Latest / REZ CHURCH Podcast / You Look Like Your Choices - September 7, 2025
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- 0:00Well, good morning, everyone. They, they left my cage unlocked
- 0:07and I got out. So that's why I'm here.
- 0:11For those of you who don't know me, my name is Vance Furtado and
- 0:15I'm a volunteer teaching pastor here at Resurrection Church.
- 0:19And I have the privilege of bringing the last message on our
- 0:25series, The Way of Wisdom. And we're going to be taking a
- 0:29look momentarily in Proverbs chapter 24, and we're going to
- 0:33be looking at verses 27 to 34. Now, I don't know about you, but
- 0:39I have gotten a lot out of this series, and I hope you have as
- 0:43well. Matter of fact, I was talking
- 0:45with a friend just a few days ago and he would like to study
- 0:49both of us doing it together, the book of Proverbs.
- 0:52And I was telling him, I said, you know one thing you have to
- 0:55remember when you read Proverbs, and that is you need to read it
- 1:00slowly because if you read it fast, you miss the gems that are
- 1:07in this book. All right, So we read it, we
- 1:10ponder it, we ask God to teach us through it.
- 1:13And that's especially going to be true in what we're looking at
- 1:16today. Our topic is hard work and
- 1:20savings. All right, now, before we get
- 1:24into that, I want to tell you first of all, a true story.
- 1:30It's about a woman. Her real name is Joanne, but her
- 1:34friends call her Joe and Joe. Seven years after she graduated
- 1:41from university, she really felt her life was a failure.
- 1:50Her mom died of multiple sclerosis.
- 1:54She had no relationship with her father.
- 2:00She was divorced, being in a marriage with a very abusive
- 2:05husband. She is now a single parent
- 2:10raising a young daughter. Joe is barely surviving on a
- 2:15part time job and public assistance.
- 2:20She wrote about that time Rock bottom became the foundation on
- 2:25which I rebuilt my life. For all her troubles, Joe did
- 2:32have two things going for her. First of all, she loved to write
- 2:38and she was very good at it. And secondly, a few years before
- 2:44all of this was going on, she began imagining and writing
- 2:49about a young orphan boy. A boy that was unloved, who had
- 2:58survived certain death. A boy that had a scar like a
- 3:05lightnings bolt right in the middle of his forehead.
- 3:09The boy's name that she created was Harry Potter, and Harry
- 3:16Potter made Joanne JK Rowling a very, very wealthy woman.
- 3:25She became one of the most successful writers in modern
- 3:29times, Rowling would later write.
- 3:34It is our choices that show what we truly are more than our
- 3:40abilities. OK, let me ask us throw a
- 3:45question out there for all of us, all right?
- 3:47What if Rowling had simply given up?
- 3:51What if she refused to keep working?
- 3:54She refused to keep trying at what she was really good at?
- 4:00She could have chosen that. She could have made that choice.
- 4:04You see, every one of us makes choices, choices that will
- 4:10either help us or hurt us. Which will we choose?
- 4:19Now? Again, this sermon is on hard
- 4:24work and career, How we approach choices, what we choose to do.
- 4:33That affects not just what we do for work.
- 4:37It affects our opportunities. It affects our time.
- 4:41It affects our resources. It affects our talents.
- 4:44In short, it affects every single thing that God has
- 4:48entrusted to all of us. Our main idea guys, is this.
- 4:54We look like our choices. Now, in this passage, Solomon is
- 5:04going to present three different choices that we all have to make
- 5:09all the time, and we're going to again, focus this specifically
- 5:13on the area of work and career. So the first choice that we're
- 5:17going to see, and that's in Proverbs 24, verse 27, is choose
- 5:23priorities wisely. Second choice is in verses 28
- 5:29and 29. Choose integrity.
- 5:34Third choice, that's the rest of the passage.
- 5:37Choose to learn. All right, let's go ahead and
- 5:41take a look now and read the passage starting at Proverbs 24,
- 5:44verse 27. Read with me.
- 5:46Please prepare your work outside.
- 5:51Get everything ready in the field.
- 5:53After that, build your own house.
