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- 2:09Speaker 1: nati each. Money Making Conversations radio talk shows about entrepreneurship
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- 2:30Speaker 1: will be Act One Group founder and CEO Janice Bryant Howard,
- 2:34Speaker 1: Black Girls Rock creator Beverly Bond, Basketball Wives of l
- 2:39Speaker 1: a star and CEO of Vanity in the City for
- 2:41Speaker 1: Lasia Pago, and the director of Communications for the National
- 2:45Speaker 1: Football League Players Association, car Francis. Let's drop that music.
- 2:49Speaker 1: It's time to get started, because she's on the phone.
- 2:51Speaker 1: My first guest is a model, music DJ, businesswoman, mentor, producer, writer,
- 2:57Speaker 1: founder and executive director of Black Girl's Rock. She's she's
- 3:01Speaker 1: going to show the day to talk about her new book,
- 3:03Speaker 1: Black Girls Rock, Owning Our Magic, Rocking Your Truth. Please
- 3:08Speaker 1: working the money Making Conversations, Beverly Bond, thank you, thank
- 3:13Speaker 1: you for having me. That's a lot, huh. Let's say
- 3:16Speaker 1: about you that means you. I mean, you've done a
- 3:19Speaker 1: lot of things, young lady. Yeah. Did I want to
- 3:24Speaker 1: get this out first because I didn't know this because
- 3:26Speaker 1: we met several times over the years, and you know,
- 3:28Speaker 1: because you know, you know, because you're a model, so
- 3:30Speaker 1: you have that you know, model look all the time.
- 3:33Speaker 1: So a lot of times you know what to say
- 3:34Speaker 1: to a person who has that model look. You just go,
- 3:36Speaker 1: you stay at up because they are model. And so
- 3:39Speaker 1: this is this. Beverly Ball's passion for music and her
- 3:42Speaker 1: uncanny ability to read the crowd has solidified her as
- 3:46Speaker 1: one of the premier music DJ's in the world. The
- 3:52Speaker 1: time I've met you, I'm just looking at the model
- 3:57Speaker 1: who could spend it on the ones and dudes, we
- 4:02Speaker 1: kind of talk about that because that was that's a
- 4:04Speaker 1: conversation stought. You know, if you don't know what to
- 4:06Speaker 1: say to people, you go, oh, you know what what
- 4:08Speaker 1: kind of make up? People know? What kind of use were?
- 4:12Speaker 1: What is your music that you're spinning at the party tonight?
- 4:18Speaker 1: I'm not spinning tonight, but I did spend last night, um,
- 4:23Speaker 1: not only my own fleets to night. I you know,
- 4:25Speaker 1: I've I still DJ and I think DJs, when you're
- 4:28Speaker 1: really passionate about it, you never don't. You never stopped.
- 4:32Speaker 1: You know, I have a few other things on my
- 4:34Speaker 1: plate right now, So it's not you know, I'm not
- 4:36Speaker 1: in the club, you know when you know the local
- 4:39Speaker 1: parties anymore. But yeah, you know, I'm a teacher. Well
- 4:42Speaker 1: you know the thing about it is that you know,
- 4:44Speaker 1: because I could go back to my little history, I'm
- 4:46Speaker 1: not in the world famous premier DJ, but I remember
- 4:49Speaker 1: back in college I was a spinner. You know, I've
- 4:52Speaker 1: been paid five I was at the door to hear
- 4:55Speaker 1: your boy spin. But I always, I always feel that
- 4:58Speaker 1: that's that's why I feel that that I wanted to
- 5:00Speaker 1: bring that out first, because whenever you start something like
- 5:03Speaker 1: Black Girl's Rock, you go, what did that start? Because
- 5:06Speaker 1: it's an emotion, there's a vibe, it's an energy, it's
- 5:08Speaker 1: a street, it's a street cause that you built to
- 5:12Speaker 1: something that's amazingly effective today. You know you've created a mantra.
- 5:17Speaker 1: So tell us I know it started in two thousand
- 5:19Speaker 1: and six, because I want to go back before we
- 5:21Speaker 1: talk about when it was picked up on on B
- 5:25Speaker 1: E T. Let's talk about those early days of UH
- 5:28Speaker 1: and then we're gonna talk about the book, which I've
- 5:30Speaker 1: read and I have. I have a daughter who was
- 5:32Speaker 1: in college, and I also have I was raised with
- 5:35Speaker 1: six sisters, so you know, believe me, I understand the
- 5:38Speaker 1: lays of the ways of the lady from the stand up.
- 5:41Speaker 1: I should treat them, respect the process, motivate them to success,
- 5:46Speaker 1: and also be respectful to the process. That where a
- 5:49Speaker 1: female lives their life is totally different from where a
- 5:51Speaker 1: male lives his life, and it should but that doesn't
- 5:54Speaker 1: mean they're don't have they shouldn't have equal opportunity to
- 5:57Speaker 1: succeed equally. And that's what Black Girls Rock is all about. Absolutely.
- 6:03Speaker 1: I think that you know, yeah, I started UM like
- 6:06Speaker 1: I was walking two dozen six and that when I
- 6:08Speaker 1: was DJA, and I think being a DJ has a
- 6:10Speaker 1: lot to do with me creating this platform. I think
- 6:13Speaker 1: one of the things that UM I was aware of
- 6:16Speaker 1: more than other people were the messages coming through media
- 6:20Speaker 1: UM that were directed towards women and women of color,
- 6:22Speaker 1: whether it was messages in the music, whether it was
- 6:25Speaker 1: messages UM in the videos, and whether it was magazine
- 6:28Speaker 1: that excluded us, movies that excluded our narrative or kept
- 6:32Speaker 1: us in a very narrow space or stereotype us, objective
- 6:35Speaker 1: it or to humanize us. I was paying so much
- 6:38Speaker 1: more attention to these things than other people because of
- 6:43Speaker 1: I think I would go on tuned in because it
- 6:45Speaker 1: was my job to be tuned in, you know, to
- 6:48Speaker 1: to messaging in music, and so I think it's being
- 6:50Speaker 1: a DJ absolutely had something to do with this. Now
- 6:54Speaker 1: when you say, it's really interesting that you're saying, like
- 6:57Speaker 1: you know two thousand six, you know, you've used been records,
- 7:00Speaker 1: You hear, you hear the the determinologies that's being directed
- 7:03Speaker 1: to women and a lot of the music and not
- 7:06Speaker 1: of it's all positive, always very sexual. So so what
- 7:11Speaker 1: what what did you did? You were you selective in
- 7:13Speaker 1: your music plan or or you just play what was
- 7:17Speaker 1: hot and you just dealt with the issue off you know,
- 7:20Speaker 1: in your non dug line. Yeah, I think that's a
- 7:23Speaker 1: good question because that's where the it's almost you know,
- 7:26Speaker 1: it could be considered hypocritical sometimes when you're playing and
- 7:30Speaker 1: I think that you know, that is a question, but
- 7:32Speaker 1: I think that you have the you know, I think
- 7:35Speaker 1: that we can be Um what do you what do
- 7:38Speaker 1: you say? Um? You know, I think that there are
- 7:43Speaker 1: a lot of songs that are unfortunately or there were
- 7:46Speaker 1: a lot of songs that were unfortunately directed towards women
- 7:48Speaker 1: in very negative ways, and some songs may be extremely inappropriate.
- 7:55Speaker 1: Um you know is it was very difficult in navigating
- 7:59Speaker 1: and a space where your job is to make it hot,
- 8:04Speaker 1: play to play the hotness, and then also pay attention
- 8:07Speaker 1: to what was being said. And so there were a
- 8:10Speaker 1: few songs that I was just like, you know what,
- 8:12Speaker 1: I can't do it, you know, but but at the
- 8:15Speaker 1: same time, I can't say that I'm so squeaky clean
- 8:17Speaker 1: DJ because you know, but the beauty of it, you
- 8:24Speaker 1: know what I mean, I'm not knowing for being that,
- 8:26Speaker 1: but I did try to do something to make it happen.
- 8:33Speaker 1: But different think about it. Beverley. And I'm on the
- 8:35Speaker 1: phone with Beverley uh the creator, executive director of Black
- 8:38Speaker 1: Girl's Rock, and she had a book out that I
- 8:40Speaker 1: just got. The released February twenty seven last week. Um
- 8:44Speaker 1: Simon Schuster is on the Amazon on bookstores right now,
- 8:47Speaker 1: and it's a book about empowerment and and I feel that,
- 8:51Speaker 1: you know, we talked about you playing music and being
- 8:53Speaker 1: being sometimes compromised by the by the by the lyrics
- 8:56Speaker 1: and then some of the songs that you play. But
- 8:58Speaker 1: that's that's not the that's not the point of interview.
- 9:01Speaker 1: The point of the interviews that you have an amazing
- 9:03Speaker 1: organization that it's about motivating uh, young girls and who
- 9:07Speaker 1: leave you become wrong women who in turn are leading
- 9:11Speaker 1: lives that they can be special too. And that's what
- 9:14Speaker 1: this empowerment and it comes from the fact that your
- 9:17Speaker 1: mom was an empowering female. Correct. Absolutely. I think that
- 9:21Speaker 1: that's where you know, when I described in the book
- 9:24Speaker 1: I talk about, you know, how I found my magic,
- 9:27Speaker 1: I think that it was my mother's influence on me.
- 9:31Speaker 1: But what I was trying to show in the book
- 9:33Speaker 1: when I speak about my mom and how she was
- 9:36Speaker 1: able to harness this culture, uh and the things that
- 9:40Speaker 1: were around her to teach me the importance of my
- 9:42Speaker 1: intrinsic values and also teach me be the great treasures
- 9:46Speaker 1: that lies within our culture. I was trying to describe
- 9:49Speaker 1: what I see black women do. It wasn't like, you know,
- 9:53Speaker 1: people read it and they're like, oh my god, you
- 9:54Speaker 1: COM's just so amazing, and I'm like, yeah, that's my mama,
- 9:57Speaker 1: But that's a black mama. That music planning forty five,
- 10:06Speaker 1: just really making something out of nothing, taking what she
- 10:08Speaker 1: had and trying to create a space for me to
- 10:11Speaker 1: exist and feel that I don't know, I'm not missing anything,
- 10:15Speaker 1: and giving me tools function when she doesn't have, you know,
- 10:19Speaker 1: the ability to give me the financial security that other
- 10:23Speaker 1: people have, or having a partner to raise me. You know,
- 10:26Speaker 1: she relied on the village to raise me, to help
- 10:29Speaker 1: to help raise me. And so I think that those
- 10:31Speaker 1: are things that black women have always done. We've always
- 10:33Speaker 1: found a way, and I through my mother's example, I
- 10:37Speaker 1: was trying to show that this is black women's example.
- 10:41Speaker 1: He was one of what black mothers do right. He was.
- 10:43Speaker 1: One of the great quotes from your book that I
- 10:45Speaker 1: noted was that you noticed that regardless regardless of the environment,
- 10:49Speaker 1: the messages about black girls were the same. There was
- 10:52Speaker 1: an unspoken social hierarchy that existed that place black girls
- 10:55Speaker 1: firmly at the bottom. This social grading of black women
- 10:58Speaker 1: and girls is just as prevalent today. That was powerful
- 11:03Speaker 1: for me because then let me know that there is
- 11:05Speaker 1: a mission behind Black Girl's Rock, absolutely, and that was
- 11:10Speaker 1: the mission. Frinday one, It was just watching seeing um,
- 11:14Speaker 1: you know, the like I said, the marginalizing or even
- 11:17Speaker 1: the dispitial of black women's narratives. What we're staying right now,
- 11:21Speaker 1: and people, you know, we have very short term memory
- 11:23Speaker 1: now because we don't because of social media, but we can,
- 11:26Speaker 1: I can. We all know that in two thousand and six,
- 11:30Speaker 1: this was not the same. In the mind, I have
- 11:32Speaker 1: these lady ladies like Terry, you know, Carrie Washington said
- 11:35Speaker 1: to me on camera and Tewel she said, Black l
- 11:38Speaker 1: Lrock is absolutely the reason that I am now able
- 11:42Speaker 1: to take this role as leading lady um on a
- 11:45Speaker 1: on a major network television show, which hasn't been done
- 11:48Speaker 1: in thirty something years, you know, And so you know,
- 11:51Speaker 1: the the work was the most important part shifting of
- 11:55Speaker 1: the narrative, and and part of that was shifting um
- 11:59Speaker 1: our own held that thought. We're gonna be back on that.
- 12:02Speaker 1: We're gonna really break down the book Black Girls Rock.
- 12:04Speaker 1: Don't go nowhere, anybody Black Girls Rock with Bev Levond.
- 12:10Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more from Rajan McDonald and
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- 14:12Speaker 1: She's on the phone. Um, incredible, lady, Uh, it's incredible
- 14:16Speaker 1: because she's changing lives every day. Her name is Beverly Bond.
- 14:19Speaker 1: She created a foundation called Black Girl's Rock, which in
- 14:22Speaker 1: two thousand and ten was picked up by Bet. I
- 14:25Speaker 1: want to call a good friend of my Connie Constance Orlando.
- 14:30Speaker 1: I called it Constan Orlando, but a lot of people
- 14:32Speaker 1: call it Connie Orlando. Um. One of the persons introduced
- 14:35Speaker 1: me to this brand and I've been following it ever
- 14:38Speaker 1: since and just walkington to grow. And it's kind of interesting.
- 14:41Speaker 1: As this brand has grown on the BT, the videos
- 14:45Speaker 1: have decreased become non existent o BT. So I think
- 14:49Speaker 1: it has a major influence on how young girls of
- 14:52Speaker 1: color are becoming powerful leaders in today's society. And did
- 14:57Speaker 1: I step out of bounds on anything there? Beverley good?
