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Vacation, Less Sex, MTH, Bitterman and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back a
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  Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving them move
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  Speaker 1: like the moking buck bus things and its cub me
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  Speaker 1: true good it Steve ha listen to movie together for Stubby,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join join you with me. You gotta turning
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  Speaker 1: them go. You gotta turn to turn them out, turn,
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  Speaker 1: got to turn them out to turn turn the water
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  Speaker 1: the water. Come, come on your baby daddy. Uh huh,
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  Speaker 1: I shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice, Come on, come on, y'all dig me now.
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  Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show man.
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  Speaker 1: Is God good to me? Unbelievable? Yeah? It is, and
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  Speaker 1: and I can only attribute it to one thing. It's
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  Speaker 1: just been a turnaround in my life. It's it's been
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  Speaker 1: me finally making a decision to see what all God
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  Speaker 1: has for me, but at the same time trying to
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  Speaker 1: be more God wants me to be instead of more
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  Speaker 1: of what I want to be. That's the trade off.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you gotta do something now, you know you
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  Speaker 1: know you want God's blessings. You gotta be willing to
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  Speaker 1: do something on his behalf. No, I'm not saying I
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  Speaker 1: got it right right now, because I'm just being real
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  Speaker 1: with you, I don't. I don't have it all together
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  Speaker 1: by any stretch of imagination of I'm trying to get
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  Speaker 1: better in several areas. I'm praying about it, I'm working
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  Speaker 1: on it, but you know it's and I've I've grown
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  Speaker 1: to accept the process. But I'm improving in a lot
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  Speaker 1: of areas from day to day. But I'll tell you what, man,
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  Speaker 1: my success all is going on with me I can
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  Speaker 1: only attribute to this turnaround. And the turnaround was simple.
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  Speaker 1: I turned around and started looking at God. That was
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  Speaker 1: a simple move, man. I just turned around and started
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  Speaker 1: looking at him, and I was going, Okay, I get it. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you created me. You're the creator. You have a purpose
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  Speaker 1: for me. I understand that. Now. Now let me just
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  Speaker 1: walk in that purpose and let me get to doing
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  Speaker 1: that purpose. Now, my purpose and your purpose and their
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  Speaker 1: purpose and anybody's perfect purpose could be different, and the
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  Speaker 1: way you go about the purpose can be different. And
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  Speaker 1: that's the part that I've really grown up to. I've
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  Speaker 1: opened up my mind to understanding that everybody's different, nobody's
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  Speaker 1: quite the same, and that is not my right or
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  Speaker 1: position to judge, but to be of a forgiving spirit
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  Speaker 1: and understand and forgive those as I ask God to
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  Speaker 1: forgive me. See that's the key. That's the key, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: So when you out here and you stuck on this unforgiveness,
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  Speaker 1: understand in the large prayer as a segment that says,
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  Speaker 1: forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those who
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  Speaker 1: trust pass against us. There's another version says forgive us
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  Speaker 1: our debts as we forgive our debt us. It's two
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  Speaker 1: different versions, but either one it means the exact same thing.
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  Speaker 1: It means simply this that you are asking God to
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  Speaker 1: forgive yours like you forgive others. Forgive us our trust
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  Speaker 1: passes as we forgive those who trust pass against us.
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  Speaker 1: When I crossed the line with you, God handle me
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  Speaker 1: the way I handle people when they cross the line
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  Speaker 1: with me. You feel what I'm saying to you. See
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  Speaker 1: you understand that. That's the breakdown on it. Best way
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  Speaker 1: I can give it to you. Forgive us our trust
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  Speaker 1: passes as we forgive those who trust pass against us.
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  Speaker 1: Forgive me God for stepping over the line, like I
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  Speaker 1: forgive those that step over the line on me. That's
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  Speaker 1: the hard part. Man, that's the part man, I've really
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  Speaker 1: been working on. I've been really trying to get that together.
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  Speaker 1: And so I've learned forgiveness a lot better over the
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  Speaker 1: past five years than I have before. And it's paid off.
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell you how it was paid off, because
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  Speaker 1: now God's mercy and grace is all over me because
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  Speaker 1: I've learned to become more graceful. Now I ain't graceful
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  Speaker 1: like him, I ain't merciful like him, but I've learned
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  Speaker 1: to become more more graceful, more merciful, because man, I
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  Speaker 1: can't live my life like that. I just got sick
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  Speaker 1: of me. Man, you're mad at me now, I'm mad
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  Speaker 1: at you. You hating on me. Now I'm gonna hate
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  Speaker 1: on you. I ain't got time for that. Man, I've
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  Speaker 1: got you. Look here, you got somewhere to go. But
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  Speaker 1: hate take up time. It's time consuming, and hating trying
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  Speaker 1: to seek revenge it's time consuming, take up way too
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  Speaker 1: much of your time to seek revenge when vengeance ain't
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  Speaker 1: really yours. That's another one. Vengeance is mine, say if
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  Speaker 1: the Lord it ain't yours. So now when you go
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  Speaker 1: to seek it to take it out, guess what you're doing.
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  Speaker 1: You're doing something now. Man, Now you off into area
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  Speaker 1: that you got no business being in, and instead of
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  Speaker 1: steady climbing your ladder like you're supposed to, you didn't
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  Speaker 1: take out time for vengeance to hate. I'm a hater.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a blogger. I'm a blog about so
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  Speaker 1: and so. When you're blogging about somebody, and most of
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  Speaker 1: these people you don't even know when you're blogging about somebody,
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  Speaker 1: what you're doing, what you're hating. It takes time to hate. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I just decided, Man, I gotta take all my time
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  Speaker 1: and instead of have doing time and being active, I
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  Speaker 1: got to be proactive. See some people get that confused
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  Speaker 1: being active and being proactive. Pro is positive. Pro means
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  Speaker 1: to move forward. You know, if you put pro in
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  Speaker 1: front of most words, it's a positive influence. You know,
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  Speaker 1: does the pros and the cons. The pros is the
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  Speaker 1: good side, the cons is what can go wrong the
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  Speaker 1: bad side. You know, if you're active, that's one thing,
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  Speaker 1: But if you're pro active, you're going forward in a
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  Speaker 1: positive direction. When you become a pro that means you
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  Speaker 1: the best of the best at whatever it is you
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  Speaker 1: chosen to be. I'm a pro so somehow, and I
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  Speaker 1: know English teacher grammatical God, the word pro a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times when you put it in front of something
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  Speaker 1: means positiveness. So now a lot of people think that
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  Speaker 1: if you just active something all to happen. Well, I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing something, and that's what happens. Man, We just find
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  Speaker 1: ourselves doing a lot of busy work that really ain't
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  Speaker 1: bout nothing. It ain't going the way. It ain't got
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  Speaker 1: no direction or no purpose because we haven't tried to
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  Speaker 1: find out the direction of a purpose. So you wake
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  Speaker 1: up and you and your wheels are spinning. You a
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  Speaker 1: hamster on a tread meal. You're running real fast, but
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  Speaker 1: you're just going in the same spot. You understand that's
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  Speaker 1: because you're just out here being active instead of proactive.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you get God in your life. Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you turn and face your creative and find out how
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  Speaker 1: to become more proactive so you can do things to
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  Speaker 1: move yourself forward. How you can get your life off
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  Speaker 1: the ground and get off the tread meal and really
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  Speaker 1: get it rolling in the direction that it need to
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  Speaker 1: be going. Man, I'm telling you God can make that
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  Speaker 1: change for you if he see you making the change
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  Speaker 1: for him. See the whole key man, the whole kids.
