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Green Eyes and Herschel, Child Support B4 Birth, MLB All Star Game, Sesame Street Place Trouble and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a giving them like the million
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  Speaker 1: buck things in the stubbing me through. Good together, Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo turning you you gotta turn to
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  Speaker 1: turn them out. Turn you haven't got the turnout? Then
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  Speaker 1: turn the water the water got come come on your thing?
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh. I shall will a good morning everybody. You're
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  Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one
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  Speaker 1: and all is Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: today is simple. I want to tell you. I want
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  Speaker 1: to just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people
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  Speaker 1: use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out
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  Speaker 1: about trying is trying is just a noble way of
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  Speaker 1: saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and
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  Speaker 1: then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's that's not exactly true though, that that's that's
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  Speaker 1: not exactly true, you all. And I want to talk
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  Speaker 1: to you about that because I don't want you to
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  Speaker 1: be one of the people who just tried. See trying.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something, You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have to first try, But I want you to
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  Speaker 1: change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See,
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  Speaker 1: that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen
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  Speaker 1: to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it
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  Speaker 1: allows you to fail. It's the person that has the
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  Speaker 1: mindset that I'm gonna get it done is the person
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  Speaker 1: who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done.
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  Speaker 1: It's very different than I'm gonna try. You know, Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know this sounds a little harsh, but
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  Speaker 1: you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings
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  Speaker 1: that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man, you
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  Speaker 1: talk to anybody that took second place in the super
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  Speaker 1: Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try.
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  Speaker 1: The only way to gain God's real blessings is you
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  Speaker 1: have to try something. Stevie backpedaling. Now, listen to me close.
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  Speaker 1: You have to put forth an effort to allow God
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  Speaker 1: to put his finger on something to bless on your behalf.
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  Speaker 1: You must start to attempt, now, insane getting it done,
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  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna try. That's a different of two different
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  Speaker 1: faiths to me that I'm just talking about me. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you may be different, so I can't. I can't say
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  Speaker 1: this about you, but I can't say this about me.
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  Speaker 1: If I say I'm gonna get it done, I have
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  Speaker 1: a lot of faith in it. I am going to
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  Speaker 1: get it done because I just don't see failure as
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  Speaker 1: an option. A lot of times now if somebody says
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  Speaker 1: to me, like the Olympic team invited me out to
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  Speaker 1: curl one day, which is throw these stones on the ice.
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  Speaker 1: If you're not familiar with it's very simple, and so
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  Speaker 1: I said, man, I'd like to give that a try.
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  Speaker 1: I went in full well knowing I may not come
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  Speaker 1: away from this little curling lesson as a person who
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  Speaker 1: could make the Olympic team. I just wanted to try
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  Speaker 1: it because I thought it looked cool and always wanted
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  Speaker 1: to get it done. Well. I failed twice. I threw
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  Speaker 1: a stone completely into the other lane. I lost that
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  Speaker 1: little ice shoe it shot out under me. But you
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  Speaker 1: know what, I kept trying though. I kept trying until
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  Speaker 1: I got four of them stones in that circle right
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  Speaker 1: where I ain't But now had I give it up
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  Speaker 1: after I failed, after I threw that stone in the
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  Speaker 1: other lane after I shot my shoe down all the
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  Speaker 1: way to the bottom side, the little ice shoe they
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  Speaker 1: give you. I never would did it, But because I
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  Speaker 1: was trying. Something got me together a little bit because
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  Speaker 1: of my effort, and it caused me not to fall
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  Speaker 1: the next time, not to throw it into other lane,
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  Speaker 1: not to shoot my shoe to the back of the wall.
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  Speaker 1: All of a sudden, my trying became something. Now had
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  Speaker 1: I stayed out there and it wasn't so cold, and
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  Speaker 1: I went back week after week after week after week,
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  Speaker 1: I promise you I could get it done. I could
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  Speaker 1: at least know how to compete in a game of curling.
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  Speaker 1: Might not be the best. I might not win the championship,
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  Speaker 1: but I could have got it done to the point
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  Speaker 1: where I could have competed in the game of curling.
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  Speaker 1: So sometimes if you're scared to say I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: it done, just go out there and get started. You know,
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  Speaker 1: learn from every attempt that you make. See, don't quit
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  Speaker 1: writing yourself off as a failure every time time something
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  Speaker 1: don't go right. And when I failed on that ice,
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  Speaker 1: I could have said, man, I can't curl, but hold up, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm watching four other women out here curl for other dudes.
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  Speaker 1: Out hit curling, little kids, out hit curling. Hold up, Pardner,
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  Speaker 1: You know, man, So I learned when I threw that
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  Speaker 1: stone on the other ice, when I when I fail,
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  Speaker 1: when when my shoe shot off, I learned from every
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  Speaker 1: attempt a little bit more about it. And then I
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  Speaker 1: said to myself at one point time, man, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get this stone in that circle. I'm gonna get this
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  Speaker 1: stone in this circle. And guess what I got it done.
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  Speaker 1: Now what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to
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  Speaker 1: you that you gotta get started, that you gotta put
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  Speaker 1: forth an effort. Give God something to bless. Oh God,
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  Speaker 1: bless me, Oh God, bless me. Bless you? What? Bless you? Where?
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  Speaker 1: Bless you? How? Stop basing your results on what you're thinking.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta think higher. You get God in your life, man,
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  Speaker 1: He allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sitting up in my debt. I came up with a
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  Speaker 1: plan to get out of debt in five years. I
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  Speaker 1: came up with this plan right, I was sitting up
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  Speaker 1: and I was tripping on it. Now, I said, wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute, man, hold up. This is what I came
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  Speaker 1: up with. I said, God created heaven and earth, all
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  Speaker 1: of it, the mountains, the sky, the valleys, the oceans, trees,
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  Speaker 1: the birds, the Indian Ocean, all of it, made all
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  Speaker 1: of it in six days, and then he rested on
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  Speaker 1: the seven. So why am I taking to God the
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  Speaker 1: five year plan? If he can create heaven and Earth
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  Speaker 1: in six days, why am I walking in there talking
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  Speaker 1: about helped me in five years? How is it gonna
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  Speaker 1: take God five years to getting me out of debt?
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  Speaker 1: And he made heaven and Earth in six days? Dude,
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  Speaker 1: the math hill man, I ain't that big. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: that big. You ain't in that much trouble. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: in that much trouble. See, God got a way of
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  Speaker 1: showing you some things, man, but it's gonna take some faith,
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  Speaker 1: and faith gonna take some effort on your part. Man,
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  Speaker 1: get out and do something. Man, you God will bless
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  Speaker 1: you a little bit and he give you a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more courage. And then all them attempts you making
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  Speaker 1: is gonna and all that. So I'll try you know
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  Speaker 1: what that turn into. I'm gonna get it done. And
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  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, that's what you have
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  Speaker 1: to do because trying to pay your rent and not
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  Speaker 1: paying your rent, it's two different things. You can try
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  Speaker 1: to play or pay your rent, or you can get
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  Speaker 1: it done. Now, how long you think you're gonna stay
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  Speaker 1: in that house trying? You got to go with the
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  Speaker 1: mindset of getting it done. And if you can put
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  Speaker 1: some stuff out there and give God a chance to
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  Speaker 1: put his finger on it and bless it for you
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  Speaker 1: the most stuff he can do for you, quit looking
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  Speaker 1: around what everybody else got and gonna get some of
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  Speaker 1: it for yourself. Okay, all right, you're listening show, ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, let's be about it. Let's get with it.
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  Speaker 1: Come on now, it's time to get it. Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Marley shows us what we're talking about now. So here's
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  Speaker 1: a deal. Let me make it perfectly clear. Gratitude. If
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  Speaker 1: you start your day with gratitude, there is no better
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  Speaker 1: way than to say thank you. Once you introduce gratitude,
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  Speaker 1: you have now affected your mental attitude. And Lord Hammers,
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  Speaker 1: once your attitude is right it, it's in direct correlation
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  Speaker 1: to your altitude. You get them tudes lined up. Boy,
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  Speaker 1: you can be something. You better believe that, Sirley Strawberry
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  Speaker 1: believes that Colin for real knows that the mouth at
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  Speaker 1: a soft knows that Junior knows that the legend that
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  Speaker 1: is Nephew Tommy in the all darkness knows that, and
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  Speaker 1: it is do I, junior man. Because you talk about
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  Speaker 1: wanting something out of life, man, it's stout sacrificing and
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  Speaker 1: discipline to get to where you want to go. Is
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  Speaker 1: that it don't go hand in hand. Well, Sacrifice and
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  Speaker 1: discipline is different, and a lot of people get them confused,
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  Speaker 1: and they think if they're sacrificing, that they're being disciplined,
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  Speaker 1: and some people think if they're being disciplined, they're sacrificing.
