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Buttah Skin, Black Tax, Antonio Brown, Online Okie Doke and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stubbings me true good Steve
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  Speaker 1: together for I don't join me. You gotta use that
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  Speaker 1: turn you you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn
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  Speaker 1: You haven't got to turn them out to turn the
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  Speaker 1: water the water go. Come come on your thah, I
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  Speaker 1: shall will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Man. What an amazing blessing. God
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  Speaker 1: has given me my health, my dreams, all of it.
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  Speaker 1: God gave it to me. I accept it. I work hard,
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  Speaker 1: but man on, man on, man, I work hard is
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  Speaker 1: something that He gave me a gift. And that's what
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  Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about today, because God
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  Speaker 1: has gifted everyone, so I can't help but believe it.
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  Speaker 1: You are gifted in some way. Something about you it's
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  Speaker 1: specially and unique. That doesn't mean you're the only one
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  Speaker 1: that can sing, or you the only one that can write?
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  Speaker 1: Are you the only one that can draw? You're the
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  Speaker 1: only one that can decorate? Are you the only one
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  Speaker 1: that can network? Or you're the only one that that's
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  Speaker 1: not what it means. Or you have a great scientific
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  Speaker 1: mind you can figure things out, or you're good and
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  Speaker 1: problem solving. You're not the only one, but you are
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  Speaker 1: a unique individual. Nobody will travel the exact path that
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  Speaker 1: you own. Nobody will have everything happened in a series
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  Speaker 1: of circumstances in the order that you're going to have
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  Speaker 1: it happened to you. That's what I mean when I
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  Speaker 1: say that you are unique. But now because you are gifted,
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  Speaker 1: you know you have something you have to do. You know,
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  Speaker 1: there's a scripture. It's in Proverbs, Proverbs eighteen and sixteen.
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  Speaker 1: I've been trying to be a little bit better at
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  Speaker 1: that for you, you know. So when I have an
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  Speaker 1: idea and I know where it is, I have somebody
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  Speaker 1: looked the scripture up from it handed to me. So
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  Speaker 1: it's in Proverbs eighteen sixteen. And this is the layman's
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  Speaker 1: term of it. It says a man's gift make room
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  Speaker 1: for him and brings him before great men. It is
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  Speaker 1: your gift that will make room for you. Now my
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  Speaker 1: interpretation of this is this. Now I could be wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Please go to your local church, Synder God Temple, mass.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever you do and go get clarification. But what my
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  Speaker 1: gift has done in making room for me is I've
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  Speaker 1: taken it almost in the literal sense. My gift has
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  Speaker 1: actually made room for me. It has cleared paths for me.
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  Speaker 1: My gift has opened up doors for me. That's what
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  Speaker 1: I take it as. It'll make room for you. My
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  Speaker 1: gift has is broadened my ability to travel. My gift
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  Speaker 1: has opened my eyes to fashion. My gift has caused
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  Speaker 1: me to be able to provide for my family. My
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  Speaker 1: gift has caused me to be able to reach more people.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying in terms of it will make
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  Speaker 1: room for you. That it may be another interpretation. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just telling you how I took it, that it's worked
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  Speaker 1: out pretty good for me to that understanding. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: pretty sure Bishop Jake's, Joel Oldstein, Ken If Alma, you
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  Speaker 1: know God, Glenn Staples, Bishop Glen Staples, these guys give
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  Speaker 1: you much better understanding of it. I'm just giving it
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  Speaker 1: to you, you know where I know how sold you,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just like to keep it right there.
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  Speaker 1: But and then it says that it brings you before
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  Speaker 1: great men. I mean, you know it's gonna take you places.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna take your places you never thought of going.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna meet people because of your gift. I told
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  Speaker 1: my son, who two of them are good photographers. You'll
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  Speaker 1: be taking pictures of great men. And then I messed
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  Speaker 1: with him. You already take the pictures, say your daddy.
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  Speaker 1: You know I'm messing with him like that. But that's
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  Speaker 1: just me and them just kicking it. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: but one day, who knows, you could be shooting the president.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you could be shooting some foreign dignitaries. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you could be shooting great sport events. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: never know where it could take you. But that's your guift.
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  Speaker 1: What you gotta do is you gotta get to move
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  Speaker 1: and though. See, you can't have your gift and not
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  Speaker 1: do nothing with it. See. You know what that reminds
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  Speaker 1: me of. It's something that my father used to say,
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  Speaker 1: get up off your butt because you're sitting on a
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  Speaker 1: gold mine. He's say that all the time. Boy, get
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  Speaker 1: up off your butt and move it because you're sitting
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  Speaker 1: on the old mind. I never really quite got that
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  Speaker 1: when I was little, but now that I'm an adult,
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  Speaker 1: I got it full well. See a lot of you
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  Speaker 1: are sitting You're sitting on a talent or a gift
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  Speaker 1: that you have. You're sitting on an ability. I don't
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  Speaker 1: care if it's making cakes or pies. That's a gift, man,
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  Speaker 1: that's a talent. I don't care if it's the ability
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  Speaker 1: to do hew, that's a gift. Man. Half of you
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  Speaker 1: are gifted. A lot of us are gifted, and we're
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  Speaker 1: sitting on it, looking at other people wondering what can
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  Speaker 1: I do to make it? You already got something to
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  Speaker 1: make it with. If you would just get up off
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  Speaker 1: your behind, man quits sitting on that gold mine. Some
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  Speaker 1: of you are tech savvy, just a whiz is when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to engineering and putting stuff together and cables
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  Speaker 1: and wires and computers and stuff. And now you steady
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  Speaker 1: looking around trying to figure out, man, wonder what I
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  Speaker 1: can go do? How about you go do that? You
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  Speaker 1: know it ain't that hard, man, if you would just
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  Speaker 1: take note of what God has given you already. He
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  Speaker 1: has given you a gift already. He has already given
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  Speaker 1: you a talent. Now the fact that you ain't using
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  Speaker 1: it and you're sitting on your tail somewhere now, who fathers.
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  Speaker 1: What we're talking about, Well, what you you blaming God
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  Speaker 1: for that? Man? I tell you what. I sit around
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  Speaker 1: people all the time who are gifted, and I'm looking
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  Speaker 1: at their gifts, and they steady complaining about what they
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  Speaker 1: don't have, but will not get up off there behind
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  Speaker 1: and use the gifts that God gave them. And it's frustrating.
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  Speaker 1: It's gotta be frustrating for you if you're doing it,
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  Speaker 1: because it's frustrating for me when I see it. So
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  Speaker 1: when these people come to me and ask me for help,
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  Speaker 1: I just keep going the same thing over and over.
