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Sex Location, FAMU Nudity, Asking 4 A Friend, Sister O'dell's Gucci Bag and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stuffings me through good listening
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  Speaker 1: to the together for st Please, I don't join jo
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  Speaker 1: give me you turn you you, you gotta turn to
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  Speaker 1: turn them out. You got to turn them out. Then
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh, I shall will a good morning everybody. You
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  Speaker 1: are listening to the voice, come on dig me now.
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  Speaker 1: One and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah. Man, ooh boh,
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  Speaker 1: boh boy. Man, God has been good to me. I
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  Speaker 1: can't even I can't even put it into words, man,
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  Speaker 1: but I try, though, I try, try try. God does
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  Speaker 1: things for me just right on time. He said, he's
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  Speaker 1: so cool with it. And I happened to run across
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  Speaker 1: Joel Oldstein on television like I often do all the time,
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  Speaker 1: and I was sitting there and he had such a
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  Speaker 1: timely message for me. A part of it was something
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  Speaker 1: that I've said oftentimes about if you really really want
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  Speaker 1: to be successful, if you really really want to change,
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  Speaker 1: if you really really want to prosper. If you really
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  Speaker 1: really want to achieve greatness, if you really really want
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  Speaker 1: to have something in life that's worth having, if you
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  Speaker 1: really really want to accomplish your goals, you got to
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  Speaker 1: push through all of it. He said that when you
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  Speaker 1: get closer to it, the more difficult it becomes. Did
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  Speaker 1: you hear me? He said, the closer you get to
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  Speaker 1: what it is you want or you need, or you
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  Speaker 1: have to have, or or you would love to be,
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  Speaker 1: it gets a little bit more difficult when you get closer.
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  Speaker 1: He told this story that's in the Bible that I've
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  Speaker 1: never heard before. This is what he said. He said
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  Speaker 1: that was a man who was paralyzed, and he had
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  Speaker 1: heard that Jesus was speaking at a house, and so
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  Speaker 1: he wanted to get there. So he convinced four of
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  Speaker 1: his friends to put him on a stretcher and carry
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  Speaker 1: him for hours to get to this house where Jesus
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  Speaker 1: was speaking. He said that along the way, these friends
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  Speaker 1: said that they went along because he had so much
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  Speaker 1: faith that if he could just get to him, it
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  Speaker 1: could be better that he could if he could just
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  Speaker 1: get over the end he could see him, that he
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  Speaker 1: might have a shot at getting held. And so he said,
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  Speaker 1: they took out along the way and they walked and
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  Speaker 1: they walked and they walked for hours. And then when
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  Speaker 1: they got there, the house was completely filled with people.
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  Speaker 1: That was absolutely it was packed wall to wall. There
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  Speaker 1: was absolutely no way for the men to get him
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  Speaker 1: on that stretcher end to see Jesus. This it's a
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  Speaker 1: story that Joel Osteen said is in the Bible, and
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  Speaker 1: he was telling it now. I'm just repeating the parts
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  Speaker 1: of it. I got gathered and so he said. They
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  Speaker 1: were sat there and they went, wow, man, we walked
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  Speaker 1: all this weight and it's four and and and and
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  Speaker 1: and and and we can't get there, he said. And
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  Speaker 1: then the guy with the affliction told the four men,
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  Speaker 1: if you get up on the roof and cut a
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  Speaker 1: hole in it and lower me down, I bet I
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  Speaker 1: could see him men, and I better to be all
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  Speaker 1: right now. He then said, you must imagine how these
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  Speaker 1: four men must have felt when you carry somebody for
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  Speaker 1: hours on on on on on on the way. They
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  Speaker 1: had to carry some cloth connected by a couple of sticks.
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  Speaker 1: Said the men. Shoulders had to be bruised, had to
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  Speaker 1: have deep gouges in them, not cuts, but just indentations
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  Speaker 1: where they had carried the weight of this grown man
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  Speaker 1: for so many hours, and they looked at him in disbelief, like, man,
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  Speaker 1: what are you talking about. We didn't walked all this far.
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  Speaker 1: He said, yeah, but if you get up on that
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  Speaker 1: roof and you cut a hole in it and lower
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  Speaker 1: me down, I can see him and when he see me,
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  Speaker 1: it'll be all right. After sitting there and imploring the men,
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  Speaker 1: they went up and did just that, and then and
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  Speaker 1: then the story that Joel Osteen said, the man was healed.
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  Speaker 1: But the point he was making was he was saying
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  Speaker 1: that the closer you get to what it is you
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  Speaker 1: really want, the more difficult it's going to become. But
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  Speaker 1: you've got to push through. See, if you don't push through,
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  Speaker 1: you never know, so you can't get right to the answer.
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  Speaker 1: And because it gets really difficult, started creating those little
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  Speaker 1: saying that we got his people. Um, well, I guess
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't meant to be. I guess it wasn't Lord's will. Now, man,
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  Speaker 1: I guess you should not give up right now. I
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  Speaker 1: guess you should keep pressing. I guess you should do more,
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  Speaker 1: because see, in all of us, in all of us,
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  Speaker 1: when you've had enough, I want you to know something.
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  Speaker 1: You do have a little bit more in all of us.
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  Speaker 1: You can do one more you know. That's one of
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  Speaker 1: my favorite things that I heard. Joel Oldstein said. It
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  Speaker 1: kind of made me feel good. He said, I always
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  Speaker 1: feel like I can do one more anything, And I
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  Speaker 1: tell my friends all the time, I can do one
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  Speaker 1: more man, I could do one more day. I can
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  Speaker 1: do one more anything. Now Here was the jewel that
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  Speaker 1: I never really knew that Joel Oldstein and God sent
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  Speaker 1: to me I needed to hear. He said that no
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  Speaker 1: matter what you're going through, no matter how long the
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  Speaker 1: challenge is you've been facing, God has an end date
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  Speaker 1: for it all. Did you hear me? No matter what
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  Speaker 1: you're going through, no matter what challenge you're facing, no
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  Speaker 1: matter what situation you've gotten yourself into, God has an
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  Speaker 1: ending date. All you got to do is keep pressing forward.
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  Speaker 1: All you got to do is hanging now. All you
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  Speaker 1: got to do is don't give up. All you have
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  Speaker 1: to do is don't turn back. That is an end
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  Speaker 1: date for all of it, even when you think you've
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  Speaker 1: had enough. And boy, have I had this conversation with
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  Speaker 1: God on several things that I've been going through and
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  Speaker 1: I'm going I've even told him, Look, I got it, man,
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  Speaker 1: he said, just keep hanging on. There is an end
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  Speaker 1: date to whatever it is you're going through. There's an
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  Speaker 1: end date to your illness, your sickness, yo yo, tired
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  Speaker 1: of being tired. There's an end date to this relationship
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  Speaker 1: that you can't seem to get through. Beyond over that's
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  Speaker 1: that's like a cancer to you. There's an end date.
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  Speaker 1: But you've got to hang in there. You've got to
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  Speaker 1: keep pushing forward. You cannot turn around. You must not
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  Speaker 1: go back, because when God gets you through this and
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  Speaker 1: you break through to the other side, the reward and
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  Speaker 1: the benefit is far greater than the struggle. I oftentimes
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  Speaker 1: look at some of the things that God has brought
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  Speaker 1: me through in my worst times, and when he brought
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  Speaker 1: me through, I went, wow, man, now that I understand that,
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  Speaker 1: Now that I'm on the other side and I have
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  Speaker 1: the benefit of the reward for it, would you do
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  Speaker 1: it all again to get there? Yes, I would. You're
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  Speaker 1: my favorite people when I was growing up. Every young
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  Speaker 1: boy we are him. Well. If people say the times,
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  Speaker 1: I used to love that old friend, dude Well, ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, I loved him like I loved the Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. I loved him like I love starting
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  Speaker 1: my day. I like starting my day with gratitude. If
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  Speaker 1: you start with gratitude and affect your attitude, change your attitude,
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  Speaker 1: it's in direct correlation with your out to get your
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  Speaker 1: two in order. Man, Shirley Strawberry caller, the for real,
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  Speaker 1: the mouth of the whole damn South. It's Sip Monitor
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  Speaker 1: Juniors better known as kill Spake, but more known as
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  Speaker 1: Junior and ladies and gentlemen, the legend that he is.
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  Speaker 1: If you tell me, Lord Junior, what's on your mind today? Okay? Man,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk about this. Man ask something. I heard a quote. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it really kind of really kind of took me back.