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  Speaker 1: It's not the case. It's two separate requirements. Bishop Jakes
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  Speaker 1: was talking one day and he said that when you
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  Speaker 1: dream and aspire to something, and you look up at
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  Speaker 1: your dreams and aspirations, you're looking through a glass ceiling,
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  Speaker 1: and in order to get to those dreams and aspirations,
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  Speaker 1: you will have to break through the glass ceiling. In
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  Speaker 1: breaking through glass, there's going to be some cuts, and
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  Speaker 1: there's going to be bloodshed, and the blood that you're
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  Speaker 1: shedding is usually something that you care about. That is sacrifice.
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  Speaker 1: Discipline is doing what you have to do even when
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to. Man and understanding discipline, it's a
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  Speaker 1: hard lesson to teach your children about discipline. Discipline is
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  Speaker 1: doing what you have to do even when you don't
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  Speaker 1: want to. How many people are listening to this shoulders
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  Speaker 1: one getting ready to go to a job that you
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  Speaker 1: may not really want to, but guess what you know
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  Speaker 1: you have to. That's discipline. I don't want to get
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  Speaker 1: these kids ready for school and fix their lunch and
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  Speaker 1: all this here. I won't do that this morning, but
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  Speaker 1: I have to. That's discipline. Sacrifice is hard, man, because
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to give up something to get something else. See,
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  Speaker 1: people have a tendency to want to hold on to everything.
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  Speaker 1: But the ain't no room in the closed fist. There's
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  Speaker 1: only room in the open fist. And when you open
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  Speaker 1: it fish someone can get out. But that's the only
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  Speaker 1: way for mo to get in. And that's the decision.
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  Speaker 1: That's the glass ceiling that you got to bake breakthrough,
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  Speaker 1: and that's the cuts that you got to take, And
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  Speaker 1: that's the sacrifice you have to make. Lord him, Miss
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  Speaker 1: You've better ask this boy something like you like you
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  Speaker 1: sent it to me in a TEXTA something all right,
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  Speaker 1: God baby cutting me in this hill, life, boy, I
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  Speaker 1: nobody's hill. I ain't got to think about this year.
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  Speaker 1: That's the vibe right there, Steve. All right, coming up
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  Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour, the nephew is
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  Speaker 1: in the building. We can't see him, but he is here.
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  Speaker 1: We promise you he's here. Run that brank back with
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  Speaker 1: the nephew. It's coming up right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it it's time
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  Speaker 1: now to start your morning off with the nephew and
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  Speaker 1: run that frank back. What you got for his nap?
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  Speaker 1: Be light? This is what I let a candle burn
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  Speaker 1: one of my candles. You really thank you? Sex here
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  Speaker 1: you're about to burn your face. I got pretty damn closed.
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  Speaker 1: Yes you did something. He come across my eyebrow. You
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  Speaker 1: bury your hot brow. You're talking about a holly. I
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  Speaker 1: have to get it tattooed. What you got now? I
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  Speaker 1: got hot checks at the church, hot checks at the church.
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  Speaker 1: Cat dog, if you would hello, Hello, I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: reach a Monica system. Monica. Please, this is brother de Sean.
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  Speaker 1: I'm calling. Actually I'm a member Greater Commissionary Baptist Church.
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  Speaker 1: How can I help you? Calling you actually about the offering? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Did you I know you paid your ties Sunday? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Now you paid a love offering as well? Right, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I do? Okay, Now this past Sunday, I'm looking at
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  Speaker 1: a check that you left us with the bank, right, right,
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  Speaker 1: I sure did. I wrote a check Sunday. Okay. Now
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  Speaker 1: the check, ma'am was two hundred and fifty dollars? Am
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  Speaker 1: I correct? Right? Right? I wrote two checks for my
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  Speaker 1: ties and the love offering? Right? I wrote one for
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  Speaker 1: two fifty for the love offering? Okay? Now what is
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  Speaker 1: this call regarding? Why are you calling me? Well, what
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to tell you is that I hate to
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  Speaker 1: be a bar of bad news, but you your check
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  Speaker 1: that you wrote for two fifty actually has bounced. And
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute, you said my check bounce for two
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  Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars. Your check bounce. So what I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing is calling you about recouping the two fifty as
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  Speaker 1: well as you know you you cost us thirty dollars
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  Speaker 1: in bank fees. But wait a minute, now I wrote
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  Speaker 1: two checks. I wrote a check for one hundred dollars.
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  Speaker 1: Did that one bounce? I don't see to it that
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  Speaker 1: that that one bounced up. All I know is the
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  Speaker 1: one that the love offering has bounced. What did you
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  Speaker 1: put them in at the same time? Because I wrote
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  Speaker 1: him at the same time. They all go in on Monday, ma'am.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't put them in at the same time. I've
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  Speaker 1: been putting them in for the last two three years.
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  Speaker 1: The problem is why would people write that what is
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  Speaker 1: your name? M brother Deshaun? And at Sunday I was.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it matters. And when I was there, man,
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  Speaker 1: the problem is it that I didn't put these checks in.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks to
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  Speaker 1: the tracks none that they're gonna because a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people write that good well not bad checks. One clear?
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  Speaker 1: Why the other one didn't clear? Maybe you didn't have
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  Speaker 1: enough money for both of them to clear. What what
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  Speaker 1: did you just say? Maybe you didn't have enough money
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  Speaker 1: in the bank for both of them to clear. I
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  Speaker 1: don't understand why people write the planning money in the
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  Speaker 1: bank at all? My checks clear. I don't write no
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  Speaker 1: rubber checks. Well, you wrote one on Sunday, and that's
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  Speaker 1: the problem. How you gonna try to give a look
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  Speaker 1: you wait a minute. I think you got me confused
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  Speaker 1: with somebody else. I don't write no bad checks. You
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  Speaker 1: didn't wrote that to be nice to you. I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to be nice to you. Win up. Can we expect
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  Speaker 1: the two fifty plus the thirty dollars? So wears that's
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  Speaker 1: the bank feeds man for the doll gonna check bouncing.
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  Speaker 1: My check didn't bounce. I don't check my bank. And
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  Speaker 1: if my check clear, you're gonna pay me thirty dollars
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  Speaker 1: for calling me harassing me about a two hundred and
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  Speaker 1: fifty dollar check bounce. I don't write no Why would
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  Speaker 1: you write check? What you want to sit up in
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  Speaker 1: the church and write these big number checks when you
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  Speaker 1: know you ain't got it in the bank. What did
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  Speaker 1: you say? I said, why would you write these checks
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  Speaker 1: when the money ain't in? Now? Let me tell you
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  Speaker 1: it's one thing. I don't write no bad checks. And
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  Speaker 1: you got a lot nerds calling me telling me my
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  Speaker 1: check bounce. Yo check is the one that has bounced.
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  Speaker 1: And you tell you what you do since my check bounce,
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  Speaker 1: you paid them, since you got all the money, and
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  Speaker 1: don't call me with this again. Hello, don't you hang
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  Speaker 1: upon me no more? When don't we gonna get this
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  Speaker 1: two fifty and this thirty dollars? Somebody from the church
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  Speaker 1: toll my I wrote a bad check. I'll write no,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't write a bad check. I didn't write no
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  Speaker 1: bad yes, dat? Why are you calling me? Why the treasure?
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  Speaker 1: Don't call me at church as bis? I ain't never
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  Speaker 1: know the deacon called nobody about no bad check? You're
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  Speaker 1: Fullet thank you? You got the money I ain't got.
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  Speaker 1: Who in the hell is that in the background? Who
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  Speaker 1: is that? Ever? Mine? Who it is? We're both gonna
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  Speaker 1: to the same church, and you're gonna call me to
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  Speaker 1: my I wrote a bad checks? You don't you call
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  Speaker 1: me no more? And if the check bads, you paid? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Keep passed to know you talking like this? Do pass to?
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  Speaker 1: No you calling me? Can you ask for that? Look?
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  Speaker 1: When are we gonna get this two hundred and eighty dollars?
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  Speaker 1: Is what we're looking for from you? I wrote a
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  Speaker 1: check for two fifty and not get two eighty. You
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  Speaker 1: put the thirty dollars with it. You put two fifty
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  Speaker 1: in there. It bounced. Thirty dollars cost us on bake fees.
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  Speaker 1: That's two eighty. Where can the church expect the money?