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  Speaker 1: You got to be willing to do something. You got
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  Speaker 1: to give God something to less bless me God. And
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  Speaker 1: then you go sit on your couch and you ain't trying. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: bless me God with what? What? What? What are you
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  Speaker 1: working with? He can't have the people hire you if
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  Speaker 1: you ain't put the app in. Come on, man, the
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  Speaker 1: blessing comes when you make a proactive step, when you
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  Speaker 1: try to do something on the positive side. Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna quit messing around with all these people. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna start going home. I'm gonna leave these women loan
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  Speaker 1: out here. You got to say, all right, man, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't going over that at night. I just ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: get Then God can work with you. God help me
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  Speaker 1: stop seeing all these women. But you steady going over
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  Speaker 1: there calling them setting up stuff. Can't nobody help you
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  Speaker 1: because once you get over there, you already know. See,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta get proactive. You gotta do something yourself. You
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  Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. That that's the key man.
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  Speaker 1: So come on, y'all you're listening show. Ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: man have your attention. Please, Uh, it's Monday morning. It's
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of a new week, but it's the same
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  Speaker 1: damn thing up in the hill. We fing to turn
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  Speaker 1: up this volume, create this ignance and be botty Bounty
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  Speaker 1: Dog gone it, Shirley Strong. We let Steve we let
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's that, ain't choose We let Steve we love man.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't live that fun. That was fun. It's young
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  Speaker 1: people listening to this show going, uh, we live, and
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  Speaker 1: they probably ain't even saying that no more. They say
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  Speaker 1: still saying we live. I'm scared to use modern day slang.
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  Speaker 1: I'm still going I'm still doing you know, what's happening
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  Speaker 1: for the whole playoff? You know that way? I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know it's out of style and all my talk
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  Speaker 1: is out of style. We let calla for real. What's happening?
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  Speaker 1: We about that life? What's going on? Junior? You got one?
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say more than one. Tell me you
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  Speaker 1: got one? Lit? Light lit? I'm living my bath life. Man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: now dude, this one still work turned up. Yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: was still work on. What it is is what it is? Good?
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  Speaker 1: Good everybody? Cool man, my man, slapping five. You did that,
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  Speaker 1: you may as well throw it right on in their stick.
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  Speaker 1: I still say, right on. I still you'll say, hey, man.
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  Speaker 1: When I talk to my older brother, it's it's it's
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  Speaker 1: like talking to Marvin Gay. Seriously, man, I'm talking to them, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Drunk's handed with youth? Man? Give me some
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  Speaker 1: of that skin? Man, your skin that's five on the
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  Speaker 1: black hand, keeping like that. It's all right, man, right on?
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  Speaker 1: What's been going on with your player? You still doing it?
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  Speaker 1: Ain't you? You know, people ain't easy, but somebody ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonta doing it? Might be to me, Hey, dog, yah,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? What's up? Timmy? One of my little girls,
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  Speaker 1: one of the friends of the I say, mister, Timmy,
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  Speaker 1: you lit, I said, baby, I said, baby, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't smoke. I don't know what you're
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  Speaker 1: talking about. She said, what that could be a drunk
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  Speaker 1: reference either way. I wasn't there. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what Lit meant. Yeah, especially in front of
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  Speaker 1: your kids, know what, you gotta stay fresh and him, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: we got younger kids too, you know. Hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what I did. One day in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: I came out my office with my shirt open, and
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  Speaker 1: my kids friends was in the house. When you say, Dad,
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  Speaker 1: your shirt is open, I say, I live here. Tell
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  Speaker 1: all your little flat stomach ass from turn around and
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  Speaker 1: quit looking over here. But it's so funny, Steve, You're
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  Speaker 1: right because we're at an age now where everything we
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  Speaker 1: do embarrasses our kids. There's nothing that we can do
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  Speaker 1: that where our kids think we're cool. Nothing. All right, listen,
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  Speaker 1: coming up in thirty two, after the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop. Right after this.
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  Speaker 1: Let we let turn up. You're listening to this Day
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Listen. Taking a week or even a few
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  Speaker 1: days out of the office for a vacation can certainly
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  Speaker 1: put anyone in a good mood, right. We all love
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  Speaker 1: to take our vacation time. But it turns out, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but it turns out that all those positive facts of
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  Speaker 1: a few days without work, they don't actually last long. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Unfortunately for quite a few people, those positive effects are fleeting.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, the poll finds that twenty four percent of
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  Speaker 1: workers say the positive effects disappear as soon as they
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  Speaker 1: return to work, right exactly, while forty percent say they
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  Speaker 1: only last a few days. Now. Of course, not everyone
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  Speaker 1: returns from vacation, relax and rejuvenated, because people tend to
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  Speaker 1: work on vacation more than they planned. So Steve, I
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  Speaker 1: got to ask you. Would you say you return to
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  Speaker 1: work after vacation with a better attitude? Are you more
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  Speaker 1: motivated and productive? Do you have a hard time? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: You are okay because you take a long vacation. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're ready to come back, and he sounds rested when
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  Speaker 1: he can. I don't, Well, you're not ready to come
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  Speaker 1: back to vacation with pay permanently? Yeah, I would do
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  Speaker 1: it in a heart. Oh well yeah I wouldn't. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but do you have a hard time relaxing, you know,
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  Speaker 1: coming down when you first get on vacation, I know
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  Speaker 1: I do. It takes me a minute. Do you miss us? No? Never, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it takes me four days to disconnect, Yeah, to get
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  Speaker 1: into to really get it. It used to take me
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  Speaker 1: a week, but now I've gotten better. It's only gonna
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  Speaker 1: take me two days this year because I've already started
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  Speaker 1: leaving him. Yeah, you're gone. You're not even here right now?
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  Speaker 1: You go right, I've already just left here. Yeah, you're
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  Speaker 1: on vacation, so you'll be relaxing no time. As soon
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  Speaker 1: as I get there. Where are you going this year?
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  Speaker 1: Same place I go every year? Show? Okay, gonna go
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  Speaker 1: see some of the things. We have friends in places
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  Speaker 1: now that live there, and we come oh really okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: rich friends always rich friends. Yeah, that's they flocked together.
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  Speaker 1: They go yeah, rich, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know my
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  Speaker 1: friends at the mall and the food court. I love
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  Speaker 1: when Jay had a Rose Royce, but he didn't have
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  Speaker 1: a Rose roys life side. He was if you see
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  Speaker 1: Rose roy parked in front of the stove and not
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  Speaker 1: at the gas Where were you going? Jay? Seven and
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  Speaker 1: eleven chicken? And I'm a dollar store? Dollar store? Okay.
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  Speaker 1: The other day, huh. My wife and I were going
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  Speaker 1: on our anniversary trip. So when we got through taping
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  Speaker 1: Family Feud Friday night, the anniversary was Sunday, so I
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  Speaker 1: took away for a couple of days. Cliff picks us up,
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  Speaker 1: our driver, picks go to the house, gets Marjorie comes
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  Speaker 1: to the set and picked me up. When I get through,
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  Speaker 1: take the makeup off, I get in the car. We're
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  Speaker 1: in the wrong car. We decided to celebrate starts celebrating
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  Speaker 1: our anniversary. We're gonna stop at fat Burger. Oh, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we pull up in the parking lot. There's no drive through.
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  Speaker 1: We pull up in the parking lot and we're trying
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  Speaker 1: to park. The eyes that was on us. They can't
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  Speaker 1: see him a car, but people are gonna People in
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  Speaker 1: the subway was looking out. Who the hell trying to
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  Speaker 1: back in this spot? We pull up, Cliff get out
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  Speaker 1: to go inside to get the fat burger. He called
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  Speaker 1: a head so they can start order. We're sitting there,
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  Speaker 1: people just walking by, just looking at the car. We wrong,
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  Speaker 1: like two lay sitting up in here. Marjorie said, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think this was a good idea. I said,
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  Speaker 1: we're here now when you want me to tell Cliff
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  Speaker 1: forget it, let's go, She said, Now I want the
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  Speaker 1: fat burger because she hadn't never handed fat burger before.
