Latest / The Lila Rose Show / E156: Adoption, Abuse, and Growing up Reagan’s Son w/Michael Reagan
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- 0:00What was it like being raised by Ronald Reagan and by your
- 0:03mother, Jane? 1953 I walked away from God.
- 0:06I walked away from my mother. I walked away from my father.
- 0:09I walked away from everybody. In 1950.
- 0:10Three, my dad looked at me and says, you know something,
- 0:13Michael, I just don't believe in nepotism.
- 0:15And I walked out of the Ambassador Hotel that night
- 0:17thinking to myself, I should have voted for the other guy.
- 0:20How did being adopted impact your pro-life views?
- 0:23I wish more American kids were adopted into families.
- 0:25Unfortunately, the laws we have in the United States makes it
- 0:28tough. And later on, it was reported
- 0:30that he expressed regret for legalizing some of these
- 0:33instances of abortion. Well, he was governor because he
- 0:36felt that it was the wrong thing to do.
- 0:38He always sit there and said, you know, it's essentially all
- 0:41the people who are pro-choice have already been born.
- 0:43I thought that was one of the great lines he ever he ever
- 0:45gave, but he was partially pro-life.
- 0:48And I think part of it might have been because.
- 0:51Hello everybody, Welcome back to the Lila Rose podcast.
- 0:54Today we've got a great treat. We're going to be interviewing
- 0:57Michael Reagan, who is the son of President Ronald Reagan.
- 1:02Michael is here to share about his story and it's some of it
- 1:05heartbreaking and some of it very inspiring about his
- 1:07upbringing. He's also going to be talking
- 1:09about the new film Reagan, which if you haven't already seen it,
- 1:12I encourage that you do. It is an incredible film about
- 1:15the life and the fight of Ronald Reagan, fighting communism and
- 1:18fighting for this country. Michael is an author of
- 1:20political and a radio host. He also has a lot of incredible
- 1:24stories to share about the impact of his relationship with
- 1:27his father and the lessons that he learned.
- 1:30I hope that you enjoy this episode.
- 1:32Michael Regan, thank you so much for joining the podcast.
- 1:34Good to. Be with you.
- 1:34Thank you. It's a real honor to have you
- 1:37on, truly. I mean, I am a huge admirer of
- 1:39your work and of course of your father and his incredible impact
- 1:43on this country and the world. So really pumped to get this
- 1:45opportunity to talk to you. Thank.
- 1:46You. So let's jump right in and start
- 1:49from the beginning and then we'll go forward in your in your
- 1:53amazing life, starting from the beginning.
- 1:55You were raised, you're the son of Ronald Reagan.
- 1:57And of course, millions of people around the world are
- 2:00curious about what that must have been like.
- 2:02I know you get asked this question a lot.
- 2:04What was it like being raised by Ronald Reagan and and by your
- 2:07mother, Jane? Well.
- 2:08To be honest with you, because they were divorced when I was
- 2:10like 3, I was really raised by my mother because that's who I
- 2:15lived with. I've seen my dad on weekends,
- 2:17horseback riding, you know, shoot ground squirrels, go
- 2:20swimming, all those kinds of things, which is really great.
- 2:23Dad was a pushover. I mean, the reason the kids in
- 2:27the family didn't like our mothers is because our mothers
- 2:30are the ones that in fact spanked us.
- 2:33They're the ones that holds accountable.
- 2:34Dad was an easy, easy mark. Unless you were Russian and
- 2:38then, you know, then you weren't.
- 2:40But the reality of it was he was just, he was, that was a
- 2:43pushover with everything, really.
- 2:47Mom raised me and, you know, many of us in Hollywood back in
- 2:50the day, we all went to boarding school because their parents
- 2:53were actors. They were out on location.
- 2:56So most all of us were raised by nannies and maids and we're I
- 3:00went to a military school and I was in fifth grade.
- 3:03I was a boarding school and I was six years old, come home on
- 3:06weekends and, and what have you and reintroduce myself to my
- 3:10family. So I'm I'm the kid that was away
- 3:12all week with my sister Maureen. So that's kind of how we were in
- 3:16fact raised in Hollywood back, you know, in the day.
- 3:22We are like I say to people, we are members of the Lucky Sperm
- 3:25Club because we had parents who were famous, went to great
- 3:30restaurants, we went with them chasing's and all the other
- 3:33places. So that was great.
- 3:36But you missed your family on weeks during the week because
- 3:39you were in boarding school and you only saw them really on the
- 3:42weekends, and those weekends you used it all up.
- 3:45What was the lessons that you learned having an upbringing
- 3:48like that, which is pretty unique, and especially being
- 3:51raised by two parents who were Hollywood stars.
- 3:54And then of course, your dad becoming, you know, incredibly
- 3:58successful in politics, being the governor of California, then
- 4:00went on to become the president of the United States.
- 4:02These are huge roles that your parents had both on film and in
- 4:05real life. How did that affect you as a kid
- 4:08and and looking back at it now as an adult, what would you say
- 4:10are the lessons, both maybe the good and the bad ones that you?
- 4:13Learned well, I learned from my mother.
- 4:15Not to make her mad because she had a riding crop and hit me ten
- 4:18times in the back of each leg. She only had to do that once and
- 4:22I went. That's not going to work out
- 4:24very well for me. I am probably the way I am, and
- 4:28my wife Cohen would tell you that I am the way I am because
- 4:30of my mother, politically because of my dad, but I am the
- 4:35way I am because of my mother. My mother held me accountable to
- 4:38everything and anything. You know, when I wanted A10
- 4:42speed bike at 10 years old, she made me sign a note with her and
- 4:48she loaned me the money for that 10 speed bike.
- 4:51And I said why in the heck are you making me borrow money from
- 4:54you when all my friends in Beverly Hills are getting bikes
- 4:58given to by their parents? And she said because I build
- 5:01men, I don't build boys. I don't want you to be a 40 year
- 5:04old child, so sign here. So at 10 years old, I was in
- 5:08debt to my mother. I said, what am I going to do to
- 5:11pay you back? She says.
- 5:12You now have a bike, you can deliver papers.
- 5:15Oh, I never thought of that. So I started selling papers in
- 5:18front of church on Sunday morning and I would split the
- 5:22profits with my mother until I paid her back, which she want me
- 5:26to get that bike. You know, that was a great
- 5:29lesson then. But you know, when you're 10
- 5:32years old, you're not thinking about lessons they're teaching
- 5:35you. You're going like, just give me
- 5:36the damn bike. You you find out later on.
- 5:40Oh, that was a good lesson. Because she did the same lesson
- 5:43with me. When I started my national radio
- 5:45talk show. Back in 1991 and I was making no
- 5:49money to get it off the ground. I was driving to San Diego and
- 5:52back every single day, 272 miles every day to do the show and
- 5:58tried to get off the ground with no money.
- 6:00And I called my mother on the phone.