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  Speaker 1: Never not no two eighty. You will never get to eighty.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna make me come by your and my checked in.
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  Speaker 1: But what did you say? I'm gonna do what. You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna make me come by your house and get this money?
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  Speaker 1: Bring it, bring it, bring you what is the address? Check? Check?
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  Speaker 1: I got it off the check. I bet you you'll
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  Speaker 1: be limping back and I'm watching you. You bet not
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  Speaker 1: be spending no money nowhere. You bet not spend nothing
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  Speaker 1: until I get this two fifty from plus thirty whatever
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  Speaker 1: I want to Okay, no, you you know what I am.
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  Speaker 1: And you don't call me no more with this because
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  Speaker 1: my check did not bounce. I don't see how one
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  Speaker 1: check went through and the other bounce. Let me say
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  Speaker 1: this to you, we cannot accept you back into the
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  Speaker 1: House of the Lord no more until you are not
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  Speaker 1: don't you come in the Sunday until we get coming
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  Speaker 1: up in the Sunday, And I'm gonna make sure I
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  Speaker 1: find your because you the person I want to see you.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm gonna call the pastor right
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  Speaker 1: now and asked him because I don't believe my check
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  Speaker 1: bounce you fully? What? Let me say this before you
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  Speaker 1: called pastor? I got no, I'm anna called pastor. No,
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  Speaker 1: you should have talked with pastor before you call me
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  Speaker 1: with this information. I got one more thing I need
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  Speaker 1: to say to you. Ain't got nothing to say to me.
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  Speaker 1: You don't upset me with this I'm talking about I
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next is the clo with the Chief Love
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  Speaker 1: question right after this. You're listening to the show coming
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour and entertainment news
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  Speaker 1: actor Terrence Howard's brilliant. Let me just say that he
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: claims to have invented hydrogen technology that could defend Uganda,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: and we'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. And
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: in other entertainment news, gospel music singer Kim Burrell as
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: apologized after facing backlash for her recent remarks at a church.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: We will talk about these stories, like I said at
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, But right now, it is
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: time to ask Lucia about Lucia's Live for the Hour
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  Speaker 1: and get ready for it, all right, if you're not ready,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: you are not ready for this one. It's time to
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  Speaker 1: ask the cello. Chief Love Officer with Steve Harvey is
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  Speaker 1: ready for your questions, Okay, Corey and Memphis writes, I
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: have a co worker that is having an affair on
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: her husband, and I let her use me as an
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: alibi since she's given her husband my phone number. He's
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: called to ask about me, not her. He wants to
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: get to know more about me. I enjoy our talks.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Since she doesn't want him, should I see what he
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: has to offer me? All right, obviously that's what you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do right now. Is she married Corey? No, Corey's
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like she didn't say she's not married.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: We're gonna assume she's not the person that wrote the letter. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: See I'm not married. Just noticed right here. Until they
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: get separated or divorced, they still married. So you got
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: to weigh out the fact that you want to be
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  Speaker 1: in that because that's what you're gonna be in. And
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: then if your friend find out, you already know what
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  Speaker 1: that's him to be, so he just got to weigh
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  Speaker 1: it out. You can be like, well, you gave him
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  Speaker 1: my phone number. Yeah, technically you shouldn't. But that ain't
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  Speaker 1: how we live. That ain't the world we live in.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: That's right, That's right, all right. Moving on to page
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: in Orlando, Paige says, my next door neighbors argue all night,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: and I beat on the wall the other night to
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  Speaker 1: get them to settle down. Their teenage daughter saw me
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  Speaker 1: in the hallway and she said that I hit her
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  Speaker 1: bedroom wall, and if I did it again, she beat mine.
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  Speaker 1: You know what should I tell her parents how she
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  Speaker 1: talked to me? Or should I just leave it alone? No,
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  Speaker 1: just leave it alone, because here's a problem. You live
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  Speaker 1: next door to a house full of ignorant people. Yea,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: the daughter is repeating stuff she's heard. The parents say,
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  Speaker 1: oh thanks, this is a volatile household. Leave it alone
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: because now they gonna turn that. Ain't gonna on you
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: for messing with their daughter. See, ignorant people, they spread it.
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  Speaker 1: They don't keep it in a container. Ignorant people, they
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: spread it all over the place. I would leave it alone,
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  Speaker 1: just hey, my bad. You know you don't want no trouble.
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  Speaker 1: You're just trying to sleep. That's not gonna stop them
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  Speaker 1: from argin. But they will turn that ain't gon on you,
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  Speaker 1: and then you live in there, gonna be really uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 1: Let it go. That little girl gonna end up somewhere else,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: just like her mom and daddy. So I'm just gonna
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  Speaker 1: leave it alone. We want all right. Moving on to
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  Speaker 1: Candice and Jover, I'm gonna just tell you about me though.
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  Speaker 1: Your little young ass ain't fitting to threaten me. That
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  Speaker 1: ain't wish. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna find out who ass
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  Speaker 1: you can but you ain't gonna believe the return on
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  Speaker 1: your investment. Oh you just the all on this one, girl. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we go, and in Dover says, I'm a forty eight
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  Speaker 1: year old grandmother of three boys. I love them so much,
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  Speaker 1: and I spoiled them to death. I already have their
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  Speaker 1: Christmas presents. And when my son found out, he admitted
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  Speaker 1: he was jealous. I had him when I was seventeen
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: years old and he didn't get spoiled like that. But
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: how can he be so jealous of his own boys?
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Because he's stupid, That's all. Next question, He's stupid. You
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  Speaker 1: didn't have it to give back? There, right, bif go
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  Speaker 1: through this with you boy, treating your sons well, doing stuff? Man,
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  Speaker 1: get out of here, go Come on, all right, this
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: is the last one, Steve, we spend some time with this. Yeah, okay,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: the teama and Jacksonville says, my boyfriend of two years
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: has turned into a wild man since I met him.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: He stopped shaving that very important area that I love
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  Speaker 1: to see bear and I tried to talk to him,
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  Speaker 1: uh into letting me shade him as a sexy experiment.
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  Speaker 1: But he didn't want any parts of that. He can't
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  Speaker 1: take a hint. So how do I get him to
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  Speaker 1: trim it up? Down there? Stop hitting, say it to
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  Speaker 1: stop it with it now? You ain't got to say it.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I don't like that. We ain't doing it no more.
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  Speaker 1: Hut him off, shut it off. Get away from me
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: with all that, I bet, I bet he could. I
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  Speaker 1: can't stand that. Get away from me? Oh what is that?
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: It's subound it, it's soubounded you. You got too much
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: lit on you, little star, ain't bad. You just gotta say,
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  Speaker 1: you know tie you got? You ever dried off with
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  Speaker 1: a new tie, h and all the fuzz beyond you.
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  Speaker 1: You don't really know what the hell happening at first?
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  Speaker 1: Does she just ever say what it is? Or just
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: do you know? We're talking about this time for a
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: second hand, I minded me of a story wild but
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I was back in my wilder days. We have time.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: I went over this girl's house and she had these
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: new ties and drying off and everything, and I started
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  Speaker 1: finding all these fuzz balls on me, and I couldn't understand,
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  Speaker 1: and I fought, this is what I thought I had
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  Speaker 1: been somewhere else, huh before I came over there, and
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  Speaker 1: I ain't want her to see what I had on me.
