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NBA All-Stars, President's Day, Kim Potter, Juggling Women and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit all looking back to
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  Speaker 1: back down, giving them like a million buck things. And
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  Speaker 1: it's not good. Steve Hartley, I don't join me. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta use that turn. You gotta turn to turn them out,
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  Speaker 1: turn my love, got to turn out to turn turn
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  Speaker 1: the water the water. Come come on your tha, uh huh,
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  Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on now, dig me want and only Steve Harvey, God,
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  Speaker 1: what radio show man? What you're doing with it? Trying
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  Speaker 1: to do the very very best I can with it?
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  Speaker 1: I really am. You know, I get tired sometimes on
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  Speaker 1: my journey. I'm not gonna kid you. UM. Trying to
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  Speaker 1: make something about yourself is a task. UM. If you
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  Speaker 1: want to attempt to do something and and and understand
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  Speaker 1: going in that that. If the thing you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: do is to improve yourself, to better your position, to
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  Speaker 1: better your relationship, your family, anything, you're trying to be
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  Speaker 1: a better you. You're trying to make more money, you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to get it together, you're trying to change change.
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  Speaker 1: If any of those things are in your hopes and dreams.
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  Speaker 1: Know this right here, you are about to face some challenges.
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  Speaker 1: But you might as well go ahead anyway and face
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  Speaker 1: those challenges, because if you don't, you have a whole
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  Speaker 1: other set of challenges to face. You know, it's a
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  Speaker 1: it's a it's an amazing thing. Man. How people sit
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  Speaker 1: around and they watch other people strike out to become successful.
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  Speaker 1: They sit in the stands watching these people play out
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  Speaker 1: these games, and they and they, and they criticize, They boo,
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  Speaker 1: they laugh at their efforts and everything, and they talk
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  Speaker 1: about the fairies. He missed that game when it shot. Boy,
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  Speaker 1: he sucked. Man, he did this. He ain't worth that.
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  Speaker 1: I hear people who sit and stands who criticize people
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  Speaker 1: who are out there on the playing field. Now, when
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  Speaker 1: you're on the playing field, you have a set of
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  Speaker 1: challenges in front of you. You're going to be open
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  Speaker 1: to criticism. You're going to be open to ridicule. You're
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  Speaker 1: going to be talked about when you don't know the
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  Speaker 1: people who are talking about you. Now here's the upside
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  Speaker 1: to being the player on the field that's facing all
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  Speaker 1: the challenges, to criticisms, the laughing, the joke, to being
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  Speaker 1: talked about he has something going for him. This person, boy, woman, child, girl,
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  Speaker 1: man has an opportunity to win. They have an opportunity
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  Speaker 1: to win. And then the game of life. Just because
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  Speaker 1: you lose one of the games, or you lose one
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  Speaker 1: of the matches, it don't mean you've lost. You don't
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  Speaker 1: get put out. You keep playing. When you're playing, here's
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  Speaker 1: the upside. You have the opportunity to win. And but
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  Speaker 1: guess what, You're gonna win some of the matches. You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna win some of the points. You're gonna make some
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  Speaker 1: of the dunks. You're gonna hit some of them over
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  Speaker 1: the wall. You're gonna hit some of them out the park.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna score some goals. You will if you're playing
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  Speaker 1: the game. Here's the problem with the people who don't
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  Speaker 1: face criticism, who nobody boos or cheers for, who sits
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  Speaker 1: in the stands and knows neither victory nor defeat. Those people,
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  Speaker 1: without realizing it, are facing a set of challenges also.
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  Speaker 1: And the challenges they're facing is how I'm gonna live
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  Speaker 1: with myself? What I'm gonna do? Now? What direction am
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  Speaker 1: I going in? Where am I gonna live? Wonder what
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  Speaker 1: job will hire me? Wonder if I can get paid
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  Speaker 1: for criticizing. Oh woe is me? I can't find the
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  Speaker 1: purpose in my life. And man, I'm just waking up
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  Speaker 1: in a state of confusion. I don't know what to do. Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you something which one of them said,
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  Speaker 1: of challenges you rather be faced with. Because if I'm
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  Speaker 1: on the flow playing, if I'm on the field playing,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm out on the court playing, then guess what
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  Speaker 1: I got a chance at winning? But guess what I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing every day while I'm playing. I'm strategizing. I'm waking
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  Speaker 1: up with a purpose. I'm waking up trying to come
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  Speaker 1: up with another angle. I'm in pursuit of a goal
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  Speaker 1: every single day. Versus the people in the stands who
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  Speaker 1: know neither victory nor defeat. Get in the game. Face
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  Speaker 1: the challenges. Better yourself, better your wife, better your children,
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  Speaker 1: better your condition, better your employment status, better your job,
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  Speaker 1: better your career. Take a shot. Come on, man, what
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  Speaker 1: you're waiting on? Because the alternative is to watch other
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  Speaker 1: people play the game? You know what I just do?
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes Sometimes I just I get Forbes magazine or Money magazine,
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  Speaker 1: or sometimes I still grab a copy of rob Report.
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  Speaker 1: I just flipped through it just to see. I used
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  Speaker 1: to get these this book called Unique Homes. Unique Homes
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  Speaker 1: is a magazine that just has a lot of extravagant
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  Speaker 1: houses that's on sale across the country, across the world.
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  Speaker 1: I used to flip through. Man, let me just see, man,
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  Speaker 1: what the people that's playing the game out there doing.
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  Speaker 1: Stop watching other people become successful when you could very
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  Speaker 1: easily be you if you make the decision. But when
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  Speaker 1: you make the decision to become successful, get ready for
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  Speaker 1: a series of challenges. I think it's more difficult not
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  Speaker 1: to accept the challenge. I think it's for me. This
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  Speaker 1: is just for me. It may not be the case
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  Speaker 1: for you. For me, I think it's far more difficult
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  Speaker 1: to wake up and just see how life gonna go today,
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  Speaker 1: because man, it could just deal you any kind of
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  Speaker 1: hand today. You understand, I don't like, you know, spades.
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  Speaker 1: Let's let's talk a card game, folks, the game of spades. Really, man,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't a whole lot you can do if you
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  Speaker 1: don't get no spades. Really, it's a little couple of
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  Speaker 1: little strategies you're gonna do. But you can have all
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  Speaker 1: this age, King Queen Diamond, all you want. But man,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got no spades. They're cutting them. You're in trouble.
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  Speaker 1: Be it whist different game. You can create what's in
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  Speaker 1: your hand. You got dealt a hand too, But you
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  Speaker 1: can create a hand. You can call a trump. You
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  Speaker 1: can make diamonds your spades. You can make hard to
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  Speaker 1: clubs your spades. That's what I'm saying. That's what it is.
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  Speaker 1: You can do something with it. It's a different game, man.
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  Speaker 1: You can strategize. I would rather have a say so
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  Speaker 1: in my life than to wake up every day and
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  Speaker 1: just see how it's going. I think it's more difficult
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  Speaker 1: to not accept the challenge to be something than it
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  Speaker 1: is to accept the challenge to be something. I think
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  Speaker 1: it's more difficult to sit around and not be nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's harder to watch everybody's life going somewhere
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  Speaker 1: but mine. I think it would be very difficult for
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  Speaker 1: me to sit here and hear them talking about other
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  Speaker 1: people and never mention my name. I would be difficult
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  Speaker 1: for me to see everybody rise and getting promotions accept me.
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  Speaker 1: That would be difficult for me. It may not be
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  Speaker 1: for you, but for me it would be quite challenging.
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  Speaker 1: I would rather accept the challenge of making something out
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  Speaker 1: of my life than to sit there and criticize those
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  Speaker 1: and then watch and see how my life just may go. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: just a thought today you're listening one two, one, two three?
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  Speaker 1: Here we go. I got it? What you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: I got it? What do you mean? I got it?
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  Speaker 1: Saying one more time? I got it? What that time?
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  Speaker 1: I got it? Make a lot of noise with it?
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  Speaker 1: I got it? Oh, I got it? Hey, ain't got it? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The theme today
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  Speaker 1: is I got it. Yeah. I got gratitude, I got
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  Speaker 1: a guilt. I have means, I got peace of mind. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I have a measure of health. I got it. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry callin for
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  Speaker 1: real Mississippi Monica and the legend that is Nephew Tommy top.
