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Comedy Today, Ice T, Godfather of Harlem and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know, y'all back
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  Speaker 1: a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them
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  Speaker 1: like amazing buck things and it's not doing me true
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  Speaker 1: good at Steve Hart to move together for Steve, please, Bobby,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join by join me. You doing me. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta use turning them, You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn.
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  Speaker 1: You haven't got to turn them out to turn the
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  Speaker 1: water the water. Come come on your baby dad, uh huh,
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  Speaker 1: I shall will or good morning everybody you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now, one and only
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, If if I
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  Speaker 1: had time enough to tell the whole trip, the whole journey,
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  Speaker 1: and y'all would be sitting up in there going okay
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  Speaker 1: to Steve, are we gonna play the show this week?
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  Speaker 1: But man, it's been a lot of amazing things has
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  Speaker 1: happened to me over the years, and not all of
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  Speaker 1: them good. It's been some amazingly bad things that have
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  Speaker 1: happened too. But I just come on in the morning
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  Speaker 1: as a reminder to everybody of the actual goodness of
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  Speaker 1: God that you know, man, that these mistakes that you're making,
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  Speaker 1: that these setbacks that you keep having, that these falls
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  Speaker 1: that keep occurring in your life, that they all are
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  Speaker 1: leading you somewhere. If you just don't ever give up.
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  Speaker 1: That's the key. You can never ever give up because
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  Speaker 1: you don't know how the trip has been laid out
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  Speaker 1: for you. You know, if somebody had told me years
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  Speaker 1: ago when I had the dream of being on TV
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  Speaker 1: and then I thought about being one of one of
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  Speaker 1: the best comedians I could be, you know, when I
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  Speaker 1: when I started, somebody had told me everything that was
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  Speaker 1: gonna have to happen in order for me to get there,
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  Speaker 1: I would have changed it. I would have I would
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  Speaker 1: have said, Okay, well I ain't gonna be that. How
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  Speaker 1: about this? See and no one can know all of
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  Speaker 1: the events of their life ahead of time. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it'd be so nice, wouldn't it. You know, to prepare
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  Speaker 1: for it, see it coming, be aware of the haters,
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  Speaker 1: always knowing when the backstabbing moment is coming in your life,
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  Speaker 1: always knowing when you're gonna get blindsided by the enemy.
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  Speaker 1: We are really great to know that, wouldn't it. Well,
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  Speaker 1: that's not how it works. So since no one knows
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  Speaker 1: exactly the challenges and the pitfalls and the detools that's
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  Speaker 1: going to be set them. It's it's it's imperative that
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  Speaker 1: you just don't give up because see, knowing these things,
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  Speaker 1: we as human beings by nature, would choose another route.
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  Speaker 1: But it ain't the route God God for you, though.
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  Speaker 1: See the route God God for you. If you if
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to do the right thing, if you're doing
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  Speaker 1: the best you can, if you ain't out here just
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  Speaker 1: intentionally just messing over, folks, if you're using faith and
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  Speaker 1: that's the belief in things that you cannot see. If
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  Speaker 1: you have something on the inside of you to keep
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  Speaker 1: saying there's got to be more to life than that,
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  Speaker 1: then that's that's you. You, my friend, have a great chance.
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  Speaker 1: Hill And if you've ever had that feeling then gave
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  Speaker 1: up on it, just get it back, Just ask for
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  Speaker 1: it back. Just say, hey, man, I'm getting back to
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  Speaker 1: the way I used to be because there's a change
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  Speaker 1: that's available in your life. But you gotta take it.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta take a shot at it. Folks. There's a
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  Speaker 1: chance for you to get it right, but you gotta
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  Speaker 1: take a shot at it. Folks. There's a chance for
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  Speaker 1: you to turn this whole thing around with God's help,
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  Speaker 1: but you gotta take a shot at it. You see,
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  Speaker 1: this decision is yours. The decision to lay down and
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  Speaker 1: give up, that's yours. It ain't. It just got too
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  Speaker 1: hard for me. Life too much, man, life hard and
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  Speaker 1: too much for everybody. What I gotta get you to see?
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  Speaker 1: My father used to always tell me, He says, son,
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  Speaker 1: best lessons in life to burn your value and learn
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  Speaker 1: the most is a boat lesson. I didn't quite understand
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  Speaker 1: that being young, but I showed God it Now ain't
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  Speaker 1: no lesson like a bout lesson, the one you pay for.
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  Speaker 1: Those are the ones that hold to you, that stick
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  Speaker 1: to you, that that that start turning you into who
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna be. Those are the character builders. See, you
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  Speaker 1: got to be forged to get to where you want
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  Speaker 1: to go in life. So that's what the challenges and
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  Speaker 1: missteps is for. That's what the failing is about. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I know you don't like it. I didn't. I know
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  Speaker 1: you're not comfortable with I wouldn't. I know you wish
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  Speaker 1: it was over sooner than later. I always do. I
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  Speaker 1: always want it to be over sooner than later, because
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  Speaker 1: the later manager seems like it's so much. I gotta
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  Speaker 1: go through. But let me tell you something, Man, if
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  Speaker 1: you can, if you can forge your way through it
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  Speaker 1: and understand that you are forged in life. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I was on TBN one time when I was doing
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  Speaker 1: one of my motivational speeches, and I began to wonder
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  Speaker 1: about this experience I had. It Ford Motor Company and
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  Speaker 1: my last job after the auto industry starts going down,
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  Speaker 1: my last job was in the foundry and my job
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  Speaker 1: was to stand at the end almost where the engines
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  Speaker 1: first come out of the furnace. See, the engines are
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  Speaker 1: poured into a mold's hot melted down metal whatever they
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  Speaker 1: call it, lava or whatever. They poured into a mole
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  Speaker 1: and it goes into this furnace that's extremely hot. And
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  Speaker 1: my job was after the heat was applied to the
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  Speaker 1: engine block, it would come through and it would go
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  Speaker 1: through a hardening stage. But the way it was hardening,
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  Speaker 1: they would cool it. Suddenly they would flush it with water.
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  Speaker 1: It was just blast water on it. But the fire
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  Speaker 1: and the high temperature is what made the engine block solidified.
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  Speaker 1: It's because it's gotta get real hot, get melted down first.
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  Speaker 1: Then it's got to get poured into a mole. Then
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  Speaker 1: it's gotta be pressure hit with water and all of this,
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  Speaker 1: and then it could and it's real hot. Now it's
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  Speaker 1: still hot even though there's water been shutter. But when
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  Speaker 1: it comes out the end of the side, there's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of flashing in it, and flashing is a metal
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  Speaker 1: from that din dripped through the cast molding on it,
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  Speaker 1: just like flecks of extra pieces of metal. My job
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  Speaker 1: was to hit this engine block in the front, which
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  Speaker 1: is huge, heavy rubber mallet, knock all the flashing off
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  Speaker 1: the front, and when it came around back to bam,
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  Speaker 1: hit it real hard again on the backside. And that
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  Speaker 1: became the core of what the car is. A car
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  Speaker 1: without a great engine is nothing. It's just a pretty
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  Speaker 1: looking vehicle over there. But if it can't do what
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  Speaker 1: it was made to do because the engine block then cracked.
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  Speaker 1: So you can have a car look real good. But
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  Speaker 1: if it freezes an engine block crack your car, you
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  Speaker 1: can it's over man. You gotta get a new block.
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  Speaker 1: The block is the core. But in order for you
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  Speaker 1: for the car to do it, it's got to do
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  Speaker 1: it's got to have a strong engine in it. In
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  Speaker 1: order for the engine to be strong it's got to
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  Speaker 1: be forged and still come through fire, get poured in
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  Speaker 1: a mole, cooled off, heated, knocked around, beat on the
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  Speaker 1: front end, beat on the back end, in order for
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  Speaker 1: it to be what it's gonna be. The moral of
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  Speaker 1: the story, folks, is you got to get forged in
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  Speaker 1: fire to be what you're gonna be. You got to
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  Speaker 1: get beat up, you got to get pressure washed, you
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  Speaker 1: got to have heat on you, you gotta get melted down,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta get poured into a mole. That's how you
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  Speaker 1: become who you are. So the tough things that you're
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  Speaker 1: going through, the difficult challenges and the setback. I know
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  Speaker 1: a brother who went to prison, man, And the whole
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  Speaker 1: reason he ended up going to prison because he was
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  Speaker 1: looking out the low window, looking out in the yard
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  Speaker 1: at him working out. And then the next thing, you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: this brother decided that he was gonna go out there
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  Speaker 1: and work out. Well, guess what, he's one of the
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  Speaker 1: top trainers in country. Today. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, man,
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  Speaker 1: have your attention please today's show. I have decided to
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  Speaker 1: dedicate it to dedicate to a very very special and
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  Speaker 1: rare breed of people. Today's show is dedicated to pet owners,
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  Speaker 1: but only pet owners who have monkeys, dogs, cats. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't talking to y'all fish, Nope, nope, I ain't. Only
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  Speaker 1: if you got a monkey. This show is for you.
