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Thanksgiving Day, Strange Habits, Spending Limits, Defending Your Girlfriend and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening to
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah, man, Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Trying to do something with it too, man.
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  Speaker 1: Uh you know, um, I was having a conversation the
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  Speaker 1: other day with a young person and they were telling
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  Speaker 1: me how they felt that their life was stuck, that
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  Speaker 1: their life was in a rut, that they didn't know
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  Speaker 1: what to do next. And one of the things that
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  Speaker 1: was causing them this sadness or this depression. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: they really really into something right now. One of the
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  Speaker 1: things that was causing it was the fact that they
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  Speaker 1: had made a list of things they wanted to accomplish
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  Speaker 1: by a certain age, and that age they just had
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  Speaker 1: a birthday recently and they were looking at the list
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  Speaker 1: and the list hadn't been fulfilled, and because that list
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  Speaker 1: hadn't been fulfilled, they were really really sad about it,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Um One of the things that they had
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  Speaker 1: on the list was marriage, kids, And I don't know
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  Speaker 1: everything else that was on the list, but that was
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  Speaker 1: one of them. And because she had reached a certain
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  Speaker 1: age and she wasn't married, and she didn't have the kids,
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  Speaker 1: and she had just celebrated her birthday, she's gone into
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  Speaker 1: this mode of sadness, whereas really really taking a toll
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  Speaker 1: on her and us. As I was learning about her situation,
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  Speaker 1: I was thinking about it, and I just wanted to
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  Speaker 1: share this with you all this morning that one of
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  Speaker 1: the things about making a list about what you want,
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  Speaker 1: which I happen to be a proponent of, I do
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  Speaker 1: it myself. I have people have dream boards, I have
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  Speaker 1: a gold sheet I have. I've been doing it for years.
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  Speaker 1: It's a it's a wonderful way to set goals and
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  Speaker 1: to keep it in front of you as a constant reminder.
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  Speaker 1: And I always go over this goal list every day,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I mean I go of it all the time,
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  Speaker 1: every day. Sometimes I miss a day here and there,
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  Speaker 1: but mostly every day I pulled my gold sheet out
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  Speaker 1: and I look at it, I read it. So I
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  Speaker 1: was going to these rallies and I was learning about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, people who were successful in how they kept
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  Speaker 1: their mind writing positive. And one of the things I
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  Speaker 1: learned was to make these dream boards, these lists, these
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  Speaker 1: gold sheets. And in making a gold sheet, and you
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  Speaker 1: make the sheet according to what you want, think about
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  Speaker 1: one thing when you made your gold sheet, about what
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  Speaker 1: you want it? Does your goal sheet have on it
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  Speaker 1: what God wants from you? Did you ask in any
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  Speaker 1: of this what was His will in your life? You know? Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: what we want oftentimes is not what He wants for us.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, if you're fighting against what you were
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  Speaker 1: created for, if you're fighting against his will, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: what do you want to happen? See? Don't be so
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  Speaker 1: hard on yourself when you look at your goal sheet
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  Speaker 1: and you look at what you've not become what you
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  Speaker 1: thought was a great idea. Don't be so hard on
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  Speaker 1: yourself because you just made a minded mistake. As do
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  Speaker 1: most people, we oftentimes make our goals and set our
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  Speaker 1: goals up without ever considering what is it that God
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  Speaker 1: wants from us. We keep talking about what we want
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  Speaker 1: without ever finding out and knowing what it is God
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  Speaker 1: wants for us. Well, guess what, man, Maybe you're fighting
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  Speaker 1: against the grain. Maybe you're just a salmon heading upstream.
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  Speaker 1: That's a tough fight upstream. Not all salmons get up
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  Speaker 1: to the spawning grounds, you know. Some of them don't
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  Speaker 1: make it upstream, you know. But all of them, nearly
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  Speaker 1: all of them, except the ones that's killed by pray.
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  Speaker 1: When they're spawned, they go out to the ocean. That's cool,
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  Speaker 1: because you're going because you're going with the grain. You're
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  Speaker 1: going downstream, you're going with the flow. That's but when
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  Speaker 1: it's time to go against the grain, it's tough. And
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  Speaker 1: a lot of us have just been going against the
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  Speaker 1: grain for all of these years. But you know what, listen, man,
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  Speaker 1: I did it. I know a lot of people who
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  Speaker 1: did it. Very few people get it right from the
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  Speaker 1: very beginning. Man, you got to stumble through life sometimes
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  Speaker 1: sometimes you got to fall through life. You gotta make
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  Speaker 1: a lot of mistakes, man, But these mistakes are not failures.
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  Speaker 1: You know, when you fail at something, don't look at
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  Speaker 1: it as a failure. Don't look at yourself as a
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  Speaker 1: failure because you're thirty and and your goals ain't reach
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  Speaker 1: that you had on your list, that was your list.
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  Speaker 1: What about the things that's going right. Stop looking at
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  Speaker 1: what you're not, take some time out and thank God
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  Speaker 1: for what you are. How about the fact that you
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  Speaker 1: keep waking up to be thirty. You know you get
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  Speaker 1: depressed about these birthdays. You really want to throw yourself
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  Speaker 1: in some depression. Miss a birthday, You really got a problem.
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  Speaker 1: Now look at where you are. You keep reaching birthdays.
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  Speaker 1: That's a glorious blessing. You keep waking up. You got
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  Speaker 1: your health, You've accomplished something. Something on your list is done.
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  Speaker 1: People spend too much time on the negative side, and
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  Speaker 1: you're just throwing yourself into depression. So what you want
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  Speaker 1: to be married by a certain age and you want
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  Speaker 1: it to have kids? Okay, cool, You could have done
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  Speaker 1: all that with the wrong person. There's a blessing in
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  Speaker 1: not being married to the wrong person. There's a blessing
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  Speaker 1: in not having kids and nobody to help you raise it.
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  Speaker 1: There's a blessing in that man. You're talking to somebody
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  Speaker 1: who can tell it to you. You can marry the
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  Speaker 1: wrong person if you want to I'm telling you you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna be up in some mess you can't count on.
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  Speaker 1: So instead of being angry because you're not married, you
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  Speaker 1: don't have kids, why don't you thank God demand Maybe
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  Speaker 1: he spared you from some misery here. Maybe you could
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  Speaker 1: have married the wrong person. Maybe you have kids and
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  Speaker 1: you're not really ready to be a mother or a father.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta look at the upside, man, Quit looking at
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  Speaker 1: what you don't have. Take some time to thank God
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  Speaker 1: for what you do have. When you do that, you
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  Speaker 1: make more room for blessings to flow into your life.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying how God thinks, because I really don't know,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm telling you, if a person comes to me
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  Speaker 1: and I always give a person something and they never
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  Speaker 1: appear grateful, or they never say thank you, please, no,
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  Speaker 1: you can quit coming to me now. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: that's how God works because I've gone back to him
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  Speaker 1: several times without being grateful of thanking him, and he's
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  Speaker 1: feeling my basket up again. So I really think he's
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  Speaker 1: not like that. But I can't make the call for sure,
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  Speaker 1: but I think at one point in time, me, just
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  Speaker 1: just me talking, i'd be a little ticked off at
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  Speaker 1: somebody who was always taken, taking, taking, and never showing
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  Speaker 1: any gratitude. At one point in time, I would just
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  Speaker 1: stop the flow of the take. You know, you just
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  Speaker 1: you can't take no more from me. That's what I
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  Speaker 1: would do. Now. I'm not calling it like that because
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  Speaker 1: I ain't him, but I know he's merciful. He's full
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  Speaker 1: of goodness and here and there, and he'll forgive you again.