- 6:01I said, can you help us out? You know, we got the two kids at
- 6:04home, Cameron and Ashley, and you know, Colleen's doing the
- 6:07best she can. She has a travel.
- 6:08Business and my mom said. I can help you out, I said
- 6:11great, what can you do? She said.
- 6:13I can tell you this, shut up and keep driving.
- 6:16She hung up on me. I called her back and said.
- 6:18Won't you hang up on me? She said.
- 6:20Yes, I did. I said why?
- 6:22She said, did somebody die and said you didn't have to pay your
- 6:25dues like everybody else. I said no, shut up and keep
- 6:28driving, She hung. Up on me.
- 6:30And that show lasted from 199190. 2.
- 6:33Till I walked away. 2009 you know, my dad on the other hand.
- 6:38You know, he was the he was weekends.
- 6:40Great. I mean, I learned about America
- 6:44from my dad, right in the right front seat of the station wagon.
- 6:48Any given Saturday morning, regaling me with songs, the
- 6:52military, Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Coast Guard, stories
- 6:55about America. That's where I learned about
- 6:57America. And and what have you.
- 7:00And that was great learning those lessons.
- 7:02The problem is, today we're leaving those lessons to the.
- 7:07School and saying they're not doing their job, We're not
- 7:10leaving them to the parents and letting them do their job.
- 7:16The movie Reagan came out recently.
- 7:18It was a big hit, amazingly done movie and it depicted your dad
- 7:23and then your mother, their early relationship and you know,
- 7:27there were some scenes that showed it.
- 7:29And then later on, obviously your father would go on and
- 7:32remarry again. And now Nancy Reagan.
- 7:35What was that? How did that impact you the way
- 7:37that the film depicted it? Do you think the film did a good
- 7:41job in their depiction of your family or the what did you like?
- 7:44What did you not like Well. I shouldn't that much first
- 7:49thing. My mom wasn't that heavy, but
- 7:53believe that by the side. Penelope came up to me
- 7:55afterwards. We were talking and she said you
- 7:59OK? The way we depicted your mother.
- 8:01I said, you probably depicted my mother because the stories I've
- 8:04been talking and telling, Mark and John and everybody 15 years,
- 8:08when they came up with the idea of the movie, I was kind of
- 8:11giving back stories to a lot of things that ended up in the
- 8:13movie. And one of the stories I told
- 8:16him was 1980s. My dad gave an actual speech on
- 8:21television. I called my mom.
- 8:23I said, mom, did you see dad's speech on television?
- 8:26And what do you think of it? And she said, Michael, I didn't
- 8:29like it in 1940. What makes you think I'd like it
- 8:32today? And Penelope said, thank you for
- 8:34the story. I said, no, my mom didn't like
- 8:36politics, never did. And but she did vote for him
- 8:41twice. So everything was depicted
- 8:43correctly about my mother because, you know, Dad was going
- 8:46home sleeping with a gun under his pillow because what was
- 8:49going on with the unions in Hollywood?
- 8:51And he was busy with that while mom was winning the Academy
- 8:55Awards and Golden Globes and what have you.
- 8:59In fact, my mom has two stars in the Hollywood Walk of Fame.
- 9:03Dad has one. She has handprints and
- 9:06footprints and grandma's Chinese.
- 9:07Dad has none. And so they really depicted her
- 9:11absolutely 100% on target. I thought they did a great job
- 9:14through the whole movie with Nancy, the horseback riding.
- 9:19Back in 1952, they were interviewing Nancy for movie
- 9:23magazine said what do you think about riding a horse?
- 9:26And she said I only learned to ride a horse to capture a
- 9:29husband. And she did, and she did so.
- 9:35It was a life and. You know, like the library
- 9:39refers to me as the prequel because all the stories they
- 9:43have, I have a back story to their stories.
- 9:46And so I did a lot of that, you know, some of that with the
- 9:48movie and they were able to use it, which is really nice.
- 9:53Your mother and and yourself, you would later become Catholic
- 9:57and you are very passionate about your faith.
- 10:00How have you seen that change your mother's life, Jane's life?
- 10:04And then I'd love to hear how it has changed your life.
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- 11:35American meat delivered. Well, my mother and I and my
- 11:38sister Rory were baptized December 8th, 1954, Church of
- 11:42the Good Shepherd, Father John Osborne back in 1954.
- 11:47And my mother, you know, was really brought to Catholicism by
- 11:52God, Loretta Young, who was a dear friend of hers, and.
- 11:57And what have you. And so, you know, Maureen and I
- 12:00started Catholic schools with the Good Shepherd School,
- 12:03Maureen with Marymount, so on and so forth.
- 12:06And it changed my mom's life dramatically.
- 12:10I mean, she never missed a day of Mass.
- 12:11She never missed communion. And in fact, my mother was
- 12:14buried as his Dominican nun to the Third Order full regalia
- 12:19back when she passed away 2007. So she was very much into it.
- 12:25I remember I was speaking at a Legatus event in Bermuda way
- 12:29back when, quite a few years ago.
- 12:32And. The cardinal there was one of
- 12:34the. Cardinals who was there that
- 12:36worked with Pope John Paul and they introduced me and do a big
- 12:41applause. I said, well, thank you.
- 12:42For the applause, I really appreciate that.
- 12:44But you really are applauding. The fact that Ronald Reagan is
- 12:47my father, you're not. Applauding me.
- 12:49You're applauding who my parents are, who my father is, I said.
- 12:53But let me tell you about my mother.
- 12:55And I started telling about my mom being.
- 12:58Is the Dominican 3rd order to A to the.
- 13:02Thought we didn't know that, Said yeah, I know you didn't
- 13:05know that, I said. So when we're all gone and we
- 13:07reached the pearly gates and walk into heaven and you see my
- 13:10dad look three floors above him because that's where you'll see
- 13:14my mother. I said, I'm thinking of
- 13:18Dominican. None.
- 13:19The 3rd order, no matter how much you love Ronald Reagan, is
- 13:22a little bit above a politician in heaven when you when you get
- 13:27there. So it changed her quite a bit.
- 13:30I went through things as a child.
- 13:31I walked away from God. 1953 I walked away from God.
- 13:36I walked away from my mother. I walked away from my father.
- 13:40I walked away from everybody. 1953.
- 13:42I didn't find my way back until after I met Colleen and going to
- 13:46the 1980s and and 1990s, if you will.
- 13:51Coming back to. Catholicism.
- 13:52But now you know I've I've. Back in my My wife is now
- 13:57Catholic because of the trip to Bermuda.
- 14:00My son Cameron, my daughter-in-law Susanna, my
- 14:04daughter Ashley. I mean, so you know.
- 14:07We're all, we're all in the building because I know when we
- 14:10go to heaven, my mother, if we're not Catholic, she may turn
- 14:13us away. Your dad had a very deep faith
- 14:19himself and his whole time in politics, he and I think the
- 14:23movie Reagan depicted this well. He was really driven in in and
- 14:27he had a sense of calling to stand up to evil, to fight for
- 14:31the good, obviously to fight for America's future.