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  Speaker 1: I know nobody ever talked to y'all, but today we
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  Speaker 1: decided we're talking to the people that's gotten monkeys. How
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing this morning? Good morning shows? Struble, Well, I'm out.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have one hasty calin for rel me neither.
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  Speaker 1: What's happening. We're gonna go down, little Junior morning, I'm
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  Speaker 1: back got a monkey? No, so I thought, if you Timmy, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't back up from the building. No monkeys? Hey man,
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  Speaker 1: Hey hey. Yesterday Tommy, the girls asked me why I
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  Speaker 1: wasn't playing in your in your really great benefit golf
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  Speaker 1: tournament that you do miles forgiving. And they were asking
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  Speaker 1: me why I wasn't invited to the Why I didn't
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  Speaker 1: play in the golf tournament. Yeah, and you know what
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  Speaker 1: I told him, Well, because I wasn't invited to play
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  Speaker 1: in the golf tournament. Yeah, true statement, Yeah, true statement, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: and y'all thought I was lying, but he is. Today
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  Speaker 1: I did not get an invitation to play in my
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  Speaker 1: nephew's golf tournament. Right, And then he went around the room.
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  Speaker 1: You're right, Stephen asked all of us, and we all
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  Speaker 1: had to admit that none of us were invited to
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  Speaker 1: your golf. Well, Junior, you didn't get invited. I had
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  Speaker 1: talked to him on Friday and didn't get invited. Junior,
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  Speaker 1: I knew you wasn't going. You're not invited. You you
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  Speaker 1: fell off the list about damn a year ago caller.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't go. No, I wasn't invited. Oh lord? So
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  Speaker 1: and then Tommy, you heard that you had the big
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  Speaker 1: dinner reception the day before the golf tournament out at
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  Speaker 1: the shattue yea and what, I ain't never been to
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  Speaker 1: the shataue y'all been to the Shaft? No? Not everybody
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  Speaker 1: on the show. You guys are this is your nephew?
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  Speaker 1: Oh god, surely no, I ain't never been to the Shaft.
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  Speaker 1: Oh Tommy, Tommy as your friend as you has not
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  Speaker 1: been to he has not come to Houston. I got
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  Speaker 1: to be. Hey, Shirley, so I got to be in Houston.
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  Speaker 1: Come to his house. Apparently, Uncle Steve, apparently like I
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  Speaker 1: ain't got plan money to get you right, but you
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  Speaker 1: can make it to Bosswana. But Houston way you'll read
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  Speaker 1: Bamn gonna Bam Joe burd Last time he was in Houston,
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  Speaker 1: he dropped me off in his private jet and keep going.
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  Speaker 1: What that got to do with the damn golf? All right? Listen, guys,
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  Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two after the hours, Steve, you'll
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  Speaker 1: be interested in this. You'll be interested in this, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy is now cringing about the jokes he told
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  Speaker 1: in his comedy special Raw. We're gonna talk about that
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show Time now for
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  Speaker 1: something funny or maybe not. Well, what made us laugh
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  Speaker 1: back in the nineteen eighties makes Eddie Murphy Steve cringe now.
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  Speaker 1: That's what he told The New York Times about it
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  Speaker 1: his comedy special Raw that we all loved. Eddie says,
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  Speaker 1: I was a young guy processing a broken heart, you know,
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  Speaker 1: kind of an a blank Eddie explained, calling it a
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  Speaker 1: bit much. Of course, the nineteen eighty seven comedy special
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  Speaker 1: gross fifty million dollars in movie theaters, and a lot
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  Speaker 1: of comedians, including Eddie's, early stand up was often laced
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  Speaker 1: with racial gender you know, that Eddie even joked about
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  Speaker 1: the AIDS epidemic, and now he calls those jokes ignorant.
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  Speaker 1: He apologized for it years ago and has no plans
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  Speaker 1: to revisit it in his upcoming return to stand up.
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  Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy's latest film, Dolomite Is My Name, opens Friday,
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  Speaker 1: and he'll host Saturday Night Live on December twenty first.
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  Speaker 1: Can't wait for that, in addition to Coming to America two,
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  Speaker 1: which will also feature our Cineo Hall, James, Earl Jones,
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  Speaker 1: Sherry Headley, Wesley Snipes, Tracy Morgan, Leslie Jones that hits
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  Speaker 1: theaters next year. So what do you think about that? Student,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I understand that, man. I'm pretty
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  Speaker 1: sure all of us. It was a different climate back then,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Like I was saying the other day, in
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  Speaker 1: nineteen eighty five, guys were doing age jokes and it
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  Speaker 1: was acceptable because no one understood it back then. And
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  Speaker 1: as crude as it appears now, back then, people in
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  Speaker 1: the audience they were laughing. It was not as sensitive
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  Speaker 1: as it is today. I don't know of a comedian
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  Speaker 1: who hasn't told a joke that they are the person
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  Speaker 1: they are today. Would never say a thing like that.
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  Speaker 1: That's what hurt Kevin Hart with the whole Oscar thing.
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  Speaker 1: Kevin says something years ago in a tweet that caused
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  Speaker 1: him his dream gig of hosting the Oscars. Not. What
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  Speaker 1: I do not like is when we go back to
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  Speaker 1: a person's past and make them pay today for a
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  Speaker 1: past mistake. That's not fair. People change, People change, They evolve, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: yes they do, Yes they do. That's what life is
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  Speaker 1: all about, growing and changing and becoming. I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: you something, man, sure, and you know, look man, that's crue.
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  Speaker 1: But when a person grows up and changes, do we
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  Speaker 1: forever have to hold them to their past? It seems
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  Speaker 1: so nowadays, Steve. Because of the Internet, it will live
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  Speaker 1: forever on the internet and you can always die. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you can always google them and look it up and
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  Speaker 1: find it, you know, and find a reason, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to cancel them, to cancel their career and stuff, because
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  Speaker 1: we live in that kind of cancel culture. Yeah, I don't,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean full agreement of that, because
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  Speaker 1: people have the right to grow up. They change. If
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  Speaker 1: if you could be held at accountable for everything you
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  Speaker 1: did at eighteen, who who would be working today? Oh no,
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  Speaker 1: and so yeah, what what kills me? Though? We get
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  Speaker 1: so self righteous with other people not realizing that because
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  Speaker 1: we're not in a governorship or in politics, or in
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  Speaker 1: entertainment or in sports or CEO of a corporation, that
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  Speaker 1: we haven't done something that if they only knew, right,
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  Speaker 1: And then it makes things like apologizing and forgiving, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: what are those what are those for? For times like these?
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  Speaker 1: When people make mistakes, they apologize and they move sincerely
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  Speaker 1: from the heart and forgive and they move on. We
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  Speaker 1: don't even give a person now the opportunity to apologize
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  Speaker 1: and continue to live his life, or we we are
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  Speaker 1: so unforgiving as a culture as well, you know, we
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  Speaker 1: don't giving society. Yeah, we just don't do it. We
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  Speaker 1: do not do that. And it's a shame, it really
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  Speaker 1: really is. Yeah. Let me ask you a question though, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: So you talked about the governor Ralph Northam of Virginia
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  Speaker 1: with his yearbook picture. People dug up at the black face,
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  Speaker 1: and then you remember last week we were talking about
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  Speaker 1: the Prime Minister of Canada who you know, he wore
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  Speaker 1: the black face multiple times. You remember how they kept
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  Speaker 1: saying they found a picture him doing it again and again.
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  Speaker 1: What about a person that does that that that kind
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  Speaker 1: offends people over and over with the same thing from
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  Speaker 1: the bad. Here's a deal. If you do something that
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  Speaker 1: offends people and they bring it to your attention, and
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  Speaker 1: you do it again, but then again alogetic right? That
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  Speaker 1: that are people who've done things more than once thinking
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  Speaker 1: it's funny, without really even realizing what they've done, and
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  Speaker 1: you do it again or see, I'm gonna tell you man,
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  Speaker 1: when you travel in a certain circle where it's acceptable
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  Speaker 1: and thought of it's funny, it's no harm, no file.
