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E75: What Paris Hilton and Chrissy Teigen Get Wrong About Motherhood · The Lila Rose Show

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I think it's evil that we have these voices, pedia, for scaring
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women and trying to tell them that if you miscarry, it's an
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abortion. It's an affront to people who
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miscarry. Now, new research proves that
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there's a physical connection more interconnected and integral
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to our being than anyone ever imagined.
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Well, Paris, it's beautiful that she wants a family, beautiful
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that she wants a mother. I think it just shows the
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privileged mindset of the Uber wealthy.
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This is not the way to go. Well, it is December 1st.
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Can you guys believe it? 2023 is almost at its end.
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We have one month left of this year.
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It has been an awesome year. This podcast is going to be a
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news roundup today's with some really important stories I want
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to talk to you all about. But first, just looking back,
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it's been almost a year here. We've started the podcast last
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spring. We now are to almost 50 episodes
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of the show and you all have been fantastic.
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We hit over 100K on YouTube last month and the show has just been
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growing by leaps and bounds. And I want to just thank you all
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I love talking to people. I love talking about current
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You are a wonderful and engaged group and I love getting your
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direct messages and your comments on YouTube and your
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emails and everything else. And one other note, you probably
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have noticed my voice sounds a little off.
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It is. I have had this terrible cough
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slash cold for over 2 weeks now. When I had Joshua Broom in
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studio last week, his episode just came out a few days ago on
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the podcast. His amazing story about leaving
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the porn industry and now becoming a pastor and a husband
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and father. Anyways, he was fantastic.
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He was in studio with me and like every 10 minutes I'm like,
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can we stop? I need to cough.
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So yeah, forgive me for the scratchy voice and hopefully it
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will be gone soon. Also, a quick personal update.
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Some of you have been asking how the pregnancy is going.
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I am now past 20 weeks pregnant. So we're over halfway there and
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feeling really well. Actually.
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It's been going. The first trimester was rough,
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but so far second trimester has been a little tiring, but
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overall very comfortable, very excited.
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We found out, too, that the baby is a little girl.
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I have two boys, as you guys know, my husband and I, and
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they're amazing and extremely high energy.
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And now we're going to have a girl.
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So I don't know if she's going to be the same high energy or
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how it's going to go down with her, but we're very excited to
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be welcoming her to our family. Boys are amazingly wild.
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I love it. It's just wonderful to hang out
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with my kids. They're crazy, they're fun.
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I have heard that girls are usually easier as younger
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children. Maybe they're not as active.
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Although I will say when we had our ultrasound recently, the 20
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week ultrasound where we found out that the baby was a girl.
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So Joe and I are in the room and we actually brought our boys
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with us. It was like a really special
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moment. And the ultrasound tech wasn't,
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didn't tell us yet whether it was a boy or a girl.
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You know, she was evaluating the baby and looking at the baby's
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body and everything. And she said, oh, and we're
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like, what do you know, is it a boy or a girl?
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And she's like, wow, this baby is really active because they
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were moving around a lot. And she said it's probably a
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boy. It's almost always a boy when
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they're this active. So I'm sitting there thinking,
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OK, we're having, we have three boys now.
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And then, you know, 5-10 minutes later she says, so actually this
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is a girl. So anyways, it's going to be
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maybe a very active little girl already.
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She already is a very active little girl, but we are super
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thrilled. So thank you for all the well
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important stories of the day that we need to look at.
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I mean, one of them, the first one is about Paris Hilton.
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This is a pop culture story that caught my eye because as you
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know, Paris Hilton has been kind of a pop culture icon for many
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for really decades now. But she recently announced that
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she's having her second child. So anytime there's a story in
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the news about a new baby coming or a new baby that was just
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born, it's catches my attention, surprise, surprise.
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And of course, live action's attention.
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Anyways, with this story though, there's a few things that I
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think are important to note. First of all, every baby,
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regardless of how they are conceived, this is like basic
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pro-life foundation philosophy, right?
