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The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me. Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Episodes
- The Angry Therapist Podcast
Marriage Was Never About Love (Let Me Explain)
Today, John does a deep dive on marriage and explains how it has evolved and transformed, influenced by religion, societal norms, and the concept of romantic…
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Leaving a Long Term Relationship
Today, John gives advice on how to emotionally prepare to leave a long-term relationship. He emphasizes the importance of building a better relationship with…
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How Do I Know If I'm Ready For a Relationship?
Today, John discusses the importance of looking at past memories through different lenses to gain a more accurate understanding. He also answers two listeners…
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My Singlehood Journey
Today, John shares his personal journey of being single and finding his authentic self after going through a divorce. He emphasizes the importance of…
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15 Tips On How To Be Happy While Single
Today, John shares 15 non-generic tips on how to be happy while being single which includes: creating a personal sanctuary, learning to enjoy solitude…
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How Do You Know If Your Previous Relationship Is Worth Revisiting?
Today, John answers three relationship questions: how do you know if a past relationship is worth revisiting? What holds someone back in a new relationship…
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Is It Wrong To Be Single at 38? Found Nudes In Boyfriend's Phone, Now What? How To Fight Healthy?
Today, John answers three listeners' questions: 1) Should I take it personally if I saw my boyfriend's ex's nudes on his phone? 2) Is it possible to be too…
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The Importance of "Pecans" - Rewiring Yourself For Joy
Today, John explores the importance of finding joy in everyday moments and not putting too much weight on big things. He emphasizes the practice of rewiring…
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Healing & Repairing (The Self)
Today, John discusses the importance of healing and allowing the past to die in order to create new experiences and rewire the body and mind. He also…
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How Curses Can Be Our Gifts
Today, John and Vanessa discuss various topics, including permission, late-night eating habits, ADHD, switching things up in relationships, and the concept of…
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5 Signs You're Settling In Your Relationship
Today, John and Vanessa discuss five signs you may be settling in your relationship. They also touch on the importance of personal growth, the impact of…
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What If We're Still Living Together After We Broke Up?
In this episode, John answers two questions from listeners, and gives detailed advice on what they should do. What if I have feelings for someone who is now…
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Rad Dads 2: The Importance of Adventure
In this episode, John interviews rad dads and talks about their experiences growing up with single mothers, the influence of male figures in their lives, the…
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How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 3)
In this episode, John and Vanessa explore the concept of repair in relationships, and the importance of understanding each other's needs. They dive into the…
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How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 2)
In this episode, John and Vanessa answer questions from couples, and discuss the importance of open communication and intentionality in relationships. They…
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How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 1)
In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the value of fighting in relationships and how to fight without actually fighting. They emphasize the importance of…
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The 12 Principles of a Healthy Relationship
In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop for couples, and read off a list of twelve principles every healthy relationship must have. They talk about…
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Things To Look For When Investing In Someone (Part 3)
In this episode, John discusses the importance of investing in someone who has a life and the ability to rebuild it. He emphasizes that when two people have…
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Things To Look For When Investing In Someone (Part 2)
In this episode, John discusses the importance of finding someone with a fire in their belly when investing in a relationship. He emphasizes the need to know…
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Things To Look For When Investing In Someone (Part 1)
In this episode, John discusses the importance of taking ownership in relationships. He explains that someone who takes ownership is willing to accept…
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Turning Breakups Into Breakthroughs
In this episode, John discusses the process of turning a breakup into a breakthrough. He emphasizes the importance of reframing the story of a breakup…
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Is Pornography Cheating, Can Long Distance Work, and We Don't Play Sports with Shaun Galanos
In this episode, John brings on Shaun (The Love Drive) to talk about how hurtful ghosting can be, what "mommy issues" look like in relationships, whether long…
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Things I'm Currently Struggling With
In this episode, John reflects things he's currently struggling with. He shares insights on finding joy in simple moments, the importance of self-awareness and…
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Relationships: The Grit, Not The Shine
In this episode, John discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship, embracing the realities of a relationship, and the beauty in the struggle. He…
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My P*ssy Knows Things & My Wife Won't Give Me Blowjobs Anymore
In this episode, John reads a story, "My P*ssy Knows Things," that explores the impact of past relationships on present behavior and emotional well-being. He…
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Yoni Massages, Our Definition of Love, and Circumcision with Shaun Galanos
In this episode, John talks to Shaun Galanos (The Love Drive) about various topics including fear of missing out (FOMO), polyamory, dating rejection, and…
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Complements Calm Our Nervous System
In this episode, John debriefs with Sarah and Meredith about the most recent TAT retreat on the drive home. They all talk about what their role is, their…
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How Do You Know If You Love Someone?
In this episode, John talks about love. He defines what his definition of love used to be, and what it is now. He also talks about ways to know if you love…
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How to Love Without Losing Your Mind with Todd Baratz
In this episode, John interviews Todd Baratz, a male sex therapist, about love and intimacy. They discuss the concept of 'losing your mind' when falling in…
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A Private Message To My Break Up Peeps
In this bonus episode, John has an encouraging message for those going through a break up. He opens up about break ups he's been through, lessons he's learned…
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Ask Angry: I Found My Husband's Tinder Account & Should I Kiss My Friend?
