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The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me. Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Episodes
The Angry Therapist PodcastPersonal Reflections of 22
In this episode, John reflects on 2022. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place…
The Angry Therapist Podcast27 Life Lessons
In this episode, John shares his twenty seven life lessons. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come…
The Angry Therapist PodcastLove Is About Finding The Right You
In this episode, John does a reframe on love, and how it's more about finding the right you rather than finding the right "one." Roughly ten minutes of self…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThis Life Tool / Ability Is Foundational
In this episode, John talks about the importance of seeking nectar in life, and gives examples of what nectar in his life is. Roughly ten minutes of self help…
The Angry Therapist PodcastParking Tickets and Character Tests
In this episode, John talks about how something as little as a parking ticket can test your character. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If…
The Angry Therapist PodcastCreating A Safe Space & Active Listening
In this episode, John talks about how to create and hold a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships
In this episode, John talks about his couples' session with Vanessa, and shares The 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships their therapist gave…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Do I Find Happy?
In this episode, John gives his listeners' tips and advice on how to find and be happy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for…
The Angry Therapist PodcastPerpetrator Trauma
In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is coming from the other side of the table. After doing a lot of work to repair and understand their past…
The Angry Therapist PodcastWhat is Self Abandonment?
In this episode, John is joined by Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan to talk about self abandonment: what is it and what it looks like in your relationships…
The Angry Therapist Podcast3 Ways To Treat Yourself Better After A Toxic Relationship
In this episode, John talks about three ways you can treat yourself better after leaving a toxic relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastACEs & PCEs
In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer asks MC and Elizabeth how to make sense of a life that contains both success and trauma. They talk about…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Do I Move On?
In this episode, John answers one of the most asked listeners' question: how do I move on? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking…
The Angry Therapist Podcast3 Ways To Become a Better Partner
In this episode, John explains three ways you can be a better partner in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking…
The Angry Therapist PodcastJohn and Vanessa's Fight Last Night
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about three things that change their state, and dive into a fight they had last night. Roughly ten minutes of self help…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Is Your Relationship Making You Stretch?
In this episode, John asks listeners to look at their relationships and ask themselves how their relationships are making them grow as a human. Roughly ten…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe Mohawk of Self Awareness
In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about how to peel back the shame she feels when she goes back to an abusive ex…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFairplay with Eve Rodsky
In this episode, John and Vanessa interview Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play and National Bestseller, Find Your Unicorn Space. Eve…
The Angry Therapist PodcastYou Can Answer Hard Questions - Is There Hope In Our World?
In this episode, John brings three random people in the room to ask them hard questions. They each get a turn to ask a hard question. This ends up creating a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastPunching Back
In this week's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk about an exercise called "punching back." In it, you take the negative beliefs that you’re…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFree Session In The Park
In this episode, John convinces Vanessa to get on his Harley and do a free session in the park, helping a couple who emailed John from the internet (fell from…
The Angry Therapist PodcastYou Can't Love Someone Until You Find Yourself Is A Myth
In this episode, John challenges and debunks a common quote: "you can't love someone until you find yourself." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe Shattered Blueprint
In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is facing a difficult decision. Stay in her marriage when her husband wants to be polyamorous, or leave…
The Angry Therapist Podcast3 Signs of an Emotionally Safe Relationship
In this episode, John talks about his three signs that you're in an emotionally safe relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastCan Long Distance Work? Should I Get Back With My Ex? Can I Heal From Infidelity?
In this episode, John answers listeners' questions such as: can long distance work, should I get back with my ex, can I heal from infidelity, and more. Roughly…
The Angry Therapist PodcastSimple vs. Complex Trauma
In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about why trauma can pop up ten years later, and what to do about it. They…
The Angry Therapist PodcastCodependent No More With Melody Beattie
Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and…
The Angry Therapist Podcast3 Things You Can’t Get Back In Life
In this episode, John talks about three things you can't get back in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine…
The Angry Therapist PodcastOn Accepting, Radically
In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes Series, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about letting go, radically accepting, and moving on. They also talk a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastLove Is...