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Every baby, no matter how they are conceived, is incredibly
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precious, totally unique, worthy of love and support.
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OK, so there's a lot of controversy around IVF
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surrogacy. We're going to get into that
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here in a moment, but I think it's very important because when
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we talk about these things, which really matter because it's
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about human dignity and human life.
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Some people, if they were adopted, they were conceived via
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IVF or they were, you know, carried by a surrogate or they
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add other circumstances around their conception.
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You know, a lot of the times abortion is justified in cases
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of quote UN quote, rape and incest, right?
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If the baby was conceived in rape or incest, people argue
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it's OK to kill that baby. That baby, any baby, no matter
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how they were conceived, whether they were conceived in violence
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or conceived with new technologies, which we're going
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to be talking about in this episode like IVF and surrogacy.
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Every baby is equally precious and valuable and every baby has
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the right to life and your life matters and your life is
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precious. So that's a very important
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fundamental point here because when we get into criticizing
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whether it's the moral issues and the real repercussions of
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something like IVF or surrogacy, and, you know, just talking
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about it, just sharing the facts about it, or whether we're
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advocating for the baby conceived in rape, right?
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And saying they should not get the death penalty by abortion
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because their father was a abuser, right?
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We are coming from the same principle that life is precious
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and that's why we care so much. So Paris Hilton, as you guys
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know, the popular socialite, she came out recently and said that
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she is pregnant. Backtrack, she's not pregnant.
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Actually, someone else is pregnant with her child.
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And I want to start from the beginning here because there's a
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really interesting clip where Paris Cilted is actually talking
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on her show about kind of her philosophy around having
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children even before she married her now husband.
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No, no, you don't do it. You're still altered.
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Oh procedure. Carter and I started doing IVF
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only after a few months of dating, so once we're married,
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we'll have the embryos ready so that one day we.
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Can get pregnant right away. What's your OB green YN OK, so
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right here is just a snapshot of the I think it's complete
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confusion around the sanctity of life, the value of life and the
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human rights of children. Because Paris here is saying
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they were literally dating for a few months when she and her, I
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don't even know they were calling each other boyfriend,
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girlfriend yet, but they were literally just dating a few
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months, decided to create new human life together
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intentionally in a test tube and then freeze those babies so if
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and when they decide to have children in the future, they can
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get started right away. This is so wrong on many, many,
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many levels. It's wrong because of the
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foundational principle that a child deserves to be conceived
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and loved, the love between their mother and their father
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who are married and committed to each other for life.
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That commitment, that marriage had not yet taken place.
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And in addition, that they have the right to be conceived in
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love, meaning in the natural loving embrace of their parents,
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not in a test tube, which increases the risk of them
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dying, which is an unnatural place where human life should
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not be conceived and then be frozen.
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That's unnatural. It's just not, it's not fair to
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that baby to be indefinitely frozen until the adults decide
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I'm going to bring you to life now.
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I'm going to, you know, activate you and start you the growth
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development process. Many of these children, of
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course, are then implanted in surrogates, not even their own
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biological mother. So then they have this
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experience of losing the surrogate who was their
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experience of a mother upon birth.
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All by design. None of this is fair to the
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child. All of it goes against the
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dignity of the child. And so the fact that, you know,
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Paris is talking about so casually, like, oh, we've just
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been dating a few months and then we decided to get some
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embryos created together. I mean, this is really like
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extreme privilege of the Uber wealthy.
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Who can say, hey, just in case we really like each other, you
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know, we may end up together just in case, let's get some
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embryos created and freeze them on ice so when we're ready, we
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can unfreeze them and see if we can get them to grow again.
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I mean, it's completely irresponsible and against the
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dignity of the child. And so I think we have to call
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that out. I don't know that Paris thought
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very much about it. She appears to kind of be
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comfortable with her decision and doesn't seem to think twice
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about it. That's really sad.
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We should think twice about love and marriage.
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We should think twice about bringing life into the world.
