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Lecrae, Kim Coles, Will Campbell, Ron Gillyard & Michelle Buteau · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations. It's the show that she
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Speaker 1: has the secrets of success experience firsthand by marketing and
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Speaker 1: Brandon expert Rashan McDonald. I will know he's giving me
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Speaker 1: advice to many occasions and occasion didn't notice I'm not broke.
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Speaker 1: You know. He'll be interview with celebrity CEOs, entrepreneurs and
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Speaker 1: industry decision makers. It's what he likes to do. It's
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Speaker 1: what he likes to share. Now it's time to hear
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Speaker 1: from my man, Rashan McDonald. Money Making Conversations. Here we come. Yes,
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Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversation. I am your host, Rashan McDonald.
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Speaker 1: Each money Making Conversation is about entrepreneurship and entertainment. I
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Speaker 1: recognize that we all have different definitions of success. For
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Speaker 1: some it's ascizable paychecks. Mine is helping people wake up
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Speaker 1: and inspiring them to accomplish their goals and live their
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Speaker 1: very best life. These are my passions. That's what I'm
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Speaker 1: trying to do for everybody who listening to my show,
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Speaker 1: I want you to stop tripping over small challenges and
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Speaker 1: preparator rise above the bigger ops circles that life will
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Speaker 1: present to you, and it's very important to understand it's
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Speaker 1: all about you. Focus on you will yourself to success.
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Speaker 1: That's the story of my next guest, Lacre. He is
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Speaker 1: recognized as the first artist to have an album hit
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Speaker 1: the charts at number one for both Billboard two hundred
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Speaker 1: and the Gospel Charts simultaneously. His ninth album and accompanying
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Speaker 1: documentary that's going to be associated with the album, Restoration,
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Speaker 1: features artists across all genres, including my Man John Legend,
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Speaker 1: my Man, Kurt Franklin, and y k O Cyrus. His
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Speaker 1: work is fueled by building bridges, changing narratives, empowering their disenfranchised,
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Speaker 1: and restoring the dignity of those on the margins. In
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Speaker 1: this new book, which I read this morning, I am restored.
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Speaker 1: How I lost my religion but found my faith. He
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Speaker 1: shares how he found the courage to stop ignoring his
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Speaker 1: trauma and instead to begin working through it step by step.
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Speaker 1: Please welcome the money making conversations my man Lokraiz and
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Speaker 1: say about you. Look at far I brought your online up. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you know the beauty of you, Like I tell you,
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Speaker 1: the first time I got to see you perform whats
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Speaker 1: uh in Houston that was doing the Super Bowl weekend
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Speaker 1: and and even even though I didn't know you, I
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Speaker 1: knew there was a gifted person speaking there singing at
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Speaker 1: that time. But at the time also you will dealing
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Speaker 1: with a lot of trauma in your life, and but
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Speaker 1: you're able to mask that and not allow it to
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Speaker 1: affect your abilities as an author, performing artists. Talk to
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Speaker 1: those different steps. And then we're gonna go through the
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Speaker 1: book that uh wonderful book, I won't wonderfully honest book
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Speaker 1: and I think a necessary read that I'm recommend to
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Speaker 1: all my all, my putting it in my mailing list
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Speaker 1: that goes out to fans on Wednesday, which is tomorrow,
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Speaker 1: ninety thousand people. You know, I got over a million
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Speaker 1: social media follows, so you'll see me posting it there.
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Speaker 1: Because when you when people release information to the general
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Speaker 1: population because you are celebrity. We talk about it in
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Speaker 1: your book being a celebrity, and sometimes being a celebrity
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Speaker 1: allows you to be a victim of your success because
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Speaker 1: people can to dissect a celebrity or an important person
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Speaker 1: versus an everyday person kind of like skates through And
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Speaker 1: you know, your book tells that story, but talk about
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Speaker 1: you know, performing even though you're dealing with a lot
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Speaker 1: of emotional drama. Yeah. You know, sometimes I think you
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Speaker 1: you wear that face that you just put on, those
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Speaker 1: lenses that allow you to just keep going and pushing
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Speaker 1: through without dealing with the problems and the trauma. And
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Speaker 1: you allow uh successes to define you instead of, um,
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Speaker 1: you know, you being successful out of a healthy and
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Speaker 1: whole version of yourself. You're allowing the successes to convince
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Speaker 1: you that you are healthy and whole. And I think
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Speaker 1: that's that's a very different thing. And so for me,
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Speaker 1: it was it was a matter of becoming a healthy,
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Speaker 1: whole individual and dealing with some historical traumas and um
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Speaker 1: and recognizing that, uh, you know, I was a slave
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Speaker 1: to uh what other people wanted of me and not
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Speaker 1: being who I was created to be and uh and
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Speaker 1: that that that meant all? Did you say that? Now?
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Speaker 1: With your book titled you Know I Am Restored How
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Speaker 1: I Lost my religion but found my faith, I gotta
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Speaker 1: ask you what is the difference between religion and faith?
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Speaker 1: That's a great question. Um, you know, I think, uh
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Speaker 1: a lot of us are tied to religion and religion
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Speaker 1: is essentially performing to be accepted. Religion is performing trying
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Speaker 1: to do all the right things so that God will
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Speaker 1: accept you or maybe that other people will accept you.
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Speaker 1: And and faith or relationship is more about saying, I
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Speaker 1: know I've been accepted, so let me function out of
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Speaker 1: that acceptance. Let me do the right things because I've
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Speaker 1: been accepted. And so I always say it like this.
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Speaker 1: If I come home to my wife and I knock
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Speaker 1: on the door and I handed some flowers and say, EGO,
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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do this, that's religion, and I'm probably
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Speaker 1: gonna squeak on the couch that uh but but but
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Speaker 1: but faith or relationship is me coming home and say, man,
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Speaker 1: I've been thinking about you all day and you just
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Speaker 1: you're so wonderful and I appreciate you so much. I
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Speaker 1: just brought you these flowers because you're amazing. And I
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Speaker 1: don't I have faith. You know, I don't know what's
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Speaker 1: gonna happen, but probably something is gonna happen because of
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Speaker 1: that reality. And that's that's really interesting you to say that,
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Speaker 1: because people, you know, people will question your faith before
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Speaker 1: they question your religion. They were, and you know, it's
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Speaker 1: really interesting that that happens like that. And that's why
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Speaker 1: I asked that question between religion and faith, because people
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Speaker 1: will they will challenge your faith. They'll challenge you because
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Speaker 1: your faith can be tied to so many things. You know,
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Speaker 1: where you live, how you walk, how you talk, or
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Speaker 1: how much money you make, how much what your expectations
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Speaker 1: for yourself, for your family, that can be that word
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Speaker 1: faith has such an expansive term to it, but it's
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Speaker 1: also tied to religion and it allows you to its
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Speaker 1: over when I'm reading a book which is, like I said,
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Speaker 1: a third read about From your Childhood to Adulthood, and Uh,
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Speaker 1: it really amazed me because if the talk of being
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Speaker 1: a healthy person, which is really key in the day,
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Speaker 1: and I think that plays in every chapter in the
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Speaker 1: book as you talk about being a man and being
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Speaker 1: a young man and being a young boy, meeting your
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Speaker 1: father and and he picking you up and you're thinking
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Speaker 1: that's a great moment of life and then gets what
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Speaker 1: he basically kicked you to the curve, which was one
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Speaker 1: of those unhealthy moments in your life when you're trying
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Speaker 1: to live a life as a healthy person. Correct, Yeah, absolutely,
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Speaker 1: And I mean that's that's that's A huge part of
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Speaker 1: it is is, uh, you know, not having those those models.
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Speaker 1: You know, you can only be what you've seen, you
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Speaker 1: can only become what you've bailed and so not having
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Speaker 1: those models becomes a traumatic thing for for a lot
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Speaker 1: of us. And and uh, and so I'm just that's
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Speaker 1: really interesting when I talk to you. The first time
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Speaker 1: I talked to you, like could say, it was like
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Speaker 1: I knew you, but we were developing a relationship. Now
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Speaker 1: the second time around, I'm much more comfortable on how
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Speaker 1: HARD speak to you. And it's really based on reading
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Speaker 1: this book. And because we all have dark sides. You know,
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Speaker 1: when I say dark sides, secrets we don't reveal. We
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Speaker 1: lived through life with it, but we won't tell even
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Speaker 1: our closest loved ones. You know, I have them, and
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Speaker 1: you're sharing a lot of them in this book. And
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Speaker 1: you know, and and I have been fortunate to to
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Speaker 1: have been a popular stand up comedian and you and
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Speaker 1: in your book you're talking about you know, when you're
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Speaker 1: when you're in a church, you knows you kind of
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Speaker 1: know who your audience is. And I remember when I
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Speaker 1: was in the comedy club, I kind of know who
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Speaker 1: my audience is. But when I got booked in a
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Speaker 1: nightclub or booked in a private party, I really didn't
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Speaker 1: know who I was performing too, and it always put
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Speaker 1: additional stress in my mind on how to relate to
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Speaker 1: these people are if they will relate to me? And
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Speaker 1: you know when you talk about your spirits opening up
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Speaker 1: for Kevin Hard at the you know, at these at
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Speaker 1: the Mercedes being super Dome and you're looking at the audience,
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Speaker 1: who you know, we're here for Kevin Harll okay, and
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Speaker 1: but you're going out there not knowing How does that?
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Speaker 1: How does that work in your mind when you when
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Speaker 1: you're in that environment, you know you know they're here
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Speaker 1: for the because he's filled up, He filled up the dome. Okay,
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Speaker 1: You're blessed to be an opening act for him, and
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Speaker 1: because it allows you to grow your brand? How does
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Speaker 1: that trigger in your mind from a performing standpoint, who
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Speaker 1: you are you trying to relate to everybody? You're trying
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Speaker 1: to just get them to understand the CRAE experience. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you know what it is is a lot of it
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Speaker 1: is like you said, understanding how to read the room
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Speaker 1: is understanding what people are there for and um and
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Speaker 1: and finding some common ground and and being able to
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Speaker 1: connect to people in a real way. And I think
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Speaker 1: authenticity is is where you can always win. You know,
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Speaker 1: people craveing longer for authenticity. But it's a hard thing
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Speaker 1: for us to do because we're so worried about what
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Speaker 1: everybody thinks. But how how authentic and connecting what it
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Speaker 1: has been for me to just come out and say,
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Speaker 1: I know, y'all at for me. I know you'll want
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Speaker 1: to see gem hard. You know, that's that's immediately gonna
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Speaker 1: endear people to me, immediately, gonna make them say, okay,
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Speaker 1: keeping it real and now all I hear what this
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Speaker 1: guy has to say. And so I think that's that's it.
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Speaker 1: It's a big piece of life, you know, because of
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Speaker 1: the fact that you know, eleven years old, you walk
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Speaker 1: on stage and you bust out with a wrap and
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Speaker 1: everybody now not gives you value. And and in my
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Speaker 1: book and your book, you know, and I'm end of
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Speaker 1: your look craze here this book I am restored, How
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Speaker 1: to How I Lost my religion but found my faith.
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Speaker 1: Each chapter is about value and that's the part of healthiness.
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Speaker 1: But in order to achieve value, if I'm reading this wrong,
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Speaker 1: you have to admit and go public with what's bothering
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Speaker 1: you inside? With that draw that alma, you know, that
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Speaker 1: chaos as you talk about, and when did you really
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Speaker 1: start realizing that because black the Black community is really
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Speaker 1: interesting community. Were we are in denial community, were in
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Speaker 1: denial about COVID and aint, when the denial about our
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Speaker 1: eating habits, when denial about gay gay community, we're denied.
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Speaker 1: We we're just an in denial community. And it holds
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Speaker 1: us back a lot. And so and it also it's
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Speaker 1: in deniable when it comes to mental and social stress,
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Speaker 1: you know, not admitting that we we have issues that
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Speaker 1: should be somebody should be talking to us about, and
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Speaker 1: that that that false ability to move forward, not emitting
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Speaker 1: that we are a flawed community, and uh holds us back.
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Speaker 1: And so that in it turn, in turn, will did
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Speaker 1: some some setbacks for you because you couldn't figure out
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Speaker 1: what was wrong with you. You're you're you're you're hitting
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Speaker 1: the hammer on a nail. Uh. A big piece of
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Speaker 1: our struggle, um is what what what what someone called
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Speaker 1: post traumatic slave syndrome right and and and post traumatic
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Speaker 1: slave syndrome is we have adopted and adapted these views
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Speaker 1: that were instilled in our ancestors that we are. We're
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Speaker 1: almost like um uh cattle, and we can just be
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Speaker 1: driven and and pushed and pushed and pushed until no end.
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Speaker 1: And the problem is we're not addressing our traumas, we're
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Speaker 1: not addressing our pains, we're not addressing our fears. We're
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Speaker 1: treating ourselves like animals. You know, I say sometimes, you know,
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Speaker 1: you can be a speedboat or you can be a
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Speaker 1: raft or a sailboat. And a speedboat is the thing
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Speaker 1: that can plow through you know, and just I'm just
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Speaker 1: and then you're gonna be out in the middle of
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Speaker 1: the ocean just floating. And and nobody wants to be
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Speaker 1: a raft where you don't have any sense of direction.
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Speaker 1: And so the reality is we have to become sailboat.