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  Speaker 1: We have a president that has grown up in that
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  Speaker 1: world where you can call women pokerhonness, where you can
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  Speaker 1: where you've never seen a person taken from a family before,
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  Speaker 1: So you don't care that these Latinos get separated from
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  Speaker 1: their children. You don't know what it feels like to
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  Speaker 1: be a four year old and you and I system
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  Speaker 1: picked up your parents and not nobody's picking you up
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  Speaker 1: from schools. That's inhumane behavior towards a child. But if
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  Speaker 1: you've never been in that circle and experienced it, you
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  Speaker 1: don't know. It's like Donald Trump once made the statement
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  Speaker 1: when they talk about they asked him and they say,
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  Speaker 1: why won't you ever make housing for poor people? You
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  Speaker 1: know what his response was, rich people need somewhere to
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  Speaker 1: live to That was his response. Donald Trump said, rich
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  Speaker 1: people need somewhere to live too. Wait a minute, this
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  Speaker 1: is the guy that you all elected to govern a country,
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  Speaker 1: whether masses of people are not rich, and you picked
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  Speaker 1: the guy who's never been nothing but rich to govern
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  Speaker 1: a world and a country of people and the predominant
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  Speaker 1: people are not rich. That's that's that's crazy. What made
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  Speaker 1: Obama effective was he was a greater servant, which made
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  Speaker 1: him a great leader. Now all Donald Trump trying to
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  Speaker 1: do is take away everything he's ever done to make
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  Speaker 1: himself look like a good president. He's the worst. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: coming up, nephew, tell me he's run that prank back.
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  Speaker 1: That's coming up right after this, you're listening. Coming up
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  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Guys and Entertainment News,
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  Speaker 1: ra Kelly says he wants out of jail because his
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  Speaker 1: health is failing. And we'll also tell you about Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I kill my cousin. Won't out of jail. My uncle
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  Speaker 1: won't at everybody. I know, my partner really won't out well,
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  Speaker 1: but you won't out everybody won't at Donald won't out. Also,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Stacy Dashes in the news for her domestic violence arrest.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about that, but right now, beat somebody, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: right now, Uh, nephew, Tommy is here with run that frank. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: allegedly allegedly allegedly somebody her husband. What you know? That's
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  Speaker 1: you know, that's big now what what? But it's more
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  Speaker 1: to the story. It's a it's a serious part to
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  Speaker 1: the story as well. Okay, well her defense joke, I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing them. You going to information you got based on
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  Speaker 1: just the initial line you said, Staci dash is in
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  Speaker 1: for domestic violence. I'm thanking Staci Dashing. People ask now
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: now if there's more to this story. Let let I
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: wait here. Yeah, Steve right clueless wrote this joke, and
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: right now I'm clueless clueless that she starting. Yeah, that's
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: all right, nephew, I know, nephew. What you got for it?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: All right, let's get it together. Everybody needs to do it.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: It's that time, your funeral arrangement. Let's go here, your
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: funeral the ring. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to retail miss Diane.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Please she at the moment, I take a message. Please,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: My name is John John, I'm actually the funeral director
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: here funeral home, because Diane came in earlier today and
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: try to get the arrangement set. First of all, I
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: want to say my condolences to you all and your
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: entire family for what you're going through. She built out
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: some paperwork here and I wanted to make sure I
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: got everything actually correct. I'm a little not sure on
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: what she wants on the actual tombstone. I don't know
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: if she wants Rob or Robert. Are you Are you
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: one of the members that maybe able to tell me
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: exactly what she was wanting on I am I'm Robert. Listen,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: listen is all about it. She's getting me the smaller
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: than what you're talking about. Okay, hold on a certain sir.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: You who I am? Robert? Rob Robert? That's me? Okay?
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: And is there probably senior or the junior is just
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: a child. I'm Robert, That's who I am. Junior is
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: the child? Neither one of us did we're hell? Okay, okay, okay, okay,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: hang on, Oh my god, all right, I don't okay,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: hang on a second, sir, Yeah, yeah, I am been on.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Miss Diana, Miss sir, Miss Diana is your wife. Yeah,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: that's my wife. You show you got the right name.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: You shown what she came in? Uh this morning? Uh
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: maybe five five what salt and pepper haired, shoulder lane.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Uh maybe a medium brown complex mm hmm, little kind
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: of cast you what'd having you see the college and
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: seeing the call something? Uh it seemed like it was
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: a some type of Uh was it a camera? I think? Yeah,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: that's what I mean. What happened Kelly? Actually, Kelly, what happened?
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: As much as she came in and saying what to you?
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: She came in? Mister? Why why? Why? Why? Why don't
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I call back when Miss Diane is there? We can
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: call back, you know, tell me that right that I
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: need to know what is going on? You might wife
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: would tell me she went for food for me, and
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: you tell me you to call me? Let me know,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: tell me that, sir. All I know is Miss Diane
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: came in. The paperwork was a little I was just
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: coming reevaluating know what I what? I what? What what
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: was written here? It wasn't right? I mean, she came in,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: she she picked out the casket, she did everything that
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: she was supposed to casket casket bro bro just but
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: I don't understand. I don't really understand what's going on,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: but I'm a fan out later on, I'm going back.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I don't understand. I've never been in a I've never
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: been in a situation like this. Okay, so getting a
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Sixtus Lake. Maybe I need to call back when against
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Diane gets there. I said, I need to talk to
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: you now. She had six o'clock. Don't worry about that.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Where you went anyway? What's your name again? Where you went?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm John, sir, I'm I'm the funeral home direct.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, y'all. You might be you might be making
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: some suder rains for her too. I might need to
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: switch names for her game on them. Okay, sir, I'm
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: just what six o'clock is? Six o'clock, sir, six o'clock.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be there, sir. Of a funeral is a
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: very serious thing, sir. So you're you're I'm serious, bro,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: Look you my wife coming, she trying to marry me me.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: I'm Robber. Wouldn't name be on the people? Robert? It's
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: it's it's it's rob or Robert? Which ever one? I mean?
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I mean, I won't. I don't want,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't know. We don't even
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: been befit, you know what I'm saying. We didn't even argue.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: We had a little lass him in last week, my
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: little lack vials something little bit black man. But you
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: would have a funerals of me. May I tell you
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: that they got the right las? You got the right one.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I tell you, man, I'm not watch watch yeah. I mean,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: since I have you on the phone, is it is?
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Can I ask you? What? Is it all right? If
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: I ask you something? Sir? May do you want to
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: ask me? Brother? I mean, since since it is your funeral?
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Would you would you like the light blue lining or
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: the white line and the inside on the inside. You
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: played with me right now? You even now you trying me.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Now if I come down and then swing on you,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: you won't lack it. It gonna be two funerals. You
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: keep on last. You're gonna pick your man. I'm not
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: here frust like a twenty hour she was all I said,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: for a little bit. Life's on around him. It's gonna
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: keep the build out. But she was saying, around here, sir,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: h light whole life a funeral come on, man, boy,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I god, I'm okay. Can I can? I? Can? I? Can?
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I tell you? What else your wife told me when
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: she was here? What what else should do? Ay? I
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: need to know anywhere? I need to know. Damn me
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: glad him when she told me to tell you exactly
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: who I was? What? Who are you? I'm sorry? Who
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: are you? Sir? I'm not John. I'm not John from
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: funeral home. You better let me? You better tell me
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: you no better him not no, no know nothing of him.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: Just see it? This right here isn't a few timing
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Martin Shell your white Diane got
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: me to prank phone? Oh you Hello up? I swear
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: y'all y'all some boy and it boy, y'all lit us man,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: y'all just stop paying on people's phone. Man, I'll cut it, Steve,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I say, hey, man, look him, bro, big batter need
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: the soup, man, I mean the hole that you hol
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: that shoe shot head? Right man? Hey, let me ask
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: you miss, what is the baddest radio show in the land?
