Latest / REZ CHURCH Podcast / There's a Better You Waiting - May 10, 2026
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- 0:00Good morning, Happy Mother's Day to all your mom's out there.
- 0:05There's nothing like Mother's Day celebrations for getting all
- 0:09the moms up super early to get all their young kids up super
- 0:12early to be at church to sing for them.
- 0:16Sure, that works out somehow. My name is Daniel.
- 0:19I am the lead pastor here at REST Church.
- 0:21Welcome. My wife and I got a phone call
- 0:24at about 6:20 on Tuesday morning, and we looked at our
- 0:30phones and we realized that our daughter Avery, who was driving
- 0:33up the Grapevine to go to school at Cal State Northridge on
- 0:36Tuesday, had got into a car accident.
- 0:40And well, here I'll show you. And so as the car rolls to the
- 1:01stop at the centre of the I5, up the Grapevine in the rain before
- 1:07it probably had fully stopped, she was on the phone calling
- 1:10mom. That's how a lot of us feel
- 1:15about moms. I was, I was trying to figure
- 1:21out this week, like, how many times does the average kid say
- 1:24mom by like the time they're 5? And so, you know, I'm like
- 1:28looking at this stuff up and I end up on this, this TikTok
- 1:32video of this mom who decided to count how many times her kids
- 1:37said her name like in a single day.
- 1:40It's pretty hilarious. It's better because she has an
- 1:42accent. But here, check.
- 1:44Good. Morning.
- 1:44Let's see how many times I hear the word mom in one day.
- 1:48Mom. Here we go.
- 1:50Comment below with your guesses. It is 8:50 and we are at 88 moms
- 2:00lunchtime. 127 kids are sleeping.
- 2:05This gets a little bit of a breakdown.
- 2:11It's 341. So we wonder why mums are sick
- 2:17of hearing their name 234 times today from 7:00 AM to 8:00 PM.
- 2:29Also, just did some quick math. If that's the daily average in
- 2:33one year I'm hearing it 85,410 times.
- 2:41Good night. Some of you can relate to that.
- 2:47The best part of being a dad is when your kid walks by you four
- 2:50or five times and finally looks and goes, where's mom?
- 3:01You know, for Mother's Day, I was, I was thinking about all of
- 3:04the, all of the attributes about mothers that we really
- 3:08appreciate the, the loyalty, sacrifice, patience,
- 3:14faithfulness, just the, the presence of a mom when, when,
- 3:18when a mother is around. The way for many of us, our, our
- 3:21moms have prayed for us for so long, the love and tenderness.
- 3:25And so, you know, I was like, man, there's so many different
- 3:27things and it's trying to pick one to even do a message on
- 3:32today. And I thought, you know, what
- 3:33we'll do instead is instead of picking one, let's go look at
- 3:39the most honored mother in the Bible and see what God
- 3:44highlights about that woman that was worthy of honor and praise.
- 3:48And so we're going to do that today.
- 3:49We're going to be in Luke chapter 1 here near the end.
- 3:53And before we we start our reading, I'll just give you some
- 3:57back story. The Angel Gabriel has just shown
- 4:00up to this betrothed virgin teenage girl named Mary.
- 4:07And he tells her that she's been chosen by God to have a son and
- 4:11she will call his name Jesus, and he will be the son of the
- 4:15Most High and he will reign over the House of Jacob and his
- 4:18Kingdom will have no end. And she says would probably most
- 4:23of us in her place would, would say she goes, and how how is
- 4:26that going to happen? Because I'm a virgin.
- 4:31And the Angel has just has just told her just an impossible
- 4:36miracle that she's going to have a son, this Immaculate
- 4:38Conception, even though she's never been with a man.
- 4:43And she's asking for an answer. OK, well, but how?
- 4:46And this is we'll pick this up in Luke chapter one, verse 35.
- 4:48This is the angel's answer. The Holy Spirit will come upon
- 4:53you, and the power of the Most High will over shadow you, and
- 4:57therefore the child to be born will be called holy.
- 5:01That means set apart the Son of God, and behold, your relative
- 5:08Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a Son, and this
- 5:13is the 6th month with her who was called barren.
- 5:17For nothing will be impossible with God.
- 5:20And Mary said, Behold, I am the servant of the Lord, let it be
- 5:25to me according to your word. And the Angel departed from her.
- 5:30The first thing that the Bible shows us about the most honored
- 5:34mother in all of Scripture is actually in Mary's response to
- 5:40the Angel. The Angel doesn't give her a
- 5:42detailed explanation of how any of this is going to work.