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  Speaker 1: He said, if you think the cost of success is high,
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  Speaker 1: wait until you get the bill from regret man. I
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  Speaker 1: know that quote very well. If you think the cost
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  Speaker 1: of success is high, wait until you get the bill
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  Speaker 1: for the cost to regret man junior. Yeah, I'm just saying,
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  Speaker 1: did you have to pay these? Oh? Absolutely absolutely? You
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  Speaker 1: know man, you will oftentimes be presented with crossroads in
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  Speaker 1: your life or way you. Everybody gets them all the time.
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  Speaker 1: You can go right or you can go left, but
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  Speaker 1: you just can't go straight no more. You gotta go
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  Speaker 1: this way or that way, and you have to make
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  Speaker 1: decision now going the right way, not meaning to your right,
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  Speaker 1: but going the right way. Making the right choice is
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  Speaker 1: always the harder choice when you choose not to go
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  Speaker 1: the hardest way, when you choose to take the soft
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  Speaker 1: the soft route, the easy route, but the route that
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  Speaker 1: was intended for you, that had the most reward was
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  Speaker 1: the hard route. And you choose that particular day to
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  Speaker 1: take the easy route. All let me explain, Oh it
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  Speaker 1: would have been harder, but Lord her mercy when you
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  Speaker 1: make that easy turns and you find out later on
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  Speaker 1: up the road because all roads meet again would have
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  Speaker 1: happened had you taken the harder road and you took
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  Speaker 1: that easy role as hard as a hard road would
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  Speaker 1: have been, Oh my god, you have to sit there
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  Speaker 1: and kick yourself. The regret that you it's incredible and
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  Speaker 1: it's piercing, and sometimes it takes years to recover from that.
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  Speaker 1: And I've hated that man when I've done that. So
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  Speaker 1: I learned after a while, just go to route that's
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  Speaker 1: the hardest route, the one you're supposed to take, because
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  Speaker 1: they ain't gonna need a living and regret that ain't easy.
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  Speaker 1: Success is hard, but not being successful it's a lot harder.
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, well, thank you guys. Coming up next,
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  Speaker 1: it has run that prank back with the nephew coming
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  Speaker 1: up at thirty two minutes after you're listening. All right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: it is that time time for the nephew to run
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  Speaker 1: that prank back. What you got for us now my
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  Speaker 1: aunties bike, Shirlene. I have my aunties bike, and we
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  Speaker 1: gonna keep it real stupid on the replay for you
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  Speaker 1: this morning, and then I'll be back in an hour
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  Speaker 1: and be stupid again. All right, but right now, my
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  Speaker 1: auntie's bike got dog. If you would Hello, Hello, I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to reach Bond. Hey man, this this this k
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  Speaker 1: dub Man. Listen, dude, dude, do you know somebody to
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  Speaker 1: live on? Yeah, my mama, My mama stayed on. Hey
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  Speaker 1: who is this? Hey? This this K dub Man. My auntie,
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  Speaker 1: Miss Tendsley, she lived on. Now my auntie say you
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  Speaker 1: came over here and stole a bicycle and some other
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  Speaker 1: stuff out of her garage. Okay, hold ull. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: who is you? Man? I sold a bike at somebody garage?
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  Speaker 1: Who is this? Who is K? I don't know? No,
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  Speaker 1: Ka dub this is this is Ka dub man. My auntie,
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  Speaker 1: Miss Tendsley, little down the street from your mama and
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  Speaker 1: my aunt just you're the one came away and took
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  Speaker 1: a bike in a tool box or somebody to garage? Man.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I don't even know no damn miss Tenderly.
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  Speaker 1: And second, I don't steal your your auntie, Miss Tinsley,
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  Speaker 1: say I stole somebody. Put a point on the phone, man,
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  Speaker 1: put your any on the phone. I ain't stolen from nowhere,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gotta She can't talk any can't talk to you?
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  Speaker 1: Why she ain't she say I stold so no, my
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  Speaker 1: ain't my auntie death. She signed language me and told
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  Speaker 1: me that you do want stole stole the bike, your
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  Speaker 1: auntie death. And she told you. She sign language you
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  Speaker 1: and said, I stole the bike? Why do you get
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  Speaker 1: my number? Hold on? Sign language me? Hold on? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: she said, quit all that damn lying. You know, damn well,
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  Speaker 1: you're the one that stole the bike. A man holding
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  Speaker 1: so your auntie it's cussing me. I to you the
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  Speaker 1: sign language. You're telling me that I have stole the
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  Speaker 1: damn bike. Say man, I, first of like, I, hell,
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  Speaker 1: you even get my number? Man? I got some number?
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  Speaker 1: The street asked him from miss ain't your mamma? Miss yeah,
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  Speaker 1: miss my mama? Okay, okay, well look man, the people
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  Speaker 1: down the street up and then they knew your number.
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  Speaker 1: I told him I needed to talk to you soon
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  Speaker 1: than I ain't. He told me that that you was
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  Speaker 1: the one that stole the bike. Out to Garad. Now look,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't trying to can you kick that? Can you? Sign?
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  Speaker 1: Was back to your ain't it? Yeah? I was back
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  Speaker 1: to her tell her that I said, I ain't stole
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  Speaker 1: no bike. How about that? Tell you ain't I ain't
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  Speaker 1: stole no damn right now, man, grown man, I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to tell her right now. Wait a minute, Okay, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: she's saying something. She said, your black lying and you
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  Speaker 1: know that well you got that. Let's look him. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't that street with nobody on this street except
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  Speaker 1: for mom Voman. I'm a grown man. I gotta steal
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  Speaker 1: a bike for no deaf She must be dumb too,
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  Speaker 1: she deaf fan dog. She's like, I stold something, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I don't even know y'all. Oh, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: deafinitely dumb dude, okay, my ain'ty don't never lie. And
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  Speaker 1: if missus Tennsley saying that that that somebody took some
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  Speaker 1: that dog, she telling the true, I ain't it gonna
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  Speaker 1: be lying and just to be lying? Why you just
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  Speaker 1: gonna lie on you? Whych she gonna pick you out? Man?
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  Speaker 1: You know what. I don't know what's going on, but
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got no reason to still no bike now,
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  Speaker 1: I got a call that ain't paid for. I got.
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  Speaker 1: I got a grown man. I'm trying to get cussed
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  Speaker 1: in my fun. So I'm gonna coming to somebody to
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  Speaker 1: garad and still a bike because you cram it? You crazy?
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  Speaker 1: This he is main't get out of my line with that.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on. I ain't it talking
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  Speaker 1: she saying. Wait a minute, man, I'm trying to see
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  Speaker 1: what she was saying. You say that black No damn well,
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  Speaker 1: he took that bike and he better bring that damn bike. Looking, man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you sid on my line. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't took no bike. Ain't he his lying? Do
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  Speaker 1: he even sna tell you something? You're gonna respect my aiming? Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: you canna respect me? You call my phone with the
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  Speaker 1: I mean you're trying to get my together? You calling someone? Who?
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  Speaker 1: Aren't you? What are you? I don't know this is
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm man, I'm K dub everybody, no
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  Speaker 1: K dub. I ain't never heard or no more K
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  Speaker 1: dub on in my life. My Mama's been staying on
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  Speaker 1: for fifteen years. I ain't never heard no K dub.
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  Speaker 1: I heard no Miss Tensery. I heard by no death, Ladies,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't seen no bike. Get the off my line, man,
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  Speaker 1: and man sleep, see you gonna make me go down
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  Speaker 1: and steal something out of miss house. If you don't
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  Speaker 1: bring that then bike back? What got me? Bring somebody
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  Speaker 1: to my mama's and you want to tell them on
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  Speaker 1: my way over the place. Somebody to by my house.
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  Speaker 1: My family is gonna be old for you. That just dumb,
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  Speaker 1: ain't you guys? Whoever now? And that gave you my number?
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  Speaker 1: Everybody you got me, we'll throw this up. That's true.
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  Speaker 1: Dug you come by my mama house. You back now
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  Speaker 1: stepping my mama. Glad you come by my mama. Play
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  Speaker 1: you work. You got me stuck. You're gonna turn me
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  Speaker 1: to the thought side. Come on my way right now.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know I we still on the phone on.
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. What
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  Speaker 1: you're saying, ain't by any say nobody scared of your
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  Speaker 1: Oh say tell yo death. I ain't need to bring
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  Speaker 1: up outside. And I was bletful she heard him licks
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be putting on your yo. I'll bet she's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be undeath today. I bet she get cured when
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: she see me whooping ya man. He literally, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: coming by myself homely Commy gonna be there with me.