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  Speaker 1: It was her first fat burger. Oh wow, So we
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  Speaker 1: in a Rose Royce in fat Burger in the parking
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  Speaker 1: lot of the fat Burger with a laundry matt next
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  Speaker 1: dough or subway right now? M though, wasn't it? That
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  Speaker 1: burger was good? Though? Wasn't Boy? Did Marjorie like it?
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  Speaker 1: She said, Steve, I never she stopped driven by it,
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  Speaker 1: but it sounded like it wasn't good. It was called
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  Speaker 1: fat burger, fat burger good. Yeah, but that oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I agree with that especially now. Yeah, I agree with
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  Speaker 1: that especially now whatever. Well, I don't know, since we've
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  Speaker 1: been gone and been back and In and Out Burger's
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  Speaker 1: tastes different to me now. I knew In and Out
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  Speaker 1: Burger wasn't good when I saw all skeinny people coming out,
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  Speaker 1: But I don't care where you go. It's always a
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  Speaker 1: line around the block to In and Out Burger. But
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: they're a little different to me now than they were.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like guys. Oh, I like five guys. I
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  Speaker 1: like five guys. Yeah. Yeah, they make a burger and
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  Speaker 1: I like their fries. I like five guys, five guys.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah everywhere I ain't seen it. Oh yeah, they're they
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  Speaker 1: have Yeah yeah, maybe you should take the rolls out
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  Speaker 1: again and you know, try to find it. Where do
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  Speaker 1: you go? You go see a five guys? Where do
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  Speaker 1: you turn and see a five guy? All right, we'll
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  Speaker 1: be back with Marvin the Steave Harvey Morning Show right
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  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to morning show. Researchers have discovered
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  Speaker 1: that Americans are having less sex than they were twenty
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  Speaker 1: years ago. Oh I know I am twenty years ago. Yeah, Jack,
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  Speaker 1: you were bringing it stead repeated. I'm talking about Jack
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  Speaker 1: j R. S Everything, whel boy, you should have seen it.
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  Speaker 1: You should have seen well. To be exact, they say
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  Speaker 1: about nine fewer times per year than they were in
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  Speaker 1: the nineteen nineties. Yeah, that's what they're thing twenty years ago,
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  Speaker 1: nine fewer times a week per year, but you were
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  Speaker 1: per week boy. Oh man, I'm talking about performances that
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  Speaker 1: that had no meaning. No, what is it a performance
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  Speaker 1: to put on a show? What would you say? Wasn't
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  Speaker 1: in love? Which before you you're just you're not on stage.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: I will stage rabbit, gentleman, rabbits sunshine come bouncing out
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  Speaker 1: the bath room with a with a white tail rabbit, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: coming through the smoke lights, lights ago and a cottontail
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  Speaker 1: On't I didn't kick the energy as of funny, I
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  Speaker 1: have to wait. I was. I had a drum at love,
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  Speaker 1: drum been and muscular, hard ass looking rapid. They got frog,
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  Speaker 1: nothing but veins, muscle and skins, six pack ass, muscles,
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  Speaker 1: HARDI ham strange, everything but veins, skin man, just some massive.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never had no real guns. But you just
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  Speaker 1: saw vain. Okay, man, I'd like to do yours. Nobody fat.
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  Speaker 1: You had to bring him up. They had to bring
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  Speaker 1: them out. Ladies and gentlemen coming to the room right now.
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  Speaker 1: The only rabbit that makes bugs, but it's not that funny.
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  Speaker 1: The old rabbit that can tell Peter Cottonhead go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: It's Jack Rabbit. Fun Jack Rabbit. Jack Rabbit came in
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  Speaker 1: with a pair of gold boots on purple shoe. Sha
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Jack rabbit. Johnson Man, oh God telling you
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: man the old rabbit to star Roger Rabbit girl Jack rabbit,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: So wow, I'm getting ready to tell you right now.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: The researchers believe that this is because Americans are getting
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  Speaker 1: married older and starting their families later, so that they
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  Speaker 1: it's called jack rabbit. Ain't give a damn back. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I was. I had nothing to lose. So if
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: you're older, you know, he might be more tired as
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  Speaker 1: a parent. No, which means less sex. No, I ain't
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: had no money. I wasn't working regular Yeah time time
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: I was out here, boy broke, why are you yelling?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Height and was looking for home? What is this intensity
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: level you have? Because I was homeless? Rabbit Sun time
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: with you had it before, girl, so I could stay.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I got it. What you're doing tomorrow night? Be here
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: you Friday? Driving back through time? Did she know I
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: wouldn't even leave it? Time? Man? Okay? In technology, they say,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: is also a major distraction and relationships. Now, hell yeah,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I didn't have nothing back then. I have nothing but time.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: You couldn't text me, you can't find me, you couldn't
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: call me. Here I am dan. It was a good
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: old day, oh man. That's what they're saying. People are
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: spending more time looking at their smartphones than they are talking.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Talking dirty to each other. Now talk dirty on pay phone.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Somebody will wait. Phone set hard, you can't. I'm standing
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  Speaker 1: up in a booth. It is hard for me to
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: get what I need. And I'm hitting this booth with
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: these folk glass sides, everybody looking at me. I'm trying
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: to trying to do it, but the phone booth. I'm
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: standing up the dope not it grew it hit the
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: dough is over. I gotta doing that to my say
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: saying little man, what is you in that? Talking out
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: the grew in? I should have been here, man, I don't. Yeah,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I got excited. Now I'm bad a bag out to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: do a little bit. Man, Oh man, I had trouble.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get it all in technology. No technology,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: none of that. Not hell no that pay phone, hardy
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: having phone saying you got long distan you got put
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: another quarter in there. God, you got the hair up
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and say this. The greatest invention they had was when
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: they started dropping them pay phones down where you could
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: pull up your car and then left the window down.
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  Speaker 1: That was the greatest invention of I used to look
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: for them. Wow, pull up over there, man, I could
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: arrange for phone calls. Call me back at this number
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: in four hours. I go over there and wait, I'll
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: be right there at that fact for the rest of
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: the name. I loved your commitment to everything. How you
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: doing well? I'm going. I ain't got no house, but
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: you rolling though. Dog. I told her girl where I
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: live my home? No, it was payphone outside of shame
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: that no one. The girl told me one time you
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: need to answer, I got one. It ain't on. I forgot.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I used to give away pay phone numbers here girl,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: where I live, and I couldn't tell me I was home?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: O man, every time my car you ain't never I
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: can't even leave you know tis, I know you're thinking about.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: All right, And on that note, the Jay Rabbit sunshine
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: you don't lived, Jack Rabbit sunshine you live. Thank God
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: for the place, jr Rabbit keep your jack ain't your
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: rabbit forever with the sun shining on. Long live Jack
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Rabbit Jackson and the sun that shined on. Like all right,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: more of this crazy ignorant show, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening Steve Morning Show, We're gonna
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: talk about annoying things that grown people do while you're driving.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: So when you are driving, because these people are in
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: the car with you, riding with you, the passenger, the
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: passenger or the back seat. The kids are just just
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: you the driver, So you gotta focus, yeah, on road.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: And it's just little stuff that gets on this Little
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: things man, like just that Lott Steve, like you driving right.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: I can't stand people to point to stuff for me
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: to look at. Man, I'm driving, look oh look look
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: you missed, you missed. Oh you they got tomatoes on sale?
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Look look yeah see that sad And I'm drive where that? Man?