- 5:46His answer is pretty vague. She says how and he gives her,
- 5:49oh, the Holy Spirit, there's no, there's no scientific
- 5:53explanation. He doesn't walk her through the
- 5:55biological. I mean, like there's there's no
- 5:57logistics. Any of your planners are very
- 5:59unsettled right now. How is this going to happen?
- 6:02The Holy Spirit. And then he leaves.
- 6:06And yet Mary, we see from her response, the first thing is she
- 6:10chooses to believe that God is who he says he is and that he
- 6:15will do what he says he'll do. Now she's just been told that
- 6:19her entire entire future is about to change, to be
- 6:22rearranged by this impossible miracle in ways that she
- 6:25probably doesn't even understand yet, and she chooses to believe.
- 6:30She chooses to believe belief, and you can see it in this
- 6:35moment in Scripture. Belief is not the absence of
- 6:38shock. She's clearly shocked.
- 6:41Belief is choosing the word of God over the logic of your own
- 6:46circumstances and feelings. Christian, for the the next time
- 6:53your circumstances are loudly telling you one thing and God's
- 6:58word is quietly telling you another, you slow down and you
- 7:03ask yourself, which one am I going to let win?
- 7:08Because this is where belief lives.
- 7:10Not in the easy moments, in the loud hard moments.
- 7:14So the first thing that God shows us about the most honoured
- 7:16mother in history is that is her belief.
- 7:19But the second is this, it's her identity.
- 7:21Because look at her response to the Angel.
- 7:23Even without details, her response.
- 7:25I am a servant of the Lord and that shows us something even
- 7:31deeper. It shows us who this
- 7:35impoverished teenager viewed herself as.
- 7:42You know, at the root of everything, you and I, we all
- 7:44have an identity. We have an identity, a way we
- 7:48see ourselves. And it's actually how we we wrap
- 7:50value and self worth around ourselves.
- 7:54It's in fact that will lead us to it will impact how we see the
- 7:58world and how we move in the world around us.
- 8:02Mary's identity is I am a servant of the Lord.
- 8:06Now I want you to understand how remarkable that is.
- 8:09Like this isn't a stage response.
- 8:10This is in the moment in the shock and angels there, it tells
- 8:14her about this impossible miracle doesn't really answer
- 8:16her question. And she says I am a servant of
- 8:19the Lord and she could have identified herself in 100
- 8:22different ways. She could have said, well, I'm a
- 8:24Jew or I'm a teenage girl. She could have said, well, I'm a
- 8:28I'm betrothed or, or I'm the daughter of Joey Kim.
- 8:32She, she had lots of ways to identify herself.
- 8:36We do this. We identify ourselves via
- 8:39different, different things about ourselves.
- 8:44I'm a Millennial or I'm a Gen. X.
- 8:47I'm an American or I, I'm a Republican.
- 8:50I'm a Christian. I'm from Bakersfield.
- 8:52I'm a Texan. We have identities built around
- 8:55some of these things, built around a career choice or an
- 9:00education status or a relationship status, a zip code,
- 9:04a political tribe, social circles.
- 9:09But but Mary, in the moment, in the shock, the overflow is I am
- 9:16a servant of the Lord. It's so rooted in her that even
- 9:21in the moment, in real time, it's what comes out.
- 9:25Now. I just just consider that for a
- 9:27moment because because like just about everybody that sings as an
- 9:31Angel in the in the Bible is pretty scared, right?
- 9:34Because it's almost always a first response.
- 9:35It's always like, don't be afraid, which tells you it's
- 9:37probably pretty scary in a moment of shock.
- 9:42Who are you? When you introduce yourself,
- 9:48when you're worried, when you're anxious, when you're stressed,
- 9:50when you're angry, who are you? What what, what bubbles up when
- 9:56you can't exactly control it and put on that church face?
- 10:01Is it about your reputation, about how people perceive you?
- 10:09Because her reputation was about to be ruined.
- 10:11And maybe she didn't realize that yet, but her response is I
- 10:16am a servant of the Lord. It's a it's a question worth
- 10:20taking home today. What's that identity that comes
- 10:25bubbling out when you're under pressure?
- 10:28Because the thing that comes out of your mouth when you're scared
- 10:30is probably closer to your real identity than you want to let
- 10:33on. That's the real 1, not the one
- 10:37on your Instagram bio, the one that surfaces at 6:20 in the
- 10:41morning when the phone rings. That's the one worthy of working
- 10:45on. She believes we see her
- 10:51identity, but third, we see her submission.
- 10:56Listen to what she says right after this.
- 10:58She says let it be to me. According to your word, that is
- 11:05a costly sentence. She doesn't understand
- 11:09everything that that's going to cost her in the moment.