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It should be something that we are open and excited to do,
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especially if we're married. But it should not be something
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that's so casual. We're dating and we're going to
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just create some embryos in case we want to grow them later on.
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I mean, it is against the dignity.
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It's treating the child like an object, like a commodity as
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opposed to like a unique individual human being.
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This is also opening the door to all kinds of other dangers to
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the child. You might have seen the case
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where there was a big lawsuit, a big legal fight between Sofia
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Vergara, so very famous actress and model.
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And you might remember this huge lawsuit that took place between
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Sofia Vergara and her ex fiance who is Nick Loeb.
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And they got in this big legal battle because they, before
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getting married, also created a bunch of embryos together, and
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two of them were viable. So that means children are
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created, then destroyed because they're not considered good
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enough usually. So they had these two babies
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that were indefinitely frozen. And they break up.
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And Nick is like, I want the babies.
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I want them to live. And Sophia's like, I want them
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to be destroyed. And so they had this big legal
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fight over it. That's insane.
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It's insane that you would have a legal fight over whether or
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not your children get to live or die.
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Parents don't get to decide whether your child that already
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exists is destroyed or not. That's not a parental rights
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decision. Sophie Vergara had zero right to
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decide to destroy her babies, these two little embryos, and
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she also had zero right, as did Nick, to create them in a test
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tube. Now, of course, in the United
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States and in a lot of the West, you can do this.
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And in the US, there's almost no regulation of the in vitro
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fertilization industry, the IVF industry.
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It's crazy. So people can literally just
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create, you know, multiple children, sometimes dozens of
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children, select the ones they like based on the gender or
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based on how they perceive how perfect they are and then
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implant multiples. Oh, the multiples don't takes,
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only one takes. OK, we want the one or sometimes
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multiples take. Oh, we all don't want 3, so
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we're going to selectively terminate and reduce two of them
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and kill them. I mean, this is treating human
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beings like products as opposed to like people.
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So anyways, I bring up that case because talk about the dangers
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of it on so many levels. And here Paris is talking about
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it so casually, like, oh, you're dating and we decided to create
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a bunch of embryos. All right, So one other clip on
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here where she's talking about her decision to create these
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babies with her then boyfriend. When do you want to have a baby,
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by the way? Arthur wants right up to the
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white. I said it's got Squire rushes.
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We'd have to get them in the oven January, February, March,
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because I really want kids that are old for their class because
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then they're good at sports, then they get more confidence.
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I'm crazy like that. I don't know.
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OK, so here is Paris stocking with her fiance now their fiance
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in in this clip and he's saying how they were planning the
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wedding and then the time of when they're going to implant
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the babies in a surrogate so that they're older for their
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class. And that means they're going to
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be better at sports and grades and that'll advance them.
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They're these two babies or this baby.
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And I think that again, it's so it's so calculating towards
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these superficial ultimately goals of I want the baby to be
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XY or Z and to succeed in XY or Z way.
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So I'm literally going to manipulate artificially how I do
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this with the baby so that I can time exactly when they're born,
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how they're born, what they're like when they're born.
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And this level of super control that technology is giving us
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this power to exert is not natural, it's not healthy, it's
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So recently, Paris Hilton welcomed her second baby born
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via IVF in a surrogate, a beautiful little girl.
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And again, congratulations on the, on the, the birth of this
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baby and the the existence of this baby.
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This is an incredibly precious human life.
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We're talking about this because it matters, because we're
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mainstreaming the idea that you can, and you even should if you
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have the money and the resources, use these artificial
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technologies, which greatly endanger children anyways, Use
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these artificial technologies to replace the natural order of
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things. And that's what IVF and
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surrogacy, of course, do. I think it's very important to
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look at some of the things that Paris Hilton has said,
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particularly about using surrogates.
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So this was in an article from several months back, and she
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talks about her decision to have her first baby via surrogate and
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now her second baby. And when I say her baby, this is
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biologically her baby and her husband's baby.
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But now this baby has a has a bond, a new bond with the
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surrogate mother. This mother is not some like cow
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that is just producing milk that you buy from the store.