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  Speaker 1: Tommy gonna help me. Whoop your way? Who the time
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  Speaker 1: to Tommy? Who Tommy man, nephew Timmy from the Tea
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked by your mama
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  Speaker 1: miss bureau. Let's right there, Manma, my mom would no.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like nobody with him. Man, Gods, your mama,
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  Speaker 1: your mama. My son loved me to dell. He don't
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  Speaker 1: let no he take care of me. He don't let
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: nothing go wrong with me. I'll let nobody mess with me.
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  Speaker 1: He said, how you gotta do that, like you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do something to his mom? Man, Well, I don't see hear.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see him because like I did. Man, God,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the mirror, swint. I'm man for read. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: need this. Man, I just want to go. I wun't myself.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you mean till my mama? She wrong for that too, Dude,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: what's up, nephew? What do you have to change? Boy?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: You have to change you just like me before you
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  Speaker 1: love your mama, ain't. Man? Hey, I gotta ask you, man,
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  Speaker 1: one more thing. What is the baddest and I mean
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land? Man without a doubt?
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: Man to Steve Harbor Morning show man, get a few timing,
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  Speaker 1: Man without doubt? Hey, man till mis be? I said, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: all right, I go. I was gonna drop off a
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: little two out of dollars she wanted. She wouldn't play
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  Speaker 1: games though. You know, man, you don't like the one now,
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  Speaker 1: all right, nephew, first dose stupid first early in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is asked the cello Chief Love
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Officers Steve Harper in the building for your love questions.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show at
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour and Entertainment News Neo asked
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: for privacy amid his cheating scandal. Rapper and Mystical is
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: arrested for sexual assault. All right, we'll get into those
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: stories at the top. Right now, it's time for ask
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: the CLO. CLO stands for Chief Love Officer. That would
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: be one Steve Harvey. Brianna and Teaneck writes, when I
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: was twenty years old, my parents got back together and
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I was overjoyed. I'm thirty two now and my parents
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: are getting a divorce because my mother cheated for years.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: She told me my father was a garden tool and
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: it was her all along. Now that I've signed with
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: my dad, she's upset with me. Should I care? Well?
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. When did you decide
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: that it was necessary to take sides? You know for
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: years you listened to her saying your dad it was
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: a guard too, and the whole time it was hurt.
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  Speaker 1: Now you side it with your daddy. Now she's mad.
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  Speaker 1: Should you care? Why? Why you stop taking side? What?
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: What is it? What is it in you that? What
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: is it that? What you win for taking a side?
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: What's the prize for picking the winner? And there picking
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: a dog in this fight? Both of them dogs is
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: your parents, and neither one of them stops being mama
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: or daddy to the day you lead is earth. But
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: you're thirty two. Stop picking side. So let them work
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: it out on their own. And yeah, you can feel
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: however you want to feel, but you ain't got to
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: pick a side. It ain't your fight. It's really not.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: They're getting a divorce. You're not into your thirty two.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: You're not getting a divorce. They are. You're thirty two.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Divorce affects you when you live in that house. You're
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: on your own. They're getting a divorce. A divorce is
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: good for some people. But get out of it. Get
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: out heah, stop the mandolin. Yeah, sty out of their marriage. Okay.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Dorian and Orlando says, I have a twin brother and
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: he's single and I'm about to get married. We've done
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: some crazy things as brothers, and my fiance doesn't know
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: that side of me. My twin suggested I tell my
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: future wife about my wild side before she moves to
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: our hometown and she hears about me. Should I fill
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: her in or not? Hell no, stupid ass brother, feel hard?
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: What before she moved? Hid and hid? Hell yeah? What
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: the wildness being alife? You gotta damn twin tell him
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: it was him? Hell yeah, it wasn't me? Or boy,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: don't listen to your dumb ass brother going here and
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: feel her in? What are you kidding me? Are you serious?
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: You're gonna walk in your house, start a fire in
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: the middle of the living room floor and hope it
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: stay in the living room? Boy is the twin jealous stuff? Now?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: He think he helping him? See day, stupid? I think
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: we talked about a couple of stupid twins. You know
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: you can have compidity in a set. You know they
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: know just one off, you can have more than one
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: stupid shot kill her in, all right? Moving on to
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Shan and DC, Shan writes, my good girlfriend is our
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: real tour and there have been times when I can't
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: leave work, so my husband has toured houses without me.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Yesterday she called him to see it, go see a house,
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: but she didn't call her text me, so I off.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: She said it was a big mistake. Now do you
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: think it was on purpose or was it really a mistake? Well,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: I asked empty house? You know, she quiet could have
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: been a mistake, you know, ask your husband to come
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: see this house, because you know, could it have been
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: around the same time y'all were supposed to see another
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: house and and you wasn't available then. But the problem
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: with women is, and y'all know this is true. What
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: she know she supposed to tell her? Girl, I don't
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: fit to call your husband about this house. You already
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: know you posted just to hold down you because you
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: would want a phone call from her, Yes, because women
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: don't play that good girlfriend. Now, let me explain something
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: to you. You can't call my girl. No the wayman
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: hold of dog one, right, you gotta go through you
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: and we just you know, dog, you'd be working all
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: the time. And everybody knew that. Everybody know that. They
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: got aunimals about that. But yeah, yeah, but what did
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: you calling huff? I'm just gonna I'm just gonna take
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: her the name of dog. We're just gonna run the
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: names right quick. She'll need you to take her to Nimes.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: She got her own money, her own car, she got
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: her own car, she got a driver, pull up, come
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: to her. Okay, boy, man, I ain't falling for none
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: of that, all right. You know how these streets are. Man,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to look out for you, dog, that's all. Okay,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: look somewhere else, all right, Let's get to this next one,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: because these young people need help. This young girl, Zoe
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: and Kansas says, my boyfriend and I are twenty six
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: is the last one, Steve, and we've been dating six months.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not ready for sex. And he keeps saying he's
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: going to cheat on me. But then he says he's joking.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Is he trying to trick me into sex by threatening me?
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Is this normal guy behavior? Or is he playing games
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: with my head and my heart? What should I do?
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: It's all? That's all. That's all above is what you
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: can see the game. Is he playing games? He's trying
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: to trick you out of sex? Yes, you told him
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: you y'all been together six months? He's gonna cheat on you?
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: He just joking. He got he already, little girl, Little girl,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: These dudes they not made like this no more, you know,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: unless he then committed to be at a priest. Are
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: he somewhere in a retreat, I don't know what. They
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: don't do this or he up in the heels of Tibet.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: I don't really know these dudes doing it like this.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: So yes, it's all of the above, young lady. He's
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: trying to play with your head. Tricky. He ain't playing
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: with your heart. He trying to get in your head.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: He ready for sex. It's been six months. I can't
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: even you can stand Joe Grime. But now is he
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: playing these games? Is he trying to get you to
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: change your mind? Yes? Is he trying to convince you otherwise? Yes?