- 11:11She doesn't know the scandal that's coming.
- 11:13She doesn't know that Joseph's first response when he finds out
- 11:16it's not going to be great. She doesn't know anything about
- 11:18the the flight to Egypt that they'll take later to escape
- 11:21Herod. She doesn't.
- 11:23She doesn't know about the sword that Simeon will later say will
- 11:26Pierce her own soul. She doesn't understand about the
- 11:28grief or the suffering that is coming.
- 11:31She says yes before she even sees the full picture.
- 11:36Submission to God is not passive.
- 11:39It's actually, it's the most active theological posture in
- 11:44the Christian life because they're always going to be
- 11:49things you don't understand. The decision to let God's word
- 11:58be more authoritative than your own understanding as a choice.
- 12:03And, and as Christians, they're always going to be mysteries
- 12:12that we don't fully understand here on earth when it comes to
- 12:17the mind of the Father. They're always going to be
- 12:19things that are unseen, things that are unknown, things that
- 12:22are confusing, things that are unexplained.
- 12:26Yet the Bible calls us who are in Christ to submit to his will.
- 12:31Jesus would actually say the same thing when he teaches his
- 12:33disciples how to pray. He'll say your will be done on
- 12:37earth as it is in heaven. And here's this teenage girl, in
- 12:44the shock of the moment, told about an impossible miracle
- 12:47without a lot of answers. She believes she identifies as a
- 12:50servant of the Lord, and then immediately she submits to the
- 12:53will of God. Do you want to know why she's
- 12:56the most honored mother in history?
- 13:01Christian submission is practiced in the small things
- 13:05before it's possible in the big ones.
- 13:09You practice it every time you you read something in Scripture
- 13:13that doesn't agree with how you feel.
- 13:20Anytime you read something in the Bible that you don't want to
- 13:22do when you do it anyways. Every time you choose God's
- 13:26definition of forgiveness over your own feelings about it.
- 13:31Every time you say your will be done out loud about something
- 13:34that is genuinely going to cost you something.
- 13:36That's where we start and, and, and actually belief and identity
- 13:42and submission, they're actually connected.
- 13:43They're all inseparable. Did you realize, Christian, that
- 13:48you only actually believe the parts of the Bible that you live
- 13:51out? See, if you say you believe it,
- 13:55but you're not willing to live it out, that's not actually
- 13:57belief. That's lip service.
- 14:04To really believe it is to live it out, particularly when you
- 14:08don't agree with it. This is the fourth part to this
- 14:14little story. You see Mary's given
- 14:17confirmation from God. The Angel tells her not only is
- 14:21this going to happen to you, but your relative Elizabeth, in her
- 14:26old age, who's been barren her whole life, has conceived a son
- 14:29and she's already 6 months pregnant.
- 14:33Because nothing is impossible with God.
- 14:37That's if you you read down in the story to see what happens
- 14:40next. Mary actually goes.
- 14:43Elizabeth lives in another town. We find out and Mary travels to
- 14:45see Elizabeth. And as she does, she gets this
- 14:50confirmation of what's occurring.
- 14:52Not only is Elizabeth pregnant, but you, you see this this
- 14:57reaction from Elizabeth when Mary walks in the door.
- 14:59Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your
- 15:01womb. And why is this granted to me,
- 15:05that the mother of my Lord should come to me?
- 15:08For behold, when the sound of your greeting came to my ears,
- 15:10the baby in my womb leaped for joy.
- 15:19Elizabeth in another town through another miracle confirms
- 15:24this angels word about Mary in this miracle.
- 15:29But notice that the confirmation comes after the belief and the
- 15:33identity and the submission, not before.
- 15:36God doesn't give you the proof to say yes.
- 15:39He gives you the promise and then when you say yes he shows
- 15:43you the confirmation. That's almost always how it
- 15:46works in the Bible and in the Christian life.
- 15:51Notice this about the confirmation is swell.
- 15:55Mary had to go find it. Mary had to get up and she had
- 15:59to travel. This teenage, impoverished, now
- 16:02pregnant girl had to travel to another town on her own to seek
- 16:08out Elizabeth, to see the confirmation of God's promise
- 16:13with her own eyes. Not because she doubted it, but
- 16:19because we should all desire to see God at work.
- 16:24We should push into where God is confirming things in our lives
- 16:27and in our families. We should be proactive about it,
- 16:30leaning in, moving toward the evidence of God at work.
- 16:34And she does. She goes, this is the pattern
- 16:39again and again and again. Belief, identity, submission,
- 16:42and then confirmation. That's not just Mary's story.
