The Fight Worth Having

Swiss Cove Christian Church · Jul 26, 2026

If you've ever thrown out a board game to avoid a fight, you already know: the game was never the problem. In the finale of our Love and Marriage series, "The Fight Worth Having," Elliott looks at why so many couples treat the absence of conflict as the presence of peace — and why that trade usually costs more than the fight would have.Drawing from Matthew 18:15-17, James 1:19-20, and Ephesians 4:26-27, 29-32, this message makes the case that Jesus never asked us to avoid conflict — He gave us a way through it. The goal was never to win the fight; it's to win the person. From learning to…