mean what I'm doing right now? I'm at work
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: right now? Oh oh so you you at work calling
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: me about some bull parking spot? Oh okay, oh look
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: at the custom Christian, Now look at you. No, look
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: at the custom you no, no, no, matter of fact
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: you Okay, if you want to do something, let's do
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: it now, parking lot. I don't, I don't care. We'll
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: be at okay. Okay. That's one thing you're not gonna
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: do is disrespect me. I'm telling you that right now.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Brother Calvin, you bring him gonna fold you like a
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: wet piece of paper. You don't know who you're fucking with. Okay,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I hadn't been locked up six seven years. I'm just
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: in the church, try and get my life together. And
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: you think you're just gonna talk to me, you got
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: another thing coming, brother, I'm gonna tell you that right now.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: So if you want to get it off, meet me
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: in the parking lot right now. I give you an
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: hour to get there your piece tonight. Now you're trying
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: to scare me with your with your background. I know
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: you're trying to scare me with your background or something
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: like ever. Then you I ain't know you have been
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: in jail. What's the wrong one. I'm just gonna say this.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Do you know Leicester that that also he also had
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: the cars parking? Would you try to buy buy yourself
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: out of this? People, I'm about to lay with you
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: now you're talking about I know a Lester. Okay, okay,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Leicester is the person to tell me to call you.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: This is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harby Brenda. Your
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: boy Leicester in the parking lot got me the frank call.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Yah y I brought the lockdown out of you? Man?
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: Did I bring the lockdown out of the strangle? Let
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: y'all got me out here talking reckless? I should who
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: passed it over here? This boy hanging there, bro and
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: and do this for me. Man, tell me this. What
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: in the land? Man, It's Steve Harvey Radio Man. Hey man,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: if you see somebody's Sunday pull up in a van,
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: show them some love, baby, show them some love. I
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: might have to call out this week and my heart
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: can't take it. You fights, I have seen fights. Oh
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: some people. You ain't never seen that video on the
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: people getting him too old? It was an old people
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: fighting deacons. Well, listen, thank you, nephew, we appreciate that.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we got
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well, some sad news to begin
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: our entertainment news report today. Famed author Tony Morrison has died.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Miss Morrison was eighty eight years old. She passed away
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: at a New York City hospital, according to her publisher,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: and there's no word yet on the cause of her death,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: but her family said she'd experienced a short illness, which
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: lets us um know that she didn't suffer very very long. Um.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Miss Morrison's first novel, The Bluest Eye, was published back
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy. She won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: in nineteen eighty eight for Beloved and remember Beloved, Oprah
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: was in that and Tandy Newton yeah uh. And then
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: she won the Nobel Piece the Nobel Prize for Literature
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety three. Her most recent work was twenty
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: and fifteens, God Saved the Child. Miss Morrison leaves behind
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: two children and we hear, of course at the Steve
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, send our heartfelt condolencence to the Morrison family.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: She wrote, she is the most highly decorated African American
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: author in history. Wow, in the history. Yeah wow, A
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: legends true allegend man. And to writing. You know you
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: we all right, but that's a hard job to stay
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: stay focused like that and kind of lonely sometimes. Yeah
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: it is. Yeah. You write by yourself and you have
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: all these characters. You have to use your imagination. Yeah yeah,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: very yeah, very much so. Talent. Yeah, r I p
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: Miss Tony Morrison and other entertainment news. Now, remember back
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: when Tyrese was mad at I mean he was really mad.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: He was like big mad at Dwayne the Rock Johnson
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: for doing the fast and the Furious spinoff, remember that
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: all over social media and everything. Well, now that Hobbs
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: and Shaw's box office numbers are in and it was
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: number one over the weekend, Tyrese wasted no time throwing shade.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Tyrese shared a screenshot of an Instagram headline with the
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: title Hobbs and Shaw has lowest Fast and Furious box
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: office opening since Tokyo Drift. Then he wrote in a caption,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I have to show my respect for one thing he tried.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Folks called me a hater and attacked me for speaking out.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Breaking up the family clearly doesn't have the value that
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: one would assume it does. You know what, maybe maybe,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: oh you know what, maybe, just maybe the Rock and
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: the crew will come dance with us again for Fast ten.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: We can all hug it out and get back to
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: giving the true fans who have supported this franchise for
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: twenty years what they want. Not hating, I'm just pointing
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: out the facts. Shortly after the post, uh Tyrise deleted it. Well,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: you know what I saw that was not hating or
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: was it hating? Which one wasn't? I saw Hobson Sean
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: It's a great movie and not anywhere in the movie.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Did anybody else well where Tyre? Yeah, And nobody asked
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: what are he coming on scenes? No, nobody yelled at hell, no,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I want my money. That Tyree ain't in the movie.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: So he mad because he's mad because they broke off.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: He wanted them to say with the Fast and Furious
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: family and not break off into their own name. He's
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: twenty five millions, not a movie guy, but he's the shade.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: He threw. Was saying that even though the movie was
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: number one, it didn't make what a lot of money.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: So that's the shade. Yeah, that's what he's saying. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: and it's still number one. It's still made what sixty
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: point eight million dollars? Sixty point eight I mean that's
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: a lot. You can't, you know, snub your nose at
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: that figure, you know, right, you're right? So yeah, well
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I'm Jay. Let's let's get to the news. Please, we're
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: gonna move Tyry. Let's see how you ted a Penegras movie.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Do anyway? It is time for me. We do love you, Tyre.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Turn off Jade, you can do that. It's time for
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: the news with missus An trip By now investigating the
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: recent mass shooting in North Carolina, north of California at
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: the annual Gilroy Garlic Festival. Remember that took place a
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. They're investigating that case now as
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: an active domestic terrorism It's already say that the white
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: gunman who killed three people and wounded many others on
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: July twenty eighth had a list of other attacks he
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: was superior to be planning, some on federal buildings, political organizations,
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: and religious institutions. The FEDS are also treating the killings
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: in a Passo the same Twenty two people were killed
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: in that attack, also by a white gunman who's suspected
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: of authorizing a racist to anti Hispanic manifesto. Meanwhile, officials
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: and sisters are still not sure about the motive for
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: the nine killings in Dayton, Ohio, where the gunman killed
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: his own sister, but that six of the nine people
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: shot to death were black. The FEDS say they don't
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: know why that happened. Meanwhile, President Trump has scheduled to
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: travel to both Dayton and Alpasso today. He's expected to
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: run to some residents, however, who blame his rhetoric for
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: the recent rash of deadly attacks. Including presidential hopeful and
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: El Paso native bed or Roar immigrants, specifically who he's
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: described as rapists and criminals, warning of an invasion, talking
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: about an infestation. He is in large part responsible for
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: what has taken place. He's invited violence. These are the
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: consequences for his actions. Many residents of El Paso were
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: incensed after Trump gave erroneous crime statistics about their city
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: and Dayton, Ohio may Or Nan Walley, She's got some questions. Look,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I'm disappointed with remarks. I mean, I think they've fell
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: really short. He mentioned like issues one time. I think,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: you know, watching the president over the past few years
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: on the issues of guns, he's been I don't know
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: if he knows what he believes. Frankert, we will see
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: what happens today. Barneys is closing its stores in Chicago,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Las Vegas, and Seattle. They're keeping about six other stores open.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Barney's New York was in the news a few years
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: ago when black customers complained that they were profiled and
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: followed around after making purchases, with a few accusing store
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: employees of actually claiming their credit cards didn't belong to
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: them and even calling the cops. On them after making
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: legitimate purchases. Sadly, the literary and black communities of morning
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: the death this week of Tony Morrison, who died of
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: pneumonia in New York City at age eighty eight on Monday.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Tony Morrison originally from Lorraine, Ohio. Her given name was
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Chloe Wafford. She became the first black woman to win
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: the Nobel Prize for Literature in nineteen ninety three. Has
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: never been entertainment for me. It is in the work
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: I have done for most of my adult life. I
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: believe that one of the principal ways in which we acquire,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: hold and digest information is via narrative that was part
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: of a Nobel speech. Tony Morrison dead at eighty eight.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: to show? Okay, So what is this? Okay, Junior? First poetry?