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  Speaker 1: And thank God he does that because he's shown enough
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  Speaker 1: done it for me. But wow, man, take some time
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  Speaker 1: out today and be grateful for what you have. Stop
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  Speaker 1: complaining about where you're not, and think about where you are,
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  Speaker 1: and then take it from there. And then next time
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  Speaker 1: you make a list, make sure on that list you
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  Speaker 1: have God's will. What does he want for you? God
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  Speaker 1: create give everybody a gift and a talent. Some of
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  Speaker 1: us never apply gifts and talents. We head off in
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  Speaker 1: another direction. Then you wonder why your life ain't where
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  Speaker 1: its supposed to be. Have you ever thought about what
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  Speaker 1: God gifted you to do? Have you ever thought about
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  Speaker 1: doing that? And stip? Skip what you want? I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to play in the NBA, but I gotta tell you
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  Speaker 1: something at dribbling and shooting and running all at one time,
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  Speaker 1: throwing me off a little bit. You know. It's so
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing what I do. It's pretty cool. You can
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  Speaker 1: look at it that way. Okay, you're listening show, ladies, gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing today? So Shirley, Hey Steve, how are you?
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty good calling good morning? Was up through so
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  Speaker 1: up junior morning up food? Was happy with you after
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  Speaker 1: the morning after. What you've bought lately? Let me hear
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  Speaker 1: something nothing really really well and nothing really junior body
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  Speaker 1: thing lately? Ah? Yeah, uncle, I bought a few suits
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  Speaker 1: you yeah, it went up. Used to be one I'm
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  Speaker 1: in then give me that one and that one love
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  Speaker 1: it yeah too? Yeah, yeah, at one for Friday and
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  Speaker 1: saying come on boy, come up and out. I can't
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  Speaker 1: tell you what I'm trying to get nixt though, what's
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  Speaker 1: that this is going to be interesting to us and
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  Speaker 1: our audience or just yeah this is real? Helicopter yeah
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  Speaker 1: what right? And just landing where I want to land?
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  Speaker 1: You know, skip all the traffic. Okay, let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you a question. Go ahead. How much? How much you
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  Speaker 1: got for this helicopter? Well, that's you know what type
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  Speaker 1: you want? Well, I've been looking. Okay, what's the number
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  Speaker 1: on it? You know? You know numbers on helicopters the
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  Speaker 1: same way you know I'm on on plane? No, okay, no,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I just know how much was it? Man? Shit?
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  Speaker 1: That two point three? Me? That sounds reasonable, Yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: sounds reasonable. But what I'm trying to figure out is,
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  Speaker 1: come on, come on, boy, come on, say what is
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  Speaker 1: you gonna do with damn near two and a half
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  Speaker 1: million dollar helicopter? Where you going? See? Where you got
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  Speaker 1: to go? Require more than that? Okay, Well let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you this hill Houston, La a helicopter? Boy? You
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  Speaker 1: know what any times you got to land to gas up?
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  Speaker 1: We'll see. That's what I don't know. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: nothing about the gas but it first though, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: bought it. I haven't bought it. But Tommy, where would
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  Speaker 1: you keep the helicopter? Thank you? In my backyard? Just
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  Speaker 1: where my backyard? How you gonna land a helicopter in
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  Speaker 1: your backyard with your wives back there? O? Man? Why
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  Speaker 1: you stay out in the country. Y'all ain't got in
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  Speaker 1: ground cable Ya, stuff is on poles? And why all
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  Speaker 1: that money and all these drones play? Oh so you're
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  Speaker 1: saying that's a problem. Say there's a problem. You just
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  Speaker 1: right there on the h What is this? How here?
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  Speaker 1: Right here? All right? More of this crazy ignorant show.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this you're listening to show?
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  Speaker 1: All right, Thanksgiving? Wow did it come fast this year?
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  Speaker 1: It's here? Yeah, we're all gathering around the Thanksgiving table
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  Speaker 1: dinner conversations. It can be a little tent you know.
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  Speaker 1: So we just want you guys to prepare with some
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  Speaker 1: phrases that you should avoid at holiday dinners so we
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  Speaker 1: can just you know, all have a good time with
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  Speaker 1: our family and friends. Okay, Like for instance, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: for instance, Steve Um, when you start a sentence with
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  Speaker 1: you should have you should have? You know, the words
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  Speaker 1: should you know can make a person feel judged or disappointed.
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  Speaker 1: You see where I'm going with that, Like you should
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  Speaker 1: have left somebody else fit? Yeah, yeah, that's hurtful. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you should have you should have left the marshmallow acting yam,
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  Speaker 1: that's like that. I'm with you. I'm with you on that.
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  Speaker 1: Feelings are not hurt. How about this? I know it's
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  Speaker 1: pot Look, but you should have just came the ain't
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  Speaker 1: no luck in your Yeah, stuff like that, Steve, you
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  Speaker 1: got it? Or you know a boy saying that? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: avoid saying this, you know, because this is definitely this
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  Speaker 1: could start one right here. Um, can you believe what
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  Speaker 1: your president just did? You can't start yeah, yeah, it
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  Speaker 1: can lead to an argument and a fight. You know, politics.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody in agreement on my family? My family? All good
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  Speaker 1: with that? That's gonna get the party popping right now?
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, so you're not gonna avoid saying that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, you can talk politics at my house.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody at my house in the same political mindset you
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  Speaker 1: don't have. You you are Republican at the table. You
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  Speaker 1: need to keep it to you. You won't be Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's get back to my daddy's house. Uh huh. Let's
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  Speaker 1: get back to the food for a minute. How about
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  Speaker 1: this one. You know, the best turkey I ever had
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  Speaker 1: was not this again, the best turkey I ever had
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  Speaker 1: was is my mama. You can't say that. Yeah, that'll
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  Speaker 1: set it off, Steve. If you don't have to always
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  Speaker 1: tell the truth though, No, no, no, no, see she
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  Speaker 1: wants again, Well, y'all need to make up, y'all, man,
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  Speaker 1: you all want us to be trumb or you want
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  Speaker 1: these lives? Did we good? We're lying on Thanksgiving? Tell
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  Speaker 1: the truth? It's a good time to ask that question,
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  Speaker 1: any b Yeah, you know, like, uh, if you start
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  Speaker 1: a sentence with when are you going to learn how
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  Speaker 1: to cook? Don't do that. When you're gonna finally let
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  Speaker 1: him go? Okay, that's the one. Yeah, because you don't
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  Speaker 1: want to make anyone feel defensive or put anyone on
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  Speaker 1: the spot or anything like that. When is you gonna
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  Speaker 1: stop using? Druth? Wow? Really? Yeah? What's gonna come out?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why we set like it ain't I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what's wrong with you. I want to go
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  Speaker 1: to your house, but just come out in fifteen minutes.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gona be able to take you're lying it
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  Speaker 1: fifteen If it starts off with that, yeah, I believe you.
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  Speaker 1: Was he walking the dope? When is you gonna stop using?
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  Speaker 1: You show up? Ever? You're looking like this? How about
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  Speaker 1: this right here? How about this right here? Say some
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  Speaker 1: woy where I could see where you going, where you going? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: bathroom ain't that way? Ain't no bathroom that way? And
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  Speaker 1: you know, trying not to open up a conversation or
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  Speaker 1: start a sentence with when are you going too? Don't
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  Speaker 1: do that one, or remember the time you No, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's cool. My uncle Everett Thanksgiving used to go he
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  Speaker 1: was drunk, yellow bowl. Ain't nobody won't I did bust
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  Speaker 1: out laughing, everybody laughing. But wait a minute, Wait a minute,
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  Speaker 1: hold up, did you hear about don't start it with
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  Speaker 1: that one, because that can mean yeah, you're gossiping about
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  Speaker 1: you know, somebody, your husband. What what did you hear
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  Speaker 1: about your husband? Oh, that's gonna get it started right
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  Speaker 1: there in the back room with coral Cora, not Cora coral. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: those are just conversation starters. You don't do that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's gonna happen Thanksgiving Thursday. Trust me, it's gonna happen. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'll admit this. None of that happens at my house
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  Speaker 1: because I have no one at my house on Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 1: As big as you create, nobody created no drama, not
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  Speaker 1: at mine house. Oh oh okay, I thought you were
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  Speaker 1: saying you had no one at your house. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: as big as your family is. Oh, the house gonna
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  Speaker 1: be packed. Yeah. I don't do druma yeah not at
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  Speaker 1: the house. Everybody know. Don't ask me to play. I
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  Speaker 1: don't do that. You know, the game night, I might
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  Speaker 1: come in there for a couple of minutes, but that's it.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what I'm doing. I'm gonna eat and I'm
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  Speaker 1: sitting in front of this TV. I'm staring at it.