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  Speaker 1: Help yourself, man, do for you use your gift. It's
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  Speaker 1: a cat sitting behind the wall right now, that's locked up.
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  Speaker 1: That's so good at artistry. It's catch in that tattoo
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  Speaker 1: and everybody, man, get out do it the right way.
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  Speaker 1: Quit selling drugs, man, You ain't going no where's selling
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  Speaker 1: no drugs. You're going to jail. And if that don't
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  Speaker 1: do it, somebody gonna get tired of you're selling drugs
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  Speaker 1: because they're gonna want to sell them over and they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna kill you. Let's just keep this thing real for
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  Speaker 1: just a second here. Come on, man, get up off
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  Speaker 1: your butt because you're sitting on the gold mine, and
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  Speaker 1: you're sitting up here, somebody always looking for a shortcut
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  Speaker 1: to the top. Ain't no shortcut. Somebody told me this
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  Speaker 1: the other day. Man, the road to success is always
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  Speaker 1: under construction. It ain't paved, it's got detour signs on it.
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  Speaker 1: It's got slow men working. Sometime they flip the stop sign.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta sit there and wait. Sometime they got slow.
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  Speaker 1: That's traffic. That's accidents. Somebody on the road holding up
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  Speaker 1: things with a flat tie, its nails, its gravels, This
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  Speaker 1: spike's everything. The road to success is always under construction.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't getting ready to be easy just because you
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  Speaker 1: didn't decided to do it. But don't sit around on
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  Speaker 1: your behind and complain all the time about what you
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  Speaker 1: don't have. My daddy said it, Man, get up off
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  Speaker 1: your butt, because you're sitting on a gold mine. You
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  Speaker 1: got a gift, you got a talent, you got something
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  Speaker 1: that you can do that could make a way for you,
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  Speaker 1: but you won't do it. It is within you. Stop
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  Speaker 1: looking around. Here's where people waste the most time on
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  Speaker 1: the road to success, looking around at somebody else trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out. Man, how can I do what they did?
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  Speaker 1: Do what you do? You ain't jay Z, You ain't. Sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I got a couple of your homies told you you
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  Speaker 1: rap better than him. But you're not jay Z. Really
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  Speaker 1: you're not. You know, all of us then shot at him,
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  Speaker 1: but we ain't Richard Pryor a nice shot Steve, Bernie Dierre,
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  Speaker 1: all of we took some great shots at it. We're
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  Speaker 1: not him. Do what you can do? Do you do
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  Speaker 1: your gift quick complaining about what you don't have. Get
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  Speaker 1: up off your butt because you're sitting on a gold mine.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening ste ladies and gentlemen and boys and girls.
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  Speaker 1: Here we are again, And I'm just must say, I
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  Speaker 1: know it's you know, there's got to be a time
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  Speaker 1: limit to when you stop saying Happy New Year. You
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  Speaker 1: know how many days in is it supposed to be?
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  Speaker 1: I think we passed that time. But we are still
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  Speaker 1: celebrating life. And twenty twenty two can be one of
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  Speaker 1: the greatest years of your life if you lay claim
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  Speaker 1: to it. But you have to claim it. You have
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  Speaker 1: to live a life of expectation that great things are
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  Speaker 1: coming your way, because that's the law of attraction. It
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  Speaker 1: works whether you believe in it, honor it, or adhere
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  Speaker 1: to it. It is a known fact that you attract
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  Speaker 1: the things you think. If you think poor, you'll be poor.
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  Speaker 1: If you think rich thoughts, riches will come your way.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't believe it, try it. Thank you, Shirley
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  Speaker 1: Strawberry Carlin for real, the girl from mississipp Be Monica
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  Speaker 1: or Junior and the legend the King of Pranks, Nephew Tommy.
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  Speaker 1: They just here. It has begun, Junior Horse, on your mind.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you exactly what's on my mind. Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you something. Um, do you know in your
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  Speaker 1: life how much has been in love cost you? Why? Why?
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  Speaker 1: I noticed in love has it cost you a lot? Well,
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  Speaker 1: let me say, listen to you. Uh, it's really, Junior Horse,
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  Speaker 1: it's all about you know. Forget these songs that talking
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  Speaker 1: about I don't need nobody all this blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody want to be somebody somebody. Everybody wants to feel
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  Speaker 1: special to somebody. Everybody needs to experience love. So stop
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  Speaker 1: talking about it in terms of cost as in dollars.
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  Speaker 1: It is going to cost you your time. It will
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  Speaker 1: cost you at times your freedom. It will cost you
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  Speaker 1: at times your will of choice. It will cost you
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  Speaker 1: at time moments of peace where you want to be alone,
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  Speaker 1: but because you're in love, you got to be with somebody.
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  Speaker 1: So it's going to cost you in every aspect of
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  Speaker 1: your life. All you want to do is be in
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  Speaker 1: love with somebody where there's a benefit to being in
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  Speaker 1: love and there is a return on your investment of love.
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  Speaker 1: So my question is to you, don't you think as
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  Speaker 1: a young man that you would be more of You
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  Speaker 1: are in a fortunate position if someone were to love you,
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  Speaker 1: being as how knowing how you are. Yes, it was, yes,
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  Speaker 1: it was okay. Then get on with the whatever it
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  Speaker 1: costs factor. Get that out your minds in love with
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  Speaker 1: you too, get all this out your mind about what's coming.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying that's a rich man. That's what I like
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  Speaker 1: to see that you know a different positions. Let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something in love ain't gotten to do it
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  Speaker 1: rich right, all right, all right, thank you for that.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna start the show off with the nephew and run
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  Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, let's go it's time for the
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  Speaker 1: nephew to kick things off with run that prank back?
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  Speaker 1: What you got enough? Church fees? Church fee, let's go,
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  Speaker 1: can't don't hello Hello, I'm trying to reach us. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: how you doing? This is this is brother Glenn from
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  Speaker 1: the church. Hey, brother Glenn, how you doing. I'm good,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm real good. Did you enjoy service morning? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: I enjoyed it? Pastor who pastor brought it down? Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god? That was a word for me, right right,
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  Speaker 1: right right? So what do our old? The pleasure of
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  Speaker 1: this call? I wanted to give you some information that
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  Speaker 1: the that the church has come up with, and we
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  Speaker 1: wanted to let you know what was going on before
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  Speaker 1: the next Sunday. I didn't interrupt you that. Oh no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I actually I may found a little a little off
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  Speaker 1: a little bit. I'm trying to get getting ready for
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  Speaker 1: my little babies, my little darlins, and I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: Your voice sounds so familiar to me. It just sounds
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  Speaker 1: so familiar. Trying to play place that voice. Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: you've seen me at the church quite a few times.