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  Speaker 1: That's all the morning. Normally I would say, Junior Horse,
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  Speaker 1: on your mind, But I will go over to Tommy
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  Speaker 1: now and go, Tommy, what's on your mind? On your cheese?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Let me see here, let me see here, stupid. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So somebody tried to tell me the other day that
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  Speaker 1: I need to try to keep as much electure lights
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  Speaker 1: in my system, drink more electric lights? Now, why would
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  Speaker 1: I want to drink that and get electrocuted? Does that
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  Speaker 1: make any sense to you at all? Why would I
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  Speaker 1: take the risk of getting electrocuted? And how all the
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  Speaker 1: electro lights in me that don't make no damn Well?
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  Speaker 1: I have an idea for you, Tommy. This is what
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  Speaker 1: I suggest you do to help this out. Get you
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  Speaker 1: a small Dixie cup out of your bathroom dispense if
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  Speaker 1: they still have those, I don't know, Or get your
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  Speaker 1: bathroom and water cup and fill it with water and
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  Speaker 1: put a little bit on your hand and have the
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  Speaker 1: rest of it in your hand. Then go outside the
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  Speaker 1: bathroom because I don't want you to be in there.
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  Speaker 1: What can't nobody hear you? And I want you to
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  Speaker 1: start sitting the floor next to an outlet and start
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  Speaker 1: drinking the water and then put that wet hand in
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  Speaker 1: the outlet. Why are you drinking water? And then let's
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  Speaker 1: see how many electro lights your ass can get in
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  Speaker 1: you at once. And I'm reason I didn't want you
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  Speaker 1: to do it in the bathroom so people can hear
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  Speaker 1: you in the hallway. Oh okay, okay, yeah, that it
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  Speaker 1: makes perfect sense, I just I just don't think it's
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  Speaker 1: safe to hell lecture lightsing your sister. I just don't.
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  Speaker 1: I just think it's danger. It's just me. I'm surprised.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was surprised. You ain't up surprising my damn.
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  Speaker 1: I thought this is gonna turn the hydrated though, that's
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  Speaker 1: but what about it? Though? He didn't disappoint me. No,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't hydrated? All right, coming up in thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, nephew, Tommy is coming up. Would
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  Speaker 1: run that frank back right after this. You're listening morning show?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Time to start your morning off? Would run
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  Speaker 1: that frank back with the nephew, what you got nef,
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  Speaker 1: me and your baby getting married? Me and your baby
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  Speaker 1: getting married? Cat dog? If you would hello, Hello, I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to reach I'm trying to reach mister. Yes, hey, mister,
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  Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm trying. Let me let me make
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  Speaker 1: you I'm calling the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, yo,
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  Speaker 1: I got the right person. Hey, listen, well, I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to do mister Richards's call and introduce myself to you
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  Speaker 1: and let you know who I was. My name is Jeff,
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  Speaker 1: Jeff and I've been uh seeing Crystal, uh you know,
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  Speaker 1: pretty much like the last five or six months, and
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to, um, let you know that I'm very
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  Speaker 1: very interested in you. And I know this kind of
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  Speaker 1: crazy for you to get a phone call for me
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  Speaker 1: when I'm very interested in Crystal right now. And I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to, you know, I just wanted to do the
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  Speaker 1: man thing and just reach out to your man and
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  Speaker 1: say I'm really interested in and uh in marrying your
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  Speaker 1: daughter and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what
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  Speaker 1: what what you say? You name of you? My name
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  Speaker 1: is Jeff, Jeff. Okay, Jeff Jeff listen. I'm very close
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  Speaker 1: with my daughter, and my daughter has never ever mentioned you.
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  Speaker 1: I talk to my daughter every day. Wow. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what else about what it's been like about five
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  Speaker 1: close to six months that me and Cristal been you know,
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  Speaker 1: going out, you know, up here at the school. But
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  Speaker 1: what I wanted to do is tell you that I
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  Speaker 1: really really really like Crystal man, and I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: call and tell you that, you know, I'm really really
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  Speaker 1: interested in May and Crystal. You know, I want, I
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  Speaker 1: really do want Krista to be my wife. Well, I again,
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  Speaker 1: I've never heard of you before. And my daughter has
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  Speaker 1: never ever mentioned you. My daughter isn't dating anybody right now.
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  Speaker 1: My daughter's in grad school. I understand that. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: we you know, it's been you know, we've been you know,
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  Speaker 1: a little back and forth or whatever. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: the main thing is me and Kristal really, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we really, we really do love each other and I
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  Speaker 1: want to But if you love my daughter, she would
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  Speaker 1: have told me that she was in love with someone. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you know what you know, And maybe it's a situation
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  Speaker 1: where christ is like a little maybe a little uneasy
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  Speaker 1: about talking to you about it. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: My daughter can talk to me about anything. We talk
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  Speaker 1: every day, right right, You're like you, I talked to
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  Speaker 1: my daughter every day, your daughter. And how old is
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  Speaker 1: your daughter? My daughter fifteen? Hold hold on a minute, man,
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  Speaker 1: you say your daughter was fifteen, right right? Right? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Well how old are you? I'm forty six, forty six,
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  Speaker 1: you're forty six years old? You want to man my
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  Speaker 1: twenty five year old daughter? Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: let me say this right here. Love ain't got no limit, man,
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  Speaker 1: And I understand you know, I was a little shot
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  Speaker 1: at first, about the age difference between us. But you
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  Speaker 1: get you know what, man, Okay, And I understand that.
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  Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to explain to you, man, is
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  Speaker 1: that it's come a time man when you just you
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  Speaker 1: just don't know what's gonna happen. Man. Love just love
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  Speaker 1: is love, man, And you've been locked up on parole
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  Speaker 1: at the university on work releasing that my daughter. Yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna say this, man, Crystal is just a
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  Speaker 1: beautiful person. Man. Hold on, man, you calling me at
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  Speaker 1: the Blue Daughter. Look, man, I'm never work. I got
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  Speaker 1: a lot of work on my damn desk and you
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  Speaker 1: calling me telling me up for a gentle bird wants
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  Speaker 1: to marry my daughter, my twenty five year old daughter,
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  Speaker 1: and you damn that fifty you damn it at my
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  Speaker 1: age you want to marry my daughter. Man, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: trying to talk to you, but well, I need to
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  Speaker 1: do I need to talk to Crystal and get to
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  Speaker 1: the bottom of this. That's what the hell I need
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  Speaker 1: to do. Hey, And I understand that, mister, you was
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  Speaker 1: probably gonna I want to talk to and I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got no problem with that. What I'm trying to explain
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  Speaker 1: to you is that man. Live ain't got no limit. Man,
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  Speaker 1: It's just something that album Crystal love Me, I love
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  Speaker 1: huh and it is what it is. I just wanted
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  Speaker 1: to try to get your blessings on this. You can't
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  Speaker 1: get my listeners. Love still gonna marry my daughter. Now.
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  Speaker 1: My daughter's been in private school. I love damn life.
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  Speaker 1: She's gonna do all four years of college and she's
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  Speaker 1: going to grad school and you're gonna marry my daughter.
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  Speaker 1: You're working, miss. I understand that. What I'm what I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to explain to you that you know what, man,
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I love is right the second time around? You
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  Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying. What the hell you mean the
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  Speaker 1: second time? I got kids already. What I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: say is it didn't work out with me on the
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  Speaker 1: first time. What I wanted to do, man, is just
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  Speaker 1: called you is solidified. The culinary experience got just doing food.
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  Speaker 1: But the helln't you talking about? Listen? Look, look, look, look,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta talk to my daughter. I'm gonna call Crystal
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  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna find out what the hell is going on,
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  Speaker 1: because look, man, I'm not even trying to have this
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  Speaker 1: conversation with you. And I miss, miss Comparis, I understand
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  Speaker 1: all that, I understand what you're saying. What I want
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  Speaker 1: to say to you is just right here. Crystal is
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  Speaker 1: twenty five. Even if you don't agree with this, here,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna eat Lowe and make sure that we do.
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  Speaker 1: Look at him. You ain't doing a thing with my
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  Speaker 1: daughter unless it's mine. Look here, man, you ain't doing.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know your jail bird. You ain't doing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my daughter final horn. You really are
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  Speaker 1: lost your mind if you think your old jail bird
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be marrying my daughter. My daughter's not a future.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't got the head is wrong with Jill rust mine.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit and go back and forth with you. Miss.