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  Speaker 1: And sometimes you're gonna come in there and the TV
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  Speaker 1: gonna be staying at me. Just walk back out, don't
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  Speaker 1: come in here. Just in the heat. I want it.
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  Speaker 1: This won't keep beeping, the five places on, don't cut
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  Speaker 1: it off, so you don't mind them being in your house.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people just don't bother you. Let you
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  Speaker 1: have your space. You don't know why. Yeah both. Marjorie's
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  Speaker 1: really good at that too, because she tells them to
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  Speaker 1: Steve that Steve, all don't bring your friends and your
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  Speaker 1: friends won't pictures. Oh yeah, I could get that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I that ain't happen. Meanwhile, at our house, all they
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  Speaker 1: want to talk about is you. Yes, Steve, come on. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I just hate when they want me to tell Steve
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  Speaker 1: something for him. Always tell him give them. Can you
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  Speaker 1: just give this to Steve for me? I know this
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  Speaker 1: a best seller, right, we just get it to Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't I'm not going to get your book the one
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  Speaker 1: kill me? Okay, I got this book of mine. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to read. I didn't read the foe I wrote.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't coming up up next? It's the nephew with run
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  Speaker 1: that prank back. You're listening morning show. It is the
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  Speaker 1: nephew with today's prank. Phone. Call what you got next?
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  Speaker 1: Call him? Yes, we don't need your mama dressing? Whoa
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  Speaker 1: my god? Oh tell me no, Mama, you know we
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  Speaker 1: don't need ben. We don't need your mama starting a
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  Speaker 1: fight right there? Yes, I actually want to run it
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  Speaker 1: all right? Come on? Hello? Hello? Who is this Miss Clinton?
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  Speaker 1: Who is this this Benjy? I'm colleague? Is miss Purvis there? Um?
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  Speaker 1: You know she's not here right now? But this is
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  Speaker 1: our daughter? Um? Is there a problem? Oh? No, this
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  Speaker 1: this this Benjy. This Mama, Mama Lord's nephew. Who is
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  Speaker 1: this again? This is Glendam Mama, Lord, Mama Lord jo
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  Speaker 1: ain't it? Ain't it correct? You? Mama Lord's and Miss Perosis? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm being you. I'm I'm her nephew from the other
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: side of the family. You say your name? Whatno blend? Okay,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: we'll tell y'all supposed to get in. We used to
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: meet there by the afternoon. Okay. Uh is miss Purvis
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: is she is your mama making the dresses? Yeah? She's
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: making enough for about forty five people. We actually, um,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: this was discussed about a month ago, right y'all on
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: the y'all they had the U conference call, the conference
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: good family had the conference call, right, yes, sir? Okay, Nah, listen,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: what reason why they got me to call? They wanted
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: me to go in and call and and I was
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: trying to give me this pervioce. She's not there. You know,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: she's not here. What's wrong? Uh? Okay, they're not gonna
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: They're not gonna need her to do them to do
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: the dressing. And why wouldn't they need to do dress?
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: She make it? But ken years we just we just
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: discussed it. So what do you mean they say that
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: they got somebody down here that's gonna do the dressing,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: especially since y'all traveling, y'all ain't got to bring it,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: you know, and be traveling with it. But they got
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: somebody gonna do the dressing. Okay, Well, first of all,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: who are you? You're you're Benji? What is your name?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: That was not my name, Benjamin, but they called me Benji.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: But but but, like I say, uh, I'm on the
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: other side of the family. I ain't on y'all side. Okay. Well,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I'm still trying to kick out white. You're calling me
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: because she's been making the dressing for ten years, like
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I said, and I mean it's been discussed. So I
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: don't even know why why you're calling me. I don't
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: even know you. Okay. Well, what I'm trying to explain
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: to you this right here, is that they got so y'all,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: y'all ain't got to worry with bringing the dressing. They
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: got somebody gonna bring They got somebody down here that's
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: gonna cook it, so and otherwhere with you know, if
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: you can tell Miss Prayvy she ain't got to worry
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: about the dressing this year. I'm so you want me
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: to tell my mom watcause she'd been making dressing for
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: ten years that y'all say, y'all ain't worried about she
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have to make this year. Because we're driving them
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: right off every year. So I'm not gonna do that
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: to her. So, I mean, I don't I don't even
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: know who you are to be calling me anyway. Why
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: didn't somebody calling me that I don't know regarding it? Okay, okay,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: you're good the right, I am blending? All right. Listen,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: let me say this because I don't mind saying what
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: everybody thinking, but most people don't want to say. Let
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: me just say this right here. Really, what's going on
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: is just right here. A lot of people in the family,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: you know, don't really don't don't really like miss Pery
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: of his dressing DINGI Benjamin who he was supposed to be.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Let me spot something near my mama gonna make it dressing,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you gonna kiss it, and we ain't bringing that home
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: with us. So you can tell your family that I
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: said that because you understand me. I mean, for first
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: of all, you got to understand that I'm bringing news
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: that that people didn't don't voted on, and this is
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: what everybody want to do, don't nobody, Well, why didn't
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Knee how we had a meeting from dressing she been
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: making me ten years? Ain't nobody had been saying nothing
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: and against what when them up in the house, nobody
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: bed not be walking up and through that. I'm talking
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: about my mama either, And you know I'm gonna eat it. Okay,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: we'll see right there. Why why if people don't like
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: the dress in Glinda, why you want to make submit
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: everybody to have it to eat it? If they don't
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: like it, you don't eat. That's how I know I
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: don't know you want me well, I don't know Benjamin,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Benjie who I want to do my mama lord's nephew
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: from the other side of the family exactly, and they
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: don't know you, okay, and it really really to the
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: bad all that I don't really know you. But I'm
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: but but I'm but I'm man enough, I'm man another
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: car you and tell you what we're gonna do, what
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: we ain't gonna do what I know right' I said
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: it wanting I admitate it again. She gonna be six transfix.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: You gonna eat it, and we're gonna round behind my name, Okay, Okay,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: right there, listen, And I know this might be hard
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: for you to understand what you grew up. We're liking
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: everybody else might not like et me say what you
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: want to. I ain't gonna even you been white, so
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: you weren't like it because you aren't done around. But
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: she make it dress it now. First of all, when
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: y'all get down here, it's gonna already be some more
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: dressing here, okay, okay, and she gonna make country and
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: sense and we're gonna see down and we got I'm
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: gonna eat and I'm it's it's not even any means discussed,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: no friend, and that I said, I don't I can
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: say because your name is gonna hurt my mama feeling. Okay,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: there ain't nobody to try. That's why I'm trying to
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: tell you to tell her don't make it nah, so
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: she don't even bring it down. We aren't gonna get anyway. Hey, look,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this here because every dealer you ain't
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: really understanding what I'm saying to you. I'm gonna say
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: it as clear as I can say. If y'all come
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: down here with that dress, I promise you we already
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: got dressing made. We're throwing that dressing in the trash
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: so everybody can get the dressing that we made. Fund
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: him Floy Blake. That's what we're doing. Please let me
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: find something in you. I'm gonna be undressing Patroll and
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: if I find out you then to my mama dressing
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: in the trash. It's gonna be something and we're gonna
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: set that. I'm not playing with you. That's what's so
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: funny to me. I'm gonna call. Ain't tell me we're
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: hung comfort coming. Ain't no fall enough to call us.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Are telling us to bull But now they're gonna set
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: She'll stupid because I don't even know she'll come. I can't.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: They sound like you was a baby in the world.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: The Benji bene my love. I don't even know your rap.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you now that playing with you. I'm telling
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: you if I hurt my mama feeling it, don't be so.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you all y'all gonna be y'all fell
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: down there. But I'm calling me, y'all out one. Let
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: me I say something else to you. I wish you would.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you what else they were saying? They
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: wanted me to tell you this, Glinda, this is nephew.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Call me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your cousin
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Sheila got me the frank phone call. You call me, fine,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: you you're about to make me? Said off what they man?