In this episode, John talks about what love really is and means in our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastTriggers
In the first episode of The Trauma Tapes Series with Dr. MC McDonald and Elizabeth Meadows, a letter writer asks how to deal with triggers in an intimate…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow To Deal With Jealousy
In this episode, John talks about how to deal with jealousy and jealous behavior in a healthy way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFour Things That Crumble Relationships
In this episode, John dives into the Gottmans' "Four Horsemen" theory. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastParenting Outside The Lines with Meghan Leahy
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk all about parenting with parent coach and author, Meghan Leahy. Meghan Leahy is the mother of three daughters. She…
The Angry Therapist PodcastWe Snap Back Sometimes
In this episode, John talks about how no matter how much work we've done on ourselves, we can still snap back to our old ways. Roughly ten minutes of self help…
The Angry Therapist PodcastAnger is a Reaction To Your Past
In this episode, John talks about how feelings of anger has more to do with our past than our present. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If…
The Angry Therapist PodcastAnxiously Attached with Jessica Baum
In this episode, John talks all about anxious attachment style with psychotherapist and author of "Anxiously Attached," Jessica Baum. Jessica Baum, LMHC, is…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMiracles Happen In The Morning
In this episode, John wakes up early and talks about how productive you can be in the morning. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastWhen People Trigger Us
In this episode, John talks about what to do when people trigger us. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastAnswering Personal Questions About Me
In this episode, John answers questions about his personal life from his listeners. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastMy Colonoscopy Gave Me a Reset
In this episode, John talks about getting his first colonoscopy and explains how it gave him a reset on life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastFriendships- Depth Over Width
In this episode, John talks about the importance of having authentic friendships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Our Needs Are Foundational
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about our needs in relationships and why they're important. Learn more about your ad choices…
The Angry Therapist PodcastI Didn’t Want a Happy Ending
In this episode, John talks about getting a massage, and why things activate us on a deeper level. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe Box Set: It's Not About The Dishes
In this episode, John is joined by fellow therapists Vanessa Bennett, Dene Logan, MC McDonald, and Taune Lyons to talk about trauma, codependency, attachment…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe Second Half Of Your Life (Moon)
In this episode, John talks about the first half of your life (sun) versus the second half of your life (moon). Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Our First Tantra Class
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about their experience taking their first tantra class. Learn more about your ad choices…
The Angry Therapist PodcastWhat If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?
In this episode, John talks about what to do if you're not feeling it anymore in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastHow Do I Change Someone?
In this episode, John answers a listener's question: how do I change my partner without nagging them? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Love Like It's Going To End
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about the the idea of how to love like it's going to end. Learn more about your ad choices…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThe Simple Way Into Mindfulness
In this episode, John talks about a simple way to practice mindfulness. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: "The One" Is Damaging
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how believing and looking for "the one" is more damaging than you think. Learn more…
The Angry Therapist PodcastA Message In The Bottle To My Lab Peeps
In this special episode, John sends a message to all of our current and previous TAT Lab members. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're…
The Angry Therapist PodcastBeing Happy With What You Have
In this episode, John talks about things he struggles with and the importance of being happy with what you have right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in…
The Angry Therapist PodcastThere Are Four Things That I Believe You Will Regret
In this episode, John talks about the four things he believes you will regret if you don't start doing them now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit…
The Angry Therapist PodcastConnect To Self
In this episode, John talks about the importance of connecting to yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIt's Not Me, It's You: Two Communication Extremes
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two communication extremes in relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit…
The Angry Therapist PodcastStop Dreading
In this episode, John talks about how to stop dreading the things you don't want to do. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for…
The Angry Therapist PodcastIf You Have A Shitty Job…
In this episode, John talks about the two shitty jobs he's had, and what to do if you have a shitty job. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If…
The Angry Therapist PodcastYou're Not Getting Over Anyone
In this episode, John does a deep dive on break-ups and shares his thoughts on what moving on really looks like and explains why you're not getting over…