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Steve Harley Moaning Show? And nah nah it's a classic.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: I just need to know. It's a class o man.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: You know what you missed while you were at your
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: golf tournament. What Jay Anthony Brown doing, nephew, Timmy, Oh, Tommy,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: h oh, he was doing you all right, coming out
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour entertainment news and national news.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show all right, time
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: for entertainment news. Guys, um, let me do this right here.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Do you know Tommy, how bad Jay was talking about
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: you yesterday? Yeah? Yeah, we just told you earlier what
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: he was doing. Yeah, boy, he was doing. You said,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: ha ha, Did I do it? He said, no, what's
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: the matter. Tommy came here? He said, chat, he said, slowly,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: chat chat. Yeah. He gave Junior a run for his money.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Let's just say, okay, okay, okay, Tommy, President, he's going
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: to be impeached president. All right, let's gets you some
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: entertainment news. R Kelly says he wants out of jail.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: He says he wants out because his health is failing. Guys,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Art is back uh in court. He's going back to
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: court for a second try at getting out, pending his
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: various trials, claiming his health has been compromised. Behind bars.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Who in there don't won't act though exactly His lawyers
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: just filed a new legal duck obtained by TMZ, in
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: which they outline his various medical issues, including numbness in
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: one of his hands, anxiety, and an untreated hernia. Ours
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: lawyer Steve Greenberg claims that Robert is not receiving adequate
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: medical treatment in jail and calls the conditions of his
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: confinement stifling. Yeah. I believe that. I believe what he's
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: saying is truth. But let me share a couple Okay,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: go down the list of his symptoms again. Oh, his hand, um,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: numbness in his hand. I've been to jail in one
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: of his hands. I've been to jail. My hand was
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: no because I was sitting on it all night. Okay,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: what's happened to me? Makes symptom and anxiety? Anxiety? Everybody
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: in jail is got anxiety. Yeah, it's called jail. Everybody
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: everybody in that chili. Yeah, everybody in that guy anxiety
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: and an untreated hernia. What are you gonna do about that? Hell? Yeah,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: everybody got her. I'm straining my ass off in it
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: because I stayed in there for a weekend. And let
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: me tell you something, I gotta hurn it because I
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: got constipated because I didn't go to the bathroom because
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: it's over there in the corner, and I wasn't pulling
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: my pants down in that corner because I was young.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: So I had a hernia when I got out and
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: went home. I got my horney at the house. Yeah. Yeah,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: trying to go to the bathroom. You constipated. You're gonna
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: get a horney if you really constipated. So and not
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: to say all that and understand where all coming well,
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: and uh, you know, he also you know, he lives
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: with these two girlfriends, but only one of them is
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: allowed to be on his visiting list, and after ninety
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: days he's required to switch. Now, he did confirm to
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: TMZ the woman who is currently on the list is
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: as Reel Clary, so Joscelyn Savage has to wait it
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: out before she can visit him. Just in the car
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: out saying he asked about that, I don't really know
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: nothing about, just like I just found out a couple
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: weeks ago he was in jail. I didn't even know it.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna quickly get into the Stacy dash story, Steve
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: before we run out of time. She was arrested for
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: domestic violence in Florida over the weekend, according to TMZ. Again,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: law enforcement sources say that Stacy allegedly punched and slapped
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: her husband, attorney Jeffrey Marty, and they saw scratches on
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: his left arm. Stacy told a nine one one operator
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: that she had been assaulted by her husband. She claims
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: the husband's fifteen year old daughter got in her face
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: and that started the whole situation. The couple has been
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: married for a year. This is Stacy old as example
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: out of fifteen year old. All right, Yeah, but she
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: says she was defending herself. Yeah, she was defending that's
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: all of us. Do not us how you know every
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: fight I've been in, I've been defending muscle. All right,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: let's move on to see it. Let's get to our headlines, gentlemen,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: mis a hntrel Okay, goodness, this is a trip for
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: the news, everybody. The official impeachment and career began in
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: earnest yesterday on Capitol Hill. The House Intelligence Committee sent
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: a subpoena to President of Trump's personal lawyer, former New
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: York City Mayor Giuliani for documents related to the investigation.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: And yesterday's action comes after three committee chairs consulted with
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: each other, then sent a letter giving Giuliani until October
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: fifteenth to turn over stuff. Materials which they say are
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: about the quote extent to which President Trump jeopardized national
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: security by pressuring Ukrainian officials to interfere with our twenty
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: twenty election. By the way, the New York Times now
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: reports that Donald Trump asked Australia's Prime Minister Scott Morrison
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: to help discredit the Mueller investigation. It's a Trump's alleged
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: that was about Trump's alleged collusion, if you remember, with
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: the Russians to sway votes in his favor during the
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: last presidential election at the time, says that he tried
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: to get Australia's Prime minister to kind of discredit that investigation.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: In Dallas, both sides have rested their cases in the trial.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: The former female police officer charged with essentially breaking into
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: her upstairs neighbor's apartment and shooting him to death. Amber Geiger,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: who's white, claimed she was too tired to realize that
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: she'd entered her upstairs a black neighbor's apartment when she
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: murdered him. Her lawyers are insisting that she was standing
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: her own ground. The prosecutors stay, that's ridiculous since it
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: wasn't her apartment, but the judge has allowed that argument
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: to go. It has not been reported whether amber Gager
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: was ever given or breathalyzed the test by the way,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: by her colleagues that night, but she has since been
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: fired from the force given a job teaching people how
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: to avoid dangerous situations. The prosecutors summed up her story
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: by saying Geiger was caught in a lie during her testimony,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: and the prosecutor says, quote, most of what she said
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: was garbage. Now law in California that mandate said college
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: athletes get paid the bills, called a fair Play to
• 35:25
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• 35:27
  Speaker 1: Gavin Newsom, who says college plays will now have the
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: right to make money off their names, image and likenesses
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: going to change college sports for the better by having
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: now the interests finally of the athletes on par with
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: the interests of the institution. Sad news Internationally renowned opera
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: singer Jesse Norman has died at age seventy four. Norman
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: was born in the segregated South in September of nineteen
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: forty five and broke several color and other barriers, like
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: becoming the youngest person to ever receive a Kennedy Center honor.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: She was nominated for fifteen Grammy, she won four, and
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: she was on it with a Lifetime Achieving Award Grammy.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: In two thousand and six. Jesse Norman was seventy four
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: and finally on the lighter side Today International African diash
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  Speaker 1: Amber Geiger's murder trial, Assistant District Attorney Jason Fine said
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: in closing arguments on yesterday that Geiger was an intruder
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: in both of John's home. This case is about accountability
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: for unreasonable decisions. The prosecution told the jury, you sixteen
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: are the voice of the community. This cannot be allowed.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: It cannot be acceptable. Not here in Dalite. Well the
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: jury sixteen, yeah, yeah, are the voice of the community. Yeah.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: I thought it was twelve two. Yeah, But he said
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: six sixteen. That's what he said. Yeah, And that's according
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: to CBS News and anyway. So he said, you sixteen
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: are the voice of the community. This cannot be allowed.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: It cannot be acceptable. Not here in Dallas, not here
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: in Texas, not anywhere. However, Geiger's attorney, Toby Shook urged
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: jurors not to base their decision on emotion. He says,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: you can't say I feel so horrible for both of Jean.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: I am going to make something happen. You can't use
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: emotion when making your decision. The judge also rule the
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: jury can consider the castle doctrine during deliberations. Now, the
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: castle doctrine is similar to the standard ground law. It
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: allows a person to use or using force, even deadly force,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: in the protection of a home, vehicle, or other property,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: if someone attempts to forcibly enter or remove an individual
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: from the premises. Now, that's not what happened here. The
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: prosecution also reminded jurors that Geiger could see both of
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Jean after opening his door, and Geiger wore a police
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: uniform belt with tools on it. But she chose to
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: use the most lethal weapon, a gun and shoot him
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: dead in his heart while he got a bowl of
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: ice cream, sitting down with a bowl of ice cream. Yeah,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: she's going to get off, thought I'm about that seems
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: to be the sentiment. Yeah, I'm really really concerned about this. Yeah,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: I've seen acts of racism in this country many times before.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: I'm really really concerned about this. I mean it's a
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: case to be concerned, you know, to to have concern
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: about even though he says, don't use your emotions, you
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: know what, he just wants them to look at the facts. Okay,
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: that's what her attorney, Yeah, her attorney. Yet, if we
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: look at the facts, yeah, you walked into manhouse, and
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: it's just not enough to me to say I thought
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: it was my apartment. That's I don't buy that argument.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: You killed the person for no reason. Yeah, it's no reason.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: He wasn't committing a crime, he wasn't in the act
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: of anything, he didn't have a weapon. Oh, you killed
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: him for no reason, sitting on a couch eating ice cream.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: You shot me? All right, all right, we gotta get
• 40:05
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• 40:10
  Speaker 1: coming up at thirty four after iced Tea is defending
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: his wife for breastfeeding. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: You're listening to well and trending parenting news. We'll call
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: this um iced Tea's wife Coco. Steve, you know Coco,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: We all know Coco. Yes, yeah, unapologetically now takes pride
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: in sharing with the world that she still breastfeeds her