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This is a human mother, a mother, a woman that is holding
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in her womb by her heart for nine months, carrying a precious
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child. And there is a deep connectivity
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happening between that mother and that child.
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Another thing that most people don't realize, but there is
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amazing new science coming up that shows the bonds between the
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mother who's carrying her unborn baby and the baby, and how those
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bonds even include a physical connection where the baby's
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cells ultimately go into the mother and stay with the mother
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for life. So here's an article from The
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Bump describing this phenomenon, which is so beautiful and
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incredible. It says we've known forever that
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the bonds between mom and baby run deeper, stronger and more
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fluid than anyone could ever begin to explain.
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Now, new research proves that there's a physical connection
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more interconnected and integral to more being than anyone ever
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imagined. As mom carries baby during
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pregnancy and shares a physical connection through the placenta,
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cells can travel freely between mom and baby by way of the
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placenta. And these cells ultimately, it
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goes on to explain, stay in the mother for life and can actually
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be cells that defend her from future diseases and harm.
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But she has physically the baby's DNA in her for life.
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So this is just one example of the amazing bonds that are
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created between mother and baby during pregnancy.
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And to just throw that away or sell that because you have the
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means, it shows again, a lack of appreciation for the incredible
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importance of these natural bonds.
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Now, sometimes because of tragedy, there's a separation
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that takes place after birth or shortly after birth between a
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biological mother and their child, and adoption may happen
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because the biological mother is not able to care for that child.
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That's called a tragedy. That's a tragedy where an
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adoptive family make a bright, you know, silver lining on that
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tragedy by bringing that child to a new family in surrogacy,
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it's all by design. It's all by design where the
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wealthy choose someone poorer than them, a surrogate, to hand
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them money, usually 10s of thousands of dollars to
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basically be their livestock to build, to grow that child for
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them. And in this article with this
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interview that she had, Paris says that one of the reasons
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that she chose to use surrogates instead of having her own
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children was quote. But I want a child so bad.
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It's just the physical part of doing it.
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I'm just so scared. Childbirth and death are the two
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things that scare me more than anything in the world.
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All right, everybody is going to die, first of all, And I can
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understand fear of death. But you don't hire, if you're
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rich, someone else to die for you typically.
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I mean, how do you do that? I mean, I guess there's ways you
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prolong your life by using other people's lives.
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People do that, but childbirth, she's saying, I'm scared of it,
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so I'm going to pay another woman to do the thing that I'm
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scared of. How is this good for Paris and
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her own mental, emotional well-being?
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How is this good for the mental and emotional well-being of the
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woman she's hiring? And it's certainly damaging to
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the mental and emotional well-being of the child who will
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be severed from the surrogate mother and handed over to Paris,
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who they have no connection to in their short life already of
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nine months. Everybody dies in this life.
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We all are going to die. And if we want to be a mother,
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we all pass through child having, you know, going through
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childbirth to be a biological mother.
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In the case of adoption, that's because a biological mother
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can't care for that child. In the case of surrogacy, it's
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because you paid someone and then you intentionally separate
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that child from that mother that they've only known for the nine
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months. So I think it just shows again,
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the privileged mindset of the Uber wealthy who think that they
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can control life and death by paying other people to do the
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heavy lifting for them. And I think that it's wrong.
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And I think that ultimately, well, Paris, it's beautiful that
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she wants a family, It's beautiful that she wants a
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mother. This is not the way to go.
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But unfortunately, our society has made this normal, right?
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It's normal. If you have enough money, do
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IVF, do surrogacy. If you're an actor, you're a
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model, keep your body a perfect way, get another woman's body to
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take the toll, etcetera. It is not honouring of
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motherhood and certainly not honoring of the rights of that
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child who has a right to his or her mother.
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So in short, there's a lot more to say about surrogacy and IVF.
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We have covered it on the podcast before.
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But in short, surrogacy and IVF violate the rights of the child.