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: This same Kimble was say it wasn't gonna be. No,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: he made it because I'm gonna have my brother's warmed.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Then y'all play, but call me Han't give me what
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: the canculm before I let you go? What is the
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Huh yeah, man, I'll do something, Benji. Yeah,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know. No coming out more of the Steve
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Hey, this is Janet, Happy Thanksgiving for my
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: family to yours and the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Comedy
• 28:41
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• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Illinois at the Win Trust Arena, Dion Cole, Sedricty Entertainer,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: DL Hugly, Eddie Griffith and hosted by yours truly nephew Tommy.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: You hear what I said, Win Trust Arena, Chicago, Illinois.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: D Simmer twenty eight tickets on sale right now. All right,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: it is time for Junior's truth be toned. Yeah, yeah,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: all right, Sureley, thanksgivings coming up. Yeah, it's almost a
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: big thing that we have discussed all of the things
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: we discussed when people need to brain food. Yeah, what
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: time dinners start? Time again coming. We've discussed all the
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: one thing we have not discussed what the one thing
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: where your ass need to leave? Oh yeah, yeah, we
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: have discussed. Now people people don't know when to leave.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: There's time you need to leave. There are statements that
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: will be made you need to adhere to and understand, like,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: well that's it. See when you hear that, start getting
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: your keys in your hand. He hears some Jane something,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: It's time to go. You can't spend all day head
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: dinners start at two. Treat it like a restaurant. How
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: long are you staying there? You sit down to two
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: by three thirty? Same way right about. I would never
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: have because I would have out the game. Fuck, you
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: ain't come up here for the game. You came to eat.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: If you full, If I see you kick off of
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: shoot your ass got to go. Let me catch your
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: shoe off. Yeah, you ain't staying here all day now.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: My mama tired. She didn't cook that thing, and she
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: can feed that body. What else can we talk about?
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: We discussed everything. We know Walter got out of jail.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: We know Hardy had a hard transplant. We know, yeah,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: we know, we know Melball had another baby. We got
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: all this after we come May still having kids, Mail,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: we still have kids? When your name May five have mate?
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, your name Meilball? You probably yeah, you
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: probably have no, you probably through haven't been anybody that
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: name Meilball. The what is the name? Happs to do
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: with the Steve got a lot to do with your age.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: If your name is Agnes, you probably didn't have you
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: You probably got this grazy. But we have covered everything
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: we can talk about. No, we know Junior went back
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: into rehab. We got that. Everything is coming. Let's just
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: go ahead and go home. We just need you to
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: go home. She's through having its Fatrice, Beatrice, Beatrice, beat Odetta.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: It's not having got out of that. I'm giving you
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: the names where I could assure you if this is
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: your name, you are at an age where you are
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: beyond child bearing years. So Journal, So Journal is through
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: having baby? You want another one? Go ahead? Henrietta, Henrietta.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: She through having kids. Henrietta, tudes is this yeah, you know,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: go ahead, Gwen through because she got a fifty two
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: year old names see his names. Once you have an
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: old name, you can quit having babies. If your name
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: is Bobara, you're probably through having kids. I'm just saying,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: there ain't nobody named Bob. Weare still having kids, not
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Bob have a kid, having a bit through having kids?
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Throtty done. Gladys. Yeah, that's right up there with Agnes. Yeah,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you who through Jackie Els, I'll tell you that.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We can't always over there. We can't hand
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: the more kids. All right, what's this sho with there?
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Carla already said Shirley, Betty, Shirley, Mary, Marjorie all of that. Yeah, Margaret,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: last night, I ain't even sleep in the bed last
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Oh Esther, Steve, you forgot about Esther? Yeah, because Rose
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: slept with his last night. I took my shower. Man.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I was tired of him because I fell asleep in
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: my office. So I went up stairs. I took a shower,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: came into the bedroom. Out of my bathroom, put my
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: light on on my little phone. Rose in the bed.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I just turned around wound. Stay. I'm not fitting to
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: do this. I don't have her set her damn. Heal
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: in my eye at Winton, Steve, when Winton was a
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: little many kids, man, they just they sleep bad. I
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: was a bad kid. Just gonna where to go. I
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: gotta go to work. You ain't here sleeping bad from
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: your side, right, let them back to your room out
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: to damn? Why are you waiting Noah in his band?
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Why are you got to sleep in it? Okay, well
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: sleep with you. But it hurt it though, Yeah, Papa
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: won't yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Papa
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: want to get a little p and E in time.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah that Papa now to you and is a little
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: something else to me? Steve? All right, more of this
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, here's a question, guys.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: We're coming up on the holidays. You know you're going
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: to be spending money, buying gifts things like that. So
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: here's a question. Do you have to discuss if you're
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, do you have to discuss high price
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: purchases with your significant other? A? Right, yes, Steve, Do
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: you have to discuss purchases with Marjorie. Do you guys
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: have a budget? I mean we do, of course, you know,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: we talk over the uh expensive items. You know, I'm
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: buying this, and that's Marjorie. I love it. Decision made, Steve,
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I'm about this? Is that? Okay? Well, baby, I was thinking,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: well I ordered it. It's not here yet, so think
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: about it. Give her what she wants. Steve. Next week
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: is him. Did you decide it's over them? Because because yeah,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: because she could say, well, I could send it back,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: and you know, that's when she gets you. That's the Yeah,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: that's when it starts. You don't really want us me
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: to have it? Okay, I just tell them it's okay. Yeah,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: they can come on out here and pick it up. Dan,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: I guess okay, sure, you gotta discuss it. Huh No,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: he just don't know. Yeah, that's what he found out
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: with Shirley weighing it. He doesn't mind, though, he really
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: doesn't mind. He doesn't care. He doesn't mind. Shirley trunk loaded,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: she got under her. She took us spare time out
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: of her car. That's all that's a shopping being she
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: has a flat Oh yeah, she took all that out
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: the car yall that storage area. Man. At one time,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I got to the car and I'm fit to go
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: play golf, right, so I get my golf clubs. I
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: popped the trunk open to throw the golf clubs in
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: the trunk. It's just loaded. Herman's and Roger Vivienne just loaded.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Why do we do that? Though? It is women, Carl,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. I haven't amount because they didn't
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: ask me. But I haven't amount. I have to run
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: stuff by my husband. I can't just be wilding out
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: like that. I got will ring. Have you lost your mind?
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: So the amount is a thousand dollars, I have to
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: get permission off from the spin. Oh if it's oh,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: if it's a thousand dollars or over, cannot be a
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: little heard it. Let it be a thousand or one.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: And he checks with you on the same thing for
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: the same thing. Uh huh, Well that's a good that's good. Yeah,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: whatever works for your family. But I mean, if we
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: have these goals that we've said, you just can't be
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: wilding all the time. So what you're saying to me
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: as a woman, woman to woman, Yes, you don't have
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: any shoes hidden in your trunk or in your closet.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying to me? Your girl a llegit?
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I know better. Okay, we love shoes too much in
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: the bag that I pull this boy right and Stephen
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Junior are not buying this at all, knowing that but
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. I do have to place a phone call, Yes,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: I do every time though every time. Yes. Now I
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: may charm him and get what I want, but I
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: do have to my wife and ask me about us.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Get your clothes, not one phone call or not now nothing.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Just all right, We'll be back with more of the
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening. All right, everybody,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: the holidays ahead. You're gonna be at your friend's house.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be at your parents' house. You're gonna be
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: sitting around the table and living room whatever, having conversations
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: with people and you yourself about stuff you know nothing
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: about because your memory is shot. Okay, it'll sound something
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: like this, Well, we went over to um, let's see,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: we went over to that boy's house and oh my god,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: you know the one with the boy with the dog,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: the dog with the dog, the dog dog. Yeah, he
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: got he live over there, you know where the blue church,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: the blue church they painted blue is all blue. And yeah, yeah,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm doing. You know what I'm gonna.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: I think, I know, I think. But who were talking about?