- 5:56Be not a witness against your neighbor without cause, and do
- 6:00not deceive with your lips. Do not say I will give to him as
- 6:06he has done to me. I will pay him back for what he
- 6:10has done. I passed by the field of
- 6:14sluggard, by the vineyard of a man lacking sense, and behold,
- 6:20it was all overgrown with thorns.
- 6:23The ground was covered with nettles, and the Stonewall was
- 6:27broken down. Then I saw and considered it.
- 6:31I looked and received instruction.
- 6:34A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the
- 6:39hands to rest and poverty will come upon you like an armed
- 6:44robber and want like an armed man.
- 6:48OK, first choice, verse 27. Choose priorities wisely.
- 6:56This picture that he's giving us, Solomon is giving us what?
- 7:00They would have seen that all the time, because people live
- 7:03very close to the land in the ancient world.
- 7:07But the idea of seeing a field, a farmer's field with nothing
- 7:12growing, but then seeing a very nice house in the middle of that
- 7:16field, that made absolutely no sense.
- 7:21Because what happened then was a person.
- 7:23Whoever was the knucklehead who did this, they're putting their
- 7:27home before their work. They're putting their comfort
- 7:31before a way to earn a living. You know, Pastor Daniel was
- 7:35telling me about this TV show that he really, really likes.
- 7:39It's called Alone, and I've never seen it, but I understand
- 7:43it's something like they take a bunch of people and they give
- 7:46each of 1, I don't know, maybe a pocket knife and a paper clip, I
- 7:49don't know. And then they send them out, out
- 7:53into the the wilderness, the boonies somewhere, and they tell
- 7:57them, survive. You don't get any help, You're
- 8:02alone. They have to get their own food.
- 8:06They have to prepare their own shelter.
- 8:08The question is, who's going to make it?
- 8:12Who's going to quit 1st? And I understand that the people
- 8:19who make it, who survived the longest out there are the people
- 8:24who prioritize getting the food. They're not worried about having
- 8:31a shelter shoot. They can sleep underneath a tree
- 8:33if they need to, but they work at getting the food.
- 8:37The people who don't make it figure out, oh, I'm going to
- 8:39build myself a nice place. And by the time they're halfway
- 8:42through, they're starving. They quit.
- 8:47You know, work has gotten a bad Rep.
- 8:53And I can prove that to you. How many of us have been tempted
- 8:59recently to buy a lottery ticket?
- 9:10You know, by the way, it really is dumb, isn't it?
- 9:17One chance in 292 million? Come on, you know, when we do
- 9:29something like that, it's an attempt to avoid something that
- 9:34we actually were created to do. And let me show you, OK, two
- 9:41important facts about work. First fact about work is this.
- 9:47We were created to work by God himself and I could prove that
- 9:55in the book of Genesis, very first chapter of the Bible it
- 9:59says this. So God created man in his own
- 10:03image. He created them in the image of
- 10:05God. He created them male and female.
- 10:09God bless them and God said to them, be fruitful and multiply.
- 10:14Now catch this, fill the earth and subdue it.
- 10:19Rule over the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, and over
- 10:25every creature that crawls on the earth.
- 10:28Subdue, rule. Then the next chapter, God is
- 10:33now placed Adam and eventually Eve will be there too.
- 10:37They're in this beautiful garden.
- 10:40It says Genesis 215. The Lord God took the man Adam
- 10:47and placed him in the garden to work in it and watch over it.
- 10:54He's not in the garden laying around on the grass sticking
- 10:58daisies in his ears. He's working, He's caring for
- 11:06it. He's doing and enjoying what God
- 11:10created him to do now. Yeah, we know what happens in
- 11:14the next chapter, Genesis 3. That's when Eve and Adam both
- 11:20sinned. They both basically bring sin
- 11:23into the world. They disobey God.
- 11:26They experience God's judgment, which we still struggle with
- 11:29today. And one of those judgments was
- 11:32the fact that the ground became much, much harder to grow food
- 11:36in. But that does not change the
- 11:38original mandate, the original purpose.
- 11:44Work is good. Repeat that after me.