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I can't stand for people to scene that gets on
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: my ner. Come first of all, you don't know the
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: words to the song. I can't stand and you don't
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: sound nothing like nothing like the song the song? Are
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: you evil? When you just change the station when they're
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: singing Twitter on talk, I don't talk rady, I don't
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: care what they're talking about. We started listening to talk
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: the minute you open your mouth. And ladies and gentlemen,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: we are here today. Like when we're going Crosstown to
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: my auntie, how I hadn't been there a thousand times,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: but my wife want to give me directions though, to
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: go this way, go this way, Yeah, forty five and
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: then take fifty nine. If you take fifty nine, we'll
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: get there a little quicker. But we've been there several times.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I know where I'm going. Come on, Steve d. When
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: people drive and they damn car looking over at an
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: accident that they ain't a about to get up in
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: one over hill, yeah I can't over that. I can't
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: you know that window, that window is not to be
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: played with okay down ye yes? Or women went hot slashes, yeah, yeah,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: I can't stand that. That's why I got wind the locked.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: That's why I got locked. Yeah, he got the lock
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: to winn take a jot of. I'm not not doing it.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Not do how grown he is. I'm not gonna do it.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: You know. I can't stand right I getting my car washed,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: and I coun't pick him take it somewhere. If you
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: eat in my car and drop any fact, I don't
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: know when it. When you're driving, you always notice somebody
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: dropping something. Yeah, chips, I see the chip fall down
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: your shirt to the seat, to my floor. But you
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: can't eat like it ain't down it? Okay, okay, I
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: hate to go there. Come on, I'm driving in my car.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: I look out the little just look out through the
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: peripheral of my of my of my right side. Are
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: you hicking? Yo? No, wait a minute, where are you?
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Where are you dusting that? Old man? Where's that going on?
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: My floor? Man? Now, bro, bro, when y'all is saying it,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: you didn't seen it. I used to hate getting it
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: somebody's car and don't nothing work. We ain't got no radio,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: we ain't got no el. We're just sitting up in here, hot,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: in silence, and it's started to smoke tower. So Steve,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: it's time for today's headlines, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Ann Tripp, Okay,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: thank you very much, everybody. This is an trip with
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: the news. Welcome to a new Monday, and this is July. First.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: President Trump and North Korean dictator Kim John Un met
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: at the border between North and South Korea the zone
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: briefly yesterday and Trump became the first American president, the
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: first sitting American president to do so. We went and
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: met at the line, and in meeting at the line,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: I said, would you like me to come across? He said,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I would be so honored. Kim John n first crossed
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: the dm ump on the south side and then both
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: crossed into the north for a few minutes. After that,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: they held a fifty minute meeting on his South Korea
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: and agreed to restart nuclear talks before Trump returned to Washington.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: In Virginia, the self professed white supremacist who ran down
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: and killed a white woman who was part of an
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: anti racist rally in Charlesville, and he is going to
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: be locked up for a life. James Alex Fields plad
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: guilty to twenty nine federal hey crimes as part of
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: the plea deal that allowed him to avoid the death penalty.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Feels plowed through a crowd of demonstrates in August of
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: twenty seventeen, killing thirty four year old Heather Higher and
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: injuring dozens of others who were protesting a Unite the
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Right rally where white men carrying tiki torches chanted the
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: jew will not replace us, an instant that President Trump
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: later claim featured good people on both sides. The US
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Census Bureau was supposed to begin printing those twenty twenty
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Census for hims today, but it's not clear if that's
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: going to happen since in beginning the constitutionally mandated national
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: headcount until the Supreme Court comes out with a definitive
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: ruling on the citizenship question he wants included, the Justice
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: is voted to keep it off the forms temporarily. Seeve
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Choy of the New York Immigration Coalition says, the High
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Court's intention is pretty clear. The ruled that the citizenship
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: question was not about whatever kakamane reason Donald Trump gave
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: for it. The Supreme Court ruled that in fact, this
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: citizenship question was a direct strike at big immigrant rich
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: states like New York. However, the printing of an estimated
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: one point five billion cents his forms could nevertheless be
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: delayed until October here's the latest one, this one walking
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: around a hospital while being a black patient. A black
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: man recuperating from pneumonia in a hospital in Freeport, Michigan,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: arrested by white coffs while strolling the grounds on his
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: doctor's orders. Authary say twenty four years Shaquille Dukes was
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: wearing his hospital gown and attached to an ivy when
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: a clueless white security guard ac because he was outside
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: the hospital and called the police. Anyway, it's all over.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: Luckily they didn't kill mister Duke's Dukes's sewing. Finally, at
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: the weekend box office toy story four, everyone, Bonnie made
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: a friend in class. Oh, she's already making friends. No, no,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: she literally made a new friend. Yeah, it's a sport
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: or something. They brought a fifty billion dollars. Now back
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey mourning Cheryl. You're listening to show,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, it's your time's here. Time to slay
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: another one, murder another one. Well, you know what. The
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: song is called happy and my song is called nappy.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: You know, her chemicals can hurt you here, chemicals can
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: change your change. What will her chemicals stud you? Come on,
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: come on, come, on. I'll just let it be now.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Let it be never right now. I want to kill people.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: Say if they are not to pay, my hair is
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: not meant to lay right now, keep the han a
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: phone stone. I like it. Nappy got on your head.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: You won't hurt your fingers when you run through my hair.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Take it up by you if it's natural, just try
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: a change, surprise and let it beat it beat all
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: the way. You should know your Jesus well looks so
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: nice and you just want to be if you want
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: to be nappy, let it be. Let it be never
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: right nothing, don't you and all that it's Christian and
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: all that it is could let it be never right now? Coho?
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I just want to be annoyed. I'm not gonna keep
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: on getting a cock and weeds with lace and the
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: prim no weeds. The broken can be nappy, happy to
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: be happy to that's a grease robins. We have throw
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: her head, do your head. If it's not good, don't
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: you bring it down right now? Come on, do what
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I say. No she don't want I'm talking about say
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: let it break it down, break it down. If you
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: want to be happy. The dug out too. Let it
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: be napping. Don't you let it be happy, Let it
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: be nip and a thing that is right and thing.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: I just want to be that fool. Say take that
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: hot ass weird? Yes, let it be home run Jay.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: That is sounds like yeah, sounded just like her. Come
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: on on, she take a comb? Come on? That is Christian?
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: God's little is Christian? All right? More of this crazy
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this you're
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: listening to show Steve, We got an email from a listener.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: It says, my friend is a chef. People always talk
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: to him about cooking. Even if he wants to talk
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: about something besides food, the conversation inevitably goes back to
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: him being a great chef. The email goes on to say,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: I have a friend working for candidate running for office,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: and every conversation in which she protects inevitably turns into politics. So, Steve,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: what does every conversation in your life turn into? I mean,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: do people talk about what TV? Money, money and advice?
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: I mean for success and it's not but now it's
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: not today ask for money. They want to discuss, you know,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: ideas for it, how to make more. I don't really
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: mind that, you know. I mean, it's like when you
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: meet a shelf, you're gonna have questions because everybody loves
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: inside information. A guy in politics, you want to get
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: his opinion. You meet a pro football player, you want
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: to get information about playing ball, other teams. High song. So, man,
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: have you ever faced a Rodgers? That's just comment? So
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: you know, man, you know, man, how was it? Man?