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Work at the hospital. She's a nurse, yes in turn
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: or yes because yeah, yeah, I know his mama wasn't madam.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I know that's right, that's right, my god, And that's
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: okay okay. Yeah, on the other end of um which
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: mccaull is blocked. They live on the side exactly the
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: block right when you go, you go, you go. I
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: know who you're talking about because his baby's mama used
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: to work with my cousin down on the other side,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: you know, the other side of the bridge. Yeah, but
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: had that big dog. What kind of dog was that
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: mixed breed? It was a mixed breed though it was
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: role and something a German shepherd. His brother, His brother
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: dropped transmissions into yard you talk about, yes, yes, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: She had a sister that was a prize fighter short
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: period of time. Yeah yeah. Because because the people there,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: they are people. I think their people were from Alabama
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: or someplace Georgia down yeah, down there. Shot. It may
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: have been Florida, I don't know, but someplace in the east, someplace, Yeah,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: I remember that. And she did hair on the weekends.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: She did hair. She did in the kitchen, in the kitchen,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: in the kachen, and she could bring some hat good
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: she I remember that, because she could braid hair and
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: make pies at the same time. I never right, And
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: that's why I never That's why I never bought anything
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: from it, because I was always scared I was gonna
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: have hair in my mind. She was friends with the
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Snagertooth twins. They you know, they grown with missing they
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: both player just because they twins. Both they both yeah,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: they both at forty and I remember them well. Now
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: they were snaggertooth twins, but one was an albino and
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: one was done. They looked alike that they didn't look alike.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: That's what everybody said, to look alike, don't look alike exactly.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Man oh man, man. Yeah. He was talking about yeah, yeah,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Adam and Adam and Arnold or something like some some
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: as Yeah, yeah Alexander or something like that. Oh no,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: I'm getting mixed up. I'm getting them mixed up with
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: mister Alexander and his wife. Yes, Lord, where is he?
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I ain't seen you remember his wife though, because you
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: know what I remember about them the most. They looked
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: just the light. They looked just the light. But they
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: didn't like a light though. The way you could tell
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: them apart was her much ash was thicker than years.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: And that's how you could tell him any given Sunday,
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: on any given Sunday. Yes, oh my god, I know.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: And and there you have it, ladies and gentlemen's conversations
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: around that makes no damn we never found out. But
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: what it goes on for hours? Yeah? Thanks Giving everybody,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Every Thanksgiving? We love you. You're listening right now. It's
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: time for you, mister Hollywood, to run that prank back
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: what you got now. Well, since we was talking about
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving earlier, this is a great run back. Catering mistake,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: catering mistake. Let's run. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Tammy. Please.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: This is hey Tammy. This is uh Dexter over here, catering.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: We catered your your aunt Bridges. Yeah, that's right, that's right,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: that's right. How you doing, Dexter is good to hear
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: from you. Okay, good good. I'm going through the paperwork
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: here and I know we have an invoice for you all.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you. This is not
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: a bad time, is it. No, this is a good time. Okay.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: So first of all, did everybody enjoy everything that we
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: put out for you guys? Yeah, we had a good
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: old time. My auntie Bridget she was so happy. There
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: was no better way to bring in her sixtieth birthday party.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: We had a great time. The food was delicious. We
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: are so grateful, So thank you so much. You and
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: your team did the bomb jib Okay, good deal, good deal.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: I was here when they loaded up the van and everything,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: and I wanted to make sure. I wanted to follow
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: back up. But listen, I'm looking at the paperwork and
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: we had a little mishap, and I wanted to let
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: you know that we're not going to um, We're not
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: gonna charge you guys for the chicken because they made
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: a mistake and they put the wrong pan on the
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: van and they I noticed that the chicken was actually
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: still here. So we want to take off take that off,
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: and I won't. That won't be on the on the envoys.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: So I'm taking all the entire cross. The chicken will
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: be completely taken out. Okay, real quick, let's back up
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: a bit, because we had a lot of people at
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: the party. We definitely had chicken walking. Yeah, I know
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: you had you order some moother chicken. But like I said,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: the guy put the wrong pan on the on the van,
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: you know, and actually this mother chicken was actually still here,
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: uh you know, here here the at the shop. So
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you know, like I said, we made a mistake. I'm
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: gonna take it off and that's probably not your like
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: a couple hundred dollars off off of you as price. Like,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: So so what are you saying? So what were we
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: eating if it wasn't this mother chicken? What was it? Uh? Well,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: miss Tammy, like I said, you know, I got on
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: this kid for making this mistake. You know, I got
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: on it real bad about it. But you know, putting
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: the wrong pan on there. But like I said, this
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: what you guys had was it? That was a chicken?
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: What was it? Though? That's why I'm asking you what
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: was it? Actually what he put on there by mistake?
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Miss tam Me, that was that was rabbid? What you
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: can't be serious right now? Are you out of your
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: rabbit mine? Are you serious? You tell me, did your
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: team put the wrong tray on the trucks and then
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: served it to my family? And you're trying to call
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: me about two hundred dollars? Are just serious? Who does
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: more than that? You owe me more than that? You
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: don't know who the because allergic today? And you're calling
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: me about two hundred dollars? Are you out of your fine? Well?
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: I wanted to credit you all that, you know what
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, And and there's gonna be no credit.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: There ain't gonna be no credit. It ain't no credit.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: Do you mean credit? Where you could have died? Monty
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: could have died, Lucie. Uh, we got kids in there.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: You don't know our dietary needs? Are you crazy? Well?
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: I mean it don't matter if I liked it, I
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: can fall out the night. Stupid. Oh, I'm getting the attorney.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I'm done with this. This is stupid. And who want
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: to eat bugs? Bunny? Does that right to you? H?
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Are you stupid? I'm so annoyed right now? Seriously, le know,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: woods people, we no country people with you? Okay? What
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: what y'all liked it? Though? Right? No? But you're gonna
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: like my foot up y'all so that's what you're gonna like.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there later because y'all the stupid ya,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: the stupid my foot gonna be up, y'r and y'all,
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be hopping around like a rabbit, the rabbit
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: that you served me. Okay, okay, let me ask you
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: this here. No Avia, miss Avery, is your mama right?
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: What my mama got to do with this rabbit? What's
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: she gotta do with this? Okay? See, your mama got
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: me to call you. This is nephew. Comments from the
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: Steve Harbin Morton Show. Damn me, your mama to break you.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Oh my god, this is crazy. Oh
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: my god, looking in good morning. This is crazy. Crazy.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Y'all are gonna get it? This is crazy? Ohoa man?
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: All right, Sam, but tell me this baby. What is
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: the late Steve har you are right, Yes, I'm just
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: so glad I didn't have rabbit. I'm so glad you
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: want a little rabbit. Y'all can tell a little rabbit,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: little rabbit ain't gonna do you. I'm serious, I can't.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Just a knowledge that it's a rabbit. I can't eat it.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: What's the difference you gonna rabbit in a chick? It's
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: a rabbit. The difference between a rabbit and you mean
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: it both animals? Yes, what's the different Try trying to
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: say she eat meat, you eat meat anyway? Right? Yeah,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: one of them is poetry, the other one is meat.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: One of them got fum legs, one of them got
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: two legs and two wings. A lot of differences. You
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna get no getting nowaif off a weapon. Now
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: we knew about the didn't know about these rs. Now,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: what is it all right? Coming up next to the
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter? This crazy show right here. Lord, you're listening
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show, and it's time, guys for today's
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,
• 49:31
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• 49:35
  Speaker 1: f M and click submit Strawberry Letter. Tell him Steve Harvey,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: same thing she just said, and we could be reading
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: read this one. And boy, this is something else right here.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you buggle up, hold on tight. We
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: got it for you here. It is this strawberry. Thank you, nephew. Subject.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: My husband is now my kid's uncle. Dy yeah, yeah,
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: one more time. My husband is now my kid's uncle.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: All right, Dear Stephen Shirley. I have a problem, and
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: I've been praying over it for years, but I can't
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: seem to get over it. I married a man when
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I was twenty six years old and he was forty
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: one years old. We had a great married life, a nice,
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: big home, and three lovely children. I thought our fairy
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: tale would never end, but it did. We were married
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: for eight years, and on his birthday, he asked me
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: for a divorce and served me papers. I was shocked
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: that he already had the papers drawn up. Six months
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: after our divorce was final, my sister gave birth to
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: a healthy, beautiful baby girl. When I saw the baby,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I noticed that the baby had the same birthmark on
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: her foot that all three of my children do. Two
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: months later, my sister married my ex husband. At the wedding,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: only two of our family members attended. My mother didn't
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: even go wait, wait, what okay? At the what okay?