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  Speaker 1: Me and Crystal getting married. That will not happen under
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  Speaker 1: any circumstances, not what you think the circumstances are. Me
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  Speaker 1: and Crystal getting married. That's it. Not the love. Man,
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  Speaker 1: don't know who the hell you think you are. It's
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you about what it's gotta be. I got
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  Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say, and then me
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  Speaker 1: and Crystal just gonna come over there and dry down
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  Speaker 1: there and tell you exactly what's going on in our
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  Speaker 1: life right now. You got to say to me, are
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  Speaker 1: you listening to me? I got to say this. This
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  Speaker 1: is nephew taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your daughter Crystal and her boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't I'm outside my job looking at me. I'm crazy, man,
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  Speaker 1: Your baby girl just wanted to put a smile on
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  Speaker 1: your face. Man, I gotta ask you, what is What
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  Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show
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  Speaker 1: in the land. Man, Steve Harvey Morning Shuffak goodness. You
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  Speaker 1: can thank my stupid later. Go ahead, go ahead, you
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  Speaker 1: can thank my stupid all right, thank you. Nephew who
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  Speaker 1: coming up next? Asked the clo Right after this, You're
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  Speaker 1: In trending All Star Game weekend highlights from Cleveland, Steve Harborley, Cleveland,
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  Speaker 1: like I said at the top of the hour, but
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  Speaker 1: right now it is time or ask the CLO. Lisa
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: in Atlanta writes to our CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight and I'm dating a thirty year old
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: man I met online. He checks off every box on
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: my list except one. He's a great lover, but he's
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: not willing to explore all of me. He said. There
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: are a few things he will never do. If I
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: enjoy doing it for him, should he be willing to
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: try it for me? Is he being selfish? Or is
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: this normal? Well? I ain't saying this normal. I'm just
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: saying he ain't. Ain't what he doing? You know? I
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: do you type thing that ain't that ain't what he
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: fin to do? Oh? You know, so that you have
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: it now? If that's a deal breaker for you, and
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: they probably need to break up now. But if it's
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: not a deal breaker, they're gone and explore. But it
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: seems like he's pretty much set on this. It's a
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: decision he's made. See what could have happened? He thirty.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: You don't know, but he might have had a really,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: really bad traumatic experience with that. And now I'll shut
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: you down. You run, you run up into something that
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: ain't quite what you thought it was, and it'll shut
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: you down. So it could have been. He used to
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: do everything, but he don't stopped exploring everywhere he dialed
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: it back, didn't it? Yeah, he said, never something happened.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: So not putting your toe in my mouth, you could ask,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you all right. Moving on to Taylor in Southfield.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Taylor says, I'm thirty three and I've been divorced for
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: two years. I had husband is getting remarried, and I
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: got a wedding invite. He called me last week to
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: say that his fiance wants me to change my last
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: name back to my maiden name because she wants to
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: be the only woman with my name. Should I relinquish
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: the name or not? Well, huh, you know what did
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: this wedding invitation had to do with anything. But secondly,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: his current wife to be wants you to change your
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: name back. My question to you is, why would you
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: want the name of a man that don't want you?
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: That's my only question to you. I would be more
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: than happy to get back to who I was after
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I find out that who I thought I was don't
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: want me to be that no more, So I would
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: forget the fact. See, normally, when you get divorced and
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: it don't come up because ain't nobody married, you just
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: don't feel like going down that change in the paperwork.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: I would imagine it's just a hassle. Now, if you
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: got the kids, that's a whole other story. The kid's
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: name can't change. I don't think. I'm not sure, but
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's why. But but if you all
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: don't have kids, I think the only thing that would
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: bother you is the fact that she said she don't
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: want you to have it. But I think the real
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: question is why would you want to keep it from
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: a man that don't want you. I would change it
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: and not let it be about this woman saying I
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: don't want her to have your name no more. You
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: would change change with no kids, Oh, with no kids,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I think I think that's more of a female question. Uh, Carl,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: it would you change if you didn't have kids and
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: you divorce the man, would you keep his last name?
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. If I didn't have any children,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. I know my mother got a
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: divorce with my dad. She kept his name because of me,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: you know, because she had a kid, right, daughter, I
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: did the same thing, because right, But if you have
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: a child, that changes everything, because you don't want to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: change your name and have your daughter or your ass
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: out up at the school. Well, who is miss Perkins? Yes?
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: It was always so confusing when growing up. It was like,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: you know, the kid's name was Johnson and the mother's
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: name was brand you know. And I think I think,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: if you have children, I think you keep the name
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: because it just keeps it clear for you why your
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: mama named that exactly, you know, So I understand that. Yeah,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: for child, it makes a difference. Okay, all right, all right?
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Leah and New York. Leah says, I've
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: been dating a mama's boy for almost a year. I'd
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: hope that by now he would want more of me
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: and less of mama, But he still has dinner with
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: her several times a month, and he tells her all
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: of our business. It causes her to look at me differently.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Is it a loss cause with him and his mama?
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Will this ever get better? No? No? Once a mama's
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: boy always. What can you do to change the dynamics
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: of the relationship of a mama's boy? Nothing? You're not
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: gonna do. What is mama? Do? You already doing some
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: things that is mama don't do. And if that don't
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: make a difference, I don't know what will. That's not
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: gonna change. This is a mama's boy. He has dinner
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: with his mama several times a month. I don't know
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: how many times that is. But that's cool, you know
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That don't make him a mama's boy.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: But if you're telling all the business. But and it's
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: a lot more than that, that mama's boy thing turns
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: into texting and laughing and sitting up on the phone
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: telling jokes and Mama coming over watching movies with y'all.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: And you know he I'm staying at Mama's house tonight
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: because she's scared. The wind was blowing you know that
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. Yeah, you know, I got to go
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: over here and I got to get my mom car fixed,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: so we ain't gonna be able to get out car
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: fixed this month. You know when to get into that.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: It's dangerous. Got another one? Sho, Yes, I do? Uh
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Norris and Philly says, I'm a single man in my
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: late twenties and I'm having sex with a girl that
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: lives next door to me. My girlfriend and I are
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: on and off a lot, so this woman feels in
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: the gap when we're having problems. It's just sex for me,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: but the neighbor is catching feelings. She knows I have
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: a girl. So why is she getting caught up? What? Yeah? Yeah, No,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: next dough, Why is she getting cause she know I
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: got a girlfriend. Because that's the plan. See, y'all keep
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: being off. She jump in the off spot, figuring that
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: one day you ain't gonna be back home. I got
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: news for you. She gonna come over that knock on
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: the door next time your girlfriend over there. I got
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: news for you. Do this fitn't be a problem. Next
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Dough not fing to sit there and he on that
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: commotion going on up against a wall, and she not
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: gonna say nothing, m you know, putting me on the
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: wall like that last week when you was off with him.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: That's right, all right, sella thank you. Coming up at
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment dudes
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: for you. Right after this. You're listening Stave Harvey Morning Show,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: we'll all start game weekend highlights they were this weekend. Uh.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: First of all, let's get this out of the way
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: right now. Who saw Macy Gray thing the national anthem?
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: I did? Yeah, take a Linchen, take a listen, and
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about it. Yeah. Game, she didn't have no
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: V in her braid, was no V in her braid,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: trailed off the V in it, but it was pure
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Macy Gray though it was. Yeah, well she sung it
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: in pure Cleveland. So we was up in that holland laughing.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I don't even give it that Cleveland. Don't care, man,
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. What did you see when they
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: showed the lebron and Steph Cary trying to play it off?