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: You know? I mean, you know, it's like people see
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Marjorie all the time, they're go, I bet he's just
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: a hoop to live with. I bet he just funny
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: all the time. No, he's not funny at home at all.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: They just go, you're just saying that, like I'm just
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: at the house, just show never stopped. Yeah, yeah, like
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: they always want to ask tell me they have a
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter for me. I got a letter for you.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: What I always talk to you about? Tommy frank, my mama, prank,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: my daddy, prank my uncle. Can I just say when
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: the people I meet who meet me, let me just
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: clear this up. I don't know where Steve is. I
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: don't know what he's doing. I'm not with him. I
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: don't know where the hell he is. I don't talk
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: to him that much. I just don't know, and don't
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: give me a damn thing to give him him that one. Oh,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not taking it. You're gonna win with a bag,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Steve ain't telling Steve nay, But how do you not
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: take the stuff? Oh? You know what I do, and
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna met this. I'm gonna say it. I'll take it.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: But I thought it was I've watched him do it. Yeah,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt nobody feeling. Oh, yeah, you
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: know what. You know what I don't like? They roll
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: up on Tommy, got something just for you, dog, just
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: for you, whole type. Come back ten minutes later. Here
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: is get this to Steve. I'm this is my book
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: and I know here like this book. It's kind of
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: like his book, but not a great food like his book.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I heard step like GM and chop cake. I made
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: one wrapped up. I made I made two, one for
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: you and one for Steve. Though we can't eat something
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: somebody we don't know hands and we can't get it,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: we can't put it in our protels. Though. Man, I
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: don't give damn about your feelings getting hurt. But you're
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: not gonna do is poising me nobody eats food from
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: a total strange. You can't do. It's not even smart.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: Oh that reminds me of that meme where this person
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: was washing chitlands in their tub, in their bathtub at home. Yes,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: that's why you can't take food from strangers. You don't
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: know what their habits are. Chub chitlands. Yeah, I don't
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: know how y'all ain't. Yeah, it's kind of in your sight. No, yeah,
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: in the bathtub. I put them in a n eat
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: no chitlings, chill bath right right right, man? Yeah, yeah,
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: right after they got a right after they get up,
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get right back in here with en No, no, no,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: how about hey, save that water because I got the
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: clean don't don't dream that drink. That's ridiculous, that's mass.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: We back at that nasy house again. Coming out more
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. So the nephew is here, nephew,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: what you got? Break? Phone called time? My roommate Betty. Okay,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: my roommate Betty running cad running bitty. Hello, must speak
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: to Devin, Yeah to see okay, Hey man, this Chris,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I live a bum of you. I ain't ever met
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: you before, but you you you have. You've been calling
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: the leasing office about complaining on me about I'm making
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: too much noise away. Yeah, man, I'm my bad, bro.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I was trying to catch you. Man. I could never
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: I could never catch you at home. Man. It's just
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: like you know, bro, I work a knife. I work
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: at night. Yeah. Yeah, you're saying. I'm saying I work
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: in a day, but I can't sleep at night, broking'
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on in your apartment. I'm saying,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be in your business. I'm not
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: trying to in your business. Player. I just can't get
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: a sleeping night, man, because it'd be a lot of
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: noise or a lot of noise, a lot of talking.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: And what you do is your business. Bro. I'm just saying, please, man,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: But you ain't have to go to the leasing office. Man,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: Oh you have to do you know what's hall at me?
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: You ain't then you know they got me written up,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: like you know, one more complaint on me, they're gonna
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: put me out of something. Well. Yeah, like I said, though,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: I was trying to get I was trying to find you.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But we I guess we
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: miss each other because you you work at night. I
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: work in the day. So you know when you're going,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I'm coming, and when I'm coming, you gone. I'm saying,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Brian trying starting. I'm just trying to, you know, go
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: to work and pay my pay my bills. Man, it's
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: I be at work at night. Man. You know what
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm trying to get my hustle on, like
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: you trying to get yours on doing Hala hala hala.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Hold on. Okay, okay, let's make it my sense, bro,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: if you are working night, somebody in your somebody in
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: your apartment, how can loud them keeping me up square betting? Okay,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: you got a roommate us long? No, I ain't got
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: no roommates? Man, beny about in the talking loud holding
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: a conversation. It's like two people in there talking loud
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: every night. And that's brother, that's Penny man Benny Be talking. Okay,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: you say you ain't going the romance? Who who is Benny?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Who is Benny? Benny is my bird my parents? That's
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: Benny Be talking. It's like, man, stop going me di
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: listen mine what why Wait a minute, you're trying to
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: tell me um bird that was biting? Man, I don't
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: have bity two years, that's my bird. Birds don't even
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: live that long. So so now I'm sucking night. I'm
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: at the work because because a bird, that's what you want.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: That's what you called me to tell me. I called
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: you to tell you. You ain't gonna be putting these
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: complaints on me. Man, But I'm I'm gone, and that's
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: been in talking. Man. Bit it in yo, bro yo, yo, penny.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hey, look, I'm telling you now do
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: something with the bird then, or that's gonna be some
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: consequentions and repercussions. I'm talking about some fried chicken around it,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: and man plenty. It's like a family member to me.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Bird too. Can't sam the chicken on the car flake
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: box Kentucky Chicken churches, Brian, Hey, man, you don't tell
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: me nothing better about my birth? Okay, brother? You know what,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: maybe man, you need to square off from front of
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: each other because you don't you don't disrespect Betty Man.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, you take something, all right? All right?
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I bet that be on my table when I get home.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: If it's a bird, then I'll bet that, beyall, don
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: a table man a man. Then you ain't gonna sit
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: in disrespect me and trying to tell me what you're
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: gonna do to my bird. But you ain't gonna do
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: nothing stupid to betty. Tell you what I tell you
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: what you can date you at home? Right now? What
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: can you go to work tonight? I bet you beat it.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I'll bet that tomorrow. I bet you with these things
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: looking good tomorrow. Man, ain't hold on a minute, man,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: wait a minute though? What you play do and start
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: talking about what you're gonna do to my bird? Not
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: and told you you file for going to the listen
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: office calling me, y'all and now you're on the phone.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to work this out with you, and now
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: you ain't trying to work now. I first stop you.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: You called me and tell me that it's a bird
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: holding a conversation with itself. I'm a stupid right now,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: but I'm I'm a stupid even continue this conversation. I
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: excuse with me. I P a knight? Am you serious? Man?
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: I really use some evis or something like man, listen,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: bro listen, whatever it is, it's just a bird or
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: recording whatever. If you gotta do something waiting, it is
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: a bird, man, I'm gonna be solid softed if this
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: is a bird, I'm gonna really it's a bird. It's spinning, man,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: it's spinning. You know. All you gotta do is come
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: to me. And we could have had a listen like me.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: Hola hola hola Okay, okay, okay, We're gonna have it
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: like men. And then first off, leasing office wouldn't give
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: me a name. What's your nine? My name? Chris? Okay, Chris,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I'm deafering. There we go, There we go. Listen, dowg
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: I ain't for the past three months. You know what
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I ain't really been getting no sleep because
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: of this bird. You say it's a bird. I don't
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: believe that. But a bird a bird? Come on, dog
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: that's doing it for ten years. We'll look take them
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: to work with you is I don't care, figure something out,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: but whatever going on up there with you and your
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: fire need to come to an immediate house or it's
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: gonna be something down. Hey man, hey man, what you
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: can't do is threatened me by what's going on in
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: my household. Man, Look kill you ain't been it's being
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: in linny. Whatever the nine meals, you need to do
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: something with that. It's gonna be some real It shows
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: like why don't I going back and forth with you
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: about this? You keep telling me something about a buy
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: It's a bird. What's the problem with it? What's the problem?
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I understanding that people have pet birds? Say man, I
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: don't give them if you have a pet bird, But really,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: this all night long? How do you? How do you?
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: How do you live with the thing? Come, I'll never
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: shut up. I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: Benny told me to tell you? Though, God, tell you
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: what Benny told me? Wait wait wait wait wait wait
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait white white Chris white, white brother,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear what no bird told you
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: to tell me? Can I tell you what Benny told
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: me to tell you? What? What? What? Then? It told
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: me to tell you this that This is nephew Timmy
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You just got pranked
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: by your boys, Sean, He say, did I get your man?