- 14:34That fight most I think, played itself out in the fight against
- 14:38communism. He was also passionately
- 14:41pro-life in addition to being against communism.
- 14:44What was it like for you? I guess at this time you would
- 14:47have been a young man and maybe you were not living your faith
- 14:51for a period of time. What was it like for you to
- 14:53watch your dad in his political career?
- 14:56How did that impact you? Well, you got to go back.
- 15:00You got to go back like I'm 20 years old when he decides to run
- 15:04for governor. You know, all I'm thinking about
- 15:08is honestly, God, I hope he wins.
- 15:10It'll be easier to get dates. I mean, I could care less what
- 15:15he believed in. I was only saying, hey, my dear
- 15:19governor of state, California, is that going to be a great pick
- 15:21up line or what? And I mean, that's what I'm
- 15:24thinking. So I'm really happy when he
- 15:27becomes governor of state of California at at that point.
- 15:30But that's when my first move into politics back in that day.
- 15:36But, you know, there's so much that comes before him really
- 15:40getting into that. You know, there was General
- 15:42Electric Theatre, which was shown in the movie, you know,
- 15:45when he did that. And then he was, you know, in
- 15:49Las Vegas before that doing a stand up act, which was just
- 15:54horrific and it showed that. In the movie.
- 15:58But a lot of people don't know about General Electric Theatre
- 16:01that Bobby Kennedy, the brother of the president of the United
- 16:04States, you know, John F Kennedy got a hold of the head of
- 16:08General Electric back in 1962 and was basically intimidating
- 16:15him by saying, you know, your government contracts are coming
- 16:18up very shortly. And the head of GE is trying to
- 16:23figure out why is the attorney general in the United States
- 16:24calling and we find out about those government contracts be
- 16:30much easier together. We find a way to get rid of that
- 16:33guy who's going around the country, all those GE plants
- 16:36speaking I'll against my brother and where there about 48 or 72
- 16:40hours of that phone call. General Electric theater was
- 16:45cancelled. My dad was fired and had no job.
- 16:49Now where did I learn that sitting at dinner table with my
- 16:52father Nancy and my sister on a Sunday night when he's telling
- 16:56us I'm not going to be on anymore and tell us the story
- 16:59exactly why. But what happens?
- 17:02He now is a little upset. He's a Democrat.
- 17:05My sister Maureen, who was the Republican in the family,
- 17:09browbeats my dad into changing from a Democrat to a Republican.
- 17:17He always says to the Democrat Party left me.
- 17:20Yeah, they did left an alert without a job.
- 17:24But he now had time to sit down and pet a brand new speech,
- 17:29which he would lose use for Barry Goldwater.
- 17:32And it was called the Time for Choosing, which now launches his
- 17:36career into politics, to the governorship of the state of
- 17:40California and beyond. So that's why they call me the
- 17:44prequel. Incredible did.
- 17:47What was it like? Would you see your dad working
- 17:50on his speeches, working on his, you know, when he would get into
- 17:54campaigning, working on his campaigns?
- 17:56What was that like for you as a young man, and how what did you
- 18:00observe about? Your Well, Maureen and I, you
- 18:02know, Maureen and I were up campaigning Speaking of
- 18:03Republican women's groups in 196566.
- 18:07So I was able to vote because I turned 21 before the election.
- 18:11And I remember a few years ago I was speaking to a Republican
- 18:15women's group and when we raised her hand and said Mr. Reagan, I
- 18:18said call me Mike. And she said that.
- 18:21How long have you been? Speaking to Republican women's
- 18:24clubs, I said look better. And this is like maybe 10 years
- 18:28ago. And I said, ma'am, I probably
- 18:31spoke to your mother. That's how long I was speaking
- 18:34to. Republican women's groups since
- 18:36that period of time learned about politics from my sister,
- 18:41you know, like she was the first one to tell me.
- 18:43So what's the difference between a Democrat and Republican?
- 18:45She says. The Democrats go to bed every
- 18:47night hoping you never figure it out.
- 18:50Republicans go to bed every night hoping someday you do
- 18:52figure it out. And we're still in that
- 18:55position, you know, how many years later, in fact.
- 18:59And so she was very, Maureen was very instrumental in my dad
- 19:05moving to the Republican Party, ultimately all of us into the
- 19:09Republican Party, if you will, because you didn't want to fight
- 19:12Maureen on any issue at all because she seemed to win on
- 19:17those days. I thought campaigning for my dad
- 19:19in 1965 was was great. Campaigned in 76, campaigned in
- 19:24198084. So I was, you know, campaigning
- 19:28for my dad and I didn't want to make him mad.
- 19:30I was. In fact, when he won the
- 19:32governorship in California in 1966, you know what I did?
- 19:36First question I asked him. I asked him for a job in
- 19:39government because I thought every politician gives their
- 19:43kids jobs. My my dad was not named.
- 19:47Did you get it? My dad was not named Biden.
- 19:49He was named Reagan, unfortunately.
- 19:51And my dad looked at me and says, you know something,
- 19:53Michael? I just don't believe in
- 19:54nepotism. And I walked out of the
- 19:57ambassador. Hotel that night, thinking to
- 19:59myself I should have voted for the other guy because that guy
- 20:03does believe in nepotism. My dad doesn't believe.
- 20:05In nepotism. What a terrible, what a terrible
- 20:08choice I've made. It's a fairy, you know, like
- 20:10that. But yeah, it's.
- 20:12It's a great mobis together. Michael, earlier in the
- 20:16interview, you described your dad as a pushover when you were
- 20:20a kid. There have been many of his
- 20:22critics who have described him as, you know, bumbling, not very
- 20:26intelligent. He was accused of this, of
- 20:28course, by those that were against him politically, you
- 20:31know, even being naive, not really having his wits about
- 20:34him. And yet, on the other hand, he's
- 20:36given some of the most consequential speeches and done
- 20:39some of the most consequential policy.
- 20:40You know, they called it the the, the era of Reagan in the
- 20:44last century. What's your take on all of that?
- 20:46Was he a a a pushover? When you saw him in his work in
- 20:52politics? What was the guiding light for
- 20:55him? How?
- 20:55How do? What is your take on?
- 20:56That guy, Guy White, you know, if you watch the movie, he had
- 21:00more trouble with his own staff than anybody else getting things
- 21:03done. He knew what he wanted to
- 21:05accomplish. And anybody disagrees with me,
- 21:08he's going to make up stories. All he's bumbling, He's this,
- 21:11he's that, and what have you never saw him?
- 21:13But the only time I saw him bumble things was the first
- 21:17debate with Walter Mondale. And Nancy was completely right.
- 21:21Let him be Reagan and quit giving him so much information
- 21:26and let dad be Reagan. The second debate and the story
- 21:30ends up walking away with 49. States, but back to another.
- 21:33Question You asked me about religion with my dad because he
- 21:35used to go to church every Sunday morning with everybody to
- 21:38go to Bel Air Press, and I never went with.