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  Speaker 1: So was she came a new bathroom, I was moving
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  Speaker 1: and I had all this gold and ten fuzzballs all
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  Speaker 1: over me, and she said, oh my god, what is
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  Speaker 1: that on you? And I hadn't prepared to lie yet.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: She just walked in the barrooms. You know, I'm gonna
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: lie because I didn't know what it was either, and
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: so I said, uh, oh, oh my god, my exemo.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you hadn't. This is in my younger day,
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: so I didn't really know. She said, yo, exam, she
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: said food. That's the lit off them ties. I got
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: new ties the other day. When I knew you was
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  Speaker 1: coming over here, and she didn't watch. I just fell
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  Speaker 1: to my knees and said, Jesus, your good, no Mash,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't waste are all right? Thank you? Rookie. All right,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening,
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  Speaker 1: all right. So Terrence Howard says that he's invented a
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: new hydrogen technology for Uganda and that it can clean
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  Speaker 1: the ocean. Last week, while meeting with the President of Uganda,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Terrence said his new system. Take a listen. You know,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I was born Terrence de Sean Howard. I've become an actor.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: You know. I've been nominated for Oscars and Golden Globes
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: and and SAG Awards, But those weren't the things that
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: really moved me as a child. I studied chemical engineering
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: at Pratt Institute. Was there for two years until I
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: saw that there was an inconsistency with the math there,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: and so I went out to explore a new way
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: of understanding how the universe work. And I was able
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: to define the grand unified field equation they've been looking
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: for and put it into geometry. And then with that geometry,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I was able to put props on that. And what
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I'm saying is now we have invented a new form
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: of flight that I would like to bring here to Uganda,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: to replace the drones, to replace the helicopters, to replace
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: the planes. We've already we have all the funding necessary.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: What we need is just a fertile ground in which
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: to build this down. This is the geometry of hydrogen.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Who what what? Right? It wasn't too deep for you guys,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: it turns into defense of the nation. Yeah, you can
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: make a hydrogen bomb with this. He goes into this
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: deepness man, and like, no, look, man, I'm not a
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: science guy at all, but what I do have the
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: ability to do is listen and at least put together
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: the story. This boy is on the rant. Not what
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: you need to see is the video or the black
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: dude behind that's obviously scientists of some kind. Because that dude, like, yeah,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: was in the video and the African with you. He
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: was like, I mean, you man, you know how you
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: know how you see somebody looking at something and really
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: be trying to listen. You can tell they listen because
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: they're kind of like, you know, they can't. Their mouth
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: come out a little bit and they turn their ear
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: towards you. And Terence as an actor, and he sounded great.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you didn't know he wrote off all
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: that ain't what burns him. Maybe he loves I Part two?
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: He thought he built a man? Is that? Terrence Howard
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: also announced his goal to raise money for information, communications
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: and entertainment industries. So he's here's the thing that he
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: threw me with. He said, we have the funding, we
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: just need a fertile ground dog. Listen to me, man,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: anybody man will let you come if you got that,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: if you got an intervention that can do something that's
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: never been done before, and you got the funding. You
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: know how many people give you somewhere to work that out?
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Away over to your gun and told the people man
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: a man like they ain't heard the pimp game before,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: talking to do something for me. Yeah, if it's possible,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: can you set it up with Terrence how oh can
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: talk to herschel Walker and we just sit back and
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: just listen to that. Hey, man, I think ladies and
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: gentlemen coming up on our next break, Terrence Howard and
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: herschel Walker will be answering questions from the press. Carla
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Sherley and Junior will be the press. I'm assuming, Tommy,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: who do you want to be herschel? I got to
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: be herschel I'm gonna be Tarres Howard. Ladies and general,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: we're going to hear from Harry from Terence Howard and
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: herschel Walker together today on The Steve Harvey Morning Show,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: first time, first time ever, huh and other entertainment news.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Gospel singer Kim Burrell has issued a public apology on
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Instagram after a video of her went viral on social media.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Take a listen, gotta choose up, find you some value.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: You know, sometimes before we get friends, we have to
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: do an interview. How long have you been broke? How
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: many times have you changed your name on your light bill?
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: How many of your bills and your little cousin's name?
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Do you live in a trailer home or a house?
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: You know, you understand, And it's not about status and
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: material things. It's just about choices. You know. Life is
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: different now, and you know we are church. Thank God
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: we're here. Those of us are walking my faith without
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: a mask and no vaccine, and so we're honor the Lord.
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  Speaker 1: God is good. I respect all of the men of
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: God ear and respect you in your collapse. I don't
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  Speaker 1: feel strange right about now. Hopefully we'll give a chance
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: to meet each other when y'all invite me to come
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: to your church. I'm not as expensive as I seen,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: and so I don't know. Maybe you got a little
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: left over from your VPP load prayer, praise and power
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: you understan ain't mad? Ain't that wrong with that? She's
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: just joking. No, you know, I just think you know
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I think it's her attempt at humor. Right, and you know,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: church folk could be the most sensitive people. They got
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: mad about the money issue, that's all it was. They
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: wasn't mad about the vaccine or the mask. They wasn't
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: mad about the pp loans. You. They was mad because
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: she said you got to choose up. Because when you
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: tell the pope person you want to choose, they think
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: you talking about them. Yeah, she did apologize. By the way,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: she shouldn't have jokes. It was just jokes. It was
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: yeah that it wasn't. Yeah, I don't I don't like
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: broke ass friends. Now I'm not apologizing. I'm supporting Kim Burrell.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes, get a bunch
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: of friends and see if your ass don't end up broke.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the man. All right,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, herschel Walker
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: and Terrence Howard will be our special guests right after this.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show? All right? As promised, ladies and gentlemen,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: we have two special guests with us today here on
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We have a Republican senatorial
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: candidate herschel Walker and we have actor Terrence Howard visiting
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: us today, both for the first time. We'd like to
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: welcome you, gentlemen. Good eatness the year one. I still
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: appreciate being parts of the just hee A type of
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: panel like y'all got I got panel in my house,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: kind of like you here for Gohei and wonderful hypothetical
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: situation of clarity from my side. Also, Oh, thank you
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: mister Howard, and thank you mister herschel Walker. Then we'll
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: take we'll take questions from the crowd. I recognize Carla.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: That's Carla Farrell from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Good morning, Carlin,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: you have a question. Good morning herschel Good morning Terrence.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: My question is just simple. Let's get to it. What
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: is global warming? Yussel? Yussel. Now, what it is is
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: a lot of the globe than basically than Michael Wave
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: did still and got it still. See when we turn
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: on all the microL waves at one times, what we
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: do is we warms the glues. What we do is
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: we warms this hill glue and the whole globe gets warmed.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: See what we've got to do with Folks can't use
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: these microwaves all at one time, Like, all right, thanks guys.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: What Herschel is trying to Sam Terrence Howard sad Global
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Award winner, Oscar nominated. You know what he's saying is
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: here quite simply that hydro chloride in the area so
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: facilitated to follicle airwaves. And what I've invent it is
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: a way to unmichael wave the air and make it
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: more plaletable for people that can use it, even in Uganda.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: All Right, all right, thank you, thank you have a
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: follow up question, miss Farrell. Yeah, you invented exactly. Yeah.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: I had two hydrogen peels and I put them together
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: in water and when they dissolved, I drank them and
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: that's what made me up there with Elijah mccar right there,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: go ahead, all right, we have a question from Junior,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: also from the same Every Morning show. Good morning, Junior,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: you have a question. Good morning, mister Herschel, mister Howard,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: Mister mister Herschel, how is it possible that you've denied
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: your children? And we want to know, how is it
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: that you're gonna sit up here at Ruffer candidate office
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: for Senate and deny your children? Yeah, a thousands of
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: spiders that don't know they all sprains of them spiders.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: And then there's ants like this hill that that when
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: these answers born, these antss queen Aunt don't knit really
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: have to take kill the good aunt. Exactly, Howard, please exactly.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: All right, moving back with more Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: We're going to his voicemail right after you're listening show.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: All right, it is time now to check Steve's voicemail.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: If you'd like to leave a message for Steve, Callum
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  Speaker 1: makes seven seven twenty nine Steve. First callers from Sandra
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  Speaker 1: from the DMB. Hi, Steve, my name is Sandra and
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: I'm calling from the DC or the d MV area.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, so my question is please don't take a
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: fit to this. But my question is I listened to
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: your morning show every day pretty much, and I always
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: listen to your words of encouragement after the show. I
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: want to know what makes you the expert to feel
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: like you can say these words of encouragement to people.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Are these things that you've been through? Um? Are these
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: things that that your family has been through? You know?