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  Speaker 1: I think I have. I'm just trying to place it.
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  Speaker 1: I can't place it right now, but we can look
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  Speaker 1: at it. What Nevertheless, I just wanted here's here's what's
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  Speaker 1: going on. Uh now you aware of that for the
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  Speaker 1: last the last six Sundays, you've been actually coming in
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  Speaker 1: the service late. Have you realized that? Yes, I know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that, but uh you know, yes, I
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  Speaker 1: have I have my reasons. So okay, okay, Well here's
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  Speaker 1: what's going on. The officials at the church I've gotten
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  Speaker 1: together and this is what they've decided on, is that
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  Speaker 1: anybody who is late starting next Sunday, there would be
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  Speaker 1: a fifteen dollar charge for that for coming in and
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  Speaker 1: disrupting services. Fastest tide of service being disrupted by people
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  Speaker 1: walking in late. That that could not come at a
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  Speaker 1: worst time. I don't have fifteen dollars to give. I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have it. Oh um, look, I'm sorry. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sorry that we late. I am we are doing our best.
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  Speaker 1: I have three kids. I have three young kids, two
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  Speaker 1: seven and nine, and they are a handful and and
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  Speaker 1: and we do the best that we can to get
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  Speaker 1: the church on time and and to tell your truth.
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  Speaker 1: When we get there, it's doing praise and worship, I
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  Speaker 1: mean pass They ain't even preaching yet, So I know
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  Speaker 1: it's not fast, it's not up yet, but he's he's
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  Speaker 1: stating that people coming in. It just seems very disrupted
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  Speaker 1: to the service that's going on. That's so Nevertheless, like
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  Speaker 1: I said, this is a warning call, you know, to
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  Speaker 1: let you know that if you are late on next Sunday,
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  Speaker 1: then they will be charging you fifteen dollars a late charge,
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  Speaker 1: and actually you won't be able to even come in.
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  Speaker 1: I kill you until your paper dollars. I can't even
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  Speaker 1: get in church with we Look, okay, look, I don't
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  Speaker 1: I don't owe nothing. I don't owe you no explanation.
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  Speaker 1: But I need to tell you something. We are me
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  Speaker 1: and my kids for the last few Sundays that we've
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  Speaker 1: been late. It's because my car broke down. We are
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  Speaker 1: owned the bus man public transportation. Okay, I mean, and
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  Speaker 1: I understand, I understand. I siviltize with everything that you're
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  Speaker 1: going through. But why are you calling if you understand?
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  Speaker 1: How are you calling me about fifteen dollars? If you
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  Speaker 1: understand what I'm going through? Well I didn't. I first
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  Speaker 1: of all, I didn't know what you were going Why
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  Speaker 1: are you raising your voice at me? Why are you
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  Speaker 1: raising Did you just raise your voice at me? You
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  Speaker 1: know what? You know what I think? You're raising your
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  Speaker 1: voice at me? How dare you call me about this?
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  Speaker 1: About a feet and I'm there at church. I got
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  Speaker 1: my key in desks trying to raise them up is
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  Speaker 1: where they should go, just like the Bible say. And
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  Speaker 1: you know why I gotta do this and why I'm late?
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  Speaker 1: Why why we got to catch the bus? Do you
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  Speaker 1: understand why that is? Brother Glenn, No, I do not.
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  Speaker 1: That is because they to their daddy is ain't and
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  Speaker 1: they yes, Tracy, you got to calm down a little
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  Speaker 1: bit now. Oh Jesus help me. Jesus help me, Jesus. Okay, listen,
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  Speaker 1: all I can do is tell you this. I hope
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  Speaker 1: you can make it. Maybe you can catch an earlier bus,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and get there a little earlier.
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  Speaker 1: But but if I'm just stating the fact that as
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  Speaker 1: of next Sunday, if you come in late, it's fifteen
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  Speaker 1: dollars late fee, and that's what you'll pay in order
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  Speaker 1: to get in the service. You know what, Well, maybe
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  Speaker 1: next Sunday I just won't be there. How about that?
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  Speaker 1: You know I'm already working six days a week. The
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  Speaker 1: only day I have off is Sunday. I've been baking,
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  Speaker 1: breaking my back. Do you know I worked two jobs
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  Speaker 1: or two jobs, and they always trying to take money
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  Speaker 1: out of my check, always trying to pull me here
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  Speaker 1: and there, and I'm always tired. I get two hours asleep,
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  Speaker 1: and then now the church wants to dump another fifteen
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  Speaker 1: dollars charging me for being at church when that's what
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  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do. But you're coming in late though,
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  Speaker 1: you know what? You know what late ain't bad? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I might be delayed, but I ain't denied, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting there the best way that I know how. We're
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  Speaker 1: on the bus. I have to put my kids on
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  Speaker 1: the school bus, and don't you have to put them
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  Speaker 1: on the school bus. And I have to get on
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  Speaker 1: the bus to myself to work because I don't have
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  Speaker 1: a car. Because they daddy's ain't doing nothing nothing for them.
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  Speaker 1: Do you understand what I'm saying to you? I need
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  Speaker 1: to understand. Daddy number one, guess what he daddy for two?
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  Speaker 1: He in jail, been there by five years, he ain't
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  Speaker 1: And Daddy number three he decided to go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: walk out, ain't I ain't heard from that that tent
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  Speaker 1: in about seven months. Now. He know we're struggling. He
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  Speaker 1: had the nerd to take my wallet too. You don't
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  Speaker 1: You don't even unders but I'm going through. You don't
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  Speaker 1: even understand that I'm trying to make a better life
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  Speaker 1: for me and my children. There is one more thing,
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  Speaker 1: sis to Tracy, that the Church wants you to know
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• 19:10
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• 19:12
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• 19:15
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• 20:06
  Speaker 1: you y'all were joking and now I know this is
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy. Hey, I gotta ask yourself, baby, what's the
• 20:14
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• 20:26
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• 20:33
  Speaker 1: And coming up it is Asked the CLO Chief Love
• 20:37
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• 20:42
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• 20:45
  Speaker 1: the hour, We're going to check in with Steve's voicemail
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve also a programmer. A
• 20:51
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• 21:04
  Speaker 1: time for Steve's favorite segment. It's called Asked the CLO
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building for your
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: love questions. This one's from Anika and Rochester. Anika writes,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: this year marks the fifth year of my celibacy, and
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: I need to know if I'm doing the right thing
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: or if I should enjoy life and take the good
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: with the bad. I'm fifty four years old and I
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: hope to be married. The next time I had sex.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: I just got tired of giving in to men and
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: then they disappear on me. Life is short, so should
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I live it to the fullest or stick to my
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: principles and keep holding out. Well, I think it seems
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: to me like the holding out part is a little
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: bit more self controlling for you. You're not being used,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: you're not being scarreded. You don't have to feel like,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: you know, men just coming in out of your life
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: and going out. You know, of course, we all human being.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: We have flesh, so we got desires. But I mean,
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: it's been five years. You spared yourself a lot of
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: pain like that. Now, if you think going on living
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: your life to the fullest means going back to the
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: way you had it, then what was you celibate for
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: in the first place. You have to when you think
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: about stop doing something, think about what made you start
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: doing it in the first place, and it may be
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: the best thing for you, and you never know when,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Like often say, God, it's gonna flip the switch, So
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: it could be any day now. But if you turn
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: around and give up, you might lose. I'd hang in
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: that with it if I was here, you're done five years?