- 11:50Work is good. I don't think some of you all
- 11:54believe that, but it is. OK What's your attitude about
- 12:04work? Yeah.
- 12:08I'm retired now. OK.
- 12:10But for decades, you know, Sunday night rolls around.
- 12:16Am I looking forward to going back and teaching my students?
- 12:21AM I looking forward to returning back to interact with
- 12:27my kiddos for another school year?
- 12:34You know, some of you all know this story, but I'll, I'll go
- 12:38ahead and share it. I was originally trained to be a
- 12:42pastor. I wasn't trained to be a
- 12:43teacher, although that's what I spent over 30 years of my life
- 12:47doing. So I came back, along with my
- 12:51wife. We came back to Bakersfield and
- 12:53I began pastoring a small church over in the northwest part of
- 12:57town. I ended up having to resign.
- 13:02I felt like a failure. We also lost the house that we
- 13:08were staying at because the house that the church was
- 13:11renting was the Parsonage. No pastor, no Parsonage.
- 13:15We had to move in with my parents.
- 13:20Linda was seven months pregnant with our first child.
- 13:25I had to work. I had to work at whatever jobs
- 13:34God brought my way. I worked in a diesel shop on
- 13:3834th St. for a while, sweeping, cleaning, taking care of their
- 13:43tools. I've worked for a while at at
- 13:48office and classroom furniture place, fixing up stuff and
- 13:52delivering it and making contacts with customer.
- 13:55After that I went back to school.
- 13:57I had to get a teacher's credential and I started working
- 14:01as a sub. By the way, I hated being a sub,
- 14:11but let me tell you, family and friends helped, but ultimately
- 14:18God took care of us. About a year after that, the
- 14:25Lord gave me another job working in the previous church that used
- 14:30to be here. He gave us another place to
- 14:33live, an apartment that we were able to rent.
- 14:38He took care of us. And you know, I learned some
- 14:41valuable lessons in doing jobs I didn't really want to do, but
- 14:44nevertheless, those were the jobs that God provided for me,
- 14:48for my family. Are you honoring God by how you
- 14:56approach work? Are you honoring your family by
- 15:04how you do your work? You see, there's 2 problems we
- 15:11often have when it comes to work and career.
- 15:13First problem, we overdo it. We basically make the job, We
- 15:18make the career our idol. We sacrifice our home, we
- 15:22sacrifice our kids, we sacrifice our marriage to this job.
- 15:27Wrapping up all of our identity in that job, putting in 607080
- 15:32hours plus and then wondering why our life and our family
- 15:39falls apart because we created and made that job an idol and
- 15:48God hates idols. So we overdo work.
- 15:55The other mistake that we make is we underdo it.
- 16:01God brings an opportunity our way.
- 16:04We need the job, and for whatever excuse we don't take
- 16:09it. You see, to overwork is sin.
- 16:15It's selfishness. God expects us to take care of
- 16:21folks around us, and we're basically treating this job as
- 16:25an idol. Underwork is also selfishness.
- 16:32Our comfort is more important to us than doing the right thing.
- 16:37And you know what? Selfishness is sin, pure and
- 16:43simple. Something else we need to
- 16:51realize about work is this. Our ultimate boss is the Lord
- 16:57Himself. Before the 1st service, bunch of
- 17:04us were over in the side room and Justin was taking us through
- 17:09how the service was going to work and how things were going
- 17:11to flow. And a certain somebody in that
- 17:14room, Pastor Daniel at one point mentioned that well, maybe we
- 17:21could use this particular song and the song was take this job
- 17:26and shove it. Of course, somebody had
- 17:30mentioned that to him, but thankfully Justin said no.
- 17:36Justin has more sense than us. OK guys.
- 17:41But the idea is, is that our ultimate boss is the Lord
- 17:44Himself. We're told that in the Bible.
- 17:47So here's what it says in Colossians 3.
- 17:51Whatever you do, work heartily As for the Lord and not for men.
- 17:59Knowing that it's from the Lord Himself, you receive the
- 18:03inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.
- 18:12See what we can sometimes do. And I, I made this mistake too.