- 16:45That's the, that's the shape of every life after Jesus.
- 16:51Jesus said it this way. Whoever loses his life for my
- 16:54sake will find it. And Mary is the first person in
- 16:57the New Testament that gets to live that out.
- 16:59And he's not even been born yet, you know, for, for a lot of us.
- 17:05I had someone I was texting with this last week and I said, Hey,
- 17:09how can I pray for you? And they said, I, I really like
- 17:11to, I really like to hear from the Lord hear, hear about
- 17:15direction in my life and hear where God's leading me and get
- 17:18some clarification. And, and I hear that a lot.
- 17:20But I think that the opposite is often true for us.
- 17:23I think God is often already confirmed things in our life.
- 17:27We just haven't gone to pay attention and see it yet.
- 17:33God's already at work. He's already confirming
- 17:37promises. We're just really busy.
- 17:43And then you get a change in the story.
- 17:45In this moment, you get one of the most beautiful passages in
- 17:48Scripture. It's called Mary's song or the
- 17:50Magnificat. And it's if you see in your
- 17:53Bible, it's kind of listed like a like song lyrics, like a poem,
- 17:57and it just kind of naturally pours out of Mary and it's
- 17:59recorded here in Luke 1. I want to read it to you.
- 18:02That is absolutely beautiful. And I want to show you that in
- 18:06it is this pattern that we should pay attention to.
- 18:10It's kind of the kind of the key to unlock what's happening with
- 18:13Mary. Verse 46, it says this and Mary
- 18:16said, my soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in
- 18:21God my Savior. For he has looked upon the
- 18:24humble estate of his servant from behold, from now on, all
- 18:28generations will call me blessed, for he who is mighty
- 18:32has done great things for me. And holy is His name, and His
- 18:37mercy is for those who fear Him from generation to generation.
- 18:43He has shown strength with His arm.
- 18:45He has scattered the proud in the thoughts of their hearts.
- 18:48He has brought down the mighty from their Thrones and exalted
- 18:51those of humble estate. He has filled the hungry with
- 18:54good things, and the rich He has sent away empty.
- 18:56He has helped his servant Israel in remembrance of His mercy, as
- 19:00He spoke to our fathers, to Abraham, and to his offspring
- 19:03forever. I want you to see three things
- 19:06about how Mary describes God in this song and why this is so
- 19:09important. The first thing in the in by
- 19:12verse 49, she is describing who he is, who he is.
- 19:19She calls Him holy, she calls him mighty.
- 19:22This is where she starts. She didn't start with her
- 19:24situation. She didn't start with her
- 19:26circumstances. Here is a impoverished, teenage,
- 19:29unwed pregnant girl and she's talking about who God is, not
- 19:34her feelings, not her fears, some of the nature of God.
- 19:41By verse 50, she begins to talk about what God does, what he
- 19:45does. He's a God of mercy.
- 19:49He's a God of justice. He's a God who provides.
- 19:54He reverses everything in this fallen world that he has
- 19:57established. He lifts the lowly.
- 19:59He fills the hungry, He scatters the proud.
- 20:04And she wraps up in verses 54 and 55 by explaining what he
- 20:08keeps. She talks about his faithfulness
- 20:14that he keeps, His promises that he remembers, He always
- 20:17remembers. Think about what, what, what
- 20:22Mary's doing this moment. She's describing God, his
- 20:24nature, his works, his faithfulness as she's carrying
- 20:29Jesus inside her body and singing about God.
- 20:35The fullness of everything that she's actually saying out loud
- 20:38is about to walk on earth in human flesh, and she's singing
- 20:43about what Jesus is about to go do.
- 20:45Because Jesus will lift the lowly, He will fill the hungry.
- 20:49He will remember His mercy. The Magnificent is not just a
- 20:53worship song. It is a preview of the gospel.
- 21:00Now, why is this song such a big deal?
- 21:01It almost feels like the thing that, you know, you're reading
- 21:03the, the story and you kind of skip over, Oh, it's just a song.
- 21:07But I want you to see something else.
- 21:08See, when I read about these things about Mary, when I, when
- 21:11I read about her belief and, and her identity and her, her
- 21:15submission. And I think to myself, like, how
- 21:16do you become a person that can believe like that?
- 21:19How do you become a, a person who can submit who, who has an
- 21:22identity that is rooted? How do you how do you do that?
- 21:32How do you get an identity that is so rooted in being a child of
- 21:35God that we don't get swept away by every identity that the world
- 21:38offers? How do you become willing to
- 21:42submit so radically that that even when things are hard, even
- 21:45when they're costly, even when they're counter intuitive, like
- 21:51love your enemies as yourself, turn the other cheek,
- 21:58unsubscribe, serve others before yourself?