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: Now you're going deep and you're going to interpret fortune
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: cookie sayings? What is going on? I got other talents.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I'm just showing y'all how deep I am. Oh, y'all
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: don't even know what fortune cookies mean. See y'all be
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: looking at it. Y'all throw the paper away, But these
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: really means some stuff, and I can I can interpret.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, well, I'm gonna tell you I just ate
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Chinese food not too long ago. So yeah, and you
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: didn't understand your fortune. That's why we here. So okay. Um.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: This one said a beautiful, smart, and loving person will
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: be coming into your life. What that really saying is
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: he's about to cheat on you. That's what that means.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: That's what I got. I don't know how y'all didn't
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: get it. Wow, that's what I do. What about this one?
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: It says all your hard work will soon pay off.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: What that really means is your personal training is telling
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: you you lost one pound. Congratulations. Congratulations. That's all that
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: really means. These are fortune cookie readings that Junior is interpreting.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: I got. Okay. This one says, he who expects no
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: gratitude shall never be disappointed. I like that one. I
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: like that. I know you wouldn't like it till I
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: tell you what it means. What it means is you're
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: gonna write the report, but the supervisor is gonna take
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: all the credit. That's exactly what that means. Yeah, I'll
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: tell you. I found this out yesterday when I was
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: reading that's what that's the talent. Ain't nobody else doing this.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: You're not a good poet, So in your ass, in yours?
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Here we go. How about this?
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: When women hear this all the time, women hear this
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: all the time, trust your intuition. Well me and hit
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: is too. When we hear this saying, called upo lee,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: she found out? What place? She found out? What a
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: new place is called? Police? Are you moved out on her? Wow?
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Coming over them? All right, this one says observe all men,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: but most of all yourself. What they're really saying, it's
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: saying to other people's business, and mind your damn own business.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: That's that's what that really saying. This. Yeah, it comes
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: so natur Okay, all right, we've we've we've all heard
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: this one. It takes a lot of courage to admit
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: when you're wrong, or to admit fault. That that really
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: saying is stop lying and tell the truth. That's exactly
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: what that mean. I had a black woman tell me
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: that same thing. All right, we've all heard this one.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: With age comes what wisdom? I don't really mean that
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: they tell that to all old people. They don't we
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: don't have enough to say to them. And thank you.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: I think you might have talent. Fortune pie, yeah, fortune
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: cookie sayings with Junior. All right, coming up next to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: thirty four after the hour today, the President plans to
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: visit El Paso and Dayton. They don't want him there though.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about that right after that. You're listening to
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: show the President Trump is preparing to visit El Paso
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: and Dayton, Ohio. El Paso, Texas, of course, in Dayton, Ohio.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Today it appearances that will not be universally welcome as
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: the two cities grief from weekend mass shootings that left
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: thirty one people dead, yeah and many injured and rattled.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Former Texas Representative Beta O'Rourke said he doesn't think that
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: President Trump is welcome in El Paso in the wake
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: of the deadly shooting that left twenty two dead there.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: This president, says O'Rourke, who helped create the hatred that
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: made Saturday's tragedy possible, should not come to El Paso.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: That's what he tweeted. He says, we do not need
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: more division, We need to heal. He has no place here, guys.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: El Paso is a city of about six hundred and
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: eighty three thousand people with a largely Latino population. In
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: the city of Dayton. Mayor Nan Whaley encouraged people to
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: protest who are unhappy under mister Trump's upcoming visit to
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: the city of about one hundred and forty thousand. The
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: mayor of Dayton went on to say President Trump made
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: his bed and now he has to lie in it. Yeah.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: Dayton's mayor went on to say she would greet the
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: president in the official role as mayor, but she will
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: also tell him that his words weren't helpful and they
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: weren't you know, and they weren't. The people in Toledo
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: would be glad to see me. I'm going to Toledo
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: to meet all the people in there because they love It's.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Oh it's Dayton. Excuse me? Y? Yeah? Are you? Are
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: you bring? Do you have asked? The people in Deledo
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: love me and Deledo, So I'm going to Deledo. It's Dayton, Ohio.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: What is what the what is that? Are you on
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: a machine or of some sort? No, I'm clearing my
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: nostrils before I talk. Well, he's gonna really see though,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: Jay All jokes aside, He's gonna really really see, they
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: don't want you anywhere. No, they don't want you to
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: know where because it's your words that are so you know,
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: that are dividing this country. You know a lot of
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: people are blaming you, mister president, for you know, these
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: young guys you know that have the show. We have
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: said that on this show above. Just a matter of
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: time that somebody takes his words and use them. Yeah,
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: that's literally yeah, and that's what has happened. And um,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: you know he's blaming it on mental illness and a
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: video game, but that's illness. They always go in. They
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: don't ever want to go, guns, never want to go.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: But this is the president that said I can walk
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: down the street in New York. He said that and
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: he got elected. He got elected, Yeah, yeah, he got
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: He can't honestly think that he can go to a
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: city like El Paso, where you talked about Latinos and
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: you talked about immigrants, and it is a city that
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: is on the border of Texas and Mexico. So for
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: you to even think that those people want you there
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: this time, at this time, right now, it's just I
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: think he's unbelievable. But I think he is arrogant enough
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: to think that he surely really he is arrogant. And
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: now the mayor of El Paso, who was a Republican,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: he is welcoming the president. He has no choice. Yeah. Yeah,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: because and the president is expected to meet even in