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Here you fifty four? Yeah, all right, all right, Kelly
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: and Duncanville says, I'm married to doctor Jekyll and mister Hyde.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: My husband is the sweetest man in the world when
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: it's the two of us at home. But the minute
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: he gets in public, he's super irritated with everything and everyone.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: His road rage is scary, and he's so rude to
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: waiters and waitresses it's embarrassing. What should I do? Quit
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: taking his ass out of the house. He don't get
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: to go all right, he can't go to dinner no more,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: and he damn show can't dry. Yeah, what's wrong with
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: him though? That? But how are you? No? No, it's
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: hard to be rude to the people that's going in
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: the back to get your food to bring it back
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: out in the front. What's happening in the back is
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: really really bothered me. Yeah, you gotta be nice to them.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: You need to sit out and talk to him about
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: what the issue is for starters. You need to fix
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: that road rage too. That's a that's a problem that Yeah,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: that's dangerous. Yeah, that's a lot of mad ass people driving,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: So blow the horn at the wrong one. Okay, what
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: his daylight, all right? Is that he could have just
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: found out? He owed Stanley, we are moving on Stanley
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and Birmingham says. My wife got a new job, new lashes,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: new clothes, and she's been wearing wigs for the first
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: time ever. She's not doing this to impress me. It's
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: for the women at work, she said. The competition is fierce,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: so she had to step her game up. I don't
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: like clown makeup and wigs. How do I get my
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: old wife back? WHOA? Well, the competition at work has
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: come from the internet. If you look at it, it's
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: a look now, it's that Nicki minaje, Kim Kardashian looked
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: that all these young people want. I mean, if you
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: look at it, that long hair all the way down
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: to you, but straight, the lip line of the contour nose,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: the long eyelashes all is this the Kim kardash and
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Nicki minaj look and she then fell into it. And
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: that's it. Like you said, itda ain't for you. She
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: had competition down at the job step her game up
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: clown makeup. Yeah, you know, might be bad. He about
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: too though about though, because he'd rode in. He's stupid.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Feel you saying something earlier about the eyebrow to forehead ratio.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: That's space. Well I've noticed now you know, everybody want
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: to have baby hell, And I've learned understand filters better
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: because if you look at a woman on her page,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: if you look at these pages, the color of the
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: skin that's closest to the hairline, it's different than the
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: skin just below it. That means you need to look
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: at that real clothes. Let's with the baby hair, y'all,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: what is that? What is that? That's just style? You know,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: But you can't have a whole head a baby hattle.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: You can't have a baby hair look like you don't
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: have on a wig or have piece? Right, you got
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: extra hair you can pull down in the front. That
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: much mean, well, you just put the hair on the wig.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: That's what you're doing. Smooth that down. I don't know
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: how that. I don't know that. You don't need to
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: know everything, all our secrets. All right, here we go.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Bam in Indianapolis says I recently flew to Ohio to
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: visit a man that I met online. I found out
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: he's married, and then he went ghost on me. I
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: fell for the lies when he asked me to get
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: a hotel room and pay for my own flight. I
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: should have known something was up. So am I wrong
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: to expect him to reimburse me for the money I spent? What? What? Well?
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I mean? You just said he ghost at you. If
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: a man then't ghosted you? Yeah, how are you gonna get?
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: All you gotta do is change his number and you out.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: You don't know where he lived because you got the hotel.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Why would you fly to somebody for the first time
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: and get your own hotel in your own ticket? How'd
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: you sell yourself that cheap? Yeah? Just make some desperation?
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, lady, Come on now you want you fail
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: for that? Come on, now you want some money? You
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: ain't fitting getting no money back? This? This you bought
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: this lessons? Yes, well that's the Louis of a time
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: bag out the window. Care don't play yourself? Yes, man,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: come on, now, you could have had a Louis. Yeah, bag,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I'm married. Let that man go. You're right, Clo. She
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: should have known something was up. That that's your instinct.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: She should have listened your intuition. She knew something was
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: up in the beginning. All women know something's up if
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: it seems funny or strange, that show intuition telling you
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: that it is. Don't ignore it period. You listen to intuition.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: That's right, I mean seriously, all right, running and end
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: up costing you. Yeah, all right, thank you, cello, great advice.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: As usual, coming up at the top of the hour,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: we'll check out Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine Steve.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: here we go Steve to voicemails. We go eight seven
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve. This one's from an inspirational caller.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just say, hey, mister Steve Harvey, you have been
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: an inspiration and I want to say thank you. I've
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: leaped off that cliff. I put the lead of faith.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: I went out there. I had a job that I
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: was going to be making one hundred and fifty thousand
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: a year. I quit that job to go out there
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: to be an entrepreneur. In two thousand and nine, my
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: dad passed away on January thirty first, two weeks later.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: I heard your voice for the first time on a
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: morning inspiration and you have inspired me since then. And
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you. I heard you,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: big bro. I heard you a million times a million.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: You said, think bigger than what anything that only God
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: can't be able to give you the answer to it
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: a million times a million. I would love to share
• 29:51
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• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Thank you man, Thank you. People hear you, they love you.