- 18:16We all have. We have the job.
- 18:18We don't really like the job very much.
- 18:20And So what do we do? We slack off on the job.
- 18:25We piddle. We know what we're supposed to
- 18:28do, but we're not doing it with our whole heart.
- 18:32We're just going through the motions.
- 18:37Our ultimate boss is the Lord Himself.
- 18:43Not the boss. The human boss we may not like,
- 18:46not the manager we may not get along with.
- 18:49We're a Christian. We work for Jesus.
- 18:55Regardless of whether we get a paycheck from the church or some
- 18:58other place, we work for Jesus. You know what's kind of cool is
- 19:06that the Lord Jesus told this parable.
- 19:10It's called the parable of the talents.
- 19:12It's in Matthew chapter 25. I'll let you read it on your
- 19:16own, but the parable is about these three servants, each of
- 19:21which was given a task. They were given some money and
- 19:25the idea of the master told them was invest this, use it.
- 19:30So two of the servants did exactly what they were supposed
- 19:33to do. They doubled the masters money,
- 19:36they worked one, went away and hit it, did absolutely nothing
- 19:43and then tried to pass that off as basically the master was a
- 19:47hard man, why work hard for him. But the two who did exactly what
- 19:52they were supposed to do, when the master came back and found
- 19:55out what they did, he said to both of them, Well done.
- 20:01Good and faithful servant, you've been faithful in a
- 20:04little. I will entrust you with much.
- 20:07Enter into the joy of your master one day.
- 20:15Scripture is absolutely clear about this.
- 20:18We will give an account before Jesus for what we have done.
- 20:30Do we want to hear him say well done, good and faithful servant?
- 20:42He is our ultimate boss. He's the one who really signs
- 20:49the check. Who are you really working for?
- 20:55Who's your real boss? Again, first priority choose or
- 21:01excuse me, first choice, choose priorities wisely and that
- 21:06includes how we approach work. All right, let's move on to our
- 21:09second choice. That's in verses 28 and 29, it
- 21:15says choose integrity. That's I bring up the idea of
- 21:23integrity, even though it's not mentioned here in these two
- 21:27verses, but I think you'll see where I'm going on this.
- 21:29All right. So just kind of bear with me.
- 21:31Let me first of all give you a good definition of integrity.
- 21:35Here it is. It's what we do when we think no
- 21:40one is going to catch us. Run that past you one more time.
- 21:46Integrity is what we do when we think no one's going to catch
- 21:51us. Now I need to confess something
- 21:58to you all. I have an addiction.
- 22:02It's to peanut butter. I'm sure peanut butter is in
- 22:10heaven. It has to be ten, 11:00 at
- 22:17night. The peanut butter jar is
- 22:21calling. Nobody else is in the kitchen.
- 22:26I slip out, take a piece of bread, maybe 2 pieces of bread,
- 22:32put a bit on it, chew it up, eat it before anybody catches me,
- 22:38and then I go back to bed. The sad thing is I always get
- 22:44caught and what always catches me is the scale.
- 22:53You see, I really was not practicing integrity because
- 23:01integrity, it includes not doing a wrong choice.
- 23:07And what we have here in these two verses, verses 28 and 29,
- 23:11Solomon who wrote Proverbs, he's given us 2 examples of a wrong
- 23:16choice. So verse 28, that's the first
- 23:18one, and that is don't be a false witness.
- 23:23Be not a witness against your neighbor without cause.
- 23:26Do not deceive him with your lips.
- 23:28In other words, don't lie. Don't slander another person.
- 23:36You know, it's interesting in earlier in this book, Solomon
- 23:41writes first he says 6 things and then he says, no, wait a
- 23:44minute. It's seven things that God
- 23:47absolutely despises and one of them is a false witness, a liar.
- 23:56And then the next verse do not say I will do to him as he has
- 24:01done to me. I will pay back the man for what
- 24:03he has done. The second example of a wrong
- 24:07choice is a vengeful person, a person who refuses to leave
- 24:12justice with God, a person that wants to kind of forget that the
- 24:17Lord says justice is mine. I will repay, says the Lord.