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: And I love Macy Gray. Oh I do too, doo.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I love her, And that's what you expect Macy Gray.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: You hired. Yeah, so the lebron m buss out laughing.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: They they wanted to though, Tim, They was just I'm
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: talking about set back down. Yeah, Cleveland, it is what
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: it is in Cleveland. Man, that's funny. And I watched
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: the slam dunk contest. You know I didn't didn't see
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: none of this, dude. I worked my butt out. What
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: what tell me about it? Dunk contest? Who want the
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: dude out of New York? Yeah, he was supposed to
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: win it. He was the best. Yeah, you know, I
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: can't even touch your rim no more so them days.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: It is done. But I mean them dudes was some
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: of the stuff was. It just wasn't what I na.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: It wasn't nothing, man. It was Jordan's, Vince Carter, nobody.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: It wasn't nobody doing nothing special. Yeah. Nah. The one
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: dunk I saw where he did the three sixty up
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: under the leg win wheel, that was who. That was funky.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: But the one he missed. I wanted to see him
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: tap it on the backboard then go on his legs
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: and dunk, but he never got it back off the backboard,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: and Shack just looked thoroughly. Man. Yes, but I don't
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: like when you do four five attempts at a dunk
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: and you don't make it because even if you do
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: make it, after that, you know there's too many chances. Yeah,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: the performance were DJ Khaled, Mary J. Blige, Ludicrous, Little Wayne,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Little Baby, and Amigos. So that was good. Then on Sunday,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: during the All Star Game itself, Lebron James pulled out
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: a game winning three pointer to score the win for
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: Team Lebron, the final score one sixty three to one
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: sixty against Team Durant. Now, Kevin Durant was not there
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: due to the passing of his grandmother, And yeah, our
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: condolences of course. Um, and it wasn't all Lebron. Steph
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Curry was welcomed by the crowd with booze. Again they
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: were in Cleveland because he's beat because he's beat Cleveland
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: several times in the finals. We don't forgive Timmy. That
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: ain't what we do. We're not forgiving people. You know,
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: we're not in that lost. No, it's not no, it's
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: not no, it's not a game. It's called hatred. That's
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: what we have and we're not letting it go. So
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: you came in here and you beat us and won
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: the title. We hate you. Don't come up here to play.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Ween sportsmen were not fitting play like you know, we
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: care for you, we re respect your talent. None of that.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: It's hatred. But did you see did you see Michael Jordan,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: Isaiah Thomas, doctor Jay, et cetera. All of them were there.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Did you see the legend? Yeah? Man, because it was
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: the seven Way. I mean, everybody was there. Man. It
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: was nice. It was nice. Crowd was on their feet
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: as Steph Curry said an all time Games All Star
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: game record. He was named MVP, scoring fifty total points
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: for Team LA. Wow. Yeah again, Yeah, congratulates on the
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: fifty points. Oh, by the way, we still hate you.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: All right, We'll moving on from the hatred to some love,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: some blessings and celebrity baby news. R and B singer
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: key Key Wyatt posted on her Instagram page that she
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: is pregnant with her eleventh child. Eleventh child. She looked
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: we were doing throwback babies. Now we're just doing some
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: nineteen forty. Oh it's just because that's a lot of kids. Yeah,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: is it the same day? The second child Tommy with
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: her third husband, her third husband, I don't know, her
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: second child with her third husband. She got leven kids,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: shared yeah, I know. So she's had other kids with
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: her others of her previous marriages. Yeah, I like her. Man,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: she cool girl. You can do your things. That's what
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: you want to do. I'm not having eleven kids at all,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: seven nothing. Did not want all them, honest, every baby story.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean they here now, but you know,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: you know, champagne and bubbles when I got the news
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: of Steve Robert Morning Show coming up right after this
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: you're listening to show. Yesterday was President's Day, and in
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: honor of the occasion, a new poll looked to find
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: out whether people would have any desire to be president themselves,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: just even for one day, just one day. It looks
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: like most people do not want that job. Okay, only
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: thirty nine percent of Americans are very or somewhat interested
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: in being president for a day. Fifty five are not
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: very or not interested at all. And Steve, you here
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: at all the time people say you should run for president.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: So do you think you would be a better president
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: than the average historical president and how would you do
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: things differently? Yeah, well, I would definitely be a better
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: president than all of them, Joe's, Washington, Aid, Lincoln, all
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: of them. No, I'm being better. I'd act, you know,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I'd be a better president than all of them because
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: of the way what I'm not gonna accept. See, I'm
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: not I'm not talking. Y'all. Can't say what you want
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: to say to me, and don't expect me to say
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: nothing back. And I'm doing that Supreme Order stuff all
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: the time. That executive order, I'm doing all that. I
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: don't give a damn what your sin its say. I'm
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: signing it into order. That's what I'm doing. Nothing to
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: ask you nothing. I'm care about what your party say,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: what my party say. I'm the president. Yeah, you're gonna
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: have the briefings, briefings in the morning. Hey listen, Hey,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: thank y'all all for coming. This is what we're doing now.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: I pull all troops out of all parts of the world.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: We're not doing this no more. And I'm on fighting,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: and I'm on fighting. All y'all are signing up for
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: all the free educations, probably ain't gonna have them. Well,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: everybody signed up in a military for these free educations
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: that probably ain't gonna have them, because we ain't gonna
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: be we're gonna lose a lot of y'all in the
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: you know process or withdrawals. Appreciate your service. We're gonna
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: get you your check, but we ain't gonna need you
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: over here. We're gonna sell all these guns. Yes, any
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: police officer that shoots a black person will be shot.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: They damn self. Right now, Slow this down, right now. Yeah,
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: you'll come before me. I'm gonna look at the video
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna pass judgment. No more cases, no more trials.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at the video and I'm gonna make
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: the call based on the video. If you don't have
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: your body cam own, I'm assuming you are hiding everdence,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: your ass is gone anyway. But mister President, that's what
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: That's not what the Constitution said. Are you a judge
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: of the press. Yeah, yeah, Well let me ask you
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: a question. Have you read the Constitution? Not all of it? Yeah?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: You feel as though were in there any way. So wise,
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: we're paying attitchen to it. Coming up at thirty four
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to the
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. The police officer who killed Dante
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Wright has received what can only be considered a light sentence.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: Brooklyn Heights, Minnesota officer Kim Potter was convicted of first
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: and second degree manslaughter. She aimed her gun and fired
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: on right during a traffic stop, but she said she
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: thought she pulled her taser, not her gun. She's been
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: sentenced to just twenty four months, twenty four months in custody,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: sixteen in prison, and eight under supervi to release. She
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: could have faced up to twenty five years behind bars.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Prosecutors were seeking seven years. Judge Regina Chew defended the
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: two years sentence she gave officer Keim Potter by saying
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Potter was a cop who made a tragic mistake, not
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: who committed murder. Citing the case of George Floyd, civil
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: rights attorney Ben Crump said, there are black people in
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: prison serving greater time for selling marijuana, which is legal
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: in most states, than this police officer gets for killing
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: this young black man. It just goes to show you
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: the actual value that they placed on black life. Because
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, if a black police officer
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: had done this same thing and killed a white person
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: of any gender, age, whatever, do you think for one
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: moment that they would just say he made a tragic mistake.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Not at all. No, he did not honor his training.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: He should have known better. You can mistake your taser
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: for your gun. I'm sorry. It can't happen. You can't
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: take a person's life and get twenty four months. I'm sorry.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: And the amazing thing of this, and what I keep
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: saying is this never happens to white people ever. They're
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: never accidentally shot, they're never there, they're never shot in
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: the back running by the police. When white people get
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: shot by the police, they are in that active act
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: of committing a felony or crime. Other than that, they
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: don't make mistakes with white people, they don't, But they
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: make them with black people all the time, which lets
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: me know it's not mistakes, it's training. And like and
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: like Benjamin Crump said, it's black people doing more time
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: for selling weed. It make no sense, man, that you
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: can do that. But she's a white lady and she
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: killed a black man. What what? What's the big deal?