- 15:01Speaker 1: Because because I understand high praise of this, because you know,
- 15:04Speaker 1: there's an order to all this madness, you know, and
- 15:06Speaker 1: I say madness I'm talking about you know, because when
- 15:08Speaker 1: you have a visions, a lot of people don't understand
- 15:10Speaker 1: your visions because you got just just nice t shirts
- 15:13Speaker 1: says Black Girls Rock. A lot of people can come
- 15:15Speaker 1: at you wrong. Who you talking to? Who's who is
- 15:18Speaker 1: that for? But you have to do what you stand.
- 15:20Speaker 1: Your grounds is for me, it's for people who I
- 15:22Speaker 1: feel who are being who's being downtrodden. It needs a voice.
- 15:25Speaker 1: And then then you get an award show, and and
- 15:29Speaker 1: you know when you go to TV sometimes TV can
- 15:32Speaker 1: say they're gonna do your vision and they can twist
- 15:35Speaker 1: a little bit. Did you have any creative issues in
- 15:39Speaker 1: the beginning, because the show right now is on point
- 15:42Speaker 1: with me because I watch it. You know, absolutely, I
- 15:46Speaker 1: think that you know, it was it was very you know,
- 15:48Speaker 1: it was like, first of all, we had a very
- 15:50Speaker 1: successful award show that we were doing in New York
- 15:52Speaker 1: at Lincoln Center, UM, and so it was already a thing.
- 15:56Speaker 1: It was a real movement. I had already been you know,
- 16:00Speaker 1: degnize and then of course you know there were networks.
- 16:06Speaker 1: There was you know, B E T, N p H.
- 16:08Speaker 1: We both wanted to UM pick up the show. And
- 16:11Speaker 1: I always knew that the E T was the space
- 16:13Speaker 1: for this this show because that's where the message needed
- 16:17Speaker 1: to be the most. And I also knew that it
- 16:19Speaker 1: was something. I knew that we would get it. You know,
- 16:23Speaker 1: but certainly, you know when you're when you're partnering now
- 16:25Speaker 1: with a big entertainment company that looks at numbers based
- 16:29Speaker 1: on popularity and sometimes relations ratings don't necessarily UM, I
- 16:35Speaker 1: want to see something and as in depth as what
- 16:38Speaker 1: we try to convey or people's names that they don't know,
- 16:42Speaker 1: like a Merria and wright Edelment. Um, you know, being
- 16:44Speaker 1: honored on a TV show, it's kind of hard to
- 16:46Speaker 1: convince the network like this is going to work, you know. Um,
- 16:50Speaker 1: but they, I mean, they already saw it. Like Steven
- 16:51Speaker 1: Hill was very very you know involved before you know,
- 16:55Speaker 1: I used to have a host committee and before I
- 16:57Speaker 1: went to TV. You know, I would always ask him,
- 16:59Speaker 1: you know, would I keep what he lend his name,
- 17:01Speaker 1: you know to my host committee. So he's already saw it, bro,
- 17:04Speaker 1: and he knew that it would be powerful. So he
- 17:05Speaker 1: really tried to honor as much of my vision, you know,
- 17:09Speaker 1: and not compromise. But certainly the fight, you know, fighting
- 17:12Speaker 1: for it is what you know. And I think that
- 17:14Speaker 1: now everyone at Beach, he's glad that I did stay
- 17:17Speaker 1: in my ground and fight for it to be what
- 17:19Speaker 1: it is because you see that it matters. You see
- 17:23Speaker 1: people even trying to emulate it. You see other uh,
- 17:27Speaker 1: you know, other shows. Everybody's kind of like going into
- 17:31Speaker 1: space now, which is a beautiful thing because this was
- 17:33Speaker 1: the whole idea, This was the whole idea to shift
- 17:35Speaker 1: the culture. And so um, you know, it has been
- 17:38Speaker 1: a journey. It has been a lot of lessons, and
- 17:41Speaker 1: I think that is it's an important lesson about partnership
- 17:44Speaker 1: when you partner with a corporation, because you know, at first,
- 17:47Speaker 1: I was just you know, I'm so passionate. I'm like,
- 17:49Speaker 1: y'all a change it that you Now, let's shift to
- 17:56Speaker 1: the book. Let's let's let's shift to the I feel it.
- 17:58Speaker 1: I feel it's the final stage because we talked about
- 18:00Speaker 1: the foundation, we talked about the award show. Now this
- 18:03Speaker 1: incredible book that you have, this entitled black Girl's Rock
- 18:07Speaker 1: exclamation mark, and that's important because you're making a statement
- 18:12Speaker 1: every time. That's that's a man truct to me for
- 18:14Speaker 1: the twenty one century black female. And uh. And then
- 18:19Speaker 1: I broke it down to nine chapters and each chapter,
- 18:23Speaker 1: you know, you know, like there's a couple of chapters
- 18:25Speaker 1: I really got into and I like the way you
- 18:27Speaker 1: kind of broke up because the chapter is about you
- 18:30Speaker 1: take you take a significant and I'm not saying all
- 18:33Speaker 1: of them because I'm sure there's a lot of people
- 18:35Speaker 1: you wanted to put in this book, and I'm sure
- 18:36Speaker 1: it's a struggle as to who goes in the book,
- 18:38Speaker 1: Who don't go in the book. Ye look, I'm sure
- 18:41Speaker 1: that was a struggle girl because I was like, I'm
- 18:43Speaker 1: reading this book going or she could have added her,
- 18:45Speaker 1: she could have added her. Well, what happened was I
- 18:47Speaker 1: ran out of time and my publisher was like, no more,
- 18:50Speaker 1: no more. I mean, you know there are people that
- 18:53Speaker 1: are like, I'm like, I've tried so hard to get
- 18:55Speaker 1: you in this book. But you know, it was just
- 18:57Speaker 1: it was it was a time thing. So it's you know,
- 19:00Speaker 1: it just didn't work out and some people just weren't
- 19:02Speaker 1: available at the time. Um, you know, doing things like
- 19:05Speaker 1: that happened. And you know, you know I already know
- 19:08Speaker 1: this from an award chair. You can't get every talent
- 19:10Speaker 1: you know that you want. You just can't. You know,
- 19:13Speaker 1: when when you write a book like this, you know,
- 19:16Speaker 1: I'm gonna just tell people I'm a male. I read it.
- 19:18Speaker 1: I was motivated, not because I because I think any
- 19:22Speaker 1: time you read any story that's inspiring, it provides you
- 19:25Speaker 1: with information that you can do it too. So let's
- 19:28Speaker 1: let's say, why do you read this book with Sean mcgah.
- 19:30Speaker 1: Why would I read this book? One is motivational, is informative,
- 19:33Speaker 1: It gives you an example that you can be successful.
- 19:36Speaker 1: To those top three right there, that's why you should
- 19:38Speaker 1: buy this book. Those three are long. That's why you
- 19:40Speaker 1: should buy this book because of the fact that it's
- 19:42Speaker 1: letting you know that these are these are ordinary people
- 19:46Speaker 1: in the sense that we all are born, you know,
- 19:49Speaker 1: into this or into this world with the hope that
- 19:51Speaker 1: we can be successful. They are achieving successful and they're
- 19:54Speaker 1: sharing you with you. And this book values of why
- 19:57Speaker 1: you can be successful too, and it's broken down in
- 20:00Speaker 1: the nine chapters. And the reason I like this book
- 20:02Speaker 1: is that it's a it's a very current book, which
- 20:05Speaker 1: means that you know, she interviews a lot of current stars,
- 20:08Speaker 1: but she also brings history into it, and so she
- 20:11Speaker 1: doesn't lead lead back. She wants to remind you of
- 20:16Speaker 1: the Harriet Tugman's, the Robertal Flax. You know, you know
- 20:20Speaker 1: these people are important because all of a sudden, you
- 20:22Speaker 1: just go Mordern and you go and you can forget
- 20:25Speaker 1: your history. And I think if you forget your history,
- 20:27Speaker 1: then you don't understand your future or your path to success.
- 20:32Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, it was, you know it was. And I
- 20:35Speaker 1: love my publisher because in this in this space, you know,
- 20:38Speaker 1: with my creative vision. Um. You know, she just gave
- 20:41Speaker 1: me the campus and to do what you do, and
- 20:44Speaker 1: so there was never a pushback. And so when I
- 20:46Speaker 1: wanted be her story, what you're preferring to her story
- 20:50Speaker 1: blurbs at the end to remind people of all these
- 20:53Speaker 1: other women may not with the circle, may not be. Um,
- 20:57Speaker 1: I think both of them are not with us. There
- 20:59Speaker 1: there are a couple of theres on here, but I
- 21:00Speaker 1: still wanted to put their legacy in. But I wanted
- 21:03Speaker 1: to tell that, just remind people of that history. And so, um,
- 21:07Speaker 1: it started off with that one. I don't know if
- 21:09Speaker 1: you're when you're referring to the Harriet something in um section. Um,
- 21:13Speaker 1: it's in the Lift Every Voice chapter and UM, I
- 21:16Speaker 1: call it, you know, the the RBGS, you know, revolutionary
- 21:21Speaker 1: but gangster because these women right right right it's the
- 21:26Speaker 1: hip hop of men' you know. I add a lot
- 21:29Speaker 1: of it's a lot of music, which is also also
- 21:33Speaker 1: in Lifted Revards is my girl mc light mc lights
- 21:37Speaker 1: in there. And then and you have another legend that
- 21:39Speaker 1: you'd like to point out, Pauline Murray, who co founded
- 21:42Speaker 1: the National Organization of Women. Yeah, this is why this
- 21:46Speaker 1: is so cool. This is so incredible. I'm a point
- 21:50Speaker 1: out a couple of chapters because I really certain people
- 21:52Speaker 1: who staid, I like, I love the Black Girl Magic.
- 21:54Speaker 1: When you talked about Serena Williams and her explosion as
- 21:58Speaker 1: a tennis player. But then you go to ball Us Up,
- 22:00Speaker 1: Venus Williams is there and she's talking about her role
- 22:04Speaker 1: as an entrepreneur, isn't I'm glad that you caught that.
- 22:07Speaker 1: That's so dope. You know, No, no, I would. I'm
- 22:10Speaker 1: telling you I was. I was sitting up in reading
- 22:12Speaker 1: this book and then and then you know, and then
- 22:13Speaker 1: you know, you know, I feel good when you know
- 22:15Speaker 1: I've lived a life where I've reading people that you're
- 22:18Speaker 1: honoring and I go, I know that person, that person
- 22:20Speaker 1: know me, like in the most more, more Black, more
- 22:23Speaker 1: Beautiful with Susan Taylor come on that seven years at essence.
- 22:29Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, and Susan was one of her She was
- 22:33Speaker 1: in our second year honor ay and then we honor
- 22:35Speaker 1: her again on TV. But she was one of the
- 22:37Speaker 1: very very beginning early supporters of Black Girl's rock. And
- 22:41Speaker 1: then again you like you said, still I rise. You
- 22:44Speaker 1: have Mary J. Bligh and now the most powerful person
- 22:48Speaker 1: in this book to me was this young lady and
- 22:51Speaker 1: still I rise, and I hope I say her name
- 22:52Speaker 1: like aban Germer. Yeah, herst Hobbing the first death blind
- 23:02Speaker 1: graduate of Harvard Law School, and she in her story
- 23:08Speaker 1: and April homes story are similar in the way that
- 23:11Speaker 1: they talk about perseverance and how they were able to
- 23:16Speaker 1: look at examples of things that they saw, like you know,
- 23:18Speaker 1: which it was having seeing her parents having to walk
- 23:21Speaker 1: across the desert and you know, in their war torn
- 23:24Speaker 1: countries and meeting here in America, so she doesn't look
- 23:27Speaker 1: at her death blindness as something that's worse than what
- 23:30Speaker 1: they had to go through. And in April Homes when
- 23:33Speaker 1: she talks about you know, I just think hers was
- 23:35Speaker 1: so powerful as well when she talks about losing her
- 23:38Speaker 1: leg as an athlete, you know, in an Amtrak accident,
- 23:41Speaker 1: and how she was able use that as a metaphor
- 23:44Speaker 1: um from looking at the experiences of black women and
- 23:48Speaker 1: in figuring out how to get that train off of
- 23:51Speaker 1: her so she can keep You heard that quote, did
- 23:54Speaker 1: you get her leg? Did you get her leg? Her leg?
- 24:00Speaker 1: That's that's and she and she is a champion a
- 24:03Speaker 1: parent athlete in the Olympics, Paralympics Para. I don't know
- 24:10Speaker 1: at the time she was Rushan McDonald. Let me just
- 24:12Speaker 1: tell you right now. Yeah, And I want to throw
- 24:15Speaker 1: out a couple of more shot caller Mara Brocker kill.
- 24:18Speaker 1: If you're not having watched The Black Lightning, she's executive
- 24:22Speaker 1: us in this show, being Mary Jane the game, Um
- 24:26Speaker 1: girlfriends and then my favorite person, uh Young Gifford and
- 24:30Speaker 1: Black gim Janelle Morne Beverly. Um. As you can see,
- 24:34Speaker 1: I love this book. I love what you're doing. Uh.
- 24:37Speaker 1: You gotta give me two tickets to Black Girls Rock
- 24:39Speaker 1: this year. I'm bringing my silter, my daughter to it.