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Dayton and El Paso, to meet with local authorities, first responders,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: especially the first responders. I mean, we have to say
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: hats off to them, the first responders um for a
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: job well done. But you know, especially in Dayton, Ohio, right,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: and that many people can get hurt. Do you remember
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: when a sandy that storm Sandy hit the New Jersey
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: area and President yeah, superstorm Sandy, and when a President
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: Obama went to New Jersey and he met with Chris Christie.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Remember that. Yeah, you know, people were so upset about that.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: But then so many people were like, you know, you
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: put your differences aside. Chris Christie was a Republican governor
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: at the time, you know, and as an Obama Democratic president,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: they were able to come together with the meeting of
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: the minds, you know. Yeah, but it's yeah, yeah, but
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: a part of that too though, the local people, like
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: the mayor of El Paso, and they want federal dollars too. Yeah,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? In New Jersey needed
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: federal dollars to help rebuild a Jersey shore, you know,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: after Superstorm Sandy. So that's what the mayor of El
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Paso is, right. So we'll see today, won't we. Yeah,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: you see, artist turns out all right? Well, coming up next,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: the nephew is here to make us smile again with
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: today's prank phone call that's coming up right after this.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show coming up at the top of
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: letter for today, subject I can't believe how naive I am.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Wait till you hear this letter. But right now the
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: nephew is in the building with today's prank phone call.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Nevuh m m.
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: This is so mean. This is me again, Jay, your
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: new boss. This is so damn me. Well, let's see
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: how I mean. Come on, your new boss, let's run it. Hello. Hello,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Jason place. Yester, how cannot help you? Hey, Jason,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: this is Lyle. I'm giving you a call out of
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: human resources. Right. How you doing? You're the former the
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: project guy out there. Yes, I am on the project manageers.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I cannot help you. Listen, you've been training an individual
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: out there, I think for the last month or so
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: you have, you've been training a Yes, great guy, um
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: doing great work. He's doing good. Okay, how is he is?
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: He coming along pretty good with everything? Oh? Man, he
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: picking up real good man. He learned to trade. I
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: mean he's picking up. Just let us love from me,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: pick up excellent, young welcome. And here's how many moon
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: weeks of training out there? I will say probably about
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: another week or two. Well, we let him, you know,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: put put him on his arm. Okay, think he'll handle
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: it efficiently? Oh yes, I think he would be a
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: great great employees. Okay, you've been with the company, how long?
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Going on about seventeen years? Yeah, my records are telling
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: me somewhere around sixteen plus, right right, Okay, you've been
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: with us quite a while. And first of all, let
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: you know we're grateful of you, of the work that
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: you're putting in. Well, man, I appreciate a man made man.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You have the company, man, and you
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: know being here to eat many years man. He let
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: you know, man, I love my company exactly. Listen, we
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: got a few adjustments we're gonna be making out there
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: on the plant. Here's what we're gonna do now, you say,
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: gonna be done in about a week or two? Yes,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: about a week? Okay, here's here's what we're gonna do
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: on that particular day that he gets released. And you
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: you definitely know he's ready for everything. Um, I'm gonna
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card as well
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: as the key to your office. What man, I'm gonna
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card that gets
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: you actually onto the prod pretty and you have you
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: have your own parking space too, don't you? Yes? I do. Okay,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: Now we're gonna need you to give it your key
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: card in your office key and um, well, we'll find
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: you another place to park. He's actually probably gonna be
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: parking in your space. Hold hold, what you mean you're
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: telling me to give him my key parking right, I'm
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: talking to your parking space, but your key card to
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: get you onto the property, a little bit electrical card there,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: right that as well as your office. He's gonna actually
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: be taking over as project manager. No, no, sir, I'm
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: not giving up nothing, sir, nobody to think over the
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: pocket manager. Let's let's first of all, sir, let's do this.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: Let's stone the language down. Okay, we're gonna find a
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: place for you, but for the time being, we're gonna
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: put you back into play until we find the game.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: I'm fignd the place of my place right now. I'm
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: not moving from nowhere. That's akay. I'm not getting said
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: to sign me nothing. I got seventeen years. Ope, Ain't
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: nobody said to sign means plays to move. You got
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: to understand that part down. I got seventeen years up
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: in him and chain a young guy and this guy
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: got a couple of months, and you're telling me the
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: other one to do what to me? Move me, Jason,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: this is a temporary move. We're gonna find something better
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: for you. No, you ain't know whatter this the project man.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody got that understanding. This has come from the
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: head and on the head and head is I know,
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: the head of people. This decision actually come from the
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: vice president. They ain't told me none of that. It
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: comes to me first. I'll tell you what, Jason, this
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: is something I'm supposed to probably not tell you. But
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: let me let me let you in on a little something. Yeah,
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: let me hand on something, because this is gonna be
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: some bug him because I shut the whole place up
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: out him. And I mean, let me explain something to you, Jason.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: This young guy that you've been training, he's actually the
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: nephew of the vice president. I don't give a about
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: no neshew or no vice president. Man, do you think
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: I care about some president telling him? Tell the president?
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: I said what I said? Yeah, man, the next you
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: who care about the nephew? They ain't never told me? Well,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: can I expect you to give your key over to him? Oh?