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: And and guess what, ain't a damn thing we can
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: do by itself. Get over here and be all right
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: with it. But see, we tied it at though, because
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: we've never really been all right with it. If any
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: white people are listening, we would like to make the
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: announcement we as black people have never been okay with
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: the sentences that's been paying handed down and the treatment
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: of blacks in the judicial system. Just to go on
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: record officially, we have never been okay with this. In
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: case you're thinking that we think it's powerful power for
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: the course, or we think it's just the way it is,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: We're not okay with it. And that's been our protest
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: the entire time, and even though you all have allowed
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: our protest to fall on deaf years, Please know we
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: are not okay with it, but we have come to
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: the conclusion that you are. That's what's sad to me.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I wish I had time to play something that I
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: pulled up from this lady that had asked a group
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: of whites to question online, and it was just so
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: compelling because the answer was, let me see if I
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: got it, let me see if I can play it.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: I think I have it. If you, as a white person,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: would be happy to see the same treatment that our
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: black citizens are in this society, please stand. You didn't
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: understand the directions if you white folks want to be
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: treated the way blacks are in this society, stand nobody's
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: standing here. That says very plainly that you know what's happening.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: You know you don't want it for you. I want
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: to know why you're so willing to accept it our tally.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: That's just that's all I have to say. Thank you,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: That's all I have to say. Thank you. Having a
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: nice day, y'all. It's in case you thought we was
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: okay with it. Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears here.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy is in the building with today's prank phone call.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, about four
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today, and today's
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: subject is what was she doing while I was gone
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: find out? We'll get into it in just a little bit,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's pryank
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Nap? All right now,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask. I'm just gonna say it. You know,
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: don't let it be shocking to you, but you know,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: it's just something we're working on it. We need you
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: to be a slave for a day? What slave? What
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: for a day? I mean it's black history. So just
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: work with us, now, just work with us that we
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: ain't asking for months. Slaves for a day, let's up. Hey,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Hey it's just a day. Okay, it's just a day.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: Give us let's go cat dog slave for a day. Hello. Hello,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach to you, missus Glinda, Please, miss Glenda.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: This is Gary. Gary. I'm with the Black History Okay
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: you you you participated last year in the in the
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: Black History Parade? Am I right? Yes? I should did. Okay,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I got your name from one of the members on
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: the committee and we're trying to see if you can
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: actually build some help for this year's Black History. Um,
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: for this month, I should be glad to help. Okay, listen, UM,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: we're having an auction tomorrow and wanted to see if
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: you could actually maybe build some help with the auction
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: that we actually have gone on tomorrow. Yes, do I
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: need to donate anything or but no that you need No,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: we're not really trying to get some donation from you
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: this time. We're trying to see if you have some
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: time tomorrow to come out and actually help out with
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: the actual auction. Okay, what time tomorrow? Probably like about
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: nine o'clock in the morning. I can do that, Okay.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: Now we're asking that you wear something that you'll be
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: comfortable in all day tomorrow possible, okay, Okay, pretty much
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: an all day event that we're trying to get you
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: to do. Okay, I could be there around nine the
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: time we have to leave about four. Well, I'll tell
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: you what. We'll see what we can, how we can
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: work it out, but we definitely want you to come
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: and be a part of what we're doing. So what
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: is it that you really need be to do? Um? Well, actually,
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: you know, we we we got a lot of people
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: doing different things at the you know, at the auction,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: you know, so we just want you to come out
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: and be of some help with everything that's going on. Okay, Well,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I want to be prepared. So what exactly do I
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: need to do? Work the concessions they in something like that. No, really,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: what we had is actually you being a part of
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: the auction, being a part of the auction such as well,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: what we're doing tomorrow is we have already we already
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: have fifty people who are signed up and you would
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: be you know, one of those people that are that
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: are that are signed up to do the actual What
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: is is we're having slaves for a day, and what
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: we're gonna be doing is auctioning you. Often, somebody's gonna
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: buy you tomorrow and you will be the for the
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: day slaves. Yeah, you will be the slave for the day.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: That's what that's what we've decided to do with the
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: Black history. We decided. I didn't mean I don't I
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: want to participate, but being a slave no, okay, but
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: see what you what I want you to understand that
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: this is a word that calls though you know we
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: want worthy call but I'm not gonna be no play Well,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: well you I mean you don't have to call it
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: a slave. I mean as a servant, you know, a butler.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean when you want to call it.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, no slave, Okay, okay, man man, miss
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: miss Glenna. We don't trying to explain this is a
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: word to call for the Black history and we're trying
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: to get you to be there. Somebody may buy you
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: for five hundred dollars tomorrow. No, I'm not gonna do it. Okay,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: are you are you? Are you turning us down for
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: a word that calls mister glense, Yes, I am turning
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: your down. Don't call me with that kind of no more.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't understand what what the problem is.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: You know, sometimes we got to repeat history, so we
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: don't go back to the history. Sometimes we got to
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: do it again so we don't go back to what
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: you understand? But it isn't seem like you You acting
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: like a houseene grow or something like you two up
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: at the hawsne grow house need grow. Who's the chairman
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: of this? Excuse me the chairman? Last time I spoke
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: with mister Wilson and we didn't have no like this. Okay,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: and I understand that. But what I'm trying to explain
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: to you is this is something that I don't want
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: you to explain pain to me. Do not call me
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: with this kind of again. Are you gonna show up tomorrow?
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: But we can sell you? Do you understand me? Are
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: you gonna show him tomorrow so we can sell you?
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: We already have you know, We're gonna say, tell me
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: we are listed to be sold tomorrow. Sell you. We've
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: got you listed to be sold tomorrow, ma'am, can we
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: please make shoot don't be sold and you not call
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: here again. Hey, listen, if you don't show up tomorrow,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: then we will come to your house and sell you there.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Come too. If I got to come out, you would
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: over here. If you want to listen, I will come
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: there to sell you. If you're not gonna come out
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: to the auction, come on to my house, you bad,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: come on to my mouse. Okay, I tell you you
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: know what I need you to do this. You need
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: to start saying yes sir and no sir to me
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: right now. Okay, I need to get you in the
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: in the frame of mind being a save for to day. Okay,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I didn't hear what you said. Kiss my black I'm
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: coming to your house tomorrow and I'm gonna sell you
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: in front of your house. If you want to come
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: down to the auction tomorrow morning at nine o'clock, you
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: better not bring you house. Do you better not? Do
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: you understand me? I a march for civil rights. I
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: don't have time no like that. And we got for
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: president you I understand we got a black man for president.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: But right now we're trying to raise some money for
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: black history and we need to sell you tomorrow morning.
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna sell me. You're not gonna sell me.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: You don't call my house no more? Do you understand?
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Do not call? I understand exactly what you're saying. Can
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: I tell you something else? Who else is gonna be
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: so tomorrow? Tell all now? Don't tell me. I got
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: one more thing I do need to tell you. What
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: is it? Bess is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just got planked by your sisters, My sister,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: my sister. I can't believe that I'm gonna get Huh.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: I can't believe you to did clemba? You all right?
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Oh all right? This is so crazy. I can't believe it.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna for this. It doesn't sound like
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: you were gonna get stolen. No way. You wasn't getting
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: on this auction block. Huh, No, no way, Because miss
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Flinders have been there, I've been at the city end,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: the marches, I've done something everything, ma'am. Well, I tell
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: you what, Missus Glendon, if it wasn't for people like you,
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: we probably wouldn't be where we are today. That's right.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: We showed thank you, we showed, thinking I just wanted
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: to play a joke on Did I get you? Yes?
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: You did you? Sure? Indeed it. I got one more.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you. What is
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: show in the land. The Steve Harvey Morning showed that
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: the nephew Tommy, We love you, missus Glendon, Okay, love
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: you too, kiss mob blank blank and blank, happy black.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Heyst ladies and gentle happy blacky. You ain't gonna be
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: no slave, kiss my black. What you what you want
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: me to do with the auction? Now? What am I doing? Now?
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: What exactly? You know you don't want me working the concessions?
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: So what you want me doing? Thank you? She kind
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: of knew then when she saw asking questions, she was like,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: just about to be some that you did. That's right, Wow,
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: she said, I paved the way. Baby. I've been there
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: to the sit ends, the boycotts, all of that, and
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: here you come with this foolishness. You come with this foolishness. Hey,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: I want to thank Baltimore, Maryland man. Y'all sold me
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: out this weekend. I appreciate y'all coming to see the ignorant,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: ad stupid nephew. And that's what everybody's saying in the audience.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: Stupid Tom, stay stupid, stay stupid. You ain't fun, You're stupid.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: I saw Kings King Solomon, who are out of Richmond. Yeah?
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Coming up next March nineteenth. I'm in Beaumont, Texas, y'all.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: Julie Rodgers the one show, Saturday Night. Tickets on sale
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: right now. Laying in the cut is Nashville, Tennessee. Zany's
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Comedy Club April first through the third. That's April Fool's weekend.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: The food is coming to Nashville. And then April eighth
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: through the tent that Shaly, North Carolina, the comment Zone.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: The nephew is coming to town. Back on the road again. Baby,
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: got the microphone in my hand. Let's come watching me work.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: I am ignorant at its best. Okay, Baltimo, thanks again?
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: Which one I'm gonna be? Stupid? Stupid? I got it
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: all right? Made him a month? All right? Thank enough?