- 21:42Him and I asked him. One time and he said, why didn't
- 21:44you never ask me to go with you when I was living with you when
- 21:46I was in high school for a couple years?
- 21:48And he said, well, 'cause your mother raised you Catholic, I
- 21:50didn't want to make her mad. I said OK, that that makes
- 21:53sense. But you know something else?
- 21:55The last time I flew on Air Force One with him and I was
- 21:58just on Air Force One at the library.
- 21:59The other day, telling the story as we were landing at Point
- 22:04Magoo on on Good Friday of 1988, he counted out nine on his
- 22:09fingers. I said, what's important about
- 22:11the number 9? He says 9 more months, I'll no
- 22:14longer be president. I said something you're looking
- 22:17forward to, he says, yes, I am. I said why?
- 22:19He said, you know, Michael, ever since I looked out the rear
- 22:21window of the limousine on March 30th, 1981, and saw people
- 22:26laying in their own blood with bullets meant for me, I have not
- 22:30wanted to go and visit a church or places where other people can
- 22:34be again in the way of bullets meant for me and put them in
- 22:39harm's way. So I haven't gone to church.
- 22:41People talk about I haven't gone to church.
- 22:43Well, I haven't gone to church because I haven't wanted to put
- 22:45people in harm's way. So I'm looking forward to no
- 22:48longer be, you know, present anymore where I can go to church
- 22:50each and every Sunday. And when he left the presidency
- 22:53January 20th of 89, he never missed a Sunday in church.
- 22:58Even when he had Alzheimer's and couldn't go, the minister would
- 23:02go to the house and the minister always say I went to.
- 23:05The House, the minister. To President Reagan and
- 23:08President Reagan ministered to me, and that goes back to his
- 23:12mother and his family bringing in Dixon and Tampico, Illinois.
- 23:20Michael, you were adopted and you are passionately pro-life.
- 23:24You are outspoken about your pro-life conviction.
- 23:27Your dad was pro-life. How has being adopted how?
- 23:31How did being adopted impact your pro-life views?
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- 24:42How did being adopted impact your pro-life views?
- 24:45Well, because when I used to do Radio, One of the questions I
- 24:47put forward, I say if you had OK, if you had an opinion, I
- 24:51just asked all of you have been adopted, would you have rather
- 24:55had the other choice because the other choice is abortion.
- 24:59There's your choices. Abortion or adoption.
- 25:03I always come down on the side of adoption.
- 25:06In that way. And and you know, I'm.
- 25:09Lucky I was adopted, you know, into this family.
- 25:12I wish more American kids were adopted into families.
- 25:15Unfortunately, the laws we have in the United States makes it
- 25:18tough to adopt the United States, so people go to foreign
- 25:22countries and adopt from foreign countries.
- 25:24Instead of adopting. And children are here.
- 25:27There's 100,000 kids in foster care who would say, I want a
- 25:31family, I want a forever home. We should be doing that.
- 25:34The churches should be challenged to have their
- 25:38parishioners who want children but can't have them themselves
- 25:42to adopt from the foster care system within their
- 25:45neighborhood, within their county, within their system.
- 25:49Because foster care is just a, it's a, it was a train wreck,
- 25:55but it's a, it's an automatic pipeline to human sex
- 25:58trafficking because we're sending kids out on the street
- 26:01when they're 18 years of age. They don't really have an
- 26:03education and nothing. And we put them out there.
- 26:09And all they can do is sell their bodies for money, and
- 26:12that's what they do. Not everybody's a Simone, you
- 26:16know who is adopted. Also, not everybody's like that,
- 26:19or me. Lucky enough, most of them.
- 26:22You have 400,000 kids in foster care in Los Angeles, 100,000
- 26:25available for adoption. What's going to happen to the
- 26:28ones who age out at 18? They're getting up on the
- 26:31streets and they're being hit, hit on by traffickers and
- 26:35they'll be trafficked. For sex, that's what's going to
- 26:38happen and so we need to really do something to clean up the
- 26:41foster. Care system and we need to
- 26:43really challenge churches. To have their parishioners adopt
- 26:47US kids and to their families instead of foreign kids, not
- 26:51that I have think they have foreign kids.
- 26:53I have adopted niece from Uganda because it was it was easier for
- 26:57my sister Marie to adopt A child from Uganda than adopt A child
- 27:01in the United States of America. Think about that one for a
- 27:04moment. And her dad was president of the
- 27:07United States and George Bush was president when she did that.
- 27:11That that shouldn't. Be able to happen.
- 27:13It should be easier to get on. Here than there.
- 27:15So I am very pro-life in that way.
- 27:17But something else I was adopted, Nancy was adopted, my
- 27:22mother Jane was adopted. We are a piece meal family and
- 27:25when I talked to adopted in groups they said think would
- 27:28have happened. If Nancy been aborted, Jane had
- 27:31been aborted, I've been aborted. Think about the Reagan family
- 27:35now. Where are they?
- 27:38They're not here because they were aborted.
- 27:40Instead, they were adopted in and look at the difference they
- 27:44made. Jane, Dad, Nancy, whatever,
- 27:48Whatever I'm doing, you know, not only the United States, but
- 27:50around the world, around the globe.
- 27:54Was your adoption, was that something that you think also
- 27:57inspired your father to be pro-life?
- 27:59How did your adoption, in your view, impact your father's?
- 28:04Politics. You know it.
- 28:05It might have I, I. I don't know if it did or not
- 28:07really, but I know he never. Never thought, you know, I was
- 28:13always. Kidding.
- 28:14Never thought of me as adopted. Now I am still teased on the
- 28:18Internet. I don't have a right to say
- 28:20anything because I would. Ronald Reagan really, really
- 28:22wasn't my father. You know, I I still get that it
- 28:25just because they're mean, terrible people out there.
- 28:28In the world. And they and they do that.
- 28:31But Dad and I really never, never, you know, talked about my
- 28:35mother and I. I only talked.
- 28:38About it one time, and that's back when I was, I think four or
- 28:42five years old. Maureen was in boarding school
- 28:45at Chadwick already. I would be there the next year.
- 28:49So I guess maybe I was 5 or 6 and she was four years ahead of
- 28:52me. And because I was home, I knew
- 28:57what she was going to get for Christmas.
- 28:59So when she came home for Christmas break, I'm a little
- 29:02brother. I'm trying to be cool with my
- 29:04older sister and I said to her, I said, hey, I know what you're
- 29:09getting for Christmas and her I'm sorry.
- 29:11I know what you're getting for your birthday because her
- 29:13birthday is January 4th. Mom's was the 5th.
- 29:16And she said I don't want to know.
- 29:17I said, but I know what you're getting for your birthday.
- 29:20I don't want to know. I said, mum, I know what you're
- 29:23getting for your birthday. She says if you tell me a
- 29:25secret, I'm going to tell you a secret.
- 29:27I said you're getting a blue dress.