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Hell no, ain't you ain't nobody nothing. Definitely get the
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: law to come and get it. Ain't nobody getting nothing.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: I ain't leaving how that sounds. So all I can
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: ask you for is I need your key card and
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I need the key to your office. I need you
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: to empty out your things so we can move Victor
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: in there and you a place. This is just a
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: temporary slot right now, you them all, it ain't nobody
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: getting nothing saying okay, and I've been here. I tell
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: you what I gonna do. I go out there and
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I tempt slap this who love something okay, and then
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: I find out who is boll says or whoever did
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: nest the boat to beach and kick hit because I
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: ain't giving up nothing, and I'm talking about job y'all
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: with the wrong one, Okay, with the wrong one at
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: this time, because the an't nobody taking nothing. You're talking
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: about beating the Vice president's nephew. You're you're you're losing
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: control here, uh Jason, No, I ain't losing nothing. I'm
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: gonna think control. I'm gonna lose. And when I kick
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: h how that sounds? And I'm gonna kick the boat
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: to see you? All them? How that sounds? That makes
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: sound clear to you? Makes sense? We're trying to just
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: give you someplace to be temporarily until I find you
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: another slot. Ain't no other block. My slot is my slot.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick givest rats not how that sound to you?
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Turn All I'm asking is I need your key card
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: and I need the key to the office. Get all
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: your things out so I can get Victor moved in
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: within the next week. Ain't no, he's okay, all of them,
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: I don't give a how that sounds. I don't care
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: nothing about them, Okay, because I see you. I maybe
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: somebody out here today. Okay, I'm tired of it and
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: this ain't gonna happen to me. I'm gonna get security
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: to come over and walk you out. Okay, No, ain't
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: no security for to walk me no where. How that sounds.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: I came here, ain't buy myself. Ain't nobody to walk
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: me about the end? Are you having problems moving out
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: for the nephew, the nephew, Okay, the nephew is not
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: gonna come in here and take Okay, there's another that
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: you need to be aware of. Do you know who
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: the other nephew is? Hell no, I ain't never seen
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: no other nephew. I ain't know that wasn't nephew. Let
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: me tell you who the other one is? Who who
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: the other one is? The other one is the nephew
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Jason, you
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: just got pranked. Y'all lying with me? Man, Come on, man,
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: don't play with me. Man, y'all, man, this ain't no
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: Tommy Man. Y'all need to put that man. And y'all
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: don't know how long the brother man I worked I
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: worked my way up, man, he man ain't no just
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: just baby, y'all. But ma, man, y'all got me, good man,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I got you, man, I got I got one thing
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: to ask you. Man, what's the baddest radio show in
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: the land. That's Steve Harvey Morning Shot Man. Y'all don't
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: like what I mean? You played to this? Mean it's time.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need your car, kid and y'all. But ya,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: this happens every day. Yeah, real, you can't touched the nerve,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: he said. I know he's doing real good. He don't really, Yeah,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: he's gonna be all right. You know when we when
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: we let him go and release be ready. When he
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: said I'm gonna come to Maine. I'm gonna come to Maine.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: How long you've been there going on seventeen years? Sixteen? Yeah, salty?
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: But you know what that happens on the job every
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: day every day. Yeah, that's baby, that's how I go
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: down and you don't even know they're coming for you.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: You know you've been there seventeen going on twenty years. Yeah, yeah, man,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: he's doing a good job. Yeah, good good. Hey, where's
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: your key card? What? But you ever notice how the
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: hearing go out when they hear what they don't want
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: to hear me. Excuse me? What say that again? All right, baby,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: but that's the Blues and Jazz Supper Club. The Nephew
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: was coming back back by popular demand. I will be
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: the Labor Day weekend. Y'all come hang out with you boy,
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: Everybody in Maryland, everybody in DC, Virginia, come on upstage.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to play low. I want to keep going,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: but I want to saying with you today. But I
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: got to get these updates out. Always something Tommy. We're
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: gonna work on our number. But that's the Blues and
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: jast Summer Club Friday and Saturday. Two shows Friday and
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: two on Saturday. Stop that caller, and then and then
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: I will be in Greenville the very next weekend, Greenville,
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: North Carolina. That's Saturday, September the seventh, at the Greenville
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: Convention Center. Tickets on see right now. And they're going fast.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: They're going like hot cakes. North Carolina, North Carolina, Caroline.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: I love it. You know what, I actually get to
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: see my father law when I go to Maryland in DC.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: That's what. Okay, nice, nice, nice nice, Okay, that's my man,
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Skipper be his name Skipper y'all say, hey the skilpul alright,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you nephew. Coming up next, Today's
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters. Subject I can't believe how not Eve I am.
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I can't believe how now Eve I am. We'll get
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening every morning show
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
• 54:04
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• 54:08
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• 54:12
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• 54:14
  Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: going to read this one right here. I do that
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: for Jay Anthony Brown right now. He likes he likes
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: that I'm easy to please. Okay, we'll get him. He
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: turned on by a paper shaker. It doesn't take much.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: It doesn't take letter. Buckle up and hold on tight.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject,
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I can't believe how naive I am. Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: I've been married for the past five years to a
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: very controlling man. He worked off shore, so he was
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: gone from home a lot, and I was not allowed
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: to work so I was left home with nothing to do.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: I started getting more involved in the church, and one
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: evening after stewardship meeting, I met a handsome man in
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: the parking lot of the church. He was in town
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: visiting his mother and had brought her to the meeting.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: One thing led to another, and we exchanged phone numbers
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: and secretly talked whenever we could. We knew about my situation.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: He knew about my situation at home, and he always
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: offered me great advice and support. He lives in another state,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: six hours from me, so he offered to buy me
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: a plane ticket to come to town just for a
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: day so we could hang out. I told him that
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: was a bit much, but I would think about it well.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: He bought a plane ticket for me anyway. I told
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: him that I didn't appreciate that kind of pressure from
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: him and he was being too forward. He got so
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: angry that he was yelling through the phone that I
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: owed him two hundred dollars okay. I told him that
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: I didn't ask him to buy the ticket and I
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: was not paying for him paying him for it. He
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: said he would tell my husband about us, and that
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: we have been sneaking around behind his back. I thought
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: he was bluffing, and I stopped answering his calls. Can
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: you believe this crazy man called my husband a week
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: later and told him everything. Wow, now my husband wants
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: to divorce me. Yeah. I can't believe that I went
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: outside my marriage and confide it in a total stranger.