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: You Coming up next, Strawberry letters subject what was she
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: doing while I was gone? Well we'll find out right
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show Time Now
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships,
• 53:53
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• 53:57
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• 54:01
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• 54:05
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• 54:07
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• 54:09
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• 54:13
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• 54:15
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject what was she doing
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: while I was gone? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: three year old black man married for nine years. When
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I got married, I was young and still in the streets.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Over time, I got an associate's degree and I got
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: a job in a position of leadership, but I was
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: still hanging out with the same crew, and I got
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: caught up and ended up in jail. A friend of
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: mine asked me to drive him to the liquor store,
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: so I did. He went in and came out, and
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: we left. I had no idea that he had committed
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: an armed robbery until I was arrested for being a
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: getaway driver. My wife had just had our third son,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: but she held me down because she knows I'm not
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: a bad guy. I did time and I got home
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: six months ago. I listened to the radio show while
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I was locked up, and this is my favorite subject,
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: so I'm trying to see if you could help me.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: My wife is a lot different since I got home.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: She dresses differently, and she smokes weed, which is legal
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: in our area. She dictates if and when we have sex,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: and she rations out money to me. I feel as
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: if I can't say anything because of what I put
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: her through while I was locked up. We were watching
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: TV the other night and her phone rang and she
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: left the room to talk. I didn't say a word.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: The next morning, she got a call and I could
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: hear that it was a man on the phone. She
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: talked for about three minutes, and as soon as she
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: hung up, I told her she has a lot of
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: nerve allowing men to call her while she's home, and
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: there is no way this can continue. She told me
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: to hush and be glad I still have a home
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: because her friends helped her out by doing things in
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: and around the house while I was away. I asked
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: her what in and around the house meant, and she
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: ignored me. I have to keep cool and not explode
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: on her. What's the best way to approach it? Well,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: you know, right now the best thing you can do
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: is get yourself together. Okay, time doesn't stop when you
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: go to prison. Stop expecting things to be the same,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: and you need to think about the future. What was
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: she doing while you were gone, Well, she was surviving. Obviously,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: she was taking care of three kids alone. She was
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: probably scared. You said. She held it down while you
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: were in jail, and she did let you come back home. Okay,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: but the respect and apparently the love are gone out
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: of this relationship. You see and hear what she's doing.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: She's talking with other men. Of course you don't like it.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I mean what man would like that from their wife.
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: So now you need to concentrate on your next move
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: and that that's being your own And because your wife
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: is doing her thing, there's nothing you can do about it.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Right now, you said it. You have to keep cool
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: and not explode on her. You need to get your dignity,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: your self respect back. So I suggest you get a
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: job somewhere, you start making your own money so she
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: won't have to ration it out to you. As you say,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, no man wants that save it
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: for your apartments. You know, then you know, fix the
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: situation with your wife and these kids. You might have
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: to arrange visitation rights if you do eventually get your
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: own apartment, And I say, making sure your kids are okay,
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: that should be your top priority right now anyway, because
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: they missed a lot of time with you. Your youngest
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: son orly even knows you. You're concentrating on the wrong things.
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: I think you expect things to be the same. Clearly
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: your wife has moved on. You need to do the
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: same now, but with purpose. Okay, Steve, this is gonna
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: be a tough went to answer for your young brother.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna just take you through this thing step
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: by step because one of the first things when you're
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: trying to solve his problem is taking full responsibility and
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: knowing what it is that you can do to bring
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: about change. The question is in the subject what was
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: she doing while I was gone? Now, you're thirty three
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: year old black man, married for nine years. When you
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: got married, you were young and still in the streets,
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: so you were twenty four when you got married, same
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: ages me at my first marriage. That is young to
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: be married for anybody. But you were still in the streets.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: Over time, you got an associate degree, and you got
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: a job in a position of leadership. So you're realizing
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: that you got to do better for yourself. Here's the
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: mistake you made. But I was still hanging with the
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: same crew, and I got caught up and ended up
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: in jail. Hell, how many times have I said this
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: to people? Everybody come with you can't go with you.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: In order to grow, you have to go. I've said,
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: it's so many different ways. You can't wear about keeping
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: it real. You got to keep it moving. I've said
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: all of these things that tie us to the hood,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: that ties to our old relationships and friends, But you
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: can't go get an associate degree. Here's another one I
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: said a long time ago. You can't be a college
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: student and a thug in the same census. It don't match.
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: Thugging and college student don't match. Now, you didn't know
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: what was going on, but you dropped your friend off
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: at a liquor store. He goes in and comes back out.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: Next thing you know, you're arrested because you the getaway
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: car driver. You didn't know this fool went in here
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: and robbed the damn liquor store. So now you're out
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: and you're an accomplished to committing an arm robbery. Your
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: wife had just had your third son, but she held
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: you down because she knows I'm not a bad guy,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: did my time, and I came home six months ago.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: Now here's a problem. You're not telling me how long
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: you were in You're not saying that, and you're leaving
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: that out of the letter because it helps you. But
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: uncle Steve, no better m robbery. Even with a plea
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: you year a half two. Even if they believed you,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: they they let you plead to this right here. All right,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour of subject
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: what was she doing while I was gone? We'll get
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening show, all right,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today Strawberry letter. The subject
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: what was she doing while I was gone? Well, thirty
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: three year old black man married for nine years, was
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: in the streets when you got married. But you messed
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: around and got self degree, congratulations, got you a job
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: of position and leadership. But the mistake you made. You
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: was still hanging with the same crew. You got caught
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: up and you got ended up in jail. Now, you
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: drop a friend off at the liquor store a little
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: too you know, he goes in and he robs the place.
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  Speaker 1: He comes back and gets in the car. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know this until you get arrested because you were driving
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: the getaway car. Okay. Now, your wife had just had
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: your third son, but she held you down in prison
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: jail because she knows you're not a bad guy. You
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: did your time, and you got home six months ago.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: You didn't really say how much time you're doing. I'm
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: assuming a couple of years, you know, eighteen months something
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: on the plea you did because they believe that you
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: just went in there and you didn't know. But let's
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: say you were gone a couple of years, all right.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: You come out and you listen to the radio show
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: while he was locked up. Thank you and Strawberry Letter
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: one your favorite things. So that got you through. We
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: appreciate y'all, brothers. Since is it's on lockdown, I hope
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: we do something to get you through. Not. You come
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: home and you notice that your wife is a lot
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: different since you got home. She dresses differently, she smokes weed,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: which is legal in our area. She dictates if and
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: when we have sex, and she rashes out money to me.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: I feel as though I can't say anything because of
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: what I put her through while I was locked up. Now,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: y'all watch the TV. The other night, the phone rang
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: and she left the room to talk. You ain't say nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Next morning, she got a call and you could hear
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: that it was a man on the phone. She talked
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: about three minutes. As soon as she hung up, I
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: told her she got a lot of nerve allowing me
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: and to call her while she's home, and there's no
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: way this can continue. She told me to hush. Pretty sure.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: The word wasn't hushed. I think it was a little
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: bit more harsh than that. I think it started with
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: shut yeah, okay, Sutley, and glad that you still have
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: a home because her friends helped her out by doing
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: things in and around the house while I was away.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: I asked her what in and the house meant, and
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: she ignored me. I have to keep cool and not
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: explode on her. What's the best way to approach it? Well, brother,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: things have changed. She dressing different, and she's smoking weed.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: She's gone through a lot holding his family down while
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: you was gone. But really, though, brother, these is the
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: consequences of your actions because you didn't leave them streets alone.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: Well let's say you left the streets alone, but you
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: hang with the same crew. Association brings on participation. So
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: now here we are. One of your ignorant ass friends
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: did something ignorant selfishly didn't tell you. You got caught up.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: You had to do time. Now your girl been watching
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: you out in this streets. She has told you you're
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: leaving that part out the letter. She'd been told you
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: stopped hanging with them fools. You wouldn't do it because
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: you was keeping it real instead of keeping it moving.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: You was not forgetting where you from. You was getting
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: caught up in all that hood. Then go there. Ain't
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: got nothing to do with your family. So now here's
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: a deal. Shirley said it right. You've got to get
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: yourself together. But now you have a police record. Hard
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: to get employed with a police record. So now you've
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: got everything's all of this you bought on yourself. Brother,
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  Speaker 1: So now I can't tell you that your marriage will