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Did he drop a little hit eye cheat? And maybe
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: that Maybe that'll a get off of stands? All the
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: above is true and you have to go from that.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know this guy, but I know he is
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: a guy. Yes. Is he trying to trick me into
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: sex by threatening me? Now? I don't know these young
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: dudes out here. This is holding off with no sex
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: for six months? I don't know. Hey, all right, he
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: six days here. All right, thank you, Cilo. Great advice.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the time of the hour, we'll have
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: to show. Neo joined us here, we remember on the
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: show last week to promote his new album. But over
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: the weekend we were satined and quite stunned to hear
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: about cheating rumors after its wife, Crystal Renee, blasted him
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: on social media. In a long post, Crystal wrote, eight
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: years of life and deception. Eight years of unknowingly sharing
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: my life and husband with numerous women who sell their
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: bodies to him, unprotected, every last one of them. To
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: say I'm heartbroken and disgusted is an understatement this That
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: was only a snippet of what she wrote, and she
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: ended it by calling Neo a narcissist. Neo then posted
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Neil by the way like that post he her posts.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Then he posted a response to the cheating allegations on Twitter, saying,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: for the sake of our children, my family, UH and
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: I will work through the challenges behind closed doors. Personal
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: matters are not meant to be addressed and dissected in
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: public forums. I simply ask that you please respect me
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: and my family's privacy at this time. Thanks you say,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: you gotta called cheat they are going through. I feel
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: for you because I really do like Neo and he
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: said he had wrote that song to his wife. Yeah
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: and everything. I feel bad for the cat. I feel bad, yeah,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: for their you know, yeah, for their marriage. Yeah. I mean,
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: we hate to see families break up like this. And
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: and quite frankly, it should be handled privately, don't you think. No,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work on social media. It doesn't work because
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: these young people, now, this generation of We're gonna share
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: all our stuff. Now it's hard to heal on line. Yeah.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Now the comments you a fool girl. You need to
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: leave him. I saw him here and here and here.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: It ain't no help because now this is the demise
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: of something. And when it comes to the demise of something,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: that's the internet specialty. Yeah. Well, moving on to New Orleans,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: a New Orleans based rapper Mystical, whose real name is
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Michael Tyler, was arrested for the third time for alleged
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: sex crimes, and he has been charged with first degree rape,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: false imprisonment, simple robbery, domestic abuse, and criminal property damage.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Mystical spent six years in prison after two thousand and
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: four arrest for sexually assaulting his hairstylist, and he had
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: to register as a sex offender upon his release. Then,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: back in twenty seventeen, Mystical was detained again for an
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: alleged sexual assault against a female in a Shreveport casino,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: but those charges were eventually dismissed. Wow, oh again, huh yeah,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: this is yeah, yeah, it really really is. Yeah. I
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: thought it was an old post when I first saw it.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: I thought, yeah, I thought it was an old post. Yeah.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Again and again and again. Yeah, some old sounded like
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: r Kelly stuff. Yeah yeah, pattern, uh huh pattern. Yeah.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: This is horrible. Yeah, horrible for the victims. Absolutely absolutely,
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: um okay, So moving on to Florida A and M.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Terrika Williams, the recent Florida A M University graduate, went
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: viral this week after she posted a fully nude picture
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: of herself in front of fam use esteemed rat her statue.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: She captioned the picture with the message about body positivity
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: and how she was frowned upon for dressing provocatively while
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: she was pursuing her career. She ended her caption with,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: as I'm standing here with my master's degree at the
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: tender age of twenty four. I am the living proof
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: that clothes do not define you. I encourage everyone to
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: embrace their bodies and step aside, a step outside social
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: normspam Use Administration issued a statement that the university is
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: aware of the picture and the incident is currently under investigation.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Did you guys see the picture? Yes? Yes, yeah, A
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: beautiful girl, beautiful body, and I mean it's under investigation
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: for what what there ever? That's the snake, the famous Brattler. Yeah,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: that's statue. Yeah, she posted it. You know. The sad
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: thing about this is for this young lady is whatever
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: her master's boring is. You know, you're gonna have to
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: go out now and earn a living now unless you're
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: gonna be in the new photo business. Uh, if you're
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: trying to do get a corporate job, they're gonna go
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: to your social media page. And I think this may
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: be damaging in the long run, or somebody's gonna use
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: it to their advantage. I wish my daughter would yeah,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: would you say, I wish she'd have thought this over
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: me too. Yeah. Her point was she's living proof that
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: closed do not define you. Shouldn't make that point in
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: another way exactly exactly. Now if she was being criticized,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: she claims for being dressing uh provocatively. So now I'm
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: gonna take all of them off. But where are we
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: going with the point? Yeah? Close? Fine? But nu did
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: you do? Though? I'm gonna tell you this, little little sister.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Clothes might that might not define you, but nudity damn
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: showd But we are women of color. It doesn't work
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: out the same for us as it does other women.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: Pail built a career off of it. Kim Kardash it
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: a career off of it. You look at the girl
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: that was with uh, Hugh Grant, and her career went down. Here,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna just tell you something. I love Halle Berry,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: but ever since she did Monster Ball and just showed
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: her breast, it ain't been the same for her. Wow, yeah,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: we need to think, all right. I forgave her. I mean,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I mean what she did wasn't that bad. But many
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, the nephew
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: has a question for you, Steve, right after this you're listening,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: all right, So temmy, Uh, what's going on? You want
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: to ask your uncle a question? Man? Now, listen, my
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: wife hold up. My friend's wife. My friend's wife is
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: the worst and I want to say the worst driver,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: but just drives too damn fast every time we get
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: I mean every time they together. Okay, drive him too
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: damn fast. And it's at the point now where I
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: want he wants to go to church in a separate car.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: When it's time to go to dinner, he want to go,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: you know, in a separate car. It's just it's just
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: gotten out of control because it's just too damn fast.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: How do we fix this issue? Issue is the way
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: to resolve it. But that's that's been his takeaway. I'm
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: just gonna drop. I mean, he just gonna drive himself
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: way he wanted. Yea asking for a friend, right, asking
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: for Yeah, I really should have rehearsed that first of all,
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: use a damn food for just the way you phrase
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: this whole thing, because it is quite obvious who this
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: this free game is. You are starts next. I don't
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: know how you're gonna be able to fix this because
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: you've gone public with it. Oftentime suggested to people that
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: you keep your relationship business all social media, and even
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: though this isn't on social media, what you just said,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: you are over free international airwaves. Everything we say is
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: recorded and reserved and placed up in the archives of cyberspace.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: So there for I don't understand the point now to
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: answer your question, it was really not a damn thing
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: you could do. You're sitting in ride like that or what? Man?
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: Ask your question? Your question? How is the complayon working out?
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Because when we make them mad, they go faster, faster
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: they have you noticed that, So it's better just gonna
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: take the speed that they was gonna do it at
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: because pissed off speed is always fast. Explained forty miles
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: an hour and looking in the back seat at one
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: of them kids, and take full second for you turn
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: back around, explain Marjorie has driven and I thought it
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: was too fast. Now before I say something to make
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: her mad, and she stepped on the gas faster. I
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: just sit there and what I do is I look down.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I don't even watch the houses and telephone poles going.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up next, we got to talk to
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: sister Odell at thirty four minutes after the out right
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening, stay morning show, All right, ladies
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen. She is here. She doesn't come by as often,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: but we're so happy when she does because she sets
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: everything straight. She has an opinion. Ladies and gentlemen, please
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: welcome sister Odell, I said, wait, oh, well, well well
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: well well well well well well wait, well well where
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: we yeah? All right, well, good mornings every wall morning, glad,
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: I haven't me in here. Hey callie, hey, sister out there.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: How are you doing? Silly his you today? I am well,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: thank you, sister Till. I'm well. Oh the country girl Mississippi.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: She stepped away, waving U Junior. Good mornings though dead,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Hi boy and Thomas, Yes, ma'am good many good? What's
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: going on today? Oh? How are you? Sister? Tell? Well,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty good. You know, had a little so hip
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: because of the wedding, you know when it rained my hip? Yeah, yes, yes,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: the rain you know. Okay, Well, sister Till, we have
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: someone that may need your prayers. Um, you heard about
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: the preacher that got robbed in New York at guns
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: and his wife? Yeah you heard about it? Uh your thoughts?
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Well you know did you know him? Now? I don't
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: go to churches like that. What do you like? What?
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? I don't like flashy preachers? You know,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: standing on duke in all this hit, didn't you see
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: the one way put it out on the all on
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: the internet where he got on the up. He showed
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: a prayer closet, yeam was none? Who's in the prayer for?