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: I thought he was a trustworthy guy. One of my
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: friends at the church told me I should use this
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: as a way to get out of my sad marriage
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: and move on. But I want to clear my name
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: and not be looked at as a cheater. I had
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: no plans to have sex with the other guy. What
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: should I do? Wow? OMG, what a loser guy he was.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, really, you didn't pick a good one. I
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: gotta go back to the letter though for a minute.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: You say one thing led to another? What does that
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: mean all? Do? I mean? Really? You go from meeting
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: him in the parking lot, then one thing led to another,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: and you exchange phone numbers and secretly talked whenever you could.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: He knew about your situation at home. That means you
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: were running your mouth and talking to him and telling
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: him all your business about your husband and how you know,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: unhappy you were and all of that stuff. Um, you know,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: I just don't understand why you gave him your number
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: in the first place. Mismarried lady, Well just hold on
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: in the You gave him your phone number in the
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: church parking lot, Thomas Miles right after the stewardship meeting. Now, yeah,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, do you know what stewardship means. I mean,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: did you learn what stewardship means while you were in
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: the stewardship meeting. It means taking care of or or
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: managing responsibly the things that God has blessed you with.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: That's what stewardship means. That means, you know, managing your marriage,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: taking care of your marriage. You were not doing that.
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: In marriage, you don't do things like secretly talk to
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: other men, you know, and stuff like that. You guys
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: probably texting. You didn't put it in the letter. But
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: if you're secretly talking to him, you're secretly doing a
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: lot of other things too. That's called emotional cheating. I mean,
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: you were teasing him. You didn't tell him absolutely no,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: you were leading him on. You told him you would
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: think about it. Okay, he probably heard, yes, I'm gonna
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: let me get this ticket she gonna you know, I
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: can convince her to come up here with me. And
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: then he got managed. You started yelling through the phone.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: He's controlling. It sounds like just like your husband. You
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: know this is crazy. I'm sorry that your husband wants
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: to divorce you now, but because he thinks you're cheating.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: Your husband's gone a lot, he's off shore. Who knows
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: what he's doing. I'm not saying he's cheating, but you're
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: sitting at home unhappy. Why stay in a very unhappy
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: marriage anyway? You know, one of your friends at the
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: church told you that you should use this as a
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: way to get out of your sad marriage and move on. Okay,
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: that could be some good advice because you are in
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: an unhappy marriage, But you do want to clear your name.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: You said you can do that after the fact. Your
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: husband doesn't sound like he's going to believe you. Anyway.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: You guys have grown apart. He's not there. You're off secretly.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: You know, with this other guy talking to him. You
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: weren't planning on having sex with this other guy. But
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: I tell you what that other guy was planning on
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: having sex with you if he bought you a plane
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: ticket and wanted you to come out. There. Was he
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: wrong for telling your husband? Of course he was. I
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: was just vindictive and crazy. But yeah, yeah, you know
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: your husband is going to divorce you. It looks like
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: I don't see how you can get out of this
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: and clear your name, not right now anyway, because of
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: what this man said to him, Junior. Yea on you huh.
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: I can't believe how naive I am nobody reading this letter. King,
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: go ahay it and get the divorce. Yeah, just go
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: ahead and get it because your marriage is done. Yeah,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: the trust is gone. You should have went, to be
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: honest with you. No, you should have went out, yeah, man,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: because if you if you, if you would have went,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: you still have your husband. But now now you ain't
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: got that. No, Mo, he was crazy. I don't care.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: You should have went if you thought your husband was
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: controlling before, watch how control even be? Now? Put your
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: damn head down. I can't let you look at nothing.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: And this guy is controlling too. Yeah. Get yeah, get
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: in the bathroom, lock the dough. I'll tell you when
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: to come out. It can't go nowhere. All right, listen,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: We'll have part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hours, subject, I can't believe
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: how naive I am. We'll get back into it right
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show. All right, guys, let's recap
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. Wow, subject, I can't believe how naive
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: I am. This woman who's been married for the past
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: five years to a very controlling man, she says, who
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: works offshore. He's gone from home a lot. She's not
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: allowed to work, so she's just left at home with
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: nothing to do. She didn't mention any kids or anything,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: so she's just sitting there. So she started getting more
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: involved in the church and everything. One evening she went
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: to a stewardship meeting and she made a very handsome
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: man in the church parking lot. Right after the stewardship meeting.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: He was in town visiting his mom. He lives in
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: another state, about six hours away. So they exchanged phone
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: numbers because one thing led to another, you know, and
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: they now secretly talk on the phone. He knows about
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: her situation at home. Now, how does he know that
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: he just met you? Because you're talking. You're telling him
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: your business about all this stuff. So he offered you
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: some great advice and some support. And he also offered
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: to buy you a plane ticket, but you told him
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: that was a bit much, but you would think about it.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: That's all the opening he needed. He went ahead and
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: bought the ticket. You turned him down. Then he told
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: you you owed him the money. Then he got on
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: the phone called your husband, told your husband everything, and
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: then some now your husband wants to divorce you. A
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: friend told you it's a way to get out of
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: your sad marriage and move on, but you want to
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: clear your name. You can't have it both ways. You're
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: gonna have to get out of this marriage because your
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: husband doesn't believe you anymore, and you're kind of on
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: your own now, you're kind of on your own. Jay,
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: what you got? You know what? What? You know what?
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: I can't believe how cheap this lady is. It didn't
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: take up two hundred damn dollars to get out of
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: this situation. There was an old man, this is the
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: ideal oil. He's a church steward. He ain't got that
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: kind of money. He sent you two hundred dollars and
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: he asked you to give me the money back. You
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: could have sent it back to him, but new you
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: want to play You play with his emotions first of all,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: on the phone talking heaping it up, yap, yap, yapping,
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: my husband, don't do this. And he said, I'm gonna
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: send you two hundred dollars ticket and I'm asking you,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: out of good faith, could you send me the money.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: He probably ain't got that kind of money. And all
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: you you know what two hundred dollars is. That's two
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: bags of grocery when them when him when him expensive
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: food store. That's too bad. The whole food that two
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: bags you go to? What's the show with they had
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: him high prices with the M and the K. I
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: can't think of the name of it, um the lady
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: show with the M and the K or something that. Yeah,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: that's maybe one shoe you get one shoe out, Yeah,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: you get him my crunget you one shoe. That's a
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: cable bill for one month. But you couldn't do that, nude.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: You couldn't send the man back to two hundred damn dollars.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: He asked you nicely, and he put it that on.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: He's saying, if you don't send me my money because
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: that's his money, ain't got that. I'm gonna tell your
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: husband what tell him. Tell him now he told him.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: Now you out of a husband, and all you had
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: to do? Lady, what's come up with two hundred dollars?