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They are very dangerous for the child and can be heard harmful
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for the child and they take things out of the natural order,
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the moral order, and that's why we oppose it.
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That's why we have to oppose it. Again, it's not to say people
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conceive this way or carried this way are not equally
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valuable. If you were born because of IVF
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or carried by a surrogate or your child was born or carried
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that way, it doesn't mean that child is any less valuable.
21:32
It just means we need to change our view that just because
21:36
technology makes something technically possible doesn't
21:39
mean that it's right to do what technology is making technically
21:43
possible. So again, congratulations for
21:46
this beautiful baby girl to Paris Hilton, but this is not
21:50
the way to do it. This child had a right to not be
21:53
put through the dangers of IVF and surrogacy.
21:55
The surrogate had the right to not be put through that danger
21:58
even though they took money to do it.
21:59
And you, I think, for your own health, should deeply explore
22:04
that extreme fear that you have of childbirth and death to the
22:08
degree you would tire someone poorer than you to take on those
22:11
risk, that risk instead of you. Because if we are controlled by
22:15
the things that we are afraid of, we're not going to be free.
22:19
We're going to be tempted to do the wrong thing and ultimately
22:22
we're not going to be able to flourish the way that God
22:24
intended. O that's my, my take on this for
22:26
Paris and I, again, I think there's so much more to say on
22:30
the IVF and the reproductive technology industry.
22:33
We had Katie Faust on the podcast several months back.
22:35
You guys love that episode. We're going to be doing more on
22:37
this in the future, but I thought we had to comment on
22:40
this story, especially with the birth of Paris's new baby.
22:44
This also makes me think about the woman in California from a
22:47
few months back. This story was broken by
22:50
Jennifer Law at the Center for Bioethical Reform, and I did a
22:54
big report on it. I did a Twitter thread on it
22:57
that went viral, and it basically tells the story of a
23:01
woman in California who was hired by two men, you know, 2
23:05
gay men to bring a baby boy into the world.
23:07
She agreed and she found out she had breast cancer while she was
23:12
carrying this little healthy baby boy.
23:14
And so she wanted to try to wait to take her medications for the
23:19
breast cancer that couldn't endanger the baby and deliver
23:22
the baby early. So she was just passed by
23:24
ability like just 21 weeks. And she wanted to give it a
23:26
little more time to deliver that baby boy early so that his life
23:30
could be saved, you know, hopefully and her life could be
23:32
saved. And the men didn't want her to
23:36
do that. They said we don't want the risk
23:39
of having to deal with a Pyramie.
23:40
We don't want to have to deal with a baby that has to go to
23:42
NICU. We want you to abort the baby.
23:45
Perfectly healthy baby boy, basically viable.
23:48
Kill that baby. You know how you kill a baby
23:50
that's viable via abortion? Give them a lethal injection.
23:54
You stab them with a needle that poisons them that they slowly
23:56
die with over minutes, hours or even a day and then you pull
24:00
them out piece meal from the mother.
24:03
It's horrific. It's an act of torture.
24:05
It's it's severe human rights violation.
24:07
It's a crime against humanity. And this is what the men said,
24:10
OK, we will do that. And the surrogate said, well,
24:13
I'm going to adopt him them. I don't want to kill him.
24:15
Are you kidding me? And they said, we don't want our
24:18
DNA out there. You have to have an abortion.
24:21
And there's this article that the Daily Mail did that details
24:26
their interaction. It says surrogate claims gay
24:28
dads told her to terminate pregnancy at 24 weeks, saying
24:32
they didn't want their DNA out there.
24:35
They didn't want their DNA out there, so they want to kill a
24:37
baby because of that. That's what surrogacy and IVF
24:41
have allowed for. And guess what?