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Who's praying for? All the designers? You're supposed to be
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: praying for your flock? Here? That just pointing the stuff
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: offended lou Louis, Louis them Louis who was all the
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: other people? Don't chick gandam all and U blee up
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: Blenso I don't let's see I people. You know, what
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: is he do? He? What is he showing his closet
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: fat and in violing the large name, talking about it
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: a praying cloud? What is you praying for? What? I
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: ain't see the in that praying for nothing? Exactly? All
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: them logos and everything everywhere? Do you wear anything? Just
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: got briglar colors on? See when you see people that's
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: got to have a name on everything? Yes, all right,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: every ninety and you know the nice going to do
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: one of them are VL purses and stuff like that.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: It is not me to have because you said VL
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: where you know, sometimes this dyslection kicks but you have
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: dresses and designer stuff all the time, you know, and
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: ste like you won't do Steve go to work every day.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: He passed around collection plate. You know he do what
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: he wanted to do. When you pass around collection plate,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: you need to look like you needs something. You need
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: to looking like you to took something. You need to
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: start looking you need something. I ain't to do all
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: that ste gonna work every day, sting or the clothes
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: that he Well, yes, colleague, do you have any designer
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: bags handbags? Girl? Yes, girl, I bought this bag? Oh
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: cousile bag? What cousill? Who see it? We don't know,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: we're not familiar with that designer. Gee you see Gouci Gucci,
• 43:30
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  Speaker 1: of here with thank you for joining us. All right,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Well then, you know, since that's all I'm in here for.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: You know this church news, ladies and Gentlemen's coming up
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: nexts uh Caffe's baby born nephew, Tommy. He's gonna do
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: another prank, you know. He I'm just a prised he
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  Speaker 1: got it. You're listening show coming up at about four
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry letter for it
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  Speaker 1: today and the subject is fight or flight, right, Yeah,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that in a minute. Fight on the flight,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: what's one is? Let's hope not. We'll get into it
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: in a few minutes to find out what that's all about,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: because right now it is time for the nephew and
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: today's Frank phone call. What you got for us today? Next? Well, Charlotte,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: that comes to time when a child is not doing
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: well in school and you have to repeat a particular grade.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: You understand, you know, been held back as they would
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: stay back in the day. You know they held you back.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: You got to repeat. And it's sometimes it happens early.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Sometimes it will happen in pre k. You understand what
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, pre k. You know. So this
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: right here is your son going back to pre k,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: going back to pre k and some things that he's
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: not doing well and we want to work on it.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: But your son, I hate to say it, is going
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: back to pre k, cat dog if you would, however, yes,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: I'm time to reach miss Thomas. Please, my name is
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: mister Stapleton. I'm actually the principal over at elementary school.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: You're I'm looking at my records indicating that your son,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Thomas is going to be starting his first grade. Ready, right, listen,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: missus Thomas. Um, I've been going through actually all of
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: the children's records that will be starting school, and I'm
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: looking at your son's grades from his kindergarten. Well, no,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: not exactly. I mean there's been a few. Uh. I
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: actually spoke with the teacher who he was under in kindergarten,
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  Speaker 1: and it seems like he just really wasn't up to
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: par as the rest of the children. Mm. Now his conduct, now,
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: he talked, but he gets his work. So what else
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: is she saying on that that ain't right? Well, what's
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: what it seems to be, ma'am, is that his grades
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: weren't up to par as the rest of the other children.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: She did tell me he was a disobedient child. No,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: he disobedient and talking two different things. Come on. Okay, well, man, listen,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: what we've decided here is we're gonna let a little
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: actually do another year of kindergarten. No, y'all, ain't gonna
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: let him do another year of kindergarten. No, sir man,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: that's that's the only choice I have. No. We got
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: our letter in the mail with our report card the
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: week after school started, and it said on the back promoted.
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: And if I got to get about this couch and
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: go get it, I'm gonna be because I'm telling you
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: right now we will be in the first grade. Kindergarten
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: won't that hard. I'm not sure what they told you
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: about him, but it must be the wrong. Well, I
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: understanding he's he doesn't color as well as arrested kids.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: He's all out of the he's out of the lines
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: when he color. He doesn't know his numbers completely. And
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: that's kind of what we need when you first come
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: into into the first grad when I can show you
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: on this paper he did satisfactory all the way through.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Now you about to me off, and I'm already sick
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: calling me with some about my son blank and kinder garden.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: He ain't that kind of He does not color. Well, man, listen,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: color ain't gonna do with the dad guard kindergarden. He
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: is going to the first grade, and I'll be down
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: there on August twenty four. No, I will not be
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: able to allow you to get into school at mister,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and let me get Let's tell you what.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Let me go on and get my pencil pen because
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I don't live that far from this school. And if
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: y'all aren't ready down there causing some comfort, I need
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: to get up and go down there, because I'm not
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: telling my baby when he come home to day that
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: he ain't going to the dad gun first man. I
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: hate to say it, but I'm gonna have to refuse
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: education from him on August twenty four. You know what,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: I just went back and put him in publish fool.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: I know that was a stake in the first place.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Food which you're talking about some coloring. Give me your
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: name again, sir Stapleton man, And what's that number down there?
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: The number here is actually area code women. I got
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: the number. Now, mind, I pulled up this report card.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I got the number in your name on the back
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: of this paper. I'll tell you what I was towing to.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: Fourth will be coming in there going to school, and
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: I might make a trip around that this evening when
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: I come from the document. The bottom line is, I'm
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: not going to hear that. Colin ain't got nothing to
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: do with nothing else. It's not only color, he's a
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: rithmetickets back. No, are you working with him at home?
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Are you doing anything at home every day? What you're
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: trying to say, I'm an incompetent parent. I'm just asking,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: as a parent, are you working with your child? Working
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: with my child every day? He can read better than you. Probably, No,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: he can't read. I'm the prince. I can't read better
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: than you, because honestly, you read that role on that
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: paper that he's supposed to be going back to kindergarten.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: When I know the paper say from it going to
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: the first grade. And I'm not listening to no more
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: this about him going backwards. Now, if you got a
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: problem with your paper, word, maybe you need to go
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: talk to your secretary of somebody in there that wrote
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: my baby name down? Well, your name, your son's name,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: Thomas Man. No, it ain't him, baby, I know it
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: ain't him. You're not gonna sit up and tell me
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: my son is flocking kindergarden. He is not going back
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: to that kindergarten. Don't bring your son down here, August,
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I tell you once be ready to up me and
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: my husband. But we will be down there August force backpack, shoes,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: uniform everything. You hear me, I will not be able
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: to allow him and education and that right now. I
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: will come down there right now and make that correction
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: on that paper for your baby is not going back
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: to no kindergarten for no coloring? Can you bring him
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: down him and let him color for me? So I
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: can't you tell my color in the rimon taking out
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: theselfs No, uh no, I'm sorry. We will be down
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: there August the twenty four. I would have this poor
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: card in my head that says you have been promoted
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: to the first brother. He's gonna have a mole on
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: his face, and so are you. I got one more
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: thing I need to tell you. Are you listening to me?
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I'm listening. You ain't saying nothing. Yeah, you better say
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: something that sounds like the first grade, because I'm not playing.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I would go down to this day on the administrative
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: office and I had fine because my son would be
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: in that first grade. Who are you raising your voice?
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: Who are you raising your voice? You talking crasid to me?
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: I'm talking cresident him what. I'm a grown woman. I
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: don't need the best friend to you. Why I'm trying
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: to Did you graduate? Honey? I am a college degree person.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: I have a great job, my husband and not do
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: well for ourselves and for our children. And that's why
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: we're not. You're not You're not even at work right now, man,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I said, I'm shack phone. I told you that when
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: you call him writing on the doctor to call me
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: now a partner missing my phone call? Can you color
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: because your son can't color? Why? God questions that? Ask me?
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Can I color? Why don't you white? And black? Y?