- 24:42Speaker 1: She needs to be experienced this and know that I'm
- 24:45Speaker 1: a fan. I'm gonna keep promoting your brain. Okay, we'll
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- 25:43Speaker 1: former IBM executive, and has a degree in mathematics. More importantly,
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- 25:51Speaker 1: empower small businesses with information to succeed. Hi this Rashan McDonald.
- 25:57Speaker 1: You're listening to Money Making Conversations. My next guest is
- 26:00Speaker 1: an American television personality. She's known to the world with
- 26:03Speaker 1: her parents and a very popular VH one TV show,
- 26:06Speaker 1: Basketball Wives of Los Angeles. She has an unrivaled sense
- 26:10Speaker 1: of fashion and social influencer and a philanthropist to those
- 26:13Speaker 1: in need, entrepreneur, and her proudest role is that of
- 26:16Speaker 1: a loving mother of three. Please walk on the Money
- 26:19Speaker 1: Making Conversation Malaysia. Poco Hi Hi, I like that high
- 26:28Speaker 1: never get this. I'll ring your bio. Now where are
- 26:30Speaker 1: you based? Now? Where are you based? Now? Oh? My gosh,
- 26:34Speaker 1: I am by Hosto. So I am half of the
- 26:37Speaker 1: week in Atlanta, Georgia, and half the week in l A.
- 26:41Speaker 1: Okay cool. So because your your bio says you're moving
- 26:44Speaker 1: to Atlanta. Oh you just don't stay by coaster. Yeah,
- 26:49Speaker 1: I already moved to Atlanta. Yeah. So my home bases
- 26:53Speaker 1: in Atlanta, but I work out of l A. Okay. Cool.
- 26:56Speaker 1: I'm gonna get that out the way because now you're
- 26:57Speaker 1: my body now you because I'm in Atlanta and I
- 27:01Speaker 1: also live in Houston, but I also hang out. I
- 27:05Speaker 1: like and I'm happy to have you on the show
- 27:07Speaker 1: because of the fact that you know, on this show
- 27:10Speaker 1: it's about entrepreneurship and also about entertainment, and you fit
- 27:13Speaker 1: both bills. But more importantly, you're motivating person because of
- 27:16Speaker 1: the fact that you're a single mom and I wanted
- 27:18Speaker 1: and a lot of people, a lot of people don't
- 27:20Speaker 1: understand the difficulties of being a single mam. But also
- 27:23Speaker 1: you have a career, and how do you balance the two?
- 27:26Speaker 1: How do you and I could write the book about
- 27:28Speaker 1: balanced lifestyle. How do you balance your life? Three three boys? Correct?
- 27:34Speaker 1: I know? No, No, I have two boys and a girl.
- 27:38Speaker 1: I was, yeah, I was blessedically eleven year olds done,
- 27:42Speaker 1: and then I have seven year old twins with girls
- 27:45Speaker 1: that awesome graduations. How do you balance that? You already
- 27:50Speaker 1: said you in l A. You're in Atlanta, So how
- 27:53Speaker 1: do you balance that? You know what I look at
- 27:56Speaker 1: it as like how Nike that you just do it?
- 27:59Speaker 1: And I like, both situations are nonnegotiable. So what I
- 28:04Speaker 1: say is like, I like, I am a parent curse right,
- 28:07Speaker 1: you know, I am a mom, you know, above all things,
- 28:10Speaker 1: because God lends me these precious full soals and I
- 28:13Speaker 1: haven't you know, raised them up right, and then you know,
- 28:15Speaker 1: but I also have to make money for them, and
- 28:18Speaker 1: you know, and and still live out my dream. So
- 28:21Speaker 1: you know, I just try to put a balance on
- 28:23Speaker 1: the both of them. So that's why I'm in a
- 28:26Speaker 1: you know, Atlanta three or four days out of the weekend,
- 28:29Speaker 1: and I go and back to l A to film
- 28:31Speaker 1: and and do other things that I need to do,
- 28:34Speaker 1: you know, And you're doing a lot of fantastic things
- 28:37Speaker 1: and on the entrepreneur shop entrepreneurship side before we get
- 28:40Speaker 1: into that. When I'm reading your bio, you a graduate
- 28:44Speaker 1: of with a Bachelor of science. When you see a
- 28:46Speaker 1: like correct, okay, that that doesn't get out there in
- 28:50Speaker 1: general public. You know what I'm saying. You know, they
- 28:52Speaker 1: just to use. So that's so. And you began your
- 28:55Speaker 1: career you wanted to be a dentist. I did. I did? I.
- 29:00Speaker 1: I really I was interested in um in the dental field.
- 29:04Speaker 1: But then I really realized that, like I'm just I'm
- 29:07Speaker 1: a creative type and so like I you know, I
- 29:10Speaker 1: really sve the the art of you know, the human
- 29:12Speaker 1: body and the anatomy and things of that nature. I
- 29:15Speaker 1: just kind of was like, I'm so creative, like you know,
- 29:18Speaker 1: I like I love the duty empire, you know. And
- 29:21Speaker 1: I guess that is like one of the sassiness of like,
- 29:23Speaker 1: you know, your teeth. It's the first thing people see
- 29:25Speaker 1: and assassinated at at a young gig Like okay, so wait,
- 29:30Speaker 1: he said, lord Lingle, Okay, so what does that mean?
- 29:32Speaker 1: Like and so I knew from the time I got
- 29:34Speaker 1: braces when I was a child that this is where
- 29:37Speaker 1: I wanted to do. I admired Um, I admired my
- 29:40Speaker 1: dentist and you know, and I would tell my mom
- 29:43Speaker 1: all the time, like I want to be the first
- 29:45Speaker 1: supermodel ventist. And she was like, okay, well your mom,
- 29:51Speaker 1: look at you. Look at what's your saying, supermom? Were
- 29:54Speaker 1: you gad you got the degree? Okay? So he was
- 29:57Speaker 1: headed that way. Yeah I got there. And then I
- 30:00Speaker 1: was like, yeah, okay, lady, I'm sorry for the money
- 30:04Speaker 1: that you put into this situation. Out piece, out piece out.
- 30:10Speaker 1: You know. It's really cool because when when you're looking
- 30:12Speaker 1: at a person's lifestyle, you know, and television you can
- 30:15Speaker 1: only in media sometimes only shows one side. And it's
- 30:18Speaker 1: important for me to try to tell your entire story
- 30:21Speaker 1: because I think it's rather fascinating because that's why it
- 30:24Speaker 1: tells people because you're from Compton, California, and Compton, California
- 30:27Speaker 1: always just this incredible reputation. Don't go down, don't go down,
- 30:31Speaker 1: you know. And I I love Compton, I really do.
- 30:36Speaker 1: I feel like we were striving in so many different directions.
- 30:39Speaker 1: We have a young African American, um, you know, mayor,
- 30:43Speaker 1: and I mean she is amazing, and um, I just
- 30:47Speaker 1: think that like it's just so much hope for you know,
- 30:50Speaker 1: pretty young kids to see that there's so many different
- 30:53Speaker 1: directions you can go in too, and it does not
- 30:56Speaker 1: have to just be like television. It could be you know, anything,
- 30:59Speaker 1: just to be up hiller in your community. So like,
- 31:03Speaker 1: I mean, that's why I'm always cringing to that the
- 31:06Speaker 1: Mountain Top that I'm from Compton, because I wanted, yeah,
- 31:10Speaker 1: I wanted them to say like, yeah, you can do
- 31:12Speaker 1: it too, because a lot of people have in their
- 31:14Speaker 1: mind that you know, you can't do anything because you're
- 31:18Speaker 1: from the inner city. We know. I had Morchelle Wilet
- 31:20Speaker 1: from ESPN on the show and he was he was
- 31:24Speaker 1: he was screaming the same words of excitement about his city, Compton,
- 31:29Speaker 1: how he gives back and all that good stuff. So
- 31:32Speaker 1: it's really awesome to who you talk about Anderson. We
- 31:35Speaker 1: have Anthony Anderson from Compton and I didn't even know that,
- 31:38Speaker 1: and so I met him. He was like, yeah, girl
- 31:40Speaker 1: from Times and I went to Lazy, you know, So
- 31:42Speaker 1: it was like it was it's super dope because you know,
- 31:46Speaker 1: we are are very proud of our little city. Yeah,
- 31:49Speaker 1: I believe me, I'm from here. I'm from there, or
- 31:51Speaker 1: in the sense that I lived there fifteen years. And
- 31:54Speaker 1: when I was doing the radio show Steve Harvey Show,
- 31:56Speaker 1: we used to broadcast live from Compton. So I'm very
- 31:59Speaker 1: aware of the of the branding of what Compton has
- 32:03Speaker 1: has received in rap music and and and and also
- 32:08Speaker 1: and I also know that the great opportunities of entrepreneurship
- 32:11Speaker 1: they're great food, great people and um and it needs
- 32:15Speaker 1: to be promoted constantly and to hear people like you
- 32:18Speaker 1: who have media media access to come out and say Compton,
- 32:23Speaker 1: that's my hood. Yeah, all day long. I mean I
- 32:27Speaker 1: I brought the TV show there's a real time, you know,
- 32:31Speaker 1: just with me giving back to the community with White
- 32:35Speaker 1: and he did. He has those organizations where he gives back,
- 32:41Speaker 1: you know, especially all the time. So I heared out
- 32:43Speaker 1: with him and you know, and brought it on the show.
- 32:46Speaker 1: And so it was this, It was really nice. The
- 32:48Speaker 1: mirror came through and you know, it was really really dope.
- 32:51Speaker 1: It was you know, really amazing cool. Now we got
- 32:54Speaker 1: that she's from Compton. Got that out. She's a graduate
- 32:57Speaker 1: of Bachelor size from u c l A. Got that out.
- 33:00Speaker 1: She wanted to be a dentist. And now she told
- 33:03Speaker 1: her mom she's gonna be a dental supermodel. So sold
- 33:10Speaker 1: you on this show. Let's let's go to let's go
- 33:12Speaker 1: to this show TV show Basketball Wives. Okay, it's a
- 33:16Speaker 1: reality show. You know when it when it when when
- 33:19Speaker 1: it came on, you know, there was a lot of activity.
- 33:23Speaker 1: How did you get on the show? And did did
- 33:25Speaker 1: you think you would stay on the show as long
- 33:27Speaker 1: as you stayed on the show. Okay. So I was
- 33:32Speaker 1: approached by one of my girlfriends. She wanted to be
- 33:36Speaker 1: on the show. But she was like, I need a friend,
- 33:39Speaker 1: you know, the other lady. You know, I don't really
- 33:44Speaker 1: know them and I don't really have much in common
- 33:46Speaker 1: with them, so when you do it? And I was
- 33:48Speaker 1: she needs to back up, she needs to back up.
- 33:51Speaker 1: She was like, no, I'm here, Like we can you know,
- 33:54Speaker 1: we relate to each other. We were really different at
- 33:58Speaker 1: that point. Yeah, so Brandy MacDill and so, uh, you know,
- 34:04Speaker 1: I was like at first, I said no, and I'm like, girl,
- 34:07Speaker 1: I'm not I'm shy, like I don't really see I
- 34:11Speaker 1: only come to life with my friends, you know. So
- 34:14Speaker 1: she was like, no, just please to do it with me.
- 34:16Speaker 1: And I asked my husband at that time, my ex
- 34:20Speaker 1: husband now um and he was like, go ahead, fine,
- 34:23Speaker 1: whatever you want to do. You know, I'll support to you.
- 34:26Speaker 1: And so that's how you know, we met with Shawny
- 34:29Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, come on, let's you know
- 34:32Speaker 1: I'm trying to do it l A. So yeah, I'm
- 34:34Speaker 1: trying to do an l A show. Let's go pitch
- 34:36Speaker 1: this to the network. And they loved the idea. So
- 34:40Speaker 1: that's how that happened. Now was once my first season.
- 34:45Speaker 1: If you to ask me if I would be here
- 34:48Speaker 1: seven years later, I probably would have told you no.
- 34:52Speaker 1: It was definitely. I was like no, no, no no, no no,
- 35:00Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no no, because like I was like, listen,
- 35:04Speaker 1: I am like sheep with a tackle woods. It is
- 35:09Speaker 1: not happening. I had to ask God several times, like
- 35:12Speaker 1: why did you place me here? I don't understand, but
- 35:18Speaker 1: to behave was driving you crazy? Hu Oh my goodness. Yeah,
- 35:21Speaker 1: it was just driving me. I just didn't realizing what value?
- 35:26Speaker 1: What value? Did you seeing it? Though? You know, because
- 35:28Speaker 1: you know, because it's a balance there, you know, because
- 35:31Speaker 1: you're seeing you y'all don't need you for your friend
- 35:33Speaker 1: talk to you and to doing on the show. You're
- 35:34Speaker 1: doing the show. You know, it's bringing exposure I freaget.
- 35:39Speaker 1: Did I forget to tell you that my friend that
- 35:41Speaker 1: casked me to you know, to getting on the show
- 35:43Speaker 1: ended up getting pregnant and didn't start with me by myself,
- 35:49Speaker 1: so you had no backup. You on the show by yourself,
- 35:53Speaker 1: going what the heck if I got myself into and
- 35:58Speaker 1: then and Shanny was supposed to get on the show
- 36:00Speaker 1: is low and didn't show it either, So I was like,
- 36:02Speaker 1: way to what a way to minute? So you know
- 36:06Speaker 1: the value that I've seen in the show is After
- 36:09Speaker 1: a while, once they started understanding who I was, um
- 36:13Speaker 1: not the pasmates, but I felt like production in the
- 36:16Speaker 1: network and I them allowing me to be myself, I
- 36:21Speaker 1: started I started to see, you know, the value in
- 36:24Speaker 1: the show because I felt like, Okay, God obviously brought
- 36:28Speaker 1: me here to for a reason. So when I you know,
- 36:32Speaker 1: just me praying and fasten and acting, God like, why DoD,
- 36:35Speaker 1: why do you have me in this situation? Why do
- 36:37Speaker 1: you want me here? You placed me here for a reason.
