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FULL SHOW: Roscoe Wallace, Strawberry Letter: I Love Him, But... - 6.12.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all.
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  Speaker 3: At all at all, So given them back a million
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  Speaker 3: bu bu boozy.
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  Speaker 4: Listening to.
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  Speaker 5: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you gotta turn.
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  Speaker 4: I can't. I got to turn the mouth. Turn You
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  Speaker 4: probably got to turn the mouth, turn out, turn a
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  Speaker 4: wad of the mony up looking come come out?
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  Speaker 2: You think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're
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  Speaker 2: listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now, one
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  Speaker 2: and only. It is Steve Harvey. Yeah, I got a
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  Speaker 2: radio show. Okay, this is a timely for everybody. I'm
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  Speaker 2: sure I want to offer you all some encouragement because
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  Speaker 2: everybody needed. Let me tell you something. You strike out
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  Speaker 2: on your goals, you strike out on your aspirations, and
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  Speaker 2: so you strike out. As it happens to all of us.
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  Speaker 2: Here it comes life. Life just hits one of them
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  Speaker 2: bad notes, as it always does, as it always does
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  Speaker 2: for all of us, for everybody. Now, when those bad
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  Speaker 2: notes happen, when the haters come out of nowhere, when
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  Speaker 2: the setback comes up, when when the eye of nowhere appears,
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  Speaker 2: when now I didn't see that coming comes, Here's here's
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  Speaker 2: what you have to do here is the thing that
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  Speaker 2: I have been teaching myself for years that I used
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  Speaker 2: to not always understand. So I'm trying to give it
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  Speaker 2: to you. You have to be encouraged anyway. Now that's difficult, okay, Steve,
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  Speaker 2: what you're talking about? You just told me all this
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  Speaker 2: discouraging stuff that can happen, and you said you got
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  Speaker 2: to be encouraged anyway. Yeah, man, you have to, because
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  Speaker 2: what's happening to you right now, the thing that you're
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  Speaker 2: going through right now, the thing that everybody's going through
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  Speaker 2: right now. Ain't nobody else smooth sailing? Man. Everybody got
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  Speaker 2: something and if they if they don't smooth sailing, just
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  Speaker 2: know this is coming. There's nothing I'm wishing on anybody.
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  Speaker 2: It's just that this is life. This is how it
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  Speaker 2: happens everybody, So please stop stop getting on the old
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  Speaker 2: woe is Me bandwagon?
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  Speaker 4: Old Lord?
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  Speaker 2: Why met old Lord? Something always happened to me, something
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  Speaker 2: always happens to everybody. But here's what you got to do.
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  Speaker 2: When you get in moments like this, you got to
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  Speaker 2: be encouraged. You got to remember in those times, in
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  Speaker 2: those times when it's going wrong, you got to remember
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  Speaker 2: all that you've been through. You got to remember all
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  Speaker 2: that you've come through. You have to remember those other
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  Speaker 2: times when you felt like this, and somehow, unexplainably you
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  Speaker 2: don't even really stop to say nothing about it. It
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  Speaker 2: just changed for you and the problem that was is
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  Speaker 2: no more. And the situation that seems so insurmountable, you
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  Speaker 2: got over it, You got around it, you got over it.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes you just got to slide right under it. Sometimes
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  Speaker 2: you got to plow through it. But in those times
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  Speaker 2: when it's discouraging for you, when you feel like giving up,
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  Speaker 2: those are the test. Those are the moments that will
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  Speaker 2: determine whether we make it or not. I'll tell you
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  Speaker 2: one thing for sure. If you give up in these moments,
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  Speaker 2: right here here is a for show, you'll never make it.
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  Speaker 2: That's unquestionably the deal. If you give up in these
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  Speaker 2: dark times, if you give up in these what you
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  Speaker 2: think is insurmountable moments, if you turn back now here
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  Speaker 2: is the one thousand percent for shore. You ain't gonna
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  Speaker 2: make it. But there is a bright side to this situation.
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  Speaker 2: If you keep your head down, if you keep forging,
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  Speaker 2: if you keep pressing on sometimes if you just stand
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  Speaker 2: there and sometimes get knocked to your knees. But if
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  Speaker 2: you stay in that place, if you just stay there
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  Speaker 2: and ride the storm out, my head is bloodied but unbowed.
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  Speaker 2: If you can just stay there, if you consider in
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  Speaker 2: that moment and ride it out, you will win. You
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  Speaker 2: will pass the test, and you will get to move
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  Speaker 2: on to the next level. But there is no next
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  Speaker 2: level without a test. You can't get to grade six
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  Speaker 2: without passing grade five. You can can't be a senior
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  Speaker 2: without first being a junior. You can't graduate without fulfilling
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  Speaker 2: the hours and requirements. You see, I don't care what
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  Speaker 2: you do in life. Look at it, it's all set
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  Speaker 2: up on levels. Well, you've got to accomplish the thing
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  Speaker 2: before in order to get to the next level. And
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  Speaker 2: when you've made those level accomplishments, you get to graduate.
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  Speaker 2: Now you can go on and get a master's and
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  Speaker 2: a pH d. You can go on and become rich.
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  Speaker 2: You can go become wealthy, or you can go or
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  Speaker 2: you can go somewhere and think yourself in another set
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  Speaker 2: of circumstances. But you got to go through something to
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  Speaker 2: get to something. That ain't nothing free. So you can
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  Speaker 2: stop that notion about being successful that is easy. Come on, man,
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  Speaker 2: if it was easy. What we don't what we're talking about.
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  Speaker 2: It is not easy. Stop thinking it is. It is difficult.
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  Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what's even more difficult than becoming successful.
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  Speaker 2: You want to know what that is? Try not being
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  Speaker 2: successful your whole life. That's hard. You are listening to
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  Speaker 2: a person who has done them both been successful and
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  Speaker 2: really really been not successful. And I got news for you.
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  Speaker 2: Both of them hard. But I would rather deal with
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  Speaker 2: what it is to be something, to make something out
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  Speaker 2: of myself, to force myself to go to work when
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel like it. This morning was a rough
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  Speaker 2: get up for me, but I got up and I
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  Speaker 2: said thank you anyway. Never give up, and out of
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  Speaker 2: watch this dude to heed the mess around and got
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  Speaker 2: close to me because he just never gave up. Get
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  Speaker 2: You can never ever give up. Never, It's not an option.
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  Speaker 2: Giving up cannot be an option for you. You cannot
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  Speaker 2: do that. It's out of the question. It's inconceivable in
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  Speaker 2: your mind to quit, because to quit is to what
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  Speaker 2: what you get when you quit nothing? That is a
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  Speaker 2: reward for those who hang in there, who never give up,
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  Speaker 2: who forge through, who see it through, who get knocked
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  Speaker 2: down and get back up who gets trampled but somehow
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  Speaker 2: gathers themselves and get back to your knees. But stay
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  Speaker 2: in that place, man, don't ever give up. Don't let
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  Speaker 2: go be encouraged. Think of all you've been through, Think
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  Speaker 2: of all you come through. Think of all he's done
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  Speaker 2: for you. Think of all the times you thought you
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  Speaker 2: wasn't gonna make it, but somehow, without you ever even
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  Speaker 2: saying thank you, he got through. He got you through it. Anyway.
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  Speaker 2: That's that thing called grace. Now we kind of need
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  Speaker 2: that in our life. All will all I need is
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  Speaker 2: a little more grace. You can't give God no money
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  Speaker 2: for grace, man. Grace is absolutely free. It's available to everybody,
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  Speaker 2: but you can't get none if you quit. Don't give up.
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  Speaker 2: I'll just tell you that flat out. Don't ever give up.
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  Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: welcome to the ride Bay. Steve Harv, Martyshow, Sheldon Strawberry
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  Speaker 2: legend that is nephew Tommy Well Jr. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 2: can I say something before you ask something? It has
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  Speaker 2: been like I don't know if you've noticed, kind of
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  Speaker 2: been like behind the scenes commenting on your questions and
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  Speaker 2: just with saying, you know, question some of your questions.
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  Speaker 2: So I just wanted to bring that to your attention.
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  Speaker 2: Watch you see here go ahead.
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  Speaker 7: No, you know one thing about tom is you know
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  Speaker 7: this is for the people that's listening, so we can
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  Speaker 7: help them. You obviously don't want help. That's obviously with
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  Speaker 7: your problems.
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  Speaker 8: So here we go ahead.
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  Speaker 7: Let me here we go on, So Ley talk to
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  Speaker 7: you about mentoring. You know you got your boys camp
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  Speaker 7: coming up? How do you even become a mentor? Can
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  Speaker 7: everybody mentor? Because I know Tommy camp? Anybody do you
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  Speaker 7: want to go to the camp?
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  Speaker 2: Is? That's what this is.
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  Speaker 9: Go to the camp. Let's go to the cancer. You
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  Speaker 9: know they got they got, they got cots and everything.
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  Speaker 9: You're sleeping there doing, but you're gonna get you a
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  Speaker 9: little behind?
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  Speaker 2: What but going in there?
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  Speaker 8: What is it a question? I'm not listening to him.
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  Speaker 8: I am not listening to him.
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  Speaker 2: Well, every adult male can provide mentorship everyone. Okay, it's
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  Speaker 2: it's not about fame or money or position. It's about manhood. Man.
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  Speaker 2: We gotta teach as many of these young men in
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  Speaker 2: our society today the principles of true manhood, what it
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  Speaker 2: really means to be a man. To be a real man,
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  Speaker 2: you have to respect the law. You have to honor God.
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  Speaker 2: You have to go to work every day. You gotta
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  Speaker 2: take care of your family. You gotta. You gotta honor women,
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  Speaker 2: you got, you gotta, you gotta. If you have a child,
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  Speaker 2: you gotta take care of your child. Man responsibility. You don't,
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  Speaker 2: you don't. You don't get off from it. That's what
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  Speaker 2: manhood is. We have to stop thinking manhood is being
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  Speaker 2: a rap producer, a gold chain wharer. That ain't got
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  Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. Man, bro, you gotta get
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  Speaker 2: your manhood together. And we need only only can teach
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  Speaker 2: that are men. Only men can teach manhood. I'm sorry
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  Speaker 2: it be like me trying to teach womanhood to a
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  Speaker 2: young girl. What I know about that zip? And so
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  Speaker 2: it is with boys, it's important. We need as many
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  Speaker 2: men as we can come and just share. Share your failures.