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Speaker 1: And the sailboat takes us acknowledging the way the wind
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Speaker 1: is blowing so you can adjust your sales. It takes
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Speaker 1: a little bit of work, it takes some thought, it
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Speaker 1: takes some time, and not just plowing through stuff. And
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Speaker 1: I think that's a part of our problem. Um. We
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Speaker 1: want to catch up, you know, in society, we've been
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Speaker 1: held back so long and we're trying to catch up,
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Speaker 1: so we won't acknowledge our emotions or the problems, and
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Speaker 1: the pain is just too much to acknowledge, so we're
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Speaker 1: live in denial instead of becoming healthy and whole um,
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Speaker 1: which is you know, if you want to be successful
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Speaker 1: always help people. My my goals in life are tied
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Speaker 1: to my experience, because not my not my money. Because
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Speaker 1: if I never go in the deal, I mean to
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Speaker 1: be honest with the crew, I'm never going to deal
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Speaker 1: trying to figure out how much money I'm gonna make.
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Speaker 1: It's about the relationships. He's about to what do I
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Speaker 1: get out of it for my brand, for my career.
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Speaker 1: Because I always know that I'm gonna make money. That's
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Speaker 1: just that's just an idea. My wife would go, I
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Speaker 1: don't know why you ever worry about money, because you're
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Speaker 1: gonna make it. You're gonna figure out how to make it.
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Speaker 1: And That's just been a skill set I've had since
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Speaker 1: I was seventeen, eighteen years old, and I've carried it
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Speaker 1: through because I'm just a guy who sits around just
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Speaker 1: thinking about how to make money, and and and and
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Speaker 1: when I when I look at your your brand, you know,
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Speaker 1: you know your entrepreneur, you're an activist, you know you.
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Speaker 1: Of course we know your talent from you working on
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Speaker 1: this documentary with your new your ninth album. All these
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Speaker 1: different layers started where though, you know, because like you said,
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Speaker 1: you know, you know you all, you know because your
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Speaker 1: father was in your life, your your mom. You put
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Speaker 1: you in a situation with what with a man who
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Speaker 1: who physically abused you from a standpoint, struck you, and
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Speaker 1: which which intimidated you and didn't put that with that
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Speaker 1: decision make you know whether he could come back into
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Speaker 1: the house on you, okay? And what was you supposed
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Speaker 1: to say no? You know? And so so where where
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Speaker 1: along the way did you start shaping the desire to
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Speaker 1: be this be la craze m M. You know what
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Speaker 1: I think, um, the journey of all that pain and trauma,
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Speaker 1: UM that the place where I found the most health
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Speaker 1: was being was expressing myself, you know, expressing myself through
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Speaker 1: initially poetry and then it turned into music and and
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Speaker 1: that that's a even if you go to therapy now,
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Speaker 1: they'll tell you that's one of the biggest things you
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Speaker 1: need to do. You need to start writing things down
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Speaker 1: because something happens with your mind, if your brain chemistry.
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Speaker 1: Once you start writing out the things that that that
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Speaker 1: your experience and it's journal and or a diary, it
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Speaker 1: is very helpful for you. And so that that's where
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Speaker 1: I learned the healthy technique. The problem for me was
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Speaker 1: some of the darkest corners of my world. You know,
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Speaker 1: I was not ready to deal with. I was not
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Speaker 1: ready to to wrestle with in the process, and so
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Speaker 1: it took a mental collapse for me. It took me,
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Speaker 1: took my mind and my body having to shut down.
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Speaker 1: You know they some people call a CEO syndrome where
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Speaker 1: the stresses of life just overwhelm you all at one
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Speaker 1: one time, and the body keeps the score. So your
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Speaker 1: mind may say, well, what happened to me attend was
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Speaker 1: was you know, a million years ago, but your body
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Speaker 1: is saying it might as well have been yesterday. So
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Speaker 1: you're just piling up stuff, all the trauma from your childhood,
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Speaker 1: and now you're in your adulthood and maybe you have
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Speaker 1: kids and that's adding more stuff. And now you're working
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Speaker 1: on deals and you're working on career. All this stuff
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Speaker 1: is piling, piling up, and if you're not addressing it,
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Speaker 1: eventually it's gonna catch up to you. And so you
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Speaker 1: you have to be able to decompress and address uh,
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Speaker 1: those those particular issues in order to to find It's
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Speaker 1: really important that people understand that you have to find yourself.
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Speaker 1: And despite all my success La Craze, I didn't really
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Speaker 1: find myself till I was in my forties. You know,
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Speaker 1: people will tell me I was showing you successful, But
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Speaker 1: I was successful because I accomplished things here. But when
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Speaker 1: I say that I was successful because I accomplished things,
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Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily meant that I was accomplishing things that
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Speaker 1: made me happy. And that's why I always speak to
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Speaker 1: people is that you know a lot of people there
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Speaker 1: they'll stopped there in their career because guess what, they're
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Speaker 1: not happy making money that way, and so guess what,
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Speaker 1: it'll eventually catch up with you. That's why companies file bankruptcy.
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Speaker 1: That's why companies closed because the vision of the vision,
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Speaker 1: they're a person, visionary person who was tied to it
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Speaker 1: just stopped thinking because that didn't make them happy. And
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Speaker 1: so this book, when I talk, when I listened to you,
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Speaker 1: it is a journey in finding your happiness, because if
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Speaker 1: you don't find that happiness, there's not a fifty year
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Speaker 1: old krez sixty year old Kreze that we have today.
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Speaker 1: Am I correct when I say that? Absolutely? Absolutely, yeah,
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Speaker 1: you won't you I won't. It's not gonna. It's not gonna.
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Speaker 1: You're never gonna ride there, and and and that's you
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Speaker 1: know case. And point is that I think a lot
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Speaker 1: of times you don't even know the things that will
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Speaker 1: ultimately bring you happiness or bring you joy because you
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Speaker 1: haven't done enough work to know who you are. And
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Speaker 1: so you're looking at what everyone else has, thinking that well,
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Speaker 1: if I get what they get, then i'll be happy,
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Speaker 1: then I'll be healthy, instead of understanding who you are,
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Speaker 1: and you're wiring and and and realize that no, this
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Speaker 1: is what's gonna bring you that. And I had to
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Speaker 1: go through that exact same process in me, thinking that
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Speaker 1: if I could just be as famous as this person
18:49
Speaker 1: or as renowned as this person, And truthfully, that's not
18:53
Speaker 1: the way that God created me. You know, I'm I'm
18:56
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur by nature. You know, I like performing and
19:00
Speaker 1: I like art. But end of the day, I found
19:04
Speaker 1: a lot more purpose when I'm building things and I'm
19:06
Speaker 1: architecting things, and I'm giving other people opportunities. And so
19:10
Speaker 1: when I'm using all my energy on creating opportunities for myself,
19:14
Speaker 1: I'm not as I'm not as happy. But when I'm
19:16
Speaker 1: creating opportunities for other people, you know, then I find
19:20
Speaker 1: more I find a more fulfilling. I want to do
19:22
Speaker 1: good in society, but I also want to do well financially.
19:26
Speaker 1: So you can do you do it well. You can't
19:29
Speaker 1: do good but doing, but you have to be happy
19:32
Speaker 1: doing it though for long term. And that's what I'm
19:35
Speaker 1: talking about in his interview. I don't want everybody to
19:37
Speaker 1: hear this is that you know, you go out there
19:39
Speaker 1: and make a lot of money. I would tell people
19:42
Speaker 1: life should not be tied to the lottery effect, you know,
19:44
Speaker 1: just waiting on that money, waiting on that moment, you
19:46
Speaker 1: build a career in your and you and you people
19:49
Speaker 1: around you that can support you. I know I've survived
19:53
Speaker 1: this career because I've had a couple of key people
19:55
Speaker 1: in my life that whenever I doubted myself the craze,
19:58
Speaker 1: they told me be Rashwan, be with Shaw. They should
20:01
Speaker 1: be You. Don't care what they're saying. Do be you now?
20:06
Speaker 1: Be you has helped out a lot of people. Here
20:09
Speaker 1: be you trust you? And because because success man and
20:15
Speaker 1: in reading this book and reading about the chaos, reading
20:17
Speaker 1: about the trauma. We talk about the molestation, the we
20:22
Speaker 1: can talk about the physical abuse. Let's talk about the
20:25
Speaker 1: life abusive as a successful people can go through if
20:29
Speaker 1: you don't have the right people around you and you
20:32
Speaker 1: don't admit that you need help, right, yes, Oh my goodness.
20:40
Speaker 1: You know what It's funny if if you The problem
20:44
Speaker 1: for a lot of us is that there is freedom
20:48
Speaker 1: in confession, but there's always gonna be suffering and suppression
20:52
Speaker 1: and and and denial will always lead to death. If
20:58
Speaker 1: you're talking about a life threatening disease, right you, you
21:04
Speaker 1: cannot deny that you have it, it's gonna be detrimental
21:08
Speaker 1: for you, you know, And acknowledging is always painful, but
21:12
Speaker 1: denial is always deadly. And that's what I want people
21:16
Speaker 1: to understand. Acknowledging is gonna be painful, but denial is deadly.
21:19
Speaker 1: When you can acknowledge that you have these issues in
21:22
Speaker 1: your life, then it is hurtful. It is painful, it
21:26
Speaker 1: is hard to to plow through, but to deny it,
21:29
Speaker 1: it's deadly for you. And so you'll never be who
21:32
Speaker 1: you were created to be. You'll never walk in the
21:35
Speaker 1: fullness that you were created to walk in if you
21:39
Speaker 1: keep denying you know the issues that are going on
21:42
Speaker 1: in your world, and I think a lot of us
21:44
Speaker 1: just don't realize that. Um, you know, my story is
21:48
Speaker 1: is like you said, there's there's all the major traumas
21:51
Speaker 1: that you can experience. You know, I've gone through them,
21:54
Speaker 1: and so you know, I don't care what you've experienced
21:57
Speaker 1: in life. I don't care if it's death, division, UH, discrimination, divorce, debt,
22:03
Speaker 1: um all those things can be restored if you can
22:06
Speaker 1: acknowledge the pain that they have brought you and then
22:10
Speaker 1: move forward. You know, when reading your book, UH, interviewing
22:14
Speaker 1: the Craze just in case people may have just tuned in,
22:17
Speaker 1: you know, his book I'm were discussing I Am Restored,
22:20
Speaker 1: how I lost my religion but found my faith, a
22:23
Speaker 1: couple of courtions. I want to bring back up now
22:24
Speaker 1: the book, the album. Want to flip to the album
22:26
Speaker 1: right quick, because you're doing a documentary tied to the album. Okay?
22:32
Speaker 1: Is that is that? Is that going to be a documentary?
22:34
Speaker 1: We'll see you on like a Netflix or an Amazon.
22:37
Speaker 1: It's just something that's available that you're putting out that
22:40
Speaker 1: so we can go to your your website, you know,
22:42
Speaker 1: I mean your YouTube challenge to see Yeah, so you
22:47
Speaker 1: can check this out. It's the video series is uh
22:51
Speaker 1: is on YouTube now and and there'll be a longer
22:54
Speaker 1: form documentary that will come out down the line. But
22:57
Speaker 1: but this this web series, you can see me addressing
23:01
Speaker 1: the chaos in my world. You know, I meet my
23:03
Speaker 1: father for the very first time on this on this
23:06
Speaker 1: video series, and so people are able to see you
23:09
Speaker 1: know that you're trying to run a successful business, you're
23:12
Speaker 1: trying to raise a family, you're trying to be a leader,
23:15
Speaker 1: and you have to deal with meeting your father for
23:18
Speaker 1: the first time and many people would run from that
23:20
Speaker 1: reality and say I got way too much for my
23:22
Speaker 1: plate to be dealing with that. But I knew that
23:24
Speaker 1: there was a piece of me that would not be
23:27
Speaker 1: whole until I had that meeting. I didn't have any expectations.
23:30
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying, now me and him are gonna be
23:32
Speaker 1: best of friends and we're gonna make up for lost time.
23:35
Speaker 1: But I knew that I had questions that I wanted
23:37
Speaker 1: to ask, and maybe I wouldn't get the answers I wanted,
23:39
Speaker 1: but I knew I didn't want to go to my
23:42
Speaker 1: grave without asking some of those some of those questions.
23:45
Speaker 1: And that's, uh, hey man, you know, I'm Roushan McDonald.
23:50
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of great things in my life.
23:52
Speaker 1: But if you put together a documentary, let's talk if
23:55
Speaker 1: you if you don't have anybody else talking to you,
23:57
Speaker 1: because because I I I draw talking to you, and
24:02
Speaker 1: you have a voice that um that shapes this world,
24:05
Speaker 1: not just the community, this world, and uh you articulate,
24:09
Speaker 1: you're smart and look good and plus more important that
24:13
Speaker 1: you have a story to tell that is tied to trauma,
24:16
Speaker 1: It's tied to honesty, and it's tied to faith. Okay,
24:20
Speaker 1: let's feel really okay. And uh and and and it's
24:23
Speaker 1: important that you know I've learned when I when I
24:26
Speaker 1: talk to people that have a unique point of points
24:29
Speaker 1: of views, that I have to let them know what
24:31
Speaker 1: I think. And it's something that you know. Your YouTube
24:34
Speaker 1: channel is great. In fact, I'm I'm I'm gonna look
24:37
Speaker 1: at the interview that you have when you first met
24:39
Speaker 1: your day and I probably put in our newsletter to
24:41
Speaker 1: let people see another side of you, honest side of you,
24:44
Speaker 1: because in Hollywood, it's really interesting that you know, we're
24:47
Speaker 1: we're put under and that's just the celebrities or athletes
24:51
Speaker 1: were put on the microscope based on what you know,
24:54
Speaker 1: but not the life that we live. When I say
24:56
Speaker 1: that is that you know, it's we have made up
25:00
Speaker 1: on when we hit camera, we we speak a certain way.