- 36:39Speaker 1: A use me? Lord? And he was basically like, I
- 36:43Speaker 1: just need you to be a positive role model to
- 36:46Speaker 1: our young girls. I need you to I need you
- 36:49Speaker 1: to show them that you could do it. You can
- 36:51Speaker 1: be from you know, from the hood, you can you
- 36:54Speaker 1: can you know, also have some of those good values.
- 36:57Speaker 1: But you can also be about your business. You can
- 36:59Speaker 1: have passion because I feel like a lot of the times,
- 37:02Speaker 1: like being that the world is so crazy these days
- 37:04Speaker 1: that we don't have compassion anymore because we're afraid to care,
- 37:08Speaker 1: you know, we're afraid of getting her. So just me
- 37:11Speaker 1: showing my vulnerability a whole lot, only because I am
- 37:15Speaker 1: so compassion and I care for people so much, and
- 37:17Speaker 1: I'm a seeker. I'm a healer by nature, so I
- 37:20Speaker 1: just you know, I wanted to heal and help everyone
- 37:23Speaker 1: and sometimes to get me in trouble. But for the
- 37:26Speaker 1: most part, like a lot of people that understand like
- 37:29Speaker 1: life and that are you know, compassionate as they see that,
- 37:32Speaker 1: you know, I am really coming from a great place
- 37:34Speaker 1: on the show. So that's why I am here, because
- 37:38Speaker 1: I'm like, not only am I doing that, UM, just
- 37:41Speaker 1: showing you know, message, an empowerment message. Yeah, just deligrant, Yeah,
- 37:46Speaker 1: just deliver him empowering empowerment message. But I also get
- 37:50Speaker 1: to live out my dreams that make me not afraid
- 37:53Speaker 1: to just start projects that I wanted to do. Um,
- 37:57Speaker 1: and and and bring them in into and that's our
- 38:01Speaker 1: next break. We're gonna talk about all those products. This this, this,
- 38:04Speaker 1: this segment is about the entertainment. How did this wonderful
- 38:08Speaker 1: person who wanted to be a dental via dentist degree
- 38:12Speaker 1: from u c l A get on the show like
- 38:14Speaker 1: Basketball Wives? And you've told us that now you're telling
- 38:17Speaker 1: us now that it is. It has made you an
- 38:19Speaker 1: outgoing person, giving your platform to speak, giving you a
- 38:23Speaker 1: position to be empowering. And because of that, you've come
- 38:26Speaker 1: up with a lot of a lot of entrepreneurial ventures
- 38:30Speaker 1: that we're gonna talk about the next break. She's amazing.
- 38:32Speaker 1: I'm on the phone right now with Malasia Pargo, one
- 38:35Speaker 1: of the stars of v H one's Basketball Wives, and
- 38:39Speaker 1: she's an entrepreneur and she's a proud busy by coastal single.
- 38:43Speaker 1: Mall be right back with more Alasia Pargo. We'll be
- 38:50Speaker 1: right back with more from Marsan McDonald and Money Making
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- 40:40Speaker 1: Welcome back to Rashan McDonald hosts the Money Making Conversations
- 40:43Speaker 1: on the phone as Malaysia pargo Uh, one of the
- 40:46Speaker 1: stars of vige One's Basketball Wives. She's employing her entrepreneurial
- 40:50Speaker 1: business skills and industry and entering the business industry and
- 40:54Speaker 1: launching Vanity in the City. Now you see, Roshan, what
- 40:58Speaker 1: is Vanity in this city. It's a lush line of
- 41:01Speaker 1: meek eyelashes and apparel. And she's on the phone to
- 41:04Speaker 1: tell us about one of her business. So we got
- 41:06Speaker 1: a lot to talk about this break. Tell us about Malaysia,
- 41:09Speaker 1: tell us about Vanity in the City. Well, Vanity in
- 41:14Speaker 1: the City, um is just I told you I wanted
- 41:17Speaker 1: to be a supermado obviously, you know everything about fashion
- 41:24Speaker 1: and beauty and Vanity in this City is a luxury
- 41:28Speaker 1: lash meek lash line and it starts there and then
- 41:33Speaker 1: it also have apparel that's coming um soon and so yeah,
- 41:39Speaker 1: and so it's basically lashes that you can wear from
- 41:43Speaker 1: anywhere to twenty to thirty days if you keep them clean.
- 41:47Speaker 1: You take them off obviously and you where um wash them,
- 41:50Speaker 1: clean them up or whatever. But yeah, they are long
- 41:53Speaker 1: lasting lashes for you know, for their everyday woman. Now,
- 41:57Speaker 1: one of your model is embrace your beauty without judgment.
- 42:02Speaker 1: That's pretty powerful because you can for you to have
- 42:05Speaker 1: a month like that that we're just what're just the what'
- 42:08Speaker 1: just the background behind that model. Embrace your beauty without
- 42:11Speaker 1: judgment because I feel like a lot of women, you know,
- 42:16Speaker 1: don't want to seem vain, um because people kind of
- 42:19Speaker 1: frown upon being vain and like caring about yourself. And
- 42:23Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I want you to love yourself
- 42:26Speaker 1: whatever that you know, you can love yourself to death,
- 42:29Speaker 1: you can love yourself too much. Just love yourself and
- 42:32Speaker 1: a lot of I feel like just loving yourself comes
- 42:35Speaker 1: with a lot of stuff. Um, when it comes down
- 42:37Speaker 1: to business, when it comes down to caring for people,
- 42:41Speaker 1: when it comes down to caring for your children's UM.
- 42:44Speaker 1: When you don't like yourself or love yourself, you're lacking
- 42:48Speaker 1: those in those areas and you won't be an entrepreneur
- 42:51Speaker 1: because you don't think that you're capable of it. So
- 42:54Speaker 1: when I say embrace your beauty without judgment, I want
- 42:57Speaker 1: you to look at I mean when you feel when
- 42:59Speaker 1: when you scare that you still your back and up cool. Now,
- 43:05Speaker 1: one of the things that I've noticed throughout everything I
- 43:08Speaker 1: looked though you are. You are are a giving back person.
- 43:11Speaker 1: You're a person that you serviced the community, your philanthropists.
- 43:15Speaker 1: Now that to me, you know it is important I
- 43:19Speaker 1: personally do that all the time. I gave a speech
- 43:21Speaker 1: this weekend at the Natural Organization of Women in Houston
- 43:26Speaker 1: and UM and it was about giving back and about
- 43:28Speaker 1: motivating people to be successful. Why is it important to you?
- 43:33Speaker 1: It's important to me because, like I said, and I
- 43:35Speaker 1: am a child of guy, and so he gives me
- 43:38Speaker 1: so much and he gives it to me because he
- 43:40Speaker 1: knows that I will get back and and I just like,
- 43:44Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, so much is given to
- 43:46Speaker 1: me and I just want to I want to share,
- 43:49Speaker 1: and I like and I want someone else to do
- 43:51Speaker 1: it in return. I feel like the more that we
- 43:53Speaker 1: hope each other as a community to grow, the better
- 43:56Speaker 1: off we will be. And you're growing so so now,
- 44:00Speaker 1: just starting to explain the seven years on basketball wife,
- 44:04Speaker 1: because that that being on there has allowed you to
- 44:08Speaker 1: do these get back campaigns and be able to enforce
- 44:13Speaker 1: women embrace your beauty without judgment mantras that you're creating
- 44:16Speaker 1: out there and also and diving into that entrepreneur because
- 44:20Speaker 1: you're not afraid to pitch an idea by the business model,
- 44:24Speaker 1: or to engage your brand with a business model, are
- 44:26Speaker 1: you No, I am not. I'm not afraid to. I'm
- 44:31Speaker 1: not afraid to sell. I'm not afraid to, you know,
- 44:34Speaker 1: get out there and at least like and try it.
- 44:37Speaker 1: You know, everything don't stick and you have to you
- 44:40Speaker 1: have to realize that. And a lot of people think
- 44:42Speaker 1: that because you open up a business that the first
- 44:46Speaker 1: year you're gonna be rich. You're not. Tell that one
- 44:50Speaker 1: more time, Tell that one Moila, not letting that go by.
- 44:56Speaker 1: I mean a lot of people feel like if you
- 44:58Speaker 1: create a business, you're going to be rich. The first dear,
- 45:00Speaker 1: You're not. You know, it's take time to take time
- 45:03Speaker 1: for people to recognize your brand, and take time for
- 45:06Speaker 1: you know, you to figure out the kings in the business,
- 45:09Speaker 1: to figure out what work but don't work. You know,
- 45:11Speaker 1: it's it's growing pains and learning, you know, learning your business,
- 45:15Speaker 1: learning your craft, how to make it better. There's different
- 45:18Speaker 1: components to go with it, marketing, you know, getting the
- 45:21Speaker 1: right product, finding the right vendors, building the right team.
- 45:24Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot of things that go into it.
- 45:27Speaker 1: And I just feel like it's it's growing things, almost
- 45:29Speaker 1: like raising a child. For those that have children. UM,
- 45:32Speaker 1: you know, just you know, are just are you know,
- 45:35Speaker 1: finding the right space to live in. Um I was
- 45:38Speaker 1: just even just playing yourself. So I just feel like, um,
- 45:43Speaker 1: you know, just not being afraid. So just step out
- 45:46Speaker 1: of there, step out there and um and figure out
- 45:49Speaker 1: what works for you and and not giving up on
- 45:53Speaker 1: your baby figures. And I always call my business is
- 45:55Speaker 1: my baby, and I don't yeah, and I put it,
- 46:00Speaker 1: I put it in that frame of mind, so I
- 46:02Speaker 1: won't give up on them because I look at my
- 46:04Speaker 1: three children, and I will never give us on them.
- 46:06Speaker 1: I mean, I will fix I will try to fix
- 46:08Speaker 1: the world when it comes down to, you know, those
- 46:11Speaker 1: three beautiful children I like, I will lay down on
- 46:13Speaker 1: the line for them. And so I look at my
- 46:16Speaker 1: businesses like my babies. Like I, I don't give up
- 46:19Speaker 1: on them. Sometimes I might have to, you know, step
- 46:22Speaker 1: back a little bit and see where they go. Or
- 46:24Speaker 1: sometimes I might have to, you know, put a nap
- 46:26Speaker 1: to it and then go do something else and come
- 46:29Speaker 1: back to it when it's time. But I will never
- 46:32Speaker 1: you know, you know, just raise my hand and and
- 46:35Speaker 1: they forget it, never agree. I believe that, and that's
- 46:38Speaker 1: the way I do my life too, and I think
- 46:40Speaker 1: that that's important to for my listeners to here those
- 46:43Speaker 1: mantras that you have in place, a consistency and don't
- 46:46Speaker 1: give up and then follow your dream with a plan.
- 46:48Speaker 1: And that's what you're doing every day. Now. You have
- 46:50Speaker 1: another business that you created for affordable bidding line bedlining
- 46:55Speaker 1: called bedroom Glad. How did that come about? Karroom Glenn
- 47:01Speaker 1: came around about because because I am a basketball wife,
- 47:04Speaker 1: I have lived all over the world and um, you know,
- 47:07Speaker 1: and it's basically like I will have to pack up
- 47:10Speaker 1: and the matter's notice and then go set up shops
- 47:13Speaker 1: somewhere else. But you know, and I wanted my husband
- 47:16Speaker 1: and my kids to feel as comfortable as possible. So
- 47:19Speaker 1: I would like, you know, kill myself one trying to
- 47:22Speaker 1: make the house look like our normal house, you know,
- 47:26Speaker 1: so that he would be comfortable, so that he can work,
- 47:28Speaker 1: because he was a provider, and I wanted to make
- 47:31Speaker 1: sure that all, yeah, I did do was down to
- 47:33Speaker 1: the ball. And so finding comforter was like the heartest always.
- 47:38Speaker 1: And when we moved to l A, I went months
- 47:42Speaker 1: without having like, you know, suitable comforters on my bed
- 47:45Speaker 1: because I was like, you know, I don't want just white,
- 47:49Speaker 1: you know, I want this. This is what I want.
- 47:51Speaker 1: So I ended up having a conversation with um, with
- 47:54Speaker 1: my really great friend, and she was like, well, why
- 47:57Speaker 1: don't you just start because I need them, You're like,
- 47:59Speaker 1: and I was like what She's like, Yeah, I was
- 48:04Speaker 1: like okay, Well and I did, and I really I
- 48:07Speaker 1: had a great time doing it. And I mean I
- 48:11Speaker 1: have them all throughout my house and and and like
- 48:16Speaker 1: a lot of my friends, you know, have them on
- 48:19Speaker 1: their visit and it just rethinks out like you've got
- 48:22Speaker 1: a girl. So you know, I love it. You know,
- 48:25Speaker 1: I didn't know. What I love about you with Malaysia
- 48:27Speaker 1: is that there is such an honest sincerity about you
- 48:29Speaker 1: when you're talking about what's happening in your life personally
- 48:32Speaker 1: and what you're giving back. There's there's no expectation that
- 48:36Speaker 1: you're supposed to get something back because you're giving something out.