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Got me? God? You got it man, that guy. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna get it. I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna I'm
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: gonna have to wait to this dude, get armed out
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: and talk to him. Line, talk somebody, you about some
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: poling the bird. I don't know what's up stairs, man,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I do go, I'll be up our night. And I'm
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: saying I'm missing I'm missing my sleep. I'm missing now
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm missing y'alls in the morning because I'm
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: robbing hitting the slooth. But I got one more thing
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: to ask you. What is what is the baddest I'm
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land? Man?
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: You are shot never You know your roommate does not
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: have to be a human being. You know that there's
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: some people with other kind of roommates stupid, it's people
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: with ostriches in the house. I got a pair. That's
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: my roommate. Benny, Benny, you're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, right now, it is time for
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, on dating,
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• 50:45
  Speaker 1: All right, here it is. It's that time, Shirley Strawberry
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: with our Strawberry let subject. Four years later, I'm still
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: his girlfriend. Yeah, Junior's on one today. You're Stephen, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: I'm stuck. I've read your book, Steve, and I've been
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: with my boyfriend for four years. In the four years,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: we've bought a home and had lots of beautiful vacations together.
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  Speaker 1: We're under thirty years old, and we have a solid relationship.
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: He provides, protects and professes his love for me. So
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: why after four years, I still don't have an engagement ring.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: I haven't given him my all yet because there are
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: certain benefits that only a wife can give to her husband.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: He's not my husband. I never feel bad for reminding
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: him when he complains about me holding back. When I
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: drop hints about us moving to the next step in
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: our relationship, he says that I'm going to have to
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: be patient, and pressuring him is not good. I was
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: furious this summer when he went out and bought a
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: jet ski for over two thousand dollars. That was money
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: he could have used on my diamond ring. I get
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: with my girlfriends and they make me feel even worse
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: and put even more pressure on me for not having
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: a ring yet. Our wedding colors are picked out, we
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: have a church and reception place in mind, we have
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: talked about who we'd want in our bridal power party,
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: and we picked out a beautiful honeymoon location. Am I
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: overthinking this and stressing myself for no reason? Should I
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: just give it time and or leave him now and
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: stop putting my life on hold? He should know by
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: now what he wants. Please help me? Well, I mean
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: apparently he doesn't know right now, or he's not ready
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: right now, or if he was ready right now, he
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: would have done it. I mean, you guys live together.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: You've made purchases together, major purchases like a house. That's
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: what married people do. You guys go on vacation together.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: You all may as well be married. I mean, you
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: do all the things that married people do without the benefits,
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: meaning the ring and the mrs and all of that
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: that you desperately want. What I'm saying is, why are
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: you doing all this and you're not his wife? Why?
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, where is his incentive to marry you right now?
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: He's still young. You guys are both still under thirty
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: years old. You're saying, you say you have a solid relationship,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: but you're not getting what you want. You say, he provides,
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: he professes and protects, like Steve says in the book.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: But you guys have bought a home together. So you're
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: feeling like the next step is marriage. You're already like
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: a wife to him. Um, you're gonna have to pull
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: up a little bit um or or maybe in his case,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: put out a little bit. I don't know. You're saying
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: you're holding back. You didn't, you weren't specific. But by
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: holding back, do you mean you're not having sex with him?
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: But you guys have bought a house together. Ain't nobody
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: bought this? This is not making sense to me. I
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: was just gonna say that, Steve, this is not making
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: sense to me. Uh, he's definitely not ready. You guys
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: are young, under thirty. He still has some more fun
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: to have with his over two thousand dollars jet Ski.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: You know he wants to play on that some or
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: you didn't say it, but the holding back part that
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: that is a big puzzle in here. You've left a
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: lot out. So if you're ready now, and he's not.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: You guys, you are stuck because you bought a major
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: purchase with him, so you know, to get him to
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: marry you, it is going to be a struggle now.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, take your equity out and move on.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: You know, that's one option that you have. But I
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: don't think you want to do that. I think you
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: want what you want, but the timing is just not right. Steve.
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: If you've been with a man for four years and
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: you live with him and you alten bought a house,
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: there's a thing called common law marriage, so you're entitled
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: to everything that a wife is entitled to at this point,
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: now you're asking this letter. In four years, we bought
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: a home, had lots of beautiful vacations together, we're under
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: thirty years old, got a slim related. He provides, protects
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: and professes his love with me. So why after four
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: years do I still not have an an engagement ring.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: You're missing? He hasn't professed it fully. He protects for you,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: he provides for you. But the professing part is you
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: thought in the book I said he that That means
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: that a man says he loves you. No, I explain
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: to you. How we lay claim to women, How we
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: claim you all as hours, not in terms of property.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: But I'm just saying how we make you mind. We
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: make you my hours with titles. Now you don't have
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: the title you want. Now you want to know, if
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: you want to know, if you're overthinking this. No, you're
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: overthinking this. But you all, ladies, you keep making the
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: same mistake over and over and over. See, y'all keep
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: doing married duties without having the man purchased them all
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: pay for them. You're doing all the wifely duties, but
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: he ain't got to do nothing to get them. All
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: he got to do is move in with you, sleep
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: with you. It's gotta be more to that. See, here's
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: why you all keep stuck. Why after four years don't
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: I have engagement ring. I haven't given him my all
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: yet because they have certain benefits that only a wife
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: can give to a husband. He's not my husband. I
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: don't even know why you put that in there. You
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: all in y'all sleeping together. All right, When we come back,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what's wrong. Then I have the answer,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: and we'll be back at twenty three after you're listening show,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: all right, let's recap today's strawberry letter, Steve. Subject, four
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: years later, I'm still his girlfriend. Let's get part two
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: of your response. All right, four years later, this girl
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: man because she's still a dude's boyfriend. They've been together
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: four years. They don't bought a house together. Excuse me,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: girlfriend bought a house together. Beautiful vacations day under thirty,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: She says, he provides protecting, professes his love for me.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: When a man professes his love with you is not
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: just I love you. It comes with titles. It's like promotions.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: So why after four years don't I still have an
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: engagement ring? Because you haven't required one yet. You have
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: not required an engagement for these actions to occur. Now,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: see the mistake Like I told you that y'all keep doing,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: is y'all keep doing all these married duties without him
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: having to purchase the married duties. Now, whatever it is
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: you're talking about you holding back in this letter, it
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: obviously it ain't enough to make him marry you. So
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: whatever you're holding back, he good. I just thought i'd
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: bring that up. You're already given plenty, So why don't
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: I have an engagement ring yet? You're ready? Because he
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: has everything he wants all ready. He don't need to
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: give you a ring. Can we be okay with that?
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, this is an open and shut case to me. Now,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: your problem is when I drop hints about moving to
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: the next step in our relationship, he says that I'm
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: gonna have to be patient and pressuring him is not good.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: It's not good for him, So don't pressure him. See, ladies,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: you can get a lot more what you want by
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: just pressuring yourself. You don't have to pressure man. If
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: a man ain't good with it, just say, hey, look,
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: let me step to the side until you decide what
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: you really want to do. Because I'm not playing house
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: with you anymore. So now I ain't pressuring you. You
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: can you can stay here in this house I'm gonna need.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not paying them more money on this thing I'm
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: and I won't and I want to sell it because
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: I want my half back out. And you're not sleeping
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: with me no more in that bed right there, and
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not cooking no more food. It ain't no problem.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not pressuring you. You don't have to ask me
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: to marry you. But I'm gonna stop sitting up in
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: here acting like we're married, and then you never give
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: me what I want. I'm going to my mama's house.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: Call me when you want to go to the next
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: level now that most women are not gonna do because
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: they're afraid of losing them. Man, but you ain't. You
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: don't have them one. You won't right now. And it's
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: so terrible because they have this major purchase together. They
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: have a house together. Yeah right, but you can get
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: out of that. No, that's yours. I'm telling you the
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: woman gonna win and that you ain't cheated on the dude.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Nothing like that. Oh he gonna lose. He gotta get
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: the house up. Now that's your house and he'll be
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: paying for Oh my god. Preachers. Yeah you woke up, jay, Yeah, yeah,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: he hit out. He preached one hundred, one hundred and one.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: What do you know about this, Jake. I've lost some houses.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: She stopped a small community with the houses I've locked.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: She mad because this food and went out bought a
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: jet ski for over two thousand dollars, and she talked
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: about that money he could have used on my diamond ring.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: I get with my girlfriends. They make me feel even worse,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: putting more pressure on me for not having a ring.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: Our wedding colors are picked out. He hadn't done at all.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: He let you pick out the wedding colors. He't let
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: you talk about the church reception place in mind. You
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: don't talked about brider party. You didn't picked out a
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: honeymoon location. Are you talking about this all you want?