- 22:05How do you become a person who wants to do that?
- 22:10The answer is actually in her song.
- 22:12You see, Mary had a clearview of who God is, a clearview of what
- 22:18He does, a clearview of what He keeps.
- 22:23If you take nothing else away from today from this message, if
- 22:28you take nothing else, take this one idea away that's nestled in
- 22:32Luke 1. You cannot be the best version
- 22:35of you if you don't see the real version of God.
- 22:40You cannot be the best version of you if you can't see the real
- 22:43version of God. Mary didn't produce all of these
- 22:47things in her life by trying harder.
- 22:52She didn't produce them through self effort.
- 22:55I'm just going to try really hard to be good.
- 23:00She produced it because of what she saw in God's nature, in His
- 23:04faithfulness, in his history, in his work, in her life, in the
- 23:08lives of people around her. Her praise was an overflow of
- 23:12her theology. Theology is just the study of
- 23:14God. It bubbled up out of her because
- 23:20she could see God clearly, she could see herself clearly, and
- 23:24because she could see herself clearly.
- 23:26We see these responses. And I think it's important to to
- 23:30sit here for just a minute and talk through that.
- 23:33The idea that, listen, I think most of us can trace the
- 23:37problems that we're going through, the struggles that
- 23:40we're having, back to this idea. We don't actually see God
- 23:44clearly and therefore we don't see ourselves clearly.
- 23:49When you see a distorted view of God, you will see a distorted
- 23:52view of yourself. For instance, if you don't
- 23:55understand how mighty God is, if you don't understand how
- 23:58faithful God is, if we don't understand how loving God is, if
- 24:03we don't fully grasp his omnipotence, that's that he is
- 24:07all powerful or his omnipresence, that he is
- 24:09everywhere at once, that he is timeless and outside of time
- 24:13itself entirely, that he's omniscient and he knows all
- 24:15things. God is so great that you cannot
- 24:20fully wrap your mind around him. And So what we have a tendency
- 24:26to do in our fallen broken state is we begin to reduce God.
- 24:29We begin to begin to shrink him down into something that we can
- 24:31contain and understand fully because we don't like mystery
- 24:35and he can't be that powerful. And so we, we, we put him in a
- 24:38box, we contain him in some, some way.
- 24:41We, we reduce him to a caricature or an idol or a
- 24:46concept or a meme. And when we do, we we not only
- 24:50lose sight of the real God, we begin to not be able to see
- 24:55ourselves clearly either. This is actually what happened.
- 24:57The whole story of the Bible starts in the very beginning in
- 25:00a garden, and there's two people, Adam and Eve, and Eve
- 25:06eats this apple. She buys this lie, but there's
- 25:08no way that she disobeys God in that moment if she could see God
- 25:13clearly. Because the first thing she does
- 25:14is she buys a lie that God is hiding something from them.
- 25:17He's holding something good back.
- 25:20She's already begun to see a distorted version of God, and
- 25:23because she sees a distorted version of God, she begins to
- 25:26see a distorted version of herself.
- 25:27I could be like God. I shouldn't be a servant.
- 25:29I shouldn't be a worshipper. I should be like God.
- 25:32I should reign and rule. I should be in charge.
- 25:36Because the moment you begin to see a distorted version of God,
- 25:38you begin to see a distorted version of yourself.
- 25:42And that sin that follows leads to every piece of devastation
- 25:48that has ever happened in this broken world.
- 25:53Christian, you who profess Christ.
- 25:58Much of your struggle is rooted in a distorted view of who God
- 26:03is. This is why the Bible says that
- 26:07the beginning of all wisdom is fear of the Lord.
- 26:11You get fear of the Lord. What you need to fear the Lord,
- 26:16because to truly see who God is, is to respond in reverence and
- 26:22fear to His might and His Majesty and His greatness.
- 26:25It's like standing next to a giant waterfall.
- 26:29It's beautiful, but it's powerful and therefore
- 26:31dangerous. Or standing next to a rocket
- 26:33launch and watching this tonnage of machinery go to space.
- 26:41It's beautiful, but it's powerful.
- 26:44We're standing 10 feet away from a lion.
- 26:47It's beautiful, but it's powerful.
- 26:53To begin to see a clearview of God is also to begin to fear
- 26:57him, because there's a reverence in that power.
- 27:04And to fear God means you've begun to see him clearly.
- 27:07And so much of our struggle with submission and with with
- 27:10identity and with belief comes down to the fact that we've lost
- 27:13sight of who God really is. We've gotten busy.