- 48:39Speaker 1: And I think that's why you're successful and you're gonna
- 48:42Speaker 1: always be successful because that's a value that a lot
- 48:45Speaker 1: of people don't understand. You have to give to get. Yes. Yes,
- 48:51Speaker 1: is that I feel like the atmosphere is that give
- 48:53Speaker 1: and take situations. What you put out is what you'll
- 48:56Speaker 1: get back. And when you put out negativity and that's
- 48:59Speaker 1: what that's is gonna be around you. You put out
- 49:01Speaker 1: positive and love, you're gonna get positive and love back,
- 49:04Speaker 1: and you're you just won't. You won't access anything. Let's
- 49:08Speaker 1: but positivity and love. That's what you're putting out. Yeah,
- 49:12Speaker 1: I want, I want to I want to make sure
- 49:13Speaker 1: I get this all because you have a tragedy, a tragedy,
- 49:16Speaker 1: a personal tragedy in your life with your brother who died. Uh.
- 49:21Speaker 1: You know several years ago at the hands of the police.
- 49:25Speaker 1: How are you still coping with that today? And uh
- 49:28Speaker 1: are any personal causes that you that you involved with
- 49:31Speaker 1: to try to just keep you your spiritual because he's
- 49:34Speaker 1: never gonna come back. And but you always think about it, well,
- 49:39Speaker 1: I always, you know, I always think about it. And
- 49:41Speaker 1: sometimes I look at my son and you know, and
- 49:45Speaker 1: I just see how close they are, and you know,
- 49:49Speaker 1: and I'm like, that's that was me and my brothers.
- 49:52Speaker 1: You know, my I was there. You know, they're taken
- 49:55Speaker 1: law pretty much, and it really, really, it really hurts
- 50:02Speaker 1: me sometimes. But I I started to think, I'm gonna
- 50:06Speaker 1: use I'm gonna use a different method instead of reading
- 50:10Speaker 1: my brother, I'm going to celebrate his life. And and
- 50:13Speaker 1: so whenever I started thinking where I'm getting sad or whatever,
- 50:17Speaker 1: I just started thinking about how he used to make
- 50:19Speaker 1: me laugh and how unique he was. He was a
- 50:22Speaker 1: little kid that was skateboard all the time, and you know,
- 50:26Speaker 1: and he always had a smell on his face. So
- 50:29Speaker 1: you know, I started thinking of that, you know, so
- 50:31Speaker 1: I support him in that way. Now. My mom, on
- 50:34Speaker 1: the other hand, is not having a really good time
- 50:38Speaker 1: with you know, with dealing with it, and rightfully so,
- 50:41Speaker 1: because I probably would be losing my you know too.
- 50:44Speaker 1: But yeah, So these the last cash years two years,
- 50:50Speaker 1: I've been working with my mom on you know, hilling
- 50:53Speaker 1: her up and you know and making her feel comfortable
- 50:56Speaker 1: and you know, allowing you know, her to be more
- 51:00Speaker 1: um more active in my children's life. So my mom
- 51:04Speaker 1: is my project at this point. And and I now
- 51:08Speaker 1: that I see growth in her, she's happy. Now you're awesome, girl.
- 51:14Speaker 1: I appreciate you coming on the show. Uh can you
- 51:18Speaker 1: come back please to this Rashard McDonald Money Making Conversations.
- 51:26Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations. It's the show that she
- 51:29Speaker 1: has the secrets of success experience firsthand by marketing and
- 51:31Speaker 1: Brandon expert Rashan McDonald. I will know he's giving me
- 51:34Speaker 1: advice on many occasions. In the case you didn't notice,
- 51:37Speaker 1: I'm not broke, you know, he'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs,
- 51:41Speaker 1: entrepreneurs and industry decision makers. It's what he likes to do,
- 51:44Speaker 1: it's what he likes to share. Now it's time to
- 51:46Speaker 1: hear from my man, Rashan McDonald. Money Making Conversations. Here
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- 52:00Speaker 1: The super Bowl is coming to Atlanta, Georgia. My next
- 52:05Speaker 1: guest is the director of Communications for the National Football League,
- 52:09Speaker 1: that's the NFL Players Association. Please welcome to money making conversation.
- 52:14Speaker 1: Is a very good friend of mine called Francis. How
- 52:18Speaker 1: you doing good to hear from you man, family a
- 52:22Speaker 1: few days something. Man, I can't do no but smile
- 52:26Speaker 1: thinking about them days. Man and uh man, you you
- 52:29Speaker 1: you were fun to work with. Bro I tell you
- 52:31Speaker 1: was a great time. Well, you know, the beauty of
- 52:33Speaker 1: that relationship was that. And that's why, you know, because
- 52:37Speaker 1: really because I want to really breakdown what you do.
- 52:40Speaker 1: But it's about imagery, and it's about the players and
- 52:43Speaker 1: how they are, how they portrayed in the media also
- 52:46Speaker 1: social media also how they portrayed themselves. And that was
- 52:49Speaker 1: one of the reasons why we got together with Family
- 52:51Speaker 1: Few was just a short lighter side of friendly side
- 52:55Speaker 1: of the players with Steve Harvey on a very popular
- 52:58Speaker 1: show called Family Few. And they fantastic. Man. Yeah, you know,
- 53:02Speaker 1: we had a great time and you know, one of
- 53:05Speaker 1: the uh misconceptions about players is, you know, people really
- 53:10Speaker 1: don't know the personalities of players because the game is
- 53:14Speaker 1: such a a physical game. But also number one, they
- 53:17Speaker 1: got pads, uniforms, a bunch of things. And I remember,
- 53:21Speaker 1: you know, one of the things we tried to do
- 53:22Speaker 1: was show those guys, like you said, in a different light.
- 53:24Speaker 1: And and I remember after the show, you pulling those
- 53:27Speaker 1: guys to the side and talking to him about the
- 53:30Speaker 1: importance of branding and imagery and wearing a suit and
- 53:33Speaker 1: it's being okay to to to to express who you
- 53:38Speaker 1: are as a person and man. And they sure did.
- 53:40Speaker 1: They had a great time, and all the guys came
- 53:42Speaker 1: dressed to impress, and I know they were dressed to impress.
- 53:45Speaker 1: Mandaniel Brown, you know he was on Tonio Brown. You
- 53:49Speaker 1: know Tonio Brown and uh you know my man who
- 53:53Speaker 1: went from Arizona, Jacksonville, all of the fun guys man,
- 53:59Speaker 1: And I think that's is what it's so important about.
- 54:02Speaker 1: Antonio Gates was on that show, Matt four Tables on
- 54:05Speaker 1: that show. There's a great group of guys, uh where
- 54:08Speaker 1: who retired with from Dallas on My Time the Markets
- 54:11Speaker 1: Where And now it's on NFL Network and when when
- 54:14Speaker 1: I when I walked away from that show, I was
- 54:16Speaker 1: just so First of all, you know, the brand of
- 54:18Speaker 1: the NFL is the most powerful on TV. Let's get
- 54:22Speaker 1: that out the way first. It's the most powerful and
- 54:25Speaker 1: also the most criticized because when you're the best, people
- 54:28Speaker 1: gonna point your point a finger at you all the time.
- 54:32Speaker 1: Before I get into your position, I want to talk
- 54:35Speaker 1: about your life, you know, from the stand. Here's some
- 54:38Speaker 1: information about Carl Francis. Twenty four years for experience in
- 54:42Speaker 1: marketing sales. Just how you get to be the director
- 54:45Speaker 1: of Communications for the NFL. Twenty four years of experience
- 54:48Speaker 1: in marketing sales, branding, website development, digital social media growth,
- 54:54Speaker 1: video production, communications, public relations. This is very important. Crisis communication. Yes,
- 55:02Speaker 1: it is the community outreach, an event marketing. Yes, sir,
- 55:09Speaker 1: that's a resume, ma Man, Yes, sir, yes, sir. And
- 55:12Speaker 1: I know that when you're in that position, you really
- 55:15Speaker 1: do have to hav an awareness. You might not be
- 55:18Speaker 1: an expert, but you have to have a strong awareness
- 55:21Speaker 1: or what's going on in all these different departments because
- 55:23Speaker 1: everybody has an opinion. Oh absolutely, And you know I
- 55:26Speaker 1: take pride in what I do because I really care
- 55:29Speaker 1: about our two thousand members and future members that are
- 55:32Speaker 1: coming up. And one of the things that's important to
- 55:34Speaker 1: my job is is to protect the image of the
- 55:38Speaker 1: NFL pre externally and internally, but more important, our players.
- 55:43Speaker 1: They are a union. They represent our union. So when
- 55:46Speaker 1: they're out there and they're going through their transition of
- 55:49Speaker 1: figuring out their space of like you mentioned earlier, branding um,
- 55:55Speaker 1: their perception, their role, you know, I have to, you know,
- 55:59Speaker 1: make sure I keep my finger on the pulse of
- 56:00Speaker 1: making sure that they understand importance of it, because we're
- 56:03Speaker 1: only as good as our players are while they're in
- 56:06Speaker 1: the league. And then once they finish. See the most
- 56:08Speaker 1: important thing you don't You don't judge a player while
- 56:11Speaker 1: he's in the league. I think you really judge a
- 56:14Speaker 1: player how good he is once he leaves the league.
- 56:15Speaker 1: Ten years after he finished the league. That's when you
- 56:18Speaker 1: really figure out whether this guy really guided it or not.
- 56:21Speaker 1: Because the athletic part, that's that's temper cent of the game,
- 56:24Speaker 1: not a not a percent of the game. Is what
- 56:26Speaker 1: type of man? Uh did he become? Did he take
- 56:30Speaker 1: advantage of academic programs, resources initiatives in the in the
- 56:34Speaker 1: in the NFL and what did he become after the
- 56:36Speaker 1: league and and those who are struggling, you know, we
- 56:39Speaker 1: still reach back. But that's how you really judge a player.
- 56:42Speaker 1: You don't judge a player on how many touchdowns, how
- 56:44Speaker 1: many catches. You you depend with what type of husband
- 56:47Speaker 1: did he become, What type of man did he become,
- 56:49Speaker 1: Did he work in this community, did he build a
- 56:51Speaker 1: foundation for him and his family beyond football? And that's
- 56:55Speaker 1: how that's what we try to focus on, helping every
- 56:57Speaker 1: player to come through our league get to that point.
- 57:00Speaker 1: It's a struggle because we're fighting a lot outside. Uh
- 57:04Speaker 1: sometimes challenges and distractions, but that's our main goal and
- 57:08Speaker 1: uh hopefully you know we're we're we're working hard to
- 57:11Speaker 1: get there, one day at a time. Now, with that
- 57:13Speaker 1: being said, you give us a little bit of what
- 57:15Speaker 1: the Players Association does, give us a full umbrella or
- 57:19Speaker 1: what the role of the players used as a union.
- 57:23Speaker 1: Uh what else is it doesn't the current players and
- 57:27Speaker 1: the retired players what role does it play in their lives? Well?
- 57:30Speaker 1: Players a major role as a current player where the
- 57:32Speaker 1: exclusive collective bargaining agent for active players, meaning anything dealing
- 57:39Speaker 1: with the players legal rights on the field, and as
- 57:42Speaker 1: an NFL player, we represent so it's important for us
- 57:47Speaker 1: to be connected to players when it comes to their contract. UH.
- 57:50Speaker 1: They're there working conditions and they're welfare. So when you
- 57:55Speaker 1: see players have contract disputes, or there's the NIE and
- 58:00Speaker 1: TIS built around the healthcare players, whether we feel as
- 58:03Speaker 1: though our team went through the proper UH protocol channels
- 58:07Speaker 1: on the sideline with a guy gets a concussion, Russell
- 58:12Speaker 1: Wilson was an issue, yet Russell Wilson was an issue,
- 58:14Speaker 1: or whether the field people don't understand you know, there's
- 58:18Speaker 1: a lot of things that play a part of a
- 58:20Speaker 1: player's condition. That's that's the actual feel. Everyone don't maintain
- 58:24Speaker 1: the level of quality for the field of play, surfaces,
- 58:28Speaker 1: making sure that they're kept up, making sure that their drain,
- 58:31Speaker 1: making sure that their proper standards for safety, to make
- 58:34Speaker 1: sure that the field the guys are playing on a
- 58:36Speaker 1: safe I mean, these are all elements of our game
- 58:38Speaker 1: that most people overlook because they want to see the
- 58:40Speaker 1: shiny helmets in it and any funny looking cliques and
- 58:43Speaker 1: then all those things and see the touchdowns. But we're
- 58:47Speaker 1: talking about the total and now the celebrations d right
- 58:51Speaker 1: in celebration making sure the guys have a little fun
- 58:53Speaker 1: once they enjoy themselves, you know, because it is hard
- 58:56Speaker 1: getting that in his own We we know it's it's
- 58:58Speaker 1: not easy. You know, it's almost like getting two points
- 59:00Speaker 1: in basketball, they're not just letting letting you go to
- 59:02Speaker 1: go to the lane. Need you're really working. And football too,
- 59:05Speaker 1: they're not just letting you score. So we understand when
- 59:08Speaker 1: you score. And plus, you know, it's a marketing disadvantage
- 59:10Speaker 1: because players, you know, they have a brand. They want
- 59:13Speaker 1: to express themselves and they want to show that they're
- 59:16Speaker 1: real people. And sometimes it's hard to get that connection
- 59:19Speaker 1: with the fans because you have the helmet on all
- 59:21Speaker 1: the time. So you know, those type of things we
- 59:24Speaker 1: try to protect and make sure that players receiving and
- 59:27Speaker 1: for the former players who have a program called the Trust.