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: almost four year old daughter, Chanel. Coco shared a picture
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: on Instagram that it's a mother calling to fulfill certain
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: responsibilities and that includes nursing. A lot of people have
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: disagreeing opinions about breastfeeding, and almost four year old Iced
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Tea responded and defended his wife. Take a listen, please
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: problem overload. I make it like the baby only eats breastfeeds.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Kid does every once in a while. You know what
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. She wants to get close to her mom.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: That's what they do. I'm saying. She eats food. She chats,
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: said she eats cheese. Iced Tea. Yeah that was Iced
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Tea defending cocoa breastfeeding her four year old baby. That's
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: what they're for. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what they are.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: We are, Yeah, that's why we have right now? Is
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: it publicly and a public needs? Well, I mean she
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: put out a picture on Instagram, so she made it
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: on the plane. Yeah, yeah, she was on a private plane.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: But she shared the picture on Instagram. Yeah, she was
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: on a private plane. But I didn't do that. You
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: can if you put the blanket over you or not,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: a goste got that seat that's facing child, mons natural
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: thing in the world. Guys. Well no, no, no, here's
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: a deal. Yeah no, all jokes aside. I don't care
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: what a woman do what they child. It ain't your baby.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: You do it the way you want to do it.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: And see it. I was in O'Hair this woman was
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: breastfeeding her baby and he could walk and talk and
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: she was breastfeeding her baby out not covered up. I
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: saw her entire breath everything. Well did you see that
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: All Time magazine? Yeah, I remember that when they had
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: that woman and that little boy was standing there he
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: was like eight. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember that man.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: He was just standing there looking at the camera, just
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: just knowing. Yeah. I I didn't know how to I mean,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: you didn't know how to feel. You feel something, you
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: feel some kind of way about it. You do, but
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: we're in the society, we're just not you know, it's
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: not something that we're doing. Listen, if iced Tea and Coco.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: He was with the other boy when he was four
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: huh dollar boy with that short gene was then for
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: that was I mean, he wasn't leaning up or nothing.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: They were standing there. He just turned and went in level. Yes. Well,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: let me tell you what. Here's what I think just
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: a couple of the ways I think that when you
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: you're taking the breastfeeding too for okay, this is just
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: a couple of things. If when the baby gets through,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: they take a napkin and pat their mouths track, I
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: think I think that right there is time for this
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: to stop right here. Yeah. If if baby can stand
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: that and unbutton your blyth and then button it back
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: up when he threw, I think we might be at
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: the point where enough is enough. But if the baby
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: can turn around and go to hair, y'all look at that,
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: I think that that could be a cut off a point,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. That sense. Yeah, say, man, now,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: if the baby is talking to the husband and you
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: hear something like say, man, get your own mama, I
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: think we might think it's probably time, but it is,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: say man, get your own mama. Do you agree with
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: iced tea? It is a great way to bond for
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: mother and baby to have that closeness, and that for
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: us as men, we really don't know what that is
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: because I know, you know, my grandson came out in
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: the backyard today. I was just talking to me and
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna talk less walked off from Yeah, all right,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: look coming up next, nephew in the building. With today's
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: prying phone call right after this, you're listening show coming
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, subject I'm
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: in too deep with this guy. But right now, nephew,
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: right here with today's praying phone call. What you got
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: for us? Now? Well bumping Gray huh, bumping grind no
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: relation to our bumping grund. Hello. Hello, I'm sorry Marcus.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Uh Marcus, Yeah, this is Hey. Can you hear me?
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Pretty good? Yeah? Hey, hey listen,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: uh radio now for a second? Good, Hey, listen. I
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: live in and I live in an apartment building that
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: you just moved into. Uh. I live in twenty one
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: A and you live above me in twenty two eight.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: H huh. I actually got your number from the leasing office.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I told him I wanted to welcome you to the
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: apartment building, man, but I didn't want to really raise
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: no oprowse. But I was really calling about you know.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: You know, first of all, let me go ahead and
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: say welcome to the building. Man. I hope that you
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: and your your h is that your wife to live
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: with you. First of all, thank you, brother, I appreciate it.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: But why would you need to have my number to
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: do that you just came knocked on my door, man, boy. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: we'll see whatever. The reason why, I mean, I really
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: called it, got the number, was kind of reach out
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: to you. Man. I don't be wanting to start no
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: trouble with nobody and nothing like that. I'd want to
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: you know, I want I want my neighbors to be
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: cool with me, and I want to be cool with
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: my neighbors. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, so I
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: was reaching out man, because you know the noise, man,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: I was. I'm I work at night and I sleep
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: during the day, man, but it seems like since you
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: guys moved in, man, in the middle of the day,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: it's just you know, I mean, I know what it's
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: like to have a hold on hold on, hold on hold.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: You're hearing marriages coming from my place in the middle
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: of the day, right, I mean, I'm hearing I'm getting
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: them here and you're making love to you lady. Man.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, h nah, man, nah nah. You know what
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: he did. You might be hearing something from a mother
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: another unit, man, if deinly not coming from us because
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: I'm at work and my you know, my girl is dead,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: but she on the computer you know what she's looking
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: for a gig right now? Hello? Okay, okay, okay, wait
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: a minute now, So you live in a fire with
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: twenty two A right, yeah, okay, see I live in
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: twenty one A. Your your bedroom is above my bedroom.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Hold on, holda. You're trying me that you're hearing norrises
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: that sound like somebody's making love coming from my cred
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: at this time of day, and I'm not there, and
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: only my wooman is dead. Dude, man, you know I
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: get it. I'm not trying to be rude or anything.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: I appreciate you calling and and you know me bright
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: and all that can me and here you shake you
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: in right, Uh yeah, yeah, you know, I'm man. Look,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: I mean you called me all right, So let's get
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: to the frontom of it. One time. You're seeing you
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: hearing with what kind of is are you hearing? Exactly?
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: Tell me, hey, hey, hey, you know what, man, there's
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: probably just a big mistake. I mean, maybe she just
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: hanging some pictures or something. Broy know, I you know pictures, man,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: we even pictures your I mean, you're calling me like
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: you're gonna black handing bhme after my cred. You're talking
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: about man. Hey, hey man, listen um Marcus our podcast.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm you know, I'm gonna know. I'm man. You're
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: telling me I'm man. Let you say. I'm saying, I
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: don't know what you are and I'm a man. No,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: I'm not hand new understanding. You calling me telling me
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: you hearing lasers coming from our cred and shall like somebody.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: And now you're telling me that when we thought it,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: you know, Hey man, all I'm saying is maybe it's
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: just a legitimate mistake. I don't think maybe she hanging
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: the pictures of moves of burnish or something like that.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Just man, I keep telling you that, you know, anybody
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: having this it shouldn't do. Little rooms coming from my bed.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Hey man, I ain't trying to I ain't trying to
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: start no trouble man, And you started what you're saying. Man.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: All I was calling about was trying to get a decent,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: decent rest. Man. I work at night. Brother, It's all
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Man, I'm not trying to get it.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: If you like the Great yard Ship, I don't care it.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: You couldn't be telling me about. I just want to
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: you amazing anyone going on like that ain't mean you
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: got the right a dress when you love that. Man.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: You live, yes, Man, an apartment twenty one egg and
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: your place is a mine. Man. Hold on, man, hold
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: on you put it chuck over man, old on what second? Man?
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: Because you're talking all dude, Hey, man, look, I'm not
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to have no trump man, I'm not
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: trying the handle from I can't working, man, Jah, I
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: just sit the hours a week long. Then like this, Okay, okay,
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: though I'm not. All I'm saying is man, I thought
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: I thought she was making love to you your woman. Man,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: That's what I thought. That's why I called you to
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: ask her to keep the noise Downrusting my wife, I ain't.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: I'm here. You go. Trust he's doing with it. Way ain't.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: And that's from the king. No. No, on the hand
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: of dude, you're not coming to my apartment and hear nothing. Man.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to do with this. Man. I
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: I ain't letting you in my house. Man. If I know,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: man that you got going on the stairs, you gotta
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: control your woman. Man. It ain't got nothing to do
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: with me. I don't even know I know she, I
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: know you. I know the weining it out for the
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: last two weeks between twelve and two. I know that
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: you got you're talking again. Man, I'm coming to your hell.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: You ain't coming to my apartment. Man, I'm not. Ain't man, listen, No,
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to do with it. I'm telling
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: you trouble christ Man. Hey, I got one more things
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: I need to say you, man, did you listen from
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: my christ I ain't the hold. I got one more
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: thing I need to say. All right, all right, you
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: better do listen. Better be telling me opening and don't
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: are you listen? Yeah, I'm listen. This is nephew timing
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• 52:12
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  Speaker 1: coming to man. I'm serious, man, I got one more thing.