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  Speaker 2: That's what they want to know. How do you fail
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  Speaker 2: and get up and win?
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  Speaker 9: Okay, that's what it is, all right, and take your
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  Speaker 9: baseball cap off.
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  Speaker 10: If you're going to be a man, be a man anyway.
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  Speaker 1: We're moving on.
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  Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty two minutes after we will hear
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  Speaker 6: from the nephew as he runs that prank back right
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  Speaker 6: get started. It is time now for the nephew to
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  Speaker 6: run that prank back what you got for his neph.
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  Speaker 9: This is on Orthodox methods, all right, on Authodox. That's
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  Speaker 9: me going in there and me spending a good weekend
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  Speaker 9: with you wife. I have a pregnant by Monday. What
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  Speaker 9: I have a pregnant by Monday. That's all I'm saying,
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  Speaker 9: run the prank cat.
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  Speaker 2: Let's go.
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  Speaker 11: Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach trying to reach brother
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  Speaker 11: Roberts and speaking Hey, how you doing. I'm calling you
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  Speaker 11: from the church. How you doing, brother man? I'm doing
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  Speaker 11: super fantastic. Ind we ground is a good day. That's good,
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  Speaker 11: that's good. Hey, hey, listen, man, we wanted to uh,
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  Speaker 11: being one of the brothers of the church, I wanted
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  Speaker 11: to give you a call. Man. You didn't make it
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  Speaker 11: to day, but you and well you know, your wife
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  Speaker 11: stood up to day and ask us to keep you
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  Speaker 11: all in our prayers because y'all definitely trying to bring
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  Speaker 11: a new child into the world. And she let us
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  Speaker 11: know that, you know, she's being a little older now
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  Speaker 11: forty one forty two, you know, she said it takes
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  Speaker 11: a little longer to try and conceive a child and
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  Speaker 11: you know in your earlier years. So we we definitely
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  Speaker 11: wanted to let you know man that we we got
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  Speaker 11: y'all in our prayers. Man. Man, you just don't know
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  Speaker 11: how much we appreciate that. Man. Yeah, we've been trying,
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  Speaker 11: but I know with prayers all things are possible. Yeah. Well,
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  Speaker 11: we definitely want to definitely want to keep you all
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  Speaker 11: in our prayers, man, and I hope that you all
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  Speaker 11: able to conceive this child and bring, you know, bring, bring, bring,
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  Speaker 11: bring a new new child into this world. You know
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  Speaker 11: that the book says be fruitful and multiply. Definitely definitely.
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  Speaker 11: Now who's this again? Brother, brother a brother also. I
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  Speaker 11: don't know if you know me directly, but I'm brother,
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  Speaker 11: one of the brothers of the church. Okay, okay, brother,
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  Speaker 11: thank you not not not not not not Robert. What
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  Speaker 11: I want to ask you, man, was have you considered
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  Speaker 11: any any alternatives methods as far as you know, maybe
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  Speaker 11: helping this situation? Uh, we've looked at a few what
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  Speaker 11: what what what are you referring to as an alternative? Well,
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  Speaker 11: I mean I think I have a good thing then
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  Speaker 11: that might be able to help this thing speed up
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  Speaker 11: the process, and and and and you guys will be
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  Speaker 11: expecting in no time. Man. Man, we are definite open
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  Speaker 11: for some things like that. What what what what you
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  Speaker 11: got to done? I mean, uh, well what I have
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  Speaker 11: is a little a little unorthodox, man, But I think
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  Speaker 11: if you allow me to help you on this, man,
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  Speaker 11: I think that you'll be definitely satisfied. And you know, man,
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  Speaker 11: if nine months or not, you got to be at
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  Speaker 11: the hospital wait looking for you your baby for all
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  Speaker 11: your paper girl, you know who are clarify an orthodox? Okay,
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  Speaker 11: see what I have in mind, man, is have you
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  Speaker 11: considered maybe like a surrogate father class classified? Say, I'm
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  Speaker 11: thinking the wrong thing. I don't want I want to
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  Speaker 11: make shit will on the same page. What do you
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  Speaker 11: mean by Sarah the fuck? Well? What it is man
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  Speaker 11: is you know you know, of course a mother is
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  Speaker 11: someone that will carry a child for those that cannot
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  Speaker 11: carry one. You know what I'm saying, right right? So
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  Speaker 11: what what?
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  Speaker 12: What?
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 11: I've gone to the doctor and got myself checked out, man,
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  Speaker 11: good physical and everything. I'm physically fitting everything. And you know,
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  Speaker 11: maybe I guess the complications are coming from uh you
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  Speaker 11: as far as the child not being you know, you're
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  Speaker 11: not being able to conceive right now now, now, ain't
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  Speaker 11: there ain't nothing wrong with me? Man? Okay, Now what
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  Speaker 11: you mean like you physically fit? I mean what yeah,
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  Speaker 11: they got to do with shared Well, see what I'm
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  Speaker 11: saying is if well you know, if you if you
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  Speaker 11: allow me to come over and and supply my services.
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  Speaker 11: I mean, let's say, if you left for a weekend, man,
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  Speaker 11: and I say it over there by the time you
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  Speaker 11: get back there, Man, what the time with you? Is this?
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  Speaker 12: What's going on at this church?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 11: Am I at the road church? They say you're telling
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  Speaker 11: me you tray? Help me understand you saying you want
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  Speaker 11: to come over and have sex with my wife? Well,
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  Speaker 11: I mean, I mean, don't don't look at it like that.
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  Speaker 11: Don't look at it like that. Look at it. I'm
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  Speaker 11: helping you. You're telling me is irectly you just ain't
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  Speaker 11: us though. What excuse me? Okay, you want to come
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  Speaker 11: out of sex with my wor no, no, no, I
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  Speaker 11: want to come over and just apply my services man
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  Speaker 11: and put you guys in a better position that you
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  Speaker 11: will be there your family life. You understand what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 11: You understand Where'm coming from.
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  Speaker 12: Now, I don't.
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  Speaker 11: Time like you tell me you want to have sex
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  Speaker 11: with my life.
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  Speaker 3: Man?
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  Speaker 11: What the is wrong with you?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 11: Hold on, hold on? No, this this this brother awesome man,
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  Speaker 11: listen see what I'm what I'm trying to do. Man,
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  Speaker 11: I don't give up you brother? Who is brother?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 11: I don't know you? And then you talking about the church.
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  Speaker 11: What kind of is this? This is thousand down at
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  Speaker 11: this unt. No, really, the church don't have nothing to
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  Speaker 11: do with this. It's me calling you to Lindy. Will
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  Speaker 11: you come with me? Say, I'm trying to be if
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  Speaker 11: you allow me to be the surrogand father, I don't
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  Speaker 11: have a pregnant bout the end of the week. Man,
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  Speaker 11: you got me. As soon as I say I'm coming
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  Speaker 11: to bother study Tuesday to see you, you show us
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  Speaker 11: the Bible study? So you ok? Okay? Garanteed you want
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  Speaker 11: to have brother? Brother White said, what amount of man?
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  Speaker 11: You keep looking at that like that? How we gonna
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  Speaker 11: get this? Are we gonna get past this? So we
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  Speaker 11: can get you to this child? Man, we are gonna
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  Speaker 11: get past here. You talked about having sex with my wife.
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  Speaker 11: Where are your wife? Said? Brother, you ain't got no
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  Speaker 11: way So I have a wife, Brother Robert, What I'm
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  Speaker 11: trying to do is help you along with yours and
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  Speaker 11: getting this child con See, that's what I'm trying to help.
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  Speaker 11: You can't help me talking about having sex with my wife,
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  Speaker 11: you said on unther doc, I adn't think you was
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  Speaker 11: going out far with it. You're getting my phone number? Well,
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  Speaker 11: you know we we have people listened at the church.
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  Speaker 11: We have all phone numbers listened.
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  Speaker 12: She's just mine.
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  Speaker 11: And when I get that to you that I hope
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  Speaker 11: to see you, cause I'm gonna punch you at hey. Look, man,
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  Speaker 11: why don't I Why don't I speak to your wife
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  Speaker 11: when she comes church this week and I see how
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  Speaker 11: I don't feel sing them my wife? Hold on, I'm
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• 20:19
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• 20:19
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• 20:22
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• 20:25
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• 20:36
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• 20:39
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• 20:42
  Speaker 11: just got prayed by your wife.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Man, what's you say?
• 20:51
  Speaker 11: Hey? Man? Tell me who can't be doing? Take that? Man,
• 20:55
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• 21:22
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• 21:29
  Speaker 6: Coming up next and is ask the clo with our
• 21:32
  Speaker 6: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
• 21:36
  Speaker 6: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Think about
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• 22:11
  Speaker 6: up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news, doom.
• 22:14
  Speaker 6: Scrolling on your phone for hours is bad for your health.
• 22:19
  Speaker 6: A lot of recent graduates are struggling to read just
• 22:22
  Speaker 6: basic sentences. Guys, and people take that take weight loss,
• 22:27
  Speaker 6: drugs or hiding it from their romantic partners.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: That is all coming up.
• 22:31
  Speaker 6: We're going to talk about all of this at the
• 22:32
  Speaker 6: top of the hour because right now it is time
• 22:35
  Speaker 6: to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: This is from Shannon and New Haven.
• 22:42
  Speaker 6: Shannon writes, I found out that my dad was married
• 22:44
  Speaker 6: to another woman when he got my mom pregnant. He
• 22:48
  Speaker 6: was there for most of my childhood and eventually married
• 22:51
  Speaker 6: my mom.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: So I never knew. Why would my parents keep this
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: family secret from me? Who can't tell you that? Yeah,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: to tail, no baby.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Would keep you because you wasn't born. You was not here, lady, lady,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: let that go. Why would they keep that from you?
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Was not born yet? Yeah? So why tell you some stuff?