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: ever get back because you never really allowed it to
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: get off the ground the right way. You stayed out
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: there in the streets. It's your marriage could be over.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: She has male friends, now, she has people that has
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: done things for her to help her out. Now, I'm
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: gonna just tell you flat out, if a man hadn't
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: done something to help you out, then we gotta think
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: about that for a second. I'm not saying she did anything,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: but you were. Man. But let's be fair. Let's not
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: be angry with this sister because you put this sister
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: in the position where she had to survive. And once
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: you put a person in survival mode, man, you can't
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: get mad at how they choose to survive. You just can't. Now,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: while she dressing different, I don't know. I don't know.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know if she wearing your clothes. I don't
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: know what this change or outfits is. That she wear
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: a lot of your clotheses. She wear baseball hats cocked
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: to the sides. I don't know what the clothes is.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: But she rationed and out sex and money because she
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: don't know how long you're gonna be round. You might
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: have to go again. I don't know what it is, brother,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: but you got to get yourself together. Don't be so
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: angry with the woman because she was put in survival mode.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I don't think you should explode on her because you
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: left her in a really, really bad situation with your
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: third son. Woman got three kids, she got put in
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: survival mode. She has some male friends, it looks like,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: and they're not your male friends. Good luck. Don't explode
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: on the sister. Maybe it's time for you to just
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: go somewhere and get yourself together, like Shirley say, take
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: care of your kids. Thank you, all right? Thanks Steve
• 1:06:47
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• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: We'll have Sports with We'll have Sports with UNC and
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: NET right after this. Yeah, you're listening to the Steve
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Junior is out today, Tommy and Steve.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Michigan basketball head coach Juwan Howard has been suspended for
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: the rest of the regular season. You guys were asking
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: about that yesterday. What was going to happen? He had
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: that altercation at the end of the laws against Wisconsin
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: on Sunday. Here's a breakdown of the suspensions. Okay head
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: coach Juwan Howard coaching suspension five games, which is the
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: remainder of the season. He got fined forty thousand dollars.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: He has not lost his job though he still works. No, no, no,
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: he's just suspended for the rest of the season. Okay,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: student athlete Terrence Williams the second suspension one game, effective immediately,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: Student athlete Musa Diambatte suspension one game, effective immediately. And
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: for the University of Wisconsin head coach Greg Carr, Greg
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: Gardin ten thousand dollars ten well, he ain't forty Okay,
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: ten thousand um And student athlete Jacobe Neath suspension one
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: game effective immediately. So there was what was the second
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: kid's name you're seeing, Shirley. I try to get it right.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: Most all of them is about black man that's African,
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: though he in trouble. Her mom didn't gonna well, let
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: me say this, Uh, there's a little The problem I
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: have with this is not Juan's suspension. I knew they
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: was gonna go hard because the athletic director of Michigan
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: was against Juwan Howard from the outset. This is unacceptable.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: We were not This is Michigan, so I knew he
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: was in trouble with that. Juan Howard's a good dude.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: But when I look at the tapes, the initiator of
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: this whole thing was to head coach for Wisconsin. Right
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: when he tried to stop Juan, and Juan tried to
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: walk by him, and he grabbed his arm and pushed
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: it practically behind Juan and Juan will hold man, get
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: your hand off me. Then Juwan grabbed his fabric under
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: his skin shirt and then let his hand go. But
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: then Juwan's reason he's suspended is because of a punch
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: of the open hand swipe he took at the other
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: coach at the other right. Obviously, you're the only one
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: on the planet who saw that. Then, No, I don't know.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know how they did. I watched it a
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: bunch of times. The initiator of all contact was the
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: head coach from Wisconsin. He the first person put his
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: hands on Jiuana. Doesn't now Jiwan is paying for this
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: whole thing. I think it's a I was a little
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: disappointed in a couple of the sports casts the way
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: they jumped on Juan about it too, but it is
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: what it is now, so he gonna pay the fund,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: all of them. Stephen A. Smith said that he should
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: be suspended and needed. Stephen A. Smith said, you're the
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: only one that really happens. Stephen, ain't see what happened
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: at first, don't know what the I don't know how
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: they didn't. I watched the tape, the whole tape. That
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: initiation of physical contact was the Wisconsin coach. Forty thousand
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: dollars fine, ten thousand dollars fine, Okay, you do the
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: man coming up at the top of the hour. We'll
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Valentine's Day
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: was a week ago, and we don't really know if
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: this story is true, but according to Barstool Sports, Buffalo
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: Bill's players Stefan Diggs allegedly had two women in the
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: same hotel in two different rooms on Valentine's Day. That's
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: come on. One of the women is. One of the
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: women is his regular girlfriend, okay, the other one is
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: his new boom. Both posted pictures on Valentine's Day with
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: flowers balloons, which are now allegedly posted on a blogs
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: i G page, and it's not really clear if the
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: women are staying at the same hotel. It's all very confusing. Anyway,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: here's the question, here's the question, going from one room
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: to the other. If they could have had a joining suite. Okay, anyway,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: have you ever juggled two different people? This? This is
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: you know, for you guys, if you've ever jugged this morning,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: that means is that a yes? Tommy? Is that a yes? Anyway?
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: Have you ever juggled two different people who both thought
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: that you were into them at the same time and
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: the same That's it. That's the question. I juggled some
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: balls in a Shakespeare plate. I'm not look at Steve.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: Steve's hand is on his face. Stuff you ask us,
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: amaze man, tell us story, Steve. Let's go back to
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: Let's go back and talk about that story. I do
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: want to say something about Stefan Diggs. If you have
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: two girls in the same hotel, in different rooms on
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, you cannot get arrested for this. This is
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: not a crime being committed, you know. Uh. If they
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: both got the same types of rooms, that's that's good.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: Where do you sleep at well, you don't sleep, Tommy.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of a lot of back and forth,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: a lot of ice ice. Now you're gonna have to
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: have a friend involved in this who can call your phone,
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: who has an offsight emergency that requires you to drive
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: there and help him. That's what would you do? Because
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: here comes the lies. Well, okay, Shirley you wanted the women,
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: and caller you wanted the women. And now I got
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: to leave Caller's room to go up to Shirley's room.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: So here's what I'm gonna say to caller. Hevery baby,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: hold on, I'm gonna go. I left something in the car.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go down to the car and get something.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: Everything I got flowers. You deserve more, baby, There's no
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: way on and went through all this. Listen, I'm not
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: gonna give you everything you deserve on Valentine. Sit tight.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: It's gonna take me a minute to range everything because
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting on something else to happen. But I'll be
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: right back. Click gone two hours. She win this Teddy
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: alone on time. You know that I'm up at Sherley
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: room for two hours. I just got here. Lord have message.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy to see you. Let's get it on,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: Marvin Gay, I've been waiting. I know, I'm here, almost over.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: I'm here. I had an emergency. What was the emergency?
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: I had a friend of mine that called. He got arrested.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: He got arrested. You know howse football players he is.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: We're always getting in trumble. But what didn't he do though?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: That a solo battery of a police are No, I'm
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: his best friend trying me leave him, and we're trying
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: to keep this and quit making me talk about it
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: because we're trying to keep this hush hush before the
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: end up on TMZ. Well, baby, if Valentine's Day here,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: I am plus you the second chick anyway, because you
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: number two coming up a third three this after the hour,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: we'll play around it, would you rather? Right after this
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Here's a
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: crazy story. And lots of people get tattoos, right, lots
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: of people get tattoos to mark important occasions in their lives.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: And Gloria, don't I just remember stuff? Yeah, but a
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: lot of people do get tattoos. Gloria Weeberg is one
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: of them. She's from Michigan. She's celebrating an important milestone.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: Next month, she will be turning one hundred years old,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: and she's getting a tattoo to celebrate that fact. Gloria
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: may not be the age of the average tattoo shop customer,
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: but this isn't her first visit. She actually got her
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: very first tattooed twenty years ago when she turned eighty.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: Then when she turned ninety, she got another tattoo. Now
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: the latest addition to her left arm is to mark
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: one zero zero, one hundred. She now probably for it
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: say New York nineteen twenty two tattoo and for the
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: year in place of her birth, and a goddess representing
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Mother Earth and seven stars representing her children. Three people
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: gotta do her tattoos, though, how so, because you got
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: two people gotta pull her skin on both sides or
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: to lay flat, then the tattoo artists can start. You
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: need two people pulling her skin, stretch it out like
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: an old cloth so it'll be smooth. It's three people
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: to do her tattoos because you got to stretch your skin.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: I'll make it flat first, and then when it's snapped,
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: the tattoo don't look like it do like it's gonna
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: say one hundred, but when it's snapped back, it's gonna
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: say ten. A happy upcoming birthday, missus Gloria Wee Bird
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: coming up at thirty three minutes after, we'll play a
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: round it Would you rather right at? I swear to
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: god it is you're listening to Morning show time Now
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: guys for a round of would you rather? Would you
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: rather remember everything you see? Or would you rather remember
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: everything you hear? Maybe here? Okay, so you say, yeah, yea,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: I'll rather remember everything out here because everything you see
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: wasn't wasn't real, no way. But I really remember everything
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: out here because here's hearing this is knowledge seeing this
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: to seven? Okay, all right, okay? Would you rather give
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: up cursing forever forever? Would you rather give cursing forever?