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: Give me a little insight on why you say the
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: words of encouragement that you do say, Okay, he'll tell
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: me I leve them. Well, you don't make lady from
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: the DMV. I'm gonna try not to take a fence
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: once again. You coming from the DMV pretty much explains
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  Speaker 1: why your ass is working at the DMP. Why you
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  Speaker 1: think is the DC Maryland, Maryland not the Department of
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  Speaker 1: Motor Vehicle Right off and go off on your ass.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Don't take offense. Oh well, well we're right back to
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: what I need to be. Just because you in the
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  Speaker 1: DMV don't work at the d MV, don't change my
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  Speaker 1: A N s W E R. So it ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: change my A N swear my AMP. See. It is amazing, ma'am.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: What makes me the expert is that I've lived this life.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: You know, and you may not know my history. But
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: if I'm saying something to you and my encouragement that
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: doesn't make sense or doesn't apply to you, then please
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: don't use it. But I say things for people that
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: they can relate to because I've had to relate to
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: it myself. I don't speak of anything in my closing
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  Speaker 1: remarks that I don't know about it. I've not had
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  Speaker 1: to address myself. I'm not out here guessing none of
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  Speaker 1: this stuff. So what makes me the expert is my
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: sixty five years of life. Now, I have a PhD
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: in living, I really do. I got a PhD in succeeding.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: I got a PhD getting up off the ground. I've
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: got a PhD in recovering from mistakes. I got a
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: PhD in grace and mercy from our heavily fall. So
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: that's what makes me qualified. It's called experience. And now
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: if you choose not to listen to me at the
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: end of the show, then please do. And if it
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: don't apply to you, then you can take that too.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: But that don't offend me at all. I'm used to
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: people like you. Next question, do you see that was
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: nice till the very end. Thank you, Ken, Sandra. All right, Missy,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: it's from Philly. She left a message for you about
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: about Tommy. Hey, Steve, this is miss d My husband
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: and I attended Tommy's show on Saturday in Wilmington and
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: we just wanted to say that it was an amazing show.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: He mentioned you haven't seen his comedy in recent years.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: You really need to find a way to attend one
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: of his shows. It will blow your mind and it
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: will also soften your heart to see the man that
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: he's grown into. And he gave you credit for who
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: he has become and how you helped him. So I
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you that that Tommy really has
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: an amazing show and it's worth you seeing it. We
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: laughed until we cried, and we partied all that the
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: same time. You and everyone on your staff have a
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: great day. Bye bye. Well, really that's true. I haven't
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: seen his show in a number of years, and I
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: appreciate him giving me credit and everything like that. But
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: me being I have to get that probably not gonna
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: happen but no time in near future, because I'm gonna
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: demand and ask for free tickets, which is not gonna
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: be able to support his family in any way whatsoever.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: So the fact that I'm gonna be at this show
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna make a damn bit of difference to his performance.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I've trained him to give his all in all in
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: his best, and I'm glad that he's finally getting the
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: accolades that he deserves. You don't get acculades you don't deserve.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: When people call in and say they had the best
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: time they ever had it's cause they did. It's people's
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: having the wonderful time. So he's got a great show,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: I understand from a lot of people. You know. Now
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: you're asking me to be impressed about it, and I
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: am impressed it His show us grown into this, you know,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Oh God, I want to say something else, so get
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: out while we can. All right, Coming up next, it
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: is the nephew in the prank phone call for it today.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, and
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: the subject is I cut him off and he stopped asking.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about. Getting into that
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: in just a bit, but right now the nephew is
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got new? Well, schirl.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: Everybody on this show is married, except for Junior. Everybody married.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: How would you feel if you got a call saying
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: you're married, old brother, You're married, yo brother. You gotta
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: call five, six years, ten years down the line and
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: they tell you that you married your brother. H caller.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: If you found out Tosh was your brother? Got the call?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: M how would you feel I got a lot of
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: questions because I'm an only child, so it's it's a
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: bunch right there, script right, right, right right, But I
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: feel y'all feel y'all be shocking, yes, right, all right,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: Charlotte Nesto get the Carrsto is your brother? There's no way,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: There's no way, Steve haf You get a call and
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: they say that miss mard is your sister. Missus Mardred
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: is your sister? How you gonna handle it? I'll take
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: that call, but I'm gonna act like I'm gonna act
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: like you never call right now, sorry, right right on
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: back in here, and police coach back right on, back
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  Speaker 1: in his bed with him, with my little lake, with
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: my little sister. Freaky, can't let's go. You're married, but
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: I know I'm getting here, will Marge? My sister? I
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: seen my sister, okay, and nebody and my family looked
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: like this, Oh man, all right, let's go. Care dog,
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: you're married, your brother, you're married. Hello, Hello, I'm trying
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: to reach a yard. Carmon. This is she Hi, Carmen,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: my name is Keith. Keep from calling you from the
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: insurance group. Hi, how are you good? You and your husband.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: What is it, Harvey? Harvey? Is that right? Yes? Yes, Harvey. Okay,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: you guys actually put applications and actually went in and
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: got your physicals done for Life for Insurance, right, Yeah, yeah,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: that's correct. Okay. I actually I am calling you from
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: the insurance group. I have you alls live results and
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: everything as far as your physicals and blood tests and
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: things of that nature. Is there any way I could
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: possibly talk to both of you guys at the same time,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: you and Harvey. Is that possible? Um? Well, sure he's
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: at right now, but I can get him on the phone. Okay,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: it will be Uh, it'd be kind of easy if
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: I kind of explained everything to both of you guys
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: at the same time as if. That's okay, okay, so wrong,
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: h No, nothing's wrong. I mean I think I need
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: to just try to bring a few things to you
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: guys attention. But I think you know, after that, it's
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: pretty much you guys decision on what you do. But
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you know a few things
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: about you know, the results and things of that nature,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: Life Insurance, the whole nine yards. Okay, Okay, let me
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: shoot talking to him on the phone. Hello, Hey, maybe hey,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: sweet All right, Um, look, I got the insurance people
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: on the line. They want to get both of us
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: on the phone to talk to us about the insurance stuff.
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: Oh hey, Harvey, are you doing this? Is Keith Keep
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: from the insurance group. How are you? Hey? Good with that? Nicky? Good? Good? Listen? Um,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I wanted to give you guys a call and kind
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: of follow up. You guys did physicals and blood tests
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: and the whole nine yards, and I wanted to give
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: you guys a call. It's kind of better if I
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: talk to both of you guys at the same time.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: So if you have a minute that we could actually
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: use to kind of get some of this information out
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm fine, man, I'm gonna
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: break right now. I'm good. Okay. Great. First of all,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: we've gotten all your your lab results back everything, and
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: I kind of got a few questions for you guys
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: that I'm a little puzzled on. How long have you
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: guys actually been married. We've been again for years, okay, now,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: prior to being married three years? How long did you
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: guys know each other before you got married, say about
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: five and a half five six kids years? Okay, you
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: guys have been knowing each other pretty close to nine
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: years now all together. Yeah, okay, are you actually from
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: the same hometowns? You grew up in the same hometown? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: we grew up. I mean if I'm I'm sorry, is
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: this question? I mean, is this about the insurance or well,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I mean there are two things that's that's actually uh puzzling,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Carmen that we need to this. This is some news
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: that I actually didn't want to bring you, guys. I mean,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: we have to. I have to actually give you this news.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: Looking at our records, looking at all the test results,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: and let me be the first to tell you that
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: we run these results over and over and over, trying
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: to make sure we are completely one hundred and fifteen right, Okay,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: it's a problem with the test. Well, looking at our test, guys,
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Harvey a Garment, it's indicating that you guys are related.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: And nine times I attend you are you guys are siblings,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: old man? What O? And I understand the shot. It
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: took me. It took everything I had to make this
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: phone call. I did not want to make it. But
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: looking at our records, and we went over these records
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: over and over and then and the blow work told
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: us that you guys are actually siblings. Oh man, are
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: you serious? I'm actually my wife. You know this is
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: not a this is not a laughing matter, not a
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: joking matter. You know. Like I said, I did not
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: want to call with this information. What you did make
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: the call? Man? Look you, I don't know what. You
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: need to go back and and and double check your
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: records or something. Because we've been married three brief check
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: with the laugh man, can you check with the laughing
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: like Paula's back, Harvey and I and I and I
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: knew those questions would have come up, and we we
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: went over it. We went over it and over and
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: over it. Y'all need to go over it again because
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I got this. You make a call and this gotta
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: be wrong. So what you need to do is make
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: another call it called a lab and call us back
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: and let us know that you either. So they made
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: a mistake of fun. You're talking about me and my wife,
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: and I understand it hard, Harry. Let me ask you
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: this is it possible, you know, and this is just
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: a question. Is it possible that your dad and maybe
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: her mom maybe knew each other at some point and
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: what you're saying about my mom and dad. That's some
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: straight look at you need to have go back and
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: do whatever you need to do. But I thank you
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: much you say something like that again, I tell you
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: my baby's gonna be coming down that beach O. I'm
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: saying like that, hold on baby, old baby, baby, baby,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: hold on baby, I got this, hold on. I gotta baby,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: I gotta baby. I gotta how you're gonna call me
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: with you what you don't know? You from people like that?
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: But that ain't I don't under doing, sir. It's bringing
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: you the result. So I don't you bring me the
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: results in person? And I bet I want you. That's
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Hey, sir, even if you beat
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: the messenger at the end of the day, that's still
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: your sister. At the end of the day. I'm gonna hut.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: I don't care what he's talking about nothing. He ain't
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: my damn brother. I got it. I'm gonna find you
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: off whatever jupercle you in. You're gonna call me time,
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: my brother, it's my wife. I am calling that, sir.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: Somewhere down the line, somebody made a mistake and you guys,
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: my brother and sister got married. I'm not at far
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: for that. Let me tell you that mistake to call.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: He's in one of these numbers, a kid in your life.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: So I got one more to result. I do need
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: to get you got hold what you've been talking about?