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Where do you want me to start? Two months This
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: is crazy, Steve, This is so crazy. All right, I'll
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: start here. We were married, they had a We were
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: married for eight years, and on his birthday he asked
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: me for a divorce and served me papers. I was
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: shocked that he already had the papers drawn up. Six
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: months after our divorce was final, my sister gave birth
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: to a beautiful baby girl. When I saw the baby,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: I noticed that the baby had the same birthmark on
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: her foot that all three of my children do. Two
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: months later, my sister married my ex husband cocked. At
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: the wedding, only two of our family members attended. My
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: mother didn't even go. It has now been five years,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: and I've heard my sister has three has had three
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: more kids. I haven't seen my ex husband or my
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: sister in many years, but my children have. Oh and yes,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: I have driven by her house several times, only to
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: see that my ex husband has built her a huge
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: new house. I guess she's happy now that she has
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: everything I had. Why can't I get over this? Why
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: do I feel like a minute I see my sister,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: I'm going to punch her in her face. Why am
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: I so hurt that my children's father is also my
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: children's uncle. I just don't know how to get past this.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Please help me. Yeah, this right here, this right here
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: is a hot stinking mess. Okay, I just have to
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: tell you you're not wrong, and how you feel you're
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: not wrong at all. Anyone who has gone through what
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: you've gone through would feel the exact same way in
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: your position. Your emotions are real, they are valid. Your
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: ex husband is vile and so is your sister. Imagine
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: being married to someone for eight years only to get
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: a divorced uh paper at his birthday, at his on
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: his birthday, at his birthday party. Of course you're shocked.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: Of course you know they've been doing this behind your
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: back all this time. Six months after your divorce is final,
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: then your sister gives birth to a beautiful baby girl.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Who does this to their sister their own blood? She
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, stole your husband. Your husband's sleeping with her
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: behind your bag. This is awful. At the wedding, I
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: understand if only two of your family members attended. Um.
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: Your mother didn't even go. UM, so your kids. Let's
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: get this straight. Your kids are their cousins, their aunt's
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: uncles and aunts. What what is this is crazy? Yeah,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: this is not a good family reunion at all. Uh yeah,
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: I probably would have driven by her house several times
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: too to you know. Yeah, it's hard to get over
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: something like this. I mean, I you know, I'm surprised
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: that you even had the strength to write the letter,
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: and it's a great letter. I'm sorry you had to
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: go through this. This is this is awful. Who does
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: this to their sister, to their wife? This is craziness.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: You're hurt because they hurt you, and you're hurt because
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: of that they hurt you. This is terrible. You don't
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: know how to get past it. I don't know how either.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know how it would. And you know, I'm
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: all about love and forgiveness and all of this, but
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: this right here would be a real hard one to
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: forgive to get past. Un Yeah what yeah, yeah, I
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: mean you know this, this is really this is just
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: vile and crazy and ugly. Steve, I'm gonna just start
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: with the end of the letter. I don't know how
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: to get past this. Please help me. Somebody need to
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: get to ask for hey man, that really I don't
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: even know how to. That's the only way I could
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: see me coming through this. This is this really the
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: only way I see me coming coming through this at all.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: I mean for me to even begin the healing process,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to make several attempts to get at
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: both y'all, the sister and the ex. You know he
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: got all his house building money where he can build
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: everybody big housing. I would have been shut that down.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: What would you have done, Steve? I would have destroyed
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: him on social media. Lady, you was married to this
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: man when he was twenty six, he was forty one.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: He had a great married life, big house, three kids,
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: doctor fairytale. When they married eight years on his birthday,
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: he asked you for a divorce sale papers. He already
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: had the papers drawn up. Six months after divorce was final.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: Your sister gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. You
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: saw the baby. The baby got the same damn birth
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: mark on her foot that all three of your kids had.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: I'd have started with the baby baby get their foote Okay,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know how. I'm telling you somebody I gotta
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: start paying. I deal with the rest of them when
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: I come back. I don't know how, all right, Steve, Well, okay,
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: we're gonna give you a moment to calm down. Okay,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: we'll have Part two of your response coming up at
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. You're listening. All right, Steve,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: let's recap today. I ain't nothing. I'm just going into
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: this twenty six years old married man. He forty one,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: had a great married life, big house, three beautiful kids.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: Thought the fairytale would never end, but he did. Married
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: for eight years. On his birthday, he asked me for
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: a divorce and serve me papers. You know why he
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: did it on the birthday because he's spending the birthday
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: with your sister. Now, I can't be over here and
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: there at the same time. How can I not be
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: over here? I got it drafty damned divorce papers that
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: stop all the party atmosphere over here on go over
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: head and had his birthday with your sister. I was shocked.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: He already had the papers drawn up. Six months later,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: after our divorce was final, my sister gave birth to
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: a beautiful baby girl. When I saw the baby girl,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: the baby had the same birthmark on her foot that
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: all three of my children do. Now, see right here,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I starts hurting people right there, right there, right here. Now,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: let's just say this. Right here, When I look down
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: and I see the same birthmark on this beautiful baby girl.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: That so all of your children, somebody got to pay
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: with a foot. Okay, now can't be the baby. So
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: that right here, I'm gonna start with. I need a
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: foot from somebody, either my sister or my damn husband,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: but somebody fit to give up a foot because I
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: got to start hurting people immediately. I noticed. Two months
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: later my sister married my ex husband two months after
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: the baby was born. At the wedding, two of our
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: family members attended would have been at three. I had
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: to go because I got to start hurting some At
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: the wedding, I'm gonna be in the balcony somewhere with
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: something that shoots. Might not be a gun, but it's
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: gonna be like a sling shot of pellet, right for something.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: At the wedding, only two of my family members attended.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: Okay which two was them? Because I asked, ain't speaking?
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: I need the name or the two people that took
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: they brought to this wedding called me and you it's through. Yeah.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: My mother didn't even go cause she knew go down
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: there if you want to, Mama. It's now been five
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: years and I heard my sister has had three more kids.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what they've been. I had that on
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: their feet. I know that, I know, I know, I know,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: I know. It better not be three more people with
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: some birthmark, because now it's gonna be three more people
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: some problem. Everybody with birthmark on the foot, I takes
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: another foot. So that folk, that folk kids, right, three
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: more and folks. So now my sister and my ex
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: husband ain't neither one of them got no more feet. Man, man,
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: I haven't seen my ex husband or my sister in
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: many years. That's impossible. What do you mean? But we
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: ain't seen each other? You know what many attempts I
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: would have made on that? Ye? Yes, how the hell
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to kill you and I ain't seen it.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: You can't get a shot off, you ain't seening. So
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: right there, I haven't seen my ex but my children.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: So the children been going over that visited, uh huh,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: because that's their daddy, Steve, that's their daddy. Huh. So
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: they've been over that visiting their daddy. Uncle. Yeah, who's
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: married to your aunt? Right? Who really is your uncle? Right?