- 29:29She said you were adopted. And that's how I found out I
- 29:32was. Adopted and so.
- 29:35Maureen, I look this and and I. We went downstairs to my mom and
- 29:39said what is what's adopted? And my mom said.
- 29:42You were chosen. Now shut up and go back to bed.
- 29:45I said OK, it affected. It affected me.
- 29:50I was fine, but I was affected by other people at school.
- 29:54I was teased mercifully by children that I was
- 29:59illegitimate, that I was the bastard.
- 30:01Still, I still get that today. I was, you know, illegitimate.
- 30:05I was a bastard child. I thought at a point that the
- 30:08reason I was put out for adoption is because my mother
- 30:14knew I was illegitimate. And I thought maybe I was
- 30:18putting boarding school because Jane knew.
- 30:22Or she didn't know. I was afraid to talk to Jane or
- 30:25my dad about that, in case they didn't know that I was a bastard
- 30:28child or illegitimate. And I felt that if they found
- 30:32out, if they knew what I knew from what the kids were telling
- 30:36me, they would give me away also.
- 30:38Just like my birth mother, I read back in 19501945.
- 30:44So it scared the crap. Out of me, to be honest with
- 30:46you. Because now I'm dealing with
- 30:48illegitimacy. I'm dealing with being a bastard
- 30:51because I went to the dictionary.
- 30:52I wrote about this in my first book.
- 30:54I went to the dictionary and look up bastard.
- 30:56I didn't know what it meant until I read.
- 30:57I don't know what it meant. And it scared the hell.
- 31:00Out of me, and I was, Yeah, I was.
- 31:03But unfortunately that opened up to be.
- 31:08The cause of other things happening in my life that caused
- 31:12me to walk away from everybody until, you know, until finally I
- 31:16met Colleen and ultimately I didn't tell my, you know,
- 31:19telling my parents all this stuff back in the 80s.
- 31:24Did you were able to talk about some of this with your dad at
- 31:27any point? I know he was obviously very
- 31:29focused on career. He ends up remarrying, getting
- 31:32into politics, having tremendous responsibility.
- 31:33Did you ever have conversations about?
- 31:35Some of those difficult events in your childhood with.
- 31:38Your I didn't talk to anybody. I talked to nobody at all.
- 31:44And what happened was because I was so, because all these
- 31:49things, all these things working on me and what have you, it
- 31:53didn't help me in my school work.
- 31:57And I think about that on a regular basis.
- 32:01I was laying other things, determine my attitude for the
- 32:04remainder of the day. And those were good things.
- 32:08I had been opened up. My dad put my dad my mom.
- 32:13Put me in a. After school program for one
- 32:17year in 3rd grade and the after school program the man in the
- 32:22after school program was a pedophile.
- 32:26I nobody knew that then, but for all of third grade he sexually
- 32:34molested me for a year of my life and took me up to Santa
- 32:37Monica Mountains. It was nice to me through it
- 32:40showed me how to throw a. Football a baseball a
- 32:42basketball. You know, a lot of things that
- 32:45I'm really very good at. He taught me this is what
- 32:49happens a lot of times in divorce.
- 32:52You know, the red like divorce is when you're away from your
- 32:55dad, who usually could do those things.
- 32:58You know, some other person could step in and do those
- 33:02things. Dad, we rode.
- 33:03Horses shot. Ground squirrels, we did all
- 33:06those fun things, but baseball, throw base football, all these
- 33:09other things, you know, this this guy was doing and
- 33:13ultimately took me up to Santa Monica Mountains on a given week
- 33:16and took new pictures of me and then had me develop the
- 33:20photographs three days later. His apartment in Santa Monica,
- 33:23wherever he lived, Put his hand on my shoulder, said, wouldn't
- 33:26your mother like to have a copy of this?
- 33:28And that's when I walked away from my mom, my dad, God and
- 33:31everybody else because then I knew.
- 33:34I knew I was going to hell. I knew if they knew, they would
- 33:37kick me out and I did everything possible to get out of my mom's
- 33:43house. And ultimately it took till I
- 33:44went to high school and we were doing with my dad on weekends
- 33:48and when I was going to Loyola, so it was, it had a tremendous
- 33:53effect on me. The TC I took in school when I
- 33:57was like 6-7, eight years old. And so it begets begets now
- 34:05conversation with my dad. I don't tell my dad about the
- 34:08sexual molestation or my mother until 1987 because I wrote a
- 34:14book called on the Outside Looking in where I'm kind of
- 34:17telling the story. And that's when I told my mom
- 34:21and and told my dad the story. And like somebody called me and
- 34:28a friend of mine called me said what would have happened if
- 34:30those photos would have come out before, before the book came
- 34:34out. I said, well, I wouldn't have
- 34:35been alive to be even talk about the book.
- 34:37I'd be dead because suicide. Suicide is an option for
- 34:41children who are going through molestation.
- 34:44That becomes an option. And it became an option for me.
- 34:47I didn't choose it, but if those photos would come out, I might
- 34:50have chosen it. And the photos were not
- 34:52destroyed until are they 2007 when the molester died and his
- 35:01his sister-in-law called me or he wrote me a letter said Don
- 35:04has finally died and you can find the rest because the
- 35:08photographs have all been destroyed that he took of you
- 35:11and so many other children that were in a chest at the end of
- 35:14his bed where he lived. He did hundreds of people need
- 35:18to understand that that's how a child is blackmailed and and
- 35:26react to. So I didn't finish college.
- 35:29I did I've done some good things in my life and what have you,
- 35:33but I always have in the back of my mind, you know, the fact that
- 35:36I'm trying to overcome all those things, you know, as a child,
- 35:42because I I look and see what could have I accomplished had I
- 35:46not let those things help destroy relationships.
- 35:50So when I have no friends from my childhood, not I didn't want
- 35:54any friends really from my childhood because I felt that
- 35:59they figured if they knew what I knew about me, they would have
- 36:01walked away anyway. So where you might have friends
- 36:05from your childhood forever, I don't have those forever friends
- 36:08from my childhood because of those things that happened in my
- 36:12life. So I've gone out and tried to
- 36:13overachieve racing boats. It's at 5 world records of
- 36:16Powerball racing out the world champion radio for 2728 years
- 36:21and and what have you. So I've done those things and
- 36:25what have you, but you're still dealing with the fact of those
- 36:31photographs and, and thinking about the children after today
- 36:35are going through the same things I went through.
- 36:38You know what? You know what takes the child 7
- 36:39times to tell an adult what happened to them before the
- 36:43adult listens for the first time 7 times.
- 36:47At what point do you say screw it, I'm not going to, you know,
- 36:50I'm not going to tell that conversation again and you
- 36:52don't. And it seems adults always
- 36:55believe the teacher first, the minister, the priest, grandpa.