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: And you know a much stuff happened before I got here.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I ain't never mentioned to me, right, and you're okay?
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: I'm fine?
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right.
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: Moving on to Lawrence and Decatur, Lawrence writes, my girlfriend
• 23:40
  Speaker 6: has become a dark cloud, and I tried helping her
• 23:43
  Speaker 6: with her money issues and family drama, but it's starting
• 23:46
  Speaker 6: to weigh me down. I want to separate myself from her,
• 23:51
  Speaker 6: but I don't want to add to her grief. How
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: do I break up with her nicely?
• 23:57
  Speaker 12: Now?
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: You got to add to a dog? Get out, run
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: ye do it all it wants dog, Just drop the
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: helmet down. Ain't no easing out.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: What should he say though?
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: What just leave?
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Say nothing and leave?
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: Or what?
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Hey? Listen?
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Normally baby, listen, you know, normally people say it's not you,
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: it's me. In this case, is you.
• 24:24
  Speaker 11: Not me?
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I'm out.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: It ain't got nothing to do with me. I'm absolutely fine.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: What fear of me becoming you is what's driving me crazy?
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: I got to go for peace of mind.
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he said, it's dry. It's starting to weigh
• 24:40
  Speaker 6: him down, you know, stressing him out? Mm hm okay, all.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Right, moving on that.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: If if she's stressing you out, now, yeah, getting married
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: and watch what happened? Man? Run?
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: Run?
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 24:57
  Speaker 9: All right?
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 24:59
  Speaker 6: Moving on to CHERI in South Bend, Terese writes, I
• 25:01
  Speaker 6: had sex with a coworker and thought we were headed
• 25:04
  Speaker 6: toward a relationship.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: But he's acting funny at work now.
• 25:09
  Speaker 6: He said he wants to keep things professional, but I
• 25:11
  Speaker 6: think it was just to hit it and quit it
• 25:13
  Speaker 6: for him.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Did the sex complicate things?
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: No, it's not. The sex ended things.
• 25:21
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he did exactly what he wanted to do.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he got it, And now let's keep it professional.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: You all over there at your desk with both your
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: both your hands on your face, looking at him, throwing
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: up little hard signs with your hands, hat, slipping notes
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: and stuff. Professional. No, we'll eat together. People will see us. Wow.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: And you're not supposed to fragnize at work anyway, And
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: so I think keeping a professional is the best way
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: to do it, because you're not supposed to fragnize at work.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Can't make an eye contact him? Why she keep doing that?
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: Why looking over here?
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: What should she?
• 26:04
  Speaker 6: I mean though, I mean this is a lesson learned
• 26:07
  Speaker 6: for her. I mean, let's let's at least try don't
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: do that at work, like you said.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Well, here's the deal. You slept with a coworker with
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: no no, with no end, with no means to an end.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: You know you didn't. You didn't have a plan. You
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: just did it.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: She aship.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, once again she thought she thought you did something
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: without a plan. Okay, what did he tell you? This
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: was going? Man, I've just I've been looking for somebody
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: like you. You're the person I've been wanting you. You
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: got no confirmation of anything, and so you slept with
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: this guy. And now you want to create a plan
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: as you go, and you not in his plans.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: So it's best for her to just let that go.
• 26:57
  Speaker 12: Move on.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a homework?
• 27:01
  Speaker 8: What what time?
• 27:05
  Speaker 11: Yeah?
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I don't think he.
• 27:06
  Speaker 13: Said another worker And yes he meant it. He didn't
• 27:11
  Speaker 13: mean for you to hear it, right, better understanding? Yeah, yeah,
• 27:21
  Speaker 13: all right, yeah another coworker. He just said it like, yeah, no,
• 27:29
  Speaker 13: didn't you he was looking down writ and saw me.
• 27:32
  Speaker 13: You didn't find another, right?
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Didn't you just hear the celo say keep a professional?
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: It is nothing wrong with getting with a coworker work.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Oh oh, that's right.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: We forgot.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Someone married her co worker?
• 27:56
  Speaker 11: All right?
• 27:56
  Speaker 6: Last one, Steve, last one, Caleb and right I took
• 28:01
  Speaker 6: our kids to a seven year old's birthday party and
• 28:04
  Speaker 6: it was a pool party. My my wife showed up
• 28:09
  Speaker 6: later in a red two piece swimsuit.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not red though.
• 28:17
  Speaker 6: I told her it was inappropriate, and she said she
• 28:21
  Speaker 6: believes in body positivity.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: How do I encourage her to dress appropriately?
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: She's at the pool party, y'all.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Nothing in appropriate about that, right, It wasn't a thong though.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: She was at that the kids not two things could
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: have happened.
• 28:45
  Speaker 11: Let's go.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: I gotta let you know. Two things could have happened
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: at this pool part.
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: Uh huh.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: She believes in body positivity, that's what she said. Here's
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: a part she could be banging. Boy.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm telling.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: Where all the kids are going.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I want her to be my mama because why else
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: would he be mad?
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: And the other parents is out there because the other
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: mothers is going. What would she wearing?
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: How did she come here?
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: In front of the water? She and the water helping
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: with the baby, come on splashing, you know, and you
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: know once you get wet, Once wet, I don't care,
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: I don't care who you are. You immediately look seventy
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: five percent better.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: You look.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she got to come about the water.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Uh huh. Now that could be one scenario. Here's the
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: other scenario. She a big girl and decided today was
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: today she was going to do body positives, and her
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: husband was going, hey, there's nothing in your suit where
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: it's supposed to.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Be, but don't body shamer though, that's what she's saying.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying she came out here and said
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: the body positivity she got, she got stuff coming out
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: her swim suit where it ain't supposed to come out,
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: you know when you buy the When the lady were
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: the uh that where the bra is connected to the
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: panties the bikini. But they had that little metal hooping
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: when your meat is coming out them hoop holes. All right,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: thank you, Celo. Coming up next, we'll have some entertainment
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: for you right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Well,
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: you guys have heard of doom scrolling, right it is.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: It is when you just lie around scrolling on your phone,
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: just for hours at a time. Well, now, studies show
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: that doom scrolling directly causes severe mental and physical stress
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: by keeping your body's nervous system trapped in a continuous
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: active threat response loop. Binging on distressing online information disrupts
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: your rest cycle. It can elevate your blood pressure, and
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: it can cause headaches and muscle tension as well as
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: mental exhaustion.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: So here's a question for you, guys.
• 31:15
  Speaker 6: Do you have any symptoms when you're when you're constantly scrolling?
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Do you still huh your eyes?
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 31:22
  Speaker 8: I can't see knowing?
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Uh huh?
• 31:26
  Speaker 11: You bother?
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Your eyes?
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: Scroll like I scroll all night two three, and then
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: we have to be at work so early.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Now I'm exhausted. Right now, it's time to go to bed.
• 31:37
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: You have to be scrolling and then look up and
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: can't see nothing.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: It's blurry.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Wow, put this phone down.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you gotta put it down. Yeah, that's true.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: That story true facts.
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: Doom scrolling, All right, that's what it's called. Okay, moving on,
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: College students are struggling to read.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: I didn't know this.
• 32:05
  Speaker 6: There are videos and social media to prove it. A
• 32:08
  Speaker 6: Pepperdine University professor studied this phenomenon, and research shows that
• 32:12
  Speaker 6: gen Z grads are showing up to college without reading
• 32:16
  Speaker 6: skills that that used to be expected. Okay, it's worse
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: than struggling with big novels. Some students are having trouble
• 32:25
  Speaker 6: reading simple sentences. This reflects a broader trend, and studies
• 32:30
  Speaker 6: revealed that almost half of Americans didn't read a single
• 32:33
  Speaker 6: book last year, and overall reading has dropped forty percent
• 32:38
  Speaker 6: in the past decade.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Why because we're there and.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: In grade school we absolutely did. Yeah, oh yeah, no, no,
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: see they're tiktoking now.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're on their red Yeah nope, they.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: Got verbal reading and all like that. They don't they
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: don't do that. Man, Yeah, they can't write. This is
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: a generation of content creator. Yeah, I know.
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: They have to.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: We had to teach them how to write persons. Yeah,
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: they don't know how to write person Yeah.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: No, they don't do that. They type, They text and
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: type everything. Yes, yes, correct, everything, All their papers is
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: turned in on a computer. They don't know how to
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: write everything. My kids when they write, man, they look
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: like they looked like a four year old wrote what's
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: going on with your My daughter actually said to me, Dad,
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: your handwriting is beautiful. That's all we did. You want
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: to see so ugly? Let me text you so what
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: I've fully gotten?
• 33:53
  Speaker 11: What?
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Go ahead? Go ahead?
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: In trouble And he had to write a hundred times
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: on the truck board.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I will not talk.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I used to have to write I.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: Will not talk.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I will not talk. I will not talk.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: You know talk. Texting has saved me because I could
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: just press the little microphone and talk into whom.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: But oh yeah, you go.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: The problem with that, I can't talk good.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Right there?
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: You just square I can't talk whoever? That whoever that
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: white lady is that tech that's typing. I know she'd be.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Goings struggling one word. She gives up, like I give up.
• 34:38
  Speaker 6: Yeah, So, I mean we each generation has their struggles.
• 34:41
  Speaker 6: But I mean you got to know how to read, though.
• 34:45
  Speaker 6: I don't want you struggling to read that. That's kind
• 34:48
  Speaker 6: of a big one right there. Yeah, that's a big.
• 34:50
  Speaker 9: We read Tom saw you white dude running around with
• 34:54
  Speaker 9: the black dude, remember that?
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 34:58
  Speaker 6: So when's the last time you guys have actually picked
• 35:00
  Speaker 6: up a book and read a book from cover to cover.
• 35:03
  Speaker 6: That's been a long time too, you know, that's been
• 35:07
  Speaker 6: a long time.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: On vacation, I like to read, yeah, the summer novels
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, vacation. You know you said not by
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: the pool when you get your book or whatever. Why
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: are you making that face? What's wrong? I'm just saying
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: if you are chilling.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: Smoke all right.