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Quit pressure me? You want to planet planet where you
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: want to go? We're going you her girlfriend? Pick out
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: your play? So, baby, what you're gonna do about flowers?
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: Though they're gonna have nice? Just a reenactment your role?
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: It would be doing are we reenacting this? You want
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: to get married? Hey? Baby? Aw? You doing? What's going on?
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: I got got some wedding books. I need you to
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: look at you like, yeah, what about this color out here?
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: I love? Future? Like yeah, yeah, yeah, that's cool. Future cool. Yeah?
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: And how about how about we're gonna work on our
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: dance because you know my daddy at the reception, me
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: and my daddy gonna do a little dance and then
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: you and I do a first dance, So you want
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: to work on that later on the night to dance?
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: I could you know how old are you? You know
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: your daddy might not that. What now that was about
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: to dance lessons? What's happening? Oh you're daddy, damn yeah,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: you gotta shaping that up because if you don't, I
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: can call it wedding off. Now what don't make me?
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Don't make me call up these plans because I do, daddy? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: you about your whole ass. You This is upsetting my spirit.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: Really you're gonna call it wedding off. Well, if that's
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: what you want to do, then I guess it's just off. Then?
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, quick you know what I'm doing this?
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: Oh cool? All right, guys, we gotta get out of here.
• 1:02:59
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:08
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• 1:03:11
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• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: Junior year up, Hey morning, everybody. Man. Let me just
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: sell the truth right now. And I'm just meaning I
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: don't mean this dispect for nobody in there. I love
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  Speaker 1: all y'all, now, I really do. But I just want
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: to let y'all know something, man, truth be told, I
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: won't be related to Steve for real? What's wrong? No?
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: Because I ain't got no money in my family. You
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: don't I need somebody else beside me money? And I
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: just found an over vacation uncle, Steve. Boy, do you
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: be looking, Tommy? Do you know how much your uncle worth? Yea,
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: how much? I'm not gonna throw the number that but
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: I actually no, no, I don't know this. Yeah, but
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: we've been working with him every day. Y'all are so
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: disrespectful to set up him hip man. You did I
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: go with him? What that man? Were supposed to treat
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: him different? Yes? No, because of his hell wet it's
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: broke people you treat better than him? No? No, oh no,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: I gotta ain't it. I sweat. I never talked to
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: you the same. No, not long as I know. Steve
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: ain't hill If you don't get your broke ass away
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: from me. No, No, I'm tired. I'm tired all the
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: pro people I got to be nice to a head
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: on Steven. We treat him like he ain't worth nothing.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: This man, he could change our generation. We treat him regularly,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: treat him like I don't want to treat him record,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: I love you Now if you see me him, I'll
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: tell you what. He worked more than a hundred me.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: Did you know that? Did you know he was the
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: highest paid what I wanted saying that I was winning
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: when he was worked one hundred dollars to get that
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: him through it. I knew him when he wasn't worth nothing.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: But but but now he didn't pass everybody else. You're
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: not tripping on you. You don't want to. So I
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: didn't know he was just rich? Ye oh my god,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: do you need to shoe because you know you're gonna
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: be on TV. We know you're not. You're not. We're
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: not doing this for him. We're not listen and make
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: it work. Forget that. Regular folks got thirty dollars hour
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: that reglar folk? All right? That this okay, y'all quit this.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: Regular folk, seventeen regular people. I may I take yourr
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: that re people. Okay, two hundred million, Yeah, okay, it's
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: a little different. But let me tell you something. People
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: with two hundred men, you still have to tell you,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: tell to see something that you do this regular time.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: He don't do nothing you do, No, he don't. Okay,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: So how you regular you have to sit in a
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: regular chair. He don't, Man, that's about it. Shut up.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: You're gonna try to call you drive Tommy, drive God,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: say it, you can say it. What How did I
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: get calls up into this? All right, we gotta go.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: We'll be back. You're listening to show. All right, Happy Monday,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: Happy Monday everyone? Whow and what a great Monday. Hopefully
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: it will be and it can be if we wanted
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: to be, right, Steve, Uh, it's all on what you expect.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: When you control your attitude, you control your altitude. Since
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: we're talking about being positive this morning, why don't you
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: give some advice to Jay Anthony Brown bitter man about
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: how turning that negative too into positive? Yeah, thirty thirty
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: year friend, thirty five year friend. If I would Jay
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Anthony Brown, go ahead, I would realize that where I
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: am today, I've exactly thought myself to that exact position,
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: that he's in a good position. Yeah, he just doesn't
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: look at how far he's come from where he started.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: And if he wouldn't do that, well I know why
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: he bit m because you know he don't take rejection. Well,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: Ce Jade's like this, you know, if he in a relationship,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: and he loves the honeymoon phase, the beginning of the relationship,
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: but as soon as it turned into what did you say,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: that's the beginning of the are you saying? They can't
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: even ask a question? Girl? He said, okay, here, let
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: me give you an example. Ask me some questions, Sherlett,
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: I'm okay, Well, you said you wanted to have dinner tonight.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: What time time? Uh? Are you gonna pick me up?
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: So damn you just gonna bother me a by what time? Now?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: I just need to know. Yeah, I just need to
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: know so I'll know when to be ready. I'll be
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: there when I get there. Okay, Well, baby, well should
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: I wear? Going? Are we going to a fancy restaurant?
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: Or is it going to be casual? I just said,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: why we always got to go somewhere fancy? You know,
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: why can't we just go somewhere like regular peak? So
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: we're just gonna spend all the money eating? What should
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: I wear? What? What do you think I should? Close? To? Hell? You? Well,
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so are we driving or are we
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: going to take a car? Because sometimes we go in
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: a car? Well, I know that, but sometimes you know,
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: we may have a couple of cocktails or something. And oh,
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: so now you're gonna drink a lot too. I'm just
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: saying I don't want you to drive if you've been drinking,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: that's all I drive, But we I don't drive at
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: got all this stuff legalize that you still want to drink?
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: So is that? Is that what you're gonna wear? Oh?
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: You don't like what I got on. I just asked
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: if you were gonna wear that. If you're wearing a suit,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: then maybe I'll put on a contail dress. You know?
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: So what this ain't gonna work? Can we at least
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: get to dinner? I don't see how this could possibly
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: that because I was gonna say, if we went to dinner,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: I was gonna let you order for me. You pick it.
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: Now you want me to order your food? So you
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: be mad? And what I don't know? Don'tbody know what
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: you want to eat? Okay, Well, you don't even know
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: where we go? How I will pick? Well, that's why
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: I asked, Well, okay, well I gotta ask you this.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: I have to ask you this now. Will you be upset?
