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The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me. Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Episodes
The Angry Therapist PodcastNervous System vs Soul
In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastI Can't Stop Thinking About My Toxic Ex
In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are a Two-Way Street
An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Our Top 3 Relationship Killers
In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of…
The Angry Therapist PodcastI Got Into A Fight
In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves,"…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFour Ways To Stay Attracted To Your Partner
In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Two Types of Desire
Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t?…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMy First EFT Session
In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastNo BS With Nicholas Gonzalez
In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Love and Money
Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow To Heal A Broken Heart
In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: The Relationship Dance
So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe Blindsided Break Up
In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them. Roughly ten minutes…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Rewiring Through Love
In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full…
The Angry Therapist PodcastDestroy Your Default
In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Our Love Lessons
In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Reflections 2020
In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for…
The Angry Therapist PodcastI Don't Know Where To Start
In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it. Roughly ten…
The Angry Therapist PodcastCan Our Marriage Survive Affairs?
In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Finding Beauty In The Contrast
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the…
The Angry Therapist PodcastAnswering Your Questions With Vanessa Bennett
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom. Learn more about your ad…
The Angry Therapist PodcastA Mindfulness Tip
In this episode, John talks about practicing mindfulness while washing his car and gives you a piece of advice he learned about when he was a teenager. Learn…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: How Our Stars Line Up
In this episode, John and Vanessa take a look at their star charts and how they both align as well as conflict. They talk through how our inner emotional…
The Angry Therapist PodcastChicken Sh*t
In this episode, John talks about overcoming his fears including his fear of small animals. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThree Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
In this episode, John talks about three possible signs your relationship might be in trouble and why. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You Series: How Our Codependency Shows Up
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa take a different approach with a deep dive into codependency and how it affects their…
The Angry Therapist PodcastAbundant v.s. Scarcity Mindset
In this episode, John explains the difference between those who have an abundant mindset vs a scarcity mindset.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastWe're Not Having Sex Anymore
In this episode, John reads and discusses a chapter from his new book "Single. On Purpose."Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You Series: The Three Year Itch
In the first episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa discuss their relationship and feelings around the three year itch. Learn more about…
The Angry Therapist PodcastSparking Joy (On My Couch)
In this episode, John talks about how to soak up the moments and spark joy in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThings I Find Beauty In
In this episode, John talks about the things he finds beauty in in his life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFreedom Is Everything
In this episode, John talks about how to find freedom in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Do I Change Someone?
In this episode, John answers a question he's most commonly asked: how do I change someone? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThree Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
In this episode, John talks about the three most common signs you'll feel or see when your relationship is in trouble. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastNo BS with the Jaffe's
In this hour long episode, John and his partner, Vanessa, talk about therapy, trauma, relationships, childhood, parenting, and much more with another couple…
The Angry Therapist PodcastDoes Easy Mean You're With The Right Person?
In this episode, John talks about whether being in an easy relationship means you're with the right person or not. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastRedefining Productivity
In this episode, John talks about how to be productive in a healthy way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastYour Old Self Hangover
In this episode, John talks about the importance of growth and how it's a process. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastDear Future Self
In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFinding The Perfect Partner vs Finding Perfect In Your Partner
In this episode, John explains his take on "the one," and how to focus on finding the perfect in your partner rather than finding the perfect partner. Roughly…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIn Love vs In Lost
In this episode, John talks about the difference between feeling in love and feeling in lost, and how some people can mistake one for the other. Roughly ten…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHitting Pause On Life
In this episode, John talks the about the importance of hitting pause on life and taking the time to feel gratitude. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMy Boyfriend is a Jealous Person
In this episode, John shares some advice and tips on how to deal with a jealous boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastGratitude Series: Episode Two
In the second episode of the Gratitude Series, John talks about all of the things he is grateful for in his life right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow to Not Drift in Your Relationship
In this episode, John talks about how not to drift in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastDissolving Worry
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Important is Sex in a Relationship
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastOne of the Greatest Life Tools
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastSoul Navigation
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMiserable Fuck Series #26 Don't Pee in the Shower (It's Not What You Think)
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastNo BS with Steve Dubbeldam
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe 4 C's (In Relationships)
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMy F*cking Feelings (At a Diner)
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastSeed Model For Your Relationships
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastChange Your Life? Start Here.
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastA Self Interview
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Do I Realign My Life
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastSome Things to Finally Give Up
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThree Things Needed to Flourish
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMiserable Fuck Series (#9 Don't Pee Over the Metaphorical Urinal)
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best…