- 59:30Speaker 1: It's a program that's dedicated to anybody that played in
- 59:32Speaker 1: the league two or more years where uh they get
- 59:36Speaker 1: a full body scan head to toe, UH, you go
- 59:40Speaker 1: through exers. Uh it's called Exos program where they send
- 59:43Speaker 1: you off to a site and one of four facilities
- 59:46Speaker 1: across the country and you can go through a week
- 59:48Speaker 1: long process of working out, teaching how to eat teaching
- 59:52Speaker 1: how to take care of yourself, to actually pay for
- 59:54Speaker 1: you to go back to school, up to dollars reimbursement
- 59:57Speaker 1: per year going back to school to get your education school.
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's it's it's so many things that
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: we do. But the problem is, you know, any a
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: lot of our players, man, they go through so much
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: and there's so much pride that a lot of them
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: still trying to figure out who they are, what they
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: want to become because so much of who they are
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: was on that fields, on that field, and we and
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: we try to tell them that what's on that field
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: really wasn't you. This is what you did because you
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: were blessed with those abilities. But who you are is
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: an individual that's smart, intelligent, your thinker, Uh you you
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: you you, you gotta have a lot of skill sets
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: that you may not even touched on that that we
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: try to pull out of you so you can you
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: can have a productive life the next you know, thirty
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: or forty years of your life. So that's our focus.
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: Before we're in this break, I gotta bring up this
- 1:00:49Speaker 1: young man, Lindbacker University of Central Florida, Dallas, and they've
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: been dazzling Twitter been dazzled, dazzling everybody in this sports world.
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: To Quim Queen Griffin four point three eight in the
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: forty reps pounds, A person like that is who you
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: grab onto. That's right, that's right, quality kid. You know.
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: I have not honestly had to change to meet meet
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: the young man. But his story is what inspires. His
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: story is what our game is all about. And these
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: stories are are those that that inspire others to believe
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: that you can. And that's and that's how our league
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: is made up. But our league is made up of
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: a a lot of young men who have overcame a
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: lot of tragedy, a lot of disappointment in their life
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: and have become quality young men. And and and this
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: young man I see falling no short of that and
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: based on a disability, but it doesn't have anything to
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: do with his character as hardness desire. And that should
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: be a message to all young men. Uh and and
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: anyway women women for that part, in terms of you
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: can overcome any setback in your life if your mind
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: and your heart are connected in your desire. And I
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: think that young man will have a fantastic We're gonna
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: We're gonna wrap up this conversation. Our next break, we're
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: gonna talk about these the protests. Who'll talk about the concussions.
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: We'll talk about a lot of great things that happened
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: in the NFL with Carl Francis. We'll be right back
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: with more from Marcia McDonald the money Making Conversations. But
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- 1:02:41Speaker 1: double A CP Image Award winner, sitcom writer, stand up comic,
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: former IBM executive, and has a degree in mathematics. More importantly,
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- 1:03:45Speaker 1: Charlie Wilson. So many people have really been trying to
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- 1:04:25Speaker 1: the director of communications for National Football League that's the
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: NFL as we all know it, players association called Francis
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: Call You're still there? Okay? Call crisis management. That's what
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: it was. Part of your resume crisis communication planning the
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: last two years that you've been dealing with it. Oh,
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: the voice of the players trying to get their message out?
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: Can you tell my listeners exactly what is the message
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: that that that the players are trying to get out
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: about the national anthem protests? Can you tell us that basically, Well,
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: let me say this for starters, I think Colin Kaepernick,
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: his his protests was something that he felt sincere and
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: he had a lot of passion about and so, uh,
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: you know, you commend him for his personal conviction on
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: what he believed in. UM, but as it relates to
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: a number of players just feeling the same sort of uh,
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: having the same sort of mindset towards you know, how
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: our society has changed a little and to bring some
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: to bring some recognition, to bring some I'm more awareness
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: issues going to not recognition, but awareness, uh to these issues,
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: to bring some light and really to open up a discussion.
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: I think discussion has been important, like Malcolm Jenkins towards
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: that that whole team coming together and sitting down with
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: us the National Football League, to say, hey, look, how
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: can we all uh brain conversation and more like to
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: these negative issues in our communities because we are products,
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: are members are products of many of those communities where
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: a lot of negativity has taken place in and we
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: want to help, We want to help change. And I
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: think that's been the calling card for a lot of
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: our members. And and you know the good thing about
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: this process is that I think it has really woke
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: up a lot of people in terms of understanding that
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: our players are humans. Okay, they are part of these communities.
- 1:06:38Speaker 1: They are prod of society. Okay, they pay their their taxes,
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: they pick up their children from school, they go to
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: the same grocery stores. So they're no different than the
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: average person that's walking other than their job. But you
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: can't exclude them from the conversation of having an opinion
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: on their community. That's the right, um. And they feel
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: like that their mothers still live in those communities, their
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: family members, their cousins there, there there people that's connected
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: to their lives are still a part of these communities
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: and they and they feel as though I'm a part
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: of it. Two. So I have just as much of
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: an opinion as anybody else. And I think, uh, Malcolm
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: jenkin Is and his team, the players Coalition and those
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: group of players really stood up and did a great
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: thing by really bringing all the groups together and having
- 1:07:28Speaker 1: a strong conversation. And I think Colin Kaepernick bringing light
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: to it to open it up for discussion. Uh, brought
- 1:07:36Speaker 1: a lot of conversation and good, healthy conversation towards these issues.
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: And uh it looks like everybody is listening right now,
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: which is awesome. And I and I commended because it's
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: a very emotional battle because as a fan, all you
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: wanna do is watch football. All you want to do
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: is you know, cheer, and you hear the word team
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: and it kind of throws you off mentally as to
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: because now you have to think about other than football.
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: And that's why I think where the frustration she comes
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: with a fan is that you know, football is, in
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: this case escape escapism for us. You know we watch it.
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: You know we can you can take me away for
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: six hours on a Sunday. I'm all in, dude, I'm
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: all in and so so I think that is the
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: issue that fans are having another talking about a lot
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: of fans. There's a few fans out there, but I
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: think in the overall, as a fan of Rushan McDonald,
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: I'm a fan for life. I'm a fan who believes
- 1:08:26Speaker 1: I'm African American fan who also understands what they're trying
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: to do. Uh. Sometimes it's confusing because each one has
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: a different way of showing their role of protests. I
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: think that that kind of damages the format of bringing
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: awareness because one person is doing this way, one person
- 1:08:42Speaker 1: is doing this way. But I know that it's something
- 1:08:44Speaker 1: that is needed. When you have the most popular viewed
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: of formatal television, why not use it? And I commend
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: them for doing that. I want to move over to
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: the concussions. That has been a dominant point. That's another
- 1:08:57Speaker 1: level of crisis management that you have to deal with.
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: Tell us the issues that that still brewing with concussions
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: in the NFL and how you guys are dealing with it.
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: You know, football is very physical sports, um, and it's
- 1:09:09Speaker 1: a very fast pace with played by a lot of strong,
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: fast human beings, and things happen. The only positive I
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: can say is that they have equipment on them versus
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: anything with soccer where guys are bumping into each other
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: or using the head and hit the ball, or any
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: other sport guys falling on the hardwood and basketball and
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: running in the elbows pick you know. But in in football,
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: we have a protocol. A few years ago we sat
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: down with the National Football League and set up a
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: set of rules and regulations in terms of how to
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: manage a potential concussion whereby a player has to come
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: out of the game, going to the blue tenants you
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: guys have seen on the sideline and go through go
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: through a series of tests in order to determine what
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: level of concussion there is and if there any sign
- 1:09:57Speaker 1: of concussion, he definitely does not go back in the game.
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: So it could be a slight but even if it's
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: a slight concussion, um, they don't go back in the game.
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: So we're trying to set the standard so it could
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: trinkle down to our colleges and our high school and
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: our youth leagues, because you know, people look at the
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: National Football League as, oh my god, these you know,
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: these hits are very dangerous and it's causing guys that
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: have a concussion. But you remember, I mean these hits
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: and and these sort of collisions occur early on. So
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: if we can get the high schools and the youth leagues,
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: which I think us a football organization UM that we
- 1:10:35Speaker 1: helped start uh several years ago, are educating um these men,
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: so we just don't have um these these uh you know,
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: runaway coaches that come out from working and just you know,
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: infuse their frustration on a little eight nine year olds
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: and say, hey, hit each other in the head until
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: I say stopped. You know, those things need to stop.
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: We need to stop having your everyday coach come up
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: there and implement bad twos, bad techniques, and every time
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: a good play they hit each other's side of the head.
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: I'll be going like, okay, now, now can we just
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: stop that the help me slap for a good play
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: right right, jump on top of and just you know
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: it might sound selling, but that is an issue with
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: your head. Okay, yeah, yeah, you know it's it is
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: another knock up side to here. But one of the
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: things we were put in their using more leveraging and
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: show the pads US and and and then your targets.
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: We're trying to manage the targets because I think for
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: a while people got excited of a knock off plays.
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: But knockoff plays we're having some impact. But because they
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: used to sell a knock off plays, and so we
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: were trying to change the format and I think we're
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: getting better. Uh, sometimes it's causing a little confusing with
- 1:11:48Speaker 1: the descender because their decendors how to hit. He's he's
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: running up on a guy like Rob Gunkrowski and saying
- 1:11:55Speaker 1: to myself, with a minute, he making a business decision there,
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: because you know, here's a guy six six six seven
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: two pounds and now I gotta figure out how to
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: bring this guy down, which are not easy. Imagine. What
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: what role do you guys play in the in the
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: world's biggest draft, the NFL Draft. What role does the
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: Players Association pay play during the NFL Draft when we
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: happened in April this year. Yeah, one of the things
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: we do is we really have a program we kind
- 1:12:21Speaker 1: of initiation program, bringing them into the fold of the family,
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: UH programs education, let them know our role where they
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: can uh become a part of it and early start
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: the better. And so we tell them about all our initiatives,
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: all our programs we have available, and UH try to
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: get their parents involved and not just them them in,
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: the parents involved because we know it's going to be
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: a transition for these young guys to get acclimated to
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: being a professional athlete, and so we just try to
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: let them know about our resource, let them know we're
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: all going to be their form and will be their
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: farm throughout their career and once they finished playing, will
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: we'll be their form. Man. This is the amazing You know,
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: my whole thing about the NFL talking to you is
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: that I just want people to just see another side,
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: the business side of it. And basically, you know, you
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: have these incredible athletes who need to be protected um
- 1:13:10Speaker 1: and also a brand called the NFL that needs to
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: be protected to and sometimes you have two sides that
- 1:13:16Speaker 1: don't even communicate. And that's your job to get people
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: to communicate and be one giant team. And you're we're winning,
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: my man. And again, you know, if you ever need
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: any brand then you know where to come. I'll be
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: ready to tell them players about their brands to stay
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: off that social media, to keep it right and keep
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: that marketing straight because they can win. Man, you have
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: a great product, You're a great person. You know. I
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: appreciate respect the NFL just as a business model. And
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: these young men have to take advantage of it because
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: it's such a short career performance level, but a lot
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: of money is throwing their way and they can retain
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: their money and live a great life. Like you said,
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: it's what they do away from the game, or so
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: what they do on the field, Carl, Thank you. Man.
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: Can I kind of invite you back on the show? Man, Hey, look,
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: I'll come back in the next out with if you
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: want my brother, My brother, I love man. Put the
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: word out there my money making conversation. Man, appreciate it.
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more from Msha McDonald and
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- 1:15:01Speaker 1: Up comic, former, IBM executive, and has a degree in mathematics.
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: More importantly, Rashan McDonald will use his business and celebrity
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: relationships to empower small businesses with information to succeed. Rashan
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- 1:15:19Speaker 1: next guest is an entrepreneur, educator, ambassador, businesswoman, author and mentor.
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: She owns the largest female owned workforce solutions company, was
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- 1:15:38Speaker 1: Janice Bryan Howard, How you doing Janice? Fabulous? Come on here.
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: She blew me away with that enthusiasm. I love it
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: about and I appreciate that. And I'm telling you something.
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: First of all, I want to tell you that I'm
- 1:15:58Speaker 1: a big fan. Um, you're an inspiration. Let me get
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: these self things out about Rushan McDonald in my relationship
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: from afar with you. Um, you've inspired me. We had
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: lunch one time, you and I and Steve Harvest sat
- 1:16:11Speaker 1: down and you set me on the right path. I
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: gotta tell people this story. I got this other story
- 1:16:22Speaker 1: now because we was meeting and she was doing some
- 1:16:25Speaker 1: stuff with North Carolina Auntie and she's a trustee there.
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: Just love her and and and and and you know,
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: I was I was just selling me and Steve on her.
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: I was just telling about She said stop, She said stop,
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: excuse me. She said, you are a very talented young man,
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: but you're not saying anything. You know. And basically you
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: told me I was all hype and I need to
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: take my talent and put it in goals and move
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- 1:16:59Speaker 1: to me, and my life nobody ever told it to
- 1:17:01Speaker 1: me because I was always smooth. I all knew how
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: to talk. But I ran into I want look to
- 1:17:07Speaker 1: the holy Grail. This is the holy Grail. Ran into
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: it and she said, stopped this nonsense. You're not fooling me.
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: Go back home and do your homework. And I did.
- 1:17:15Speaker 1: And because of that meeting, that's why Steve had the
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- 1:17:21Speaker 1: got Family Few, that's the number one game show in America.