- 37:03They seem to always believe the adult who's done the damage,
- 37:09then listen to the child who has been damaged and that nothing's
- 37:14changed. It still goes on today, still
- 37:17goes on today. Michael, I'm very grateful for
- 37:22you sharing your story. I know you've shared it before,
- 37:24and I think it's helped a lot of people because your willingness
- 37:27to talk about this, as incredibly painful as it's been
- 37:30for you, I think helps other people be more aware of how this
- 37:34happens and how to stop it. And I know that's one of the
- 37:37reasons you are such a passionate advocate for kids as
- 37:40you are, both in your pro-life work and against sex
- 37:42trafficking. So thank you for doing that
- 37:44because I think it makes a big difference.
- 37:47In your later on when you were coming out and getting involved
- 37:50in your radio career, getting involved in writing your books
- 37:53and doing your own work alongside your father's
- 37:56political career, did you, you know, were there any other
- 38:00things that motivated you in how you saw the world?
- 38:03You were very concerned. You're conservative, you're
- 38:05pro-life, pro family. You had, you talked about your
- 38:08faith. Are there any other
- 38:09conversations you had? You know, was there anything
- 38:11else from your father and what he was doing that impacted you
- 38:15during your career? Well, you know, it's just.
- 38:17When I told his story flying on Air Force.
- 38:19One they really impacted. Me the fact it impacted, I think
- 38:25everybody you know when he. Was the 1st.
- 38:29President to be shot. And.
- 38:30Survive and and the fact he dedicated his life to God.
- 38:37He didn't get angry. In my book, you know, in my book
- 38:39lesson, my father taught me, the last lesson he taught me was
- 38:43forgiveness. And and So what we were talking
- 38:46about a moment ago is learning to forgive, like forgive
- 38:50yourself. You can start there too.
- 38:53Forgive yourself, you know, but I, I remember the way I treated
- 38:56people because when I went through, I had to forgive myself
- 38:58for the way I treated people. And so I forgive my dad can
- 39:02forgive John Hinckley for trying to kill him.
- 39:05And and I tell this story when I go out.
- 39:09Yeah, I could go into a room and people say to people, raise your
- 39:12hand. If you know the Lord's Prayer,
- 39:15everybody's hand goes. Up, they say.
- 39:16OK, raise your hand if you live it and you see all the heads.
- 39:22I know two people who lived it, my father and Pope John Paul,
- 39:27because both of them forgave the two people who tried to murder
- 39:32them before they even went back to the White House and went back
- 39:37to the papal seat. And back, as Pope John Paul did.
- 39:42And I think that God honored those things by allowing them to
- 39:46get together. The Protestant and the Catholic
- 39:48get together both. Them deep in their faith, of
- 39:51course. Get together and look at the
- 39:54commonality they have between them on.
- 39:56Both forgiving those who tried to murder them.
- 39:59But the other thing, getting communism out of the building,
- 40:03bringing freedom to Poland and around the globe and bringing
- 40:06down the Berlin Wall, and I think it really it started
- 40:10there. Because they gave them
- 40:12something, gave them a, a place to plant their flag and, and
- 40:16they did that. And like my dad said, I think
- 40:18God kept me alive for a reason. I have a higher purpose.
- 40:22And unfortunately you have people who saw that differently,
- 40:25said, well, he's different now than he was before he was shot.
- 40:29Oh my, heck yes, he was. He was shot and almost died and
- 40:32what have you. And so he changed in that way
- 40:36and, and so, you know, it, those kind of things really meant a
- 40:40lot to me, seeing my dad. In.
- 40:42That way, forgiveness, if you will, his humor, you know, the
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- 42:02dance. I forgot the duck.
- 42:04I hope all you doctors are all Republicans.
- 42:06But what does he say to me? He tells me if I'm ever going to
- 42:10get shot, don't be wearing a brand new suit.
- 42:14I said what? Yeah, I wore a brand new suit
- 42:16yesterday. It's first.
- 42:17Time I wore it, you know, last time I saw it, they cut that.
- 42:20Suit off of me. It was in shreds in the corner.
- 42:22Of the hospital room so if. You're ever going to get shot,
- 42:24Michael. Don't be wearing a new.
- 42:25Suit, I said, all right, he said, young man who shot me, I
- 42:28said Hinckley, he said. John Hinckley, yes.
- 42:31Understand his parents in the oil business?
- 42:32Well, yes they are. Understand they live in Denver.
- 42:36I said yes they do, he said you. Think they have any money?
- 42:39I said. Dad of.
- 42:40Course they have money. This is 6 hours after he's off
- 42:42the table. Of course they have money.
- 42:43They're in the oil business to live in Denver.
- 42:45My dad looks at me, he says. You think?
- 42:47They'd ever buy me a new suit. So this is the way he is with
- 42:52me. So that's the way he is.
- 42:56Things about him, he knew you would be nervous in his
- 43:00presence, so he used his humor to kind of make him soften it
- 43:04for everybody. And you know, I remember that so
- 43:09well during those times. But there's a part in the movie
- 43:13that would not happen. Today, unfortunately, in America
- 43:15that we live in, and that part is when he's shot and he wakes
- 43:20up in the hospital room. Who's sitting in the chair in
- 43:22it? With his rosary tip O'Neill.
- 43:26Tip O'Neill's in my dad. 'S hospital room with a rosary,
- 43:30praying with my father. That doesn't happen today.
- 43:35That doesn't happen. Today.
- 43:36And that that's what we've lost in America.
- 43:39Why do you think, why do you think that is, Michael?
- 43:42That's such a good point that, you know, we're it's so
- 43:44partisan, so divisive, and in some ways we've lost our
- 43:47humanity in politics. What?
- 43:50What do you Why do you think? I think a lot of social.
- 43:52Media, I think a lot of it because people don't.
- 43:58Nobody can't talk to each other. Your families, nobody talks to
- 44:01each other anymore. They don't communicate.
- 44:03But you know, I said to a Republican group the other day I
- 44:07was talking to, not actual speech, but I would just happen
- 44:10to be in a room with him. And I said.
- 44:13You know you guys. Let me just say something.
- 44:17The Republican Party is this is the minority party.
- 44:21You spend more time kicking people out of it than you
- 44:24bringing people into it. And you, you can only bring
- 44:26people into it with a message. And my father had a message that
- 44:29brought people in and he got elected because Republicans,
- 44:34Democrats, independents voted for because he had that kind of
- 44:36a message. And I said, let me just say
- 44:39something to you. He has a daughter.
- 44:41Padding, who didn't vote for him, was a member of the Peace
- 44:46and Freedom. Party let him March on
- 44:48Washington. DC when he was president of the
- 44:50United States with a friend of hers, my dad didn't buy them
- 44:54into the Oval Office and say, what's your problem?
- 44:57What's your gripe? His son Ron is an atheist.
- 45:02All right, He didn't vote for his father.
- 45:04So you have two of his children didn't vote for him.
- 45:07One's an atheist. One.
- 45:08Let him March on Washington, DC. But you know something, at
- 45:13Thanksgiving, they were at the table.
- 45:17They weren't kicked off the table.