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Then what else you got to say? Now that's gonna
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: be wasting me. The only other touch result I have, ma'am,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: is that this is Nephew till me from the Steve
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by your girlfriend.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I told you ain't like I thing. I got to
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: ask both of y'all what is the baddest and I'm
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land, stew
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Sam, I told you I ain't like all right, Nephew,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next it is the Strawberry Letter.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: The subject I cut him off and he stopped asking.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about right after this.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parents,
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• 53:59
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• 54:02
  Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew's subject. I cut him off and he
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: stopped asking. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm married to a very
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: stubborn man, and out of eight years of marriage, he's
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: ignored me for most of that time. I'm a charge
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: nurse and I've been really stressed out lately. As you
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: can imagine, I come home to my husband and I
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: expect him to listen to me event and console me,
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: but instead he has his head in his phone and
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: he tunes me out. I have asked him to do
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: favors for me, or pick up grosceries and dry cleaning,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: and he will lie and say he'll do it, and
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: when I asked him about it, he either says he
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: doesn't remember agreeing to do it, or he will say
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: he didn't have time to I got so fed up
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: with him that I stopped talking to him. He didn't
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: care because I was still having sex with him so
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I could unwind at night. I realized he was enjoying
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: the sex and didn't have to deal with my mouth,
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: so I cut the sex off. He eventually started talking
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: to me and paying attention to what I had to say.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I played that game with him whenever I got really
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: irritated with him. Back in May, I had a colonoscopy
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: and he took me for the procedure and left me there.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: I had to be put into a holding room because
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: the nurse couldn't find him. He eventually came to pick
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: me up, and that was it for me. I had
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: had enough of him, so I went back to ignoring him.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: He apologized and begged me for sex for the first
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: three weeks, and then he stopped. He seemed to be
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: okay without sex and his mood change. He lent me
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: vent to him and he started helping me out around
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: the house. I tried to reward him for good behavior
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: with sex, and he turned me away. I'm not sure
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: of what he's up to, but he will not but
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: he will not have sex with me. Now has my
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: ignoring game backfired? What is up with him? Well, I mean,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: realistically speak, either he's getting it from somewhere else or
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: he's playing your game back at you. So you can
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: see how it feels. I know it's confusing to you
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: because in the midst of him now cutting you off,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: he's still being nice to you. He's still being nice.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: What does that mean? You've you've been with this man
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: for eight years, and for the most of that time
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: you said he has ignored you. I mean, you said
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: that in the letters. So even though there's no proof
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: that he's cheating, he has changed significantly, and change in
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: behavior from a man could definitely be a sign of cheating,
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: proof or not. My question to you is why are
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: you still with this man? You've been basically single in
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: your marriage for all of these years. You said he's
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: ignored you for eight You've got no help from him,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: and the simple things like picking up the dry cleaning
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: or getting groceries, and the big one, where was he
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: after your colonoscopy? Why did you have to be put
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: in a holding room? You yourself said that was it
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: for you. Well apparently not, because you're still there. And
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: now he's flipped the script on you. He's flipped the game,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: and as you worried about what he's up to. So,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, my advice is you got to talk to him,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: because only he can tell you why he's turning you away.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: And please do not expect him to be honest. If
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: he is cheating, he's not going to tell you the truth.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: But again I say, you got to talk to him,
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: You got to find out what's going on. Then you
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: can make an informed decision on your next move, because
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: it's obvious you want to stay, you want to stay
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: married to him. Well, at least you did you know
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: when you were in control, when you were controlling him
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: with sex, So talk to him and find out what's
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: going on with him. Steve, Okay, all right, ladies, lay
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Shirley and Colin. Let me ask you a question. Do
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: you want me to give a truthful answer to this letter? Yeah? Oh?
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: Do you want me to be blatantly honest? Both? But
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: I want the truth? Just the truth is good, honestly good. Yeah,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: let's do both, Steve, I mean, is there a difference, really, yes?
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: And the truth and blatantly the truth? Always has kindly
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: said it. Blatant honesty is just brutal, hard, cool facts. Yeah,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: And that's how your man talks to you. We sometimes
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: we're mostly truthful with you, and then when we're blatantly
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: honest with you, it's because we didn't have enough, and
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: you need to just hear it, which I like, Yeah, yeah,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: which one? I like to hear the truth? I mean,
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: be honest, say it. Okay, Well it is he needs
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: give it to us, give it to the people. I'm
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: married to a very stubborn man, and out of eight
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: years of marriage, he's ignored me most of the time.
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: I'm a charged nurse and I'm usually stressed out lately,
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: as you can imagine, I can't imagine with COVID. I
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: come home to my husband and I expect him to
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: listen to vent and console me, but in stead, he
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: had his head in his phone and he tunes me out.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: I've asked him to do favors for me. First of all,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: let's stop. You're ready for some honesty. Yeah, come on.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: He don't like you. He don't like her. He doesn't
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: like her. He don't like her. He loves her, but
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: he don't like her. Who I believe it, he don't
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: like her. I have asked him to do favors for me,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: pick up groceries, dry cleaning. He will lye and say
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: he'll do it, and then I asked him about it.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: He just says he don't remember agreeing to it, or
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: he say he didn't have time to He don't like her.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: He don't like her. He don't give a damn where
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: she won't. Yeah, he ignored her for eight years. He
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: loves her. He bringing the money in and they're paying
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: the bills. But he don't like her. He don't like
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: you no more. So I got fatter when I stopped
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: talking to him. He ain't care. Fine, you don't wanna
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: talk to me, Fine, I don't care. I don't don't
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: even like you. He don't like her. But I was
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: still having sect to him so I could unwind at night. Bam, cool,
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: got it, I got the cake. I ain't gonna talk
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: to you. Hold on, stick and I'm meeting it too.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: We have a sex man. Coo. Yeah, hold on, Steve,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, subject of today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: And cut him off and he stopped asking. We'll get
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to show,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: The subject. I cut him off and he stopped asking.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: I cut him off and he stopped asking. So now
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: I asked the ladies call in Sherley. I said, what
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: would you all want me to do? I could give
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: you a truthful answer. Oh, I can give you a
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: brutally honest answer. They said, what we want both? Well,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: you can't do both, because see, when a man gives
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: you a truthful answer, it's always temperate with words of
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: kindness and not so revealing. We'll tell you the truth
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: without telling you the whole truth. See that's the difference,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: and we know the different. If you want to be
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: blatant honest, then here it is in your face, no
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: sugar on it, no coating, and boom. So they asked
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: for the honest answer. So here we go. She just
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: found out that I'm trying to get this later. Understand something.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: You've been eight years to a stubborn man. Mostly he's
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: a charge. She's stretched out. You come home, you expect
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: your husband to listen to him to you ben console,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: and instead he got his head and his phone. He
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: tunes you out. You ask him pick up grocer to
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: do favors for you and dry cleaning. He a line say,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: or dude, you come home, it won't be done, He'll say,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: you either didn't tell him that or he'll just say
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: he ain't had time. All of this is because he
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: don't like her. You're married to a man that doesn't
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: like you, and this is a message for a lot
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: of women need to hear this. See y'all be trying
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: to save your marriage, but you're saving your marriage and
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: the man may love you, but he ain't got to like.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: He'd been stopped liking this woman a long time ago.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: It's things about her he don't agree to. So then
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: so she got fed up with him and she stopped
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: talking to him. He didn't care. You know why. He
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: didn't care because he don't like her. Who and then
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: I because I was still and he didn't care because
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: I was still having sex with him so I could
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: unwind at night. I realized he was enjoying the sex,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: but he didn't have to deal with my mom because
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: he don't care. He don't care. He love you, He
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: has sex with you, but he don't like you. Know
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: I many times man can have sex somebody don't like.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Ladies? A lot of y'all are
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: married to men that don't like you no more, and
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: you're fighting to hang on to this love. But this
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: man don't like you no more. He don't like you
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: and it's just crazy. Man, y'all need to understand this.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: That's why I asked, how you want me to read
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: this letter to you. He don't like her, and I'm
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: much you don't like her at all in this letter.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: So he didn't care because I was still having sexual
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: and so I could wind a knife. I realized he
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: was enjoying the sex and didn't have to deal with
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: my mouth. So I cut the sex off and he
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: eventually started talking to me and paying attention to what
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: I had to say. That is because sex is important relationship,
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: and sex is required by a man to deal with
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: the unpleasant treats of the relationship. If you have good sex,
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: we will put up with the unpleasant treats of the
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: relationship if the sex is good. So when you cut
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: the sex off, he said, oh, let me go on
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: and talk to her, even though I don't like her.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: Let me listen to her so I could get back
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: to having this sex and paying attention to what I
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: had to say. I played that game with him whenever
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: I got really irritated with him. Well back in May,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: I had a colonoscophy. He took me for the procedure
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: and left me there. I had to be put into
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: a holding room. The nurse couldn't find him. He eventually
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: came to pick me up, and that was it for me.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: Well three weeks now, three weeks that's been going on.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: But back in May, when you had the colonoscophy, you know,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: you get put out for a coldonosophy. Now you know what,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: He tied his game, So you did say in the
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: beginning of phone he kept his head in his phone,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: what are he doing in the phone? Well, he'd made contact.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: So now while you was out having the colonosophy, since
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: he don't like you, he went and got some stress
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: relief while you was getting operated on a little run
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: the run made a little run. Yeah, I'm just telling
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: y'all what happened. Then he came back and pick you up,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: and you was done with him. I'd had enough of him,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: so I went back to ignoring him. He apologized and
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: begged me for sex for the next three weeks. Then
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: he stopped. He seemed to be okay without sex. Ain't
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: no man okay without sex. Let's stop that right there.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: And his mood changed. He let me vent to him,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: and he started helping me out around the house. Well
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, that's weird, but you know why because
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: he was back to getting sex through and so now,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: since I don't like you to throw you off, now,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: let me listen and talk to you at the house
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: and listen to your vintings so you don't get wise
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: to the fact that I got some sex outside the house.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: Because I ain't gonna keep begging. You'll ask who I
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: don't like anyway, I'm not gonna beg somebody I don't
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: like for sex, but I can go somebody's house I
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: like and have sex, and I ain't got to be
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: in love with him. You understand what's happening here in
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: this letter. So he let me vining, he started to
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: help me out around the house. I tried to reward
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: him for good behavior and sex, and he turned me
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: away because he's getting the reward somewhere else and he
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: can't use up his reward with somebody he don't like
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: when he got to save it for that other girl
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: over there who he do like. Y'all tripping. I'm not
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: sure what he's up to, but he would not have
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: sex with me. Now he ain't having sex with you?