- 27:16This world is loud and noisy. Amen.
- 27:20There's so many things that want your attention.
- 27:22Do you know I was reading the statistics recently Says the
- 27:24average person in America now spends 39 hours a week on social
- 27:27media. Yo, that's a full time job and
- 27:36they're not paying you for it. Some of you are paying for it.
- 27:43It's not how jobs are supposed to work 39 hours, you know, some
- 27:54of us now 39 hours we're we're being discipled by an algorithm
- 27:59built by a man or a machine on a little glass screen.
- 28:03See, couldn't have set that up better.
- 28:09Thank you, Lauren. It's no wonder that the average
- 28:16American has a distorted view of God.
- 28:18We're not. We're not being discipled by
- 28:20Bibles. We're being discipled by phones.
- 28:22You're not being discipled by the word of God.
- 28:24You're being discipled by TikTok.
- 28:32Can you imagine if the average American spent 39 hours a week
- 28:35in their Bible? Some of you get to 39 minutes
- 28:41and you're sweating. I'm messing with you.
- 28:49How do you fix this? It's actually two things at the
- 28:52same time. To fix this in One Direction, we
- 28:58increase the amount of time that we spend with the Lord.
- 29:01If you want to improve our relationship, you spend.
- 29:03You just increase the amount of time you spend with them.
- 29:07But you know, the other thing that you can do is you can also
- 29:08remove some of the distractions that actually create those
- 29:11distortions. And so if, if you will increase
- 29:14the amount of time you spend with the Lord and you will
- 29:16decrease some of the time and the attention that you're giving
- 29:19to the noise of the outside world, it actually begins to
- 29:22help. Now, it's not enough to just do
- 29:241. You can't, you can't simply
- 29:26remove some of the distractions. That's not it.
- 29:29You have to do both, put some things in place to remove some
- 29:33distractions and give the Lord some of our time, some of our
- 29:36attention, some of our affection.
- 29:42We have to steep ourselves in Scripture.
- 29:44That's a that's a word we don't use very often.
- 29:46Steep to steep in the Bible they use a Greek word called
- 29:52epignosis and it means to this deep experiential knowledge, not
- 29:56knowledge, not going to school and knowledge that you've
- 29:58experienced at such a level. I like to say that it's not
- 30:00simply that you've you've consumed something that's that
- 30:02you've digested and metabolized it.
- 30:07If the steep in the word of God. We don't use steep a lot.
- 30:11Steep. Is anyone ever made a cup of
- 30:13tea, you traitors? We don't drink tea.
- 30:19We're American. I like my tea in the harbour
- 30:22like every other patriots. These are horrible jokes.
- 30:31Do you've ever, do you ever gotten a really hot cup of, of
- 30:36water and you've taken that tea bag and you've you've put it in
- 30:38the water and you've watched it? You actually can watch all the
- 30:42flavour and the colour and everything to come out of the
- 30:46tea bag and it turns a simple cup of water into a cup of tea.
- 30:51And you know, crazy after, after a little while, if you, if you
- 30:55let it steep enough, it smells different, it looks different,
- 31:04it tastes different. Do you know if you just popped
- 31:09it in and popped it out, I wouldn't do a lot right?
- 31:12You know, some of us are wondering why our Christianity
- 31:14is weak, and I would just tell you, maybe we could leave the
- 31:18tea bag in longer, just a little longer, just a little more, a
- 31:23little more, just a little more. If you're wondering why there's
- 31:26a lack of flavour in your life, maybe we could just leave the
- 31:31tea bag in. Just just just a little more.
- 31:34Just a little more epignosis to metabolize a knowledge of God,
- 31:41to know more about who He is, to be able to see him a little bit
- 31:44more clearly. Because if you could see him a
- 31:45little bit more clearly, you'd begin to see yourself a little
- 31:48more clearly. For me, it works like this.
- 31:52Even after all these years of following God and spending time
- 31:55with the Lord, I still have a Bible plan that tells me what to
- 31:58read every day. Yes, yes, yes I do.
- 32:02I need it. It tells me read this chapter,
- 32:05read this chapter. I have a little thing and I do
- 32:07everyday. In fact I do this when I wake
- 32:09up. I have tried to train myself to
- 32:10do this. When I wake up in the morning
- 32:11and I open my eyes, I try. The first thing I try to say is
- 32:16God is good. And I try to think of two or
- 32:21three things as soon as I wake up that are just blessings that
- 32:25I can say thank you for just to be grateful for.