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: And your daddy and your daddy right? So what uncle, daddy,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: daddy uncle, uncle, daddy, daddy. Oh, yes, I've driven by
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: her house several times. Drive back, Nah, were talking, I've
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: driven by. You ain't had nothing hanging out to wonder.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: Let's do it. You ain't had nothing. You had grenade,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: and you ain't dade that assault rifle. You know. Hell,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: they keep talking about the Second Amendment. You're right, you
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: ain't have assault rifle. Yeah, the cocktail with your lighted
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: like the bottling through only to see that my ex
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: husband has built her a huge new house with what
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: Now I got all that, I got all that money,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: I'm child support, alimony. Yeah, I guess she's happy now
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: that she has everything I had. How you ain't got
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: it no more? How you how he leaves you with
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: the baby. You ain't got no house, no money, no
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: child support, no alimony. If you have told this story
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: in any court of law, he is still be paying you. Yeah.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: Why can't I get over this? Because you ain't hurt nobody,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. Oh oh damn. Why do I feel
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: like the moment I see my sister, I'm gonna punch
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: in her face because that's what you're gonna do. And
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: how do you punch down face? You can start healing again,
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: because look, then you can you have you can ask
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: the Lord to forgive you. Yeah, so you can start.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: I just don't know how to get past this. I'm
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: so hurt that my children's father's also my children's uncle.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: I just don't know. You got pray about this for real, lady, seriously,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: and do not hurt nobody because it ain't worth it.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: You're right, Steve, that is true. You're right court taking
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: the court suing for everything he got. You should have
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: a big house. He gonna come. Who you're a boss,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: sister though this is your sister, s yes, really is
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: all right? We gotta go a stank? Is this letter is?
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: We gotta get out of it? Email us or instagram
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: Usure thoughts on today's strawberry letter at Steve Harvey, f M.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening show time for something funny? Junior? You're ready? Yeah,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: I'm ready. Holidays is coming. It is coming, and so
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: you got people that's coming with somebody you've never met
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: but you've heard about. Now. I got a cousin, got
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: this girl who's giving him all these problems, and I
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: just thought about it. She'll be told. The crazy they are.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: The more ways you try to defend them to your family.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: I ain't never met the girl with about to meet
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: the old Thanksgiving like stuff like this, Like, okay, I
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: heard all you that she tried to smother you with
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: the pillar. Yeah don't. We started off playing and forever.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: Then it got serious. But then you ain't ever been
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: you ain't never been smothered before. You ain't never been
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: smothered before, play with and trying to smother you? Yea
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: or this one or this one? Dog dog? I heard
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: she raised about the back seat of your car you
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: try to leave. Yeah, she raised about the back seat.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: She was concerned by where I was going. That I
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: never had nobody that was concerned by where you be.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, dog love, let her love me. The crazier
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: they are, the more they try to defend them to us,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: I can't to meet the girl like like, darn, that
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: wasn't about you. She shot at you, Yeah, she shot it.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: She shot at me because she was concerned I was
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: messing up. I heard that good shot I got right
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: back in lane. I mean, ain't nobody else shot at
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: you before? No, darning, ain't nobody else shot it up? Okay,
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: gets about to shoot you for you speak on this subject.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: I ain't speak let you've been shot at. I'm just
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to meet her. Just the crazier they are,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: are they gonna defend them to the I can't wait
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: to see this girl. All we gonna have some fun
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: this thing. And that's true being told. I'm just telling.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: That was good. That was true, Junior. Everybody got on
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: you ain't. I mean, I was taking the bath in
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: the tub. Then she came in and pushed my head
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: under water. But but she left me under a little
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: too low. I choked a little bit. But you ain't
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: never been held under water under your No, everybody did that.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: We don't speak on that. Tell you walk in my shoes.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: There was just a cut, stabbed, I really stabbed the night,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: all the way in, all the way in. It's just
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: a cut. We're just just a surface. One thirty two stitches.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: That's it. Oh yeah, okay, just drown me a little bit.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: That's a little bit. I'm good. They never been drowned before.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: That's what I don't like. You can't speak old all right,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. Going home
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: for the holidays can be a nightmare for some people
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: who dealing with bickering family can ruin anyone's holiday, But
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: the real horror comes when it's time to go to sleep.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: Being forced to crash in either your childhood home or
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: a relative place over Thanksgiving or Christmas, why are they staying?
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: It can definitely get awkward, which is why it shouldn't
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: surprise us that a new survey finds that fifty two
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: percent of adults say they they've made up some sort
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: of excuse specifically to avoid uncomfortable sleeping arrangements over the holidays.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: That's over half, so and you should. Yeah, if I
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: can't walk to my kitchen Friday, I have to thank
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: you in my drag. There's a problem. Hey, listen to me.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: Why does holidays have to be for all family? What
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: do you what do you mean? Yeah, you know, ain't
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: on law say all family got to come over. All
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: family got to be together. Most of these people in
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: your family that you don't like anymore, I'm married and
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: have their own family. But don't you invite together? The
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: family is coming together? Don't you invite who you want
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: to invite over your house but you don't like them?
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: And you're gonna have them over, yeah, where you're trying
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: to tolerate them. But that's the problem for the occasion
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: for the holiday. Yeah, I don't. I don't do that,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: and my wife honors that request to me, don't have
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: nobody in my house on my limited time. I'm off
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: that I don't like. Just do that for me? Is
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: that a lot? What about people that go over their
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: mom's house, right, or they go over their parents' house
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: and they gotta stay and put up with people that
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: they don't like for the sake of their parents. You
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's on. I don't go no
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: where I ain't like. I think here's the biggest problem,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: not you, but you may not like who's coming, but
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: you dealing well when they get down, I'm gone, Yeah,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: like I'm cool with the family. It's who the family
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: brain with them. Once again, my wife got a cousin
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: always gonna bring somebody we don't know who the hell
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: he is, and you got you you can't relax. I
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: don't need I need to get him to have two
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: spoons and keep clicking them to gel so I know
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: where you're at. Well, when you invite them, do you
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: say plus one, or you just invite them and they
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: bring someone. They don't let you know. She just come
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: over with somebody new every yeah, or they already en route.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: It's kind of I bring such a suf. Huh my aunt,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: my grandmother sister. When she come over, I leave because
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: ain't nobody telling me about her condition? Needs on? Antybody
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: told me? She hu her memory going yeah, see, I
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: don't like see, I don't like that because she's surprised
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: about everything. She don't remember nobody enough and time spent
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: her hey and and she said, who who is that?
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: Who is that? Who is that? Right? Yeah, you don't
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: want to do that? Five hours of that? Here your plate?
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: What's this on this plate? What is that? That's turkey?
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: And dressed that you don't know? This is the reason
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: we're here today. You don't know that? Then you go
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: up you know what I'm saying, Like she go to
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: the restroom, didn't come back, say hi, I get to
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: the bathroom. You just left out of there. No, I'm
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: not gonna do it for five hours. I'm sorry, I'm
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: not doing that. I leave. You ain't got to come over.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: That's the reason. Where that is turkey? How you don't
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: know turkey and dressing when you see it? Man? You
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: know who else I don't like. I don't like them
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: people that come over to the house what and take
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: more food with them than they come on? You're saying, yes, yes,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, like are you for real? Man? Yeah,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: you're just gonna cut out half a pan of dressing?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: You got a spatchlor you take it so much dressing
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: out you're using you're using a spatching the dog. But
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: you in that three foul time? But do they bring
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: their own aluminum foil in their bags? Stuff being in
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: the car? Yeah? I have to go kid. You know what?
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: They got these new ziplock bangs just bigger than a
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: gallon the big more of the show right after these
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: jams you're listening to show. So what are some of
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: the strange things? You're strange habits and Thanksgiving? I have
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: a relative that's what's supposedly? Um is it? Which one
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: is it? Jehoa witness or seven dead minutes? You know
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: they don't eat meat, but this particularly is that there
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: was meat in the greens. And she she had already
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: been like half played in you know, yes, yes, And
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: my mom said, and you know this meeting in greens.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: She went, huh and kavy eating lives, all lives because
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: the greens were good. Right, so good. Let me tell
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: y'all something. I got a relative. I got a cousin
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: that would eat everything in one bowl. But but ja
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: jay the twist to it all. He may have a dressing,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: a cranbar sauce, got some turkey laid across it. Everybody
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: understand that that makes sense, right yeah? Right next to
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: it is a scoop of vanilla ice cream, right yeah.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: But I'm looking at him like, you please tell me
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: you're not gonna use my bathroom while you here? Please?