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: How has my ignoring game back? Fried? He wouldn't got
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: to sex from somebody he liked. He ain't like you,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: know how? What's up with him? No? What's up with you? No?
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: They don't like each other. She liked this man, she
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: in love, but he loved you. But he don't like you.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: He getting sex somewhere else. He don't give a damn Hi.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, And you want that little raggedy little
• 1:06:36
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• 1:06:40
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• 1:06:50
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• 1:06:52
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• 1:06:58
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• 1:07:02
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• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: sacks here we go. Uh MLB All Star we had finished,
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: you know the American League one three to two. That
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: was the game. John Carlos Stanton was the All Star
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: Game MVP. And there was no more scoring after the
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: fourth inning. It was three to two for the That's
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: the way they need something else when you watch a
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: baseball like they need another sport with it. I didn't
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: sit there another sort yeah, man, when in between indis
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: we need to running around the bases. They can cackle
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: your ass something, man, they gotta put something. It was
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: just six. It was just a three six, no scoring.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: It was just empty. It was just nothing. It was
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: just that was it? So or like day could make
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: baseball more exciting, like like you have your outfielders out
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: there the other team could put one of their outfielders
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, you could try to knock down balls,
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: knock your ass, keep your keeping in the game. Yeah yeah,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: that way a pop fly be about. So yeah, oh
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: my gosh. In the NBA, UH, Hornets forward Mile Bridges
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: was arraigned on charges yesterday, three charges of felony domestic
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: abuse and child abuse. Says he assaulted his girlfriend in
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: front of their two children, and that's where they're adding
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: the out abuse charges. So let's pray for mount Bridges man. Yeah, man,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: he's an unrestricted free agent with the Charlotte Hornets. You know. Look,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know if he's guilty or not, but just
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: based on the charge, young brothers, y'all can't put your
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: hands on these women. No, yes, yeah, this is in
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: front of the kids or out front of the kids.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: The rule is you can't put your hands on a woman. Now,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: if we don't stop teaching the rule, we need to
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: re implement it. It ain't the right thing to do.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: No man, damn. Now, if that's what happened and you
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: put your hands on him, bro, you can't put your
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: hands on a woman. I don't know why y'all think
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: that's cool. I ain't man, she can't hit me. That's true.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: She shouldn't hit you, but you definitely can't hit home. Period.
• 1:09:48
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  Speaker 1: lawmakers have a brand new proposal after the Supreme Court
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: overturned Robe Wade in June. Prospective fathers now will have
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: to pay child support from the moment of conception. This
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: is a new bill, Like I said, It was introduced
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: on July thirteenth, and both the Senate and the House.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: It is called the Unborn Child Support Act and would
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: give mother is the ability to receive child support payments
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: while they are pregnant. Under the proposal, a court could
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: award child support payments prior to birth and retroactively to
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: the point of conception as determined by a doctor. According
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: to the statement, fraternity tests would be up to the
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: protect prospective mother. According to the statement, the bill is
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: co sponsored by a number of Republican lawmakers, including Senators
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: Marsha Blackburn of Tennessee and Mark Rubio of Florida. Now
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: they can do all of that even though they don't
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: even know who the father is. A problem with that.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: When the baby's born, a man is asked to sign
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: the birth certificate. So now a woman who might be
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: conflicted of who the father is, which happens oftentimes show
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: on it. A woman can just pin this right and
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: the guy of her choice, and all of a sudden,
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: this guy is getting hit with child support payments. And
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: then what happens if he if the child is born
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: and there's a DNA and it's not his. See, you're
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: opening up a can of worms. Man, that's right here.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: I think it's unfair, right if you give that money
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: back now if it's not his, no, and and and
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: get it back from who is the mother? Yeah, okay,
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: what you think the chances of that happened? That's why. Yeah,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: they can't fair. Yeah, they can't make her do that?
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: You know? Is this asa to y'all? I got nothing
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: to do? I got nothing, Tommy. I think it's an
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: H and H issue nature. I think that's a Herschel
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: and Herschel, Herschel Walker and Terrence Howard Howard issue to
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: speak on this, right because he's are to one brother
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: with issue and his brother and Terrenson turned into be
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: quite aside man. You know, so what if this what
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: if you are not the father and this happens, That's
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's the flaw in it, I know,
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: I know. Yeah. I was asking Herschel and Howard or
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: note nine nine nine nine right for this soul nine
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: nine nine just him. This is what happened between between
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: me and them. Keep what they be seeing about the
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: kids that they're seeing the mands, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: which is what happened betweenst us and then that's where
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: you get folks thinking I got sell me chigns and
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: that's just not ain't really ain't the total of what
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: it ill tears? Tears you signed sign put some sign
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: holy if you well, you know what the proclamations are
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: actually stated. I mean, for us, all the status or
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: protons and and neutrons get together, and you're going to
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: have a proximity of a situation like this. And I
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: got to be inclined to agree with my counterpart or
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: herschel here and that his children may very well be
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: a particularly environmental hazard of climate control. What I got
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: to do with you are not the father because when
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: that Chinese air gets in with American air and help
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: to add out these things. And I've created a proton
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: remove air. And you can see twenty minutes after the hour,
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• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: all right. So, after the outrage of a potential racial
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: incident that went viral when a video of the Sesame
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: Street character Rosita snubbed and ignored two little black girls
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: during the parade at Sesame stre Placed in Philadelphia, Sesame
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: Street Place issued another statement promising to do better, saying
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: we are committed to making this right and the parks
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: that it will conduct training for employees to deliver an inclusive, equitable, equitable,
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: and entertaining experience for park goers. Meanwhile, the family of
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: the two little girls have now lawyered up ye down
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: and the kids. It's through with Street at this point.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: You got to teach people still to be inclusive. At
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Come on, they saw those little girls
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: and more videos are coming up. Yeah, come you see
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: from Street place. So this has happened often. Yeah, it
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: wasn't the first time. That wasn't the first time that
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: little sesame Street character with the red one and the
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: baby with the baby with the no no no. There's
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: another one where where the mama snapped at you do
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: oh no, the big sessme Street and were hey, hey, hey,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: huh you see him right here? Baby got aesment street ass. Yeah. Characters,
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: you we kind of deal with people and characters like us. Well,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: I got a word for you though. Tickle coming up,
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• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: your only means of transportation. Which one horse or dirt bike.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to dirt dirt bike. I can feed
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: this horse. Feed him. You gotta hope his ass don't
• 1:16:53
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• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: over here? Where in this saddle? Step on something, throw
• 1:17:02
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• 1:17:05
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• 1:17:10
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• 1:17:14
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  Speaker 1: I've had a hundred thous I ain't had to me.