24:43
This is perfectly legal in the state of California and in
24:46
states across the country to kill a baby that can survive
24:51
even outside the womb simply because they don't want their
24:53
DNA out there when that baby has someone who loves them and wants
24:57
them, wants even to adopt them. Absolutely heinous, absolutely
25:00
disgusting. Well, what happened, What
25:03
happened is the mother, the surrogate mother, went through
25:07
with it. She kind of fought it, but she
25:09
went through with it. And in a lot of the reporting,
25:12
you know, she's sort of positioned as the victim in a
25:14
sense. She's partially A victim.
25:16
She's certainly not the primary victim of the baby boy who was
25:18
murdered, but she's also an aggressor because she agreed in
25:23
the end to that abortion. Maybe she felt legally forced
25:25
but didn't strap her down to abort that baby.
25:27
She walked into the hospital knowing that that baby was going
25:30
to be killed. And so again, surrogacy, IVF is
25:35
in itself not moral, but it also opens the door to all of these
25:39
abuses. And this story was particularly
25:42
heart wrenching. A baby boy was brutally killed
25:45
because his gay dads, By the way, there's no such thing as
25:48
two dads. You have one father and you have
25:51
one mother. That's what the design of nature
25:54
is. It's beautiful.
25:55
Children deserve that so we can play games all day long, but
25:59
that doesn't change reality, which shows us that children do
26:03
best when they have a mother and a father who love them and who
26:07
are married to each other and create a family together.
26:10
So it's so such a heartbreaking story, but it shows the
26:13
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So another story to pay attention to recently, Chrissy
27:07
Teigen, who is the model, businesswoman, influencer.
27:12
She over a year ago had a really tragic miscarriage where she
27:16
lost her baby at past 20 weeks. And recently she went on a pro
27:21
abortion show to talk about how, oh, it wasn't a miscarriage, it
27:25
was an abortion. And by the way, it would have
27:28
been illegal for me to get care if abortion had been banned,
27:31
right? So total misinformation here
27:34
coming from Tracy Teigen. Let's watch the clip process of
27:37
it. The embryos, the this, that.
27:40
I still am like confused about a lot of the things I did.
27:43
I'm still as I was. I went public saying that I
27:46
didn't even know I had had an abortion when I had miscarried
27:53
our twenty week old Jack. So it was hard going public with
27:58
something like that and being publicly ignorant on your own
28:01
body and not knowing what had to happen in order to save your
28:06
life. And then to publicly come out
28:08
and say that I did not know what was happening.
28:10
I didn't know there was a term for it.
28:12
I did not know it was abortion. Nobody said the word.
28:16
Nobody. Not a nurse.
28:17
Not a yeah, because if you're having a miscarriage, it's not
28:20
an abortion. And the pro Bort camp right now
28:22
really wants to conflate the two.
28:24
They really want women who have miscarriages to think that if
28:27
abortion is banned, they can't get care.
28:28
And that is a flat out total lie.
28:31
The reality is abortion is not miscarriage.
28:33
Abortion is the intentional and direct killing of a baby.
28:36
A miscarriage is when you tragically lose a baby and you
28:38
can't help it. And in the case of Chrissy
28:40
Teigen, from what I understand and from what has been shared,
28:42
is she went into preterm labor and delivered that 20 week old
28:47
baby and she wasn't able to stop it.
28:49
And that baby was born and that it was a total tragedy, was
28:52
devastating for her and her husband.
28:54
And then afterwards they're like, Oh no, it's an abortion.
28:57
No, that's not an abortion. Yes, medically it can be coded
29:00
spontaneous abortion. Miscarriage can be medically
29:03
coded spontaneous abortion. But that is totally different
29:06
than legal or illegal abortion where you intentionally go and
29:09
kill the baby. One case is a tragedy, it's an
29:12
accident, It's a natural death of passing.
29:14
And another case it's a murder. It's homicide of a child.
29:17
And in this case, Chrissy is like conflating the two in her
29:20
mind, saying, well, I had an abortion in order to advocate
29:25
for more women to have an abortion when she's grieving the
29:27
loss of her child. It's so sad and twisted.
29:29
It does not make sense. Listen to what she says next.
29:32
You know nobody in the room. It all happened so fast.