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Ask missie dressed me? I'm my color. No, I ask
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: you can you color like some racist lines and that
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: can you color? No? I'm my color and me be color.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing to do with none of this. It's
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: just a race thing. No, you're trying to make sure
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: you send him back. No, I'm not trying to send
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: him back. I want to send him back to color
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: to get his coloring together. You what that ain't got
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with nothing. And if you're the head
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: person down there now, you aren't competent and you aren't
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: in a literate Call me and tell me that my
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: son has to go back to the first grad. I
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: got one more thing I don't want mixed up. I'll
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: tell you what I'm through with. This guy comes through
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: with this guy. I'm gonna say one more thing and
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be out here. Are you listening, I'm listening.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: That's his nephew, Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: You just got prank by your girlfriend, Felicia. I'm gonna
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: be Felicia's. I am gonna be hot. You're about to
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: get to out the plant. I mean, I'm rite nomas
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: and everything. Thing now, I'm gonna everything. I'm gonna beat
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: her because you know I don't play when it comes
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: to back. That's all right, all right, but one more question. Now,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: show in the land. That's Steve Harvey Morning. Y'all, baby,
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: you gotta know how to color. You know what I'm saying.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: If you don't know how to color inside their lines,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: if you can't keep that that little crayon inside the line,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: that lets me know that you are not ready for kindergarten. Okay,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: you got you got to go back to the free k.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: But she wasn't having that at all. So at all
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: make sense. You don't know how therapeutic it is when
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: somebody just cussed me out on the phone. You don't
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: know what it feels like it and ever, let you
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: know you did a good job. I know I'm doing
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: my job. I know I'm on the point because the
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: cussing is the payoff. It's okay, you know it's been
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: a feud. I couldn't play for y'all. This's like when
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: I see your Timmy that she asked, I got it.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: I got But when you really gonna see me, yeah,
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: see me. Yeah. But if they do, though, when you're
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: gonna see you, you're gonna tell them coming to a kid,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: and then you you won't. I'm just saying, man, let
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: it go. It's just a prank, baby, and I prank.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: I prank in a nice way. Okay, I'm not malicious.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: But when I get you, I get you. Just laugh
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: at all. That's all it is. But all this when
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: I see you, Timmy, that show as you know, be
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: ye ready, okay, all right, all right, But until we
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: got a good prank out of you, thank you. You're welcome,
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: all right, nephew. Coming up next Today's Strawberry Letter, The
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: subject fight or Flight. We'll get into it right after this.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show. It is time now for
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,
• 53:36
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  Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. Yeah you heard, I
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: just said it could be yours. Buckle up, a hold
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you. Here. It is
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, all right, thinking nephew, subject fight or flight,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: Fight or flight. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty year
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: old flight attendant and I'm married to a forty four
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: year old professor. I met him when I was in
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: grad school and we started dating after I got my degree.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: He was going through a divorce and we kept our
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: relationship private until it was finalized. He has a seventeen
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: year old daughter that found out on social media and
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: she started a lot of chaos in our lives. She
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: didn't show up at our wedding and did devastated my
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: husband he was upset that his ex wife allowed her
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: to skip the wedding. I was over her by that time,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: so I didn't care. Now, she's about to turn eighteen
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: and asked if she can come live with us in
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Florida and attend a fashion school. I never answered my husband,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: and he eventually flipped out on me and made the
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: executive decision to allow her to come. I fixed up
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: our home office for her, and I moved my desk
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: on to our sun porch. I was so irritated. He
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: has been here four months and she has done exactly
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: what I knew she was going to do. Now, when
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: she's got an attitude, I leave and go to work.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: I take any flight available so I can get away
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: from this girl. My husband and I argue because he
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: says I'm not a positive role model for her. She's
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: a grown woman to me, and she's got parents that
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: failed her and allowed her to disrespect grown people. I
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: told my husband that if she pops off at the
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: mouth one more time, I'm going to pop her. He
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: says I need to learn how to be a parent,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: and I told him I will as soon as he
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: makes me one. I would rather work and deal with
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: the plane full of needy passengers instead of dealing with
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: a grown child. My husband told me that my fight
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: or flight mentality is ruining us. He can't see that
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: his child is defusive and honoring. Am I wrong or
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: does he need to put her out? Absolutely? Yes, I
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: think you're wrong. I do think you're wrong on so
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: many levels. Here tell you why. It's simple. You are
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: the adult. You keep calling her a grown woman. You
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: keep saying she's grown, but she's really still a child.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: You're grown when you can pay your own way and
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: when you can take care of yourself, and she's not
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: doing that right now. She's in your home, she's living
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: off you, guys, she's living with you. Guys. You're also
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: grown when you can face your problems head on. But
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: what do you do? You run and jump on a
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: flight and, as you say, deal with a plane full
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: of needy passengers rather than trying to fix a problem
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: at the house. And yes, it is a problem because
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: it's causing you and your husband to argue. Now, why
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: would you let that happen? You two should present a
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: united front to his daughter, making it impossible for her
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: to come between you guys, because that is what's happening,
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: that situation you all are allowing to let it come
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: between you. Stay home in the midst of all this
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: and handle your situation. No more jumping on planes when
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: you can't deal with it anymore. I say, first you
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: and your husband talk, agree on some basic house rules.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: Then a family meeting should be called to let the
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: daughter know about the new changes. And again, remember you
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: and your husband are on the same team, and you
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: guys are the adults. I mean, she needs to see
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: that you guys are together. He's her dad, but he's
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: your husband, which means that's your house and your rules.
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: So as you know, she's welcome as long as she
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: abides by the house rules. I mean that means no attitudes,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: no popping off at the mouth, no disrespect of any kind.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: And let me say this, if she pops off at
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: the mouth one more time, you're gonna pop her. Don't
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: don't pop her. That's not what this is all about.
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: Don't do that. I mean, you know she's angry, she's
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: she's trying you and all of that trying to come
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: between her. But you don't have to take it there.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: You can be the bigger person here. You can invite
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: her to lunch. You can do something fun with her,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: you know, and try to make peace with her, and
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: like your husband said, be a role model for her.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I think you should try that before you give up
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: on this situation and start, you know, popping her and
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: all that altogether. Steve, Wow, this is gonna have a
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: couple of twisting turns in it. I agree with what
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: Shirley's saying about the letter. The problem The real problem
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: here is in the letter writer. That seems to be
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: the real problem. Now you're thirty year old flight attendant
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: and you're married to a forty four year old professor. Now, see,
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: I want you to understand something. The news got out
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: some kind of way because this story got told because
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: somebody knows he was your professor at school. I met
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: him when I was a grad school and we started
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: dating after I got my degree. He was going through
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: a divorce and we kept our relationship private until it
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: was finalized. He has a seventeen year old daughter that
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: found out on social media and she started a lot
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: of chaos in our lives. Well, the daughter found out
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: what on social media that you all were dating or
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: you all had gotten married. I think she found out
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: y'all was dating, so quite naturally, her and the mother
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: are now blaming you as the cause of the divorce.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: That's how it always works, ain't it. Yes, So now
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: after they found out on social media, she started a
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: lot of chaos in our lives. She didn't show up
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: at our wedding, and it devastated my husband. He was
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: upset that his ex wife allowed her to skip the wedding.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: You mean his ex wife didn't make her go to
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: the wed His ex wife wasn't now, so the ex
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: wife didn't make the daughter go to the wedding. What
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: you mean allow her to skip it. She's seventeen. She
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: didn't want to go down there because she figured you
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: the reason her mom and daddy ain't together. And her
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: mama then co signed that, because as soon as you
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: started dating somebody, they're going, oh here she is right here,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: You the reason, and you was dating, and you younger
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: and you young Hang on, Steve, Part two of your
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  Speaker 1: responses coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject fight or Flight will get back
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  Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening show, all right,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter the subject
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  Speaker 1: fight or Flight. Thirty ye old flight attendant is married
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  Speaker 1: to a forty four year old professor. She met the
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  Speaker 1: professor in grad school and they started dating after she
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  Speaker 1: got the degree. That's what she says. He was going
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  Speaker 1: through a divorce and we kept our relationship private until
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  Speaker 1: it was finalized. He got a seventeen year old daughter
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  Speaker 1: that found out on social media and she started a
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  Speaker 1: lot of chaos in her life. She was seventeen then, right, well,
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  Speaker 1: now listen to this. She didn't show up at our wedding,
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  Speaker 1: and it devastated my hut because he was upset that
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  Speaker 1: his ex wife allowed her to skip the wed Now,
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  Speaker 1: his ex wife didn't make her go down there because
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  Speaker 1: the ex wife and the daughter then came to the
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  Speaker 1: conclusion that this young girl you married is the reason
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  Speaker 1: why y'all got the divorce anyway, And that's exactly how
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  Speaker 1: it looked. And then when they found out about y'all's
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  Speaker 1: relationship on social media, that validated because it was only
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  Speaker 1: telling one's story. Then you said, I was overheard by
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  Speaker 1: that time, so I didn't care. So now you didn't
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  Speaker 1: care if she come to the wind because you overheard
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  Speaker 1: by that time. It was a year of chaos and
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  Speaker 1: you was through with your girl. Now she's about to
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  Speaker 1: turn eighteen. Oh so it wasn't even a whole year,
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  Speaker 1: because now you say it was about to turn into
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  Speaker 1: you see how fast this is moving. But you left
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  Speaker 1: that out the letter. Baby, Maybe we left that. After
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  Speaker 1: she finds out, then next thing she know, y'all getting
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  Speaker 1: married and there's a fourteen year age difference. And you
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  Speaker 1: were his student while he was a professor, and y'all
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  Speaker 1: were seeing each other while they still were married and
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  Speaker 1: not getting boys because y'all kept it a See see
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  Speaker 1: how this worked. You see how this works? Now she
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  Speaker 1: want to come live with y'all in Florida and attend
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  Speaker 1: the fashion school. I never answered my husband. He eventually
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  Speaker 1: flipped out on me and made an executive decision to
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  Speaker 1: allow her to come. It's his daughter. She want to
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  Speaker 1: come down and stay with her daddy, go to fashion school.
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  Speaker 1: What you want him to say, except yes, I fixed
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  Speaker 1: up our home office for her. I moved my desk
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  Speaker 1: into our s port. I was so irritated you did
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  Speaker 1: all this begrudgingly. She has been there four months and
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  Speaker 1: she's done exactly what I knew. She was gonna do.