- 45:19They were still allowed in, you know, and Dad, dad would talk
- 45:24politics and what have you, but they're still at the table.
- 45:28And so we I see people out there today, which really ticks me
- 45:31off, who pretend like they knew Ronald Reagan, like they've
- 45:35always been at the dinner table, who I never saw at the dinner
- 45:38table, but yet they pretend they were at the dinner table no more
- 45:42than me and other people that were there all the time.
- 45:46And so it seems they could drop my dad's name, but they didn't
- 45:49learn any lessons. And it's really about learning
- 45:52lessons. I learned lessons from my
- 45:54mother. I learned lessons from my
- 45:56father. You know, it's about, it is
- 45:58about being gracious. It is about, you know, being
- 46:01forgiving and what have you. And.
- 46:06I don't think we don't. We don't.
- 46:08We don't want lessons anymore because it's, we'd rather fight
- 46:11than learn anything about anybody.
- 46:14And that's, that's, that's really unfortunate.
- 46:17Are you concerned about the direction both the Democrat and
- 46:20the Republican Party has gone in the way we talk about each
- 46:24other, in the way that, and I don't just mean policy
- 46:27disagreements. Those are, you know, good
- 46:30disagreements to have. But in the rhetoric that's used
- 46:33sometimes the accusations that are wielded against one another,
- 46:37what do you think about the way politics is today between the.
- 46:40Party and I think. And what would your father, what
- 46:42do you think your father would think about?
- 46:43It there they go again, basically with everybody.
- 46:46It's it yeah, I think both parties.
- 46:50I think one party more than the other said and then but it but
- 46:53again, it's it's the name calling that what did my dad
- 46:58say? Never speak I'll of another
- 47:00Republican and he never did. But today we have no problem
- 47:04speaking I'll of everybody and and so you'd say, why do we do
- 47:08that? What?
- 47:09Why? Why?
- 47:10And, and by speaking I'll and by speaking I'll.
- 47:13He didn't mean policy disagreements.
- 47:15What would he mean? What do you mean character
- 47:17attacks? Yeah, character attacks speaking
- 47:20I'll of another Republican. You know, it's, it's really
- 47:23saying, go back to Tip O'Neill for a moment.
- 47:26Tip O'Neill. My dad passed the largest tax
- 47:28break in American history. Tip O'Neill was Speaker of the
- 47:31House, Democrat, House Republican President.
- 47:37What'd my dad do? My dad invited Tip O'Neill to
- 47:39the White House for dinner with his wife.
- 47:41At dinner next day or two, he'd go back to his office.
- 47:45Tip O'Neill wouldn't tell his staff.
- 47:47I'm going to carry the legislation to the floor of the
- 47:50House. And they looked and said, you
- 47:53know, in the past, because back then they were bold, evil
- 47:56Democrats. Today they're Blue Dog, just age
- 47:59wise. I'm helping out there.
- 48:01And and so he, he and so he said, and they said it'll pass.
- 48:06He said, yeah, well, what did the president promise you?
- 48:09What did he tell you at dinner that caused you to do this?
- 48:12Said the president never talked about the taxes all night long.
- 48:16He never talked about taxes. Then what in the hell did he
- 48:19talk about? He talked about the greatness of
- 48:22America, the goodness of all of her people and how the two of us
- 48:26working together to make it better for everybody.
- 48:29And before I knew it, I'm having a glass of wine with the
- 48:31president. We're telling Irish stories and
- 48:34today I'm telling you I'm going to take the legislation to the
- 48:37floor of the Congress and I know it'll pass, he said.
- 48:40Oh, by the way, on the way out the door he did say one thing.
- 48:43Whoever votes for you, I promise not to campaign against in the
- 48:46next election with it just kind of weakened or not.
- 48:49But again, that's we don't do that anymore.
- 48:53I don't know if Ronald Reagan had many regrets, but I do know
- 48:57I have read reports that he shared about one of them, which
- 49:01was, you know, in his passionate pro-life support.
- 49:04He had a proclamation that he did as president where he
- 49:07instituted sanctity of life Sunday in 1988.
- 49:10And he talked about how every unborn child has a right to life
- 49:14and that the government, the Constitution should protect that
- 49:17child's right to life. So he was very pro-life.
- 49:19This was unprecedented for a president to do this.
- 49:22And I think it made a big impact on the people of the United
- 49:25States. When he was governor, though he
- 49:28passed a law before Roe V Wade in 1973, In the 60s he passed a
- 49:33law that permitted abortions in some instances.
- 49:37And later on, it was reported that he expressed regret for
- 49:40legalizing some of these instances of abortion.
- 49:43Well, he was governor because he felt that it was the wrong thing
- 49:47to do. Did you ever talk to him about
- 49:49this or what is your perspective on on this part of his his
- 49:53record? He always sit there and said,
- 49:55you know, it's this. All the people who are
- 49:57pro-choice have already been born.
- 49:59I thought that was one of the great lines he ever he ever
- 50:02gave. But he was.
- 50:03Partially pro-life and I think part of it might have been
- 50:06because me coming into the family being adopted and what
- 50:09have you, but we never really talked about talked about more
- 50:12with Maureen, who was really she's part of the Republican
- 50:18Party. She's a lot of stuff, but he
- 50:21was, he was things he was passionate about, was pro-life.
- 50:26Things you're passionate about was bring your freedom to the to
- 50:29the world. And it it's, it's unfortunate
- 50:35we're in a position in the world we live in today.
- 50:38We're in, I think. One of the things he said, when
- 50:41we become, when we cease to be 1 nation under God, we become a
- 50:45nation gone under. And I think prolific, I think
- 50:48that's where we're at today. We've gone under and, and, and
- 50:51in every single way and what have you.
- 50:54And, and that's, that's unfortunate.
- 50:57I, I think we, we're not going to change anything till we get
- 50:59that back, but it has to start there.
- 51:03I also think another thing, I think that, and I say this, I
- 51:06say on my ratio problem with abortion, the problem with the
- 51:10border, too much money made on both sides of the issue where
- 51:15both sides of the issue are, you know, are passionate about their
- 51:18beliefs. But if either side wins, the
- 51:22money stops. And I think there's I think a
- 51:26lot of it's about dollars and cents, unfortunately.
- 51:29And the children pay the price. The aborted kids pay the price.
- 51:34You have the black families been destroyed because of abortion.
- 51:38Back in 1965 when the government used to give black mothers,
- 51:43African American mothers, they would give them money up until I
- 51:47think the tenth child. And then after that they
- 51:50wouldn't give them money. But they only got money if the
- 51:53father of the child did not live in the home.
- 51:57So they start kicking. Fathers were now not living in
- 52:00the home of their spouse and their children.
- 52:06And you wonder why the fathers are not out and not and fathers
- 52:09aren't in the home because the government only paid you if the
- 52:11fathers. Weren't in the home.
- 52:13And they only paid you up to a certain amount of kids, and
- 52:16after that they were going to pay you.