- 32:28So I can start my day remembering who God is before I
- 32:31get to the task list. And there's always a task list
- 32:33And I always want to do the task list and I always want to get
- 32:35anxious about the task list. So I want to start with just
- 32:39who's God, because if I find that my view of God gets
- 32:45distorted really quickly, it gets misaligned so fast.
- 32:48And so I spend time during the day, I open up my Bible and I, I
- 32:51spend some time talking to the Lord and, and walking with him
- 32:54and thinking about him and praying sometimes for you,
- 32:57sometimes for things that are going in my life and writing
- 32:58down as God reminds me of truth. So I like to write those things
- 33:02down. I tend to learn what, why am I
- 33:04doing that stuff? There's no box.
- 33:05I'm checking, trying to see the Lord more clearly.
- 33:12These aren't spiritual superpowers.
- 33:14That's not religious check boxes.
- 33:16It's just the practical habits of someone trying, trying to see
- 33:20God clearly. In the past two or three months
- 33:23have been some of the just worst months of my life in terms of
- 33:27dealing with some really deep emotions and feelings like
- 33:31overwhelmed, hurt, abandoned, doubting God's plan in my life
- 33:37and in this season, questioning everything about what's going
- 33:40on. And it has been those those
- 33:42simple little habits that have been saving my life, my
- 33:45spiritual life, at least saving my life.
- 33:48Why? Because I I spend time with the
- 33:52Lord. Even then it's the pain and
- 33:54confusion. And it is that habit that lets
- 33:58him, through His word and through prayer and through wise
- 34:00counsel and through other Christians and through
- 34:02meditation, change me, realign me back to a clearview of who He
- 34:08is. And I guys, I, I cannot do this.
- 34:17I cannot be a good pastor for that matter.
- 34:19I can't even be a good person. I need God to show up over and
- 34:26over and over and over and over again.
- 34:33And you do too. You do too.
- 34:39We need the Holy Spirit to do this transformative work.
- 34:44The the Spirit is active in your life as a believer.
- 34:47Here's the The problem is not that the Holy Spirit is not
- 34:50working in transformation in your life.
- 34:52It's that we often times are working against His work.
- 34:57Can you imagine if you would turn toward the work the Spirit
- 34:59is doing and participate in the work He's trying to do in your
- 35:02life? If you'd give him the time and
- 35:04the space and the medium to really do work, to receive that
- 35:09work. Verse 47, the beginning of
- 35:15Mary's song. I don't want you to miss this.
- 35:17This is pretty beautiful. She says.
- 35:20My spirit rejoices in God my Savior, God my Savior.
- 35:27Mary needed saving and she knew it.
- 35:32The woman carrying the very salvation of the world inside of
- 35:36her body confess that she needed it herself.
- 35:40So we don't put Mary, the the most honoured mother in all the
- 35:43Bible, on a pedestal and say she was perfect.
- 35:48She was a woman who saw God clearly enough to know that she
- 35:52was not sufficient on her own. Tuesday morning when the phone
- 35:59rings and Avery's got the car smashed up backwards on the I-5.
- 36:04It's raining. She's scared.
- 36:06Mom, we you know what we do? Marina goes.
- 36:12Marina goes. What happened?
- 36:14And she goes. I flipped to the car.
- 36:17Marina goes. You flip.
- 36:18You flipped the car. She goes.
- 36:19Well, it's spun and she goes. Those are very different words,
- 36:22Avery. Yes.
- 36:30Yes, they are. She's scared and she's on the
- 36:35side of the middle of the freeway and the big rigs are
- 36:37zooming by. And So what do we do?
- 36:39We do what you would do. We jump in the van and we start
- 36:41driving up the I5 and we're making phone calls to work.
- 36:44I'm not going to be in and, you know, calling people and you
- 36:46know, we didn't do though. You know what's kind of
- 36:48interesting, You know, we didn't do on the way to go get her.
- 36:53We didn't call her and ask her whether or not she deserved our
- 36:57response. We we didn't go back and do a
- 37:02little inventory of her 21 years as our child and evaluate
- 37:06whether or not she'd earned it. We didn't.
- 37:11We didn't put out a checklist and count how many of the boxes
- 37:13she checked it, you know, to see whether or not she was a
- 37:16daughter worthy of our love or of us coming to get her.
- 37:21She called. She was in need.
- 37:25We got in a car and drove to her.
- 37:28Guy is that that's the gospel of Jesus Christ, That everyone of
- 37:34us hopelessly broken, born into sin, rebelled against God with
- 37:43no ability to fix the problem on our own.
- 37:49Maybe that's you today. You don't know God as your
- 37:56Savior yet, or you do, but you've gotten a distorted view
- 38:02of Him and you are spinning out of control.