• 29:59
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• 30:02
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• 30:05
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• 30:08
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• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Love you, big bro. Thank you again, mister Steve Harvey.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: You are the man. You don't know if you reach people. Yeah,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: that was that was that was powerful. I appreciate that
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: man from the bottom of my heart. That's that. But
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: you know what that's that. That's God's grace. Man. I
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: mean you, you can't cut a deal for it. God
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: just gives it to you. And something he didn't gave
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: me the desires of my heart so many times, and
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: and and upped it. Heiter took the desires of my
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: heart and put some grace on it to got me
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: where I ain't. I ain't even asked for that. And
• 30:54
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• 30:58
  Speaker 1: All right, more boy smell Steve, this is um. Remember
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: you do the closing remarks about haters. Drop the mic.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: Let's go see. I I listened to you this Saturday.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: You're closing remarks the most beautiful words I have heard
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: in a long time. You may say dropped the mic.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: You should have dropped the mic that time. The coach,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: you really let your haters know that it's all about them,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: because God used them to put you where you are,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: to show you where you had to go. Because I
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: believe that it had not been for them hating on you.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: You might not applied to tart, but you then you
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: got it and you're moving on and you got gre awesome.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: I love you mine, And you know what, man, I
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: was just about to say, I want to change the
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: hater closing remarks. I want I want to redo it.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Because I wanted to add some more to it, because
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: I've been thinking about it, because it's really one of
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: my favorite closing remarks, because I just because it really
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: opened up my heart man, because I was I was
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: handling these haters wrong. And then God just started exposing
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: to me. Don't listen to me, man, you need them.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Let me show you what I did. And he just
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: revealed it to me one morning I was meditating. He said,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: every time they did this to you, it caused this.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I want to just show you something. And I really
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: started looking at it, man, and like the lady said,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: they didn't know, man, but they made me work harder,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: they made me focus, they made me dry. But the
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: biggest gift haters gave me they pushed me up under
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: the wings of my heavenly fathers and tucked me under
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: that hey man, like I was thinking, Man, you know
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: what I actually thought. For the people who actually kicked
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: me and thought they was kicking me off to the
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: clifford kicking me off the cliff, They actually just kicking
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: me into the and into my Lord and save his arms.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: That's all they did. Man. When they laughed about me
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: behind my back, they just made me strong. You know
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: the one thing, man, the count of the only thing
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: that really bothered me about the haters was dudes in
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: the barbershop. That that's the one that bothers me the
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: most because I've always prided myself on being a man's man,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: and I know I am because there's not a man
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: living who knows me who don't know that about me.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you know me, you know that about me,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: then I'm a man's man. I made a lie of
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: mistakes with females or who ain't, but when it comes
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: to brotherhood, manhood or locked in on that thing right there,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: and I'm really really good at that. I'm an expert
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: at it. So when brothers in the barbershop be talking
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: about me because they ain't got all the facts or
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: they'd have jumped off the bandwagon, you know, man, that
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: really kind of bothered me because I go, damned dog,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: y'all too, because I'm a man's man. If you meet
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: me as a man and you don't like me, I'm
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: telling you, man, really, it's because it's something wrong with you, dog,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: because really, as a man, I really bro you really,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: you come home, man. You can't meet me and not
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: know that I'm that dude right there. But now, even
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: though the brothers in the barbershop bothered me, the brothers
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: in the barbershop helped me out too, because a lot
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: of them cats in the barbershop was really cats that
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: I thought I was cool with. And that was the
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: other purpose of the haters too, so I could stop
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: thinking somebody was really all right with me and they
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: really wasn't. Because you know, sometimes man, it's just important
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: to know who they are. It's important to know who
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: people really are in your life, and you got to
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: have certain circumstances to bring that about so you can
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: now know the truth about them. But it ain't everybody right, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Oh man, I got some great dudes in the barbershop. Yeah,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: there's some great dudes in the barbershop that love me.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: That to defend me. That a stand up from me,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: But he comes to them cancing that it just, you know,
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: want to jump on the bandwagon. You know, trolls is everywhere.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: I appreciate the brothers that defend me, that say, hey, man,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: that ain't how that dude is. Y'all don't know how
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: he is, So I appreciate it. Go both ways. But
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: thank y'all man from bottom of my heart, thank y'all.
• 35:24
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• 37:32
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• 37:35
  Speaker 1: had a barbershop, shoe shop. He was an entrepreneur, still live,
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• 38:08
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• 38:11
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  Speaker 1: This right here is the Bob Shot Brady. How you doing? Man?
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  Speaker 1: My name, my name is Dennis Man. I got a
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  Speaker 1: hair cut from you a couple of weeks ago. Ye, hey, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to get an appointment with you man, Like
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: I said, I was there a couple of weeks ago. Man,
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  Speaker 1: my first time getting hair cut from you, did real,
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  Speaker 1: real good job. So I want to say thank you
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  Speaker 1: for that. All right, no, it's not from Okay, do
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  Speaker 1: you have any um any time or available on Thursday? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, you come up to Thursday and fine,
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  Speaker 1: what's what's what's your name here? Bro? Dennis? Man? Dennis? Okay, Dennis?
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  Speaker 1: Why I can get chanting Dennis about about three o'clock, man,
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  Speaker 1: something of that nature. I mean, you know, I know
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  Speaker 1: the work performers. You know three o'clock you will be there. Yeah, okay. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I got a little bit of a situation though, man,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: that happened last time I was there. I kind of
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you about it, man, because it
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: kind of called me off guard. So I wanted to
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: how I let you, man and see if we could
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  Speaker 1: rectify the problem. For I came back up there. What happened?
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: What somebody disrespect your something? I mean, what else to do? What? What? Um?