25:03
Speaker 1: A lot of times when we hit the camera, we
25:05
Speaker 1: perform a certain way. When we walk off that stage
25:07
Speaker 1: and get out of that arena, then that's a different life.
25:09
Speaker 1: And sometimes were held accountable to what they saw on
25:13
Speaker 1: TV or what they saw in the movie or what
25:15
Speaker 1: they saw on the performance. How do you deal with that?
25:17
Speaker 1: Lokraiz mm hmm. Man, you know honestly, you've got to uh.
25:25
Speaker 1: A lot of it is discernment. A lot of it
25:26
Speaker 1: is is recognizing and realizing that some relationships you walk into, uh,
25:36
Speaker 1: you know, relationally, and some people walk into transactionally, you know,
25:40
Speaker 1: and you've got to be able to decide which is
25:42
Speaker 1: which because a lot of the relationships in the entertainment
25:45
Speaker 1: space are transactional that they may seem like their relational
25:49
Speaker 1: people may come at you and say, hey, let's let's
25:51
Speaker 1: hang out, let's be friends, but it's gonna take some
25:53
Speaker 1: time for you to understand who your real friends are
25:56
Speaker 1: and not to not to allow people who say, you know,
26:01
Speaker 1: this is what they think about you, and and not
26:03
Speaker 1: tell a lot of those voices to dictate who you
26:05
Speaker 1: really are. So I look like being a professional athlete
26:07
Speaker 1: is everyone's gonna say something from the sideline, But you
26:10
Speaker 1: got to realize who your teammates are and who are
26:13
Speaker 1: the people who want the best for you. Those are
26:15
Speaker 1: the voices that you that you have to listen to.
26:18
Speaker 1: And so that's that's one of the biggest things that
26:20
Speaker 1: I had to learn early on, is that you know,
26:21
Speaker 1: all those voices are not voices that I need to
26:24
Speaker 1: listen and read the book. Look crazy, um, when you
26:28
Speaker 1: brought up Calvinism. Okay, now you know, uh, A very
26:34
Speaker 1: few people know Calvinism. You know. I am early in
26:38
Speaker 1: my college career, I took a European history and I
26:42
Speaker 1: learned about the Roman Catholicism and how and how Calvinism
26:46
Speaker 1: was born out. They were just tired. It was tired,
26:50
Speaker 1: and so so I just smiled when I got to
26:53
Speaker 1: that part of your book. I go, wow, I've read
26:55
Speaker 1: a lot of books in my life. This is probably
26:58
Speaker 1: the first book I read since college that articulated Calvinism.
27:04
Speaker 1: And it was important in your development. And so tell
27:07
Speaker 1: everybody about that, because that's why I said, Man, you know,
27:11
Speaker 1: when I read that, I said, I gotta have a
27:13
Speaker 1: bigger part. Well, you're not gonna I'm based in Atlanta.
27:15
Speaker 1: I just bought it. I just bought it for my
27:18
Speaker 1: office in Atlanta. I'm headquartered here and uh, fourth quarters
27:22
Speaker 1: gonna be amazing. And it was just so many things
27:25
Speaker 1: in that book that needs to be You need to
27:28
Speaker 1: be talking to other people with it based on it.
27:31
Speaker 1: You understand that I'm saying this is a this is
27:34
Speaker 1: a series to me, and that you should be hunsting
27:38
Speaker 1: that you should be translating that's that's black, that's white,
27:43
Speaker 1: that's that's feel with different different layers as minority community,
27:47
Speaker 1: because like you, like you, I had success as a
27:50
Speaker 1: stand up comedian in the white community before Death Comedy
27:53
Speaker 1: Jam came out there. And then when I proceeded to
27:55
Speaker 1: be koind of go over to death commity and looked
27:57
Speaker 1: at me like I didn't belong. Hey, uh, you can't
28:00
Speaker 1: make black people. Okay, don't do that. And I had
28:03
Speaker 1: to prove myself the same thing with my business world.
28:07
Speaker 1: I graduated with a math degree and I worked in
28:10
Speaker 1: and went to work for ib AM. I to achieve
28:12
Speaker 1: for one with deemed the ultimate passage into the white
28:15
Speaker 1: corporate world. I was working for Big Blue. You know,
28:18
Speaker 1: that's all you want, you know, So that wasn't enough
28:20
Speaker 1: for me. I said, I wanted to be an entertainer.
28:22
Speaker 1: I wanted to be a stand up comedian. And so
28:24
Speaker 1: there's so many layers that talking to you and reading
28:27
Speaker 1: this book allows me to understand that you have a
28:30
Speaker 1: unique point of view that really this book is cool.
28:34
Speaker 1: For man, it's some other stories we gotta tell, brother,
28:37
Speaker 1: you and I gotta tell together. I like that, I
28:41
Speaker 1: like that you. You you use somebody what we say,
28:45
Speaker 1: has range, you know what I mean. A lot of
28:46
Speaker 1: a lot of folks, you know, they can walk in
28:49
Speaker 1: a lot of different worlds. That that shows that they
28:51
Speaker 1: have some range. They've been exposed to a lot of
28:53
Speaker 1: different places. So I find that interesting that that that
28:56
Speaker 1: that you even know some of those those things, that
28:59
Speaker 1: just shows your range. So I love it. I might
29:01
Speaker 1: have to just try to pull up on your build
29:03
Speaker 1: if I was just you know, man, you know the
29:06
Speaker 1: fact that you wrote a fantastic book. But but I
29:09
Speaker 1: don't want to remiss tell everybody about Calvinism before we
29:12
Speaker 1: leave this show, because I tell you something I tell
29:14
Speaker 1: that changed my life man in college. But i'd about
29:17
Speaker 1: that man, Lutheranism and Calvinism and gold over to England.
29:21
Speaker 1: Oh brother, come on that. Yeah. So so a lot
29:27
Speaker 1: of times, you know, essentially, you you look at the
29:32
Speaker 1: Roman Catholic Church and and you saw, like, uh, there
29:35
Speaker 1: was a lot of rules that were added to Bible,
29:40
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, A lot of a lot
29:41
Speaker 1: of a lot of amendments were made and it became
29:45
Speaker 1: seen as gospel truth. And all of this stuff is
29:47
Speaker 1: happening in Europe. Meanwhile, the Bible is an Eastern you
29:51
Speaker 1: know faith. You know that was Christianity was in Africa
29:55
Speaker 1: long before whatever in Europe. But but but then you
29:59
Speaker 1: get you know, John Calvin and Martin Luther and these
30:03
Speaker 1: individuals who you know are railing against the Catholic Church
30:07
Speaker 1: and UH and and they kind of create what we
30:09
Speaker 1: call Protestantism UH today, which is taken root in America,
30:14
Speaker 1: which is you know, pretty much what American Christianity is.
30:18
Speaker 1: A lot of it is built off of of that perspective,
30:23
Speaker 1: which is very European in nature. And so it though,
30:27
Speaker 1: and I say it's about everything, you know, there's always
30:29
Speaker 1: some truth mixed in with the lives. And that's how
30:33
Speaker 1: people get fooled, is because there's always some truth mixed
30:35
Speaker 1: in with the lives. And so there's lots of great
30:38
Speaker 1: UH points and things that I think people can appreciate,
30:41
Speaker 1: but you also have to remember that there's a lot
30:42
Speaker 1: of cultural nuances that really don't fit who we are
30:47
Speaker 1: and are not really applicable to the Bible. And so
30:51
Speaker 1: I think people have to realize that when they when
30:54
Speaker 1: they approach it and just realized how much the European
30:57
Speaker 1: culture um has been transposed over to us more so
31:03
Speaker 1: than actual guy's words that when I read that, that
31:07
Speaker 1: opened my eyes. Man, That's why college changed my life.
31:11
Speaker 1: I always tell people go to college, college because high
31:14
Speaker 1: school they deny you son information. You see what Donald
31:16
Speaker 1: Trump trying to do right now. You know, don't live
31:18
Speaker 1: from don't want to don't want the truth to be
31:22
Speaker 1: read because it acknowledges that when you're trying to take
31:25
Speaker 1: down these Confederate statutes, there's a reason not to glorify
31:28
Speaker 1: when you realize these folks were attempting and so we
31:31
Speaker 1: called black lives matters thugs. You know that that you
31:35
Speaker 1: gain knowledge, information, information by being allowed to openly learned.
31:41
Speaker 1: That's what college did for me. And when I took
31:43
Speaker 1: that course, man, it's like wow, really And and I
31:47
Speaker 1: want to close with this interesting story that you had
31:50
Speaker 1: when you was in Egypt and the God wasn't meaning
31:53
Speaker 1: from a religious perspective, was from a historical perspective, and
31:58
Speaker 1: she was talking about the worst Pharah and then you
32:01
Speaker 1: and then you went from a religious perspective, you go,
32:03
Speaker 1: what you're talking about? And so what because of the
32:12
Speaker 1: fact that we are so guided by religion that we
32:17
Speaker 1: can allow facts to be misinterpreted and that I'm chancing
32:23
Speaker 1: to me. You have a great book, you great by
32:25
Speaker 1: I think you just this dude read my book. I
32:33
Speaker 1: have to be respectful and understanding that you didn't. You
32:37
Speaker 1: know you did this for a reason, and your career
32:39
Speaker 1: has allowed me to believe that you're trying to change
32:42
Speaker 1: lives and really, in reading this book allowed me to
32:45
Speaker 1: see a personal side of you, and then a side
32:48
Speaker 1: of you that says, Okay, I gotta do better, I
32:51
Speaker 1: gotta do better. I wake up with that whole attitude
32:54
Speaker 1: I gotta do better, and I gotta do better. Not
32:56
Speaker 1: for myself because I feel that I I do this
32:59
Speaker 1: podcast as because I'm trying to make other people do
33:02
Speaker 1: better or hear better, or learn better or get some
33:05
Speaker 1: facts about it. This interview I'm doing with you is
33:07
Speaker 1: an open interview about people hearing about somebody who's telling
33:12
Speaker 1: them go by this book because it enabled Rushan McDonald's
33:14
Speaker 1: see some things about Lacre that enables me to understand
33:18
Speaker 1: that I can do better. I can be honest about myself.
33:20
Speaker 1: If I feel there's a dark side of me, tell
33:22
Speaker 1: somebody it's all right, it's all good. That's your book, man,
33:27
Speaker 1: that I appreciate you Lakreze, I really do, man. And
33:30
Speaker 1: like I said, this is my second time interview, and
33:31
Speaker 1: you and I the first time. It's a good interview.
33:34
Speaker 1: But this is an interview from a from a sole
33:36
Speaker 1: perspective that our journeys are are definitely gonna be uh
33:41
Speaker 1: even bigger in the future, man, because you're special, lucre
33:44
Speaker 1: And I think you may got the ninth album dropping,
33:48
Speaker 1: you know, dropped in August. You got October thirteenth. The
33:51
Speaker 1: book comes out um on YouTube right now as a series.
33:56
Speaker 1: But you and I, You and I got to my backyard.
33:58
Speaker 1: I got a little lake. Man. We go fishing. That's
34:01
Speaker 1: where I go. That's where I go to the crazy
34:03
Speaker 1: life is bad for me. I have to go down
34:06
Speaker 1: there and wash that water. That water at water at
34:09
Speaker 1: water calms me, man, because and and and and and
34:12
Speaker 1: my property. It drops down just enough. Well I can't
34:16
Speaker 1: see any cars, No, I can't see anything. And it
34:19
Speaker 1: just allowed me to look at that water man, and uh,
34:21
Speaker 1: catch your fish and throw it right back and give
34:23
Speaker 1: it back to God. Man. That's what I do. Brother, Man,
34:28
Speaker 1: I love your brother. Thank you for taking the time. Man.
34:31
Speaker 1: I hope this was a nice journey talking about a
34:33
Speaker 1: part of your life that was very personal but more
34:35
Speaker 1: important to book. I am restored How I lost my
34:38
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Speaker 1: Well good for you know, I appreciate the compliment because
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Speaker 1: when I see what you're doing with your brain. First
37:02
Speaker 1: of all, you know, following on LinkedIn, following on social
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Speaker 1: media and on LinkedIn. You know you look beautiful. You
37:09
Speaker 1: look beautiful. Okay, you know that? What what? What? What
37:12
Speaker 1: you want to talk about? It's about branding and presenting
37:15
Speaker 1: yourself in a successful look and upbeat look because of
37:19
Speaker 1: the fact that you're a motivator and in this business
37:23
Speaker 1: you have to look a certain way, to talk a
37:24
Speaker 1: certain way. Let's talk about the your brand and what
37:27
Speaker 1: you're presenting out there in the entrereneural space. Let's talk
37:31
Speaker 1: about that first. Well, yeah, you know, right now, I've
37:35
Speaker 1: been talking a lot about uh, pivot on purpose, how
37:39
Speaker 1: to pivot on purpose. And as we're recording this, as
37:42
Speaker 1: you know, we're in the midst of this, uh, you
37:44
Speaker 1: know a lot of upheaval, you know, with a pandemic
37:47
Speaker 1: and racial unrest and all the civil unrest and everything
37:51
Speaker 1: that is fair and unfair happening in the world. And
37:55
Speaker 1: more than ever, we need to pivot on purpose. And
37:57
Speaker 1: the way you do that is, you know, look at
38:02
Speaker 1: your gifts and talents and uh and and look for
38:08
Speaker 1: ways to express them given the current situation, so you
38:13
Speaker 1: look for opportunities. It's a brand new perspective and so
38:17
Speaker 1: my brand and I'm so proud of it. You know,
38:19
Speaker 1: back in the day, we weren't thinking, you know, back
38:22
Speaker 1: when you know you and I were doing what we
38:24
Speaker 1: were doing, you're building ourselves in the comedy world. We
38:26
Speaker 1: weren't thinking, oh, this is our brand, but knowing that
38:30
Speaker 1: every step that you take is all um uh, every
38:35
Speaker 1: step that you take, and as you are aware of
38:37
Speaker 1: your gifts and talents, it's all a part of your brand.