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather give up ice cream for five years? Oh?
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: I give up ice cream for five years because you
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: can't give up cursing about that ice cream? Though, give
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: up cursing forever or ice cream for five years? Yeah,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give up that ice cream for five years,
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: for five five years as much as you love ice cream? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: you know more. I just It's not that I love cursing,
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: It's just I think it's a necessity. I don't know
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: how because there's a lot of ways. Yeah, I keep
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff off me with that. Plus there's
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: a lot of people that I have in my life
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: that I have to It's like I can't talk to
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: my oldest brother lest we CUsing it's no way me
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: and Turke can have a conversation. Les custom all right,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: rather would you rather change the outcome of the last
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: election or would you rather get to decide the outcome
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: of the next election? So would you rather change the
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: last one or get to decide the outcome of the
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: upcoming election? Yeah? Um, upcoming? Yeah? Joe Biden and you
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: know so, yeah cool, I should have said the one
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: before that one. Who do I think would make a
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: great new president from the Democratic side? I'm not sure
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: who we have. Yeah, And I don't know if Joe
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: is gonna be capable to run again due to his age,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: but if he's up, if he if he propped up,
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: they're gonna run him again. I think Joe came in
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: just to do for That's what I think. But you know,
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: it's amazing, man, that they got Trump out of that though,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: because usually the incumbent usually wins. Yeah, but they got
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: they got Trump out of there. Um, all right? Would
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: you would you rather be forced to live the same
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: day over and over again for a full year or
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: take three years off the end of your life? Oh?
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: I little Si. We're just gonna keep on doing Monday.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: I don't give a damn you guys gonna keep on
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: being shaving no time off yep that I don't know
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: what's fit to happen too. I can turn that into something.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: All right, that's what you're rather for today. Coming up
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our last
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: break of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: from the one on only Steve Harvey right after this.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show all right, guys, it is our
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday, and Steve,
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: it's time for our closing remarks. Hey, here it is
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  Speaker 1: today you all. I want to encourage people asual, but
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  Speaker 1: I want to remind you of something. You have an
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to make a decision that can alter the course
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  Speaker 1: of your life. You you have an opportunity to make
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  Speaker 1: a decision that can alter the course of your life. Okay, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: what do you mean by that? I mean this, and
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  Speaker 1: this is just a true fact. If you change your
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  Speaker 1: thought process, if you change the way you look at things,
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  Speaker 1: if you take every negative spin and put a positive
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  Speaker 1: spin on it, if you start setting your dreams and goals,
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  Speaker 1: if you start praying, if you start confiding in God,
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  Speaker 1: if you form a relationship with your creator, you have
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  Speaker 1: done the necessary things. You have made a decision that
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  Speaker 1: can alter the course of your life. All you have
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  Speaker 1: to do is believe that is so that simple thing
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  Speaker 1: is so difficult for the average person to even conceive
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  Speaker 1: for themselves. And why is that? I'll tell you why.
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  Speaker 1: Because the devil is brilliant. Because the devil uses all
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  Speaker 1: the tricks to persuade you to think the opposite way.
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  Speaker 1: His only job is to rob you of your destiny.
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  Speaker 1: And if he can make you think that what I
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  Speaker 1: just said is not possible for you, it is the beginning.
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  Speaker 1: But let's go back and look at it. If you
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  Speaker 1: look at all the success stories of most honest people,
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  Speaker 1: they will tell you at some point I believed it,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted it, and I worked for it. But if
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  Speaker 1: you do not have the belief. We can stop right there.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't believe something it's for you. If you
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  Speaker 1: don't believe in something you want or aspire to, we
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  Speaker 1: can stop right there. Now. Think about it. Have you
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  Speaker 1: given up on the belief system? Have you given up
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  Speaker 1: on believing in the things that you used to want
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  Speaker 1: for yourself? Because in the delaying of it happening, you
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  Speaker 1: perceive the delay as a denial. How many of you
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  Speaker 1: are guilty of that. It's have a real moment here now.
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  Speaker 1: How many of you have ever wanted something really badly
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  Speaker 1: and you wanted at a particular time and it didn't happen,
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  Speaker 1: so you assumed because it was delayed, it was denied.
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  Speaker 1: How many of you have ever felt that way? I
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  Speaker 1: know I have, I know I know the majority of
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  Speaker 1: people have. But if that's the way you use your
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  Speaker 1: thought process, it proves that what I'm saying is true
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  Speaker 1: because the moment you change the way you think, you
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  Speaker 1: change everything. Because it's delayed doesn't mean it's denied because
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  Speaker 1: you don't believe something to be So it's the very
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  Speaker 1: call of the possibility of it happened, And it gets
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  Speaker 1: down to the real basis of what faith is. Faith
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  Speaker 1: is the belief in things that you cannot see. I
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  Speaker 1: don't need a lot of faith to walk to the bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't. I just say, man, I got to
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  Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, and I get up in a
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  Speaker 1: walk over there. It doesn't require faith for me. But
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  Speaker 1: if I decide to set up a goal that to
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  Speaker 1: gain attention for my foundation or to gain attention to
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  Speaker 1: a cause, and I make the announcement on Facebook, Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey is going to walk from Atlanta, Georgia to Cleveland, Ohio,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people gonna get cameras out, We're gonna
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  Speaker 1: go see this here because you know why, that ain't regular.
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  Speaker 1: That ain't nothing I've ever done before. They ain't nothing
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  Speaker 1: I can see. So that would require faith, wouldn't it
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  Speaker 1: would It would require faith for a person to say
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna I'm gonna go survive some in climate
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  Speaker 1: clement weather for twenty one days, neck it and afraid
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  Speaker 1: or whatever. It requires some measure of faith. But if
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  Speaker 1: you watch that show, a lot of people don't make
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  Speaker 1: it because what they thought was gonna be easy is
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  Speaker 1: never that easy. And then somewhere a line that the
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  Speaker 1: majority of people don't make it on that show. But
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  Speaker 1: listen to me. Everything starts from the basis of your belief.
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  Speaker 1: Get back to believing. I believe that twenty twenty two
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be the best year of my life. I
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  Speaker 1: expect that. I am looking forward, I am watchful for
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  Speaker 1: I'm paying close attention to everything I'm saying to God
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  Speaker 1: so far in twenty twenty two, because I have claimed
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  Speaker 1: a victory for myself in twenty twenty two. If you've
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  Speaker 1: not done that, when stuff don't happen your way, who
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  Speaker 1: you're mad at you didn't put the belief out there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, y'all, why would you not try that?
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  Speaker 1: Why would you not give that a shot. It's a
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  Speaker 1: simple exercise in belief. It's a simple exercise in the
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  Speaker 1: law of attraction. It's a simple exercise in faith. But
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  Speaker 1: you've got to attempt it. All that donna work, Yo.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. Somebody really really close to me.
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  Speaker 1: I've been begging them to come to me and sit
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  Speaker 1: down with a vision list because I tell everybody and
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  Speaker 1: this person is really close to me, and they've yet
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  Speaker 1: to come and sit with me. But they keep wandering
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  Speaker 1: around aimlessly in their life, and I watch them time
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  Speaker 1: after time after time, thing not go right. Thing not
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  Speaker 1: go right. And they keep telling me about it. And
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  Speaker 1: all I said to them was come and sit with
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  Speaker 1: me with your vision list, your dream board. They still
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  Speaker 1: ain't made one. Well maybe if they would start believing
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  Speaker 1: that that system works, maybe they could change something. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: they're listening today. I hope so, I hope you heard it.
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  Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks today. It starts with the belief.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all get back to believing. Have a great day. Talk
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  Speaker 1: to God he loved to hear from me. For all
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