- 52:17So what would happen? You have the you have the black
- 52:21families aborting in, in the percentages that are just
- 52:27unbelievable because of that. And so you have to go back.
- 52:30A lot of times you see the media who doesn't do their job, never
- 52:35tells you the history of something.
- 52:38Yeah. You can't solve the problem
- 52:40unless you know the start of it. What's the history of it?
- 52:44What's going on? Where you look at the look at
- 52:47the talk about let's make the Supreme Court larger.
- 52:51Well, why has Supreme Court got why was Donald Trump able to do
- 52:54what he did? Because what the senator from
- 52:57Nevada did back in the 19, whatever 90s when he changed the
- 53:02rules on how you elect. You know, you know people.
- 53:08To the court, he changed it from 60 votes to 50 votes.
- 53:12And he was warned, well, what goes around comes around.
- 53:16And when the Republicans took over, they changed it on the
- 53:19Supreme Court. And that's why you have Supreme
- 53:21Court where it is. And this is what happened.
- 53:24But again, the media does not tell you the basis of it.
- 53:28Or you go back 1970s and say, jeez, how come we have such a
- 53:32large deficit? Well, up until 1972, the
- 53:36President, United States had the authority to hold back funds
- 53:40they thought were budget Busters.
- 53:42But that was Richard Nixon. And so after Wonder King,
- 53:45everybody was mad at Nixon and the Congress took that authority
- 53:49away from him and took it on themselves.
- 53:52So since 1973, the Congress has been charged to the budget, not
- 53:56the president. And if the president doesn't
- 53:58spend, I don't know if people know this or even know this, if
- 54:01you don't spend every dollar that is allocated by the
- 54:04Congress of the United States, you could be taken to.
- 54:06Court. By the Congress of the United
- 54:08States. My father was threatened twice
- 54:11with that. So again.
- 54:14That's what makes you mad. At the media is the fact.
- 54:16They don't give you source, they don't give you background, they
- 54:19don't tell you so you can make an honest decision about
- 54:23anything. What do you think, Michael,
- 54:26about the direction the Republican Party is going now?
- 54:28I think there's a lot of good that the party's trying to do.
- 54:32But in the last couple months, the last three months, the party
- 54:35changed the platform during the Republican National Convention,
- 54:40took most of pro-life out of the platform, took marriage isn't
- 54:44between a man and a woman out of the platform.
- 54:47What's your sense of what if, if your father were alive today,
- 54:50what he would think about that, what kind of voice he'd be right
- 54:52now, and what is? Your take on that?
- 54:55My take on that is you're one of three people to read the
- 54:57platform. That's my take on that.
- 55:02Well, let's say. Not Would people vote, they vote
- 55:07for the most likable candidate or about the issue that they
- 55:09like and that that's what they do.
- 55:13But nobody really reads the platform or what have you.
- 55:16They'll say it at the convention.
- 55:18My dad talked about the convention in 1976, Bold colors.
- 55:21All these other things didn't do any good.
- 55:25President still lost back in 1976.
- 55:28So not many people pay that much attention to platforms.
- 55:31I mean activists. Do pay attention to it, but
- 55:34outside the activists, they're just looking at what's in the
- 55:37news, what are you saying, what are you going to do for me
- 55:40lately and what have you. They're not looking really at a
- 55:44very much else in it, if you will.
- 55:47And so if the platform is the platform, if you read it, you
- 55:51can be upset by it, you can like it or what have you, but it
- 55:55really comes down to the candidates. 1 is each candidate
- 55:59saying about what they're going to do or not do if they are
- 56:03elected to the Senate, to the House and what have you?
- 56:07I think the Republicans need to pay attention to the Senate,
- 56:10make sure that they control the Senate.
- 56:12If Harris wins, you're going to have a stop gap somewhere.
- 56:16I think Republicans have made a mistake for generations.
- 56:19Democrats, Democrats, you know, don't go for the don't go for
- 56:25the big win at the top so much what they control.
- 56:30What do they control? School boards, mayors,
- 56:35governors, so on and so forth. And and the Republicans always
- 56:39reaching for the stars and they forget about the mayors, school
- 56:44board, City Council, all these. Like here in California, they'll
- 56:49be Democrats. Why?
- 56:50Because Republicans don't pay attention.
- 56:52To it, they're too involved. It's a presidency.
- 56:56They need to be more involved where we're involved with our
- 57:00children, with the school, with the mayors and all these things
- 57:04we have. We have a homeless problem in
- 57:06Los Angeles, all Democrats in charge, all Democrats, we no
- 57:12Republicans. And, and that that's a terrible
- 57:15thing that the Republicans do. And I think the leadership at
- 57:18the national level needs to start rethinking how can we be
- 57:23involved more locally at. At those.
- 57:27Levels, because Democrats are involved in those levels, and if
- 57:30they win the governorship of the presidency, that's the cherry on
- 57:34the cake. Because they don't really need
- 57:36it. If they control everything.
- 57:37Else and Republicans need to start.
- 57:39Controlling the other side of the building.
- 57:42It's a really good point, Michael.
- 57:43Thank you. Listen, it's been such an honor
- 57:46to get to talk to you. Do you have any final thoughts
- 57:48you want to share about the the moment we're in the movie or the
- 57:52incredible life of your dad? You know the the go see the
- 57:55movie and stay till the end of it.
- 57:58All the way. Through the credit and you see
- 57:59the child read the letter about the goldfish.
- 58:01At the end of the movie. But it's a great movie about him
- 58:05fighting communism in Hollywood and his life story in that way,
- 58:09if you're going to see it, to see politics is not really a
- 58:13political movie. It's his, it's a movie about him
- 58:18fighting, you know, communism and where it came from, how we
- 58:22grew up and all the way to tear down this wall speech.
- 58:26And, you know, so many of us fight, fight obstacles in our
- 58:29lives. Something happens that's bad to
- 58:31us and we give up. See this movie, every obstacle
- 58:35my dad hit, he just went right past it.
- 58:40And it's really something you need to learn.
- 58:43Don't. Give up because you failed.
- 58:46And look at the people who are successful today.
- 58:49Every single one of them has failed.
- 58:52Every single one of them. And look at it in that way.
- 58:56So don't let failure control your day and don't let somebody
- 59:00else's attitude control control those failures.
- 59:05Be your own person, be your own leader.
- 59:08And marry a, if you're a guy, marry a really good woman like
- 59:12Colleen. And we'll celebrate our 49th
- 59:14wedding anniversary November 7th.
- 59:17Because without her. Without her.
- 59:19I tell people I would be in a tent outside on the streets.
- 59:24I said. It'd be a damn nice tent, but
- 59:26it'd still be a tent. Michael, thanks for being a
- 59:30living witness of what you're preaching and showing that
- 59:32persistence and that strong character.
- 59:35Thank you so much. It's just been a real pleasure,
- 59:37and I hope everyone goes and sees the movie Reagan, if they
- 59:39haven't already. Thank you so much.
- 59:41And it's going to be a digital very soon.
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