Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751
Dating feels broken — and according to attachment expert Adam Lane Smith, it’s not your fault.In this episode, Adam breaks down why modern dating fails at a nervous-system level, why attachment theory needed an update, and how childhood trauma silently shapes conflict, avoidance, fear of marriage, and emotional shutdown. He introduces quiet disorganized attachment — the freeze response that makes people go emotionally mute during conflict — and explains what’s actually happening in the brain.The conversation goes deep into men, women, marriage, money, safety, and why skills — not feelings —…
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