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: Your man is gone away. He don't know how much
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: money you're spending him. See you for six? Two hundred
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: damn dollars? That don't make no sin? Does it not
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: right for you to do that? The man sent you
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: a ticket and it said two hundred dollars and you
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: did not send the man the money back? What kind
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: of message do you talking to every night? Not only
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: that he should have asked you for the damn phone
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: build money, but no, he asked you for that. He
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: asked you for two, and we just washed this duck
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: could go away? How you know him? From me again?
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: I'll change chages if you just send me two. I
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: ain't sending you a damn that two hundred damn dollars.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: Oh all right, thank you, full movie ticket. You're gonna
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: movie full time and with popcorn and everything for two.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: Sending that man that money. You're getting what you deserve.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: You deserve all of this, all right, say we gotta
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: hear from the neck you now, thank you? You're really
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: mad about that too? Under dollar? What you got, nephew,
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: This ain't nothing but some people from New Orleans. That's all. Listen,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: all right, this is a Gulf coast hot miss. Do
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: you understand me? I know, I know lava Lake talk.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: When I hear all right, they probably live in Lake Talk. Loveya.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: He works all off shore. Okay, Okay, So this one
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: I'm fenna help you out with. You don't want to
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: look like no cheatle. I'm gonna take you from cheetah
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: to crazy. Now you gotta pick out which one you want.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: But he's a cheetah or crazy. I can't stop it
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: from being a cheetah. This is what you need to do.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: Go down to the French quarter, get you a voodoo dog,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna put this route on his ass. You
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: understand me. That's what we've fend to do night. In fact,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: you're gonna go a little deep. I already heard how
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: they do. These roots sometimes go down to his house.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: Six hours wait, same same two d go down there,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: get something his draws and bury them in his yard.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: They say, if you go past that yard while them
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: draws is beared, you're gonna fall out right there. That's
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: actually gonna get him back that's how you're gonna get
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: him back, and he's gonna be called in if they
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: please come get your drugs. I'm like, y'all, I don't
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: know where they I need you come out here and
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: dig up your drugs out my y'all. I can't live
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: my life. I promise you get him back. Don't be
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: You're gonna lose your husband. That's all. That's already. Yeah,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: go back and put some damage on this food right here.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: All right? Oh you mean pay the man back who
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: told her husband? Yes? Yes, okay, all right, all right, well,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: thank you guys. A lot of different perspectives. All right. Listen,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: you can email us your Instagram your thoughts on today's
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, or you can check
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcasts go to on demand. Now.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: Coming up at forty six after the hour, we're gonna
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: talk about Marshawn Lynch's confrontation with a football mom. Did
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: you guys see this when he asked her, is here
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: a man here with you? We're gonna talk about that
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: Former NFL star Marshawn Lynch cussed out a group of
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: kids during drills at his football camp in Seattle. It
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: was a Lyncha's family first football camp in Seattle where
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Marshan was coaching about two hundred kids or so when
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: one of the moms confronted him, and Marshawn tried to
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: speak to this upset mother and then he asked her,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: is there a man here with you? Take a listen.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: It's not a man here with you, but I don't care.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: It's my son. Wow. Yeah, well see I get what
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: you ah, No, I get it, okay from I want
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: to distract you. I want to talk to a man
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: and I can talk to man to man and we can.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: He can understand exactly where I was coming from out
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: here on this football call, on this football But you
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: know what a lot of people, Tommy were upset because
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: they thought he was being chauvinistic, uh and talking down
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: to this kid's mom. So a lot of people got
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: upset with him at how he was speaking. They thought
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: he was being dismissive of her. Yeah, he was talking
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: like they talked to football players. And and the mom
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: camp be there to baby him when he's when she
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: hears something that she doesn't normally hear at the house.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: This is how they talk. Absolutely, this is dad, don't
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: I mean coaches. I mean, even like me eating as
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: good as I was, if I messed up, coach, coach
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: still got on my case and I didn't like the
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: words that came out of his mouth. But you know
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: what they taught me to do to block out the
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: noise and focus back on my job. Okay, you still
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: have to get back out and played this game. Now,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: if you don't like to play this, it's another sports
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: you can gonna play. You're gonna fay chess, go do
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: something like that. They don't talk like that. Still behind
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: him line, he wasn't being disrespectful to the model. He did.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: He was trying not to be disrespectful to her. That's
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: why he wanted to speak to a man again. And
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: I think it's too too, because you know, I've volunteered,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: you know, at football camps. My nephew is a professional
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: football player. He had football camp. I've been there so
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: a lot of times too, with these football players and
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: what they're trying to do with these kids, because it's
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: a dream to play in the NFL, and you you
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: might get them ready. You gotta get them ready. So
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: sometimes you know, these coaches, they they talk to these kids,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: you know, they're rough, and Marshawn, these kids are young.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: These are not ten and eleven year old kids, and
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: he was talking to them rough. So the question is
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: should he take it a more professional way or you know,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: the moms were like, what does it matter if my
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: man is here or not? You know, it's a lot
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: of issues that it was with this conformation yesterday. Yesterday
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: was Jordan's first day of football. Yeah. Contact, he's eight
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: years old. Yeah, them coaches hotting like all get out
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, oh my god. And I was like, boy,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: this brings back memories and you know what I've got.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: I want him to hear it. You better do everything
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: they're telling you to do you want to play football.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: It reminds me, well what we can carry this conversation on,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: but it reminds me a little bit of Steve's mentoring
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: camp too. And I'll tell ye, yes, all right, coming
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we're to talk
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: more about this Marshawn Lynch situation about coaching, about parenting,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: and we'll do that right after this. You're listening, all right,
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: So during our last break, we were talking about should
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: Marshawn Lynch and his confrontation with one of the moms
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: at his football camp for kids. Should Marshawn have been
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: more professional and not cuss at the kids during his
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: football camp in Seattle? And we were talking, you guys
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: have all played sports, and you were talking about, well, Jay,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: you have to have the band out dead. Oh okay?