• 52:20
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• 52:26
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• 54:00
  Speaker 1: all right, coming up right after this, Thank you, nephew.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters. Subject i am in too deep with
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: this guy. We'll get into it right after this. You're
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: listening to show all right, time now for today's Strawberry
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: Letter and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
• 54:21
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  Speaker 1: reading your letter like listen right here, right here, right now,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: all right, buglet hold on tight. We got it for
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I'm in too deep with this guy. Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: I've been seeing a guy for eight months now, and
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: our relationship is strictly sexual. When we first met, he
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: told me that he has a girlfriend and that he
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: lives in another state, that he had no plans to
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: break up with her. But she's still, but she can't
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: fulfill his needs when she's so far away. When we
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: first met at a club, and I would run into
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: him at local parties, so we were bound to hook
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: up sooner or later. We have sex often, and it's
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: really good sex. I am the one who satisfies his
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: sexual needs and desires while his girlfriend is away. I
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: have a problem, though, when his girlfriend is in town.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I often run into my guy and his girlfriend in
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: the club or at parties. I have to see him
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: all up on her, dancing seductively and giving her public
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: displays of affection right in front of me. It's becoming
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: a real problem for me, and I have realized that
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I'm catching feelings for this guy. I have started to
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: question myself because his girlfriend is pretty and she's a
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: great body, but so do I. I am also very
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: well educated, and I could easily be any man's prize possession.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: I recently turned forty, and I feel like it's time
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: for me to stop playing gangs and get what I deserve.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: I feel like I deserve this guy, and I no
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: longer to desire to be his side chick. I have
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: been hinting at it, and he tells me that I
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: am a great woman and any man would be lucky
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: to have me. So should I tell him that I
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: want to be with him and give him an ultimatum?
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: Or do you think he would just discard me and
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: get another side chick? Yeah, everything you said in your
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: letter is true, so you already know the answer. I mean,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: even before you wrote in Yeah, he'll probably just discard
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: you and get someone else, because the girlfriend that he
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: has that lives out of town is obviously who he wants.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: But you signed up for this. You signed up for
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: this in your second line. This relationship is strictly sexual.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: You said it. You said we were bound to hook
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: up sooner or later. We were bound to hook up
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: sooner or later. Really, I mean you said you have
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: sex often, it's really good sex. You're the one who
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: satisfies him. Yeah, you're doing all the work. But he
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: was honest with you. He told you he had a girlfriend.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: He told you he had no plans to break up
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: with her. He told you, and you accepted all of this.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. Things changed because guess what,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: we as women aren't built for this. We aren't built
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: like this. But you already know the answers. You're pretty,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: you have a beautiful body, you're very well educated, all
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: that you could easily be any man's prize possession. You
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: recently turned forty. It's time for you to stop playing games. Okay,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: well stop stop. Let this man go on and be
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: with this woman that he's had before you, since and
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: after you, and you go on at forty and get
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: your own man. Okay, get your own man. You just
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: like you caught feelings for him because you were being
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: so sexual and everything for him, you could catch feelings
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: for someone else. Okay, So get yourself together, raise your
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: self esteem, and get what you truly deserve. You already
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: know this, Steve. This is a letter about a woman
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: who's kidding herself. And you know, I read these letters,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: and I read them a little bit differently. I just
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: don't like when a woman lie. I just don't like that.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: And Sister, I hate to tell you this, but if
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: you would just stop lying, you could be Okay. I've
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: been seeing a guy's faith most now, and our relationship
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: is strictly sexual. That's a lie. It's a lie. It's
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: been stopped being strictly sexual for you quite some time ago.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: That's not true. When we first met He told me
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend that lives in another state and
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: he had no plans on breaking up with her. He
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: told you that, but she can't fulfill his needs when
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: she's far away. All he said was, I'd be wanting
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: to have sex sometimes and she ain't here to get
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: to me. But I have no intention of breaking up
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: with her. Then she tries to backtrack. We first met
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: at a club, and I would run into him at
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: local parties, so we were bound to hook up sooner
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: or later. Why what that means I'd ran up into
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: a lot of people. Wasn't no bound to nothing? No,
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: you wanted this from several events. You've looked over at him,
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: and you made it up in your mind that you
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: wanted him. What you mean we was bound to hook
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: up sooner later? You know how many times you see
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: somebody all the time. Now, many people see somebody at
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: work that's cute, but it ain't bound to be a
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: hook up. We have sex often, and it's really good sex.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: I'm the one who satisfies his sexual needs and desires
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: while his girlfriend is away. Excuse me girlfriend, his girlfriend,
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: the one he told you that he has no plans
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: of breaking up with I'm the one who satisfies his
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: sexual needs and desires when his girlfriends were This one
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: gets women into trouble. See, women, you suck your such
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: nurturius oftentimes think that I can fix it. So, since
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: you have this problem with this woman being away so
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: long and she can't supply your needs, I'll tell you what.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna supply your needs. I caught you while she
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: is away. Now I got a problem though, because when
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: his girlfriend is in town, I often run into my
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: guy and his girlfriend in the club or at parties.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: This is what kind of small ass town? Is this?
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: A little bit ass time? I have to see him
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: all up on her, dancing secretly and giving her public
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: displays on affection right in front of me. It's his
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: girlfrid that he has no intentions of breaking up with.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Why are you forgetting this here? It's supposed to be
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: in front of you because he ain't having an affair
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: with you, he told us to the girl just right here. Yeah,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: I told you well. Our first two of Steve's response
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour, right
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right? Come on, Steve, let's
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letters, subject I'm in too deep with
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: this guy. Here's this lady been seeing this guy for
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: eight months. Lied to us right in the first sentence
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: said our relationship is strictly sexual. Nothing after this letter
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: says it strictly sick. Got a girlfriend living in another state,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: has no plans for breaking up with her. She can't
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  Speaker 1: fulfill his needs when she's so far away. So we
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: met at a club and I run up into him
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: at local party. So we was bound the hook? Uh
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: sooner or later? What? Who makes that damn statement? I
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: keep seeing him and Wayne must be a sign from
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  Speaker 1: the Lord. See everybody in that town though, Yeah, every
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: time I go down to this Chick fil a, I
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: see the same people down there. Ain't never thought, well
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: they in here again, must be moting chicken. I have
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: a problem, though, When his girlfriend is in town. I
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: run into the guy and his girlfriend in the club
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: at parties. I got to see him all up on
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: her dancers, seductively and giving her public displays of affection
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: right in front of me. That's caused. That's caused. You
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: knew the rules. You knew the rules from the beginning.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: He told you he has no intentions of breaking up
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: with her, and when she in town, he ain't in
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: your face. Because she in town supplying his needs, You
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: supplying when she ain't there. That's become a real problem
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: for me because I have realized that I'm catching feelings
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: for this guy. Another lie, another lie, I'm catching feelings
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: for this guy. No you called them, Yeah, you've ben't
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: had him, You've ben't had him. I have started to
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: question myself because his girlfriend is pretty and she has
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: a great body. But so do I. Okay, well, I'm
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: also very well educated, and I could here's the line, y'all,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: I'm also very well educated, and I could easily be
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: any man's prize possession. Well, you know why you're not.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: First of all, you are any man's prize possession. You
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: are you are, You are his prize other possession. And
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: you know why you're not the one, the number one
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: because you don't act like a number one. See you
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: act like a number two. See when you act like
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: a number two, then you gonna be a number two.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: A woman only gets to be number one when she
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: starts acting and behaving as a number one. As long
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: as you behave and act as a number two. So
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: shall it be. He told you he had no intentions
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: of leaving his girlfrid. You said, cool, you can have
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: some of this anyway while she it ain't here. Well,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: guess what, he still ain't leaving. Honey. Keep bringing other
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: parties and they dancing all seductively in your face. You're
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: number two because you act like number two. The only
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: way to be number one is you behave and act
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: like number one? Am I being clear? Ladies? Can I
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: be getting clearer to you? First of all, you're getting
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: what you deserve because you're getting exactly what you wanted.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: You said we was bounding hook up soon or later.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: I feel like I deserve this guy, and I no
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: longer desire to be his side. Check that's true. Those
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: are probably real feelings. You have it. You no longer
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: desire to be his side chick. But if he don't
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: want you as the number one, what do we have hill? See, Ladies,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: here we go. You can want to want a man
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: to be your man, but if he don't want you
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: to be his girl, what we got him? We just
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: got you wanting something that he told you you couldn't have.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: In the beginning, I have been hinting at it and
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: he tells me that I'm a great woman and any
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: man would be lucky to have me. So should I