38:40
Speaker 1: It's all a part of the building of who you are,
38:43
Speaker 1: the message that you've come here to to give. And
38:46
Speaker 1: this is whether you're This is not even for people
38:49
Speaker 1: who are in show business, not even for people who
38:51
Speaker 1: are entrepreneurs. All of us now are are requested and
38:56
Speaker 1: required to pull on our gifts, so to to to
39:00
Speaker 1: I should said, um rely on our gifts in a
39:02
Speaker 1: new way. And so I figured out a while ago
39:05
Speaker 1: Rashan that just being a sitcom actress, while that is awesome,
39:10
Speaker 1: it's not gonna is not enough. Just the stand up comedian,
39:14
Speaker 1: while it's awesome, and there are people for whom that's
39:17
Speaker 1: what they do, and they do well. I knew that
39:20
Speaker 1: I had other aspects of my gifting that needed to
39:25
Speaker 1: come forth. Therefore, the Kim Calls brand has the stand
39:29
Speaker 1: up comedy, the sitcom actress, the author, and the entrepreneur
39:34
Speaker 1: who teaches entrepreneurs how to find their gifts. And so
39:39
Speaker 1: this is about expansions. This is also about at this
39:43
Speaker 1: time when everything has slowed down and has stopped from
39:47
Speaker 1: some people's perspectives, and it has. It has not slowed
39:51
Speaker 1: down for me nor for anyone that I that I
39:55
Speaker 1: want to um have any coach or have any influence over.
40:01
Speaker 1: Now is the time to be pivoting on purpose and
40:05
Speaker 1: be thinking of new way to use your gifts. It's
40:07
Speaker 1: actually an opportunity and I am equal to the challenge
40:11
Speaker 1: because if you are well, you know, I really love
40:15
Speaker 1: your tone and you know, it almost feels like when
40:18
Speaker 1: I'm talking to you, it's like I'm looking at I'm talking,
40:21
Speaker 1: I'm listening to a professor, a professor, and uh, I'm
40:26
Speaker 1: doing you know. I mean, you know, I interview a
40:29
Speaker 1: lot of people, okay and so, and you're one of
40:31
Speaker 1: my favorite people. I tell you that, and you're like, really, yes,
40:34
Speaker 1: you are that you are because of the fact that
40:37
Speaker 1: because of the fact that I always marvel at UH,
40:40
Speaker 1: the ability to UH to be committed because what you're
40:44
Speaker 1: doing is a bigger commitment than being an actress a comedian,
40:49
Speaker 1: because people are responding to your brand from and say
40:53
Speaker 1: you can change my life. Nobody's as a telling the
40:56
Speaker 1: joke is to comman. Nobody said I change their life
40:58
Speaker 1: telling the joke or write in the script. But what
41:00
Speaker 1: you're doing with Community the Mastermind, you're changing lives. And
41:05
Speaker 1: so that's then it comes to the responsibility of being
41:08
Speaker 1: able to be there when people need an understand and
41:12
Speaker 1: coaching them that the downtime is not a flaw. That's
41:15
Speaker 1: part of the process, that downtime. Nobody's up forever. You know,
41:20
Speaker 1: you have to be ready for that down moment so
41:22
Speaker 1: you can go back up. And that's for the planning process.
41:25
Speaker 1: And that's why you have a monthly subscription. Correct I do,
41:29
Speaker 1: and I love you. Know. I thought I was real
41:31
Speaker 1: cute when I came up with the name community. So
41:34
Speaker 1: it's k I am you and I t wine mastermind
41:38
Speaker 1: dot com. And what it really is about is creating
41:42
Speaker 1: a community of like minded individuals in which my business partner,
41:48
Speaker 1: and I coached them through building their business self care.
41:52
Speaker 1: Like you know, we just did a class last week
41:54
Speaker 1: on I noticed that most of the ladies just that
41:57
Speaker 1: I'm overworked, I got too much of my plate. I
41:59
Speaker 1: don't what to do next, and so we did a
42:01
Speaker 1: masterclass on self care. Now, self care doesn't just mean
42:05
Speaker 1: getting you a facial and getting you we've kite and
42:07
Speaker 1: get your nails done. It really means rest. It means
42:12
Speaker 1: setting boundaries. It means saying no where saying yes would
42:17
Speaker 1: deplete you further. It means filling your cup so that
42:21
Speaker 1: you can serve others. And so I am passionate about
42:25
Speaker 1: helping people to find that find those resources. We give
42:31
Speaker 1: them the resources to uplevel their lives so that my
42:34
Speaker 1: ladies are more busy now than they were before the
42:38
Speaker 1: pandemic hit because they realized, I've got a vision, I've
42:41
Speaker 1: got to keep going, and I'm building an empire for
42:45
Speaker 1: myself that will last longer than than than me. This
42:51
Speaker 1: is about building legacy, and we know that our people
42:54
Speaker 1: more than ever need to be having this legacy conversation.
42:58
Speaker 1: And so I get to do that and it makes
43:00
Speaker 1: me so happy. And I didn't know this was my
43:03
Speaker 1: gift until I was in a down spiral, a downtime,
43:07
Speaker 1: you know. Two thousand and eight, which was tough for everybody,
43:10
Speaker 1: was when I figured out, oh wait a minute, I've
43:13
Speaker 1: better figure out some other things to do and not
43:16
Speaker 1: be reliant on a studio head saying yes, she's the
43:19
Speaker 1: one or ocean to lose some weight or be or
43:23
Speaker 1: you know, could she just could you just read the
43:25
Speaker 1: lines as we wrote them. I'm like, Okay, I can
43:28
Speaker 1: do that in this space. But in this space over here,
43:31
Speaker 1: I can create a community, uh and and create change.
43:35
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? And that's why that's
43:37
Speaker 1: why I love talking to you, because of the fact
43:39
Speaker 1: that your success pattern as a as an entertainer okay,
43:44
Speaker 1: that's a that's an entertainer, okay. And you you absolutely
43:47
Speaker 1: tell them the truth. Sometimes we we we don't know
43:51
Speaker 1: what our gifts are because of the fact they were
43:53
Speaker 1: so focused on what people telling us. This is where
43:56
Speaker 1: you make your money, this is direct that's the door
43:58
Speaker 1: you're supposed to open. Going that door, do what they
44:00
Speaker 1: tell you to do, come out, and your live a
44:02
Speaker 1: successful life. But that doesn't mean that that's the long
44:05
Speaker 1: term success. And because in the end, the Kim I
44:08
Speaker 1: talked to now. I'm not saying I didn't like the
44:11
Speaker 1: Kim I knew before, but the Kim I talked to now,
44:15
Speaker 1: it's such a worldly voice, such a voice of confidence,
44:19
Speaker 1: such a voice of this is what I want to
44:21
Speaker 1: do for myself. I can still do that other Stuffle
44:23
Speaker 1: show and do it outstandingly, but it's my option now.
44:28
Speaker 1: That is what I like about what I'm talking to,
44:30
Speaker 1: and that's what I try to tell people on the show.
44:32
Speaker 1: And when I see what you're doing, I gotta promote it.
44:35
Speaker 1: And I'm mad because you did this this session, you
44:38
Speaker 1: and you, and you just mentioned it on my show.
44:40
Speaker 1: We just did a retreat and didn't even contact me,
44:42
Speaker 1: and I keep telling your little skinny behind. I put
44:45
Speaker 1: you on my social media. I got almost a million follows,
44:48
Speaker 1: I got a name eight thousand, and it's got on
44:50
Speaker 1: the car. I tell you, I'm gonna put you into
44:52
Speaker 1: my newsletter this Wednesday. I ain't even asking the show
44:55
Speaker 1: you love because you're brilliant, But guess what I gotta
44:57
Speaker 1: hear about the stuff when you come on my show.
45:00
Speaker 1: Should I be upset to not be upset with me?
45:04
Speaker 1: Because we are going to collaborate because I want to
45:07
Speaker 1: invite you to be a featured speaker in something else
45:12
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I have something. I did this in May
45:15
Speaker 1: and you're gonna love this. It was called the Captivating
45:18
Speaker 1: Conversation Summit, and at the time it was called how
45:21
Speaker 1: to Thrive with Certainty in Uncertain Times. It was such
45:26
Speaker 1: a success that I decided to do I call it
45:29
Speaker 1: cap CON Captivating Conversations to this time. It's about being
45:34
Speaker 1: perfectly positioned to prosper. And you're hearing it right now,
45:40
Speaker 1: everybody that's listening. I'm inviting Rashan McDonald to come and
45:43
Speaker 1: be a featured speaker in the cap CON to All
45:47
Speaker 1: details will be coming soon, so just hold on for
45:50
Speaker 1: you accepted the accept because you don't want because because
45:55
Speaker 1: because the fact of the matter is that you it's
45:59
Speaker 1: a clear understanding that the COVID nineteen is not going
46:01
Speaker 1: to go away. We're gonna go back to you know,
46:05
Speaker 1: live events. There will be much mass wearing to be
46:08
Speaker 1: a dominant participant in that process and I'm okay with that.
46:11
Speaker 1: But the world but people have a clear understanding that
46:14
Speaker 1: it's okay to do virtual events, to virtual retreats and
46:18
Speaker 1: all these things and guess what you have to be
46:20
Speaker 1: at the forefront of that to be able to take
46:22
Speaker 1: advantage of it. What made you understand that there was
46:25
Speaker 1: a business opportunity in the at this level? Kim? Well,
46:31
Speaker 1: when when you know, it's so funny. It was a
46:33
Speaker 1: domino effect. When so I've been making most of my
46:39
Speaker 1: way through speaking, right, so when i'm you know, I'm
46:43
Speaker 1: not on the show, and we'll talk about in the
46:44
Speaker 1: cut in just a moment. But we filmed all that
46:47
Speaker 1: in January. It was done. I had a full schedule
46:50
Speaker 1: of speaking events, your women's empowerment events, entrepreneurial events, just
46:56
Speaker 1: and it was a domino effect that one after the
46:59
Speaker 1: other after the other after the other got they got canceled.
47:03
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my goodness, So you know
47:05
Speaker 1: this is now March and April and May were canceled,
47:08
Speaker 1: and in May, June, July and all just got canceled.
47:11
Speaker 1: This it just kept going and some of these events
47:13
Speaker 1: are like, we're not going to even try until I
47:16
Speaker 1: was like, well, if my main source of connecting to
47:19
Speaker 1: people other than online, uh, meaning like you know, doing
47:23
Speaker 1: my own things online, is why don't I just create
47:26
Speaker 1: a big thing online? And so captivating conversations provided me
47:31
Speaker 1: an opportunity to do a five day summit with thirty speakers,
47:36
Speaker 1: some of them you know from you know. I called
47:38
Speaker 1: them my busin besties, my Hollywood besties, and my real besties,
47:42
Speaker 1: and they each came on and talked about their their
47:46
Speaker 1: perspective on how to thrive. At this time, I had
47:48
Speaker 1: a meditation coach. I had you know, various business um
47:53
Speaker 1: um folks teaching people how to take their business online.
47:56
Speaker 1: It was like, wait a minute, I can headline my
47:58
Speaker 1: own events all from my living room, and so why
48:03
Speaker 1: not do that again? So yes, we'll be live again together.
48:06
Speaker 1: I'm miss hugging folks. My team gets mad at me
48:09
Speaker 1: because I look, people think clear to hug, you come
48:12
Speaker 1: home in for hugs. What do you mean? You know
48:17
Speaker 1: that that's that's that's uh, that's and and that's really
48:21
Speaker 1: interesting you say that because you know, with this whole
48:23
Speaker 1: COVID it just really changed the way we emotionally treat
48:29
Speaker 1: each other, you know, basically, you know, it's it's a disconnect,
48:32
Speaker 1: and you know, and I kind of I kind of
48:34
Speaker 1: wonder how that's going to affect this generation of young
48:37
Speaker 1: people and children because COVID nineteen is not gonna go away.
48:40
Speaker 1: It's not gonna go away, and so I don't think
48:42
Speaker 1: it's gonna go away. And I hate these I mean,
48:44
Speaker 1: I know we have to wear a mask, but I
48:46
Speaker 1: don't like that you can't see I'm smiling at you.