- 24:26Solomon's point is if you want to practice integrity, don't do
- 24:30what it says in verse 28 and 29. Now let's flip this.
- 24:37Integrity begins with obedience. Obedience to what Jesus tells us
- 24:46to do. Of course, Jesus tells us a lot
- 24:49of things, but let me just focus on one passage in particular,
- 24:53OK? Choosing integrity means
- 24:56obedience, especially to those things that are extremely
- 25:01important. Let me show you.
- 25:02This is from Matthew 22, verses 34 and 40.
- 25:07The words are partly by Jesus. Hearing that Jesus had silenced
- 25:12the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together.
- 25:16One of them, an expert in law, tested him with the question,
- 25:20Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the law?
- 25:25Jesus replied. Love the Lord your God with all
- 25:29your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.
- 25:32This is the first and greatest commandment, and the second is
- 25:35like it. Love your neighbor as yourself.
- 25:40All the law and prophets hang on these two commandments.
- 25:46So practicing integrity means obedience.
- 25:52It means trying to live out those two ideas, loving God with
- 25:58everything that's that's within us and loving people around us
- 26:03just like we love ourselves. Does it mean we're going to be
- 26:10perfect? No, certainly not.
- 26:14But it means that as we trust God for the strength and
- 26:17ability, we keep striving, we pick up, we keep moving, we keep
- 26:23working out, we keep practicing. You know my daughter Kathleen,
- 26:31we call her cat. Several years ago, she ran a
- 26:34marathon. And if that wasn't crazy enough,
- 26:37she went away and she ran another marathon.
- 26:42I don't understand my daughter, but that second marathon I
- 26:49distinctly remember. She did the same thing in the
- 26:52first, but also I remember better about the second because
- 26:55she knew what that first marathon was like.
- 26:58So when she decided to run a second, her and her husband
- 27:02Weston set up a schedule. She trained for months,
- 27:08practicing, practicing, practicing to run 26 miles in
- 27:14one day. That's what the Lord is calling
- 27:19us to do. It's not like, hey, somebody
- 27:22like me, I'm going to go run a marathon.
- 27:24I won't even make it out of the parking lot.
- 27:29But the Lord expects us, if we practice integrity, to keep
- 27:34pushing and obeying Jesus. By the way, something else 2nd
- 27:42choosing integrity means we love people just as Jesus loves us. 2
- 27:51quick facts about that kind of love that Jesus gives us.
- 27:54Here's the first one. His love drew people to him
- 28:01despite their sin, so we're told in Luke 15.
- 28:07Now the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to
- 28:12hear him, and the Pharisees and the scribes grumbled.
- 28:16They did that a lot, saying this man receives sinners and eats
- 28:23with them. In other words, these people
- 28:28didn't avoid Jesus. They sought him out.
- 28:32They wanted to be with him. There was something about Jesus
- 28:36and it was at least his love that was drawing these people to
- 28:39him. So the question for us, are we
- 28:44drawing people to or are we repelling people away from
- 28:50Jesus? Let me put it to you this way.
- 28:56Are we a doughnut or are we a yam?
- 29:01OK, No, I haven't gone crazy. Just bear with me on this, OK?
- 29:06What's a yam? A yam is something about this
- 29:10big that's masquerading as a potato, and it's the grossest
- 29:14thing you could ever possibly eat.
- 29:18There's a lot of things I used to be able to eat in East Africa
- 29:21when I was teaching at the seminary there in Uganda.
- 29:25But I do the lot of two things. Number one, no flying termites
- 29:29and #2 no yams. They're repulsive.
- 29:37Now, if you like yams, I'll pray for you.
- 29:42OK? Contrast that with a doughnut.
- 29:48Somebody walks into the office, has a box of doughnuts.
- 29:51Woo. Everybody comes to the box.
- 29:55All right? And other than the weird people
- 29:57who just want yams, but everybody else comes to the
- 30:00doughnuts. Why?
- 30:02Because they're drawn to them. OK, then, 2 miles of this
- 30:07church, There must be at least half a dozen doughnut shops.