- 38:06Maybe not on the I-5, but maybe in life.
- 38:12Here's what I want you to hear about Jesus.
- 38:18Jesus didn't wait until you had it all figured out.
- 38:22He came to you while you were still terrified in the ditch on
- 38:26the side of the road. Because Jesus came for us while
- 38:31we were still his enemies. And if the most honoured mother
- 38:38in all of the Bible will open her mouth and say, God my
- 38:43Saviour, you can too. Maybe some of you in this room
- 38:53today or online, you've put your faith in Christ before, but you
- 38:58have allowed your view of God to become so distorted that you
- 39:01can't even see yourself clearly anymore.
- 39:04And you have the same opportunity granted to all of us
- 39:08to cry out to God and allow Him to do work in your life.
- 39:14Maybe some of you in this room are online today, have never
- 39:16placed your faith in Christ. You never surrendered your will,
- 39:21the control of your life, to Him.
- 39:23The Bible says you must believe in your heart and declare with
- 39:26your mouth that Jesus was raised from the dead and is your Lord.
- 39:32Guys, every single person in this world will one day bend a
- 39:37knee to Jesus, the Lord of Lords and King of Kings.
- 39:39The only question is whether or not you'll be happy when you do
- 39:42it. Because we're either going to be
- 39:47overjoyed that our King has come back to make all things right,
- 39:50or we're going to be mortified that He has come to judge the
- 39:52guilty. And I have stuck my nose up and
- 39:56shaken my fist at God in rebellion.
- 39:59And He was loving and merciful enough to outlast my outbursts,
- 40:05my rebellion, and my running. That's His unending grace.
- 40:11And if you will let Him, He will save you too.
- 40:15Would you bow your heads and close your eyes as we finish up
- 40:19our service today? I'm going to give you the
- 40:22opportunity to come to the Father.
- 40:25The invitation is granted to you from Christ in Scripture to
- 40:29taste and see if He is good. And I'm going to lead you in a
- 40:33simple prayer of surrender. And if you are ready to follow
- 40:35Christ as King, I would ask you simply repeat after me Jesus.
- 40:44I know I'm a Sinner who cannot save myself.
- 40:53I need you to save me. I want you to adopt me into your
- 40:59family, so I surrender everything.
- 41:03Be my Lord. Please, Jesus, if you said that
- 41:10prayer, if you gave your life to Christ for the first time, would
- 41:12you be brave and raise your hand for me to see?
- 41:17Thank you. Thank you.
- 41:19Can you put your hands down if you know Christ?
- 41:27But you have found yourself in this moment in the season of
- 41:30life with such a distorted view of the world and yourself.
- 41:33You also can cry out to God to ask Him to stir up your
- 41:40affection for Him, to help you to lean into knowing Him more so
- 41:46you can see Him clearly, so that you can see yourself clearly.
- 41:50And if you'd like to do that, I'm going to give you an
- 41:52opportunity to just pray to him for just a moment and ask for
- 41:54his help. I believe.
- 41:57Help my unbelief in Jesus name, Amen.
- 42:02Amen. Real quick, if you've given your
- 42:06life to Christ moments ago or recently and you haven't told
- 42:09anyone yet, welcome to the family.
- 42:19If you find yourself in a season where you've been struggling to
- 42:21see God clearly, I want you to know he is a good, good God and
- 42:27he loves it when you cry out to him.
- 42:29So in a few moments, our prayer team is going to come up.
- 42:32We love praying for you, praying with you, praying over you.
- 42:37So we invite you to come up. If you gave your life to Christ
- 42:40moments ago or recently and you haven't told anyone yet, there
- 42:42are tables in the back. They say I raised my hand.
- 42:45We would love to celebrate with you and talk to you about
- 42:47discipleship and give you a gift.
- 42:50Will you stand? We're going to sing a song.
- 42:53Everyone that is ready to get baptized already signed up.
- 42:56You can just go over there to the corner where by that exit
- 42:58sign. If you have given your life to
- 43:01Christ moments ago or recently and you've not taken the very
- 43:05next step of obedience that the Bible would tell you, which is
- 43:10believers baptism, we would invite you to come and talk to
- 43:13us and be baptized today. We have towels and clothes and
- 43:16everything else. What a wonderful Mother's Day
- 43:18celebration to celebrate meeting the Father.
- 43:22And so if you'd like to be baptized, we'd love for you to
- 43:24walk right over there and talk to somebody and we'll get you
- 43:27dunked. The Oildale water is very warm.
- 43:29I swear you move as the Lord leads you.
- 43:33Thank you Church, I love you.