48:49
Speaker 1: And is that that's exactly the truth, that's exactly true,
48:53
Speaker 1: is that you don't understand. And and sometimes I see
48:56
Speaker 1: people I try to smile that go they don't see
48:58
Speaker 1: me smiling, dummy, they you know, they don't. I want
49:01
Speaker 1: to acknowledge people that I feel good about them being
49:03
Speaker 1: around me in the grocery store and things of that nature,
49:07
Speaker 1: because it really does take your your temperament down a
49:10
Speaker 1: notch knowing that you can't you can't let everybody know
49:14
Speaker 1: what's going on in your life. So it's really, it
49:17
Speaker 1: really is amazing that your value to me, your value
49:21
Speaker 1: to me is what you're doing on this side of
49:24
Speaker 1: the table. And the beauty of it is that you
49:26
Speaker 1: know this is only going to get bigger for you.
49:28
Speaker 1: And so what is the future. What is the future
49:31
Speaker 1: of Kim Colds but also tom Unity, you know customary, Well,
49:39
Speaker 1: so I've got the community mastermind. Like I said, that's
49:41
Speaker 1: a monthly membership. Then I've got I just enrolled a
49:45
Speaker 1: group of ladies and something I call speak and get clients.
49:49
Speaker 1: So we know that this is called the money making show, right,
49:54
Speaker 1: So it think people how to use their stories in
49:58
Speaker 1: order to connect with stential customers and clients and sell
50:03
Speaker 1: their products and goods and services. Nothing better than listen.
50:06
Speaker 1: We can't smile with each other because of these dag
50:08
Speaker 1: on nests. But when I share with you my story
50:11
Speaker 1: of the challenges I've come through and why I created
50:14
Speaker 1: this fill in the blank, this book, this course, this
50:18
Speaker 1: product that now will solve your solution, the best way
50:21
Speaker 1: for me to share it is through my story. So
50:23
Speaker 1: I teach that. So there's that, and then there is
50:26
Speaker 1: everything else that goes along with it. You know, the
50:29
Speaker 1: products that that come out of the ideas. You know,
50:32
Speaker 1: the T shirts if you think that there won't be
50:35
Speaker 1: a T shirt for the for the captivating conversations, perfectly
50:38
Speaker 1: posing the proper then all those things, and then the
50:42
Speaker 1: and and more coaching, more and more coaching. And I
50:47
Speaker 1: do all this while sitting in you know, like I'm
50:49
Speaker 1: not a person right now that's creating my own creative projects.
50:54
Speaker 1: In terms of Hollywood, like, I don't have a sitcom
50:57
Speaker 1: idea that I'm trying to pitch right now. I have
51:00
Speaker 1: a movie idea that I'm trying to pitch right now.
51:03
Speaker 1: I'm letting keeping myself afloat and keeping myself out there
51:08
Speaker 1: with this aspect of my gift while I audition and
51:11
Speaker 1: do these other things. So I'm sure that one day
51:13
Speaker 1: there will be a sitcom from me or you know something.
51:17
Speaker 1: But waiting and not waiting for them has provided me
51:21
Speaker 1: the opportunity to create my own. So there there might
51:23
Speaker 1: be a new YouTube show coming. Oh I love that.
51:26
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you about that. Come on, now, let's
51:28
Speaker 1: talk about that. They gotta come, gotta come. It's time
51:31
Speaker 1: for a podcast, which has to come. It has to go.
51:35
Speaker 1: And I would, and I'm gonna tell you something, I
51:36
Speaker 1: would do it. You know, podcasts are cool, but I
51:39
Speaker 1: would do it through YouTube first. If I would do
51:41
Speaker 1: it both, you know, if you can, you know, take
51:43
Speaker 1: the audio, drop it on your YouTube and build those subscribers. Okay,
51:47
Speaker 1: because of the fact that you you you you, I'm
51:50
Speaker 1: just telling you got it, Kim, you got it. I
51:53
Speaker 1: you know, I hear, I see it. It's it's it's
51:57
Speaker 1: a it's a structure in your boars. You put one
52:00
Speaker 1: sentence and one word after the next, no stumbling. You
52:03
Speaker 1: you got the tone, you got the conversation. You've got
52:06
Speaker 1: the ability to motivate, and you are very nice in
52:09
Speaker 1: your approach. In other words, you know, it's like it's
52:12
Speaker 1: like you're putting the hand on my back and saying
52:14
Speaker 1: you can do it, and I'm gonna show you how,
52:16
Speaker 1: which means that it's much more, much more empowering, because
52:21
Speaker 1: you're not gonna leave me at the door and close
52:22
Speaker 1: it behind me. Right. Well, and you're right, and I
52:27
Speaker 1: think that we have enough people who are um, you know,
52:31
Speaker 1: wanting to be sort of on top. Is the one
52:34
Speaker 1: that's in control of everything. I'm saying, let's all grow together,
52:38
Speaker 1: let's all build together. What do you bring to the table.
52:42
Speaker 1: What do you bring to the table, What do you
52:44
Speaker 1: bring to the table? Great, let's get together and and
52:47
Speaker 1: inspire and motivate more. And and the thing is that
52:50
Speaker 1: when we touch each other in that way, it reverberates,
52:54
Speaker 1: that becomes, you know, the drop in the pond. So
52:57
Speaker 1: the more we collaborate, the more we create experiences for
53:01
Speaker 1: other people. With your platform, you have, you know, people
53:05
Speaker 1: can listen and learn and and experience. And it's not
53:09
Speaker 1: just you sitting in your ivory tower going I am Rashan,
53:12
Speaker 1: and I can create. You're saying, I can create, and
53:15
Speaker 1: then I can teach. I can create, and then I
53:17
Speaker 1: can share and you can and I can spark it
53:20
Speaker 1: in YouTube. And we need that more than ever. Right
53:23
Speaker 1: now we can't. We've got to get out of our
53:25
Speaker 1: silos um and I know that this pandemic, you know,
53:29
Speaker 1: made us go indoors. We have to find new ways
53:32
Speaker 1: to be with each other. And and this is, you know,
53:35
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Speaker 1: you know, that's interesting. It's finding that fine line between
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Speaker 1: allowing yourself to be vulnerable and other people to see
56:00
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable. Um actually makes you even more human,
56:04
Speaker 1: right and it makes you I think it helps people
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Speaker 1: to relate to you. I know that what I'm doing
56:10
Speaker 1: right now for my self care is I am I
56:14
Speaker 1: I can't go out, so I stay within. And what
56:17
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56:19
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56:21
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56:25
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56:32
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56:35
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56:39
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56:42
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56:54
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56:57
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57:16
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57:22
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57:25
Speaker 1: it's finding that balance for yourself, finding that harmony. And
57:29
Speaker 1: remember early on I put up a post that you know,
57:32
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to money making conversations. I'm your host Sean
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1:06:35
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1:06:37
Speaker 1: the in the Steve Harvey Morning Show days. His name
1:06:42
Speaker 1: is ron Gil Yard. He's a trusted marketing and media
1:06:44
Speaker 1: executive who has advanced the initiative of companies and individuals
1:06:48
Speaker 1: in the technology, marketing and music industries for over twenty
1:06:52
Speaker 1: five years. He's a four thinking strategist. Guiliard has been
1:06:56
Speaker 1: able to consistently drive revenue growth, market penetration, and create
1:07:00
Speaker 1: developments for all his clients. Also on the show, first
1:07:03
Speaker 1: time he's on the West coast. He already told me.
1:07:05
Speaker 1: His name is Will Campbell. He's the co founder and
1:07:08
Speaker 1: CEO a Quantasy LLC. Will's more than twenty five year
1:07:11
Speaker 1: career can be most easily summarized by the quote, if
1:07:15
Speaker 1: you want to come up with new answers, you have
1:07:17
Speaker 1: to ask new questions. With his vision that he's co
1:07:20
Speaker 1: founded and led the growth of the agency to what
1:07:23
Speaker 1: now Mounster more than sixty people and one fully integrated
1:07:26
Speaker 1: cultural marketing force. Please welcome to Money Making Conversations, Chief
1:07:30
Speaker 1: Growth Officer of Quantasy and Associates, where he is also
1:07:33
Speaker 1: a partner with co founder and CEO a Quantasy LLC,
1:07:37
Speaker 1: Ron Gillyard and Will Campbell. Thank you, sir, I had
1:07:44
Speaker 1: to get a lot of you got a lot of
1:07:45
Speaker 1: talking about man. You know, what I'm saying. But when
1:07:51
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1:07:54
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1:07:56
Speaker 1: up what this show really about. And I hope they
1:07:58
Speaker 1: took us a compliment. I felt that in the industry
1:08:01
Speaker 1: that we that I try to reach the entrepreneurial space,
1:08:04
Speaker 1: the information space. YouTube guys are to me, it's recognizable
1:08:08
Speaker 1: talents like Kevin Hard type talents, like the high profile
1:08:12
Speaker 1: celebrity talents. You've got some celebrities in your own right
1:08:15
Speaker 1: as what you guys are doing in this particular brand
1:08:17
Speaker 1: of business. And since you are the co founder and
1:08:20
Speaker 1: the CEO of Quantasy LLC, Well, Cowbell, tell us what
1:08:23
Speaker 1: that what that company does? Initially, Yeah, thanks for Sean. UM.
1:08:28
Speaker 1: So we're creative services agency UM. I think the shortest
1:08:32
Speaker 1: way to put it is we help businesses and brands
1:08:36
Speaker 1: grow by Christian culture in the right direction UM. And
1:08:40
Speaker 1: the services that we provide extended entertainment, technology, marketing, branding,
1:08:47
Speaker 1: UM and how we bring culture into those worlds to
1:08:51
Speaker 1: help grow businesses and brands. Right, So, now that's that's
1:08:55
Speaker 1: the creative shot. Then then run you come in. I
1:08:58
Speaker 1: see revenue growth tied to your name explain to me
1:09:01
Speaker 1: and I listen to exactly what does that mean? UM,
1:09:06
Speaker 1: that means finding opportunities to to grow the company from
1:09:11
Speaker 1: a financial standpoint, from revenue standpoint, from a side standpoint,
1:09:15
Speaker 1: and helping our partners. You know, the sign of a
1:09:18
Speaker 1: good partner is someone who not only you know, who
1:09:21
Speaker 1: pays you money. Yeah, you're an employee, if they just
1:09:25
Speaker 1: pay you, but if you're able to show them ways
1:09:28
Speaker 1: in which they can grow their business and elevate you know,
1:09:31
Speaker 1: their business and grow their revenue, then that's the sign
1:09:35
Speaker 1: of a good partnership. So with the clients that we
1:09:38
Speaker 1: have and hope to have, UM, we've always tried to
1:09:42
Speaker 1: not only you know, be there and be creative from
1:09:45
Speaker 1: the marketing side, but we look at that business Will
1:09:48
Speaker 1: and myself and and other members of the team, and
1:09:52
Speaker 1: we try to find ways if they're not thinking about something,
1:09:55
Speaker 1: to illuminate that for them. I used to always say,
1:09:58
Speaker 1: sometimes you're so to ze running the store that you
1:10:03
Speaker 1: you you spend no time growing the store or you know,
1:10:07
Speaker 1: so just finding ways to to to increase profitability. Where
1:10:13
Speaker 1: it's like to say, you know, you can't make the Hamburger,
1:10:15
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1:10:18
Speaker 1: same time, somebody got to be working a cash register
1:10:20
Speaker 1: to you know, And that's really what this is all about.
1:10:25
Speaker 1: When when I try to interview people on these shows,
1:10:28
Speaker 1: I try to get information about what money making conversation
1:10:30
Speaker 1: really is all about. It's about these different layers that
1:10:33
Speaker 1: we have out there. And so Will, why did you
1:10:35
Speaker 1: why did you bring up individual like Ron into your company? What?
1:10:39
Speaker 1: What what visionary needs did you have to have somebody
1:10:42
Speaker 1: in your platform? Yeah, you know, it's interesting, man. When
1:10:46
Speaker 1: when we first started this company, you know, we saw
1:10:49
Speaker 1: these different worlds. Uh, there were people in the entertainment space, um,
1:10:55
Speaker 1: and then on a whole different plane, there were people
1:10:58
Speaker 1: in the tech space, UM. And then in a whole
1:11:01
Speaker 1: different world there were people in the marketing space. And
1:11:04
Speaker 1: they were all very sort of like disconnected units. But
1:11:07
Speaker 1: I always saw it as one space. I always saw
1:11:11
Speaker 1: how technology works with entertainment works with brand development as
1:11:16
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1:11:21
Speaker 1: our friendship first he instantly occurred to me and somebody
1:11:25
Speaker 1: that just got that, and it's it's a way that
1:11:27
Speaker 1: he had been working for years and years. He and
1:11:30
Speaker 1: I started off on some entrepreneurial things doing some things together. Um,
1:11:34
Speaker 1: And it came to the point where it was like, hey, man,
1:11:36
Speaker 1: I would love for you to come over here and
1:11:38
Speaker 1: help me grow this. We had a similar vision um
1:11:42
Speaker 1: as well as with my other partner, and so it
1:11:45
Speaker 1: really was just a clear understanding and he has so
1:11:49
Speaker 1: much knowledge and insight into where we were trying to
1:11:52
Speaker 1: take the business. It just made a lot of sense
1:11:54
Speaker 1: for us. Okay, now he now he threw something out
1:11:56
Speaker 1: in I gotta ask you what knowledge it insight did
1:11:59
Speaker 1: you have? Ron? I just I'm just just being curious here.
1:12:03
Speaker 1: You know, I'm listening to a visionary, solved person over there.
1:12:07
Speaker 1: And I love you. You know, I've always loved your
1:12:08
Speaker 1: personality because I don't care what was going bad, good,
1:12:12
Speaker 1: You're always rong. You stayed right there, you stay centered.