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: It really wasn't something body, man, it was it was
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: It was it was actually you me whoa? I mean,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: what's the here's deal? Man? When you was cutting my hair,
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  Speaker 1: when it when it was time to turn the chair,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: you didn't turn the chair with with with with with
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: your hand man. See Brady man, you you turned the
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: chair with your with your private part. Oh, come on safe,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: then it's I mean, Dannis, I'm a professional man. I've
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: been doing this fifteen years, bro right right. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think it's anything deliberate. Man. I think you just do
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: it unconsciously, man, because you know you be leaning over
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: on the chair cutting, and I think you don't realize,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: you know, you be turning the chair with your private
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: part instead of doing it with your hand. Man. And see,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: my hand got caught out there, and I saw it
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: out the corner of my eyes. I saw your private
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: part coming towards my hand. I moved it just in time.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: You understand, but not see, Dennis, I'm not understanding something.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: But because I don't, I don't. We don't operate like that, mind, yes,
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  Speaker 1: because you know I don't make mistakes like that. But
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I don't know you. You're sure
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: you're talking to the right person, man, Yeah, I mean,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: ain't you the third chair on the right when you
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: walk in the door. Yeah it's correct, Okay, that what
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about, man. And you cut me two weeks ago,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: and like I said, I really like my hair cut,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: so I wanted to call back and rectify this problem.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: But you know, you, I turn the chair with your
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: head and not your pride part. If now we're gonna
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: have a problem, okay, Bro, Now I feel it, and
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: I understand you your complaint and everything. I mean, I'm
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: not understanding what you're saying, but because I don't do that,
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  Speaker 1: you know. But I mean we will be glad to
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, give you another cut or whatever.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: You understanding, you know, but I don't move nobody around
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: with my problem. Man, that's just not being Okay. I
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: understand what you're saying, but I want you to hear
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you put your private on there
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: at all when I come in there Thursday, then I
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: promise you I'm gonna jump up and we're gonna have
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: a problem, let's see, not now now right there. And
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not feeling that jump up having a
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: problem because you know, you don't really know me like that. Bro,
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I'm trying to be professional here
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: and and solve your little issue that you got your understanding.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: But but I all this jumping up and stuff you're
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: talking about doing, I don't know. I'm trying to come
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: in and get a nice hair cut, and walk out
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: with a nice hair cut. What I don't want do
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: it's come down there, you're lean old, put your private part. Well,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: I got my arms in my hands that I got
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: help you. Now, that's what I don't from them. Dude,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you're starting. You're touching the wrong, talking about what you're
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: talking about. I'm touching you wrong. You touch me wrong
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: two weeks ago when you put your private on my hand. Man,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to touch you. I tell you
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: feeling say what I don't you talking to man? You
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: know dog all I'm trying to say, you know, the
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: brother trying to come in and get his hair cut
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: and walk out fitting like a man, and not walk
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: out feeling violated. Man, because you didn't turn the chair
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: with your private part all up against my head and
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: my elbow and stuff. Man, you know what I'm saying.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: You know I'm trying to talk to you. But unles,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: you're gonna run me wrong. I ain't no punk flying here,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: and you understanding, they ain't no punk flying that didn't
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: keep it off my hand. Let me tell you something
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: fit over here. You ring your stupid so he's gonna
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: tell you right understanding and look quickly I'm gonna play
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: over here. This is Salvan. It's a barbershop. Hear me,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying. But let me explain something.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: You are you using your hips and your private section
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: like a paying ball machine. And I'm gonna tell you
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: right now I will put something on your you. Come on,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: understand me, dude. I'm just trying to come and get
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: a hair cut. I'm trying to get a hair cut
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: and walk out of there like a man, feeling like
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: a man. Bet open you. I'm gonna open you up. Boy,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: stand here now now, now, come on here, you know,
• 49:38
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• 49:40
  Speaker 1: want to be? This salon? This is a barber shot.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: You understand me. Understand hold what I ain't got no time.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying, damn out, I got somebody had a
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: cut right now. Ain't got time running a dumb back over.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: You're gonna come over here too, too straight? I bet
• 49:58
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• 50:06
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• 50:09
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• 50:13
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• 50:15
  Speaker 1: what my real name is. That's what's up. That's what's up? Okay,
• 50:18
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• 50:20
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  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two and my boyfriend and I
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: have been together for six months. He's a great guy
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: and everything I hoped for in my second husband. Yes
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: I say husband because he's been talking about marriage already.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: We're both divorced and ready to settle down, so we
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: got the important stuff out of the way early on.
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: I get along great with his parents, and my mother
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: loved him. He's in a rental and I own my home,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: so he's planning to move in with me. I have
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: fallen for this man and I can't see myself living
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: without him. But there's one thing I don't love, and
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: that's his size. The first time I got married, I
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: was really young and inexperienced, and I had no idea
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: how small my first husband was. I had nothing to
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: compare to because he's the only other man I've been with.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: The first time I was intimate with my current boyfriend,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: I called my doctor the next day because I was
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: sure something was broken below. She let me know that
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: everything was fine, and she gave me some items that
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: would help with intimacy. None of that stuff works, and
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I feel like I am letting my boyfriend down every
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: time he tries to make love to me. Talked about it,
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: and he assured me that he loves me and he'll
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: be patient with me. He also told me that he's
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: never had this problem with the female before. My doctor
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: told me there's nothing wrong with my body. He's just
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: too large. I'm terrified whenever he starts coming on to me,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: but I try to play it off. We had a
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: heated talk about our sex life recently and he admitted
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: that he's disappointed and this could be a big deal
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: breaker for him. How can he make our intimacy the
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: main focus? Does this mean we're not compatible? This letter
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: threw me a bit in the beginning, and I got
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: to say, this is a problem that many women would
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: love to have, and I'm sure many men would love
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: to have the same problem. We've had many, many letters
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: about the size of men and all of this, but
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: it's usually go ahead. We've had any letters about the
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: size of men, but usually it's a complaint about them
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: being too small, which was the case you say with
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: your first husband. But we've never had a letter if
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: I can remember, Steve, I don't know if I can
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: remember about a man being too large. And I guess
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: there's a first time for everything. You say your new
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: man is way too much for you, and now you're
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: terrified to have sex with him. But you've checked with
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: your doctor and you've been checked by her, and she
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: said you were okay, and actually she said you were
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: better than okay. She said you were fine. He said,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: your new man said he would be patient with you,
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: but his patience is running out. This could be a
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: deal breaker for him, he's saying, And you know, I
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: guess understandably so, because he would want to have sex
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: with you if you're going to be his wife, but
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: you still haven't been able to. Then you said your
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: doctor also said there's nothing wrong with your body and
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: he's just too large. I mean, I don't really know
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: what to tell you in this in this situation, I mean,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: you guys might not be compared to compatible. You know,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: there could be such a thing as this going along.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, women have babies every day and all of
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: this um. But listen, I don't know what to tell you, honestly,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: unless it's mental or something like that. If you can't physically,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: you can. But the doctor listened to what the doctor said, Steve, Wow,
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: Well you know I understand, Shelly do you say we've
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: never had a letter like this and everything? But you
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: know this is like this is like so so up
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: my alec Oh really, people for writing in, you know,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: because game you know, you know, game recognized game right,
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: and uh so I have a solution, but we're gonna
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: have to get to the solution in the second half
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: of this call. Well, let's just go with some fact
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: because I'm too like Sherley, I was very confused at
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: the beginning of the letter because he's everything you wanted
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: in your second husband. You're both divorced, You've gotten all
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: of him important stuff out of the way. You get
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: along with his parents and mom, your mama love him.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: You know, he's in a rental, I own a home.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: Your sounds like something for me. Were talking about off
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: the app he's planning to move in with me. You know,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I failed for this man. I can't see living without him.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah. And then that's one thing you
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: don't love. That's his size. Not quite natural. I'm probably
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: like Sherley was reading this letter. Thing what very small.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: We got small problems, you know, got something hem And
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: then the first time I got married, you know, then
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: you started talking about how you was young and inexperience
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: and you had no idea how small your first husband
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: was because you didn't have had nothing to compare to.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: And then you got intimate with his current boyfriend, and
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: you call your doctor the next day because I was
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: sure something was broken below, which means you know, you know,
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: came up in there, you know, you know, putting it
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: in work. You know, it's just up in there. You
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: know he was whoop, he was aggressive. Let's just say
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: he was overly aggressively. You thought something had broke. She
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: let me know that everything was fine, and she gave
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: me some items that could help with intimacy. I don't
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: know what that was, you know, I have well, I
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: do know what they gave me, but you know that
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: ain't what it's let about. None of that stuff works.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: I know that's called homeboard, homeboard, break all that up,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: you know all that little stuff you didn't bought back
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: from the doctor homeboy, and was damn about that right there.