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: That's why Steve Harvey now is the number one talent
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: in the world. Because of my lunch meeting with you
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: at Cape Mandolining that you remembered thank you. Wow, oh wow,
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: wow wow. Well, you know what, we got a lot
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: of people that think you and I don't be because
- 1:17:40Speaker 1: it's it's paying it forward, paying it forward, or as
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: I say, you're paying your current. You know, some of
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: us are just catching up. We're not paying it forward yet,
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: you know. And that's that's what you did for me,
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: because because you know, when I look at your resume
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: and I look at your your value system, I see
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: your value system. Because I'm writing a book now too,
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: and one of the things in my book I'm writing
- 1:18:01Speaker 1: about Jane's is about a Bala's life. And I remember
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: and and that's shot lunch meeting with you. You talk
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: about you love to cook, you love to cook. Here's
- 1:18:11Speaker 1: a lady running a big in there being all the company,
- 1:18:14Speaker 1: thousands of employees, fortune five hundred, and you were just
- 1:18:18Speaker 1: talking about your love to cook. You love to have
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: a good meal on the kitchen table. You know, you
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: that that that you're talking about when you talk about
- 1:18:27Speaker 1: the company, when you talk about the employees, you're talking
- 1:18:30Speaker 1: about family, and you're talking about a very defined evolution. However,
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: you're also talking about a little color Guo from Tabora
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: and North Carolina, one of the eleven kids, same mom,
- 1:18:40Speaker 1: same dad, and some very you know, core principles that
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: we all grew up from it. The table was the
- 1:18:46Speaker 1: center of our home, and priam was the center of
- 1:18:49Speaker 1: our lives. So you know, am I not gonna cook?
- 1:18:52Speaker 1: Come on? But you but you know, but you don't
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: expect that. I'm just telling you that. You know, I'm
- 1:18:57Speaker 1: a stranger, you know, and but you were willing to
- 1:18:59Speaker 1: share with me your values. And I think that that
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: openness is what makes you very special. Can I can
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: I just I know you used to the praise I'm
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: giving you, and I'm sure you you receive a ton
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: of awards, but you have a walking ability to shape
- 1:19:14Speaker 1: people's lives every day and that's important for you to
- 1:19:17Speaker 1: hear that. And because of that, those values, they've shaped
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: me Rashan McDonald and making me the person I am today.
- 1:19:24Speaker 1: Just for a short thirty minute launch, you changed my life.
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: Oh wow, Well, you know what, let us both be
- 1:19:31Speaker 1: grateful to that, and I am very grateful. Now let's
- 1:19:34Speaker 1: talk about how you became this mega self made female
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: billionaire that started in eighteen seventy six. How did that
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: get into your head that this is something you can
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: do as an entrepreneur. Let's first say that I never
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: saw it and and and different people take different paths,
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: so this is not suggest that I prefer one path
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: or another for any particular person. We're talking about my path.
- 1:19:59Speaker 1: My path as was always centered around the idea that
- 1:20:02Speaker 1: I would seek success through service. And um, I know
- 1:20:06Speaker 1: that lots of people teach their kids how to look
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: to certain incomes or they send them to universities aspiring
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: to certain levels of income for their degrees. And we
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: use money as a measurement for many things, but it
- 1:20:18Speaker 1: should never be the measurement of success. Teresa died successful
- 1:20:22Speaker 1: and penniless, um gandhi. So we've got models of success
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: where you make a difference in the world and you
- 1:20:28Speaker 1: provide for people, and that doesn't always mean that there's
- 1:20:31Speaker 1: that money indicator for yourself. For me, success is the
- 1:20:35Speaker 1: progressive realization of a worthy ideal. And as long as
- 1:20:38Speaker 1: you're continuously growing. You know, my husband loves to say,
- 1:20:41Speaker 1: when you're green, your grow. When you're right, you're rot.
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: As long as you continue to grow, I think their
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: success in that. Now, how did I choose the path
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: that I'm in? Basically, I came to California from North
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: Carolina and didn't find a job that I thought was
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: what I wanted and decided to attempt from my brethren
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: law did some work in his office. He loved it
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: when he came back and he said, Wow, you've got
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: a talent. You really should be doing this for a living.
- 1:21:12Speaker 1: There was not a three year business plan when I
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: in front of me. When I started my business. There
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: was a plan to be of service to people, and
- 1:21:21Speaker 1: he utilized what I did well and he helped me
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: to find that that's amazing. Now that happened in seventy six.
- 1:21:28Speaker 1: That's when you work at a tipperary secretary job with
- 1:21:31Speaker 1: your brother in law. And then well that's when I
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: started my company. That's when you started your company. He
- 1:21:37Speaker 1: was your first customer. He was my first customer, and
- 1:21:40Speaker 1: he was one of the most significant ones for me.
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why. He didn't let all he
- 1:21:44Speaker 1: was a brother in law, so he would always tell me,
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: ain't no blood in my game. And he was a
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: very very strict guy. Uh. But you know, I learned
- 1:21:55Speaker 1: a lot from a lot of people when I came
- 1:21:57Speaker 1: out to California. So much of who I am was
- 1:22:00Speaker 1: um was taught me and and and fueled my desire
- 1:22:04Speaker 1: from North Carolina. But come into California taught me a lot.
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: I mean, you think about this Rashan here, I am,
- 1:22:09Speaker 1: this little nap headed girl out of talk where in
- 1:22:11Speaker 1: North Carolina, and I come to California, where everybody is
- 1:22:14Speaker 1: gorgeous and everybody carries a purse with somebody else's name
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: on it. Back in the day, nobody wore panty home.
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: Some of your listeners probably don't even know what pantyos are.
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: I totally freeing environment with streets, lines, with palm trees,
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: and so basically I'm describing a dubt out of water.
- 1:22:38Speaker 1: People would say a fish out of water. Right. But
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: but with the help of my sister and and and
- 1:22:44Speaker 1: a great foundation, I learned to swim. And I think
- 1:22:47Speaker 1: everybody can do that for themselves. You know, two different degrees.
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: I think the troubled people get into Rashaan is when
- 1:22:53Speaker 1: you look at people's success and you identify what success
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: means to you by some of the physical things they
- 1:22:59Speaker 1: have instead of some of the physical things they do.
- 1:23:03Speaker 1: I loved it. I love to remind anyone in my
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: presence that success, for me, it's not a noun, it's
- 1:23:10Speaker 1: a verb. Let's talk about that. That the whole thing
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: of success. Because this is one of the major reasons
- 1:23:16Speaker 1: why you're on the show. Is that Earl Nightingale. A
- 1:23:20Speaker 1: lot of people if that name there's a limit. Give
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: a little background about this gentleman. I call him the
- 1:23:25Speaker 1: father of motivational speaking because at the age of thirty five,
- 1:23:29Speaker 1: he wrote a speech for some salesman. He just wrote
- 1:23:33Speaker 1: it for them. It was called He named it the
- 1:23:35Speaker 1: Strangest Secret, and he later played for the salesman. When
- 1:23:39Speaker 1: he came back, they all wanted to get a copy
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: of it. Well, he didn't have a copy, just created
- 1:23:44Speaker 1: for them to hear because he was out of the
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: room when it was playing. Well, he went to Columbia Records.
- 1:23:49Speaker 1: They recorded in eighteen fifty six. Now get this, he's
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: thirty five and eighteen fifty six. It sold over a
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: million copies. It went gold. Led him to a life
- 1:23:58Speaker 1: of a millionaire. The reasons Strangest Secret was evolved because
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: he grew up a poor person and he can understand
- 1:24:05Speaker 1: why some people had money and other people didn't did
- 1:24:08Speaker 1: not have money. So he researched and he became an
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: educated man and that's how The Strangers Secret evolved. And
- 1:24:15Speaker 1: you got to read it. So tell us your relationship
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: with that, because that's what we're gonna be talking about
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: from now on to the next break, because that's an
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: amazing you know, when you heard it for the first time,
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: he was like, I do that already, I do that,
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: And but here's what I got to tell you, Rashawn.
- 1:24:30Speaker 1: First of all, when I read The Strangest Secrets, it
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: immediately became one of my favorite books. And it's such
- 1:24:36Speaker 1: a tiny book. Most people, so that's a pamphlet. However,
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: what's exciting for me is that I was able to
- 1:24:44Speaker 1: take those very well de prompt defined thoughts and principles
- 1:24:48Speaker 1: and apply them in a real way in my life.
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: And I will tell you it was so exciting and
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: so fundamental for me to keep using this book all
- 1:24:57Speaker 1: these years, since nineteen never not had a copy of
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: that book with me. However, I thought about it. I
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: speak out a lot of universities, and lots of young
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: people run up to me and asked me, and I
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: referred them to the book, and then I thought about it.
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: You know, the book is really number one. It was
- 1:25:14Speaker 1: originally written and Earl Nightingale's audio version was written towards
- 1:25:20Speaker 1: a time in our history when you were speaking to men,
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: when you were speaking about types of success that he
- 1:25:25Speaker 1: described and his and his difference thoughts on how to
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: achieve it. So I reached out to Vic Knit of
- 1:25:32Speaker 1: Nightingale Knit and said, I want to refresh these teachings.
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: I don't want to make them highly inclusive, not just
- 1:25:40Speaker 1: of gender, but of age culture wherever you are, and
- 1:25:44Speaker 1: I want to be able to produce them in audio
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: form and video form. Vig Konan is one of the
- 1:25:50Speaker 1: greatest guys alive. He immediately said, yes, we went through
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: no long legal wrangle, we a reread on what we
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: would do, and now I got the strangest secret out
- 1:26:02Speaker 1: on because I had, I had, I have it out.
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: Now I'm so excited to tell you that your your
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: folks can get it by going to Nightingale Nightingale dot
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: com if they want to, or they can look it
- 1:26:15Speaker 1: up on audiobook and audible, and it's available on video
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: segments on YouTube and Facebook. We put it out in
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: every way that we can so that everyone can enjoy it,
- 1:26:27Speaker 1: regardless of where they are coming from, as long as
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: they want to be going somewhere defined. And I really
- 1:26:34Speaker 1: want to people to understand how valuable I'm gonna give
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: it before we get out of this break. I want
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: to give it up like a couple of jewels out
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: that book that like, here's the five steps, and people
- 1:26:41Speaker 1: shore right down where we're talking about right now five
- 1:26:43Speaker 1: steps because they're here. They are. Number one, you will
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: become what you think about. You will come what you
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: think about. If you if you think you're losing, you'll
- 1:26:52Speaker 1: be a loser. You think you can be a doctor,
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: you will do the work to be a doctor. Imagination
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: which number two, which means let your mind sore, don't
- 1:27:00Speaker 1: stop yourself, don't stop yourself, don't doubt yourself. Number three
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: and and you know, Rashawn, I also say you got
- 1:27:05Speaker 1: to play the music that takes you on where you
- 1:27:07Speaker 1: want to go. When I read about imagination, I knew
- 1:27:11Speaker 1: it was fear for me because my favorite song in
- 1:27:14Speaker 1: all the world is imagined by John Lennon. Girl autist
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: artists as well. But but when it just all flows
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: together once you get in that mindset. But there you
- 1:27:27Speaker 1: wanted to get three, four and five and three was
- 1:27:29Speaker 1: you can stop me because it's your show. Now, this
- 1:27:31Speaker 1: your show because I brought you on here because you
- 1:27:34Speaker 1: have success. See the thing about it, Jannis, that I
- 1:27:36Speaker 1: want everybody understands that there's a lot of people write
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: motivational books that they have no success. They're just talking hype.
- 1:27:43Speaker 1: So you're not hype. You're the real deal. And so
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: to have you on the show telling people that's why
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: I want them to hear, why they should why they
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: should go get the audiobook audible books. She should go
- 1:27:52Speaker 1: to YouTube to pick up those pamphlets because you're telling
- 1:27:55Speaker 1: the truth your evidence. Like you said, I've had this
- 1:27:58Speaker 1: is seventy eight, A very tiny pamphlet made me a
- 1:28:01Speaker 1: self made billionaire female. We'll be back with more because
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: I would tell you something. She is on a roll now.
- 1:28:08Speaker 1: If you want to know how to be famous, you
- 1:28:10Speaker 1: want to know how to be successful, Come back and
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: hear more from Janets The Strangest Secret. It's powerful. We'll
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: be right back with more from Rashan McDonald and Money
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- 1:29:00Speaker 1: looking for great bakers for his spaker spot. Like he
- 1:29:02Speaker 1: wants to brag on his fans for their incredible baking
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- 1:29:06Speaker 1: your mom, friend, co worker, a relative. It's forread the
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- 1:29:12Speaker 1: Rushan McDonald, the host of Money Making Conversation. You say
- 1:29:16Speaker 1: to yourself, who calls Rushan shell Rickie smiling, You got
- 1:29:19Speaker 1: to get out of your own city and leave in
- 1:29:22Speaker 1: order to group of fish. Don't get bigger as long
- 1:29:25Speaker 1: as it's inside of that dish bow. Just get bigger
- 1:29:28Speaker 1: when you put it in a poet. Ladies and gentlemen,
- 1:29:30Speaker 1: please blocking the phone. The one and only Charlie Wilson.
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: So many people have really been trying to get me
- 1:29:36Speaker 1: to do a gospel record for so many years, and
- 1:29:38Speaker 1: I've been promising God that I would, I would shout
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: him out to do something, you know, and go to
- 1:29:46Speaker 1: my baby. Come on, man, put a little Jesus in
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: him song. Come on brother, miss Patty little ball, and
- 1:29:51Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna be doing concerts and little clubs.
- 1:29:55Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so that I can touch you
- 1:29:58Speaker 1: when I'm singing with my hands. Thank you. See I
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: told you be there every Monday, ten am. The noon
- 1:30:03Speaker 1: B is eleven Nating money Making Conversation. Hi, This ra
- 1:30:08Speaker 1: Sean McDonald money Making Conversations on the phone. Is Janice
- 1:30:13Speaker 1: Bryan Howard. She is the CEO of the largest female
- 1:30:18Speaker 1: owned workforce solution company called Act one Group. Janice is
- 1:30:22Speaker 1: still on the phone. I am, Yes, I am. Let's
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: tell me tell us about your company that I've been
- 1:30:27Speaker 1: bragging about and UH we we heard about high started.