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: tell him that I want to be with him and
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: give him an ultimatum? Yes, yes, that's exactly what you
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: should do. You should because he just said you a
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: great woman and any man would be lucky to have you.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: So should I tell him I want to be with
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: him and give him an ultimatum? Yes, you should do
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: exactly that. It's time you exactly right, it's time to
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: go on and put it out there on the life.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: You should say this to him so you can find
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: out the truth and what he told. Your answer beginner,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: it's what he meant in the beginning, and you would
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: be good for any man, any man but him. Right,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: he's taken Or do you think he would just discard
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: me and get another side check. No, it ain't about
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: another side chick. It's about the chick he got. He
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: got you because you signed up for it. All you
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: have to do is not signed up for and you'd
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: never been the side chick. And then maybe he had
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: looked at you and went, wow, she had number one.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: Let me look into this. But since you bit into
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: number two, number two, it is safe at second base.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: You're never make it all right, Steve. Good answer, Steve.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: You can email us guys or instagram us your thoughts
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter. Also check out the Strawberry Letter
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: podcast on Demanding Wow. Now. Stay tuned because coming up
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: at forty six after the hour today kicks off Breast
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: Cancer Awareness Month. Of course, it kicks off Domestic Violence
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Awareness Month as well. Carlo is going to be here
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: to help heighten the awareness of issues concerning breastcancer among
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: African American women. We'll talk about that right after this.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: You're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: so today is October first. Carlo is here to tell
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: us about how you're helping to heighten the awareness of
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: issues of breast cancer among African American women. Carlo, that's right, trailer.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: You guys know, I am a tireless breast cancer awareness
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: advocates and I want to make sure that I'm constantly
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: involved in raising awareness about the issues of breast cancer
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: in African American women as well as provide information on
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: community resources. There's so much information out there. So this Saturday,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: I will be in Chicago with our home station B
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: one oh three, Yes, for the third annual Sister Strung
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: Breast Cancer Walk. We will be in Chicago, Shirley and
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: I went last year actually on my birthday shirt. Yeah yeah,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: and so I will be there again this year this Saturday.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: And just some serious business listen. Studies show that African
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: American women are more likely to get breast cancer at
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: a younger age and have a death rate from breast
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: cancer higher than Caucasian women of the same age. But
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: awareness of these issues will help the survival rate. And
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: early detection is the key. You hear that all the
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: time about cancer, all cancers. Early detection is the key.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: So if you are in the Chicago Land area, you
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: can join me this Saturday V one o three at
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: the Salvation Army CROCS Center and you can register at
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: V one oh three dot com. And the key word
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: is struck And I will see you guys Saturday. All right,
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: all right, needed information as always always. Yeah, it was
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: fun last year though. We had a great time. It
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: really was, but I just went home newsneakers, guys, I
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: was behind m Yeah, we have fun. We really did
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: have a awareness yes, yes, going home, home, home home, Yeah. Yes,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: in Chicago it was Chili too. Yeah. We have two
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: seasons winter summer and summer. That's it, and summer less
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: for what a couple of months winter less in nom
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: No in between, just two seas that's this winter summer,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: that's it. Steve, you lived in Chicago. Yeah, that's what
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: he wants saying that you come from. But the songs
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: are so nice. Well, I wasn't up here for the
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: damn so I was up here. Hale came to town.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: Yeahd cold, cold cold. It's the only place where they
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: use hell to describe how cold it. All right, thank you, Carla.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we're gonna
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: talk about this new TV series of Academy Award winning
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: actor Forrest winnakers In. It's called Godfather of Harlem. We're
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: gonna talk about that at the top of the hour.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, show man, oh man, there
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: is a new show on Epics E p I X.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: If you don't have this, you can get it from
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: your cable provider. It's called Epics. I had it. I
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: didn't even know I had it. I was paying for it,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: but I never watched anything on it. But now Epics EPI. Yeah,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: where is it. It's on your TV. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: it comes through your cable company and everything, your cable provider.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: But man, Steve, they have a show Forest Whittaker. You
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: probably have been seeing the trailers about it. It's called
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: Godfather of Harlem. Yeah, show the commercials on other channels
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: you probably have. Yeah, you probably have. I'm sure they
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: bought packages everywhere. But it's the story of Bumpy Johnson
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: out of New York. He ran Harlem. Uh during the sixties,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: early sixties and fifties, I guess and man on man
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: Steve Forest Whitaker. You know, he won an Academy Award
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: for playing ed. I mean, so you know he can
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: act and who's okay, let me ask you this. Go ahead,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: that boy can ask who. I'll ask you this after
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: you tell st okay. But anyway, it's it talks about
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: Bumpy Johnson who ran Harlem. He was the Godfather of Harlem.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: And were there drugs involved in things like that? Yes?
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: There were? Uh and uh he made like other groups
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: like other Italians and people like that, if they wanted
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: to do business in Harlem, then he had to get
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: a cut of that. You know, they were running numbers,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: they were doing all kinds of stuff back during that time.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: But also if you were a mother who had problems
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: with her son and you needed, uh, you didn't have
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: anywhere to go. If you were a single parent, you
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: would go to Bumpy and let me tell you something.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: Bumby Johnson would go talk to the boy and straighten
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: it out, you know, I mean, yeah, the oh oh yeah,
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: I can't think of his name off the hand, off hand,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: but he's doing a great job as well. I mean, Steve,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: it is so good. I had no idea. I mean,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: we saw American Gangster of course with Denzel talking about
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: Frank Lucas, but this he came a little after Bumpy Johnson.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: And I know I heard of Bumpy Johnson because Laurence
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: Fishburne played him in the movie. But yeah, he's a
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: good one. But the reason that American Gangster was so
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: good because you know a lot of people still alive,
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: oh talk about it. Yeah, you know, because Denzel wentn't
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: talked to Frank Luke when he was getting ready for
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: the part. He had done time and gotten out. Yeah,
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: so it was real, real interesting. But that dog gone
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: Bumpy don't who I had no idea. I had no
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: idea I mean he truly believe that Forest Whitaker is
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: Bumpy Johnson. And I'm just gonna tell you this. You
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: haven't seen it yet. I'm gonna tell you this. He
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: carried a switchblade, that's all, and he lethal with it.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: That's all. I'm gonna see. If you have everybody, you
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: have to check the Forest Whittaker man does nothing that's
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: not believable. Thank you. I've never seen him do a
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: bad anything. Okay, here's the question I had. Let's start
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: with Tommy the actor on this Top three favorite actors
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: to whoa den Zel Butchino and I won't be ignored?
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: Dan Glenn Close cloth clean clothes Man, her and the
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: wife clean Man. Okay, I want to hear yours. Top three?
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: Come on, top three? Ask me, Come on, let's see.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: Denzel is my favorite. Yeah, Don Cheeta is number and
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: then number three is Force Whittaker, and then number four
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: Sam Jackson. Yes, being number five, we'll go, well, we'll
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: come back. Lawrence Fishbur, Lawrence Fishburn, Hello, but I love
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you who else I love too? Though, that
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: dude that played Marluke King. Oh, Jeffrey right, that's right. Oh,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: he's a base all right. Listen. Coming up, we'll continue
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: this conversation. Coming up, more music, more fun. We'll be
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: back at twenty minutes after the hour. Right here on
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show, all right, Steve.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: Before we went to break, you were asking Tommy about
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: his list of favorite actors. You know, Tommy's list is
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: more you know what? I agree with him when he
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: said Alpuccino, I didn't. I didn't like that. Laugh. Glean close,
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: what say you saw a basic instinct? Right? Damn? My
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: favorite act was Sharon Stone. That was Sharon Stone. I'm sorry,
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: fattal attraction, Yes, but that was all that good ass.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: I think I was married to that befo so that
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: I got here, I got somebody could have been that.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: I haven't seen that for real. That ain't no Jeffrey
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: Rights beast. I think he's so underrated. He really. Yeah,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, man, who's really really a great actor?
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: Will Smith? Oh yeah, listen to me. But that movie
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: couldn't cushion. Uh huh, this dude right here man in concussion? Yeah,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: Will Smith was it was so unbelievable. Yeah, it was.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: Here's a new one coming out to Gemini man. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: I like, I like I like I like al Puccino.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I do like him. But I don't really
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: know nobody's names. So that's why I can't pick on.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: I just only picked dudes. I know. When we come back,
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: thirty three after the hour. Right after this you're listening
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: to all right, let's gets you some entertainment news. R
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: Kelly says he wants out of jail. He says he
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: wants out because his health is failing. Guys, Art is
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: back uh in court. He's going back to court for
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: a second try at getting out, pending his various trials,
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: claiming his health has been compromised behind bars, who though
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: exactly His lawyers just filed a new legal duck obtained
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: by TMZ, in which they outline is various medical issues,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: including numbness in one of his hands, anxiety, and an
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: untreated hernia. Ours lawyer Steve Greenberg claims that Robert is
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: not receiving adequate medical treatment in jail and calls the
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: conditions of his confinement stifling. Yeah, I believe, I believe
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: what he's saying is true. But let me share a
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: couple of things. Go down the list of his symptoms again.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: Oh his hand, um, numbness in his hand. I've been
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: to jail in one of his hands. I've been to jail.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: My hand was known because I was sitting on it
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: all night. Okay, what's happened to me? Symptom and anxiety?