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: And you know I got some I got some stuff.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: You need to give him. You need to give him
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: some stuff because none of that stuff work. And I
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm letting him down every time I try
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: to make good of you. When I come back, I
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: had an answer for you. Hold it all right. We'll
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: have part two of Thief Crazy Response coming up at
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: in love and terrified. We'll get back into it right
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is in love and terrified. Well,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: that's thirty two year old girl who felt and found
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: a man in her dream, second marriage for both of them,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: and everything worked out everything. She go on a home
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: he read he gonna move in with her. The girl mama,
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: loving parents, love her, everything going on. She has a
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: problem with his size though I thought he was too small.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: Turned out through it's just the opposite, because she didn't
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: know how small A first husband was because she didn't
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: had nothing compared to so she thought he was doing something.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: Then when homeboard came in and put his work helmet on.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: See homeboard came in the set that igloo cooler down
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: next year to bed and put that put that hat on,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: that hard hat on, and set that igloo cooler down
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: next to the bed, and crawled up in there on
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: one knee off that bed. And he went up in
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: there and with the work came up in there. Board
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: like a thrown ass man came up in the work.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: And you know who came up with some artillery boy
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: came up in there there, You know, he up in
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: there with he came up there with military terms and
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: and and and and that, you know, excavation devices and
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: came up in there with mussel launchers and call call
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: up in there with stuff near you with you know,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: you're in here playing with the little boy. Had the
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: little tenant bad the boy and came up in the
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: bard with some stuff that they don't even sell in
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: the gi Joe is no more, you know. So he
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: came up in there and putting in work and it
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: came up there so where you went to doctor next day,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: You thought this man broke some because he'd better been
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: there just clowning. You know, he all he up on
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: all ten of his toes, just black. He just got
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: his toes flex. He help in there, just let nickta.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: And so anyway we have a problem. And now the
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: doctor and gave you some stuff to help you deal
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: with this. But the problem ain't chew because there's nothing
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: wrong with you. It's just the often told you he's
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: too large. So see he got started taking stuff. You know.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: So now I don't hard to tell you this hill,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: but you got to You got to get him to
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: the point where he gets excited a lot quicker. It's
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to tell you. You got to give
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: him to get to where he going faster so he
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: ain't in there creating damage. And so what I'm about
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: to tell you as how this is going to work.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: Doctor told is nothing wrong with your body. He just
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: too large. I'm terrified when he started coming on me,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: but I played off. We had a head talk about
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: our sex life. Recently, he admitted he's disappointed and this
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: could be a big deal breaker for him because he's
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: never had this problem with a female before. He says
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: he's never had this problem with a female before, but
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: he ain't with nobody though. Is he's had a problem
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: some women had just walked out us his life, just
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: got up and gotten the car, drove off and never
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: called her back. Nothing to do this no more with you,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: his partner. You ain't find to come up in the
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: hill like you're looking for all every evening. We're not
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: fend to do this. So how can he make our
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: intimacy the main focus? Does this mean we're not compatible? Well,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: here's what has to happen. You have to have a
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: talk with this young man because he's thirty two. See
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: he going going at just the same way he's been
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: going at it, and it's creating a problem for you.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: So now here's what has to happen. He has to
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: change his depth perception. He has to change his depth perception,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: meaning he has to change what he think d is.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: See it's like a swimming pool in a cave. And
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: these are the two analogies I have for you. See,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: you can drown in five feet of water, or you
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: can build you a swimming pool is down to thirteenth foot,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: end on it with a diving board. But you can
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: drown in three feet a water. So what you got
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: to do is get him to start drowning in less water,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: which means he got to quit jumping in this pool
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: like he on the deep end. He got to come
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: on on this shaller end and get involved in the
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: water in a different way. Church, say, man, a man, man.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: I know y'all don't know what I'm talking about. Yeah, see,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: he got to set Let me give you an example.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: He is a cave dweller. He's a man with a
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: helmet on with a mining light. If he liked to
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: go in cave, what he has to learn is he
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: can't go all the way in the cave. He gonna
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: had to get happy by just to be an indicave.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: He can't go all the way to the back of
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: this cave. He is to learn to stay at the
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: front of the cave because it's too much back there.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: We thank you. He got to learn how to stay
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: at the front of the cave. Now, well, what you
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: have to do is you have to make the front
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: of the cave the focal point. It has to be everything.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of knowledge on this subject because
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: I had you know, I've had to be understanding and
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: now I just you know. I just people who had
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: the best life they can have. Now are they compatible?
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: Not sexually, They're not compatible section And it's not going
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: to work unless he changes a couple of things to
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: his death perception. He gotta he has to change what
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: he thinks d and then he had to play at
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: the front of the cave. Quit trying to go all
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: in the back. Thank you. Post your comments untime. Post
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: your comments on on today's Strawberry Letters Facebook. We got it.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast. Light At coming up
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after the hour of Juniors here
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: with Sports Talk right after this, you're listening st show.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, Junior is here with Sports Talk. What
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: you got, Junior? I'm gonna tell you right now. We
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: already know. No Brady, no Aaron Rods, somebody gonna be
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: a Super Bowl champ. You got the Bengals and the Chiefs.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: Rams forty nine is next Sunday Man. Who would have
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: thought that the Bengals with Joe Burrow would be right here?
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: I never saw that. I never saw the Bengals. I
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: expect the Chiefs never saw the being I don't I
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: don't know anybody saw the Bengals. I don't know anybody
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: saw that scept the Bengals except the Beakers. That's it.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: Everybody says in that saw that man on top of
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: that though, now we got the forty nine ers and
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: the Rams. Matthew Stafford finna get his shot man to
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: go to the super Bowl. That the Ram's gonna do it.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: I do think the Ram's gonna do what I do.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: Do you think the Ram's gonna win the Super Bowl?
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: I think the Ram's gonna San Francisco first. Yeah, I don't.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something, man, they have some pressure him.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: Damn Rams had some pressure on Tom Brady. Ass boards,
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: Aaron Donald stay. They stayed back there, they live back then.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: They move right off that mark. And that's what they've
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: been saying. If you get if you can make Tom
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: Brady move, he's not gonna be successful. Is he not
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: fin the run? And we know that. No, I ain't running,
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: and you you shouldn't talk about running. But he not running? Yeah,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: you know that's cute. No, that's the truth. You know
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: what that is. Don't say running. I'm gonna let you
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: make it. Go ahead. He won't let me make it.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: But what that means I'm just saying we just move on.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: I ain't moving on. He ain't say nothing about running running.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: But did you see Antonio Brown's tweet though? What he say?