- 1:30:30Speaker 1: Tell us about his present state and nating countries employees,
- 1:30:35Speaker 1: seventeen thousand clients. Give us some more detail about the
- 1:30:39Speaker 1: goal and the drive of this company. Well, you know,
- 1:30:42Speaker 1: the center of our organization. Our poor thought is that
- 1:30:45Speaker 1: the applicant is the center of our universe. We're all
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: about the worker and have been from the beginning. Are three.
- 1:30:53Speaker 1: There are three key brands that most people know that
- 1:30:56Speaker 1: make up the ACT one Group. They are Apple one,
- 1:30:59Speaker 1: which is thing everywhere and has the different elements of
- 1:31:03Speaker 1: unique staffing offerings underneath it like all's well at tech
- 1:31:07Speaker 1: that indicate what they offer. Then we have background checks
- 1:31:12Speaker 1: through a check a Check Global, and our flagship company
- 1:31:16Speaker 1: that escort such across the world offering talent UH services
- 1:31:21Speaker 1: to UH mid and large size enterprises is agile one.
- 1:31:26Speaker 1: Agile one offers so many opportunities for companies to utilize
- 1:31:31Speaker 1: our technologies, utilize our processes, and basically helps them to
- 1:31:36Speaker 1: not only plan and manage their workforce, but to ensure
- 1:31:40Speaker 1: that they're doing it in a most deliberate way. So
- 1:31:43Speaker 1: I'm very excited. We design our own technologies and they're
- 1:31:46Speaker 1: all cloud based, so we're taking care of the risks
- 1:31:49Speaker 1: that come along with having companies that are driven in
- 1:31:52Speaker 1: a very technological era. So that meant so what I like, Well,
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: this is what I hear. You are not a person
- 1:31:59Speaker 1: who's afraid change. Well, we innovate change. And I'll tell
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: you when I realized that as a minority owned company
- 1:32:08Speaker 1: and a woman owned company, I was competing against some
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: very major publicly held enterprises. UH, for clients, I had
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: to do something different. I had to meet the same
- 1:32:19Speaker 1: price points, I had to meet the same service level
- 1:32:23Speaker 1: agreements we call them as l a's, and I was
- 1:32:26Speaker 1: doing it for less, oftentimes less than UM five of
- 1:32:30Speaker 1: the total spend. So you've got to figure out whether
- 1:32:33Speaker 1: you're gonna stay in or whether you're gonna, you know, leave.
- 1:32:36Speaker 1: I decided to stay but I had to be smart
- 1:32:39Speaker 1: to stay and that's that was really what founded the
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: beginning about the one and our step into creating technologies
- 1:32:47Speaker 1: that helped, but always, always that helped the worker to
- 1:32:51Speaker 1: have the best experience. That's really important. So so now
- 1:32:54Speaker 1: I've said the basis of who you are, tell us
- 1:32:56Speaker 1: about your A, B C's for success. Well, I'm excited
- 1:33:02Speaker 1: to tell you about that, Rashan. I'll tell you why
- 1:33:04Speaker 1: because wherever I'm talking to Girl Scout Truths in North
- 1:33:07Speaker 1: Carolina or universities in California, the ABC's applied for anybody
- 1:33:13Speaker 1: who really wants to have a successful life. First, let
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: me tell you what I can't teach you the abc s,
- 1:33:17Speaker 1: or what I can teach you what I can. There
- 1:33:20Speaker 1: are five things that nobody can teach anybody, and I
- 1:33:23Speaker 1: hope you take note to these, Okay, because we talked
- 1:33:25Speaker 1: about two of them at that lunch years ago at
- 1:33:28Speaker 1: Cape Mandaline. I think I cannot teach his experience. The
- 1:33:34Speaker 1: second thing I cannot teach his common sense. Now a
- 1:33:37Speaker 1: lot of people know common sense in that common anymore. Okay.
- 1:33:41Speaker 1: The third thing I cannot teach is confidence. When you
- 1:33:45Speaker 1: marry experience to common sense, you gain confidence. The fourth
- 1:33:51Speaker 1: thing I cannot teach is anything that you don't want
- 1:33:54Speaker 1: to learn. And the fifth thing I can't teach is
- 1:33:57Speaker 1: anything at all if you already know at all. So
- 1:34:01Speaker 1: I'm going to teach you my A b c s
- 1:34:03Speaker 1: on the foundation of you understanding what I won't teach you.
- 1:34:06Speaker 1: Those are things you have to use these A b
- 1:34:08Speaker 1: c s to teach yourself. And the A is to
- 1:34:12Speaker 1: ask the right questions, then listen, listen, listen for the
- 1:34:17Speaker 1: right answers, Rishawn. So often people are so busy with
- 1:34:21Speaker 1: their next question, they're not hearing the conversation, and they're
- 1:34:25Speaker 1: so full of questions that they don't find that quiet
- 1:34:28Speaker 1: time to listen for the answer. Whether you're biblically based
- 1:34:32Speaker 1: or whether you are an evolutionist, you know that listening
- 1:34:37Speaker 1: is a large part of living life well and living
- 1:34:40Speaker 1: life and cooperation with all the things you wish to achieve.
- 1:34:43Speaker 1: And listening also helps you to understand how to be
- 1:34:46Speaker 1: a better giver. So although that A is about asking,
- 1:34:50Speaker 1: is also about listening for that right answer. And then
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: the B is about being be where you say you'll
- 1:34:58Speaker 1: be when you say you'll be, and most importantly, how
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: you say you'll be. You know, we've all got these
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: devices on our cell phones, I pass cars that can
- 1:35:08Speaker 1: tell us what time we're gonna get there, which direction
- 1:35:10Speaker 1: to go. Basically, they can tell us when we're gonna
- 1:35:14Speaker 1: show up, but they can't tell us how to show up.
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: We have to do that for ourselves. And so it's
- 1:35:19Speaker 1: important that you instill these A B c's as a
- 1:35:22Speaker 1: lesson path in the order that I give them, because
- 1:35:25Speaker 1: it's only after the listening to asking, the listening to asking,
- 1:35:30Speaker 1: the listening, that you're able to be how you say
- 1:35:33Speaker 1: you're going to be. So be here you say you'll be,
- 1:35:36Speaker 1: when you say you'll be how you say you'll be.
- 1:35:39Speaker 1: And then that C. That C is about circular communication.
- 1:35:44Speaker 1: Sending a tweet, sending a text. I mean, that's not communication.
- 1:35:50Speaker 1: It can be marketing, it can be advertising. It's the
- 1:35:53Speaker 1: full circle of conversation that moves you towards success. At
- 1:35:59Speaker 1: many people are very competent to I mean, when we
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: interview people in our offices today, Rashan, do you know
- 1:36:06Speaker 1: over six or five of the people we interview who
- 1:36:09Speaker 1: are under thirty five years of age? There about age
- 1:36:12Speaker 1: is not something we ask um have their own website.
- 1:36:16Speaker 1: So everybody is invested in the idea that they have
- 1:36:18Speaker 1: a brand. But it's important for people. I shouldn't say,
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: but my daughter said when you say, but, that means
- 1:36:23Speaker 1: everything you just said is no longer truth. But it's
- 1:36:28Speaker 1: important Rashan, that we understand that branding isn't just about
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: what we want people to see. Is how we communicate
- 1:36:37Speaker 1: with the people who actually see it. Does that make
- 1:36:40Speaker 1: sense for you? Absolutely make sense to me because of
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: the fact that that's what I'm telling you. You're telling
- 1:36:46Speaker 1: the truth. You're telling you can't, like I said, you
- 1:36:48Speaker 1: can't make a turtal horse, Okay, you have to be
- 1:36:51Speaker 1: like you said. Like you said earlier, is the music
- 1:36:53Speaker 1: that there? Is it planning the right music for you
- 1:36:55Speaker 1: to succeed in? Is it the right lane, the right opportunity.
- 1:36:58Speaker 1: But most importantly people, as I would tell people, don't
- 1:37:02Speaker 1: look at yourself as an employee as just an employee.
- 1:37:05Speaker 1: You are a brand. And you said right there, people
- 1:37:07Speaker 1: got website. I said, when you have social media, you
- 1:37:10Speaker 1: become a brand. If you log onto Facebook or Twitter
- 1:37:13Speaker 1: or Instagram, you are a brand. Because suddenly you're telling
- 1:37:15Speaker 1: people you need to start acting like that And start
- 1:37:18Speaker 1: representing yourself in that in that manner, and that's in
- 1:37:21Speaker 1: Here's the thing. When you log on to social media,
- 1:37:24Speaker 1: you're longing on without a light. All you need is
- 1:37:28Speaker 1: is that set and um. But there's danger and opportunity
- 1:37:32Speaker 1: in that. You know, every opportunity has a danger attached
- 1:37:35Speaker 1: to it. You don't get to take it back. You've
- 1:37:38Speaker 1: got to be very thoughtful when people come into our
- 1:37:40Speaker 1: offices for work, when clients want to us to represent them.
- 1:37:44Speaker 1: It doesn't matter which side of the work equation we're on.
- 1:37:47Speaker 1: That brand matter there are there are young folks today
- 1:37:51Speaker 1: who come into our officers who won't work in certain
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: companies because they don't like values that the companies exhibit.
- 1:37:58Speaker 1: They're unhappy about something they saw in the news. Brand
- 1:38:01Speaker 1: is Brand is King, And I'll tell you communication is Queen.
- 1:38:06Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. You know I'm doing
- 1:38:08Speaker 1: a series. I'm looking at what you're doing now is
- 1:38:11Speaker 1: the ABC is then a book form on the audio form,
- 1:38:14Speaker 1: the ABCS of Success Audience. I haven't put it on.
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: Come on, you know a mad man. You know I've
- 1:38:21Speaker 1: been teaching it all around the world. You taught me,
- 1:38:25Speaker 1: you taught me. I'm living proof it works. I'm living y'all.
- 1:38:29Speaker 1: I'm living proof it works. If you listen to talk
- 1:38:33Speaker 1: about these things. We're talking about these things, and then
- 1:38:37Speaker 1: the thing about it was that I didn't ask what
- 1:38:39Speaker 1: you talked. And that's what I'm saying. That's about giving back,
- 1:38:41Speaker 1: that's about breaking down to just anybody. Now, there are
- 1:38:44Speaker 1: certain places where you are speaking I want to bring out,
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: like March nine. You have to solve by southwest correct
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: and then all right, I'm head Oh my goodness, I'm
- 1:38:54Speaker 1: headed to New Jersey with several clients and then I'll
- 1:38:57Speaker 1: be headed to Austin. Yes, I will. Do you have
- 1:38:59Speaker 1: a upside where they can go? Right now? Because I
- 1:39:02Speaker 1: want to get this information now because you're You're so
- 1:39:04Speaker 1: dynamic and people should not only hear you, but see
- 1:39:07Speaker 1: you in person and walk up and realize you just
- 1:39:10Speaker 1: a regular person. And I kid you not, uh she is.
- 1:39:13Speaker 1: She is the real deal. She she speaks and she
- 1:39:17Speaker 1: articulates success. But she's also you can eat a hot
- 1:39:20Speaker 1: dog and a hamburger with some fries with her and
- 1:39:23Speaker 1: you will not you go. It's the same person I'm
- 1:39:25Speaker 1: talking to. Come on, now, you know I'm talking about
- 1:39:28Speaker 1: She's the real deal and that that's why I love
- 1:39:31Speaker 1: about now. Now. The thing about it when I talk
- 1:39:33Speaker 1: about success with you, you know, are there anything that
- 1:39:37Speaker 1: when when? Because everybody wants to be successful? That what
- 1:39:39Speaker 1: Nightingale talks about. You know, everybody sits down they want
- 1:39:42Speaker 1: to be success. When the version of Nightingale and the
- 1:39:46Speaker 1: version you did, like I know you had and Nelson Mandela,
- 1:39:49Speaker 1: you had some quotes from Mary Kay, how did you
- 1:39:52Speaker 1: reshape it so we can understand and appreciate the full
- 1:39:56Speaker 1: value of what he was doing in the nineteen fifty
- 1:39:58Speaker 1: six before we leave. Well, the bottom line is the
- 1:40:02Speaker 1: truth is did you hear what I said? The truth
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: is how we hear. Truth oftentimes is more shaped by
- 1:40:12Speaker 1: its framing than its content. And so it was important
- 1:40:16Speaker 1: for me to make sure that we gave relevant notices
- 1:40:21Speaker 1: to people who people today can relate to, to the
- 1:40:24Speaker 1: audience I want to reach, and to make sure that
- 1:40:27Speaker 1: we're speaking to all genders. You know, it's really important
- 1:40:31Speaker 1: to me that we're able to be inclusive in how
- 1:40:34Speaker 1: we're teaching, because if we're messaging to one part of
- 1:40:37Speaker 1: a conversation that can be so helpful to so many,
- 1:40:42Speaker 1: then we lose the opportunity of the gift that we're
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: really giving, and so for me, it became important to
- 1:40:48Speaker 1: just be inclusive to everyone I want to talk with.
- 1:40:51Speaker 1: And if folks want to know, you know, what's up,
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: they can they can go to my website at jbh
- 1:40:57Speaker 1: dot com and they can follow me at Bryant Jay
- 1:41:00Speaker 1: Bryant Albroy. I'm really happy for them to follow me
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