• 35:40
  Speaker 6: Finally, guys, people are taking g l P one weight
• 35:44
  Speaker 6: loss drugs like Ozimbic and wagobi. Uh, they're actually hiding
• 35:48
  Speaker 6: it from their partners and secretly losing unwanted weight. It's
• 35:52
  Speaker 6: mostly women hiding it from their partners for fear of judgment.
• 35:55
  Speaker 6: They don't want to be judged, they don't want to
• 35:58
  Speaker 6: be lectured about it, okay, or their their partner just
• 36:02
  Speaker 6: not understanding why they're using medication in the first place.
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: For some their partners have already expressed concerns about side
• 36:10
  Speaker 6: effects or didn't support the idea, so it just feels
• 36:12
  Speaker 6: easier just to keep it quiet. You know, you don't
• 36:15
  Speaker 6: want to tell anybody.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: So they're waking up.
• 36:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you're going to notice it along the way,
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: of course, but they're not going to tell you because
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: they don't want to hear it.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Period.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: Well, if you get fined, I don't care how you
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 36:30
  Speaker 8: That's all waiting on.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Thank you waiting on that.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: That's your response, thank you?
• 36:39
  Speaker 11: Yeah?
• 36:40
  Speaker 6: So can you can your partners hide that from you
• 36:43
  Speaker 6: and you not notice it or question no, No, we
• 36:46
  Speaker 6: are going to be a one side. I wake up
• 36:48
  Speaker 6: and something look like something happened to you.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: You go to bed overweight and you wake up your thing?
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Now you will sign eight when we went to be
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: and how has you a phone?
• 36:58
  Speaker 11: Now?
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Pretty?
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be wonderful though?
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Thank you lord. All right, guys, thank you.
• 37:10
  Speaker 6: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, Pastor Jamal
• 37:13
  Speaker 6: Bryant has hinted about a new potential boycott, this time
• 37:18
  Speaker 6: of Asian owned businesses. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 37:22
  Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Think about
• 37:29
  Speaker 6: the people who mean the most to you. Giving them
• 37:32
  Speaker 6: valuable protection is a great gift you can offer, and
• 37:35
  Speaker 6: Globe Life Insurance can make it easy. With Globe Life coverage,
• 37:39
  Speaker 6: there's no medical exam, just a simple application. Take this
• 37:43
  Speaker 6: step for the people you love. Call Globe Life at
• 37:46
  Speaker 6: one eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred, or
• 37:49
  Speaker 6: visit globelifradio dot com. That's one eight hundred two five
• 37:53
  Speaker 6: one fifty four hundred or Globelife radio dot com. Well, guys,
• 37:57
  Speaker 6: Pastor Jamal Bryant is at it again. He hasted at
• 38:00
  Speaker 6: a potential boycott of Asian owned businesses, including Chinese takeout restaurants,
• 38:05
  Speaker 6: beauty supply stores, and nail salons. This is all following
• 38:10
  Speaker 6: a viral controversial video of an Asian man daring black
• 38:14
  Speaker 6: Americans to boycott Asian businesses now. In the video, he
• 38:19
  Speaker 6: mocked the black community and said they Asian businesses do
• 38:23
  Speaker 6: not need black money to survive. He noted that most
• 38:27
  Speaker 6: of the clothes we wear and products we use are
• 38:29
  Speaker 6: made by Asians and come from Asia. In response, Doctor
• 38:34
  Speaker 6: Bryant shared the clip on his social media platforms with
• 38:38
  Speaker 6: the caption quote, well you heard it from them. They
• 38:41
  Speaker 6: said they don't need our money and that we can't
• 38:43
  Speaker 6: survive without them. You want to test his theory?
• 38:47
  Speaker 11: Yeah?
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Quote yeah.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Let me say this. I don't see. First of all,
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: Asians are not black people's problem, and black people are
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: not the Asians problem, like Carla was talking about off air. See,
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: all of these minority groups get to come here and
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: benefit off the blacks, off the backs of what blacks
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: have done. We built this country. We built this country.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: We sat in the front of the bus when we
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: wasn't supposed to. We set at the lunch counters. When
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: they told us not to, we marched on Washington. We
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: went across the bridge and Selm. We circle the DOJ Center.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: We fought and bled for voting rights acts for people
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: like that. Then you come here and you get to
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: benefit from all the labor that black people put in.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: You get to benefit from that. But if we're not careful,
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: if we're not careful, we will allow the divide and
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: conquer to win. Because I'm telling you right now, in
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: this country, Asians are not the black people's problem. Our
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: problem starts up at the top of that administration. Don't
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: get this thing twisted. I don't give it what you
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: buy at what store. We got a bigger problem with
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: an administration that's taking dee I, with the administration that's
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: trying to strip and and and and read this country
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: of a medicaid, of of of of all these other
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: benefits the destroyed d and I. They're taking black history
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: out of schools. We got a bigger problem. I don't
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: give it where you buy your hair, your sneakers, your shoes.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: I don't care. We are not and should not be
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: award with the Asian community and the Asian community should
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: not be award with the black people. But if everybody
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: understood how they all benefit from the labor, the protests
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: and the hardships of black people who were in this
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: country before any of y'all got over here, then you
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: would understand. And if we stay together, we can win.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: The real enemy is in the system. That's all.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, well yeah say, and we're
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: gonna switch gears.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show with Roscoe
• 41:18
  Speaker 6: Wallace right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:28
  Speaker 6: All right, Carla, he is here, your boy Roscoe into
• 41:31
  Speaker 6: the building.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: Oh baby, all baby, all good in the neighborhood.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: He ain't gotta get ready to day may We're going over.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Everybody'll hey, Roscoe's up?
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: What's up with old baby girl?
• 41:51
  Speaker 14: Hey?
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: Roscoe?
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: Hey? Hey, shall we're going on? I heard you buy
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: Sam now you day right? What I heard?
• 42:02
  Speaker 11: You?
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: Stick to the script, Roscoe? You here is the script.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: I'm a writer. Whn script?
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: He wrote? Boy?
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: I believe he where you got going on? They would
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: what happened?
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Well, I got a little bit of everything.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna sprinkle it around all right, tomorrow Nicks versus
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: the Spurs. It's a Saturday game in San Antonio. Would
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: you go and sing the national anthem? Have you ever
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: been invited to do that in the NBA game or
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: at the finals or anything.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: No, I don't really food that national anthem? Oh you
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: don't go that ain't No, No, that ain't that's so
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't know white people saying everything.
• 42:51
  Speaker 4: That ain't your jam.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: That's not what you know. They ain't want any of
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: the jam I wrote. I would have never wrote that.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we can ut.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Ain't that right there? I ain't know when you asked me,
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: I ain't coming down there. I ain't singing San Antonio
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: old saying New York. I ain't gonna sing no, well,
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: not no national anthem, not the anthorm. I don't care about.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, would you perform halftime? Cardi B did the other
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: day in New York? Don't I don't food with Uh?
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: You know rap. I don't do too much rap. You know,
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: they just stole all the stuff. Uh, you know I
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: would know only song I would do it. Uh, halftime
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: is if this world was mine, you know, if this
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: world was mine at the game, at the the place,
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: your fee ye everything that I Oh, You've been so
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: good to me. That's what I do. Halftime, you know whatever.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Not the anthem though, Okay, wait, excuse me one second, Carl,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Can you say anthem for me? Roscoe?
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Please? Anthem National anthem?
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: God an all right, okay, Shirley. So he's always teasing,
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: kind of blurting with you a little bit. If you
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: were trying to take Shirley out. If you want to
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: take Shirley out on a date, what song?
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: Can I take you out to nine to have your
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: home before it's dark? Possibly? Can I take you out
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: to night? That's that's all I mean trying to do.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: If you're trying to get a holler at him, you know,
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I mean, I mean, I
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: mean look at me, you know, everything on me, everywhere.
• 44:51
  Speaker 6: Everywhere.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: If you just got the Cadillact out the shop.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: That was very cute. All right. So June, Roscoe is black.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Music month, black music all all all rock O Wallace
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: move either one?
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, then let it be your month then music. Yes,
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: So since it's your month, what song would you like
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: to sing for us right now to celebrate your month.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Everything you wrote, everything that's over anything, or you just
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: give me a song you want to know the history
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: of that's what we do. Let's do black history mode.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: So you name the songs. I'll tell you how it
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: comes back.
• 45:31
  Speaker 8: Black Music Month.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: All right, give me a little Stevie Wonder, Stevie Wonder,
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: Ribbon in the sky.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Or the sky for yeah, Ribbon in the sky? I
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: wrote that for Steve. You want a granddaddy?
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: Oh what was this?
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: Really?
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: Wonder? Breathe?
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go.
• 46:09
  Speaker 6: Thank you, Roscoe. Coming up next, pe call right after this.
• 46:19
  Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up
• 46:27
  Speaker 6: at the top of the hour. It is my Strawberry
• 46:29
  Speaker 6: letter for today and the subject is I love him.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: But dot dot dot. We'll get into that find out
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: what that's all about in just a few because right
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: now you hear him.
• 46:41
  Speaker 6: The nephew is here with today's prank phone call Nephew,
• 46:45
  Speaker 6: what we're singing about?
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: What is show? Guess you're so spiritual? Period?
• 47:02
  Speaker 11: I just.
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: Going down to had the bird that hurts you gotta go,
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: You gotta go deep. When you're going to have y'all
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: ever send your clothes out to a washing fold. You've
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: never done that.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, when we're on the road, you.
• 47:30
  Speaker 9: Do stuff like that if you want to. Y'all on
• 47:31
  Speaker 9: the road for a long period of times. You back
• 47:34
  Speaker 9: when plays, Yeah, you'll send your clothes out to a
• 47:37
  Speaker 9: washing foe. Well, I work at the washing foe.
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
• 47:43
  Speaker 9: And as a gentleman that's been bringing his clothes, it's
• 47:46
  Speaker 9: about time we get him a.
• 47:47
  Speaker 6: Call yet to right, what's so strange about that?
• 47:53
  Speaker 9: That's what that exactly exactly? So heay, attention, here we
• 47:57
  Speaker 9: go washing foe. Hello, I'm trying to reach sam or Sammy.
• 48:03
  Speaker 12: I'm not ye Sammy, This Sammy?