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: Is it? Okay? If I order a dessert? Wow? So
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: you're gonna just sit up there you don't care how
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: you gonna look in ten years. Huh, judge, So we
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: just got the dessert. Honey, I was being considerate because
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: I know you have diabetes, but you're gonna order dessert
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: while I'm sitting over here just looking, which is why.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: That's why I got diabetes causing you. Well, if if
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: we go to the restaurant out by the by the
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: water is it okay? What are we driving all way
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: down there by the waterfall? Well? I thought it would
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: be nice, you know, romantic walk after dinner maybe, you know,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: romantic walking out cold and be on that beach at night. Damn,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: how you want to eat? Get the flu? Now? You
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: see you take off work. Now I got to come
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: by and bring super you know I got. All right,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: Show right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: it is Monday, Happy d you like fourth week? Everybody? Man? Yea?
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: I know, No your barbecue and tell me every chance
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: I get what's your barbecuing? Someone? I'm gonna trying to
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: do something different, like a whole vegan meal like we
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: talked about, yes, vegans vegan shouldn't come to barbecue. So listen,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do a whole feel a loan. You can't
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: make that up. Feeling. Yeah, it's a it's a whole
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: thing and every it's all for you. Ever ever had
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: it where it's uncut. You can buy the whole thing.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: It's a whole. It's like a loaf of bread. It's
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: a hole for late you smoke it right, really? Yeah,
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: you know you're not making this up. No, you know
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: who taught me this. It is Gee Garvin and he
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: gave me the recipe and everything. This is. This is
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: a little bit I'm telling me. Yeah, but you can't
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: to meat bout one hundred fifty dollars, so you can't
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: messed up the meat. You can't play with that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: you got it on the grind. It's the least. So yeah,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be doing a little some something, you know,
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what. I'll tell you this. Let
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: me get your little little secret that really ain't my
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: secret that I stole through Junior from one of his boys.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: One of his boys was cooking outside the outside the
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: barbershop and instead of having you know how people had
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: this this base they make so they can go and
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: keep the meat moist. Yeah, he just went out there
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: with a whole Italian dress and it just sprayed it.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: I do that too though. All right, we'll have more
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show on this July four
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: week kick off right after this. You're listening Morning show,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, it's your boys time, he's here. Time
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: to slay another one murder another one's hope. Well, you
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: know what the song is called happy, and my song
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: is called nappy. You know how chemicals can hurt, her,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: chemicals can change change. What will her chemicals? Stud you
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: come on, come on, come on, I'll just let it
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: be now right now. I want to kill people. Say
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: if they are not to pay, my hair is not
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: meant to lay keep the ho com of phone Stone.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: I like it nappy. That's three. Rub it on your hand.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: That's what you do. It won't hurt your fingers when
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: you run through her head. Take it up by if
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: it's natural. Just try to change us, Frida. Let it
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: beat it beat all the way. You should know your
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: Jesus well looks so nice and you just want to
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: be If you want to be nappy, let it be
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: let it be never right nothing. Don't you want and
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: all that it's Christian and all that it could, Let
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: it be never right now, coleout. I just want to
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: be annoy I'm not gonna keep on getting a cock
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: and weeds with lay send the front no weeds broken
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: and be nappy, happy to be happy, na use that
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: to less of grease. Roberts. We have through my head
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: to your head. If it's now, don't bet your don't
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: you bring it down right now? Come on, do what
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: I say. No, she don't want to talking about say takes.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: Let me break it down, break you down. If you
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: want to be happy. The dug out too, let it
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: be napping. Don't let it be happy. Let it be
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: and a thing that is right. And I just want
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: to be that fool. Say take that hot ass weird, Yes,
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: let it be home run Jay that it is like
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: yeah round, just liking her. Jesus take a comb on Christian,
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: God's little is Christian? All right? Coming up, we'll close
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: out the show. We have one more break on this Monday.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: Steve with his closing remarks. When we come back right
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to show. Hey, it's your girl
• 1:16:29
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• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: we are last break of the day on this Monday.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: It's been a good day. We've had some fun today.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: Thank you, and now it's time for you to take
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: us home, get back to work. With some closing remarks.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: You know something, as I get older and I go
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: through things in my life, one of the things I've
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: become really comfortable with is sharing my own personal experiences
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: with people and hope that they can learn from some
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: of the experiences I've had, some of the mistakes I've made,
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: and so, you know, one of the things I wanted
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: to help people with out there, because everybody has their
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: share of haters out there, and so I just want
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: to talk to you for just a second about the
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: people that you surround yourself with. It's important that you
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: take constant inventory in your life to make sure that
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: you don't have dead weight attached to you. It's important
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: that you don't have people or who are in a
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: relationship with you that's just one sided. It's important that
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: you know that everybody in your life is important to
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: you and would be there for you in the moment
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: of the rest. Now, if these people don't fit that bill,
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: then I'm sorry. You got to do something else. But
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: you got to watch people. You got to constantly monitor
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: people because people change, especially as you elevate in life.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: As you elevate in life, people have a different perception
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: of you. Seeing what I found in getting more and
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: more and more successful, it is not that you change
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: as you becomes more and more successful. It's that people's
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: perception of you changes. So now it becomes all Now
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: they think they all are. Now they think they is
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: because of that, when an actuality, you can very well
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: be the same paid person, you just at a different level.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: But it's amazing, man, when you get to this other level.
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: In order for people to throw rocks at you. It
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: ain't level no more. They got to throw their rocks
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: up at you. And it kind of disheartens you from
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: time to time as you just minding your business and
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: going through your life and doing what you do to
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: get people throwing rocks up at you. And now a
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: lot of people out there that can relate to what
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's not that you think you better than somebody,
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: but it's just that you've gotten yourself in another level.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: You've just leveled up. And when you leveled up, you
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: can't be concerned with the people that ain't up there
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: with you, because a lot of people ain't up there
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: with you because they wouldn't even fit up there with you,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: know how. The majority of people ain't up there with you,
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: because if God wanted them to be up there, he
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: to put them up there, but he didn't. He put
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: you up there. And it's okay, that's just what it is.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: You up there. It's not for everybody, this place that
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: you've reached. I'm just sorry, man, It's just not for everybody.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: And you gotta understand that and don't get disheardened. Man,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: When when when when you get up at the top
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: and it starts to feel lonely. I was talking with
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: somebody the other day. You know, the problem with being
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: at the top is like being on the pyramid. It's
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: a sharp point at the top of that pyramid. Ain't
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: a lot of friends up there, ain't a lot of
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: company up there because guess what, it just ain't a
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: lot of room up there most people. And then now
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: when you do have friends, they write up under that pyramid.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: They there and you know what they do. They to
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: support system for you. And you find that in people
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: all the time. But man, if you're not careful, if
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: you're not really really careful, and you're not monitoring people
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: along the way, it's not you. The changes, they change,
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: their perception of you changes. So once their perception of
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: you changes, they attitude towards you changes. I can't count
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: the people, man, I can't count the people in my life,
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: man who for one reason or another felt like it
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: should have been them, or for one reason another they
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: just got jealousy you because of what you had. I
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: was talking to Jamie Fox at this party the other night,
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: and Jamie Fox I showed him something that he had
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: posted on Instagram. He said, Wow, man, I'm glad that
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: meant something to you. And what he posted was some
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: people only hate you because of the way other people
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: love you. Y'all remember that some people only hate you
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: because of the way other people love you. Do you
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: know that that's simply all it takes for some people
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: to hate you. You ain't got to have done nothing
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: to them. But people get sick of your success. People
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: get tired of you. God always blessing you, how you
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: always why they get another car from, why they keep
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: getting a promotion, what they're doing over there? They always
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: brag my theay baby did this? They baby did that? No, no, no,
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: no no. Some people only hate you because of where
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: other people love you. So you got to constantly monitor
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: people in your life, man, because, like I said, you
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: get more and more successful. It's not you who changes.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: It's the people's perception of you who changes. And if
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: they can't make the adjustment, then you have to make
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: the adjustment. You got to get rid of people who
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: don't mean you well. You got to get rid of
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: people who are non supportive. You got to get rid
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: of the people that's always bad news. You got to
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