- 30:10Do you know a yam shop anywhere? The point is that I'm.
- 30:19I know I'm being silly, but the point is simply this.
- 30:23Are we demonstrating Jesus in such a way to the people around
- 30:26us that people want to know Jesus by what they hear from us
- 30:31and by what they see in us? That's what we're called to do.
- 30:36That's practicing integrity. Secondly, his love.
- 30:44He gave us an example to follow. OK, so Jesus says in John 15, he
- 30:51says to his disciples and to us, my command is this love others
- 30:57as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than
- 31:02this, that he laid down his life for his friends.
- 31:07And of course, less than a day after he said this, that's
- 31:13exactly what He did. He laid down his life.
- 31:17He died on that cross for his disciples, and he died on that
- 31:22cross for us. He gave them personally an
- 31:29example of his love that cost him everything.
- 31:33But by the way, before he did that, he gave them another
- 31:37example of his love. In that same room where Jesus
- 31:42said what we just read earlier, the disciples had all sat down
- 31:46for a meal together. It's called the Passover.
- 31:48It's really a big deal with the Jewish people, still is today.
- 31:54But the deal is you want to clean yourself up to celebrate
- 31:57the Passover. And part of that involved
- 32:00washing your feet because every place they walked in the ancient
- 32:05world, they wore sandals and their feet got super gross.
- 32:10Well, the deal is why having to wash other people's feet?
- 32:13It's like the lowest or the lowest kind of job.
- 32:15Nobody did that other than a slave who couldn't do anything
- 32:20else. So they're all around the
- 32:23Passover reclining in AU shaped table with dirty, stinking feet
- 32:30because nobody wants to do that. So Jesus got up, took off his
- 32:38robe, put on the garment of a slave, and lovingly went from
- 32:44disciple to disciple, washing their dirty, stinking feet.
- 32:49And by the way, he even washed the feet of Judas, the man who
- 32:53was going to betray him. When he was done, he said this.
- 33:01You call me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am.
- 33:06If I then your teacher and Lord have washed your feet, you also
- 33:11ought to wash one another's feet, for I have given you an
- 33:15example that you should do as I have done for you.
- 33:21Now people get hung up on the idea of foot washing.
- 33:27Should we do it? Should we not do it?
- 33:29You know what? I've been in foot washing
- 33:31things, ceremonies and services. Here's the deal.
- 33:34Nobody ever goes to a foot washing service in dirty feet.
- 33:40They always wash them ahead of time.
- 33:42And then the debate back and forth.
- 33:43It's even split churches as to whether you should do this or
- 33:46whether you're not. You know what that's missing?
- 33:50The point. The point that Jesus was putting
- 33:56a cross and we need to get this is showing real love.
- 34:01Showing real integrity is focused on others.
- 34:09It's loving somebody and putting ourselves out to do something
- 34:14that may be dirty, it may be stinky, but you know what?
- 34:17It's what God wants us to do. That's integrity.
- 34:24That's the love Jesus shows. You know, several weeks ago,
- 34:32Linda and I went down to San Marcos to visit Beverly, our
- 34:36granddaughter. Yeah, we're visiting the
- 34:38parents, too. Yeah, whatever.
- 34:41And we went to the beach, all of us, to Carlsbad Beach.
- 34:45And this little toddler, I mean, she couldn't have got more dirty
- 34:50on that sand in that beach if you had taken her and just
- 34:53rolled her on the sand, OK, She was absolutely filthy with sand,
- 34:59but very happy. Well, eventually they had.
- 35:03Everybody had to go home. And so Kat and West and her
- 35:06parents took her out of her seat, and before they put her in
- 35:12her car seat, they lovingly, very carefully washed off as
- 35:17much as that sand as they could. All the time she's fussing and
- 35:23screaming. Not really, but she was some.
- 35:28Why? Because that was showing love to
- 35:33their child. None of us deserves the love
- 35:40that Jesus gives us, but he loves us and he gives it to us
- 35:45anyway. That's the same kind of love we
- 35:50need to extend to others. So the second choice is to
- 35:54choose integrity. Third choice, choose to learn.