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  Speaker 1: Now she's got an attitude. Now when she's got a
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: n attitude, I leave and go to work. See you're
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  Speaker 1: not explaining this. You're not explaining She did exactly what
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  Speaker 1: you want. You don't give us no information. I take
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  Speaker 1: a flight whenever available, anything to get away from this girl.
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  Speaker 1: My husband, I argue because he says I'm not a
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  Speaker 1: positive role model for her. She's a grown woman. To me,
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  Speaker 1: Shirley's right, she's not a grown woman. She's eighteen. She's
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  Speaker 1: just not turning eighteen. She's a child. She don't get it. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you're an a dog. You know what happened? You know
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  Speaker 1: why this girl mad. She's got parents that failed her
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  Speaker 1: and allowed her to disrespect grown people. Wait a minute,
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  Speaker 1: respect on social media? You dating her daddy, that's divorcing
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: her mama? Wow they still married that You kept it
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  Speaker 1: a secret. That's what you said. Respect. See you want
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  Speaker 1: something you wasn't willing to give. See, little sister, that's
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  Speaker 1: how this game work now, just a growing folk game.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just giving it to you straight, I told my husband.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: And she pops off at the mouth one more time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna pop up and then and then what because
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: she talking that you're gonna hit her in the mouth,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: so you're gonna resort to violence. Carroll Parroll stopped. He says,
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  Speaker 1: I need to learn how to be a parent. I
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  Speaker 1: told him as soon as I will, as soon as
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  Speaker 1: he makes me one. Wait a minute, excuse me, Pard Parry.
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  Speaker 1: You're twelve years older than this girl. Yet best you
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  Speaker 1: can be her big sister, But parent she has too
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: parroent you not, she's nothing to call you mama. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: none of this is fitting to work. I'm gonna have
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: a suggestion for you to say. I told him, as
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  Speaker 1: soon as he makes me well, I would rather work
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: and deal with a playful the needy passengers instead of
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: dealing with a grown child. You keep saying grown. But
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: she a child, She's not grown. My husband told me
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: that my fighter fighter flight mentality is ruining us. He
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  Speaker 1: can't see that his child is devisive and honoring. Am
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: I wrong? Or does he need to put her out?
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: First of all, he can't put his daughter out. Were
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: you asking a man to not be a man. You're
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: asking a father to not be a father. You're asking
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  Speaker 1: a man to show his daughter an example of man
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  Speaker 1: that he's hoping that one day she would be able
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  Speaker 1: to find put her out? Are you kidding me? She's
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: the worst? And you for asking that, what's wrong with
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: your maturity level? No, he can't ask his daughter to leave,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: and no he can't put her out. I'm gonna tell
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: you right here, y'all. You never failed to mention in
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  Speaker 1: this letter that you all have ever had to sit
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: down to discuss this, to work through it, because you
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  Speaker 1: know what your corner decided. You don't like her. You
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: were through both. She came to your house and now
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: you're reaping what you sow. You remember how you got
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: your man? Definitely right? All right, Steve, thank you. Please
• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: it is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: what you got? Well, the biggest sports store that's going on.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: It's Tommy Cleveland, Brown's quarterback to Seann Watson has been
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  Speaker 1: suspended for six games after over twenty women accused him
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: of being sexually inappropriate with him. The ruler was handed
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  Speaker 1: down on Monday and stated that Watson did violate the
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  Speaker 1: NFL's personal conduct possibly. Both the NFL and the NFL
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  Speaker 1: Players Association will have the opportunity to appeal watch the suspension,
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: but the players Association said they will not. They will
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: not appeal it. Un do you think six games it's
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: too late? How was the suspension? Be he mad about
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: the six? Well, I don't think the six is too light.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why because I know for
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  Speaker 1: a fact that this lawyer, it was hired to bring
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: down Deshaun Watson by the owner of the Texas who
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: he lives right next door to. After Deshaun Watson said
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: he didn't want to play. Noway, did he sexually assault anybody?
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: Not according to any of the charges and not according
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: to any of the evidence, and nobody's saying he But
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: he did inappropriate behavior that I would agree to. So
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: no violent But in your window, Hey you wanna hold me,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: you want to touch me? You know how many people
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: have done that? Yeah? Now, but that is a violation
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: of the NFL policy because it makes the shield look bad.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: But two grand juries file nothing, no charge, wadges of
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: any kind, and then the key women said they wasn't
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: testifying to that. For whatever the reason, it's over. As
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  Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. If he has a punishment to take,
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  Speaker 1: it's a sick game suspension, that's what it is. Let
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: me tell y'all something. If they could do more to
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: this man, they would, They would have done a point.
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  Speaker 1: If they had more to do, they would, but they
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: knew they had to do something. So you know, as
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: far as I see, it's do we need a statement
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: from him, then say nothing. You don't need to say nothing.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: You got to sex game suspension. Don't mouth man. He's
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: been making statements all along. You know, some believe that
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: the NFL has failed women again with the six game suspension.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: A lot of female journalists are writing that and they're
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: saying that the NFL has once again, you know, just
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: gave him a slap on the wrist with the well
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: fail had hired an outside judge to handle this, a
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: female to do whatever the judge wanted to do. So
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: it was from an outside council. Everybody agreed to this,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: but you know, we're in the council culture, so everybody, now,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: this whole man career got to be gone. Man, all right,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: we see what keep you posted on this story? Junior,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: here's a question, what's the weirdest place you've ever had
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: SCS sex? Sex? Right after this, you're listening to show.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: A military museum in Poland is becoming popular, but popular
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: for the wrong reason. Visitors go there to have sex
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: behind the exhibition. The museum upgrade at their entire camera
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: system and found that for some odd reason, people love
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: having sex behind the o work. So now there is signage.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, Now there is signage up asking visitors to
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: stop having sex on the property. And what do you
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: think it is that gets them so turned on? In
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: a military museum? And what is that about? That's a
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: pretty weird place to have sex. Uniform? Why you gotta
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: put us I'm saying, don't you because it's it's out
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: of hand, it's just too much. It's popular. But is
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: it something about a military museum that turns people on? No,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: I like my house myself. Yeah, I know where everything
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: at m you know? But what okay, so can we
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: can we ask you? Yeah? What is go ahead? Can
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: we ask? Can we ask y'all? That's all we can,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: we ask you can, we ask you can We have comedians.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: That's why, y'all all the real people question. What is
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: the weirdest place? Yes, what is the weirdest place? You've
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: ever done it? Huh? I mean I do. But that's
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: just take it too long. He's taking too long. We'll
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: save We'll save Steve for last. What you Oh yeah,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: I check in the hood in the back room with
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: roaches everywhere. Oh god, did nobody move? They just look
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: at you an tennis baby. Roaches. I'll tell Rose what
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: am I doing? It? Him? But was it good? Though? No,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: not nothing. I got to go all right, nephew, come on,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: we're saving Steve for last. The yard line Texas A
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  Speaker 1: and r there babyever on to the game again on
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: the turf, baby again. Sneak out, Kyle, feel all right,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: mister Harbor, you're up, go eggs beach under the bleaches.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: This is too much. List at an ice skating rink.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: One that's ice skating rink with ice skates on. No, no, no, ladies.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: Coach down on the ice and putting my foot up
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: against the board and pushed off and slip across the ice.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: But once I slid out there. It was messed up
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: trying to get backwards all Manuka crack through the bond,
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: the barn, the barn, the bond. Why do you have
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: you in the country? You you live in the country
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: and you don't have sex in the barn where you
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: been having it? Ain't a hotel. Ain't no hotels in
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: the country. The bond is the hotel this, Hay. But
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: let's take something about that. Hay, though, you really need
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: a blanket with that, Hay straight, Hay straight, Yeah, I
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: made that mistake. That ain't good. You think that sand
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: is rough? Ral is hal It's been a long run
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, I'm purely housed. Now house the hotel
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: any more. Out They got cameras everywhere now elevated party.