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: And they was rough too, wasn't it. Yeah. He was
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: saying that you didn't know a coach who didn't cuss
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: up my kid? I did not know one. I mean,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: it's just yeah. But but he got criticized for talking
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: for asking the mom is there a man here? People
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: thought he was talking down to the man to the mom,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: It seems like he just didn't want to be disrespectful
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: to her and he would just rather talk to a
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: man about this situation with his son. But I was
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: saying before the break that it kind of reminds me
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: of Steve's mentoring camp. How he takes in only boys
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: from single moms, and he mentors the boys away from
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: the moms, right because he is the point is is
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: to bring them into manhood and to talk to them
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: how man to man and it's that's what this situation
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: reminds me of. Yeah, and man to man, maybe yeah, yeah,
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: that's where the way I love. I played football for
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: one day because I was I know the other thing.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: I'm lying. But one day what happened quickly. You know
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: how many people have never played one day. I played
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: pads everything one day, one full damn day whatever. I'm
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: that And I could chick the ball really fun because
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: I was kicking. And I kicked the ball about two
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: or three times. I let's suit up the next day.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: And then I got hit and I got hit really
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: really hard, and the coach, the coach cuts me out
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: so bad. But here's the thing. I had been getting
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: cuts out at home. I just thought this was very
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: nice to him to talk to me in that tone,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: because the cussing I was getting at the house was nothing.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's all. That's all you got. You got,
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll be out there the football field get
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: custed out. And my daddy stating right there, he helped.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: Ain't nothing like your father cussings at you from the sideline,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: because it prepares you for life. Football players grow up,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: grow up, you know, And it's it's true for for
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: girls sports too. I mean this period. I think, yeah
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: competitive that movie. There's no crying in baseball. Yeah, they
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: don't care about your feelings. Right, And let me tell
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: you something, when you got Marshaw Linz has some eight
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: nineteen year old boys out there when they are when
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: they're eight nineteen eleven years old, trust me, they are
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: not completely focused. If they're not on the field, then
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: they over here playing with each other. And you know,
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: a coach wants your underbouted attention. I told my son,
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: I said, listen, you playing, they're hidden now, this ain't
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: flag no more. So you better pay attention because if
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: you don't know something, you freg knocked on your butt
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: and we're not quitting you. Yeah, cry, you're gonna go home.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be back out here tomorrow. That's it. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: that's that's That's how I got all that in one
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: I got all that in one year. But you quit,
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: but you stopped. Why do you look what I learned.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: I learned a lot, but you suited up with the everything.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: Jay got all that one pl ten fid you were
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: ready for the NFL. You got it all in one
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: day game and Junior in the last break we all
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: got when you said that's how good you were, and
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: when you say you got it, I got you. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I can't help that part, but that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: I love. I love when coach, when Coach hollidayd me
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  Speaker 1: uh huh, and he didn't use regular words to another
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  Speaker 1: guy who wasn't as good. I love did you play, Junior?
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  Speaker 1: How long did you play? Alway, alway, all the way out?
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  Speaker 1: How many years? I played more than a game? But
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  Speaker 1: it took you that lone and learn? I got all
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  Speaker 1: man all right, coming out, more music, more fun. On
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  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the
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  Speaker 1: hour you're listening Morning Show. All right, Jay, you had
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: a big celebration last night at the Jay Spot. Tell
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  Speaker 1: us about it. What happened? Oh my god. I invited
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  Speaker 1: all the comedians who like participated in the club for years.
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  Speaker 1: I've been there twelve years, open the club twelve years,
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  Speaker 1: and last night close to my two hundred comedians came out. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's not This wasn't a roast. I don't know what this.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: This was a beyond a roast. They did impression to me.
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  Speaker 1: This was it was like a LUI just like tied
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: to a stick, Tommy just turning it over. But it
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  Speaker 1: was so good, you know, you don't you don't realize
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  Speaker 1: when you put something together, like opening a comedy club,
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  Speaker 1: how much it means to the comedians. And for me
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  Speaker 1: to be a club owner, the hardest thing is to
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  Speaker 1: see the faces of comics and on a certain night
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  Speaker 1: that I can't tell them that they can't go up,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: I tell them you can't go up because I got
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  Speaker 1: too many comedians. It's just it's just it's unbelievable the
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  Speaker 1: love that they had for this business. You got it,
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  Speaker 1: Junior got it, and we all got to start somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: And to be able to open that club with my
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  Speaker 1: son twelve years ago. Man, it was just great to
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  Speaker 1: see the comics come out and say thank you for
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  Speaker 1: you know, having this club. And I never made a
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  Speaker 1: dime off of that building, but I helped a lot
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  Speaker 1: of comics. Thank you, man. I never stayed married twelve years,
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  Speaker 1: all three marriages didn't even do twelve Can you make
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  Speaker 1: a dime off the club? Jay one. I know I'm
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  Speaker 1: not a good man. You're a comedian comedian, man, but
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  Speaker 1: I had a great time. Thank you, love you, Jay.
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  Speaker 1: We really to do. We'll be back. We'll be back, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we will. Right after this you're listening to the President
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  Speaker 1: Trump is preparing to visit El Paso and Dayton, Ohio.
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  Speaker 1: El Paso, Texas, of course, in Dayton, Ohio today, the
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  Speaker 1: parents says that will not be universally welcome as the
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  Speaker 1: two cities grief from weekend mass shootings left thirty one
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  Speaker 1: people dead, yeah, and many injured and rattled. Former Texas
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  Speaker 1: Representative Beta O'Rourke said he doesn't think that President Trump
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  Speaker 1: is welcome in El Paso in the wake of the
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  Speaker 1: deadly shooting that left twenty two dead there. This president,
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  Speaker 1: says O'Rourke, who helped create the hatred that made Saturday's
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  Speaker 1: tragedy possible, should not come to El Paso. That's what
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  Speaker 1: he tweeted. He says, we do not need more division,
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  Speaker 1: We need to heal. He has no place here, guys.
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  Speaker 1: El Paso is a city of about six hundred and
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: eighty three thousand people with a largely Latino population. In
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  Speaker 1: the city of Dayton, Mayor Nan Whaley encouraged people to
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  Speaker 1: protest who are unhappy under mister Trump's upcoming visit to
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  Speaker 1: the city of about one hundred and forty thousand. The
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  Speaker 1: mayor of Dayton went on to say President Trump made
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: his bed and now he has to lie in it. Yeah.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: Dayton's mayor went on to say she would greet the
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  Speaker 1: president in the official role as mayor, but she will
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  Speaker 1: also tell him that his words weren't helpful. The people
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  Speaker 1: in Toledo would be glad to see me. I'm going
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: to Toledo to meet all the people in there because
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: they love it's. Oh it's Dayton. Excuse me? Yeah? Are
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: you are you bring? Do you ask? The people in
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: Deledo love me and Deledo, So I'm going to Deledo.