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: Still anxiety. Everybody in jail is got anxiety. Yeah, it's
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: called jail. Everybody everybody in that chilling Yeah, everybody in
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: that guy to anxiety and an untreated hernia. What are
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: you gonna do about that? Hell? Yeah, everybody got her.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: I'm straining my ass off in it because I stayed
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: in there for a weekend. And let me tell you something,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: I gotta hearn it because I got consipated because I
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: didn't go to the bathroom because it's over there in
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: the corner, and I wasn't putting my pants down in
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: that corner because I was young. So I had a
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: hernia when I got out and went home. I got
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: my horney at the house. Yeah. Yeah, trying to go
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: to the bathroom, you consipt You're gonna get a hurning
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: if you really constipated. So not to say all that
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: and understand where all coming from. Well, and h you
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: know he also you know he lives with these two girlfriends,
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: but only one of them is allowed to be on
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: his visiting list, and after ninety days he's required to switch. Now,
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: he did confirm to TMZ the woman who is currently
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: on the list is as Reel Clary, So Joscelyn Savage
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: has to wait it out before she can visit him.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: Just in the car out sad. What do you say
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: he asked about that? While don't really know nothing about
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: this and like I just found out a couple weeks
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: ago he was in jail. I didn't even know it. Well,
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna quickly get into the Stacy dash story, Steve,
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: before we run out of time. She was arrested for
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: domestic violence in Florida over the weekend, according to TMZ. Again,
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: law enforcement sources say that Stacy allegedly punched and slapped
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: her husband, attorney Jeffrey Marty, and they saw scratches on
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: his left arm. Stacy told the nine one one operator
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: that she had been assaulted by her husband. She claims
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: the husband's fifteen year old daughter got in her face
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: and that started the whole situation. The couple has been
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: married for a year. This is Stacy's old ast year old.
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  Speaker 1: All right, coming up our last break of the day,
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  Speaker 1: and then Steve will leave us with some closing remarks.
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  Speaker 1: That's coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. Here we
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  Speaker 1: are our last break of the day on this Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a good day. Yeah, really really good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: good day. Uh so time for you now to let
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  Speaker 1: us go home as day. I want to talk to
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  Speaker 1: everybody about, oh, your relationship with God. You know what, man,
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  Speaker 1: listen to me, only real, just as a real dude
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  Speaker 1: talking to you. It's the most important relationship you can form,
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  Speaker 1: because a deal about a relationship with God. Here's the
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  Speaker 1: truth of the matter. He is the one entity that's
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  Speaker 1: for real and forever. Now you may find your soul
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  Speaker 1: mate and you all made stay married until you die
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  Speaker 1: and death that's cool. Some people think they find them
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  Speaker 1: and something happens and they don't last till they die
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  Speaker 1: of divorces fifty percent high. Most people don't honor the
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  Speaker 1: commitments that they say it through or alter to death.
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  Speaker 1: Through his part, Richard for poor better sickness and health
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  Speaker 1: and all of that. They just don't. God does every
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  Speaker 1: single thing he says he's gonna do, he do it.
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  Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is this relationship that you can
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  Speaker 1: have with God that you don't have to tell anybody
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  Speaker 1: else about, will be the most solid relationship you'll ever form.
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  Speaker 1: My relationship is God is better than my relationship with
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  Speaker 1: my best friend who happens to be my wife. But
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  Speaker 1: guess what I can tell God anything, I might as
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  Speaker 1: well tell him He already know. The other thing about
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  Speaker 1: him is when my wife ain't around, God can help me.
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  Speaker 1: Here's another thing. When your best friend or the person
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  Speaker 1: you think is the coolest in the world don't have
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  Speaker 1: an answer for you, God has an answer. So what
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you is one percent real. This relationship that
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  Speaker 1: you form with God, it'll be the most important relationship
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  Speaker 1: you can Now here's the deal. You do not have
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  Speaker 1: to go to church to have the relationship. You can
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  Speaker 1: start the relationship now now as church good, of course
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  Speaker 1: it is, especially if you find a good church Bible base.
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  Speaker 1: The man up there really love God and can give
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  Speaker 1: you some real leadership from scriptures. They can teach you
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  Speaker 1: stuff to help Bible study. They got prayer classes, they
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  Speaker 1: got everything. You know, they got people that can help you.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I'm not knocking that at all. It's very,
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  Speaker 1: very important. But here's the deal. You could start a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with God right where you are. And I strongly
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  Speaker 1: suggest if you haven't found a church, that you can
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  Speaker 1: find God without a church. You can. He's available. God
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  Speaker 1: is out here, he's everywhere. He's in everything. He's in nature,
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  Speaker 1: he's in sky, he's in water, he's the creative of everything.
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  Speaker 1: His presence is real. But here's what you got to
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  Speaker 1: do to form relationship with God. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: stop allowing people to tell you what God think. Be
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  Speaker 1: aware of this. You know God thinks that you don't.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody know what God think. This is the first sign
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  Speaker 1: that you're talking to some who tells you what God think.
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  Speaker 1: I can assure you they don't know what He thinks.
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  Speaker 1: They don't know who knows what God thinks. Nobody who
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  Speaker 1: knows how he works, Nobody who knows exactly what or
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  Speaker 1: how he'll do it. Nobody. Because his ways is so
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  Speaker 1: far above and far away from ours, it's unexplainable at time.
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  Speaker 1: That's why when something happens in your life, that's unexplainable.
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  Speaker 1: When something happens in my life that's unexplainable, that's positive.
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  Speaker 1: It's always him because he's unexplainable. Stop allowing people to
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  Speaker 1: tell you what God think about you, what God think
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  Speaker 1: about your actions, what God think about your ways. Stop
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  Speaker 1: allowing them to tell you what God thinks about your path.
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  Speaker 1: Stop allowing people to tell you what God thinks about
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  Speaker 1: your choices, because guess what they don't know. Form a
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  Speaker 1: relation and ship with God. He'll walk with you, He'll
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  Speaker 1: be available to you. He's share things with you. He'll
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  Speaker 1: give you answers. He'll fix it for you. God can
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  Speaker 1: do all of this. Man. And look, I'm just telling
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  Speaker 1: you as a real dude. I ain't faking the funk
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  Speaker 1: with you. I'm just telling you, as a real, imperfect dude,
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  Speaker 1: what God can do for you. You need a relationship
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  Speaker 1: with God. He is really real. Stop thinking that God
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  Speaker 1: has abandoned you. Listen to me. I don't abandon you.
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  Speaker 1: If you look at it real close, if you really
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  Speaker 1: observe your life, you've turned away from God. If you
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  Speaker 1: don't feel God is because you ain't turned on him
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  Speaker 1: and called on him, you cannot call on him. And
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  Speaker 1: he don't show up. He would love to be that
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  Speaker 1: for you, but if you never call on him. He
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  Speaker 1: is a God that gives us the power of choice.
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  Speaker 1: If you choose not to call on him, he does
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  Speaker 1: not barge in. God is powerful. Now, God could make
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  Speaker 1: us do anything, but he created us in his image
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  Speaker 1: with the power of choice. And he will not take
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  Speaker 1: that choice from you because he said he would give
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  Speaker 1: you that. He said he'd give it to you, so
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  Speaker 1: that's what he do. So he's given you the power
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  Speaker 1: of choice. You can decide to have a relationship with him,
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  Speaker 1: or you can decide not to have the relationship with him.
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  Speaker 1: I strongly suggest that you form this relationship, Steve, who
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  Speaker 1: I do that. Go to a quiet place in your car,
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  Speaker 1: in your bathroom, in your backyard, on your porch somewhere,
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  Speaker 1: and say God, I need you, I need you, and
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  Speaker 1: just keep whispering his name. Say it out loud if
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  Speaker 1: you can. He comes right away. He comes right away.
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  Speaker 1: And then tell him what you want, tell him what's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Praying hard man, You ain't really got to be on
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  Speaker 1: your knees to say a prayer. You could be driving.
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  Speaker 1: Form relationship with God. Man, It's really really cool. What
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, and it starts with a simple Hey God,
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  Speaker 1: I need you. Starts right there. I'm tired. I can't
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  Speaker 1: thank of nothing else. I've done the best I can
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  Speaker 1: and I'm out of answers. I need you come to me.
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  Speaker 1: Show me how to get to you. That's all you
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  Speaker 1: got to do. It's real simple. Just give it a try.
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  Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks. That's it, drop it, that's great. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's it. Hey y'all, have a great weekend. Don't forget
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  Speaker 1: talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. Bye.
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