• 48:06
  Speaker 11: What's up?
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: Hey Sammy? How are you?
• 48:08
  Speaker 9: This is uh, this is Kevin. I'm the uh the
• 48:10
  Speaker 9: manager over here at Fresh and Clean Washing Fold.
• 48:13
  Speaker 12: Yeah, well, what's going on?
• 48:14
  Speaker 15: OAV?
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: You bring your clothes here pretty much on a on
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: a weekly basis? Is that correct? Yeah?
• 48:20
  Speaker 12: I stopped probably once a week.
• 48:22
  Speaker 9: Okay, And you're bringing you I mean you're pretty much
• 48:24
  Speaker 9: bringing a full load of clothes pretty much once a week.
• 48:26
  Speaker 12: Right, Yeah, I just bring whatever I got.
• 48:29
  Speaker 9: Okay, Well, we got a bit of a problem talking
• 48:31
  Speaker 9: to my my employees here that have been you know.
• 48:35
  Speaker 12: What's going on? I mean you not get your money
• 48:38
  Speaker 12: or something.
• 48:38
  Speaker 9: Oh no, no, no, you you're we have you on file.
• 48:40
  Speaker 9: I mean your your your card goes through every week
• 48:42
  Speaker 9: when you when you bring your things. So no, that's
• 48:45
  Speaker 9: that's not the issue at all.
• 48:47
  Speaker 12: I'll write them, what kind of problem could we have?
• 48:50
  Speaker 9: Well, the ladies that are washing the clothes are complaining
• 48:52
  Speaker 9: that when you bring your load in. I mean, I
• 48:55
  Speaker 9: don't know how to really tell you this, but you're
• 48:57
  Speaker 9: they're saying that your underwear is too.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: Dirty they don't want to wash it.
• 49:00
  Speaker 12: You know you playing right?
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: No, I'm dead serious.
• 49:04
  Speaker 12: What are you talking about? My underwear is dirty? I'm
• 49:08
  Speaker 12: not any more dirty than anybody else, sir.
• 49:10
  Speaker 9: All I can tell you is we watch quite a
• 49:12
  Speaker 9: few people's clothes on daily.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: Basis, weekly basis.
• 49:16
  Speaker 9: For my employees to complain about your load, then I
• 49:20
  Speaker 9: have to give you a call.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: And talk to you about it.
• 49:22
  Speaker 12: My man, I feel like you're on my phone.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: No, that's not what this is, bro. This is actually
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: a call. And you know we have we have two options.
• 49:31
  Speaker 12: Are you out there calling everybody else?
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: No, I don't have it. I haven't had a complaint.
• 49:36
  Speaker 12: I know there's more dirty people than me going in
• 49:38
  Speaker 12: your spot because I see them there.
• 49:40
  Speaker 9: Okay, here's a deal. We have two options here. You
• 49:44
  Speaker 9: can scrub your underwear before you bring it in.
• 49:47
  Speaker 12: First off, you over here raising your voice, Now, what
• 49:51
  Speaker 12: are you talking about? Scrub my underwear?
• 49:52
  Speaker 11: We clean?
• 49:53
  Speaker 12: Man, I'm clean. I bring my sin, I drop it off,
• 49:56
  Speaker 12: I pick it up.
• 49:57
  Speaker 9: Okay, so here's the problem once again, I'll start this off.
• 50:00
  Speaker 9: You have two options, sir. You can bring in your
• 50:03
  Speaker 9: stuff scrubbed. Okay, when and when my ladies take a
• 50:07
  Speaker 9: look at it, if they're comfortable with cleaning it, so
• 50:09
  Speaker 9: be it. Or you know, we might not be able
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: to accept your your clothes anymore.
• 50:13
  Speaker 12: Man, I don't even got to go up there anymore. Then,
• 50:15
  Speaker 12: if you if you really playing around on my phone
• 50:17
  Speaker 12: like this, I even got to go up in anymore.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: Let me talk to your manager, man, I am the manager, Sir,
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: I'm Kevin.
• 50:25
  Speaker 12: You don't sound like the manager.
• 50:27
  Speaker 11: How are you?
• 50:28
  Speaker 12: What?
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: What does a manager sound like? Then, Sammy, you know.
• 50:32
  Speaker 12: Who owned the building. Let me talk to him.
• 50:34
  Speaker 9: Okay, here's out here right now. I'm the manager and
• 50:37
  Speaker 9: I'm the one taking care of this problem. My ladies
• 50:39
  Speaker 9: have a problem with washing your underwear, and I'm calling
• 50:41
  Speaker 9: you to let you know there's a problem.
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: I'm letting you know.
• 50:43
  Speaker 9: The way to rectify the problem is you can scrub
• 50:46
  Speaker 9: them before you bring them in and then we.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: Will wash them. If you do not want to do that,
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: we will not be allowed.
• 50:51
  Speaker 12: To take You ain't got to rectify. You just need
• 50:54
  Speaker 12: to quit calling my phone on this boot. I ain't
• 50:56
  Speaker 12: gonna go up there no more. Then, that's fine. I
• 50:57
  Speaker 12: ain't got to come through your spot, that's fine.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Do you know how dirty how funky your clothes got
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: to be?
• 51:03
  Speaker 9: Man?
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: For my for my people to be telling me they
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: don't want to wash them the morning, you're not how funky?
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: That's got the beat?
• 51:08
  Speaker 11: Sammy man?
• 51:09
  Speaker 12: Who your people? Who are your ladies? Man? I go
• 51:12
  Speaker 12: up in there. I ain't never had a problem with they.
• 51:14
  Speaker 12: You know what, I ain't never even seen yourself? And
• 51:16
  Speaker 12: this mother? What if you being at there now? It
• 51:19
  Speaker 12: looks like I got a problem with Kevin. Who the
• 51:22
  Speaker 12: is Kevin?
• 51:22
  Speaker 11: Man?
• 51:22
  Speaker 12: You say you the manager? You ain't never been there.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm just not here when you're here?
• 51:27
  Speaker 12: Are you in the back washing those draws? What the
• 51:30
  Speaker 12: going on with you? Man?
• 51:31
  Speaker 9: I'm not in I'm not in the back washing, but
• 51:33
  Speaker 9: I am. I am here periodically when i need to be.
• 51:36
  Speaker 9: Don't worry about when I'm at man.
• 51:38
  Speaker 12: I ain't never seen your I ain't never had a
• 51:39
  Speaker 12: problem with your lady.
• 51:40
  Speaker 9: Hey, well, don't worry about when I'm at work. Worry
• 51:43
  Speaker 9: about how to scrub your underwear. That's what you worry about.
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 51:48
  Speaker 12: I'm done with you, bro. What's the strew on my phone?
• 51:50
  Speaker 12: Doing this for everybody at them washing Poe?
• 51:54
  Speaker 11: Bro?
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: You know what? You know what.
• 51:55
  Speaker 9: I'm trying to be as professional as I can. But
• 51:57
  Speaker 9: the way that you're talking to me, you can wash
• 51:59
  Speaker 9: your close your own self, then.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: That's what you can do.
• 52:03
  Speaker 12: That's fun, man, And you could keep on managing the
• 52:05
  Speaker 12: god sqaundering. Man, what are you doing with your life?
• 52:08
  Speaker 9: Okay, well, do whatever you're doing with your life, But
• 52:11
  Speaker 9: what do the world of favor and clean your draws?
• 52:14
  Speaker 11: Bro?
• 52:15
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna come through and wash your You keep talking
• 52:17
  Speaker 12: around on my phone.
• 52:18
  Speaker 9: Hey man, how you want to do this? Here's what
• 52:20
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna do. I'm just letting you know I'm gonna
• 52:23
  Speaker 9: double charge your credit card for the amount of work
• 52:26
  Speaker 9: that my people had to do.
• 52:27
  Speaker 12: My clot I'm putting stop payment on my so if
• 52:31
  Speaker 12: that goes through and you're in, we're gonna have mo problem.
• 52:34
  Speaker 9: Well, I don't know how you're gonna put a stop
• 52:36
  Speaker 9: to it When I'm running your card right now, there's
• 52:38
  Speaker 9: nothing you can freaking do.
• 52:40
  Speaker 12: Okay, Okay, that's that's fine. I'm gonna I'm gonna show
• 52:42
  Speaker 12: up with the fresh and clean there. You're a manager,
• 52:44
  Speaker 12: you should be there fifty hours a week. Then I'm
• 52:46
  Speaker 12: gonna come meet your Kevin.
• 52:48
  Speaker 9: Okay, well, that's that's fine with me. You know what,
• 52:50
  Speaker 9: I don't understand. Why can't you just say, you know what,
• 52:52
  Speaker 9: let me do a better job at cleaning my underwear?
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: How about that?
• 52:56
  Speaker 12: I know, I know your life ain't that good. I
• 52:58
  Speaker 12: know you over there managing and now he's getting bored
• 53:02
  Speaker 12: of working. But don't be calling my phone playing around
• 53:04
  Speaker 12: and this because I know you ain't doing this nobody else.
• 53:07
  Speaker 9: I'm exactly doing this or something. I'm not doing this
• 53:09
  Speaker 9: to anybody else. I don't have to do it anybody
• 53:11
  Speaker 9: else because nobody's bringing their clothes in like this.
• 53:13
  Speaker 12: Bro, I've been up there. Your employees are more dirty
• 53:16
  Speaker 12: than my.
• 53:16
  Speaker 9: Well, Sammy, evidently not. Evidently not your clothes. Why are
• 53:20
  Speaker 9: my employees complaining about you?
• 53:23
  Speaker 12: I don't know. I want your employees complaining about your too.
• 53:25
  Speaker 9: They're not complaining about my underwear, Sammy, you're the dirty guy.
• 53:30
  Speaker 11: Man.
• 53:30
  Speaker 12: You know what I'm done with your You got any
• 53:33
  Speaker 12: other you want to talk about?
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: We can talk about Carlton.
• 53:36
  Speaker 12: What do you just Carlton? How do you know Carlton?
• 53:39
  Speaker 12: I know he doesn't bring it stuff there.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: Oh, you want to talk about your brother Carlton? You
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: want to talk about him?