- 36:02Let's take a quick look at verses, beginning at verse 30 to
- 36:05verse 34. I passed by the field of a
- 36:09sluggard, by the vineyard of a man lacking sense, and behold,
- 36:14it was all overgrown with with thorns.
- 36:16The ground was covered with nettles, and the Stonewall was
- 36:19broken down. Then I saw and considered it.
- 36:23I looked and received instruction.
- 36:26A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the
- 36:30hands to rest and poverty will come upon you like a robber and
- 36:36want like an armed man. Imagine you're coming down I5
- 36:48from the top of the Grapevine into our valley, and you have we
- 36:53have that long decline to the valley floor.
- 36:59Do you speed on that decline? Don't try to tell me you don't
- 37:10because you probably do, because I do.
- 37:14But speed limit says 65. But when we're going too fast
- 37:25and we see the CHP guy and he pulls someone over to give him a
- 37:33ticket. And those are expensive, by the
- 37:34way. Is it better for us or for the
- 37:40other guy to get caught? Yeah.
- 37:44OK. Yeah.
- 37:47See, we can always learn from our stupidity.
- 37:50Amen. But isn't it better to learn
- 37:53from another person's stupidity? So let's focus on what we see in
- 38:00this passage. OK, What's wrong with this guy?
- 38:03He's called the sluggard. I'll call them lazy bones.
- 38:06What? At least two things are wrong
- 38:08with him. OK, first of all, he has a case
- 38:11of the littles 3 times. Little Bit of folding his hands,
- 38:17little bit of putting his head down, little bit of a nap.
- 38:21Point is, is that the guy keeps choosing the soft choice the
- 38:25easy way, over and over and over again until finally his
- 38:31opportunities have gone and he's not even aware of it anymore.
- 38:38Second problem, He lacks sense. Literally what Solomon wrote.
- 38:45He lacks heart. Now remember Jesus said what we
- 38:53have to do, the first and greatest commandment is we love
- 38:56the Lord our God with all our will, with all our strength, and
- 38:59with all of our heart. Lazy guy is heartless.
- 39:08He sacrifices what he could have been because he chooses to take
- 39:13the easy way. Here's the deal.
- 39:19Physical laziness and spiritual laziness are both thieves.
- 39:26They rob us of what we can experience.
- 39:31Now guys, the key verse is actually verse 32 where it says
- 39:37then I saw it and I considered it.
- 39:40I looked and received instruction.
- 39:44In other words, Solomon saying I chose to learn.
- 39:50A fool never learns anything, partly because they're too
- 39:55interested in expressing their own opinions and making excuses.
- 39:59A fool never learns anything. A wise person learns from their
- 40:05mistakes. The wisest person learns from
- 40:10the mistakes of others. Is there something right now
- 40:17that God wants you to choose to learn, but you're not listening?
- 40:31Last week, this last week, Pastor Daniel came into my study
- 40:37and he did what we call on the staff, a hard conversation, and
- 40:43I needed it because I had screwed up big time.
- 40:50You see, we get feedback from other people on our teaching
- 40:54team on these messages and I got some really good feedback, but I
- 40:58was not in the right place to receive it.
- 41:01Why? Because I was being a jerk and I
- 41:05hurt some people. And so my pastor came in and
- 41:09talked to me and we had this hard conversation and it was a
- 41:15good thing, really good thing. When we are corrected, are we
- 41:26going to choose to learn or are we going to let our pride get in
- 41:32the way? That's the choice we always have
- 41:38to make. If we don't choose to learn, you
- 41:43know what happens? God brings things around and we
- 41:46have to learn that lesson again. And if we still won't learn, He
- 41:53brings things around and He challenges us again.
- 41:57Why? Because He loves us.
- 42:03So the third choice, choose to learn.
- 42:08So the main idea again, is we look like our choices.
- 42:16Now, maybe you've, this is perhaps your first time here at
- 42:20Resurrection Church. And if so, we're glad you're
- 42:23here. Maybe you've been here a number
- 42:26of times before, but you're thinking I'm not a believer, I'm
- 42:31not a Christian. What does this have to do with
- 42:33me? Yeah, I know choices are
- 42:36important, but what does it have to do with me?