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  Speaker 1: Wait what restauranright, come ahead, thank you guys. This can
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  Speaker 1: go on and on. Sounds like coming up in twenty
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Seave
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to show,
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: all right? So, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt's daughter, Zahara
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: Jolie Pitt will be a freshman at where Spellman College
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: in Atlanta this fall. Over the weekend, Angelina Jolie congratulated
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: Zahara and the rest of her new class of Spellman
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: Nights on Instagram, and then in another post, Angelina is
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: trying to learn how to do the electric slide at
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: the spell House send off party in La. She did,
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: she did, she did. U congratulations to the horror which
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: one didn't know how to do the electric fly Angelina Jolie, Oh, yeah, that,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: but but at least she tried. You know, her daughter's
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: going there, so you know she Yeah, that ain't a
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: hard day to learn. If you struggle, not pretty much.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: You can give up on the dug in the name name. Yeah,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: you do all that, just go. You can't do electric slide.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: My uncle could do the electric slide. And here middle
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: sheet ready struggled with the cup of shuffle and slide
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: all of that. But congratulations HBC. You Yeah. I remember
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: when she was a little girl and everybody was talking
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: about the fact that they had adopted this black baby,
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: you know that because they were one of the first
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: ones to do it. And now she's college age. Yeah, yep.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour we'll play around.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: I would you rather right after this you're listening to show?
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: It is time? Guys. Would you rather take five toddlers
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: to the beach or would you rather take them to
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: six slags beach? Beach? The beach? Yeah, yeah, not to
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: ride off than people. No, all them games and different
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: food boosts. No bathroom. No, we're all going the bathroom
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: at the same time. Let's walk out in the water, baby,
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: let's walk on back. Don't worry about it. Now, we're
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: gonna take them five dollars to the beach, the float on,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: come on, come on for to go to this park though,
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: whole hands. Watch people, which would you rather wear a
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: linen suit without underwear or would you rather wear dress suits,
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: dress shoes with tube socks? Lenen suits, no underwear, dress shoes,
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: tube socks. Give me the linen suit, linen and no draws.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: Man to put you damn tube socks on you? Right?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Why lenen? Uh huh lenen? Yeah? It gets ripple fast.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: Ain't thick enough, ain't enough support you know? Hell all right?
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: Would you rather your face turns red fire red when
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: you're aroused or would you rather your eyes blink real
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: fast when you're a mine, blink fast anyway immediately when
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: I'm a ride. You think I'm trying to give you
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: a signal? Yeah? What about you, Junior? Yeah, I'm gonna
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: go with blink real fast. I don't want to be real.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: I can't. It's hard to get rid of my code.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: I can't. Steve, I just gonna take the red face.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be significant. Everyone don't know. You don't
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: think I got to ride? All right? All right? Would
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: you rather make love for hours? Make love for hours
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: once a week or a quickie twice a week? Make
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: love for hours just once a week, or have a
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: quickie two times a week? Yeah? Come on, You're not
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: a robot. I do that one hour once a week? Yeah? Yeah,
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: some pressure, Yeah, you can do moves, you try things,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: you know you you know you take a drink, you
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? Give some water for hours? Two
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: quirkies now him? All right, we gotta go. That's today's
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  Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Coming up next at forty
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  Speaker 1: nine minutes after it's our last break of the day,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: and we'll have some closing remarks from the one and
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening show, all right,
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: here we are guys, our last break of the day,
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: and Steve, before we get to your closing remarks, we
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: want to send our prayers out to the many, many
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: families that have been affected by the severe weather and
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: the flash flooding going on in Kentucky. Kentucky Governor Andy
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: Basher has established the Team Eastern Kentucky Flood Relief Fund
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: to assist those impacted by all the flooding. Older nations
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: are tax deductible. You can visit ky dot gov. That's
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  Speaker 1: ky dot gov to help out the residence of Kentucky
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: that we're in acted by the flooding. Prayers going up
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: for sure. Well all in closing, I'd like to remind
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: people as kind of something we had kind of touched
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: on in the opening of the show, Junior said that
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: he heard a quote. Junior, do you remember what the
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: quote was that you said, Yes, sir. It says, if
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: you think the cost of success is high, wait till
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: you get the bill from regret. One more time, if
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: you think the cost of success is high, wait until
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: you get the bill from Regret. We had talked about
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: this this morning. If you think the cost of success
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: is high, wait till you get the bill for regret.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: I've been in that decision before. And everyone gets to
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: those moments in life where you have to turn right
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  Speaker 1: or you turn and left. And I'm not saying turn
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  Speaker 1: right as in the right way or left is the
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  Speaker 1: wrong way. I'm just saying everybody gets to a cross
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  Speaker 1: road in life where you have to go this way
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  Speaker 1: or that way. What I found in life is that
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  Speaker 1: the way that you should go is always the harder.
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  Speaker 1: The harder route it usually always is. It looks the
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  Speaker 1: least amount of fun. It doesn't show right away what
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  Speaker 1: all the upside is. It just looks hard. Then that's
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  Speaker 1: an easy way you could take. You can strike out
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  Speaker 1: and set your boundaries as difficult and high and hard,
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  Speaker 1: or you can take the easier route and go I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna do nothing. I ain't doing that today. That
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  Speaker 1: just looked too hard. I've made the decision before in
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  Speaker 1: my life not to take the hard way and boil, boil, boiled, boy,
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  Speaker 1: I had nothing but regret. So what I've learned in
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  Speaker 1: my travel and in my life experiences, it is I
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  Speaker 1: now understand that success is a process, and it is
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  Speaker 1: a difficult process. It is simply hard. But that's my
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  Speaker 1: only decision from here on out. And I've been making
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  Speaker 1: those decisions since I was nearly forty. I don't take
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  Speaker 1: no easy way. I expect it to be difficult. I
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  Speaker 1: expected to be challenging. I know that it's gonna be hard.
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  Speaker 1: I know it's gonna be froth with disappointment. I know
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  Speaker 1: it's going to be most challenging. But I also know
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be very, very rewarding. But I will not
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  Speaker 1: do It's take the nothing route, the easy route, the
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  Speaker 1: settle forward route that I ain't gonna do this because
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  Speaker 1: this right here, man, I just ain't doing that today.
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  Speaker 1: Because buddy, let me tell you something, when you get
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  Speaker 1: that bill for regret, when you look back on what
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  Speaker 1: it should have could have man if I only had
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  Speaker 1: went on and faced it, that's a hard when to
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  Speaker 1: live with. Man, that's a life of regret. And all
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  Speaker 1: of us know somebody somewhere who is living in a
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  Speaker 1: life of regret and man quitting. Quitting is the biggest
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  Speaker 1: sponsor of regret because when you quit, you never know
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  Speaker 1: what the end could have been. See. Often the struggler
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  Speaker 1: has given up when he might have captured the victor's cup,
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  Speaker 1: and he learns too late, when the night came down,
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  Speaker 1: how close he was to the golden crown. See that
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  Speaker 1: standsa in that poem, don't quit. It's a very effective one.
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  Speaker 1: Often the struggler has given up when he might have
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  Speaker 1: captured the victor's cup, and he learns too late, when
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  Speaker 1: the night came down, how close he was to the
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  Speaker 1: golden crown. That's regret, man, when you give up, just
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  Speaker 1: in the nick of time, Because giving up assoes you
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  Speaker 1: one thing, and one thing only, that you will not win,
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  Speaker 1: that there is no way you can see victory. That's
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  Speaker 1: what giving up guarantees. Now, I ain't no guarantee if
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  Speaker 1: you stay with it, but the possibility remains that you
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  Speaker 1: will succeed and you will become a victor. But see
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  Speaker 1: so to those of you that look at things so
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  Speaker 1: wrong all the time. Yeah, but see Steve, you just said,
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  Speaker 1: even if you stick with it, it ain't no guarantee.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't no guarantees in life. But if you stick with it,
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  Speaker 1: the possibility remains. Why would you destroy the possibility? Why
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  Speaker 1: would you remove all hope? That don't make no sense
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  Speaker 1: to me. And even if you fail, if you're going
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  Speaker 1: a little bit further up the road, you get a
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  Speaker 1: little bit more experienced, you get a little bit more learning,
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  Speaker 1: you get a little bit more knowledge, so the next
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  Speaker 1: time that may be the experience and the knowledge you
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  Speaker 1: need to win. Don't ever give up, don't ever quit,
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  Speaker 1: don't ever succumb to regret. Stay with it. You never
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  Speaker 1: know when God is gonna flip the switch, and he
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  Speaker 1: ain't never been too late. Those are my closing remarks. Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: do yourself a favor. Talk to God today. He would
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  Speaker 1: absolutely love to hear from you. And it don't matter
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  Speaker 1: if you ain't talk to him in a while. He's
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  Speaker 1: a forgiving God. He's forgiving me thousands of times. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna probably use up a few hundred more for our
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  Speaker 1: leader world. I'm gonna try to cut it down to
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  Speaker 1: just a few hundred and not do the thousands. After
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