• 53:44
  Speaker 12: My brother Carlton. You know if he bringing it something?
• 53:48
  Speaker 12: He just started. So, yeah, what we're gonna talk about Carlton?
• 53:50
  Speaker 12: What Carlton doing?
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna tell you what Carlton doing.
• 53:54
  Speaker 9: Carlton has been calling me, nephew Tommy from the Steve
• 53:57
  Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show to prank phone call you, Sammy d
• 54:01
  Speaker 9: You just got brank, baby, You just got branked by
• 54:03
  Speaker 9: your brother Carlton and the nephew.
• 54:05
  Speaker 14: Hey, man, you you ain't baby told me about the
• 54:10
  Speaker 14: underwear broed.
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: We need a little washing scrub, baby, little washing scrub man.
• 54:22
  Speaker 12: You you you're good?
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: You all right, man.
• 54:27
  Speaker 9: Nobody's nobody. Your underwear is clean, Sammy, your underwear is clean.
• 54:30
  Speaker 9: Keep dropping them off at the washing pold. Don't quit,
• 54:33
  Speaker 9: don't quit, take your clothes up there.
• 54:35
  Speaker 12: I'm good man. I don't know about Carlton as it is,
• 54:37
  Speaker 12: but I'm good.
• 54:38
  Speaker 9: I ain't Sammy d You gotta tell me twenty twenty. Baby,
• 54:41
  Speaker 9: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio.
• 54:43
  Speaker 12: Show in the land, The Steve Harvey Show, My nephew, Tommy,
• 54:50
  Speaker 12: you clean baby.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Little washing scrub, washing scrub.
• 54:56
  Speaker 4: See.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: You know what some people got You don't wash your
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: under clothes at home. You know what I'm saying.
• 55:00
  Speaker 9: Everything I ain't meant to be dropped off at the
• 55:03
  Speaker 9: Washington's na.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pretty gross uh prink Aul.
• 55:11
  Speaker 9: Hey, we don't no, no, no, no, no, we don't
• 55:13
  Speaker 9: prank it up in here, Frank, we just did this.
• 55:17
  Speaker 9: This is a spranking is a safe space.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: You don't. We don't do anything save space.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, stupid space. We know that, all right. Strawberry letter
• 55:35
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• 55:38
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  Speaker 6: Subject I love him but dot dot dot Dear Stephen Shirley,
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  Speaker 6: I'm a thirty year old professional woman dating a man
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  Speaker 6: that just got a divorce. I met him while he
• 57:02
  Speaker 6: was still married, but we didn't go out until he
• 57:05
  Speaker 6: moved out of his home. He was still married but
• 57:08
  Speaker 6: legally separated. On our first date, his wife followed him
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  Speaker 6: and she made a big scene in public, calling me
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  Speaker 6: all kinds of names. He cursed her out so badly
• 57:20
  Speaker 6: that I was ashamed for her and scared of him.
• 57:23
  Speaker 6: I knew in the back of my mind that she
• 57:25
  Speaker 6: would be a problem and he might one day curse
• 57:27
  Speaker 6: me out like that if he got mad enough at me,
• 57:31
  Speaker 6: but I kept on dating him.
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  Speaker 1: When he got a divorce, he opened up.
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  Speaker 6: About how he cheated on his wife twice and she
• 57:38
  Speaker 6: caught him both times. He told me that he'd gotten
• 57:42
  Speaker 6: that out of his system, and since he has a
• 57:45
  Speaker 6: good woman in parentheses me, he didn't have a reason
• 57:49
  Speaker 6: to cheat. He's a great lover and provider, and he's cultured.
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  Speaker 6: He asked me to marry him on a Sunday in
• 57:57
  Speaker 6: front of my mother, and I said yes. By that Wednesday,
• 58:02
  Speaker 6: I found out he might have another woman that he
• 58:05
  Speaker 6: was sleeping with, and she said he told her he
• 58:08
  Speaker 6: wants a future with her. I told her that I'm
• 58:10
  Speaker 6: engaged to him, and she was surprised. I called him
• 58:14
  Speaker 6: at work and he said he wanted to talk face
• 58:16
  Speaker 6: to face. So he picked me up from work and
• 58:20
  Speaker 6: we drove an hour to the lake and he had
• 58:22
  Speaker 6: snacks and.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: Wine in the car. He told me that the lady
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: was lying and he thought I was smarter than that.
• 58:29
  Speaker 6: We made love on a blanket by the lake, and
• 58:32
  Speaker 6: my heart said that this was my husband. It was
• 58:36
  Speaker 6: the most romantic day ever. My heart flutters around him.
• 58:41
  Speaker 6: But I don't think I know him well enough to
• 58:43
  Speaker 6: marry him. Our wedding is in June, and I love him,
• 58:46
  Speaker 6: but dot dot dot, I need more time. Are most
• 58:51
  Speaker 6: people uncertain before the wedding?
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: Well, a lot are.
• 58:54
  Speaker 6: I won't say most, but a lot of people are. Yeah,
• 58:57
  Speaker 6: uncertain before the wedding. But you should be pretty certain though.
• 59:02
  Speaker 6: Haven't you heard the saying.
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  Speaker 1: When people show you who they are, believe them. I mean,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: this man has shown you what he's capable of.
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  Speaker 6: You even said you were afraid of him after he
• 59:12
  Speaker 6: cursed his wife out like that, but you still didn't
• 59:15
  Speaker 6: break it off with him. You said he's a good lover. No,
• 59:18
  Speaker 6: you said he was a great lover and provider. You
• 59:22
  Speaker 6: know those are wonderful qualities in a man, to be
• 59:25
  Speaker 6: a great lover, great provider, all of that. But did
• 59:27
  Speaker 6: you forget did you forget that he cheated on his
• 59:31
  Speaker 6: wife twice and then that's why they're getting a divorce. Okay,
• 59:35
  Speaker 6: So whatever you do, you got to get to know
• 59:39
  Speaker 6: this man. You got to continue that. You may find
• 59:42
  Speaker 6: out other things that he does. The real hymn is
• 59:45
  Speaker 6: going to eventually show up. I mean, you know, I
• 59:48
  Speaker 6: get them the lake and sex by the lake, and
• 59:51
  Speaker 6: the fruit and the wine and the snacks and all
• 59:54
  Speaker 6: of that, but you got to listen to your gut.
• 59:57
  Speaker 6: You obviously can't forget how he acted when he was
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 6: angry at his first wife, and you're wondering if one
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 6: day maybe he could do.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 11: That to you.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 6: Well, he certainly has the capacity for it now, doesn't he.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 6: So I suggest to you, guys, go to marriage counseling
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 6: before getting married, even you know, if you even are
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 6: still considering taking that step. You guys need some kind
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 6: of understanding, some kind of guidance. Marriage is one of
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 6: the biggest things you can do in life, So you
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 6: need to do whatever you can to protect yourself. Tell
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 6: him you want to go to marriage counseling first and
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 6: see how that goes.
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  Speaker 2: Steve, you know what, I happen to agree with everything
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: Shirley said, I do, lady. I just want to add
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: this one thing. I love him. But okay, well, you
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: know my fathers tell me all the time if when
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: you say butt in the gates, everything you said in
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: front of that. So when you're talking to me and
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: you say butt boy, just noted whatever you said before, Oh,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: don't even apply no more. And that's the case right here.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: But this is a case of intuition. And God gives
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: intuition to women to protect you from the hunter, which
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: is us. See, we have hunting skills, you have intuition,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: which that which is your safeguard against us. But y'all
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: keep ignoring the intuition because you want to believe your
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 2: heart instead of your mind. And that's where the problem starts.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: You're thirty year old professional. You're dating a man that
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: just got a divorce. He was still married. When you
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: get mad, y'all ain't go out till he moved out
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: of his house. He was still married but legally separated.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: On your first date, his wife followed him and she
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: made a huge scene in Pulley called you all kind
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: of name. He cuts out so bad you felt bad
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: for her, and you were scared of him. And then
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: you knew in the back of your mind. See here
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: we go, the mind, now the mind. The mind is
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: where the intuition resides, heart is it gets you in trouble.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: Your mind is where that I knew in the back
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: of my mind she would be a problem, and he
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: might one day cuss me out like that if he
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: got mad enough in me when we come back. That
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: has set the toe for the rest of my answer.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: All right, well, understand what I'm right.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 6: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
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  Speaker 6: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject
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  Speaker 6: I love him, but dot dot dot.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.
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  Speaker 2: It's Steve Harbin Marley show Man. It might be two
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: birds in that bush, But if you let this bird
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: go to reach in there for the two in the
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: bush and they fly out the bush, you ain't got nothing.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 8: But if it's two and that I having to catch both,
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 8: wouldn't that be better?