In this episode, John starts with a list of "Johnisms" before answering listener's questions. John gives advice on what to do if you have feelings for a…
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Needing an Escape v.s. Needing to Escape
In this episode, John talks about poor habits, how we all have them, and how taking small steps towards breaking the habits is more successful than stopping…
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Do a Life Audit
In this episode, John talks about how doing a life audit on yourself will help strengthen the relationship you have with your partner and others. He explains…
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The Science Behind Joy and Why It Needs To Be a Daily Practice
In this episode, John brings on Dr. MC McDonald to discuss the concept of awe and the science behind joy. They explore the importance of finding joy in small…
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Ask Angry: Am I Avoidant, or Just Not Really Into Them?
In this episode, John answers a listener's question after they've emailed him for advice about their current relationship. He dives into avoidant attachment…
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Divorce For Women in Their 40's, Conscious Uncoupling, and Self Pleasure as a Way to Expand with Luci Lampe
In this episode, John Kim and Luci Lampe discuss the concept of conscious self-pleasure and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They also explore…
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How Tracing Old Love Definitions Destroys Our Relationships
In this episode, John explores the importance of redefining our definitions of love as we grow and change. He also highlights how our definitions of love are…
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How To Show Up In Your Relationship
In this episode, John talks about how to express your needs, and show up in your relationship when you're fighting. He discusses the importance of knowing what…
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Is My Attachment Style Being Activated?
In this episode, John records a live podcast in his TAT Circle community where he answers listeners' questions, and does a deep dive on attachment styles. He…
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How To Want Loosely & Choose Better Thought Patterns
In this episode, John talks about thought patterns, and why we find ourselves stuck in negative thought patterns more than positive ones. He dives into…
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Recovering From Codependency
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about recovering from codependency. They talk about the steps you need to take, such as having awareness and setting…
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Common Reasons Why People Cheat
In this episode, John focuses on cheating and infidelity. He discusses common reasons why people cheat, including anger or revenge, falling out of love…
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3 Ways to Elevate Your Partner and Relationship
In this episode, John does a deep dive on three different ways you can elevate your partner and relationship by being curious about your partner and their…
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Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 3): Capacity
In the final episode of the Red & Green Flags in Dating series, John talks about how important having capacity for yourself and others is in your…
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Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 2): Communication
In this episode, John does a deep dive on the second C of Red & Green Flags in Dating, communication. John discusses what healthy and unhealthy communication…
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Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 1): Connection
In the first episode of a three part series, Red & Green Flags in Dating, John breaks down the three most important C's in dating: connection, communication…
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How to Open Your Heart Again After a Breakup
In this episode, John talks about how to be open to love after your heart has been broken. He dives into how practicing opening your heart up in your…
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Closure as a Bridge: Moving Forward
In this episode, John reflects on his 51st birthday and shares his revelations and insights about life. He discusses the importance of self-reflection…
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Why Would She Cheat After Eight Years?!
In this episode, John answers a listener's question, and discusses the reasons why people cheat, including emotional disconnection, curiosity, and unhappiness…
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6 Ways To Love Deeper
In this episode, John explores the different dimensions of intimacy, including emotional, spiritual, mental, passionate, physical, and energy intimacy. He…
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Liberated Love with Mark Groves
In this episode, John brings on Mark Groves to discuss his book 'Liberated Love' and the journey of relationships. Mark shares his personal experience of going…
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Unhealthy Behaviors We Mistake For Love
In this episode, John gives us a list of unhealthy behaviors we mistake for love in dating and our relationships. He talks about why we're attracted to…
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If You've Been Cheated On, Ask Yourself This
In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation…
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Math, Kindness, and the Red Helicopter Story with James Rhee
In this episode, John talks to James Rhee about his journey as a Korean American and experiences in leadership. James explains his philosophy of kindness in…
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In Bloom Panel: Answering Your Love & Relationship Questions
In this exciting episode, John hosts a panel with the speakers for the upcoming In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit. They talk about everything love and…
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20 Things Men Should Have By 40
In this episode, John shares his thoughts on the twenty things every man should have or have done by age forty. He covers a wide range of topics including…
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A Real Couples Session: Did We Move In & Get Married Too Quickly?
In this episode, John talks with Keila and Joe about their relationship history, communication issues, and recent conflicts. They also talk about the baggage…
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Cheating is Complicated
In this episode, John talks about how complicated the aftermath of cheating is. He talks about the importance of not taking things personally, forgiveness if…
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Reflecting on 15 Years of Posting on Social Media
In this episode, John reflects on his personal growth journey through social media and the power of documenting one's story. He shares how he found his voice…
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Is Non-Monogamy For Me? with Annie Undone
In this episode, John talks to Annie Undone about monogamous vs non-monogamous relationships. They talks about what non-monogamy is, what is looks like in a…