1:12:14
Speaker 1: So what what what qualities did you have that Ron?
1:12:17
Speaker 1: That that really just just stepped the whole process that
1:12:20
Speaker 1: made it a great partnership. UM. No better question for Will,
1:12:28
Speaker 1: but I will. Sometimes sometimes you gotta talk about yourself. Okay,
1:12:33
Speaker 1: other people talk about you, but sometimes you gotta talk
1:12:35
Speaker 1: about this because a lot of people don't do that.
1:12:37
Speaker 1: That's what social media is all about. Social media is
1:12:39
Speaker 1: is the form I call it. We live in the Mohammad,
1:12:42
Speaker 1: the Mamahali era, That's what I call people. Because you
1:12:44
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1:12:47
Speaker 1: but now people are doing it now. So I'm not
1:12:49
Speaker 1: saying you gotta tell the people you the greatest. But
1:12:51
Speaker 1: there are qualities that people see in people like you
1:12:55
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1:12:58
Speaker 1: And I met you in the record game, you know,
1:13:01
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1:13:03
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1:13:06
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1:13:10
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1:13:11
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1:13:18
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1:13:22
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1:13:28
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1:13:32
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1:13:37
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1:13:44
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1:13:46
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1:13:52
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1:13:54
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1:14:00
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1:14:03
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1:14:06
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1:14:09
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1:14:12
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1:14:16
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1:14:19
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1:14:25
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1:14:28
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1:14:33
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1:14:36
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1:14:42
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1:14:45
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1:14:48
Speaker 1: I was in a business that, in the music business,
1:14:51
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1:14:54
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1:14:57
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1:15:01
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1:15:05
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1:15:11
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1:15:15
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1:15:18
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1:15:23
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1:15:27
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1:15:30
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1:15:35
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1:15:41
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1:15:44
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1:15:48
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1:15:57
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1:16:02
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1:16:05
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1:16:08
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1:16:11
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1:16:15
Speaker 1: about this guy. And he had similar qualities to some
1:16:20
Speaker 1: of those people that I named that I've worked with
1:16:22
Speaker 1: in the music business. And so it was a no
1:16:25
Speaker 1: brainer for me to try to be helpful. And I
1:16:29
Speaker 1: had a perspective and I had this worldview, and you
1:16:31
Speaker 1: get elevated to this in music, you get elevated to
1:16:35
Speaker 1: this somewhat unreal perch of that you know everything when
1:16:41
Speaker 1: you don't. But since I was on that perch, I
1:16:45
Speaker 1: was gonna try to read and and consume as much
1:16:48
Speaker 1: knowledge as possible. And I'm not a talkative guy normally,
1:16:52
Speaker 1: but if I become comfortable with you, it's hard to
1:16:55
Speaker 1: shut me up when I think I know something. Definitely, Uh,
1:16:59
Speaker 1: you have to skip the gift of gap. We all
1:17:01
Speaker 1: need to have that in order to be successful in
1:17:03
Speaker 1: this business. I'm speaking to just reintroducing you guys to
1:17:06
Speaker 1: my audience. Roun Guillyard and Will Campbell Quantity and Associates
1:17:10
Speaker 1: Quantity LLC, which especially a fully integrated cultural and marketing force.
1:17:15
Speaker 1: Um Ron is on the West East coast and Willows
1:17:19
Speaker 1: on the West coast. Now, Will he said something, You
1:17:21
Speaker 1: said that you can sell water to a drowning man. Okay,
1:17:24
Speaker 1: So now the pandemic hit. Now, when the pandemic hit
1:17:28
Speaker 1: in Marching, this country said we have to shut down.
1:17:31
Speaker 1: All my staff became employed via zoom and so I
1:17:35
Speaker 1: don't have sixty people, but I got enough that I
1:17:38
Speaker 1: had to keep the checks rolling to greet some type
1:17:40
Speaker 1: of synergy. And also trying to continue to make money,
1:17:44
Speaker 1: a plan to make money. So with the skilled level,
1:17:47
Speaker 1: did you have being able to sell water to to
1:17:50
Speaker 1: the water to a drowning man? What did you do
1:17:52
Speaker 1: when it and what was your perspective when the COVID
1:17:55
Speaker 1: ainteen hit and the impacted your business practices? UM? I
1:18:01
Speaker 1: mean it was you know, when it comes to I
1:18:03
Speaker 1: think the idea of selling two people, it's about how
1:18:09
Speaker 1: you can help. And now's the question we asked, how
1:18:12
Speaker 1: can I help? Where can I help? UM? And and
1:18:17
Speaker 1: helping people sells itself. UM. And you know, I don't
1:18:22
Speaker 1: think people play enough value on what it means to
1:18:25
Speaker 1: provide value to others. So what we did we really
1:18:29
Speaker 1: looked at UM the people in our world and what
1:18:33
Speaker 1: challenges they were facing, what new challenges they were facing
1:18:37
Speaker 1: in light of the pandemic UM and where we could
1:18:40
Speaker 1: come in and play a role. And so for each
1:18:43
Speaker 1: of our different clients that were different issues that they
1:18:48
Speaker 1: were suffering to look like, we also looked internally, but
1:18:52
Speaker 1: as for instance, UM, knowing that we have in house
1:18:56
Speaker 1: engineering and technology chops. UM, we look that event business
1:19:01
Speaker 1: which had gotten decimated because you know, people couldn't produce events.
1:19:07
Speaker 1: We had clients that had events scheduled that they had
1:19:09
Speaker 1: to cancel. We have friends that are event producers, UM,
1:19:13
Speaker 1: and so we delivered technology that we had already been
1:19:18
Speaker 1: working on to create virtual events and UM. You know
1:19:23
Speaker 1: people in the business. For instance, working closely with Rich
1:19:27
Speaker 1: Dennis Essence, who's also a visionary, great guy, UM, their
1:19:34
Speaker 1: Essence Festival, which as you know, is a massive, massive,
1:19:37
Speaker 1: massive event people generally it was gonna be canceled. So
1:19:43
Speaker 1: not only do do those six hundred thousand people within
1:19:47
Speaker 1: the black community missed out on this huge opportunity, there's
1:19:51
Speaker 1: a whole laundry list of clients and sponsors and all that.
1:19:56
Speaker 1: So this would be a big revenue hit, right, So
1:20:00
Speaker 1: bye bye. Partner with Rich and his team to deliver
1:20:03
Speaker 1: the Essence Fest. Virtually, he's got a great group of
1:20:06
Speaker 1: producers and staff on his side as well. By a
1:20:09
Speaker 1: partner with him to deliver it, he was able to
1:20:11
Speaker 1: help those clients to recover that revenue and still serve
1:20:17
Speaker 1: his mission and his and his audience and his Essence
1:20:22
Speaker 1: subscribers and so like I said that that sells itself, UM,
1:20:27
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1:20:30
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Speaker 1: You know, it's really interesting that you brought up to
1:21:38
Speaker 1: essence because of the fact it is a massive live
1:21:41
Speaker 1: event and massive live events or any live events. You know,
1:21:44
Speaker 1: it affected individuals, tour and stand up comedians, singers, large tours,
1:21:49
Speaker 1: movie theaters, anything that had mass attendance was affected by
1:21:54
Speaker 1: the country shutdown, as well as still affected by the
1:21:56
Speaker 1: COVID naeteen and the virus that may be encountered without
1:22:00
Speaker 1: or SoC social distancing their masks. Now do you feel
1:22:03
Speaker 1: that they're because of the pandemic that the virtual industry
1:22:07
Speaker 1: When I say that virtual entertainment side has been even
1:22:11
Speaker 1: more developed when I watched the MMIs last night and
1:22:15
Speaker 1: just watching, uh, you know, I've been fortunate to participate
1:22:18
Speaker 1: in some self produced virtual events myself. What do you
1:22:22
Speaker 1: think the Essence Festival would always would consider doing a
1:22:26
Speaker 1: virtual version of it because of the success that had
1:22:29
Speaker 1: this year, or you think that the live way is
1:22:32
Speaker 1: the only way that they're going to continue to do business.
1:22:36
Speaker 1: And what a great question. And here and here's what
1:22:38
Speaker 1: I say. I'm gonna go back to go forward. So,
1:22:40
Speaker 1: as you know, in recent years, a lot of the
1:22:44
Speaker 1: business skylind whether it's Coachella, whether it's Essence Festival, showing
1:22:49
Speaker 1: about music, festivals, conferences, complex coun you name it and
1:22:53
Speaker 1: from and these were huge revenue centers, right, sponsors for products,
1:22:58
Speaker 1: sales for tickets, for all of those kinds of things.
1:23:02
Speaker 1: But what you've seen recently over the last years is
1:23:05
Speaker 1: how much these a lot event experiences were working to
1:23:09
Speaker 1: become more digital anyway. Right, So you go to event,
1:23:14
Speaker 1: now you're saying, uh, photo ops for Instagram and hashtags
1:23:19
Speaker 1: to track this and to sell this, because creating an
1:23:23
Speaker 1: epicenter of culture and activity that could then spawn a
1:23:29
Speaker 1: global reach, right to create more engagement um from all
1:23:35
Speaker 1: around the world. So I think that global perspective of
1:23:38
Speaker 1: a live event is only going to continue. I think
1:23:42
Speaker 1: during purely virtual events, I think there's some fatigue around that,
1:23:46
Speaker 1: and so I think even though they have swelled, when
1:23:50
Speaker 1: the actual physical events come back, it's going to enhance
1:23:54
Speaker 1: the virtual eventage, right because now it's like, hey, you
1:23:59
Speaker 1: can participate pay in this event um in addition to
1:24:04
Speaker 1: the physical versus instead of right, it's not instead of
1:24:08
Speaker 1: it's how it's how they work together. So now you
1:24:10
Speaker 1: can have a coach olla, a conference kind of essence best,
1:24:14
Speaker 1: but still have a global reach where people can kind
1:24:16
Speaker 1: of participate and grow. So I think that physical events
1:24:20
Speaker 1: will come back, and they'll come back with even greater
1:24:24
Speaker 1: digital extensions and capacity going forward. And so with that
1:24:29
Speaker 1: being said, Rod I was talking to the agency that
1:24:33
Speaker 1: represents the Air Force and we were talking about virtual events,
1:24:36
Speaker 1: and they were saying, is you know they've not seen
1:24:38
Speaker 1: enough yet to quantify quantify the success or whether these
1:24:43
Speaker 1: virtual events were because you know, in a live event,
1:24:45
Speaker 1: you know, when somebody walks through the door, you can
1:24:47
Speaker 1: that's a person. You can you can get their information,
1:24:50
Speaker 1: get their background information, and they can be part of
1:24:52
Speaker 1: the data growth and you can you can you can
1:24:55
Speaker 1: justify uh that action. Now when you're getting into this
1:24:59
Speaker 1: virtual world, which is a potential new revenue growth stream
1:25:02
Speaker 1: for for you to be able to go out there
1:25:04
Speaker 1: and talk to new partners or old partners, how does
1:25:07
Speaker 1: this conversation I just had with Will and the conversation
1:25:10
Speaker 1: I just had with this agency that represents the Air
1:25:12
Speaker 1: Force come coming to play with you and what you're
1:25:15
Speaker 1: when you're when you're trying to generate revenue growth. I
1:25:19
Speaker 1: think the thing that I tell someone and I didn't
1:25:22
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take credit for this quote. Well, there's
1:25:26
Speaker 1: two quotes that I try to tell try to slip
1:25:28
Speaker 1: into every conversation that I have with someone about growth.
1:25:32
Speaker 1: One of them is predicting rain doesn't count building the
1:25:36
Speaker 1: arc does. There are a lot of people that could
1:25:39
Speaker 1: tell you what's gonna happen and what they think is
1:25:41
Speaker 1: gonna happen and all of this other stuff, and they
1:25:44
Speaker 1: do nothing and then they're still not prepared when that
1:25:47
Speaker 1: thing happens. Right um. The other one is the quickest
1:25:53
Speaker 1: way to failure is always is saying but that's not
1:25:57
Speaker 1: how we've always done it. And so I think to
1:26:00
Speaker 1: paggyback on the question that you ask Will and and
1:26:03
Speaker 1: and also to answer the question that you've just asked
1:26:06
Speaker 1: me is and I'll tell this story. We started building
1:26:14
Speaker 1: that virtual platform that Will spoke of before COVID nineteen.
1:26:19
Speaker 1: We we started building it off an idea of what if, again,
1:26:24
Speaker 1: asking different questions, right, um, what if I can experience?
1:26:32
Speaker 1: What if I want to experience the live event? And
1:26:35
Speaker 1: then we'll use essence as an example. There are things
1:26:39
Speaker 1: that essence that you are missing out on when you
1:26:43
Speaker 1: make certain decisions right about what you're going to do
1:26:46
Speaker 1: and how you're going to spend your time. Yes, everyone
1:26:49
Speaker 1: is in the stadium at night, but there are seminars
1:26:51
Speaker 1: by day. There's you know, they take over the convention center,
1:26:55
Speaker 1: you can go shopping, you could do all of these
1:26:57
Speaker 1: other things, and all of these so you make choices
1:27:01
Speaker 1: and you don't get to see other things. Virtual allows
1:27:04
Speaker 1: you to get that rest you need for that Janet
1:27:10
Speaker 1: Jackson concert tonight and still see that panel with Rashan
1:27:15
Speaker 1: during the daytime. Right, And so from a revenue growth standpoint,
1:27:20
Speaker 1: this person has spent money on the ticket, spent money
1:27:24
Speaker 1: on a hotel, renting a car, or engaging in ubers
1:27:28
Speaker 1: and transportation, building that local economy, building money for you know,
1:27:33
Speaker 1: Essence Coffers. Where's the revenue? Where's the growth potential? I'm
1:27:38
Speaker 1: gonna charge him to log in to see Rashawn's panel,
1:27:45
Speaker 1: and he could still be in his hotel room. He
1:27:47
Speaker 1: or she could still be in their hotel room preparing
1:27:51
Speaker 1: for a concert that they're gonna see tonight. So there
1:27:54
Speaker 1: was always I have a comic con analogy, I have
1:27:56
Speaker 1: a complex kind analogy, have all of those other things.