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  Speaker 1: It's Dayton, Ohio. They don't want anywhere. They don't want
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  Speaker 1: you to know where because it's your words that are
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  Speaker 1: so you know, that are dividing this country. We have
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  Speaker 1: said that on this just a matter of time that
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: somebody takes his words and use them good. That's literally yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what has happened. And um, you know he's
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  Speaker 1: blaming it on mental illness and video game. But that's
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: what they always say, illness. They always go there. They
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: don't ever want to go guns No, I never want
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  Speaker 1: to go. But this is the president that said I
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  Speaker 1: can down the street in New York. He said that,
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  Speaker 1: and he got elected. He got elected, Yeah, he got
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  Speaker 1: He can't honestly think that he can go to a
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  Speaker 1: city like El Paso, where you talked about Latinos and
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  Speaker 1: you talked about immigrants, and it is a city that
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  Speaker 1: is on the border of Texas and Mexico. So for
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  Speaker 1: you to even think that those people want you there
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: this time, at this time, right now, it's just I
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: think he's unbelievable. Yeah, but I think he is arrogant
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  Speaker 1: enough to think that. He really think he is arrogant.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: And now the mayor of El Paso, who's a Republican,
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: he is welcoming the president. He has no choice. Yeah, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, guys, coming up, last break up the day,
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: and then we'll do Jay's segment. It's it's gaining popularity
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: around the world. Check it out. Jay's gonna ask us
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  Speaker 1: what if we learned today? Coming up right after this, Yeah,
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are, guys,
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Wednesday, hop day.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: Look on to that weekend. Yeah, loving it, loving it? Okay, Jay,
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: we may as well get started. I mean time for
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  Speaker 1: your segment. As we leave, it is all right every
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: day that we've been doing for quite a while. Like
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: Shirley says, it's catching home. People are talking to me
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: about it in the street. I'm lying. Nobody said, no, man,
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: I loved at what you let not one person. But anyway,
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: we go around the room at the end of the
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: show and we ask the people who are on this show,
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: what did you learn today, Shirley, what did you learn today? Okay,
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: we talked about this earlier Jay when we first started
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: the show. This morning, we talked about what couples argue about,
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: and come to find out, I guess we're all arguing
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: about the same thing. Family drama, going day to day frustrations,
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: you know, drifting apart in your relationship, parenting philosophies. You're
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: too lenient, you beat them too much. You know, stuff
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: like that, financial problems, flirting, all of that. So basically
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: you ain't kiss me, and my damn all of that,
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: you know, jealousy, I want to hit a joke. Let
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: me hit a joke. I want right, So, I mean,
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: you know, we gotta we gotta try to keep our
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: relationships together. It's all about love. There's this long term
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: relationship expert out there. Her name is doctor Pepper Schwartz.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you can look her up if you want
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: some help in your relationships. So, I mean, we all
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: need it every now and then. You know, when we
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: drift a prior, we can come back together. We don't
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: always have to break up all the time. Let's try
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: to stay together. I think it's harder to stay together
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: than it is to break up. It's easy to break
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  Speaker 1: up and get somebody else, but stay together. That's the commitment,
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: that's that work. You know that you got to put
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: into the relationship to make it last. So that's what
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: I learned today. If that makes it very good, very good,
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: very good, very good. I need to write up on
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  Speaker 1: that by tomorrow. All right. What I learned today is
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  Speaker 1: the city of El Paso, in the city of Dayton
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  Speaker 1: does not does not want the President to come to
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: the city. Both of these cities. We are still praying
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: for the victims families. They are grieving after this past weekend,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: the horrible mass shootings, and the President what he needs
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: to learn talking about what we learn. What he needs
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: to learn is to be responsible for the words that
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: he says. His rhetoric can stop all of this racist
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: talk and be a president and be a leader. Said yesterday,
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: stop the hey I said yesterday, and I'm going to
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: said again today. Amen. Amen again, very good, very good.
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: That's even better than what Shirley learned. I like that one.
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  Speaker 1: That's Junior. What did you learn you one day football player?
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, Shirley, hold on, Shirley, if you take here,
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  Speaker 1: if you think, if you like, no, no, no no,
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: let me run the Junior. We'll get back you tomorrow. Alright,
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  Speaker 1: I can't move. I learned this. I learned that the
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  Speaker 1: little boy that said Marshaw Lynch football cap and Jenny
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  Speaker 1: Brown had the same football career one damn day. You
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: and I ain't. Y'all got the same football career. High five, Junior,
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: Hi got to work. I can't leave this blahble pool. Yeah,
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: you just quit Yankee from camp. We needed to do
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: it though I'm not doing And I didn't even know
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: Junior was gonna stop when he went hold on. I
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: knew that a very good, very good, Junior. Tell me
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: what you learned today? Well, I didn't know it till today. Jay.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I knew all about Dion Warwick and you
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: know things that she could do. But I find that
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  Speaker 1: Junior is a fortune cookie till I didn't know. I
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: didn't know. Yeah, man, cookie didn't tell you what it
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: really means. Yeah man, yeah man. You can't miss a
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: moment to see you miss Now. You know, the back
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: of the Fortune Cookie actually had a lottery numbers, you
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: know that. I know that back of that page got
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of them. But the front side of where
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: Junior he worked on the front of that yeah fortune Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: When I woke up after I hit my head, I
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: could read Fortune Cookie, but I wish I could had
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: that backflad to get them numbers. I could pick the
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: right man. All right, here's what I learned today. Had
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: I applied myself to football more than that one no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying more than that one, damn day, I
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: would have never been a great football player. I would
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: have just drifted on and not played in the NFL.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: But look, God, say quit. There's something bigger and better
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: for you. And look what I am today, damn day
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: or football. What was the time it was you got
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: cussed out by your coach and now you are one
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: of the greatest cussols. That's what I learned. Today. Wow, Well,
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: everybody learned something as always, I learned something every days. Good.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: That's good. That's still yeah. Kissing y'all. Spouse in the
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: mouth ya was yeah, I know, I'm still tell me
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: we've been married four years. Okay, I didn't even know
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: that was still going on and cheek man. Al Right, guys,
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here this ignorant show. We'll
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: see you tomorrow. Thank you so much for listening. Bye bye.
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