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: See keyword in that was a small word with the smaller,
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: the smallest words with the biggest consequence. If if I
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: robbed this bank, and if they don't catch me, I'm
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: gonna be rich. He Okay, a whole lot of ifs
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: sitting in prison today.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 7: Coming up right after that, everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior,
• 1:03:20
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  Speaker 6: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 6: the subject I love him butt dot dot dot.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 2: Well, here we go, perfect case of a woman following
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 2: her heart and ignoring her intuition. Tuition is in your mind.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: Your heart is filled with nothing but emotions. Your heart hurts,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: your heart bleeds, your heart loves, your heart breaks. All
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: that your mind just thinks and that's where your intuition is.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: Stop ignoring it. Ladies, your thirty year old woman dating
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: the man got a divorce. You made him while he
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: was married, but you all didn't go out until he
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: moved out the house. He was still married but legally
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: second separated. Y'all went out on your first date. His
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: wife followed. Y'all made a huge scene, call him all
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: kinds of names. He cussed out. He cuts out so bad.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: You was ashamed for her, but you was scared of him.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: Then here we go. I knew in the back of
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: my mind that she would be a problem and he
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: might one day cuss me out like that if he
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: got mad enough at me. Now you knew this in
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: the back of your mind. That's where your intuition resides.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: But I kept on dating. When he got a divorce,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: he opened up about how he had cheated on his
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: wife twice. She caught him both times. This dude, this
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: dude can't cheat. He cheated on his wife twice, she
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: caught him both times. Y'all went on one date. She
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: caught y'all. Then this dude's track record for getting caught.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: He you dating somebody real stupid. Now I just want
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: you to know that. You know, he told me that
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: he got that out of his system since he has
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: a good woman and he didn't have a reason to
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: treat cheat. Now here you go. He's a good lover
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: and provider and he's caltured. But he's stupid though. See
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: that's the part you're leaving up. He's a great lover, provider,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: he's cultured, and he's stupid. He asked me to marry
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: him on Sunday in front of my mama, and I said, yes,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 2: now it's Sunday.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 11: Now.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: By that Wednesday, three days I found out he might
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: have another woman that he was sleeping with and she
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: said he told her that he wants the future with her.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: Wait a minute, his wife busted him twice, y'all went
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: on one date hest she busted y'all, he asked you
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: to marry him on Sunday on Wednesday. You done busted
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: it again. How dumb is this man? Right here? You're
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: dating somebody? That stupid man. He can't cover tracks. He
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: might be a good provider and he might be a
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: good lover, but he's not a good protector. See, you
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: don't know how to protect a woman's feelings. He not
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: gonna guard your heart because he reckless, he's stupid, she said.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: He told her he wants the future with her. I
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: told her, I'm engaged to him. She was surprised, really
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: when y'all engaged called him at work and he said
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: he wanted to talk face to face. See that face
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: to face. That gave him time to get itself together.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 2: So he picked you up from work and we drove
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 2: an hour or two a lake, and he had some
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: snacks and wine in the car. Well, it ain't that
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: a good thing? Oh yeah, oh yeah, I'm gonna go
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: fix her all this busting me. I'm gonna get me
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: some crackers and some wine, Gonna get some cheese cheese
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: blocks and cut him up. Don't get me a blank.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to her down here by this lake. Yeah,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: a good thing. He bought them snacks. He told me
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: that the lady was lying, and he thought I was
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: smarter than that. Wait a minute, if the lady lined,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: how did you find the lake? What you just you
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: mean to tell me that you pulled a woman's name
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: out of thin air and called her and she just
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: happened to know who he was. No, he told you
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: the lady was lying, and he thought I was smarter
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: than that. You are smarter. You found out Wednesday, right
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: after he asked you to marry him. Sunday, we made
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: love on a blanket by the lake and my heart said,
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: this is my hook and he go, you can here
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: you go there, that's around with your heart. Here your
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: heart go, ladies, here you go. Heart told me, this
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 2: is my husband. Your brain just had you call a
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: woman out of a note where and bingo, she was
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: having a future with the dude too. So now it's
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: really three chicks that his wife he was cheating on.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: You busted him with one, and the wife then busted
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: him with the two he cheated on, and y'all on
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: your first day now dump is back at it again
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: getting busted. We made love on the blanket by the lake,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 2: and my heart said, this is my hubs. It was
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: the most romantic day ever. You need to have some
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 2: more days. Then, how is this the most romantic day ever?
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: On the day that you found out he was sleeping
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: with somebody else, this is the most romantic day. You
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: need to hear him have some more days. Our wedding
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: is in June. My heart flutters around him, but I
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: don't know him well enough to marry him. Our wedding
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: is in June, and I love him, but I need
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 2: more time. Why don't you take more time? Ain't nothing
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: to say. You got to get married in June. Call
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: it off so you can find out what you really
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 2: got and you might find out a whole lot more.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: Are most people uncertain before the wedding? What is you
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: worrying about most people? For you wrote the letter you
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: are you are concerned and you need to be and
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: you need to call this wedding off and get yourself
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: together until you know this man better.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you Steve.
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• 1:10:07
  Speaker 6: sports talk and we'll get into that right after this.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 15: Everybody should favorite play cousin Junior.
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  Speaker 8: We need to talk.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and sports talk.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 2: Junior, what you.
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  Speaker 1: Got for us?
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  Speaker 7: I wan shutte Father's Day. That's Father's Day Night at
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  Speaker 7: first of all. But now let's talk about it. FIFA
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 7: is here, FIFA has started. Are y'all excited about this?
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 7: Does anybody know what FIFA is?
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 8: Are we watching the game?
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 7: The World Cup? It's all in North America. It's every
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 7: game is in North America. Go Because I don't know
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 7: nothing about soccer. I never played soccer, I never played
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 7: professionally or nothing.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: So I have some resarch sports cash. Yeah, well, thank you.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 8: I appreciate this comping man, Thank you very much.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: So I didn't know this.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 8: This is what you need to know about soccer.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 7: I did not know that the average soccer player in
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 7: the game runs six to eight miles.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 8: I'm out at that point. That's why I don't take soccer.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 15: Yeah, and it's not called all.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: The Yeah, it's six to eight miles.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 7: You don't want to take like two miles of running
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 7: like we can't walk lene of this break?
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: You ain't no breaks in this not.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: Have you ever noticed a nobody fat playing soccer?
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 8: And I saw that nobody?
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: Big?
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 11: Why is that?
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: You ain't think how that happens?
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 7: Did you also know this that is not called a
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 7: soccer field. You cannot say that. It's called a pitch.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 7: It's called a pitch. So don't go out there when
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 7: you're talking this weekend talking me, Yeah they're on the
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 7: soccer field.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 8: No, they're on the pitch. That's when you need to
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 8: know that you.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Now, also I found out soccer started in eighteen sixty three.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 8: You didn't know that either.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 7: See, I don't know how these game got started in
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 7: eighteen sixty three? How did you even call it soccer?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 7: Slavery was were two years from the day folk saving.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 7: But it started in England. Started in England. So these
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 7: are some things y'all need to know about soccer. Yeah,
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 7: go ahead, Carlon, So was soccer?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: It wasn't started here, No, it.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 8: Started in London. Yeah, started London. Yes, that's why I
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 8: found out.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: This soil segment or history.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 7: What if we're gonna talk, if they're gonna be here
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 7: for the next ninety days, know some stuff you can
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 7: use when you're sitting around people.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 8: Yeah, like so I don't even know all these.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you sitting around side, you know something?
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: You need to know something.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 8: We don't know nothing about the game. You gotta watch
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 8: this for the next ninety days. You need to know that.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 11: I like it.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 7: Now, America play the night they playing the night they're
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 7: playing Paraguay. I don't know where Paraguay at, but we're
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 7: playing them in Los Angele. That's what we're playing first.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: So okay, there you go.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 8: Yeah you so, I'll just tell you what is it.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: It's La Atlanta, Houston playing all.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 8: Over Toronto, Mexico City.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 7: You know, everyone, just watch your game and then come
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 7: back with some information so I could use it for
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 7: the FIFA World Cup.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: That's all just all right, junior, Thank you.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of A wife was playing
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 6: games with her husband and a backfire.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is from Cam and Sagana.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 6: Cam says, my husband was out with his boys and
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 6: I had called him several times and he didn't answer
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 6: his phone. So I went to stay at my sister's
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 6: house so I wouldn't be home when he got there.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 6: I watched the cameras and saw him stumble in at
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 6: two am, fixing his shirt as he got out of
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 6: his car. He called me all night and I didn't answer.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 6: I called him the next morning and told him where
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 6: I spent the night, and I admitted that I was mad.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 6: So I stayed aut all night to get his attention.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 6: He's upset and he's ignoring me. He won't tell me
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 6: why he was out until two am. So how did
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 6: he turn this around on me and act like I'm
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 6: the problem?
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 2: Because he was supposed to because the best office is
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: a good office lock and that's all he did. Now
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: he was out with his boys. Cool got that, that's
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: what he said. You went over your sister's house.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: Cool.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: But while y'all playing these games, he was out with
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: his boys. He called you. He ain't answered the phone.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: He called you, you didn't answer your phone.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 12: HM.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: See y'all then, y'all then you want to get mad.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: Y'all want to get mad at each other. You mad
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: at him because what he did. Now he mad at
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: you for you doing what you did. That's what y'all
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: get when y'all play games, were playing these little simple games.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: Your husband gets you to go out, you know?
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: Does he get to stay out till two am?
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 11: Though?
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: He just he did.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: That's why the.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 4: Late.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: But she didn't like it.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: But he's an adult and he out with his boys
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: and you now he got a curfew with you. So
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: let me ask you this, what you want to be
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: his wife? Or you want to be his mama? What
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: you want to be?
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: Let me see there you go with all of that,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: it's flipping it.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 6: Let me ask you this, what is the respectable time
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 6: you think for a husband to come after staying out
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 6: with his boys.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: I'm three with your boys?
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: Man, Okay, Now you can't be coming in when the
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: sun is rising? So is there dudo?
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 2: You got to come in and dripping with him? Blood.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: You got driven with blood.
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 11: You got to.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: You don't have your galls and an age man, just
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: you somewhere.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 6: You're coming in with the sunrising. Wow, guys, I don't
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 6: know about this. All right, we have time for another one.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 6: This is from Porter and Colleen.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 11: Uh.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 6: Porter says, my my son went to the prom with
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 6: my buddy's daughter. The girl left the prom and went
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 6: to hang out with her girlfriends without my son. My
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 6: buddy said it was my son's responsibility to get the
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 6: girl home safely. I agree with him, but I think
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 6: that's a conversation that he should have with his child.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 6: Was my son supposed to stop her?
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: Well, listen, if a young man comes to your house
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: to pick up your daughter to take her out, you
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: are allowingness to happen, and you are expecting him to
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: bring her back. Now, whatever happens in the interim, how
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 2: she wound up with her girlfriends, this was the prom.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, but yeah, he should have
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: expected him to bring his daughter back home and when
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 2: he set it right now, you can't make this little
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: girl do nothing because you ain't her daddy. But now
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: I would have got on the phone when hey, dad,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: my day doing with these girls. I don't know what
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: to do or or mister Price. Hey, uh, I know,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 2: I told you i'd bring her home, but she just
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 2: went somewhere with the girlfriends and I don't know where
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 2: she went. So I just want to call and let
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: you know that. That's the thing, right, you know something.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: But you got to get this man his respect because
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: you asked for his daughter's hand go out to the prom.