1:28:00
Speaker 1: So I think the other thing is the barrier of entry.
1:28:05
Speaker 1: We all had to sign into Zoom. I clicked the button,
1:28:09
Speaker 1: I clicked on the link. Someone in your organization let
1:28:12
Speaker 1: me in, and we're here. But if you wanted to
1:28:15
Speaker 1: gather more information, then I fill out something so that
1:28:20
Speaker 1: same data that you're getting by might be physically buying
1:28:24
Speaker 1: that ticket through ticket Master or whatever for that live event,
1:28:27
Speaker 1: you can gather that gap data and a more accurate
1:28:30
Speaker 1: version of that data digitally. And so all of that
1:28:34
Speaker 1: helps with UM growth and thinking about UM how to
1:28:40
Speaker 1: engage both in a physical and digital world. I love
1:28:44
Speaker 1: before COVID nineteen, I think people thought it was one
1:28:48
Speaker 1: or the other, and we've we always viewed it as
1:28:51
Speaker 1: one Ambia, which is very smart when you when I
1:28:54
Speaker 1: see companies like Disney when they do what they're doing
1:28:57
Speaker 1: with the movie move On, which they yet to tell
1:28:59
Speaker 1: anybody how much money they made so far, when they said, look,
1:29:02
Speaker 1: we got eighty million subscribers and we're gonna charge thirty
1:29:05
Speaker 1: dollars a ticket. If we can pull in ten percent
1:29:08
Speaker 1: of that and still put this in the movies. There
1:29:10
Speaker 1: that ten percent that we got, we get we control
1:29:12
Speaker 1: one hurt percent. And the thing that you know, one
1:29:15
Speaker 1: of the major reasons of just hearing numbers like that
1:29:18
Speaker 1: and talking to a growth a spirit and talking to
1:29:20
Speaker 1: a founder or a visionary can consider both of you
1:29:23
Speaker 1: guys visionaries when I when I talk about the futures
1:29:25
Speaker 1: that the technology aspect, and one thing is always angered
1:29:29
Speaker 1: me guys, is that blacks has always been viewed as
1:29:33
Speaker 1: less less capable of delivering the technically advanced are the
1:29:38
Speaker 1: the technically perceived well organized platform? Do you what? What
1:29:44
Speaker 1: do you have to fight against will when you talk
1:29:46
Speaker 1: about your your business when people and not saying people
1:29:49
Speaker 1: are doing this. Let me just get that cleared up.
1:29:50
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about my experience and dealing with people
1:29:54
Speaker 1: having a having a point of view that can be
1:29:56
Speaker 1: limited based on what they perceived I can do as
1:29:59
Speaker 1: an after that an American or as a company, how
1:30:02
Speaker 1: do you walk through that next step and and present
1:30:04
Speaker 1: your company is capable of doing everything you know? UM?
1:30:11
Speaker 1: The short answer is sometimes you can show them better
1:30:14
Speaker 1: than you can tell them. UM. And I think that
1:30:18
Speaker 1: you have to UM put your faith in your team
1:30:21
Speaker 1: and the work and do what you can UM. Now
1:30:24
Speaker 1: that said, there are a lot of barriers to access
1:30:29
Speaker 1: that we face, UM, limitations to resources that we face,
1:30:35
Speaker 1: and so at the same token, I'm fully aware of that,
1:30:38
Speaker 1: and I think just because maybe I've been able to
1:30:42
Speaker 1: have some success doing X y Z doesn't guarantee that
1:30:46
Speaker 1: the next person in my position is going to have
1:30:49
Speaker 1: a fair shot, and so I don't just look at
1:30:51
Speaker 1: it it's like, oh, well, hey, look we did it.
1:30:54
Speaker 1: And even though that there's those that have done more
1:30:57
Speaker 1: and have had greater success than us, I know that
1:31:00
Speaker 1: there's always like various limitations and so UM. With that
1:31:03
Speaker 1: in mind, we still spend a lot of our time
1:31:06
Speaker 1: trying to break down those barriers with some of the
1:31:09
Speaker 1: philothrophic work that we do, with some of the advocacy
1:31:12
Speaker 1: work that we do. I serve on the Los Angeles
1:31:16
Speaker 1: County UM Small Business Commission for that exact reason, to
1:31:21
Speaker 1: find ways to advocate for resources and opportunities for small
1:31:26
Speaker 1: businesses UM in in l A, which is largely UM minority.
1:31:31
Speaker 1: So UM, for me personally, it's about continuing to trying
1:31:36
Speaker 1: to partner with the right people gain access. For instance,
1:31:40
Speaker 1: in this opportunity to be able to partner with you
1:31:43
Speaker 1: will share knowledge and information to to an audience that's
1:31:45
Speaker 1: come to trust what you're doing and what you have
1:31:48
Speaker 1: to say UM, and then just continue to focus on
1:31:51
Speaker 1: doing really good work UM so that people you know,
1:31:56
Speaker 1: gain trust in what you're doing. We know that reason.
1:31:59
Speaker 1: I bring that up because I've been fortunate to be
1:32:01
Speaker 1: in this business, especially on the radio side, from two
1:32:03
Speaker 1: thousand and listen watch agencies to go from black agencies
1:32:08
Speaker 1: to the term multi cultural agencies, and then they started
1:32:11
Speaker 1: giving up the money and the money seems to be
1:32:14
Speaker 1: lesser for the on the black side of the agency
1:32:17
Speaker 1: is trying to target that particular audience. And so now
1:32:20
Speaker 1: in the middle of a pandemic, and we've seen a
1:32:22
Speaker 1: tremendous surge. When I say surge, I'm talking about Black
1:32:26
Speaker 1: Lives Matters. We've seen HBCU donations, We've seen companies announced
1:32:31
Speaker 1: that they have money set aside for minority supplier development,
1:32:35
Speaker 1: but not letting you know that minorities suppliers also include
1:32:38
Speaker 1: white women. Okay, But and so when you're dealing with
1:32:41
Speaker 1: all these things, do you feel there's an opportunity now
1:32:45
Speaker 1: to really put your business into the forefront run or
1:32:48
Speaker 1: will most of you guys can answer it one of
1:32:50
Speaker 1: the time. I just want to get a sense of
1:32:52
Speaker 1: looking at what we are the landscape now all we're
1:32:55
Speaker 1: able to really jump out there now and participate. Um,
1:33:02
Speaker 1: you know, I would say into a certain degree, yes, Um,
1:33:06
Speaker 1: I think that what we've seen and just to sar
1:33:08
Speaker 1: some positive light on it. I think the the global
1:33:13
Speaker 1: awakening that you've seen has has a lot of people
1:33:17
Speaker 1: done meenuinely reacting to the recent events and genuinely saying no,
1:33:26
Speaker 1: we can't allow this to continue, and genuinely trying to
1:33:31
Speaker 1: engage in conversations and looking to support black businesses and
1:33:36
Speaker 1: trying to find out what they can do when we
1:33:38
Speaker 1: see the rise of ally ship and I think that
1:33:40
Speaker 1: there's a certain genuine nature of that UM And I
1:33:44
Speaker 1: think there's a recognition of some of the some of
1:33:47
Speaker 1: the some of the black milses getting our partentialies have
1:33:49
Speaker 1: been doing great work for decades, you know, phenomenal work
1:33:52
Speaker 1: for decades. So I do think that there's a little
1:33:57
Speaker 1: bit of a broader opportunity that I think that we're
1:34:03
Speaker 1: happy about. It's not enough, right. The playing field has
1:34:08
Speaker 1: not been leveled, right. The system hasn't been dismantled yet.
1:34:13
Speaker 1: But to answer your question, I do think that we're
1:34:16
Speaker 1: seeing opportunities open up and some more focus. UM. But
1:34:21
Speaker 1: but the work is nowhere. They're close to being finished.
1:34:25
Speaker 1: It's not it's not. Before I Before I wrap up
1:34:27
Speaker 1: the calle, they want to thank you guys for the time,
1:34:29
Speaker 1: and you've given me to just talk about your brand,
1:34:31
Speaker 1: talk about YouTube visionaries from a standpoint of what you
1:34:34
Speaker 1: deal with now before the pandemic, while the pandemic and
1:34:38
Speaker 1: post pandemic, because we have to always think that there
1:34:40
Speaker 1: is a future, and if you don't plan for the future,
1:34:43
Speaker 1: then then there's no opportunity to see success. Now, there's
1:34:47
Speaker 1: an app called the True Voice and Mindfulness app for
1:34:50
Speaker 1: women of color. Roy what exactly is that? Wow? True Voice,
1:34:56
Speaker 1: so true voice. Um M. We looked out over the
1:35:03
Speaker 1: landscape and I'm talking to two black men here talk
1:35:07
Speaker 1: about we look over the landscape and so we have
1:35:13
Speaker 1: we try to look through with through the lens of business,
1:35:15
Speaker 1: but also through a cultural lens. And we noticed that
1:35:18
Speaker 1: in the world of mindfulness and and as we deal
1:35:22
Speaker 1: with we deal I hear people talk about wearing the
1:35:26
Speaker 1: same we're all in the same storm. I mean, no,
1:35:30
Speaker 1: we're all in the same boat. We're all in the
1:35:31
Speaker 1: same boat. And no we're in the same storm. We're
1:35:35
Speaker 1: definitely in different boats, right. And so when you look
1:35:40
Speaker 1: at these apps and meditational apps and things like that,
1:35:46
Speaker 1: that we're very general market and there weren't very specific two.
1:35:54
Speaker 1: Um the cultural realities of women of color or people
1:36:00
Speaker 1: of color, and again, predicting rain doesn't count building the
1:36:05
Speaker 1: arc does. We decided that we wanted to play a miss,
1:36:12
Speaker 1: that it would be great to introduce something that had
1:36:16
Speaker 1: that hits some of the cultural beats of that. These
1:36:20
Speaker 1: other mindfulness or um apps, these mindfulness apps were missing
1:36:25
Speaker 1: out on the other part of it is you know,
1:36:28
Speaker 1: see your other question earlier question. Once again, an industry
1:36:32
Speaker 1: was was growing and being valued at hundreds of millions,
1:36:38
Speaker 1: if not billions of dollars, and people of color to
1:36:43
Speaker 1: the degree that they were being thought of, We're only
1:36:45
Speaker 1: thought of as consumers. You weren't thought of as stakeholders
1:36:52
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1:36:56
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1:37:00
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1:37:04
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1:37:08
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1:37:14
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1:37:32
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1:37:37
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1:37:40
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1:37:44
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1:37:50
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1:37:53
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1:37:56
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1:37:58
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1:38:01
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1:38:03
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1:38:09
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1:38:14
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1:38:17
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1:38:20
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1:38:23
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1:38:25
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1:38:29
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1:38:32
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1:38:36
Speaker 1: Now I'm not saying I didn't because I'm Rushan McDonald.
1:38:38
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1:38:41
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1:38:43
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1:38:47
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1:38:50
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1:38:52
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1:38:55
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1:38:58
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1:39:01
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1:39:04
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1:39:10
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1:39:12
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1:39:15
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1:39:17
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1:39:22
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1:39:33
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1:39:37
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1:39:42
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1:39:48
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1:40:00
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1:40:05
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1:40:07
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1:40:17
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1:40:21
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1:40:33
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1:40:36
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1:40:40
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1:40:43
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1:40:46
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1:41:33
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1:41:46
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Speaker 1: The next guest, she's she's laying you can't see, but
1:43:31
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1:43:36
Speaker 1: veteran and stand up comedies that started doing standard back
1:43:38
Speaker 1: in ninety two, Death Comedy Jam b G Comedy Views.
1:43:41
Speaker 1: So she's talking to a I would like to say,
1:43:43
Speaker 1: a guy who knows a little thing to do, but
1:43:46
Speaker 1: look at I couldn't do it. Michelle, No strangers, Netflix subscribers,
1:43:53
Speaker 1: the Netflix films Someone Great, Always Be My Being, Always
1:43:57
Speaker 1: Be My Maybe, and Netflix series Or Do All Tales
1:44:01
Speaker 1: of the City, and continued appearances, including the hosting the
1:44:04
Speaker 1: Netflix reality competition series The Circle, which is renewed for
1:44:08
Speaker 1: a second season. She's talented and she's beautiful, and she's
1:44:12
Speaker 1: starting her new Netflix stand up comedy special. Michelle Buto.