- 42:40Well, let me explain something. All right.
- 42:43You see, Jesus chose to reach out to you.
- 42:50Yeah, you didn't know it, but He did.
- 42:53He chose to reach out to you to provide for you by His sacrifice
- 42:58on the cross. The only way you can get to know
- 43:02God and experience eternal life. The most important choice any of
- 43:09us will ever make is what will we decide about Jesus?
- 43:17Will you ask Him to be your Savior and Lord?
- 43:21In a way that is a very easy choice.
- 43:24You know why? Because He did all the work.
- 43:27We can't save ourselves, so He reached out to help us, to save
- 43:33us in another way. Choosing to accept Jesus can be
- 43:39a hard choice. Why?
- 43:40Because we have to admit we need Him, that we're a Sinner, that
- 43:47we're separated from God, and that we absolutely have to have
- 43:51what only Jesus offers. Will you choose now to follow
- 44:00Jesus? All right, I'm going to ask us
- 44:02all, please, to bow our heads, close our eyes, simply so that
- 44:06there's not any distractions. If you want to choose to accept
- 44:14Jesus, I'm going to ask you either out loud or in your heart
- 44:18to pray this prayer with me. Jesus, I ask you to enter my
- 44:24life, to enter my heart. I ask you, Lord, to save me,
- 44:32take over my life, heal my heart, let me have a
- 44:40relationship with you. If you prayed that prayer, would
- 44:47you just raise your hand so I can see it?
- 44:50Nobody else, but just me? Thank you.
- 44:55You may put your hands down. Listening to Pastor Venus's
- 44:58sermon today about good choices and I was just thinking about
- 45:02all of the bad choices I have made.
- 45:06Maybe you can relate to that. Maybe you, you listen to this
- 45:09sermon and your only thought was, man, I wish I could make
- 45:11good choices and I can, I can relate to that.
- 45:18The beauty of the gospel was that all of the Bible is about
- 45:22how many opportunities that humanity had to make good
- 45:25choices and our inability to consistently make them.
- 45:29To such an extent that God would send his only Son to die on a
- 45:33cross to rise again. So that you and I would be
- 45:39empowered with a spirit that would begin to change us from
- 45:43the inside out. So that when God says that He
- 45:45will give you the desires of your heart, it's not the desires
- 45:48you had yesterday because He's changing the very desires of our
- 45:52heart. The beauty of the gospel is that
- 45:55we are incapable of making good choices and we needed a Savior.
- 45:59And so maybe today, in the midst of just feeling some shame of
- 46:03where you're at, you have a realization you need to throw
- 46:06yourself desperately at the foot of the cross and remember that
- 46:09God loves you and that he is here to change the very desires
- 46:13that make you choose poor things so that you can choose well.
- 46:15I want to pray for you as we leave here today and go out into
- 46:20a dark and fallen world. And I want to remind you that if
- 46:23you're new or you haven't had a chance to connect with any of
- 46:26us, we're going to a group of us can be down here for meet the
- 46:29team. And also going to remind you
- 46:31that there are brownies. And should you not come and I
- 46:34have to eat all of them, that will be yet another poor choice
- 46:36I made in my life. Let me pray for you.
- 46:39Father God, thank you so much for this people, those that are
- 46:43here, those that are watching online and God just worshipping
- 46:45with us. So I thank you that you love us
- 46:47so much that you did not leave us where we were at, yet you
- 46:51came for us. You clothed us in your
- 46:54righteousness. You didn't die for us once.
- 46:56And tell us, I hope you do better next time.
- 46:59You didn't preach to us the gospel of self effort.
- 47:02No, you came and filled us with your Spirit.
- 47:05You gave us a calling to leave this place today to be on
- 47:09mission, to be ministers of your gospel, to be ambassadors of
- 47:12heaven. Like how would you fill us with
- 47:15encouragement as we go out into this Dark World to lean on you?
- 47:19It's all your Spirit to help us to choose well, to be learners,
- 47:23to accept correction and to love others in Jesus name, Amen.