29:37
And then when RV Wade was overturned and I had said to
29:41
John. That is so sad for.
29:43
Those people, he said. We are those people.
29:47
You had an abortion. That was the first time I'd ever
29:50
heard that what we went through was an abortion.
29:53
OK, so again, now here she's saying her husband told her, oh,
29:56
no, it was an abortion. And she's like, I did.
29:58
I mean, it's just incredibly sad and ultimately malicious
30:04
propaganda for abortion. That's what this is.
30:07
And it's just tragic that they said they cared so much about
30:10
their son. She's almost crying in this
30:12
interview about the loss of her son Jack.
30:15
And yes, if they intentionally chose to take Jack's life, that
30:20
would have been an abortion. If they intentionally chose to
30:22
deliver Jack before he was due to be delivered and going to die
30:27
because he was so young to be delivered and there wasn't a
30:30
severe medical reason to do that immediately with his life and
30:33
her life at risk, that would have been an abortion.
30:36
But in the case where you're miscarrying and the baby is
30:39
delivered, that is called a miscarriage.
30:41
That is not called an abortion. So it's hard to know exactly the
30:45
details because we don't know the details.
30:48
We don't know. She hasn't given us the play by
30:50
play of what happened during the moments when Jack was at risk or
30:55
Jack was, you know, being delivered.
30:57
Except it seemed at first she said he's being delivered.
31:01
We couldn't help it. He is.
31:02
He came too early, basically. That's called a miscarriage.
31:06
So it's so sad, though. It's so sad.
31:09
And it, I think it's evil that we have these voices, Pedia for
31:14
scaring women and trying to tell them that if you miscarry, it's
31:18
an abortion. It's an affront to people who
31:21
miscarry. And it is only an, it's a, it's
31:25
a cruel strategy to try to mainstream abortion and make it
31:30
more acceptable in the minds and the hearts of everyday people.
31:34
So I'm not surprised Chrissy Teigen has been an advocate for
31:37
abortion before. I think it's extremely dishonest
31:40
and it's completely misleading. And we need to call her out and
31:45
call people out who do this. It's happening everywhere.
31:48
Remember when Jessa Duggar had a miscarriage and the baby had
31:52
died, The heartbeat had stopped and they removed the baby using
31:56
AD and C procedure, which AD and C procedure can be used to kill
31:59
a living baby and that's an abortion.
32:01
But all these people said you had an abortion.
32:03
Jessa, you're a hypocrite. How dare you?
32:05
I mean, that's what we're dealing with, with the
32:07
dishonesty and the cruel agenda of these pro abortion advocates.
32:10
Again, miscarriage is a natural tragic passing of a baby for
32:16
many different reasons. Abortion is the intentional and
32:19
direct killing of a baby. They could not be more
32:22
different. If your two year old dies in a
32:25
tragic accident or two year old dies from some tragic disease,
32:28
that is dramatically different, morally different and distinct
32:31
from if your two year old, You walk up and you pack your two
32:34
year old to death. I mean, obviously these things
32:36
are dramatically different. They're morally different. 1 is
32:38
a homicide and a murder, and 1 is a tragedy.
32:40
In an abortion, you intentionally kill that baby.
32:43
In a miscarriage, that baby tragically dies.
32:46
So I think it's obvious to the people listening to you guys
32:49
listening. We got to just keep saying the
32:51
truth. I mean, it feels so almost
32:54
inane, mindless, just have to just say this again and again.
32:58
But people are being so brainwashed right now and we're
33:02
being told evil as good and good as evil, and people are just
33:05
being lied to. So we have to speak the truth
33:07
into that with love and compassion, but boldly and
33:10
simply speak the truth. All right, That's enough for pop
33:13
culture today. I can only do so much in one
33:15
day. Let me know if you guys like it
33:17
when I do these kind of newsy O Culture episodes.
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Let me know what you think or if there's other stories you think
33:22
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33:24
fascinating interview in a few days that I can't wait to share
33:26
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33:29
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