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  Speaker 1: He no risk, no reward. Okay, here we go take
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  Speaker 1: that riskm okay. Now you're just talking to me and
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  Speaker 1: me and gonna take a chance they will okay, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather forget your partner's birthday or would you
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  Speaker 1: forget your rather forget your partner's anniversary. You can't, you cat, No,
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  Speaker 1: you can't forgetting either one either want both of them
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  Speaker 1: is death. So it's just been on which birth which
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  Speaker 1: day is first in the year. You can die early
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  Speaker 1: or die later. Going with that birthday, it's January ninth,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going with that, right, I see. The anniversary is
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  Speaker 1: June twenty fourth. The birthday is October tien. I got
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  Speaker 1: to nail both of them. Look man them two days
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  Speaker 1: right there, it's the ones. I got to make them
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  Speaker 1: biggest deal about. I can make a bigger deal about
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  Speaker 1: that than Christmas. But she let her birthday come along
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  Speaker 1: and that damn anniversary, and you know you got them
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  Speaker 1: the two biggest deals. You can miss Valentine's Day. You
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  Speaker 1: messed that up a little bit. Yeah, chill ass, bet not, dude,
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  Speaker 1: though it's her damn birthday come along, you stupid as
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  Speaker 1: oh today. Let them know, boy boy, that anniversary and
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  Speaker 1: that birthday. I'm too bigger you. You can blow Christmas
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  Speaker 1: and I don't advise it, but you can blow Christmas.
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  Speaker 1: You can mess up Valentine's Day. I don't advise it.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell what you can't do Shirleys is the
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  Speaker 1: same day, and she's forgot and that man birthday it's
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  Speaker 1: the same day. For what. I didn't forget this. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't forget. I just forgot how many years? Same thing? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: same thing? All right? Oh, look at the time. All right,
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  Speaker 1: coming up, it's our last break of the day. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't forget that, and we'll have some closing remarks from
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  Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're
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  Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are, guys,
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  Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Thursday. A
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  Speaker 1: good day, and thank you guys for listening, for tuning in.
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  Speaker 1: can you pull the statement the lady made? Okay, cool,
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  Speaker 1: because I want to play it. Go ahead, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, So anyway, we're gonna turn it over
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  Speaker 1: to you, Steve for closing remarks. You guys, you know
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  Speaker 1: my clothing remarks today is going to be interesting because
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to play back for anybody that missed it. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: we do all voicemail calls, and this was a voicemail
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  Speaker 1: call I got here. It is right now. Hi Steve.
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  Speaker 1: My name is Sandra and I'm calling from the DC
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  Speaker 1: or the d MV area. I'm sorry. So my question is,
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  Speaker 1: please don't take a fit to this. But my question
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  Speaker 1: is I listened to your morning show every day pretty much,
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  Speaker 1: and I always listen to your words of encouragement after
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  Speaker 1: the show. I want to know what makes you the
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  Speaker 1: expert to feel like you can say these words of
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  Speaker 1: encouragement to people. Are these things that you've been through?
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  Speaker 1: Are these things that your family has been through? You know,
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  Speaker 1: give me a little insight why you say the words
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  Speaker 1: of encouragement that you do. From okay, tell tell me
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  Speaker 1: I level. You know, after I heard that, I was
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  Speaker 1: kind of a little set back, but not really even
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  Speaker 1: how I handled it earlier. But after giving us some
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  Speaker 1: thought and listening to it for the second time, I think,
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  Speaker 1: really what she's looking for is just an insight. I
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  Speaker 1: think she's a fan of the show. And then she
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  Speaker 1: even said and then I missed this. I listened to
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  Speaker 1: your closing remarks every day, and I think she's just
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  Speaker 1: trying to find out really where it's coming from and
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  Speaker 1: what's the basis behind it. So let me share it
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  Speaker 1: with you what I think has happened to me. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't always agree with the life God was giving me.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't always agree with the hand that I was dealt.
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  Speaker 1: I thought at times it was a bit excessive. I
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  Speaker 1: thought that getting the marriages wrong was a mistake, mostly
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  Speaker 1: on my part, but I thought he could have stepped in.
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  Speaker 1: But then I learned that I didn't ask him to
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  Speaker 1: step in. I thought that living in the car for
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  Speaker 1: three years was a bit excessive, but I needed that time.
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  Speaker 1: As I look back on my life to discover some
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  Speaker 1: things about me. I didn't understand growing up in poverty.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't understand that my entire career I've been questioned
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  Speaker 1: at every level. I didn't understand why I've had to
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  Speaker 1: do more in my career than some of my counterparts
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  Speaker 1: who aren't black, and I had to excel in ways
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  Speaker 1: to even get a fraction of the pay that they get.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't get it, But I do now, at sixty
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  Speaker 1: five years old, understand completely what has happened to me,
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  Speaker 1: and as a realization, that has helped me because along
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  Speaker 1: the way, I had to learn that my career was
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  Speaker 1: what I was paid for, that my calling this what
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  Speaker 1: I was made for. All those things that I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have an understanding of that God was doing for me.
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  Speaker 1: He was making me. I didn't know it. He was
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  Speaker 1: shaping me, he was molding me. He was preparing me
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  Speaker 1: for a day when I could honor him. In my
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  Speaker 1: opening remarks of my show, in my closing remarks of
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  Speaker 1: the show, why I could bear witness to His goodness,
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: his grace in my life, his mercy in my life,
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  Speaker 1: his forgiveness in my life. All the times I remember
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  Speaker 1: my mama was teaching to me as a Sunday school
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  Speaker 1: teacher for forty years, I remember all those messages keep
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  Speaker 1: coming back, and I've learned these lessons over and over
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  Speaker 1: and over again, and I learned them experience to trial
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  Speaker 1: and error. So to answer your question, yeah, that's exactly
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  Speaker 1: why I feel like I'm able to share these things
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  Speaker 1: because I've been through almost everything that I talk about.
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  Speaker 1: I'd have had a full run, man, I really have.
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  Speaker 1: My sixty five years has been packed, crowded, jammed, chopped,
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  Speaker 1: full of experiences, to the point where I decided that
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  Speaker 1: instead of at the end of the day just joking
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  Speaker 1: my way out every night, that I would share with
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  Speaker 1: somebody who might be going through some similar trials and
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  Speaker 1: challenges that I've gone through, and just give them some antidotes,
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  Speaker 1: some scriptures, some measures, some principles that I've learned over
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  Speaker 1: the years that has helped and aided me through some
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  Speaker 1: of the difficult times of my life because I've been
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  Speaker 1: through what most people go through. Nah, I had a
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  Speaker 1: two parent family home, so I don't know what it
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  Speaker 1: is not to have a father. But I've been around
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  Speaker 1: enough people that don't have fathers to realize that, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: that's got to be hard. Because if I didn't have
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  Speaker 1: my daddy, and I was looking at him in that
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  Speaker 1: casket at forty three, and I was sitting up here realizing,
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  Speaker 1: there's no way I would have been who I was
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't for that man right there. That experience right
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  Speaker 1: there caused me to start the foundation to help single
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  Speaker 1: mothers raise their boys without the aid of a father
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  Speaker 1: in the house. That tragedy in my life, I turned
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  Speaker 1: it into a purpose all my life. I can point
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  Speaker 1: to you all this stuff, and the only reason you
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  Speaker 1: can come to this conclusion that I've come to that
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  Speaker 1: you've got to open yourself up to the will of God.
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  Speaker 1: You got to really talk to God about your purpose,
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  Speaker 1: because I've often said this, the two most important days
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  Speaker 1: of your life is the day you born and the
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  Speaker 1: day you discover why. I had enough sense and wisdom
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  Speaker 1: to ask God, why, why Lord did you make me?
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  Speaker 1: Why did you cause me to go through this? Why
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  Speaker 1: have you allowed me to reach the heightside beach? And
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  Speaker 1: he slowly started turning the pages and say, because I
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  Speaker 1: made you for this, I want you to turn around,
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  Speaker 1: want you to share this information. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: teach this to people. I want you to tell somebody
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  Speaker 1: about me. That's why I'm qualified to do the closing remarks.
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  Speaker 1: That's exactly why. Thank you for your call, ma'am. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't take offense to it at all. Those are
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  Speaker 1: my clothing, mall. And see right there, I've grown up
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  Speaker 1: to a better person because twenty years ago i'd have
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