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: Did he say? Yeah? He held he held up a
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: sign that said bucks eliminated yeah with his shirtless. You
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: see it on Twitter that yeah, he shouldn't be talking.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: I saw the other the message put out there talking
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: about a couple of teams already called me, well, why
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: do you ain't working? Dan? They can call. Ain'tybody to
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: book at you? Ain't nobody dog, everybody can call. What's
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: the offer gonna be? And I don't know what team
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: that wants to invite that today, locker room, I really don't.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: I feel bad for this kid man and he's not
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: getting younger and he's not getting better. So well, what
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: do you think they fit to offer him? Ah? Nothing,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: nothing at all. We're gonna find out Sunday though. Who's
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: gonna be in the super Bowl. We're gonna know them
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: of the hour, Fat Joe said to be honest with
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: your family about your finances. We're gonna talk about that
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: Well thought. Joe did a recent podcast interview on I
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: Am Athlete, and he said people need to be honest
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: with themselves about their finances. He says, I tell my wife,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I tell my kids. We are not Sean P. Diddy,
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: Combs or Jay Z. That Joe said, there are levels
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: to wealth. Okay, you agree with that, Steve. It's it's
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: absolutely true as levels to it. Your level can be
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: just fine. If you put looking over somebody else's, right,
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: you know you really can get on and enjoy your
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: life if you couldn't looking at the life you don't have. Yes, right,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: But let me tell you something though. I was. I
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: was doing that recently, looking at somebody's life that I
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: know what it was, and they make a considerably an
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: amount of money more than I do. And somebody asked me,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: one of my partners say, man, I bet you trade
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: lives with him. I said, I bet I wouldn't because
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: with all the money you have and all the worldly
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: possessions I see you with that I don't have. I
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: look in my life and I would not trade my
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: life for his life. You don't know what that person's
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: life is like. And you don't know what they're going through.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, you might be in way better
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: shape than you think. Yeah, because somebody's missing, somebody got
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: issues in their life. I don't care who they are.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: And somebody's lacking something. But I lacked for nothing. You know,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't need anything. There's a lot of
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: stuff I won't but I don't need nothing now, man.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: But you but it's kind of hard to He's saying,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: you have to be honest about your finances. That that's
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: kind of hard, I mean telling people. I think he's
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: doing a great job telling his wife and kids that.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, because they probably want things that they
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: see the other kids have and other families. But he's
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: being honest. Also, Steve, former retired Miami Dolphins NFL player
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: Channing Crowder, talked about the black tax phenomenon. This is
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: the idea that black athletes are expected expected to financially
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: take care of their family once they become successful. He
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: talked about how after he was drafted, his family was like,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: we made it. We made it. Yeah. Yeah, And that's true, man,
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: because black people two things about us. We are the
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: only race of people for the actions of each other.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: We get blamed if if black people are the only
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: race of people that's responsible for the actions of one another.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: When black people do something over here, all black people
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: get blamed for it. All people, all black people don't
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: get credit for it. But we share in the blame.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: So the racism towards the black races, it makes it
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: very easy for people to apply to pressure all the
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: way across the board. And when we become successful and
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: signed contracts, we're responsible for our family members and friends.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody else, says man, I remember Meyl Brooks told
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: me one time. I mean, not Meyl Brooks, Meyl Gibson
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: told me one time we were talking. He said, hey, man,
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: I'm not responsible for anybody. I don't get that. I
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: don't get responsible for anybody. I did this. And I'm
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: saying a while, but black people off made to believe
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: and held responsible for one another. That's a true statement.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: And it doesn't matter what field or industry, not just
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: athletes or entertainers. Even if you're just successful in your family,
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: that's the case. You know, all of us have felt that. Yeah,
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: but but the attitude of the we made it, I mean,
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: I know it takes you know, it takes a village,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: and it takes a team. It's teamwork. And you know
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: you didn't get there by yourself, you know, and all
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: of that. But still we made it. I'm on here
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: doing this hard work every day, running these plays and
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: all of that. You know, we can't tell our family no, no,
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: you said, it's a responsibility. We oh man, it's kind
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: of crazy too, man, it is, it really is. I
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: got them. People helped you go to practice and all that.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: But you don't owe him nothing. You don't owe him
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: for that. You drove me to practice. What did you practice?
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: You put in the time right? Did you go to school?
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: Did you run these routes? Did you go do these
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: two days? Really? Man? Now you know we all feel
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: obligated to buy Mama House. I mean that's just yes,
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: all right. You know we'll have more of the Steve
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well,
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: new year, new Eminem's that's right, Eminem's the candy, the candy, Uh,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: well as we know them, they're getting a makeover. Mars
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: Ink said, gone are the green Eminem's go go boots
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: and the sex appeal. Instead, she'll be representing confidence and
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: empowerment as a strong female. She'll be rocking sneakers now.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: Green Eminem will also become better friends with the only
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, man, Tiger's a favorite athlete. I love
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  Speaker 1: Listen these white folks man, they still got us contained.
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  Speaker 1: The reason I said that is because I've been trying
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  Speaker 1: I'm tired of this. They treat you any kind of way.
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  Speaker 1: and myself in it. They won't let me, Steve, they
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  Speaker 1: you out with something stuff. I will be the first
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  Speaker 1: to admit I've had these exact same thoughts as you.
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  Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I used to carry those
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  Speaker 1: I saw all of this. Let me help you understand something.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm admitting that I've had these same thoughts, brother,
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  Speaker 1: this country is real. But what I had to learn
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  Speaker 1: come with it cause I'm black, but I had to
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  Speaker 1: I would stop verbalizing and speaking this truth into my life.
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  Speaker 1: I would stop. I would stop saying stuff that you
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  Speaker 1: keep making fruition. You keep giving them the power. You
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  Speaker 1: keep saying the white man did this, The white man
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  Speaker 1: got power. They won't let me. No, man, what are
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  Speaker 1: you talking about? They won't let you. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean? Black people got houses? Stop? First of all,
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  Speaker 1: stop verbalizing. I gotta show full of people that got
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  Speaker 1: move out the country where you're gonna live, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: ain't just turning you down. See that's why. That's why. Man. Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: whenever people come for me, I try to warm people.
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  Speaker 1: don't you take him to the bank with you. Why
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  Speaker 1: don't you tell him to help you get a house
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