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: Then you got that relative time and that you know
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: they're complaining because my food is touching I don't want
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I know some people like that. Yeah,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: people like that. And you know what to j A
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: lot of kids when you're making air plates, they don't
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: want them touch. Well, that's that's why you gotta have
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: them paper plates called with them. Divide is in it
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: for they? Yes, keep that gi mess over there. You're
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: talking big money paper places. I'm not place they gotta
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: wait with wimen on it. Coming up. More of the
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning show. Right after this, you're listening to
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: the Steve Morning Show. All right, here's a question. Guys,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: we're coming up on the holidays. You know you're going
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: to be spending money, buying gifts, things like that. So
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: here's a question. Do you have to discuss if you're
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, do you have to discuss high price
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: purchases with your significant other? All right, Steve, do you
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: have to discuss purchases with Marjorie? Do you guys have
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: a budget? I mean we do, of course, you know
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: we talk over uh expensive items. You know that conversation
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: was very short. I'm buying this and that's Marjorie. I
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: love it, Steve, I'm about this. Is that okay? Well baby,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: I was thinking, well I ordered it, it's not here yet,
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: so think about it. Give her what she wants. Steve
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: is him. Did you decide it's over though? Because because yeah,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: because she could say, well I could send it back,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: and you know that's when she gets you. That's the Yeah,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: that's when the like, you don't really want us me
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: to have it? Okay, I just tell them it's okay, Yeah,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: they can come on out here and pick it up.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: Then I guess okay, sure you got discuss it. Huh No,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: he just don't know. Yeah, that's what he found out
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: with Shirley Wayne it. He doesn't mind, though, he really
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: doesn't mind. He doesn't care, he doesn't mind. Shirley trunk loaded.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: She got she took us spare time out of her car.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: That's all that's a shopping being. She has a flat
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: and oh yeah, she took all that out there come
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: all that storage area. Those in the shares. Man at
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: one time. I got to the car and I'm fit
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: to go play golf, right, so I get my golf clubs.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: I popped the trunk open to throw the golf clubs
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: in the trunk. It's just loaded. Her Man's and Roger
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: Vivienne just loaded. Why do we do that though? Is women? Carla,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. I haven't amount because they didn't
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: ask me. But I haven't amount. I have to run
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: stuff by my husband. I can't just be wilding out
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: like that. I got ring. How much have you lost
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: your mind? So the amount is a thousand dollars, I
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: have to get permission on if it's Oh, if it's
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: a thousand dollars, are over. Cannot be a little hutter it.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: Let it be a thousand oh one and he checks
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: with you on the same thing for the same thing.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, Well that's a good that's good. Yeah, whatever
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: works for your family. But I mean, if we have
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: these goals that we've said, you just can't be wilding
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: all the time. So what you're saying to me as
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: a woman, woman to woman, Yes, you don't have any
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: shoes hidden in your trunk or in your closet. Is
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: that what you're saying to me? Your girl a llegen? Yes,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: I know better. Okay, we love shoes too much in
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: the bag that I pull off this boy right and
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: Stephen Junior are not buying this at all, knowing that,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: but a thousand dollars, I do have to place the
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: phone call, Yes I do every time though every time. Yes,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: Now I may charm him and get what I want,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: but I do have to my wife stitch your clothes.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: Got one phone call, but not now nothing? All right,
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: coming up next to our last break of the day,
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: and Steve will have some closing remarks. All that's coming
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: up at forty nine after the hour. Right after this,
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: you're listening to last break of the day. We've had
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: a great morning today. Yes, yes, we did. We have
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: fun today. Steve. It's time for you now to take
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: us home with your closing remarks. What you got for
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: us today, Steve? Today, Um, I was thinking of something
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: that's another jewel that has really helped me in my
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: quest and it's about my dreams and my goals, and
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: I was wanted to share this with you today. One
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: of the greatest dangers, uh, for more of us is
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: not that our aim is too high and we miss it,
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: but that is too low and we reach it. Can
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: I say that to you again? This is actually a
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: quote from Michael Angelo. He said, the greatest danger for
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: most of us is not that our aim is too
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: high and we miss it, but that is too low
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: and we reach it. That's crazy, man. My father used
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: to say something to me all the time, very similar.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: He says, son, aim for the moon, because if you miss,
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: you'll still be amongst the stars. And that's pretty much
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: the same thing that he's saying. That the greatest danger
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: for most of us, it's not that our aim is
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: too high and we miss it, but that is too
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: low and we reach it. Let me explain something to
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: you about low aspirations. And low goals. When you reach
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: a low aspiration and a low goal and there's nothing
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: after that, you think you've arrived, you think you that
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: you actually get comfortable. Man, I made it, when in essence,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: there's so much more to life to live, so much
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: more that you could accomplish if you would just reset
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: your goals in aspiration. I remember, man, a long time ago,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: this dude in my high school. He said, Man, all,
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: I want I know two dudes like this about a car.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: He said, Man, all, I won't. Man, it's this Grand Torino. Man.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: If I had a Grand Torino, Man, I wouldn't want
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: nothing else for his senior graduation. This dude's father gave
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: him a Grand Torino. It's like unbelievable. In high school, Man,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: nineteen seventy four Grand Torino with the two windows in
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: the slits in the back. I was looking at this
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: like wow. Man, he drove it to the prom just
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: still had a brand new cars father bought it. I
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: saw him like twenty years later. You know he had
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: the same car. He had the same car. It happened
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: to another dude. I knew, Man that wanted this Cadillac. Man,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: if I ever get to this Cadillac man, this white Cadillac,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: the red seats man. He got it. I saw him
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: years later, years later, I don't really remember how many,
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: but he still had the same car. Always beat to hell,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: but he had the same car because that was his
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: aspiration and he reached it. But when he reached it,
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: he got comfortable. I got it, and he quit wanting more,
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: he quit reaching for higher things. You have to reassess
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: your life constantly, man, because you are going to continue
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: to live. You have to aspire to something that requires
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: God's help. Quit wanting and reaching for stuff that you
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: can do. Why would you say to yourself, man, if
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: I could just get me a used car, if I
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: could give me a nineteen eighty five maximum, really really
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: get your money, save your money and go on and
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: get it. But if that's your only goal and you
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: get it, where you go from now? You are never
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: too old to keep reaching your goal one more time.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: You are never too old to keep reaching your goal.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: It's goals out there, it's things that you can achieve.
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  Speaker 1: Get out of your comfort zone. Man, If you try
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  Speaker 1: to survive in your comfort zone, your comfort zone, you
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  Speaker 1: will fail in it. Everybody fails in the comfort zone.
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  Speaker 1: Because in order to be successful, you got to get uncomfortable,
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  Speaker 1: You got to get you got something. You got to
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  Speaker 1: go when you don't want to go. You gotta do
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  Speaker 1: when you don't want to do. That's what discipline is.
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  Speaker 1: It requires discipline to achieve great things. It requires discipline
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  Speaker 1: to reach your goals. Because discipline is simply doing everything
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  Speaker 1: you have to do and need to do, even if
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to. That's what discipline is. It's doing
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  Speaker 1: the things that you have to do and need to do,
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  Speaker 1: even when you don't want to. You go do it anyway.
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  Speaker 1: That's what discipline is. That's how you achieve goals. That's
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  Speaker 1: how you reach higher heights. Aim for the moon because
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  Speaker 1: if you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars. But
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  Speaker 1: it's real simple man. It's just like Michelangelo said, the
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  Speaker 1: greatest danger for most of us is not that our
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  Speaker 1: aim is too high and we miss it, but that
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  Speaker 1: is too low and we reach it. Because it's danger, man,
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  Speaker 1: when you ain't got nothing after that, because you get
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  Speaker 1: to settling and you get to thinking you there, when
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  Speaker 1: you ain't there, you got so much more life to live.
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  Speaker 1: God has so much more for you. God comes to
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  Speaker 1: give you life and give you life more abundantly. God
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  Speaker 1: ain't no mediocre God. God don't do mediocre things. God
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  Speaker 1: do great things. God performs miracles. God makes dreams come true.
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  Speaker 1: God is in the blessing business, the healing business, the
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  Speaker 1: saving business, the recovery business, to get your life together business.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you let him do that for you? Aim high?
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  Speaker 1: God may take you some places you've never been. Those
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  Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. Y'all have a great weekend. All
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  Speaker 1: right now, BT expressed. Do it, Do it until you're satisfied.
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