1:44:16
Speaker 1: Welcome to Otavia Beutopia. Dad are you are accounting. You
1:44:21
Speaker 1: listed all the things like I gotta start bringing W
1:44:23
Speaker 1: nine to W tense is interview. Well, you know when
1:44:26
Speaker 1: you're busy and you're talented, like you just got renewed
1:44:31
Speaker 1: your a BT plus show got renewed. Correct, Yes, now
1:44:36
Speaker 1: I saw the special first. It was first of all,
1:44:38
Speaker 1: you know what they do with Netflix? Uh, they sent
1:44:41
Speaker 1: me an account. I put my patchword. It was on Saturday,
1:44:45
Speaker 1: and I was in my bed and I started watching
1:44:47
Speaker 1: and someone when people start making me laugh, I have
1:44:51
Speaker 1: to sit up. I'll sit up. And you made me
1:44:54
Speaker 1: sit up, and then you made me stand up Michelle
1:44:57
Speaker 1: because I was laughing, and so so first of all,
1:45:01
Speaker 1: let me let me lay it out. Everybody know about Michelle.
1:45:03
Speaker 1: See when when you're really talented comic and she knows this,
1:45:07
Speaker 1: you hit terms hit you. If you said to a
1:45:09
Speaker 1: normal street person, they might be offended. They be offended
1:45:12
Speaker 1: by but stuff like you silly, you're stupid, you're you crazy.
1:45:18
Speaker 1: You ought to control your food. See if a statup comic,
1:45:21
Speaker 1: who's a real standup comic. Here's those famous they know
1:45:26
Speaker 1: they kicking, But you're funny, you ought to control You're crazy?
1:45:35
Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate that. I really really do, and
1:45:38
Speaker 1: honestly like, and you know this better than like anybody,
1:45:41
Speaker 1: especially since you've been in the game for so long.
1:45:43
Speaker 1: There's always this thing where people don't think women are funny.
1:45:46
Speaker 1: It's just like okay, and it's sort of like what
1:45:49
Speaker 1: I was growing up, and I was the only black
1:45:50
Speaker 1: kid in um a few of the schools I went to.
1:45:54
Speaker 1: My dad was like, you have to be the best
1:45:56
Speaker 1: because you're gonna stand out whether you want it or not.
1:45:59
Speaker 1: And so start stand up in two thousand one. For
1:46:01
Speaker 1: the first five or six years, everywhere I went, I
1:46:03
Speaker 1: was like the only female on a show, and it's
1:46:06
Speaker 1: just like, you have to be the best. And so
1:46:10
Speaker 1: I remember Will sylvinsa hilariousation American comedian in New York,
1:46:14
Speaker 1: was like, you know, it doesn't matter what spot you
1:46:17
Speaker 1: get on the show. A lot of people like the
1:46:20
Speaker 1: third spot the force by everyone has their favorite to
1:46:22
Speaker 1: go first. He's like, doesn't matter, take any spot and
1:46:25
Speaker 1: make it hard for someone to follow you. So I
1:46:28
Speaker 1: was like, bet, and those are the lessons that I
1:46:30
Speaker 1: think we need as comedians or anybody. Like walking into
1:46:34
Speaker 1: a room or like a zoom meeting, or like pitch
1:46:36
Speaker 1: and stuff. It's like the question isn't how do I
1:46:38
Speaker 1: become popular? How do I get more followers? How do
1:46:41
Speaker 1: I make money? It's like, if you are talented, the
1:46:43
Speaker 1: money will follow. Well, you know agree, because in this
1:46:49
Speaker 1: business we can't get caught up in the slot in
1:46:52
Speaker 1: the show. Well, first of all, if you can't handle
1:46:55
Speaker 1: the slot, that slot when we your yeah, because everybody
1:46:59
Speaker 1: in the stand a comedy game is gunning for the
1:47:01
Speaker 1: funny person. And then you're an attractive woman, Michelle so
1:47:06
Speaker 1: and I can say this a lot of times people
1:47:09
Speaker 1: will be kind of condescending. Oh he's just getting because
1:47:13
Speaker 1: she's cute, or she last because she's a woman. So
1:47:16
Speaker 1: how did you overcome those negatives? Well that's the thing too,
1:47:20
Speaker 1: write like I worked all the circuits. I worked, um,
1:47:24
Speaker 1: you know, the clubs with like my wife and kids,
1:47:27
Speaker 1: sitcom suit, I did the Chilling circuit, I did the
1:47:30
Speaker 1: gay clubs, and everyone's just like it's a woman, or
1:47:35
Speaker 1: well she's like what she gotta say about this experience?
1:47:38
Speaker 1: Or she cute? How funny can she be? And that's
1:47:42
Speaker 1: the thing that going by what my dad said, you know,
1:47:45
Speaker 1: he also said, never worked for a thank you, So
1:47:47
Speaker 1: I said, okay, I'm not gonna work for a thank you.
1:47:49
Speaker 1: I'm just to leava you're welcome, and so all that
1:47:52
Speaker 1: should decided. It doesn't matter how you look, it's it's
1:47:55
Speaker 1: what is inside. And so I know that I have
1:47:59
Speaker 1: a story in my heart that you won't enjoy, either
1:48:01
Speaker 1: you're on board or or not. So yeah, I mean,
1:48:04
Speaker 1: I just want to make it. I just want to
1:48:06
Speaker 1: make it so hard. I just want to tickle people.
1:48:08
Speaker 1: Like you know how you always focus on the one
1:48:10
Speaker 1: person that's not laughing. I'm like, I'm here for that person,
1:48:14
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I don't focus on that idiot.
1:48:17
Speaker 1: I really don't. You're not gonna bring down my vibe
1:48:19
Speaker 1: because but you're right, you can understand the comment is
1:48:22
Speaker 1: interesting because you can control the side of the room,
1:48:26
Speaker 1: you can full the middle, and it's beautiful when you
1:48:29
Speaker 1: control the entire room. Yes and so, And the goal
1:48:32
Speaker 1: is really the control in any percent of the room,
1:48:35
Speaker 1: because you're not gonna make everybody laugh. That's just life.
1:48:37
Speaker 1: You don't know what's wrong with that person. They might
1:48:39
Speaker 1: be having a bad day, robed car might not start.
1:48:43
Speaker 1: They know when they go outside. Yeah, yea, you never know.
1:48:49
Speaker 1: And that's really important listen to. That we all have
1:48:51
Speaker 1: to know is that you never know what someone's going through.
1:48:54
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what happened with Chadwick. I'm just
1:48:56
Speaker 1: like you guys. We have to be nicer to each
1:48:59
Speaker 1: other on the internet. Don't come for someone's looks. You
1:49:02
Speaker 1: do not know what we are going through. So that's
1:49:05
Speaker 1: what I really try to hopefully I did with the
1:49:08
Speaker 1: Special two was yeah, it could be funny, Yeah I
1:49:10
Speaker 1: got stories. Yeah I'm going through ship. But at the
1:49:12
Speaker 1: end of the day, we have to be kind to
1:49:14
Speaker 1: each other. Otherwise it's all for not well. I agree,
1:49:19
Speaker 1: And she's saying Chadwick Boseman, that's who she's referencing, and
1:49:23
Speaker 1: just in somebody's under a rock. Don't know who who
1:49:25
Speaker 1: you're talking about, but a rock fell on their head. Okay,
1:49:29
Speaker 1: now let's say let's talk about your standard special. There's
1:49:31
Speaker 1: on Netflix, uh start September twenty night. UM. Why, First
1:49:37
Speaker 1: of all, one of the Pikes, one of my all
1:49:39
Speaker 1: time favorite people. She's one of the EPs on her
1:49:41
Speaker 1: production company. Tell us about that. Yes, So Wanda owns
1:49:46
Speaker 1: Push the Productions, UM, and she's partners with Paige Horowitz,
1:49:49
Speaker 1: who was an amazing producer who did um last Comic
1:49:53
Speaker 1: Standing all the years she did. Tiffany has his special
1:49:55
Speaker 1: fortune Feamsters, and so they're just like a dynamic do
1:50:00
Speaker 1: of just female empowerment who have been in the game
1:50:04
Speaker 1: long enough to know how to set you up. Um well.
1:50:09
Speaker 1: And you know, I've already been a fan, such a
1:50:12
Speaker 1: fan of Wanda for so long because not only is
1:50:15
Speaker 1: she funny, she's so smart, she's so intelligent, she's so thoughtful.
1:50:19
Speaker 1: So those are the people I want to work with.
1:50:21
Speaker 1: And I felt like I was in a really good company,
1:50:23
Speaker 1: which is great because an hour you are leaving yourself
1:50:26
Speaker 1: vulnerable to a lot of things and sometimes overwhelming, much
1:50:29
Speaker 1: like buying your first car, getting married, people sometimes praying
1:50:32
Speaker 1: your vulnerabilities, and just like, you should do this because
1:50:35
Speaker 1: a lot of people do this. You should do that.
1:50:37
Speaker 1: You should get this venue because this is what they do.
1:50:39
Speaker 1: And it's like, no, man, these two women were like,
1:50:42
Speaker 1: what do you want? What? How are we going to
1:50:44
Speaker 1: showcase your personality? What is a night out for you?
1:50:47
Speaker 1: And it's really nice working with people who understand you
1:50:51
Speaker 1: and celebrate you, not tolerate you. And that's important that
1:50:55
Speaker 1: you say that. I wanted to talk about the specially
1:50:58
Speaker 1: a little bit more detailed because of your use your
1:51:02
Speaker 1: ability to wait for the moment, await, to allow that
1:51:06
Speaker 1: moment to build. You know, the value of your facial expressions,
1:51:11
Speaker 1: the look, the cutting of the eye, that the sneaky grin,
1:51:17
Speaker 1: you know, which makes you wonderful actress too. I can't act.
1:51:21
Speaker 1: That's why that's a blessing, as a blessing about that
1:51:25
Speaker 1: ability to wait for the moment. Man, I think that
1:51:30
Speaker 1: just comes with time. You know, you don't know that.
1:51:34
Speaker 1: You don't know you can do that until you've tested
1:51:37
Speaker 1: and tried, test and try. You could do it in
1:51:40
Speaker 1: front of your first gig for two thousand, you could
1:51:42
Speaker 1: do it at that bar show for ten people. You know.
1:51:46
Speaker 1: I think comedy especially, you know, we get stuck in
1:51:50
Speaker 1: the script and it's just like if there's a side
1:51:54
Speaker 1: of you that wants to color outside the box, trust it.
1:51:57
Speaker 1: It's not gonna work the first time. But nobody plays
1:51:59
Speaker 1: show pan the first time they played piano. You gotta
1:52:02
Speaker 1: keep away and figure it out. So I feel like
1:52:05
Speaker 1: that definitely comes with time. And also, you know, comedy,
1:52:09
Speaker 1: being a woman in her forties, like all this stuff
1:52:13
Speaker 1: is like I am tired of trying to fit in
1:52:15
Speaker 1: someone else's world, Like, come to mind, this is my world, Utopia.
1:52:18
Speaker 1: You want to celebrate great, you don't, There's something else
1:52:21
Speaker 1: for you on Netflix. There's a lot of ship Go
1:52:23
Speaker 1: watch the Traveler Show. Welcome to Potopia. I can I
1:52:28
Speaker 1: can only follow that time. What you just say? Give
1:52:32
Speaker 1: me a wrap up here, and I want to wrap
1:52:33
Speaker 1: up on a hot note with you. Welcome to Patopia.
1:52:36
Speaker 1: September twenty night, Netflix strowing the incredible Michelle. Michelle, I'm
1:52:40
Speaker 1: gonna tell you when they when they told me that
1:52:42
Speaker 1: you had a comedy special, I went, who When I said,
1:52:46
Speaker 1: not a negative? I didn't know you did stand up? Yeah,
1:52:50
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So so I went, who
1:52:52
Speaker 1: are you talking about? You know? First last first? So
1:53:01
Speaker 1: with success can kind of like high what got you there? Yeah?
1:53:07
Speaker 1: It's crazy and it's crazy. Also what people know you for?
1:53:10
Speaker 1: What they don't? Right? Right? And so to see you
1:53:13
Speaker 1: doing stand up and I won't give anybody any secret. Way,
1:53:17
Speaker 1: please watch the opening, Please watch them. But I say, stupid, silly, goofy, goofy, goofy,
1:53:27
Speaker 1: goofy and silly the same thing. So she double five,
1:53:30
Speaker 1: double five, double five. But it's a great special, Michelle.
1:53:33
Speaker 1: I want to just thank you, welcome to allowing me
1:53:36
Speaker 1: to see you as a stand up being a guy.
1:53:39
Speaker 1: You know, I've done def jam BT, I've done all
1:53:42
Speaker 1: the comedy special I walked away, and I've had a
1:53:43
Speaker 1: successful careers and producer, writer and manager. And to see
1:53:47
Speaker 1: a fresh face like yours come on a comedy scene.
1:53:50
Speaker 1: I've been fortunate to interview my man George Lopez when
1:53:52
Speaker 1: his special air on Netflix. And is a great run
1:53:57
Speaker 1: of new, fresh female talent, tasing yourself in this pandemic
1:54:02
Speaker 1: year of one of them. Congratulations, thank you for Shanna.
1:54:07
Speaker 1: Was so nice to meet you. I hope to see
1:54:08
Speaker 1: you again. You a zoomer in person with a mask
1:54:11
Speaker 1: who knows when you come down. Make sure you people
1:54:14
Speaker 1: let me know. Okay, I got a big, more beautiful office.
1:54:16
Speaker 1: Love to bring you by. We're talking live in my studio. Perfect.
1:54:19
Speaker 1: Don't love it so much. Love you be strong, Thank
1:54:22
Speaker 1: you brother. Bye,