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and she should communicate with her parents, which was.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: She hello, yeah, hello, she wrong, Hey mama, Look, I'm
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: going over here with my girlfriends.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 2: Once again they think they can do whatever they want
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 2: to do.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 6: All right, guys, thank you. Coming up at twenty minutes
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 6: after you, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 6: Show right after this.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 6: In a historian Yahoo, a young man was on a
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 6: first date and his date was repeatedly rude to their waitress.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 6: The guy was so embarrassed that he went to the
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 6: manager and the waitress and apologized for his date being
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 6: so rude. He asked to pay his tab, and he
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 6: left without returning to the table with his date. The
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 6: manager informed the rude young woman that her date was over,
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 6: her tab was paid, and she was free to leave.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 6: So the question is was the guy wrong for leaving
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 6: the girl at the restaurant?
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 2: Perfect move? Yeah? I mean he said, wow, this is crazy. Yeah,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: so he went up there, apologized to the waitress and
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: the manager paid the table yes, and left. Hey, yo,
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 2: date over, everything's been paid. You free to go bye?
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: And you could tell about a person's everybody right, how
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 6: they treat people who are rock serve you.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: You can tell about their character right.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: Here, because the mayor probably sitting there going, hey, what
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: what's up?
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: What if she was like really fine, you drop zig gorgeous?
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 8: That changes everything.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: The service sucks at the restaurant. Come on, maybe let's
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: hear it out of here.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 8: Yeah, come on, boot, you'll tell my booshi loud.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: You guys are so shallow.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 2: All right, that's sir, sir, you need to better train
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 2: these people.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 6: We'll have more of this ignorant show coming up. We'll
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 6: play around it, wouldie rather Right after this, you're listening
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 6: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 15: Everybody's your favorite place, Cousin Jr.
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 8: We need to talk.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 7: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again,
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 7: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 7: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 7: helping drivers save million plus. You can earn points in
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 7: the app for an extra ten cents a gallon off
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 7: just for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying
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• 1:21:16
  Speaker 6: Now, Guys, for a rounded, would you rather would you
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 6: rather use barbecue winners as fish bait or cheetos as
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 6: fish bait?
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: This should be an easy one for you.
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 2: Guys.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna care you fishermen.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 4: Cheese?
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you if you make them the right thing
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: and put them on this.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 10: Wait, what barbecue? It's some poor fishing. Whys you just
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 10: lunchbox or something?
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: What is this?
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 6: Would you rather uh have an ability to make people
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 6: disappear or the ability to read minds?
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: Both blink golf y, Yeah, I'll give it whatever on
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: your mind? You out right on out of here?
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 11: All right?
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: Where is.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: Tommy? Blinked him?
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 5: Mouse?
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 6: Would you rather golf with your female co workers or
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 6: would you rather go to putt putt golf with your ex.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: Golf with y'all, like eighteen holes with y'all.
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, same, what does that hate?
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna go ahead. I'm gonna play with y'all. I
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 9: don't want to do not with my ex, so I'm
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 9: gonna play with y'all. But y'all don't have to be quiet, though,
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 9: y'all to take us.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: To the golf course, see right there? Stay, you pay
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: for us one time to get golf.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 12: Yes, it was.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: How they work. Ain't played since then.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: No, we've been out there, but haven't played. But it
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: was fun though, Thank you? Was fun. It was fun.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 6: Would you rather wear a bonnet to the airport or
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 6: a three piece suit to the cookout?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: Which one?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: Well, I sound like a male or female thing.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: Really, men wear bonnets. They have male bonnets, now they do.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 2: I'm going to put this suit on and go into
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: this cookout.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: You not wear your.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: Man I don't care nothing. I'm put your suit on,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 2: going down here his body kit. I'm not wearing no
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 2: bonnet though.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: It's definitely not wearing a bonnet at the airport. No,
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: all right? Would you rather snitch on a family member
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: or take the rap for them?
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 13: Oh a, a just gone back. I'm not taking that
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 13: forrest if you didn't yeah they did, yeah, hell but
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 13: I'll tell you no way.
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: I'm not doing no time.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: What happened just gets stitches and all of that.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: I've got stitches now, stitches full of stitches right now.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 4: What happened to you?
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 1: What happened to your thumb?
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 2: Had a fishing accident yesterday?
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 11: I was.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 6: All right, thanks guys coming up and accident is our
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 6: last break of the day, and we'll close out the
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 6: show with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 15: Everybody should fingers play cousin JUNR.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 2: We need to talk.
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 7: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again,
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 7: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 7: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 7: helping drivers save millions. Plus you can earn points in
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 7: the app for an extra ten cents a gallon off
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 7: just for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 7: for gas. If you had check gas Buddy, you could
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• 1:25:12
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• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: Here we are guys, last break of the day on
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: this Friday.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 6: Yes, finally it's here. We love our Fridays and we
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 6: love our audience, and we thank you for listening.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Jun you have a question for Steve
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: before we get out.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 8: Well, yeah, unc man, I want to talk to you
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 8: about this an.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 7: You know you've been through pretty much everything I asked you,
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 7: That's why you have so much depth about it. But
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 7: what about how you feel about disobedience to God. I've
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 7: never heard you speak about that, about how the consequences
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 7: are when we disobeyed versus when we.
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 2: Just got cause been disobedient. That's why I want you
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 2: to talk about it. Detail ain't my favorite subject. It's
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 2: gotten me in the most trouble I've ever been. I don't,
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think about disobedience to God. I
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 2: think about I guess I've never used the word disobedience.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: I just haven't always followed the letter of the law
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 2: to the t. But then you know what Junion nobody has.
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what I have learned about. What are
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 2: you what you're calling disobedience to God, which I'm calling
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 2: falling short, which I'm calling getting it wrong? Not being it,
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 2: not staying on the white line. Nobody has. I'll tell
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 2: you one thing, man, what people do. Sometimes you beat
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 2: yourself up a bit too much about not getting it right.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: When I have to share this news with you. No one.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 2: No one gets it right all the time, nobody. I
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: don't know any sin free people, never met one. I
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: thought my mother was I prompt I swear I did.
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 2: But as I kept getting old and old and older,
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 2: I realized my mama was a human being too. She
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 2: had many flaws. I wasn't exposed to her, but she
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 2: had a mini Nobody gets through this life freely. I
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 2: hear preachers on it. I mean, I thank God for
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 2: faith and religion, I really do. But all these different
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 2: sects of religion. You know, whether it's Baptist, Pentecostal, Methodist, Lutheran, Catholic, Jewish, Islam,
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: everybody claims that their way is the right way, when
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 2: in essence, you don't know how God gonna call this thing.
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 2: I don't care what interpretation of the Bible you make.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: You know, somebody could come up with a different interpretation
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: of it. But I do know this, at the end
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: of this whole life, whoever you are, God will be
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: the final judge of the matter. It is not my
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 2: job to desecrate or degrade or talk about any other
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 2: faith that's not similar to mine. It's not my job
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 2: to say it's my way or the highway. That's just
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 2: not my job. I think there's something in the Bible
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 2: that says that you shouldn't judge. I'm sure there's something
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 2: in there that says that. So I try my best
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: to stay out of the judging business, especially when it
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 2: comes to a person's faith. I know what the Bible says.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 2: I know, I've read some things about you know what's
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 2: expected of us, and that's the faith I have, and
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 2: that's the one I live by. But guess what. I
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 2: come short of that a lot, a lot. I come
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 2: short of that often. And I got news for you,
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 2: so do you. I don't care who you are. You
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 2: could put a PhD behind your name. You can come
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 2: out there in the road with the three bars on
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 2: the sleeves. You can come out there with a hat
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 2: on with a tassel going to one side. You can
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: get a bunch of initials after your name, MD, pH D,
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 2: as K, you can get whatever you want. You gonna
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 2: come up short. You gonna come up short. You, sir
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 2: and you madam, are a human being. I don't care
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 2: what education level you then reached. You gonna come up short.
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 2: I know you're gonna come up short. And this ain't
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 2: a knock on education. But you ever seen a person
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 2: go get a degree and they start working. They found
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 2: out that degree didn't get them where they wanted them
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 2: to go, and they go back to school and get
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: another degree and another one. I know some people, man
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: that went back to school four times, got the highest
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 2: level of PhDs that you can get, thinking it was
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 2: going to better their life, and it didn't.
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 4: It didn't.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 2: You just paid some more money with school four more
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 2: years and it didn't make your life better. Which leads
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 2: me to what I always thought, if you got a
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 2: degree and it ain't working for you, why would you
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: go get another one of them? Now, I'm not knocking
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 2: education because it's necessary. And like you got to go
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 2: to school eight years, you're gonna be a lawyer or
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 2: a doctor. You in helping people bus you gotta know
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 2: what you're doing. It's critical that you get this education.
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 2: It's even more critical, man, critical man, that you keep
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 2: up with the new things that's coming out in your field,
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 2: and I'm taking a turn in this conversation, but it's
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  Speaker 2: leading me now to this little health thing, and I
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  Speaker 2: want to talk to y'all about just for real quick.
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  Speaker 2: If you are dealing with a doctor out there, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say this because I've had to do this,
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  Speaker 2: go get yourself a second and a third opinion. Don't
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  Speaker 2: take the opinion of one doc. That doctor may have
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  Speaker 2: been a doctor for thirty years, but do you know
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  Speaker 2: what has happened since he received his degree in medicine,
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  Speaker 2: And if he don't stay current and go back to
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  Speaker 2: training on different things, some of his information can be outdated.
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  Speaker 2: Get yourself a second and third opinion, because medical advancests
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  Speaker 2: change all the time, and if your doctor ain't keeping
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  Speaker 2: up with the changes, he can't advise you. Now he's
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  Speaker 2: only advising you about what he knows, but he might
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  Speaker 2: not know enough. I was all over the place with
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  Speaker 2: dis closing remarks, but that's what I wanted to say,
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  Speaker 2: you know why, because I ain't perfect. Have a great day, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: talk to God today. He'd absolutely loved to hear from you.
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  Speaker 2: And that was a closing remark that was done in
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  Speaker 2: complete imperfection and I still like him.
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